This is probably amongst the most awkward situations I've been in my already embarrassing AFC life. I've been hooking up with this HB8 for the past week. None of it has advanced past making out and heavy petting. This is mostly due to my complete inability to remove a bra.

During one of our make-out sessions, I went for the bra and struggled for about a minute with it, then gave up and asked her to help me with it. She denied me by saying she was "sleepy" and then leaving.

Next time we're hooking up, I thought I had prepared. I watched at least 10 online videos about bra removal and was confident in my ability. But, once it came down to it, no dice. I was defeated by my new worst enemy, the horrible contraption invented by woman to encase their precious cargo. I might also add that I was quite drunk, but I wouldn't want to use that as an excuse. I settled for cuddling.

Luckily, this girl is emotionally invested in me at this point, so our relationship goes beyond physical fun, although obviously I'd like us to progress further. Funnily enough, this isn't the first bra I've encountered in my life either, although I've never been able to remove one with my hands behind a girl. Usually I just flip the bra around or ask the girl to remove it. This is the first girl that's actually denied my request.

I'm stuck at a weird impasse right now. This girl wants to go farther physically and so do I, but she's unwilling to help me out. It's almost as she's placing this test in front of me to see if I pass it. Any suggestions for my unique predicament?