Are We Dating The Same Guy

dw87190 · 2023-02-13T03:45:18+00:00

Narcissistic women projecting their narcissism onto men and histrionic, sexist women who can only attract bad men with low standards because good men are sick of their shit. It's just the facebook version of FDS or 2x

NootNootMFer · 2023-02-13T03:44:20+00:00

So a man looking in the general direction of a woman in public is harassment, but a woman posting a man's picture with his personal information, followed by other women providing more of his personal information, is absolutely fine?

We play by different rules.

Oh well. You know, we're only a couple of years away from facial recognition technology capable of taking a picture of someone's face and then deep scouring the entire internet for all pictures of that person. This includes nudes, lewds, sugar baby and other prostitution advertisements, and the like. Remember that the internet is forever.

I wonder how the women in these groups will react when former sex workers start losing out on potential relationships due to their pasts. It's going to be a real shitshow but I've got my 🍵 ready.

Dramatic-Earth-3303 · 2023-02-13T06:13:32+00:00

American men - y’all gave way too much power to your women.

CapableParty379 · 2023-02-13T03:41:52+00:00

Groups like this seem to get shut down once awareness of them hits a certain point. Look up Lulu and dontdatehimgirl. Wikipedia goes into detail regarding the controversy behind the Lulu app and why it was shut down https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lulu_(app)).

From the link, Lulu's terms and conditions likewise have referenced how "uploading or posting information about other individuals might encroach on the data protection rights of those individuals", which is interesting because haven't data protection rights advanced in the past decade or so?

matrixislife · 2023-02-13T11:42:12+00:00

This is basically doxxing, along with anti-social comments added. The obvious response is to take a few hundred of the men posted on there, make them aware of it, along with a contact number for a good libel lawyer. When Facebook starts being included in the lawsuits then the whole concept will get shut down really fast.

lu5ty · 2023-02-13T06:03:06+00:00

Yo where is the backup incase this sub is banned real talk

shit-zen-giggles · 2023-02-13T03:37:54+00:00

I haven't been to the site and know nothing about it other than that it was shared in a similar thread posted recently (aka this is not an endorsement):

http://dontdateher.org/

PS: Personally, I'd prefer if we all (men & women) would get along without this.

Ok-Translator2294 · 2023-02-13T06:01:25+00:00

Wish there was something like that here in Poland. Could use it to post about those who are looking for a "serious relationship" but will agree to sleep with you for 100-300$.

A lot of unsuspecting guys end up dating and marrying these sex workers.

BlowDryerrr · 2023-02-13T09:13:59+00:00

Look inwards you idiot women. If the men were terrible, you were the one who chose them to begin with. Why are yall repeating the same mistakes so often that you can amass a 50k member group in one city?

Ftpiercecracker1 · 2023-02-13T14:21:34+00:00

Only the top 5% of men have to worry about being on these sites and they have the power, money, influence to sue them into oblivion.

Codename-18 · 2023-02-13T06:25:41+00:00

If you put a "no Jews allowed" sign in your shop you righteously go to jail. Therefore, women-only group should be deleted and their members prosecuted.

This being said it's even worse than that, women tens to overestimate men's commitment (and men do women's sexual interest). Therefore, it might be full of delusional women thinking it's "their man" when in reality the guy is just exploring his options.

Bropil · 2023-02-13T09:50:11+00:00

You know whats trully sad? If men did a group like that as popular as that one the comments would be like "lucky guy" "she looks cool" "my ex but she cheated, she said it was a last time tho" "hey thats my sister"

Acceptable_Visit604 · 2023-02-13T10:52:08+00:00

That's fucked up

FindingMyPrivates · 2023-02-13T08:53:43+00:00

Careful bros. In the a Marine Corps we had a FB group that shared similar things but it got out of hand. Nudes started to leak then a lot of dudes got kicked out and/or charged for revenge porn.

TaxNegative161 · 2023-02-13T03:18:25+00:00

I have never understood why people point at something that is clearly wrong, and then decide that they should do it too. You just give away the moral high ground.

Absolutely report the pages that are basically just doxxing people. However I suggest not rolling around in the shit with the weirdos.

XxXWatchItAllBurnxXx · 2023-02-13T12:44:03+00:00

I joined the "why are men *gestures vaguely * like this FB group just to see what women think that shit entails. I'm a woman for context and man...it was basically women shitposting men for like no reason. And when I said something about how most of the shit they post isn't even misogynistic just a bunch of childish ass mean girls degrading men for the simplest of mistakes or taking their texts out of context to make him look like an asshole. Whew Chile, I got called an "incel" (had to look that shit up) , a "man trolling as a woman" my race and other things were talked about. It's like if you don't agree then you're one of them. I always said feminism was some butch dyke shit. Ain't no way it's empowering. Empowering to be alone forever maybe.

lexisayshihi · 2023-02-13T12:24:29+00:00

the girls doing this are shameful and disgusting

ERiC_693 · 2023-02-13T05:18:28+00:00

Doxxing should mean a ban from social media. It allows jilted or abusive exes to try to shame and further abuse their partners.

I can understand it can be usedto protect against abusers but it also allows abusers to mock and belittle ex partners and will eventially turn into a group for doxxers and abusers to congregate.

I think this is why lulu was shut down.

Njaulv · 2023-02-13T06:14:07+00:00

MGTOW

ImOutOfNamesNow · 2023-02-13T13:16:41+00:00

I wish a bitch would get on there and complain about me. But good luck

DutchOnionKnight · 2023-02-13T09:51:07+00:00

Why would you even want to persue a relationship? There is really no benefit anymore. You get ashamed for just looking in a womans direction, and get straight up publicly ashamed on big social media platforms for just be a human being.

