Has an EXTREMELY direct approach ever worked for you?

VorpalPaperclip · 2022-01-04T05:54:06+00:00

Dude, try it! Just say, “Hi, I gotta go but don’t want to miss this chance, whats your name and number?” Report back!

excentrik-art · 2022-01-04T08:20:18+00:00

Yes sure, on submissive girls and also on busy girls

Mriconicdev · 2022-01-04T10:10:20+00:00

This approach works for me all the time but I’ll be honest I’m 6’4, in really good shape, outgoing and my confidence shows heavily when I first meet someone. I know that helps to get me in the door initially and directness almost always works whether at the gym or grocery store etc. when I was insecure and fat it never worked though lol. I would get the “I have a boyfriend” or “I’m lesbian” line a ton.

sunkized · 2022-01-04T11:13:38+00:00

Yes, but I thought it was a rejection. She came to my barracks room later and asked me if I wanted to hang out.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-04T06:16:38+00:00

All my approaches have been direct. You need to show up as a man though.

Popular-Rate3182 · 2022-01-04T14:11:51+00:00

Doesn’t hurt to try when you have very little time to talk to her and you probably are not gonna see her again for the rest of your miserable life so yeah xd. Be careful about being too direct early on because that can be misinterpreted as only wanting sex so play the long indirect game preferably

2022-01-04T14:51:09+00:00

Yes. I went to a girl and sayed "I always see you here, and I want to know you", she smiled and agreed so I asked her phone number and she gave it to me. Just try it bro

2022-01-04T16:09:33+00:00

Yes direct approaches have worked for me a decent amount of time. My go to line when approaching is ‘’hey i was on my way to blank, but i saw you. What’s your name?’’ Disclaimer: this line only worked when the girl found me attractive. Direct approach only works if you’re good looking, otherwise you come off as a ‘’creep’’.

homeslice567 · 2022-01-04T18:09:48+00:00

I compliment strangers all the time and youd be surprised how often I get a direct "would you like to go out sometime?" back.

willgo-waggins · 2022-01-04T18:37:05+00:00

Yes. As a matter of fact I can tell you this worked four times over the holidays when I was out. I had signals that she was interested and I moved in early and immediately. I didn’t want to waste time or take the chance of missing opportunity because places were very crowded and a LOT of guys on the prowl along with many couples and groups because of the time of year.

So I was far more approach aggressive than I normally would be.

roakmamba · 2022-01-04T19:04:26+00:00

I once waited in line at a TMobile store (I have attnt) just so I could talk to the associate there. She was drop dead gorgeous. Told her straight out and she gave me her number. Worked but the age gap turned her off,still got the number tho.

No-Pay9075 · 2022-01-04T12:35:10+00:00

everything works and nothing works. There's really no right or wrong (barring ridiculous examples!)

If you are her type, indirect or direct is fine

And if you're not her type, nothing is going to work

MeWuzBornIn1990 · 2022-01-04T09:42:30+00:00

Yes.

letmereaddamnit · 2022-01-04T12:04:37+00:00

"Handle my ham candle?"

Worked.

MattPruga · 2022-01-04T13:28:22+00:00

Take a look at my post, "Hey, I want to meet you" is my opener pretty much any time I post

Alonso81687 · 2022-01-04T17:40:17+00:00

I'm currently in a situation where I've told a girl I've know since high school that I've had a crush on her for years. At first I was a bit hesitant to even flirt with her because of the fact that we've know each other for so long, but this past wknd we hung out and I decided to flirt pretty hard to the point that I was making her blush. Well guess what? She became more loose and accepted it and we started to talk about getting to know each other more personally. There was a lot of flirting, eye contact, and touching going on after that. The direct approach worked this time. Will it go anywhere? I I don't know, but I'll be happy that I at least shot my shot instead of wondering what could have happened if I had just manned up. Confidence I believe is incredibly sexy to most women and I showed that by not being afraid to speak my mind.

Knightrealmic · 2022-01-04T19:43:27+00:00

My current girlfriend and I met that way. I just walked up to her right when a train was about to pull up and asked if she wanted coffee

Backheelfields · 2022-01-04T20:20:26+00:00

I went up to a lady on the street one time and asked if she was single. Lol oh boy the response was so awkward

kbecel · 2022-01-05T00:25:24+00:00

Yes. It has worked. But having social proof is key. Most of the times it won't work, but you always learn to connect better for next time

FlanneryODostoevsky · 2022-01-05T01:12:51+00:00

It could work. Or at least starting off that directly and then continuing a conversation to see if these female specimen is worth your time.

Title	Has an EXTREMELY direct approach ever worked for you?
Author	FaithInStrangers94
Upvotes	46
Comments	53
Date	January 4, 2022 4:42 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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