[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 9/23/13

TheChameleonPrince · 2013-09-24T03:37:28+00:00

Long time stalker. First time poster. 22/M/LosAngeles I have intimacy issues. While I can approach women all I seem capable of achieving is conversation. I let zero people in. Which then leads to zero sexual contact. Where do I start to heal these issues?

Caozao · 2013-09-24T06:27:15+00:00

I'm good at meeting people. I'm good at becoming friendly with people. The part that makes me nervous is closing. How do I (or how do you) pick the right moment to lock lips with grace and panache?

Heddon2 · 2013-09-23T21:24:35+00:00

Has anyone had success with beard game?

logicallyillogical · 2013-09-23T22:26:25+00:00

What are some good subject changers when you are stuck in a lame, interview like conversation?

Nahtanos · 2013-09-24T01:41:10+00:00

How can I become more funny?

bl1y · 2013-09-24T01:41:23+00:00

How can I become more alpha and confident?

SLYR · 2013-09-24T19:31:50+00:00

What are some great ways for someone who is under 21 and not in any school to meet women? I live in a fairly small town.

noregretss · 2013-09-23T21:59:35+00:00

How should I deal with the girl iv been taking out on dates talking to some of her exs?

bl1y · 2013-09-24T02:02:10+00:00

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Egodude · 2013-09-24T03:45:41+00:00

Total noob here. I got a girl's number at a party last week told her I would text her over the weekend. She added me on Facebook, which I would assume is a good sign considering I didn't give her my last name lol, and I texted her over the weekend and got no response. I ran into her today and asked her about it she says her phone isn't getting texts. Should I just hit her up through facebook for date logistics or talk about it in person?

throwawaytimee · 2013-09-23T23:55:50+00:00

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Elanstehanme · 2013-09-24T01:21:46+00:00

Girl I know doesn't have fb, I only see her rarely at work. Seeing her at a XC meet soon. How do I ask for her number?

Nahtanos · 2013-09-24T03:44:45+00:00

I've been doing a lot of daygame and hence go on a lot of day-2's. I've gotten pretty good at opening and then at least getting the number. My struggle now is to escalate on the day-2. What are some good ways to escalate? Mind you, the context for day-2's aren't another bar situation so the normal advice won't usually cut it. Physicality, high-energy Julien-drama, etc is for the night. I'm thinking coffee and dinners. How to push/pull there?

coolaznkenny · 2013-09-24T14:41:35+00:00

So a girl I use to have a crush on just moved back to the city. My friends and her group hang out last weekend. I talked to her but couldn't get a hook point. Soo advice?

anewman1993 · 2013-09-24T20:26:23+00:00

I have a really big problem problem finding people who have the same "mindset" as me. I'm not a goofy person, I will never be a goofy person, its just not part of who I am, I was taught not act like an idiot in public when I was younger and I don't now that I'm older. I'm perfectly ok with that, i still have fun, I'm huge into music but there are NO music venues in my town, so its hard to meet people through that. I rock climb when I can find the time as well. I don't party because I just don't enjoy it, ive tried it, its not my scene. I mean I REALLY don't like it. I get along much better with people a year or 2 out of college even though I'm still in college, NO idea why that is.

Thats not even taking into consideration women, Ive NEVER been on a date, I actually have NO problem talking to women, its getting the conversation started and escalating. I feel like a creep whenever I talk to a girl and want to escalate, i know its not logical but emotions arn't exactly logical.

I have no idea where to freaking find women to begin with, yea I'm in college but its a fairly small college (10,000ish students) and my department is small enough that Ive had a class with everyone who is also a junior before. there is a REALLY cute girl in one of my classes but I can't ever seem to get close enough to have a conversation. I'm also far enough along in my degree that ALL my classes are dealing with my major, so I don't really get to meet any new women when at school, and though there are hot girls everywhere at the gym I think I'm not going to approch there.

MonDew · 2013-09-24T21:07:01+00:00

I've come to the conclusion that i have self-esteem issues, so whats the best way to fix it. I didn't really have issues a year ago, but that's changed for some reason.

Also, any good reads or guides on flirting? A good friend of mine suggested that i start flirting a lot in daytime enviroments. I can in flirt in club enviroments, but i lack that trait in the daygame.

Afeni02 · 2013-09-25T03:00:58+00:00

How should one respond to girls throwing pieces of paper at you during class, like they're trying to get your attention. should you look back right away, ignore and not respond at all or throw the paper back?

Also, What should one say when a girl asks for a ride?

VMikeL · 2013-09-25T21:28:27+00:00

I've attracted 3 gay dudes the last few days but women seem completely uninterested in me?

O3EAN · 2013-09-25T06:22:09+00:00

I'm in high school and I've only met girls through social circles. I've tryed to day game before but I have AA, not to the point where I feel like shit about not approaching( haven't tryed to approach yet) but I was just wondering how to fix AA or how to develop the emotional leverage so that I do feel like shit if I don't approach.

MaBa37 · 2013-09-25T16:13:53+00:00

I know a girl that I really love but I heard that she thinks I'm creepy. I'm too shy aking her for a date, what can I do to make her knowing I love her ? :/

enterkey12 · 2013-09-25T17:48:17+00:00

Don't know if anyone is still reading it but I'll ask anyway.

There's a question right now that says "How do I deal with the question"

If she basically says you must get girls all the time and she asks you how many you've been with, how would you reply if she was the first one and you were a virgin?

Would a girl "like" it if a guy was a virgin and honest about this?

Afeni02 · 2013-09-27T03:35:54+00:00

What's the best way to handle other males bothering you? Nothing to do with girls but let's say you're friends with a guy and during class he might smack you with a pen in the arm or, he'll push your arm while writing? I usually just ignore them so they'll feel like assholes when they get no reaction from me (I usually play the "non-reactive game" with them and completely ignore them but it bothers me inside and I wanna tell them to stop but I don't wanna go full AFC on them by being "mad/negative" so i just don't react. What's the best way to handle these type of guys that are looking to get a reaction from you?

Title	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 9/23/13
Author	SedditModTeam
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Comments	113
Date	September 23, 2013 9:22 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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