If you gave me 8 hours to chop down a tree, I would spend 6 of them sharpening my axe. - Abraham Lincoln.

To make dating easy, do the work on the front end. Improve your value.

For years I tried a brute force numbers approach and had abysmal results.

It was only after I realized if I spent my time cultivating my own personal quality 80% of the time instead of chasing my luck might change.

Instead of spending night after night in the club. I spent 80% of my time doing three things.

  • Consistently Working out
  • Consistently Socializing with Anyone
  • Consistently Researching Attraction (books, courses, videos)

I call this the Tesla method.

Tesla spent 0$ on advertising but became the most valuable car company ever by focusing on improving the cars value each day until it became impossible to ignore even with 0 advertising.

This is when women start coming up to you, it’s not fast but it’s very rewarding.

At some point you become too fit to ignore. You become too suave to ignore. You become too charming, fun, and interesting to ignore.

Focus exclusively on your value first. Then the rest becomes easy.