I just learned about Hypergamy

CimAntics · 2020-06-10T18:23:56+00:00

Our lifetime is limited and the more time we spend in the wrong relationships, the less time we have for the best ones. As much as they build experience, they can build baggage and regret.

The end of a relationship that was going nowhere provides opportunity to work on yourself and maximise the potential for the next one. Get smarter, stronger, smoother. Learn to be okay with being alone so you project comfort and confidence. Next time you date, don't pursue someone if you cannot see potential for that deeper connection you want.

Also, you are not a loser.

Losingsteamfast · 2020-06-10T19:42:09+00:00

Imagine you married this girl. You spend 20 years scrapping and clawing to move ahead and provide. You sacrifice friendships to spend time with and appease her. You sacrifice your wants and financial goals to buy her things and take her places. You turn down younger prettier women because that's what a good husband does. You quietly accept the fact that she put on 20 lbs and has become frigid and uninterested in the bedroom. Then one day while you're walking into work a stranger stops you and serves you divorce papers.

Then the judge hands your life savings over to her. She keeps your house and your car because "that's what's best for the kids." You end up living in a shitty apartment with craigslist roommates because >50% of your paycheck goes to her for the next 10 years. You become alienated from most friends and family because she tells everyone what a horrible father and husband you were. Your entire youth wasted. Your financial future destroyed.

This is the reality for many many men. So it stings today but it's much better to learn this lesson at 25 instead of 45.

omega_dawg93 · 2020-06-10T21:40:27+00:00

here's my advice when guys hit 'bottom' like this, and i'm not joking... down vote if you want to:

get you a girl to fuck: stop looking for 9's & 10's... they're a headache too. instead, find you a good solid 4 - 6 and get your cock wet regularly. a fwb (bbw's, butter faces, girls with daddy issues, or even a single mom, etc.) that can cook, gives you food & money, and isn't pressing you for a relationship is ideal.

dre_day901 · 2020-06-10T18:07:40+00:00

If you haven't, I highly recommend you listen to the Black Phillip Show by Patrice O'Neal in its entirety. I was you about ten years ago. That and the rational male helped me immensely

axiscontra · 2020-06-10T18:34:44+00:00

If you found about hypergamy, then you realize you have an advantage as long as you work on yourself. You won't win them all. Get rid of your Oneitis, plate other girls and checkout the /asktrp reddit.

You're going to hurt but, never look back to her for validation. You're better than that.

iCeeYouP · 2020-06-10T18:49:01+00:00

Damn man just found out about women that shit sucks

OGRiceness · 2020-06-10T18:34:35+00:00

If you feel like a loser. Then you are one. Dosen't matter how much I tell you you're not.

All I can do is give you advice to not feel like one:

-Workout (try doing at least 40 pushups, this will snap you back)

-Read, but more importantly apply.

You got alot stress going on in your mind. Release stress with exercise. And read to provide information.

Focus on developing a healthy mind and body.

Then after that you'll be fucking other women in no time. My mom's not for grabs though.

Edit: Men start at the bottom, women start at the top.

Be the cream that rises to the top, my brother

0ggles · 2020-06-10T20:38:02+00:00

This is what I recommend you do, go get a fitness training certificate, should cost around $500. Become a fitness coach in the meantime until you get your degree. Also go to the gym and get built AF. This will build up your rolodex of clients in the future.

autoeroticassfxation · 2020-06-10T20:46:37+00:00

Mate, this is an easy breakup. She did you a favour. Disloyal (all are), you definitely weren't in love with her. Relationships and breakups aren't about winning. Only use relationships when they serve you. Being single is loaded with advantages. Don't give it up so easy next time.

albino_red_head · 2020-06-10T20:34:02+00:00

This is a fantastic opportunity to turn yourself around. Follow the advise in this sub. Apply the principles. Gain muscle, intelligence, and live life the way YOU want by doing the things that are good for YOU. In due time you’ll see that girl again, probably after she hit the wall, and you’ll notice the look in her eyes when she sees you, that look of regret, that ah shit I fucked up moment. It’s not worth living for, but goddamn does that moment feel good.

Get to it my friend. Onward and upward from here.

And remember, you even thought you could do better, now is the time challenge yourself to go above and beyond what you thought you could do.

