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It’s not so unreasonable. For 30 years of raising the kids, that’s $7k a year. Considering 30h/week spent on raising the kids more than the dad that’s 1,800h/year at a wage of $3. $200k is a pretty good deal. Had he been single and had a nanny, it would have been double that. There is a point to divorce settlement, it’s not always fair of course, but in this case it seems to be adequately fair.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/20 01:10 PM
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No senator is advocating for illegals to vote or open borders. Obama built the longest border wall by far. Also, if you’re seeing a random gay guy as a threat to your family, you’re the problem. So, your premise is very false.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 07:52 AM
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You’re constantly making assumptions about ulterior motives to distract from that fact that you made a false dichotomy. It’s no big deal seriously, but reacting to the smallest critique with DARE and numerous ad hominems is very reactive and way out of proportion.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 06:40 PM
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You gave the reader only two extreme options. That’s a textbook false dichotomy. If you don’t want it to be understood this way, make a more nuanced statement. If you don’t like doing this to “wake up” the newbies, it’s just demagoguery, but not good coaching/writing/advice.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 11:19 AM
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You gave two options. You didn't say anything about a third option or anything in between. That’s a a fallacy of false alternatives, also called a false dichotomy. Someone calling out the fallacy of false alternatives is not a fallacy of false alternatives. :D
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 06:08 AM
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No flex just getting out of hurr durr alpha dream land back into sober reality. ;) Jerkboys getting all the girls is an emotional cognitive bias, in this case confirmation bias, that simply is not reality, which is heavily abused in this sub, because trpers are so emotional about it and want to vent here. Trpers that aren’t in the anger phase anymore are aware of this and many other confirmation biases that are promoted here. Most of your post is correct, but it contains a heavily biased premise…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/20 07:11 AM
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Haha are you serious? $1,200 doesn’t even last 2 weeks except you live in your parents basement.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/20 06:20 PM
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She’ll instantly dump you the second you get fired, sick, disabled and can’t show her the infallible alpha male anymore. That’s why you have to show weakness early to get rid of the dopamine chaser women and see if she can also function as a partner in more ways.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/20 06:18 PM
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Entitled jerk boys only get laid by insecure girls with daddy issues that just suck. Guys that approach 20 women per month that are normal, educated and a little bit witty get laid way more than entitled jerkboys that approach 20 women per month. The secret isn’t the super alpha male, it’s just a numbers game and having wit and not being autistic af.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/20 05:45 PM
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The acronym AWALT is probably the worst description and the most misunderstood concept here for that reason as well.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 08:50 PM
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For 80% of the other content from newbies that are still in the anger phase.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/20 10:28 PM
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This is 16y olds game “Ignore her and she’ll become interested.” that beginners do. Your whole first 3 paragraphs could be replaced by simply talking with her, telling her a bit about herself and some decent kino. Then, you throw out some edgelord “feminists bad” phrases to trigger her like it’s 2005. Then, the plate breaks. Not trying to be antagonizing, but so much effort and wasted energy for nothing. This is very gamey, unnecessary game. I understand that you’ve made authoritative, good post…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/20 08:03 PM
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You didn’t fuck up. She is just a woman with moody behaviour. You can contact her again easily with callback humour, just dont be butthurt, angry or some other bullshit. It’s a subsconcious shit test as well, to see how you react, but if reinitiate contact in a funny way and show some interest she will appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/20 04:29 PM
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Women want to fuck guys with an alpha attitude. You can be rich and have alpha attitude or poor and have alpha attitude and they will fuck you more than rich or middle guys with beta attitude.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/20 07:51 PM
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You need to be a bit more cheerful about it, not guilty quiet brief. Say Wednesday in a quizzical tone without being over the top. She will fin dit interesting instead of insecure, make her feel that you have experience in this that she can ask you anything about it and that she doesn’t have to worry. This is very new to her and she finds it very interesting. Women love learning about man-women dynamic.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/20 07:39 PM
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Why does your grandpa not build a company, try to cure cancer or 100 of other diseases/problems that harm humanity. There is no ceiling only lack of imagination.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/20 10:22 PM
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Women are the only reason we have social security nets in Europe and thus 10x less poverty, homelessness, crime than in the U.S. But go Murica.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/19 07:39 PM
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Crime went down drastically under Obama and has gone up during Trump.https://www.statista.com/graphic/1/191219/reported-violent-crime-rate-in-the-usa-since-1990.jpg Unemployment has gone down drastically under Obama and less under Trump. https://www.statista.com/graphic/1/263710/unemployment-rate-in-the-united-states.jpg GDP has always gone up no matter which President. https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/0/01/GDP_per_person_in_the_United_States.png/236px-GDP_per_person_in_the_U…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/19 09:04 PM
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Europe is built on left-wing policies and runs better than any other country. These are hard, cold facts, not opinions. How does the U.S. compare with lots of right wing policies with rampant crime, sickness, homelessness and poverty?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/19 06:03 PM
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Because left-wing policies have created the first world, but Conservatives don’t care about facts, only about emotions (anti-redpill). They also think only the U.S. exists and have no clue how other societies are run. Let’s look at facts. Europe is run on left-wing policies like a smoothly oiled machine. Then, look at the U.S., where poverty, crime and homelessness is rampant. You want conservatives values, go to Muslim and other 3rd world countries. It’s exactly like Conservatives want to live.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 04:23 PM
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7h rule is bs. I’ve laid girls within 5 minutes. Never would I spend 7h.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 04:06 PM
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Is it worse than being raised by only one parent? Is being raised by 2 gay parents worse than being raised by one parent? The more caretakers there are the better. That’s how it has always worked since the stone ages. Only in nowadays stupid religiously indoctrinated society, people think that having a large support network is bad. Stupid. How many single parent households are failing on all fronts because the parent is never home because they have to work 3 jobs. What if they get sick? A multi …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 10:20 AM
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Not really except herpes (if you are vacinnated against hpv) and the chance for that is really low. Everything else you can cure in a few days of taking medicine.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 09:22 AM
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She has to be the aggressor, you have to slow her down in a playful way, but still rile her up subtly.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 11:20 AM
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Those points are all irrelevant except for intense, intermittent action and not only on a sexual level. If you can create a connection like no other man with her, then she’ll forever remember you. However, then you’re not different to college sluts playing with shy boys who really like them and messing with their heads just for the sake of creating suffering. It’s for men who are still in the anger zone and want to get back at women.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/19 02:49 PM
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You could already fucked her the same night by coming back. You need to strike when the iron is hot, otherwise she’ll turn on you.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 11:31 AM
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You cannot. A 5 will never look at you like a 10 would, because you are out of reach for a 5, she has never dayed someone this attractive, while for a 10 you are average. The only way to get a 10 is through building a strong connection and being someone who she can learn from.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 01:44 PM
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But then the same thing exists for men. You are in this sub btw, woosh.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/19 07:34 PM
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Yeah another pseudo-science hit piece. The whole premise is “People need a lot of neurons, so you gotta start early.”
/r/TheRedPill17/11/19 06:07 PM
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The post is on point but misses the big picture. All men are whores and they are shameless whores. All humans are whores, all animals are whores. Only species that were whores did not become extinct, because they fucked like rabbits and multiplied more than they died off. So, stop judging that anyone is a whore and be thankful for it, because otherwise humanity would be extinct.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/19 10:10 AM
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You can easily reel her back in by just teasing her a little bit and making some callback humor.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 06:28 PM
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This. She clearly told you she only wants something serious. You clearly showed her that you don’t. Now, she lets you fade out because that’s not what she wants. Most college girls dont want to fuck 20 men until they graduate.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 07:09 PM
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You did t qualify enough or didn't have enough expectations set. If you don’t critizise her or tell her where she would need to improve, they feel like they can’t grow and it makes them anxious. Be very careful with this though and don’t tell her directly, just give her hints here and there that she’s doing it wrong and let her ask you for more about it. Too much or too direct critique makes them feel bad and they break it off. Your criticism needs to be intelligent, educated and scientific thou…
/r/askTRP01/11/19 07:43 AM
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She only says that because you’re trying very hard to flirt and giving her all fuckboy signs instead of building a connection, building a subtle man to woman vibe and letting her become interested.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 07:36 AM
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Omg autist 100%
/r/askTRP01/11/19 07:35 AM
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Thats like the most gamey thing you could do
/r/askTRP01/11/19 07:35 AM
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Not true, around 70% of prostitutes are infected with HPV and 30% with Herpes, which you cannot prevent with condoms. Double as much as the average population.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 10:09 PM
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I’m going towards my forties, have run my own business and have been consulting companies since I was 25.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 07:03 AM
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With a degree in psychology at 23, you know more about life that 80% of people. Most people are simply really dumb. Big enough market
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 06:42 PM
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Eh, I have enough male friends, but I’m not so interested in cuddling with them. Briffault’s law is also false, since women often stay with their partner even though he’s quadriplegic or suffers from a similar debilitating condition. Most women are not like that, but many are.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 07:45 AM
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Why not vet plates for being there for you when you need help? If I have 20 plates or prospective plates, I always make this test, become vulnerable early on, get rid of the 15 bad ones and only keep the 5 good ones that don’t bitch and are less drama. 5 is already too many as well if you want to so other things in life than having sex.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 08:11 PM
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It’s a litmus test for women that don’t care if you are weak and love you more for it and discarding women that get scared when you are weak and love you less for it. If you have a network of several women that support you when you need help it is invaluable.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 05:38 PM
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You say not to talk about feelings, what else is your point?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 07:52 AM
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This is scarcity mindset. Oh no, I can’t tell her about feelings, becauae then she will leave me. If you have enough options, you don’t give a fuck if she leavea you or not. Why the hell would you want to be with a women that gets scared of opening up?? I use this as a litmus test. I always open up to the woman after some time. If she gets scared or weird, she is dead to me. I won’t waste any second on someone like that. But then, there are the few women who like you more for it. Those are the o…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 08:15 PM
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Only from very masculine men like you :)
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 09:48 AM
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It’s easy. Just be chill and have the passive frame “she’s a rich girl, she is a bit spoilt doesn’t know the world. “ Don’t let her know that you have this frame, but maybe let it shine through, but just a little bit.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 07:42 PM
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That’s bs. What if some old flame from the past calls you, your gf asks you about it, but you just don’t want to be bothered today with discussing bullshit. Of course she breaks up. Lol.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 07:40 PM
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If you say things like this only very confident girls (10%) will find it funny. Girls that are not so confident (90%) will think that you don’t like them.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 07:27 PM
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This is the logical fallacy false choice. There are not only those 2 choices. Be the nice, gentle, warm guy who creates a strong man to woman vibe and who is very good at kino (di carlo escalation ladder). If you’re nice and know how to create a strong connection it’s often so easy to escalate.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 06:42 PM
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It’s a shit test to see if you are intimidated by other men wuickly or if you’re unaffected and socially fluent enough to acknowledge them, but not let them distract you from your goal.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 03:06 PM
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So you have been creeping on her for 4 months without making a move or showing intent? You don’t need to be surprised if she loses interest, when you don’t build any attraction.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 03:04 PM
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Approach 100 hot women per week. If you have at least some game, you’ll get 20 numbers, 10 dates and 3 times sex. You have time for that. :)
/r/askTRP14/09/19 06:10 PM
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She invites a friend that is male? Yeah definitely break up /s.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 06:08 PM
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It’s very easy to stand out among hypermasculine alphas. You just gotta be the calm guy who is very easy to talk to, who is smart and who doesn’t fake himself with endless boasting. Just talk to the girls like they are normal people, find out who they are, ehat they’re all about and establish some man to woman vibe. This is 1,000x more effective than boastful alphaness.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 07:20 PM
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You’re going about it the wrong way. It shouldn’t be you trying to have sex with her, but her being so horny that she really wants to have sex with you. If you can’t get her that horny, you don’t deserve the sex.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 10:13 AM
0

50% of women cheat, 50% don’t. Don’t fall for selection bias.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 10:11 AM
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Girls will fuck a fat, somewhat ugly dude as long as he can talk better than 99% of dudes and is groomed. For example this dude https://i.imgur.com/MeG8J4E.jpg could steal girls from ripped, handsome guys if he qualifies her well does some decent push and pull kino creates a good man to woman vibe is smart, educated can build a real connection with her teaches her how the world works Game/personality is 80%, looks 20% for men. For women it’s reverse.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 11:04 AM
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She got game
/r/askTRP27/08/19 02:54 PM
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Men are so much worse when they are drunk, they want to fuck every single girl in the club. Double standards.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 08:11 AM
6

She was just throwing silly low effort shit test at you and you failed all of them . :D Just chuckle about them, grab ber and kiss her and take her clothes off, gosh.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 03:59 PM
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Just tell her that you’re bith adopted probably. Girls find this hot, but only If you don’t make it weird.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 06:21 AM
2

Nah, if you’re a top 20% male, you can get almost any women by just building a real connection with her and doing some mild game.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 06:20 AM
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Go to all the clubs and cold approach on campus, but only in small doses like 2-3 times per day, dont want to become an approach machine. After a year, you’ve approached several hundred hot girls and have 50 of them on facebook/ig.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 04:32 PM
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Hey, are you from here? That’s the only opener I use, best opener ever.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 04:30 PM
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Only autist replies here. Just tell her: “ But you are my number 1! :)” She knows that you’re not serious, but she cant be mad and likes it. When she asks “am I really your number 1” later, you just say “yes, you are my number cool/most witty/etc. girl” If she asks “but am i your overall number 1”, you can say “hey that’s a very big word, i don’t throw it around like that”
/r/askTRP19/08/19 04:29 PM
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Her saying she only wants to cuddle is saying “I want sex, but please make it look that we just wanted to cuddle and then it just happened”.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:07 AM
1

Doesn’t matter, engineers are the kings in the job market, no one cares about which uni they are from.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 06:19 AM
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It’s really Easy, just do the normal spiel, but don’t be too alpha, this crushes her dream of it happening spontaneously.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 06:10 PM
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Shame? As a mechanical engineer, you are the asbutr king once you’re finished. There is almost no better skillset that you can have, except having some business experience sprinkled in too.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 06:08 PM
1

This only works with 20% of women.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/19 05:48 PM
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Thats um what i said
/r/askTRP15/08/19 06:20 AM
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Lol, she is a shy virgin, very easily intimidated. This is already a done deal with just a little comfort, you can only fuck it up by trying to be “alpha”.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 06:12 PM
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Comfort. Every plate breaks if you can’t give them at least some locey-dovey every few weeks, except for very rare plates that are very into you.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 01:35 PM
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Pure volume (assuming you have some game experience at least). If you approach 100 8s, you’ll get into bed with 20 of them. If you approach 100 9-10s, you’ll get into bed with 5 of them. It’s just a numbers game.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 01:34 PM
2

Incorrect. Game is all of possible game. Naturals only use 2% of all of game, because 98% of game counter productive in most situations while newbies have no clue which techniques are actually bad in specific situations. Naturals also use those 2% in a much more refined way than newbies.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 06:22 AM
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No, because game with ugly girls is sondifferent than with hot girls. So, if you train your game with ugly girls, you will mess up your whole game for hot girls.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 06:47 PM
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He didn’t handle the shit test, he just destroyed it. I would’ve said “So you judge people by their looks or by what do you judge them?” This gives her an opportunity to prove herself and reveal that it was just a shit test. However, by insulting her, there was no chance for the girl to redeem herself. Leave her better than you found her.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 06:43 PM
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You just need to approach 300 attractive girls, get rejected by 200, have a nice conversation with 100, get 50 numbers, 20 dates, 5 times sex and have 3 gfs to choose from.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 06:38 AM
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Like, you know, getting to know someone. You only are in the friend zone if you don’t create somehwat of a man to woman vibe and cant do some slightly push and pull.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 07:41 AM
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He’s wrong. You didn’t Create enough attraction. Just relling her you want to fuck her just doesn’t cut it. You really need to build a connection and make her look up to you.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 03:42 PM
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Because you’re probably a douche bag, have no tact, no playfulness, take yourself way too serious, aren’t able to build a real connection with a girl, you only use nevs while you should only use negs 0.1% of the time ans only once you have built a connection and only with very hot and very confident girls?
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:18 PM
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You are not so much her type. She told you that. This is no base for a stable future, even less marriage. Youre better off finding a girl with which it is like that.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 06:02 PM
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Yes, hot women know hot women. If you have 5 hot female friends that have a high opinion of you, they will deliver 9s and 10s to your door step. Just make sure to keep things unedgy with the female friends, otherwise they will probably get jealous.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 04:01 PM
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She’s 20, people are not even concsious at that age, be it men or women. Also, pre-selection.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 05:36 AM
8

Just have excellent wit. Almost no guys have wit. You can impress any rich girl with good wit, banter, push and pull.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 05:44 AM
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It doesn’t matter when you start approaching girls, the first times will always be bad. It shows that you are a beginner that doesn’t know how cold approaching works and thinks that just by reading stuff online, you learn game. That’s not how it works :D
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:58 AM
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Wrong. A man doesn’t get masculine if he never approaches. They only get masculine by cold approaching 100s of women. In the beginning, we are all disastrous virgins. You don’t get better at approaching by just reading online forums or making more money, no matter how you rationalize it so that you don’t have to do cold approaching, so that you don’t have to experience failure. A virgin that approaches 20 women, gets rejected by 15 and bangs one is more masculine than a guy with a degree, a car,…
/r/askTRP21/07/19 07:01 AM
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Your first time simply will not be great. If you try to forcibly make it perfect, you’re doing it wrong. As for finding a hot, lovely girl, it’s all about volume. If you approach only 20 women, there won’t be a hot one that is really into you. If you approach 200 women, there are for sure 5 hot women who are into you. Being into you is random, it depends on their genetic makeup, previous crushes, childhood, parents who they are into. That’s why you can only go by volume and inprove your smv, to …
/r/askTRP21/07/19 06:59 AM
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Be aware that just because 80% of women are like that not all are. There are a subset of women, who just wanna have a boring, normal life, are afraid of risk, shy, hate the typical alpha male. Those are boring though, so it’s about finding the girly girl who likes being girly, but also just wants to have a solid family. There aren’t so many of those, maybe only 1%, but that’s 400 million of them. 40 million of them are hot, so that’s your target market. That’s a lot of women.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 06:53 AM
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Black and white thinking, hurr durr alphas, lack of empathy.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 05:13 PM
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If you already have thise issues that early, it’s just not gonna work. You guys are both better off splitting to find a better match. But yeah, keep that to yourself until you have the green card
/r/askTRP19/07/19 05:12 PM
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If you have already have several plates, it’s better to have hot female friends as wingwomen. Hot women know hot women. Having several female friends gives a magnitude of more abundance than plating them.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 08:48 AM
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Better to give silly answers. How many women have you slept with? I’m actually a virgin.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 05:42 PM
1

Looks dont matter for men (except youre really ugly) , it’s all about personality. Just say next time, theyre intimidated by my personality or something ;)
/r/askTRP18/07/19 05:41 PM
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Friend zone only exists for noobs who dont know how to escalate. I can be in the friendzone with a girl for years and just say a few man-to-woman vibe words and escalate. :D
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 05:39 PM
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Nah, if the girl does not like you yet, you need to build rapport for several Minutes at least. If you start flirting directly saying if she’s looking at your ass, a girl will tell you to fuck off. That’s gamey as fuck, and also called autistic game.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 02:21 PM
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Needs disclaimer that it onyl works in very high energy environments, clubs and only if the girl already kind of likes you.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 12:16 PM
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Nah, legal in many countries, nkthing happened.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 03:49 PM
3

Why won’t a recorded audio protect you?
/r/askTRP17/07/19 03:44 PM
2

The chance is probably 80% that you can still start the job after completing uni, so...
/r/askTRP17/07/19 01:19 AM
1

True, but the way you said it is very try hard and nerdy. Better say, so what do you want to do. Girl needs to know how to behave, can’t let women behave like they own the place (with a smirk. )
/r/askTRP11/07/19 08:02 PM
4

Yes, that’s how an autist would do it and get alienated by all students.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 07:11 PM
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Reported.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 06:09 PM
2

Because she doesn’t feel enough attraction for you anymore. There is enough attraction for occasional sex, but not for wild sex. How to get more attraction? Stronger connection with her, more leading, more emotions and the sex god method (DEVI).
/r/askTRP11/07/19 06:05 PM
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And get hated and bullied for the rest of college life. No you gotta play it smart, not disrespect the popular girl, but instead become part of their group, get bitches and then put the girl into her place. But not like this lol. Recipe for having a shitty uni life.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 06:02 PM
2

A true white farmer :D
/r/askTRP11/07/19 05:34 AM
1

I’ll just travel for 6 months and talk to 500 women, you’ll find marriage material there. Alternatively, I’d just socialize a lot and talk to 500 women. 99% of women aren’t marriage material, but 1% are. That’s why you gotta work the numbers.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 03:29 PM
1

If you are vaccinated with gardasil-9, you can almost not get anything serious except herpes, which also isn’t that serious. The rest like gonnorhea, chlamyidia is easily treatable or extremely rare.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 03:26 PM
1

But yes, she has cheated, so it’s an issue. You can also tell her, you will take her out of the marriage, but that you’re not looking to settle down just yet. That might be the better option.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 06:12 AM
2

How can I possibly save her? I don't know what to do Tell her to meet you and then tell her that you and her will be together and that whatever her family or whoever says, you will stand by her and nothing can change that. She wants to be with you, but needs to feel safe. If you give her that, she will probably be eternally grateful.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 07:04 PM
1

She wants to break up, but with the family pressure, she can’t pull the trigger. You can save her, but be aware that she will be very dependent on you in the first year, so if you only want to fuck her, she will be very sad if you don’t want more. You also don’t need to do anything alpha anymore, you have 10/10 comfort and 10/10 attraction with her. Now, less is more.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 06:19 PM
1

It’s when she thinks your connection is a 6/10, she will continue to respond as long as it’s fun hooing that it becomes an 8/10, but if the connection doesn’t get better she will stop responding.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 06:16 PM
1

It’s a defense mechanism to rationalize that it wasn’t so bad. There are large downsides to it ao you need to know what you’re doing .
/r/askTRP02/07/19 05:53 PM
3

She wasn’t critizimg you for commenting. She was throwing a shit test at you to see if you have frame and don’t submit to stupid antics like that. You did. You should just ignore it and treat her like she’s a bit crazy.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 09:23 AM
1

There are two versions of that. Completey messed up girls with no self-confidence and self-worth need strong alphas to feel safe. They don’t care if they’re asshole as long as they feel safe. Guys that sound like assholes from what you hear about them, but they’re not actual assholes and they are also really good to their girl when you don’t see it
/r/askTRP02/07/19 09:20 AM
1

And that’s how a plate breaks, maybe fucks you once or twice more, but then catches feelings becomes too sad and break contact.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 08:26 PM
2

Yes, being creepy to him sometimes works. Maybe even a bit gay, but not so much that he would tell others how creepy you are.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:21 PM
9

The relationship with her bf is so-so at best, but like all girls she doesn’t have the strength to break up, so she is looking for reasons to.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:17 PM
3

It makes them feel safe in a way.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:15 PM
0

Without her opening up To you, that’s an uphill battle and a much lower success rate.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 09:50 PM
2

Inspire hope. Withdraw completely ;)
/r/askTRP04/06/19 08:09 PM
1

Well the one is based on cold hard facts, the other on heavily emotional opinions.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 07:57 PM
4

Lgbts exist. Get over it.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 07:55 PM
8

This is textbook autistic trp. They try to portray hypermasculinity like Trump, where everybody with half a brain sees instantly that you’re an idiot. I pull most girls with being girly and a bit flamboyant. Girls drop their guard and tell you everything about their life. Then, just escalat and close the deal. You need to be able to be also be masculine, if you’re just feminine, there’s not attraction. Femininity is for opening up, while masculinity is for creating tension and closing.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 07:52 PM
1

Literally nothing happened. It’s good to show some softness. Plates brake quicker if you don’t show any.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 07:48 PM
1

No, only when you are black pilled. Most guys here think the red pill is the black pill, which it isn’t. :D
/r/askTRP01/06/19 10:40 AM
1

Only when you have lots of rapport with her and have shown that you can lead her. Or it’s a bratty chick, they like that more than normal girls.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 07:51 PM
1

Because they have their shit together most of the time while 20y old guys are full of insecurity, sociopathic, controlling, jealous behaviours. It’s not so much the kids, but the age.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 07:50 PM
2

Yea it only works in high energy environments.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 06:42 PM
8

She was teasing you, it was a compliment.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 06:38 PM
2

Just cuddle a little with her and spank her ass a little, perfect mix.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 06:37 PM
0

It’s simple. Stop watching porn. You’ll become very twitchy, nervous with lots of energy Lift Get a job and then a stem, law, business or medical degree and then a job that pays $100,000. This will all probably take 10 years. There are no short cuts.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 01:04 PM
2

This was a comfort test. You failed with flying colors and told her you don’t give a shit about her and your relationship with her. Now, you wonder why she acts distant. Are you autistic?
/r/askTRP14/05/19 01:00 PM
2

If you feel intimidated by a mother telling her kids what to do, the problem is not her. She leads the children, you lead her.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 02:35 PM
-2

So we are making slut shaming posts now? Lots of guys have 20 n counts at the age of 20.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 05:10 PM
1

Then you also need her to look up to you.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 12:49 PM
5

Be competent Be more socially fluent, where they think “how does he do it”, as in you can talk with anyone and they think you are valuable. Either one puts you in the dominant position. But the second one more than the first.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 11:11 AM
1

Build a real connection, you don’t learn that on trp.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 11:09 AM
2

50% of girls have placeholder boyfriends that they only have, because it’s slightly better than being alone. They will ditch them as soon as they see someone better who wants to have a relationship. If it’s only for fucking, it’s more difficult. The same goes for men.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 10:58 AM
2

You aren’t some mone she can look up to, because you don’t teach her things about the world and especially herself and thus don’t make her emotionally and intellectually grow This is probably the one thing that builds attraction the most. Even if you’re a broke artist who is intellectually very developed, you’ll always win against the business dude that makes $200k a year, but can’t think on a deeper level. Or You don’t have a man-to-woman (push and pull, specific language) vibe with her. An ave…
/r/askTRP30/04/19 07:11 PM
1

No, actually be normal and have you know a good conversation.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 07:19 AM
2

Only if they are drunk in a club or very confident and in a high energy environment. In low energy environments and with girls that are not very confident, it’s a big turn off for them. Once you have talked to them for around 10 mins, then you can test out mild sarcasm, but doing it before that, you’ll destroy the set.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 01:46 PM
6

Don’t mistake dominance for treating her badly. You’re not treating her badly here, you’re dominant. This only works if you are sweet to her and touchy feely. If you’re only sominant without caring for her, women lose interest quickly. That’s only fun for a while. Don’t listen to the guys here saying, the worse you treat, the better, this works in their autistic world, but not in the real one.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 09:52 AM
4

Dont get rid off it. A man who can also behave in a feminine way is very approachable to women and makes them drop all their guards if done right. It’s only a problem if you have no flirting and push and pull skills. If you do, you can make a woman go crazy very quickly.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:35 PM
7

This surely rarely blows up in your face.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:33 PM
1

Because 80% of redpill is blackpill since 80% of guys here are still in the anger phase. However, most guys here inclusing most mods think that blackpill is redpill, while it isn’t.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 07:43 AM
7

This is how a woman thinks. They love being chased and the flirting and the lead up is very important to give them satisfactory sex. Sex without the lead up isn’t interesting to them at all. That’s what 98% of men just don’t get.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 07:40 AM
1

Have a great plate Next her Stupidest shit on trp right here.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 01:55 AM
1

She’s afraid of doing something wrong and him not liking her anymore.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 07:06 AM
1

Have a good job that requires university education, be ripped and not an autist.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 05:53 AM
2

