My Ex Created an OnlyFans - Confirmed everything I’ve learned on here and in life

ThenIJizzedInMyPants · 2023-06-05T21:54:24+00:00

I'd still like to know who tf is paying so much for bullshit on OF

PiperBigBell · 2023-06-05T21:18:10+00:00

Man . . . It's lookin like I'm gonna need to make a post about healing from trauma as this is what half the guys here really need. Fine, I'll do it.

videogames_ · 2023-06-05T21:21:28+00:00

Being crushed by a dream girl brought me here many years ago too. A lot of guys will say move on and don’t give any thoughts to her. I used that for motivation everyday. 100s of rejections don’t matter to me anymore because I’ve made it to some successes through redpill and self improvement.

I’ve experienced almost every concept of red pill in my dating life so that’s why I believe it is mostly true.

Say less than necessary, make her qualify, keep the sexual tension high, next a woman who ghosts you or is wishy washy about you, get her addicted to you by fucking her well, and other concepts.

filli1aj · 2023-06-05T21:39:46+00:00

I had oenitis real bad back in the day so I won’t grill you like the other guys here did. If it means anything, sometimes she pops up in my Instagram feed and I don’t know what I saw in her. Maybe it was the oxytocin or dopamine, but whatever it was I don’t feel it anymore.

The passage of time fixes most things.

Definitely compete in bodybuilding though. I’ve done 4 shows and I’m training for my 5th. It’s addicting in its own way

Existing_Remote116 · 2023-06-05T21:02:24+00:00

On New Year’s Eve my ex dumped me. Two weeks later I found out she cheated with some 50 yo who runs a strip club and started stripping for him.

It’s now June and I’m still recovering from the fallout and bullshit. I’ve been TRP aware for some time, but this experience has brought more to light and taught me more than any post ever did or could. Theory into practice and I was leveled by my inability to internalize the teachings on this sub - that 1% plagued me too, and consumed me during the course of this relationship.

Huge learning lesson. As a brown boy Its been hell to reconcile and make sense of my challenged beliefs and drastically modified paradigms of thought. Definitely find myself in black pill thoughts and thoughts of revenge. Struggling through this with no end in sight, the only silver lining being that I’ve grown and I know more than I did prior to this.

I guess my two cents would be to use this newfound understanding to refine your approach to women and life and to properly vet the living proof out of any potential LTR.

kvakerok · 2023-06-05T21:07:14+00:00

Shed her like a dry turd. I honestly don't understand the significance of her having OF. What did you expect from a hoe? PhD in rocket science? Also, she's your ex, you don't have kids with her, so why the fuck do you care what she's doing?

bigbrainman · 2023-06-05T20:52:34+00:00

Absurd post. You are blatantly still obsessed with a girl who dumped your ass five years ago. Keep moving forward.

Easy_Slip5310 · 2023-06-06T00:04:29+00:00

Dude, why are you even talking about her... And wasted your time writing a post about her... she is not special... she is for the streets... forgive her for yourself so you can let go and never think about her again.

yaboyebeatz · 2023-06-06T01:16:54+00:00

Another “get my ex back” sob story. Congrats on all the gains brother! Keep going.

If you are in this community, once you take the trash to the curb, let the trash man pick it up.

GayLubeOil · 2023-06-05T21:41:27+00:00

That's disgusting. Naked Pictures? Online? Where did she post them? Put down the site so we can better understand the situation

itsFRAAAAAAAAANK · 2023-06-05T22:08:41+00:00

I needed to read this and the comments today. I've been dwelling way too much about a girl that's had me falling back into old ways. Ive spent the last 9 months sober, lifting, making money, and making myself fucking happy and had a couple plates in the mean time but it was something about this girl that teased my bitch ass onitis simpy comfortable side that's still hiding deep down inside doing pushups.

RavenRakeRook · 2023-06-06T15:30:15+00:00

A Blue Pill fantasy.

Blue pills taste really really good. I'll confess that I like rom-coms, cheesy reality tv like "Married At First Site", and attending weddings. But a pig with lipstick is still a pig, and a viper will always be a viper. Never forget the parable of the frog and the scorpion.

Nighthawk_Black_ · 2023-06-05T20:47:55+00:00

It sounds like you care way too much about your ex.

BobbyPeru · 2023-06-06T05:33:29+00:00

The fact that it took you finding an OF page of hers to start moving on, tells me you have a long way to go, and you’re likely to repeat ONEitis in the near future if you don’t fix it

NPC1990 · 2023-06-06T14:02:25+00:00

I think for me I had got it in my head that I wasn’t good enough but in reality it was the opposite. She’s with 37 year old that lives with mommy and daddy still. She’s a loser that fucks losers

Kevlar__Soul · 2023-06-07T15:03:04+00:00

People often forget the covert contact of following the red pill teaching and all my problems will be solved and live a problem free life. If I do XYZ I’ll get my girl back, or my women will finally want to fuck me, or I will increase my body count.

Took me years to realize I needed to be growing and taking control of my life for me. Not to get validation from women or anyone else for that matter. That red pill is simply about getting a better understanding of the game we all play and playing the hand your dealt.

Although I think this a covert contract everyone needs to start the process. Eliminating this contract is the last step before you truly swallow the red pill.

DangerBoy9801 · 2023-06-05T21:13:18+00:00

Hope you get better and forget about her

koekert · 2023-06-10T04:31:25+00:00

Late to the party, but I think it's time to let go of the anger. Caring deeply about what she did is a great motivator (pre workout) but is also costing you energy. I think your feelings have been hurt because of expectations, this idealization of past hope is still residual blue pill, as we can be hurt more if our hopes and dreams are being crushed of being loved by a woman. Do some inner work and try to see if you can shift to a more sustainable motivation fuel instead of resentment, that is true acceptance of TRP. Just my 2 cents.

