Married 33M with low libido wife. We have one son who is almost 2. Wife is still breastfeeding but I figure by now her libido should return to normal which was always lowish. I told her that I was not happy with the relationship and that changes where needed. I said that I desired some form of intamcy daily- while she said for her once or twice a week would be max before it would burn her out.

I am planning on telling her that while she is a good mother, as a wife, she does not meet my needs of stomach full/ balls empty. I plan to tell her that I will sleep in another bedroom for any night she does not want to have any intimacy. In the meantime I plan to continue to hit the gym/ spend less time with her.