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| 51 | Need Help Gents!You’ve obviously not read the sidebar. That’s your first priority. As to your situation, get off Snapchat. Seriously, delete it. Maybe that’s what you Zoomers do nowadays but I tend to doubt times have changed. Only do that crap with girls that you’re already banging. You’re providing her with free validation and attention, as you know. Soft next until she agrees to meet in person | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/22 11:50 AM |
| -1 | Chicks know high-status guys aren't going to wait aroundFor everyone reading my first comment, this sperg is Exhibit A of the type of guy I was talking about. I’m actually glad he came along so y’all can see the silliness in action, but ultimately there’s nothing to see here…move along. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/22 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Chicks know high-status guys aren't going to wait aroundLol what? I was radio silent for six months, literally forgot she even existed. That’s the difference between you and me. I simply don’t care, because I’m actively texting 10 chicks. It’s just sex, bro. Stop making it into a bigger deal than it really is, and you’ll find yourself getting a lot more of it By the way, I don’t give a flying rats ass about “our situation”. 95% of guys on this forum are hopeless anyway. I really don’t care about any of you losers, but I’ll weigh in from time to time … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/22 01:07 PM |
| 0 | Chicks know high-status guys aren't going to wait aroundTo be clear, we banged once before. I assumed it was a ONS when she never responded to my follow up and just never texted her again. As to your other point, I regularly delete and refresh my dating app profiles. But tbh I can’t remember ever hooking up with a match who didn’t respond to a message within 48 hours. I’ll usually unmatch after that because I like to keep my feed uncluttered, but that’s up to you FYI soft next only really works for girls that you have met in person | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/22 05:07 AM |
| 24 | Chicks know high-status guys aren't going to wait aroundGood stuff. Many very immature dudes here would have told you to HaRD nExT tHAt BiTcH!!! or “call her out” on her indecisiveness. Lots of butthurt betas on this forum throwing away sexual opportunities to guys like you and me. In fact, just had a girl that blew me off for 6 months randomly text me; went straight to her place and fucked her brains out. Probably just broke it off with another guy, but who cares? The only part I’ll disagree with is the language concerning how it’s a mans job to pur… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Okay, what if instead I turn the tables and ask her, “what are we”? Before she asks first?My girl is studying abroad I was honestly going to stop reading at this point. Studying abroad in Europe = going to take Jorge's fat Spanish cock. She is a shy conservative one Lost count of the number of shy conservative mouths I've nutted in She went out to the club in her second day there. "Siiiii" -Jorge while nutting on her face that night I took her(20) virginity. So what? Every hoe was a virgin at one point, doesn't mean squat. We have never had “the conversation” that lays out whether or… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/22 03:54 AM |
| 2 | What Comes After Getting Laid?What Comes After Getting Laid? Getting laid again. And again and again, until I drop dead. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/22 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Girl still on dating appsIf you were fucking several girls you wouldn't even notice or care about this stupid shite. Scarcity mentality. Meet more girls. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 08:00 PM |
| 2 | I got ghosted by a virgin and I honestly have no idea whyShe was texting me first all the time, this went on for 2-3 days. Then she stopped, How many fucking times does it need to be said...TEXT FOR LOGISTICS ONLY. Light banter is okay if she insists but cut it short. The next time we gonna meet is 15 days later because of a nationwide lockdown. A) Why do you care so much about these lockdowns? She's gonna go meet a guy who don't give a fuck about that dumb shite. 2 weeks in between dates is too long. B) If staying at home is really such a big deal, t… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 07:54 PM |
| 5 | It’s Going To be a Hot Girl SummerThe Last Week on Dating Apps Girl 1: Match on Tinder. Messages me at midnight and straight up goes "wanna fuck?" Self-explanatory. Girl 2: Match on Bumble, I go pick her up at the train station and bring her straight over to my place for drinks. Rides me to glory like she ain't never been laid before (apparently 6 months without sex). Girl 3: Match on Tinder, again I pick her up at a coffee shop and bring her right back to my place. I soon find out she's a virgin...the sight of her eyes going wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/21 08:23 PM |
| 5 | Mixed signals on a date. Extremely confused. Wtf happened.A majority of people would think I’m better looking then her. You don't think she realizes this? Ugly girls know they're ugly. They know you just want to pump and dump. You even admit that's all you wanted. On the other hand, hot girls know they're "good enough" for more than one lay. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/21 10:06 PM |