Edit: I’ll admit, I’m always the optimistic one with my buds when they go through a break up. The advice may not be timely, but once you’ve swallowed the red pill, you start to see these moments as a great time to shed stress and double down on yourself. Pumped for you, man.

hearse223 · 2020-06-10T18:26:03+00:00

You probably were exposed to hypergamy in primary school on the playground, you just didn't realize it at the time.

ZidaneLoire · 2020-06-10T20:23:09+00:00

Duuude i envy you.

This is the first day of the rest of your red pill journey. When i was there, i didn't get out of bed for a month and a half. Then i started going out with my dog. Then started going to gymn, consult a nutritionist, apply for a masters program, reading, meditating, learning how to cook, crafting my perfect meal plan.... One thing after another.

Then you start meeting more girls. You change. Your body moves in ways that seem to be beyond your control. Your voice and words flow and seem someone else's voice. It's strange. But then you own it. It's your fit body making girls look, it's your voice making them blush. It's you who makes them giggly and nervous when they call you.

You climb at work, you climb your personal goals, you climb your n count.

What a fucking journey it is. What i have to say to you is absolutely get fucking started right now and just savor each moment, cause it's just epic beyond proportions. Just work hard and be patient. It took me 3 years to swallow the pill properly and be where I'm proud of myself.

Welcome to being one of us. Don't waste it.

Spoiler alert, the best part isn't even when you're living the life you want. It's the permanent realization of who you were, how weak you felt, how you conquered it and what you became.

bone_shadows · 2020-06-11T21:17:10+00:00

bitches play the short game bro, while. men win the marathon. fast forward a few years from now you will. be with some other chick and youll. be like. ms. who? its not going to matter.

you should get out of your moms basement though. definitely should be using this time to save on rent and save for your future. Because another bitch is going to fuck you over around the corner: life.

GrouchyLog6 · 2020-06-10T18:50:07+00:00

Take it easy man We are in this together to grow

spclsnwflk6 · 2020-06-10T23:21:45+00:00

I grew up without a dad or much of a mom at all and I've been independent since I was 18. No fucking excuse. You are pathetic to be living at home if you're 25. She made a good move tbh.

cglehosit · 2020-06-10T20:34:36+00:00

Welcome, read the sidebar, read some good books, and start lifting weights. Use the power of ripping muscle and testosterone as your antidote. Can’t feel like a loser if you don’t look like one!

Papiito22 · 2020-06-10T20:35:21+00:00

Here's an idea m8.

Whilst pursuing your nutrition degree, focus on doing things daily that align with your purpose and make you better than the other % of people.

My suggestions are go to the gym; apply what you learn in your degree in a practical setting to upgrade yourself; show people how to do the same (via YouTube, social media, tutoring sessions, custom diet plans) then get paid for it.

guynpdx · 2020-06-10T21:45:43+00:00

Learn abundance mentality, bro. That will help you to not settle for a lesser woman. Travel. Taste exotic flavors. Welcome aboard.

319Skew · 2020-06-10T21:53:49+00:00

Least you're not married with kids to her and you're still young

Smjaza · 2020-06-10T23:10:57+00:00

Dude the best advise I can give to you is working out. Work out and become as silly as it may sound the best version of yourself - not for her (fuck her), for yourself. Make a commitment to yourself and always improve.

It is very important to get over your ex - Do NOT take the revenge path and try to show off your improvement - If she sees it and likes it it is NOT based on genuine desire. If your motivation is based on revenge to show her how much you've improved you will not actually process the break up. She doesn't exist anymore. She's dead.

Also remember everything on this world in only temporary and you will ALWAYS find something which replaces what you've just lost. (EVERYTHING IS REPLACEABLE)

Times get better, after some months you should be seeing some progress in the gym which makes you more confident.

One last thing, try to focus on books about masculinity rather than pick up. It is true that fucking with other women helps you get over your break up but If the problem lies within you which it obviously does you should focus more on yourself and your Mental Point of Origin.

All this knowledge is of course from our godfather Rollo and this subreddit. Gl

Edit: Also don't stress about you living with your mom etc. fuck all of this shit. Think about yourself! Don't complain you're feeling like a loser bc of that or that. What are you going to do about it?

If you want to date women but live with mommy - well okay you do have better chances of fucking your date if you have your own apartment but thats not the problem here. Your beliefs and mindset about those "limiting factors" are your problem. If you make a big deal about such things it will reflect into your behaviour and fuck everything up. It doesn't care how long your education lasts, if you have a car or not or if you're still with mommy. If you think like a man, those things won't stop you from getting laid.