Ehm, you’ll get dired in a job for that. This is limited to very high energy environments.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 05:52 AM
1

Chem and bio you cant make so much money and it’s a very narrow job field. Psychology and engineering are a very wide job field and there is no real limit to the salary if you’re good. Especially as a psychologist and engineer, you can work anywhere in business, marketing, medicine, management, sales.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 06:29 AM
1

No one that studies STEM degrees has studied math at that level. That’s what the degree is for. Advanced maths isnt taught at high school.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 06:27 AM
1

Because you didn’t put in the effort and didn’t work on yourself like all kther man to get the reward Rather use that urge to overcome your own limitations. That’s what the urge is for.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 12:53 PM
1

Also see other girls. Really the only way to get her interested
/r/askTRP14/04/19 11:14 AM
0

Banging a hooker will make you even feel more insecure about women
/r/askTRP14/04/19 11:13 AM
0

Stop being such an autist and tell her why she stop responding all of a sudden. That’s really weird and you don’t want to be in a relationshop with a girl like this.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 08:04 AM
2

Be happy that he didnt beat you up. You’re a spoilt brat. Stop blaming others for teaching you everything. It’s your duty to learn these things on your own. .
/r/askTRP12/04/19 08:01 AM
1

That’s only true for half of women who are not completely helpless women with zero self-control. Half of women are like this though, but not all.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 01:02 PM
1

Eh, swinger couples are so much more solid relationships than the average marriage. Dont get so hung up on the repill hive mind.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 09:12 AM
0

No, because gaming ugly chicks works the opposite of gaming hit chicks.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 11:29 AM
0

Frame is not being ashamed of your emotions. It’s a test for your LTR if she gets insecure about you being human or if you can be a human being around her.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 06:35 AM
1

Keep in mind that most content and most subscribers here are radical and still in the anger phase and only the minority is actually good guidance. That’s why this sub isn’t good guidance for masculinity at this point.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 09:07 PM
1

If you never show feelings, you’ll always have to live a fake life. That’s the beta way. Instead, find work places and women that love you being authentic, human and vulnerable and own being human. Only bad work places and insecure women are put off by vulnerability. Confident women and work places actively look for men who aren’t scared to be vulnerable and directly aee as men who aren’t showing any weakness as fake.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 09:07 PM
3

Being an alpha isn’t what you think it means. It’s not being the boss and loud and dominant. These are fake alphas. The real alpha is the one who nobody sees actually doing much except just chatting, but people just gravitate towards him. The key is subtle man-to-woman vibe while offering value, wit and a bit playfulness. With men, it’s very similar just that the vibe is more around having/offering value.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 09:04 PM
2

Actually cold approaching. Taking your mind off girls is stupid and is only for beta guys who never take action. If you got 3 plates, yoy dont spend much time thinking of them anyways.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 08:46 PM
2

You can also say we start a family, but that you want to fuck a hot girl if one comes along every few years or once a year, but you will include her also if she wants. This is a marriage with a couple of hall passes, but below swingers. This is what most people in my social circle (30s) do these days. This is still an upgrade for her.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 06:41 PM
1

Yeah sarcasm isn’t a good foundation for relationships with girl. It’s a small factor omly.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 11:08 AM
1

Go to a therapist, you need lots more positivity and upbeatedness and get rid of all the bad patterns that you have learned and learn good patterns.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 11:20 AM
1

Because the so famous side-bar is just a very rudimentary collection of material that doesn’t even cover 5% of sexual strategy.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 01:25 PM
4

Life is in easy mode if you only approach and only have average looks and even no status yet. If you’re not super autistic and do that for 1 year and you have a super hot, intelligent, witty girlfriend with a banging body and perky D-Cup tits. But 99.9% of men are so scared to do that. That’s why they don’t have super hot girlfriends, but are together with girlfriends that are slightly above average looking and have to make many compromises.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 01:21 PM
1

Because comments here are very often not the truth, but a very hyperbole and radicalized version of the truth, “swallow the pill completely”, AWALT etc That’s why you see so many comments here how to take the teachings here with a grain of salt. Why is that? Because most readers here are still in the anger phase and only very few have made it out of it.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 08:42 PM
1

Have you every you know considered lifting 4 times a week?
/r/askTRP07/03/19 05:22 PM
1

Here a few things about beings an asshole it works only in high energy environemnts, in low energy environments It only works if you have somewhat of a social standing. If you’re trying to get into a group and you’re an asshole, you’re just a weirdo Being an asshole optimizes for drama queens with daddy issues and against high quality girls
/r/askTRP04/03/19 07:50 PM
2

Because repill is wrong just as many times as blue pill is right. They are both very valuable and don’t work in isolation.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 11:53 AM
1

She’s doing the same as a guy that is thinking about his future with a flaky girl. Either she wants to be with him for the next decade and potentially make children or not. There are so many guys who would settle down with a high quality girl like the one OP describes. She is looking to do that. If OP doesn’t want it, he should tell her and she can find what she’s looking for.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 11:51 AM
6

There are two ways you can go. You are never vulnerable, hide all the weaknesses you have and never once are you allowed to slip up or show feelings. You have to take your life. You are vulnerable, own your weaknesses, aren’t afraid of emotions and showing them. The former will optimize for insecure women who need a strong man, because they are living in anxiety and they need someone to pretend that they know everything and will turn off confident women, because they can do that for themselves a…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 08:57 PM
1

Pyschology is one of the best degrees to get next to other STEM, law and medical degrees in terms of pay and useful skills that you learn. That being said, the qdded value of a phd is not so high, but a bachelors and masters degree are definitely worth it.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 04:58 PM
5

Except one has several million pieces of evidence and the other has 0. Which is more likely?
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:36 AM
0

You dont get paid to study, you het paid to tutor students 20h/week. If you don’t do that and only want to write your thesis. there’s no pay.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:35 AM
1

A unicorn
/r/askTRP27/02/19 11:07 PM
1

There are many many confounding variables that make this metric unreliable. For example, high libido women naturally have a higher n count than low libido women, same goes for extroverted vs. introverted, latina vs. northern european/asian, feminine vs. masculine which occur in infidel and loyal women alike. If you take n-count as a your main metric, you’re optimizing for low-libido, introverted, unfeminine women. That’s why n-count as the main metric is very flawed. Now, you need to decide, do …
/r/askTRP27/02/19 04:34 PM
2

He probably has higher education or previous experience than you? If you’re only doing small time stuff with little responsibility and don’t have a masters, you’re way underqualified compared to someone who has one and who has lead teams before. You need to know your place and put in the work first if you want to climb the ladder.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 11:47 AM
2

Because you have a strong bias after spending time here that an n-count is the most important thing and other pseudo-scientific views. Trp has some truths, but it’s very radical and not so useful if you let it dictate your life.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 11:44 AM
2

Some are actually experienced, but yes the vast majority are inexperienced, try hard alphas without social skills or are in the anger phase.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 06:54 AM
2

That’s not “masculine”, that’s “not feminine”. Big difference
/r/askTRP21/02/19 10:45 AM
9

That’s a bit too harsh, “I like you a lot, but I’m currently not looking for a relationship.” is much better.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 10:44 AM
1

DEVI
/r/askTRP21/02/19 10:42 AM
-1

That shows that you don’t give a fuck about her. Only works on daddy issue girls. If you want quality plates, you just say yes that you’re seeing other girls without all the fancy, reactive wording.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 10:40 AM
-2

Say it first in a very lighthearted situation ahen you mean well. Mah nigga, no nigga, nigga what you doin.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 08:16 PM
2

Yes, but only when it would feel really good. So, you need to make it feel special for her, exciting, novel, nice with attraction and comfort. Then, all girls would love this mind of casual sex. But having sex that is nkt that would be for guys like fucking an ugly chick. Girls don’t care about looks, they care about how it feels. Sure, looks are a factor, but just a small one. For guys, looks are like 90% for casual sex. For women, maybe 30%.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 08:13 PM
2

If a decent girl says this, no big deal. It’s playful. If there are already 10 other annoying things about her, it’s the nail in the coffin.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 12:30 PM
2

Anyone who’s ever achieved anything meaningful had to spend years in isolation, be it for inventing something, starting a business, getting that education, working themselves out of poverty. 11 weeks is nothing. Just do monk mode and party afterwards again.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 12:16 PM
2

Never loving a woman again is blackpill, not redpill. Don’t confuse the two.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 12:12 PM
1

That’s not correct. Fantasies come and go, 3 years and it’s all different.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 12:11 PM
1

That’s flirting. She wants to paint you as the bad badd caveman who treated her badly. That’s a very hot fantasy for her. Just say, she deserved being treated so roughly, that’s what happens when a little girls get in the area of a real man and next time she’ll get bruises again, maybe even worse. She won’t be able to contain herself when you tell her that.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 09:06 AM
6

There is no red pill and blue pill. There is no dark side or light side. There is no tug of war. Both have their merits and both have their drawbacks and if you only use one or the other you’re only half a man. Don’t blindly subscribe to an ideology, learn their merits and drawbacks and think for yourself.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 10:25 AM
2

Use that energy to approach a 100 hot chicks this month and get pussy. But stop complaining if you don’t take action.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 12:40 PM
2

Find a girl that you actually find interesting and that you want to have around and maybe marry. You need to approach 50 girls and date 5 of them that look good at first to find such a girl.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 08:37 PM
1

You can only do this with very confident hb10s at night. You can’t do this with hb10s with average or below confidence. You also can’t do this with confident hb10s during the day. Don’t be such a fucking autist.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 12:05 PM
1

Keep doing cold approach + online but not with the intent to fuck, but actually getting to know people and possibly scouting for an ltr, but not as the primary goal.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 12:03 PM
1

Don’t listen to him. Teasing is a very fine balance and she couldnlose interest all at once quickly if she feels you purposedly tease her just for the sake of teasing. If you only tease a little that’s already good enough. Too much of a good thing is a bad thing.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 01:30 PM
1

Do you see that by your logic countries with 90% liberals should have much more STDs than Turkey with 10% liberals. However, the opposite is the case. So, the more liberals, the less religious, the less STDs. The less liberals, the more religious, the more STDs. This is a hard fact. Also, in Western countries, there is a lot of efforts to protect human rights and it’s working extremely well. That’s why we have such strong economies and freedom. You can check for yourself here https://www.maplecr…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 09:03 AM
0

It’s stronger than ever. That’s right wing propaganda. A couple of million refugees don’t change a 1 billion dollar strong Europe.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 10:12 PM
2

Then Turkey has very high rates of STIs compared to Europe. http://cdn3.vox-cdn.com/assets/4391641/sti_map.png So, in Turkey, you have less freedom and no one talks about STIs, because it’s taboo and you’re being called a slut if you want to inform youselves about STIs, because of people like you. Then, if you ever doubt your religion, you are gay, you sympathize with the west, you want to respect human rights, your family drops all support for you. Also, around 50% of Muslims say you should kil…
/r/askTRP13/01/19 09:14 PM
1

If you don’t have depression, it could be many other illnesses. Go to a doctor to check it all out. Tell him you always feel tired and energy and the psychologists said it wasn’t mental health. (It’s important that you say that otherwise theybwill tell you it's depression)
/r/askTRP13/01/19 07:23 PM
2

You know that the countries with the least religious are the most free and vice versa? Strong religion and corruption is the main cause for suffering. Both go in hand. The secular youth definitely are right in blaming the religious. That’s just what I can give you. Take it or leave it.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 07:19 PM
1

Iud
/r/askTRP13/01/19 12:09 PM
4

Yeah this only works during night game on dumb or daddy issue girls and you’ll repulse the girls everyone is looking for here for an LTR, reserved low n-count etc. Just come from a place of value, do a little push and pull, build a real connection. That’s called calibration, but that’s also what 99% of guys here are not capable of.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 04:22 PM
-11

You dont know about escalation do you
/r/askTRP12/01/19 04:19 PM
2

If anything then a phd is useless, because 99% of phds thesises are never used anywhere. Also, the pay is only a little higher for double the work. 😄
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:28 PM
1

Dont do it all on campus duh. Also, on college it’s social circle game, not pickup, so you are just a socialite there.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 08:32 AM
1

Inwould pick a woman without ambition though. They become very boring very quick, always drag their feet, which makes it impossible to be in a stimulating relationship with her.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:22 AM
1

TBH, I was right. I found the unicorn a number of times. Ones that would be right to be the mother of my children, but tiny little faults, genetic or otherwise prevented me from LTRing them. What tiny faults could completely disqualify an otherwise unicorn from an ltr?
/r/askTRP09/01/19 09:21 PM
1

Just tell her that you dont want to be ezclusive. She’ll Probably still want to see you from time to time. Win win.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 09:18 PM
2

True that. Also, after reversal your sperm would have more bieth defects. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vasectomy_reversal
/r/askTRP07/01/19 07:43 PM
5

Well if it’s reversible (I think it is), I don’t see a strong reason against it.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 04:04 PM
3

Not if she’s really into that, which she seems to be, and you actually teach her something. Then she looks up to you —> pussy.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 04:51 PM
1

Lift Approach 500 hot girls on the street to learn social skills Get a degree and approach 500 more at college Get a good career and approach 500 more Missing any of these points will make your life suck.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 08:37 PM
0

It’s called cold approach. Chat up 50 9s on the street and fuck 10 of them. Probably takes you 40h total.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 08:31 PM
1

Learn the difference between amoral and immoral.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 05:58 PM
-3

Because that’s a woman thing to do, being manipulative and exploiting people for financial gain. It’s what pussies do.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:01 PM
-1

Because it’s beta and not the path of a man.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 11:14 AM
24

Advising guys to so the same thing that they bitch so much about. You’re not a man.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 10:13 AM
3

From now on say, no, he’s an asshole and I told you all along.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 05:15 PM
6

You didn’t lose frame when you said fuck that guy. You lost frame when you apologized for saying it, since you were right 100%. If you just had stuck to your guns and kept frame with saying how that guy is a fuckboy and an idiot and then turns out he is, everyone wouldve adored you.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:51 PM
0

Not a colleague, I actually hate doctors, because society sees them as gods even though they have the lowest logical thinking capability, because they are only taught knowledge, but no methodology. Any doctor is like a 15y old in logical function compared to any engineer, mathematician. Plus, they have a huge ego while nothin to show for it and often their MD is the only thing they have goong for themselves, which makes them very insecure people and very bossy without having much competence. Don…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 10:49 AM
3

As a student for medicine and aspiring MD you have the same or even slightly higher smv than any banker, engineer, lawyer making $100,000 a year already.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 09:08 AM
2

Confidence comes through competence. If you know that you are right 9 out of 10 times, you can just be very sure of you and 1 out of 10 times, you can just tell the person that you learned something today and that that’s rare. You can spin it either way. Confidence without much competence is useless and people spot it very quickly. Thus, develop competence, get a degree, become very good at psychology, logical fallacies.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 08:55 AM
5

Be careful with building too much attraction with your friends gfs.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 10:43 AM
1

No, you’re black pill. There’s lots of info here why it’s inferior to trp. If your way of life is pure Nihilism, pessimism, reductionism then you’re too scared to be hurt, you’ve built up huge walls. This way, you actively optimize for the BPD, drama girls and you actively repel the good, positive girls. An intelligent, upbeat girl won’t touch a misandrist edgelord with a 10 foot pole. 20% of all women are reserved, prefer to be with a beta, have a low sex drive and hate alpha phoniness, often b…
/r/askTRP26/12/18 07:58 AM
7

You’re in the anger phase. You’ll only get trp once you get out of it.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 03:14 PM
17

Be aware that trp is in many ways very biased and you should always take it with a grain of salt.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 03:13 PM
5

You wouldn’t believe how much women appreciate it if a guy just makes them feel good and games them a little without all the pressure and knows all the weird things women are scared off.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 09:56 AM
2

Because game is superior to smv. A rich guy with fame and lots of followers but who is just weird has the same results as a poor guy with no job but excellent game
/r/askTRP25/12/18 09:55 AM
1

Yes you’re doing it wrong. You should use that pent up energy to approach 100 hot girls in a month instead. Also, do nofap if you need some motivation
/r/askTRP23/12/18 05:27 PM
1

You take trp too serious. It isn’t a solution for everything and has its drawbacks. You’re still in the anger phase, where everything is very shit. Next step is to accept it, accept that humans are flawed and that so are you.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 05:04 PM
1

Women cheat just as much as men. Nothing to see here.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 11:50 AM
3

The rock is probably the guy who is the most alpha with the most niceness combined.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 10:45 PM
0

I would tell them that you’re leaving without any warning. Has the most effect, massive dread and I’ve never seen this not work
/r/askTRP18/12/18 10:44 PM
1

No, I would say that you’re leaving because you good such a good job offer with such a high salary, so you’re quitting. Stomach drops of his boss and he’ll give him a 50% raise. Never seen this not work.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 10:43 PM
2

You need to up the volume a lot. Approach 300 hot girls over the next 3 months, get 80 numbers, 20 dates and 6 times sex and 3 that are compatible long term. These are th enumbers you need to work. Everything below that will not give you interesting girlfriends and you always need to compromise on a lot.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 10:15 AM
3

No it’s not, but you are a weak women like most women. Most women don’t have the strenght to say no or quit a relationship or they choose sneaky avenues to get back at their husbands, because they are so weak. Be a strong woman and say you don’t tolerat this anymore. Tell him what to do, become the alpha and see how he reacts. He is not an alpha. He tries to be but he isn’t.m, he’s insecure. Just order him around and see if he comes to his senses. If he doesn’t, just break up. There are so many …
/r/askTRP17/12/18 08:42 AM
8

Well it aounds like a typical abusive relationship. Not much more to say here. Better to ask on relationships subreddit.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 05:58 PM
15

Alphabess stops when abusiveness begins. He is already way past that. A relationshio is a give and take, not one person taking almost everything and the other giving almost everything
/r/askTRP16/12/18 05:21 PM
1

Improve your looks. Put on 10kg of muscle and dress well Be a more aggressive, just tell them how sexy they look tonight and see how she reacts. Work the volume. Talk to 100 women within a month and tell them how sexy they look tonight with a smirk. You’ll get 80 rejections and 20 yesses. That’s all you have to do.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 05:18 PM
5

Just ask her are you autistic?
/r/askTRP16/12/18 09:48 AM
0

You’re trying to be auch a hardass and agree and amplify seems to be the only behaviour you know how to be witty and fun. Stop trying to be sucu an edgelord all the time and simply be easy to talk to. Deescalate jokes, say it’s because you’re insecure, act gay, act feminine. Much funnier and women will find you much more funny and interesting. Still, don’t just switch between being gay, edgy, alpha all the time. This is what beginners do often. Be completely normal 90% of the time and 1% a littl…
/r/askTRP16/12/18 09:46 AM
2

Tell her she’s dumb and cut all contact. Maybe she will get sad and try to prove to you she isn’t. But, I don’t have any contact with highly irrational women like this. It’s just a waste of time.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 11:38 AM
-6

Um, because you need to stop being a beta pussy and talk to then first, tell them how sexy they are, take their number, take them on a date and fuck them hard. It’s your fault and your fault only if other guys talk to girls you find attractive.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 11:32 AM
1

Blablabla, if you dont have social media, 90% of girls will feel crept out. If you hve 10k followers on insta, you save soooo much time with girl, they are much easier to ask out, they show up To the date etc etc
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 10:29 PM
0

Because like 90% of guys on trp, you only know how to give her dominance and lack the depth for anything beyond that. You need to give her Dominance Emotion Variety Immersion, if any of those 4 is missing, she’ll feel something missing. Read the sex god method.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 10:17 PM
1

Getting a real degree, such as astrophysics, medicine, psychology, engineering. Those are all extremely interesting and increase your perception of the world massively and you can actually build awesome stuff, cure cancer, pioneer new psychological concepts. This also puts you into a dense social network whete you neet lota of people and friends. Or just any other significant challenge that takes a couple of years.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 05:20 PM
0

Are you approaching 100 hot women per month or are you texting one girl for 3 months and get rejected and cry like a baby for another 3 months because you were rejected? If you don’t do the former, you have zero rights to complain. Be a man and put in the work. If you approach 100 hot women, you’ll probably only get the number of 20 and get 10 on a date, but I bet this is completely different to what you do now.
/r/seduction11/12/18 12:23 PM
21

There are girls that are really hot and have a terrible personality. There are girls that aren’t hot, but have a really awesome personality. There are girls that are really hot and have a really awesome personality. Don’t settle for the first 2, your mission is to find one in category 3.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 11:10 AM
14

We stopped having sex, she started paying more attention to the kids then me. I felt like i was living with a stranger.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 08:02 AM
0

Several years ago it was a cesspool of fake alpha sociopaths. It’s now so much better and balanced, no?
/r/askTRP02/12/18 11:56 PM
1

Yadda yadda. You need to approach 100 women in a month before you see any results. Then another 100 the next month. Then another 100. Then, MAYBE you have 2 kinda hot plates. You think it all comes by itself. Wrong. You need to get out there are collect lots of rejection first and deal with it.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 11:01 AM
5

If you have no Idea what to do with your life, maybe. Just be aware that the military seduces gullible 18y old men with chants, tanks, unity, pretending that you are “serving the country”, but you’ll fight meaningless wars and are expendable meat once you’re on the battlefield. There is a whole industry about how honorable veterans are even though they went to the military for purely financial reason , finally wanted to feel masculine without soing anything except following orders from weird dri…
/r/askTRP27/11/18 07:43 AM
1

Yeah no one isnproductive 100% of the time. Dont beat yourself up if you aren’t in front of your laptop 24h a day. Make use of your down periods by relaxing for a couple of weeks, because without the down periods you don’t have the high periods.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 01:31 PM
1

I think only a very small percentage of people can take a rejection, in all other cases it will end up in a very ugly argument. So, ghosting is way better for both parties, or I wrong?
/r/askTRP25/11/18 11:06 AM
2

You sound like a normal person. No one these days likes to slave away in the office, but you sound like a rather artsy person, so i think you have an artistic streak in you. Artists cannot work every day the same, they work in creative cycles. I think freelancing or consulting works best for you. This works by getting a client base, this takes around 1 year and it takes quite some work. It’s easy for designers, programmers, but is usually possible for every industry. But after 1 year of networki…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 11:03 AM
-1

Because your replies are boring. Tease her challenge her, qualify ber.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 08:01 PM
1

Because she’s interested, build some attraction with her.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 01:39 PM
9

This is simply not true. There are so many awkward and shy girls that haven’t even slept with more than a few guys until they’re 25. Of course, there are also slutty girls, but the other half isn’t.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 01:28 PM
1

It’s a kink that some people just have and you’re probably not madly in love with that girl, but you want to explore sex and you like her. Getting her fucked by another guy like a slut is exciting. This would probably be different if you wanted to marry her.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 08:07 PM
-2

Lol, what do you have against a fuckbuddy, always have at least 3-5 in rotation. Just add her to the mix and don’t have such a oneitis.
/r/seduction19/11/18 10:31 AM
6

Top 20% is easy. Have some muscle an no tummy Have some college degree Have a $50k per year job Don’t be clingy, needy The top 5% is harder, but what you should aim for Be ripped at around 75-80kgs Have a STEM or law, medical degree Make $100k or more Be socially fluent, have lots of good friends, be playful, be bold, aiming to get rejected by 20 girls a month at least
/r/askTRP19/11/18 10:28 AM
1

Yes, that’s actually the most powerful to pull.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 10:23 AM
-3

1 is bullcrap. If you don’t masturbate for a week, you have a wet dream, because your body wants to get rid of the old semen.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 08:02 PM
-1

With training you can get to the level of a 100 IQ and even to 110 or more in some areas. Read up a lot on logic, logical fallacies, psychology, psychological biases and read up on science, astronomy, pseudo-science. Also, read more in general.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 08:35 PM
5

Only with a smiley. Telling you to ☝🏼
/r/askTRP11/11/18 09:16 AM
1

A guy with normal frame strong social proof beats a guy with normal social proof and strong frame by miles.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 09:45 PM
1

You dont need to approach many girls if you’re happy to spend your life with a 7. However, if uou want to get a 9 or 10, 500 approaches are the minimum.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 10:06 AM
1

Usually the rate is approaching 20 girls per day for a week, so 140, getting the number of 70, go on 30 dates, have sex with 10. Then, you can repeat the cycle if you’re not happy with the quality of these girls.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 07:49 AM
26

Become an approach machine. Don’t become robotic, every approach should be unique, but you need to turn up the volume a lot. You can only get abundance if you’ve approached 500 hotties. Not a joke, been there done that. Can be done in 3 months.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 08:54 PM
1

Will you teach me about life and share your experience with me?:)
/r/askTRP08/11/18 07:36 AM
1

You could easily pull 9s and 10s, but you don’t put in any work in your appearance. You have no muscles, no fashion style and no alpha or playful expression. Thus, Put on 10kg of muscles Dress like a man and not like a nerd, be fashionable Work a lot on improving your social skills. Put yourself out there. It might be a bit harder with Aspergers, but everyone has a drawback. Game is a science, just read lots of content and find out where it applies and where not by putting it to practice. Get re…
/r/seduction04/11/18 09:54 AM
1

You can make $500k in any profession if you are known. Have a youtube channel, be an influencer, be a public speaker and people will pay you for it. But, you need to be really good. It helps if you invent a new concept/technology that is really useful and pushes your field forward.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 10:48 PM
1

Can your wrestling teacher forbid you to do piano? Does he only allow people to do wrestling in his class who don’t do anything else? You just have to smooth talk your piano teacher that you only do wrestling for your personal fitness, but that piano is now your priority
/r/askTRP01/11/18 03:19 PM
1

Then i would do 70% piano and 30% wrestling, because you need exercise anyway, so wrestling isn’t taking up any extra time anyway :) Furthermore, there isn’t much perspective in making lots of money from wrestling, considering the sports is not so famous and you can only do it for maybe 5 more years competitively?
/r/askTRP01/11/18 02:40 PM
1

Be bossy, dominant, leading with competence, support the weak, be friendly but firm. Many will perceive this as douchey, but only because they insecure. Don’t actually be douchey.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 01:36 PM
1

In the end, will you be able to earn $100,000 from either in the future? If not, then you’ll have to reduce both drastically anyway after you start a full-time job. So, just enjoy it now and let life happen.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 01:34 PM
1

Just say you have too many problems to deal with right and don’t know how to do it. Makes you less attractive and unexciting, then just ghost her.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 01:29 PM
3

So unless you’re a millionaire, packing 8 inches, or are dating well below you, it’s tough to hold onto one There are millions of relationships where there is an average guy with an average girl and they love happily every after. If you want a bomb shell with lots of options you need to compete against the other optiona of course. Don’t hate the player, hate the game. Men cheat as much as women, it’s not something specific to women.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 01:26 PM
2

There are 2 important things Get a really hot gf that you can’t leave your fingers off who also has a wonderful personality Become a millionaire sk that you can do the things you really want to do and not what others want you to do, so that you are completely free Do you not want to accomplish this?
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:20 PM
1

Yes that’s correct.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 06:16 AM
1

Let’s maybe try to keep it at taxes and climate change denial, otherwise it gets to convoluted. I did forget to discuss the link you posted, even by your own link from 2015 the top Quarter paid 87% of all taxes. So very similar numbers. Don't know what you're on about Yes that’s correct and that was what my initial argument was about. The rich were heavily favored in the tax cut, isn’t it better to strengthen the middle class considering the always widening wealth gap in America, which is very b…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 02:39 PM
1

The Bottom 4 quintiles pay 5% of the tax burden Where did you get that from. You’re off by the factor of 6. https://taxfoundation.org/summary-latest-federal-income-tax-data-2015-update/ Thirdly no concrete policy was proposed, those are as of now, platitudes. What policy should republicans enact, how is it different from existing policy, what do you hope it will change? How does it affect the balance of rights? propose some policy and we will discuss it. Firstly, I never said there was policy, I…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 02:03 PM
-1

