Where/How do you hide your RP library ?

SteelSharpensSteel · 2017-12-13T21:13:16+00:00

I don't. It's on my bookshelf. I DGAF if she looks at it or not.

screechhater · 2017-12-14T02:40:13+00:00

I put it in the Harry Potter closet where I go to beat off when she tells me no

average_dudereino · 2017-12-13T20:43:35+00:00

Keep everything digital. The majority is available digitaly. Lock everything else in a cabinet. To make it easier, don't give her keys to the cabinet.

Alphaphux · 2017-12-13T20:50:10+00:00

Put them in a box - They’re self help books, if she starts snooping she won’t be your girlfriend anymore.

In her frame much?

chachaChad · 2017-12-14T13:56:35+00:00

They only thing I hid was "Saving a Low Sex Marriage" because my teen age kids use the same kindle account. I think that was something they didn't need to know. All the other red pill reading is on my normal kindle account for the kids or wife to see or read. It's part of who am I and I'm done hiding that.

I have plenty of paperback books around the house and on my night stand. The wife has said things like "I don't know what kind of crazy things you're reading". I just smile and say some of it is good and some of it is bullshit... which is true. I've made it clear, in a friendly way, that I'll read what I want to read.

It's your house. You only let people in there you can trust. If she can't be trusted to see what's on your bookshelf, she shouldn't be in your house or your bed. Remember, the longer you hid things from people the harder it is to be your real self.

bogeyd6 · 2017-12-14T21:07:26+00:00

Time for a beta admission. When I first got my books I had someone else order them and send them to my office. They stayed in my office, but if I was reading one I kept them in the smugglers compartment of my F350.

simbarlion · 2017-12-14T03:23:51+00:00

I'm digital. Still cant decide if her finding the books looks bad on her or me.

On one hand, "Saving a Low Sex marriage" amongst others, sounds terrible for her, like your trying flog a dead horse, but at the same time how lame is it that i need a manual (lots of manuals) to learn to be a desirable OYS kinda man.

Who needs / reads a manual to operate a chain saw? Not Chad.

ReddyMcRed · 2017-12-14T13:39:21+00:00

Very legit question. Anyone who says "don't" ignores several fundamentals:

you do not talk about fight club.
If you are advanced enough and really own your shit, like some of the veteran posters here, hiding that stuff is indeed weak and lacking frame. But if you are just starting the journey and still have a problem holding frame, having your wife find a book like nmmng this will lead to questions you are not ready to answer.

So hide them. Wherever it works for you.

Rian_Stone · 2017-12-13T22:23:24+00:00

Lol, I wouldnt.

Chances are the girl you find won't read anyways, not unless the book cover is abs, cuffs, or a suit

GargantuaBlarg29 · 2017-12-14T12:42:57+00:00

Did you just ask how to hide things?

weakandsensitive · 2017-12-13T20:56:52+00:00

Why are you hiding them? Seems weak.

ShrodingersDingaling · 2017-12-13T22:00:21+00:00

Hiding your books like a little boy with girly magazines... If you can't own it, you probably have no business reading it. Besides, if you're improving, who cares what your girl thinks.

SteelToeShitKicker · 2017-12-13T21:37:02+00:00

Toolbox in garage. Old, beat to shit, surrounded with other toolboxes that are old and beat to shit.

Everything else on phone, wife doesn't have access code.

Persaeus · 2017-12-13T21:37:32+00:00

I read all the books in the open; and they lay about the house.

Unlike W&S, you and I have a well documented picture of the sausage being made and it’s not always an attractive picture.

I would recommend leaving the books in the shelf and creating a new account if your going to MeRP openly. The more congruent with your frame the better. Let there be no shame in your game

mrpCamper · 2017-12-14T13:50:44+00:00

Poorly.

Aechzen · 2017-12-17T01:51:27+00:00

Partly, this is a silly question. Are you a reader? I am. I have bookshelves with books on lots of topics, including sex books. Kama Sutra, anal sex books, female ejaculation books... Next to those, the other books seem like part of a theme... that I'm an out-of-control hornball, but a literate hornball.

I don't know what you have on paper. I have about half digital and half paper. Sex God Method I'm not even sure you can get on paper, and if you have it, I'm curious where you found it and how much you paid. If you don't have it at all, you need to read it before you move in with her.

When I Say No I Feel Guilty is so benign I read it right in front of her on an old 1980s hardcover edition. Married Man Sex Life Plan is on a bookshelf next to some other sex and relationship books, where I feel it fairly belongs.

EDIT: one more thing, I forgot about until reading other replies. I was open with her for years about how I was trying to fix our deadbedroom. So she got used to me not hiding sex books, relationship books. I actually asked her to read the r/deadbedrooms gem Sex Starved Marriage. She completely scoffed at the cover photo, and I'm not sure whether she ever read it. That was years before I discovered MRP, but I'd set the precedent long ago that she will probably ignore whatever I'm reading on related topics.

Fritz_Frauenraub · 2017-12-18T00:12:49+00:00

I was never too worried about the sidebar material, most of which is pretty harmless except for Rollo's books, which my wife is about as likely to crack as a tome of chinese calculus...and if she did she'd just think it was male whingeing. To percieve that it contains nothing less than the playbook for an insurrection against our feminized society would require considerably more work and thought than she is interested in investing.

She did, unfortunately, find MRP and I was forced to own my presence here a little ahead of schedule. It worked out for the best...a day-long frame battle which I won. At one point she was actually waving a printout of "16 Poon" in my face and demanding that I disown it as if I were a heretic on trial.

The day ended with me teasingly saying "so, are you planning how to report this whole story to your therapist?: 'my husband is a misogynist!' " [/squeaky high voice].

She replied, in a tone of laughing exasperation "...and he doesnt even deny it!" and I pinned her against the wall for a hard kiss.

Title	Where/How do you hide your RP library ?
Author	ImSteveMcQueen
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Comments	58
Date	December 13, 2017 8:38 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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