Eye contact

LZSaix · 2020-10-07T16:14:01+00:00

Yes it be feeling good. Just remember holding eye contact for too long can also creep out. Some dont like that so use it sparingly but without fear.

kirilefonti · 2020-10-07T16:38:21+00:00

Try smiling too

Douglex · 2020-10-07T17:06:48+00:00

Great! However, do not make the mistake of thinking that eye contact is what's making the women check you out. All it did was help you notice receptive women, but it also made the women think you're open, too. And that's a good thing. When a woman wants you, you'll notice that the process goes very smooth. Treat game as a filter--weeding out women who are not interested--and life gets so much easier. Nowadays, I just go outside and look for women are checking me out and I just approach. No gimmicks, no corny jokes. Just greet them and ask like 3 basic questions, a genuine compliment, then close.

bayfarm · 2020-10-07T16:49:30+00:00

As a girl, I can 100% say eye contact during a conversation makes a big difference!! It is not as common as one may think and is quite endearing.

EmpVaaS · 2020-10-07T16:39:14+00:00

Can you give examples of those compliments?

nordicdatingmentor · 2020-10-07T17:33:09+00:00

Welcome to reality brother! Rare to see seduction in the seduction reddit.

Doalt · 2020-10-07T18:01:54+00:00

I always want to keep Eye Contact...and I don't have a problem doing it however I always feel like a psychopath when I just look her into the eyes

2020-10-07T18:17:44+00:00

Eye contact is one of the most underrated things you can do to boost your attraction.

Whismirk · 2020-10-07T16:53:58+00:00

Quick exercise for people out here who might have trouble with this : choose random people in the bus/train/metro, then look at them. No creepy stare, just neutral eye contact. Try to hold it until they look away, then pick another person.

Don't think too much, don't be weird about it, and it will do wonders to your confidence.

GrandMasterB19 · 2020-10-07T18:16:28+00:00

Following your instincts is extremely liberating.

-That line pretty much sums up the crux of most of the dating advice I give other men. In todays backwards PC world, just trusting your instincts and intuition as a man and confidently and freely expressing your masculinity can go pretty far with women.

Twobithatter · 2020-10-07T17:06:51+00:00

Look into using sleepy/bedroom eye style contact. My normal eye contact is more open eyed and serious, so my normal everyday eye contact. Women get the sleepy eyed with a smirk eye contact

2020-10-07T17:55:29+00:00

Two videos that can help with eye contact.

Tim Ferriss and Mike Tyson

RealJoeDee · 2020-10-07T18:40:31+00:00

Don't forget the "eyebrow flash". Very simple tweak that makes eye contact work so much better.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eyebrow_flash#:~:text=The%20eyebrow%20flash%20is%20an,one%2Dfifth%20of%20a%20second.

Eye contact + eyebrow flash and a smile often results in a reciprocation. You know what that is? An approach invitation. That's how you elicit an opportunity to initiate a conversation.

Yamatoman9 · 2020-10-07T17:20:10+00:00

I made it a point to increase my eye contact in the past year or so and it really does have a positive effect on people.

anon1880 · 2020-10-07T18:59:52+00:00

This. I only have eye contact with the people I trust the most and have more confidence. But I started trying to hold eye contact with a lot more people and today while I was walking through the street I saw a cute girl. We held eye contact for like 1 sec and I felt super confident. I know it isn't much, but to me it was the best part of the day.

edgeOfTheWorld12 · 2020-10-08T09:48:29+00:00

Yes i know this but than what xD

No_Ad_5775 · 2020-10-07T17:18:41+00:00

Keep updating,mind if I dm you?

discontented_damsel · 2020-10-07T19:35:44+00:00

it’s all about the personality. be funny. make her laugh. that’ll get ya laid my friend.

PositivePizza420 · 2020-10-07T19:37:10+00:00

Mm yes.. flirt with the milfs, you must.

Soft_beauty2019 · 2020-10-07T20:23:10+00:00

See md

abjones97 · 2020-10-07T20:43:02+00:00

Good job man, getting out of your own head is essential. Just go with the flow, let shit happen and don't worry or sweat it on the way

TriiZero · 2020-10-07T16:40:18+00:00

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gnarRatty · 2020-10-07T19:05:54+00:00

You just went up to random moms and complimented them? That’s weird

gghardstick123 · 2020-10-07T18:10:16+00:00

This is type cringe tbh. But to randomly just start going to women who look at you because your looking is beyond cringe.

kader0x · 2020-10-07T20:01:21+00:00

I have a problem maintaining eye contact, if I don't remind myself when to look away or I would look like a serial killer

relentless_pma · 2020-10-07T20:10:16+00:00

I am saying hello to a lot of people I pass outside to get that into my system. I try making eye contact with girls I like too, but they dont watch back.

rhofire · 2020-10-08T02:15:05+00:00

Following your instincts is extremely liberating.

You're on the path to true game. If you can keep going, you're going to see the world from a perspective few men get to experience. Don't fall into the trap of following countless dating guides and B.S. Go for what you want.

True game is primal.

Also, I see comments about what can go wrong, etc. Don't worry about all that. Stay confident, you'll figure things out very fast. The game is really simple, the hard part is unlearning all the B.S. we tend to believe.

Feel free to get in touch if you get stuck at any point.

wingnut1964 · 2020-10-08T02:38:46+00:00

I have several employees that report to me and I try to keep business and personal life seperate. One report is a young lady and is extremely attractive, much younger then I, I complemented once on her eyes. Not trying to flirt. And now she is constantly staring at me or comes into my bubble space. Im very polite and step away, but if we connect eyes for more then 2-3 sec's it feels like eye sex. Usually my flight or fight panic kicks in around 10 sec's, then Im outta there and try to avoid her throughout the rest of the day. Most of the time is old grannies staring at me, I always smile back.

yumyumgivemesome · 2020-10-08T03:15:26+00:00

I regularly jog on a popular trail that has its share of cute women. Do you all think the same kind of sustained eye contact from the OP would be meaningful when passing by a girl jogging/walking the opposite direction? Somehow the thought seems awkward. Maybe I’m just overthinking it and need to give it a damn try.

benerdelyi · 2020-10-08T05:02:39+00:00

The only person I had a strong eye contact was with myself in the mirror.

popaknot154 · 2020-10-08T06:14:46+00:00

Keep it going.

wolfhybred1994 · 2020-10-08T11:21:57+00:00

That’s great. Just be yourself, be friendly and be nice. Being more confident is good and being friendly will help get a conversation going and find ones you click with and can get to know each other.

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2020-10-08T11:23:58+00:00

Being tall or handsome,having masculine swagger,giving strong eye contact with a prolonged gaze,and a sly smirk is like putting women in a genjutsu.

abanterbus123 · 2020-10-08T11:30:02+00:00

MILFs? Where can I find one of those?

2020-12-05T04:47:47+00:00

Good Eye contact makes even good girls drop their panties

neisbsudnei9191 · 2020-10-07T18:12:00+00:00

Lmfao who raised yall? The majority of the population are told to look people in their eyes when you talk... how is this even a issue? Looks alone can easily bed women (the literal definition of one night stand) and women are more receptive to you based on your looks. You can do the experiment yourself and see that with hot men women naturally stare vs ugly men women naturally avoid any type of eye contact because they don’t want them having a reason to approach them.

Title	Eye contact
Author	habbyshouse
Upvotes	1193
Comments	161
Date	October 7, 2020 3:33 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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