Regardless of how much the rich in total paid taxes, they still got 4.8% in tax breaks as opposed to low income families with 3.4%. Why not the other way around and strengthen the middle class? Because of trickle down economics which don't work? Here is how they oppose background checks suggested by trump https://www.google.de/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/us-news/2018/mar/01/trump-nra-gun-control-response-members-latest, after which Trump flip flopped https://www.google.de/amp/s/www.vox.com/platfor…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 01:13 PM
0

1) it has nothing to do with giving Money to the rich. There are no government programs designed to give money to rich people (with the possible exclusion of lobbying for jobs). Keeping your own money isn't giving money to the rich. Just like letting you go to the gym and work for gains isn't taking muscles from ugly people and giving them to you. Um, tax breaks to the rich who received 4.6% in tax breaks 3.4% for low income families while 65% of tax break savings went to the top 20%? https://ww…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 12:36 PM
0

Do you have strong arguments to support your claim?
/r/askTRP29/10/18 11:48 AM
-6

Yes, but they will only want to have sex with you if you make them feel comfortable or if they are very emotionally activated like in clubs or if they’re drunk.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 08:19 AM
3

Through TRP, I saw that a few selected conservative opinions are valid, but that the vast majority violate human rights and are rooted in emotion, not in facts and that they don’t solve anything. Let’s look at how Conservatives think Give money to the rich, because then I also get rich because of trickle down economics. (Trickle down economics don’t work...) Medicare makes everyone lazy and is a net negative even though it’s the complete opposite in any country that offers universal Health care.…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 08:16 AM
8

Lots of experience.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 10:56 AM
8

That’s because you didn’t show vulnerability beforehand. You need to show vulnerability at the beginning of a relationship. Insecure women are scared of a vulnerable man, because they are very scared of life themselves and they have no clue how to navigate it successfully. They need a man who pretends to be infallible, only then they feel secure. Confident women don’t need that. In fact, they feel jnsafe with a man who isn’t vulnerable, because they can take care of themselves and they feel as i…
/r/askTRP27/10/18 08:45 AM
2

Yes, for the next year only focus on exercise/diet and your studies, nothing else matters. Don’t go out, don’t play video games. It’s ok if you go out once every 2 weeks or play games one evening, but that’s it.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 12:11 PM
2

Monk mode. You can have girls in a year. But not now. Every man needs to do monk mode once in his life to fix his shit.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 11:42 AM
1

This doesn’t have to so anything with monk mode. Just keep losing weight and focus on your studies for a year, don’t focus too much on girls. You nees to fix your life first before you can focus on seduction.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 11:38 AM
2

Um get a job, there is lots of demand for programmers/techies.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 11:34 AM
7

Upwork.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 10:40 PM
2

Because it’s fun for a few weeks, but if that’s the only thing you have going on in your life it’s a very unfulfilling life to fuck meaningless bitches whk also have nothing going on in their lives and smart girls with a career and a good personality won’t have to do anything with you for longer than a one night stand if at all.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 05:15 PM
11

Before you want to start a real business or a tech startup, you should try to start to start 10 mini businesses throughout high school and college to learn how it all works. Try small things like Building a lawn mowing business in your neighborhood for your neighbors lawns Selling candy at school to your friends at a profit Sell merchandise or electronics from China in West for a 50% margin Make a small app that takes you 2 weeks to build for $1,000 with an outsourced Indian guy. Don’t try a big…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 05:09 PM
3

Yes, as soon as the age gap is more than 8 years smv becomes irrelevant as long as you’re not a weirdo and you can just be an innocent, oblivious sweet guy that looks pretty. It’s like as if she’s the man and you’re the girl. It becomes a fetish for old women to get fucked by young men as a validation that they still got it and havent hit the wall yet. You still need to make the move, because the shy ones would feel guilty about doing it.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 07:00 AM
6

Just hug him everytime he teases you and squeeze him a bit randomly. Tell him that you’re really gay, make him uncomfortable, take it with a smirk. Apologize for hitting him, say it was because of your attraction to him. Slap him on his ass, be girly around him. Ask him if he wants to go on a date. Spread a rumor that he he said he said he is impressed by your muscles and that it looks hot and that he’s jealous of all the attention that you’re getting from the girls. Agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 06:42 AM
1

Can someone ban him? This is the 15th post by him here asking the very same thing and trying to get validation. It would be best for him if he got banned, so that he actually goes out and talked to girls.
/r/seduction21/10/18 12:15 PM
2

They are also usually require a lot of attention, cry a lot, become offended very easily, are completely dependent on you, aren’t that interesting, define themselves through you, can’t help you with anything really except sex and comforting you, aren’t usually that good at sex, don’t know how to be sexy, are kind of dull, are like children themselves.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 08:50 AM
3

You get a fuck ton of girls by approaching 500 women over 3 months, getting 150 numbers, 50 dates, 10 times sex. Done.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 06:01 AM
1

It’s common that after a few years the couple decides that the woman can satisfy her sexual urges elsewhere, though they still care for their husband, because sex with others doesn’t have to so anything with love and it’s part of them. It’s not super often, but these stories still happen in the millions.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 06:00 AM
1

No, plenty of poor quadriplegic men who are cared for and provide nothing except love. For some women it’s enough.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 07:02 PM
2

There are also plenty of women who stay and care for their husband despite them not being able to provide for them anymore. It’s not the case for most, but still for many.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 06:44 PM
1

Who said anything of a land whale. Men can catch feelings very quick for a hottie that they like more than their gf.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 05:42 AM
1

The difference in general between men and women is that men feel feel hurt in their ego if you try to gain superiority and will retaliate while women are impressed. Still, tread lightly and see what the reaction is.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 07:40 PM
1

The problem is that yes maybe most of the time it’s not about emotional attachment when a man cheats, but it is still often that the man cheats out of emotion, it is not very rare. That’s where your methodology fails, men often also cheat out of emotion, and it often only starts with sex and no emotion as well, so your methodology isn’t really practical.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 07:34 PM
1

This one or say you Have mental problems kr something like that.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 07:28 PM
0

Say no don’t leave I want you all for myself tonight. :)
/r/askTRP10/10/18 11:40 AM
1

No, it’s better to say Oh noo, that wouldn’t work Oh no, we’re just friends oh no, she is way too much trouble for me In a joking manner while still being playful and touchy with her. That creates a lot of mystery and attraction.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 11:39 AM
2

“We shouldn’t get this heated, it’ll lead to no good.”
/r/askTRP10/10/18 08:29 AM
1

Show interest without breaking frame. If you have shown to have value and she gives you IOIs, then you show some interest, then her hamser goes wild. Showing interest is one of the most alpha things you can do, because uou put yourself out there to be rejected, laughed at and jusged. Be aware to not give away all your power, just show a little interest. She will probably reject your advances or be evasive at first to test your frame and see if you an angry beta, or she will show interest back. D…
/r/askTRP06/10/18 12:37 PM
0

This is probably a shit test and she said that to see if you can do something exciting. Just tell her You: Look I’m a bit shy and inexperienced, could we just start small, I would be too nervous.☺️ Her: Lol, what do you mean? You: “Well at first, we would take a walk in the park, get to know each other and talk about our experiences. Then, you’d have to hold my hand, so that I don’t get too nervous. Her: Haha what about payment though You: Ah, I would be wayy to nervous with that, I’d need lots …
/r/askTRP04/10/18 07:07 AM
1

Dont ask “would you like to”, just say “let’s take a walk in the park and test you skills :)”, you invitation always needs a little playfulness, mystery.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 06:58 AM
1

Because if she gets taped by her partern, it means that there is utmost trust and the partnerships is very healthy. It’s basically the epitome of the relationshio if her partner just overpowers her and gives it to her raw without any need for comfort or cuddliness, because the relationship itself has already established that trust.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 09:13 PM
1

What if your daughter was raped and only tells you 5 years later, has to drop out of college, because she suffers too heavy from PTSD. Now, that person is is in a powerful position in the public, but you can't prove it, because it was so long ago. Is there nothing you can do and a serial rapist gets away and will most likely more daughters? This scenario happens 1,000s of times every year and millions of times every year for average guys worldwide, where you simply cannot prove it.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 07:27 PM
1

But lets assume that all rape claims are true. Does that make it okay for the punishment to come before the trial, conviction, jury of your peers, etc.? No. Because the constitution doesn't say that only the innocent have legal rights That's an unfortunate factor of sexual assaults, but what's your solution? Metoo isn't about accusing innocent guys of rape, that's a crime which leads to several years in jail as you've seen in recent cases. It's about convicting actual rapists.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 04:40 PM
1

You are showing a very uninformed black and white picture, because of the propaganda that is spread here by mods. 90-98% of rape accusations are true. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/False_accusation_of_rape
/r/askTRP28/09/18 07:00 AM
1

Have you tried meditation? It would be very beneficial for you to study for several months. It might be hard in the beginning to make progress, but it is so worth it. Get a mentor/ teacher for meditation. You could also go in a buddhist temple for a couple of months to find silence. They have them in western countries as well or you could just go abroad for the experienfe.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 05:49 AM
1

What about stoicism, carrying a calm and positive demeanour, are you not capable of that? It's just something that you can fake in the beginning until it becomes part of youZ
/r/askTRP27/09/18 09:09 PM
1

It's not that you are not allowed to think for yourself. It's about the idiotic blackpill content that still makes up 20% of the content on TRP and then the stupid posts by some mods about how metoo is the root of all evil.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 09:05 PM
2

That's simply not true. Most redpillers here are stuck with 2005 PUA while nowadays PUA focuses on 60% inner game and 40% outer game only.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 06:11 AM
19

These lessons are only for people you don't like. If you like the person, all these things are positive and make you like her more (showing interest, being goofy, check in texts etc)
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 03:06 PM
5

This is the 10th same post by him asking the same thing so that he can masturbate mentally. It's getting old.
/r/seduction22/09/18 07:58 PM
2

This post suffers from heavily selection bias. Of course, drug-addict women with no job and no future don't mind being treated badly, they have zero standards. Or were those a college girl from a good coming into that house and being fucked by drug addicts? No, they weren't. Bring an asshole works with women that hve zero standards, but it's very limited with high quality girls and are paled by traits such as career, charm, social skills, knowledge, intellect.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 10:33 AM
1

Yeah, I can imagine that in huge American cities like L.A. or Florida girls are really bad. But that's just really the exception and is not the case for 99% of girls. Girls are very different in South America, very feminine and family-oriented, then you have very traditional girls in rural parts in Asia, which are probably 1B. Yes, 1% of girls aren't unicorns. They are drama queens in gynocentric societies, however, that's really limited to large cities in the U.S. and maybe slme other countries…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 08:59 AM
1

I agree when you said being an asshole does not have anyhing to do with being succesful. It is not important whether he was / is an asshole or not. He is successful. That's it. I disagree with everytgting else. What else, that's the only thing I said. :)
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 06:01 AM
1

Well I know lots of girls back from high school who stayed with their blue pill bf, because they loved him so much, married and made babies to be a good housewife. There are shy and very family-oriented women, who love nothing more than raising kids too.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 06:00 AM
1

Shit-Test 1: ”Bring me my shoes!!" // LTR, ONS, Plate "Yes, Master." I bring her the shoes and slap her on her ass several times until she asks me to stop for having the audacity of commanding me around. With a wink though, don't become too serious. Shit-Test 2: ”Who are you?” // Cold approach Your worst nightmare...I mean the man of your dreams. 😉 Shit-Test 3: ”Do you have a girlfriend?” // Cold approach, Plate Um.. I have a boyfriend. Shit-Test 4: Your plate: ”Josh asked me to hang out with hi…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 07:09 PM
2

There is so much bias here, by people who hve never built and launched products. Being intelligent, product and a jerk is not better than being intelligent, productive and good. It is worse, because people don't work for fun for you, they only work for money for you. They don't give it their all. BUT LINUX IS SO SUCCESSFUL AND HE IS AN ASSHOLE, SO IF YOU WANT TO MAKE SOMETHING SUCCESSFUL, YOU NEED TO BE AN ASSHOLE. This is selection bias that 12y olds internalize when they read that Steve Jobs w…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 06:58 PM
2

What about my grandma, he dealt with a the finances, never spent a dime, worked every day of her life an took exactly 1 week of vacation in her whole life. If I have an example in my close social circle, there must be millions of unicorns, no?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 06:41 PM
4

The power of showing feminity/flamboyance. ;)
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 09:47 PM
3

To all those saying STDs, it's extremely unlikely to get an STD from oral.. Edit: I fact checked this and it's actually false what I said. Apparently, there are 5 cases of oral cancer linked to HPV and 5 cases of cervical cancers per 100,000, so the chance of oral cancer through licking seems actually very high, as much as through vaginal sex. http://www.health.state.mn.us/divs/healthimprovement/content/documents-cancer/1.29.2018HPVFactsFigures.pdf/
/r/askTRP16/09/18 09:13 AM
0

Yes a predominant factor in girls 20s, which comes second once they hit their 30s, where they put more importance to provider qualities than being fucked by another alpha who fucks multiple other girls at the same time. This is RP 101.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 07:52 AM
-1

So who chases particular experiences more, people that have already had the experience or people who haven't and have only heard about them in stories? You know how dopamine works right?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 05:20 AM
-1

Also, there is the fact that some women who have never "lived it out" and become sexually aware in their 30s realize what they actually want sexually and that it's currently not a fit at all. That's why in some cases, it's better to get into a LTR with a girl who has experimented in her youth, is sexually mature, has fucked assholes, bad boys, good boys, alphas betas before and actually knows the downside of everything and doesn't chase those experiences anymore.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 05:52 PM
1

Very well done. Now, build a bit more comfort and attraction up to the point where she cant stop thinking about you.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:22 PM
1

That guy is not a 9, strong 7 or 8 as well.
/r/seduction08/09/18 02:53 PM
1

It's actually that easy if you are somewhat good looking, know some light push and pull and don't come onto strong. (I'm new here, email lol, we should end it right here)
/r/seduction08/09/18 09:47 AM
3

Yes treat them both as the date and make it a competition. Make it not so obvious and fun. women love that shit.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 06:57 PM
1

If that's the only problem you have, you are lucky. There are mothers and fathers much much worse than that. So, just chig along for the next 5 months and accept that she is a woman and an irrational one. Most women are, so no point getting worked up about it.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 06:55 PM
1

RSDMax's gf game works for the first 6 months of a relationship. Afterwarss you need to tone it down and focus on other things (truly telling her you love her, thinking about future, financial planning, kids, house planning). Still keep gaming her a little, but much less frequenrly.
/r/seduction07/09/18 02:55 PM
1

Look at this guy. No legs, hot girlfriend, motivational speaker, 1.2M followers on insta. Nuff said . https://www.instagram.com/nickvujicic/?hl=en
/r/seduction07/09/18 11:26 AM
1

Youre cherry picking again. yes, very good looking guys don't get rejected as much. But all average guys have mountains of rejections before they get a hot girlfriend. You can look at 100 rejections to get 5 dates and 1 time sex.
/r/seduction06/09/18 06:42 AM
1

You cherry pick posts so that they fit your narrative. If you don't want to be rejected, you'll never get anywhere. Sex is the reward only for the brave ones.
/r/seduction05/09/18 06:17 AM
1

Yes, even extroverted and socially fluent guys har to go through that. I'm an extroverted socially fluent guy and I didn't do well in the first 100 approaches. You just play basketball and do some indirect approaches for now, that's all.
/r/seduction04/09/18 05:36 AM
1

Yes this is normal, all of us had to go through that. :) Game is a numbers game.
/r/seduction03/09/18 06:08 PM
1

Have you approached 500 women over the last 3 months, gotten 100 numbers, 20 datea and 3 times sex? No? You haven't put in much effort.
/r/seduction02/09/18 02:57 PM
0

Become their leader. Women always look for a leader. If you have good social skills and some man to woman vibe skills without flirting and trying hard, but also with lots of charm and decisiveness they might make you their inofficial leader.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 11:30 AM
11

Also be the most alpha, playful, leading and fun. Then girls will gravitate towards you and think the others are a but insecure and they feel most comfortsble with you and your leadership. Don't be a bully of course.
/r/seduction02/09/18 07:11 AM
9

Don't do daygame in college for dates, but for social circle College is all about social proof. So, make them as part of your social circle, become the guy that knows everyone and girls will flock onto you like nothing. If you approach hot girls indirectly without hitting on them, you'll become the college king quickly. You can do everything like in a normal approach, rapport, playful, teasig, qualification, just don't flirt.
/r/seduction01/09/18 01:29 PM
5

You are not using them. Be upfront that you want sex with her. This makes her hornier than pretending not to want that. No using anyone here.
/r/askTRP01/09/18 08:06 AM
2

Why do young women get wasted, why do young men get wasted, why old men? Everyone gets wasted this is not exclusive to old women.
/r/askTRP01/09/18 08:05 AM
3

You're doing everything right except 4 things. You need to be a lot more aggressive, tease the girls, you need a lot more volume and you need to lead. Stay friendly and reserved like you are right now, but be more aggressive. Tell her she is sexy unapologetically and that she is such a bad girl with a smirk. Women will be crept out by that if you do it at the beginning, but when she already knows you and is on a date with you for an hour, it is the right time to say this. You need to make her ho…
/r/askTRP01/09/18 07:52 AM
1

The second one is true, have a look at all the PUAs from rsd, they are not pretty, some even kind of ugly, nor do they have money or status except tyler maybe. But they have slept with many more girls than 99% of men. They solve everything through volume and some game.
/r/seduction29/08/18 04:45 AM
1

Just go for blowjobs, eating her out, fingering, that makes sex easier and doesnt leave you blueballed
/r/seduction29/08/18 04:41 AM
0

Lift heavy to become a 7/10 Approach 500 women over 3 months through tinder, social circle, day game, night game, get 100 numbers, 20'dates and have sex with 3 of them You say you've been rejected before lol. You need to get rejected 400 times if you want to get anywhere. All of us had to go through that. :)
/r/seduction29/08/18 04:40 AM
1

That only works if the girl is very hot. I don't fuck girls if they aren't hot (at least an 8-10), ever. Regardless, everybody has an opinion and you'll only learn the truth if you take action.
/r/seduction28/08/18 02:18 PM
3

Your case is simple. You believe that only status matters despite that everyone has been telling you, that it is only one factor next to looks and game You have been coming to seduction for year for mental masturbation and you never take action For that reason, you will be forever alone and sit in your bunk and masturbate to porn and reading about how other guys get laid, because you're too afraid of rejection and doing anything You never take action, that's why you're alone and that's why nothi…
/r/seduction27/08/18 06:35 AM
5

He has been posting the same stuff on here 50 times now that he has social anxiety, is scared of talking to people, is very awkward and asks if he can get any women. He has gotten mountains of helpful advice, but never acts on them and you'll see him next week again asking if he can get girls.
/r/seduction26/08/18 08:12 AM
2

If you're a very shy person and need to get out of your shell, yes. If you're an outgoing, bold person, no, it will make you look thirsty.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 10:51 AM
3

Club game is basically being very bold and alpha, cocky funny while being able to transition into an interesting conversation with some push and pull. This is very difficult and only very few can pull it off.
/r/seduction24/08/18 04:22 PM
1

Have you ever escalated on nudes? This is how you do it.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 11:59 AM
-1

You need to be a bit of a threat and aggressive when they send you nudes. That gets women so worked up that they cant help but think of sex with you. You look hot as fuck, I would punish you Don't you dare send me another nude or I will come ocer and ravage you 😏 I would grab you really hard and pull your hair
/r/askTRP23/08/18 10:50 AM
1

That's your problem. You need to fet out of the vicious circle. It only takes a month. Go to nofap for support.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 09:09 AM
1

You can exaggerate this. Tell the Ceo that your boss is harassing you.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 01:41 PM
2

Evolution. While most women are rather submissive, dominant women also exist. That's what evolution does, you always have a spectrum and this is the only reason why we as humans have suvived. There is not always a good male around to lead the tribe, maybe only 8 out of 10 times. That's where dominant women came in and lead the tribe successfully. There is a place and a need for women like this. Most males are weak betas. Without them many teibes would have died/starved. Can't always rely on them…
/r/askTRP22/08/18 12:59 PM
3

It's called willpower. Do nofap for a month and you will be much more in control of your dopamine cravings.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 12:55 PM
1

No. It's only bad if you do it seriously, if you keep an amused and positive frame, she will be flustered but secretly like it
/r/seduction22/08/18 09:06 AM
3

You can only get HPV and Herpes if you wear condoms. HPV clears within 2 years in males and Herpes is annoying. You can buy Carageenan, which gives you additional protection against HPV, but you can't really do anything against Herpes, so screen the girls, don't stick your dick in crazy and always wear a condom.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 11:05 AM
2

Have you approached 500 women in the last few months? No? Then that's your problem. If you did you wouldnt care what 1 woman did.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 04:11 PM
9

Say you're just friends before her, obviously.
/r/seduction11/08/18 08:59 AM
2

This. Just tell her that you like her a lot but you don't want an exclusive relationship. Girls do that all the time.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 08:17 AM
15

Because they're all in the anger phase and mgtow never lets them out of it.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 03:36 PM
1

If yo complained to HR that he cosntantly insults people (hyperbole), would that maybe get him a scolding?
/r/askTRP08/08/18 10:12 AM
3

Men suffer too, since the current western society favors females. However, that doesn't mean that women aren't allowed to have sex with many people. Your logic is, men have sperm and can impregnate lots of women, women can only carry 1 baby every 9 months. Thus, women aren't allowed to have several partners, but men are. This is a very archaic view and completely irrelevant, since with birth control this effect is negated. What you're doing is suppressing female sexuality, because you are still …
/r/askTRP07/08/18 06:20 AM
2

You're part of a demographic who have the double standard that men should fuck as many vaginas as possible, while women aren't allowed the same thing for dicks. That's archaic and a cornerstone of a muslim, women suppressing society. Would you be happier living in a Muslim society, where women are exactly the way you want them to be?
/r/askTRP06/08/18 05:00 PM
20

This post fails in the fact that most Chads aren't born, they are made. What does good looking Chad have from his high school years? Confidence, body language, assertiveness, lack of AA. That's why Chads are actually all Brads in your post. I don't see a way how Chad doesn't have confidence, body language, assertiveness, lack of AA, it doesn't suddenly disappear. These are social skills that stick with you forever. Good looks don' make you Chad. I know so many good looking guys that aren't Chad,…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 04:56 PM
1

Are you muslim. Since when do you care how your sister dresses. Let her live her own life and gather sexual experience, so that she knows what she wants in life.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 04:02 PM
2

You can no problem as long as you are dominant sometimes outside the bedroom. If you're a sub everywhere, she will fee lost.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 04:00 PM
1

You need to be more alpha and somewhat more dominating with women. Not necessarily when you meet them, but when you're already dating them for a bit. They need this kind of leadership and if you can't give it to them, they miss something.
/r/seduction04/08/18 09:10 AM
2

That I have to be super outgoing, extroverted, 200lbs ripped to the bone, with confidence of Donald Trump and social status of Robert Downey Jr. to get girls. Which is of course bullshit. Sure, that guy could pull a lot more girls than someone who doesnt have those things. But even Robert or Donald started somewhere. It's been said ad nauseum in this sub, that you have to be superman, you don't need celebrity status, model looks and trump confidence. You just need to approach a lot and be willin…
/r/seduction04/08/18 09:08 AM
1

Thank her, hang out with her, become her friend that she can trust. Then, when you're alone and she really trusts you, touch her and tell her how sexy she looks today. She will be a bit confused, but keep an amused/teasing frame that you find her unapologetically sexually attractive. The thing is, she is very invested in you. Now, you just need to add some sexual ideas to your relationship with her and she will think of having sex with you and being very close. Contrary to most redpillers who te…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 07:33 PM
1

If you want to make a claim, you need to link to the exact source. There is no mention in the video of the 80% figure or its source. Here is a study that states that 10% children experienced physical violence. It's definitely not 80%. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4710615/
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 10:33 AM
1

No he doesn't that's why I'm asking.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 06:55 AM
5

You need to be much much more selective. You pick up a stray dog and expect it to be obedient, clean, stable, drama free and are surprised if it behaves erratic, bites, shits in your house. Don't pick up a stray dog. Pick up a dog that has good manners, doesn't attack other dogs on the street, is potty trained, has had his vaccine shots and is trained to follow commands There a many, many more stray dogs than well trained dogs and many stray dogs that pose as trained dogs, only 1% of all dogs ar…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 03:34 AM
1

Did he just claim the number or does he base it on a thorough scientific study with thousands of participants?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 03:26 AM
8

Yeah this post is entirely pseudo science. Nothing to back up the claim that females were largely responsible for the decline in wages, and no other of the thousand factors. Marriages that were unhappy 50 years ago stayed together, because of shame through society and lack of option for females. Today, they divorce, getting the man and the woman out of a bad marriage. Definitely better for both.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 09:13 AM
1

Are you able to give a specific time in those 4h video where the source is?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 06:43 AM
5

Simply with the fact that 80% of british moms beat their 6 month old toddlers Where did you get that number, this sounds like a lot of bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 09:19 PM
2

So what happened with the 10, did unget her number? If you never reach out again, all that negging doesn't help anything. ;)
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 11:21 AM
2

This works with thots with little self confidence exceptionally. Not so much with educated girls with self esteem, it does work in a night club and when they're drunk sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 06:55 AM
0

Good for the persistence, but these girls were all 7s! 😬 Ok the last was maybe an 8. You also seem a but nervous when opening. Speak slower. "Hey... so... smirk I just saw you aaand...I thought I had to talk to this girl and find out what she's all about. Sorry, I'm shooting a travel video, are you a local? What are the best llaces to be in Prague?" Seems much more spontaneous. Have a little story to tell and find comfort in pauses and lingering.
/r/seduction28/07/18 09:20 PM
-4

You've slept around your whole life and now you decided to try out out an LTR for once. Then you're saying how much women are sluts. See the error in your ways here?
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:25 PM
1

Yup. Better to get a no from a likewarm girl that says yes to give you her number to then flake at the beginning.
/r/seduction24/07/18 03:06 PM
2

It's simple, with indirect you're often wasting alot of time. With direct, you immediately get a fuck yes or fuck no answer and the fuck yes girls are very enthusiastic down the line and don't flake as often. So, if you have scarcity, you'll probably do indirect. If you already have 3 girls on the side and 10 more texting you, then you sure won't waste time with indirect, but go direct to only get girls that want to get to know you anyway.
/r/seduction24/07/18 08:27 AM
0

There are lots of swingers that have been happily married for 30+ years. In fact, most marriages would remain together if they were semi-open. Instead, when one partner has the natural urge to fuck someone else, society tells them to be very offended and destroy each other's lifes, because they are so insecure. In another scenario, they could not care about that, accept that it's very weird to fuck the same person for decades and that sex without love exists. That's pretty stupid.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:23 AM
1

Just teach him about looking for the truth, no matter what society says and that girls are just humans and as flawed as every human. Be aware to not teach the blackpill part of the red pill. It's still a significant part but is being weeded out more and more.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 10:25 AM
1

Says the one who only thinks that dread game is the only way to fix a relationship. Have you ever been in one for longer?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 07:11 PM
1

Yes, communcation. What's wrong? Why are you this, that? And keep pressing, because they're saying it's fine when it isn't. Talk to her like a person with a brain. Women have their quirks, but they still have a brain.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 09:45 PM
6

Girls don't want to initiate and dont even know wht they're feeling, so you cant expect a woman to initiate fixing the relationship. Guys need to do this. You were so afraid of losing desire (which was already non existent), that you didn't see that you need comfort for that first.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 04:47 PM
1

