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I live in a city with a population in excess of 150,000 That’s the problem. Statistically There is going to be a dearth of eligible single women where you live (baring some weird demographic situation). So yah it would be self delusion to believe there was an abundance when there wasn’t. If you lived in a large city or even just a city of 1,000,000+ that attracted ppl to move there you could go to clubs where there are more women than you have time to talk to then go back the next weekend and se…
/r/seduction20/10/22 06:32 AM
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Cuz they want to fuck a guy who approached, seduced, escalated in a calibrated way, who’s funny and took the lead. Not some random guy
/r/seduction20/08/22 06:00 AM
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College is going to be different that u expect. Lol Join clubs. Build up your social circle. Ideally stay in the dorms your first year /semester
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:59 PM
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Be me 😪
/r/seduction21/11/21 09:13 PM
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Smile, be friendly and inviting and kind. Be hospitable. be inclusive to peoples friends. listen to your voice and practice talking with a warmer tone. ​ If you are waring a mask, you can just make yourself smile and it'll come off in your voice a little bit. (don't do this in person with out a mask though because smiling for no reason will make you look weird)
/r/seduction10/01/21 06:28 PM
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Your frame is like your world view or the way you see a situation. (like framing an argument) (ex: good cops vs horrible delinquents, or oppressed youth who have been kicked around so much they are at their whit's end and are rebelling against an oppressive society. ) The prosecutor would want the jury to fall into their frame and view the situation as horrible delinquents vs cops trying to protect law and order. the defendant would want to re frame the situation as " oppressed youth who were ju…
/r/seduction10/01/21 06:22 PM
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I'm kinda confused. You are able to go downtown 2-3 times a week to clubs where there are girls right? if so That's good there are an abundance of women in your life. The way you should think about it is that if you talk to a girl then it doesn't matter if it works out. because you can just talk to another later. and if nothing happens that night you will have 2 more nights filled with women to talk to that week. and if nothing happens that week, there next week. ​ thats abundance mentality. ​ A…
/r/seduction21/02/20 09:43 AM
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I'm confused. He Never mentioned not being yourself. if you internalize and follow: "You matter more than what some clueless woman thinks about you. It isnt easy for a lot of us. Again, be respectful (dont be a fucking "nice guy")," You wont be that guy who: "... nervously stutters around buying her a drink and makes uncomfortable jokes about the weather and she’s back to that horribly uncomfortable position of having to reject him again." (unless you've never been to a bar before and don't know…
/r/seduction21/02/20 09:18 AM
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Congratulations bro! I just answered your questions on the other thread and I gave you some useful tips that everyone should know but no one talks about
/r/seduction30/01/20 04:32 AM
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just do hobbies you like and do stuff you like and want to get better at, and get better at those things. aka get a life and have your life comprise of some stuff you actually like. ​ Passion is such a dramatic word ​ try to get at least one intellectual hobby (foreign language, coding, meditation, writing, book cub, Realestate investment ect) one physical hobby (lifting, rock climbing, surfing, tennis, bowling. dancing, yoga, running, snowboarding, shooting, spear fishing etc) and one creative …
/r/seduction15/05/19 03:49 AM
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A) women are more attractive to older men usually. Y)you may not be husband material or may not give off vibes your looking to merry (if a want is 30 and wants kids she can't waist time flings ) (although for many women this won't be the case ) You may be more into more younger ppl things
/r/seduction25/04/19 06:41 AM
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It honestly took huge portion of the fun out of drinking for me.
/r/seduction31/03/19 11:40 PM
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I felt way better about my self and comfortable in life after I lost mine.
/r/seduction31/03/19 11:39 PM
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you can spend more than an hour with out fucking a woman. thats how the vast majority of all pickups go.
/r/seduction26/03/19 01:45 AM
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Ok look. If you meet a girl at the end of the night and get her number you have way higher odds of her still wanting to see you. if you meet a girl in the middle of the night its pretty unlikely. you can totally meet a girl who doesn't go out much and is looking for someone to start dating and will be way less flakey and remember you and keep wanting to see you. The fact of the matter is that this isn't common at clubs. most ppl who go to clubs go out a lot and aren't looking for anything. If yo…
/r/seduction26/03/19 01:42 AM
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Cuz they don't want to fuck guys with negative attitudes
/r/seduction25/03/19 11:30 PM
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thanks! I didn't realize my mistake and the other comment confused the heck out of me.
/r/seduction20/11/18 10:27 PM
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You can find post on it on this subreddit. On YouTube videos. (Christmas Charisma on Command is a good YT channel) there are many books on the subject matter. (I haven't red a book on it so i can't recommend one. What I'll add is the frequency consistency and duration of practice play a huge role. Practice as much as possible. You build up social momentum Wich will help you socialize better and help you learn. Having reasons why you have oppenions helps slot too. Do you like lil wayne but hate D…
/r/seduction19/11/18 06:47 PM
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If you're insecure about it ware a t-shirt infront of her to not hide ou puggyness so she knows then take it from there. Done girls prefer puggyness some don't like it done don't give a fuck.
/r/seduction10/11/18 09:34 PM
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You're face is fine dude. Work on getting a better job and start working out ..save up some money then move out. Don't buy a fancy car to impress girls. It won't work. Get at least 3 hobbies: one physical, one intelectual, And one creative. Physical can be a sport like rock climbing, Brazilian jitsu , kick boxing, basket ball weight lifting ect. Intelectual can be a foreign language or coding or something..and creative can be painting, or photography, or digital animation, or playing a musical i…
/r/seduction31/10/18 08:04 AM
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"be more confident and happier" helps immensely long run. it won't help next weekend but it is worth implementing. the formula is let go of past trauma (the book letting go by Dr, David R Hawkins covers this very well. just ignore the wood stuff) and getting hobbies and developing your personal life. taking part in some community. getting good at a thing and getting some wins. it takes time but will help your game but more over it will make your life 1000x better
/r/seduction27/10/18 08:02 AM
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I'm 26 now and kinda past that phase unfortunately. wtf you can totally pursue girls at 26. thats not even weird. thats an extremely normal age to be doing it.
/r/seduction27/10/18 07:40 AM
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if its natural to bring her somewhere, do that then put her hand behind your neck and your hands on the small of her back and make eye contact (it will be very intimate and the vibe will change) then like make a subtle flirty joke and then kiss her. or just make eye contact and like lean in and kiss her if thats not possible. its not rocket science, pretty much you just go for it but there are much more detailed posts on here if you wish to investigate further.
/r/seduction27/10/18 07:34 AM
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Yah, the whole romanticized "your young, you move to the city, you work as a waitress and have roommates, you get a job as a waitress and straggly but live on your own and have enough money for Friday night" deal gets old pretty quick. but its cool when you're 18-21
/r/seduction31/05/18 05:17 PM
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Well she was flirting at you or she was mocking you for being naive. How'd she say it? And do you think she wants to be a doc to feel good and save people or to make lots of money ? Reguardless you are way overthinking it. Adopt the attitude that your the shit. You know wants op and that unless she has goofy taste in men she should like you. If she gives you a shit test and you keep this attitude you'll pass and build attraction. ( The caveat is Obvsiously if she's not feeling you / giving IODs …
/r/seduction26/05/18 06:35 AM
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We'll if you look cool on ig it's not implausible that a girl would want to go out with you. I guess just ask them out. You could say "hey I know this is off cuz we haven't met, but you seam cool so I'd be down to hang out sometime and get to know each other a little. I'm free next Thursday if that works" or somthing like that. I've never gotten a girl I met through IG so im probably not the best person to ask
/r/seduction12/05/18 08:58 PM
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only been able to muster the balls to approach a few times, and they surprisingly better than expected Omg you just do it. You already have everything in order. You won't have to deal with the bs ppl with their life not in order have to. Just go it till your comfortable most people have to over come being on comfortable and not wanting to deal with the bs of having their life in order and she shame of having a hot girl see that their life is not in order. You Brain is scared and uncomfortable, y…
/r/seduction12/05/18 06:37 AM
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One girl asked me if I had a hanky How old was she / what year wasn't this ??
/r/seduction12/05/18 06:26 AM
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We have two threads going haha. You could pare this with social media game If you wanted to but you don't have to be anyone in a scene to do social media game. You just have to do stuff. Just having cool /funny friends, having hobbies and doing things is enough. This doesn't require social media. But you could for for sure combine them. For the "be a memeber of a comunity game" You by no means have to be a rock star. You just have to be a memeber of the community and be good at your craft so peo…
/r/seduction12/05/18 06:22 AM
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Sorry I forgot to put this in my first message: It's easer because your flake rate will go way down. And a number from cold approach will stay warm for essentially forever. Rather than just a week max. The stories don't have to be provocative. They just have to intresting, or personal or funny or cool.
/r/seduction12/05/18 06:08 AM
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Omg you’re essentially marketing yourself and using tactics I would use in work but now for your own brand.. Yep. Except you don't have to portray one side of yourself or put up a Facade like companies do. It's better to be authentic becuause that builds more comfort This feels so fake. It's only fake if you fake it. Like I said earlier you kinda have to pare it with an intresting life. If you take the time to show cool genuine parts of your life there is nothing fake about it. But if you like g…
/r/seduction12/05/18 06:00 AM
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Sorry for all the horrible tipos The idea is basicly to have a full life where you persue things you are interested in. But to do it in an intelegent or slightly more serious way so you can also enjoy having girls naturally come into your life and be in a position to easily get them. But if you aren't intrested in any thing. Then it's definitely not at all worth it at all. The idea is like: do you like playing guitar? Then take it sersiously, join a band, get gigs. Meet the other bands. Make fri…
/r/seduction12/05/18 05:44 AM
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Sorry for all the typos I'm on mobile You kinda have to pare it with having a cool life. Level on is basicly you make sure to take cool estheticly pleasing photos on Instagram that show that you have a cool life and And cool friend and show that you do stuff. Then you also take lots of Instagram stories that actualy tell a story. That show you cool friends. Show a cool project you are working on. Show your pets. Show a cool story in you life as it unfolds. These vignettes into your life can buil…
/r/seduction12/05/18 05:30 AM
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That's insane...
/r/seduction12/05/18 05:07 AM
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If it's a high status frat that's defenently an example. Some frat guys have had sex with TONS of girls. But it could be anything. It could be your cities Music scene, or art scene. Or comedy scene probably real estate scene, or film making scene or even planing. Im sure there are many more. Even martial arts. That has a bad gender ratio but even that can work. There were tho guys who were kind like the best students, had a realy good reputation. Were super cool people, one was also a manager. (…
/r/seduction12/05/18 05:04 AM
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I compleatly agree. I was giving my reasion as to why I though it wasn't viewed well by mainstream society. I never knew people charged 1000s for a few hours tho. That's crazy! RSD's prices make sense when you look at the insane overhead they charge way less
/r/seduction12/05/18 04:53 AM
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So now there are more form of game. There is cold approach. There is social circle. There is social media game. There is the "joining communities and over time becoming well established and a leader and putting on events so when new girls come through you are in an alpha position and impressive" system that mark Manson likes. And of course, there is online dating. But there is defenently still the normal cold approach sarging game. Sadly the word "Sarging" has fallen out of fashion.
/r/seduction12/05/18 04:41 AM
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No one cares about dating. It's Going around banging a lot of people is viewed negatively by mainstream society. Additionally the most famous example of a púa was Barney Stinson who lied and deceived women to sleep with them. That is what many people think púa is. Not to mention the pushing through LMR stuff which in many contexts is not ok at all. Then Julien Blanc had a gigantic media scandal where people took his dark sarcastic jokes and literal statements and they thought he was a monster an…
/r/seduction12/05/18 04:35 AM
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Maybe you kust live in an alcoholic-y place. Most girl in the bars and even the clubs where I live aren't drunk.
/r/seduction12/05/18 04:19 AM
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They get like 500 matches. You have to look super cool in your pics and or say a cheesy like that some will find funny or wait till you fine one who is board on tinder and looking to converse and or wait till you meet a girl who spocificly likes how you look.
/r/seduction02/05/18 06:10 PM
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There are more than one way to skin a cat. ultimately (unless somthing seems immoral or illegal like Mode One if done incorrectly) you should go out and try it first to see if it works. Not ask what people think about it and have an intellectual discussion about hypotheticals. Basically the consensus is that mm is out of date. Some say that if you have a singly routine it will destroy your natural game, others say it's fine to have a few. I think a if you have something like a joke that alwayse …
/r/seduction02/05/18 06:05 PM
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You're not ugly lol, also are you British? Idk why but you look brittish to me
/r/seduction01/05/18 08:20 PM
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Check out jackmanly TV on YouTube. He does the smile. (Not his chance is just entertainment. He gets the reactions by having a camera with a camera man and stuff. But note his smile )
/r/seduction01/05/18 08:19 PM
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Yah. Unless you have a really cool life and are already ok looking. Or are really good looking, real life game will work so much better. (I'm not saying you aren't those things. But I general most people aren't that good looking and don't have cool lives) with real life game you get to actually show people you vibe and be funny.
/r/seduction25/04/18 06:20 PM
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that could mean she feels nutural to you or feels positively but also feels shy and needs more time to get her head in the game. Just assume she feels nutural. Just continue on gaming. Make jokes. Flirt. Meals eye contact. Playfully disagree on a flirtatious way to spike emotions. Or if natural talk about somthing volurable or personal to build more comfort or connection. I guess there's also the whole build more compliance and make her chase more (I was never able to hack the make her chase par…
/r/seduction24/04/18 03:21 AM
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If it's there's you'll feel it. (Maybe not if you have mild autism, but I'd think you would). The simple explanation on how You produce it you make eye contact and flirt. And showing your desire. You keep making more advances and as long as she acts positively you escolate your advances and thus escolating the tension.
/r/seduction24/04/18 03:05 AM
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Europe's really that fucked ?
/r/seduction19/04/18 07:22 AM
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Go for a run earlier in the day. Or the day before. That helps you not cum for some reason. Use a condom that comes with lube. (Less fraction= less cumming). You can go slow once you first put it in. If you cum quickly casually say "sorry I was in a little bit of a dry spell 🤷🏻‍♂️". Say it casually in a way where you are fully comfortable and accepting of yourself. Say it like you are staring mater of fact of how sex works.
/r/seduction26/02/18 04:12 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=NBpaoB8tshk I think he have another on his free product winner game. But it might be the same one
/r/seduction07/02/18 03:47 PM
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RSDLuke vouched for him.
/r/seduction07/02/18 05:14 AM
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I'm pretty sure squattingcasanova has some. And Todd valintine (his Chantal is Todd v Dating) has released some.
/r/seduction07/02/18 05:13 AM
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Read the sidebar so you have the basic knowledge so you can effectively participate on this subreddit. It's also filed with great information. Also don't do many cold approaches on your campus. Your reputation is important
/r/seduction18/01/18 10:41 PM
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I really liked the other guy's narration with the one exception of his pronunciation of "condom". It was so weird.
/r/seduction18/01/18 10:38 PM
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It means physical touch. I don't want to be a dick. But I strongly recommend your read the sidebar. It's actually quite good on this sub. It will give you a basis and a map in your mind. Plus you'll be able to understand the jargon.
/r/seduction20/12/17 01:36 AM
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Probably :/ Edit: but I don't wanna nutt after 20 seconds of sex.
/r/seduction25/08/17 07:42 PM
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Bro it's been a habit sence like age 12
/r/seduction25/08/17 07:02 PM
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He totally is. But less than you were
/r/seduction25/08/17 07:01 PM
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Ok that's dope ! Thank you very much for taking the time to right that out. I'll give it a watch
/r/seduction22/08/17 09:13 PM
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ok that sounds cool! Thanks for your review. I have three more questions if you don't mind. 1) I'm not going to do a vagus immersion program anytime soon. can I still learn a lot for SCB? 2) do you think it would work in a city without high end venues? My city has lots of nightlife but I don't think there are any highend exclusive clubs. 3) he mentioned making money off your social circle. Do you think that's legit? How'd it work roughly? Sorry for grilling you. This product intrigued me but it …
/r/seduction22/08/17 04:19 PM
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What do you mean by "might be the goat of game."? I've heard vagus immersion is bad. Have you seen Social Circle Blueprint? I'm super interested in it but don't know how it is
/r/seduction22/08/17 06:37 AM
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Just grab her hands and put them behind your neck. Make eye contact then go in for the kiss. Or say "look at me" then go in for the kiss. You're rarely get natural Hollywood setups of the kiss. You just got to do it. That's what it's called make a move. It generally doesn't just happen. You have to make it. There is lots of good infield videos on YouTube. You should search there. If you can see it you'll understand better
/r/seduction19/08/17 06:46 PM
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When y'all break up it will be a logistical nightmare. There is a huge probability that seeing other girls will be a problem. Even if y'all break it off Clean, bringing new girls home will be weird.
/r/seduction19/08/17 06:44 PM
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RSD Luke's stuff is new and quite different. That seams to have opened a new avenue. There are quite possibly more
/r/seduction19/08/17 06:35 PM
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Don't
/r/seduction19/08/17 06:31 PM
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Also a shit lost or the guys who check her out don't even want to pick her up. They just what to look to her. Or a good feature of her.
/r/seduction14/08/17 05:04 AM
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Not if he's butt ugly ...
/r/seduction14/08/17 05:02 AM
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not really. it's till a numbers game with cold approach. its WAYYY better than online dating, but yah.
/r/seduction13/08/17 03:38 AM
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My ex was in a sorority. They had Tinder Tuesday. They hung out and played on tinder for entrainment/validation, not dates.
/r/seduction13/08/17 03:36 AM
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I dig your definition
/r/seduction01/07/17 11:29 PM
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When I was a youngin' it was irritating to hear people alwayse say "don't worry about the pressure society puts on guys to have sex you can take your time." That didn't realy change the fact that sex what what I most wanted. Maybe 10% was wanting to get laid to be cool. But 90% was because I wanted to have sex. That advice didn't really accomplish or solve anything.
/r/seduction01/07/17 11:28 PM
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Chill out Haha Ok so if she doesn't go out with you and you decide you never want to try again just say "ok" then go on you business. When you go to the gym just act normal and never ask her out again.
/r/seduction01/07/17 11:07 PM
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Put the condom all the way to the bace of your dick so her vagina doesn't role it down and take it off. Check to make sure it's one before you nut. I'm a huge fan of Trojan double exticy. Skins are ok. I hate the generic Trojans. Don't leave them in your car if it's hot. The heat damages the material. Sex is pretty much putting a finger in a whole. Don't over thing it. Hopefully others can give you better advice
/r/seduction01/07/17 10:58 PM
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So do you just talk to them and explain the other side of yourself and what you want before you sleep with them? That seamed like a pretty fire way to do it.
/r/seduction19/06/17 01:39 PM
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You have to be fully accepting of your self and own it or els it won't work. If you say it in an embarrassed or apologetic way it won't work. Also, from reading his blog you can tell that he is about getting deep connections with people rather than getting laid as much as posible. He's Big on screening
/r/seduction09/05/17 09:44 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction08/05/17 04:00 AM
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That was very Intresting thanks to writing that up!
/r/seduction03/05/17 05:58 AM
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Jack off then decide if you are cool with it. If you aren't ant that point, you will end up feeling bad afterwards and end up regretting it.
/r/seduction20/04/17 06:20 AM
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LMFAO I thought you were talking about "pillow talking" by lil dicky until I clicked the link. I was thinking "no dude... the song is abou a situation where a guy can't shut up and talked himself into a whole"
/r/seduction20/04/17 06:18 AM
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I mean on one hand it's extremely rude on the other you could theoretically giver her a life time of happiness and become the farther of her adored children. Hard to say what's right. I will say If you do do it and she's not interested, buzz the fuck off. Don't "plow"
/r/seduction20/04/17 06:11 AM
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Lack of sleep. Shitty diet Stress Lack of exercise. Dehydration. excessive masterbation or porn. Playing excessive video games. Being fried all the time. Being groggy all the time. Low testosterone. You could try thanking zinc supplements. If you are low on zinc, your libido and immune system can't operate properly. Surprisingly meditation can help also.
/r/seduction20/04/17 02:13 AM
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I got none at that age unless something aroused me.
/r/seduction20/04/17 02:05 AM
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Buying jeans is boring. I wouldn't go on a date with a girl to buy jeans. Something probably came up. People do things. Especially on the weekends. You should keep following through. She didn't even flake she notified you THREE days in advance that she couldn't make it. That's abnormally respectful of her. Then she contacted you. She seams pretty down to meet you. Nothing indicates she doesn't want to meet you.
/r/seduction20/04/17 01:51 AM
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Yah dude! If you wanna watch dates check out infield footage. You could google "infield footage day 2" but you can find good infield that under different titles. Try to pay attention to the vibe. This is what helped me the most.
/r/seduction16/04/17 04:56 AM
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Are you going to clubs ? You don't do formal dances in clubs. You bassicly kinda dance then grind. I also don't see how dance lessions will help you dance in a club, unless that are catered for that. They usually are for formal dances. Just search YouTube for "how to dance in a club." And watch some basic things. Then observe people in the club.
/r/seduction15/04/17 06:59 PM
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Saving this for latter !
/r/seduction10/04/17 04:52 PM
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I've never had a friend more that 20 min late with out notice. Unless you don't have cellphones, it's compleatly unacceptable to be 20min late with out notice imho.
/r/seduction04/04/17 12:58 AM
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They'll probably give you a free week of lesions or something. I recommend going to see if you like it. Some really like it. If you don't like it I don't think there is much value in learning it honestly (unless you learn two step and live in the south (or maybe just Texas) becaue then you can go to dance halls. Or if you can learn the type of slasa they dance in the clubs in Latin America, it will help you a lot in those countries if you ever travel there.
/r/seduction31/03/17 01:21 AM
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Dude thats what thew fucking class is for, to learn! don't worry about it
/r/seduction30/03/17 11:54 PM
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I just don't know how to handle myself if I am on the spot trying to impress a girl. don't try to impress them. that will shoot yourself in the foot. you just need practice. watch some infield footage. you may also like Todd Valentine's approach to game. you can find his videos on youtube.
/r/seduction30/03/17 08:43 PM
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you aren't beyond help unless you give up. you just need practice. all the people who are good at this got lucky and found themselves plopped into good situations to practice naturally growing up or they deliberately practiced afterwards. you should build up social momentum to get better. try socializing as close to every day as you can manage. it will help immensely. if you get to class earl and chit chat a little bit before class that will help a lot too. try doing somting on the weekends so y…
/r/seduction30/03/17 08:41 PM
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Huge skill only for the most persistent and daring men. Don't make things like this big in your head. its better to have a relaxed attitude about it.
/r/seduction30/03/17 08:30 PM
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stuff is not black and white and there is no ultimate way. try both see what works best, use that. but don't take it as gospel because you may be able to evolve past it to a higher paradigm
/r/seduction30/03/17 05:22 AM
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meetup.com you can also meet people from your city's RSD inner circle.
/r/seduction30/03/17 04:58 AM
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no problem, hope it helped and things work out!
/r/seduction30/03/17 04:36 AM
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Maybe post in /r/Nootropics or /r/DrugNerds or /r/Drugs/ they should know more about drugs. Just don't use PUA jargon over there.
/r/seduction30/03/17 04:35 AM
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/r/seduction30/03/17 04:30 AM
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Get good with women in general, so when a special one comes along you know what to do. My advice would be just straight up ask her out somewhere, or (sense she doesn't know you know she only likes you as a friend) is the next time you hang out with her and y'all's friends, just be your self, joke around and make eye contact. don't tell her you really like her before you even go out. Thats putting the horse before the carriage. also you should put posts like this in /r/Askseddit sense its about a…
/r/seduction30/03/17 04:28 AM
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i skimmed it, I think what he says was good (although I just skimmed it so i could have missed some bad parts) I think that him acting, and aerating what he is doing was what made it creepy. He's acting sexual but the moment obviously wasn't there because like they are on stage inform of people and he's talking to an audience.
/r/seduction30/03/17 04:20 AM
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They are sometimes. But with some fake one you can still learn from them. (But some Are ridiculous haha) RSD has some really good infield but also a lot of it is just "flash game" if you see something super flashy that's probably not what you want to go for. This guy out a lot of infield out I like his stuff: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_wMZCOn4BYM Willy Back is good too
/r/seduction26/03/17 06:55 PM
1

Dam I'm jelly
/r/seduction26/03/17 06:44 PM
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Have you fucked her yet? If no, then you are asking too early (unless y'all are teenagers)
/r/seduction26/03/17 06:43 PM
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Watch infield footage on YouTube. Seriously thats the most useful resource. That will help you see how it goes. After you practice talking to girls, You should really read the side bar and read/watch a book/program. It will help you quite a bit through out your life. Just talk to the girl. Make jokes you want to make but that are relatable to the girl. The more frequently you socialize with people the better you will get.
/r/seduction26/03/17 06:30 PM
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It's definitely possible she wanted that But there's a huge chance she did not. Your are making a gamble where either a) you play her little game correctly and fulfill her sexual Fantasy or b) you rape/sexually harass her. The potential down side out ways the up side by a lot for both parties.
/r/seduction26/03/17 06:21 PM
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Should I have firmly took her skirt and panties off anyway despite her protests in the first example? No!! What the actual fuck?? The girls didn't want to be sluts. If they were drinker they would be be able to blame it on the alcohol and not feel slutty. However that is legally rape so don't do that She's playing sketchy mind games which herself so you won't be sure how she'll feel if you do that. not all girls are down to fuck right away. Many many are but not all.
/r/seduction26/03/17 12:13 AM
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this is just my philosophy, I think you should look at the upside and the downside of an action and if the upside out weighs is the down, then do it. Not just do stuff because you want to.
/r/seduction26/03/17 12:00 AM
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Find out what your schools party facebook page is. You'll be able to find parties on that.
/r/seduction24/03/17 07:37 AM
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maybe she wanted to cheer with him with you. Maybe she thought you were cool and wanted to go clubbing with her and her friends. Maybe her friend needed a dude and she wanted to play cupid. 3 good outcomes. Its really really unlikely she was fucking with you.
/r/seduction22/03/17 04:41 AM
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Just say "Im a financial analyst" in a positive way but not like you are bragging. no need to over think it. You have a good job. "financial"= money "analyst" = you are smart. Good qualities. act like you like it and you'll be good.
/r/seduction22/03/17 04:21 AM
1

when did this happen? was this the case back in the 90s?
/r/seduction22/03/17 04:14 AM
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They are out and about in dense areas. not the suburbs. If you live in New Urbanism development there will probably be girls out and about.
/r/seduction22/03/17 04:11 AM
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Hey I'm glad you found it helpful! By "the party" you mean dating girls right? You just got to break through that. Once you meet a girl, kiss her get her number, go on a successful date, then get laid, you will have gone through all the "steps" and you will feel much more comfortable and confident with all this. You just gotta push through once then this won't feel alien anymore!
/r/seduction15/03/17 08:40 PM
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Ill start by saying you seam to pretty much have this down. Just assume attraction, escalate and gauge her reactions. after being gay I expect anyone I try to kiss me to punch me somehow, so if I don't have that persons nudes in my phone I just don't feel "safe" on trying to make out. so you slowly or gently go for the kiss. If you do that they will never freak out. You can put your hand under her chin and gently point her mouth at yours she'll know whats up and can easily not point her mouth at…
/r/seduction14/03/17 09:36 PM
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I mean, if I was interested in a girl who told me she used to be gay and is now working on being straight, it certainly wouldn't turn me off. It might actually turn me on. That's because men generally find girl on girl sexuality hot. Women generally don't. If you are looking for something casual he shouldn't mention this. If he wants a deep relationship he obviously needs to find someone accepting of this
/r/seduction14/03/17 08:44 PM
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You will probably be barking up the wrong tree if you try this stuff. The only thing I'd recommend you actually do To be mysterious is this: Don't tell her about everything you know how to do. Let's say you know Spanish. Don't mention it for a while. After a while she will assume you don't know Spanish. Then wait for a natural time to bust it out. It will be very surprising because her image was that you didn't speak Spanish. Let's say you play an instrument well. Never mention it (unless it's a…
/r/seduction14/03/17 08:39 PM
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For inner "game" I'd HIGHLY recomend "letting go, the pathway of surrender by dr. David r. Hocking. It has nothing to do with game. It explains how the thoughts and emotions work. And how to get rid of trapped negatives emotions and thoughts. There is a little bit of woowoo stuff which you can take or leave. But the part about thoughts and emotions has helped me SO much. Depending on how much emotional baggage you have this book may or may not revolutionize your life (I had a lot so it was major…
/r/seduction14/03/17 07:00 PM
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Well historically kings were at the very top of the social hierarchy so they were the most alpha of the all. And in this life style you try to be as alpha, so I'd recommend getting a King.
/r/seduction11/03/17 06:24 AM
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Absolutly not. The judge could be lenient. (According to him) it doesn't mean he will be. If you do this You should ask to see her ID like the top comment said or just not bother with this which is proabbaly the better choice.
/r/seduction06/03/17 05:37 PM
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look up "physical escalation", "verbal escalation" and "push pull". And apply advice for day game for the day and night game for night
/r/seduction06/03/17 05:27 PM
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Don't label it. Or if you do define just your label. People have different definitions in their head for what these terms mean. From your post, i dont real have a good picture of what you want. It sounds like you want for the two of you to be obligated to each other. But not have feelings?
/r/seduction05/03/17 11:31 PM
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Dude youre worrying about an incident that literally isn't even a thing and means nothing. She was probably doing so thing while she was texting you and calling her would interrupt that. then latter she didn't get an oppertunity to call or forgot. Or just didn't want to talk on the phone.
/r/seduction05/03/17 11:19 PM
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It sounds like something happned and she needed to leave. Or she got board and wasn't feeling it anymore and wanted to make it look like that.
/r/seduction05/03/17 11:17 PM
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You should add that to the body so ppl will understand what you want
/r/seduction05/03/17 11:15 PM
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Have you read anything or watched anything ? Your question is ridiculously broad. The side bar is a good place to start.
/r/seduction05/03/17 11:12 PM
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The general rule of thumb is: If you ask her to hang out and she declines 3 times in a row next her. That may help. It sucks they won't be straight up, but many just don't have the spine to do so so you gotta work around it. They usually aren't doing it out of disrespect.
/r/seduction02/03/17 05:26 AM
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It sounds like you don't escolate and move things forward or set the frame for the interaction. Does that sound like the case ?
/r/seduction02/03/17 03:30 AM
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You need to observe your joke,energy and delivery and the way people respond to them. And pay attention to other people's Jokes energy and delivery. You are probably funny, but go overboard or get too goofy from time to time and just need to calabrate yours self a little more. You could ask your friends to observe you while y'all talk to ppl then ask them for feed back. That's probably your best shot. Do your friends ever go to clubs or bars or parties? It's fine if you are the only one who know…
/r/seduction02/03/17 03:26 AM
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She's done a lot for you (given y'all have only scene each other 4 times.) She clearly is into you. I'd give her more time. (Some women realy do care about waiting to have sex.) Have you invested at all? It's good to have the girl invest more than you but the flip side (which gets ignored here) is you can't invest too little. Depending on how she views the world, sleeping with someone who has put much less into the relationship could make her feel cheep/used/slutty. She might not want to be some…
/r/seduction02/03/17 02:02 AM
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Watch infield footage. Pay attention to the vibe. (Don't do anything extreamly edgy until you are good). Pre game with your friends. (Don't get drunk tho ) be having fun before you go to the club. joke around with your friends in the car. One you get to the club talk to girls. Do stuff you think Is fun/funny pay attention to how she reacts. As you find sticking points look online for answers. If they haven't been asked, make a post
/r/seduction02/03/17 01:43 AM
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Do you actually meet up then fuck? I've had sex on the first tinder date but never just met up and fucked. Wouldn't that be awkward if y'all weren't drunk? I'm just curious sorry if this sounds argumentative
/r/seduction02/03/17 01:15 AM
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Are you giving them a tired dull neutral face? It sounds like that's probably the problem.
/r/seduction01/03/17 06:15 AM
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Ok sweet! I'll have to get a cool action pick. Thank you for your reply
/r/seduction01/03/17 06:13 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction01/03/17 02:48 AM
1

What sites have video chat??? I've never heard of that but it sounds awesome. Even just a voice chat would be dope.
/r/seduction01/03/17 02:40 AM
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Do you have picture segustions?
