Would you rather GF experience relationship or modern version of romantic relationship?

CosmicBioHazard · 2019-07-14T09:44:09+00:00

I prefer the clear intentions kind of relationship. However I would be pretty warry in both cases. You see, escorts would still have its dangers. The pathogenic kind.

Barely-moral · 2019-07-14T11:06:46+00:00

I am only interested in LTRs and when it comes to that, there is no obligation from the first girl to stay with me in the long term. Chances are, she will leave because there is no chance she actually loves me. I take my chances with the second option.

Also, since people have free will and mind readers don't exist no one is obligated to anyone and there is no way to know someone's intentions... it is hard for me to buy that there between those girls in those two aspects.

Tyler_Gatsby · 2019-07-14T13:54:13+00:00

Another guy saying I'm not paying for sex. Good for the guys that can happily do that, b/c that just simplifies things for them. Going with Option 2 for the real relationship, and worry about the possible loss of her libido later, if and when it does happen.

reluctantly_red · 2019-07-14T15:11:29+00:00

Sorry but a prostitute cannot actually provide anything more than a trashy approximation of a bad GF experience.

_Neon_Shadow_ · 2019-07-14T11:09:20+00:00

I'm not paying for sex so you got your answer.

TheJim66 · 2019-07-14T11:19:13+00:00

Well between the two hypotheticals I would choose the escort simply because she is MUCH hotter.

But it's really possible to vastly improve the 2nd scenario if you know how women work and self improve.Get a hotter chick,better behavior ,less bullshit, more sex.

[deleted] · 2019-07-14T13:07:54+00:00

Id rather take my chances with the second option (rather it be with a women I actually want to be with though, not one of your photo choices).

I would rather have a shorter relationship (if it goes wrong) that is real than a relationship that has no feelings what so ever.

wtknight · 2019-07-14T14:13:56+00:00

The second is ideally better. If a man is worrying about the stuff you listed in the second option, that's just anxious behavior and she's probably going to leave him anyway. If a man can't display the confidence to maintain a relationship and learn to not worry about these things, then the first option is probably better for him.

Mystery_Tragic · 2019-07-14T09:30:11+00:00

I'd rather have the modern version of a romantic relationship because it's real.

The pictures of the average girl you put up seem to be much more fun and full of personality than the rather cold ones of the escort.

Also you have a cynical view of modern relationships.

The_Lone_Apple · 2019-07-14T11:53:39+00:00

I only speak for myself but I have always preferred relationships that contain real emotions on the part of both people. I had the other kind of relationship once but didn't realize that's what it was until much later - I thought we were having a real relationship. I cut it off right away and did not speak to that person again.

WestsideMoonWalker · 2019-07-14T13:20:17+00:00

Why would I ever consider paying for sex, lol. Bleh. I want something real. I don't really care if there are some downsides.

I've been with my SO for 5 years now. She's one of the most fun people I've ever met, and earns more than me, and is drop dead adorable. Also cat.

Triadfamilyties · 2019-07-14T20:42:17+00:00

The idea that you can't be sure of her intentions in dating is ludicrous and a sign that the guy is unwilling to talk about or face hard truths for fear of rejection.

I do serious relationships and if going to things that aren't all about you is a negative aspect of the relationship you're an emotional child who really doesn't belong in them.

eco979 · 2019-07-14T10:02:54+00:00

I prefer "sluts". Women who enjoy sex and are open and willing to experiment. We play bf/gf part for each other whenever we meet. There are no strings attached, no commitments, no claims or demands for exclusivity.

For a woman can be immensely relieving to be accepted as she is, no masks required, no promises, no for ever after.

The friendships that ensue are deep, honest and very fulfilling

ScootsScoots · 2019-07-14T13:44:49+00:00

When the sex starts to dry up, you engage the dread. If you have options theres another girl waiting to give you that BJ that your gf suddenly doesnt feel like giving anymore. Your GF will realize this and proper behavior will resume.

When a girl stops putting out, she gets dumped. Stop wasting your prime years playing these girls games.

reluctantly_red · 2019-07-14T12:11:45+00:00

Why are all the relationship women asian? Surely there's some plus sized white women with a fat ass that's about to get fatter after her Popeyes Chicken meal.

The way you put it I am sold on the escorts.

MrHerbSherman · 2019-07-14T16:03:50+00:00

Both of those options suck

I want option 2 (relationship) but instead of how you wrote it, it’s a real relationship: the girl is actually super into me, and knows I have other options. She doesn’t want to lose me, and she treats me accordingly

I’m not sure why you think all those negative things about intentions in a relationship. Are you a guy? A relationship doesn’t have to be this weird dark game you’re making it out to be

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Sepean · 2019-07-14T19:00:44+00:00

As a beta, your options are shitty. If being beta was a given, I’d take the hooker or the 3rd option: MGTOW. I went too beta after we had children and there’s no fucking way I’d ever get treated like that again, being in a dead bedroom is horrible.

But why not alpha up? You don’t have to be a beta, all the info you need is in the sidebars on TRP and MRP. I read that stuff, did what it said, and it just took 6 months and my wife was loving, kinky and submissive.

[deleted] · 2019-07-14T22:42:06+00:00

GF experience.

Price tag is final

pnadlerlaw · 2019-07-15T01:41:16+00:00

Depends on the age.

When I was 16-22, I would definitely hands down maybe dabble or try out the GF experience, maybe once out of curiosity. Especially if the girl looked good, and if money was no issue.

Even at 16-22, however, personally, I’m not okay with “paying for” affection. I have no problem “paying.” But “paying for” is where the problem is. A big part of the pleasure and emotional reward is in feeling accepted and validated. When you “pay for” it, you don’t really get that. What’s the point of having sex with the top 99.999999th percentile of woman in terms of looks, if “the reason” you’re having sex or spending time together is simply because you’re “paying for” it?

Now, if my alternative to that was the “gf” you presented, and that was the best I could do, idk us my attitude would be different in those circumstances. I would probably work on changing my situation so I could do better than that. But assuming I couldn’t for whatever reason, then I would either maybe be content with it if I was in that situation (idk) or maybe just be alone and financially comfortable and stress free.

The older you get, however, and maybe it’s just me (but I think it’s common for guys my age and older), the sex is not the pleasure, the company is not the pleasure, the relationship is not the pleasure. You just get pleasure from spoiling a younger woman. If my wife got hit by a bus tomorrow, that’s what I would personally do, date younger girls and just spoil them. You can’t really do that with an escort. It’s not the same. You’re paying for something you don’t want, just so you can spoil them and be generous on top of that? Might as well just spend all that money on someone who will appreciate it more and not view it under the taint of it being transactional.

zayelion · 2019-07-14T15:11:56+00:00

Why not both?

[deleted] · 2019-07-14T11:46:41+00:00

I don't want to live in a female-driven fantasy which uses my time in exchange for her getting cash.

Title	Would you rather GF experience relationship or modern version of romantic relationship?
Author	shonenhikada
Upvotes	7
Comments	56
Date	July 14, 2019 8:33 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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