Don't kick her out, but don't initiate next time. Have her initiate. This is a bit difficult, but you have to do it a few times to get the power back in your favor. Also, masturbate before you see her.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 07:24 AM
14

She didn't do anything wrong. You did too much alpha alpha redpill and were emotionally unavailable to her, because that's the impression the redpill gives, because most guys here don't get it. There was no way to change your behaviour except cheating or breaking up, so that you calibrate your behaviour. Better was to cheat, so that you got your head out of your ass.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 07:17 AM
6

This isn't about not showing weakness, but about showing insecure beta traits. There are simply weakness that you can show, "My dad left us, but I put myself through college etc" that make you look more alpha or that make you look insecure "My dad left us, so I always think I'll neever be loved"
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 11:14 PM
3

Now, you can quit your "dream-career" and stop being a little dependent pussy on your boss, your boss's boss and the salary from the company you work for 9-5 and try building a billion dollar company. Can you do that? You can also look for a woman that is so good that you want to get kids with.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 10:17 AM
6

Yes, you need to be willing to lose her.
/r/seduction17/07/18 02:19 PM
2

What about requiring blue pill characteristics for more then short term sex. It's been said so many times that also blue pill characteristics are needed as well and have to be balanced with redpill, no?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 10:19 AM
30

If you are a man, you tell her that you need a break.
/r/seduction17/07/18 10:15 AM
1

There's nothing bad about showing emotions. In fact, if you're not emotional with her, she will leave you for being emotionally unavailable. Just don't lose your alphaness. An alpha isn't afraid of showing emotions, he owns them. You can be emotional as long as you are also still alpha. If you become emotional, without also being alpha, then you get in trouble. Also, don't get too vulnerable or insecure about your love to her. (I wouldnt know what to do if i lost you) This also gets you in troub…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:33 AM
2

Good energy, but you're still using that old generic you are sooo gorgeouus opener. Next time a specifc small compliment please, and you still don't use any qualification or tease, that also please. :)
/r/seduction16/07/18 08:17 PM
1

Tinder Gold and having good pics.
/r/seduction16/07/18 08:14 PM
3

Don't focus on getting so many girls in your social circle. Just build a high value social circle with high value men and be seen as high value too. They know the hot girls. So, just focus on getting good guys into your social circle. You've been doing the right thing by going to meetups etc, but just don't care too much about the ratio. Girls will come by themselves.
/r/seduction16/07/18 09:57 AM
5

Genius.
/r/seduction15/07/18 05:03 PM
1

Yes, I second that. When she's broken up with him already, it wont work out anyways. She is looking for a reason to move on, be the reason. Girls are frightened of making big decisions, help her with that.
/r/seduction15/07/18 08:29 AM
5

Redpill doesn't teach you not to be nice or to be rude, it teaches you that expecting sex by being being nice is terrible. You can still be superior, alpha by being friendly and nice, just mix it in with some teasing. :)
/r/askTRP15/07/18 08:06 AM
1

Before 10y ago, every marriage was through work. It's problematic if she works in the same department and you see her every day or if she's a bit crazy, but otherwise should be fine if you're not an idiot.
/r/seduction13/07/18 12:37 PM
38

Locally yes, within a social circle, but globally, outside of social circles, not really.
/r/seduction12/07/18 11:35 AM
2

Work & Conferences.
/r/seduction12/07/18 07:30 AM
1

Yeah the bp rp dichotomy is kind of silly. If you mix rp and bp traits or if you are purple pill is the same thing, pure rp doesn't work for anything longer than a few weeks and is rather black or dark red pill. It's all taxonomy, so it doesn't matter really how you call it as long as you have a good balance.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 08:41 PM
2

Because you need BP/provider qualities if you want to keep a woman more than a few weeks. If you only want short term sex, trp only also works, but not for more.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 07:15 PM
1

Can you add those points for the next post in this sub?
/r/seduction11/07/18 04:09 PM
0

This man taught me that humans are inherently evil and that there are no limits to the evil that men can do. Humans are also inherently good. You need to understand that you grew up under extremely bad circumstances. This is rare in western societies. Most people in western societies have a good childhood. Yes, 20% or 30% do not and maybe 10% have a horrible childhood, but don't let this define you. 60% people are good, 40% are not, but that doesn't mean that 100% aren't good people.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 09:18 AM
1

That doesn't really matter if you are her emotional tampon or not, you just need to be aware of the attraction and comfort balance and increase the escalation when comfort increases. So, if she tells you about all her problems, you just say I hear you and I will make you forget all your problems with a smirk while grabbing her on her hips.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 08:58 AM
2

Forget everything you've learned over the last 24 years, except your formal education. Root everything you learn from now on, on science and observation without even the tiniest bit of bias, prejudice or opinion. Do not give into hyperboles and become a man of science, facts and seeing the grey between the black and whites. I did that after college and it gave me an excellent view on human psychology and removed all the baggage from my childhood. Not that I had that much baggage, but everyone ge…
/r/askTRP11/07/18 08:56 AM
2

It seems like you never tease or qualify, so you always chase the woman and she never chases you and often start with a huge and generic compliment instead of a small, specific compliment. Furthermore, it seems like you don't establish a man-to-woman vibe at all, but act more as a friend, so you don't use eye contact, speaking slowly, kino at all to create sexual tension. Have you thought about those?
/r/seduction11/07/18 08:33 AM
3

The negative energy is your problem obviously. So, you problem is not escalation per se and also not getting dates. How many matches did you have for those 13 dates? Remember to also Build a real connection with the girl To make her chase you as well Work on those 2 as the next step
/r/seduction11/07/18 08:30 AM
1

Maybe if you're young, but once you've had your share of stupid 9s and 10s and are in your 40s, it loses its excitement.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 08:28 PM
8

Yes and sex with someone that you are extremely familiar with and that you have had so many experiences with is a lot better than with a hot, shallow 20y old.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 01:41 PM
-1

Unicorns do exist, but they're rare. That's trp consensus.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 10:21 AM
1

Maintainining frame if you're actually an asshole has zero value. You need to provide value, make her laugh etc., otherwise she'll think you're a real weirdo.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 10:20 AM
2

Provide value at the same time through making her laugh, rewarding her, teaching something. Don't actually be an asshole, just pretend to be one for fun, keep it lighthearted.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 10:19 AM
1

This isn't the right sub, head to r/twoxchromosomes.
/r/seduction10/07/18 08:55 AM
1

Yeah, so that my my bad boy remains hidden at the beginning. 😏
/r/seduction09/07/18 01:15 PM
2

What? I constantly roast my friends and they roast back. We are all high smv, so no one cares and it's fun. Stop being so senditivr and roast them back like a boss. 😄
/r/askTRP09/07/18 07:08 AM
5

And she'll feel wayy yo self concsious to have sex with you again and rationalize that she needs to fuck another guy who makes her feel good if you say it too harsh.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 07:03 AM
1

Don't act salesy. But if you have that air of confidence and knowledge that allows you to say like "Nah, it's like this and that", that's what people want to see, to see you as an authority on a topic. Don't act like you know everything about everything, but everything in your area. If somethin you're not specialized in comes up, say "ah I'm not an expert about that, but I'm an expert in xxx." Confidence mixed with some humility comes across as more credibility than pretending to know everything…
/r/askTRP08/07/18 03:06 PM
1

You need both.
/r/seduction08/07/18 11:34 AM
1

Same for women. Money isn't everything, personality is also very important.
/r/seduction08/07/18 10:56 AM
9

She didn't want to have sex with me on the first date. Red Flag. She had sex with me on the first date. Red flag. lol. Also, she was fucking chad because she wasn't interested in a relationship with him. She was interested in one with you and didn't want to be dumped after the first date.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 10:52 AM
1

Something like that, but you also need to look out for industries where there is big money in it and you need to be passionate about it, because you need to go very into the details and do lots of research. For example, if you're in love with coal mining, you can for example help coal miners retrain for other labor jobs and you can offer seminars for that for which they pay. That's a big market to come for sure. So, there are lots of opportunites everywhere, you just need to sound like you know …
/r/askTRP08/07/18 08:39 AM
3

Guys only like girls with good looks, it's the same superficial thing.
/r/seduction08/07/18 07:43 AM
1

No books really. Just read hackernews and techcrunch every day. To become an independent consultant, you need to become an expert in a field and then spend 1 year building a client base through handing out lots of business cards with lots of networking and social media. Just say at the beginning that you rate is $50/h, that makes them think you are already fully booked and in demand. You can increase that gradually to $300 after a few years, or $500 if you are very much in demand, but you also n…
/r/askTRP08/07/18 07:41 AM
2

Become an independent consultant or start your own business. Both take time, but that's the only way out of the rat race.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 09:30 PM
1

Because women are the perceived weaker group. Same thing goes for race. Black movement is praised while the movement from the stronger group, is seen as Nazis.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 01:35 PM
3

That was a shit test. Reply. I don't ask, I demand. 😏
/r/seduction07/07/18 11:59 AM
1

I'm that good that I don't care. :) But usually, past experiences aren't as strong as missed past experiences.
/r/seduction07/07/18 10:29 AM
1

Raged nice guys aren't alphas, they are aggressive betas.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 08:49 AM
1

To me, I hope that my future wife has had all the sexual adventures she wanted so that she doesn't find the idea to have them after getting into a marriage with me. Also, I think it's a basic human right for everyone tk explore their sexuality, mature sexually, get to know themselves, know what they want, know what they don't want, lose their insecurities, learn skills that benefit me, learn to love themselves and their body, know what turns them on and what doesn't. If a girl doesn't sleep with…
/r/seduction06/07/18 11:32 PM
1

Well, it's all about conversion rate. If you're a beginner, 100 approaches will maybe yield you 10 numbers and 2 dates, but not sex. If you're intermediate, 100 approaches will maybe yield you 30 numbers, 10 dates and 3 times sex. If you're a advanced, 100 approaches will maybe yield you 70 numbers, 30 dates and 15 times sex. If you're master level, 100 approaches will maybe yield you 85 numbers, 50 dates and 30 times sex.
/r/seduction06/07/18 06:14 PM
3

They are looking for alpha males for short term sexual adventures, but if you want a girl for longer, you also need provider/beta traits. So, short term alpha traits and girls don't mind asshole traits that much, long term alpha AND beta traits without many asshole traits, only beta traits will also sometimes yield relationships, but if you can't introduce at least some alpha traits, she'll likely break up after a while.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 01:29 PM
1

If you're a beginner, you need 100 approaches to get to intermediate and 500 to get to advanced approximately while also reading lots of theory. That's a good benchmark.
/r/seduction06/07/18 07:57 AM
2

Her reaction to your light slap was a shit test. You lost composure when she was "outraged" and it made you look very insecure as if you have something to hide. It's stupid, but she's probably young and insecure, so insecurity in the man makes her insecure too. When she brings it up hold frame like You deserved that slap It was a great slap What's your issue with it, you're weird Say it with a smirk and amused. Then she'll feel safe again
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 05:18 PM
3

Your mom's ugly. Didn't keep me from fucking her (if you're stronger than him);)
/r/askTRP05/07/18 12:36 PM
1

So why specifically is JP not my friend.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 07:52 AM
1

It's simple. Women want cuddles, feelings, emotions and comfort. If you can't give them to a woman, she'll fuck you a few times, but then leave you for lack of emotional depth. There is nothing beta about emotions and caring for a woman, don't listen to autistic redpillers. It's beta to be afraid of showing emotions. Showing emotions is only beta, when you just met the girl a day ago and tell her all your feelings about her. Just follow the 2/3 rule. As long as you give her 2/3rds of the feeling…
/r/askTRP05/07/18 05:17 AM
1

This. If you're within a year of finishing the degree, finish it and then apply to a business position. Degrees don't matter that much. They do matter, but it matters much more if you have a degree at all. Otherwise, get a stem degree, then you'll be making a lot of money anyway. Don't care about $20k debt, that's nothing. Get $100K debt for a stem degree, which you can pay back within 3 years or get an online degree in stem. Worth it.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 05:12 AM
1

You need to create more sexual attraction. You get that by being much more alpha and cocky funny and much less nice. This is where girls say, "You're such an asshole". You need to make them really excited with heavy kino and some negs. This won't make them want a relationship with you, but make them think of getting fucked hard and used for one night. However, keep in mind that it's very hard to find the sweept spot between being an asshole and not actually being an asshole here. It needs practi…
/r/seduction05/07/18 04:28 AM
1

The bible isn't the only evidence that therr was slavery in Egypt. There's mountains of evidence.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 04:03 AM
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Lol no. Everyone knows how Egypt treated their slaves. Bible for example. Also, that quote is in the context of the 21st century.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 09:24 PM
1

What's the point of that boundary if you already lick her. But you can try the "I can't do this anymore" and leave. Then she'll be left wondering what you mean and she is in your frame and look out for what you want and not you in hers. Maybe she wants that little drama, so that it was all so "dramatic" for her first time. Women are weird. 😄
/r/seduction04/07/18 06:52 PM
1

Yeah, sliding your dick on her clit is good. Here a few things you can do. If she is on birth control, ejaculate on her clit and say oh baby you're so hot Grab her a lot harder, say you like that huh. If she gives you a weird look, hold frame and don't back down. You like that huh, I know you like that. Slap her ass etc. Her "not wanting to give her virginity to you" is also a shit test. She wants to make sure that you're alpha enough to take hers. So, just be morr alpha around her, more unapolo…
/r/seduction04/07/18 06:02 PM
2

Ok, got it. The thing is, when she's 25 she'll think how silly she was back then, because virginity doesn't mean anything. She'll probably think that a month after already. Have you done blowjobs, licking, fingering her etc? Just tell we don't have to have sex. Once she's too horny she'll just not give a fuck anyway. :) And maybe, have her ask a girlfriend about her worries. Suggest one that is sex positive, she'll probably tell her how silly it is.
/r/seduction04/07/18 05:25 PM
2

She'll be extremely pissed if you don't reply at all, since she goes out of her way to talk with you. Not replying only works when a girl isn't that invested and when she gives some IODs. However, what you can do is to not reply when she doesn't ask a specific question. Use that sparingly though or take an hour or more to reply. However, when you don't reply to a text, she will also be slightly pissed off and not text you and wait for you to initiate. So, then you have that power battle going on…
/r/seduction04/07/18 05:23 PM
1

This is a better questions for r/sex or r/relationship.
/r/seduction04/07/18 05:18 PM
9

Not true. Game is completey different in the u.s. to latin america, to europe to eastern europe to india. Sure, the same principles apply, but the dyanmics between them are completey different.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 11:40 AM
1

It's. not about you or me. There aren't many 9s and 10s in a club or two.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 07:50 AM
4

Yeah, but usually you have only 1-2 girls like this per night if at all. For all the rest of the girls to warm up or to build momentum you need much less push.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 10:32 PM
22

Heavy pushing only works on hot, confident, extroverted girls that shit test you. If the girl is normal, you should be 80% normal, 10% push, 10% pull. If the girl is shy, 5% push, 15% pull is a good approximation. Keep in mind that your conversation should only consist of push and pull. The vast majority of the time, you should be having a normal conversation.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 10:13 PM
2

Exchange of value is a factor, but it's not the only factor. Most people, except sociopaths, care for others, also if they don't give the adequate amount of value back, such a children, friends, poor people, disabled. Your world view seems very black and white with nothing in between. That's blackpill, not redpill.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 01:38 PM
3

Yep.
/r/seduction03/07/18 11:16 AM
23

You only need to do 3 things Put on 15kgs of muscle Talk to 500 girls that you find attractive and ask for their number Be unapologetic about it. You just do. Give yourself a year for this and you'll have changed your life completely.
/r/seduction03/07/18 09:25 AM
1

Doesn't matter. If she isn't she will not escalate it. You need to learn to escalate until she rejects it or doesn't. At first, she might be flustered and not sure what to say, but as long as you are direct and alpha, you have take. the best course of action and the best way of escalating.
/r/seduction03/07/18 08:56 AM
2

Yes and tell her why she looks so hot today. It shouldn't be allowed for someone to look so sexy on such a hot summer day. That will short circuit her brain and then you can ask her number.
/r/seduction03/07/18 07:57 AM
0

Good that you're approaching, but your interactions have no Teasing Man to women vibe Sense of superiority Cocky funniness Try to weave those in, but only a little bit
/r/seduction03/07/18 07:54 AM
0

Nice. Next time you see her, tell her "hey lovely" with a smirk, but so that no one hears it and you need to tease her a bit.
/r/seduction03/07/18 07:51 AM
1

Just meet her again and have sex with her, ignore the friends thing, it was just a silly shit test.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 05:15 PM
3

Anything less than a 7 makes me feel worse after sex. That's why I don't do anything below that.
/r/seduction02/07/18 09:58 AM
7

That's the whole point of unconditional relationships. When I went through difficult times, I could rely on the people that I had a relationship with, because the relationship wasn't based on me giving value. Your relationships are all based on value. Once you can't give it anymore, the relationship ceases to exist, because you only build conditional relationships. The point of life is building inconditional relationships. It's not easy to build those, but they are invaluable. You probably hate …
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 08:16 AM
1

No, blackpill is phase 1 of the red pill, the anger phase, except they never get out of he anger phase and stagnate.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:00 AM
5

3 points that will change the world for you You need to win over volume. Talk with 1000 girls, expect 99% rejection. It will probably only be 90%, so you have 100 girls interested in you! Talk less. Weird people usually talk to much and try to be funny by saying weird stuff. If you ever think, hah this is probably a good joke, don't say it. You're and Aspie, you're not funny. ;) Instead, smirk, talk less, try to have the woman do the talking, let her become more invested, be a bit mysterious. Be…
/r/seduction02/07/18 07:56 AM
5

Yeah, but if there is any point in your life, where you are reliant on anyone else to help you out, you're all by yourself, everyone will abandon you, because you can only offer strength, but not comfort.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 06:51 AM
3

It's not only the worst case scenario, where you are disabled or bedridden, but also when you have a difficult time for a few months only.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 05:36 PM
13

The problem is if you ever get sick, lose your status, get accused of rape, get in an accident, need help because you can't help yourself, your wife will want to pay you back for all the times you didn't give a fuck about her. She'll want to take her feminine pride back that she is worth something and let it out on you. That's the problem if you throw strong dread game constantly. It's all good as long as you're invulnerable, but as soon as you're not, it'll bite you back.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 04:39 PM
3

It sounds like he really wants to be with her, because all the other thots are not as hot as she is. He can achieve that with more balance. If not, yes she will leave him and maybe comes to see him once every few to get a hatefuck out of him. If you're only interested in fucking that's fine, but if you're interested in a peaceful household where you wife doesn't suffer from anxiety of being replaced any day, this doesn't help.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 04:19 PM
3

I don't judge you, but people can do better than only functioning in a very closed off community. Well, the claim that all women cheat and can't get anything done is simply not true for starters. In fact, men cheat more than women https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america. Then you have my grandmother. She was running the whole household. Was lucky to inherit a good sum from her parents and instead of spending it and living the life, she never spent a dim…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 08:12 AM
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TRP is the truth, how can the truth only work on deranged girls? Please swallow the pill, 100% TRP is the only route to go. No, it's not the truth. It's the flaws of all humans taken to the extreme and applied to 100% of the population. There are numerous posts explaining that TRP is intentionally hyperbole, cultish, to be taken with a grain of salt. This is necessary to get little boys rid of their beta-programming. If your whole social circle and everyone you know is"deranged", then full TRP w…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 07:41 AM
3

Pure Trp only works on deranged girls. Try being a full on asshole that constantly negs a girl. Any girl with some self esteem will get as far away from you as you can, you'll be excluded from family, social circles, fired from your jobs. Only a very toned down version of trp works for the vast majority of girls.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 03:33 AM
1

That's just how it is. Women never initiate. You can either accept it and realize that you have the power to choose your mate while women are shamed for initiating or whine about it and be a pussy.
/r/seduction01/07/18 02:57 AM
2

I'm so sick of it that I won't try that. If you don't want to approach women and get out of your comfort zone, you will never have success with women. All of us had to go through that. There is no other option. Only men who do it, fail, get back up are worthy of women. Be a man.
/r/seduction30/06/18 09:01 PM
1

Are you so sick of it that you'll approach 500 women the next month, try to refine your social skills and get 50 numbers? If you're not ugly and not super weird this is the standard performance.
/r/seduction30/06/18 07:49 PM
2

Or they are deranged people like in your example, yes those also exist. 😄
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 06:53 PM
9

Evo psych is, but these findings you are posting aren't peer reviewed, scientifically well-established evo psych findings. They are extrapolated assumptions that some redpillers build their theories on --> armchair science.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 05:14 PM
12

That's all armchair science. You're still in the anger phase, where extremes and hyperboles rule your perception.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 05:00 PM
3

Maybe for actual little dummies with low self esteem, but definitely not for college educated women, especially those with a law, medical or stem degree.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 04:44 PM
1

👍🏻
/r/askTRP30/06/18 01:13 PM
2

Yes, those exceptions are correct.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 12:55 PM
1

Just text her that. You'll put her on the spot and she'll either say no and you can stop wasting time or yes. she is lacking some masculinity from you. This text is giving it to her.
/r/seduction30/06/18 12:54 PM
1

Are you cocky funny? If you're only a shy guy, that's what's holding you up, not the kid.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 12:32 PM
2

Did you actually offer her emotions or were you always a stoic mofo. Women need emotion. If you can't give them to them, it's your fault. She was trying to tell you that she wants emotions from you and as her last ditch resort was trying to get an emotion out of you with her insult.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 12:31 PM
0

Yes or no. I want a real woman. :)
/r/seduction30/06/18 12:25 PM
1

Forget monk mode. Just ingore her and be very warm with her next time you see her while you also tease her.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 12:16 PM
1

Ingore it. Say, well it's all sold out. We probably have to resort to cuddling hard.
/r/seduction30/06/18 10:44 AM
13

Yes but that's the 'why' behind it.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 10:35 AM
5

So what, everyone is everyone's cousin x removed. As long as it's not first cousin it's not weird. Heck, before 50y ago it was normal to marry your first cousin.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 09:34 AM
0

3 points that are the biggest preventers of having sex Do you try to be very alpha, dominant, cocky funny? This only works in very high energy environments and only if you can provide a lot of value by being funny, knowledgeable at the same time. In all other environments, you need to be able to build a strong connection with the girl instead and actually be interested in her. Be laid back while still being confident of course Do you resort to gimmicky game? This is called overgaming. Don't do i…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 09:29 AM
36

The reason they have rape fantasies is because having a partner to rape you is the deepest level of trust they can achieve with a partner. If your girlfriend wants you to play out a rape fantasy, it means that the relationship is extremely healthy. She trusts you with her life, she loves your strength and wants to experience it in its raw form. She isn't ashamed of submitting and living out her kinks with you She isn't afraid of being seen as a slut, because she knows that you appreciate her and…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 09:23 AM
2

As soon as she is attracted and becomes sweet etc. and drops the bitchy act. This can be after 2 mins of after 20 mins, always different.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 06:35 AM
3

You can also use his real name. Chad is just a placeholder.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 08:58 PM
2

Asshole game works in high energy environments. The one thing you need to do it to drop the act somewhat once the girl is really interested in you and also show vulnerability and build comfort. You can still lead and tease her and be loud, but you need to mix it with some sweetness.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 07:08 PM
0

These are the only ones that work. If you try to be witty or smart he will just ridicule you. Do you have better examples
/r/askTRP29/06/18 07:04 PM
4

Since you're stronger, you can tell him to shut the fuck up in an amusing alpha way, challenging him. Say it multiple times if he keeps on nagging. He will try to talk you down, but you simply have to hold frame. If you keep the frame lighthearted, amused and make it look like he overreacts, he won't challenge you physically and even if he tries, you can say "What are you doing, we're just having fun" laughing at him. If he tells you to stop insulting him, he lost frame and you basically won. Th…
/r/askTRP29/06/18 06:54 PM
1

Don't listen to the guys here telling you to treat her cold. Be very warm and flirty with her, but also tease her big time. Be super nice and sweet with her, tell her how gorgeous she looks, then the next moment be an asshole to her in a non-serious way. She has lost the spark with you, light it up again and make her excited and horny.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 06:46 PM
2

Great comment and great example.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 06:36 PM
1

Yes they can, but you can always appeal. In the end, the total ratio of thrown out prenups matters and it looks like it's extremely, extremely low. If you look at the second source, 1998 was the first time (!) a prenup was thrown out. The reading it all clause is for not giving it enough time to read it. If you've had a month to review it and then sign it, you can't claim you didn't read it obviously. Howver, if someone or a bank pressures you signing a contract now , it's also void.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 05:13 PM
1

You can still be direct after the initial ambiguous opener and make her earn it a little. And, small specific compliments are ALWAYS better than generic compliments. But try it out and report results. :)
/r/seduction29/06/18 05:01 PM
8

Yeah you need to man up. Tell him to shut the fuck up and don't use boyish language anymore, like Gee. You talk like a girl. Since he isn't physically much stronger than you, he'll either have to challenge you physically to maintain alpha status or back down, making you the new alpha. When you tell him to shut the fuck up, don't say it too serious or too lighthearted, but with an annoyed, amused but still serious tone like you don't give a fuck. "Just shut the fuck up Alex, you're so fucking ann…
/r/askTRP29/06/18 04:22 PM
1

Here. A prenup can only be thrown out if It was signed under coercion, pressure or you didn't even read it A spouse didn't accurately declare assets within a reasonable margin of error There are completely unreasonable conditions. It was signed without legal representation The paperwork wasn't filed properly in the first place https://www.reuters.com/article/us-money-divorce-prenup/breaking-up-is-hard-to-do-breaking-prenup-is-harder-idUSBRE8940Y920121005 https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.forbes.c…
/r/askTRP29/06/18 04:00 PM
1

There's this myth going around on trp that prenups don't work. That's not true. A prenup is only thrown out of court under very rare circumstances, whoch would nullify any other contract. 99.9% of prenups hold up. Happy to reconsider if someone has opposing numbers.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 03:16 PM
1

Ask him loudly next time, why do you always have to prove yourself 😄 Be amused. Anytime he does it again, just say Chad trying to prove himself again. He'll probably get angry at you, but you just have to keep amused mastery going and his antics will fizzle out, making you the new alpha in the group. You need to have frame for this though and some wits.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 03:13 PM
1

Tell her you want to see her. If she asks why, because she's so sexy. She'll either say fuck yes or fuck no and you're not wasting time.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 03:07 PM
2

If you still want this girl, you need to tease her a lot more, call her sexy, how she shouldnt behave like that or you'"ll do bad things to her. (with a wink) Don't go 100% instantly, but ease into it. You have boatloads of comfort and callback humour with her, so you can go into sexualizing strongly.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 03:05 PM
1

Only if you don't show alpha traits as well. However, if you show alpha traits and impolitness, it's not alpha either.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 03:03 PM
2

Yep exactly. But you shouldn't focus on 6-7s anyway, because when you're talking to a 6-7, you aren't talking to a 9-10 and gaming 6-7 worsens your game for yhe 9-10s, because the game for both is pretty much the opposite.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 02:59 PM
4

They are scared of alpha, because they know you'll just fuck them once and they'll be miserable for weeks after. So, you gotta tone down the alpha a lot and just focus on comfort and rapport pretty much. You still should lead, but don't be overconfident or cocky funny.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 01:24 PM
1

Just be a bit of an asshole to them, and tease them, but then also be nice again. Women love this hot/cold.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 12:03 PM
2

If you pay, she will let you seduce her easier if you displayed alphaness and comfort the whole evening. If you pay, but you were beta the whole night she will make it more difficult, because if you don't have any alpha qualities except providing, she needs to see how much providing she can squeeze out of you first.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 11:10 AM
13

Good points. but people should understand that the bully game works until a certain point and only with certain women (low self-esteem) However, I would say asshole game works with 80% of girls at the beginning to pique their interest, especially with confident girls. However, it doesn't work with shy and insecure girls, not even in the beginning. They get intimidated too much.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 11:05 AM
56

