Thanks mom

socialskillsadvice · 2016-11-24T08:04:29+00:00

the fact that an asian mother would have the selflessness and perspective to instill this kind of behavior into her son is beyond amazing. Don't ever take that woman for granted because what you have there in terms of asian upbringing and, upbringing in general, is a statistical anomaly. And don't be too hard on yourself for your childhood, because it really does take a village to raise a child. Your parents are your main contributors but there's so much influence that they can't control once you're outside your home.

900e52271f01adfb82e7 · 2016-11-24T06:20:14+00:00

I always wondered why most mothers would transmit BP education to their sons. It seems that protecting the feminine imperative is more important than helping their sons succeed in life. This is surprising since mothers usually will make their kid success their priority. Looks like yet another feminine duality.

Is there literature on the subject?

AncientScrolls · 2016-11-24T08:31:38+00:00

Looks like you are kinda lucky to have a mom that tries her best to teach you how to become an alpha male. Most kids raised by single mom's(like me) had to learn everything on their own and not let our mothers turn me into a total feminized beta bux when i was a kid.

From what I've heard China is a really rough place to get chicks. The male population is way bigger and if you want to get laid there you have to be one of the best males possible. Your mom probably knows about this and is trying to bring her eastern knowledge to guarantee that you will be sucessful in the US.

Raikkonen716 · 2016-11-24T11:45:04+00:00

''Don't give me that shit when you don't accept who you can become''

Man, your mom is a H E R O.

I remember that my parents never wanted me to play sport ("cause you may hurt yourself"), and my granpa used to tell that it was a nonsense that a boy wouldn't do sport. Grandpa, you were so right.

ReddittFeist · 2016-11-24T08:37:37+00:00

A real Tiger Mom.

Good on her, my man. Gotta love those Asian Tiger Moms.

kinpsychosis · 2016-11-24T11:32:45+00:00

There is a philosophy called stoicism.

It basically states that by relying on noble ideologies you are setting yourself up for disappointment. Once you follow these ideologies as rules and it fails on you, the failed expectation turns into frustration and anger.

But if you accept how the world truly is and your expectations are true, and you play by the rules, you can never be disappointed when things play out the way you know they would.

SirGaetanDugas · 2016-11-24T13:45:42+00:00

Good essay on a true Tiger Red Pill woman.

Make no mistake boys, this isnt the norm and it isnt common to see.

I regularly need to keep my boys on track with proper role models, sports, and school because if I left it to their mother:

Travel soccer is too hard. He can play at recess.

There is a wonderful alternative school with drama wove into the curriculum so middle schoolers can find their voice

Sit still or Ill call a doctor for a scrip of amphetamines!!

Dont allow your kids to fall vicitm to allowing "the village" to raise them.

Step up, be a dominant man and make sure they are on the rails that you, the evil patriarch, laid down.

Mark my words, within a decade, this rant of mine would allow the courts to take my kids and possibly jail me for thought crime

Eastuss · 2016-11-24T10:32:37+00:00

I wish my parents would tell me those things.

My parents got divorced early, got raised by my toxic mother and sister, went into adulthood as a magnificent looser.

I wasn't really wanting to do effort in any way, but my mother was never pushing me while she should have.

I still made my way through women, but went into an LTR despite knowing perfectly that I was deeply polygamous and would instantly feel bored by one woman. Why? Because I thought I was an abnormal monster that should hide himself and act like nothing, because I thought the woman's way was the only way in life. Thanks to media, to my mother and to my sister...

I needed a fucking father to tell me that yes that's normal to want to fuck everything that moves, you're not a monster. Sadly father would tell me that every men are like that but they have to put their pulsions aside for LTRs.

I'm 30 and that's a bit too late, but at least I have shitload of valuable life lessons to tell to my son.

dankvibez · 2016-11-24T10:54:52+00:00

Wow. This is truly an exception though. Most mom's would probably just think "oh just be nice to them and you will win them over". When we have learned this is not true.

