Am I(18m) misinterpreting friendship with my coworker(45f)?

denimclad_secret · 2022-10-21T22:11:33+00:00

She started being a lot more “friendly” after I announced I’m leaving in November. Since then she’s started greeting me with a hug, touching my arm/back when we walk by each other or when we’re standing next to each other, compliments me, she even asked for my number and what days I usually have off, etc.

The deadline for action has been set in her mind.

She also mentioned her daughter was working so it’d just be us.

Imagine a woman your own age texting you "my parents aren't home"

she texted me again early in the morning asking if I was free and if I could come over to help her move some furniture because her daughters at work

You were going to be helping her move her bed all morning.

DontCallMeTopher · 2022-10-21T22:44:30+00:00

Bro you posted this same shit a week ago

musicflux · 2022-10-21T23:09:10+00:00

Bruh you fumbling big time

HurricanePK · 2022-10-22T01:43:22+00:00

She wants your dick, in and around her mouth

great_account · 2022-10-22T00:39:25+00:00

Is this trolling?

Thin-Cartoonist-9485 · 2022-10-21T22:31:56+00:00

She is only going to invite you over once more......whatever you are doing...you have a family emergency that is of a personal nature and get your ass over there

Joshru · 2022-10-22T01:13:54+00:00

You hit that rn, mister. Bring rubbers though.

2022-10-21T22:35:01+00:00

Dude it couldn’t be more clear. Start your Chevy abd point it to her place. Do not deviate. Eat eggs and bacon with her and smile real nice.

pusillanimous303 · 2022-10-22T03:08:16+00:00

When I was 19 I had a fling with a 38yo woman. She made me a man. DO IT! DO IT!! DON’T MISS THIS CHANCE!!

richsreddit · 2022-10-21T23:24:31+00:00

Bro you need to get at them MILF cheeks yo.

ItIsICoachCal · 2022-10-21T22:14:55+00:00

No way to know for sure, especially since you clearly want this to be the case so you could be unknowingly skewing the situation. That being said, it looks very promising to me. Pick a day that you think her daughter will be out and ask if that's a good time to come over. Dress smart and reciprocate her energy. Once you're alone in her house she'll make her intentions more clear.

Granny_Killa · 2022-10-22T02:00:18+00:00

What the hell man just go over there and fuck her (repeatedly), it doesn't get much more obvious than this.

literallyou · 2022-10-22T02:07:47+00:00

Bro

You already fucked up twice

Just take a sick day leave and go hel0 with her "furniture"

Majestic_Meal_5655 · 2022-10-21T23:34:04+00:00

Haha she wants to ride the young pony 😆

Ninja-Straight · 2022-10-22T01:00:29+00:00

This is one of those moments where you accept the invitation. Go without any expectations. She will probably escalate and go with the flow. Don’t overthink it!

If you find her attractive and enjoy the chemistry, I say go for it, especially since you will be leaving soon anyways.

Extension_Hawk8374 · 2022-10-22T02:41:53+00:00

Young men, if a women want to fuxk you

She will find a way to fuxk you

ThizzelleWashingtin · 2022-10-22T03:23:31+00:00

Wtf you doing on Reddit?! Go get some breakfast dummy lmao

MBMBlackMantis · 2022-10-22T03:56:59+00:00

oh I'm following this story... GO TO HER HOUSE. Tell her how she's funny/pretty/ more relaxed and even more fun to talk to when she's not at work (she's ______ at work but even more _____ right now). See what happens, just don't get attached if things go well.

goldwave84 · 2022-10-22T04:11:24+00:00

Well, you both are consenting adults. She probably wants to be ridden by a young hard penis. Nothing wrong with that.

Just be clear with yr intentions.

Maybe even go on a few dates to see if you can hit it off.

ShameAffectionate15 · 2022-10-22T05:02:38+00:00

If you felt it, she felt it even more. I've been here before. She def is sexually interested. Esp since she's divorced, shes horny and interested. Go for it since ur leaving anyways.

luroot · 2022-10-22T01:13:48+00:00

Inviting you over for NSA sex? No date, no more hoops, no games, no commitment required... Damn, how much easier can it get??? 🤦‍♂️

And you turned her down not once, but twice now? Did you at least offer another time when you could go clap her cheeks? 😬

This is a troll post. This has got to be a troll post, right? 🤣

tntullahoma · 2022-10-22T02:54:00+00:00

I would say you have 95% chance of fucking her with the situation as you described!

Just go over on the next invite or suggest an alternate time that is good for both of you and see what she does… don’t jump her the moment you get to her house. Go with whatever flows… let her take the lead.

Psychological-Ant734 · 2022-10-21T22:39:23+00:00

It seems pretty clear what she wants

Neo-Rio · 2022-10-22T09:57:15+00:00

Oh hell yes. If you want her then do it. She is keen. She wants to feel young again and you're right there less than half her age. To her, you're like a sexual dream come true.

