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lavez · 2022-08-15T18:36:33+00:00

I love it. In particular anything fish net 🤤

2022-08-15T18:15:44+00:00

it's cool and exciting at first but if i'm in bed with you i wanna see and feel every inch of your skin.

WhiteningMcClean · 2022-08-15T18:14:40+00:00

The sexiest clothes are clothes on the floor

Lower_Guest9823 · 2022-08-15T18:32:42+00:00

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clone0112 · 2022-08-16T03:24:43+00:00

Not necessary for me but always nice when it's involved.

Lower_Guest9823 · 2022-08-15T19:51:43+00:00

Maybe important for people who can get laid by anyone cuz they can pick and choose but guys such as myself wouldn't mind if you wore a fucking squidward costume

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-08-15T19:27:23+00:00

Extremely important. But they need to be thin enough for me to rip them wjth my teeth.

2022-08-15T19:01:53+00:00

I love a woman who wears lingerie/lace in the bedroom and during sex. It’s very important to me

Inevitable-Break-555 · 2022-08-15T19:44:29+00:00

Lingeris is for me so much better than completely naked, it just makes women much more feminine. It makes sex much more intense so go for it 👀 don’t worry

logicallyillogical · 2022-08-15T21:43:29+00:00

Stockings/fishnet/thigh highs & high heels = absolutely stunning

Yes, absolutely wear these in bed. I can't imagine any guy not liking it.

3sBoards · 2022-08-15T19:36:56+00:00

Set up a mirror and look at yourself the whole time. Sounds about normal

Think_History_5682 · 2022-08-15T22:44:59+00:00

No where near as important as a tight firm body. 🤷

neversleeps212 · 2022-08-15T21:32:13+00:00

So it feels like your post is about a couple of different things here. So first up on the lingerie front, it’s definitely an added plus, but for me as a guy and I suspect for most other guys it doesn’t necessarily make us that much more turned on. But obviously if it was a whole like French maid outfit and role play or something that would definitely be excellent lol.

The second part, sounds like you’re essentially seeking a more dominant partner and someone to explore more with. On that front, I think it’s a combination of finding the right person but also communication. I lean more dominant but it’s not something I need to get off and I don’t want to just start choking a girl or just pull out some restraints out of the blue. And because it doesn’t make a huge difference to my enjoyment, I’m probably not going to take things that way unless the girl I’m with gives me some clear signs that she’s a sub, the most clear sign being to say something either during sex like “choke me,” or outside of it by saying something like, “I like to be lightly dominated in bed” and then follows up with some examples.

Good communication makes good sex more likely.

redditman7777 · 2022-08-16T03:34:50+00:00

Really....it's cool theoretically perhaps to some extent in practice as well. But nothing this hotter than a woman without clothes if shes is hot and sexy

bandsupjay · 2022-08-15T18:44:36+00:00

Very.

novasolid64 · 2022-08-15T21:14:04+00:00

For me I'm a normal guy. I just need tits ass and a pussy. If it makes you feel good that's great. But me, I'm getting there with or without it.

ParticularAmazing112 · 2022-08-15T22:17:32+00:00

It turns me on more than completely naked tbh. It’s exciting when your partner puts in the effort to dress up for you knowing you’re going to take it off

2022-08-15T18:31:18+00:00

As a guy I just don’t get turned on by it. I can’t want to get a woman naked.

2022-08-15T21:14:14+00:00

I love it as I’m able to see through specially in black color that’s the best🥵

ThriftStoreDildo · 2022-08-16T00:24:31+00:00

Honestly it doesn't do much for me, but I have a spandex/leggings fetish that's a bit more than a regular guy imo lol

Mundane-Currency5088 · 2022-08-16T04:41:03+00:00

In my experience almost no one knew what I was wearing or cared what it was, the goal was to get me naked and the extras I happen to love scared them. Granted I was wearing a garter belt and stockings I. High school in the late 80s because I was on a lot of antibiotics for sinus issues and got a lot of yeast infections as a result. Stockings vs pantyhose was a God send

ismaelro1 · 2022-08-16T09:22:13+00:00

Absolutely a huge turn on.

