Yet another beta bux example in /r/relationships. It's getting ridiculous.

GregariousWolf · 2014-10-16T14:19:29+00:00

"Quick UPDATE

We had a few hour conversation last night. Wife has seen this thread afterwards. We have clarified many things, but the bottom of the issue is that our communication sucked. This is partially my fault, as I sometimes have trouble caring /empathizing with people. It is something I need to work on. I also tend to push important discussions aside because I get overwhelmed by all of the variables and decisions that need to be made."

tl;dr this woman was running around with her ex and got him to accept responsibility for it. He is deep in the FOG, that's for sure.

DoesNotMatterAnymore · 2014-10-16T13:37:40+00:00

She explained that there is nothing on there, and that she deletes her mail anyway, even mail from me.

I have a good friend, he married a woman, who deleted her texts and cleared for call log every time she sent/got a text/call. He didn't find this suspicious. "-She did this since i know her...."

Guess who got cheated on for 2,5 years...

Gold_Mouth · 2014-10-16T13:37:11+00:00

I do not think she’s cheating or anything like that

Really? She basically cheated right in front of you and acted like a 14-year-old freshman girl talking to the senior varsity quarterback at school, but okay.

redsuedeshoes25 · 2014-10-16T13:55:35+00:00

Unfortunately, this guy may be the type that has to experience his wife getting fucked by other dudes on multiple occasions before he begins to see the light. I mean his wife left him with a daughter that's not even his high and dry for a few nights...and HE is the one who ends up apologizing for it.

The excuses he made for her actions in his update just about made me sick to my stomach. Of course she agreed to work things out at home and do what it takes to become a better wife. She had just returned from an extended weekend, getting the life fucked out of her by her ex. Smh, I guess she would seem a bit more understanding and chipper after that.

rem0nster · 2014-10-16T13:18:27+00:00

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JP_Whoregan · 2014-10-16T18:17:59+00:00

New drinking game:

Go into a /r/relationships thread from a beta bux OP about his wife being a slut
Type CTRL+F
Type the word "counseling" in the search box
Take a shot every time somebody mentions "counseling" in the comment section.

Still haven't vomited from alcohol poisoning yet?

Go into a /r/relationships thread from a woman OP about a guy cheating on her
Type CTRL+F
Type "divorce" in the search box
Take a shot every time a commenter tells the woman to divorce her cheating husband

skoobled · 2014-10-16T14:29:21+00:00

Wow. Just be glad you aren't him, gents

joaquim56 · 2014-10-16T15:06:33+00:00

This guy allowed massive disrespect from his wife.

You get what you tolerate. Who with a backbone tolerates exes being in their spouses lives?

CornyHoosier · 2014-10-16T15:30:30+00:00

Wow. He definitely needs to make sure she gets tested for an STD before having sex with her. The guy is in a band and apparently travels around meeting up with guy's wives; there is no way he is clean.

I'm blown away by how putting a ring on your finger seems to mean that you also hand over your spine. Is this the sort of lifestyle he wants his "daughter" growing up with? One where mommy wants some strange so just leaves.

EeeeeeevilMan · 2014-10-16T16:30:06+00:00

That thread was depressing as fuck.

That poor dumb bastard honestly thinks she didn't cheat on him.

Wargame4life · 2014-10-16T16:12:40+00:00

What a chump i see a miserable future.

BRENDORVEGAS · 2014-10-16T15:20:48+00:00

Former addicts rarely break that cycle. Best to leave them where they are before you get entwined in a relationship.

SoSaltyDoe · 2014-10-16T17:30:44+00:00

Assuming this person has at least lurked a little bit on /r/relationships prior to posting, I doubt very highly this isn't a troll post. You don't make a post like this without knowing exactly what kind of response you'll be getting from that sub. What "advice" could be possibly hope to receive?

a_chill_bro · 2014-10-16T23:29:11+00:00

You know you're fucked when your shitty situation inspires TRP-like advice on /r/relationships.

ENTP · 2014-10-16T19:50:37+00:00

So many qualifiers and such whiny, confused tone in his speech, this guy screams wishy washy beta, I feel for the lady. Guy needs to dump her, and start acting like a man.

