I am a 23 year old guy looking for a relationship and most of the time I’m just being used for dick. Girls at my school only text me when they want me to have sex with them. Why can’t I just be the guy who takes them out on dates? They always just want to hook up with me the first date. Nothing else.

I have a lot to offer for a relationship. I have good hobbies, I’m athletic, I have an Ivy League education (in the process of completing) and I have a good future ahead of me. But it seams like they just want me for dick!

Throughout last year, I’ve totaled about 25 hook ups and none of them went beyond that. These girls instead dated weird guys who just seamed like really naive and “in love” with them. They just literally fucked with me for a bit and then left for those dudes.

What’s happening here?