Nothing to worry about. Bring rubbers and have fun.

These older women are just not sure of their chances of scoring with a much younger guy, just as a guy in his mid forties would wonder if he could pull a horny 18 year old girl.

One thing you have to learn as you get older and more mature sexually, is that you can miss a lot of opportunities if you misread the signs women are giving you. I missed out on sex quite a number of times in life when I missed my cues. Women don't want to be perceived as slutty - even if they are just as slutty as men - so they tend to passively wait until men make the first move.

itizzwhatitizzes · 2022-10-22T03:40:44+00:00

i was 18 once hooking up with a much older coworker. it’s not hot, it’s actually really messed up. you’re still a kid. my advice is to stay that way and save yourself the grief.

Known_Form6073 · 2022-10-22T01:24:24+00:00

Dude she wants the pipe . Man up and give it to her .

Chief-Blackberry · 2022-10-22T06:43:49+00:00

I posted this story on twitter before. I’ll copy/paste it here. Coming from someone 15 years later who regrets not making a move, go for it. Not saying show up at the door naked…just go hang out with her, feel it out. Make your intentions clear but respectful, be confident and you’ll be fine.

My tragic story, lol-

Lol, a lot of younger guys are clueless…at least I know I was back then. I was 20, met this insanely gorgeous mid 30’s divorcee at a event. During small talk…she says she wants to see a movie that w/e but doesn’t want to go alone. I say I’ll go, next night she picks me up on way to movie at parents house (summer break from college).

Have a great time, feel like she’s flirting, but don’t want to be inappropriate w/ her. Dropping me off, we talk in her car for 3 hours until 2am. About to go in, she says it’s the best date she’s ever had, asks me for small g’night kiss and points to the edge of her lip.

I peck her on the cheek, and then start getting out. Now we are outside of car, and again, she could’ve had a billboard, but I’m oblivious…she asks for a hug, and she moves in and gives me a slow, soft kiss on the lips. She backs off just slightly, and hesitates….instead of manning the fuck up and kissing her, i start to disengage and begin walking away. I Tell her thanks for a great date, walk inside. I Had her # but go back to college following week and didn’t see her for more than a decade.

12yrs later, she sees me at airport. I flat out ask her at this point since I’m not a clueless dope, but did I misinterpret? She says she wanted me to do it right there in street, but i wasn’t catching on. I imply I’m down now (because she’s still 10/10), but she laughs and says she is married w/ kids & I blew it. Again, young and stupid.

Do yourself a favor…go for it. I did scratch that itch a couple years later….but I never did get that white whale and it’s gnawed on me through an other wise incredible life. Good luck

devilkingx2 · 2022-10-22T01:18:26+00:00

Either she considers you to be a very close friend or she wants to have sex with you.

Just compare this situation with other girls you know, how many of them are inviting you to be alone at their house? Only the ones you're dating and childhood friends right?

gmos905 · 2022-10-22T04:27:50+00:00

Our boy about to smash

modidlee · 2022-10-22T05:36:46+00:00

Literally how I lost my virginity at 18. Except she was 35 and had one daughter a year older than me and another a year younger. She wants the D and you’re not taking the hint.

the_boss_jos007 · 2022-10-22T05:51:02+00:00

I had a couple chances with older women in my early 20s. One was 38 and I was 21, the other one was 40 and I was 22. Both quite attractive. Don’t miss it. Older women tend to be to the point and less bs than younger girls. Be confident and go for it my dude!

TeddyKisss · 2022-10-22T08:19:58+00:00

Don’t forget to shave your balls son

HypnoticGuy · 2022-10-22T02:54:03+00:00

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pokap91 · 2022-10-22T00:18:10+00:00

18m

45f

coworker

🚩 🚩 🚩

Cool-Plastic-2985 · 2022-10-22T00:16:06+00:00

Lmao...Dog, go handle business. 🤙

rrcecil · 2022-10-22T04:24:34+00:00

Just act COOL and j/o before you go over

bearsarescaryasfuk · 2022-10-22T06:19:47+00:00

GO BANG THIS MILF.

No wonder you’re on a seduction form. This lady throws it at you, not once but twice and you’re like “I’m busy sorry” bro make it happen

Crixusgannicus · 2022-10-22T11:18:44+00:00

1) You're thinking too much.

2) Just go for it and see what happens.

simply_existing_ · 2022-10-22T00:36:03+00:00

If genders were reversed everyone would be saying what a creep the older man is. Yet all these comments are encouraging him to fuck her. 45 and 18 is disgusting. I’m 30 and couldn’t imagine wanting to be with an 18 year old.

trev581 · 2022-10-22T02:31:26+00:00

yes bro you’re not gonna get many more chances if you keep fumbling the bag like this

Lit-Up · 2022-10-22T00:00:26+00:00

does she want me? Cuz I totally want her.