Jaereth · 2014-10-16T22:05:22+00:00

When it turns out the kid really isn't yours, and you just forgive it and stay with the woman, your respect falls from whatever it may be, to zero. She will never find you sexually attractive again, there will never be any passion there again. You. Are. A. Bitch.

bleh321 · 2014-10-16T23:14:37+00:00

"(like the father of our daughter, who’s a drug addict and is not in her life)"

Stopped reading after that

bakbakgoesherthroat · 2014-10-17T01:28:04+00:00

You can't make a ho into a housewife

dicklord_airplane · 2014-10-16T17:49:51+00:00

jesus christ, how can some people be so naive and so, so deep in denial? is this a result of the pervasiveness of feel-good just-world philosophy?

strivingforfreedom · 2014-10-16T18:58:08+00:00

Is this stuff even real anymore?

BrunoOh · 2014-10-16T19:10:03+00:00

She did apologize for making me feel this way, and stated if she had known it would upset me she would not do it in this way.

Translation: "I'm only sorry you found out, not about what I did."

le_king_falcon · 2014-10-16T23:53:57+00:00

Its not getting ridiculous. Its been this way for a couple of decades at least now.

The time when affairs were taboo and respect for your partner has long gone if your a woman in the west.

She will very likely not be held truly accountable for her actions and that's only if beta boy actually gets some solid evidence. Fact is he came to Reddit for help, he knows shit is wrong but he can't overcome his social programming on his own.

Any man with a real backbone wouldn't find himself in his situation. He either would have a loyal wife or at least a secretive one.

He'll have fun in counseling, it will all end up being his fault and she'll carry on as if she's a perfect wife, only now with a nice hammer to swing anytime he dares to step out of line.

_valtiel_ · 2014-10-16T23:59:27+00:00

Ridiculous. he needs to ask himself how'd she feel if roles were reversed.

ALargeBicep · 2014-10-17T00:40:23+00:00

He even said it's partially his fault.

Classic beta.

MajorMid · 2014-10-17T01:51:18+00:00

"I am taking notes on what to discuss with my wife tonight, including whether she would like us to go into counseling."

What the fuck. I would never turn into something this pathetic even without TRP... but I must say...thank God this sub exists.

RedBigMan · 2014-10-17T03:17:05+00:00

Beta Bux is the only way blue pill beta dudes are able to get any pussy.

What they do not realize is that the pussy is front loaded, as soon as that ring goes on her finger you get one sexing on your honeymoon to consummate the marriage and then maybe some pity sex once a month or maybe if you're really unlucky once a year on your birthday.

mbillion · 2014-10-17T04:16:34+00:00

Its really shocking to me. I look at my life before I really knew the red pill like I was a piece of shit, but even on my worst day I have not been the fucking doormat some of these losers are

Rougepellet · 2014-10-17T05:45:16+00:00

The hamsetring of these BP men is just as bad (if not worse) than the female hamster.

wheyapartment · 2014-10-17T06:22:25+00:00

It's entirely his fault. I cant sympathize with him

hohamocha · 2014-10-17T16:45:44+00:00

"These hoes ain't loyal nononononoooooo"- Christopher Maurice Brown

niceguy_gone_cad · 2014-10-19T19:25:48+00:00

It almost reads like a cuckold fantasy. He is a tad short from sucking the other dude sperm from her vagina. Sad, sad, sad. The things desperation makes some men do...

anon10101010 · 2014-10-16T15:00:26+00:00

Doesnt need to be addicted. I would not marry a woman if she has a past with any sort of drug (not speaking about puffing a few cigs or mary jane in college or so). I know that some type of this stuff can make them unpredictable and horny and you can bet your house that she slept with some of the providers because shit is expensive

GhostOfAladdin · 2014-10-17T13:35:42+00:00

Basic. That poor woman most likely can't admit to at least emotional cheating so is shifting the blame for her behavior to the husband.

The husband already knows what the deal is and is looking for some way out of her taking responsibilty.

Summary: AB spends a lot of time with Someone's wife then skips town leaving someone's wife in tears.

hashtagpound2point2 · 2014-10-16T13:32:43+00:00

I honestly don't understand why men don't kill their wives more often.

edit: Please note- I did not say that men should kill their wives. Not at all. I'm just kinda surprised that it doesn't happen more often. This Dalrock post comes to mind.

Title	Yet another beta bux example in /r/relationships. It's getting ridiculous.
Author	SlippyToadsWildRide
Upvotes	177
Comments	79
Date	October 16, 2014 1:12 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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