ProFriendZoner · 2023-06-05T22:16:25+00:00

She dumped you six years (at least) and you are still keeping tabs on her? How do you know she has an OF? Why do you care she has an OF?

chodmode2 · 2023-06-05T22:33:30+00:00

and I’m about to pursue becoming a competitive bodybuilder

Don't. Do it for fun, but competition will screw your physical and mental health in the long term and there's almost no money in it. 99% of dudes out there don't have the genetics to win competitive bodybuilding either (and all the PEDs in the world won't fix bad genetics). You're better of maintaining low bf, keep lifting and spend your time and energy on something more productive.

onrappel · 2023-06-05T21:34:11+00:00

You should read the sidebar and put down that copy of American Psycho.

Jokes aside, AWALT. Stay on path. That’s the only lesson here.

djdmaze · 2023-06-06T23:26:50+00:00

My ex-wife was a slut too. Complete sweetheart in front of my face, total backstabbing slut bitch behind my back.

Th3_Aw0ken · 2023-06-17T08:59:25+00:00

This. I was already aware of The Red Pill since 2015 as I felt something wasn't right the way things were prior discovering TRP, but my ex was the ultimate super pre-workout who confirmed EVERYTHING and made the ideal me. That fantastic dose of reality slapping me in the face is very much indeed euphoric. I'm addicted to it.

Nowadays, I'm on some kind of demon timing. My n-count increased exponentially. I'm glad when a plate eventually breaks as that gives me more motivation to game another to add to the rotation. Bitches are very abundant. I became the ideal no-fucks-giving toxic guy yo bitch seek to fuck on you with tbh 🤷‍♂️

Edit: spelling. Typing on mobile is awkward while getting gawk gawk.

The_Dayne · 2023-06-05T22:28:16+00:00

If you feel like you won after 5 years on some petty shit with a girl, I'd advise consulting therapy for trauma and harboring resentment.

Like I'm happy you are feeling better? But you may have just developed coping strategies. Like you finding this onlyfans to justify yourself feeling better, this behavior is the definition of coping.

You're not less of a man for working on your mental health, you'll be more of a man for doing so.

dankovz · 2023-06-06T05:47:34+00:00

Been there, still working hard for myself, not for her, I am happy for you.

ErrprMachjne1 · 2023-06-14T17:21:46+00:00

Time is what seperates the weak from the strong and the great from the mediocre my friend. That's what you should learn.

I'm 34, in my 20's and late teens I did crazy shit and the women had all the sexual power and leverage which the abused.

Now they are all desperate single mothers, alcoholics or drug addicts, some are even dead from OD. I'm pretty sure one is a sexual predator.

This shit is just game theory. Every decision you make today gets you one step forward.

That's how it is for men. And women will come when they think that they are entitled to get a piece of the pie you've baked.

So make sure you see them sweat and see what they are made out of. Most are made out of cotton candy.

AnonJetlag · 2023-06-18T02:39:22+00:00

You don't know how good it was to see my fat ex 8 years after she cheated on me. Or I guess now you do. It feels good.

onlyidiotsgoonreddit · 2023-06-05T22:59:46+00:00

Brutal. Great job improving yourself. I'd consider sending a link to her page to her family members and professional associates, if she has a job. Or have someone else do it, so it doesn't bring you down, to think about it. Not as a type of revenge, or anything. As a way to face your demons with courage and honesty. Maybe even because you care about her as a human, even though she was a shitty person. I'd want to know, if I had a relative that was living that way.

Raging_Dragon_9999 · 2023-06-06T03:29:46+00:00

Dude get a therapist, write in a journal.

-Fidelio- · 2023-06-06T05:48:47+00:00

congrats on becoming a christia.. I mean redpiller

wtf_is_taken · 2023-06-06T15:50:23+00:00

You only have control over yourself. Desire leads to suffering.

Pretend-Sale8985 · 2023-06-10T17:59:37+00:00

In my opinion, not all betas are necessarily simps. Some of them get off on the idea of their partner wanting to cheat on them or their partner doing very kinky dominant stuff to them in bed, it's simply a matter of sexual preferences. It's not simping if you enjoy it.

I personally believe that men shouldn't sacrifice their own needs or values to satisfy a woman, because most of the time, they will not get what they want by doing that. And yes, it is true that being alpha will make the woman submit to you, while being beta will make the woman dominate you, but some guys like that, and that's fine in my opinion.

Personally, I prefer women who are very sexually experienced, who don't just lay there in bed expecting me to do all the work. And I prefer women who like to take charge sometimes so they can relieve me of the responsability of leader, but at the same time, I'm not looking to be a tyrannical woman's doormat.
And yes, the red pill is right about the fact that to be alpha, you have to self actualize, you have to work on yourself (career, physique, friends, dating and so on).

But some men don't want to do those things and that's fine in my opinion. Since you're a self actualized alpha though, it makes sense that you would not be happy with a slutty woman, because what you are looking for is a traditional woman who will submit to you.
There are actually plenty of women who are like that, you just have to find them. Usually you won't find them in bars and clubs because they don't like to party. But you can find those women through social circles, or even better, in churches, which works if you're religious or at least open to be.
Meanwhile, slutty women tend to love to party, so you'll find them in bars, in clubs, in music festivals, in raves, and even on dating apps.

Title	My Ex Created an OnlyFans - Confirmed everything I’ve learned on here and in life
Author	ParisOG626
Upvotes	201
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Date	June 5, 2023 8:23 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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