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memem33 · 2022-10-03T11:27:13+00:00

Intentions aside putting dtf in your bio can hinder your match rate on tinder. Putting dtf before they've even matched w you or talked to you gives you the impression of a fuckboy. IMO i wouldnt put it in even though thats my intention. You're on tinder its already obvious

conker1264 · 2022-10-03T12:14:30+00:00

All dating apps are trash

-Bana · 2022-10-03T12:33:23+00:00

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SoumarRu · 2022-10-03T14:20:33+00:00

There is a lot of divorced and single moms on facebook dating app but it is still the least toxic app. At least you can have good conversations with them.

Tinder is an app for hookups, whenever she says she's not dtf or doesn't do hookups she tries to filter creepy guys, she is going to do it with the right person.

also a lot of girls are looking for attention and most of the time they are advertising their ig. Whenever I see follow me on ig I know that she is just looking for attention and I swipe left. A lot of girls match with you without even responding, or they disappear in the middle of the conversation, it's so easy for them to find a better match.

Tinder was not the same before, after covid it became worse, because more men are desperate, the statistics say that 80% of users are men.

Optymistyk · 2022-10-03T09:27:02+00:00

Honestly, Tinder is an awesome place to get dates if you know what you're doing. I used to get nada;zilch. But now I'm getting so many dates I can't even fit them all into my schedule.

Just because a girl says she's "not DTF" or "not looking for ons" doesn't mean she won't sleep with you. Unless she's like hardcore christian. What it usually means is that she wants to take things slow or is sick of guys comming on too strong

Impossible_Yellow751 · 2022-10-03T11:26:30+00:00

I tried online dating but five seconds into The whole experience I was like screw this crap and I am not made for This kind of interaction I have adhd so I get bored with people If conversation is boring and bland I lose interest in the whole entire conversation or internet dating is very hard and tiring to have the same exact conversation about how the weather is today

Low-Original-8152 · 2022-10-03T13:49:57+00:00

wear a condommmmmn

Necessary_Cheek8504 · 2022-10-03T14:01:42+00:00

Bumble is so much better

londonbwc · 2022-10-03T12:30:47+00:00

I’ve had terrible experience with Tinder. Bumble is okay. But I’ve had the most success with “niche” apps like Feeld and Pure with every single date resulting in sex. The only problem is you need to be in a fairly large city.

Keithlct · 2022-10-03T14:37:36+00:00

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2022-10-03T11:57:35+00:00

Hi. Being up front and direct will not only get you want you want faster. Its smarter to prevent attachment and to avoid hurt feelings. You will just have to find someone who is also be straight to the point of what they want

ozzzy83 · 2022-10-03T14:09:12+00:00

Well, if you read their bio, they will almost always state how they are not there for hookups, no ons, blah blah. But the truth is that they just must pretend in order to not be labeled as a slut. But yeah, most of them are open for hook up. Some rare girls are direct enough to mention that they are DTF, but the majority of girls are not. Ofc, do not mention it, because those that do want that and find you attractive, will let you know, or start sexting, etc.

DoddGammit · 2022-10-03T13:30:34+00:00

I suppose it's ok for younger people but at 71 it's not doing a thing.

Sweetski301 · 2022-10-03T20:25:36+00:00

In my experience, the ones which put "no ONS" or "not looking for a hookup" in their bio, are the easiest ones to get in the bed.

As for FB dating I've had 3 hookups with minimal use of the app.

g3wb3r · 2022-10-03T15:12:16+00:00

I put it in my bio because I don't want to waste my time .. if the girl isn't attracted enough to be dtf when I tell her thats what I want and instead wants me to fake like I want something else just to fuck her like every other guy does NO THANKS ... NEXT!!!!

keyson5 · 2022-10-03T20:06:30+00:00

Fb dating has horrible women here. Tinder is 50/50.

hookedonfonicsmunky · 2022-10-03T12:01:04+00:00

It's bumble for me that's been the best for me, tinders weird now and idk wtf is wrong with hinge

RandomBlokeFromMars · 2022-10-03T17:51:38+00:00

op how old are you?

earthwarrior · 2022-10-03T16:23:30+00:00

I think you're better off sliding into Instagram DMs. Not everyone is doing it anymore. And it saves you time getting them off the app.

Maxx_Darkglare · 2022-10-03T18:40:11+00:00

Tinder’s not just for hookups. It’s for relationships too. I’ve gotten a bunch of hot girlfriends on there. Use tinder cause you’re guaranteed girls. I know how to make it easy. Get tinder gold and buy boosts. Use boosts and matches will come to you. Get super boosts if you can you’ll get a bunch of girls at the same time and the hotter you are the more you’ll get. You can also see matches given to you. Watch out for a blue symbol on her profile. Not the blue symbol with a check. It’s a feature tinder added for safety but if you’re mean to her for giving you shit she can press a button to make the cops come get you even though you did nothing illegal. Don’t talk to girls with the blue logo.

Don’t use Facebook dating. It hardly ever works. You’ll be ignored by a lot of girls who you know you should have and girls who talk to you will unmatch you for no reason

Ok-Independent008 · 2022-10-03T13:59:37+00:00

Please explain the ons and dtf

Keithlct · 2022-10-03T14:26:06+00:00

Telling them exactly what you want can be a turn on. I would reserve this for when you are actually dating tho. Just be like I’m not interested in a relationship I want a casual thing. Something like that’s hot. Don’t put it in your bio you’re basically advertising “Im a whore”

citizenhagen · 2022-10-03T15:27:57+00:00

Unfortunately many ladies think the app is a new OKCupid or don't stop to read the terms and conditions of the app which to me is a huge red flag, the clearer you are with your intentions the better off you should be.

betterme2610 · 2022-10-03T16:16:25+00:00

They’re all hookup apps. Leave it out, get the match, and tell them out of the gate you’re “keeping things light hearted, slow moving towards a serious relationship”. 99% of the time it’s well received as opposed to just saying it. Women still want to be chased a bit. There’s no game of cat-mouse if everyone just knows what’s going down.

Heyhaveyougotaminute · 2022-10-03T19:35:05+00:00

I hit tinder so hard after an 18 year relationship my old condo doors are still squeaking.

I took the past 16-18 months to get to know me again.

It was fun and I met some great people but I’m enjoying my own company more these days.

JohnnyLazer17 · 2022-10-03T20:44:38+00:00

🤣 this is too much

Necroscrotum · 2022-10-03T20:58:51+00:00

On tinder I get no matches, On facebook dating I get likes I don't want. Its a lose lose game

debu206 · 2022-10-03T22:55:08+00:00

Dating apps arent in the favour of men, and they can damage your inner game … and so it to me is the same as sugar

Icy_Rub1839 · 2022-10-04T09:32:00+00:00

OLD is great from a time management perspective and if you're at least decent looking with good pictures you should get some success. However, be prepared for many girls to have absolutely ridiculous standards, even the ugly/below average looking ones.

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