The idea that women (1) lose value in terms of being datable and (2) looks is nonsensical. The idea that this wall begins to hit women at the age of 30 is even more ridiculous.

(1) The concept of the wall seemingly comes off as bitterness for women maturing. As humans, we get older and with that age comes change in taste, evolving ideologies, more needs, etc. Just because you’re a 35 year old man and can no longer get by on first dates to Chili’s and not being held accountable to what is expected of an adult man in a relationship doesn’t mean women over 30 aren’t datable. They’ve just grown up.

The idea above creates the perception that’s usually relayed here that women above 30 are “too much” but I think the question has to be asked, if you’re in that bracket where women over 30 are your demographic to date, why haven’t you matured past the bare minimum? Sure the majority here who subscribe to this will say ask “why jump through hoops when you can date younger women?” But most here who subscribe don’t even seem secure enough to date early 20s women who likely early 20s male friends.

(2) Download tinder,hinge,bumble,league whatever you use. Set age proximity above 30. All of theories and “studies” in the world don’t prevail over experience. You literally have it at your fingertips to see that a woman’s attractive doesn’t decrease at the rapid rate due to age as much as this sub makes it seem.