So. Many. Posts. Saying. Women don't like men for who they are but only what they can provide. That women are shallow and only like to be flirted with by good looking dudes. Yes, yes they are. The vast majority of people are. You are as well you obnoxious prick. You really want me to buy most men don't look at a woman and only see what she can give them? As if guys don't want this ideal "modest, calm and selfless" woman just because they want a low maintenance high response partner. A freaking real life fps battle royale support character/medic. Nvm men also being shallow I'm not even gonna debate that.

You're not special, no one is. Not because you're nice, not because you're low conflict, not because you're generous and not because of any other personality choice that makes your ego feel worthy of a nanny/daddy to come give you a warm plate, tuck you in and give you oral when you feel like it. This goes to both men and women by the way, and equally so. It's simply addressed to men because they complain about it more on here, though generally I find both genders to be equally entitled and self-serving.

If you're nice, sentimental and gentle then you should be that because thats how you wanna live your life, not cause you want someone to say thank you. You wanting appreciation is a selfish act, and that's ok but to get it you need to live your life accordingly. Don't be selfless, neglecting yourself then complain the world is greedy. Everyone knows most people are greedy. It's just that you've repressed your selfishness and now you can't process it, neither in yourself nor in others.

And btw, truly kind and selfless people are out there. They live both for themselves and for others, they dont need a partner to be a good person nor would they want a partner that needs them to be a good person. Theres both men and women, and they are healthy enough to see thru your nice guy/girl persona.