| 13 | Mixed signals on a date. Extremely confused. Wtf happened.Mixed signals on a date. Extremely confused. Wtf happened. There's no such thing as mixed signals. There's nothing to be confused about. She wasn't feeling it. Next. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/21 08:50 PM |
| 3 | 631 tinder match, not a single one above an 8realistically probably a 7 Hey doofus, ever hear of hypergamy? You're a 7 on an app where Looks are 95% of the game, and yet you wonder why you don't get with HB8+. I have money Your money matters for shit on Tinder. decent pictures Girls couldn't give two shits for "decent." Decent is as worthless as a bucket of warm piss. You need outstanding pictures. FFS I don’t want to bang 5s Quit whining and get in the gym, take better pictures, wait until things get back to normal. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Overcoming LMR Step-by-Step With a Hot Hinge Date (and More)As a general rule I never double text, so correct (she never texted me back FYI). Maybe in another few months if I'm bored and horny one night. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/20 04:57 AM |
| 2 | First date fuck or NOTHING mentality - is this rooted in abundance or scarcity mentality?even after all that they still meet up but DONT fuck. I don’t get it. Hey buddy, nobody bats 1,000. Stop getting butthurt about it. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/20 06:09 PM |
| 3 | First date fuck or NOTHING mentality - is this rooted in abundance or scarcity mentality?I go into dates with the attitude that I'm going to try and fuck her. In my mind, that's why we're meeting. And maybe I fail, but at least she'll respect me (and I can respect myself) for giving it a shot. Women can't respect a passive man. I wouldn't hard next a girl who didn't bang me on the first date. That sounds pretty extreme. Most of the time it's a soft next for me. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/20 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Getting One Night Stands From Dating Apps: Know the SignsWe match, text, and set up the date within a matter of hours (often for the same night)...not days. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/20 02:47 PM |
| 1 | A friend of mine had a monitoring device on his girlfriends phone for almost 3 months.She’s a solid 7/10-8/10 depends on the day, same as him. Well there's your answer. Social matching theory predicts this, i.e. people of similar SMV tend to end up together. She probably perceives him to be of higher value in terms of physical appearance. Either you're underestimating your friend's handsomeness or overestimating her attractiveness. Probably both. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/20 03:24 PM |
| 8 | I've never felt good enough for hot girls. How can I change that?Well the truth of the matter is that you aren't going to be "good enough" for a lot of hot girls. Nobody bats 1000. Maybe Jimmy Garoppollo can get 99/100 girls. You might only get 5/100 but that simply means you must do a lot of approaches. The good news is that you don't need 99/100 hotties to want your dick, you only need a few of them. And I've always found that the hot girls who are interested in me are generally easier and more fun to be with than average chicks. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/20 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Could I have done anything differently here?Putting down the phone is a soft next. You don't reengage until she reaches out with a better attitude. So let's say my FWB is getting pissy with me. I say "alright" and disengage. She texts back "you're an asshole." I don't respond. She texts again "so you're just going to ignore me?" I don't respond. A few hours later, she calls me to FaceTime. This time I'll pick up. She's crying on the other end, and now she's apologetic. I have her in my Frame. See the difference between that and your stupi… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/20 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Could I have done anything differently here?What I mean by this is that we started getting into it, and then completely stops and says she doesn't want to anymore. Correct response is "alright" then put your phone down and do something else. I told her straight up, playing games is a huge turn off. You know what else is a turn off? Telling a chick she's playing games. She already suspected you were a whiny Beta deep down inside, and now you just confirmed it. I was "emotionally abusive" by not replying And yet you continue to reply and ta… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/20 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Girl ghosted me after a date, responded after a week apologizing, is there anything to do from here or is this it?Dude. She rejected you. How much more clear does she have to be? Move on. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/20 02:29 PM |
