In any way, shape, or form. Do not wear an uncomfortable bra, uncomfortable shoes, or an uncomfortable hairstyle. It took me years to learn this. I used to wear highly uncomfortable bras every day, uncomfortable shoes, uncomfortable clothes... to look more "attractive" to men. It's not worth it.

Last month I bought myself a pair of comfortable shoes. The first few days I wore them, my legs were feeling orgasmic, I shit you not. I realized just how uncomfortable I had been every day for years because I always opted for nice looking over feeling comfortable. Fuck. That.

After wearing comfortable shoes for a month, my feet are looking prettier than ever, and I feel great! I never want to go back to wearing high heels.

Would a man wear an uncomfortable outfit for you? Nope! Men can't even fathom wearing something uncomfortable for 5 minutes, let alone every day for their whole lives.

Always choose yourself and your comfort above men's preferences