Hygiene & Grooming

SilverSeal10 · 2020-07-04T01:21:14+00:00

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zeesh_kapeesh · 2020-07-04T01:00:03+00:00

Spot on except don't use a qtip for your ears! You have the risk of damaging your eardrum.

jrgardenlover · 2020-07-04T01:12:06+00:00

For my ears, I simply dry them with a towel real good. I'm on the older side and recently discovered bald spots. I simply whacked it all off and am rocking the bald look. (I was bald once before, when supporting a friend that had cancer. A LOT of women found it very sexy on me!)

As for sheets, have multiple sets of sheets, and make sure they match with the decor of your bedroom. (Example: if your bedroom has red and blue as part of the decor, have a solid red sheet set, a solid blue sheet set, and a multicolor print set with both blue and red in the scheme.)

SilverSeal10 · 2020-07-04T01:16:59+00:00

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budzy1996 · 2020-07-04T03:40:39+00:00

I read this like the morning routine in American Psycho

RavenNight16 · 2020-07-04T01:49:05+00:00

From a hairstylist, just condition right after shampooing. If you have hair that gets oily quicker, definitely only use it right after shampooing. Using it on non-wash days will just add to the buildup of oils and make it look greasier! If you don’t get your hair wet between washes, you can also skip the conditioner on days you don’t wash. I recommend this, as wetting the hair between washes can dry it and your scalp out.

triopstrilobite · 2020-07-04T01:17:20+00:00

Assuming there's a lot of younger guys on here: I think the body hair is somewhat optional. Lot of women find it sexy in that they're not with a boy. Just fruit for thought

SilverSeal10 · 2020-07-04T01:35:31+00:00

This is the best advice I’ve read on this sub. Well done!

colormelts · 2020-07-04T04:49:16+00:00

Agreee. I don’t like rating people but since it was mentioned in the post - I would rather take a hygienic 5 over a semi hygienic to downright gross 10. ANY DAY.

xxslaying · 2020-07-04T01:48:25+00:00

Alpha m on YouTube has some pretty solid advice as well, really good list tho

DanJDare · 2020-07-04T02:23:47+00:00

Just like to add some things to this otherwise great list.

1) the only thing you should put in your ears is your elbows. Please no Q tips they can injure your ears leave them as is unless they are blocked.

2) On a more personal note please avoid exfoliating scrubs that use plastic micro beads, that shit just washes straight out into the ocean. Either find plastic free ones or make them yourself. I use a simple sugar/oil scrub and it's fantastic.

C0ld_H4ndz · 2020-07-04T00:54:35+00:00

Everything I’m cool with except the hair, gotta rock my weeb-samurai pony tail, thanks for all the other tips though fam!!

2020-07-04T01:55:59+00:00

Yes men 👆🏻This. Yes. This. It makes a HUGE difference to us women!!!

1337bonkers · 2020-07-03T22:46:06+00:00

what do u use to trim the pubes

ghlibisk · 2020-07-04T06:05:39+00:00

In the shower I use a water activated gel cleanser, then a honey almond body scrub, and on the face an exfoliating gel scrub. Then I apply an herb-mint facial masque which I leave on for 10 minutes while I prepare the rest of my routine. I always use an after shave lotion with little or no alcohol, because alcohol dries your face out and makes you look older. Then moisturizer, then an anti-aging eye balm followed by a final moisturizing protective lotion.

It's lethal.

DillonIsMyFavoritest · 2020-07-04T12:01:56+00:00

For those who can't stop biting their nails there is a clear bitter nail polish so you will associate the bad taste with biting your nails. It works!

SilverSeal10 · 2020-07-04T01:57:26+00:00

What is the best way to shave your pubes though? I am straight up scared af to go at it with a razor and my trimmer for that matter.

SilverSeal10 · 2020-07-04T01:42:21+00:00

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SilverSeal10 · 2020-07-04T03:58:05+00:00

A good diet will be much better for your skin than a skin care routine. Im also curious how much genetics affects this (I'm just speculating) because I have always been told I have great skin and I have never used products (girls always get surprised when they see I do not own skin care products)

rprookie · 2020-07-04T04:55:37+00:00

For all my black men out there don’t over wash your hair. YouTube is all you need to learn how to take care of your hair.

GreenyGaming · 2020-07-04T07:06:45+00:00

Great content. Especially for skin care. I've been neglecting that.

Another tip from me: Clean your living space.

Tidy up daily, vacuum and mop the floors one to two times a week, clean the toilet bowl. Clean your windows. I do it once every two months.

And most importantly, make your bed the moment you get up. Even before you go and take a shit. Don't matter if you have a guest over.

PepeLePunk · 2020-07-04T11:16:15+00:00

Mods, this post should be stickied!

leftdude31 · 2020-07-04T12:11:48+00:00

Everything is great !

Although myself I need to go for haircuts every 3 weeks because my hair follicles grow fast.

Thanks for the post.

NJBarFly · 2020-07-04T12:59:12+00:00

Protip: Get the expensive multi day antiperspirants. Put it on at night before bed, then wash off the next day in the shower. You won't sweat and your shirts won't get weird yellow pit stains.

kidmikey13 · 2020-07-04T13:10:36+00:00

These are excellent tips. It’s kind of sad that you have to list them out like this as everything here is just part of my regular routine. Maybe that’s why I never have issues with women?!

If followed, your appearance will be vastly improved...especially the haircut suggestion as that is one of the important initial impression attributes.