Would you agree with this statement? Asshole game is not actually being an asshole, but having mannerisms and vibe of an asshole without actually taking it that serious and also being able to build comfort after the attraction phase and to provide value. At first girls will always find the assholery interesting and funny, but then she will see if you are really an asshole. Then, if you can just show some realness, you get the girl, but if you keep the asshole thing going all along, 90% will drop…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 10:33 AM
31

Except asshole game is not actually being an asshole, but having mannerisms and vibe of an asshole without actually taking it that serious and also being able to build comfort after the attraction phase. At first girls will always find the assholery interesting and funny, but then she will see if you are really an asshole. Then, if you can just show some realness, you get the girl, but if you keep the asshole thing going all along, 90% will drop it and you'll only be left with the low self estee…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 10:30 AM
1

Or they'll go down, because feminism has reached its peak and the manosphere starts taking back power. Pointless to throw around baseless assumptions and even if the number of nullified prenups increases ten fold it's still only 1%.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 09:55 AM
0

Don't ask her out. Just say, you're pretty cute today with a smirk and see if she reacts. If she is flattered, flirt a bit with her and leave it at that. Then, just keep hanging out with her, flirt with her, tease her and then just say to hang with her to do something. She'll say yes anyway and then kiss her when you have isolated her.
/r/seduction29/06/18 09:23 AM
2

As you can see, only making compliments isn't that effective, especially if the girl is hot or hotter than you. Compliments work well if you are better looking than her, but if she is better looking than you, they work against you. They say thank you and say goodbye, because she'll judge you by your looks without seeing your personality, because cold approaching is slightly uncomfortable always and they are on either "flight or fight" mode. Any hot girl has been approaches by 100 creeps before, …
/r/seduction29/06/18 09:01 AM
1

Probably both. :)
/r/seduction29/06/18 08:23 AM
-1

It's a whole different game, because 7s have low abundance and low standards to give out their number. They get asked for their number only a few times a year. So as long as your game is at least average, you get their number. Most 8-10s have 10 guys texting them at all times and get asked for their number 100 times per year. You need to be better than 1 of those 10 guys that she's already texting with at least so that it's worth for her investing her time in you. Some 9s and 10s are also very b…
/r/seduction29/06/18 07:53 AM
1

It's not true that prenups become nullified easily. There have been single instances where premups were thrown out under circumstances where every contract would be thrown out. 99.9% of prenups hold up. Happy to reconsider if you find opposing numbers.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 07:49 AM
1

Not true, there have been single instances where premups were thrown out under circumstances where every contract would be thrown out. 99.9% of prenups hold up. Happy to reconsider if you find opposing numbers.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 07:48 AM
2

I used to trust everyone, but after a couple of hears doing that, 90% of people thrned out not to be trustworthy, so it's mathematically better to not trust people and let them earn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 07:45 AM
-7

Hm, 7s are everywhere. If you walk around, you see a 7 once a minute, an 8 once every 10 minutes, a 9 once an hour and a 10, once a day. Not trying to hate, but only approaching the 7s isn't improving your game much and also makes your game off for 8-10s, because it's much different. You need much better openers and dynamics, push and pull to excite the 8-10s. If you keep approaching 7s with the generic hey i thought you were cute, then you're staying in your comfort zone. For 8-10s, you need sp…
/r/seduction29/06/18 07:39 AM
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I see you're constantly apprpwching 7s, Inhaven't seen an 8 yet. I'd like to see a 9 or a 10 please.
/r/seduction29/06/18 06:22 AM
1

You need to do more Teasing Sexualization Man to woman vibe Overall alphaness or cocky funny
/r/seduction27/06/18 06:18 PM
2

You're really lovely is a bad opener. It's kind of gay and has a creepy indian nice guy vibe. You're (fucking) gorgeous is even better. But you shouldn't only use one opener. Make use of situational openers and specific compliments, about her dress, hair, walk, energy etc. and you must qualify her and tease her a little bit during the convo.
/r/seduction27/06/18 09:30 AM
3

If you're not as good looking you need to be a lot more alpha, commanding, unapologetically cocky funny, leading, dominant without being try hard and by not taking it all too serious, take it jokingly sometimes. You can play up the aerospace engineer a lot. Tell them to gues what you do, you can say it's technical. When they say engineer, you can say what kind of engineer, a tip, the best kind of. Then say, aerospace with a grin as if it's the best thing in the world (it kinda is).
/r/seduction26/06/18 06:27 PM
1

It's called push and pull. Full on redpillers only do push and wonder why they don't fet 9s and 10s.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 09:59 AM
1

Don't ask her for a relationship, the woman has to ask. Now that she left abruptly, don't mention it, just stay as always as if it didn't happen. Next time you hang out, be really cuddly, tell her how you love holding her and and all that lovey dovey stuff, but also tease her just a little bit and don't mention the relationship. Let her ask about it and if she does, you can say you think so? What do you like about me? Then she can say all the things she likes about you and become very invested. …
/r/seduction26/06/18 09:55 AM
1

Holy shit 79% number close and 18% lay rate is huge. I don't think I've read about anyone with that good of a ratio.
/r/seduction26/06/18 09:50 AM
1

Ah ah, sometimes girls find it very hot to take someone's virginity. It's so forbidden, sometimes a fetish and she can tell her girlfriends about it.
/r/seduction24/06/18 09:08 AM
1

You don't need to approach her. You should be building relationships with all workers there since you're their "protector". Make that an inside joke. Girls will love that. Then, when 10 girls in the mall like you and chat and joke with you every day, she will also chat to you coincidentally. Or just talk to her non chalantly like woth all the other girls, but don' t give her too much attention yet. Then tease her a little but and keep chatting for a week or so. You want to make her come to you a…
/r/seduction22/06/18 10:19 AM
3

Club game is very different to day game. It's the opposite. Day game you are low energy, laid back, lighthearted. Club game, you are high energy, cocky, funny, agressive.
/r/seduction22/06/18 10:12 AM
2

Lift boy
/r/seduction22/06/18 10:11 AM
2

The reason for that is 2 effects. Women want a strong man who can protect them, because they are physically weak. Girls like lovey dovey, too, but if you can only do lovey dovey they lack the protection aspect. If you don't give them the time of the day that means you don't need her. People are hard wired to want things they can't have. It's a very strong effect. However, this only works if she likes you already. If you were a woman with no physical strength, you would understand that and wantin…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 10:02 AM
4

Agree with all except 8. Never chasing a woman is like Push without Pull. Showing interest in a woman and chasing her is very intoxicating to a woman when it comes from a place of value, not from a place of neediness obviously. This needs to be calibrated with qualification and some teasing obviously.
/r/seduction22/06/18 07:58 AM
1

Really good guide. Can you possibly also make a summary of like 20 smaller techniques or findings in Tinder that you found working well, such as when not texting for hours is good, superlikes, good openers, good bios?
/r/seduction21/06/18 02:21 PM
-2

Only very young or naiive women fall for a controlling man. A university educated woman with a strong career laughs at that. That being said, dominance has value. It just takes a lot of skill to do it interestingly. It's much easier to get it wrong than right. In essence, you need to not try hard and be more knowledgeable than the girl. Then you can establish subtle dominance.
/r/seduction21/06/18 12:42 PM
2

Yes it was a shit test. You shouldve ignored the question, reframed it and sai something like, I'd enter the conversation and get the girls number in fromt of the guy, thus out alphaing him. Or, Sure, I'd kick his teeth in and beat him unconcious until he does nothing else than bleeding, calling the girls out for their dumb set up.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 09:02 AM
2

Maybe this'll be the year where I push social anxiety aside and join that gym. We'll see. My time's running out, now or never, anyway. Indeed. People wanna do their thing at the gym anyway. Become obsessed with bodybuilding. Make an Instagram, the autistic bodybuilder, people will find it interesting. just don't give a fuck. Just tell me it's not true that average looking women, or even "extra curvy" average women, are able to call up any given hot guy and essentially get it whenever they want. …
/r/seduction21/06/18 06:55 AM
3

Several reasons. The cultures you mentioned are in mostly poor countries, where survivability and stability matters a lot more than looks. Since most men are very poor, they don't have any time or money to work out and have to spend all of their time working If you are very poor, you don't have enough money to get sufficient and good food that builds muscle mass In Western countries, people have much more time and don't have to starve. So, it's not hard to work out and have enough food to build …
/r/seduction20/06/18 08:44 AM
1

The 24h point. This doesn't work for studying. Listening 3h to a complicated and sometimes boring lecture and then doing another 3 hours of highly complex studying including 2h lunch and other breaks completely drains you for the day, especially in Stem, law or medicine studies. For the rest of the day, the only thing left you can do is working out or recovering. If you have to work instead, your grades will suffer, you'll fail classes, or drop out or get a mental illness.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 07:30 PM
9

Prenups guys. Yes, there are instances where they get invalidated, but those are extremely, extremely rare, 0.01% of them maybe. Happy to reconsider if someone finds opposing numbers.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 07:24 PM
3

Don't ask her out on a date. Tell her to hang out to do something cool instead of a formal dinner date, that always puts a lot of pressure on girls. Play minigolf with her or go to the park with her and make a move.
/r/seduction19/06/18 10:04 AM
1

A thin build makes it hard to attract a woman in any case. That's what's probably holding you up. However, if you are ripped as fuck, sometimes you don't need to do anything and women come to you. Muscles aren't everything, but they make everything A LOT easier.
/r/seduction19/06/18 09:00 AM
1

Ask him to take phots of you. Done.
/r/seduction18/06/18 09:40 AM
1

This is really a good strategy and not one I have seen before in that form, even as an old guy in pickup. Would you write a post for us about your tinder strat?
/r/seduction17/06/18 08:54 PM
1

That reads like a depresserd trp fantasy. You can ever be happy, because the worls is so evil? The world isn't only evil. There is good and bad, you can get hung up on the bad or the good. Your choice. You can never be yourself? Surround yourself with people that you click with, make yhe effort and don't sit at home and moan about all your harships.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 01:53 PM
18

Don't try to hard, don't be too cocky, don't neg, don't compliment too much. Basically, don't do any game, only taking the lead and very subtle game. If she is already into you, you should let it flow naturally.
/r/seduction17/06/18 01:43 PM
2

The last rule of getting back at her is absolute bullshit. This only makes her reaction worse for the next guy. Cold approach has a creep factor to it, no matter how valuable you are. Women have a right to be rude, because most of he times they have been approached were by creepers, so that is a justified defense mechanism. Just be a man and walk away and don't be a reactive spiteful shmuck.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 07:14 AM
2

Things to improve tell her to hang out sometime and exchange contacts, dont mention a date Dont tell her how beautiful she is 3 times in a row, that's a bit creepy, even if she doesn't admit it. Don't say it more than once The story was weird and out of place
/r/seduction16/06/18 12:08 PM
1

Your approaches are too generic, you're gorgeous, how are you. Don't use generic openers, use specific ones. You have such an air of elegance the way you carry yourself, where the hell does that come from Wait, what kind of dress/shoes are that (if she has a fancy dress, shoes) It's also helpful if you have a qualifying element in your opener obviously. That gives the conversation momentum instantlyZ
/r/seduction15/06/18 02:45 PM
2

I hear you, but it is a 99% proof method. It is very hard to nullify a prenups is what I could find online. Not impossible, but very hard and it leads to a different conclusion regarding marriage than the TRP wisdom claims it to be.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 12:30 PM
1

This article describes that a single prenup was thrown out, like any contract can be nullifed if it doesn't adhere to the mentioned points. So, 99% of prenups still hold up in court, or do you have opposing figures? If you don't you're very mislead on how effective prenups are and what the downsides of marriage vs and LTR are.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 12:00 PM
5

As for the first woman, don't ask for the number before You have made a small specific compliment You have done a little push and pull once You have built a bit of rapport You have qualified her once Sure, you can get he number without any of these things too sometimes. but the likelihood is the lowest compared to the 4 things above
/r/seduction11/06/18 08:35 AM
4

No that's not true. Field tested consensus is that texting immediately gives the best response rates. The lingering feeling from the interaction just now trumps and "anticipation" by waiting, because it also comes with loss of that feeling.
/r/seduction11/06/18 08:31 AM
1

This isn't about if marriages work or not, but if LTRs work or not. Not marrying her won't improve your chances on a good relationshit and you will have less tax benefits. Just get a good pre-nup and it doesn't matter if you marry her or not.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 07:49 AM
1

You approached the problem incorrectly. When she is "getting over" someone but wants to spend time with you, just grab her and escalate verbally and physically, sexualize the conversation, do push and pull. Then she has the choice of being sexually available and you being emotionally available, or her not being sexually unavailable and you emotionally unavailable. Put her on the spot, let her make the choice and move on.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 07:47 AM
1

I get that, but what about the part of not wanting to hang out with girls. The male equivalent would be a guy who has always hung around with girls since childhood, but can't stand hanging out with guys.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 11:06 AM
-1

Why lots of male friends. I've met a few women who didn't like to hang out girls, because they were themselves rather boyish, not dramatic, not complicated and were just too annoyed by women to hang out with them.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 09:15 PM
1

Because the only thing you did with her was dancing You didn't Qualify her Tease her enough besides the ass thing, which was only once Kino escalate her wel Build a real connection about her and her life and what her goals and aspirations are
/r/seduction07/06/18 07:45 AM
3

You're advocating for a binary view of the world, because that person then sees the world more clear. You couldn't be more wrong. This is what dumb people do who have difficulty understanding nuances and can only hurr durr one way or another. If you're smart, you can see a differentiated view of every aspect making you able to make the right decision in situations that are not always entirely clear. Someone with binary thinking has very coarse social skills and isn't able to navigate the social …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 01:18 PM
1

So a woman that has sexual fantasies and likes broad is a total slut? What the heck, be happy if a woman isn't sexually repeessed and actually interested in trying some things out. All men want threesomes and get their sick sucked by multiple women, so your woman here is much less adventureous than that.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 07:43 AM
1

Which are provider qualities. :)
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 09:51 PM
1

Yes, I like the whole social dynamics in the worklpace thing. However, if the whole purpose of this is to demonstrate abundance, I already give that off. They know I’m charming, charismatic, and funny so I can score another job with relative ease. Yes, but showing actual abundance amplifies an abundant demeanour and gives them fomo, which wouldn't be on their mind if you didn't have other offer and changes the whole game.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 10:13 PM
2

Good work. I think you can do this. Get an offer and ask your boss for advice where you should go in your career and if that's a good oportunity for you in his opinion, but that you would like to stay at the company and that you like the job,m and the people, but you would also like to know what else is out there and what you should do? Then leverage a few more offers based on that first offer, but don't let your boss know about these offers. Then watch how your demeanour changes once you have a…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 07:40 PM
2

Are you also looking to turn it up a notch to see how far you can push it? This automatically puts you higher in the hierarchy and makes you closer to promotion, since you are a leader who can stand his ground and doesn't care what other people think. As long as you don't overstep boundaries, people see you as a god sometimes, even bosses, because they don't know how you do it and how you can get away with things like that and still being likes by people. The reason for that is because bosses of…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 02:21 PM
2

I've done things that would probably get people fired 10x over, yet the managers and senior executives love me and enjoy working with me Do you have some examples for this?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 07:45 AM
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The responses are really corny and will only decrease her attraction. The only one that really works is "Are you madly in love?" There, you'll quickly be able to see if she is or not and if there is a point of keeing going or not. It's also an honest response and not corny or reactive like the examples given.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 03:28 PM
2

This sounds like a bit of a corny dream of an alpha bad boy, but kee in mind that ignoring her only works if she's very interested. It isn't the silver bullet, where you just ignore a girl and then she's head over heels for you. That's not how it works. Push and pull is how it works. Make some effort, inspire hope, ignore a little. rinse and repeat.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 03:11 PM
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What most redpillers forget and what OP misinterprets is that this effect is only short term. Once you go beyond a few weeks, desirability and sexual attraction account for less and less while provider qualities account for more and more. If you don't want her around for lonner than a few weeks sure, no provider qualities needed, but if you do, they're rather obligatory. That's why plates have a short shelf-live of only a few weeks most of the time.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 03:05 PM
10

Haha you're weird Why are you so weird Can you also be normal one day? Elliot, you don't have to impress the girls all the time.
/r/seduction29/05/18 11:58 AM
1

Only very shy and traditional girls would stop want to see you. All other girls who are a bit sexual, outgoing or girly, will be overwhelmed by the social proof and pre-selection, arguably the factor that builds the most sexual attraction and will want to try it out, this sexual adventure.
/r/seduction28/05/18 03:19 PM
1

Hmm so what has been your success rate with this for a positive reaction, 60%, 80%?What about your overall approach from opener to instant date, because that's not an easy thing to do.
/r/seduction28/05/18 12:23 PM
5

Agree except the opinion opener, that's old school pickup and raises red flags in her, since she probably knows that that isn't what you really want from her and often, there will be a weird vibe. Instead, make her a small, specific and unique compliment. That way, you state your intent and you'll see quickly if she's into it/you or if you can next her.
/r/seduction28/05/18 10:31 AM
3

It's one of the most common shit tests. If you are teasing a girl, she will always throw the you're weird at you to test your frame. If you say, I'm not weird, you lost the frame and you come acorss as insecure. If you say, I know, you still have it and that you aren't insecure. Don't be too weird though.
/r/seduction28/05/18 08:32 AM
1

Ok, then she is playing with you. Use that hatred to approach 50 hot girls and get a better girl.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 06:24 AM
1

Didnshe then block you or you her?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 07:36 PM
1

Where did you tell her that?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 06:35 PM
3

Because women are extremely scared of rejection, much more than men.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 06:10 PM
1

What the hell were you doing? You should have just grabbed her ass when you laid on the grass with her and made out. Instead, you became extremely weird and blocked her, wtf. 😄 This girl likes you and doesn't know how to tell you and hopes you make a move so she doesn't have to look like she made the move.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 07:48 AM
1

It doesn't matter what your facial features or your style are. if you're able to have a kind of cocky smirk every now and then, then you have the bad boy look.
/r/seduction27/05/18 07:42 AM
1

Some actionable advice: Approach 100 women this weekend.
/r/seduction26/05/18 06:39 AM
1

Needs to be said that tou need to have lifted frequently for several years before you do that, otherwise high chance of injury.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 06:58 PM
4

How is she post wall when she is 24y old, she isn't less hot at that age than at 22.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 12:13 PM
2

Someone writing about how he wanks most of the time isn't really in the place to criticize good content.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 12:09 PM
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Should add that if you do the first 4 alightly wrong or a little but too much, she'll lose all trust or break up with you. Needs some skill to pull these off, be oblivious about it.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 06:57 AM
3

You need to sexualize already 1h into the date. However,. you need to build comfort and a real connection, make her laugh, establish a lighthearted vibe and a good amount of teasing before you can do that. Then you can say I just need to say, your ass is really outrageous You're really sexy today You're such a bad girl You're such a good girl Don't make me angry with a smirk Shut up. Slap her ass when she doesn't see you (you need to say some of the above mentioned before you so that) You know w…
/r/seduction19/05/18 02:19 PM
9

It comes across very different the way you wrote it, especially in your boxers analogy. If you need to try so hard to portray the perfect image to maintain attraction you're doing something wrong. Women don't need a perfect man, they require 3 or 4 things and the rest doesn't matter. Fuck her well, dominate and lead her Be good looking and groomed Have a good career and be presentable for her to get social validation for being with you Give her strong emotions If you can do that, you're already …
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 07:04 AM
10

Never showing weakness is for insecure beta males who are afraid their woman leaves them at the first chance, because they have nothing. Showing weakness is reserved for alpha males who have their shit together and are so awesome that 1 little weakness is laughable and doesn't move their frame thr slightest. There are several ways of showing weakness that turn her off. Being afraid of showing weakness and being ashamed about it Being whiney about it and complaining Not showing how your deal with…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 07:19 PM
0

She's giving you a chance to escalate to see if you're still a pussy and hide your sexuality, take the chance.
/r/seduction18/05/18 01:50 PM
8

This is a good start, but you're still in a sellers frame, get into a buyer's frame. Add these questions What does a typical day for you at your company look like What would my typical day look like What are the challenges you're currently facing All in all, you need to interview them. However, you need to show a little competence beforehand, let them do their interview thing and flip the script naturally so that they don't even notice and at the end you're interviewing them and they're trying t…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 08:59 AM
1

Yes, you can be a pussy slayer 1000 and lay gorgeous, inteligent, sophisticated women without having a job, below average looks, but you need excellent game to do that. Being a master in your field with outstanding looks will get you gorgeous women if your game is not horrible, but the above hobo will still get more girls at the same quality level or even higher due to game.
/r/seduction13/05/18 01:58 PM
3

Ignore all other responses. Most guys here give off a fuckboi vibe. A few girls don't mind, but most do. That's why a woman will make you work for it, because she doesn't just want to get pumped and dumped by you. Women aren't interested in the physical experience of sex as much, they want the mental and emotional experience, the build-up. If you want to fuck her after 5 mins, she won't be interested. Dick is plenty, she could get that at any time of the day.
/r/seduction13/05/18 05:25 AM
1

Overinterpreting things here, except the poe thought, good analogy. This is just a girl who's tired of being chosen and and wants to take action through cold approach.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 11:14 AM
1

Btw, I want to commend you. I remember seeing you posting loads of questions here and Woujo telling you to stop posting so many questions and just approach. But you kept asking and finally getting the hang of it and them took action and now look at you. Very well done. 👍🏻😉
/r/seduction08/05/18 10:45 AM
1

Half of the girls that are interested make it easy, half of them not. The former are usually more shy and reserved girls, the latter more extroverted, girly girls and those will also shit test you more, since they want someone who she can be extroverted and silly with. How do you know if you ran into an extroverted girl that is interested or simply one that isn't interested? You don't really, so just pass a few shit tests and ask her number. Then you'll know if she's interested.
/r/seduction08/05/18 10:42 AM
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This is true when the girl is higher value than you. However, when it's obvious that you're higher value, because of your successful career and because of your alphaness, sobbing in front of your woman will make her fall in love with you. "He also has a soft side"😍. She will feel like the only one having managed to get through your hard shell and will make her feel very special.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 12:16 PM
1

👍🏻
/r/seduction04/05/18 05:20 PM
2

Well you have someone very immature here as your SO. Now, you can try to "change" her and have an extremely exhausting life for years or find someone who already knows all that.
/r/seduction04/05/18 04:48 PM
5

Gah, always this back and forth high school dating. You are afraid to escalate because youre afraid of rejection. Next time just escalate relentlessly. Be touchy feely, her on the cheek and then just kiss her. She might reject the kiss, but still appreciate that you made a move and just try again later. Just don't be apologetic, be bold, cheeky. A woman has no defenses against that. :)
/r/seduction02/05/18 10:19 AM
1

If you think she likes you, tell her how sexy she looks today, in an unapologetic way. She will either show you that she wants you or will be turned off. Don't do this with girls that don't like you.
/r/seduction01/05/18 10:25 AM
1

Yes looks is 1/3 of the game, game is another 1/3 and status is another 1/3.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 08:35 PM
3

"Lots of practice, lots of experimentation, lots of failure" can be done in 200h cold approaching, reading and dating. You can do that in 2 months, so no, not a lifetime
/r/seduction30/04/18 08:20 PM
9

Because every point is appropriate in one situation and inappropriate in another. Game is knowing to tell if any of 1,000 rules you've learned is appropriate right now. How to know that? Lots of practice, lots of experimentation, lots of failure.
/r/seduction30/04/18 08:04 PM
2

So you got 6 matches in 1 month? How do you expect to get laid from that. I get 5 matches per day and maybe every 50th match is a lay.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 12:03 PM
3

Rich Laruina, James Marshall.
/r/seduction29/04/18 04:49 PM
1

Why don't you tell a girl how sexy she is when it's going well. That makes the interaction much more intense.
/r/seduction29/04/18 08:11 AM
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All the things i listed in 2.
/r/seduction28/04/18 08:53 PM
3

Good work. What you can work on: Have an alpha air around you. This comes from a place of value and superiority without arrogance. Don't ask her typical questions. Instead banter with her, make her emotions move. Push and pull, telling her you you think you like her... a little, qualification, teasing. Become comfortable touching people
/r/seduction28/04/18 08:02 PM
1

One thing I can tell you. Be more girly or giddy on your approach, works wonders. You can also incite the japanese k-pop manga girl vibe if you want to go down the fetish route.
/r/seduction28/04/18 08:25 AM
2

I feel like redpill isn't even mysogynistic anymore. It used to be in its beginnings, where it was pretty much blackpill, but nowadays there are more and more realistic views and bare truths than nust spewing hate.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 07:11 AM
17

Marriage doesn't make that happen, living together for 10 years does and the destructive behaviour of women at times to always require emotions or movement.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 07:09 AM
1

Well, you can always find a girl who is christian and actually a naught ho. However, for one like that you find 3 christian girls that aren't. Is that really a good application of awalt?
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 09:01 PM
3

Wow, this is revolutionary, first woman I know who does cold approach. Keep up the vids.
/r/seduction27/04/18 08:58 PM
5

You find a woman that cheats, thus all women cheat. Sample size 1. Is that what you're saying?
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 06:53 PM
2

What is the "only" then. That's the word that makes the premise strange. It means that women are attracted to men with a certain level of alphaness, and the level of attraction rises based on that level of alphaness also rising This is also not true. Every woman has a certain level of tolerance for alphaness depending on how much she likes you, what level of comfort she feels, what kind of girl she is and how she feels right now. More alphaness doesn't infinitely increase attraction. It starts k…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 10:12 PM
2

I did and wouldn't the article be more accurate and long lasting if you could sum up the core take aways for each section and change your whole premise to something in this form. Women feel the strongest sexually attraction to real men to the extent they are similar to the archetypal alpha Then, people can also remember what you wrote and can dissect the individual sections, because if they face dozens of paragraphs for 1 point, no reader will be able to contextualize its takeaways into their ne…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 10:10 PM
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Women are only attracted to real men to the extent they are similar to the archetypal alpha. This already is wrong. Women are definitely not only attracted to men that are the archetypal alpha male. In fact, many women significantly dislike this kind of alpha male and they appreciate other qualities much more most of the time. How do i know? Around half of the women I know (Sample size 500) are in a relationship with a normal, nice guy. Few are in a realtionship with an archetypal alpha. Maybe o…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 09:44 PM
38

That's not really a good example. Yes, bipolar bitches fuck up your life completely, but there are also women who are not completey fucked up in the head.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 08:16 AM
1

This comment doesn't mention money anywhere and isn't contradicting anything I said.
/r/seduction26/04/18 06:26 AM
2

You have a sellers frame, you need to have a buyer's frame.
/r/seduction25/04/18 08:47 PM
2

Yes of course. Exposure trumps everything. Money maybe increases your conversion rate by 10%, but girls who look for that aren't worth pursuing anyway.
/r/seduction25/04/18 08:52 AM
2

Are you uglier than RsdTyler and Mystery? Those are both 4 or 5s and can attract a woman in a heartbeat. Stop the excuses.
/r/seduction25/04/18 07:42 AM
6

Start graphic design work now. Build up a client base through networking and 99designs and design logos, websites etc and you can charge $100 an hour if you're good after 2 years.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 10:45 AM
2

She wants validation and finds you somewhat attractive, but only attractive enough to grt something started when she's in the mood.
/r/seduction24/04/18 08:03 AM
4

It's all about exposure. Chad Thundercock will get sex out of 10 girls he tries it with, other guys 1 out of 100. So, you need to "try" with a 100 girls.
/r/seduction24/04/18 08:00 AM
1

