if what they bring to the table financially becomes a major deciding factor, it almost feels like they've had to "buy their way in."

You can't turn around and say, "I'm not a car so you can't compare and control me like a commodity," when he had to earn you financially and status-wise to be with you.

The rich men and attractive women are both commodities here, but I'm sure if the rich men are able to exert authority over their "commodity," and the woman are sexually loyal to them, and those rich men are able to exercise their options, they are most likely okay with being an ATM.

I believe it's strange for a woman to be upset and leave with the richer man's money because he treated her like a commodity when she propositioned herself to be bought with his wealth and status.

and the reason those women leave is becasue those women are salty that they are being treated like commodities when they propositioned themselves as commodities, they want to proposition themselves as commodities but be treated like queens

The only women that can complain about being treated like a commodity are the women that worked from the ground up with a man and loved him for who he is, and then he ended up cheating and treating her like a commodity when they made it.