Do me a favor, look at this picture for as long as you'd like, just look at it, and think whatever you'd like while you look at it: http://i.imgur.com/kwEfpNt.jpg

Ok, now how do you feel? You feel fucking good right? Some might feel better than others, as we all have different tastes, but still. You probably feel a subtle combination, of bliss, horny, manliness. Your thoughts might be NSFW. Your mind and body just shift into a state that feels better than the one you had before.

Now be realistic and consider if you would feel the same sitting across from her in real life. Unless you're one of the better guys on here probably not. In fact you might feel unpleasant. Instead of feeling bliss, horniness, dominance... you might start to feel a bit awkward, fidgety, maybe butterflies in your stomach. This is going to show in your body language, and you won't look as normal and attractive as you do sitting here looking at that picture on the screen.

So, you're goal should be to make it so that when you see, or are with a girl in real life, you feel the same as you do looking at that picture on the screen. How? Eliminate the negative feelings that are added to the in person scenario. Including: fears she'll reject you because she senses your sexual desire, guilt over it, maybe even shame over it, an underlying assumption that women see it as "wrong" that men feel and think sexually, and the false assumption that women aren't very sexual creatures. Be conscious of all those things from now on. And try to eradicate these negative feelings and thoughts from yourself gradually. Until they're gone completely.

When you do this your feeling being around a girl in real life, will be as pure and natural as the feeling looking at the screen alone. And it will show on you. You'll come off as a guy who spends time around women, and is capable of seducing them.