Why do women NEED so much attention?

sejlee09 · 2021-11-06T12:05:47+00:00

Simple. Male attention gives them emotions.

A guy whos out of her league? She wants him to chase anyway cause she feels powerful.

A beta orbiter who gives her undivided attention? She feels secure and confident that theres at least someome there.

A Chad giving her attention? Her ovaries.

More guys paying her attention than her friend? She feels good because shes envied by other girls.

And so on.

You get the point.

In the end its all about emotions.

inwoman · 2021-11-06T14:13:08+00:00

Give a woman less attention than she wants, and she will desire it. Give her as much of itt as she wants, and she will not. Women quickly devalue the attention of a man who would attend to her every whim, so be frugal; it is easy for a man to be generous but near impossible for him to be too frugal

Pupusero36EE · 2021-11-06T21:15:58+00:00

Social media has been properly engineered to be addictive as f*ck, everyone gets small doses of dopamine when they see a notification that is related to recieving likes/getting chatted. I don't directly blame FB or Instagram, they want to make money so they have to keep you sucked in for as much as they can (to pump out ads)

The thing is, that in the past, a 10/10 woman could at most receive the attention of 10ish guys and in the end she would have to choose the best one to date. And in fact, that attention was smaller when compared to today's doses, she would only receive it when approached or by going outside.

Today, a 5/10 girl only needs to show her boobs/ass in a pic, and you can bet your wallet that she will get at least 15 guys in her DMs, no to mention the hundreds of likes her pic would get.

This is mainly due to the fact that simps have increased over the years, a 7/10 girl will have as much(if not more) likes than a 9/10 guy, talk about over qualifying yourself.

This is why I started evaluating if girls have signs of being too much into social media, trust me on this one, a girl that constantly swarms her profile with pics and spends too much time on social media will have turbo-distorted ideas and expectations regarding herself.

An ironical and sad idea if you ask me, because all those guys DMing her are NOT chasing her exclusively, and most of them may only be interested in sexing her and not on settling with her thus implying that she is mostly looked as a sexual object and not relationship material.

Social media has also backfired for females, it has enabled chads to date and sex multiple girls at the same time, so they never settle with the 9/10 girl that could have made him settle in the past, the other girls that get sexed by him get their expectations distorted so they end with 25 cats.

asdf333aza · 2021-11-06T22:20:19+00:00

Attention is to women what sex is to men.

traldi_ · 2021-11-06T12:32:56+00:00

My opinion: cause they get it a lot since they are born. Imagine you been feed every day with sugar and fat, and then suddenly you stop having it. Your body will crave for it. Its a lot males fault here, giving then so much attention since ever.

DoubleConversation4 · 2021-11-06T13:27:50+00:00

Women need attention because they cannot survive without a male partner in nature. Without a man, they do not have access to safety and food, which is also why they're obsessed with being beautiful, because being beautiful means getting more attention and a low amount of attention means death for them. They don't really know why they care about it other than it makes them feel bad, but the point is they do.

Men desire to be in a relationship, but women feel the need to be in a relationship. Nature mother compensates for it on our part for by making us much more horny than women though.

The reason to why they want so much attention now is because of modern society. Conditions of modern society give us the ability to compile much more resources than we could in nature, and get access to these resources at a much cheaper price. This is why wisdom of the old people are not worth a damn anymore, because someone who survived for 80 years had to be wise in the old times, or otherwise he would have died. Now people don't even have to be mature anymore, most people are like children, because government is always there to take care of their needs throughout their lives and they were always comfortable with it. You'd be barely able to see an obese person 200 years ago on the streets, now half the population can't even see their dicks when they look down at the ground.

Social media is to women what modern society is to incompetent people. It is overstimulating and way more rewarding than it should be. Our bodies are not created for this.The reward system of the brain is designed to ask for more and much more as you give it what it wants because it acts as a separate part from your own body and thinks your body can handle the absurd amounts of dopamine it is releasing. As a result, you get people whose attention spans are much worse than that of a rabid skunk. They can't even focus on anything for longer than 5 minutes, they can't get through 20 minutes without listening to catchy music.

Of course, these are all executed through emotions, as a man your ability to control your impulses and break out of instincts is potentially much higher than a female. But as a down side, as it can be higher than a female's, it can also be lower and put you in worse situations than you'd imagine. Impulse control of females are low, but they also have other impulses to keep this in check. They're narcissistic, so they play games, they hide their feelings, but as a man, when you feel something intensely, you just express it without thinking. Women are inherently narcissistic, and you aren't.