| 5 | How long do you wait to text after a hookup? Or do you wait for them to reach out? (21m)You're leaving town, right? The normal rules don't really apply in this situation. You probably won't see her again anyway, so who gives a shit? Hit her up, tell her when you want to meet again. I met a girl on a work trip once and we fucked every night I was there. Don't overthink this. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/20 02:13 PM |
| 2 | How many Likes do you get from each Tinder Boost?Tinder Boost is pretty useless these days. Yeah, I get shown to a ton of profiles, but most of them are fatties or uggos (I have Gold, so I can see them). In the old days Boost was effective, but now I get far better matches just from swiping normally. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/20 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Despite me suggesting we link on evenings, she responded that she wants to link during the morning. Is this her being uncomfortable?I've never done a morning date in my entire life. Morning/afternoon dates = not sexual. Maybe some guys can make it work, but I avoid non-night dates at all costs. Of all the girls I have ever banged, I can think of just two that I fucked for the first time before 6 PM. So take that for what it's worth. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/20 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Bringing new dates to the same place?Pre-Covid I consistently met girls at the same two bars, depending on the circumstances. One was a 15 min drive downtown, the other a 10 min walk from my apartment. And yeah, you start to get knowing looks from the bartenders which is always amusing. If it ain't broke, don't fix it. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/20 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Does a woman lose respect for you if you don’t have sex?Frankly the idea of sex being banned on campus is incredibly bizarre to me. In any event, if you're so worried about the consequences, then why did you even have a girl over in the first place? Either you're going to have girls over and bang them, or you're not. Shit or get off the pot. There's nothing Alpha about being indecisive. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/20 03:13 PM |
| 1 | What would guys say when you get the "i have a boyfriend" shit test especially when you know she's doesn't have one and has given you dom IOIsWhy are you so focused on what to say this hoe? Scarcity mentality. Next. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/20 02:54 PM |
| 9 | What to do when a date just gives zero physical IOIs?You met her on Tinder. She came back your place to "use the bathroom" (oldest trick in the book). From my perspective reading this, it couldn't be more obvious that she was DTF. My guess is that something in your demeanor just creeped her out or communicated Beta vibes. It's important that you make a move within minutes once you're in a private place. The more you wait, the more you shoot yourself in the foot, because she's just going to think you're a sexually awkward pussy who can't make a mov… | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Does being a "bad boy" on online dating help you? (Let me explain)I also read online here and there that girls like bad boys. For instance, a guy who would not hesitate to ask if she's dtf, or make some sexual comments towards her. This is never going to work on Tinder unless you're incredibly good looking, and even then it's only going to work some of the time. Opening with "wanna bang?" isn't direct, it's socially retarded and demonstrates that you don't understand the game. I wrote two guides on "Escalating a Tinder Match," check my post history. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Consistent ASD on dates. Does no f-close on first date indicate a game failure?Check my post history, I've written two FRs where I discuss LMR. I've said what I have to say, this is going in circles now. Game is obviously dogshit and needs to change. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Is it a shit test or a rejection?I can't believe no one's said this yet...but what the fuck kind of weak ass, moronic question was that? Text should have been "Hey come to my Halloween party Saturday night." Or whatever. Asking if she has any plans is passive and pointless. Pretend you didn't even send that stupid shite. The next message you send her should be logistics. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 10:12 PM |
| 1 | From Kissing and foreplay to fucking and dressing up, How long do you guys last?Exactly 17.324 minutes. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Consistent ASD on dates. Does no f-close on first date indicate a game failure?Half of the times we are both 100% sober too. Not conducive to sex in my experience. Always better to have at least 1-2 token drinks so they can rationalize the act. it is hard for me to distinguish if I'm making a game error and/or the attraction isn't there, or if my player vibe is so strong that the LMR is very strong. All three. You aren't a player. Players know how to close and finesse their way into her pants. You're likely coming across as a thirsty horndog who isn't chill. also could be … | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Old one night stand reaching out to meThat's why they call it a One Night Stand...it's right there in the definition. One night. She wanted you for sex, which is a good thing. Means you're doing something right. She liked your Hinge profile, tell her to come over. Nut in her mouth then go about your week. Let her chase you while you keep banging other girls. Any girl who blows you off after a ONS is automatically plate material at best, never for a relationship. There's nothing to think about here. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Consistent ASD on dates. Does no f-close on first date indicate a game failure?I'm wondering if this is indicative of a game mistake Sounds to me like you're moving too fast. Meet in public for a drink, either at a bar or do a BYOB park date. Then head back to your place if sex is your intention. Make sure these dates are taking place at night. Some guys can make daytime work but I've always had a very hard time with it. Check my post history for more on Tinder. if my expectations for first date sex are just unreasonable. How are you meeting these girls? Dating apps? If th… | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Can you really see it in her face when a girl's been around a lot?Briffault's Law and the Light Switch Effect. Basic sidebar material. Read up. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Can you really see it in her face when a girl's been around a lot?This post is the male version of that zodiac crap that women actually think means something. Stop imagining that she's depressed and unhappy without you. Believe me, she doesn't miss you or give a flying rat's ass about you. If she did, then she wouldn't have dumped you to go ride the CC. What you're noticing (assuming it's not in your imagination) is simple aging. People's faces often lean out as they get older. Sometimes it's for the better (me) and other times it's for the worse. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 02:58 PM |
| 2 | How much will professional pictures help with tinder8/10 isn't enough to get away with a profile full of model shots. You need to be a 9 or 10, which you obviously aren't. I would strongly recommend against doing this. Unless you're a professional model or just incredibly photogenic, you probably won't pull it off, and it's going to be hundreds of dollars wasted. If you do go this route, check out the photographer's portfolio first. Most pros are used to doing high school yearbook shoots or Linkedin shots, which isn't going to get you the right v… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Not sure if this first date was low interestDo you think it’s a bad idea to accept morning dates in general Yes. Same reason I don't do afternoon dates, the vibe isn't conducive to getting her horny. The earliest I've ever fucked a girl on a first date was around 5 and it was a special circumstance. The idea of meeting a girl for a date in the morning is just plain weird to me, but if you can make that work, then you do you. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Not sure if this first date was low interestWas going to say essentially this. Perfect answer. This girl has low interest, that's all there is to it. I would add that accepting a morning date is some weak ass shit, agreeing to that screams scarcity. Also anytime a girl brings up other guys on the date, it's never a good sign. Means she subconsciously wishes she was with someone else and not you. I would have terminated the date after that comment. One Red Pill to swallow is that a kiss doesn't really matter. Girls kiss their girlfriends a… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/20 09:46 PM |
| 6 | Eating girls out? Thoughts and opinionsI personally don't enjoy it. I suspect my aversion to going down on girls comes from my first girlfriend. She always complained about not being able to cum from intercourse, so I would go down on her. It legit would take 20 min to finish her, to the point where my jaw ached and clicked afterward...every fucking time. FWB after her was a freak who could cum multiple times from my cock in one go. Much more fulfilling sex, in my opinion. I'll go down on girls, but only as foreplay and once I know h… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/20 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Program for bulking? Looking for one w emphasis on compound movementsStarting Strength. You wouldn't use that for a whole year, though. That's a 3-4 month program, then you move on to something else. YMMV but I find that I need to cycle though strength/hypertrophy work a few times a year, I can't stay on the same program year-round. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/20 09:10 PM |
| 2 | How has having a beard helped you? Socially? Currently growing one.In terms of girls, it's definitely been a major hit. But my beard is the "heavy stubble" look, i.e. 10-14 days of growth. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/20 09:47 PM |
| 1 | My last 3 dates didn't end up with sexSometimes you have a winning streak. Sometimes you have a losing streak. This is life. 2 out of 3 gave me a blowjob tho. Well that's certainly a win in my book, a lot of guys complain about girls not giving head. Did you hit up these chicks again? I am however new to the HB8+ division. Before I would fuck HB 5s, 6s and 7s. Curious. I've always had it easier with the hot girls, they're usually more confident and fun to be with. It's the average chicks (5-6) that hold out on me, probably because t… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/20 09:41 PM |