Slaaaaming · 2020-06-10T23:24:10+00:00

Hope you'll do better soon

Luck-67 · 2020-06-10T23:30:59+00:00

At 25, now you are aware and awareness and acceptance is half the battle won. Move forward without going Rambo and trying to achieve quick results. You won’t get them (for the most part). Remember forever as you go forth, that it is the woman who needs to convince you to be her “boyfriend” not you convincing her. Oh...while living in Moms basement save and invest what you can, when you can. Take advantage (albeit temporary ) of the chance to build monetary assets before you lock into mortgages , business loans, etc.

look_up_there · 2020-06-11T00:03:35+00:00

Man, it's all good. It's just a lesson in life, the pain you feel will make you grow and compel you forward. Make sure you USE IT while you still feel it.

I was with a girl for 3 years. In the end I was blue pilled as fuck, crying and shit. So she left me for a guy at her work. 2 months later they were engaged, 5 months later they were married. I grew up more in the 6 months after that relationship than the rest of my adult life, and I'm fucken 30.

Keep lifting and moving forward, no matter how slow, the payoff will come. The day you fuck another girl that's way hotter than her, you will have an epiphany. remember to try and USE the sick feeling in your guts to progress your life.

DouglasPR · 2020-06-11T04:20:18+00:00

43 year old here: my young friend, dont wait up until you have your degree on something to start earning, dont procrastinate. This is your front line, yes, but you should outflank and blitzkrieg the fuck of all financial opportunities. Find and develop things you are good at, no matter how small, take any chance of earn a few bucks at a time. Learn things (learn editing, producing, monetizing, how to open a business...), buy and sell things (even a garage sale can be a start). Speak another language or learn code. Read. Teach something you know (and master what you teach). Have any amount of money? Invest. You will meet people, game women, make connections, learn about opportunities, job offers, partnerships. And gym, groom and improve. Go get them!

kira-L · 2020-06-17T02:42:25+00:00

Yo man, instead of feeling regret you should feel lucky that you found out early, thats like 3 years after your brain fully develops. So if you are new to this, go read history from the beginning, it really puts things in perspective. The more i read the mindfucked i get, about how the fuck those ancient greeks were so great; all my life I’ve known about them but you know when a new perspective gets in your library, you start seeing life from that, and its way different man.”the it clicks moment “ Another thing is keep your youtube full of David Goggins, Jordan Peterson, Jock Willinik, and academy of ideas. I am just telling you what keeps me moving and hustling hard in these times, because it wud be unrealistic to suddenly flip you life and cut all social media but if you control what is constantly being feed to you, you are gonna be okay, and if you wanna go deeper go and read about stoicism it might help you. And cheer up man you gonna feel the joy of accomplishing things, you’ll feel it filling any void. If you want my advice go head first to the hardest thing you thought you couldnt do in the blue pilled era, Good luck on your journey man.

Kraken_89 · 2020-06-10T19:30:40+00:00

It’s just part of life man. Count yourself lucky that you recognise this stuff for what it is, and use this pain as a growth opportunity.

Don’t wallow for too long, get back on the horse

StereoFood · 2020-06-10T20:57:43+00:00

I did not have a father growing up either and I had to learn everything on my own with the current girl I’m with. I wish I was single when I discovered this but I ended up staying in the relationship. Consider how far u have come without a father and realize this was bound to happen but now you’re aware. Consider yourself lucky as now u are single and can apply trp to new relationships or flings.

fuckingjoggers · 2020-06-10T21:11:48+00:00

I want results fast

this is your problem. this doesn't happen. don't beat yourself up. if you put in a certain amount of time each day, it adds up. and before you know it time will pass quick and a year from now you'll see a huge difference.

redditor78477847 · 2020-06-10T21:33:19+00:00

At least you are now focusing on becoming the best version of yourself. When you are there you'll look back and probably won't believe you were once in that situation.

jacksonbroome · 2020-06-10T22:03:44+00:00

It’s ok brother, when one door closes a better one opens

Sephoyy · 2020-06-10T22:51:55+00:00

The moment u talked about being fatherless, i knew youd be on the right track. When you admit and got to the root of the problem you'd be redpilled for sure. Godbless u man

Raizen-Atreides · 2020-06-10T23:02:36+00:00

Doesn’t matter if she’s an uggo. You committed to a low SMV woman, women don’t respect that, even if they are the uggo.

