Let’s get started.

If you are a man in this sub who has expressed that they dislike promiscuous women: that is fine. You are entitled to your own personal preference. But what is not okay is bashing women who like to have casual sex or wanting casual sex just for yourself. Promiscuous women not your cup of tea? Okay, you don’t have to participate in hook up culture or date these type of women. No more arguments about it. Women in this sub sometimes don’t like promiscuous men and that’s valid too! To each their own.

Now on the topic of men here (and sometimes women) of getting dates: most of the time it’s not really you but it can be. Lots of people today are scared of committed relationships. There have been MANY posts here on the data so I won’t get into it. People mainly like the attention—due to social media over the past decade—and it’s shitty, I know, but people get bored unfortunately and they ghost or say they’re not interested because they want something “new” to entertain them. People are kinda shitty nowadays, but not everyone. Now if that’s not the case, unfortunately you’re just not up to societal standards. This could be appearance wise or personally wise. I’m not going to sugarcoat it but it could be that you’re not a lot of peoples “type”. You are someones type though or you could become others types by improving the clothes you wear and hygiene. If it’s your personality people dislike, that’s something you need to work on yourself. No one can really help you with that unless you need a therapist.

OLD. In other subs about dating, the top recommended thing for trying to find a partner is to quit OLD. We all know it’s terrible. Instead, many people suggest getting out there and jointing groups/teams. It’s a great way to chat with opposite sex without it being awkward or stressful as when you’re on a date. Now it’s best to become friends first and see if there is anything more. Women are usually turned off if single men are seeking a gf when joining something. Just turn it down a notch, something will happen.

Now a lot of you may not agree with everything said here. That’s fine, people don’t agree all the time and you are entitled to your own opinion. If you think I missed something or can elaborate more on something mentioned above please feel free to leave it in the comments. I’m just tired of seeing the same posts cycle through here and people saying the same things over and over again. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over expecting a different outcome. Don’t let this sub drive you insane.

Also if there are comments that paste almost everything I said with your opinion on it after (I’m talking like paragraph long ones) they will be removed. Take a section and respond to it one at a time. Thanks.