Lifts: 5x5. BP 225. S 225. (S and DL is low because I’m a pussy and I hate to squat) DL 315. OHP 155.

6’3” 222

19%

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I’ll cut to the point. We got a new secretary, and she has given me the fuck-me eyes since day one. She spends at least an hour in my office everyday. She’s probably a 5 maybe 6. Just a wall-smashed mom. But not ugly. She has started dieting, working out, tanning, etc... All the other employees notice. It’s gotten pretty obvious. She keeps pushing the limits. She finally just asked me to lunch. I said I couldn’t then had a chat with her that I wasn’t comfortable with it. She’s married with kids and the whole 9 yards. As am I. Yet, she sits in my office and tells me how her husband doesn’t do this or that. How he only has his GED. He plays video games and on and on. You get it. He’s everything you don’t want to be. It sure has been eye opening. It’s basically one big picture of women’s hypergamous nature.

I’m not going to lie. I like the attention. I’m a weak little bitch who likes the attention. No doubt. I’m wondering about how you guys have handled these situations? I know, don’t shit where I eat. Although it’s tempting. Do I just need to sit her down and be very frank? Or should I keep letting it roll and flirt always let it be a grey area? If I move jobs, then bang her? Thanks for the advice. And for calling me a faggot.