Telling her you're into her makes you show all your cards. Telling her she's cute, makes her wonder. Always keep her in a state of not being entirely sure yet if you inly lime her as a person or if you're really into her. ;)
/r/seduction23/04/18 09:32 PM
2

Just start teasing her a bit more and then compliment her again. Push and pull. During that time amp kino by hugging her and touching her a bit. Then later maybe you'll feel that she's ready for kissing then go for it.
/r/seduction23/04/18 07:41 PM
1

You took the easy road, everyone can chat with them, but you're here to make them gush over you and want to take your number, no? Next time you post an FR, I want to see you and say that you're considering of taking one of them out, but you don't know yet which one is your type.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 01:00 PM
3

You need to comvine both, non-aggressive with aome aggressiveness sprinkled in. The combination is better than both in isolation.
/r/seduction23/04/18 10:57 AM
7

Polarize more sexually. Tell her how sexy she is. Only 1/4 will respond, but the conversion rate in those will be much higher.
/r/seduction22/04/18 01:12 PM
4

It's the best book about inner game, but not really for outer game. Only attracting girls through honesty isn't enough.
/r/seduction21/04/18 05:10 PM
1

She is interested, but she also has a bf. That's why she loves to fet validation from you, but won't go further except your game is outstanding and you make her think about you non stop. You could do that, but you could also bang 5 hot chicks in the same time. Not worth it.
/r/seduction21/04/18 12:39 PM
1

Just be playful with her and test if she flirts. If she does, flirt back and do like you would with any girl. You can even role play that you're the professor and she is the student, since you don't have a professional relationship anymore.
/r/seduction21/04/18 11:25 AM
0

This post is saying be passionate in a weird way and in the end's it's just as bad as saying be yourself. You can be yourself if you're game is excellent. However, if you are still a bit weird, shy, angry, insecure, being yourself 150% and polarizing is horrible advice. Just say be passionate or if you have excellent game, you can be polarizing.
/r/seduction21/04/18 11:21 AM
1

Do these 3 things. 1. Get a degree 2. Find a hobby or 2 that you are passionate about 3. Build a social circle
/r/seduction21/04/18 06:44 AM
23

Not really, some people are simply extroverted, more confident, more witty, creative, risk takers, ambitious by genetics. Personality is already defined at birth and has nothing to do with your life. Throughout life, it changes through your experiences, but you always come out of the vagina with a preprogrammed personality with better attributes here and worse attributes there. Abundance alone isn't what makes Chad attractive. Chad always has to get to abundance, which is simply not possible for…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 10:11 PM
0

You gotta crawl before you can walk. Today you crawled, next time you'll already be limping.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 08:36 PM
14

3 years. That being said, what I learned later is that numbers are everything. So, if you have average game, but you approach 100 women in a month, you get get 5 who want to sleep with you.
/r/seduction20/04/18 01:29 PM
2

You don't need to say compliments really. Just pretend she's your girlfriend and banter and that you like her.
/r/seduction20/04/18 12:17 PM
4

You need to state your intent earlier. When they said they were leaving, you could have said, oh but how will I het to know girl 1 then?
/r/seduction20/04/18 07:35 AM
1

Because you didn't escalate. Text her: Well I can text you, but then I would need to take you out and whisper naughty things into your ear.
/r/seduction18/04/18 06:44 AM
3

You need 2-3 girls that already want to have sex with you regularly. Then, you don't become needy anymore, because you are already satisfied in that regard. That being said, asking her out again isn't needy. Some girls take a bit longer to warm up.
/r/seduction18/04/18 06:42 AM
1

But why, the study says otherwise, they look for providers 75% and for alphas only 25% of the time.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 01:25 PM
1

Well, they are looking for provider traits 75% of the time and alpha traits 25% of the time. Why do you think that they prioritise alphas over providers?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 10:10 AM
2

Yes, good point, but your goal isn't to build attraction with girls yet. Your goal is now to build fundamentals, to learn socializing, build some rapport, learn how to talk about lighthearted things. Once you got that down, you can worry about attraction, but not yet. Baby steps. And only mention that you have autism, don't tell them all your struggles, just tell them a little so that they're interested and maybe a little more if they ask.
/r/seduction17/04/18 07:46 AM
10

It's simple. If you're roughly equally attractive, the cute opener is better, because it polarizes, sets the tone and makes it clear what you want. You will directly see if she is interested or not. If you're less attractive, indirect is better. It takes more work and is more cumbersome to finally get her on a date, because she doesn't know what you want, so you need tight game, qualification, teasing, rapport, to have her feel at least some attraction. However, it is necessary, because the cute…
/r/seduction17/04/18 07:39 AM
2

You don't need something to offer. Just talk to some people and say you have autism, so you want to learn how to socialize better. There'll be enough people who find it interesting and teach you some stuff, also girls, because they want to nurture and help.
/r/seduction16/04/18 08:44 AM
1

Just text her: So, at the beginning I didn't like you, but then I started to like you because you're a bad girl. However, you would make me into a bad boy. I don't know if that's a good mix when we would do bad things to each other. Just as a warning. ☺️😇" and take it from there.
/r/seduction16/04/18 08:14 AM
1

You can make it easier by being an asshole to her that you don't care about her or by being needy and weird. This drops attraction levels and gives her less to stop her from ending it.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 07:44 AM
1

A shit test is meant to piss you off or test your frame. Newbies respond either butthurt or ngaf. You should respond in a witty way or flip the script.
/r/seduction15/04/18 11:05 PM
1

You have such seductive look in that photo. Stop it or you turn me into a bad boy 😏
/r/seduction15/04/18 07:07 PM
1

I hear you, but there is still a difference. If you send a non-edgy message with a little compliment, rate of reply is rather low and not so enthusiastic. If you send a sexually charged message, reply is a bit higher and very enthusiastic.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 12:25 PM
2

Check out tay wurth. That's his go to opener. You need to be somewhat good looking at least of course. All in all, it weeds out the validation seeker and makes the ones that are somwhat interested, very interested.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 11:22 AM
1

If you don't say I love you back, she'll become very sad and lose trust in you. You don't have to say I love you if you don't want a relarionship with a girl, but a girl won't commit to a relationship if you can't say I love you.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 09:59 AM
2

What about. Mmm you look fucking good. What's your secret 😏
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 08:33 AM
2

The 3:1 ratio doesn't exist. He means Poon's golden ratio rule. Do 1/3 less than her. Don't let her text 3 times before you text back, she will get very pissed off. The ratio is that your texts should be 1/3 less the length of hers, not the number of texts. All in all, there are 3 things that you should do. Do the 1/3 rule. If she says I love you so much, say I love you a lot. Tease her a little. If she says I miss you, say I miss you a little. Keep it sexual. Don't do too much lovey dovey yet, …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 08:26 AM
1

Work on not being a loser. Go to meet ups, practice social skills. Tell them you're autistic but you're trying to improve. People understand that and will help you. You need to put yourself out there and play the numbers game. Coldl approach is probably too early, so talk to 100 men and 100 women on meet ups, but no flirting just chatting about the meet up. Maybe you already meet a girl where it's really easy to talk, maybe you meet a few and you befriend them. Then you build you social circle s…
/r/seduction15/04/18 06:53 AM
2

Yes don't do it in front of other girls of course. Do it with a serious face, ease out into slight smirk, you're a bad boy with pure intentions, sex. Don't be apologetic, hold frame, be superior. You also should maintain a manly, calm, non reactive, serious presence at the beginning. Girls can be a bit scared of you, but once they talk to you, you need to be able to be normal and charming also. Keep it in the back of your mind, the time will come when you can use it. :)
/r/seduction14/04/18 08:08 PM
2

Yes if you're new, it's not as easy. The girl should think who is this guy, he looks like he knows what he's doing. If you don't have the air of an alpha, they will think it's creepy, if you have it, they will love it
/r/seduction14/04/18 07:00 PM
2

I get where you're coming from and this is the go to tactic for most guys. However, if you have really good game and a strong as fuck frame, tell her unapologetically how fucking sexy she is and why and what you would do to her. This short circuits her brain, because it is so out of the norm. Some girls will also be overwhelmed by and, then you have to build a bit more comfort, but some girls fall in love with you within a second. Make sure to read the situation that she is somewhat interested a…
/r/seduction14/04/18 03:45 PM
1

I always say how sexy she looks. This polarizes without being offensive much. This should always come with playfulness, push and pull, and a strong frame. Work on these first, before you are direct.
/r/seduction14/04/18 03:10 PM
1

A as 7 or a 6 with good pictures should give you consistent matches.
/r/seduction14/04/18 03:08 PM
2

You've posted this comment 10 times now under a field report and every time the guy tells you he isn't rich and somewhat groomed. At what point do you accept that and actually try to make a change instead of only complaining.
/r/seduction14/04/18 11:52 AM
1

Bad boy is really just a good boy who tells her she is sexy as fuck and that they shouldn't stay together otherwise he will do bad things to her.
/r/seduction14/04/18 11:46 AM
1

She's looking for a reason to break up with her bf. Be the reason.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 04:22 PM
1

By having an air of alphaness around you.This should come from a place of value and being centered, not from a place of anger or arrogance. This should already do 30% of the work. Don't focus so much on being edgy, but focus on creating a man to woman vibe and escalate physically.
/r/seduction13/04/18 02:25 PM
1

Direct requires some practice, but yields outstanding results done right. Indirect is also good, but is more time consuming, because girls don't give you a definite yes or no and will flake more often.
/r/seduction12/04/18 04:49 PM
1

You can neg, but be aware that a neg isn't an insult like most guys think it is, it is a backhanded compliment or a playful tease. With some practice you can go really hard into the teasing, but that mostly only works in high energy environments, e.g. might clubs.
/r/seduction12/04/18 01:29 PM
2

Read models, sex god method, 3% man and then you can try the natural programm by rsd max.
/r/seduction10/04/18 08:53 PM
1

The dominance is subtle. Haha, though too playful and gamey.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 06:49 PM
2

Well it's rather simply for men, they want sexy and girly women and want to be told how great, manly and strong they are.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 06:47 PM
2

Status isn't everything. Trust me, I know what i'm talking about.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 06:02 PM
1

Yeah, we have much fewer rules and don't have the randomness factor. 😄
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 05:57 PM
1

Yeah, we have much fewer rules and don't have the randomness factor. 😄
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 05:57 PM
2

Then there's also the alpha slacker, who doesn't have a job but fucks a lot of women. While this isn't something a girl wants probably more than once, they want to feel the thrill of something nee and exciting. Some girls also fuck a shy gaming nerd student if he isn't ugly to try it out. Then comes the latin lover, tall swedish guy, flamboyant but not gay guy, teacher, police officer which don't really have a high status really these days. In all of those, the variety in looks and demeanour, op…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 05:52 PM
1

There are exceptions among the very educated. The base level and hormonal environment for rationality is stronger in men than in women. However, you can change a lot with training. You can make the sweetest 6y old girl into a calculated, genius assassin. The thing is, most girls receive no training, they go through some secretary apprenticeship or artsy high level college degree. That doesn't change much and these girls will be significantly inferior to the average man in rational cognition. Hav…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 05:45 PM
1

Good insight, the best mix is loudness on a broad base of silence.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 05:37 PM
1

I guess they are predictable in a general sense, but not really in specific sense, like another commentor mentioned, they are predictable on a macro-scale but not on a micro scale. However, then again, they either react with one of the few main emotions, anger, happiness, horniness, sadness etc, so that's also predictable in a way. You just don't know which one, but it doesn't really matter, because you hold frame until she hits the emotion that you can be bothered to deal with.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 05:00 PM
0

Great contribution, thanks. Disagree.... unless they're broken or mental, most female actions make sense to achieve what she wants to achieve. If it looks random or irrational, it's because you don't understand enough. Well, they often do stupid things that makes everything harder for them and more stressful.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 04:57 PM
2

Sex for women is mostly validational. Do you have proof or how do you make that claim. It might be for girls who have multiple guys they find attractive to fuck, but for most girls that isn't the case.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 04:53 PM
1

Can you give a few examples?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 04:16 PM
3

Good point, age is a factor for the poor artist thing. Hot in your twenties, not so hot when you're approaching 40.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 03:06 PM
3

Then you need to up your game first. Read 3% man, models, sex god method and approach 100 women. Then you can start getting some results.
/r/seduction10/04/18 12:31 PM
3

Great thanks. Yes, while status and money is a factor, it can be replaced by other things like being very interesting and alpha, making really good art, having a really strong connection with her etc.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 11:28 AM
10

True, but she would fuck the not ugly looking and interesting artist that gives her feelings.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 11:03 AM
5

This is covered by "Women like variety", which is a specific application of the randomness factor. If you don't know that women like variety, you will be completely confused by them chasing the poor artist when you thought they are after rich men. If you are a poor artist that is very interesting and has a lot to talk about that she has never heard of, you can predict that when a woman tells you she likes rich lawyers, you don't have to be a rich lawyer, but you can be centered in your self and …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 10:56 AM
11

Isn't the 8th point saying the same thing as you are?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 10:33 AM
1

As I mention in both of my other replies, there's an issue with the overall mindset of trying to overtly "dominate" that is incredibly unhelpful no matter the level. That's what my post is about, subtle dominance like it says in the title, specifically not overt dominance. It emphasizes numerous times that dominance is to be used lightly with careful escalation and ONLY after lots of comfort, rapport building, like you described. The post is about how to employ the smallest level of dominance an…
/r/seduction10/04/18 08:38 AM
1

Aggressive and direct dominant behavior is high reward, but can be high risk as well. However with enough experience you learn to mitigate the risks and read the situation better. Very good insight, thank you. I guess this topic is for another post and probably the most advanced technique that exists in game, does it? But even when you fuck up, you don't "lose" all that much. You might have to be careful around white knights though. True in night game with people you don't know, but can get you …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 07:37 PM
1

Yes. However, allowing themselves to be dominated without getting value first makes them also look cheap, makes the man less invested and more likely to pump and dump them. That's why women want to get the man to make an effort, so that he has more "sunk costs" and is thus more invested and less likely to dump her after she have up sex. Women are the gatekeeper for sex, man is the gatekeeper for a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 06:05 PM
2

Very good comment. Though a direct 10 level dominance in a cold approach doesn't work, because there is always an inherent level of creepiness/stranger danger in a low eneegy situation. Yes, it probably works 1 out of 20 times and then she is all hooked, but the other 19 times you have scared them away and probably the police called on you. Given the right context, you can possibly start with a level 8 in social, but these situations are very rare for a cold approach, wouldn't you agree? Night g…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 05:59 PM
1

Why did you remove the post, because it's about dominance or not a beginner post? I remember you saying there is no harm from ideas, so it would be in that spirit to let the post run its course and let the community decide what to take away from it wouldn't it.
/r/seduction09/04/18 04:01 PM
1

Yes, this isn't a beginner technique and isn't something a beginner should attempt as the first thing in the game. You need to have your inner game in check somewhat, like with all outer game techniques. Though, as long as you stay within level 1 and 2, you can get really good results and just practice with it as a beginner especially in social circles, where people don't care that much if you bullshit around. It's different with people you just met, they are more unforgiving. I reiterate, err o…
/r/seduction09/04/18 03:13 PM
2

Of course, and it works everytime with no downside, because I first establish all the comfort, rapport, value and make her laugh, and build a lighthearted environment and I don't rush it.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 06:19 AM
1

No, it's safe. Look at the examples. The farthest you go with a coworker is that you "report her to a police" and that is only with one that you joke around with a lot.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 06:17 AM
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The point is that the first step to establishing dominance is doing it in the very small undexual things that don't matter at all, like handing over a pencil, the milk, changing text in an email, because there is very little risk of it backfiring. You can do that with everyone (female) without arousing suspicion, being creepy or similar because you can always take days between individual escalations and you are not pressured in the moment. Glad that it resonated with you.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 06:44 PM
0

Nah, verbal escalation is almost as important as physical. Physical might be more important, but without verbal escalation, it comes across as robotic and you'll run into many roadblocks.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 05:45 PM
1

Idk maybe just talk to the girl like a normal human being? Yeah, but that excludes verbal escalation. You can talk to a girl like a "normal human being" if you want to be friends with her, but not if you want to have sex with her. I don't believe it, I'm getting scolded on trp for really basic escalation techniques. Without escalation and only taking normally to a girl, you won't get far. I'm not saying that you should talk to her like this all the time. I explicitly explained that this is only …
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 05:03 PM
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Care to give some examples of verbal escalation?
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 04:49 PM
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Agree that sometimes 5 minutes is enough on a day game approach, but escalating immediately at a bar, event without building comfort and rapport gives you a thirsty uncalibrated fuckboy vibe. Works with cheap girls sometimes, but not with the rest.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 03:35 PM
-4

Are you trying to convert people away from redpill? :D
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 03:28 PM
-5

just go talk to them and let your subconscious take over. That's literally the worst dating advice.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 03:07 PM
-4

So you're saying, women don't like dominance in small doses and escalation? Game is a lot more than dominance, which I emphasize numerous times in my post, but dominance can be extremely exciting to a woman.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 03:02 PM
-3

There is a difference between teasing and establishing dominance. Often, teasing doesn't establish dominance, but creates a push and pull dynamic. Establishment of dominance can be without teasing. e.g. You talk a lot. :p is a tease, but with little dominance "Listen, young lady who do you think you are" isn't really a tease, but a scold, establishes lots of dominance, strong push and pull and requires a lot more rapport building than the above. So, teasing can establish a push and pull dynamic,…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 02:56 PM
-3

Why is it autistic after all of these things have been established. Some rapport Some comfort Thus shown that you are not a weirdo Having received some IOIs from, i.e. confirmation that she likes you a little and is thus being a little invested in you Having made her laugh a few times This usually takes around 10-20 minutes until she knows that You are not a weirdo You have decent social skills You have value to offer and even more value that she has not seen so far You are able to talk with wom…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 02:41 PM
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Yes, that's why more than "level 5" isn't for coworkers and you establish limited dominance without sexualizing. It is valuable to have all girls respect you at work while keeping attraction levels low. All men don't get how you do it and follow you, which can make you the leader within your group quickly.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 12:03 PM
5

Like a bit of an exaggerated laugh with a handwave or throwing your hair back. Wors especially well on very girly girls, because you are also mocking her a little, playful girls, they love it or if she shit tests you a lot. She needs to like you a little though otherwise she'll be annoyed.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 12:54 PM
2

I always do a little gay or girly move/laugh when girls get really stern or bitchy. Drops all of their defenses often and lightens their face. Confuses them and is a self-disqualifier telling them that you don't care if she sees you as manly and that you aren't trying to impress her.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 08:58 PM
1

Just build some attraction when you see her, so that she can't wait to make a move and is thinking about dont shit where you eat etc. if you know how to.
/r/seduction02/04/18 10:05 AM
7

Lol, because they already have 100s of women interested in them and people know it. If you don't, not sending good texts won't get you anywhere. It's not needy if you tease her, qualify her. You're confusing status making you irresistible with not texting making you irresistible. Not texting won't make you irresistible.
/r/seduction01/04/18 09:19 PM
1

Nah, especially confident women will shit test hard. You maybe mean drama-free women, which come in confident and shy forms.
/r/seduction30/03/18 11:45 AM
2

Learning how to flirt makes you a lot better with men, however, keep in mind that looks are more important than flirting in women, more important than in men. So, don't only learn to flirt, also try to maximize looks by learning how to make up well, becoming fit and dressing sexy or feminine. This doesn't mean that you should plaster your face with color, that you starve yourself and that you dress like a slut. There is a way to maximize looks without going overboard and staying classy.
/r/seduction29/03/18 06:59 PM
1

If you mean by objectifying thinking of her in a sexual way and letting her know that, yes. That's isn't something about above or below though per se, though it does put you in a dominant position, because you are the selector, you pick her. Women are passive, men are active.
/r/seduction28/03/18 06:56 AM
7

They are major traits of masculinity, too much testosterone, always trying to establish dominance or whatever you want to call it.
/r/seduction27/03/18 03:28 PM
8

You can see toxic masulinity easily in every fake alpha male. Always one-upping Feeling personally insulted for not getting what you want Thinking you are better than and dsicrininating against people who are not male, white, straight, wealthy Trying to suppress opinions other than your own Becoming angry or violent when things aren't going your way instead of improving upon your mistakes Being afraid of being seen less masculine by expressing your feelings Being afraid of being seen as feminine…
/r/seduction27/03/18 03:11 PM
1

Doesn't matter, AAA. Always assume attraction.
/r/seduction27/03/18 08:39 AM
1

Yes, though you also need to step up your game to get 8 consistently.
/r/seduction26/03/18 08:47 PM
1

Then why didn't you follow up and just said no problem?
/r/seduction26/03/18 12:56 PM
1

Why did you not respond to her text for 2 months?
/r/seduction26/03/18 12:15 PM
3

Yea, OPs response wasn't really that good and a bit boring!
/r/seduction25/03/18 09:20 PM
9

Have you tried giving an air of superiority without arrogance while still being lighthearted and fun? This is intoxicating to women. You also need to be bold though and grab her and kiss her when she loves it.
/r/seduction25/03/18 09:19 PM
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It doesn't matter. Just talk to women with confidence. They don't know what they're doing, even if they pretend that they are.
/r/seduction25/03/18 07:17 PM
3

Yes, women above 25 care more about personality, it's not a complete switch flip at 25 though.
/r/seduction25/03/18 08:30 AM
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I’ve never seen a signal of interest from interesting girls - I’ve got signals only from girls I’m not interested. Don't wait for signals. AAA, always assume attraction. Pick the hottest girl you know and talk to her a little bit, tease her a little, making her laugh is always good, then make her a small compliment. Tell her she's sexy. Then suggest to hang out. Only talk to hot girls. Most girls don't give signals or are neutral towards you. They won't hit on you, but if you talk to them, they …
/r/seduction25/03/18 08:18 AM
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You're way too timid. You ask girls out like hey, could we maybe meet and hang out some time together maybe? Be much more bold, say you're hot, sexy, give me your number, I want to see if I like you. Some women will be "offended" by this or eye roll and say no, but also they secretly like it. The rest will appreciate your approach and agree to meet you. Then on the date, just stay like this, be sexual, but also show that you're not a weirdo and that you can also have a normal conversation.
/r/seduction25/03/18 12:04 AM
0

Just go to a back alley after school. Done.
/r/seduction24/03/18 12:10 PM
1

1/3 will always be negative and feel uncomfortable, 1/3 will be neutral and 1/3 will be positive. Cant pick em
/r/seduction23/03/18 06:34 PM
1

Dont out the 130 lbs if you're skinny with no muscles yourself. Also, get muscles on you.
/r/seduction22/03/18 11:41 PM
3

push pull back.
/r/seduction22/03/18 05:31 PM
1

Yes because they are shy. As a man, you will need to persist and help them overcome their shyness.
/r/seduction22/03/18 03:22 PM
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Yes cold approach is hard, it's the most difficult discipline in pickup. But you're already getting close and if you figure it out, you become a god. Couple of questions. How old are you Are you good looking, what are you from 1-10? Do you escalate kino during the approach sometimes? Arm, elbow, upper back, hug? You can say, haha i like you and hug her for example.
/r/seduction22/03/18 11:57 AM
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Lol no. You're way overthinking. You get 10 times more girls with push & pull and techniques as opposed to your strange version of "non-neediness" or in other words doing nothing, simple as that. That's all you need to know.
/r/seduction22/03/18 11:53 AM
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Yeah you were a bit oevr gaming in a low energy environment. She was impressed for sure, but also a bit intimidated because the vibe was too high energy for the environment. Next time you see her, ask her how she is doing, try to build a connection. Then tell her that she is looking gorgeous in that dress by the way or something like that. This will make you congruent again that you're a bold guy, sometimes a bit off, but at least bold. Then tell her to hang out sometime, because she you think y…
/r/seduction22/03/18 11:50 AM
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He didn't mean radical honesty by having no filter at all. Basic social skills are required obviously.
/r/seduction22/03/18 11:45 AM
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Guys teling you to let go dont know what theyre talking about. Now, you need to start teasing her and have fun with her laugh like you usually do, but add teasing. Be a bit mean to her in a non serious way and then be sweet to her again. Then after a few days of doing that, start flirting, tell her she is sexy. This will make her interested in you. Then, after a couple of days of that, just grab her and kiss her, she won't know what happened, but love it. You can do that with her because you've …
/r/seduction22/03/18 11:42 AM
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Respect for your persistence and putting in the work. Have you tried this approach? Small specific compliment Qualification Some rapport building, buulding a connection Slight banter and slight tease, it's good if you can genuinely make her laugh Suggesting to meet up and taking thr number You can do all that in 5 minutes, also 15 works though. Try to make this all seem natural and not forced or rehearsed. It's also very good if you can teach her something ir make a really good suggestion becaus…
/r/seduction21/03/18 09:43 PM
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Don't overthink neediness. Most things you do are "needy" Getting a degree Getting a girls number Approaching a girl Making a compliment Doing something nice for her But they are not needy if you also use push. In fact, they are required to build the push and pull balance. So, you could say all pull things are needy, but they are required because without them you can't do push. Neediness is pull without push. Pull with push to balance it out is not needy, in fact it is required.
/r/seduction21/03/18 07:04 PM
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Showing intent can be really powerful sometimes, though you overdid it. But no harm no foul. she now says she doesn't know you. So, say then lets hang out so that you can get to know me a little and take it from there. She is still talking to you, so your showing intent definitely made an impact.
/r/seduction21/03/18 01:59 PM
1

You just need to work the numbers. Approach 500 women through day game, tinder, social circle, night game, get 100 numbers, 15 dates, sleep with 3 and your whole world will change.
/r/seduction20/03/18 10:15 PM
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Guys practicing have realised that Routines are just the very basics and that they shouldn't be solely relied on. Everything should be natural and not rehearsed You shouldn't focus that much on routines and outer game. You should build an attractive lifestyle/inner game that attracts women, instead of your outer game, because your inner game is a multiplier for outer game. If your inner game is horrible, your outer game will be really gamey, off, weird, creepy. If your inner game is strong, ofte…
/r/seduction20/03/18 10:12 PM
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Tease her a bit, be nice to her a bit. Tease her again. It's called push and pull. 👍🏻
/r/seduction20/03/18 10:08 PM
4