CharlieDowncast · 2020-06-10T23:17:44+00:00

You are far from a loser OP. This is a lesson learned and unless you have a shovel, you can go nowhere but up.

Take this time and this pain to grow. Cry if you need to. Take a day to embrace it, but be kind yo yourself. And then when its time, you'll be well on your way.

Chin up OP, this is good news. This is your chance to grow.

BaLahKie · 2020-06-10T23:20:48+00:00

It’s alright even guys with fathers don’t get taught these lessons. Hypergamy isn’t like something every father talks to their son about. Most guys have to learn it on their own through experiences like yours.

Just remember, when hypergamy happens and you’re feeling down about it you’re not feeling down because you lost some super special girl and you miss her; you’re feeling down because you took an ego hit. Once you realize that’s what’s going on you can solve that much easier by investing in yourself.

ChadMini · 2020-06-10T23:47:56+00:00

" What's odd is that the girl i was with wasn't the prettiest, at times I even asked myself why I was with her since I could definitely do better. "

You din't make her feel that. So therefore she could do better, so she did.

fightclubdevil · 2020-06-11T00:20:45+00:00

You're not doing much right now. That's fine because you're about to start a big degree. While doing your degree, spend your free time improving yourself. Work out, meet other students, spend your free money wisely. Instead of blowing your loans, maybe try investing some of it in stocks/other or spend it on a new hobby. Hobbies are a great way to meet chicks or other like minded people. If you're into dancing, sign up for ballroom dancing lessons. There is almost always a surplus of girls to guys in dance studios. Or try a more guy oriented sport like paintballing and make some bro friends.

You're not going to be as high SMV as some rich Chad who made it big your age but use this time as a stepping stone to make yourself the person you want to be. Also, prioritize school no matter what you do. You don't want to be that guy 3/4 years into their degree deciding that it's not for you. Either deicide early that it's not for you or finish it up and get that paper.

KillYourInnerLoser · 2020-06-11T00:24:12+00:00

" What fucks with my head is the fact that I'm still living in my mom's basement and have no financial independence yet. "

You've gotta solve this ASAP (I know you mentioned you're working on it). If you were living in your own apartment, had financial independence and had 10k subs on your Youtube account, would you really be all that bothered about hypergamy?

"The best revenge is a life well-lived."

Go out there and make it happen.

-Andy

Whisper · 2020-06-11T00:44:37+00:00

I want to thank everyone for the great responses. It actuly helped me relax about it a little bit. What fucks with my head is the fact that I'm still living in my mom's basement and have no financial independence yet.

https://imgur.com/B4yLlol

E-roticWarrior · 2020-06-11T01:36:50+00:00

Even if you did have a father it wouldn't because they don't know shit about this either.

RealMcGonzo · 2020-06-11T02:31:03+00:00

Still living in mom's basement at 25 yet scored a girlfriend. That's not too shabby, my friend.

epicgangforcemanga · 2020-06-11T03:39:13+00:00

bruh if u can do better go out there and find the girl who’s better. u learned a lesson here so don’t forget it and move on

EnlightenAllMankind · 2020-06-11T03:48:01+00:00

Hey buddy, I feel for you. We’ve all been there. Don’t worry about her man.

Old_Traveller · 2020-06-11T04:54:30+00:00

I've grown up with a single mom and it surely didn't help to not have a father figure to teach me these things.

That's not that big of a deal as you make it up to be. These days, you don't need a father because you can simply read about manly behaviour online.

What's odd is that the girl i was with wasn't the prettiest, at times I even asked myself why I was with her since I could definately do better.

It doesn't matter, you simply made all the mistakes most guys do and she stopped finding you attractive (for now). If you start displaying manly behaviour she might get re-attracted at one point. Then again, life's too short to spend it with someone who isn't pretty.

Still, I feel hurt. I've been replaced and it hurts the ego.

The guy you've been replaced with might seem to be higher on the totem pole, but keep in mind that most people are chumps who either don't develop themselves enough or stop doing it once they get comfortable (i.e. get a girlfriend and a steady job).

What fucks with my head is the fact that I'm still living in my mom's basement and have no financial independence yet.

