Is this AF/BB? Does AF/BB need to be connected to money?

Aldabruzzo · 2021-10-19T13:50:46+00:00

AF/BB is not always about "bux". The guy doesn't need to be resources rich to be a beta bux.

A man is a BB when the woman conditions her presence and sex on his making all of his resources available to her for her use. He's a BB when the relationship he has with her is conditioned on her unfettered, exclusive, and complete access to his resources. "His resources" includes not only his money, but also his time, attention, labor, and commitment. He must make them all available to her, and only to her. Her access must be absolute and unlimited - they are available to her at her sole discretion. All this gives her power and control over him, and his resources. At the end of the day, it's about power and control - she wants, needs that power and control so she can be secure, and so she can know that the money and resources will keep flowing.

TheRedPillRipper · 2021-10-19T05:38:21+00:00

any serious explanations

It’s fake apparently. Multiple stories/usernames with the same premise.

Does AF/BB need to be connected to money

As a thought exercise I generalise it as benefit. Time. Emotional support. Networking. Any benefit I give to anyone is always weighed against cost. Especially when dating. This man invested in a woman but she didn’t reciprocate. 2 months is a long time to wait, before you ascertain whether you’re physically compatible. For his time what did he get in return? A few great dates? Some treasured memories? If she was as invested; what reason did she have to bang her FWB whilst dating another man? Other than benefiting from both?

shitty person

I agree. She’s for the streets.

Godspeed and good luck!

sine120 · 2021-10-19T15:59:27+00:00

This is nearly a verbatim copy of another post that was analyzed here not too long ago. It's not AF/BB, it's emotion fishing and karma whoring.

WestsideMoonWalker · 2021-10-19T04:41:44+00:00

Aside from that whole sub being a creative writing exercise.... that just seems like it's about an asshole being an asshole and getting caught being an asshole.

BrodieDharma · 2021-10-20T02:04:15+00:00

Attention and emotional security is becoming the new BB for many women because many have their own money.

Expensive-Guitar3609 · 2021-10-20T04:33:14+00:00

When she turned him down for the kiss and said "not yet", she forgot to say "I didn't brush my teeth since last night".

Disgusting as fuck hahaha.

Expensive-Guitar3609 · 2021-10-20T04:33:22+00:00

When she turned him down for the kiss and said "not yet", she forgot to say "I didn't brush my teeth since last night".

Disgusting as fuck hahaha.

flamingoinghome · 2021-10-19T07:59:30+00:00

This sounds like a guy who, assuming it's real, doesn't know the difference between "I do not like casual sex" and "I do not like sex with strangers."

It also sounds like someone who should have said he wanted to be exclusive if that's what he wanted.

flapperfemmefatale · 2021-10-19T05:23:51+00:00

I'm team exclusivity. I don't know why anyone would just assume the person you're dating (especially for only a couple of months) isn't seeing anyone else unless you've had the conversation. When I started dating my husband, we had the chat on date #2.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-10-19T06:49:29+00:00

Women experience a variation of the Maddona/Whore complex that guys have. On one hand they love the alpha males, but on the other hand they recognize those guys are not the committing type. So they will also seek out the comfort and security of a nice guy/hubby/daddy type. Since the hubby type is not sexually arousing, sex is immediately out on hold and the woman plays the hard to get dance until she decides it's time to trade sex for security and financial comfort. So the hubby becomes de facto the daddy who takes responsibility for taking care of the woman.

But the alpha males genes are sweet and addicting and a woman will continue to chase that guy even if he provides only a momentary relief. Many women will get impregnated by an alpha and then marry a hubby/daddy who feels familiar and like a brother to her because she knows that's her way of accessing security.

Guys love to think that a girl who is withholding sex is pure and that he has actually earned it, until he finds out like the guy in the post, that said girl has been banging a couple of guys, who don't count. "Oh it was only sex, but with you it's love" they say to spare your feelings and avail their feelings of guilt that they may have cited slutty.

Of course the guy in the linked post could have avoided all of this if he knew what he wanted and acted like a man who doesn't wait for sex. But he has been brainwashed that women control sex and so he had to play by their rules only to find out that there was some guy tapping the pussy he thought he now owned without having to wait. That guy was in control. He was an alpha male.

cowfishAreReal · 2021-10-19T05:35:07+00:00

If you haven't agreed on being exclusive then there is no problem in fucking other people. Me and my boyfriend talked about it within a week of acknowledging that we were attracted to each other after being friends for a while. But if you don't, if you just hang out together then there's literally no reason to expect exclusivity. And waiting 2 months to go from complete stranger to fucking sounds pretty reasonable to me. The fuck body she had could have known her for way longer

Laytheblameonluck · 2021-10-19T08:01:48+00:00

Are there any serious explanations for her behavior?

Most AF/BB referred to is just good old Madonna-Whore.

She's got a Madonna-Whore complex and is playing the Madonna with this guy and the Whore with the FWB.

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wtknight · 2021-10-19T11:21:22+00:00

Assuming that this story is true, I think that it depends upon how long she made the other guy wait for sex. Maybe the other FWB had to wait a few months after knowing each other before having sex with her too and maybe she's just the kind of person that likes to become good friends before wanting sex with someone. I think the real measure of AF/BB is the same woman treating different men differently.

manfrom-nantucket · 2021-10-21T00:30:48+00:00

Yes. The connection to money is in the very term - Alpha Fucks (AF)/ Beta Bucks (BB)

Title	Is this AF/BB? Does AF/BB need to be connected to money?
Author	Anantha1996
Upvotes	9
Comments	61
Date	October 19, 2021 4:35 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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