How to get girls engaged/interested/investing/obsessed with you via text/snapchat?

Yourfavoritehomie · 2016-02-25T23:41:50+00:00

On snapchat specifically, posting genuinely interesting stories of you doing genuinely interesting things often. Go to museums, take a road trip with the guys, go diving, show off your interests like if you're watching a classic movie you really like, don't be afraid to tell the world of it. Putting yourself out there puts you on the girls' minds, because they probably check their snapchat twice a minute.

Who knows? You might find she sends you a snap going "omg you like that movie too??" Or some little comment like "omg that looks so much fun!", and take it from there.

bugxter · 2016-02-26T01:53:41+00:00

I remember I was the shit on texting and MSN. Engaging into really fun conversations with all sorts of girls...

Nowadays I don't know how to text. Women never initiated conversation with me anymore either. Don't know what changed.

chewedbacca · 2016-02-26T03:06:16+00:00

Whatever comes to your mind as a response, don't go with that. Avoid the "hey" and the "hows it going" bullshit.

Text her with a reason. Ask a question. Make a funny statement, even if it's stupid. Make sure every message you send has content that dignifies a response/reaction.

Use lots of ellipses. Self deprecating humour. Anything. It's not that difficult. Don't overuse the emojis.

Another thing I've discovered recently - turn off auto-capitalization, and when trying to be funny/sarcastic, use those classic shortforms like "u" and "2". It's like a sarcasm font. Always spice up the message content with multiple things she can react to. As a general example, if she asked "whats up" -

"Nothing much. Just got back from work, pretty tired... how about you?"

BORING.

Try: "not much tbh, but i saw a guy trip and eat shit on the walk home from work soo u can say its been an above average day"

Leaves it way more open for potential responses.

Cvon2 · 2016-02-26T01:09:12+00:00

Two words: dick pics

PositionalBomber · 2016-02-26T04:15:49+00:00

Schedule a date.

GLOOTS_OF_PEACE · 2016-02-26T07:25:10+00:00

funnily enough, RSD's Luke just put out a video about exactly this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T4wucbJAQAc

EquesBritainniae · 2016-02-26T06:01:31+00:00

Wow guys. Wasn't expecting the huge volume of responds. I appreciate all of the comments. Hopefully more people can benefit as well as me :) .

dafuqey · 2016-02-26T03:32:34+00:00

Post picture of you holding massive bankrolls. Or if you are extremely good looking, post picture of yourself with six pack abs. Otherwise forget the idea that they will invest their time first.

quakeboy · 2016-02-26T17:42:40+00:00

You gotta learn text game. Its not as hard as actual game and also not as effective in developing yourself or your interactions with women. But that being said it does help in increasing your chances of getting laid in today's Tinderful world.

Pretty much same things apply as in Mystery method like attraction, rapport, comfort etc. Except you need keep everything as minimal as possible and always be done with a goal of asking her out on an actual fucking date. As if you give everything away on text, she will lose interest.

We are starting a new series where break down online dating site chats, tinder conversation on our site. Here is our first example. I would love some feedback.

doiinthanon · 2016-02-25T23:37:14+00:00

Be charismatic.

mrlamename · 2016-02-25T23:26:09+00:00

Be interesting.

synthrockftw · 2016-02-26T05:40:02+00:00

Use some sort of tease.. wear a showy tank with good underwear.

Only recommend if you work out and or good looking.

A_private_gentlemen · 2016-02-26T05:37:58+00:00

That depends on a few different variables. What's the age group? What's your type? To what end are you intending to pursue this to?

Depending on your answers it's doable. I've done it multiple times but each situation requires different methods of psychology.

NightmarishPT · 2016-02-26T10:44:19+00:00

Are you rich?

EquesBritainniae · 2016-02-26T15:56:17+00:00

Would any of you recommend any FREE ebooks, YouTube vids, motivational/educational podcasts or audio clips and so on that would help me not just with texting/messaging but with girls in general?

nerga · 2016-02-26T03:07:15+00:00

I've never used this snapchat thing so I can't comment there. But for texting, you should use it minimally. If you have their number, texting is there just to contact her and set up another in person meeting. Make a joke with her, tell her to meet up with you, smiley face and then escalate in person.

tyson2444 · 2016-02-26T07:45:38+00:00

Text for logistics only. Source: Changed my dating life completely, in a positive way.

kickit · 2016-02-26T02:12:33+00:00

Who bro. Ur not gonna get engaged via snapchat. Try for meet irl 1st

rollerboogie · 2016-02-26T20:57:00+00:00

This isn't really something that can be taught. It just takes wit and people skills. I kill at winning girls over via text but I'm a nervous mess in real life. I can't really say how I do it.

I just try to gauge what the other person likes. How often they like to be texted. But yeah it really depends on the person you're talking to.

EquesBritainniae · 2016-02-26T07:52:09+00:00

One thing that irritates me is when girls randomly do not respond or block me. For example, I was snapchatting a girl who I'm friend with (got a bf) and asked if any of her friends were single. She said some of them were, and then said night (it was late). Just as she sends it, I say "names? :) " Didn't mean to bother her after she 'signed off' but it literally sent as she sent hers. She sees it, doesn't reply and proceeds to block me. Wtf?

Title	How to get girls engaged/interested/investing/obsessed with you via text/snapchat?
Author	EquesBritainniae
Upvotes	107
Comments	87
Date	February 25, 2016 10:36 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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