Recently divorced. I've come to conclude that deadbeats are winning. They can't extract blood from stones.

I wish I didn't work hard on solving problems, sacrificing my weekends to pick up extra courses to attain higher paying jobs.

I wish I was an absolute definition of narcissist. Spending more on my clothes, vacations, cars, gadgets and more expensive man toys like a 3 wheel motorcycle. Instead, I saved to provide a good suburban housing for my future family/children.

I wish i spend more money on a personal trainer, working out looking good and having promiscuous sex. Commitment got me nothing but a woman abusing me and my resources.

Gentlemen, enjoy yourself to the max. Your money, time and life isn't for anyone else to use and abuse. Be a deadbeat, spend your resources only on yourself. Let's take a page from the feminist manifesto. They don't call it selfish, they call it Self-love.