Having high testosterone, high IQ, meditation, praying, yoga, lifting, hunting, doing sports, spending good time with family, are all activities that would give you more control when it comes to your feelings. Meditation and praying are a more conscious form of sleep, it empties your mind, so they also can help towards fixing your overstimulated modern mind. Testosterone is important.

kraken9911 · 2021-11-06T23:30:01+00:00

I watch a lot of those youtube compilation videos of people doing extraordinary things. Usually with the "like a boss" music etc.

I tried to instigate some conversation on there about this but obviously the non-red pilled public isn't ready to think about it.

In every video you have a man doing some superhuman shit. Flying through the air inverted spinning multiple times while solving quantum equations blindfolded. Then you get the random women who are literally doing anything but as long as the booty is nice it makes the cut. It really cheapens the achievements of everyone else in the videos that she makes the cut for existing while they dedicate their lives to one specific thing.

There are women of course on there doing amazing shit too but more often then not they are not doing amazing shit.

The video makers come off as thirsty but I know it comes down to money since the thumbnail of that ONE girl generates views.

thealphateam · 2021-11-06T15:31:25+00:00

I just got back from visiting L.A. with a friend who had never been. I took them to see the popular tourist spots. There were chumps EVERYWHERE taking pictures of some tart posing in some ridiculous way in front of the popular scene/item. At first it was funny “It’s all about the Gram” then after the 100th time I said it, it lost its charm.

-Odio- · 2021-11-06T13:07:48+00:00

It's evolutionary. It's biology. In my opinion, you just need to see things as they have evolved to. Just consider reproduction of the species as the main objective, from this premise you get all your answers on sex, attraction, roles...

JamesSkepp · 2021-11-06T14:19:11+00:00

You are a female. You know, at least on the unconscious level ("i dont know why i did that, but i felt like i wanted to to that"), that your primary value is sexual. Meaning your value is measured in how much men want to have sex with you. Men (and women too, just bit differently) show that they want to have sex with you by paying attention to you. The more attention you have the more value you have, at least this is how you perceive it.

The next step is quantity, namely how much of the attention you get. Say, for last month you get "5 attentions" each day you are out of the house. If this persists, the "5 attentions" becomes your baseline which shows you how much you are wanted and that makes you feel certain way about yourself (female version of "self esteem mixed with confidence").

Mixed with this is the quality of attention you get. That quality is measured by the number of high SMV men that pay attention to you. The more high SMV men the more value you have.

Next we have the Wall. Your beauty is waning, men see this and thus they don't want to have sex with you as much as they did when you were 20. The attention is waning thus you augment the feeling of "pay attention to me" (which you naturally had 10y ago) with more open displays of sexual availability, which means you lower your standards, you are more overtly sexual and negotiate more ("he cant have any better than me, i cant have any better than him").

noogoona · 2021-11-06T22:22:49+00:00

If I switch to the explore page it’s women literally of ALL ages doing any and everything for what seems to be male attention.

What you see in the explore page is algorithmically determined based upon what you have been viewing/liking/following.

Don’t get me wrong I enjoy the views

Yes, Instagram knows that and that's why they showed it to you. They know you'll click thru and view them

Why are they doing all this?? What’s the end goal??

Same reason insta is showing it to you. They know it will get eyeballs. Some of these women are literally making money off of their profile by hocking products. Sex sells. We've all known that for a long time. Doesnt seem that mysterious to me. I mean fuck, if I could post photos of myself and get thousands of likes and some kind of advertising deal to hock bullshit, I would do it too.

We_waz_alpha_n_sheet · 2021-11-06T13:00:30+00:00

You are overthinking this.
They monetised your simp energy.
They are making money from you weather you are deep thinking about them, looking down on them or stroking yourself to them.

Zeeblackbaron · 2021-11-07T02:55:23+00:00

It probably has something to do with our caveman biology. Women are the primary consumers of resources (I guess you can even count something intangible as attention as a “resource”) while men are the primary producers of resources (strong men are the reason why civilizations rise and women [and weak men who support their motives] are the reason why they fall)

Back in the cavemen days a women needed to care for her children, which required resources. The men had to hunt to gather resources.

kalisto3010 · 2021-11-07T11:51:38+00:00

Here's a fun experiment I encourage everyone to try. Whenever you go to the gym and there's the hard body girl with the tight revealing clothing and super short, shorts. Try your hardest to not look at her at all, completely ignore her, do not make eye contact with her. What you'll start to notice is that she'll get frustrated and more desperate to get your attention. Male is attention is like Soul Collecting to them and they can never have enough. If she has a sweatshirt on, now she'll take that off showing her abs and half top, she might even start working out near you, constantly checking to see if she can catch you staring at her. Once you notice she's doing this you go to the other side of the gym, in about 15 minutes she'll magically appear in that area to ensure that she's in your line of sight because she's unconsciously and desperately trying to get your attention. Attention to them is as equally important as oxygen, deprive them of it until you decide to escalate if that's what you're trying to do, but until then try this experiment and it will amuse you to see how desperate they are for the attention of men.

