Blowjobs

BobbyPeru · 2018-10-16T05:15:06+00:00

1) be attractive

2) don’t be unattractive

3) Passive dread

4) Winning

simbarlion · 2018-10-16T04:29:08+00:00

This is just attraction 101. 2yr LTR makes you boring, predictable. She doesn't NEED to do that anymore - you hang around provisioning anyway.

What do you do about loss of attraction? Dread - remember the first few steps of dread are nothing to do with proving you're a player who can crush pussy, it is about being high value. Man of action, you're busy, connected, in demand. You're the boyfriend her friends dote on.

rocknrollchuck · 2018-10-16T14:59:55+00:00

I think it was u/Rian_Stone who said "Here is my go to answer and gut feeling on BJ's: They are a mate guarding technique. So my theory and experience is BJ's increase in frequency and quality when there is competition or some chance I am going to bail on the relationship."

youscum · 2018-10-16T22:14:51+00:00

Take what you want. Next time you or her are about to bang, get on top and straddle her chest like you are about to titty fuck her. Put your dick in her face and if she swats your cock away, declines, or gives some bullshit excuse, just smile and say "OK. Maybe next time." Put your clothes back on and leave the room. Let her know you don't need a blowjob from her. She'll get the message loud and clear.

I used to tolerate shitty, selfish bedroom behavior. I don't anymore. Just make sure you have a strong frame because rejecting the starfish (or the like) makes them go fucking crazy.

red-sfpplus · 2018-10-16T12:48:25+00:00

I Always keep baby wipes in the bathroom

1) Wiping with TP sucks.

2) Easy to give your boys an over/under prior to oral

3) Same goes for her.

If your not getting BJs then she finds you repulsive and doesn’t want to suck your dick. This is after all a service performed for you primarily.

Her joy is doing it to a man she find attractive. Its mental for her. Physical for you.

Repulsive is either physical, mental or both.

When you are attractive women will suck it anywhere, anytime.

Edit:

In regards to the gag reflex comment. Believe it or not I got that from my current GF about a month in. But not for the same reason you did.

So I helped her to untrained it by hanging her head upside down off the bed and face fucking her gently until she learned to control it.

YMMV.

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2018-10-16T06:53:24+00:00

So have one of the other 4 females intrested in you smoke your pole.

You know what we call an ltr that won't suck cock around here?

A plate.

Downgrad to plate.

Next plate.

RedPillCoach · 2018-10-17T16:34:03+00:00

Blowjobs are all about the woman giving to the man. They are given by women who are essentially overcome with attraction for their man. When they are withdrawn this is often the first indication of a loss of attraction.

Another interpretation treats refusal to provide blowjobs as a shit test. She doesn't want to please her husband and even a minor inconvenience (i.e. 'gag reflex') is enough to put her off. This is why no blowjobs. She doesn't want to please her husband and she doesn't feel any pressure or need to please her husband. She likes to get pounded so she is not turned off by you so much that she is willing to give that up.

I always find it fascinating how women pull out all stops to hook the man. Suck the cum out like a giant fleshy straw. Wake up blowjobs. Every day blowjobs. Screaming at the ceiling pleasure....and then......."I do."

"I really never liked giving blowjobs."

What happened to your little cock hound? She won. Fini.

How do you turn it around? Like I said in my recent video, women will not behave appropriately with men UNLESS THEY ARE FORCED. When I say that I don't mean physical force. I mean you must jam a decision tree right up her ass. You must put it in her mind over a period of months that you ARE going to get your dick sucked. She has control over where she puts her lips, but YOU have control over where you put your dick.

Pull away time and attention. Learn game and start practicing. Become the type of man who gets blowjobs from other women and if your wife fails to rediscover her taste for your cock before a younger and prettier girl discovers it then I guess that was her decision. My body my choice works both ways my brother.

DanG3 · 2018-10-16T20:29:45+00:00

The frequency and quality of unsolicited Blow Jobs is in direct inverse proportion to the security she feels in the relationship, including her perception of the probability that you might be poachable by anther woman.

JDRoedell · 2018-10-16T12:41:19+00:00

How much comfort, time and attention are you doling out for free? I’m willing to bet it may be too much. Do you live together? If so, that’s another strike. She’s not your wife, you’ve got options here.

markpf73 · 2018-10-16T14:41:10+00:00

Idiots - all of you focused on hygiene. That should be a given that you could serve raw bar off your taint at any given time.

When does a long term relationship blow you often and enthusiastically?