/r/seduction01/03/17 02:38 AM
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Yes.
/r/seduction01/03/17 02:16 AM
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congratulations man!
/r/seduction26/02/17 11:53 PM
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Have high energy On a more serious note, if you have something other than "Work out, sleep, and drink green smoothies" to have high energy Im all ears.
/r/seduction26/02/17 11:44 PM
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If you thing some day you may want to get a travel visa, don't fucking beat people up. you don't want an assault charge. (and for more reasons than just traveling.)
/r/seduction26/02/17 11:39 PM
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They then go on dates. Then escolate to sex while being flirty/joking around/being fun AND building comfort/actually learning about each other. They escolate at an appropriate relate. Are you unable to get dates? If so, your interactions aren't long enough or good enough for you to build comfort (only attraction) or your text game sucks. Or you aren't approaching enough (most will flake ) If you can get dates but they never pan out that's a compleatly different problem. You never said what your …
/r/seduction19/02/17 05:19 PM
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I think self discipline is what word you're looking for. It means making yourself do what you need to do. And consistently doing the things you need to do and not doing the things you shouldn't do.
/r/seduction19/02/17 12:50 AM
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There are two techniques. These are for if a girl wants to bang you but doesn't want to be a slut. DO NOT use these on a girl who is a pushover. Or a virgin. 1) y'all are making out on the bed. You keep escalating slowly. If she objects to having sex (not the excitation but to sex) you can say "we don't have to have sex if you aren't comfortable I just want to do (what ever you were doing) because it makes it hotter." If she's ok with that then do that and continue, if she's not you reached the …
/r/seduction18/02/17 02:29 AM
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That guy was Full of shit. In the US Indian girls usually date Indian guys. And Indian guys can definitely date white girls. I've scene it.
/r/seduction17/02/17 11:27 PM
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I've heard form other people on here that it worked on "modern" women in the metropolitan areas of big cities but this doesn't work on traditional women. I'm not Indian and I have never been to India. I just thought I'd share what I've heard in case you don't get a reply from someone with experience with this.
/r/seduction17/02/17 11:23 PM
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Back story: I Didn't know how to make conversation with strangers. This is what crippled me (that and sleep deprivation.) in HS I alwayse tried to talk and form a basic level of friendship. I wanted to know that we would be able to have a conversation if we went out. I didn't want to just sit there in awkward silence the whole time. (Which probably would have happned). I noticed how some super avrege Mexican guys would have hot Girl friends. And I was above avrege but never had one. That made me…
/r/seduction17/02/17 11:13 PM
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They probably didn't tell her what to do, but they could have given their openion. Girls care a lot about what their friends think about a guy (guys do too but to a lesser extent).
/r/seduction08/02/17 12:15 AM
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You can get the kindle app on your phone, tablet or computer and access kindle books form that
/r/seduction07/02/17 07:29 PM
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Oh. Ok then that's strange. Did her friends see y'all talking the first time? If so, She probably went back to them and they approved of you making her more down. Or, by then she was horney and her friends were fine with you so she went home with you but she wast horney the first time.
/r/seduction07/02/17 07:23 PM
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She didn't like you enough yet the first time. It take time to build confort... you went back and talked to her more then she liked you. Also you were by her friends so they at least didn't object to you and may have approved of you. Bonus points.
/r/seduction07/02/17 06:47 PM
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Once you are single, start dating and talking to multiple girls, before you two are in love. It will make meeting women easer
/r/seduction07/02/17 02:41 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=wFTR9jNkeCg
/r/seduction06/02/17 11:50 PM
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You just stop bitching out. And if you pussyfoot around and don't approach confidently your punishment is that you have to go approach like that. It will be super nerve racking. It will suck you won't get the girl and then you leave and you are totally fine and nothing bad happened. Then you know that A)nothing bad will happen, and B) you better just approach confidently instead of passing around and getting stuck in your head because if you don't do the first, you'll have to do the second and t…
/r/seduction06/02/17 11:32 PM
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Dude freals no dread? Sign me up!
/r/seduction06/02/17 10:42 PM
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Dude like 1 out of 30 girls will text you first. Your never going to get any dates unless you test her first.
/r/seduction06/02/17 12:36 AM
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I use to be in your shoes. My advice is watch infield footage of dates and day game. And check out this video series to learn some "moves" https://m.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL012A653B317FBD0D Sadly some of the videos got deleted. Ignore everything he says about Value and the part where he throws the girls hand away (that's weird). He's using a very old method and out dated way of thinking when he talks about value. But the videos do a good job of teaching moves. You can also search "kino escal…
/r/seduction06/02/17 12:25 AM
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Practice, then look at what you did well and what you did wrong try to figure out what triggered certain things to happen and think about what you could do better the next time you are in That situation. And if you haven't, check out some Infield footage for daygame on YouTube.
/r/seduction04/02/17 10:24 PM
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I don't. Realy have experience with resurrected this situation so my advice inreguards to what to do isn't field tested so take it with a grain of salty I'm just Parroting advice . I'd think the best thing to do is give it a little time. Do some cool social thing with your friends where it would be natural to envite someone to join you. And invite her out. That way it is extremely casual form your side but there is a cool thing That she should want to do and could help entice her to come out.
/r/seduction02/02/17 02:54 AM
1

So you talk to your friend? Next to girls, or you just like stand there and wait for the girls to talk to you?
/r/seduction02/02/17 02:39 AM
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Hot Babe. (It's really old terminology.) you should read the sod bar there is a lot of good stuff there to get you started.
/r/seduction02/02/17 02:38 AM
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You should say want to go do X. People attach different meanings to "dating". Generally don't say "I like you" before you start dating that's you shouldn't like someone before you go have dated them so saying that will come on too strong.
/r/seduction02/02/17 02:32 AM
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Maybe he does it to Keep it from junking up the servers and the search results? Idk
/r/seduction02/02/17 02:23 AM
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Hey no worries man. I never really specified what I was addressing or gave a reason for the advice in my first post.
/r/seduction29/01/17 06:34 AM
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Thanks for your reply! I've never been added except one time a girl form an app added me even though she didn't have my number or screen name. I still wonder how she did that. I defenently agree that it has its place in the dating world.
/r/seduction28/01/17 07:35 AM
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I was under the impression he just accepted this as his place in life and I was primarily giving him life advice. You certainly don't need a good job. I was just saying that they are attainable. However there is a difference between having Zero discretionary income like OP, and having a good job. If you have zero discretionary income you will need more game than avrege to compensate for to being able to do activities. But it really doesn't need to take that much money. Just enough to pay for you…
/r/seduction28/01/17 06:49 AM
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Read the side bar then watch a few infield videos then go out and practice. DO NOT read any more or watch any more videos until you go practice. It is extremely easy to fall into the trap of reading too much. After that you will find real life sticking points. You should then search the sub for and YouTube. If you can't find anything, ask on here for help and describe your self your situation and what you know. After you get in the habit practicing. Then you can read/watch more. It recommend che…
/r/seduction28/01/17 02:33 AM
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Oh well you realy aren't in that bad of shape mean. I know it's disappointing that you aren't getting what you want, but things will Improve. Just don't ever withdraw. It would be good to try to figure out if there is a pattern of what is things get called stupid. It may be something you could improve upon, or she may be talking nonsense.
/r/seduction28/01/17 01:42 AM
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I think the way you open is really good. I definently think this tweak is something worth trying: When they start to pull back ( literally or metaphorically) move back yourself. It build a lot of comfort because it proves you are attuned to who she is feeling. And when you step back but keep the convo and energy going and stay unflustered, she should then be drawn to you. It also help prevent the building of Resistance . I got that concept for Julien when he says " pressure on pressure off" and …
/r/seduction28/01/17 01:02 AM
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Oh you're situation is way better than I imagined. Mainly just know it gets better after community college. You should see if your school has any interesting clubs. ( my community college you didn't but yours very well may be different ) I think you could look for in your job search is a more social job are you interact with your young coworkers more.
/r/seduction27/01/17 10:36 PM
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I would recommend getting a better job. There are crappy entry level jobs that pay more that minimum wage. A $2 an hr pay increase will = an extra $320 a year. Probably like $240 after tax. That can get you a gym member ship and pay to do a couple fun things. Long-term or bigger picture you could job I will either give you skills or let you move up. There are many many jobs that allow this and want to hire internally (just because the "Good old days" ended and majority don't do that anymore does…
/r/seduction27/01/17 08:23 PM
1

do you just look at the snapchat in their bio, and then add them, or do you get their number then add them ?
/r/seduction26/01/17 08:11 PM
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Its hard.. But yah most girls with options are not down to randomly take time out of their schedule and go through the effort of going somewhere to meet some guy who's picture she liked and who also liked her picture. It may be an age thing. went out with an older girl and we barley talked pretty much just exchanged logistics.
/r/seduction26/01/17 08:07 PM
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They downloaded you because you were talking about yourself too much. All this was just you talking about your self: Not bad guide for dudes that are clueless, you definitely gotta start somewhere with your sense of style. Since I am one artsy mofo and I am as picky with clothing as a woman is(especially footwear, if you came with me to a mall or something so I could buy some boots or sneakers, take a seat bro. You'll be waiting for a good while), I've always had a reasonable sense of style. Rec…
/r/seduction25/01/17 07:01 AM
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Personal stuff. Talk about things you like and why you like them ask her why she likes specific things and what about them she likes. if you can naturally talk about a feeling that's a good way to relate and bond. Here's a way to work it into light conversation. Let's say all are talking about Game of Thrones and you say "Oh my god when _____ happned was so tense, I was at the edge of my seat. Then after it was done I was just crushed inside" her: "OMG I know! that part was so sad!" You "I know,…
/r/seduction24/01/17 12:39 AM
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If you want something specific, take her to get tacos by a park, then hang at the park. Just as some random Point talk about movies. Then At the end, invite her to watch a movie at your house. Then you can try to escalate to sex. The tough is, it's a process you need to go on dates to learn how to make good dates, and good places to go. People get good by going on date, and talking to friends about places that work well.
/r/seduction23/01/17 07:08 PM
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No problem!
/r/seduction23/01/17 04:01 PM
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Well certainly don't expect to get miss perfect. But yah make sure she is a decent human being and you have chemistry with her. I don't think you should waist your time dating shitty people or people on a bad path even if it's for practice.
/r/seduction23/01/17 08:40 AM
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Mmm if you go that root you'd want her to already know that you are intrested in her romantically. A study date is plutonic by default, so ideally you don't what her going in thinking its plutonic then you start touching her. If she knows you are into her then it's fine. I would recommend going to get drinks or a smoothie or coffee or go to a park, something that is more of a date and ideally near a second thing to do. However, If she knows you are intrested in her, and there is a test comming u…
/r/seduction23/01/17 08:38 AM
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You don't have to have a good opener. "Hey how's it going" is fine just deliver it well. Then You have a conversation and flirt. You try to be man to woman make eye contact. If she is not feeling you don't give her IOIs. If she's laughing or just seams to be enjoying your presents, you can. You should try to get an insta dates. Or atleas have decent length chats. It's unlikely you will get a date from a short interaction but you never know. I recommend watching some in field footage on YouTube.
/r/seduction23/01/17 12:51 AM
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Yep. Idealy you causally figure out somthing y'all can do together in the conversation then "we should go do that" and if she says "yes" get her number so y'all can do that. Then continue on the conversation. If you can't do all that don't worry about it. Just get the number at the end.
/r/seduction23/01/17 12:43 AM
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I think you need to flirt more with the girls. square up. Make eye contact etc. Also you should try to be trusting of people when you meet them. Like there is no reason to feel them out. Nothing can happen. (Obviously don't hand them your wallet or something before they warned your trust). But there is not readion not the be warm and friendly. Nothing bad can happen from that.
/r/seduction23/01/17 12:31 AM
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A night out means y'all go out Out of your houses at night and do something. See a movie, get drinks, see a concert etc. Probably the first thing that comes to mind when someone says "a night out" is going to bars or clubs, but it not a precise term. It's very broad and vague. "What are you doing later tonight" implies she wants to see you more. Maybe she wants to go back to one of y'all she houses to bang, or maybe she wants to do more activities with you like get drinks. We don't have enough i…
/r/seduction23/01/17 12:19 AM
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Just go propose something. And organize meeting up with them latter. It sounds like you are meeting new groups of people. When you have a groop of friends you hang with and you meet a cool new person, You don't really think to invite them out next time. Once you actually hang it with someone it changes the dynamics of the relationship. Don't consern yourself with this Alpha stuff too much. In an ok broad Guideline. But you can't apply that model to every situation. Humans are more complex than w…
/r/seduction23/01/17 12:04 AM
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It depends how you say it. If you say it like you want a compliment and approval it's bad. If you say which looks better like someone trying to get objective data there is no problem. You could also potentially ask in a flirty way.
/r/seduction22/01/17 11:54 PM
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Awesome best of luck!
/r/seduction22/01/17 11:48 PM
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Even just chatting up girl will in you day today life will help. The more you do it the more naturally it will become. If there's a girl or guy next to you waiting to get on the shuttle, chatting them wil help. So will getting to class early and talking to the people around you
/r/seduction22/01/17 10:48 PM
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Don't go around clod approaching girls. If you chat them up in class and stuff that's fine.
/r/seduction22/01/17 10:14 PM
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Look up how to talk to people and how to flirt you can watch RSDTylers Julien and Todd's videos to start. Practice talking to strangers everyday. Also Do stuff. If you have nothing going on in your life you won't have much to talk about.
/r/seduction22/01/17 10:11 PM
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That living in the wrong place is a valid excuse (as long as you aren't BS omg yourself.) if you have no or low experience you should lower your standards to something reasonable. you should still find them attractive but you shouldn't limit yourself to really hot girls. You'll never get anywhere.
/r/seduction22/01/17 10:07 PM
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I think it's because 1: people, to an extent, consider what someone's face looks like to be a part of who they are. But no one feels the same way about a person's teeth. And 2: I think that their can often be medical benefits to straighten teeth. If they don't line up right it could be easer to chip them.
/r/seduction22/01/17 09:58 PM
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I hate to break it to you man but you grow out of it by working through it. (Unless you are a young Teen.)
/r/seduction22/01/17 09:42 PM
1

Lots of people do Coke.
/r/seduction22/01/17 06:21 PM
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Yah I'd say don't bother. You really can move up on the world with out a degree . You just have to work jobs that give you skills. Or find companie that like to higher and promote internally (which do infect still exist)
/r/seduction22/01/17 06:20 PM
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I'm not a fan of fraternities at all, but there are some very nice people in them. There is nothing wrong with wanting to network and make your dating life easier by raising your status as long as you still treat everyone well.
/r/seduction22/01/17 06:13 PM
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In your day to day life or at bars/clubs ?
/r/seduction22/01/17 06:03 PM
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And your reputation.
/r/seduction22/01/17 06:01 PM
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I pretty much completely agree with you. I just think that when you think the false beliefs to define your reality, you shouldn't 100% believe them. Reguardless it's not that big of a deal if he thinks that. It's just a thing that can be a little bit "come on dude". I still like his content.
/r/seduction18/01/17 08:21 AM
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I kinda agree. It defenently Happn's naturally. He frequently does it as a shtick which is what's Annoying. The attitudes: I can't remember many examples very well. I just remember it happening. One example is he thinks the avrege girl has been with like 40-100 men. That's reductions. There certainly are many girl who have been with that many. I don't dought that for a second. But to think the avrege girl has been with that many is ridiculous. Todd disagreed with him on that also. I wish I could…
/r/seduction18/01/17 04:12 AM
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He yells, and makes gay sex jokes constantly. He use to be this funny crazy guy" but now he goes over the top and it's annoying and unrepeatable. Sometimes he has weird attitudes that aren't relatable. there are lots of videos when you can see Tyler being annoying and weird and Julien feeling uncomfortably waiting for Tyler to stop. He still makes awesome valuable content. And he isn't annoying in all of his videos. And it's not like his his annoying videos are unwatchable or anything like that.…
/r/seduction18/01/17 01:03 AM
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When it's my turn to order I start chatting a little with the bartender and I see this girl that I was talking to kind of nervously just take her drink and go, like, the fuck? Try thinking from her prospective. She had her drink. She didn't know what you wanted form her. You make have just been talking to her cuz you were board. Now you were in a conversation and she had nothing to do. That's awkward. You wanted her to just stand there dupring around for what form her perspective was an indefini…
/r/seduction15/01/17 07:29 PM
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That's honestly shitty of your friends. If intoxicated you has the self control to drink less that would be probably be ideal. The best way to capitalize on the girls at your school would probably be to join several clubs.
/r/seduction15/01/17 12:30 AM
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Sorry for the typos I'm on mobile Ideally, Be man to woman. If that doesn't naturally happen and it's been a while, just go for it. Just say "come here," or "look at me" or something like that. Then go for the kiss. (That's called a phase shift if you are intrested in the jargon ). There really is nothing to them, but people feel like they can't do them. I had no idea you could do them till I learned about them. They make life so much easer. Don't ask "may I kiss you" that's super lame. Just go …
/r/seduction14/01/17 07:54 AM
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Do you watch infield footage? That's really the most importaint learning material. You have to flirt. It will show you how. It's all about the vibe. Also do you drink? I know everyone in the community advocates not drinking because it is better in the long run but in the short run it is SOOO much more easer if you drink. It may be good to drink until you get your virginity out of the way. Join a few clubs that have girl. Go to lots of parties. are you only going for one type of girl? If so Maybe…
/r/seduction14/01/17 07:16 AM
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Allwayse. Assume. Attraction.
/r/seduction14/01/17 06:59 AM
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Ok, to give you good advice we need you to describe your trueself and what's wrong with it/what don't like about it.
/r/seduction14/01/17 03:50 AM
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Plus flirting. You realy can't get anywhere with out flirting.
/r/seduction11/01/17 03:51 AM
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People talk about this a lot actually. You can get new ones and intricate. You want to feel like you are enough. like you are of value. And coming from a place to provide value. If you feel the need to do stuff to offer value in order to feel excepted, that's bad and you're basically a dancing monkey. You want to feel like you're a value and do stuff from the place a value because were all in this together (Colabsratong frame.) or you want to make the world better. And intern in doing so you bec…
/r/seduction10/01/17 09:48 AM
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I think The best blanket advice is just ignore it and proceed as normal. A bother tip (which I still have to remind my self of and work on): if a girl is does something that could be proceed as "improper discourse" or if she doesn't quite get with your program, but you know it could be natural for a girl to do so, you can like hold the attitude that you are right and she is not following the norm and the awkwardness will be placed on her (which is very good for you) and example is if you are are…
/r/seduction31/12/16 07:10 AM
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I don't think she was rejecting you (unless she added sonthing more saying she didn't want to see you, if so that's soooo cunty to layer that on). It sounds like she was just staying that. To either let you know what she is looking for, test you, make conversation or tell you how to behave. Regardless it's weird and unnatural to talk about. Girls do weird shit
/r/seduction30/12/16 04:36 PM
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me to show empathy that she cant "high quality guys". Dam That sounds realy cunty. I guess if she was just like saying what she doesn't then that's another thing but still kinda weird. sadly there will alwayse be cunts. It's not east until you get your mojo working and can realy sick times. And then you have to maintain your mojo or build it backup. If can be frustrating but but its defenently not hopeless.
/r/seduction29/12/16 06:06 AM
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My my attractive friend dated an autistic guy then they broke up because she is crazy and fucked it up, then we ran into him at the club and he had a new very attractive girl friend. It was only a month or two after their breakup. AND my friend said that he essential even her type (physically) she just liked him anyway All this being exceptional stuff is only necessary if you want to bang like 3 9s or 10s a week and have a stable
/r/seduction28/12/16 04:52 PM
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You could get a certificate in something to boost your resume and give you more time at college. Also you absolutely didn't waist your time at college. You have to learn how to be successful with women. There are a lot that goes into it. And most people never become good with women and you have. You made something out of you 4 years.
/r/seduction27/12/16 02:42 AM
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Fixing their hair. Standing or sitting up straight. Looking st the girl. Those are som common involuntary signs men have. You show a girl you are into her by being "man to woman" rather than friend to friend. It's in your vibe. Your eye contact. The fact you stand squared up. The fact you flirt. Ect. And perhaps the statements of intent. Look up man to woman on the search bar and on youtube.
/r/seduction23/12/16 08:53 AM
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This seems like would be hot form her prospective but I think there is an importaint caveat. Don't do this to save her from her irresponsibility. It'll make her more irresponsible in the future.
/r/seduction22/12/16 12:16 AM
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Damn! That's horrible ! I don't realy stress about them. I've had raw anal and didn't pee and everything was fine. But I'll defenently try to pee now. That sounds horrible I had no idea.
/r/seduction22/12/16 12:02 AM
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That's my favored finger
/r/seduction21/12/16 11:17 PM
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Do you know if a guy get a UTI if he uses a condom?
/r/seduction21/12/16 11:09 PM
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Do cardio earlier that day. It will make everything better and make you last longer. If that isn't posible do it the day before. Meditation can also help you last longer and regular meditation will let you feel more chemistry.
/r/seduction21/12/16 11:02 PM
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You then keep approaching other hotter girls. You keep making friends. You get better at your social hobbies you get more and more envolved in your communities/ scenes. You gain experience for the girls you settled for. You improve your wardrobe. You get fitter. You gain social experience form all the social situations you were in. And dating experience form your prior dates. And sexual experience from your prior experience.
/r/seduction21/12/16 10:32 PM
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For real
/r/seduction21/12/16 10:27 PM
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Re read your post and imagine someone els is posting it and try to imagine their situation. there will be like 10 different situations that could cause this situation. You need to give more details. My 3 knee jerk assumptions about what your situation could look like are: 1) you get approached by girls who are less attractive than you. And you want girls on or above your league. 2) you don't like the girls who are the same type as you. You get girls who are the same type as you approaching you b…
/r/seduction21/12/16 09:33 PM
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The settle but keep improving
/r/seduction21/12/16 09:25 PM
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It could be blood sugar drops. Those will dampen your mood. to combat them just try not to eat tons of carbs in one sitting and if you get a dip to snack on some carbs. Or do a ketogenic diet. It could also be a caffeine crash. If I have a big one I'm ruined for a while. I can't even make conversation with my friends or family. Sometimes I'm just tired sometimes it makes my mood horrible. To combat this avoid drink a lot of caffeine in one sitting so I won't have a strong crash later on.
/r/seduction18/12/16 07:32 PM
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That's good to know. thanks for the tip !
/r/seduction18/12/16 07:23 PM
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I'll try those thanks for the recommendation
/r/seduction18/12/16 07:18 PM
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It's dependent on the situation,the dynamics at play, your previous interaction(s), and the girl
/r/seduction17/12/16 10:21 PM
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practicing the principles/concepts. It got so bad that I didn't even care about the girl anymore, I only cared about what I was doing right and wrong. Well you have to get rid of this mentality. You will never be able to get anywhere with it. Game is soposed to be messy. Instructors make mistakes. Some of them say they when they take a break from teaching and game constantly it becomes too smooth then it becomes weird and the girls get uncomfortable If you want to continue working on the things …
/r/seduction17/12/16 10:17 PM
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Well all of the stuff they tell you is guidelines rather than laws. Generally you should try to foccus on having fun primarily and only try working on one technique. Don't judge and analyze your sets during the night. Do it after you are done. Look at what you did wrong and think of what you can do better then think of everything you did well. However You may be trying to learn a bad style or techniques. If only focusing on one or two techniques still messes you up I'd say forget it and just go …
/r/seduction17/12/16 09:47 PM
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Thanks and No problem! It hope it helps!
/r/seduction17/12/16 08:47 PM
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Well I still have no idea what you mean by practicing game so I can't give you specific advice. But I certainly can say "having shitloads of fun and making memories with friends" is one of the highlights of life so i'd absolutely recommend contenuing to do that. Just don't neglect other parts of your life
/r/seduction17/12/16 08:44 PM
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Also lots of ppl in the community are obsessed with Eckhart tolle's books. You could check those out
/r/seduction17/12/16 08:19 AM
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I highly recommend reading Letting Go: the parhway of surrender by dr. David R Hawlking. It explains your mind and emotions and how to let go of past emotional baggage. It's fantastic. It made me so much happier in my day to day life. There is a little bit of ridiculous woowoo stuff but the wrest is fantastic. The voice actor also has a very nice voice You can also get "how to Win friends and influence people " as well as mini mini other self-improvement books in audio format
/r/seduction17/12/16 08:10 AM
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What are you trying to do ? That is very importaint for us to give you advice.
/r/seduction17/12/16 07:54 AM
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You can conduct yourself in different ways while still being yourself. You can know your audience and act in a relatable way with out being fake. There is a balance. You obvsiously want to be genuine. But you can and should, if your want to be successful, conduct yourself in an appropriate way. (Why you are in a night club, you can make sooo much stuff be appropriate.). You can also think about what things are importaint to you. There is nuances to all these concepts. If you want to live fast yo…
/r/seduction17/12/16 07:27 AM
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Ah makes sense
/r/seduction17/12/16 12:44 AM
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Can you play stuff on your phone and listen to your phone so you don't have to worry about people seeing what's on your work computer ?
/r/seduction16/12/16 09:40 PM
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1) might taking some convincing depending on who you ask. Girls often just try to make there friends feel better rather than help them improve.
/r/seduction16/12/16 04:32 PM
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And advice on how I can keep a cool demeanor in these situation? I use to be able to that very easily when I was younger but now if people act rude to me I get a physical feeling and it's hard to stay cool.
/r/seduction16/12/16 04:25 PM
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You just need to make yourself do it then you can get passed this mental barrier. I don't have any tips other that stop thinking and do it. This video might some https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=WloORPfKnD4 I think you just need to make yourself make a move.
/r/seduction16/12/16 04:14 PM
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Sometimes other people or the awkward one in an awkward situation you're in. She handled that situation very poorly. She ignored someone, offended them, then got embarrassed and just removers herself from the situation she created I stead of facing it (a very common thing for girls to do) You had every right to be salty. It would have been more mature and socially graceful to pretend it didn't happen or assume the best of her. It would be smart to work towards that. But you were justified in fee…
/r/seduction09/12/16 06:46 PM
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Do you think perhaps you are less spontaneous and and interested yourself ? Being goal oriented and logical will tend to do that. Also if you want to meet the most interesting people go travel. You will meet the coolist people when you travel. Meditating realy helps with this also. Also a tip for love is to make eye contact when cumming. If you have her look in your eyes when she cums it will make her feel more love for you, And Vice versa .
/r/seduction07/12/16 06:30 PM
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if you play that game the many who put out quick are just going to front like they don't put out quick.
/r/seduction06/12/16 08:55 PM
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You are way more disciplined and accomplished than most people of any age and you you've done that at such a young age. You are harder working and have accomplished more than almost any of the girls you talk to will in their lives. And your only 21. There is a pretty big difference between you and them. Due the the amount of time being an entrepreneur takes and the amount of time you would have had to achieve what you did this makes me think this is more likely a trole post than a genuine one (I…
/r/seduction06/12/16 08:49 PM
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IDK i haven't read it, I bought he field tested any of it so take everything with a major grain of salt.
/r/seduction05/12/16 07:16 PM
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you can casually ask her where she lives. Also it doesn't really matter if she lives close to the center center. if she has to drive 15 min to her house its no big deal. just start re-escalating at her house. You should escalate in the club. once you are inside her house you can start escalating on her again. a good move is to try to watch TV/a movie in her room on her bed then go from there.
/r/seduction05/12/16 06:35 PM
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that must be frustrating to hear that a lot :/ I know its a spectrum but some autistic people can just learn all the social norms and the facial expressions as random arbitrary facts. (Its way more work though) RSD Tyler claims to have done that. my attractive friend's ex had Aspergers they broke up because he had a violent past then he got in a fight and it scared her (it was basically bullshit and she ended up regretting it.) then we ran into him at the club and he had a new girlfriend who was…
/r/seduction05/12/16 07:24 AM
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you can get hookups from all of those places.
/r/seduction05/12/16 07:11 AM
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are you asking if you should try to get with this girl, or just forget about her because you don't want to be rejected by her? You should defiantly go for it. you will spend your whole life wondering "what if" and it will suck and you will regret not trying. If you do do for it either something will happen which will be great, or she will reject you which will hurt but after a wile you will be ok again. That will be better than spending your whole life wondering "what it"
/r/seduction05/12/16 05:18 AM
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Try to pull to her house, if you can't do that, go on a day two and try to pull to one of your houses eventually. you should still escalate in the club
/r/seduction05/12/16 03:28 AM
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Genuine question, why should I not worry about / think of one night stands? he said that because your logistics suck right now. However you can go back to her house. but isn't three dates before sex a lot? No. but there is no reason to assign a number of dates before going for it. If you don't think girl will be down to go on the adventure back to your house. In the US that is considered the proper number of dates before sex. (however I think most people have their own opinion on the matter)
/r/seduction05/12/16 03:26 AM
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questions very briefly, and don't elaborate into small talk like most people do. dont do that. one of the biggest keys is to offer information to give them more jumping off points. and to set to tone for the conversation as one where we share information. her: what did you do yesterday you: (don't just say good say more like) I did x y and saw Fantastic Beasts and where to find them. Her: oh! what did you think of it. you: (don't just say "it though it was alright) say " the sets were amazing. a…
/r/seduction05/12/16 03:17 AM
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I agree with you, but to be fair we have all three of those words defined in our sidebar. So that is the first thing we teach newcomers and the first things a reporter would see.
/r/seduction05/12/16 03:08 AM
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I'm an extrovert but weed use to make me introverted and suck socially. I lived in MX for a wile and weed didn't give me that effect it made me happy and shit. Maybe my body got more use to weed. Or maybe I used different strands there. Idk. The thing that gave me rock star game was getting bairly sloppy drunk then taking a small amount of cocaine. The cocaine made me no longer sloppy and the two complemented each other perfectly. (This was before I hand Much game). The cocaine automatically did…
/r/seduction04/12/16 08:00 PM
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Are the Side effects permanent ? If not I'd say give it a shot. If it gives you anxiety or ED you can just stop taking it. My only consern would be that you are still young. Your brain is still developing. Your beard is probably still developing too. Missing out on that DHT may cause problems in regards to that something to research. If the side effects go away and it's not bad to take it so young go for it. Everyone's body is different and you have nothing to lose. You may not have any side aff…
/r/seduction04/12/16 09:55 AM
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You just have to intersect you path with theirs. Go to bars clubs concerts and art shows. Join organizations. Check out meetup.com. Rent your couch on couchsurfing.com . Go to different grocery stores until you find one in a neighborhood with has some hot girls.
/r/seduction04/12/16 07:50 AM
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where to meet women: The best places are bars and clubs. If you have friends or acquaintances who you can go with that makes it a lot more fun. You could also try joining an RSD Inner circle or a lair to meat people. you can also meet people at festivals and concerts and you can also try to meet girls while shopping. (christmas time is one of the best times for this. lots of people are out shopping by themselves. You can ask what they think of various things you are considering to buy as an open…
/r/seduction04/12/16 07:36 AM
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I'll have to try that !
/r/seduction29/11/16 02:29 PM
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Just don't remind her of her ex husband
/r/seduction28/11/16 07:53 PM
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Concerts, parties, cozy coffee shop, a nice park (if your city is safe). Kava bar (a disgusting tea that makes you relaxed and feel good.) dance hall, swimming, y'all can grab food too. Just don't go to fancy stitdown restaurants. There is nothing wrong with eating. If you are at the point where y'all touch and kiss you can see a movie. That gets shat on here but in some circumstances they can be fantastic. If y'all already touch and kiss seeing an exciting Or funny movie will put y'all in a fan…
/r/seduction28/11/16 07:32 PM
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These may be of some help: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/search?q=How+to+start+conversation+&restrict_sr=on
/r/seduction28/11/16 07:15 PM
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thats very true but there is a difference between a guy she is intrested saying "hey how's it going" then only having small talk verses one who can flirt..
/r/seduction28/11/16 07:14 PM
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Try to chat people up everyday. That will help you a lot. Also watch i field footage for day and night game. That's the most useful thing (other than practicing )
/r/seduction26/11/16 09:56 PM
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It could be that. If you just met her it could be she enjoys talking to you and she knows you will move to someone single if you knew she had a BF. It could be she likes you and is trying to play the field. It could be she wants to keep you on the back burner. It could be anything. I could be she just doesn't talk about it Cuz it's not pertinent. Also It's Douchie to rub your relationship in other people faces. It could be latterly anything. One action does not equal one meaning. The context of …
/r/seduction26/11/16 09:24 PM
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Pick the One you like the best / have the most chemistry with and is available. Or if all you care about is getting laid pick the slittiest most DTF of the bunch.
