Men aren’t allowed to show bitterness

MannerNo7000 · 2024-05-15T21:23:06+00:00

Definitely don’t ever complain in the company of most women or even some men…

My mum HATES it when I ever bring up anything that sounds like I’m being vulnerable or emotional.

Also exes too.

Competitive-Ask4393 · 2024-05-15T20:46:49+00:00

Yea you’re right. But if she’s not your girl, who gives a shit.

Don’t let women get on your nerves and stop being a doormat for her emotions. Stand your ground, if she’s an illogical idiot just leave and keep hopping around until you find a good, non bitter woman who wants to follow your lead + respects you.

Keokuk84 · 2024-05-15T20:36:48+00:00

A lot of women will voluntarily waste their youth and fertile years “having fun” or focusing on their careers. During this timeframe they chase after and sleep with the same males that all the other females are chasing and sleeping with, and disqualifying all other males. The males all these females chase, have their pick of these females and don’t commit to anything long term, and why should they if all these females are constantly throwing themselves at them? Some of the females they won’t commit to then grow bitter, resentful, never get over it and become misandrists. Then in their 30’s, when their looks begin to fade and their not receiving attention from the males they want, there is a mad dash to find a “nice” or “good” guy (the type of males they originally disqualified) to be a provider for her and possibly her child ( there is a good chance she already has a child….a 40% chance). Now she’ll settle for some desperate, lonely, starved for attention and affection sap that will bend over backwards for her that she doesn’t respect. She’ll eventually resent him for not being her first choice and because she thinks she’s better than him and that she deserves better. She’ll stay with him for a while, draining his resources until she finds someone that’s “better”, divorces him, or leaves him after the child is grown. Or she’ll stay with him because she knows she can’t get a “better” male, but she’ll treat him like garbage.

So they chase after a certain type of male, then take advantage of another type of male, leave the male they took advantage of, then go back to chasing a certain type of male.

Scarce12 · 2024-05-15T23:47:23+00:00

Stop giving them the grace to vent.

Tell them you don't believe their version, that the other guy was a human, not a caricature, and there's two sides of a story.

For example, that she wasn't "pumped and dumped" but that she, in her own agency, pursued sexual gratification from him.

They will get angry at you, but will stop treating you like this.

Mesterjojo · 2024-05-16T14:12:07+00:00

Men aren't allowed to show anything or it's used against them.

Speak above a mumble: you're violent

Cock an eyebrow: you're hostile or mean

Speak casually without guarding thoughts: you're abusive

Male nurse. I have to demure and low speak constantly. The few times I speak in a normal, relaxed tone I get shit for it.

abramN · 2024-05-15T22:05:13+00:00

Learn to identify these bitter women, and avoid them. I wonder if that is part of the problem for men - they don't have a good grasp on what is reasonable and good in a relationship - they experience forms of misandry during their formative years and therefore come to believe it's normal. This is what we have to undo. We need to teach our young men that abuse, disdain, being take advantage of (being seen as a wallet), IS NOT OK. Men need to be taught about the concepts of cui bono (who benefits?) and "consider the source" when it comes to people telling them "the truth" about life. E.g. if a woman tells a young man that he should be chivalrous, pay for meals, bring flowers (e.g. put the woman on a pedestal), hopefully we can start getting our boys to be skeptical of truth-telling that seems to go against their own self interests.

Golisten2LennyWhite · 2024-05-16T00:54:02+00:00

Just stop at men aren't allowed. That's far enough.

BananaB0yy · 2024-05-15T23:27:21+00:00

Ironically, the idea that men are supposed to be tough and stoic when dealing with hardships is the same traditional male role the feminists condemn as "toxic masculinity" lol

hottake_toothache · 2024-05-16T03:50:02+00:00

Men are only allowed to express a narrow band of feelings--and certainly nothing that might be upsetting to women.

People don't care about men.

Opening-Scar-8796 · 2024-05-21T21:34:08+00:00

There are some men that insult other men for complaining. I remember I was complaining about this chick going on dates while having a boyfriend to a college friend. And this friend basically said who cares and she’s free to do what she wants.

Lol.

kkkan2020 · 2024-05-15T23:25:54+00:00

In one ear and out the other thats what I say

gabriel-kornilov · 2024-05-16T01:01:55+00:00

Men aren’t allowed to show anything except their credit cards.....

BravoPUA · 2024-05-16T00:57:21+00:00

When women have that perspective- many look down upon them. They just might not get it as bad if they are hot.

Men who have a similar perspective are also looked down upon.

As they BOTH should be.

Codename-18 · 2024-05-16T05:26:40+00:00

My girlfriend told me that her client told her I'm bad in bed. She has a job where she interacts with a lot of women and I fucked a lot of them. So before I made her confess who she was so protective of who the other person would be, wouldn't show me her picture cause "it's a private thing" to which I replied "her fave pic is private but my sexual history isn't?" And then she showed me her pic. It was the first time I saw her face, maybe it was a test, maybe not.

The point is, women will try and get the upper hand in the information war, they will talk the nastiest of things against the men they date while simultaneously removing men of their ability to do the same, we do the same with regards to sex not the other 100 variables women pick. That's why revenge porn is a crime now but gossiping isn't.

Sexual sabotage should be punished in the same way.

Besides, men showing bitterness come off as beta because an alpha - in their idealised version - wouldn't be complaining. Just get used to the fact that you can't complain EVER if there's something dangling between your legs, if not be my guest

CrowMagpie · 2024-05-15T22:23:14+00:00

I don't know that bitterness is ever encouraged, outside of a flavor.

Fragmented79 · 2024-06-17T02:40:36+00:00

You’re absolutely right. Reddit will not permit any space for bitter men to vent. Yet there are dozens of subs of hateful feminists where the posts run wild. The double standards and gyno centrism make me super bitter.

Amalthia_the_Lady · 2024-05-16T03:52:06+00:00

I do admit I vent a bit at work. But the guys I work with vent to me too about their crap. It's a very mutually beneficial venting space.

They all give a unique perspective and I find it helpful to have different viewpoints when I'm frustrated.

Michaelaaft · 2024-05-15T20:52:37+00:00

Anyone who thinks like that just has a flawed logic… and I see posts like this a lot on here and I may just be mistaking it, but it almost comes across as ‘women are sexist, why can’t men be sexist too?’ When really, all you have to do is ignore them because in actuality, it’s not the majority, just like the majority of men aren’t the way those women try to say we are…

Like I said, maybe I’m just getting the wrong impression, but that’s just often how it seems when I come across posts talking about women who have ‘ruled out’ men. Personally, it doesn’t really bother me because I just ignore them and don’t surround myself with those types of people.

g1455ofwater · 2024-05-16T05:31:49+00:00

It's not fair and no matter how many shaming tactics they try it still won't change the fact that it's unfair. If this unfairness ever changes and men are allowed to have normal human emotions like this I'll be impressed with the progress the world has made.

Vegetable_Ad1732 · 2024-05-16T03:10:05+00:00

Say what you want, stop worrying what people think about you.

Black-Patrick · 2024-05-16T02:21:52+00:00

Kinda sound bitter..

CordCarillo · 2024-05-15T20:45:23+00:00

So, you're mad that women have zero attraction for men who act like women?

This surpises you?

Title	Men aren’t allowed to show bitterness
Author	martialardis
Upvotes	357
Comments	48
Date	May 15, 2024 8:25 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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