It’s when there is that subtle insecurity and she is just making sure you don’t taste like another woman.

coconutscentedcat · 2018-10-16T04:41:38+00:00

Clean yourself more. Wash it in sink after peeing if you think sex is happening. Grab her head and push it down there when you're horny; if she doesn't let you then it's on her for ruining the mood. Tell her how much you enjoy it, and when she does it tell her that she's amazing at it.

RandomlyChosenTitle · 2018-10-16T12:33:14+00:00

Usually “my gag reflex is really bad lately”

Translation: the thought of blowing you makes me gag.

She hasn't physiologically changed since she was blowing you regularly (w/o gagging, I'm presuming), so the change is purely psychological. I'd take it as an early warning that attraction is waning. Maybe only slightly since she's still DTF, but it's definitely trending the wrong way.

Increase (passive) dread accordingly.

MrChad_Thundercock · 2018-10-16T02:44:05+00:00

“After being together a little over two years”

There’s your answer right there homo.

In the beginning, she was on her best behavior- auditioning for the LTR role and you bought it: hook, line, and sinker.

Did she have a “gag reflex issue” with Chad back in high school underneath the stadium bleachers? Maybe after his huge cock rammed the back of her throat..

Shut the fuck up faggot.

Rian_Stone · 2018-10-16T13:35:03+00:00

The blowjob section of the sidebar is...

well, I'll just let you find it the hard way

Red_Ninja7 · 2018-10-16T14:25:01+00:00

You're in a similar place as myself, in that my wife no longer wants me to CIM (though she will do oral aside from that) and won't do anal. What Ive learned is to increase SMV, frame, and dread. I think a big thing is when you are working on your MAP, she starts realizing that she is a complement to your life, but that she really isn't a necessity. This starts changing the whole relationship dynamic.

I once read an article by a feminist saying that women will usually only do anal unless the man has implicitly or explicitly threatened to leave her. Of course, she saw this as a negative on men. In completely solipsistic fashion, she failed to see how this reflects negatively on women.

In the past I've had a couple GFs who didn't want to do certain sexual things, but when I decided I was ready to break up with them they were suddenly on board with whatever I wanted to do. I now see that I need to be the man they are willing to go all out for all the time, even years into a relationship.

470_2_700_nm · 2018-10-16T21:23:45+00:00

“This dick won’t suck itself”.

helaughsinhidden · 2018-10-16T13:39:06+00:00

Be clean.
Shower after workouts, wipe from front to back, maybe some cologne under the sack. I shower before bed instead of in the morning because I could care less to wake up early to feel 5% more "ready" for work when I have a 200% higher chance of blowjobs if I just showered at night.

Time it better.

Feelz are everything to a woman. If she is happy with you, she has always been happy. If she is mad at you, she's always been mad. Making sure you have her in a good mood is crucial. Once she is, then all past feelings are gone and she is ready to go.

Don't ask her to do it.

Asking is weak. You should already be gaming her on the regular, so when you are kissing her just shift gears on her. Make a bit more noise and show some passion when kissing. Then stop, unzip, take it out, look at her with anticipation. She will know what to do next and will....this is important... already have her feelz activated.

The duality of the slut in her.

In every woman, there is a slut. In every slut, there is both the guilt and shame about it and her love of cock and doing trashy stuff. She is both. I like to tease my wife about "what a slut she is" and "I know how much she likes to suck cock". Always grinning, always approving, always complimenting. The more noise or talk I use when she's going at it, the more often it seems that she will initiate too. Saying things like "slower" "more" "don't stop" "that's it" "keep rubbing that spot" and similar really gets her to get into character. This is how I helped her go from occassional bad head to regular good head and cumming in her mouth often instead of always ending in HJ or switching to PIV.

nantucketghost · 2018-10-16T03:24:11+00:00

Take a shower, as you’re heading to bed drop your calendar that your dick is not going to suck itself

If you were going to wait for her to do it... it is just not going to happen. Be upfront and tell her what you want. Do not be a girly man. Gag reflex? Unless you’re trying to shove your cock down her throat she is in full control and that should not ever be an issue. So if you were thrusting, stop that.

A little 69 action might be needed also.

After all of that, if there are still excuses, turn around walk away after telling her that if she will not you’re going to find someone else will

jimmyjohncocks · 2018-10-16T14:52:46+00:00

IDGAF what TRP says about reciprocation but if you’re not doing it too then don’t be surprised. Also, if you want your dick sucked take a damn shower. You wouldn’t put a dirty sweaty pussy in your mouth would you?

Title	Blowjobs
Author	SpitAndGIory
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Date	October 16, 2018 2:32 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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