| 9 | What the fuck am I doing wrong?Let me get this straight. You don't get out, you don't socialize, you have a shit Tinder profile, you don't approach, you hang out with all Beta dorks. What the fuck do you expect to happen, exactly? A girl to fall out of the sky and impale herself on your cock? Put in some fucking effort. You're in college literally surrounded by horny chicks. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/20 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Interested women becoming disinterested.I have been friends with this women since we were kids Stopped reading after this. Scarcity mentality. Game more chicks, obtain more abundance. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/20 09:23 PM |
| 1 | The quiet, shy, loner type girl.Have any of you dealt with a girl like this? Not really, I tend to like the charming girly types. I don't want to bang the female version of myself. But to each his own. Of the "shy" girls that I've dated, I fucked most of them on the first date. So in that sense, I didn't really do anything differently. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/20 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Anyone Else Been on a Dry Spell During COVID-19?As far as girls, had three regular plates/fuck buddies at the start of the year. One graduated college and moved away, the other two I continued banging but I got pretty bored of them tbh and basically allowed them to drop off. Started meeting new girls again through dating apps in August. Had a few ONSs, but alas, wasn't able to plate any of them (or didn't want to). Nothing regular right now, but there's worse things in life than hitting a new piece of ass every other week. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/20 06:19 PM |
| 5 | Overcoming LMR Step-by-Step With a Hot Hinge Date (and More)Yes, let's talk about blowing loads. As I said, I only brought one condom, and she didn't have any at her place. It's unfortunate because I would have been good for Round 2, where I would have lasted much longer, but she just sucked me off instead (not complaining, her head game was on point). I'm not entirely sure that lack of endurance killed me here, it's just my speculation. Maybe she decided that she just didn't like me that much, or she only wanted a ONS in the first place. Those explanati… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/20 06:59 PM |
| 7 | Best way to land a intern working under you?Obvious troll is obvious | /r/askTRP | 18/10/20 06:52 PM |
| 0 | I am 25 and still living at home; should I move out or stay home and save more money?Move out. Too many Betas out there getting soft sucking on mommy's tit well into their 20s and even 30s. It's impossible to be 'truly Alpha' if you aren't even the authority figure in your own house. Like another commenter said, it's obvious in your body language and attitude. I stayed home for two years after college, and that was at least a year too long. Saving money is nice, but you can't buy your way to manhood. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 02:41 PM |
| 6 | How the fuck rapes happen? How can you fuck someone how is scared and isn’t wet?As far as the physiology goes, women often do, in fact, get wet during rape. It's involuntary, like how many guys get inappropriate boners during a massage or butthole examination by a doctor. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 02:27 PM |
| 2 | How to Take an Effective Tinder Profile PictureWomen rate my pictures 4ish/10 at most on Photofeeler. Because you suck ass at taking pictures. If you're really as jacked as you claim (and not a fatass in denial claiming to be "bulky") then you should be able to take some quality photos. Did your mom buy your clothes? Is your haircut/grooming making you look like crap? Are your facial expressions/body language telegraphing Beta? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/20 11:52 PM |
| 2 | How to Take an Effective Tinder Profile PictureYou are telling average guys they can get 9.8 No, I'm saying that they can improve their results. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/20 07:00 PM |
| 2 | What is TRP’s view on asexuality (or rather strict celibacy)?strict celibacy Fuck. That. Shit. That's my answer to that. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Keeping tinder convos interesting?Check my post history, I address this topic in "Escalating a Tinder Match" parts 1 and 2 | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 02:51 PM |
| 3 | How to Take an Effective Tinder Profile PictureYou're probably right, although I wouldn't say I put in a lot of effort, these are quick hits. It's irritating to get 87% approval for the post, but half of the commenters are morons. When one idiot gets upvoted early on, the rest of the idiots pile in and actual good contributors get scared off. Usually I get a lot of great comments that add to the discussion, but for whatever reason that didn't happen here. Oh well. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/20 02:44 PM |
