BP opinion on this TRP frontpage thread?

Will_Im_Not · 2014-08-12T22:04:05+00:00

She admitted that Shawn was a "test" (aka shit test), and that I had blown her expectations (passed with flying colors). Continues to admit that he had no initial intention of hanging with Shawn. Admits that she has never really met Shawn before and was excited at the prospect. She wanted to see if he could one-up me. Expresses great interest in how I dominated her by simply leaving her behind. Leaving meant that she was worth next to nothing to me, and she loved it.

Jesus Christ, where do you meet people like this? And then in the end, after she admits to trying to manipulate him, he stays with her?!

TRP seems to place greater importance on "get your dick wet" than "hang out with good people". There are plenty of people out there that I could fuck but why would I want to if they're assholes? I'm not that desperate for sex.

Edit: In the comments:

she annoyingly gets up to the toilet twice during the movie for what seemed like ages. She tells me later at home she had to go wipe herself up since she was soaking wet, through to her trousers thinking about me and the new, new plate and that she had me right now.

Lol

BaadKitteh · 2014-08-12T22:57:21+00:00

My opinion: LOL, literally, like I just snorted at my desk loud enough to startle a few of my coworkers.

That reads like a pitiful fantasy by a desperate, pathetic guy who rarely gets laid, if at all, and it's even funnier how the rest of the red pillers eat it up. Truly, a more sad group of folks I have never seen.

DocileBanalBovine · 2014-08-12T22:08:38+00:00

I'll take 'Examples of confirmation bias' for 600, Alex.

One woman adhered to our view of all women, so obviously all women are like this one woman.

lokidemon731 · 2014-08-13T00:19:54+00:00

Sounds like two unstable people who appear to be having fun with each other? Good for them, I guess.

ms_kittyfantastico · 2014-08-12T22:39:33+00:00

My assessment of the relationship dynamics at play? Sounds like a crazy chick and a dude who doesn't care that she's crazy because he gets to fuck her in the end.

Just craziness and unstable people all over the place. I've never met a single person like this in my life. If that's what RP sees all the time, then I get their message.

Sounds like they are perfect for each other.

Will_Im_Not · 2014-08-12T21:45:59+00:00

/r/thathappened

[deleted] · 2014-08-14T00:30:20+00:00

Ok so: This girl tested him with some dumb game, he "passed" with flying colours and consequently she called him up crying saying she "loves" him now. He does NOT run screaming for the hills and instead sees this as totally normal.

If that doesent raise red flags I don't know what the fuck.

Haven't we met before? The borderline/narcissist couple

Anytime things are going too smoothly she's going to keep sabotaging it because she needs that sweet, sweet drama. He likes her because he enjoys the game playing and validation of being able to "win" and thus conquer his feelings of self loathing as a self described former beta.

They have intense chemistry because they're basically perfect for each other.

[deleted] · 2014-08-13T00:34:15+00:00

I'm going to assume this is true, in which case: Meh. Good for him?

What's the end goal here? To fuck? Well, he's reached that goal. Way to go.

I wonder if he'll ever grow tired of it.

They're just two petty, silly, insecure nitwits playing games with one another. The game isn't even that interesting. Meh.

Wolfsouls · 2014-08-12T22:40:34+00:00

This girl is a nut case. I have no idea what kind of reasoning is going on in her brain. Did she really make someone up? I'm so confused.

thats_a_semaphor · 2014-08-13T02:59:21+00:00

This demonstrates the problem with RP/BP anecdotal evidence.

We have one side of the story here, but let's assume it's told genuinely and honestly. She invited someone extra, he left, she later tells him it was a test and they fuck.

Can we, from this, determine that she did this out of positive emotions? Might not her side of the story be that she invited someone around, the person she was attracted to left, and she felt poorly about it and did what she thought he wanted and said what she thought he wanted to hear to make it right?

It's really hard to determine, from an internet post, exactly what both people were thinking. BPers think RPers see the world completely incorrectly, and RPers think BPers do as well - should two different people have met up, experienced what happened in this post and then both posted about it separately, their motives, understanding and emotions might be depicted quite differently from each other.

So this post doesn't prove anything at all in terms of RP theory, nor its opposite.

robesta · 2014-08-13T08:57:23+00:00

I rolled my eyes immediately at when he described her as a 7, every girl in field reports is a 7 because nobody wants to admit they're banging 6s and 9 sounds too transparently like a lie.

Perspective133 · 2014-08-13T16:06:48+00:00

I find it very amusing that many BP'ers are instantly jumping to either "But that's just one woman!" or even worse, flat out denial coupled with angry insults - "LOL DIDN'T HAPPEN IN REAL LIFE RP IS SO PATHETIC ROFL ROFL!!!1" without any proof that it didn't happen.

luridlurker · 2014-08-13T17:33:33+00:00

Assuming it actually went down that way...She tried to manipulate him. That's immature and bad news. He picked up and got out. That's awesome. That's standing up for yourself and what you want. That's not dominate. That's just having self-worth.

Expresses great interest in how I dominated her

I seriously doubt she used the word dominate. I can't imagine a world where removing yourself from a toxic situation = domination. Those two just aren't the same thing.

I begrudgingly complied as I wanted to know what happened.

I wouldn't have given this girl the time a day, much less meet up somewhere later. This guy's seeking validation and I'm not sure it's healthy to try and get it from this girl. But props to her for apologizing.

TL;DR If you have to view everything as a power struggle just to be able tot stand up for yourself, I feel bad for ya.

mezzozy · 2014-08-14T16:40:46+00:00

Just something I've never quite understood...so the woman here is a "plate", so I'm assuming this means try have agreed on being fuck buddies and nothing more?

Therefore, why is it a "shit test" when a woman gives attention to another guy when she's only a plate to this dear alpha? Neither of them are committed, so I don't see what the big deal is.

More importantly, why is it seen as heroic to respond to the test by him getting with another lady? Yeah the whole "but I looooove you!" Thing is kind of dumb, but what that speaks to me more than anything in these kinds of stories is that the Alpha isn't clear and honest about what he wants out of the relationship (solely fucking).

I don't care if some guy fucks 50 chicks at once, he just needs to be upfront that it's exclusively casual sex, nothing more, and will be nothing more.

This is what my problem with TRP as a whole is: this is a classic example of manipulation. If this guy here was honest, he could have been upfront that he was only seeking casual sex when she went on about how she loved him. But he didn't, and therefore he's using a facade that maybe if she fucks him enough times, he'll show some semblance of love back. Essentially, toying with one's emotions for their own selfish gain.

Title	BP opinion on this TRP frontpage thread?
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Date	August 12, 2014 9:33 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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