Abundance. That's all.
/r/seduction20/03/18 10:07 PM
1

Condoms prevent almost all STDs when worn properly Except the most common and non-treatable ones, Herpes and HPV.
/r/seduction18/03/18 03:30 PM
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Etiquette is to wait a few days on tinder, but don't send a "why don't you respond" cringe text. Follow up the previous narrative in a lighthearted fun way and offer value.
/r/seduction18/03/18 12:52 PM
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Your last ditch effort is being alpha and not being needy at all. Don't be a douche though. Here some texting examples that get you back into her mind. Hey sexy, thought of you last night. Hello wild one, how was your day, innocent? :D Hello sexy becksy, what are you doing. Wil Hello sexy, so how did it feel taking my virginity. shy smiley I'm not sure if I took yours last time, so maybe I should double check and treat you a bit rough. She will be relieved when you send her texts like this and t…
/r/seduction18/03/18 08:52 AM
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read the sex god method. That's all.
/r/seduction18/03/18 08:34 AM
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No, I can act like a friend whatever, but I can escalate in an instant and change the whole dynamic with 1 tease or one flirt. It's all about frame, displaying leadership and know a bit about female psychology. Girls will feel as being categorized a friend by me and think if maybe i will consider them as a lover one day or if i even find them attractive and I can turn them on in an instant.
/r/seduction17/03/18 07:38 AM
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There are posts bt these guys on here ALL THE TIME. Here an example of exactly the guy that OP describes https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/841a5b/what_ive_learned_after_9_years_in_the_game/dvmlvlg/?context=3
/r/seduction16/03/18 08:05 AM
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Don't just have friendly conversation. aim to do this establish a man to woman vibe a little tease her a little build some comfort build some rapport qualify her a little have some light banter then tell her she's cute then tell her to maybe meet up for drinks some time with a winky smiley All this aims to do is to get her to wamr buying temperature. You can already achieve this after a few mins, but sometimes it takes hours/days.
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:45 PM
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Yes, that's why it's an example of a text that doesnt get a reply.
/r/seduction15/03/18 06:49 PM
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yes, but if she feels slight discomfort she won't reply to a generic question or a boring question. There is always a creep factor if she has been approached on the street and if she doesn't feel upbeat about your question she will wonder "who is this guy, I don't even know him. Does he do that to every girl?" and not respond. That's why numbers don't mean anything and why 50% of cold approach numbers get exactly 0 replies. Furthmore, texting is not for getting to know her. You can only do that …
/r/seduction15/03/18 08:45 AM
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BHRR isn't really iods. They usually stand alone by themselves. Not answering to what she just asked but just looking at her with a very slight smirk. Can be easily come across as creepy, so make sure to practice it a bit and that she likes you before you do that. It can be very powerful and change the whole interaction of done right Breaking rapport, use this sparingly though Changing the topic even though she asked you something. Can come across as awkward too, so make sure to only use it when…
/r/seduction14/03/18 08:15 PM
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Not true. The kind of text makes up almost as much as the interaction. Texts that probably won't give you a reply if the interaction wasn't outstanding Hey, how are you? Hey how was your day? Hey it was really nice meeting you. Can we get together soon? Hey why do you not like football again? Hey can we meet today? Anything weird or too beta or too alpha Texts that will most probably get you a text back even if the interaction wasn't outstanding Hey it was nice meeting you ;) Hey did you have a …
/r/seduction14/03/18 08:10 PM
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Ah really good, you going against the stereotype that Asians cant get white girls. Not bad. :)
/r/seduction14/03/18 07:34 AM
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That's called push and pull. Criticize her for something you don't like, be blunt. This only works though by giving her a big compliment first. "You know you are really really cute, but I also get the impression that you really boring. Is this true or is there something that I haven't seen yet about you." You can only say that if she is actually a bit boring and you can also only say that by saying she is cute first. That way, you inspire hope and give her something to chase. After you've done t…
/r/seduction14/03/18 07:33 AM
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I mean, with the girls you date.
/r/seduction13/03/18 12:28 PM
1

Yes, you did close with that technique, but avoiding interview mode increases your conversion. :)
/r/seduction13/03/18 10:19 AM
5

What's your "racial distribution" if I may ask, e.g. white, latin, black, brown,Asian?
/r/seduction13/03/18 10:17 AM
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Yes you should make a move. Only talking without escalating isn't a greate date per se.
/r/seduction12/03/18 09:34 PM
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You ask too many questions, make statements instead and tease her slightly.
/r/seduction12/03/18 09:33 PM
1

Also be playful. That's what makes you not only mysterious but also fun, not weird and interesting.
/r/seduction10/03/18 02:49 PM
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They don't want either. They want entertainment and they get that by spending time with a guy that they are impressed by. They aren't impressed by just taking them on a date. They are impressed by the personality, don't need to take them on a fancy date for that.
/r/seduction10/03/18 02:47 PM
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Yes but most people don't know how to seduce. The fact is that after several years people don't have the "hots" for each other that much any more, especially after you've had kids and have gone through 5 years of sleep deprivation and not having much attention for eac other. In 1 out of 10 relationships maybe yes, it's still like in the beginning, but in the vast majority not and it requires lots of skill and persistence to keep the fire burning, which the vast majority of people doesn't have. T…
/r/seduction09/03/18 08:01 AM
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Attraction consists of looks, status and game. Asian looks are a bit of a hindrance with white girls, but they are only a small part. Also, try to avoid typical asian nerd looks, but instead be the fashionable asian guy with style. Add an alpha fun attitude (not weird), and try to acquire some status through pre selection, being popular in your social circle or making good money.
/r/seduction08/03/18 09:15 PM
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No, because desire for sex in a relationship dies doen in the vast majority of relationship, plenty fall apart because of that and it requires skill to maintain/rejuvenate this desire.
/r/seduction08/03/18 06:15 PM
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Yep. Practice makes perfect.
/r/seduction08/03/18 11:22 AM
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You're talking about pickup techniques being too gimmicky and this is true. That's why one of the most often repeated mantras in pickup is to not overgame or become too gimmicky and prioritize building a real connection and comfort.
/r/seduction08/03/18 11:09 AM
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Though not shy girls. They are afraid to progress a relationship, quite likely the girl in question hasn't ever been with a guy before, or not even kissed one. So, sometimes you need to just tell her what's up to get past her anxiety, tel her you like her, if she wants to get on a date.
/r/seduction08/03/18 11:05 AM
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Your main sticking point is cold approaches. It is the main sticking point for everyone. If cold approaches are your second nature, you'll gain incredible confidence, because you know that most women you approach out of the blue, you surprise them, you impress them, you make their day. This requires a lot of practice and failure obviously, but with around 500 approaches you'll already see massive improvement. The effort/reward ratio is so much higher than with everything else, e.g. education, ca…
/r/seduction07/03/18 08:35 PM
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It doesn't matter if she isn't interested. AAA, always assume attraction. You just do and she'll let you know if she wants or not.
/r/seduction07/03/18 05:21 PM
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Yes, but it's really rare to find a woman eho is dying to meet you. Sure, if you have 2 women right now who are dying to meet you, they obviously have priority. But most of the time 0 are are dying to meet you and 3 are normally interested or positively neutral.
/r/seduction06/03/18 09:30 PM
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His game lacks outer game. While his concepts are all incredibly valuable, you also need outer game.
/r/seduction06/03/18 02:46 PM
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Means "Dude, I'm not interested in seeing YOU again, ever. Please stop texting me and move on" You're way exaggerating. Yes she might not be super interested, but she wouldn't take the drama of rescheduling if she weren't interested either. That's why she is kind of neutral. She is somewhat interested, but not interested enough to make him priority over family and study(which takes up uour whole life during exam phase anyway). So, he can still follow up with her after exams and she'll be quite l…
/r/seduction06/03/18 08:34 AM
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You just need to chat with them a little, add them on facebook and say hey lets hang out do this and that. Some will show up and then you simply need to be a bit girly and touch them and tell them they're cute.
/r/seduction06/03/18 08:31 AM
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Good go ahead.
/r/seduction06/03/18 07:11 AM
1

What formalnectarine says and read Models, Way of the superior male.
/r/seduction05/03/18 07:56 PM
1

So you are saying actors and models are very educated and you doubt an opposing argument so much that you need data? Alright. It looks like there are 10 Phds in Hollywood out of definitely more than 1,000 actors, putting the ratio at less than 1%. http://www.imdb.com/list/ls000382523/ Now, I'm waiting for you to counter my argument by finding that 20% or more actors hold a phd, then my argument is weak otherwise I rest my case and the vast majority in Hollywood and models don't know science and …
/r/seduction05/03/18 04:35 PM
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Todd is generally right in only saying that she is cute is a bad way to do show intent. However, it is only bad if you say it with an honest tone, like you really like her. It's a good way to do it if you say it to her in a kind of a cutefying, slightly condescending way, e.g. when she shit tests you, says something in a funny way, e.g. her nose wrinkling, she will ask why and you can say "because your nose wrinkles when you talk" This puts you in a superior position, states intent and still con…
/r/seduction05/03/18 02:22 PM
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You won't find a phd that is an instagram model, really rarely. He isn't an Instagram model lol. He is an accomplished actor way before Instagram and he is an extremely rare phenomenon, in the single percentage digits, probably even in the promille digits. You must made my points stand even more.
/r/seduction05/03/18 08:38 AM
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Because they wouldn't put so much emphasis on their instagram following if they were able to make big bucks in their job. You won't find a phd that is an instagram model, really rarely.
/r/seduction04/03/18 10:47 PM
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Yes and no these women aren't angels. They don't know about science, are often heavily illlogical, don't have ambitions on making the world a better place, don't have morals. Most of them, not all. There are a few who are actually intelligent, who can control their emotions, have ambitions on making a change and have high morals. However, those are in the low single digits percentages. That's why 97%+ of all Instagram hotties only have their looks and struggle with everything else. Be aware of t…
/r/seduction04/03/18 09:53 PM
1

What you have missed is the second part. The opener doesn't matter, it's all about delivery. So, you can say, hi I'm xxx or helllllo there, what are you doing right there! The content is the same, though the energy of the second one is much stronger.
/r/seduction04/03/18 04:28 PM
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It doesn't matter if she isn't interested. AAA, always assume attraction. You just do and she'll let you know if she wants or not.
/r/seduction04/03/18 12:23 PM
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It doesn't matter if she is interested. AAA, always assume attraction. You just do and she'll let you know if she wants or not.
/r/seduction04/03/18 12:22 PM
1

Ah you know sometimes I keep insulting the girl and she loves it. Only works with very hot and fun girls though, everyone else will hate you for it. :D
/r/seduction04/03/18 11:13 AM
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She is testing you to see if there is any manliness or savage in you. You could have responded, "Yeah that's cool, except I will pull your hair after dinner." and she would be sulking over you the whole night. You just need to be morr flirty/alpha and tease her hard (without being a dick) and she'll come around.
/r/seduction03/03/18 11:25 PM
1

Manson book is the good side taken to the extreme, which isn't how it is in reality. Also, for honesty, you really have to be alpha for your honesty be accepted, otherwise you're just a party pooper. As always, you always gotta take the best out of both worlds and see which is appropriate in which situation.
/r/seduction03/03/18 06:39 PM
1

Negging works, vut only with a very confident, hot girl in a high energy environment and if she likes you. In that case, at least 1 neg is in fact rather necessary.
/r/seduction03/03/18 08:13 AM
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You're not making 499 women uncomfortable, negative reactions are rare, most are neutral or even positive. Pros can make it 10 out of 500. They get 100 numbers, 20 dates and 10 times sex maybe.
/r/seduction03/03/18 08:03 AM
2

Liam McRae and James Marshall from thenaturallifestyles are top notch.
/r/seduction02/03/18 07:46 AM
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If you talk to lots of women, probably 500. This will make you into a not loser though. :)
/r/seduction02/03/18 07:45 AM
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Yes, first talk to her a little bit, find out about her, tease her a tiny bit, make her a small specific compliment, then ask for the number. Will double your conversion rate.
/r/seduction01/03/18 02:32 PM
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This makes no sense. You were neither a dick, nor an alpha. You just made light banter with a bit of cocky funny, but it didn't go nowhere. Nothing wrong with that, but you didn't get her number, nor did you build comfort or a real connection.
/r/seduction01/03/18 02:30 PM
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Because models is about inner game and not about outer game. That's kind of Manson way to sell the book, making the outrageous claim that you ony need inner game. Not true. Use models to build your inner game and rsd stuff (without the douchebag stuff) for outer game.
/r/seduction01/03/18 09:18 AM
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Just talk with him and be girly, not ditzy though, only just a little maybe. Guys your age don't get the hint most of the time though, so it's on you to touch him, make a compliment and take the lead.
/r/seduction01/03/18 09:16 AM
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There are lots of attractive women at college. But most are higher status than me. A lot of those girls are in sororities and I get the field of a (false)-hierarchy where I don't belong talking to them This isn't really true. It does appear that way, because business students are all fancy and "rich", but they all look up to engineers secrectly, because engineers really have a hard skill, while business students don't. Business students also often have to take coding courses and to most of them …
/r/seduction01/03/18 08:13 AM
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You seem motivated to make a change. As you've realized yourself, there is not 1 thing that makes you attractive, it's rather around 25 things within status, looks and game. Each of the 3 make up 1/3 of your overall attraction. Status Money Good job Social proof or Fame (Being admired by your friends, everybody is saying you are great, girls are around you/pre-selection, Instagram followers, blog, being a celebrity) Looks Handsome face Ripped body Good style Game, as in, being really good at Qua…
/r/seduction28/02/18 11:27 AM
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It doesn't matter if she wants. AAA, always assume attraction. You just do and she'll let you know if she wants or not. In this case though, it's very hard of her to not want to fuck uou already.
/r/seduction28/02/18 10:39 AM
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You can only do the Fear through exposure therapy. You just get rejected, notice that it isn't so bad and you do it again.
/r/seduction28/02/18 10:37 AM
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Do you have some recent examples. It seems to me that they are in the vast minority here.
/r/seduction27/02/18 09:45 PM
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Guyfromthestore isn't right. She is neutral towards you, kinda likes you but not enough to pursue you. So, definitely up for grabs at the next party, but only if she feels like it or your game is really strong. You can see how she vibes next time you see her, if she doesn't put in too much effort, you can get really aggresive with her, kino, sexual and see how she responds to that.
/r/seduction27/02/18 11:39 AM
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You need to think about efficiency. Follow up again with a really hot girl (9-10) after 3 non responses? Maybe worth it. Following up with a 7 or 8 after 3 non responses, not really worth it and better to invest in a non responding 9-10 or even a responding one. ;)
/r/seduction27/02/18 09:58 AM
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How many women have you approached? Is it 5 girls per year that you think about a lot how to make them like you, how to ask them out? This number needs to be 500 per year, before you will feel a siggnificant difference. You need to play the numbers game.
/r/seduction27/02/18 09:55 AM
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Approach 500 women over the next 3 months. 250 through cold approach, 200 tinder, 50 social circle. This should get you 100 numbers, 15-20 dates and 2-3 times sex and you learn a ton. Don't be a creep, state your intent, be positive lighthearted. It will literally change your life.
/r/seduction27/02/18 09:52 AM
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Wait for her to text you next time and don't text back. This will make her miss you and rethink her friends idea. Just stay aloof as to why you didnt text back " Oh sorry I was busy" and stay positive. :)
/r/seduction27/02/18 09:26 AM
1

The bigger question is: How can you reject Feminism without fully rejecting the liberal foundation that birthed it? Feminism is based on equality, one of liberalism's main pillars. Does this mean that equality should also be rejected so that only people who are white, straight, male, Christian, wealthy are considered human and anyone who does not meet 1 of the criteria is considered less human, has less rights, isn't allowed to vote, isn't allowed support for medical aid, is allowed education?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 09:26 PM
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You have a narrow interpretation of the Red Pill,[...] your definition of the Red Pill seems to be that which is available in this subreddit. Yes my interpetation of the red pill is that which is available in this subreddit and on its sidebar. Is it my fault for the interpretation being narrow then? However a broad or full interpretatjion of Red Pill: the unequivocal rejection of the Liberal paradigm will give you all of those things. So the redpill is the unequivocal rejection of the Liberal pa…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 09:02 PM
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This isn't redpill. She lost interest and flaked, this happens all the time to men and even more women, where guy is tired of fucking her and lets it fizzle out by not responding etc.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 07:23 PM
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That's called creepy.
/r/seduction26/02/18 06:28 PM
2

They don't like weird guys, all women want confident, guys with really good social skills who make them feel and tease them as well.
/r/seduction26/02/18 04:38 PM
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You don't. It's not her choice if you approach. If you find her attractive, you approach. If she isn't interested, she'll tell you. End of story.
/r/seduction26/02/18 11:35 AM
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The mistake you're making is that you make the same jokes around people you've just met as around friends who you've known for years. This doesn't work. Why? Because, 30% of guys really are weird, creepy and have no friends. That's why people want to find out quickly if you are actually weird to cut you out or not. Acting weird directly puts you into that category and it's really hard to get out of it again. You can act weird around people that like you and have known you for years, because they…
/r/seduction26/02/18 11:29 AM
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Posts starts out really good, but then says this Men are not built this way. Men love stability. Stable emotions, consistent sex, and freedom. This is the foundation we need to build things. Forging alliances, creating civilisations. None of that could be done if we were all out looking for the next emotional high. It's exactly the opposite Men love change. Adrenaline junkies, sex with lots of women and freedom, always looking out for the next challenge to get the next high. This is the foundati…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 07:50 PM
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Here are the tips most important to you The universe doesn't owe you anything, neither do women Live in abundance. Yes, girls often flake, that's the standard and that's why you need to talk to 10 girls at the same time and ask all of them out You don't have to become a psychopath to get love, that's a common redpill misconception. Instead, you have to not expect anything from anyone, offer value and be manly without being a douche. Be agressive sometimes, tell a woman how fucking sexy she looks…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 07:33 PM
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It's simple, status accounts for 1/3 of attractiveness, looks 1/3 and game 1/3. This has been covered at length here already.
/r/seduction25/02/18 05:54 PM
1

Yes, you can fake confidence somewhat, but true confidence comes only through competence.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 09:32 AM
1

Your sisters bf I meant. So, you pretend that you're never sad or similar, why would you pretend something you're not. When I show a woman that I'm also having difficulties sometimes, it increases attraction because normally guys are too insecure to show it. If you arent afraid of showing it, it means that so much confidence that you don't care about a few tiny weaknesses.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 08:46 PM
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I've tested it a lot. Try to appear to have no negative emotions at all and she will notice something is off with you and you're too scared to admit that you are just human. This is exactly what happened to your brother. He tried to fake it, because EVERY single human being has negative emotions sometimes, and she saw his bluff. You can maybe get a dumb woman to believe you son't have any negative emotions, but a woman with some social intelligence will see you as fake inmediately. Now, you can …
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 05:53 PM
1

Um no, Mark Manson Models is also a book well recommended here.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 04:40 PM
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That is her being a bitch, that's not normal. Most women will not be cold when death happens.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 03:08 PM
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So you are saying you should never show vulnerabilty and always be a hard ass?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 03:06 PM
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What is redpill about this? Married a clinger who spends money (her own) on dumb shit and then she wanted the divorce? Sounds all pretty vanilla.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 11:21 AM
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You didn't do anything wrong. Vulnerability is good, but being at vulnerability's mercy isn't. That's why you also need to show how you will get out of your insecurity. We as men aren't perfect, we are still heavily flawed humans. That's why we need to figure out our flaws and overcome them. This increases attraction to you a lot and shows her that you can deal with difficulties and not let them bring you down, instead only making you stronger. This is what a woman is looking for in a man.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 11:15 AM
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Finally a good quality post among the floods of stage II and III posts!
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 08:57 AM
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Yes for sure, it's all a numbers game.
/r/seduction23/02/18 08:20 AM
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Want me as your best gay friend? 😄 You need to tease her back when she teases/shit tests you.
/r/seduction22/02/18 10:10 PM
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Here a couple of ways how you can erode his fake position of power You don't need to tease me all the time if you like me, just say it (in a confronting manner, alluding to a gay vibe) Why are you always belittling me, you know that I'm really insecure and that you are much more manly than me (with a smirk, you literally call him out while still maintaining the high ground) You don't need to brag how strong, manly, popular, educated you are all the time, we get it (making him embarrased for boas…
/r/seduction22/02/18 10:05 PM
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You could get a 100 numbers by talking to 1000 women easily. But I said you only need to talk to 100 women, which equates to around 10-20 numbers, that should get you sorted. :)
/r/seduction22/02/18 09:52 PM
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It sounds like you're way too horny to get a girl right now, because that's a turn off. All that would work for you is numbers, so talk to 100 hot women over the next week and you'll get a few who are horny too (women aren't as horny usually). But don't be a horny mofo to them, tone it down a little. ;)
/r/seduction22/02/18 08:26 PM
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Why is that. With good inner game and little outer game, you can already pull very hot women. With good outer game, but little inner game you can maybe get 1 night lays with drunk girls, but fail heavily in non-club environments. Game consists of 90% having a normal conversation, building rapport etc and maybe 10% using some outer game techniques, otherwise you come across as really weird and gimmicky.
/r/seduction22/02/18 03:57 PM
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Guys who run around showcasing their masters in game psychology are weirder in my book. Many girls do not find these cheap tricks interesting at all That's what game was in the 2000s when no one knew what they were doing. It has vastly involved since then, putting cheap tricks as a small subset of outer game, which work sometimes with having the most emphasis on inner game now, mental models, push and pull, comfort building.
/r/seduction22/02/18 03:52 PM
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Your premise is false. Yes, if a girl is heads over heels into you, you don't need much game. That happens maybe once every 10 years with a hot girl and you still need know about game and numerous mental models so that she doesn't lose interest, because you become needy because it's hard to talk with you your jokes are weird and uncalibrated she notices that you are really insecure on the inside you fail to build some attraction on the date and it fizzles out However, most importantly, game is f…
/r/seduction22/02/18 10:01 AM
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Most negative? Most comments were additional suggestions or supportive, no?
/r/seduction20/02/18 10:34 PM
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That's because game consists 80% of inner game and outer game the rest and that's why outer game isn't discussed as much here. I agree, there should be a sub focused on outer game only without all the pua bullshit from the 2000s, but outer game that actually works, isn't gimmicky and doesn't make you a sociopath, that might be really worthwhile in fact. The second factor about why there is skepticism, is because most guys here (80%) are noobs, awkward and have never made a cold approach themselv…
/r/seduction20/02/18 10:33 PM
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Good looks good game good status.
/r/seduction19/02/18 08:43 PM
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she does not want to feel the same way again the way her ex made her feel. (fear of commitment?) Nothing matters except what she means by that. Find that out and then you can make a post again here.
/r/seduction19/02/18 12:24 PM
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Just say you really like her, but you are not looking for a relationship right now. Don't say much more,, that's sufficient.
/r/seduction19/02/18 10:29 AM
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Yes, you don't have all the advantages that the other guy has and you have it harder. Though, hot guys never develop good game, because they get 8s without much effort, so they settle for 8s. However, you are hungry and you really need to throw yourself into it. This enables you to develop really good game and unlock the 9s and 10s. So your disadvantage is rather an advantage.
/r/seduction19/02/18 10:28 AM
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Yeah, i'm too cute. ;) Yeah I know, I'm too manly. I apologize.
/r/seduction13/02/18 07:11 PM
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We had a great date in my opinion. Our conversation was great, and after meeting many women, I must say I really like her. Beautiful and great to talk with. If you didn't kiss her and made her horny, the date wasn't "great", it was ok. Ok is bad, because she has had numerous ok dates before, but she won't have sex with a guy who she had an ok date with. She wants to have sex with a guy who blew her mind. That's why you should strongly escalate physically on the date and kiss her. Women don't dis…
/r/seduction13/02/18 07:10 PM
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Probably in banking, that's where you find ultra alphas, though they don't have a sense for morality or caring for anything but themselves. Truth is, there aren't really trp men. You either have the typical redpillers who don't care for anything because they think it's redpill or you have the typical beta. Though there are very few who are alphas and who also care for people. Usually they are business owners or entrpreneurs.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 01:07 PM
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but they chose to do so even though they were not forced into doing it and they could easily walk away from the acting industry if they do not feel comfortable. The whole premise of your comparison with metoo lies in this paragraph and it is simply false Metoo isn't about the women who were fine with fucking Weinstein for a role. It is about the women who weren't fine with it, but still were sexually assaulyed by him. .
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 12:59 PM
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Survey results are as scientific as can be for numbers that don't have a paper trail. Furthermore, the number of unreported rapes is 6 out of 7. In any case, the numbers are off by a factor of 100 or more. Once you can get those numbers fixed, you can make a good statement.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 05:17 PM
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Definitely get her to your place as soon as you can or to her and then touch her again and finger her possibly. Let her suck your dick and have sex with her. She is into you, you can only fail through indecisiveness now.
/r/seduction09/02/18 05:15 PM
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You only have 1 problem, numbers. Talk to 500 hot women, get 50 numbers, go on 15 dates and have sex with 3 girls. All of us had to go through that. Women don't ask out guys, it's the man's job.
/r/seduction09/02/18 04:53 PM
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Why can't we just fucking have sex? It'd make me feel good, it'd make you feel good, it'd make my self-esteem feel g You see sex as a physical act like it is for us men. However, for women it's much more a psychological act than a physical one. They want to really feel something, mystery, desire, lust, connection, excitement.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 04:50 PM
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'Have you, or ANYONE YOU KNOW, ever been groped or touched inappropriately in a sexual manner? Made unwanted physical contact? Etc. Etc. Though none of the above research asked if participants knew ANYONE. Of course, everyone knows 1 person who has been groped. This isn't a good point to make and isn't asked in those surveys.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 01:59 PM
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The math is off by the factor of around 50, because you are looking at annual rape and another factor of 5, because you are only looking at reported rape, making the numbers off by a factor of 200 -300. In 2011, the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) found that "nearly 20% of all women" in the United States suffered attempted rape or rape sometime in their life. https://www.cdc.gov/violen ceprevention/pdf/nisvs_report2010-a.pdf So you have 168,000,000 women in the u.s. *0.2 = 32…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 01:57 PM
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Good on you for caring about accuracy. I also added a comment about the mathematics. It would be good if we could make these calculations fixed, so that we can accurately pinpoint the difficulties instead of starting a witchhunt.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 12:50 PM
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The math is off by the factor of around 50, because you are looking at annual rape and another factor of 5, because you are only looking at reported rape, making the numbers off by a factor of 200 -300. In 2011, the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) found that "nearly 20% of all women" in the United States suffered attempted rape or rape sometime in their life. https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/nisvs_report2010-a.pdf So you have 168,000,000 women in the u.s. *0.2 = 32 …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 12:34 PM
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Sure but the noise to signal ratio in trp is especially bad, 80% of the advice is really bad and you basically have to tone down all advice to not be seen as an alpha sperg. This isn't what high quality and what trp should look like.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 12:23 PM
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But is notches on your belt a goal worth chasing? It seems like you put a lot of emphasis on this.
/r/seduction08/02/18 09:00 PM
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Fast forward to 2018 and I have slept with over 800 women (802 at the time of writing this). Do you think sleeping with 1000 women is the end goal of PUA, or is it maybe a goal not worth chasing? Isn't it better learning to form really deep connections with people than having lots of messy connections with people for self improvement?
/r/seduction08/02/18 08:19 PM
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Without push and pull, it is almost impossible to create strong attraction fast, even over a couple of weeks.
/r/seduction08/02/18 12:50 PM
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There is the scammy RSD PUA that focuses on outer game and notches on the belt and there is "seddit style" PUA, which focuses on inner game and self improvement a lot more and not that much on girls. It seems like on trp, all pua is only the former and the latter is ignored.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 12:44 PM
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It's not only a numbers game, it's much more a conversion game. Have a insecure, beta approach 500 girls, and he might get 10 numbers and maybe has sex with 1 girl. Have an experienced PUA, who knows a lot of theory and has refined this theory with years of practice approach 500 girls and he gets 200 numbers and has sex with 20 girls. Conversion is more important than numbers.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 12:41 PM
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Yes, but it's only every couple of weeks that they get asked for the number, including subtle beta approaches.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 11:27 AM
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Girls require numerous "beta " characteristics. Most redpillers dont get this: She wants to care about her, but not that she is everything you care about She wants you to be nice to people, but without expecting anything in return She wants you to have morals She wants you to be able to be vulnerable and emotional at times. She wants you to be cute and sweet at times Yes, you can fuck a small selection of girls once in a high energy environment by being an alpha asshole, but if you want her to k…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 01:43 PM
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When Aziz Ansari was mildly pushy on a date, society decried him as a sexual deviant who should face sexual assault charges. There wasn't widepsread backlash against him. If you check two x chromosomes, there were jsut as many for him as against him. Mayweather, who owns a strip club and lives a frat boy lifestyle well into his 40s, is deified, while Ansari is demonized (even though he did nothing illegal). Maybe he is deified a young guys, but he isn't seens as a great person by the majority. H…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 01:30 PM
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Yes they could, but the quality of guys on dating apps is abysmally low and yhey get bombarded by messages, leading most of them to delete the app straight away again. The ones that love attention stay on the apps, the ones that dont bother leave.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 09:42 AM
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I had a consensual affair from 2000-2002 with my boss. #metoo Every time I invited my friend home with me, he would ask for a BJ. #metoo My coworker told me I look pretty. I couldn't work for a month. #metoo Yeah, no. Women who went through real sexual assault would not associate these women with metoo.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 11:41 PM
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You can pull the tampon out of a girl that sais no, you can choke a girl and push her head towards your dick or finger her in the hospital and she would love you for that. If you're not a creepy needy beta without frame. Yes you can, but only if she knows that deep down you care for her somewhat. Otherwise, it only works with broken women.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 11:39 PM
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1 of the 2 times the worst I did was stroke her side. You mean sexual assault accusation, pretty hard to turn that into rape? Did she give you signs that she is interested in you?
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 11:30 PM
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Yes this is a valid concern and is because the movement is new and it will overshoot the mark at times before it will even out. So does this concern invalidate metoo?
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 11:25 PM
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What the fuck? Are you retarded? Haven't you seen 75% of these accusations(if not 95) are false, and reported up to 40 years later lmao??? Did you know Ron Jeremy, the pornstar got fuckin metoo'd? Open your eyes. Where in the world did you get those numbers?? 30 seconds of googling returned 2-10% of rape accusations of being false. Who's the crazy one now :)
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 11:19 PM
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I hope somebody fake rape accuses you so you know what that is like. Thanks and it is as horrible. Though the vast majority of rape accusations are not false. So, your argument is because a minority of rape accusations are false, true rape isn't worth mentioning? Rape should be a private ordeal not a badge of honour you walk around with I'll add this to my list. Women cowered in fear for decades, because they were feared to death to make their rapist to justice. Do you know what rape feels like …
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 11:13 PM
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It's a pretty simple two part post, what metoo is and what it isn't.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 10:46 PM
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What she means is having a guy who calls her out on her shit, challenging her, being direct with her. All these 3 things are often offensive to the girl, even though they are not offensive. If you are offensive without reason, then you'll kill attraction. If you are offensive with reason, but without using insults, you're doing it right. Note that you can only do this with very hot girls, because normal girls don't have the confidence to take it and you can't do it really in low energy environme…
/r/seduction05/02/18 10:44 PM
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I was were you were. I came out of it by realizing that my intentions were pure. I can make a girls day and a guy's day as well (in a non sexual way). I realized that I give value to every person I meet, thus my intentions are pure and everyone should know me. :)
/r/seduction05/02/18 09:43 PM
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Just ignore what she tells you and tease her again in a fun way. So if you don't like me to call you my lovely cheeky h**, what nickname do you want, cutiepie, lioness, ducky duckling? ☺️ Hello I missed my lovely not h**! 😁😘 She will probably test you again, and tell you to apologize or something like that and test your frame, but you can't apologize again. Respond something like Why should I apologize, it's an honor to be called like that from me ;) Only a few women have earned that honor in th…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 11:39 AM
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Yes there are some women like that, but this theory fails for any law, business, medical, science student pretty much, which are a significant portion of women.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 11:28 AM
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I know several really hot girls, banging body, c cups, cute face. It's actually not that much. Every couple of weeks maybe they get asked for their number, every 2 months on a date. This isn't the case for bimbo-like women. Yes, if you wear a lot of makeup and dress sexy, you get asked out more, but if you're a hot girl, but wear normal clothes, then not so much. It becomes even less if the girl is educated and has a career, because then, guys with lower education and l career, don't dare to ask…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 11:26 AM
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Do not "make a move on her". Instead, start bantering with her a little and maybe some light kino and see how she responds. If she responds positively start flirting a little. If she flirts back, tease her a little and then make a move.
/r/seduction05/02/18 11:18 AM
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Don't feel apologetic. Women love breaking rapport sometimes. You can't do that always, but when she is already invested in your and you are being a bit of a chauvi, they like that. Just don't feed into her frame.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 02:41 PM
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Why are they no accessible to OP? 90% of guys don't know this, but once they do with some calibration they can practice it.
/r/seduction03/02/18 10:08 PM
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You talked about R.A.P.E. on a date. best way to kill all attraction. Furthermore, you didn't build any attraction, did you?
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 01:56 PM
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Eh, the exact same story happens with the guy cheating millions of of times a year. Don't see much value in here.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 01:53 PM
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It's good that you're already approaching so much, but it sounds like you're not really manly. I believe these are all the things you don't do yet, but without which it's hard to arouse a woman, get her really attracted and really wanting to have sex with you. You need to escalate stronger, be more alpha and forward, be more assertive Make it exciting for her to get fucked by you You need to be able to make her horny --> sexual escalation Don't make it like a high school romance Keep it simple, …
/r/seduction03/02/18 01:02 PM
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She hopes you can pull her out of her sucky relationship, because women are bad at that, because they are bad at making decisions like that.
/r/seduction03/02/18 08:50 AM
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It's good that you're already approaching so much, but it sounds like you're not really manly. I believe these are all the things you don't do You need to escalate stronger, be more alpha and forward, be more assertive Make it exciting for her to get fucked by you You need to be able to make her horny --> sexual escalation Don't make it like a high school romance Keep it simple, don't be needy, don't be too nice Be mysterious, be a bit of a bad boy, but just a bit Tease her, do push and pull wit…
/r/seduction03/02/18 08:46 AM
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What you need to understand is that not women are like that, humans are like that. Men cheat, lie, scam just as much as women, sometimes even more. Women aren't angelic beings, they are simply, human. So your questions isn't, how can i trust women with anything, but how can i trust people with anything. And yes, most people don't have high moral standards, few do, see out the few that do if you need someone to trust in.
/r/seduction03/02/18 08:40 AM
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Woman is the gatekeeper for sex, man for relationship. It makes it easier for women to commit if they don't have that "power" anymore. But you shouldnt be the one asking for a relationship, it should be her.
/r/seduction02/02/18 10:31 PM
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Woman is the gatekeeper for sex, man for relationship. It makes it easier for women to commit if they don't have that "power" anymore. But you shouldnt be the one asking for a relationship, it should be her.
/r/seduction02/02/18 10:13 PM
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Woman is the gatekeeper for sex, man for relationship. It makes it easier for women to commit if they don't have that "power" anymore. But you shouldnt be the one asking for a relationship, it should be her.
/r/seduction02/02/18 10:13 PM
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Woman is the gatekeeper for sex, man for relationship. It makes it easier for women to commit if they don't have that "power" anymore. But you shouldnt be the one asking for a relationship, it should be her.
/r/seduction02/02/18 10:13 PM
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You need to have had hot and steamy sex first. Then she is a lot more invested. Otherwise she will feel awkward if you ask before that.
/r/seduction02/02/18 09:45 PM
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Write a couple of interaction on here, we will tell you.
/r/seduction01/02/18 10:17 PM
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That takes out the mystery a bit. There's also a way to make him do it. Behaving a bit slutty isn't something horrible to do, while never trying to be slutty to your SO is very bad for your sex life.
/r/seduction01/02/18 04:28 PM
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Behave more like a slut and tease him, be a but bitchy on purpose, but not too much. That will anger him a bit. ;)
/r/seduction01/02/18 01:01 PM
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and models + way of the superior male.
/r/seduction01/02/18 10:40 AM
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Yes, it's just like mathematics. You need to learn 1000 rules and the exception to each rule. That's pretty much it. :)
/r/seduction31/01/18 08:32 PM
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Ok, then just keep frame, but don't be combative, be calm, rational and friendly, but still assertive. :)
/r/seduction31/01/18 03:29 PM
1

