I've read quite a few posts now about guys who are frustrated with the lack of help in making the first step.

I have to say though, "just get out there" really is the most straight forward advice.

But for someone like me who over analysed EVERYTHING it just didn't work. There was always an excuse, whether it be too many girls, girl on a phone, girl with a guy, or just a girl looking pissed off. I had to think up my own method.

So what I did was I spent the next 3 weeks of nights out not thinking about the game at all. I went out with the sole intention of simply telling the hottest girls in the bar/club all about ME. I never let them turn the conversation on to them and if they did I related it back to a story about me. What I noticed was this, once you start to tell girls about all your deepest passions and interests and thoughts. They will listen to it. Some stories will bore her, some will make her laugh, but most of them will interest her. If she tries to flirt with you do not give in! Laugh it off and continue the conversation.

To mask this I would ask her a question that would set me up for a story about myself. "what's your most embarrassing moment?". For example. Then I will go into an entertaining story about mine, I'll work on my body language, voice, hand gestures, my vocal language and eye contact. But what I won't do is forget that I'm out for the selfish purpose of telling these girls my life story.

At the end of these 3 weeks I had an unbelievable amount of material that I knew was either interesting or funny. I knew that girls don't bite and Infact love a good storyteller. I knew that I could keep a HB9/10's attention for 30-60min with my entire life's worth of silly stories. But most importantly I knew that I'd just spoken to loads of beautiful girls and nothing bad happened. Infact on a few occasions I'd actually rejected their advances.

So I hope this works for you like it did for me. When you give yourself the permission to tell a girl anything you will realise just how interesting you really are.

P.S. even your Warcraft addiction.