/r/seduction26/11/16 09:18 PM
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She probably was down to make out regardless. And that was a good way of moving from dancing to making out.
/r/seduction26/11/16 09:15 PM
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Look at close ups of his face. he looks perfect form a distance but has a lot of unsymmetrical parts of his face you can see early on. And his beard use to look awful before he figured out what to do with it. Are you going out and doing the exercises each modual talks about ? Or applying what you learned ? And working on that. That is the ONLY think that will improve your game. And so you can't open a girl who is super hot and have her hooked instantly. So fucking what? You wanna give up and nev…
/r/seduction24/11/16 07:58 PM
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Yah but my lay count ... /s
/r/seduction21/11/16 06:26 AM
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I'm being conoleatly honest. No need to adjust your attitude or you will become burnt out. However online it seems completely and utterly lazy. You have hours or days to think of something to say and that's all you came up with was 'hey' "hey" is the standard greeting. They are interested in you that's the normal way to start a conversation. There are 1000s of guys on online dating. If she's attractive she gets messages form 100s. I don't understand Why you wouldn't You think you are owed a crea…
/r/seduction21/11/16 03:28 AM
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Ok that makes much more sense. I was under the impression you only talked to girl you were interested in sleeping with. Saying you want to talk to your friends sounds to eject sounds like a really good technique.
/r/seduction16/11/16 07:38 PM
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Ok but let's say you ejected. And you don't have a new girl to talk to. Now what do you do ? That's my problem. If I eject then find a new set, that's awesome it will probably go well and be fun. If I don't find one but I have my friends to go back to awesome. But if I'm not with friends and there isn't another set idk what to do. I end up durping around and then my future opens never go well. When I'm having fun my opens pretty
/r/seduction16/11/16 07:08 PM
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It's an absolutely terrible way of grazing what they mean. They want to say they arent what determine your success. A less desirable guy with game can get a lot more girls that a hot guy with zero game. But a hot guy needs much less game. And can make may more mistakes.
/r/seduction16/11/16 04:01 PM
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Are you going to tell me you've never even considered getting down with a 4 or 5 when she was super cool and DTF Defenetly never. That's one of the deferences between men and women when speaking generally.
/r/seduction16/11/16 03:58 PM
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You're just Insecure. There is literally nothing wrong with your face. You aren't even have that dorky Indian/Pakistani look about. If you get positive reference experiences you will like looking at yourself in the mirror
/r/seduction16/11/16 03:54 PM
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Instead of merging girls to get out of bad sets, I immediately excused myself from interactions with lame girls to avoid wasting another unnecessary second with them. What would you then go do ? I thought that the merging sets was so you could stay social the whole timeinstead of durping around looking for another hot girl. And so you could maintain social proof. If I don't have a group of friends to go back to, the down time messing up my moment is probably my biggest hurdle. (I don't know how …
/r/seduction16/11/16 03:42 PM
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If it's a big college doing ocasional cold approach shouldn't hurt your reputation. But do go daygame PÚA mode all the time. You will destroy your reputation that way. Hopefully you can find friends in your frat to go out with you will have a lot more fun with a group and it will be easer that way. If there are girls in it you will have added social proof. You my want to join another organization where you can date the members. Also you ideally want "dynamic" social circles where you friends bri…
/r/seduction16/11/16 03:29 PM
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If the guy had a good vibe and was already having fun and the girl could see, the same conversation could go like this: Guy: ''Hi'' girl: ''Hi!' Guy: ''how are you?'' Girl: ''in good! + a comment." Guy: ''responds to comment '' Girl: Hahaha! Guy: i have to say, I think you're very pretty (delivered well) Girl: oh my gosh hahah Guy: Would you like to dance? Girl: ok! [ they procede to the dance floor to bump and grunt on the dance floor for 48 seconds after which he spend her around and they grin…
/r/seduction15/11/16 07:22 PM
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If you like a guy and are feeling shy you have to let him. Or atleast drop strong hents. An interested shy girl will come across as un interested unless she drops a lot of hents or is explicit. Edit: You should watch some I field footage for day game and night game. Watch different I structure. That is the mose useful learning resource
/r/seduction15/11/16 05:57 PM
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There is no correct way to game. There are many many ways. what is your friends results ? If he gets results and is not famous he has game. That doesn't mean he is a master or anything. Pay attention to his vibe. That is one of the most importaibt things.
/r/seduction15/11/16 05:48 PM
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If you're in high school don't hold approach much at all Watch some infield footage try and get a feel for how things night game would be equivalent to parties and do you would be roughly per went to school
/r/seduction15/11/16 05:20 PM
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I've heard form a different Guy in Asia that if you do invest in a gym you can look a lot better than most guys sense v shaped physiques are pretty uncommon. If that is the case in the Philippines it's something to think about. It may be worth the investment. As for the diet stuff, you have good skin ? If you do you don't realy need to worry about it. If you need to lose weight just eat less calories than you need.
/r/seduction15/11/16 05:03 PM
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Not everyone is from America. This sub isn't exclusively for us.
/r/seduction11/11/16 06:24 PM
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I thinks he's saying that if you get rejected on attain the people will judge you and there is nothing you can do about that. So he just accepts the world for what it is. it realy comes down to shifting your attitude. When there is a high pressure social situation, instead of being nervous and I temadated you should revel in it. Here is a good video that embodies the attitude. You don't need to go as extreme as him but it illustrates the attitude very well. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4GPSfH9F…
/r/seduction05/11/16 05:01 PM
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Other people have them. I've seen some goon ones on squattingCasanova's Channel
/r/seduction02/11/16 01:34 AM
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Try to figure out their motivations, feelings and wants a person they are. And cool stories. Bad example: Her I wanna become a CPA You: cool Good example: I wanna be a CPA You: oh well that's a solid job. What do you like about accounting ? Her: idk I just like just like the ballance sheet and calculating the missing accounts. You: ah cool, so i guess you find beauty in the order of it all? Her: yah exactly! You: well cool. Accounting defenently isn't my thing but if you enjoy it, you've got you…
/r/seduction29/10/16 11:44 PM
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Usually listen to RSD's videos while I drive. I only look st the videos when there is in field footage
/r/seduction27/10/16 09:37 PM
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Just pratice having more conversations In general with men and women. It will help in the skill tremendously. If everyday you have a convo with a stranger you will be in such a better position.
/r/seduction22/10/16 07:49 PM
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Because he is a pick up I structure who travels the country and he works long hours AND has two kids.... He can only be in relationships with girls who are cool with him running around fucking other girls that severely limits his options.... He travels a lot and is not alwayse home. He works long hours so when he is home that's still less time than normal. He also has to spend time with his kids. When a girl is getting slightly in the way of his "path in life" he'll just drop her. 99% of guys wo…
/r/seduction22/10/16 07:41 PM
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Lots of people have active social lives get involved in versions scenes and have large networks. lots of people get families and just go home after work and watch TV and sleep. It's up to you. You probably have that feeling cuz you have that image in your head. Maybe it is caused by the media you consume. Your could try consuming different media or no media if you care about the feeling. I'd say just ignore it and do you. Go make a big social circle if you want one.
/r/seduction22/10/16 07:30 PM
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If she's not joking she sounds like a bitch. That's a bit much.
/r/seduction22/10/16 07:23 PM
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Practice flirting. It's mainly a vibe but there are lots of techniques. Generally you need to have a fun joking flirty part, and a normal part of the interaction where you don't talk about nonsense. Look up "man to woman frame" or "man to woman vs firmed to friend" To improve your game real/watch material and then practice it. You should start at the sidebar, and watch some In field footage. then practice. Then if you need more you can read a book on it or watch a video product. After you read a…
/r/seduction12/10/16 10:30 PM
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I am constantly worried that I am not putting out the best vibe in a place where everyone can see me, Not being so self-conscious will help.
/r/seduction12/10/16 10:20 PM
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If you aren't on track to retire, You should focus on your career but don't increasing the cost of your lifestyle because you need to plan for retirement. You have 25-30 years to amas enough money to support yourself for for 20-30 years. That doesn't mean you can't game simultaneously.
/r/seduction12/10/16 10:17 PM
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Keep praticing consistently and frequently to get use to it. Also the more social you become throughout your day the better you will be.
/r/seduction12/10/16 10:10 PM
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Or you could let sleeping dogs lie, rather than be a guy from a sitcom who gets into a slightly awkward situation then keeps talking and digs himself Into a deeper hole.
/r/seduction12/10/16 10:03 PM
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A group of people, Generally women. A mixed set is men and women. A "2 set" is two girls Etc.
/r/seduction09/10/16 05:58 PM
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What happens if your wing opens a two set and you jump in ? Also Have you tried asking your friend for advice ?
/r/seduction09/10/16 03:07 AM
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Enter the club Look at a set Walk up to the set and say something. If your time inset lasts less than 15 minutes try to avrege atleas one set per 15 minutes. The only caveat Is that the club has to have enough sets. If the club sucks and there are only 3 sets this will be Impossible to do for more that 45 minutes. You may wanna check out infield footage. That's the most useful thing for learning IMHO When you approach you wanna approach strong. You don't want to meekly go up and see if they will…
/r/seduction08/10/16 04:01 PM
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"I want to eat from your ramen noodles"?
/r/seduction07/10/16 07:39 PM
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Putting the mask on is probably your problem with bars and clubs.
/r/seduction30/09/16 10:48 PM
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Sorry for typos I'm on moble: Step one: pre game with your mates and start having fun BEFORE you get to the club. Then on the way it you have a instance where you can naturally be loud, be loud. It will unsafe for you, get you out of your shell, And make you more charismatic. If you are already having fun and loosened up it should make everything in the club much easer. Dancing: You said you don't know how to dance. Figure it out. You don't have to looks cool and slick dancing. You just have to …
/r/seduction30/09/16 10:34 PM
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It's a personal preference. You will miss out on a lot of girls this way but it will save effort.
/r/seduction30/09/16 10:18 PM
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Girls can't realy make guys attracted to them. But they can Defenently get guys out of their league. (Not saying this guy even is). The best thing this prstice talking and flirting to get better and more comfortable at it. Additionally if you find a girl who dates your type of guy and dates out of her league, she could probably give you better specific advice than any of us.
/r/seduction30/09/16 05:25 AM
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You can try eating before you go out and taking vitamin B. That should help you tolerance. Also if you are on a Keto diet it will make your tolerance shit.
/r/seduction30/09/16 05:16 AM
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"Ok haha, well you can come over if you'd like "
/r/seduction30/09/16 12:17 AM
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Where are your interactions supposed to go? To a place where we joke around or talk about something I treating and have a good time. And possible form friendships. I mean I do want more that just forced conversation for a few minutes. Is that what's shooting me in the foot? I'm speaking about general parting where most people are strangers. Not realt picking up women. I've had lots of fun going to parties with my friends though. Also when I'm already having fun I can usually meet have a better t…
/r/seduction30/09/16 12:01 AM
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Thank you for your reply ! Everything makes sense. You have everything within you to have fun, to talk to people, to make friends, to pick up girls, and to be generally hAppy. I guess that this is my sticking Point. Logically it make sense And I certainly have experienced that many times. But lots of times I just don't seam to have fun in me and Then none of my interactions Go anywhere. and then I don't know what to do.
/r/seduction29/09/16 06:11 PM
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My advice would just ignore it and move it forward. There is no way to know what she means. That's your best shot at making it work. And either it will work or it won't. Then you will know where you stand with her.
/r/seduction28/09/16 11:44 PM
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She could be shit testing you. If not for the pic She could view you as a close friend. She could be trying to make you jellious and more interested. She could be trying to tell you she is not interested in You. She could have no idea what is appropriate and just saying what is on her mind. She may be trying to be honest about her situation with you so u don't get upset in the future that she was talking to other guys
/r/seduction28/09/16 05:43 PM
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How do you speak ? Maybe that's it. Other than that Idk. Well Regardless you have a method that works for you so you are better off than 97% of guys so you should feel good about that
/r/seduction28/09/16 01:32 AM
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Well you could start with a normal convo, then when she opens up and gives a good answer (or after she gives you complyence if you are trying to go for complyence and it seams appropriate ) you could say in a flirty way "ok, you can be my girlfriend!... For now" (or what ever is fitting to the situation) then go into your girlfriend routine
/r/seduction27/09/16 08:56 PM
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I don't see anything wrong with it except you may be limited. There may be times when you don't have a caned opener and the appropriate thing to do would be say hi. Maybe after you use the caned opener opener successfuly, and still have the flirty vibe, try and Open normally? Maybe they could help you "carry the vibe with you". Or make it more natural to move the conversation into a flirty space. Then afterwards you could see try and look at the " mechanical mechanism" that moved the conversatio…
/r/seduction27/09/16 08:14 PM
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How do you have fun? My biggest sticking point is not knowing how to have fun (unless I'm having fun with my friends but that is not reliable) when I go and find girls and can flirt I have a blast. Or if it's a lots of my friends I typically have fun. But I struggle when it is a party of strangers and there aren't girls to engage. If I can get this down I'll have super solid game and would no longer be dependent on certain factors to have a good time and success. Pluss I'd like to have more fun
/r/seduction27/09/16 08:01 PM
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I bet you when you start with the role play you start with a flirty vibe. Doing you opener also puts the conversation in a flirty space. If you do a normal opener you will have to have the flirt vibe and ideal branch off into a flirty nonsense conversation. Or do something that "mechanically" puts the conversation in a flirty direction making it easy to build the vibe. If you have the vibe it is super easy to move the conversation to flirty nonsense content. If you "mechanically" move the conver…
/r/seduction27/09/16 07:50 PM
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I think it's just you're taking positive actions, you're growing, and you get lots of acceptance from strangers. And I guess you are in abundance mentality as well. I don't really know tho.
/r/seduction26/09/16 10:22 PM
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Expect a good experience.pleas I guess following the logic of the post don't go seeking a good experience, and accept a potential bad experience. I guess wanting a good experience demonstrates lack and if you don't have one you will be disappointed. idk if it necessary to follow that prescription. It may help. But pleas assume attraction when you meet new people pretend y'all are already friends and expect things to go well those are some important self fulfilling prophecies. If you expect to fa…
/r/seduction26/09/16 06:41 PM
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I don't think you should make it your top priority. But make it a major focus. Idk what you sticking points are but probably the biggest key is to socialize nearly every day. And game as much as reasonable. Going to clubs should help you sustain your momentum. But try to go out atleast two night in arow to game. Joint clubs and building a social network should help you a lot. If you do nothing but game you will end up with nothing to talk about. You need to lead an Intresting life to be Intresti…
/r/seduction26/09/16 03:46 PM
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Agreed but they don't realy know any better. I don't really know what can be done. Hopefully they find better more modern material.
/r/seduction26/09/16 03:38 PM
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Idk if it's a part of your identity, as mush as it is who it makes you. for me there was no other equal outlet. Back when I was good I had so much positivity in me. And I had like an " aura" or some shit. Things like I'd go to Lowe's and then the sales associate would touch my shoulder while talking to me, would happen all the time. And I just miss having that positivity in me.
/r/seduction26/09/16 03:32 PM
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I've never really tried it myself. Go try see what things are like for yourself
/r/seduction20/09/16 11:05 PM
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Also movies give guys anxiety about accidentally mouth raping a girl. That's not possible in real life unless she has or eyes closed or you grab her face and force your mouth to hers. She can pull back or turn her head SOoo easily.
/r/seduction20/09/16 06:07 PM
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You need boath. If you are going on dates You can't be flirty airhead fun guy 24/7. You have to be a real person and actually talk. But you also need to flirt. That's what makes it a romantic interaction makes it fun. And makes escalating natural. You can use personal stuff she says to relate to her emotionally. It builds a connection and comfort.
/r/seduction20/09/16 05:38 PM
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Probably use your story it to show your cool life style. I'm not a snapchat pro or anything.
/r/seduction20/09/16 05:34 PM
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Aren't you soposed to wait for the girls ti ask?
/r/seduction20/09/16 05:31 PM
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Flipping the script/ qualification / building investment / building compliance / getting her to chaise.
/r/seduction20/09/16 05:29 PM
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Meditate, cut down on mindless stimulus (facebook, Reddit, Instagram searching for a song to satisfy you in that moment. ) should help a lot
/r/seduction20/09/16 05:28 PM
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Me too
/r/seduction20/09/16 05:24 PM
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Can you dance normally? I'm confident but way too white to dance unless I'm drunk. Not everyone naturally dances. If you were the only sober one I would beat my self up if I were you. I'm not saying you can't learnt to dance sober but just saying
/r/seduction18/09/16 02:20 AM
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Glad I could help !
/r/seduction18/09/16 02:14 AM
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you should show Interest. That keep you out of the friend zone. Intrest is short for "romantic intrest" you want her to know you are romantically Inetested in her. That keeps you out of the friend zone. People get in the friend zone by never showing Intrest and acting like a friend Also you are in Highschool don't let this sub phyche you out. You don't need tight game in HS
/r/seduction17/09/16 07:41 PM
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You didn't really describe your situation and we don't know so everything anyone says will be a shot in the dark. It sounds like you like the girls you talk to then y'all part ways so you feel sad. That's normal. You are soposed to be a little bummed or sad when you part ways with a girl you liked. It's normal to have past baggage drag you down. When something puts you into a given state it makes you think of other past things that happened in that state. If you are depressed out of your mind it…
/r/seduction17/09/16 07:32 PM
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Join clubs It it is extreanly natural to go to go up and talk to girls at a party. That's what parties are for. If strangers don't mingle it's just a festive get together amongst friends Edit: when you join clubs, make friends then go to social things out side of the club with them to build a social circle. You will be happier with a social circle and you will sometimes get introduced to girls naturally through it.
/r/seduction17/09/16 06:04 PM
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Look up lover v. Provider one here and on YouTube. This video may also help: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=HGEO6ig8WsM
/r/seduction16/09/16 07:41 PM
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The new most Intresting man in the world is ugly but like he's badass so he ends up looking good and sorta distinguish it's a weird phenomenon I'm not trying to say this applies to everyone but t is something to think about.
/r/seduction15/09/16 01:53 PM
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sorry for the typos i don't have time to edit. also id like to preface this by saying I think you have trouble establishing a man to woman frame. you should read up on that. basically square up with her, make eye contact and have the background attitude "I'm a man your a women, men and women are sopped to have sex with each other. For the quick make out in a club setting You are adding a mental block. The "something before" is escalating into a position that creates sexual tension and put you in…
/r/seduction14/09/16 07:54 PM
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Well they are boath early 20s so I don't see the problem. There are girls who cuss a lot too. And that's just how a lot of people speak.
/r/seduction14/09/16 03:14 PM
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He kino escalated, she seamed receptive then moved his mouth towards her mouth. All you do is move your mouth towards her mouth. It's most naturally when done while flirting. That's is your missing peace. Kino escalation is to make things more natural and to gage are receptivity. That's the point of it. You have to do it if you wanna make out in the club. That's basically all there is. A good move is to take her arms and put them behind your neck then put you hands behind her lower back and lock…
/r/seduction14/09/16 02:57 PM
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I and probably the 99 people who up voted it got to see it if for the first time. I thoroughly enjoyed it. And I'm sure a lot of people don't have any idea how to foreplay
/r/seduction13/09/16 09:41 PM
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The production of this was awesome man!
/r/seduction13/09/16 09:40 PM
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When you get in the I consistent habit of it, talking to strangers is so easy and natural. And conversely if I don't realy socialize at all for a wile, I will usually have a boring time talking to my friends.
/r/seduction12/09/16 11:03 PM
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Ok, I pretty much compleatly agree with now, as long as it's not an excuse to not approach.
/r/seduction12/09/16 10:53 PM
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What value does thinking like that provide you ? You shouldn't be delusional. Know that if you improve your social status and looks and game you will get better results. But when there is a 10 thinking like that provides no positive benefit
/r/seduction12/09/16 07:47 PM
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Dude relationships are soposed to end. People meet sometimes it's a short fling, Sometimes it's a few fun months, some times it's a long meaningful part of each persons life. But they are soposed to end. The vast majority of people who date each other don't get married. Of the minority that do get married only 1/10 stay in love for more than 7 years. It is an anomaly for two people to stay In love forever. When you are I love it feel amazing and fantastic and wonderful and it feels like it shoul…
/r/seduction12/09/16 07:33 PM
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You got that from Drake and Josh, don't lie!
/r/seduction11/09/16 06:09 PM
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Tell you brothers you don't want one because you are in college and want to have fun and get laid and not stress out. That's Pretty reasonable. of course If you want a girlfriend you should get one tho. But staying that should get them off your back.
/r/seduction10/09/16 09:36 PM
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Just tell some the party is cansoled ?
/r/seduction10/09/16 09:30 PM
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R*
/r/seduction10/09/16 09:18 PM
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You could latterly potentially get a girl in a city of 500 assuming there is a single girl their. I don't think it's as much about size as it is about if there are places people congregate or if people Walk on the streets or just drive everywhere
/r/seduction10/09/16 05:14 PM
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It's huge because they can remember your vibe. I got a girls number. She was I to me when I met her. Then like a week passed and it cooled off she ignored my text. I called her and she compleatly did a 180 after hearing me
/r/seduction10/09/16 05:11 PM
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Defenently but most people just read and read and read and never go out.
/r/seduction10/09/16 05:06 PM
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A really fantastic book on this topic is "letting go: the pathway of surrender" by dr. David R Hawkings. It's fantastic. It explains how thoughts and emotions work. How to get rid of emotional baggage which gets rid of bad thought lupes. People are naturally happy you just have to get rid of the baggage. I highly recommend it. There is some weird woowoo stuff in the book but the rest is legit
/r/seduction10/09/16 04:53 PM
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I've heard that it varies a lot from one city to another. one guy tried it in one city and Had little success then he tried it in another end had tons. I think it depends on the culture of the city.
/r/seduction10/09/16 03:43 PM
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Like you understand that fact, then after a night out you go back and analyze what you did and figure out what you could do better and practice that. If you've been opening well, you can generally tell if she is just not feeling being approached/ or you, Or if you didn't game well enough. I don't know how to tell if it is a spontaneous day game open (unless she is obviously busy, or in a bad mood ) You wanna hold two consepts in your mind. It's hard for me to put that into writing. Did that make…
/r/seduction10/09/16 03:29 PM
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here is a video explaining the mechanics Of it: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=065LXG8KypI I didn't naturally know how to do it. It really comes form vibe. I watched a lot of infield videos and paid attention to their attitudes and the vibe behind the interaction, then I'd try to feel it and imagen my self in similar situations. Then at night id think of the vibe and go from their. Over time you should learn mechanical think to do in a conversation to help spark the vibe. You want to have a real c…
/r/seduction10/09/16 08:29 AM
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You can start here: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=065LXG8Kyp I'd recommend watching infield footage and try to pick up on the vibe, then use the vibe an pratice flirting to get better.
/r/seduction10/09/16 08:13 AM
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Don't take it personally, take it as errors in you game that you need to fix. You need to know that you won't be every girls tipe, some will be in love with their boyfriends some will be lesbians and some will have have gone through something shitty like having to put their dog to sleep and not be in the mood to talk to guys. The rest will be gamble. Take your failure as problems with game not you. They don't even know you yet.
/r/seduction10/09/16 08:10 AM
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Huh did not know
/r/seduction09/09/16 06:20 PM
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Huh did not know
/r/seduction09/09/16 06:20 PM
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Congratulations man keep it up! My only advice is keep on doing what your doing but try not to get a big head. In my past It took a few bights of me me improving getting a if head then fucking something up so stop getting a big head. Watch out for hubris and you should be golded!
/r/seduction09/09/16 06:18 PM
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Is that legal ?
/r/seduction09/09/16 06:13 PM
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If they weren't using game, I bet that guy was fucking around having a blast and got into a fantastic state. And got girls with his state
/r/seduction09/09/16 06:11 PM
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Do you flirt? That makes escalating and what not much more natural
/r/seduction09/09/16 06:04 PM
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So to get the skulls to make it work you meet a lot of pratice. To get relationships with realy great women you have to become really grate at the dating game /relationships. You not going to improve these aspects very much if you don't go out and work on it. Relationships are skills rather than knowledge. So to get skills you have to learn knowledge then learn how to apply it. That's why it advocates praticing a lot. And there is no reason you can go out meet girls in clubs take their numbers a…
/r/seduction09/09/16 05:59 PM
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Do you flirt ? You not feeling anything my be because of a lack of flirting
/r/seduction09/09/16 05:49 PM
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Do you flirt ? It sounds like your problem is that you don't flirt. but I just do not feel the 'vibe', while I'm with them. You gotta flirt to crest the vibe. And it is super easy and natural to escalate while flirting.
/r/seduction09/09/16 05:47 PM
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Maybe try hooking up with a girl you don't care about? So you won't care how you perform. Then if you perform well you'll have more confidence
/r/seduction09/09/16 05:42 PM
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Try plumbing in you headphones, run then through your shirt with the microphone hanging out the neck of your shirt. And start recording a audio on your phone. I'd be surprised if that didn't work
/r/seduction08/09/16 05:31 PM
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isn't a universal place where women want to be approached. It's called the club. That's what there for. I don't realy have an openion approaching at the gym because there are so many ways to look at it.
/r/seduction08/09/16 05:19 PM
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Well for things like the gym you don't want motivation what you want is discipline. You don't want to Try and make yourself feel like going to the gym. Just every Monday Wednesday and Friday you go to the gym and lift weights. Come Monday night whether not you want to go to the gym it is irrelevant. You "have to" go reguardless of how you feel. You can grow a social circle by joining organizations on meetup.com you can meet people they ask your friends there to go do other activities. Then they …
/r/seduction08/09/16 05:15 PM
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If you yah a ps3, little big planet 2 You can get lbp3 for ps4 but it's not as good and charming. There are also cool online levels I'm not much of a gamer. And non "gamer girls" typically down to go back to your place to play video games ? That seams like a good way to get them in your home But yah lbp2 is realy charming and fun
/r/seduction08/09/16 03:14 AM
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It's not true, assuming you loved her or hand a degree of love for her, one you meet another one girl you actually like you will get over her. (a just a randome hook up won't help ). If it was pure infatuation and no love a hook up might be all you need. I think he saying is "you never forget the first person". That's a significant thing in ones life and you wouldn't want to forget. But your decently will get over her.
/r/seduction08/09/16 12:44 AM
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I'm super blessed to have two working feet. I used them and walked over to the girl. This blessing is compounded by the fact that I have a working mouth which I then proceeded to use to talk. I get what what I said was a snarky comment, but you really have to adopt that attitude. Your attitude towards a task will dramatically change how difficult it is. Pluss game is like 76.29% attitude I'll edit more advice in once I'm on a computer. But seriously, view for what it is a simple task. Don't look…
/r/seduction06/09/16 05:04 PM
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Probably, but I guess op could just be new to this and be impressed by the guys confidence and how he uses pick up tactics, which are pretty transparent. that would make it easier to spot for the viewer. It's harder to notice them being employed when someone has good game Op, this guy does some stuff well but also a lot of stuff poorly.
/r/seduction06/09/16 04:54 PM
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Night game is really fun. You can get a lot more pratice at night because you can open way more sets. It's way better if you have friends to go out with. They say day game improves you more because there is less "energy" smoothing over your mistakes. I've had way more success form night game. Try praticing socializing every day or as close to it as possible so you don't lose momentum
/r/seduction05/09/16 02:25 AM
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Go on Meetup.com and find local groups that interests you. You can build your social circle of locals this way which is good. Or You may be able to find an enclave of foreigners which could be cool too. Your university probably has extracurricular activities you can sign up for and or organization you can join. Sign up/join some. You will be able to meet people from your university, expanding your local social circle and possible meet the people on your program. Try and find a resturaunt where y…
/r/seduction04/09/16 08:29 PM
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I think the beauty of a one night stand is you won't have to worry about An awkward situation eith someone who you know or care about. That being said Don't base an an decision about something important to you off of what your fat will think. That's pathetic and not respecting your self like that will lower yourself esteem. If you want to lose it to a onenight stand do it. If you want to lose it to a gf then do that. I won't lie I've done them, but they realy are returned. Everyone time you slee…
/r/seduction03/09/16 06:54 PM
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That sounded like a joke to me. But rap is a sersious problem and a very real threat. Totally normal seaming people rape girls also. You have no way of telling if someone is a rapest. There are plenty of people who give off good vibes who are also rapests. It's a very real problem. Edit: again it sounds like she was just joking. People joke about dark things to help them think about them with out getting emotionally rapped up in the content
/r/seduction03/09/16 06:43 PM
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It's one of the many number one things you need in pick up
/r/seduction02/09/16 07:00 AM
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Join various clubs. Hent: if you join a volunteer organization that helps Animals, it will be probably mostly girls. But there are many thing you can do. Joins stuff make friends envite people out, organize stiff. Build a social network. Networking is huge for getting a job after college. You wanna network, get internships. And if there is a club that answers you and will help you build a skill that would be a good idea too. Try to get good grades so you can potentially get a scholarship to stud…
/r/seduction02/09/16 06:55 AM
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I think you need the right personality for it. But connections is everything
/r/seduction02/09/16 06:51 AM
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Or she was just not investing in the interaction, being a co versational starfish, then he called her out and she invested and participated. Additionally for 90% of people (men and women) you will have to do something to breath life into the conversation, or els every thing will be plain and matter of fact. You can't realy paint a picture form one datapoint
/r/seduction31/08/16 05:53 PM
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I mainly meet them in clubs. But I was under the impression that you could work this into you conversations with girls through your everyday life as well which would be a nice bonus. I never get results from day game, if this could Get me results with day game That would be cool too. I don't really have a problem with confidence. I can tease, and be funny, escalate, do push pull (that one is probably not my strongist skill) I don't realy know who to get her to qualify.
/r/seduction30/08/16 07:52 PM
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Realy ? Cuz trump is a fully and completely unqualified person with no experience and very few actual plans who generated over a billion dollars of free advertisement for him self and got nearly half the voting populous to rally behind him for president.
/r/seduction30/08/16 06:13 PM
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says "This is weird! we work together." (With a huge smile on her face) Dude. Why would you go make a logical discussion about the topic mid for play. Just ignore it form a logical stand out. Say something in a positive voice like "I know, so scandalous" and contenue. Or like "no it's natural" and contenue. She's just flirting in a goofy way. It's very normal.
/r/seduction30/08/16 05:58 PM
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That how i developed mine growing up. I'd say Id pay attenshion to people who were socially better than me in a particular area and see how they handled that situation.
/r/seduction27/08/16 07:37 PM
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It makes me feel more chemistry with girls and makes the feeling of "the love bubble" stronger, which I turn helps me draw the girl in more and be more witty. Most of the time I don't meditate becaus I just don't end up getting my self to do it.
/r/seduction26/08/16 04:27 PM
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Ohhh
/r/seduction26/08/16 07:34 AM
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He's lectures are super motivational, seeing it with visuals and music is crazy
/r/seduction26/08/16 03:53 AM
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Who old is she ? Also what does "streak day 1" mean?
/r/seduction26/08/16 03:44 AM
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I liked it and it's actually something I never saw before or atleas seen explained like this. And it was cool seeing how doing this effected you in the anecdote
/r/seduction26/08/16 03:42 AM
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The video is deleted or something
/r/seduction26/08/16 03:13 AM
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I really like the sorority types There you have it.