| 5 | How to Take an Effective Tinder Profile Picture9.8 attractiveness on photofeeler. I'm sorry but you need to be model status to get that What you guys don't realize is that handsomeness goes beyond underlying facial aesthetics. Yes, your genetics are pretty important, but fashion, grooming, and overall physique make a big difference, as does the quality of the picture itself. That's what I hit on in this guide. Remember that most girls look like crap without makeup, nice hair, white teeth, etc. This is the male version of that. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/20 02:36 PM |
| 3 | How to Take an Effective Tinder Profile PictureJust because you’re taking good pictures of yourself to get more pussy? Careful, you're going to trigger the MGTOW crowd with that one. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/20 12:58 AM |
| 12 | How to Take an Effective Tinder Profile PictureI used to lift but stopped during the lockdown. Exhibit A right here. Doesn't lift. Nothing to see here, move on. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/20 12:55 AM |
| 11 | How to Take an Effective Tinder Profile PictureI'm pretty sure they mean guys who can't pull off shirtless pictures. i.e. all of these doofuses commenting and upvoting each other. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/20 06:40 PM |
| 20 | How to Take an Effective Tinder Profile PictureThanks. GayLubeOil has it right; 90% of this sub doesn't actually lift, as the comments section demonstrates quite clearly. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/20 06:38 PM |
| 2 | How to Take an Effective Tinder Profile PictureI’m athletic and have a body almost as good as ”Zach” but still struggle to show it. I don’t want to post shirtless pics. Kind of a contradiction, don't you think? Wear fitted clothes or a tank top as an alternative. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/20 06:30 PM |
| 5 | How to Take an Effective Tinder Profile Picturelifting won't improve your face even a little. what's your height/weight and deadlift? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/20 06:26 PM |
| 15 | How to Take an Effective Tinder Profile PictureI mean there's no "getting free pussy" section so where else? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/20 06:24 PM |
| 13 | How to Take an Effective Tinder Profile PictureIf you lifted you wouldn't hate Tinder, believe me | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/20 06:23 PM |
| -4 | How to Take an Effective Tinder Profile Picturenot waste time impressing some chick on Tinder. well some chick definitely impressed me with her blowjob skills the other week, that I can tell you. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/20 06:23 PM |
| 10 | How to Take an Effective Tinder Profile PictureAh yes, you only put your dick into Quality Women ™ my mistake. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/20 06:09 PM |
| 1 | How to Take an Effective Tinder Profile PictureYou have it backwards guy; Tinder whores should stop supporting me and my free pussy habit. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/20 06:03 PM |
| 2 | How to Take an Effective Tinder Profile PictureFantastic, I look forward to your lectures on "basic shit" and the "modern red pill" very soon. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/20 05:59 PM |
| -5 | How to Take an Effective Tinder Profile PicturePlease, enlighten my clearly inferior intellect with your extensive experience. I would like you to elaborate on why it "sounds to me one lacks better shit to do in order to invest so much in peacocking oneself." Because clearly I have nothing going on, I'd like to learn from someone like yourself who obviously does. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/20 02:35 PM |
| -3 | How to Take an Effective Tinder Profile PictureI run a business. I swipe/message when I'm taking a shit or eating meals. Wrote several posts on my strategy for setting up a date FAST, as to not waste time. Maybe the concept of making an investment doesn't compute for you, but once you put in the initial work, the gains are basically passive. What are you doing that has you so busy? Meeting the Pope? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/20 02:09 PM |
| 11 | How to Take an Effective Tinder Profile PictureYou're going to have these schmucks in every Tinder-related post. Weaklings and fat fucks, every last one of them. I get not liking Tinder if you want to bang 9s, gotta approach IRL for that, but I find that people who aren't succeeding at Tinder don't lift. Period. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/20 01:58 PM |
| 17 | How to Take an Effective Tinder Profile PictureHey dummy, I wrote a whole post about pulling girls in a club setting. You can do both, but I guess that's too much for your brain! | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/20 04:25 AM |
| 71 | How to Take an Effective Tinder Profile PictureWho said anything about "fulfillment?" For God's sake man, Tinder is supposed to be fun. Live a little. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/20 04:21 AM |
| 98 | How to Take an Effective Tinder Profile PictureIdk about anyone else, but I'm always happier after I bust my nut in a Tinder hoe | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/20 02:50 AM |