You lost 29lbs in a month? What was your starting weight?
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 02:07 PM
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Yes you did, but you can eatablish dominance by calling her out. Tell her you really like her but that it's fucking annoying when she tries to brag about expensive clothing or ex bfs, it displays superficiality and attention seeking, two traits you really dislike. Have a friendly tone though. It's good that you call her out an don't accept all of her bullshit behaviours out of fear that she will leave you.
/r/seduction31/01/18 01:53 PM
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Same for me. I got 20 matches per week a month ago, but this month I have only 4 in total.
/r/seduction31/01/18 01:45 PM
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Hm, lots of female homeless in the U.S., no?
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 12:18 AM
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Eh, the article has maybe a point, but then started directly hyperbole, thus critising itself and losing credibility. There was a time when females were feminine Women aren't feminine anymore, because they have jobs, because they have an education and an opinion and aren't mindless yes (wo)men? Better for us if they aren't that boring and helpless no? education was educational Like mathematics, law, engineering, medicine isn't? and the media was somewhat truthy Article critising itself here.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 09:08 PM
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Um no it's not ALWAYS a compliment. In fact it is rarely a compliment, sometimes it really is, but it's not often. Here just a few examples when it's not a compliment Cheat on your gf Don't visit your sick mother Talking about coworkers behind their back Taking credit for someone elses work at work Mocking people in front of others Trying to be a smartass all the time Insulting a girl, because she doesn't want to fuck you It only is a compliment when you are actually. not an asshole Teasing a gi…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 08:55 PM
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This only works if the girl doesn't have options. You got a point, but women feel you out at the beginning. If you want to commit quickly, she will automatically think if all the things she should not be together wih you instead of thinking of all the things why she should be together with you and she will think that you don't have options that you're not that popular with women and that that you will become very needy and clingy if she decides against you later on. They don't want to take that …
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 12:48 PM
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You make wrong conclusion several times. The girls didn't dump you because you were nice, but because you put a lot of pressure on them by asking for commitment. Girls are afraid of making big decisions, especially under pressure. You sent her flowers on the second day. This is very needy regardless of what happened before and makes the girl think "oh damn, he really likes me. He's kinda hot, but I don't think I want to spend the next year(s) of my life with him. Better stop this before he becom…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 12:39 PM
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Mystery, Styles, Tyler are kind of ugly. Have you looked at some pics? They are 4-5, not better and they aren't even ripped, but skinny fat or chubby. They are definitely not handsome.
/r/seduction29/01/18 09:20 PM
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Yes duh, all PUAs pretty much. Do you need any other evidence? They aren't super handsome, some even kind of ugly and were all broke when they started out. They became very successful with women just with game long before they made some money, and most of them don't even have much money today. Tyler Manwhore Todd Mystery Styles Just a few examples.
/r/seduction29/01/18 10:38 AM
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Because looks isn't so important to women in men as looks are important to men in women. Furthermore, looks in a man aren't much about about a beautiful nose or similar, but how you carry yourself, style, body language, confidency eye contact. You can't really make your eyes beautiful through surgery or have a chiseled jaw line. Things you can get surgery for are extreme deformations, such as a fleeing chin, very ugly nose, fucked up teeth, and many guys do get those, because in that case it is …
/r/seduction29/01/18 10:31 AM
1

It also teaches (outer) game a lot.
/r/seduction29/01/18 10:28 AM
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Getting girls in college is easier as a guy in a cool frat than as a guy in no frat. However, getting girls as a no frat guy in college is easier than in real life.
/r/seduction27/01/18 08:47 PM
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I get annoyed that women are giving me signals of interest or constantly look in my direction but I'm still always ALWAYS having to initiate. It simply is like that, a woman never approaches a guy. It's the man's job to do it. I'm in a new small city of around 3 million people What do you mean, a city with 3 million inhabitants is among the 70 biggest cities on earth and top 10 U.S..
/r/seduction27/01/18 02:11 PM
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She's teasing. Set up a meet and escalate relentlessly.
/r/seduction27/01/18 11:54 AM
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Yes it works if you the girl already sees you as an alpha and already likes you. Otherwise, it just is weird.
/r/seduction27/01/18 10:26 AM
1

Ah, wel then you know what the problem is and you can work on it. At least you're actually doing approaches, so you can find your bottlenecks. Now, really focus on building rapport while doing some push and pull and staing your intent and your numbers should trickle in soon. :(
/r/seduction26/01/18 10:44 PM
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Are you building a solid connection with the girl before asking her number? If no, that's your mistake. Focus on building really good rapport (without forcing it), some attraction and some comfort. Easier said than done, but you won't get a number without those much.
/r/seduction26/01/18 07:56 PM
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Nothing matters what you wrote beforehand, except the last thing about fucking her hard which was was very alpha. That excites a girl, but also makes her think that you just wanna fuck her. It also gives her a bit of a bad feeling. That's why she'll now only get back to you when she feels horny or very emotional. If you don't want to wait, you need to reinitiate with comfort and being a bit more sweet than usual.
/r/seduction24/01/18 09:03 PM
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But game purists would not like that idea, as it makes it sounds like 'numbers game' Those purists you mention, seem to be some scammy puas who try grab attention. They aren't the ones that know what theyre doing. IN fact, old school pickup (which is still taught) almost advises the opposite of what your definition of game is. If they teach you that, they really dont know what they're doing. Old school pickup is very basic and uncalibrated and out of date, like the name is supposed to make it cl…
/r/seduction24/01/18 08:52 PM
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Just looked a bit through your post history. You already got the basics down, approaching, physically attractive, financially stable, desirable personality. This is good. However, I don't buy the desirable personality. Yes, you might be friendly, good social skills, sometimes funny, positive, but that are only the very basics that you need to attract women. However, I also think that you Are trying to polarize too much too often to seem "interesting". Sometimes saying something really dumb think…
/r/seduction24/01/18 04:48 PM
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Either that or she actually made a mistake. Imagine that.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 02:18 PM
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You can find Britanny's number in 1 minute. Just write the number on a paper and then remove 1 digit of the number, save, and see if the number is on whatsapp. If not, add the removed number and remove another number. Repeat 8 times max and you've found britanny.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 12:12 PM
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Not really true. If you're body language and your facial expressions aren't beta, but instead, comfortable, a bit challenging, a bit superior, cocky funny without being arrogant, if you take up space with your body language, make big gestures sometimes without being weird or phony, if you hold strong eye contact, a woman sure wouldn't think you're beta. If you don't do these things yet, you aren't really "alpha" yet.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 12:06 PM
1

Have you ever met a person and you were completely blown away by what they were saying etc? You can get there by Cracking her up, so that she just laughs her ass off. Very few guys have ever managed to do that with her Challenge her, but make it somewhat fun Teach her how to accomplish what she is trying to do, be it a dream, get a certain job, getting through college. If you can tell her something that no one has told her before that is really valuable to her, and you make a few jokes in betwee…
/r/seduction24/01/18 10:09 AM
18

PUA ignores development as a man and focuses on getting women What is meant by pua here, the pua from mystery etc from 10 years ago or the pua from today, because pua today has evolved to focus a lot more on inner game than outer game or tricks.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 01:21 PM
3

Yeah, it's maybe when you want to get more experience, but after a while 7s don't offer anything anymore.
/r/seduction19/01/18 04:17 PM
2

Months though dude? Blowjob or kissing was up within weeks though, so not too hard. I also like the chase and not fucking her when she thought I would fuck her, so that she wants to fuck me more than I want to fuck her. There's just so many chicks out there who you can fuck sooner, maybe I'm just impatient. Yes, but they are 6s and 7s. No interest in fucking another 7, it just doesn't give me everything, I'd rather fuck 1 10 than 10 7s. So every 7 fucked is a waste of time and better spent in ge…
/r/seduction19/01/18 02:17 PM
0

Yaddia yada yada, it's a numbers game. I'm giving you a task now. Approach 500 women though dating apps, day game, social circle over the next 3 months, get 100 numbers, 15 dates, 3 times next and you're good. You really need to put in the work, don't b a loser and sit around on your couch and complain that you'll never be loved. Be a winner that gets shot down 400 out of 500 times and takes it like a man so that he can get those 100 numbers.
/r/seduction19/01/18 12:00 PM
1

Maybe one out of 4 times.
/r/seduction19/01/18 11:58 AM
1

It doesn't matter, tell her to hang out, escalate on the date, until she rejects you. That's how you'll know.
/r/seduction19/01/18 11:57 AM
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Disinterest mean she has standards. Of all the top 5 hottest girls I've slept with it took me months to bed them, even though we got a long really well. When a woman likes you, she doesn't nust want to get pumped and dumped. That's why she makes it a bit hard for you. That's good, it means she really likes you. If you move on when you get a little resistance, you're optimizing for girls with little abundance who are not that interesting, not that hot, don't have much interest from men.
/r/seduction19/01/18 11:56 AM
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Because 90% of subscribers here are newbies and haven't approached more than 10 women in their life.
/r/seduction19/01/18 11:52 AM
1

This can get you a girlfriend that is slightly less good looking than you, but you'll almost never get a that is better looking than you. If you are very good looking that is just as good looking as you, you won't get her without game. The exception is if you have very high status, then you don't need game as much. You need good looks, game and status if you want a super hot stunner that also has an interesting personality and is smart.
/r/seduction18/01/18 03:46 PM
2

Why are not all men aggressive alpha guys? Why are so many of them into typically feminine interests like blogging, writing and music? It's a spectrum of course. There are men with less testosterone and men with more by birth exercise a lot or exercise little whose environment is more competitive or less competitive which all have a strong impact on testosterone and general aggressiveness. However, men are a lot, a lot more aggressive than women on average. There very few women who are into extr…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/18 02:14 PM
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Women don't cheat for short term sex. They cheat emotionally with a man that they can see themselves with long term. Women are oxycitin cheaters, men are dopamin cheaters. Few women are dopamin cheaters with a short term lover.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 12:47 PM
0

This is probably the softest interpretation of this RP post. 90% of subscribers won't interpret it like that. Guys like that wouldn't be preferable for a short term relationship though, they would be the preferred option for both short term and long term relationships.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 10:20 PM
13

You can't say tell me what turns you on without prior verbale escalation. Like physical escalation, you need to escalate verbally at the same time through push and pull, ambiguity, misinterpretation. Ha you're cute Haha, you think I'm cute too You have a nice smile I like your smile Don't try to seduce me with your smile You look like a professional man seducer Let's maybe just stay friends youre too dangerous for me promise to not just use me? Ok, now I like you again(hug her) Here, have a kiss…
/r/seduction16/01/18 08:41 PM
1

Well sure, but she won't come with you if you didn't buuld rapport, comfort etc.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 08:12 PM
-4

Eh, maybe for young girls. They are very impressed by alpha douchebags. But later on, once they've had 2-3 alpha douchebags, it doesn't interest them anymore, novelty has worn off. Women crave variety.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 05:50 PM
1

Eh, forgot to add the 3rd ingredient, comfort. Otherwise youll get big time lmr.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 05:48 PM
13

Alright, let me drop my wisdom. "Never argue with women Except she has a STEM, psychology or law degree. Women who have those are far more able to think logically than the majority of men. "Never respond to a text immediately". False, don't respond immediately 90% of the time is the answer. However, 10% of the time when she doesn't expect it, reply immediately and have a flurry of texts with her. This excites women a lot and makes you unpredictable. Always check your women. In other words, quali…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 05:30 PM
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for short term relationship Which applies maybe to 10% of women who aren't looking for a relationship right now and want to have their wild phase. Some of these girls are non-trashy, but most of them are trashy. Try to be the alpha douche with attractive women who have abundance or women or women who aren't into hookups (90%) and they will roll eyes and lose all attraction for you. So, alpha douche works for trashy chicks or chicks who aren't looking for a relationship right now. Of course, it a…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 05:19 PM
1

Girls who can become attracted to you if you have good Game won’t friend zone you instantly if they feel somewhat attracted. Yes, but they will friendzone you if you haven't made a move after knowing her for a few meetups. That's the friendzone.
/r/seduction15/01/18 09:25 PM
2

The friendzone doesn't exist id you know how to tease and create attraction and comfort. No girl will just see you as a non sexual friend, they will see you as an interesting friend who she feels a sexual vibe with and at anytime, you can switch the flip from just being a friend to a lover. On the other hand, if you are not good at game, it's exceptionally hard to get out of the friendzone, because you don't know how.
/r/seduction15/01/18 08:44 PM
3

In this case no. You also don't need to tell people that you've though about putting something up your ass. There are things you simply never tell a girl. Losing virginity to a hooker is one of them. 95% of girls will be immediately be turned off by that and couldn't get it over themselves to have sex with you ever. Even things that Mark Manson says should be take with a grain of salt, his advice also doesn't always apply 100%. However, in your case, you should not be ashamed of yourself. Laugh …
/r/seduction15/01/18 08:41 PM
1

Yes, go lift 3 times a week and you'll already see decent improvements after 4-6 weeks and an entirely new you after 1 year.
/r/seduction14/01/18 04:28 PM
1

I've never had success with them and I've tried putting some effort into it but it still hasn't improved anything. What do you mean by that, can you you elaborate how you put in the effort and how much?
/r/seduction14/01/18 04:26 PM
2

Lift. Put on 10kg and your world will entirey change.
/r/seduction14/01/18 04:25 PM
0

Do you have good reaources for nlp? I've look but never found any good.
/r/seduction14/01/18 04:23 PM
1

Number don't mean nothing, but they don't mean much either. All in all, your text game is lacking. You probably write bad texts like "How are you" or "Hey, it's Mark, we met yesterday." instead of "Hello little cheeky one, I don't know if we can get together again, last night was way too much already! ;)"
/r/seduction14/01/18 04:21 PM
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Because you don't have abundance. If you had approached 500 women over the last few months, you'd be texting with 10-20 different hotties and would be happy if you'd have time for yourself and not getting texts from them all the time. Be proactive. :)
/r/seduction14/01/18 04:17 PM
1

Now, its full of SJWs, feminists, and a bubble that has popped a long time ago. So what, ignore them, why do you care so much what other people say anyway. If you want money, go get money. Sure, just that companies don't want to pay you good money if you don't have a degree. Judging from your post history, you're currently facing his harsh reality. I've seen people spinning their wheels for 10 years, 20 years and they never made more than $80k, which a simple graduate gets 3 years out of college…
/r/seduction08/01/18 06:49 PM
1

Such as higher mathematics, law, physiology or what are you referring to.
/r/seduction06/01/18 07:20 PM
1

So what are you saying, I didn't see what you're trying to say.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 10:24 AM
1

No, wayy to literal and wordy. Post a new pic to insta and write what i wrote with mr. handsome.
/r/seduction06/01/18 09:34 AM
1

Just day it next time she likes your pics again. She wants to play a bit hard to get.
/r/seduction05/01/18 10:46 PM
1

You did everything perfectly until the freeze out, because they don't work, they are a remnant from old school pua. Don't do cold freeze out, maybe warm freeze outs, where you do something else, but with her, to take off the pressure and build some rapport. Also, don't be so serious asking her about facetiming, you lost all your playfulness. Instead, be playful, tease her a bit. Katie, katie, so you dont wanna facetime with mr. handsome, but then you like all his pics. :p
/r/seduction05/01/18 10:17 PM
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Social circle game is your answer. Yes, cold approach is hard, and it requires some charm. But, hats off that you approached almost 1k women. Now, you can use those skills to build a social circle, so that you meet new women every week that you don't need to approach anymore.
/r/seduction05/01/18 10:12 PM
2

Um, with that birth rate and its death rate, Iceland still grows by 3,000+ inhabitants per year. https://www.statista.com/statistics/595287/forecast-of-population-growth-in-iceland/
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 08:06 PM
0

So, my comment is still correct.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 08:03 PM
2

So you're saying on average single parent children are better raised and more successful than children with both parents in a well working relationship?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 08:02 PM
1

Iceland also was there for the last 300,000 years when it only had a few thousand inhabitants, so will probably stay here.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 06:00 PM
1

Well probably makes sense when you would otherwise die at night if you get lost, because kd the cold.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 05:59 PM
8

Raising children sucks without being in a marriage-like relationship or in an actual marriage. This is because in this kind of relationship, the woman knows that she can take 2-4 years off work to take time for the children without having to worry about her finances all the time you fucking a new woman every month and not spending time with her and the child. Look, you can fuck a new girl every month, but you sure won't raise your children well without them having a stable mother father duo that…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 05:54 PM
-4

We are told that because females can sometimes perform at par with males academically. Isn't it the opposite, that males can sometimes perform at par with females, but usually women perform better. http://www.freepatentsonline.com/article/College-Student-Journal/270894549.html
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 05:38 PM
0

Next time she does something sexual, be really alpha with her, say shut the fuck up (in a joking way), grab her waist and let go again. This will make her feel very startled since she didnt expect it from you to be so manly. Tease her hard, but the stop and be nice again. Give her a little kiss. She needs this push and pull. But don't get hopes up too much, it probably won't work out, maybe, but you can learn a lot from interacting with her.
/r/seduction04/01/18 10:55 PM
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Why all this drama, give it 2 years and all is back to normal. No need to hyperventilate about a re-occuring correction in the sexual market place.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 06:07 PM
3

Cocky funny doesn't work that well on Tinder. It works better in person, but there you also need to be aware of escalating it, starting small and increasing more with time and more comfort. Furthermlee, only be cocky funny with 1. Hot and 2. Self- confident girls 3. That give you a lot of shit If any of these 3 points don't apply, you can't really do much cocky funny.
/r/seduction03/01/18 04:57 PM
0

Yep looks matter, around 1/3, next to 1/3 game and 1/3 status.
/r/seduction03/01/18 10:11 AM
1

Please post questions you asked normally.
/r/seduction02/01/18 11:46 AM
3

The funny thing is that I've never actually been rejected by a girl, because I virtually never took any risk ! That's the problem right here. Try to get rejected because you're being too bold. Don't try to come across as try-hard though, just escalate and see if she rejects it. Furthermore, she doesn't reject you as a person, she rejects the thing you're doing rigght now, because she doesn't feel it yet, but maybe later again or talking to her a bit more. That's why, you should try to build more…
/r/seduction02/01/18 11:46 AM
2

Need to say it before, ah we shouldn't kiss, we shouldn't cuddle, shouldn't hold hands, shouldnt look at each other like that, shouldnt flirt. ;)
/r/seduction01/01/18 08:57 PM
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It's one of the most occuring topics here, LMR. How to beat it? Flip the script. Be the one saying "ok, let's maybe stop that", "okok, we're getting a bit ahead of outselfves here. :D". Let her be the one to seduce you.
/r/seduction01/01/18 02:30 PM
2

100 women in month with no success and wondering if you need to do more? He never said that, he probably gets 30 numbers and 10 dates out of that. OP?
/r/seduction01/01/18 11:37 AM
1

Make it 3 times bigger, that takes effort of course. Be the guy that everyone knows, be the guy who knows when cool things are on. You can check out Ultimate guide for phone and text game by love system, that helped me a lot.
/r/seduction31/12/17 11:22 PM
1

Yes, but 50% or more guys on this sub take absolutes like this absolutely to heart.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 09:58 PM
1

College isn't about cold approach, game happens through social circle building. Other times, I've taken the direct route and approached hundreds of women in malls and beaches and bars using compliments. But the numbers are flakey and I've gotten zero dates. Or the girls will be taken. You can still do some cold approach, but focus more on getting girls through your social circle. Furthermore, you need to work on getting better on your text game.
/r/seduction31/12/17 05:08 PM
3

Lol no, it makes you the guy who is always talking about himself. She should be talking about herself.
/r/seduction31/12/17 05:04 PM
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It's neither, because when you tell girls you're looking for a relationship right now or you want to keep it casual, you don't need to do any of the above list, not being available for a relationship puts your smv at the highest possible that you don't need any of those.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 04:38 PM
13

Yeah, except OP puts this at the end to make it crystal clear. PS : Replace never with 'never ever'
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 02:47 PM
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There are also as many grandpas like this, go visit a care home and you'll see. I don't see your point.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 02:38 PM
2

Same goes for public apologies for guys, this isn't a woman-specific behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 12:28 PM
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This list is a bit silly. Have you ever been in a relationship? Never ever tell her that you love her deeply, never write too romantic letters , messages etc. Want to express love? Say 'I like you' and stop don't glorify love too much. Women are romantic but internally in their imagination not outside. These will make a women leave you for emotional unavailability. Read Sex God Method. EDIT: The answer here is to say 1/3 less than her. She says "I love you". Ok, cuddle her. She says "I love you"…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 12:25 PM
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