Society (the same that preaches blue pill Disney mentality) says that it's one of the worst situations to be in, but actually, it most certainly isn't. You'd be way worse off if you had a mortgage, an ugly wife, and two kids with crooked teeth. You have no actual obligations besides working and studying, so you are pretty much free to do anything. Keep that in mind.

bjbdbz2 · 2020-06-11T04:58:34+00:00

Well now youve seen the light. Hell yeah yeah man im happy for you. Now youre gonna go on to do beast mode shit and tackle life like its your biootch, wake up to the savage that you are. Who cares about some little girl once you stand on top of the mountain of life looking down and realize you have the world at your feet. Jordan Peterson said that when babies learn to talk they say literally every folly imaginable before they learn. Ive often believed that this does not end in infancy. As least for me I swear Ive committed just about every folly imaginable. But my point is that now youre in a good position to learn from it. And thats a better position then most. Be grateful my dude, woosah. And good luck✌️

DirtyLickins · 2020-06-11T05:09:24+00:00

How can you think that you're better than her on one hand, while also thinking that she's got more social status than you on the other.

OilGasWorker · 2020-06-11T06:10:26+00:00

Good judgement comes from experience, and experience comes from Bad judgement.

Congratulations- you’ve learned something. And btw EVERYONE gets got at some point, it’s how you learn from the situation of “heart break”

jihocech · 2020-06-11T06:18:19+00:00

You are young, and you have the red pill wisdom. Use your time wisely, work on your career and hobbies and enjoy wour free time.

yippeekiyay88 · 2020-06-11T11:01:34+00:00

If you are not working out, start asap. If you need perspective on getting your life together around relationships read "Anti-Dumps Machine" and "The Book of Pook". If you need a father figure, listen to Jordan Peterson for starters. That's my input.

MattyAnon · 2020-06-15T12:10:21+00:00

I've been working on bettering myself and building financial independence but I feel lost. I feel like I don't know what I'm doing

This isn't asktrp, but this is a fundamental life mistake: you got dependent. If you're lost without a particular girl, you are living life wrong and will never be happy.

Right now I have no diploma, nothing. I feel like a fucking loser.

Lift more.

You don't need money or success to get girls, just to be on the right path.

555WeWolf · 2020-06-10T19:05:25+00:00

You my friend have been "zeroed out" at this point. If you are not too familiar with what this is go look up Rollos essays about this he wrote them really well.

Bad news is it sucks, like a lot. You need to rebuild yourself, depending on where you are currently in life it could be from the very ground up or you might have some head start.

Good news is a lot, and i mean a lot of successful men have been in that spot at one point in their lives, meaning that for most that is simply something that needs to happen in order for you to grow, it almost means that for some it is simply natural to happen so they can figure things out. Think about if you stayed in that relationship for a few more years, living in ignorance or like you said doubt why are you with her when you can do better, and then this hits you at 30, being zeroed out at 30 is a hell of a bitch in comparison to it happening at 25.

Last thing i would like to say to you is just keep your chin up and looking at the goal. If you feel lost good it means you are aware of how huge life actually is, you just need to look within yourself what is important to you and make it your goal.

Dls95405 · 2020-06-10T20:16:18+00:00

The red pill is a bitter pill to swallow, but you are better off learning young. Hypergamy is as evolutionarily ingrained in women as lust for women is ingrained in most men.

Cade76 · 2020-06-10T20:34:58+00:00

I read a study the other day about men and women's occupational prestige. As the women's occupational prestige increased, their propensity to divorce increased. As the men's occupational prestige increased, their propensity to divorce decreased.

UndifferentiatedHoe · 2020-06-10T20:30:45+00:00

25 is young. I didn't actually feel like an adult till I was 29ish 28 is the new 18. Be better than you were yesterday and consistent at chipping away at your goals made of marble.

Women will respect you more and chase you as you get older. Maybe you won't believe me until you see it. The script gets flipped when your 30+. As long as you have a good job and stay in shape. Get a six pack and 6 figures and women will chase. Lol Just make sure your in a good financial spot 10 years from now in regards to women. Brush them off until you are self sufficient, treat them as distractions.

ChadMini · 2020-06-10T21:03:40+00:00

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muff_marauder · 2020-06-10T20:28:05+00:00

Because the USA has moved so far away from a capitalistic economy and far into a socialistic economy, there are way less good jobs for us young men. That means the men who do have these high-paying, high-prestige jobs are more valued by women than they've ever been in this country.

That's why women go nuts when they see successful men in suits. There are probably 50 gorgeous American women for every one man who makes over $100K/yearly now, so that guy has his pick of the litter.