/r/seduction26/08/16 03:12 AM
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Bruh it's a joke. Women like jokes that are funny and this time is engaging. It's like ragging on your friends
/r/seduction26/08/16 03:07 AM
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And travels to the other side of the world to study abroad
/r/seduction26/08/16 03:04 AM
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They put videos of parts of the free tours up online. So the teach real stuff. The subject content will vary. I think that At the end they do an exercise. Also you can meet people in your city who are into going out. So you can find wingmen. And they will be into RSD stuff too. At the end the do a short up sell for a paid program. They give you real value
/r/seduction26/08/16 02:22 AM
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The take loans. Or work a lot and do worse in school. Or their parents pay. Have the attitude that it is good to live at home and you are fortune by to be able to ( cuz it is and you are). And have the attitude that moving out (if you don't need to) is irisponsible and childish cuz it is. You will go less far if you love out. You won't do as well in community college which can result in you going to a worse university or not getting to major in what you want to and having an entirely different c…
/r/seduction25/08/16 11:28 PM
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Where can I go to learn how to flip the script? I've been searching aroundto no avail. I have decent game, but I've never been able to use flip the script game. (Obviously there has been moments in interactions where I flipped the script, but I've never flipped the script on an interaction )
/r/seduction25/08/16 11:11 PM
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Ok cool, thanks for the input man
/r/seduction25/08/16 03:55 PM
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It's the best by a landslide. There is most cities there is no where else the the same abundance of women. The same concentration so you don't have to waist time looking for another and that has women who want to be approached other recommended places are the mall the beach the buss stop And your day to day life. Consents music destinies and fairs And in class Some cities have cool parks and stuff where people congregate.
/r/seduction24/08/16 07:41 PM
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I liked it! Very thorough and insightful. What is the reason for asking "what would myself do" rather than "what would I do" ? Is it to add a degree of separation Between you and the situation?
/r/seduction24/08/16 03:01 AM
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club/bars are the best places for sure. Given your schedule it seams like you need to go out Friday night and Saturday night. You can do some online during the week in your spare time if you want. You could look on meetup.com for something that strikes your Interest and do that on Saturday days or Sundays
/r/seduction24/08/16 02:50 AM
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Have you seen 10 game? Or the hot seat at home ? Just curious to see how it stacks up
/r/seduction24/08/16 02:34 AM
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Maybe hold off on the story until you get approaching down. Since is is still affecting you you probably can't laugh about it. Once you get past it and it no longer effects you you should be able to laugh about it.
/r/seduction23/08/16 07:40 PM
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Dude You aren't even short your normal. You also aren't in any sort of dilemma. Practice socializing , practice flirting, improve your game. Join organizations and improve your lifestyle. Go travel so you have more stories to tell. Girls don't give guys the "omg you are so cute!" Vibe based off their looks. They give it to them based off of the flirting and chemistry and and actions.
/r/seduction23/08/16 06:17 PM
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They know your are touching them. You just want to make it appropriate and natural
/r/seduction20/08/16 04:48 PM
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For the most part you mess around and make jokes and mess with them. And flirt and talk about Random topics. Watch some infield footage and pay attention to the vibe
/r/seduction20/08/16 04:45 PM
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Talk about stories. About movies aspirations. Go deep (to a reasonable level) Flirt. That is pretty important. If you can get a flirty vibe going you can go talk about nonsense and have way more content, plus it makes everything much more enjoyable and romantic and makes exfoliation realy natural. You need a balance of flirting and real conversations. Watch some I file footage. RSD is good and so it SquattingCasanova he has full In fild clips online Also try and pay attention to conversations wi…
/r/seduction18/08/16 10:14 PM
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I heard this form a different user. In France there was a very popular movie a wile ago about a romance between a French woman and an Asian man (from Asia). Sense so many people have seen that movie women can more easily view Asian men in a romantic light and see themselves with Asian men, and their friends have dated Asian men making it more normal and more easy to see them selves doing the same thing. This hasn't happened in the US On a side note: my Latin SO had to deal with a lot more biggat…
/r/seduction18/08/16 10:09 PM
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Nah he's asking how to play a situation, not for advice on sex
/r/seduction18/08/16 09:57 PM
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Bro post on askseddit so you won't get your post removed
/r/seduction18/08/16 09:55 PM
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There are like no bots nowadays. I think they got rid of them
/r/seduction18/08/16 07:53 PM
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Yah I completely agree. But then I was think, having OP's attitude may realy help you flip the buyer seller dynamic and what not
/r/seduction18/08/16 07:46 PM
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Fair enough
/r/seduction18/08/16 07:41 PM
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so?
/r/seduction18/08/16 06:50 PM
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Go out and make more opportunities for yourself. Then this shit won't be a big deal. If a kid has a chance to win $100 but misses it he will be devastated. If a lawyer who makes $100 an hour misses it he won't realy care. He has every week there are 40-70 times he can get $100 He'd also be much less nervous competing for the $100 You also need consistent pratice to get better.
/r/seduction17/08/16 07:14 PM
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RSDTodd's who said it
/r/seduction17/08/16 07:07 PM
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There are stark differences in personality types and attitudes
/r/seduction17/08/16 05:07 PM
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How i approached her was just got behind her and grabbed her waist with my right hand without saying anything. You just walked up and rubbed your penis on her butt. It is absolutely 1000% reasonable for a girl to not want a random stranger to rub his penis on her butt. You can't take that one interaction to mean you aren't good looking enough. According to people on here different cities have different cultures about grinding protocol. I think that in the majority places you are not soposed to d…
/r/seduction17/08/16 04:43 PM
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i could be way wrong but I don't think conservatives are usually kinky. When you look at them they just don't look kinky. I may be totally wrong and would love to hear from people who have experience with conservative people
/r/seduction17/08/16 04:25 PM
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There is a huge section of the book that no one does and everyone forgets about. And it's probably the part that matters most. Developing your lifestyle. So you have an interesting life, making you more interesting objectively and conversationally (if you are interested you will be more interested. And if you have things going on you will have more content to talk about) having an attractive lifestyle makes you more attractive. And it will bring you into contact with more girls. there is this wh…
/r/seduction16/08/16 03:50 PM
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Me and Jessie are going home, yah ? Who? My bad I meant your friend, Agatha. Oh Hahah, situation potentially defused
/r/seduction16/08/16 03:40 PM
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If it truly takes you 2 months to study for exams I think it would be better to just focus on exams. Then give it more of a commitment in two months. Speed if implementation is a factor in getting better. You want to learn a consept then go apply it and pratice it.
/r/seduction13/08/16 10:34 PM
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No problem, I'm glad it helped
/r/seduction13/08/16 10:28 PM
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Sorry for typos I'm on moble I think saying model of Attractions was the wrong word So there are more modern theories on attraction/ value. And new better attitudes. I don't think relying on routine is very good either. I see nothing wrong with a having few but making your pick up using routines seams worse because you don't get to pratice expressing yourself and developing you personality. The modern attitude Is that you are already are enough and you don't have to do anything to get to the gir…
/r/seduction13/08/16 05:20 PM
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Ok awesome! You realy applying your self and will get better fast! If the acting classes help you like get I touch with vibes and feel situations to help your generate performances I bet that would help a lot assuming they do a good job of teaching your that skill, if they don't do that idk if they would be good. I haven't taken them since I was a kid so I don't have much experience with them.
/r/seduction12/08/16 10:50 PM
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It's probably a mix of things. He probably have a big social circle and knows people. People probably like him and he has a high social status ? He may knows how to flip the script/ remove valadstion make them chace. I haven't been able to figure that out. Step one should be to figure out flirting. Watch in field and try to pick up on the vibe. Also you will be in a totally new situation in a few years so don't worry too much. Also it's cool if you have multiple women chasing you but it doesn't …
/r/seduction12/08/16 09:43 PM
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So you need to have a giant mock product pitch. Make it a realy big deal. Have you whole company watch you for social proof, and have like food and what not. Make sure you have a killer multimedia presentation too. Invite her company to view it and give feedback. If the food is good they should want to go. Have some slick thing you can demonstrate and invite her up and your volunteer. Then slip your business card into her hand in a super slick way. She will swoon. Seriously dude, you just focus …
/r/seduction12/08/16 09:34 PM
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Cuz she left the country.... Continuing this would be weird. She probably doesn't want to be all strung out emotionally with some guy from a different country that she never even sleep with. Did you make out with her ? All you have to do is flirt with her. Hole Eye contact, Square up, take her arm and put it behind you and grab her lower back. Then go kiss her. Or if you are sitting down you use your hand. Gently grab her chin, turn her head and kiss her
/r/seduction12/08/16 09:26 PM
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Practice speaking to people and socializing Everyday. that will be the key. You have to build up social momentum to improve. After a long time of praticing this you won't meet social momentum but you will still perform WAY better if you have it. You will get so much better and improve so much faster if you use consistency and frequency. Did that make since? also there are way more modern models than the mystery method.
/r/seduction12/08/16 08:25 PM
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Bro stop making it this huge epic jurny where one day you run into the perfect girl who is a perfect blend of eastern and western features ect. You got feet, go walk. you got a mouth, Go talk. It's not some big deal or huge Journey. It's talking to some girl who takes a nasty shit every day, and who lacks the discipline to not buy an expensive thing on credit. Just go see what happens while assuming attraction. I found this video to be the most useful. I like to only listen to the beginning part…
/r/seduction12/08/16 08:15 PM
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Probably in a non quilting Manner mention that it is an auto immune desease and not contegious.
/r/seduction11/08/16 07:52 PM
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Can you give an example of a comment that is not a complement? I can't see the difference
/r/seduction11/08/16 07:49 PM
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all these people with a stuck up their ass are so wound up that they clench and clench and try to snap the stick, but that's imposible and they get more stuff, and what they need to do is relax, and let the stick slide out ~Paraphrase RSDTyler
/r/seduction11/08/16 07:47 PM
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physical attractiveness is an indication of good genes which will make good offspring. Confidences is an indication of high social status, and or could help an individual gain social status. This use to play a very big impact in a child having a good future. Not to mention it plays into the theory. People follow people who are confident. Leading is good. Building complyence is good. People go along with Confidencent people. It naturally builds comfort. you basically need it to do game
/r/seduction11/08/16 07:43 PM
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There's also a difference between confidence and non-clinginess
/r/seduction11/08/16 07:33 PM
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Men have a special affinity to a woman with a realy nice chest. Women like men with nice chests too but it's not the same. And men with good chests actually serve more of a purpose. (Bigger boobs don't equal more milk )
/r/seduction11/08/16 07:27 PM
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You can just say "come over here" or "let's go dance" ect.
/r/seduction06/08/16 06:04 PM
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Just use boath Okc and Tinder, or all three. (Never tried plenty of fish )
/r/seduction06/08/16 06:00 PM
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That sounds awesome, were the instructions easy to implement?
/r/seduction05/08/16 11:12 PM
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Are you white? Very many white people need to drink in order to feel the music. (Other ethnicities can have this problem too, but like a huge number of white peoples have it) Once you feel the music you just relax and let go and go with the feeling and pump out basic generics dance moves haha but you look normal. If there is a way to feel the music with out drinking someone please tell me they'd 87% of the reason I drink. And I rather not drink. I want to give you more advice but I haven't field…
/r/seduction05/08/16 11:06 PM
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I'd try to just get one FWB/gf for the duration of my stay. It seams wayyy easer that way.
/r/seduction05/08/16 10:52 PM
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How good is the part on building a social life? And how good is it at teaching you to flip the script/make them chase/build complyence and investment ? Those are the two areas that interest me the most. And could potentially compell me to buy the program
/r/seduction05/08/16 10:37 PM
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Yep! I've said this before: once you spend all day with a girl then y'all get back to your house and she go's to the bathroom to poop then sprays Leisel to cover it up but has the nozzle Pointed at her nose and gets "allergies" and starts sneezing, hot girls become a lot more humanized
/r/seduction05/08/16 10:30 PM
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Dude go out, so many women in the world. You won't have to deal with this anguish about what to do over you one opportunity when you learn how to go out. You'll have the potential to meet someone next weekend. And you will have enough options to actually get enough practice to improve your skills.
/r/seduction05/08/16 05:33 AM
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Idk did you belittle your friend? It's shitty to belittle our friends in front of girls to make you look cool. Don't to that. There is a very good chance he is just but hurt and it hurts his ego that you got the prettiest one and that you made things happen and he never did. I wasn't there so I can't say
/r/seduction05/08/16 05:26 AM
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Haha that's funny. Like most of Tyler's are on Americans but yah so many of the rest are. Never realized that. I think it's easer and there is just a better dynamic. My interactions often go better with foreign girls
/r/seduction04/08/16 10:46 PM
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Pick up her chin and go in slowly. Or lightly grab the back of her hair and GENTLY move her head up to look at you and slowly go to kiss her. On dates or what ever you can put her hand(s) behind your neck our back and wile making eye contact. Then put you hands on the small of her back. Then pull her in. Then (Optional step: talk/flirt with her for a few seconds wile maintaining eye contact to build sexual tension) Then go for the kiss. In more normal bars/clubs it is good to flirt then get in t…
/r/seduction04/08/16 10:26 PM
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Dude think of her perspective. On tinder you are just some rando who is talking to her then after like 3 texts you say you could sit on me. Why would she going to want to be all overtly sexual with random guy on the internet who she only exchanged 3 lines of text with? Even if you looked like Chris Hemsworth that would be weird. In real life people can pick up on your vibe but they Defenently can't after 3 lines of text on an app. The first girl was just looking for weed. And look at it from her…
/r/seduction04/08/16 10:18 PM
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It's a vibe. You want to have a good vibe then you should naturally have a good facial expression. If you want to do the smirk, it usually goes with cocky funny. Read up on cocky funny try to embody the vibe of it. The best posters are able to put their vibe in their post and you can pick up on it. Then try to adopt a cocky funny mindset and attitude. When you say a cocky funny thing and it makes you happy and you naturally go to smile, smirk instead. Or when you mess with someone/ trick them an…
/r/seduction04/08/16 09:25 PM
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But dat mediate gratification doe
/r/seduction04/08/16 09:14 PM
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Go do the things the books tell you to do to get the confidence. Have you joined organizations? Have you started reading classic works of fiction? Have you started learning how to appreciate musics others like but you don't? Have you started volunteering in the Organization(s) and started hosting events ? Have you gotten productive hobbies ? If in one year you know how to code or speak a foreign language, how to make music or another form of art, and know how to dance or rockclimb or play basket…
/r/seduction04/08/16 06:55 PM
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You just have to make moves. Here is part one of a ten part video series that helped me. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=csnQWDPD9Ps Ignore all the stuff they say when they talk about value. This people have a very old and outdated model of seduction. Just focus on learning the movies. (And idk about the part when he throws her hand away.) Dance lessons can help you with moves as well. Becaus you get to practice moving people arms and your body to get a feel for how it all works. A lot a really go…
/r/seduction04/08/16 06:39 PM
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Unfriend them and get them off social media. You don't to constantly see that. That will drag you down. You have to sever the cord. If you want to "get revenge" or "win" the way you do it is by taking the highroad. Forgetting about her. Invest in yourself. Live your life. Go on meet up.com and find groups to join, make newer better cooler friends. Live your life more. Focus on success in your career. Eat better and work out. If you can travel. Learn productive hobbies. Like practice a skill a ar…
/r/seduction04/08/16 06:16 PM
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They were his friends first. And she behaved like trash. If They were good friends (assuming they understand the situation ) they should be on his side.
/r/seduction04/08/16 05:57 PM
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Cool That makes sense then. And sounds like a very reasonable plan. sooo many people just burnt their candle at both ends its crazy.
/r/seduction02/08/16 08:26 PM
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That comment provides absolutely nothing constructive, and if the guys who made the video posted it you are Being a rude asshole to him for no reason.
/r/seduction02/08/16 02:18 AM
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You miss out on the mental tighing if you do that. And it's not healthy for you.
/r/seduction02/08/16 02:16 AM
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How do you avoide cumming quickly when you sleep with a girl if you only masterbate once a week ?
/r/seduction01/08/16 09:37 PM
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Mine too as well as my moms and my old dentist. My dentist says I have gingivitis (a very mild and normal gum disease) because I don't floss. My friends says that to him too. I hate flossing
/r/seduction01/08/16 09:30 PM
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Shit I have alwayse brushed immediately after eating... Thanks for posting that
/r/seduction01/08/16 09:27 PM
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Be discrete. Don't go bragging and boasting about you sexual conquests. That will hurt the girls reputation. And once they see that you hurt a her reputation with your boasting, new girls will be more hesitant to sleep with you. like if the girl what's yo talk about it I guess that's fine. But don't brag about your conquests. Also you may meet girls in the future who want to hook up with you But can't becaus you sleeped with their friend. if she doesn't know you sleeped with her friend then you …
/r/seduction01/08/16 09:22 PM
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Oh yah then you'd Defenently want the tinder gide if it's good maybe if you ask again in like a month more people will have bought it and used it. Also maybe there is a different forum ? Redditers are abnormally adverse Paying for thing .
/r/seduction30/07/16 05:33 AM
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I would probably just by the premium for $500. In online marketing the tell people to make the "real" product the middle priced one. A bare bones one fore less and then a top tear one for people who just want to buy "the best". All you get in the platinum is more webinars a tinder guide which I doubt would help in your conntry, right ? And I think like one other thing. The bonuses don't seem worth $200 extra dollars to me. I would definitely buy the middle over the basic because I'd want the hot…
/r/seduction29/07/16 08:18 PM
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so if you meet someone, and the interaction went well, you get positive emotions and will be excited to see them again. As days go by the emotions go away. The difference between men and women is that men remember the good emotions so they think I still want to go, the girls don't think back so they just don't feel like going then do they just don't. I think it comes form women having more options and not having to pursue so they just go by how they feel. If the tables were turned we would proba…
/r/seduction29/07/16 07:51 PM
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Yep! So to benefit form the video, Try to embody the vibe. Here is a key thing to note, when you have a vibe that strong and an attitude that strong the whiticisms come. He doesn't logically do all that, he had a rock hard vibe attitude and fram which spones all that. I don't remember that video too well but When the girl says "what are you" he doesn't logically process the situation and think "I should say perfection" he has an attitude of I'm this bad ass morherfucker. I have more confidence t…
/r/seduction29/07/16 07:46 PM
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I would not recommend the apocalypse opener. In my experience immediate escalation works well when you are in a "turnt" environment. And like the girl is having fun. People are dancing. I don't think I've hade it work when they aren't "turnt." Do you have any moves ? If you would like I'll try find some videos I saw that teach you good moves. They are helpful. You want to open strong. A realy good attitude and mindset is "I follow the proper protocol, this is the way it works, if the girl wants …
/r/seduction29/07/16 07:33 PM
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If she tried to reschedule then go for that. If not, sense you work with her I would not be persistent. I'd just act like its no big deal. If you had abundance you wouldn't care. You may even feel bad for her "like fuck it's sad she's so stupid she jaunt ruined her shot." It's disappointing when that happens. By move one. If you are unphased by it then focus on other things you will be happier, you can meet someone else, and I'm reluctant to say this cuz I don't want this to be an ulterior motiv…
/r/seduction29/07/16 07:08 PM
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Yep! Change the Vibe or like changing what you all are doing. Like standing and talking -> sitting with your arm around her. You may not be able to steer the conversation to you sitting with your arm around her, but you can still naturally be like "hey let's sit down" then go sit down and put your arm out and say "come here " now you are sitting with your arm around her. I use to never feel like I could do before I learned about it, but seeing it and learning about it helped me loads. Ok I think…
/r/seduction29/07/16 06:53 PM
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Very true
/r/seduction29/07/16 06:48 PM
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This one is most of an interaction http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ZzmD8mZZKfc You can skip ahead to the part where he is sitting down I front of a class. He shows his in field and breaks it down. The first part where he is standing up is just a sales pitch for his product. Mainly pay attenshion to the vibe. You can check out RSD Madison too he has a strong presence and very little flash (atleas in most of his videos )
/r/seduction29/07/16 06:47 PM
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What everyone else said + you could remove the charge before your date so she has to be in your bed. I alwayse try the dynamic between the two of us to be affectionate and kissy befor hand so it is natural
/r/seduction29/07/16 04:25 PM
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They are sooo useful. They aren't fancy at all. So let's say y'all are talking about a certain topic that doesn't have the right vibe. It's time to kiss her, but the moment does not feel "right" and you learned from the past that If you wait for the "right" moment it probably will never come. You could simply say something like "hey" look her in the eyes "come here" * grab her hand and put them behind your head on the back of your neck* then slowly go in for the kiss. You basically completely ch…
/r/seduction29/07/16 04:13 PM
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Realy good job actually going out and praticing! You will be miles a head nearly everyone because you actually go out. One more tipe if recommend is to watch som infield before you go out and try to pay attenshion it the vibe and "energy". That has helped me a lot. You absolutely do not Have to game nearly as aggressive or be as outlandish or Alfa as some of the people out there. But embodying that "energy" and the flirty vibe and mindset help loads
/r/seduction29/07/16 04:01 PM
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No problem I hope you enjoy it! I really liked the field reports he included
/r/seduction29/07/16 02:29 AM
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Yah
/r/seduction29/07/16 02:27 AM
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I hope this help!
/r/seduction29/07/16 02:26 AM
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Try to approach immediately. It gets you more extroverted. High five people as you walk to the bar/club. Procrastinating can make you get stuck in your head. Try to pee before you go to the club so you can approach before using the bathroom. I think Jeffy has a rule where he has to hook a set befor he is allowed to buy a drink something to consider Ideal if you go with friends try to have fun and wile you walk there try to be as loud as possible, that makes you WAY more extroverted and un stifle…
/r/seduction28/07/16 08:56 PM
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Don't tell pre constructed jokes like knock jokes or the jokes on /r/jokes! Just don't unless is a long interaction and it comes up naturally I guess you could tell like one. But pleas don't go around telling jokes. We mean to make jokes. Being sarcastic being cocky as a joke, flirting. idk like you know who when you talk to funny people they stay stuff that's not serious but it is funny? That's what we mean. Generally you want to say stuff because it is funny to you, and not for the purpose of …
/r/seduction28/07/16 08:45 PM
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There is sooooooooooo much I naturally do and want to do and am able to do with out thinking about it because I learned them. If I followed this advice I'd be pretty surprised if I wasn't still a vergin. Seeding the pull, going to a place near my house, getting a girl in isolation, how to have a conversation with a stranger. the process of getting Grils in the mood. Fucking being able to flirt, holding frame, doing a phase shift. none of that would have seamed natural to me and If never would ha…
/r/seduction28/07/16 08:28 PM
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I don't know if this will be beneficial for women in terms of seduction but using lose vocal folds helps a lot. It sounds better and gives you Authority. People are much more likely to go along with what you have to say. So it will atleas help women in day to day life. And help men's game a lot. If you try it out pleas tell me if it helps your game I'm be very curious to know if it works Here is how you do it: You know the telephone voice ? Where when you talk on the phone to strangers for what …
/r/seduction28/07/16 08:17 PM
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A method is figure out your values, then live up to them to a tee, then you have no more status anxiety because you live up to your values perfectly no one lives does because they value different things
/r/seduction28/07/16 08:08 PM
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Yep, Once a hot feminine and together girl takes a shit at your house then tries to spray Lysol to cover it up, but has it pointed the wrong direction and sprays it in her nose giving her "allergies" and causing her to sneez and cough, girls become a lot more humanized haha
/r/seduction28/07/16 08:05 PM
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Sorry for typos I'm on moble. auto correct puts the wrong suffixes and what on all the time. There is a book called "Mode One" by Alan Rodger Currie. It talks about direct honest communication with out any supplication. In his model there are 4 modes of communication. I don't remember them that well, Mode 4: is like you never say your intentions, you supplicate a tone you go out of your way to be nice in hopes she like how nice you are being. You try to be a gentlemen. You hide all sexual intent…
/r/seduction28/07/16 07:59 PM
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Oh that's good. we don't get breaks.
/r/seduction28/07/16 07:45 PM
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Lmfao!
/r/seduction28/07/16 07:42 PM
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I realy don't think mode one is the Be all end all highest form of living your life. I think to good food for thought. And can work sometimes. Lastly it's seems weird to not want to talk and get to know someone, it makes the sex better when it is with a cool person rather than some Random person you don't care about. The story where I think is cousin was on a date and his date brought a girl for Alan who was a bitch then Alan went mode one was badass! and I really hope I get a chance to do somet…
/r/seduction28/07/16 04:07 PM
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Totally serious question here: How do you deal with the professor lecturing the whole time? That alwayse ruins it for my. I'll have a little chat then its solid lecturing and the only way to talk would be to talk over the professor. Do you just ask them out after like two minutes of pleasantries? Any input would be appreciated because I can meet girls in clubs, online in in the street, but have never even gotten a date from class
/r/seduction28/07/16 04:00 PM
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if she is with her friends and is young that makes it a lot harder to get her away form her friends. Ideally you befriend her friends so they like you. You basically just invite her back to your or her place to do something non sexual. Like watch a movie. You can do a thing called "seeding the pul". An example would be to have a genuine conversation about movies early on in the interaction. Then towards or at the end invite her back to see one of the movies y'all talked about. Very often you can…
/r/seduction27/07/16 07:18 PM
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You should try now, ods are the situation will be weird the last day. She'll go and talk to the teacher for 10 minutes. Her class mates will swoop her away, to go to a restaurant and you can't smoothly ask. The teacher will want to talk to you for 10 minutes and she will leave and be gone for ever. My point is don't procrastinate.
/r/seduction27/07/16 06:56 PM
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Well, I'll say that when I am more aggressive in life, I also become more horny and physically feel stronger.
/r/seduction26/07/16 02:52 PM
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RSD Jeffy Due has been 39 he may finally be 40. When he was 38 he'd lie up and say 40 cuz he thought it was funny. Women in their 30s would prefer a man in their 40s women like older men. Go on OK Cupid and look at the prefered age ranges for women in the 30s If women in their 30s is what you want, go for it. That's your easiest democratic. You absolutely don't have to limit yourself to that. Jeffy regularly sleeps with 18-19 year older. RSD Tyler is another, instructor. Dates your girls all the…
/r/seduction26/07/16 05:07 AM
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Huh very interesting. I like learning about different places. Thanks for your reply !
/r/seduction25/07/16 05:06 PM
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An organization is like a club I guess. It's like a Group of people who all do an activity. It could be for fun or it could serve a purpose. The lions club is a community service club that you could join. On meetup.com I'm sure there are amateur sports leagues as well as many other things. In my city they have amateur sports leagues where you get drunk in a park wile playing a sport if that intrestd you. There are thousands of organizations you just have to find what interests you. Another recom…
/r/seduction25/07/16 05:05 PM
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Congrats! But think of the 1000s who that hasn't worked for, who go and look for a guide for how to talk to girls. They don't naturally have these skills and techniques. I natural had a technique where I would hold eye contact say a dumb joke in a slightly ironic slight flirty tone and confident tone and they always laughs and it builds a little bit of attraction and interest. There are thousands of people who could use that "technique" but who never neutrally figured it out and if they practice…
/r/seduction25/07/16 06:39 AM
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He should Defenently read it in the future, but he is having success now. I think he should keep doing what he is doing for a wile before adding anything new.
/r/seduction25/07/16 06:15 AM
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Join an organization to start
/r/seduction25/07/16 06:12 AM
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and if there is not a wall just stand with your legs apart to lower your self and bend your knees some. That way you don't have to do all the bending with your back. I'm not as tall as op but most girls I go for are shorter than average and I have no problems with this.
/r/seduction25/07/16 06:11 AM
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Always hold Frame. Stand up straight and make her grow taller to accommodate you
/r/seduction25/07/16 06:05 AM
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You argument doesn't realy make since. Like if you situation is that you have to go through all that what Is your objetivo option? Are you realy content with no women in you life? It seams like no matter how much it suck one doesn't have s choice. Also focusing on how hard a task is makes it way harder. To get good at game it makes it way easer to just think "so all I have to do is use my feet to walk up then use my mouth to talk. Have relaxed vocal folds and I'll get her attenshion. Then flirt …
/r/seduction25/07/16 06:04 AM
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Try bars/clubs or fares. Even Tyler Durden hates wondering around explicitly to do day game because it's hard to build the momentum
/r/seduction25/07/16 05:55 AM
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You have to break out of the limiting feeling that gives you the limiting belief. I promis you you can change fields. Try sales ? Them move into a better form of sales. Then get a job in a start up. Go the extra mile and get more work skills and experience. Then if you cant move up in that company you can move to an established company with a good resume with lots of skills. You can get certified in other stuff as well. I think the class to become a project manager is $7,000 and some states have…
/r/seduction25/07/16 05:43 AM
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Agreed. I would have said " yah I don't have time for hoes"
/r/seduction25/07/16 05:30 AM
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Dude don't go back and clarify. That's weird. What you said was high value which is good. Someone who can get girls wouldn't put up with that. You established a boundary. That's good. It's high value to establish boundaries. AND establishing them makes people less likely to cross them. She knows your not a sap who will just take that kind of disrespect. Secondly what do you hope to get from a different responcs? Like of corse she would try to hide it if she did it. Like what do you want? You wan…
/r/seduction25/07/16 05:24 AM
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So the emotions go away as time passes. Same for men. We can meet a girl and feel excited to see her again but with each day that passes the feeling dwindles. When you ask them and they don't have the feeling anymore they just flake away. Men remember that it was fun so they logically deside they want to see the girls again. The girls just base the decision off the feeling
/r/seduction25/07/16 05:01 AM
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where are you from if you don't mind me asking ? Russia ?
/r/seduction25/07/16 04:54 AM
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Just do what you want to do. It doesn't matter. You don't have to live your life by pimp metrics. If you like the a girl you like her. If you want to sleep her then you do. If you honestly want a hotter girl then that's what you want.
/r/seduction25/07/16 04:45 AM
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I agree that you can have it all. But it is certainly easer to have a relationship than to be in the dating game. Assuming his business won't consume ALL of his life that that's the best balance. Or rather the more likely way to have both. Obviously his relationship would be better if he didn't start the business
/r/seduction24/07/16 08:56 PM
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That sounds pretty good. As long as she will be understanding of the lack of time you have. And if she has school that will take up a good amount of her time as well.
/r/seduction23/07/16 05:27 PM
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Tinder is much more frustrating than real life. They have no idea of the oppsit perspective. 80% is incompetence not them Being bitches. Of you ever find your self in their sotuation with stuff going on in your life, you might be like "fuck need to give some peace of information to figure out why to tell the person, and then like you get tired and forget. Or put it off. Then you forget then it is weird." Also lots of girls just go on tinder to get attenshion. They have ZERO intention to meet som…
/r/seduction23/07/16 05:10 PM
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Maybe get a girlfriend so you have more time and energy to build the business and have access to steady sex ? The majority of millionaires (can't remember the percentage) were alread married. Not chasing tail gives you more time and energy to focus on your business. I'm not advocating you get married. But I don't understand your adversion to getting a gf. If you don't want to be celibate That's seams like the best option as long as you get a high quality girl.
/r/seduction23/07/16 05:04 PM
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When you talk to girls be sure you give enough information to actually communicate. It is very irritating to have a conversation with someone then end up having no idea what they are talking about because they just said shit but communicated no information. You have to think about what they know. View the situation from their perspective. Then fill in the gap.
/r/seduction23/07/16 05:20 AM
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He probably doesn't have a dynamic set up with the girl where that would make since
/r/seduction23/07/16 05:00 AM
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Don't run around cold approaching. You'll ruin your rep. I guess last Sylvester of senior year you could if you wanna. If a girl checks you out of say go for it.
/r/seduction19/07/16 10:16 PM
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No problem! you seam to have a good attitude that should help you with learning. The primary thing to do to improve is go out. after you go out you should reflect on all the things you did well and identify sticking points. sometime its obvious what you need to do. If you were putsing about the whole night you need to be more aggressive. or if you don't know the solution you can then go search for material and if you can't find anything ask. If you watch a video you should then go and what it ta…
/r/seduction19/07/16 12:44 AM
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This is an Incredibly different vain. but it will probably benefit you greatly (in life). check out Letting Go: The Pathway to Surrender by David Hawkins. You probably have a lot of past bullshit that you are dragging around. a lot of negative thought and anger and irritation towards women behavior and tones of other things in life. this basically tells you how to get rid of it. I was never a redpiller. like i never believed that that was the way women are intrinsically built. but I certainly no…
/r/seduction19/07/16 12:34 AM
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awesome! Im glade things went well!
/r/seduction19/07/16 12:18 AM
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The sidebar, RSDnation.com, AlexSocial on YouTube and models by mark Manson are good places. I just read the sidebar then go practice stuff first. Practice is most important
/r/seduction18/07/16 07:50 PM
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You will need soooooooo much less game in HS. Don't let this intimidate you. There is a subreddit called like highseddit or highschoolseddit or something like that. They say you need social status. Idk about that. Every HS has a very different culture. My advice would be flirt be man to woman and escalate
/r/seduction18/07/16 07:46 PM
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Awesome best of luck man!
