Tl;DR - places like DrNerdLove and GoodMenProject are about getting guys to sell themselves as the "good husband" guy when many guys out there want to be the "you make me wet, lets go to my place NOW" type of guy.

Been skimming through some of their articles regarding "toxic masculinity", male anxieties about being older virgins, etc and basically I think it can be summed up into telling guys to ignore what they see with all the divorce rape, CC-riders, hypergamy, etc and to keep burying their heads in the sand, apparently it counts as misogyny to want to learn sexual strategy, I get the criticism towards hateful anger, but it seems to be the mainstream opinion that any notion of male sexual strategy - of wanting to learn how to be attractive enough to pick up women and spin plates - not just being a chump who's "marriage material", is met with hostile criticism and allegation of misogyny, etc.