Broke asses like you and me can work the game in our favor a bit by lifting and dieting. Attractive male bodies cannot be purchased yet so that's our only advantage until we get paid. Sorry to hear about this and best of luck to you.

Liverpool_1994 · 2020-06-10T21:31:38+00:00

In a very similar situation as yourself especially being the same age, and going through my first breakup post lockdown. I wanted this to be the catalyst of change for me so i blocked her number, removed messages and gave myself sometime to grieve. Give yourself that time to get your bearings right, because almost most of the time if they have dumped you, they had this in the pipeline for a long while, and pulled the trigger when they we're ready.

Indulge in your hobbies, make time for yourself (journalling, meditation, goal setting etc) find new hobbies for example, i started training at a mma studio cause i realised i had no skill in defending myself, and it's been an amazing experience so far.

It doesn't matter if you made mistakes, because this is your first time, and you now have that experience under your belt. Get a piece of paper, write down what you've learnt from this experience, and how you can use this experience to improve your dating life and go from there.

Ngl, getting over this oneitis is still ongoing for me but I tackle everyday as it comes I'm learning aswell . Obviously removing all the reminders of her is a start, a exercise I found helped me was buying a cheap exercise book and writing any messages, thoughts,jokes that you would've wanted to say to her, and then when you're ready, burn it to a crisp. The writing helped me clear my mind of any thoughts I may have so I can focus on other things.

A phoenix rises from the ashes not from a field of daisies, that's what makes it more amazing. Goodluck and godspeed to you bro.

Whisper · 2020-06-11T00:42:08+00:00

https://www.trp.red/p/whisper/848

rinse_and_rise · 2020-06-11T16:57:00+00:00

Congrats on the progress you've made so far, just keep building healthy habits and cutting out the unhealthy ones.

It sounds like the nutrition degree is an excuse to procrastinate. I'm not saying don't get the degree, but don't wait 6 years to start a youtube channel/nutrition website or whatever your plan is. It's not going to be any easier after 6 years. You can find all the information you don't have on the internet, the degree will make you better but the best time to start is always right now.

ChadowyFigure · 2020-06-11T17:22:56+00:00

Yeah, taking the pill will fuck you up. You are lucky to have found it this young, though.

She didn't press for a relationship. I'm the one who got attached shiet.

This is your main problem. She knows that she isn't worthy of the treatment you give her, so she thinks you are a sucker bitch for doing it (she's right) and loses attraction.

Choke down that pill and you will realize that many many interactions with women are just their subtle (or not so subtle) attempts to take advantage of you or fuck with you - from the ho who wants a drink at the bar, to the granny who asks you to get her something off the high shelf at the grocery store - it is all a game for your attention.

Once you learn to see this it will be much easier not to get attached, as they are all pretty much just disingenuous grifters that are constantly trying to swindle you out of your time and money.

Treat them as such, and you will be rewarded.

themoodymods14124 · 2020-06-25T05:54:14+00:00

Best way to learn it is to live through it. You'll be thankful for this some day.

McLovinReturns · 2020-06-10T20:10:21+00:00

"I want things like any man, I just want them more" - Achilles. One bump in a road shouldn't end your journey. Get that natural aggression back into you and use that bubbling anger to be your initial drive. Something that helps me is imagine you are in an area filled with other people. Now you don't care for these people or their opinion and you do your own thing, but you will stand at the pinnacle of this group. You will die trying being the best warrior, scholar, or etc.. Before you admit defeat. Now let me ask you this question. Will you admit defeat and grovel at their feet or will you let your inner flame burn and consume everything around you with passion. Don't stop climbing to the pinnacle and have the mentality to take anyone on. A man with a strong Will cannot be broken, he will only grow from the battles he has experienced

Anonymous2k18 · 2020-06-11T01:50:37+00:00

Duuude you can literally learn so much on just YouTube it can be way better and more worthwhile than some of these so called “degrees” in college...

Graineon · 2020-06-10T20:07:01+00:00

It sucks, I know. Don't take your beat-yourself-up-thoughts too seriously, bud.

I've been there, there's so much deeper connection you can have. It's just life, it shifts and changes. New forms, new people, everything is changing. Just embrace newness. There's space now for something different to come into your life.

Title	I just learned about Hypergamy
Author	OGRiceness
Upvotes	473
Comments	134
Date	June 10, 2020 6:02 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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