/r/seduction18/07/16 07:42 PM
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i guess it depends on the settings. If you are at a party, if the interaction is going well I'd probably say take her somewhere private then make a move (I.e. Go for the kiss) If it is a different setting you will have to use your judgment on the matter. If you can naturally isolate and get some alone time I'd recommend doing that to progress things. If it's like she is a part of your groop of friends and y'all are at a restaurant, you will probably just have to ask her out to a proper date. Thi…
/r/seduction18/07/16 04:35 PM
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The last one. You men and women can be friends and have a friend vibe and a friend dynamic. Or it can me like you boath know what's up. The undertones are "I'm a man your a women, you know what that means". Like basically it's obvious that this to build so thing romantic rather than plutonic
/r/seduction18/07/16 03:25 PM
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Isolate, escalate kino keno and gage her receptiveness as you do. Keep going as lomg as she likes it. If you go to far take two steps back and let her warm Back up. Is it a man to woman dynamic ? If so you should be good.
/r/seduction18/07/16 02:58 PM
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How so? For me When I feel horny from my core it causes there to me more sparks when I make eye contact. I want to do Nofap to hopefully get more and more of that horny form my core feeling, but I don't fap it makes me cum quickly
/r/seduction18/07/16 06:55 AM
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Dude is super smart, but he was far from rich when he started.
/r/seduction18/07/16 06:44 AM
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Tyler Durden had asperger's, and then through a massive amount of practice he learn all the social norms. They seam like random arbitrary things to him. My very attractive female friend dated a guy who had asperger's. He picked her up at a cellphone store I think. She confided in me that she's not that attracted to him physically. He's like the opposite type physically of what she likes. After they broke up I saw him at a bar a few times with a new and very attractive girl. You don't have to be …
/r/seduction18/07/16 06:39 AM
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The mall is soposed to be realy good. Their agre girls their just walking around board "shopping" to see what's new and as entertainment. So then here comes you something much better than mindles shopping. Disclaimer: I have never gamed at the mall. This is just a regurgitation of what I heard. I pretty much just game in the street or in the bars/clubs.
/r/seduction18/07/16 06:08 AM
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It goes against all the advice in the community but I agree with you. At least for me it seams to go a lot better if I can make a lot of eye contact rather than be next to her. And you can't even kino that well sitting next to someone.
/r/seduction18/07/16 06:00 AM
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read in models that women doesn't know what they want. What you say about that? I can Corroborate That it says that. He's saying like they will quiz women one what they what. Then they say what they think they want (a bunch of logically good things) then they did a test to amesure womens arouseal and women responded completely differently to what they thought the liked.
/r/seduction18/07/16 05:55 AM
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Very true but I wouldn't say logic is the enemy. If you can layer a girl logically wanting to do something I top of emotionally wanting to do something she will be less flaky and less difficult. I'm not suggesting to sell your self logically
/r/seduction18/07/16 05:50 AM
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Exactly. And in addition they could be in relationships. It's not like if you go out dressed pourly one day your GF will dump you.
/r/seduction18/07/16 05:46 AM
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No social circle ? Absolutely. If it is apparent they have a bad Statius I don't think so. I don't think that if a girl knew a guy was an austrisived weirdo that he could get girls. You status does not have to be known, like a guy could meet a girl at a buss stop and get her. She does not see his life or his status but through his behavior he can get her. Also a guy with losers who have low real status but have high value behaviors can get girls. There is more to game than value/attraction. emot…
/r/seduction18/07/16 05:45 AM
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Sorry for typose I'm on mobile. Ok, I'll explain it all, Her is what they mean by looks don't matter: they aren't the determinant of success. Game is. You can be realy good looking but if you have bad game you will get nothing or next to nothing. You can be bad looking and have awesome game and get good success. The better looking you are the less tight you game needs to be. If you are good looking and fit you can do fine for yourself with ok game. But you won't be swimming in women. Looks just …
/r/seduction18/07/16 05:07 AM
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If she objects and you deal with it that's one thing. But adding mentioning an objection befor it happens is different
/r/seduction09/07/16 05:35 PM
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Source? Lots of people learned it. That's just a printing belief.
/r/seduction08/07/16 06:37 AM
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That weird. You shouldn't bring up the idea that she should be uncomfortable with you. You should hole the frame that you are in the right. If a you move too fast for a girl you should be empathetic but hold the frame that you move in the normal way for you act. Idk if I explained my self well
/r/seduction08/07/16 06:25 AM
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They usually advise planning a meetup first so the number is not natural and she will have a reason to give it.
/r/seduction08/07/16 06:22 AM
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If she is asexual are you just texting her like for friendship or to practice? If your trying to get her I think that you are waiting your time. If your just texting her to text her that's different tho. You should just relax In general. Like if you do something kinda "wrong" but doesn't really matter when texting or in a conversation it doesn't really matter. Cool confident people just laugh at the mistake a little (or Apologize if needed) and move on unphased. like if you say something wrong w…
/r/seduction08/07/16 06:19 AM
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Practice socializing as much as possible. PAY ATTENTION to people which better social skills and look at what they do in certain situations. http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=7qsaxJCvahA http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=DJ02zPLrbc0 http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=01Y5mBRooBg http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=MptvykZL2f4 Todd has another video too, you should dry and find it. The tldr of that one is, add to the convo. She say: How was your day? Don't say "good" say "good/bad/trying/awesome I did x y and z" The ke…
/r/seduction08/07/16 01:07 AM
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If you do nofap, when you get laid how do you keep from juzzing after a minute?
/r/seduction08/07/16 12:59 AM
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Sorry for typos. I'm on my phone. What do you want? You gave no objetive. To importe you social life, join organizations and plan fun things to do w/ your friends. Make the effort. Start adding fun and useful activist to your life. You need atleas one from each of these three categories: intellectual, physical and creative. (One activity can be in two categories but you need three activities. Intellectual is something like learning a language or coding. Physical is going to the gym or playing ba…
/r/seduction08/07/16 12:57 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction23/06/16 03:06 PM
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Dude, That's not going to happen. This battle of the sexes bullshit is is out of touch men and women who can't get partners, spouting off bullshit about the other sex, then the other sex gets mad and it just spriles and spriles. I've never met a crazy feminist in my life. The most extreme I've ever seen was one saying that that using the word bitch is disrespectful to all women (which makes not since. It's only disrespectful to the person it's directed at) and she is a normal cool person. And wo…
/r/seduction23/06/16 02:58 PM
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If you get balls you should probable masturbate more... You can a) just go approach and start improving B) let the fling go. Take time to focus your attention to the feeling not the thought. Let the thought of whatever they want (just don't let them think about something els and change your emotions.) Don't control the emotions. Embrace them and let them do what they want. Hopefully you can start letting these emotions out of your body. A really good book in emotions is "letting go: the pathway …
/r/seduction22/06/16 04:27 PM
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If you sleep with her you will fuck her up in the head to a degree. She has this thing she's been saving for all her life. If you sleep with her it will be gone and most likely hurt her self esteem. Also there is a good chance that that would make her feel very guilty. She may even not accept her self afterwards. Fucking with a core part of even a strong person can mess them up in the head.
/r/seduction22/06/16 05:46 AM
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It means not lost in thoughts or thinking about he past or future or chores. When you meditate you can strengthen your presence. A cool effect of that is it lets you feel more chemistry with girl. There is also a slightly woowoo feeling that is a component of being present. I don't think that part can be described or explained. It's subtle. There are different degrees of being present.
/r/seduction21/06/16 04:41 PM
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I read it on my phone and I don't hunk anything happened. Idk it was a good article. He probably just wanted to promote it.
/r/seduction21/06/16 04:38 PM
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Ehh, If your in a club and she looks at you for more than like 2 seconds she's interested (assuming you aren't doing something pecurlur that is catching her attention )
/r/seduction12/06/16 10:35 PM
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I've heard praticing rapping can help you with the stumbling over your words. (Never tired it) Half of Whitty things happen naturally half are just a response to a similar situation you thought of letter that you use at a latter date. So keep praticing and over time you will A crew more come backs It is completely ok for their to be sickenes. You went responsible for the whole conversation. Only 50% (80 in the very beginning). It takes two to tango. If you were on fire and sawing awesome stuff, …
/r/seduction12/06/16 09:34 PM
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True if a women is looking at you in the club, that means she wants to talk to you
/r/seduction12/06/16 09:27 PM
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Have you read or watched any materials? Also watch In field footage. That's hugely helpful. You probably go up and try and "make it work.". Just go and do you. just figure you think it will work, escalate and see what happen. At first Have the attitude of a guy going to by a car. You have to approach the sales man but you aren't sold. Maybe you are really interested in the Mustang, but you haven't tried the Camaro yet. read models and the sidebar and or watch some RSD videos. That can go much mo…
/r/seduction12/06/16 09:25 PM
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"Oh thanks :)" "what are you up to?" In a casual voice
/r/seduction12/06/16 09:17 PM
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He reaffirmed it is possible. And he offered like 6 resources.
/r/seduction10/06/16 02:58 PM
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I think people just hear about meditations, the read it then recommend it. (I haven't read either. ). Also Marcus Aurelius was the emperor of Rome and the most powerful man in the world. That makes his book cooler than that of someone who is mainly a philosopher. (Even though the philosopher may have a better book)
/r/seduction10/06/16 02:55 PM
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A) generally you don't bring up kissing or hooking up. You just kisser then latter hook up with her. there certainly are caviots to that. That's not a law. Just generally that's how you go about it. B) read field reports and watch infield videos. Field reports are good because sometimes they explain what they are doing. But you have to see infield footage to actually get it. It's like describing what an object looks like verses just looking at the object. RSD is a company with different instruct…
/r/seduction09/06/16 03:18 PM
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FYI you are committing copyright Infringement.
/r/seduction08/06/16 02:33 PM
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I'm a pretty flexible person. I bet if you do it for like 10 seconds then rest then go back into that position. You will stretch it the nerve multiple times and it will still work.
/r/seduction07/06/16 06:32 PM
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Ok that's good to know it doesn't matter in real life ! I look drunk in so many pitchers even when I'm not.
/r/seduction06/06/16 02:10 PM
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Wait so what do you mechanically do? or do you just like feel the smile in your eyeballs and people detect it?
/r/seduction06/06/16 01:07 AM
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you should try to fix your depression. It will make game soooo much easer. and it will make the harsh parts not matter as much. getting flaked on wile in depression caused so much negativity, cynicism, and pain for me, getting dropped wile not in depression merely caused passing disappointment. 1) You should see if there is a physical cause for it. like low Testosterone, something you are allergic, shit sleep, or a shit diet. 2) Next, how is your life style? do you exercise? do you lay in bead i…
/r/seduction06/06/16 01:05 AM
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how do you do this with out looking drunk/high?
/r/seduction06/06/16 12:24 AM
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I heard that black guys are real rare in Sweden, and that girls want to hook up with black guys. from third hand knowledge that is the best place to go.
/r/seduction06/06/16 12:23 AM
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he says this a lot: he goes out is himself and its a blast and it creates a funnel. some girls he takes to it goes no where, some girls there is enough chemistry to have a fun interaction, some girls there is enough chemistry to make out, some girls there is enough chemistry to take home. after that sometimes its a one time thing, sometimes there is enough chemistry to keep sleeping together a few more times, some girls there is enough chemistry to date for along time. If you watch his infield h…
/r/seduction06/06/16 12:19 AM
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And give your self options. Oneitis comes from a lack of options.
/r/seduction25/05/16 05:09 PM
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Learn game.
/r/seduction25/05/16 05:08 PM
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Couldn't you go on dates on the week then go out on the weekend. At least one night a weekend? I haven't been in your shoes but that seams like the best solution.
/r/seduction25/05/16 02:53 AM
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Well as long as you wernt being a dancing monkey having her laugh at you I think it was fine. You just need to have more than just humor. You have to like build confort and escalation too.
/r/seduction24/05/16 10:18 PM
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Well as long as you wernt being a dancing monkey having her laugh at you I think it was fine. You just need to have more than just humor. You have to like build confort and escalation too.
/r/seduction24/05/16 09:12 PM
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I think a good rule of thumb is to either make a joke because it is inside you and you feel like telling it, or because it is objectively really funny. Saying a joke to be funny is usual results in sub par humor. And on a date it's try hard. That is a rule of thumb. Not a law. It's not applicable in all situations
/r/seduction24/05/16 07:11 PM
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RSD julien said a good way to get really good is to open a dificult set horribly. The recover and save the set. Go to a mixed set, girls and guys, then go to a girl and say something like "daddy's home" and not in a sarcastic funny way. In a sersious dead pan why that will make everyone be like "what the actually fuck". And then recover and save the set. Disclaimer: I've never done that my self.
/r/seduction24/05/16 07:04 PM
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I wouldn't forget it, but I would generally never apply his method. There are still good take always. Like don't supplicate because that makes you feel like you are owed something (even thought you logicly know you aren't) and that can breed resentment. Now that I think about it it's basically the same thing as models, just told by a guy with a very different personality. It's a valuable concept to think about. Like look at rustle brand. And if I was ever in a situation like the first story, or …
/r/seduction24/05/16 06:59 PM
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Do you live in Holland or something? Cuz that's not very short. That's a very normal height to be.
/r/seduction24/05/16 05:05 PM
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Congrats on making a big step! Join some clubs. Talk to the therapists. They are probably free. If you can go to campus and down town you are golden!
/r/seduction24/05/16 02:30 AM
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Lots of typos I'm on my phone so sorry for that. If I have time I may come back and edit this. Here is my interpretation of that book, Allen Rodger curry and how it relates to pick up theory: All Allen Rodger Curry wants is sex. He doesn't want a relationship. he doesn't want any of that. He just want to go and bang. He also thinks most all men who can get sex are like that. I think that is very false. I have days when I'm like that, but usually I'm not like that at all. And I enjoy conversation…
/r/seduction23/05/16 07:51 PM
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(telling your friend group about it, then rejecting you) doesn't seem like the characteristics of a person I would like to spend considerable amount of time with. I hate to break it to you but girls getting second opinion on guys is REALLY common.
/r/seduction22/05/16 09:32 PM
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Oh cool! Thanks your your awesome replays
/r/seduction22/05/16 09:24 PM
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Don't think just do it! Also I'd like to share this: After a break up I lost a lot of confidence and hand anxiety. I desides it was time to approach. Saw a girl, bitched out, walked away then I was like "no" forced my self to go back, and I approached her from behind (which you should never do, but I forgot) she got startled and was so weird, I was then really awkward, I was like "I wanted to say hi" in a horribly voice she was like "ok?" I left because it was so weird. I then left, and nothing …
/r/seduction21/05/16 03:09 AM
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Ask deeper things. Share deeper things. It's your job to progress things. So you may have to be the one to share something deeper. Once you go there she should be more comfortable going deeper because you alread shared something. Just don't go over board
/r/seduction21/05/16 02:46 AM
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You have to just approach them. How els you you get them?
/r/seduction21/05/16 02:40 AM
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You were validated then devaluated so you want her Validation again. Check Out this vid. It's on the topic. It will probably help to understand it better: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0UCnCkR-pk4
/r/seduction21/05/16 02:39 AM
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What do you do when you are out of set and there are no sets to talk to? How do you keep form like "falling" idk how to describe it. Like you go down levels, and then it feel like you aren't a part of the club. then when you do see a good set it gets harder to open well?
/r/seduction21/05/16 02:33 AM
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Maybe your city's culture is fucked. But I doubt it. You probably are going for the wrong type. There are defenently outdoorsy girls. Tuns of girls are deep you just have to connect with them and open them and yourself up. It takes time. Most people have depth, it's just not in their surface layer you see in the beginning. And Canoeing isn't deep. Most people have deep seeded feeling deep secrets. Tough times in their past. Desires and strange thoughts. If you want a deep connection with a girl …
/r/seduction21/05/16 02:28 AM
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well you can't be it if you aren't...
/r/seduction21/05/16 02:12 AM
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Wow awesome reply! How do you get your self to act on your body and emotions rather than what your mind wants?
/r/seduction20/05/16 08:25 PM
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Has it helped you or do you just like it?
/r/seduction19/05/16 11:08 PM
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I really liked this. How does talking to everyone work? How does talking to girls who you sent attracted to work once they are into you and you aren't? It just seams like you just put you and them in a worse situation
/r/seduction17/05/16 08:29 PM
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Tinder is not important. Girls would rather meet guys normaly. However tinder is good because it can send you options. And get you dates and all that. Also it gives you access to home bodies. Who You'd never meet in real life.
/r/seduction17/05/16 06:30 PM
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You have to volunteer more infromation. Stay what you think, make jokes, and if it's a girl flirt. And watch how you are speaking. If your speaking like a worn out sap no one will want to talk to you, you'll have to put some energy in your words. Here is a more tactful want to go about your convos Me: how is your day going, Them: good and you. Me: good/ bad/ tiring/ awesome I did x y and z. (If you have a short Anecdote You can say it) they now have three jumping off points to talk about. They c…
/r/seduction17/05/16 06:22 PM
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If you don't want a sersious relationship with her tell her BEFORE you take her verginity. Guys just want to get rid of it but it is really segnificant for a lot of girl. And if she is still a vergin she probably is not up for casual sex. But if your down for it (if she is) the I don't see a need to have a talk before hand. I'd probably proceed normally, go to take off her close as normal, but if she gives LMR try again another day. I wouldn't try to push through it. And bring lube.
/r/seduction17/05/16 02:06 AM
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It's largely a vibe, and tone of voice/speech pattern. And then you know the pua techniques? They are all a natural part of flirting and super easy to pull off. Push pull, being cockie as a joke, role places. Take always. All that is naturally wile your flirting. Here is a good video on it: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=065LXG8KypI To learn it it is best to pay attenshion to it when you see it. Pay attention the the mechanic but more importantly pay attenshion the the vibe. Watching Infild is a g…
/r/seduction17/05/16 01:55 AM
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Ok I get what you mean. That's a tricky situation. The only three things I can think to do are A) build more investment to reduce the flaking. B) screen more before you connect to see if you think they will be flaky. C) try to aprecate and care with out needing the connection you two have. I've hade times where I've felt that way, but I don't know if you can learn to sustain that. Not many people saw your post, I think it's worth a shot asking again. Maybe say something like: "I get better resul…
/r/seduction16/05/16 10:43 PM
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Are you only talking to girls who are studying to become a "better" type of doctor? Of so then your career could be hurting you. If not I garente you aren't saying it like you think it's cool. Your job is 1000x better than 90% of what normal girls jobs are. And you'll make more money than most of them. And it actually makes a positive difference in the world. 99% of jobs is just to be a cog in the machine. You will improve people's lives. In some states lying about your job to get sex is legally…
/r/seduction16/05/16 07:54 PM
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Go talk to a lot of different girls. That's how you treat oneitis. If the greatest mPUA of all time was on an island with 4 guys and an ok girl he'd get oneitis for the ok girl. I it's comes from scarcity.
/r/seduction16/05/16 07:37 PM
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But don't be like "OMG you're so amazing I'm crazy about you" that makes people really uncomfortable and is weird. Just like ask her out
/r/seduction16/05/16 07:35 PM
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Dude you need to give examples instead of a sentence that has vague implications in order to get helpful replies. People are intripurting you question different ways. You last sentences leads me to think You are saying how much you love her of how much she means to you too early. Is that what you meant? if one person is wayy more on to the other. It makes the less emotionaly invested one super uncomfortable and it makes them feel bad. And it's a weird situation. AND men generally talk less time …
/r/seduction16/05/16 07:31 PM
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Just relax and talk about stuff. Flirt make eye contact. Square up. http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=065LXG8KypI
/r/seduction16/05/16 07:22 PM
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If you want an exclusive relationship, get off tinder... Of course you won't be content if you keep dangling options right under your nose. That's like an alcholic saying "I'm just going to have a few classes of wine." That may work for a month but after not time they'll be getting shitfaced again. Weather you want to stay with this girl and be exclusive or move on is your choice. And you have to deside what to do. There is defenently stuff to be learned from a relationship.
/r/seduction16/05/16 07:08 PM
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So you are really good at connecting, and then you end up caring about the person, so it sucks when they flake?
/r/seduction16/05/16 06:15 PM
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I don't really feel like I have a good picture of what you do sorry. Do you open up really fast? You can be real with out talking I depth about the pain you parents caused you when you were a child or whatever. (if it comes up) normaly people early on in the "relationship" will be like "yah your lucky, my parents were really strict growing up sucked and it sucked" After it has progressed more, and they've opened up more to you, you might describe the experience in a a mater of fact manner "yah t…
/r/seduction16/05/16 06:02 AM
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You seam very knowledgeable of various materials. Do you have a recommendation no how to learn to flip the script? I can't do it with consistency, but when I am able to it seams like everything goes much better.
/r/seduction14/05/16 11:57 PM
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don't make up stories. Try to avoid the topic. general honesty is the best policy, but may be a deal breaker for her depending on your age. If you lie just say something blasé and short. .
/r/seduction14/05/16 11:44 PM
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lmfao the dad to his son at the end
/r/seduction14/05/16 11:34 PM
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Make more jokes while making eye contact. Share brief stories. screen, disqualify her. do push pull. make a role play. basically flirt more.
/r/seduction14/05/16 11:31 PM
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id like to add: volunteer information. "if she says "how was your day" don't say "good" say "good/tiring/lame./awesome/a roller coster I did XY and Z" she now has 3 jumping off points, you shared more information so she has a slightly better feel of who you are, and you set the pater for the conversation. The pattern being that the participants volunteer information. and sharing short stories is a grate thing to do to. Just don't be a douche about with it.
/r/seduction14/05/16 11:30 PM
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you really need technical knowledge to make conversation with people. forcing conversation is not ideal, but if you have blocks, and approach it wrong it won't "just happen". You can't apply to method used to burp to farting.
/r/seduction14/05/16 11:25 PM
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Flirting and leading and date locations. In General you can work on building you hobbies, a social life, your fitness and wardrobe, and conversation skills by talking to everyone. And can try to become established in organizations You can work on all the extemporaneous parts of game and conversation skills.
/r/seduction13/05/16 10:22 PM
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A good exercise to do when in privet is to babble. Just say what you think about. "So today I woke up late and felt really groggy so I was like ge I should go exercise but I never got around to it but I did eat an avocado and funny enough the Aztec use to call avocados "testicle fruit" because they Increase verily. Also it was illegal for vergin to eat them, because they could not handle it. Pretty funny. I know I defenently ate them when I was a vergin haha you know. To be fare they say good ha…
/r/seduction13/05/16 10:17 PM
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Yah agreed sorta. I think it's the person who gets less attention (or less quality attention) form the opposite sex will invest emotionaly faster. Most of the guys learning probably have less attenshion than the girls so they will invest faster. Most guys a girl wants will already know how to get girls so he probably won't be as quick to invest. And committing kinda means killing night life for a guy. Girl can go out with friends and dance and get attention And it is still fun and they get to se…
/r/seduction13/05/16 09:13 PM
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You defenently run out of thing to say with close guy friends or family when there is not a lot going on in your life. A major key is to have things going on in your life
/r/seduction13/05/16 09:01 PM
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How long are you doing this for? I'm not experienced at the flipping the scrip game, that's what I desides to focus on now so Take it with a grain of salt. The acting not sold on the girl is for the begging. Like you are talking during the initial interaction and she check you Out and you say "your not getting this tonight I'm not that easy" or something. Or or you can jokingly misinterpret what she says as her coming on to you, which sets the frame of her chasing you. Or let's say y'all are lea…
/r/seduction12/05/16 08:12 PM
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It's a vibe. It's like joking and teasing and roll playing and eye contact and being forward. My advice it pay close attenshion to it when you see it. http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=065LXG8KypI
/r/seduction12/05/16 07:59 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=bigKgkFaGw4
/r/seduction12/05/16 07:55 PM
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It's probably very scary to move because you don't know anything els. But it's just the un none there is nothing to be afraid of. Billions of people know how to live in cities. Millions have move successfully and you can too. You just do it.
/r/seduction12/05/16 07:46 PM
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Oh man! well congratulations and Im glad you are healthier and fit!
/r/seduction11/05/16 02:09 AM
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I use to have a constant heavy (physical) feeling in my heart due to emotions caused by past event. and i never seamed to be able to get them out. I posted somewhere on reddit and someone told me something along the lines that there is a nerve cluster around your heart. And that the service singles that some emotions can cause can get trapped in the nerve cluster (in some people) because it can get kinda bunched up. So if you stretch it it can release the singles. you can stretch it by getting i…
/r/seduction11/05/16 02:07 AM
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Cool?
/r/seduction11/05/16 01:09 AM
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When the feeling comes up strong and you are but your self, endings it, but then don't ruminate on thoughts let them do what ever they want (except think about a deferent topic that will change your state) but don't indulge them focus on the feeling and let it do what ever it wants and embrace it until it leaves. (You may have to do multiple sessions) we use this technique for grief, but not for any other emotion. Hopefully this will work for you. Do you feel tension or heaviness in your heart (…
/r/seduction11/05/16 12:57 AM
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What's their porn like?
/r/seduction11/05/16 12:47 AM
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Good enough Is good enough. It's all about your game and vibe. You can be really hot but if your game sucks you won't get anywhere. If you look like Chris hemsworth you could probably get away with having no game a normal hot guy can't.
/r/seduction10/05/16 08:23 PM
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You absolutely do not need to limit yourself to women who like your look. Women can be totally into you reguardless of your look. Many will value a guy with other arowsing qualities much higher than a guy with out them but with good looks. Also you don't need a social life and good job to get laid. They help a lot with a girlfriend. And they will make you feel better about yourself. Idk why you think having a good job is out of the question. Go to trade school learn a good trade. Now you have a …
/r/seduction10/05/16 08:17 PM
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He is saying you have to have game. You can't compensate for bad game with good looks and clothes. He maximized himself esthetics you and it didn't help because he didn't improve his game. Game is more powerful than looks. I defenently think looks is important. Unless your game is on point, I think looks account for much more than 5%.
/r/seduction10/05/16 08:01 PM
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Good article! You may want to check out Letting go: the pathway of surrender by David r Hawkins if you haven't. It's about this letting go, and emotions and thoughts. I bet you would like it
/r/seduction10/05/16 07:49 PM
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Congratulations! Did you not eat enough for calories before you started working out?
/r/seduction10/05/16 07:36 PM
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You're doing good! It takes a lot of sets to get a conversion. If your having flirty sets that's good! That's getting past like 80% of the difficulty. And getting two dates is good too! You not everyone is meant to like each other. Therapy might help you untangle other problems that are messing you up with pickup/confidence and stuff if you think it's best to go. And may help you improve other parts of your life. Combining it with taking action could probably help you get over your oneitis faste…
/r/seduction10/05/16 01:11 AM
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That sounds fun haha
/r/seduction09/05/16 09:53 PM
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Are you approaching? Are you going on dates? Are you showing your Brain you have options? That's how you get over it. I highly dought Therapy will work (I've gone before). The problem is your brain feels like she is your only option so it's like "fuck man you gotta get her, blah blah blah." You fealing don't alwayse listen to logical thought. If you go out and show all parts of your brain/mind it has options it will feel like it has options and it will get over the girl. It seams like the proble…
/r/seduction09/05/16 09:50 PM
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You have to flirt. RSD told has a good video on YouTube for it. I suggest you read the side bar then watch or read a program or book. It's really good to have a solid organized program under your belt. It will answer tones of questions and dispel tons of bad beliefs. Like that getung sex is bad and you are being respectful by not trying to sleep with her. Or that women don't like sex. (All false )
/r/seduction09/05/16 09:36 PM
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Wow, That sounds awesome! Expecialy with the aphrodisiac tea
/r/seduction09/05/16 09:33 PM
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Titles like that are cheesy now but it was accurate. And he provided a real article.
/r/seduction09/05/16 09:30 PM
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She probably wasn't aware of your presents the BAM There you are locking eyes with her
/r/seduction09/05/16 05:32 PM
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In the city you live in, do they put tobacco in the hookas and burn it, or is it just flavored sheesha (idk how to spell that word). My city has a smoking ban so the hookas don't have any tobacco. I was wondering if it is standard for commercial hookas to be tobacco free or if it is just my city as a result of the laws.
/r/seduction09/05/16 05:27 PM
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Yah. It's kinda misleading to say it has not factor. Once you know how to complete a process you will be much more confident at it. Once you complete something you know how all the steps are, instead of imagining them.
/r/seduction09/05/16 05:20 PM
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Do they have tobacco in them in your city?
/r/seduction08/05/16 10:34 PM
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Just keep in mind that that is unprotected sex. Don't do it if she's permiscuious.
/r/seduction08/05/16 10:32 PM
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Chemistry and having interests aren't the same thing. It's quite possible that either a) you just naturally have chemistry with your co workers. Or b) you've been with them and had time to bond/connect share experiences and develop chemistry to some extent. Sometimes you click off the meeting. Sometimes chemistry builds slowly. Also if you get more experience with girls you will find that things your think are important aren't and think you never thought of are. When I was less experienced I use…
/r/seduction08/05/16 10:29 PM
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Go to events and join clubs. If you live an intresting life it makes you intrested in your life. So not only will you have more content, you will be intrested and people are much more intrested in hearing someone who is intrested in what that are talking about
/r/seduction08/05/16 10:15 PM
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Go to trade school, learn a trade and then you will can have a real job. You will feel so much better about your self once you do that. You should join a real gym. Gyms are an antisocial environment. You don't have to interact with people there. No one will mess with you and think anything about you. Once you join you will see how different it is form how you imagined it and that you had nothing to worry about. There is no downside to approaching. Just upside. You lose nothing by approaching.
/r/seduction08/05/16 07:15 PM
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I have heard it varies a lot from city to city
/r/seduction08/05/16 04:09 PM
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I have not. But generally on tours you get to learn a lot of factoids about the place but you don't get to explore, or to do what you want, and you don't meet very many locals. Maybe the contiki is different.
/r/seduction06/05/16 04:13 PM
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If there is a pause you can say "I ran out of things to say." Then it usually is funny and then something comes up to say. You you can say "I'm out of things to say, your turn"
/r/seduction06/05/16 04:06 PM
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It's mostly a vibe. When you can access the flirting vibe it upens the door for so much more conversation Watch this: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=065LXG8KypI And this: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=tHTVGUE1y64 Watching Infild befor you go out can help you get in the mindset.
/r/seduction06/05/16 03:55 PM
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That defeats like 75% of the value of traveling. you can meet lots of people in hostels. Guided tours suck.
/r/seduction06/05/16 03:45 PM
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How do you get them to chase? I'm solid at the latter part. Your frame shouldn't be "I want to get a kiss from her." "I wonder if she will kiss me" "gosh I sure hope she would" It needs to be "you're beautiful and I want us to kiss" "it's time to kiss" "this is the way dating goes down and the proper way of moving forward. if you aren't comfortable and want to deviate and take things slower that's compleatly cool, no worries... But you are deviating from what is normal" You can do a phase shift,…
/r/seduction06/05/16 03:41 PM
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There is also social circle, and online game as well
/r/seduction05/05/16 04:33 PM
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I defenently need to work on that... It's often called overcoming resistance.
/r/seduction05/05/16 07:30 AM
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That's actually really Cool!
/r/seduction05/05/16 07:26 AM
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Just make sure you don't come across as really irritated and composing your self to not be rude.
/r/seduction05/05/16 07:20 AM
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Just use your head and don't trash your reputation. Also you the the bar is lower in HS.
/r/seduction02/05/16 02:23 AM
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Seconded, this make a big difference.
/r/seduction02/05/16 01:32 AM
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The context is that it is a date making this appropriate. I've defenently squared up with girls in a night club who were feeling me after like 10 seconds. It would probably be strange in day game. I'm not sure how it would go in a club where you have to win the girl over.
/r/seduction02/05/16 01:23 AM
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Maybe for a little wile then take her somewhere to talk. It just depends on the situation. Also was it formal dancing like salsa or norteñas or something, or like club dancing? I have no advice for formal dancing.