LawItUp77 · 2021-11-06T13:27:19+00:00

Dopamine. More attention and likes = perceived value of importance and desire.

It's common sense and happens to both genders. It's easier for women to get since they have realized that all they have to do is post something slightly sexy.

neverendingplush · 2021-11-07T09:42:22+00:00

I think a lot of what it boils down to regarding women's behavior , is there ability to look within ,self-awareness. Men a lot of time have that" hold up man, why the fuck am I doing this, and how is this affecting me and other things". Women generally don't seem to have that hence their hamster wheel of poor choice making, only looking at the end result, but not taking the time to think it could be them, so they continue to do the same thing over and over crying once gain over the end result. By male standards they are mentally insane. With this lack of self reflection they are driven my impulse and emotion, mixed in with a brain capable of intelligent thought, you have a cocktail of perpetual madness. That's why we have all these body positivity and other weirdo virtue signaling movements, because they lack the ability to think "Am I full of shit" ?I do not envy women, seems like hell to be one. Sure they have an upper-hand in the dating game, but not much else, only seems fair lol.

rhunting · 2021-11-07T12:24:19+00:00

Women are born with value men create their value

halflotus2 · 2021-11-06T13:15:52+00:00

Because it’s the only way that leads to having a mate/protector/provider.

Since women (the feminine to be more precise) do not pursue, no attention = no mate.

idrinkapplejuice42 · 2021-11-06T15:03:19+00:00

I think women that are engaging in these attention seeking activities are still seeking the attention of alpha men. But they have to act that way in front of all the non alpha men to get the alpha to notice them. So when a girls shaking her ass in the club shes not doing it for all the guys that are there. Shes doing it so the one hot alpha chad will take notice of her.

TheBigAnon12 · 2021-11-06T18:04:48+00:00

One can hunt and survive on its own, the other can not.

mandathor · 2021-11-06T21:51:37+00:00

women care more about fashion, men want to see hot women. women like to showcase theirfashionable lifes or daily life on IG... etc etc. many reasons why there is a lot of active women posting on IG.

Limitlesspappy · 2021-11-07T10:07:17+00:00

Women are resource and attention seekers. Don’t give it to them, and watch how desperate they get.

cornpoke · 2021-11-08T06:46:11+00:00

I'm gonna say it's because they are so competitive with their girl friends and women in general, they get their daily ego boost from the attention and it makes them think "I've still got it"

Reddit1984Censorship · 2021-11-06T14:04:32+00:00

Because is the equivalent of sex for them, they both hormonal processes.

Datanami · 2021-11-06T13:40:52+00:00

You wouldn't have a rotation if you didn't need some sort of female attention/validation, wether it be sexual or not.

babayega · 2021-11-06T17:27:46+00:00

Weird. I'm a man and I love attention. I can survive without it but it's not ideal. We all want to be wanted and desired. Depends more on your personality than your gender I guess.

kraken9911 · 2021-11-06T23:32:02+00:00

In other news though it's refreshing to see the comments section of places like Youtube starting to redpill against attention seeking women. A lot of the comments are usually negging the fuck out the girl and calling out the behaviour in that it does not add any meaningful content.

zino193 · 2021-11-06T12:11:07+00:00

Cause it feels good.

Why do men with chesticles wear string wife-beaters. Why do succesfull men buy exotic cars worth 10x the price of second hand Ford Focus.

You can go the route of a bitter stoic, and argue - that's not what your worth should be defined as - but unless you actually are at that point, felt the likes and the applause - been in a situation where someone knew you before you even seen them - don't tell me you're better than them. You're not, you're just a nitzchean slave that looks upon the have's with so much hate that you rotated your value scales so that up is down, and black is white.

Anon_Actual_01 · 2021-11-06T12:41:18+00:00

Why is the sky blue? (Because God loves the Infantry BTW...)

Y is a crooked letter no one ever got straight.

bootyannihilator · 2021-11-06T20:45:04+00:00

I actually wanted to bang a girl, but apparently she happens to have a bf. So, I backed out and hardly replied to her texts for a few days. She got desperate and crashed the party I hosted. I got pretty drunk and then we had a deep conversation which was basically her begging me to remain her friend.

I never wanted any sort of friendship, so I make it clear that it's either sexual relationship or no contact at all. Later out of no choice she agrees to let go of me. Now whenever we see each other, we act like we don't exists.Now that she withdrew her attention from me, I have started developing feelings for her, how do I control my mind from thinking about her.

Now, at the party she got to know that my friend also liked her. She has started inviting him for the stuff that she organizes. I have ignored all these but I find it hard to control myself from contacting her.

