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recyclablebanthas · 2022-06-30T08:03:55+00:00

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kalixxte · 2022-06-30T07:55:42+00:00

I'm curious why you think women only like white dudes when there are literally millions of interracial couples in the world?

Pop_Zestyclose · 2022-06-30T07:27:44+00:00

You don't necessarily need money to have a girlfriend, but whatever money you want to use for things like going out, you'll need to set aside. Prostitution may be illegal depending on where you're at and it could be unregulated so there's that. I feel like your post is disingenuous as it doesn't seem like you're asking for advice but rather venting your frustrations around your preconceived notions of women and money.

DanishApollon · 2022-06-30T07:17:22+00:00

You need no money to get a girlfriend. What you need is to work on your self esteem.

Pringles__ · 2022-06-30T08:08:50+00:00

You know what girls love before money and status? Confidence.

You may not be the most handsome man out there but you can improve your looks.

Plus not all women care about that.

Stop with this loser mentality and start working on yourself.

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-06-30T07:21:40+00:00

It's still half true. Girls like status. Yeah pretty much. Girls care about money? a lil bit but till you have an at least average paying job and you are not homeless they don't care about it that much, they much rather care about what leads you to that money. Are you ambitious, and open-minded? are you dedicated? That's what they care about even more.

TheArchstryker · 2022-06-30T08:39:45+00:00

Bruh. If you're not physically attractive, just go for someone in a similar situation. If you go for a girl who's after your money, trust me that relationship will feel absolutely horrible compared to someone who might be plain-looking but loves you for who you are. Because you'll always have the thought at the back of your head that she might be cheating on you or if she'll leave you at the slightest hint of money troubles 🤷 It's not worth it. I've dated plain-looking women and more often than not, they are more loving and caring.

CptHoytUdall · 2022-06-30T09:47:48+00:00

I've seen plenty of unemployed, broke ass dirt bag losers get girls. You don't need any money.

potatoeswithfries · 2022-06-30T07:18:01+00:00

You don't need money to get girls. You can be broke and still get laid. In the case of some girls you just have to seem like you have money.

The assumption that women only like "white boys" seems incorrect to me too. Where I live incels complain non-stop that girls only want to fuck black guys and Arabs - while it might be true that such guys are especially attractive to girls, complaints like this assume the over-importance of race, just as you are doing.

Read this thing, apply it, enjoy.

MrBlack__ · 2022-06-30T08:09:47+00:00

Enough to have your own place

And enough to pay for a girls Uber to get to her and one to take her home.

Status on the other hand… the more you get the more bitches you get

lokipoki30 · 2022-06-30T08:13:39+00:00

Women don’t care about money that much , looks are king .

Even charisma is not enough

Fluffy_Risk9955 · 2022-06-30T09:24:44+00:00

Depending on your age, you don't need any money. You need to right mindset and have fun attitude.

kalixxte · 2022-06-30T09:39:11+00:00

Confidence can make someone incredibly attractive even if they may not be stereotypically 'hot' by mainstream standards. As others here have said, work on yourself first. Also, cultivate your mind. Get interesting hobbies. Usually love finds you when you aren't looking for it.

neotyler3 · 2022-06-30T09:57:27+00:00

You don't need money to get a girl. You need money to invest on yourself. Invest on yourself heavily and you will get girl effortlessly. Start making value of you.

EthicalSeduction · 2022-06-30T10:47:23+00:00

It’s truly not about money but about what you have to offer someone else. This means being able to take care of yourself for the most part AND having extra time and energy to love and support someone else. But it’s things like being caring and fun that matter most. People want to be valued, loved, and appreciated.

My suggestion is to trying hanging out with women more. Just befriend a few people and get to know them. Don’t make moves on these people because you need them as true friends. And this will in turn give you the insights to be able to find your future girlfriend.

And sex workers are wonderful. They are good people too and should be treated as such.

Kronuk · 2022-06-30T07:51:24+00:00

I don’t have much money and I have a very attractive girlfriend who has dated millionaires and famous influencers in the past

xLoafdaddy · 2022-06-30T08:03:30+00:00

None my boi

MihaiRau · 2022-06-30T08:14:40+00:00

No money, love is free. She has to fall in love with your personality so work on that. Make yourself a person that others want to be around and you will notice how girls will actually come to you instead of you chasing them.

If you wann buy love, yes you can do that, but it will be something shallow and empty that will only fill your need in the short term. I can't advise this.

cache_bag · 2022-06-30T07:41:20+00:00

Are you looking for a relationship or are you looking for a gold digger / sugar baby?

But hey, if you enjoy getting bled out of your money, while you share her (or eveb double dip) with her real bf, be my guest.

VNF420 · 2022-06-30T07:43:28+00:00

Bro you need some self esteem right now. I'm short, bald and broke af but still manage to pull girls on a weekly basis. I know I am far away from a chad but I also know my value and girls see it.