/r/seduction01/05/16 07:44 PM
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Oh that too bad. I know London has a lot. If I was you I'd keep trying to get this down on my own, first. But it's defenently worth a trip to London before you giving up. Be sure to make eye contact when you make jokes. Models is good and worth a finish. You may want to check out RSD videos. They are really good and it's helpful to see someone actually act and speak Here is a video on flirting. http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=065LXG8KypI Also using the man to woman frame rather than a friend to fri…
/r/seduction01/05/16 07:02 PM
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😱
/r/seduction01/05/16 06:51 PM
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You just have to go in them and pratice. It sucks being behind the ball be everyone on her just had to accept it and then deal with it. Once you got on a date you will be infinitely more comfortable to go on another cuz you have seen what the situation is like. Once you go on a secessfull date you will be so much more comfortable with asking girls out. Once you close the deal you will have no reservations on going on dates. And should be able to close the deal much easer. You just worried cuz yo…
/r/seduction01/05/16 06:44 PM
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You can watch RSD Todd's videos, RSD julien's videos and RSD Tyler's videos (both of Tyler's say the same thing) the different coaches all give different useful advice. The hugest peace of advice is you by no means need grade A content. You can just talk about whatever. Try to Segway into flirting, that breathes life into the conversation. And volunteer more infromation. If she says "how was your day" don't say "good" say "good I did x y and z" The more activities you do, the more you will have …
/r/seduction01/05/16 06:38 PM
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Escolate physically probably start by dancing.
/r/seduction01/05/16 06:25 PM
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Well sometimes chemistry is immediate sometimes it takes more than one date. What stuff have you read. And what do you do on dates? How do they go? Do you flirt? You have to flirt. I don't think it is possible to get a girl who has options with out flirting (unless you're famous). Also you should assume attraction. You should hire a dating coach before you give up. If someone can see you they should be able to give you such better advice and see things you don't.
/r/seduction01/05/16 06:24 PM
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By not being guilty about it. (Seriously)
/r/seduction01/05/16 06:18 PM
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Mark Manson stuff on body language stuff is so basic. You'd most likely be better off with a different book if body language is what you are after.
/r/seduction01/05/16 07:57 AM
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I'd like to add a theory of mine. When guys are in middle school they are ridiculously horny. The horniest they will ever be. But the majority of girls seamed like they were ready for sex yet. And then you have to compound that with having the worst logistics of your life, low social skills, no clue how to get laid, and an environment where everyone ridicules everyone. For 90% of guys they start out the horniest ever and have almost 0 chance of someone having sex with them. This starts them off …
/r/seduction01/05/16 07:47 AM
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Have a man to woman frame. Act Man to woman not friend to friend. Flirt. Make eye contact. Flirt. Tell a joke and wile making eye contact. Square up. You can escolate physically or escolate conversation topics to more lewd topics. And square up. You can check out RSD Jeffy He talks about this you may be able to find stuff on his Chanel. Sresiously come with a man to woman frame. Make eye contact flirt and square up.
/r/seduction30/04/16 03:31 AM
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It defenently should be phase 2 in terms of getting results. It's for having better connections/relationships/flings. But you have to be able to get girls first. Id be very intrested in seeing that guideif you find it!
/r/seduction29/04/16 07:46 PM
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It's pretty good. It's more about how to go about getting awesome relationships/flings that are meaningful. The wrest if the community is more about getting laid. You can absolutely use both. I think it's best to for noobies to read models first to kinda have a positive healthy view of relationships/ connections. And then read other stuff to figure out how to actually get girls. And once they can they can re read models. It absolutely is not the be all end all of seduction. mark Manson writes it…
/r/seduction29/04/16 05:28 PM
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Yah you have to make it relatable. That's a major key. If not you will blow the set. Some people just have fun blowing all the sets the first half of the night to get into state, then game properly the second.
/r/seduction29/04/16 05:07 PM
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You have to switch to flirting/joking/a role play type of vibe.
/r/seduction26/04/16 05:23 PM
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Pratice talking to everyone. Pratice consistently and frequently. Push your comfort zone. Try things that you sent comfortable with. Organize a fun thing for you and your friends to do. And PAY ATTENSHION to other people's social skills. You can learn so much from that
/r/seduction26/04/16 05:06 PM
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she was probably talking about something upsetting in her personal life... people cry, drunk people cry more, girls cry more than guys. there is a small chance she thought about something negative and was drunk then the alcohol amplified the emotions and made her cry out of no where. (that embarrassingly happened to me once haha.) dont pester her about it.
/r/seduction25/04/16 10:00 PM
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I bet He got attached mixed up with connected. (Cuz generally they mean the same thing) and then changed the form of connected to connection.
/r/seduction21/04/16 12:30 AM
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We have basically all types. It's a big city. In general people are nicer here than other places. We aren't as country than other places places.
/r/seduction20/04/16 09:50 PM
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Furthermore if for what ever reason he thinks it would be better to yell, he can just chose to yell as opposed to having to because he has no control.
/r/seduction20/04/16 09:31 PM
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That schedule does suck and the terrorist threats would defenently detract for the appeal. Did most of the girls speak English or do you know Turkish?
/r/seduction20/04/16 09:27 PM
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in a club I'm competing with Turkish guys who are so handsome they could seduce a toaster oven and make the bread finish quicker. But yet it still works out much better. That was awesome wording haha Well maybe you could move to a different US city than LA? People vary a lot by city and just the way the clubs are impacts the dynamics of interactions. Also could you afford the pay cut if you don't have to live in LA? I'd imagen the cost of living would be way lower in Turky
/r/seduction20/04/16 07:52 PM
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Defenently Letting Go: the pathway of of surrender by David Hawkins. It explains emotions and thought really well. And helps break down life a lot. In life there are so many useless empty platitudes you hear everyday. This will provide context to make so many of them make sense and be meaningful. Can't regimend it enough. There is a good amount of woowoo stuff which you can take or leave but the book provides a lot of solid value.
/r/seduction20/04/16 07:43 PM
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Sweet thanks!
/r/seduction19/04/16 05:41 PM
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It builds confort cuz they get to see a slice of your life. And if you to intresting cool things that makes you look interesting or cool to her.
/r/seduction18/04/16 10:12 PM
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♬ I ain't got no type.♬ ♬Bad birches is the only thing that I like♬
/r/seduction18/04/16 10:09 PM
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Yes. Normally you'd kiss before she gets on your bed tho n
/r/seduction18/04/16 10:05 PM
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It's cause you are basically thinking "oh god does she like me, does she like this, is she ready yet oh me oh my." You are looking to her for approval of how the interaction is going. You should set it. You frame she be this is the right way. This is the way things work. Obviously if she wants to move slower respect that. Be she is who is Deviating from the "proper dating dating protocols". Does that make sense? I'm not sure if I explained it well.
/r/seduction18/04/16 10:02 PM
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It was a joke. He was saying to hit her back harder. It's funny because you could easily "win" at that game but obvsiously op can't go around hitting women.
/r/seduction17/04/16 10:41 PM
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pleas read this It will never feel "right" when you are on dates it never feels like the right time. If you keep waiting for it you will wait your life away. The "right" time only comes I movies where it's scripted. Once it's time to kiss, you wate for a not bad time and you kiss her. You can pull her in and kiss her you can say look and me and kiss her. Or do any of the trucks here. Physical advice: If standing She may pull back then you pull back slightly and maintain eye contact. She should g…
/r/seduction17/04/16 06:08 PM
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It's Vastly dependent on the situation.
/r/seduction17/04/16 05:53 PM
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He Is avoiding it because you went on the attack and put him on the definite. When you go on the attack it makes people not want to help you.
/r/seduction17/04/16 05:50 PM
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YOUTUBE videos are your friends.
/r/seduction17/04/16 05:44 PM
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It's compleatly legal (as long as it is ant nudity). I also think it is legal to post it online (it's not respectful tho). I think that there may be privacy issues if you are profiting off of it. RSD blurs the girls faceses. That may be a legal requirement since they are profiting. Or maybe it's just to be respectful idk.
/r/seduction14/04/16 11:25 PM
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Just relax have fun it it's not a big deal. talk, connect, and FLIRT. watch some In fild videos and pay attenshion to what improves the energy of the interactions.
/r/seduction14/04/16 11:16 PM
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You hear most of that advice a lot for a lot of people
/r/seduction14/04/16 11:12 PM
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There is actually a whole industry and a big community based off of pick up. And There are many companies who make videos demonstrating this, and explaining I depth how to have conversations. You can look up RSD TYLER RSD julien RSD Todd and Alex social on YouTube for some great videos on conversation. (They use different methods) Any response you get on here will most likely be a shallow abstract of the subject. It is far more advantageous for you to read and watch you way through and gain a un…
/r/seduction14/04/16 11:09 PM
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3 weeks till you graduate? Yes
/r/seduction14/04/16 08:29 PM
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Have you ever tried learning something on your own verses with a coach/teacher? Guitar? Weightlifting? Boogie boarding? A language ? It's profoundly easer and faster with a coach and they can kill bad habits before you pratice them for along time. I don't see why dating would be different. Expecialy when it is mostly subtle shifts that make all the difference. I've never been on a Boot camp. But I dont think they are for learning theory. I think that they are for learning how to actually execute…
/r/seduction14/04/16 04:44 PM
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I don't know specifically what he did. But it was marketing. I got the impression he worked for a marketing firm was good at it and made good money. In some other videos he talked abou like making goles and achieving the or something and a goal he set in his past life was to make $100,000. So he made at least that much.
/r/seduction14/04/16 04:31 PM
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There are so many more areas than just wave length. There is making them feel emotions. Making them chase you. There is being in height value situations. There is building investment. There is flipping the script. Also you can get on a crazzzzzy wave length. It's called being really I state. You can get to where all the guys are rooting for you cuz your awesome. And all girls are literally pulled to you.... It's fucking weird when it happns. It feels like an alternate reality. I'm pretty sure on…
/r/seduction14/04/16 04:40 AM
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Are you not drastically more attracted to a hot girl? If you can get lots of 10s would you go out with a 5 who was really nice and cool once you go to know her? Most guys wouldn't. So it's not girls being superficial.
/r/seduction14/04/16 04:35 AM
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You know they have to fly around to every city right? Flights aren't cheep. They have to get hotels. Hotels arent cheep. They have to eat out. Eating out isn't cheep. Transportation can be expensive too. That eats up a lot of that $3,000. Being on the road a lot sucks after a wile. It's tiring. It screws up relationships. They are all pretty savy competent people. They could be doing something els. Todd was a mechanical engineer that's a lucrative and respectable career. Madison makes less money…
/r/seduction14/04/16 04:26 AM
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Yes it's fine you did the right thing. Jesus. You don't have to have sex because you can. Respect your self highenough to not fuck a horrible human being. Every time you fuck you run the risk of getting an STD. I don't see how she would be worth the risk. Holding your self to a higher standard helps your inner game. The point of having sex is to enjoy it. If you don't wanna fuck someone then don't. Lastly. If you fuck some trashy girl you don't even like that make you a skank.
/r/seduction10/04/16 11:15 PM
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Yah I hear that. I thought that too. But it's better to adopt beliefs that are condisive to getting you what you want. Rather than what is correct. If you can internalize "all the girl love me" you will do better than if you are accurate and believe x percent love me.
/r/seduction10/04/16 07:32 PM
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Oh... Thank! I have dyslexia so I can't pick up spelling from reading. I have to learn what words I alwayse misspell and then memorize them and never reliesd that was a mistake I consistently made.
/r/seduction10/04/16 07:24 PM
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You should never worry about if a girl like you. Assume attraction. Also, wile on the field you should talk your self up in your head. Go in With the mind set that your race is the best in terms of romantic partners. Just think about good Asian thing. If you fit in fit people are un dicplined and lack self respect. If you are un fit, Fit people are so try hard, waiting their lives away in the gym. There is two ways to look at everything. Look st your self positively in the fild
/r/seduction10/04/16 01:23 AM
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It all the stuff that gets harped on here or on RSD. The only two things that arnt common are "they know when to open up" so if it is appropriate they open up. And if I is TMI they kep their mouth shut. And the other one is "they are consistent". Meaning how ever they might feel, they are consistent in the way they treat people. That makes sense. If you don't know how someone will respond you will feel anxiety about how to talk to them or how to ask for something so you won't like them as much.
/r/seduction10/04/16 01:17 AM
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They usually take an eternity to say like 2-3 paragraphs of infromation and they aren't focused.
/r/seduction10/04/16 01:11 AM
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Where should I start to learn transferable skills? mystery method?
/r/seduction10/04/16 12:51 AM
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Cool thanks for your reply! I may actually go back and learn the old school stuff and apply it in game to try and get it down, (then switch back to modern game) to help with other parts of life
/r/seduction10/04/16 12:40 AM
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Pratice frequently and consistently. Frequency + consistency is king for improving socially. You can try and build some investment first. Move them somewhere. You do you switch into the flirty vibe? That is a very very useful thing to do. A huge conversation thing is to volunteer infromation. She says he'll was your day. Don't say "good" say "good/tiring I did x y and z " doing that gives her 3 jumping off points. And half the time they will pick up on it and do the same. Giving you more jumping…
/r/seduction09/04/16 10:28 PM
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Wow never would have thought to have gone for that when a set stalls out.
/r/seduction09/04/16 10:21 PM
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I could actually see learning the old school method being more useful in non seduction areas. Would you agree? I learned this after the old school stuff
/r/seduction09/04/16 06:07 PM
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Minuplation is a weird word. Cuz everything is technically manipulation. Like if you ask someone why time is it you are trying to get them to look at their watch, read it then tell it back to you. Which is a very mild form of manulipation. You are getting them to do something they worry going to do originally. Obviously there is nothing wrong with asking for the time. But there can be a big grey area.
/r/seduction09/04/16 06:05 PM
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Looking into a girls eyes is how you can connect to them and it allows a lot more communication. Also cuming wile making eye contact increases love. (Like if she cums it will increase her love for you. And Vice a versa). Laughing wile making eye contact builds a connection. A HUGE part of flirting is saying something wile making eye contact then being confident in what you said and seeing what they do. (Doing that seams like its reaction seaking wouldn't it? The reason it's not bad is because re…
/r/seduction09/04/16 05:58 PM
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Not there mouth if it is a man.
/r/seduction09/04/16 05:45 PM
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He sounds like Todd Valentine
/r/seduction08/04/16 04:22 PM
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Yah I was thinking he prob does better with out the camera. I'd imagen you can interface a camera yourself with out adding the zany element to it. there is probably a reason RSD has been seriously doing this professionally for years and uses hidden cameras.
/r/seduction08/04/16 04:20 PM
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Thanks for your reply and congratulations! I'll try breathing out hard. I find that when like the sex causes me to breath out my mouth I swam to have control. But I can't alwayse make the sex like connect to my breathing.
/r/seduction08/04/16 04:07 PM
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I'm not disparaging to go for girls who give approach invatstions. Certainly some women who do give approach invatstions to you give them to others. And giving one does not mean they are full blown despret. But if you are looking for someone, on the desperation continuum it is certainly more despret than someone who is ambivalent. That's not semantics that the definition of the word. Mariam Webster define it like "to convince someone to sleep with you". It's like to win someone over. Not to just…
/r/seduction08/04/16 01:50 AM
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Edit: I'm not advocating the span approach method over another method. I just disagree with all the points made agains numbers game. you are kind of giving up on seduction. The women who sleep with you will be the ones who are temporarily feeling a little desperate What? Surly the girls who are looking for a guy would generally be more desperate than the one who aren't that you have to win over. You're not soposed to just talk to girls for 2 minutes then be on the be next approach. You aren't so…
/r/seduction07/04/16 04:14 PM
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Cuz she all into this guy. There committed. They are doing what ever they do. And you are just over there as her fallback and getting nothing. You would be this other guy she could get with if her actual relationship doesn't work out
/r/seduction07/04/16 03:59 PM
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Idk why you got down voted. If you approach a girl who doesn't like you off the approach this is a common line the give. Is you pass it over time they may learn that you are cool and then like you. This is common community knowledge. Plus I've Seen in fild of Todd Valentine where this exact thing happns. After a few minutes then he sticks in and she gets to know him over time and see that he is high value and likes him and they go home together. But don't take a girl who actually has a boyfriend…
/r/seduction07/04/16 06:42 AM
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You kinda put yourself on the back burner there.
/r/seduction07/04/16 06:38 AM
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Non neediness is not a thing. It's the absence of neediness. You just don't show neediness. (Ideally you should not be needy. ) It's worth noting. The more needy the girl is twards you the more needy you can be.
/r/seduction07/04/16 06:35 AM
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There is nothing to be afraid of at the gym. It's it's not a social place. No one will bother you. People go to work out. No one will judge you everyone is focused on them selves. Just re rack your weights. The guy has a negative stereo type but it REALY far off from reality. Most people there arnt even fit. Most are trying to get fit. And fitness is a positive change in your life. It's work to improve your sell. Most of the people there will be positive. You have nothing to be afraid of! I've h…
/r/seduction07/04/16 05:20 AM
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It's ok to have relationships too.
/r/seduction07/04/16 05:10 AM
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If the girl speaks Spanish you can say "un caballero no tiene memoria" it means "a general man does not remember". It's s real phrase. If you are not Latino They will laughs and be impressed you know that phrase.
/r/seduction07/04/16 05:03 AM
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What makes you the happiest. And feels the best? Do you like being goofy and zany. But haft being "gangster" then be zany and goofy and don't be gangster. Do you hate dumb shit but like the be aggressive and assertive? Then be gangster. Do you like being cocky funny? If so do it. Do you like saying dark shit or being audacious? You just do what resonates with you.
/r/seduction07/04/16 04:54 AM
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Congratulations on your success. So just thinking about who you feel physically Activates the psns? And How do you last longer??
/r/seduction07/04/16 04:49 AM
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Do you feel dull yet content internally ? Or are you actually happy ?
/r/seduction06/04/16 05:59 AM
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No. In America (and places with out the cheek kiss custom) doing the cheek kiss would be weird. And it would come across as a trick. This instance was largely luck. But die the the dynamics of the culture. (And him being Australia so not being fully up on the cultural critical) allowed him to transition from the two kisses to a meaningless kiss on the lips with out it being a big deal. In the video they have very little chemistry. And he built very little attraction. If it's real he got the kiss…
/r/seduction06/04/16 05:57 AM
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You don't nececerry want to view life objectively correct all the time. Generally Optimists are more successful than pessimist even though pediments have a more objectively correct model of reality. And also it kinda true. You are chosing the do the easy thing and stay in your comfort zone when you could have hit it off and had an amazing life of positivity togeather. You never know till your try.
/r/seduction06/04/16 05:36 AM
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Except attraction. Alwayse assume attraction until proven otherwise.
/r/seduction06/04/16 05:29 AM
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Sprinting and powerlifting with compound movements are the best for weight loss. Make you strong and raise test levels. I think you are most likely to see success with a pre made diet. Where all you eat is what the product offers. If you go that rout make sure you have over 9 grams of fat in one sitting. (Or what ever the number is. ) Also You don't have to think you are the best looking dude. To get a girl. That's reduction. Although thinking you attributes are the shit is helpful in the fild.
/r/seduction05/04/16 06:57 PM
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We need context to tell you.
/r/seduction05/04/16 07:32 AM
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Look up stuff on conversation. And watch all the RSDTyler, Todd, julien, jeffy and Alex socials videos on it. They all say different helpful things. RSD julien's is abot how to make interview mode intresting and good wile screening for legistics. The summation is: lower you standard for what to say. Volunteer a decent amount of infromation when she asks questions. Make jokes. Talk about hypothetical stuff. Flirt. You should watch those videos tho. Also assume attraction. Never forget that
/r/seduction05/04/16 02:51 AM
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Oh yah defenently. He's great for that
/r/seduction05/04/16 02:45 AM
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Don't rely know. But I'm pretty sure haveing an awesome Instagram that show your awesome life will do more for you than texting can. And ideally it won't put out a vibe of "hay look at how cool I am" like Dan bilzarians does.
/r/seduction04/04/16 09:03 PM
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Tyler defenently incorporates boath. He often harps on how it is dumb how people are either outer game people or inner game people. Just do both. they compliment each other.
/r/seduction04/04/16 09:00 PM
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Yes pleae listen to him. It's soo important. Assume attraction is one of the most important things in game.
/r/seduction04/04/16 08:53 PM
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You could use death for this. Not rejection. If you think "Ima die tomorrow so might as well do all the living I can today." That works. If you assume you will get rejected you will act subtly different. You will sub communicate that you are not pre selected. And just not act the same. And fail shit tests. Gaming like you are going to die tomorrow probably would work well for some people. Gaming like you are going to get rejected won't.
/r/seduction04/04/16 08:50 PM
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Exactly. And you will act far different if you know you won. Think of s time you played sports and you knew the other team was going to win. You try and trick yourself into thinking you have a shot, but in reality you end up going through the motions. Ugh the more I think about this, the more obviously bad this frame is. If you are losing and an opponent talk shit you'll be like "yah yah don't be a dick" if your winning and an opponent talks shit it would be like "haha that's cute die" (if you r…
/r/seduction04/04/16 08:45 PM
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It seams like women care about care equally as the like 70% of men. But then probably 30% are way into cars. So I guess in whole men have women beat by a lot on cars. Never mind. A lot of girls don't even know car brands. So I guess men have women totally beat on cars. I defenently think women care about the size and quality of a house far more than men. But maybe I'm wrong.
/r/seduction04/04/16 08:37 PM
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Frequency and consistency Frequency and consistency Frequency and consistency. You have to build up social momentum to get anywhere in reguards to improving your social skills. Pay attenshion to people with better social skills and see how they handle situations. Assume everyone is already your friend. Offer more infromatuon. If they say how was your day say "good I did x y and z" rather than just "good". Good gives them a dead end. X y and z gives them three jumping off points. Also crack jokes…
/r/seduction04/04/16 07:23 PM
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All that infromatuon is semptims of being high value. Focus on the causes. Do try and logicly process what a high value guy would say. Be a high value guy. Adopt high value frames and beliefs. When you go out focus on the positives to re enforce the feeling that you are high value. Just know you are the shit. And if you get an IOI Just know that it's on and a done deal. If Chris hemsworth meets a girl he fancies, wouldn't you assume he would walk up and assume she is attracted to him and would w…
/r/seduction04/04/16 07:13 PM
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Yah I would not want to be told that. That would be in the back of my mind forever. And ruin it. Even though logicly I would not give a fuck. Somethimes I have ocd, so maybe I'm not the best person to get an opinion from.
/r/seduction04/04/16 07:05 PM
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That's a really intresting post with some very intresting points that I haven't heard before. I'm not refuting this but I have a hard time just believing that women gravatste twards people more than men do. (That probably is the case for boys and girl). Women seem so much more materialistic, it seams like they worry about clothes, and Kendra Scot jurly. And they want these big houses. They seem to have that stuff on their mind so much more than guys do. And attach so much more emotional weight t…
/r/seduction04/04/16 06:59 PM
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The oversimplified tldr would be: alpha = confidence + caring about others. Who ever down voted literally missed 50% of you post. And an inportanint under mentioned topic.
/r/seduction04/04/16 06:45 PM
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I don't agree with his advice as a blanket statement but what you said is not what he argued at all. He's saying build up your social skills before you try and approach and game. He's saying pratice deadlifting with 100lbs first and build your way up to 400 lbs. if you just jump in and try and deadlift 400 lbs you will pull a muscle, pop a tendon or slip a disk. For some people this is probably good advice for others it's just making excuses
/r/seduction04/04/16 06:33 PM
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NO! Expect to fucking win! Know that it's on. Be confident. You creat a self fulfilling prophecy. You pass shit tests easily. You are grounded. It can give you a cocky edg that also demonstrates pre selection. It keeps you from worrying about little stuff too much. It lets you relax. Just don't emotionally Invest off an approach. Then you will be disappointed if it goes no where. But fully assume attraction and that you will pull it off.
/r/seduction04/04/16 06:28 PM
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Wow thank you for your awesome reply! I'll defenently implement that. I never would have thought "I'm not soposed to be betrayed." As a reason. I would think "why am I man" then "because he betrayed me" then I'd have gotten stuck. I think that being able to make that extra connection will bell a lot. Thanks again!
/r/seduction04/04/16 06:54 AM
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Thank you for your awesome post! so you meditation is you sit and when you have thoughts about yourself you ask "why?" And eventualy you get into that deep state? Also what do you do when you don't know the answer. Or you do know it and then that's that?
/r/seduction03/04/16 09:06 PM
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On a general level: If You aren't talking to girls on the regular, it feels less natural, and you make this more significant in your head. And the more times you don't take action on it and the more time you think about it, the more resistance you will feel. On the micro level: Just do it. Give your self emotional leverage to get over it. If you start to bitch out think "well if I bitch out, then I'm a pussy. I have to do this or I'm a pussy. Do I really want to be a pussy? No. Ok I have to. I c…
/r/seduction03/04/16 08:54 PM
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Ideally you wate till the look at you then you lock eyes and hold.
/r/seduction03/04/16 08:43 PM
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Congratulation on going out. That's what you have to do to get better and almost no one does it! I'm not trying to be rude but: How do you guys go out solo? Do you just go to the bar and talk to/approach all the girls that catch your eye? Or is there more to it then that? Have you read anything? It feels like you are asking for a reply on what the entire sub is about. What books explain and that complies are based on. We approach and use game. Get into state. Build positive mindsets and frames. …
/r/seduction03/04/16 02:13 AM
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ok if you think the hottest guys are the coolest guys who get the most girls, you don't have to worry about dating multiple guys at first and hitting their feelings or them liking you less. if you are are primarily looking for good qualities, emotional connection, enjoying their company, then you will potentially have to worry about complications of dating other guys. if you meet one guy, i guess you just have to use your judgment on if you think it will be better to talk to another simultaneous…
/r/seduction01/04/16 08:53 PM
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B) you just make up a scenario where you and here are different people in a scenario. hear is something off the top of my head. hopefully it kinda gives you the gist of the idea. I think it is better to have it spontaneously arise. its more natural that way. "ok so you are my secretary now. How are those quarterly reports coming? lets say she then pretends to present them to you. then you go " these aren't even collated! This is table, your fired (wile smiling and joking") You get to add more to…
/r/seduction01/04/16 08:35 PM
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What /u/sykilik101 says. (Sorry I'm tired and this is probably porly written.) It also like to add that doing what you should do builds confidence. Plowing through resistance to what you should do builds confidence and feeling good. Achieving stuff builds confidence. Going after what you want builds confidence and viger. Socialize Frequently butlds confidence. Being lowed in a club builds temporary confidence. Becoming good at something builds confidence. Better posture builds confidence. It sou…
/r/seduction01/04/16 05:49 AM
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You are probably going friend to friend rather than man to woman. Square up make eye contact. Be horny. Get a tiny but in her personal bubble. Joke and express your self more. Descuss stuff less. Do you. Have fun first. Then talk to her because it is fun. Then then escolate because it's fun. I assume this is night game or on dates ? If it's day game escalating is weird, you have to be really good to pull it off. If your getting reactance form that don't worry.
/r/seduction01/04/16 12:21 AM
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Just contented the conversation un phased. There is no real winning in that situation. In reality you can do so much more.
/r/seduction01/04/16 12:12 AM
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Yah I agree. If he dodges taking responsibility he will never grow
/r/seduction01/04/16 12:09 AM
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It's not rude to ask a girl out in the Buss.
/r/seduction01/04/16 12:06 AM
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Congratulations on going to the bars and conquering you anxiety! That's really the best thing you can do, and most are nervice to do so. You should never buy a randome girl a drink. That shoots your self in the foot. You're sub communicating "look how nice I am, will you please stay longer and talk to me/ I'm doing something nice for you in hopes you do something nice or like me". And it waists 3-12 dollers. After y'all sleep togeather and start dating as stuff. That's a totally different thing.…
/r/seduction31/03/16 11:50 PM
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I'm sorry I don't understand what you want. What do you want ? If you want abundance because you want abundance then go for it. But if your are using it to cause you to naturally act more desirably it won't. It will make you less desirable (unless you are really clingy and suricate guys. Then I probably will help) Sorry can you describe yourself and what you want ? And what type of guy? I can give you much better individually tailored advice.
/r/seduction31/03/16 11:25 PM
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It's pretty hard to think wile making eye contact.
/r/seduction30/03/16 12:55 AM
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Chemicals effect different people differently.
/r/seduction30/03/16 12:14 AM
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Losing you ambition can be a know side effect of smoking a lot of weed.
/r/seduction30/03/16 12:11 AM
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Options: A) stop going out, lose some swagger so you have a reasonable more reasonable level of abundance. That should then help you feel more attached. B) find someone where y'all have an open relationship. C) find a bi girl and have 3somes togeather. Stay exactly the same. You will feel the same way, but just be a man and don't act on your impulses. Unless a co workers throws her self at you, generally a lot of steps have to be taken by YOU to cheat. You can stop your self at anyone. Unless th…
/r/seduction30/03/16 12:07 AM
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Yah but she likes YOU. Don't focus on what you don't have and what's wrong with you and what you don't have going for you. Focus on what you do have going for you. (unless you trying to pick things to work on). You are literally doing the exact opposite of pimping it. Also In life you want to work on increasing your talents rather than stuff you are bad at. You will beanle to get so much further that way.
/r/seduction29/03/16 11:50 PM
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Same for a break ups. When you truly are looking forward to the girls the future will bring, and are curious to meet them. It takes nearly all the sting out of it.
/r/seduction29/03/16 11:42 PM
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It absolutely is. It shifts so many frames and dynamics in your favor, and raises your state. It's not really something you obtain it's just behaving a certain way. It is dependent on the person. For some reason, it is hard to remember what you like, that is one of the reasons frequency is important. You just have to figure out what jokes and actions you find funny. You don't have to apply everything to your target, you can start with your friends or warmup sets also and get into state first. So…
/r/seduction28/03/16 08:02 PM
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I've never really tried to get on so I'm not the best advice. You can say "how's your day going " then "do you get off soon" maybe there will be a jumping off point. And you can see if she opens up
/r/seduction28/03/16 07:44 PM
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That's probably true. You don't have to sleep with sluts tho. There are non-permiscuious girls who go to clubs and online.
/r/seduction28/03/16 05:56 PM
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Dude that sounds very unrealistic. In porn they get tested every month. I dought the get tested after every encounter. They could get an std after their prayer encounter. Expecialy if the prostitte is banging a dude who bangs prostitutes. It seams learly inconsevable that they don't have HPV which can easily be transmitted despite using a condom or herpes which can still be transmitted when a condoms is used (although they help significantly) but it has to be during a contagious cycle of the vir…
/r/seduction28/03/16 06:01 AM
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People with really good social skills who know how to have power in interactions (on not bend it others) and who are good ant getting a desired outcome have frame controle. Confident people have strong frames In general. Most people who have social skills tease people (people define begs very differently) push pull is a large part of what people think of when they think of flirting. A normal cool guy should be able to meet girls through his social circle and with out haveing to do anything other…
/r/seduction28/03/16 05:45 AM
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People with really good social skills who know how to have power in interactions (on not bend it others) and who are good ant getting a desired outcome have frame controle. Confident people have strong frames In general. Most people who have social skills tease people (people define begs very differently) push pull is a large part of what people think of when they think of flirting. A normal cool guy should be able to meet girls through his social circle and with out haveing to do anything other…
/r/seduction28/03/16 05:45 AM
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I think should try and improve you life circomstances. Getting experience on tinder would be good! Building a social circle, joining organizations, exercising. Going out and night gaming If you have a better life with more ovisious ways, I think it will make things much better when/if you go off the drug. You may also want to check out "letting go: the pathway of surrender" there is a lot of woo woo stuff that you can take or leave. But it tells you how to properly handle your emotions (everyone…
/r/seduction27/03/16 09:37 PM
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I heard that RSD jeffy's hot seat is largely about pulling 3somes.
/r/seduction27/03/16 09:23 PM
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No problem! You absolutely can conquer this by your self. Just don't beat your self up for it being dificult. Gong to a club solo is hard for everyone. If you wanna meet someone to go out game with, you could attend an RSD free tour. Reguardelss if you like RSD you could go and meet wings, and then go out with them. It will be like 200 people with a shared interest in the same room One phycogical trick is not to go into the club. But you go walk 10 feet forward. Then you show the bouncer dude yo…
/r/seduction27/03/16 06:57 AM
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Do you have a friend(s) you could go with? Or a coworker who likes to go out? It's so much easer to go with people. A Tip is to try and have as much fun before you even Arive. And to high five people as you pass them. And if wile talking to your friend(s) you have a natural reason to be loud you should be loud. It unstufles you. And meaks you feel more out going. Your instincts aren't sure if you are safe or welcome in that place because it is a new environment. So they stifles you to kep you fr…
/r/seduction27/03/16 06:36 AM
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I generally think you should be man to woman and square up. But if your at a bar ordering then turning is probably better cuz it's normal.
