I miss r/chadfish. | PurplePillDebate

cosmincrs · 2022-12-30T21:38:36+00:00

PreviousNextBack to Grid ViewPreviousNextBack to Grid ViewPreviousNextBack to Grid ViewPreviousNextBack to Grid ViewPreviousNextBack to Grid...

[–]Ultrashitposter 61 points62 points63 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[permanently deleted]

[–]jmoincali 17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]empresa_josefinaNo Pill 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]nikrage 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]shadowofdoubt13 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]HTML_Novice 24 points25 points26 points 3 years ago (24 children) | Copy Link

[–]propagandudumb bitcharooni pizza 64 points65 points66 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]JDWhiz96Suburbs 57 points58 points59 points 3 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

[–]angryearth😺multipass 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

[–]Snivelingincel 21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

[–]Jaichim_9 13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Snivelingincel 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

[–]Snivelingincel 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]Snivelingincel 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Damn these strong independent women who can do everything a man can do need to be protected from men saying mean things about them on the internet. Color me surprised

Men aren’t a protected class remember? You can shit on them all you want on Reddit. Who cares they make up the majority of homeless, suicide victims, people raped in divorce court, captains of industry, infrastructure workers, soldiers dying to protect your country, blockbuster movie producers, engineers, architects, scientists, farmers, and so on 🥱 just fuck those guys amirite?

We should be protecting women from men who are rightfully angry at being constantly and openly disrespected and slandered by women and society in spite of literally building it and keeping it functioning

Men aren’t allowed to be angry in public i guess only women are allowed to do that, even when they have to drastically exaggerate the likelihood of being victimized by male violence or make up long debunked myths like the wage gap to do it 🥱

[–]angryearth😺multipass 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]HazyMemory7They hated me because I spoke the truth 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]angryearth1 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]HazyMemory73 points 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]meddit-throwaway 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]angryearth😺multipass 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]meddit-throwaway 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]angryearth😺multipass 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]meddit-throwaway 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]SolidusMonkey 43 points44 points45 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]suj1290 16 points17 points18 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]IhaveLostCountBlack Noir Pill 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I’d argue they’re simply more holistic and all encompassing. Which passively demands perfection from many not-naturally-perfect men (yes, chads if you wanna say it that way) which first off means it’s unlikely to happen at all, then second off, the perfectionistic culture being thrown in mens faces so bombastically means some just nope-out before even really trying, which is hella easy to justify doing with “those who only accept perfection are the least deserving of other, harmlessly-imperfect people striving for perfection.” Basically if you only ever demand perfection of others you don’t deserve to have it from them, imo. People have to be given personal freedom to feel like themselves and you gotta feel like yourself to feel loved. I want my future partners to feel loved, so I give them room for this. However I’ve literally never felt this as a man. Everyone seems to have something to say, or some uninformed opinion, and then a big mouth to boot.

[–]HungerISanEmotionPill Pilled Piller and Penis owner 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Snivelingincel 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]trolltaskforce 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]Snivelingincel 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]calfshrug 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]meddit-throwaway 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] -4 points-3 points-2 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

[–]HungerISanEmotionPill Pilled Piller and Penis owner 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

[–]HungerISanEmotionPill Pilled Piller and Penis owner 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]HungerISanEmotionPill Pilled Piller and Penis owner 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]HungerISanEmotionPill Pilled Piller and Penis owner 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]HungerISanEmotion1 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]meddit-throwaway 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]SolidPuzzleheaded984 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]AutoModerator[M] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]OhyarlysmilesI'm the guy in my profile pic pill -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

Anyone who believes these ONLINE CONVERSATIONS prove anything reveals that they have ZERO REAL WORLD EXPERIENCE.

I have convos like that on the reg in online dating --- vast majority go nowhere.

It's easy to get women to send nudes, easy to talk sexual, blah blah blah.

What happens more often than not is that the woman simply chickens out --- it's one thing to talk dirty and weird online and another to follow through.

When you build a super sexual atmosphere like that (or weird one) suddenly you're bringing a lot of expectations onto the actual meeting. That can scare people.