Fapandwarmshowers · 2022-06-30T08:01:07+00:00

Get physically attractive then before worrying about woman

ricewheelie · 2022-06-30T08:40:25+00:00

Two dorra Fitty

ExplosionIsFar · 2022-06-30T08:16:47+00:00

Minimum 350k

Skizznitt · 2022-06-30T08:42:22+00:00

If you don't mind the Loch Ness monster, oh just about tree fiddy.

YoungCoconut18 · 2022-06-30T09:07:09+00:00

Nah bruh don’t lose it to a prostitute. Just gotta get some game and confidence

ImpossibleBig6011 · 2022-06-30T09:27:29+00:00

I think your question is an intriguing one and I wish to give my insight.

Please read my full comment before giving a judgement as the beginning does sound cliche but I will give my reasons and expand.

Money can be a great way to demonstrate status, but all you will attract with only money is someone who flatters your ego only because of your money. You say your not physically attractive? It’s easier said than done but invest in a gym membership. Everyone starts somewhere but a cut and fit body is not only attractive to the eyes, but it also demonstrates that your motivated and work towards something you want to women which is a very attractive trait in anyone to anyone. Another reason why working out would be very beneficial is something a lot of guys in here are saying is very important too that the gym will help you gain: confidence. Knowing that your working hard to give yourself something and seeing the physical transformation of your body will boost your self confidence. Confidence displays to a woman that your someone she can be open to, respect and consider as an option. After all who doesn’t find themselves assured being around someone who’s confident in themselves? It goes a long way in both verbal and non verbal communication. Not to say money means nothing to a significant portion of the female population as like I said before it displays status and security in a comfortable lifestyle but it’s not as important as the previous things listed that will also make a woman like you for you and not something that you have. Which is what you want right?

To answer your last question, no. The part of sex that people hold in high esteem isn’t just the feeling, but the connection. If your considering hiring a prostitute, you might as well just jerk off instead. Sure pussys gonna feel better than your hand but if you put significance behind the fact that your a virgin like you obviously do, do it with someone real who genuinely wants you, to get the full experience of being connected in the soul and the flesh. It might take longer than just hiring a prostitute but it’s so much more worth it for your first time.

Commercial_Habit_923 · 2022-06-30T09:30:21+00:00

Realistically you only need like $20 bucks. Prostitution is never worth it, trust me

Interesting-Wish69 · 2022-06-30T09:40:03+00:00

It’s not just money. That’s important but you need looks and a good life set up to get girls. Both of these things can be improved.

realistfake12 · 2022-06-30T09:48:15+00:00

Girls like fun. Money is a vehicle to allow you to have fun through the freedom of choice. So enough money so that it is not a limiting factor.

Also, how old are you?

BreakDance4cash · 2022-06-30T09:54:25+00:00

For low end materialistic girl u will need to spend around 2000 a month on her, for a high end materialistic girl ull need to spend around 6k to 5k. There are some girls that will keep u happy for the cash flow dont give up bro

timetobbetter · 2022-06-30T10:23:36+00:00

Money is irrelevant. I had a gf for 4 years and I was broke. If anyone tells you that you need money to get a girl you’re close minded.

Sup3rHD · 2022-06-30T10:45:27+00:00

0. Women dont mean shit, even 1 dollar

thatshinobiboiii · 2022-06-30T11:12:01+00:00

Being whit what’s little to do with attracting girls unless your already a seven or above. 2. Yes you need money but you also need an attractive personality, focus on that more than anything else. 3.I have hired a prostitute, all I can say is make sure you use a reliable website and go to the sexworkers subreddits here if your serious about it, anything under 400 is either a scam or you’ll get stds/robbed, if it’s over that amount it’s still likely a scam, don’t give any money, unless it’s a very small deposit (like 60$), until you meet said person face to face.

hookedonfonicsmunky · 2022-06-30T12:10:00+00:00

walk into any and all situations like they want you

thetitan66 · 2022-06-30T13:09:30+00:00

We need less of this loser mentality in this sub. If it was really impossible for broke, fat, or ugly people to get girls then why do some of these guys have girlfriends.

Look around you, these guys can get girlfriends and so can you. Being of higher value may reduce the chances of rejection but it’s still a numbers game.

You will get rejected, you just need to keep putting yourself out there and improve the things you can.

Jay-Ames · 2022-06-30T13:40:49+00:00

I am a black man and living proof women (from all races) do not only like white guys.You don't need money to get a girlfriend but I won't lie, it does help.

I also do not recommend a prostitute.

But at one time in my life i was at the exact same point as you are. Try and change your thinking. Focus on making your life awesome. Doing that basically contains everything that attracts women.

Let me use some amateur sports as an example because there is no money involved. Let's say 50 guys enter a marathon. 49 look hot. 1 looks avarage. But the avarage one wins the game. Women will be around that guy. Why? Because of status.

So you go do something you are good at. Sports, creating an online business or whatever. Just go and do that and women will come. Just be patient

Robofrogg1 · 2022-06-30T13:48:50+00:00

If you think money is all you need then yeah, just hire prostitutes.

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