I’m not attracted to women who aren’t really hot how can i fix this?

Therocksays2020 · 2022-05-11T03:03:10+00:00

You treat women the same. I have a set of rules I follow for all women. No one is on a pedastool

The-Bull89 · 2022-05-11T03:38:51+00:00

Stop watching porn and stop following hot girls on social media that you don't actually know.

The less hot girls you see the lower your standards will drop.

If you're a virgin you need to be practicing with lesser attractive girls until you gain confidence and experience.

Thin_Protection5616 · 2022-05-11T05:07:52+00:00

Right now you are stuck with no girls.

Find some chicks that are mildly attractive and practice with them without committing. Problem solved

fookincharlie · 2022-05-11T03:12:02+00:00

 Less attractive women still mostly "act" like attractive women. Practice dating etc. with the less attractive women first where you don't really feel attraction so you can see through the way she behaves etc. & continue this "exposure therapy" with more women & more attractive women & over time you'll be able to talk to anybody. Or just go straight to attractive women, but make it a goal to approach them for conversations/to get dates/numbers/meetups/Snapchats. Make small attainable goals like for month approach 1 attractive woman a day at a local college recreational center, then on month 2 up it to 2 a day, then 4 a day, then eventually build up the habit of talking to any attractive female who's near you.

emlcul · 2022-05-11T09:35:06+00:00

Someone can actually become a lot more attractive when you get to know them

XtraSaucyy · 2022-05-11T15:19:33+00:00

There’s a lot wrong with your statement. I’ve seen one comment here where it says how many hot girls have you been with and it’s 0. The reason you get uncomfortable around hot girls is you don’t know how to act around them. You don’t know how to act around an unattractive woman so of course you’re uncomfortable with a hot girl. I had the same mentality until I realized how stupid it is. What if the girl you want only wants hot studs and you’re not one. How would you feel about that? Maybe she wants someone who can fuck her brains out and you’re certainly not that guy. Plenty of fish in the sea but right now you better focus on the whales because the mermaids don’t want you

hagakurejunkie · 2022-05-11T05:25:58+00:00

That's why you're a virgin. You have standards that are too high for your own good. Stop watching porn and meet real people.

You're basically trying to say "Well I watch boxing on tv once, now I'm trying to get a fight with Floyd Mayweather, how do I do it?"

The hot girl has WAYYYYY more experience than you. She gets hit on 40 times a day.

For example: I'm seeing this chick, former stripper, chill as fuck, sexpot. She is dope as fuck.

She is also a predator posing as a housepet and just for fun she'll be like: "I'm gonna go get that guy to buy me a drink, what do you want?" I'll tell her "Eh, PBR and a shot of Jager" and 5 minutes later she will literally walk back with a drink and a shot for her, my beer and shot and she's coming home with me.

You cannot fake game with that girl, she'll eat you alive. To me it's just amusing but to be completely honest, if I were less experienced, this girl would have me around her finger and she'd just be a headache in my life.

On top of that, every single retard in the bar is constantly drooling all over her. Thankfully I'm menacingly large and heavily tattooed or I'd probably end up in fights all night over this chick as weak dudes WILL constantly test you if you're with a hot girl.

My advice to you, stay off the porn and lose your virginity to a nice cute girl who likes you. I will always go for the cute fun girl over the hot girl every single day. Far less headaches and hassle.

luclme · 2022-05-11T09:33:56+00:00

If that’s all you’re after then you’re not gonna be in a happy healthy relationship. Sounds like you’re too immature to be dating atm. Just focus on bettering yourself right now, find hobbies, climb the career ladder, volunteer.

JayBil94 · 2022-05-11T14:30:59+00:00

Maybe all y’all should just not rate women or anyone based on how they look like? Just food for the thought. Yes we all have preferences, but if you automatically say “oh I’m not attracted to non hot women” then you’re just the most superficial person out there. And that’s something you gotta fix buddy. Besides who sets the standards for “hot woman”? Stop following what media, other people etc etc say. Just follow your heart and soul, and don’t treat women like pieces of meat. It’s no wonder you’re a virgin, gotta work on that ego my friend. that’s my suggestion. ✌🏽

Seano16 · 2022-05-11T14:39:38+00:00

Stop watching porn

hookedonfonicsmunky · 2022-05-11T13:31:05+00:00

Go out with them, they have no personality most of the time

Skinnylicious3 · 2022-05-11T17:51:20+00:00

Are you yourself attractive and hot lol?

Jay-Ames · 2022-05-11T20:26:33+00:00

Talk to all women and give them all respect. Because (unless they are crazy) they deserve it. Not only that, you get used to talking to women.

My guess that is what is wrong here. Too little experience taking to them. So once you see a really hot one you don't know what to say or do.

If you talk to all women you'll learn how to stay cool.

MrNippyFlips · 2022-05-11T21:41:29+00:00

STOP WATCHING PORN ✋🏽🛑

gillmanblacklagooner · 2022-05-11T20:54:03+00:00

There’s a canyon between not being attracted and being uncomfortable around. You should go for the ones you find attractive. Which women do you find hot? Go.

VisionsOfVisions · 2022-05-11T04:29:14+00:00

If you bring high enough value to the table that you can both attract and keep an attractive woman, there really isn't anything for you to fix.

thatAwkwardBrownDude · 2022-05-11T14:08:31+00:00

Watch the movie Don Jon

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-05-11T15:15:12+00:00

Simple answer is to start becoming attracted to unattractive women.

DrTommySalami · 2022-05-11T15:39:51+00:00

Stop beating your dick

JudgmentMoto · 2022-05-11T16:38:58+00:00

After you read this comment, never watch porn again. And don't jerk off every fucking day. Not watching porn will make you less picky. Not jerking off will make you more bold when you hit on girls.

Be a hungry, horny tiger!

QueenBigO · 2022-05-11T17:03:58+00:00

Are you hot?

Sora1499 · 2022-05-11T20:43:52+00:00

Quit porn. It'll do wonders.

Gunsmith_Cats · 2022-05-11T20:57:09+00:00

Why is this a problem

angieshum · 2022-05-11T21:46:20+00:00

Become a good looking guy yourself, go to the gym, dress well, have a great hair cut. Like attracts like. There is nothing wrong with liking beauty as long as it’s not extra vain.

IfikiEdem · 2022-05-11T22:11:40+00:00

First you need to get confident. You lack a lot of confidence just by me reading your post. And that’s number one in talking to women you find attractive; confidence. And being a virgin doesn’t matter. I lost mine at 21. I know some that have not yet. Right now focus on building who you are. Accept rejection, embrace it, don’t be afraid of it. It fuels a man and makes him stronger, if he reverse engineers that rejection into a lesson for himself. One quote I like is this; “a man must become, for women to come.”

Title	I’m not attracted to women who aren’t really hot how can i fix this?
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Upvotes	11
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Date	May 11, 2022 3:01 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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