/r/seduction27/03/16 06:25 AM
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You beat them by being convinced that you are the Shit. Just stay sure of your self. That's all that they are. The are to test your frame. If a girl is like "you didn't ever dress up" a daily response would be to be apologize or make a long logical excuse. A good one would be to be blasé and say "I didn't have time". You say t like it is compleatly normal And acceptable. And like you are arresting something irreverent. Haha jeffy just days "irreverent" to pass them. I have never tried that so I …
/r/seduction26/03/16 10:42 PM
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Strippers rubs their pussy on a pole that 40 other permiscuious (and probably ratchet) women rubbed their pussies on. I don't she how a striped could not have HPV.
/r/seduction26/03/16 10:32 PM
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Valentine Uingersity looks very good form what I've seen. You can try it for a week for $1. various free vids are for versions levels. What is your style ?
/r/seduction26/03/16 10:27 PM
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I don't see how you could possible squash them with out disproving them. It sounds like going to a therapist is just your fear trying to push you further from facing it. If you have anxiety disorder that's another story. But it sound like you are a normal person. Also if you have depression it would probably be better to fix that first. People often do a progressive thing. Like they will pratice making eye contact, then holding eye contact. Then saying hay to strangers. Then asking for the time,…
/r/seduction26/03/16 10:08 PM
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Frequency and consistence are extreamly important. They are basically the ONLY thing that lets you improve
/r/seduction26/03/16 09:54 PM
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I think women have a much higher tolerance for corny-ness. Also it is possible to be dorky In a cute and indearing way which makes them feel more affection twards you. P.s. Nice job about that blow job under the cover!
/r/seduction26/03/16 09:52 PM
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Thanks you too!
/r/seduction25/03/16 07:41 PM
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You should definently make sure you are getting the amount of protein you need for your bulk.(Unless that's bad for your kidneys). Here is a calculator i just found http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/calpro.htm That's good you cut out sugar! It's probably fine, if you are getting acne or other inflammation you may want to try cutting back or eliminating carbs
/r/seduction25/03/16 07:10 PM
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Well it is defenently very uncommon. I think weather it's weird is dependent on the dynamic of the friendship.
/r/seduction25/03/16 07:00 PM
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Oh cool that's great you go to those places! So many people on here never do and are shooting them selves in the foot. They never give themselves the oppettunity to pratice enough. That's frustrating but you Definitely did all that you could do, and that's all anyone can do. So you certainty did a good job.
/r/seduction25/03/16 06:29 AM
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No problem. A lot of sub reed's sidebars aren't helpful. This one has a good one tho tho. It really good to read/watch one solid book/program The absolute number one key is to pratice what you learn. And to pratice frequently to improve. And to socilize as much as possible. Your can check out RSDTyler on YouTube if you would like. He's a cool dude and makes really good videos (a few are weird).
/r/seduction25/03/16 06:19 AM
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If you wanna builk up, nuts and avocados are very healthy sources of calories, they have lots of nutrients. And nuts have fiber too. I don't know how diet effects the kidneys so I can't give advice in that reguard. It's probably better to avoid going overboard on carbs. It feels like the jury is still out on them. They can cause acne. Dont try to increase calories with extra sugar because in the long run that can mess up you gut bacteria. Good luck!
/r/seduction25/03/16 06:13 AM
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Awesome they are really good for you!
/r/seduction25/03/16 06:02 AM
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I meant Getting second dates. It can mean that, or sex/relationships depending on the context.
/r/seduction25/03/16 04:14 AM
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He may want his first time to be special, or to feel like he earned it. Or maybe he felt sorta pitied. Or maybe he doesn't want to embarrass himself Infront of a friend.
/r/seduction25/03/16 04:12 AM
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Once you see the process through Completion it is much easer to be confident. Imagen if you only were told how to change a tire. It would be pretty hard to genuinely be confident in changing one for the first time. But after you do it once it's very easy to do it with confidence.
/r/seduction25/03/16 04:09 AM
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Waiting would have been very weird. Much better to open her infront of her friends. I recommend you go to higher volume venues, you will have more abundance and then things like this won't be significant.
/r/seduction25/03/16 03:58 AM
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Day game has low conversion rates. it is much better to go on an insta date they may have nejoyed talking to you but bit wanted to take it further. probably they were into you, you left, their state changed, you texted and they are like "idk he's a stranger" and did not reply
/r/seduction25/03/16 03:55 AM
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Pratice talking to new people to improve your skills. It is totally ok to be intrested in going out with a girl. Not trying to be rude but have you read the side bar or anything ?
/r/seduction25/03/16 03:50 AM
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Don't say you own a law firm. If you mention in, it ruins it, and you would have been better off not even having it. If you say it to impress her, you put her on a pedestal. you are someone who needs to brag ago get a girl to like him. also it will be sooo more powerful if it comes up naturally latter. just say you are a lawyer causally. or make a joke then change the subject. not specifically your question, but its on topic: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HGEO6ig8WsM
/r/seduction25/03/16 03:16 AM
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lift weights and do cardio. Eat a good diet. avocados are really good for you, but they are very fattening 200 calories and fairly fill you up (something to keep in mind if you get fat) eat lots of veggies and seafood. nuts have lots of nutrients but are fattening. try to cut back on carbs (maybe eliminate them). cut out processed food and sugar. do less drugs and alcohol and coffee. Get adequate sleep. (maybe invest in blackout curtains.). meditate. practice bing present in your day to day life…
/r/seduction25/03/16 02:56 AM
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what prevents YOU from escalating?
/r/seduction25/03/16 02:30 AM
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A)Cultivate a breath of experiences. And ideally go on an adventure. B) go out -> self amuse your self. -> come out of your shell -> get into higher and higher state -> watch as you feel amazing and become more magnetic -> you will be able to do more and your brain will operate at a higher capacity and your personality will expand and improve. Watch The Blueprent Decoded for more on that topic. It's a rally intresting seminar. C) let go of negative emotions and thought Lupes trapped inside you. …
/r/seduction24/03/16 06:53 AM
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Lol that's not crengy at all. It's funny/Annoying It triggered triggered him getting laid so obviously it was the right thing to say...
/r/seduction24/03/16 06:35 AM
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I think high schools very a lot. Mine was nothing like that
/r/seduction23/03/16 07:49 PM
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I use to be exactly in your shoes. A) pay attention to your friends relationships. May of them suck and they are just board together, but stick with it because they are attached. This is not what you should strive for. But reading a lot of the stiff on here can really psych you out. I was like "fuck I can't go to talk to this girl send her on the crazy spikes of emotions and dazzle her with my cool life style." And it made me think that was standard. It's not. You should try and get that good on…
/r/seduction23/03/16 07:28 PM
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Just push through. Gain reference experiences where nothing bad happens and it should diminish.
/r/seduction23/03/16 06:09 AM
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Dude like what?? If a woman put all this effort to improve her life position and has more to offer (that women aren't even required to offer ) A) she just flat out not going to want a lazy man for something sersious. B) she did all this work to improve her life situation. Why wouldn't she want someone who can live same life? All things being equal,She certainly deserves a successful man more than some other girl
/r/seduction23/03/16 04:00 AM
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Not everything has to be a war. You can just come at her man to woman. And never deal with this being in the friendzone, breaking out ordeal.
/r/seduction23/03/16 03:47 AM
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They don't like you because you are depressed. I'm handsome and I use to have severe depression. Girls would look away from me then. They can since it. (You may be too needy too.) You should try and see a therapist. Also if like to recommend a book to you. It is called Letting Go: the Patheay of Surrender. The basic concept is that everyone is naturally happy but they have. Too much negative emotional baggage drag it then down and sailing them of vitality. You just have to let go of it and then …
/r/seduction20/03/16 10:31 PM
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Defenently don't do that until you see a psychologist first, and if that doesn't work wate till you are 21 and can go out. If that doesn't work go to a hotseat and take a Boot camp and actaly do the work as opposed to expecting them to fix you. They can coach you to grow. They can't just fix you. If you castrate your self I assume that you won't be able to produce testosterone. That will change who you are as a person. Additionally low testosterone is a common cause of depression in men. And the…
/r/seduction20/03/16 10:22 PM
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With calling they just like don't answer and it's hard to kneel a good time to call. But I've had a number go dead then called it and once she heard my voice it went live again.
/r/seduction20/03/16 10:12 PM
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When you have a quick number closes like 5-15 minute, how do you combine points 1 and 2? I feel like that is a sticking point for me (unless you straight up can't get a decent flake rate from those situations)
/r/seduction20/03/16 10:10 PM
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"Oh nice"
/r/seduction20/03/16 10:01 PM
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Always use Man to Woman frame, not Friend to Friend frame. (unless you are doing indirect old school game, which is way more complicated and generally considered out of date. ) You can just go for it. It's ok. It's masculin to take charge. You can stand up and hold you your had, then she will take it. Then y'all can walk and you can lead. Then you can stop and like spin her, or put her hand on your shoulder your hands behind her back (put her hands behind your back. Or spin her and wrap her hand…
/r/seduction20/03/16 10:00 PM
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watch a lot of infield videos. Those are one of the most useful things. The biggest thing is to use man to woman frame. Not friend to friend frame (unless you are using indirect game which is not really recommended anymore (unless maybe at work)). She should know that y'all aren't hanging out as friends. You can do whatever then. Like putting your arm around her is not a big deal at all. If some foreign guy went up to you, put his arm around you and was like "ay my brother, blah blah blah" would…
/r/seduction20/03/16 06:35 PM
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Yah I was going to recommend that move haha. That is alwayse a good one for holding hands. You can't alwayse naturally smoothly transition into that.
/r/seduction20/03/16 06:20 PM
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Should have been appearance. Sorry.
/r/seduction20/03/16 05:53 PM
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I agree with your philosophy 100% but that's really not his thesis.
/r/seduction19/03/16 07:31 PM
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A) a mans looks are way less important than a woman's. b) If you have a 10/10 lifestyle. A 10/10 humor 10/10 confidence 10/10 status 4/10 looks 10/10 in how good of a person you are 10/10 game 10/10 intresting that's 74/80 = 9.2. Now know that no one is a 10/10 in all those things. There are many more things as well, but I can't think of every area off the top of my head. Girls "ranking" is not only their appearance . A 10/10 who is blaring and anoying is much worse than an awesome 7. And looks …
/r/seduction19/03/16 06:44 PM
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Do you live in the dorms? That should help you get a social curcle. And help you meet people.
/r/seduction19/03/16 06:29 PM
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Just watch infield videos. They will explain all much more than text ever can. Don't whip out your dick if your a noobie. You need more experience to know when it's appropriate and you need to have confidence built up. Id say a general rule of thumb is, If it's day game go swave. Night game you can be more aggressive or rapid excitation. Obviously there are exceptions to that rule. Lastly if you are on a date and the girl is like away from you but she is into you, you can be like "come here" and…
/r/seduction18/03/16 05:41 PM
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Do the group members have stronger bonds/shared experiences/ known each other longer? You really have to come be at the cause end of the conversations in the beginning if that is the case. If not you fall out of the convo, or it shifts to them talking about people they know. And then you have less to contribute. Also having a wider breath of life experiences will help you. Then you will have more to contribute.
/r/seduction18/03/16 05:30 PM
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The original question is talking in terms of a girl flirting with you, not just a stranger being nice.
/r/seduction18/03/16 05:23 PM
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I hear that. I always had that feeling. IOnce you get to where you feel the I handed chemistry you will think it's worth it. Cuz you just can't attain that with out Meditation. Just do 20 minute a day. Like in the morning or at night. Also you can try to be present ( observing your thoughts and actions instead of being lost in them/unconscious) as you go about your day and drive. That will help too. That will help medatstion medatstion will help that. Both will help your mind and grow presence.
/r/seduction18/03/16 12:08 AM
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One final tip, if you meditate or pratice being present, that will all you to feel more chemistry with girls
/r/seduction17/03/16 10:53 PM
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If you really want to fuck her you can string her along by never giving her validation and she will keep chasing you. That won't be a sustainable relationship, and it will be superficial. Probably not worth it. Probable better off just never bothering.
/r/seduction17/03/16 07:52 PM
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When thoughts and feeling of her come up try to look at the feeling. Let the thought of what whey want but don't ruminate. Focus on the feeling. Let it engolf you and allow it to do what ever it does. And embrace it. After a wile it will leave you. (It may take one swag ion or it may take more.) there is a book called letting go the pathway to surrender. It's really good. There is some woo woo stuff that sound rediculiouslt and some it it like clearly happens in life and so its ontresting to see…
/r/seduction17/03/16 07:47 PM
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Go put options in your life. Your brain is fixating on her because right now it only associates sexual experiences to be with her. Just showing it that you/it have options might make it stop obsessing. And if you start sleeping with more people that surly will.
/r/seduction17/03/16 07:39 PM
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Most pale white, vampire white people are pale because they can't tan... Melanotan is something you can take to allow you to get a real tan. Ill let y'all research and decide if you wanna take it or not. I'm not trying to oush it. I just want people to know it exists.
/r/seduction17/03/16 07:28 PM
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Work out again? Or do activities that invergerate you ? Or build up your confidence psychologically, rather than just being amped (just to be clear, if you are confident phylogical it won't make you feel amped)
/r/seduction17/03/16 07:24 PM
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Tan skin look SOOOOOO much better. Also there is conflicting infromation on melanoma and skin cancer. The jury is honestly still out. (It does increase wrinkles. But then some people just flat out won't get them. )
/r/seduction17/03/16 07:23 PM
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The latter chapters have some much more valuable infromation. I feel like the book could have been written much more consicelessly. The book is more trying to share wisdom rather than be an structure manual. But honestly you can't write a full book on meditation with out rambling. All meditation is is you sit don't identify with your thoughts and emotions. You try to focus on your breath, or a design, and a candle flame, or every sound and sensation, or you meditate on how your body feels. If th…
/r/seduction17/03/16 07:16 PM
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Check out RSDLuke. He's Chanel is awesome. It's somewhat different form the normal RSD stuff. See if you like it. He seams very sersious and competent. I think it's $3,000 for a month. The think is a lot of students go and are like "here my money fix me" but that's humanly impossible. If that's what you want you should not do it. All they can do is tell you what to do and encourage you and give you exercise and teach you. But you have to do the work. i think you can get a full refund if you are …
/r/seduction16/03/16 09:27 PM
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That's very normal. She could have felt brain dead. She could have a boyfriend she could be busy. She could be in a really bad mood. I did that to a girl once who I wanted: I have a thing for Arab girls. This was a wile ago: One time I was leaving class and this really beautiful modern Arab girl (like she dressed normally so she has a much higher chance of dating a non Muslim) was sitting on a bench. She checked me out and we locked eyes and seamed intrested in me. I was SOOO tired that day and …
/r/seduction16/03/16 08:26 PM
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Try adding more convection. Also it's a number game. And lastly you won't get results till the end of the night. Some people leave early. You almost never get anything that way
/r/seduction16/03/16 08:20 PM
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Absolutely, there are beaches, the park, concerts, classes, parties the mall, the Buss stop, I just think that fun bars and clubs have the highest potential. They are by far the easiest for me. And I honestly believe they would be the easiest for most people they just have to learn how to get unstufled in them first. I'd recommend to start out go to a fun bar or club that plays fun music, with some friends (ideal with at least one attractive female) if you get the urge to be loud be loud, it giv…
/r/seduction16/03/16 08:12 PM
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Yah dude you don't have to lock a girl down and have her be attached to you forever. You can date someone you like spending time with feel affection for and like haven't sex with. Also you can look for jobs with upwards mobility if you can't find a good real job. For example you can be a service rep and 24 hour fitness. Then a membership counselor and make a little more money. After that you can become a service manager or a membership maniger. Then a club maniger. Then a district manager ect. I…
/r/seduction16/03/16 07:34 PM
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there is a book about low/high vibration called the "surrender the pathway of letting go" there is ALOT of woowoo stuff so if you don't like that you could just ignore it. The basic premis is you naturally are high vibration. But we have so much negative emotional baggage dragging us down. That's why thing piss is off why we interpret things wrong, why sometimes something small bothers us. Why we ruminate and why we think negatively. Emotions creat thoughts thought creat emotions. When a negativ…
/r/seduction16/03/16 07:28 PM
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Can't you use the GI bill? And don't you have money saved up? Or did you have to pay rent with your salary? That should help you move out. Also if imagen there are a lot of military scholarships. Additionally you can go to community college. Get good grades, become an officer in phi theta kappa (it's an honor society not a frat) you will save money going to community college and you should get a good schooler ship form phi theta kappa if you are an officer. (If I could do it over again that's wh…
/r/seduction16/03/16 07:08 PM
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You Seem like you know extra infromatuon that helps you make guesses. Did you do anything to learn it other than pratice ?
/r/seduction16/03/16 06:09 PM
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Saying "You look like the adventurous type" "You look like the type who is the nice and proper business woman during the day but is really kinky at night" "I bet you had all brothers" "You seam like you are from Dallas" "I bet you like hunting don't you" I never find my self doing them so I'm not the best person to explanation them. I've heard you can do them. If you get it right, awesome. If you get it wrong she can be like why'd you think that? And it's a fun conversation topic. And I heard if…
/r/seduction16/03/16 06:07 PM
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Just say "hay heading to campus?" or if that is obvious say "hay first class of the day" or you can say "it's kinda blaring do you wanna chit chat wile we wait" <--- I like using that one. You can also say "I thought your cute so I had to talk to you" I've alwayse thought that was dorky so I've never used it. But it's really popular. It's good because it is bold. If you have experience AND are in the zone and she is the right type of girl you can potentially be like "God your sexy" or something.…
/r/seduction16/03/16 04:44 PM
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Well now you know all your reasons so that's good. Now you just have to stop making excuses and go approach. Girls don't reject you off an approach, they just reject the approach. They don't know you. Someone could be the coolest person with the coolest friends and a be billionaire Philanthropist saving the world, but she would not be able to know and if the approach/initial conversation was bad there goes that. The don't reject the guy, just the approach and initial conversation. Pratice freque…
/r/seduction16/03/16 04:33 PM
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You could Read a pdf online Then buy the new copy to see the difference.
/r/seduction16/03/16 04:17 PM
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Dude there are so many new concepts that Keep coming out RSD alwayse has new ideas. RSDLuke has so much new stuff. RSD Madison has really fresh stuff right now too, and it can be pretty different form the traditional stuff. Alex social has very good stuff as well. there is also mark Manson. Who talks about Vulnerability. And advocates figuring out your type of girl, then becoming established in her seen. For example, if you like art girls, go to the community and eventually put on art events. Th…
/r/seduction16/03/16 04:12 PM
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I'm not trying to be a dick but I honestly don't see how RSD confuses some people so badly. School bombards you with way more consents, that are way more abstract and much less relatable harder.
/r/seduction15/03/16 03:43 PM
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Sorry if there is a lot of typos, I'm on Mobile You kinda get having fun beaten out of you as you grow up. You probably are reserved and holding your self back, and or intimidated by the environment and or out of touch with your humor. You just have to find things you like doing, and lighten up. If you go see a grade A comedy that hopefully is exciting too, you will come out feeling so energized and out of your shell. It will be more natural to joke and have fun. If you do that then joke with yo…
/r/seduction15/03/16 03:29 PM
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do you not make jokes? Or trick people (not in a mean way) or say witty stuff ? Or do Imitations? Or say sarcastic things? Or act Audaciously? If not you should try and get in touch with your since of humor. Watch lots of comedy. You don't have to act dumb and silly to be having fun. If all you like is intellectual conversations then the club is not the place for you until you develop more parts of your self. I'm absolutely not recommended acting like a clown if you don't like that. Some of what…
/r/seduction15/03/16 07:21 AM
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I hit return twice (so I skyped two lines) then I typed three dashes ---then hit return two more times to skip two more lines.
/r/seduction15/03/16 02:58 AM
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Did you view it on desktop? That part is not there on mobile.
/r/seduction14/03/16 09:55 PM
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You said the bio is everything then that it's nothing
/r/seduction14/03/16 09:55 PM
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You should check out the book "letting go the pathway of surrender". It has a lot of woowoo stuff, just ignore that if you don't like it. But it kinda explains emotional layeres. And what to do with emotions. Basically when uou start thinking negatively out of no where, don't ruminate on the thought, don't distract your self from them, and don't suppress the fealing. Thoughts come from feelings, and thoughts can trigger feelings. One fealing can spawn like 100,000 thoughts. So what you do is whe…
/r/seduction14/03/16 09:46 PM
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If you deliver it well you would probably get phone numbers as well as no's. You will get almost zero dates from that method.
/r/seduction14/03/16 01:09 AM
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Just say" hay ____ !" She will probably be excited that you are in the train. It is normal for people to be excited to meet someone in an unexpected place. If y'all are the only two people from high school who ride the train, generally, it would be natural to sit togeather and talk. Look up day game videos to learn how to flirt better
/r/seduction14/03/16 01:03 AM
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A) You should get a new phone. B) don't say anything until she replies. Then reply and if you feel it is necessary say (sorry if I take along time to reply, sometimes my phone won't receive a text until several hours after it was sent. Ima get a new phone soon). Or just ware and say it in person. You should really get a new phone or get it fixed. You don't want to be meeting someone and they be like I'm here where are you, and you can't receive their message. Or visa Versa
/r/seduction14/03/16 01:00 AM
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Get to class early so you have time to converse.
/r/seduction14/03/16 12:55 AM
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I'd think if you spark after one convo that would be fine. (I did bro have game in HS so idk tho)
/r/seduction14/03/16 12:54 AM
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how much experience do you have ? That probably has a big role in it.
/r/seduction14/03/16 12:21 AM
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If it is a really high percentage of people it has to be something you are doing. You probably act week about it and invite criticism on yourself. Look at people who are really good at socializing, and see how they handle people, figure out what they do and model that.
/r/seduction14/03/16 12:19 AM
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Where do you find them?
/r/seduction11/03/16 10:39 PM
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You can go to community college get good grades their. Then you can go to a university. Maybe get a scholarship. If your community college has phi theta capa you can get good grades then, join it and become an officer. If you do that you can get helpful scholarships from them and get student loans to pay for the last two years of college. As long as you sent tatted you can totally do that. (It will be hard but lots of people do it. ) You can also go to trade school (which often Is considered a b…
/r/seduction11/03/16 10:36 PM
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If it's like an expensive classy thing that's too much investment
/r/seduction11/03/16 10:04 PM
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Probably just in you head. Reguardless if you increase your game you will be fine. To look older: Grow muscles. Try to grow facial hair. If you have excess body fat lose it. Fat on your face makes you look younger. Dress more mature. Have a nice short haircut that is ant some hipster thing.
/r/seduction11/03/16 09:39 PM
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You don't actively use your height and physique. Like you have it and it is visually evident. She will not Notice it. She will think you are more attractive for it. If you use those to sell yourself you will ruin it for her. Just watch Day Game videos and try different styles. If you want to get better the key is frequent practice. It's more of a skill than knowledge. Knowing the form for soothing baskets is less helpful than practicing how to soot baskets. And if you only pratice for like 10 mi…
/r/seduction11/03/16 05:02 PM
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I don't think Her friends will be a factor in terms a number of a date being better. (Maybe don't say the word date) Ideally you want her friends liking you too.
/r/seduction11/03/16 04:58 AM
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A) they most likely already know the girls. I garente you these guys are not walking up to girl they don't know then the girls get excited and keep the convo going for them. (The only way that is possible is if they have very high status or really good vibes. And even then I have no idea how it would work at your school.) B) they could be having fun to begin with. And offering excess fun to them. That helps tremendously. C) they probably like joke and saw funny things and connect with the girls.…
/r/seduction10/03/16 02:13 AM
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By volunteering personal information. You lead. You say that stuff first then she will start saying it because she feel comfortable saying that. Generally start with less deep stuff then say deeper stuff as time goes on. Talking about your childhood is a good place to start. Or if you have a natural transition to something heavy you can potentially noting that up if it comes up naturally. Just uses your gut to know if something is appropriate or not. (Unless being inappropriate is part of your g…
/r/seduction10/03/16 01:52 AM
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They just flake a lot. Really anoying but it's life. Ideally go on an insta-date. Like go take the girl to go do something right then. If not time bridge- make a plan to go do something latter then get her number. Last peace of advice, incorporate building investment. (You will have to figure that one out. I learned it after I was no longer single and never tried it my self. All in all, reducing flaking is a combo of having better game and talking to more girls. It is largely luck. You are compe…
/r/seduction10/03/16 01:34 AM
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no
/r/seduction10/03/16 01:28 AM
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Oh! Haha that's cleaver and went over my head. Thanks for clarifying.
/r/seduction10/03/16 01:27 AM
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I don't know about your zoning out. But you just really want the approval of women. Or the validation of fucking hot women. You should try and find stuff you like to do in your own life. And go after some of your own goles. And quit violating your integrity (that kills your self esteem) With women you just have approach anxiety. Just plow through. And over come it. Also shift it in your mind to you doing you, you doing stuff because it is fun for you, not to fill a void. When you are having fun …
/r/seduction09/03/16 09:38 PM
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does your city not have fun bars/clubs?
/r/seduction09/03/16 09:32 PM
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You asked how I did it. This is how: By being judgmental about it. I remember walking up and feeling feeling anxious and thinking "this is fuck gay" then I ignored it. Then towards the last second I veered off and was like "what the fuck was that!?!? Your being a pussy. If you don't go back then you ARE a pussy" then I went back and the interaction sucked, but I survived an nothing happened. Then I moved on with my day. And it was drastically less in the future. And it went away quickly. I basic…
/r/seduction09/03/16 09:26 PM
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Aw dang! That sucks man! I've never had that happen
/r/seduction09/03/16 09:03 PM
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Don't jack off before. Doing cardio and glute exercise increases lebedo a lot. You can also take horny goat weed. I hear that works very well.
/r/seduction09/03/16 09:02 PM
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Stay in dorms to meet people and develop a social circle. That pretty key. If you never stay in social circles you will have to scrape togesther friends from clubs or join a frat which costs more money (unless you live in the frat house. That can save money sometimes)
/r/seduction09/03/16 08:58 PM
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Also if you are getting their number you can open up the contact thing and give them your phone for them to enter in their infromation
/r/seduction09/03/16 08:54 PM
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Go on ... Like were they being poetic in calling them that cuz they lived there and would not be questioned? It's not some weird war tactic that involved claiming right ?
/r/seduction09/03/16 08:47 PM
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I don't think Anne Hathaway is attractive. And I don't really care for Saundra bullock that much (looks wise). Everyone talks about how beautiful Anne Hathaway is. People talk about Saundra bullock being pretty often. She my friends celebrity fanticy. A Different friend thinks Rihanna is compleatly not hot. I think Jennifer Laurence is like a normal pretty person. I don't see how everyone geeks out over her. I think lots of girls I know are more attractive than her. I have a short friend who is …
/r/seduction09/03/16 03:42 AM
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Aw that's a bummer, but atleas you don't have to waist time and energy. And it's nice to know the reason why.
/r/seduction08/03/16 05:51 PM
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Maybe he is busy or doesn't have his phone. Maybe he is waiting 3 days to seam cooler. (You hear that advice a lot, I think is a very bad rule of thumb. But there are times when not texting a girl makes things flip around and strengthens it. This is obviously not a good time to do it) Maybe he reliesd it would not work out in the long run. He bought you breakfast so that means he atleas cares about you even if he doesn't want to pursue it . Maybe something just came up in his life and he can't h…
/r/seduction08/03/16 05:44 PM
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Yah that sounds best. That always sucks but it happens.
/r/seduction08/03/16 05:30 PM
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Pay attention. do the exercises. Make friends at the similar to get wings (that is a big reason why he puts them on).
/r/seduction08/03/16 05:27 PM
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So you put any effort into it in the beginning? Unless there is some lucky X factor that can get the conversation started off the bat it usually takes a few engaged texts back and fourth. You me and my friends can usually tell if the conversation is going to to anywhere or no by how the girl responds. Like if she responds "good" to how was your day. Prob not going to go anywhere. If you are giving them nothing to work with that could be the problem for them being boring. I've never talked to guy…
/r/seduction08/03/16 05:21 PM
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You shouldn't use pickup lines in the first place. (Unless you do it sarcastically and can pull it off as funny ) I don't think that is even debated.
/r/seduction08/03/16 05:10 PM
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Learn game with other women. In the field. If you knew game you'd be able to know what you could do. And if she was for you, you would have had her by now. Long term, if you go out and pratice and improve and get some girl that will help. getting girls will make you look better to her. And you can move on from her. If the timing works out in the future you can get her then (assuming she is for you.)
/r/seduction08/03/16 03:09 AM
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Oh, that was a clear hint from her that she was romantically interested in you. She wanted you to like move it forward/escalate. She took it as you are not Intreated in her. And was either I don't wanna waist my time with this if it's going no where, or she felt reflected (depending on her personality). If you want to date/get with her, if you ask her to go on some fun date and make sure she knows it is because you are Intreated in her, she might flip back around again, or she may have cooled of…
/r/seduction07/03/16 04:49 PM
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maybe she just wanted attention. and did not want to get with you?
/r/seduction07/03/16 03:26 AM
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Sorority girls often have a high school mindset. its weird. also they often act like normal human beings when by them selves, and then brainless children when they get together with their friends. This by no means applies to everyone in one. but its also a common phenomenon
/r/seduction07/03/16 02:59 AM
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that sucks man. Idk girls are weird. never forget that. assuming the date was awesome, and she was confident you were into her, It sounds like you did a good job. Assuming the date was awesome, and she was confident you were into her, most likely something els happened in her life. like a guy she use to see for along time came back into town or something. Some external thing like that. Or (and its probably not this) she could have had a big emotional investment in hearing back from you with that…
/r/seduction07/03/16 02:09 AM
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inflecting is raising the pitch of your voice at the and of a sentence. it is natural to do that with questions, but it is better not to do it. its not that being of a deal to do it with questions, don't let your self get stuck in your head about it. definitely don't do it for sentences that are not questions tho. That is really bad. if you do that you should work on it. when like 90% of people talk to a superior who they are not comfortable with, they raise there voice's pitch, and or inflect a…
/r/seduction07/03/16 02:00 AM
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http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=pR8LTd-SfBs
/r/seduction06/03/16 10:47 PM
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Best bet is Try and ask a guy who is good with girls. My only real idea is maybe you are making them invest over text but then in real life you are no longer doing that some you are investing? Maybe you act differently in real life? Maybe the tinder girls Don't want relationships? Maybe you dates sent fun? Maybe you inflect your voice at the end of sentences (that is huge. Not inflicting your voice at the end of sentences is like the biggest "trick" that actually helps increase your results )
/r/seduction06/03/16 10:44 PM
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Well the key destruction is if you are like "wooo I'm having so much fun this is awesome I wanna share it!!" (Good) vs "oh man I want that girl to like me, I'll go out of my way to creat all this fun for her, maybe she will like me because I created all that and then she will sleep with me in return for my efforts" (bad)
/r/seduction06/03/16 10:38 PM
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First off there is a highly recommended book that I've never read stalled "the six pillars of selfesteme" you could check that out. I recommend just going "fuck it" and going for a girl you want. Who gives a fuck if you deserve her or not. You want her right? If she is Intreated on you if day go for it. If you a good guy and over time you compleat the dating process with a girl and y'all have a fun time togeather it will make you feel much better and like you have more to offer for the next girl…
/r/seduction06/03/16 10:33 PM
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The key to making progress is FREQUENT PRACTICE. Talk to your friends more, pratice talking to your co workers, to strangers wile you are in line, texting with strangers on omegal (I don't really recommend talking on the video chat) people when you go out. Socialize everyday. You need frequency to get better. Once you get it down, you can then not socialize that frequently and be ok at it, but if you wanna stay good you will have to always practice Frequently (not everyday but still frequently).…
/r/seduction05/03/16 06:00 PM
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What's your question? "I want to reach a stage where I can go out anywhere, talk to any girl, get her number/pull" I hate to break it to you but it doesn't work like that. No one can get any girl. However you can get to a point where you have an abundance and it's never a problem. Once you get old enough to go out you will have way more succes and will be able to sort things out.