When you see her naked you'll want to go back to girls your own age 😂

Lazy_Guest_7759 · 2022-10-22T02:52:25+00:00

Wave goodbye to any chance you had for fistfuls of fun and tuition my dude.

HuntFromCDC · 2022-10-22T03:34:57+00:00

i would personally go full retard. when people get to close to me I want to run away but I'm too lazy so I make them run away.

More-Grade-8091 · 2022-10-22T03:57:12+00:00

I agree adults can do what they want, but there's definitely a gender double standard here.

Professional-Head83 · 2022-10-22T07:18:01+00:00

Is she hot???

saltinebarnyard · 2022-10-22T09:00:14+00:00

shut up

scraynes · 2022-10-22T10:05:44+00:00

i dont even remember subbing to this subreddit in the first place but this showed up on my home page.

first of all, don't do anything these dudes are telling you. Never and I mean, NEVER mix your personal and work life. There is a time and place to meet women, but at work or women you work with are not it. Temp job or not, doesn't matter. You might need this job to get the next job and one wrong word from this lady could ruin that for you. Idk. I'm 31 and I've been burned before from shit like this and I highly advise against it but you do you bro.

edit: like man you got people saying shit like this in the comments of your thread

Bro you need to get at them MILF cheeks yo.

these dudes never talked to a woman before calling women milfs.

henryXsami99 · 2022-10-22T06:09:11+00:00

You remind me of those dense anime mcs, ffs

swhatrulookinat · 2022-10-22T01:31:29+00:00

tropicsGold · 2022-10-22T06:34:47+00:00

She just wants to be your buddy. If she was sexually interested she would rip off her clothes and yell “do me baby!”

Pitiful-Musician8690 · 2022-10-22T01:33:38+00:00

She wanna fuckkkkkk

Thisiscliff · 2022-10-22T01:57:49+00:00

lol cmon…. Take the hints

Extension_Hawk8374 · 2022-10-22T02:44:30+00:00

Obviously good I.O.I

1.She keep trying even you said no

2.She being over friendly than a friend should be to you

If you body ready, just say yes

She is ready now

Aggressive_Ad9299 · 2022-10-22T02:47:21+00:00

Blow her back out.

JZD614 · 2022-10-22T05:26:49+00:00

Go, there’s definitely going to be some furniture movin’

foxyua_93 · 2022-10-22T05:50:01+00:00

Porn inspired by real life…lol

External_Lifeguard49 · 2022-10-22T08:26:39+00:00

Yeah she wants your d. A women wouldn’t want to be alone with you at her house unless she has some sort of attraction.

iamamoa · 2022-10-22T09:06:44+00:00

She invited you to her house when her daughter is away. How much more obvious signs do you need.

You probably have one more strike before she says fuck it and moves on. So next time she invites you take her up on it.

tinyservant · 2022-10-22T09:09:41+00:00

Please do me a favor and drop the delivery asap. With delivery I mean your shlong ;)

slurmfactory · 2022-10-22T09:19:04+00:00

Fuck her if u want shes def dtf

Aliebaba99 · 2022-10-22T09:21:25+00:00

Aight bro your living the dream, live it. Do it.

movegood1000 · 2022-10-22T10:32:25+00:00

Bro make time

daphuc77 · 2022-10-22T11:05:41+00:00

😳 bro hit it. She’s dropping hints.

I remember when I was 22 and a co-worker was 36, one night she texted me at 3am telling me she couldn’t sleep and if I wanted to come over and watch a movie. I show up with popcorn and snacks and there she was in lingerie in her bed. Let’s say we didn’t watch any movie.

Older ladies aren’t as direct but their subtle hints are what you need to pick up.

LaborEntry · 2022-10-22T11:09:43+00:00

Do it. She wants to rock your world.

Nalayak_Launda · 2022-10-22T11:13:19+00:00

Alright guys my coworker just held me against the wall pulled my pants down and started violently choking on my dick. I like her a lot. Does she want me or is she just being friendly? Id appreciate some advice thanks guys!

KatanaRunner · 2022-10-23T14:04:13+00:00

I bet she's gonna be not too enthusiastic when she sees what is under those pants.

denimclad_secret · 2022-10-26T02:09:36+00:00

Well looks like OP abandoned us. Did he get that eager cougar cunt? Did he crash and burn? Were we wrong in our reading of her terribly obvious behaviours? Was it all a big fake? Now we may never know

it's what sucks most about this subreddit: you get invested in helping someone and their story and they leave you with blueballs.

If you fucked up, show a little humility and let others learn from analysis of your mistakes.

If you scored, the followers of this thread would want to congratulate you and bask smugly in the glow of our rightness.

Title	Am I(18m) misinterpreting friendship with my coworker(45f)?
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Comments	111
Date	October 21, 2022 9:57 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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