You're basically just kinkmeisha with an 'empowering' title. A few years ago I thought I had a dominatrix streak in me and went to a popular bdsm sub here to look for submissive men. Of course, I was flooded with messages and even began privately chatting with a few on other platforms. Let me tell you, these 'submissive' men tend to be just repressed, masculinity challenged scrotes with a fetish rooted in mommy issues. It's just a sex thing, to have a woman tell them when to cum, but it sure as hell does not extend to submitting in the domestic sphere and real life. It makes you feel just as cheap as if you were in the submissive position and I didn't even engage in sex games with them or something, it was just based on how they were describing this dynamic. Promises of how they're going to 'serve' you and eat you out like there's no tomorrow are just a way for them to get hard and ultimately get off more or less at your expense. It's not empowering, it's not real control, it's not even sexy. I realized that even my anger and meaness is precious, I'm not going to waste it on yelling orders at pornsick losers, so they can come.

And don't even get me started on findom. I never got into that but I've been reading some forums, and the entitlement of 'submissive' scrotes is off the charts there. They still hold the mentality that since they give you money, you owe them making them dicks hard, even though they supposedly look for findommes only because they like having women spend their money in of itself. Just smoke creens, no woman has ever gotten a stable income or substantial amounts of money by findomming.

At the end of the day, it's still just playing out a male fantasy. They're not 'submissive' because they think women are superior, should be revered or should be served, it's just because it makes their dick hard.

Do you ladies have any stories of self-procclaimed submissive men?