Similarly, believing that a dude's flaws won't put a woman off in person just because she's hot to trot online is also a huge mistake.

Edit: Further, getting a number in 2022/2023...shit circa 2015 doesn't mean shit.

[–]tom5osqb 3 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

most men would get unmatched or ignored for speaking like that

[–]bloodthirsty_emu 21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]suj1290 14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Snivelingincel 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

[–]OhyarlysmilesI'm the guy in my profile pic pill -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

[–]Snivelingincel 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

[–]OhyarlysmilesI'm the guy in my profile pic pill -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

[–]Snivelingincel -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I’m a chad dude. I get tons of matches and women hitting me up first trying to fuck daily. I’ve always had a popping tinder profile that got matches. However when I first started I would blow leads out the water left and right. I decided to learn text game because I wasn’t getting results consistent with my match rate. After putting in effort to better my text game I can have girls at my apartment with the same ease of ordering dominoes. No dates, no flaking, no dying conversations. They come over we fuck and they leave. I don’t know if that counts as A/B testing but I have experience from both sides.

If I was getting messages like in OP’s photos I would close every single one of them. I know this because I can have similar convos that lead to closing. If you are experiencing the type of responses consistent with those photos and not closing you are doing something wrong.

There’s no reason to be confrontational about it. I’m trying to get you more pussy with DTF women by telling you you may have overlooked an important aspect of your game.

If you get enough pussy without having to learn text game all the power to you, but to say text game doesn’t exist and won’t help you is false. If you can’t close these types of women you’re proof of that. Text game is game at the end of the day, if you understand women and apply the principles you will get better results.

[–]BrummieAMN19Pick up artist- Diagnosed NPD-Black British 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]Snivelingincel 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah basically been my experience. My best friend used to call me a “waste of face” he also eventually introduced me to game when I got super depressed over my oneitis rejecting me.

I’m probably top 20% facially maybe higher. I would put myself at a 7.5 on PSL scale based on the way women treat me regarding my looks. I get told I’m handsome a lot by strangers (also get told I look intimidating), get told that I should be an actor, was approached to audition for Love Island, I’ve been signed to a modeling agency before, occasionally have a woman stop me in the street and tell me she thinks I’m very attractive, get a lot of IOI’s when walking around, women on OLD will refer to my looks a lot when matching with me, a lot also message first. I’m 5’11, have a straight white smile through braces and whitening, full head of hair, lean masculine physique with masculine proportions and go to the gym consistently so getting bigger. Am very athletic, dress well, as well as have a deep resonant voice that I get a lot of compliments on. I also have a 7.1x5.6 nbp penis. Have an IQ of 122 which was officially tested, and am naturally aggressive and a risk taker. I was basically born with a very attractive/masculine phenotype.

The only thing was I used to get really nervous around pretty girls, which basically negated all of my good qualities. When my boy introduced me to game it was game over. We would go out and cold approach and sneak into clubs and we practiced almost daily. This drastically increased my social skills. I was always rather confident and social though so adding the practice on top of that really pulled something out of me. I could talk circles around women and men in conversation and something I started to hear a lot is that I would be a great salesman because of how I speak. I also put a lot of effort into being good at sex and am very dominant in the bedroom so something else I consistently hear from women after fucking them is that I’m “different” than most guys. OLD pretty much gave me the ability to order women to my home, I don’t go on dates with women. The only thing I don’t have is a high paying career. Given my inherent advantages, game is what really put me over the edge. It gave me the ability to properly market myself as a valuable sexual commodity, and turned me into a unicorn.

[–]BrummieAMN19Pick up artist- Diagnosed NPD-Black British -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Hahahaha I said something similar to my wing it was shameful how many women he missed by who approached him and gave him IOIs and he constantly blew it. He had the lowest social IQ I had ever come across. He was also really unhappy with his options as the most attractive woman he could get max for LTRs were 7s and even that was debatable. Whenever women his looks level liked him it never ever went anywhere because he was so bad at game. His online convos were like what you described as well before you learnt formal game. Many matches but extremely poor conversion rate of someone of his looks. Now he's making up for lost time and he'll probably hit 100+ girls in a year.