Zubi_Q · 2022-08-16T09:48:55+00:00

It's hot as hell! I'm. A big fan of those pull up stockings with the clips 😍

BlueberryObvious · 2022-08-16T09:52:44+00:00

38m here, yes I’m turned on by thongs and a nice bra. Definitely

Impossible_Yellow751 · 2022-08-16T10:08:11+00:00

With my man I let him decide what he wants to do during sex I’m submissive to him and his love so I will always let him pick his favorite things and I wear them Fpr him I’m his sex toy I grant his everY wish

Liprubber · 2022-08-16T16:11:47+00:00

Only if I get to pick it out

2022-08-16T17:30:30+00:00

Love it fishnet stocking and thighhigh sock or knee sock I say yes it's important 😉

timimax · 2022-08-16T01:35:48+00:00

I never a met a guy who doesn’t like lingerie. It’s too 🔥🔥. (I am a dude)

libert-y · 2022-08-15T20:29:57+00:00

I get turn on just by reading the word ‘Lingerie’. We men love it!!

2022-08-15T21:54:01+00:00

I always prefer it. Lingerie on a woman is like icing on a cupcake.

the_manofsteel · 2022-08-15T22:15:04+00:00

You sound like my dream girl

Elbynerual · 2022-08-15T23:37:59+00:00

This subreddit isn't meant for that context of "seduction", but in some cases your question might apply so I'll leave it up

2022-08-16T00:27:21+00:00

Assuming she has a nice body, I find it quite desirable. Of course, if she has a nice body, being naked is just as good.

Western-Bite1759 · 2022-08-16T03:08:04+00:00

It really depends on the guy. Like most things really. I personally love it. It's a very underrated part of the bedroom experience in my opinion.

Velociraptor2018 · 2022-08-15T21:49:38+00:00

God yes

Lower_Guest9823 · 2022-08-15T22:21:24+00:00

I love a woman that takes care of herself and dresses up nice / sexy in and out of the bedroom. If you’re wearing pajamas to bed, pajamas to college classes, pajamas to work, well meh

samk002001 · 2022-08-16T04:00:25+00:00

Oh I love woman putting on lingerie when it comes down to intimacy times! It shows the woman is craving me! Yum 🤤

Lower_Guest9823 · 2022-08-16T04:35:03+00:00

main thing is avoid what's known as granny panties. .

OreOscar1232 · 2022-08-16T13:38:46+00:00

Not at all what reall gets me going is a Christian priest’s assistant uniform aka a nun outfit. Then a long lecture on how sex before marriage can cause rectal cancer and eye bleeding, then sleep. No sexy time in my house only good Christian vibes 🙏🏻🙏🏻

Cantsleepperson · 2022-08-16T01:30:42+00:00

Eh, i saw your selfies…. Maybe best to keep it covered.

DrewforPres · 2022-08-16T16:17:27+00:00

It can help. But please stay away from the stuff that is unflattering to the goods underneath. For ex I get turned off if the neglige let's the boobs flop around all soggy

GreenMonster97 · 2022-08-15T22:55:50+00:00

Not the end all be all but is greatly appreciated. Only wire sexy clothes like twice and both times I asked did it. Take the initiative. Surprise your man like an unexpected Christmas gift.

And trust me when I say this. If their dick gets hard for you with no clothes they’ll love you with lingerie on. Good luck!

tibberhopolmbx · 2022-08-15T23:17:22+00:00

They are very important, but it needs to be sexy with regular underwear and no underwear as well.

TheRealBobaFettt · 2022-08-15T23:33:26+00:00

I absolutely love lingerie on a partner! That being said it’s not the most important thing. Some people aren’t comfortable in those types of clothes, I don’t mind however, everyone is beautiful naked.

2022-08-15T23:39:04+00:00

I like satin and lacy, but anything gets me going.

ftdrain · 2022-08-16T03:50:41+00:00

It can compliment a women's body, side panties fuck is sexy as hell. But overall its totally passable

Temporary_Pair_5829 · 2022-08-16T16:10:37+00:00

I tend not to wear lingerie during sex as it might send her the wrong signals

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