/r/seduction29/02/16 07:07 PM
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You can read the side bar. And the top posts of all time. If you want more watch this similar I haven't seen it but he makes good stuff In general. Now that you have your over view, watch this Infild footage video and then go to the club (ideally with friends) then ineditly start approaching girls. You don't have to comply the video or anything. Just pick up on the vibe. The key is to do stuff for your own amusement. At the very end of the day it all boils down to "do you" Lastly there is a thin…
/r/seduction29/02/16 06:42 PM
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Well he said strong self image. He probably has ego based confidence. And was a blow to his ego, rocking his confidence. It is much easer to build up ego based confidence, but you are volnursble pain if something hits it in a week place.
/r/seduction29/02/16 06:04 PM
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I'm less experienced that you but here is my theory: You left it open. You think you probably will get with her again in the future. (And probably will). That Keeps you emotionally attached. I had a relationship that got messed up by distance. And it dragged me down. At one point I reliesd I was done investing in it. If somehow our paths cross cool, but I'm probably never going to see her again. The moment I made that determination in my mind I felt this huge weight lifted off me and I felt so m…
/r/seduction25/02/16 06:36 AM
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Do you care about getting better at this? (You really don't have to, not everyone has to become a master pimp if they don't wanna). If your trying to improve you have to go out at least once a week. (And you really should go out more. And you have to socialize diring the week. ) if you want to improve then go out. (unless you are sick. Don't be an asshole. You strep throat may be a neucenceto you and the young person you for it to, but it could kill their old relative of it spreads to them) It c…
/r/seduction25/02/16 06:05 AM
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That sounds pretty cool! But are you sexually attracted to women? Otherwise I don't see how you could get hard. I've heard you can just say that you are gay and want to see what it's like and that that works. If not I'd say just do the normal to down and don't bring up your sexuality. However I think ideally you would get a friends to try it with so you can not use a condom Best of luck!
/r/seduction25/02/16 05:46 AM
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Versions RSD systems: Try and unstuffe. Approach all. Get out use to it. Self amuse this increasing your state and making you more attractive and funny and making it even easier to amuse yourself and it just keeps going. You will be magnetic and everything you say will be gold. A different one: Chill with I our friends and have a blast. Come out of your shel eventually you will get sorta board and want to go talk to girls. Then self amuse and it will be very natural. Another, make her invest the…
/r/seduction25/02/16 05:38 AM
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You are being the provided not the lover. Look up lover vs provider. Check out this video: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=HGEO6ig8WsM Relationships seem to come when you are having fun doing you and don't really nececearaly want one. Not when you feel half complete and want one. That's been the case for my small amount of experience and it seams like many others say as well. What materials have you read/watched
/r/seduction13/02/16 05:45 PM
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From all that I read, it's because you don't have a purpose. I don't either. I don't think you can actually have one wile your in college unless you are a very specific type of person who is the academic type. Or if fitness is your purpose (you can do that at the same time )
/r/seduction13/02/16 06:01 AM
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Oh, I figured we we talking about standard doctors. They never referred me to a osteopathic physicians and I never knew they existed. (Obviously there are spinal surgeons but that's extreme) the more you know.
/r/seduction12/02/16 07:51 AM
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they cant do shit for your skeleton. been to several no help. one visit to the chiropractor removed chronic shoulder blade pain. (its not 100% but it is way better. ) and regular doctors don't aline your skeleton. The homeopathic medicine is defiantly totally fake though. idk why they sell that stuff. It tarnishes their reputation.
/r/seduction12/02/16 03:42 AM
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They would be the best first place to start. That can at least give you exercises. They could prescribe you physician therapy also. I have no idea if that can crack you spine into the proper forward back angle. I don't think they can. I think they only crack it on the left right plain.
/r/seduction12/02/16 01:40 AM
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Once you get experience you will be SOOO much more confident. Just work your way through. It is a uphill battle to get there but after that it is a downhill ride of more improvement. Once you get get a girl from you making it happen (not just getting lucky and the universe making it naturally happen (which never happens to me)) and sleep with her it will make you feel soo much better for the next girl because you already know how everything works and knew what to do. Then once your second girl y…
/r/seduction11/02/16 06:50 PM
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Read the sidebar then act. Like same day. You learn soooo much more form the field. Reading is like reading how to play Mario cart. You have to actually practice playing Mario cart and develop a feel to get good. Knowing all the short cuts and stratifies and where every poewr up is won't help you if you don't ever play the game.
/r/seduction11/02/16 06:45 PM
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First off it will be annoying: like it's annoying when your gf can't leave the house with out makeup. Or gets afraid you are board of her. And she half shits off making it less fun And then youer not having that much fun and then your whites end on how to explain that but you can't because you sent having fun and are in a fun love bubble. Also girls can't own/not care about their flaws and make the almost relevant like we can. So naturally they would be more insecure. The theory is that men had …
/r/seduction11/02/16 06:32 PM
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Squeezing your gluteus helps too as does growing them. Running/cardio helps soooo much.
/r/seduction11/02/16 06:18 PM
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Just a little bit. Imagen there is setting on the top of your head positioned to where it will pull your spine taught. Imagen it pulling you up. Does that make any since ? (Also I'm not a chiropractor I've just gone before) When I do it I also feel a stretch in my upper back
/r/seduction11/02/16 06:08 PM
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Idk you should definitely go to a chiropractor because that's really bad if you can't touch the wall. I would go because having a contorted spine can cause problems down the road. Going may save you arthritis. I bet doing an inversion board would help
/r/seduction11/02/16 05:56 PM
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I think this attitude is like a huge part of my success. and why people NEVER start things with me there is a Jeffy video where he talks about like your thoughts being your cheerleaders or something. that works pretty well to layer on. and to view everyone els as your cheerleaders too.
/r/seduction11/02/16 12:20 AM
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I hear that. I'm sorry you have to deal with that. this probably doesn't help but I promise they are not. and even if they are, screw them. I know calling you names would not help your situation. (and i don't like think it makes you a pussy. You have a real thing that takes work to over come.)
/r/seduction11/02/16 12:00 AM
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Maybe look for a new job so you don't have to work on the weekend. Then you can go out Friday and Saturday.
/r/seduction09/02/16 06:28 PM
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Hang out with different people. Try to spend as much time with the people who let lose and don't take stuff so sersioisly. And minimize time with super serious people. watch TV shows where the charities are not serious don't watch shows where they are. A good recommendation is Archer. (Obvsiously don't be him) watching shows will permeate your attitude and what not. What you put in to your mind is what you get out. You can watch RSD In field footage. It's helarsious and has the right vibe. When …
/r/seduction09/02/16 06:20 PM
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Getting shot at is what trumped approaching girls
/r/seduction09/02/16 06:09 PM
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I feel like talking about approach anxiety legitimized and made people feel it is common place and that you have to battle it. And EVERYONE talk about it ALL the time. I could be way wrong but it seams like the common attitude in the community was "yah your first approaches are probably going to be week but you will get over it quick so go approach or you are a pussy", then like 90% of people would just like get over it. But it would suck for the 10% who actually have social anxiety. I could be …
/r/seduction09/02/16 06:06 PM
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Yep! I really think it helps, and that people are making the battle a uphill battle by going to clubs sober. I think it it fine to use it as training wheels, but if you use it as a fat person who doesn't like to walk uses an electric scooter, feel like you are at a greater risk of developing a problem. If you never wean yourself off the alcohol, I think you could get "addicted" to going out and drinking much easer than just drinking.
/r/seduction09/02/16 05:58 PM
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Oh wow! I did that once before and it worked but I never made that connection. Thanks!!
/r/seduction13/01/16 05:20 AM
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Everything crush hazard said except if you had truly been sexually attracted to her, you wouldn't have been able to control yourself. You aren't putting it down/ stepping to her. You not making serious moves. She showed you her nipple and you touch touched it then said they looks pretty. You should have like sucked on it or taken her shirt off and started kissing her. She clearly was sexually attracted to you. You just have to believe in your self and escalate. Unless she latterly thought you we…
/r/seduction23/12/15 09:07 PM
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Are your friends getting drunken hook ups? You could try for that. I'd recommend googling RSD man to woman Fram and seeing what comes up. And You can watch RSD Jeffy's (he Chanel name is like jlaix) video called "boners not keno" that may help with touching. There are really useful videos old school pick up attests made about keno. Your could do a video search for keno escalation. And see what videos come up. Also you can take dance classes! There you will get to touch girls which may help. Afte…
/r/seduction18/12/15 07:08 AM
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It seams like sitting across (if the table is normal or especially if it is small) is better because you can make a lot of eye contact. Everyone disagrees but it seams like looking into somehow eyes when you joke or say something personal or flir, would be better than the keno you could do sitting next to someone, unless yall cuddle after the meal. Maybe I just suck at keno at the table. Thoughts ?
/r/seduction16/12/15 06:32 PM
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A huge part of them will probably flake (atleas in a large university. I don't Know about community college) I know RSD Jeffry had some spread sheet program in "execute the program" idk how good it is. Edit: there is a good chance that the flak rate will be lost at a comunity college because there is not social seen.
/r/seduction14/12/15 11:39 PM
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If you can find a club that would be good, if there is a colon that doesn't suck there are probably girls there. (All the clubs sucked at my community college.) Probably just cold approach people and get there early so you can talk to a girl before class. My community college felt like a non social enviroment. Take science class if it fits in to your courses needed. Then you can work in a group in lab. Cold approach. Study at campus. Dress well and groom yourself well. There is not social status…
/r/seduction13/12/15 09:07 PM
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Here you go dude! The completely examines the essence, perfectly. Absolutely the most useful one video out there. Unfortunately it's a little slow at first but I promis it's worth it. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8y9SES3DFIQ
/r/seduction13/12/15 09:01 PM
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Voo lay voo koo shay avek mwa!!
/r/seduction05/12/15 05:41 AM
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I think that learning to dance is soposed to help.
/r/seduction04/12/15 10:15 PM
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Well for one thing, you could try losing it to someone you don't like that much so you don't have to worry or care. You could totally finda a college girl who is a vergin. If your white you could try this: (I've herd) that if you go to a non tourist towns in Peru the Girls will be incredibly interested in you and it will be realy easy. It's also strange because Peruvian girls are usually very conservative. If that is true you could probably find a Peruvian vergin. And get to see another country.…
/r/seduction02/12/15 08:34 PM
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It means assume she is attracted when you talk to her and stuff. If she shows you she is not then you can assume anymore. If she shows you she is not attracted and you continue then you are deluding your self not making an assumption.
/r/seduction02/12/15 08:02 PM
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Sorry I wasn't trying to brag. most people's first time is not what they think it will be and are very disappointed. I was trying to illustrate that it can become more than just putting it in a hole, and that that can most defiantly be worth it. most people really are not that great at sex. if you worrying about not being able to last long It doesn't really matter. if you cum too fast You can just say "sorry I haven't had sex in a month". then you can grab her hair stair her in the eyes and make…
/r/seduction02/12/15 06:34 AM
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i think that they would talk to you about your life. Maybe help you identify things you did in your past that caused you to have higher self esteem and tell you to do those things. I'm not sure though. You can attach this from two angles. 1) You can get s girl to sleep with you and disprove you belief. 2) you can improve your life, make it more socially fulfilling. Find areas you want to improve and improve them. Figure specific things you value. Live but them (if they are rules) and do them/wor…
/r/seduction01/12/15 11:30 PM
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YES! I'll talk about just sex first: It may take some time to get good at sex. (At first I was like fuck if I think I don't like sex but I have a libido... How am I going to go through life... But I actually got good quickly) If you just have average sex you may be disappointed. But once you get good and have good sex it's like the absolute greatest component of humanity. I feel kinda bad for a lot of people and for the animals who never figure it out. I can't imagine anything better except mayb…
/r/seduction01/12/15 11:16 PM
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We don't have much infromation. We don't know the context of when she is touching you or how she is doing it. She could be a touchy person. Or I to you you but shy and in her shell, but likes you, so she indicates she liked you by touching you. You sound young but I'm pretty sure at any age you could ask her out with it making it awkward. You just don't make it a huge deal and don't put your heart on the line. Just be like "we should go out sometime." Then follow up and set something up. Or bett…
/r/seduction23/11/15 07:54 PM
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Maybe your comming on too strong too soon.abd it's totally inappropriate ?
/r/seduction23/11/15 02:35 PM
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I've never seen and example of Girls being attracted to violence in real life. Only them being off put.
/r/seduction23/11/15 02:34 PM
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The ability to play and secede at the dating game. Inner game basically means confidence Verbal game means being able spark emotions build comfort and connection and have fun and get sexual. If someone says " shoe game on point" that means you have nice shoes. I guess it includes verbal skills physical escalation, core confidence body language and eye contact, leading behavior, other good behaviors, and good logistics. And scraning. Remember you don't have to have stellar game. Reading this foru…
/r/seduction23/11/15 02:27 PM
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That shoulds prett smart I like that analogy. I'll defenently try that.
/r/seduction22/11/15 12:28 AM
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4) having a job can be a source of status. So he could potential be higher Statius than the girls. 5) you could look better just because you are older. (Girl's generally prefer a guy a few years older. ) 6) these girls (depending on their lifestyle ) may not be inundated with options.
/r/seduction18/11/15 02:52 PM
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Do you have advice on how to make it be fun?
/r/seduction18/11/15 02:47 PM
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Work on improving the energy of the conversation. That should help her open up. Also not everyone is soposed to have chemistry. That being said sometimes the girl just has to get unstifled first.
/r/seduction16/11/15 05:13 AM
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Probably. Many people don't understand to consept of giving extra infromation so the other person has jumping off points. It is very natural for people to start to run out of stuff to text about. It is very normal for time between interactions to kill a pick up. Pickups usually don't work out. So don't feel bad. If she is still initating conversations with you she probably will still want to see you. Also you don't have to talk everyday.
/r/seduction16/11/15 04:57 AM
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You should ask her out not like "hay want to be more than friends" thats weird. Don't say "I like you" that's weird. Just ask her out ideally in person.
/r/seduction16/11/15 04:45 AM
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I think It only helps by giving you a social circle with social proof. I don't think playing high school or amiture sports in and of its self will make Girls want to sleep with you. It's probably a bonus for many girls if you do play sports.
/r/seduction16/11/15 04:31 AM
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compliments
/r/seduction16/11/15 04:27 AM
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Ok yes! Thank you The nick name thing seams like a realy good strategy. Because you can bump her up off the get go.
/r/seduction16/11/15 04:24 AM
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I don't think you did anything wrong. A girl told me condones hurt her so that sounds very probable. You may have started sex before she was fully arosed but who knows. Honestly she sounds like a headache she can clean up also. And like j less you were being super vocal she should not be mad at you for being too loud. I would not push the issue or anything. Like if you have a funny thing to text her or something (assuming you do that) then you could do that and continue on as normal.
/r/seduction16/11/15 04:19 AM
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Ideally have a cool thing to Invite her to go to with you.
/r/seduction16/11/15 04:08 AM
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How???
/r/seduction16/11/15 03:20 AM
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Teasing is a form of flirting. Flirting is a combination of making jokes (not telling jokes. The jokes on /r/jokes are what I mean)... Like you are walking with your girl, and you see food on the ground and you say "babe! I got you a burger!" In the flirty joking tone. Then she is like "aww thank you". (That is obviously dumb and not historical. But it makes a connection. ) It's all about the vibe. Compliments are another form. As are role plays, Telling "secrets" and push pull. (I'm sure there …
/r/seduction16/11/15 02:49 AM
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im more videos he elaborates more. its not that important. a good looking code can't get girls. An awesome average guy can get a lot of girls. and if your ugly what are you options? die a virgin or work harder and get results?
/r/seduction12/11/15 07:25 PM
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Social proof is having other people accept and enjoy you. The when the girl comes by she sees that and inferss your are safe and cool or just at least worth talking to. The term is also applies in business. Of two of your friends highly recommend a restaurant you will probably go to to. And if they say it sucks you probably won't (negative social proof) You can say that once you get social proof you subconcious sees that and then will relax.
/r/seduction12/11/15 04:02 PM
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It will realy help your life out in the long run if you read or watch at least one compleat guide. Like Double your Dating or Magic Bullets or foundations By RSD OR maybe Pimp. Or Modles by mark Manson (I'd recommend reading models in addition so something.) Don't take anything as gospel or Lawas. But I will realy help you if you read/watch one complete program. (Start with the sidebar) I promise you will have tones more questions, and you have lots of thing you believe now that are shooting you…
/r/seduction12/11/15 03:53 PM
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RSDTyler probably had aspergers but did not know what it was. Over time and with a lot of hard work he became fantastic at game and reading social cues.
/r/seduction12/11/15 03:39 PM
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Do a search. Read the results. Then PRATICE Then go wtch RSDtod's videos. Then practice! Then RSDJulan's RHEN PRATICE! go watch RSDTyler's videos on it. He has like one on his Chanel and then one on some other guys Chanel. Then practice! They all say different things. They are not necessarily rules. But they are things you can do to facitate conversations. Figure out what works for you. The biggest thing is to pratice feequently. Of you go out and socialize day to day you will get better. There …
/r/seduction12/11/15 04:56 AM
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Yah I use to be cocky as fuck. And girls would think I was hilarious and unlike anyone els and stuff, but I'd delude my perception of reality and convince my self that other people were being retarded. So yah be very careful with that shit and be self aware. I think it's better just not to be coky
/r/seduction11/11/15 09:43 PM
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Have you read the power of now by Eckhart tolle ? I don't like it at all but it's realy popular. I've heard "A new earth" is the same thing but it is written in a normal format so maybe I'll read that in the summer. I'm sure if you search around online you can find articles and book recommendations on how to decrease your ego. I did Kung fu when I grew up and that thought me humility because that is heavily stressed, so I never hat too big of an ego so I was able to kinda cognitively reduce mine…
/r/seduction11/11/15 09:37 PM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction11/11/15 03:34 AM
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I think there's a subtle distinction between what you're saying in with the other guys saying. The first guy is describing what abundance natality is. While you are describing higher and higher levels of abundance. And obviously as you achieve higher levels of abundance your abundance natality will grow.
/r/seduction10/11/15 10:55 PM
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Put two shrimps on your nipples (one shrimp per nipple.) maybe sure the shrimp are curled (not straight) so they resemble a donut. Place the center of the "donut" around your nipples. Then bight your lip wile smirking and making sexy eyes at the camera.
/r/seduction10/11/15 10:50 PM
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It's butthurt guys spouting misogyny. After a girl did me wrong I started to feel like they do to an extent. There is a guy name Alan Roger Curry who write books. I think "Mode One" was the book that he talked about this consent in. When we act fake and dirvert what we want to be more polite (behave the way we are raises) that is a huge courtesy we extend to Girls. Then if a girl breaks up with us in a way that is kinda cunty or over bullshit we will feel tremendously slighted (cuz like we are. …
/r/seduction10/11/15 10:20 PM
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Perhaps you can change what you do? Like Instead of doing long duration cardio (idk you work out so this advice may not apply) you could switch to a sprinting workout. That will only take like 6-8 minutes, and is actually better for your hormone profile. And maybe you could do compound lifts so you can do fewer exercises? But even just like getting lunch or dinner with someone for an hour will help you out. But I can see how the demanding schedule of being a med student would make this challengi…
/r/seduction09/11/15 04:59 PM
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College is romanticized in media. It's mostly meeting someone then like trying to to see eachother despite busy schedules. Then stuff not working due to limited time. Sorority girls arnt usually exclusive high status people. They usually just all get togeather then reinforce bad behaviors and ideas. There is a joke "how do you get 4 sorority girls to sit on a bar stool? You turn it upside down" Also nowadays they dress like shit. They just get a baggy men's shits. College isant like Blue Mountai…
/r/seduction09/11/15 04:50 PM
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she wanted to fuck that is why she said the first thing. Then she was like "oh gee I hope he doesent think I'm a ho. Better follow up" or "oh gee I'm a ho for that. Fuck better be like jk" girls usually don't want to be responsible for the hook up.
/r/seduction09/11/15 04:20 PM
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It's because he called her a ho. (And maybe the lack of making a move would have ruined it as well) She was looking for an easy lay, then you said I know your not a ho who would want an easy lay.... So you called her a ho. And now if she sleeps with you she will feel like a ho and she knows you have those judgments twards women so if you sleep with her you will judge her
/r/seduction09/11/15 04:13 PM
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She was looking for an easy lay, then you said I know your not a ho who would want an easy lay.... So you called her a ho. And now if she sleeps with you she will feel like a ho and she knows you have those judgments twards women so if you sleep with her you will judge her
/r/seduction09/11/15 04:11 PM
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Are you taking Adderall ? Parts of that sound like side effects from adarall. I don't think it is a big deal focusing on class vs stoping to peruse a girl. I sounds like your life has no balance. You "all I could say was yah. Then I put my headphones back in" bit sounded like you just haven't been socializing recently and arnt smooth.after all "All work and no play makes jack a dull boy." You need to socialize regularly to build up social momentum and be better at it so you can get more enjoymen…
/r/seduction09/11/15 03:46 PM
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You can look into cowboy boots also. If ppl find out you ware lifts you will look insecure. But boots won't have that drawback. I think you should go to the girls you are most attracted to. Don't put white Girl's on a pedestal that will make it harder to get them. There are very many girls who are 5"4 and 5"3. Those are very common Heights for girls to be. game will be more important than hight. Tall good looking guys can't just get girls with out game. They can get attraction off the bat which …
/r/seduction09/11/15 03:34 PM
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I'll start with this: You obviously have game so you don't realy need to work on it. If you need to get it back in the future you will beable to. Fix a girl who wants a relationship who you realy do like. Then stop dating other girls. And approaching other girls. That will allow your emotions to grow. If you don't develop feelings for her (assuming she is good) then try again. You should beable to develop strong feelings for someone who you have chemistry with, are mutually attracted to. Are rea…
/r/seduction08/11/15 11:01 PM
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Good lord you just gave me a tiny does of emotional trauma hahah
/r/seduction05/11/15 01:55 AM
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I agree with the other guy. Also if your are in college that probe have like a club or something that teaches it.
/r/seduction03/11/15 11:23 PM
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There is a girl with a big fat wart on her had in my class it it stresses the shit out of me.
/r/seduction03/11/15 11:17 PM
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I wast thinking "wow this is a really awesome and succinct reminder. and presented stuff in new and beneficial way." (which it still is for me) but they i read your comment and i was like "oh yah, it is very complex. if your a nooby with pour social skills you have to learn a lot of stuff then peel back the layers to simplify it in the end." I found it valuable for me, but its not a good blanket statement for the general populous
/r/seduction02/11/15 12:33 AM
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The sweeping statement was in answer of who up votes comments like yours. Not a profile of you. You are completely judging the girl for liking a guy how uses vocabulary that is less suffocated than yours. you are drawing conclusions about a girl's self esteme and intelligence with little to know evidence to back them up. Its not like valuing talking a certain way is a indicator of ones self esteme and intelligence. and its not like he was professing his love to her. it's just fun joking around.
/r/seduction02/11/15 12:24 AM
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I pretty much agree with Tyler. Most people's lives really don't seem very good. But it also seams like we have ways of rationalizing stuff to make us hippyish in the end. like "oh just getting old." It is feel like we have toxic platitudes. People say don't worry you have your whole life a head of you, and then it is expected to have a midlife crisis. my theory is that the two go had in hand to a degree. I feel like if people thought more long term they would either see where they will end up a…
/r/seduction02/11/15 12:09 AM
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They aren't. If they were uncomfortable in a bad way they would take their there hand back in a heart beat. And when he put his arm around the second one shed, at minimum just stand there, but more likely pull away or clench up. She leand into his hug. It's like in high school if a hot girl goes up and talkes to a guy and flirts with him, he's not going to be relaxed but it is a good thing.
/r/seduction01/11/15 11:15 PM
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Ask your friends to observe you and give you feed back. Or record your self trying to do some pickups then we can watch them. At least give a field report. We have zero infromation. Anything we say would be a shot in the dark. Can people understand your accent ? Whener I watch their media there will be some people who I can understand perfectly and others who I can not understand at all. Maybe it's that? Or are you being needy? How did you get Girl's in Jamaica? What all is different? What mind …
/r/seduction30/10/15 06:01 AM
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You should move on. Being more invested in a girl ruins it. Read Modeles by Mark Manson. It will be very helpful for you. I think there are different versions. If you read stuff about how everything in the PUA community is bull and hoe State is Bull, ignore that. He admitted to that being marketing. And that teasing is bad and they they don't do it in Latin America. (Teasing is good or at least fine. And they do do it in Latin America. )
/r/seduction30/10/15 05:51 AM
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How do you find better parties?
/r/seduction30/10/15 05:47 AM
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The rich get richer the pour get pourer. It's much harder to get Girl's when you feel depressed. But getting with new Girls is the best what to get over the old one. Sadly when would most benefit from a girl it's is the headrest to get one.
/r/seduction30/10/15 05:44 AM
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Well first off, day game is usually pretty un-sucessful unless you can take the girl on an insta date. Phone numbers usually turn into flakes Id recomend checking out some other day game material. or RSD for night game. Id also recumbent reading a book or watching a program. its good to have a complete program laid out in font of you. magic bullets and Dubble your Dating are recommended as good. Models by Mark Manson is good for mind sets and improving your life (if you actually do the stuff he …
/r/seduction29/10/15 07:09 AM
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well my best guess is that it comes down to this: The girls see them having fun and talking, so they look cool and fun and physically attractive, so thats why the girls go to them. ( if they are having fun when the girls cross y'all's path.) I don't really know how your clothes will play into the equation. I bought they are sabotaging your success. some girls will prefer preppy guys over other styles so you will be way advantaged over other guys. Other girls may prefer a different look so you wi…
/r/seduction29/10/15 06:49 AM
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congratulations man!
/r/seduction29/10/15 01:25 AM
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But seriously ask them.
/r/seduction29/10/15 01:23 AM
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Maybe you are over dressed? or look thry hard or like a douche? are they taller? when the girls walk into the room are they actively talking and joking wile you just sorta listen? Talking and joking and being animated make you look way batter. Pay attention to your vibe, and their vibe/energy. Yours might sick and they Maybe they have a funny, or cool or sexual vibe. and you have an empty, or dull vibe/energy. Also you should ask them if you have not done so. Since there is more than one, one ca…
/r/seduction29/10/15 01:21 AM
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What material have you read watch? many people need to learn more than just how to beat AA then go talk. do you flirt? Saying what material you know should help people give you much better information. what frame do you use? are you trying to get the girl? are you needy? We don't have any information to help you. do you speak with energy or a vacuum of energy? the vacuum of energy is horrible. that use to be me. id have probably gotten girls in HS if I knew would to make some energy in my self b…
/r/seduction29/10/15 01:10 AM
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What do you look like? If your cute and adorable that may be a little bit of a drawback for getting kinky so you'd probably have to set the frame to where you are a kinky person earlier on. Id say that if you talk about your fantasies early on that should make him be like "sweet a kinky girl". and then he won't be as worried about scaring you off. you have to be very non judgmental about sex. Also for me, if things start out love-y-dove-y its heard for me to switch gears into kinky mode (idk if …
/r/seduction28/10/15 11:55 PM
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He is very cynical about society in general. About how it everyone is in a "durr state". how everyone is complacent and passive, how everyone ones relationships suck. about how no one takes care of their health. and about how most everyone's life is just coping.
/r/seduction28/10/15 10:08 PM
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He is very cynical about society in general. About how it everyone is in a "durr state". how everyone is complacent and passive, how everyone ones relationships suck. about how no one takes care of their health. and about how most everyone's life is just coping.
/r/seduction28/10/15 10:08 PM
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He is very cynical about society in general. About how it everyone is in a "durr state". how everyone is complacent and passive, how everyone ones relationships suck. about how no one takes care of their health. and about how most everyone's life is just coping.
/r/seduction28/10/15 10:08 PM
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It helps disprove the "looks are everything" mentality. Drake isn't good looking and girls love him. Because he has other high value attributes
/r/seduction26/10/15 04:52 PM
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When they arnt receptive dile it back. Don't blindly keep kenoing girls. Pay attention to how they act to it. If they are uncomfortable with it, chill out. I'm not going to say anymore of my theories being that because I don't have enough experience to give them as advice.
/r/seduction26/10/15 04:38 PM
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I think that What he is saying is to like mention you value integrity the highest. State that she seems like a parson with integrity. When you see her early on say stuff like integrity is the determining factor in how good a person is (like as a fact of life, not as your opinion). Care about your integrity. (obviously spread this stuff out over time) so you get her focusing on integrity, and get her to form her identity around being a woman of integrity. once it becomse a part of her identity, c…
/r/seduction25/10/15 06:42 AM
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Socialize tonight or at least call a buddy. Socialize tomorrow before had or call a buddy It will warm up the social part of your brain. There are good books and programs and videos on dating and picking up girls. RSD makes very good YouTube videos that focus on picking up girls. And the side bar is a great place to start. This subject goes much deeper than tips but I don't thing it would be a good idea to delve deep right befor the date.
/r/seduction22/10/15 01:11 AM
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I think it is Allwayse good to hear everyone's opinion. And if it works for you fantastic!
/r/seduction22/10/15 12:00 AM
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How long does this take? Also I feel like you'd be prone to friend zoning yourself
/r/seduction21/10/15 11:18 PM
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My advice (and I have no experience with this, I'm just thinking logically) take them on Dates where you do activities as opposed to dates where the primary thing is talking You could do: dancing, If you feel like you can establish a high level of touch (or already have) then you could do a concert Or if you already established touch, you could go to a comedy movie and cuddle. People shit on movies dates a lot here. But if you already escalated, good comedy movies are FANTASTIC dates for early o…
/r/seduction20/10/15 03:09 PM
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Oh.... Thanks for letting me know!
/r/seduction20/10/15 12:23 AM
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Hay Neil ! I'd just like to say I thoroughly enjoyed The Game it was very interesting, and captivating! My question is What is your opinion of Tyler Durden now? As a person and as a dating coach.
/r/seduction19/10/15 11:49 PM
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Maybe try Try the RSD Tyler system You objective is to amuse your self (with out being a horrible person). => have a lot of fun => emotions go up => brain opens up and let's you be more charismatic & the neural pathways that make you be fun and funny get warmed up = > Girl's are attracted to your state and you are naturally funny and fun. (That's like the tl;dr of "the Blueprent Decoded". It's a realy good program and id recommend it. But that's is the basic system of it)
/r/seduction15/10/15 03:33 PM
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"Gabing" means like "talking" so the gift of gab means you are good at striking up good conversations.
/r/seduction05/10/15 01:52 AM
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Perhaps the overweight men felt less judged for dating over weight women or less attractive women, so they gave them selves more options.
/r/seduction04/10/15 07:28 PM
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Honestly if recommend that you ask a male friend for advice. And tell him that you want the 100% trough. Someone who observes you interact will have a way better chance of knowing what the problem is thank we will. (Take his advice with a grain of salt tho) I'm am not an expert on respect at all. But these are some of my theories. Believe in your words when you say them. Become more accomplished. Don't need people's validation but do impressive stuff for you.
/r/seduction23/09/15 07:28 PM
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I don't think you can realy put it into words. You know how different movies and shows have different feels? They make you feel different? And how you feel different with different people ? Those are different vibes
/r/seduction22/09/15 02:58 AM
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I agree it's all about vibes and learning how to change work with and creat the "energy" between the two of you that you need. People just have to pay attention to it as they have interactions until they figure out what it means. It's not realy tangible so I don't see how you can describe it.
/r/seduction22/09/15 02:57 AM
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If you have a understanding of what to do this video: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=pR8LTd-SfBs It's just them being funny flirting and having fun. That video is a huge component of what sent from not being able to get girls to being able to get girls.
/r/seduction26/08/15 02:22 PM
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/r/seduction05/08/15 07:21 PM
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That's not really good advice for everyone. If you are in college and have to pay for some or all of your college, and your home life is fine and you peters respect you, you will probably be better off living at home instead of spending all you time in class or studying then working 40+ hours at a job just so you can be like "yah I'm "free"" In general yah you should move out but you have to factor in your life circumstances and see that the ramification will be instead of blindly following a po…
/r/seduction14/07/15 07:55 PM
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