Before game what was your laycount and what type of women approach you? In my experience Stacies never ever ever approach at most they'll give you IOIs its always women that are below me. That's the same for my other friends who are good looking. Which also makes me realise how some men who talk about how Chad doesn't have to do anything they always omit the woman's attractiveness.

I had a former wing and Chad best friend who is a natural(ish) and had really solid game and he was absolutely amazing to go out with. It was fascinating knowing what I know now seeing the contrast between these twO men.

I am above average looking myself and one tier below a Tyrone based off how women and men treat me but your stats blow me out of the water. With women they describe me as "a 7 who turns into a 9 consistently" which IMO are the men on the looks scale that benefit most from game after naturals who learn game. My Chad friend gets very very similar comments to yours and the closest guy he resembles is Matthew Noszka and he has the height to go with it at 6"5 with an overall masculine frame. You should have gone on Love Island and ran game on the contestants that would've been jokes and you'd be a villian stealing all the other guys girls. For modelling don't you have to be at least 6"1-6"2? I thought they had a height requirement as strict as height queens on the apps.

From your stats I wouldn't put you at 20% at least top 5% of men, in my country probably 1%. Both in physical appearance and in personality traits you hit the genetic lottery and decided to invest in using tactics and strategy that works. Go for some remote job type career with high pay and a good work life balance and you're set for life. You're the optimised man. My guy doesn't even need to actively AMOG you just naturally do it. You must leave a shitload of broken hearts and women who never ever forget you I swear there's always one girl there's always one girl who you make cry to her best friend in private or they drunk text you hahaha.

I relate as well to online dating unless she's super super hot with actual social skills I don't do public dates anymore because I know the optimal move to set them up and I get delivered women as if its uber eats. Plus its super boring going on these dates with women saying the same thing over and over because you've done it so many times. Its like a script routine for me. It baffles me how some guys on here who do go on dates still struggle to close or they go past a second date without shagging the girl. Or how you can do nothing on a date but so as long as she likes your looks its okay lmao.

How often do you go out and do cold approach and how many approaches does it take you approximately?

[–]Snivelingincel 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah when people say chads can have zero game it’s laughable. Sure in some Tinder experiments that may be true but irl you’ll still need to make the move. No chick is getting wet for a chad who shakes in his boots talking to her. You’ll probably have more friends and social experiences being good looking and you’ll probably experience the validation of knowing a few girls who have a crush on you throughout school but when it comes to actually closing the deal in person, women won’t walk you through the hoops no matter how good looking you are. That’s great for your friend though that he got the advice he needed.

Before game my lay count was 5. Of the women that approach me they are usually 6 and below though I’ve had 2 different women approach me and ask for my number at a job I used to work that ended up in my rotation for awhile. They were both around 6.5 noticeably attractive. It’s true that I’ve never had a woman I’ve considered on my level or higher approach me. They do send a lot of IOI’s though. Perhaps at a certain level of looks they will but if they do I’m not there. I’ve only really had pretty cute and below girls girls approach.

Yeah being a 7 and learning game will take your results into overdrive. It’s like anything that requires talent + skill, in where fucking a lot of women the talent is your looks. Some guys have a lot of talent but no skill while other guys have a lot of skill with no talent. The greatest results will be achieved by those with both talent + skill. I’m regards to appearance I’ve been compared to the singer Maxwell a lot. I would’ve gone on Love Island but I sort of sabotaged myself because I was seeing this girl at the time and didn’t want to break it off. So on the call I didn’t really take it seriously and sort of gave vague answers to the questions. I ended up leaving that girl anyway so I blew the opportunity for nothing but love can make you dumb. My thoughts were to use game on the show too. I figured I would be a very unique contestant considering the type of people they normally have on there.

I have a 6’4 chad buddy who ended up getting into a relationship right as I was teaching him about text game but he’s the only guy I’ve met who was doing better than me in terms of results on Tinder. The funny thing is we would go through our matches and we would see we matched with a lot of the same girls, however he just had way more matches than me.