Hviterev · 2016-11-24T14:11:27+00:00

Your mom is really really cool! It gave me a nice smile to read it.

blackoutlily · 2016-11-24T14:54:54+00:00

No, we do like nice guys. We don't like pussies. There's a huge difference. If I wanted a pussy, I'd be a lesbian. Don't be an asshole to women because that will backfire. Do stand up for yourself and have a pair of balls. You don't have to have the perfect body to be a desirable man. You just have to be a man.

[deleted] · 2016-11-24T15:51:30+00:00

Culture means a lot. If you are the child of immigrants or raised in the South or Midwest, you are more likely to have a mother who raises you to be a man and not a mangina.

fruit7 · 2016-11-24T14:23:11+00:00

So, I told my mom I was studying how to attract women the past couple of years and doing hand games with them and such to attract them, using certain sorts of body language, and I asked her if she thought I was manipulating them. She replied "No, not at all. If you have to use certain methods just to get her on a date with you so she can see who you are as a person and if she likes you, that's fine. You should go after what you want and not care what anyone thinks anyways. But yeah, if you're not an asshole or some kind of rapist, do the things you need to do , to get a girl out on a date with you"

melxer · 2016-11-24T12:34:21+00:00

This woman, your mother, was cunning enough to analyse how her own attraction works, she understood that she was completly disgusted by servile males that would do everything for her and actually took action by adjusting your education accordingly. All of this coming from some chinese shithole, this shows that humans can be really ressourceful sometimes. She didn't pressure you enough for you to understand her wisdom before 20 but at least it finally hit you now. Given that you don't choke like a dog you should enjoy the rest of your existence.

BlackPhoenix01 · 2016-11-24T14:03:28+00:00

Damn,

My mom was a hardass, but at the very least, your mother had the good sense to teach you self respect and to stand up for yourself. I had no such parenting. Every time I had an ounceling of pride in myself, it would get shot down.

CallMeHaseo · 2016-11-24T16:08:52+00:00

See this is why I say what I say #Asianwomen2020

[deleted] · 2016-11-24T16:22:50+00:00

As much disappointment as I have in modern female culture, I can safely say that my own mother was the best influence that I could have ever been exposed to developmentally. She knew the "game" of human nature and had a very strong instinctive drive to push me towards success- something she learned from her own father. I learned about Patriarchy in our bloodline from a living memory- sort of a conduit for behavioral imprintation that must have "clicked" with epigenetic markers in my brain.

tio1w · 2016-11-24T16:23:19+00:00

I don't pretend I know what women want, but I know what I want and the boundaries I set are ironclad.

This alone redeemed your post.

circlhat · 2016-11-24T13:21:50+00:00

One day, when she saw I bought condoms, she said, son you will never get laid if you stay like this.

Stay like what? , I read your post but can't seem to find the specific issue? was she addressing you taking shit from girls?

TRPtruth · 2016-11-24T15:24:31+00:00

I think we need to equivocate a bit here. Unhealthy wall smasher mothers will project and hold back their sons. Healthy mothers will tell their sons not to take shit from anyone, especially women out to satisfy their own greedy bullshit and emotional needs. Healthy mothers want their sons to be the alpha.

It's up to the son to decide which way to go. Will you tell the girl to fuck off when mom rings your bell, or will you force mom to step in and rip it up for you?

fcb98292 · 2016-11-24T16:27:44+00:00

No mention of a father in your post. Sad.

HumanSockPuppet · 2016-11-24T18:18:44+00:00

I think men and women are equal, but not similar.

You need to qualify this statement. What do you mean by "equal"?

