Why Self-Improvement Is More Important Than "Getting Women"

I say this as a man who is pushing 40 years old. I say this as a man who thought to himself at one point in his life, "How do I get a girlfriend?" Some of you think that talking about self-improvement is common sense, but there are men who are millionaires who don't know shit about women. There are men who look like African and Greek Gods, but they are beta males. There are men who get tons of pussy, but they can't rub two nickels together, living off of their women.

I wrote a post called A Man’s Looks, Money, And Status Really Don’t Matter… Here’s Why where I talk about how men can have the looks, the status, and the money, but their women are still not satisfied for some reason. For the men who send comments saying, "you have to look like a male model in order to be attractive to women" that post will answer your questions (you can also do a little research on the examples given).

There are two sides to self-improvement. One side is self-acceptance from your achievements and the other side is acceptance and validation from others due to your achievements. Some of you may want to improve your lives to gain validation from women.

Right now you think you're not good enough to get women unless you look like a male model. So instead of focusing on mental and emotional strength by learning game, you skip all that and you just focus on your body or get some kind of cosmetic surgery. You notice more and more attractive women are checking you out. They are attracted to your body and your face. When you get into a relationship with these women, you think you hit the jackpot. You have a hot girlfriend! Little do you know, you'll just be a good-looking man who is controlled by his woman. Just because you're good-looking, doesn't mean she won't take you for granted.

"Yeah, but at least I'm getting pussy on the regular"

Is pussy worth more than your self-respect? Do you like being at a woman's mercy just because she's giving you pussy? Well, once the novelty of your good-looks wears off, she's gonna find another man who she actually respects (who may not be as good-looking as you by the way), and leave you.

You see, self-improvement/game trumps money, good looks, and status. You have men who were broke as fuck at one point in their lives, learned the business game, and made a shit ton of money in the billions. Some of the richest people on this planet were not born into money. They had to learn some things to build wealth.

When it comes to women, you may not have good looks, money, or status, but you have game. You learn the nature of women and how they tick, and you're getting more attractive women who love and respect...even though you're average-looking. You have the mental and emotional strength that you won't hesitate to check disrespect from a Victoria Secret model-looking woman. It's not a thing for you to reject sexual advances from beautiful women who are not worth dealing with because they're either crazy, needy, clingy, etc.

When you have game, mental and emotional strength, and you're willing to improve other areas of your life outside of women, women will become more attracted to you. They may not come in droves, but you're gonna realize that you're just living your life and women pop up, wanting to be a part of your life in some way.

Never think that self-improvement is a waste of time.