This world is running out of control, and I am distancing myself further, and further from this hell hole.

Magical-Hummus · 2023-02-13T12:12:22+00:00

Man, America is wild.

Dr-Death-Angel · 2023-02-13T06:06:13+00:00

Just start a “are we dating the same ho? “

Robbythedee · 2023-02-13T08:54:34+00:00

The petty rebuttal to this is a site that allows men to post women's dating picture & info with the title.

Is this chick just trying to get free food?

The high road though, seems to be the way to go guys.

CivilianMonty · 2023-02-13T07:54:16+00:00

How do you join when they only allow women?

BoringAccountName78 · 2023-02-13T05:52:54+00:00

I don't know if this is a such a good idea. I hate what the women are doing, but I also don't think that men should be doing the same thing as a form of revenge. We need to be better, not sink to that level.

SoumarRu · 2023-02-13T05:30:16+00:00

That’s what happens when liberal soy-boys control the social media. The disrespect towards men is unbelievable in social media and even in real life, I always see young girls talking bad about men with loud voices in the streets and coffee shops. These groups prove that the red pill is right: top 10% of guys are fucking most of the women. Women would rather share a high value man with other women than having an average man. The only solution is to avoid this kind of women. Women are saying that they wouldn’t date a man watching Andrew Tate so why don’t we do the same thing? It’s time to set standards. If men value their attention everything is gonna be different, but men attention is no more valuable because we give it easily. Mass report also could work, for any one reading go and report the group in your city.

Swingstar731 · 2023-02-13T03:54:56+00:00

We should make a men's version of this. I would love to inform everyone about my cheating whore ex.

Digger_is_taken · 2023-02-13T08:35:34+00:00

So you want us to mass flag Are We Dating the Same Guy. And you want us to join Are We Dating the Same Girl.

You don't see the inherent contradiction?

mdoddr · 2023-02-13T13:50:15+00:00

you guys dating multiple women? No? then who cares?

This is happening because dating websites allow the top teir (10%) of men to access the top (80%) of women. The guys have incentives to date multiple women and the women all want to date the hottest guys - so they end up sharing them.

Now nature is finding a solution, these jaded women are finding a way to sort out the mess they found themselves in.

There are two groups of people caught up in this: 1) women who only want the bigger better deal - they can go fuck themselves. and 2) men who sleep with multiple women at once - they can also go fuck themselves.

All these people can fuck off. I hope they find some clarity.

this is nature healing itself.

SeaworthinessLow3746 · 2023-02-13T15:16:49+00:00

The male equivalent of this group is 'have we smashed the same woman?' This would be an interesting group because it would go a long way to estimating the actual body count of the individual women in the dating pool. If women knew their body count would be public, they'd stop sleeping around so much and demand commitments before jumping into bed with yet another guy. If that happened, Chad would get locked down quickly by the best women. Any additional sexual partners he sought would amount to cheating, and as a result they'd lose a large chunk of their sexual opportunities as more and more desirable women refused to be side chicks. Under these circumstances, other, non-Chad men would actually get some relationship opportunities as women began looking at non-Chad options for their relationships. This would be so good for society, and solve so many problems in the mating market, that it will never ever happen.

EDIT: TL;DR - if women's body counts were public, society would benefit.

SouthernSeeker · 2023-02-13T06:56:54+00:00

"Raising awareness" is not the same as "sinking to the lowest common denominator".

This is nothing more than social media-style mob justice, and a decent human being- REGARDLESS of gender- should refuse to have anything to do with it.

NMMXXII · 2023-02-13T07:06:20+00:00

Cesspool of anger, hate and jealousy. Fighting them head on with a female based page will only provoke them. Start a group praising women with strength and virtue and watch it explode.

Disneyman1234 · 2023-02-13T10:36:30+00:00

I’m not validating this in any way but this was recently used to catch a guy running a relationship scam operation on women.

NMMXXII · 2023-02-13T07:16:59+00:00

The Australian Facebook group

https://www.facebook.com/groups/1004504156857557/?ref=share&mibextid=S66gvF

xxTheMagicBulleT · 2023-02-13T15:12:21+00:00

And still, they don't get that they all trying to fish for the same <5% guy. And they don't see that the whole thing that those groups are a thing cause the all hunting the same men. Funny to see them be all slay queen to a dumpster fire. To all men are pig's in no time

AllStickNoCarrot · 2023-02-13T15:26:01+00:00

If the groups are indeed creating issues that are as bad as the claims say, why would anybody want to date somebody who participates in them? Just find somebody that doesn't buy into it all or who doesn't rely on getting their full story from online strangers.

It seems silly to try to get even by creating another group just like it to make things "fair". It's just drawing attention to the matter and encouraging the same behavior.

bright_yellow_vest · 2023-02-13T16:03:33+00:00

Yep. Sucks to hear from a friend that you’ve been posted/talked about. So a girl can talk about having a bad time with me (in 2016 no less), but I have no way of defending myself and saying she was a catfish and I just didn’t have the heart to leave the date

flyfightandgrin · 2023-02-19T06:03:15+00:00

an ex recently put my info on one of these. discussing sex life, details about me etc. they even talked shit on my EdD not being a PhD.

I lost 6 pounds in 2 days. thanks for the violation of my privacy.

Title	Are We Dating The Same Guy
Author	Embarrassed_Sink3317
Upvotes	346
Comments	225
Date	February 13, 2023 2:02 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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