Buchloe · 2016-11-24T18:44:50+00:00

Exact opposite here. My single mom coddled the fuck out of us, but gave us zero education on money, responsibilities, successful relationships, etc. Not her intention, but she set us both up to fail. My sister lives off the state and the benevolence of stupid men and has no concept how to sustain herself, just like mom taught her through example. Fortunately I paid more attenton to the habits of my weekend dad, and got it somewhat together once I hit my thirties, experienced homelessness basically, and had to learn the hard way how to treat money. All the love and affection in the world can't prepare you for the reality of life. My dad took every chance he could to give me tools and skills. I wish he'd had more of a say.

idgaf- · 2016-11-24T19:07:32+00:00

Grats bro my Chinese parents were real hands off regarding social development. I pretty much grew into a nice guy nerd until after college, then I started figuring shit out myself.

1i1ak · 2016-11-24T21:13:02+00:00

I also have a great mother.

It is the greatest advantage any man can have, If I could chose between being born a Billionaire with a shitty and egocentric mom or poor but with a great virtuous mother, I would choose a great mother every time...

Heinseverloh · 2016-11-25T01:30:47+00:00

You have an awesome mother, you're lucky.

Questionnaire7 · 2016-11-25T02:29:35+00:00

I remember her reply was ''Don't give me that shit when you don't accept who you can become''. One thing she always told me was to never take shit from anybody. That worked out fine with guys, but oh boy towards the end of highschool, I was pathetic with girls.

So how are you supposed to deal with a girls shit? Call her out on it or hold frame and act like the test couldn't phase you?

logicalthinker1 · 2016-11-25T04:15:48+00:00

Men and women aren't equal. They should have equal rights but we're not equal.

Luckyluke23 · 2016-11-25T06:16:59+00:00

wow... man that's soo cool. all my mother did was berate me for 23 years of my life. thank fuck she moved away a few years ago.

wailei · 2016-11-26T12:16:44+00:00

I greatly appreciate your mother. She is amazing and wonderful. She beats the shot out of you and has prepared you for the world. Now beware and don't slide back. You never talk of your father. Any thoughts ? I assume he was a Alpha who valued principles and taught it to your mother.

Some say " behind every successful man there is a woman." And I strongly believe the woman they are talking of is such mothers and not your wife.

newName543456 · 2016-11-27T12:02:32+00:00

Count your blessings. Many weren't as lucky to hear that as early on.

LewdRudeJude · 2016-11-30T17:11:46+00:00

People are fucking shallow. If you show weakness to the wrong person, you get screwed over.

Biggest problem I see with all this Red Pill Theory is that it is strategy to deal with this single statement, with one addition - people are generally shallow AND immature.

Do you think our culture will grow up and learn? Do you want it to? Yes I get that TRP is great for getting people laid, and giving them control, but it only works when the paradigm is that people are shallow and immature.

I think if more individuals were concerned with actually raising the status quo instead of just navigating it, we would be working towards a better future instead of just spinning the hamster wheel better and better.

uniquevoid · 2016-11-24T08:38:36+00:00

I love these kind of posts, I made one about my mother recently

many of my neighbours are chinese and oh man. you have to see that grandma discipline the kids

mrp_1844 · 2016-11-24T12:34:52+00:00

I think men and women are equal, but not similar.

Men and women are not equal.

Men are the prize. Never forget that.

INTHEMIDSTOFLIONS · 2016-11-24T14:19:27+00:00

You're lucky to have a mom who cares for you and loves you.

You should show her this post.

lozboss · 2016-11-24T11:02:48+00:00

Your Mum did it right- you needed a kick up the ass.

But this post is just a humble brag in disguise. Getting a bit sick of seeing these on TRP.

AmbitiousSimon · 2016-11-24T10:42:31+00:00

"She said it straight: girls don't like nice guys. Maybe you will be lucky enough that some girl will fuck you once because of your abs. "

Wot?

SexistFlyingPig · 2016-11-24T13:48:48+00:00

Still some solid blue pill thinking there. Congrats on getting jacked physically.

Women already know the truth that you deny: women and men are not equal. Women want a man who will lead them and dominate them. It's not complicated at all.

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Date	November 24, 2016 4:49 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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