TripleThreatWannabe · 2020-07-04T14:00:55+00:00

This is more like it! As a woman, it sucks when men don’t make this BASIC effort.

2020-07-04T14:34:00+00:00

Ok Patrick Bateman.

itbelikewat10 · 2020-07-04T14:57:25+00:00

doing some of these thing but you’re right. just gotta put these into a routine and then finally i’m fuckable

nn_slush · 2020-07-04T17:56:43+00:00

How do you balance your anti-transpirant's odor with that of the perfume? Special odorless anti-transpirant? Same-smell anti-transp and perfume?

tehstbn · 2020-07-07T19:36:46+00:00

Moderators, why would you remove a post like this? Everyone loves it and is giving constructive feedback.

speedy100 · 2020-07-12T15:40:43+00:00

Can someone repost it - it's deleted

Meraxes9 · 2020-07-04T03:47:08+00:00

Agree with everything except the Jeremy Fragrance part. I’d rather watch Gents Scents or Joy Amin.

web5- · 2020-07-04T04:14:13+00:00

All great advice. My doctor recommended not using Q-tips as mentioned. She recommended when In the shower, use warm water and put your head under the faucet, cup your hands over your ears and let the warm water loosen up the earwax. Won’t damage your eardrums that way

DirtyLickins · 2020-07-04T04:45:39+00:00

Thank you.

SamwiseGanja69 · 2020-07-04T12:51:23+00:00

You lost me at toner...

xxslaying · 2020-07-04T02:10:44+00:00

Forgot the tiege handley plug

intenTenacity · 2020-07-04T06:24:33+00:00

Sorry for sounding ignorant, but how do you trim underarms and pubes...?

Henry1502inc · 2020-07-04T10:42:43+00:00

You forgot about butt hair lol

Rough-Tension · 2020-07-04T13:55:02+00:00

I have curly hair and I have no idea how to treat it. I have a nice shampoo and conditioner for it but that’s as much as I know. I tried looking up curly hair care but it only comes up with women’s advice. Anyone have any tips?

5baserush · 2020-07-04T15:28:02+00:00

How much money have you made of those ref links?

Aceguynemer · 2020-07-04T16:04:25+00:00

I'd also add:convert to cold showers. For some reason, I always feel fresher, longer after one of those. Plus, the cold doesn't bother me as much anymore, so you can cold proof yourself at the same time if anyone has been wanting to do that.

throwawaypines · 2020-07-04T18:48:30+00:00

You use hair conditioner on days you dont use shampoo? Why?

I just wash my hair every other day and use both on the same days. The conditioner counters the shampoo drying your hair out

itbelikewat10 · 2020-07-04T19:30:25+00:00

i’m just recommenting lol i am now putting everything you recommended in my cart. i’m going to hella improve my game on this bro.

adyuma · 2020-07-06T05:50:52+00:00

Hey mate, great post! I do most of these except never used a toner before and never knew what it is. Can you explain whats this for and how it helps?

PlayerInvictus · 2020-07-04T01:32:29+00:00

I use razor to trim my pubs and armpits lol....

SilverSeal10 · 2020-07-04T01:38:46+00:00

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FusionFantasy · 2020-07-04T03:18:41+00:00

Bravo!

mxh109020 · 2020-07-04T01:12:57+00:00

Nah conditioning your hair too often dries out the natural oils in your hair.

animal_crackers · 2020-07-04T02:24:42+00:00

Way overthinking it man.

Just do the obvious shit and your hygiene won’t prevent you from getting laid

SilverSeal10 · 2020-07-04T02:25:41+00:00

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Alex_O7 · 2020-07-04T05:41:23+00:00

This are really things that someone miss out in his life?

And I mean some of those stuff are basics! I will suggest to brush your teeth 3 times a day anyway (after every meal would be even better), and when you cannot make a full shower due to time at least wash yourself by piece (that's why you should have a Japanese WC or a bidet in you bathroom), and at least under arms and groin area (but don't make less than 4 shower a week).

Armyw0w · 2020-07-04T05:57:01+00:00

Q tip are bad for ears and about the hair wash, it depends on every person. My hair type needs to be daily cleaned

Trappist235 · 2020-07-04T06:19:01+00:00

Seems pretty normal except for the loofah. Never heard of it.

archie2012 · 2020-07-04T09:18:10+00:00

So looks are more important than being yourself? Amen brother.

jkxs · 2020-07-04T12:53:29+00:00

Don't pluck, get your eyebrows threaded, or waxed depending on your preference.

amakar_ · 2020-07-04T12:56:02+00:00

Did we really need a guide on basic hygiene? Wtf

Arabian911 · 2020-07-04T14:31:06+00:00

I would rather die alone while godzilla fucking my ass rather than waste my life doing all of this shit.

Everyone needs to take care of their hygiene but only obsessed people would waste their life and money on this shit.

Sorry OP but what you are describing is practically a SPA with 20 employees to make you good enough for a woman to fuck, i thought we evolved as humans beyond dedicating our life for sex

2020-07-04T16:04:56+00:00

The fact u have to tell people how to shower is... sad

mr_Tobbor · 2020-07-04T10:30:21+00:00

THIS POST won 400+ like! Why? Because it said us how to take care about hygiene!! Every page on web has this information (article or add)!!! I stop coming here anymore!

Title	Hygiene & Grooming
Author	SilverSeal10
Upvotes	662
Comments	180
Date	July 3, 2020 10:25 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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