For modeling you generally need to be at least 6ft if they like your look and feel they can work with you they may make exceptions. The first modeling agency I went to turned me down for being too short but the next one I went to signed me. Still I had one experience where I went to a casting and they literally told everyone who isn’t 6ft to leave. They know agencies will sign guys 5’10 or 5’11 and the place was packed with models and getting rather chaotic and disorganized so I imagine they did it just to make it simpler. I left but I probably should have stayed just for the fuck of it. The thing is when you are around models a lot of them are tall so the height disparity between you and the three 6’1-6’3 dudes standing next to you becomes rather obvious.

Yeah I feel very blessed everyday for who I am but also for the fact that I’ve come across the red pill and game as being who I am. I got very lucky. I don’t think about it much but when I do think about it I think about how the average man compares to me and who the women I hook up with must be hooking up with next. There is a fear in men that a woman has been with an alpha and they won’t be able to compete. I hadn’t given it much thought but I figure I must fall into that category for quite a few men. I’m sure you and your friends do too.

With some women a public date may be necessary I try to screen heavy to avoid that but if she’s worth it I’m not gonna outright refuse. Even then no way I’m not going for the after date close or at least the second date close. I haven’t met a woman I’ve wanted to wait 3 dates with before sex and it seems women think the same of me but perhaps she’s out there…the magical 3 dater. Some guys are timid, I met a guy recently that went over to a girls house and all he managed was to kiss her on the cheek. Me and my homey were begging him to just make a move but he just refused. When you reach a certain point it does become baffling how people subject themselves to that. At a certain point it seems the discomfort of waiting would motivate you to want to expedite the process. When I hear a guys been 3-4 dates I can’t help but think, what are you doing on these dates that’s so special that you want to keep having them? Many are oblivious though so there’s that.

I haven’t gone out specifically to cold approach in awhile. I became heavily focused on OLD. However I never became shy about approaching a woman I found attractive in public. While going about my day if I really want to talk to a woman I’ll do it. I recently became motivated to get back into cold approach and go to bars are such but have been hit with a health problem that forced me to stop working. As a result I’ve had to move in with my mom for the time being and she doesn’t live in the city. When I’m back on my feet I’ll get back on the streets.

[–]OhyarlysmilesI'm the guy in my profile pic pill -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]gugabe 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Theatre_throw 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]EatTheRichNZ 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link

[–]jmoincali 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]KommandaKoopa 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

[–]KommandaKoopa -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

[–]KommandaKoopa -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

[–]KommandaKoopa -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

[–]KommandaKoopa -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted]0 points 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]KommandaKoopa0 points 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–][deleted]0 points 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]KommandaKoopa0 points 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–][deleted]0 points 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]KommandaKoopa0 points 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–][deleted]0 points 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]KommandaKoopa0 points 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]Teflon081912 points 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[+]Lift_and_LurkNo Pill -7 points-6 points-5 points 3 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

[permanently deleted]

[–]Lift_and_LurkNo Pill -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

[permanently deleted]

[–]empresa_josefinaNo Pill 17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]WildCardSolly4 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]WildCardSolly4 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Lift_and_LurkNo Pill -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[permanently deleted]

[–]Lift_and_LurkNo Pill 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]ColonelGray 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Snivelingincel 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]CruelAngelGradThesiscall me omae -5 points-4 points-3 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]empresa_josefinaNo Pill 22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] -5 points-4 points-3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]empresa_josefinaNo Pill 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[+]CruelAngelGradThesiscall me omae -7 points-6 points-5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[+][deleted] -9 points-8 points-7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]palindromiaGalatians 4:16 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[+]localmicrodosechamp -8 points-7 points-6 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]IceC19 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]RahLyt 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]HungerISanEmotionPill Pilled Piller and Penis owner 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]shadowofdoubt13 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Title	I miss r/chadfish.
Author	cosmincrs
Upvotes	80
Comments	111
Date	December 30, 2022 9:38 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/zzcb5q/i_miss_rchadfish/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/PurplePillDebate/i-miss-rchadfish.1145119 https://theredarchive.com/post/1145119

Comments