Indian Girls

tl;dr AWALT but understand the cultural influences that affect a girl's behavior. The end result will be the same even if it starts off differently.

Body: When you think of Asian cultures, you usually think blue pill societies. Incorrect, China can be a very red pill. They value wealth above all and large publications often write about top businessmen appearing at posh clubs with their mistresses instead of their wives. Look to America as well, plenty of chinese people in gangs and what not.

However, Indian society is one of the most blue pill of all. Ask any FOB (Fresh off the boat) Indian adult what is considered attractive in a man and they'll tell you things like:

• Green card

• Job (being engineer/doctor)

• What his family is like/what his father does for a living.

If you ask for specifics about physical features, you might even get answers like a round face, pot belly, and occasionally height. They'll mention pot belly because being fat is a sign of being wealthy (hence ability to provide/BB). Or at least it used to be, maybe changed now.

The major difference is that girls are also raised with heavy religious/traditional values and are almost indoctrinated into accepting BP tendencies as attractive. Whereas in America, boys are raised to be BP and girls are given a pass to do whatever from birth. For Indian girls, this results in many behavioral tendencies, though at the end of the day their true nature will always override. The trick is to not to think you will get a different outcome when dealing with Indian girls simply because they don't behave like white girls. AWALT.

Before I get into the tendencies, let me tell you about a bit about Indian culture. Like most Eastern cultures, there is a heavy emphasis on family. Lots of family units have raised generation after generation in the same household even to this day. Everyone from cousins to aunts/uncles to grandparents and the siblings of grandparents and their offshoot families etc, etc, etc, are all considered "close" family members. Two separate families can have lots of members having daily interaction/close friendships. As a result, EVERYONE TALKS.

This, combined with the fact that dating/relationships can be considered taboo before you reach your 20's, leads to a society where everybody keeps tabs on everybody.

You stay out late, everyone knows.

You say you're going to a restaurant at a certain time to hangout/study and don't show up, word will get around.

You're a girl and are spending lots of time talking with a boy. You're friends and cousins from school will come to know and will tell your parents/aunts/uncles/grandparents as well as his family.

Unanswered questions will lead to accusations. Uncontested accusations will lead to being disowned/ostracized. In smaller towns, killings often happen after teenage romances, usually caused by the girl's brother/his friends.

This teenage social situation is definitely changing in the larger cities. These areas are heavily westernized as the last time I went there, there were Twilight movie billboards damn near every street corner. I'm sure lots of scenes were censored in the international version but you get the idea. Also, lots of girls are entering the IT industry so they can move to big cities outside of their social circles and earn their own pay and engage in their own relations uninterrupted.

In the states, if the Indian parents are smart, the parents will likely micromanage the girl's lives and will even keep them at home all through college as well. This is not as common but still happens frequently.

This dynamic social situation with a clash of values has resulted in the following tendencies among Indian girls. Not all of them exhibit all of these tendencies but the following are the most common among them:

1. Always acting confused.

Indian girls act extremely confused when a beta approaches them because they are constantly told to find those blue pill qualities attractive in a man but find their inner nature yelling at them to look elsewhere. Some are smart and know how to keep orbiters without arousing suspicion in their social circles.

1. They hate their fathers.

Despite providing everything for them, they will have huge daddy issues. They see their friends having fun and going to parties they can't go to even if they promise their fathers that they won't even talk to boys. They see their fathers yell at their mothers and make them do housework despite her being college educated. (Since the Indian fathers are beta, this attempt at a show of power is seen as unattractive.) They watch their mother do housework instead of unfulfilled dreams of the social and professional nature. Sometimes they hate their mothers more as they can be even more controlling and judgmental than their father.

1. They hate Indian men. (At least for the ones growing up outside of India).

Since they see their father and his BP tendencies in lots of the Indian males they come across. At the same time, when they spend a lot of time with an Indian guy, there is an expectation that they will get married someday which results in a lot of social pressure. Also, to any Indian guys reading this, LEARN TO KEEP YOUR FUCKING MOUTHS SHUT. You can have it all but if you mouth off about you slept with/kissed/held hands with so and so which can fuck up her entire reputation and make her life hell when dealing with family/friends, she's not gonna want to sleep with you. The white guys she's dating already know the game and are already outside her social circles so she goes for them. Simple risk analysis, you idiots.

How did I come to realize these things?

I've got plenty of stories of seeing Indian girls date white guys in school and on facebook. Also, lots of stories of me going after said Indian girls myself and always ending up disappointed. One of my longest plates who's also an Indian girl has also told me lots of stories about how she hates her dad.

One story that stood out in my memory was when an Indian girl's parents invited me and my family over for lunch. Her and I found ourselves alone in a guest room. I spilled my heart to her in the most disgustingly beta way possible (this was years ago). For some reason, she liked it and lots of touching ensued. While I was leaving her house, she leaned back against the garage door and smiled at me as I pulled out of her parents' driveway. Next day I get a long list of texts about how uncomfortable she was and how she never wants to think of it again. Obviously she was disgusted by my beta tendencies. Beta me apologized profusely and vowed to never bother her again.

What does this mean for non-Indians? Easy, spicy poon.

For Alpha Indians? Pressure, pressure, pressure. If you don't make it clear you want a FWB, she will swoon for you at every step since you are everything she and her parents want. If you break her heart/pump and dump, you will be black listed among nearly every Indian community you show your face at.

For Beta Indians? They're not even on this sub.

Lessons learned: AWALT so don't get married. Especially not to an Indian girl because then everyone in her family will then get a free pass to shit on you. Not literally of course.