I have started meditating and stuff but I'm still not able to get her out of my mind after all the stuff she has tried to get back at me. It's just so hard with school assignment and other job stuff.. What do I do to keep myself sane and ignore her ? I sound beta, I know but I don't want to be like this. I want to just concentrate on my goal and career.

AA7 · 2021-11-06T15:31:40+00:00

Because attention is everything in this world. Think about it,, you can really focus on one thing at a time. That's why social media is free.

KurkTheMagnificent · 2021-11-06T13:04:13+00:00

They are emotional beings; basics 101

thotslayer1200 · 2021-11-07T16:15:14+00:00

Uh hey woman here…you guys got it all backwards, women are far more selective than men due to the fact that getting pregnant and having a child is much more of a time consuming commitment then simple sex.

We dont seek out attention because we want an endless amount of suitors, women do it in hopes of finding the right suitor. A man that can actually provide for her. Also the vast majority of women arent vapid and appearance obsessed. Thats mostly a fad among teenagers and young adults.

I myself dont touch social media and i have normal hobbies that dont revolve around men or attention seeking. As do most women. Just because women are intuitive and emotionally intelligent doesnt mean that we arent logical as well. And just because some enjoy posting on social media for social validation and self esteem purposes doesn’t make us vapid or boy crazy.

Also men do the exact same thing just in a different way, pics of men holding big fish or shooting guns to give themselves a ‘masculine’ appearance on social media; proving their ‘worth’ to women and asserting their dominance over other men. The fact that men are obsessed with sleeping with women and will go to stupid lengths just to get with them further proves my point. Women dont care about how many men other women have slept with. Men consider sex asca status symbol.

Were all just people, not caricatures.

Corn_in_your_pussy · 2021-11-06T17:37:56+00:00

Attention is the currency women understand.

phillip42069 · 2021-11-06T23:56:23+00:00

It’s the easiest way to measure their value to someone else.

EGOtyst · 2021-11-07T00:34:18+00:00

Women like attention. They love male attention from the right men. And they NEED money.

IG gives them at of this.

Schhwing · 2021-11-07T02:58:33+00:00

Attention is love, love is social cohesion, women are primally built for social cohesion and connection and protection in groups. Men are too, but to a different and maybe lesser degree.

RedPill115 · 2021-11-07T06:21:51+00:00

You're looking at the female equivalent of men playing playing video games.

In moderate amounts it's a useful tool for practicing the skills you need. For women looking attractive is how they determine position and status in all female groups.

At the extremes it becomes an absurd waste of time.

RedwallAllratuRatbar · 2021-11-07T09:10:07+00:00

you may have just a different taste my buddy is approaching genius iq yet thinks these 5.5/10s in heavy makeup are hot

it seems some mens brains are wired to believe that any woman with heavy makeup is hot

chick

chick2

both are totally average face wise

ddelicia · 2021-11-08T21:30:08+00:00

I think you're being biased, especially as an older dude. Humans want attention. Men doing dumb retarded shit on social media is the equivalent of girls showing their asses and racy outfits on social media.

You clearly filter one out because maybe you just ignore it or have a laugh, and the other one bothers you. But essentially they are the same attention seeking behavior of insecure young adults.

SwoleyMoleyFrijoley · 2021-11-09T00:30:18+00:00

Attention equals power to women. Solved.

samsmith67 · 2021-11-09T16:12:04+00:00

The youtube channel 'FreshandFit' talks about this shit all the time. Also CoachGregAdams.

Hut_1 · 2021-11-11T14:36:48+00:00

Because majority of women have hiveminds.

Kodiak01 · 2021-11-11T15:02:06+00:00

Endless preening is what they do when they have little else to offer. It is an attempt to extend their perceived "shelf life" by fishing for attention from beta simps that would never actually have the balls to do anything more than sub to her onlyfans while jerking off into the same sock for the 4th time without washing.

Without the attention, the woman has nothing. She has little idea how to function in an actual relationship and is good for little more than a softcore magazine spread her daddy might of had under his bed 30 years ago. These women pretty much always have a chad or two on standby, with a third by the balls.

omega_dawg93 · 2021-11-26T00:17:40+00:00

sex = male currency

attention = female currency.

the mouth, asshole, and vagina are just used to garner the attention they crave.

LeoLittlebook · 2021-11-06T13:48:47+00:00

Do you want to take care of the kids?

No?

Then be glad she's that way.

You are her entertainment. She is their entertainment.

Bing_Bang_Bam · 2021-11-06T23:00:01+00:00

Competition with other mindless, useless cows?

Title	Why do women NEED so much attention?
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Date	November 6, 2021 11:55 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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