| 12 | Can those Tinder Warriors out there give a TLDR on some of the scams we have to look out for?Never send any girl nudes. No real girl will ever ask for that. A common scam these days is for guys to send compromising photos, then get hit with blackmail/threats to send the pics to all your Facebook friends. Many guys have lost thousands of dollars on this, and it's often never reported to authorities. Just remember, if it sounds too good to be true, then it probably is. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 02:50 AM |
| 1 | I get so much shit from people ever since getting muscles, a fun well paying job, cute girlfriend that every one of my friends would love to fuckI am literally ranting about how everyone else sucks and I'm the best. You sound like you're fun at parties. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 12:34 AM |
| 5 | 1st date, kiss, refuses to come back to mine, gives me the cheek1st date, kiss, refuses to come back to mine, gives me the cheek NEXT. But if you want more info, read on. HB8 from Tinder. You sure she was an 8 dude? Most actual hot girls from Tinder are pretty easy lays, they won't even bother unless they're fairly certain about you. It's the average chicks that put up resistance. She sat a bit away from me. Off to a bad start already, either she went into this not wanting sex in the first place, or your vibe/physical appearance didn't do it for her. We talk… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Are dating apps just impossible these days?When I first started out with Tinder I got no matches at all for months. Literally zero. Everything that I've achieved is the result of working on my pictures and self-improvement in terms of fashion/grooming/physique. But hey, if you want to keep being a salty neckbeard, that's your business. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 11:20 PM |
| 1 | I have oneitis for a chick i fucked once, do i plate or move on?My first actual 10 She's not a 10, asshat. Unless you just banged Kate Upton or someone of that caliber who's a legitimate model. Probably more like a 7-8 when we take away your ONEitis goggles. i find myself thinking about us having sex every second of the day and where i fucked up and where i couldve done better. Who gives a rat's ass? Girls don't really care about great you are in the sack the first time. What matters is the overall Alpha experience, not the sex act itself. Focus on your beha… | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Does it matter whether you use the term hangout or date?They know what "hang out" means. How you act when you're with her determines how things will go. Read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Are dating apps just impossible these days?I'm no model and I regularly get laid with 6s and 7s on Tinder with the occasional soft 8. The difference between me and you is that I put in the effort to build a robust profile. You, on the other hand, are a lazy sack of shit that doesn't want to put in any effort, and would rather just sit around and whine about how life isn't fair. There are plenty of guides on the main sub on how to optimize your dating profile, so either execute or shut the fuck up about it. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Escalating with hot girls / club sceneI’m limited experience so I don’t know how this girl will react to my poor sexual performance. Who gives a shit? Every guy thinks he's amazing in bed; every girl will tell you that isn't the case. It takes time to get to know an individual girl and her body. She understands this. At the end of the day, your sexual performance is really pretty marginal. If you're Alpha and there's personal chemistry, then she'll want to see you again. If she decides that you're Beta or was only looking for ONS, t… | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Plating a stripper a bad idea?Funny thing was this girl dropped all sorts of money on hotels and other fun activities for us. So there's the upside - an Airbnb in California wine country paid for by simps. Kinda got off on that a bit, I'll admit it. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 04:54 AM |
| 11 | Plating a stripper a bad idea?Here's the same two cents that I throw in every time the stripper topic comes up. These girls are always on the hustle, they're good actresses, and they know how to milk desperate needy men. You think you're Gaming her? Wrong. You're the one who's being Gamed, my friend. She'll get your number then hit you up to come to the club to "hang out" during a slow night...that is to say, use you as an ATM. Or get you to do OnlyFans or whatever the hell they're doing to make money these days. That said, … | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Is tinder real lifeI think typically the answer to this question is yes. Obviously good looking people have an easier life in all venues. But I've also noticed that many of the most handsome guys also have the best profiles, e.g. confident body language, stylish clothing and grooming, exciting pictures, etc. Good looking people tend to be more vain and self-aware about Tinder, whereas a clueless dork is just going to throw up any old picture without any consideration as to how he's coming across. That being said, … | /r/askTRP | 12/10/20 08:32 PM |
| 1 | If women are hypergamous by nature, then why are there a decent amount of hot female celebrities with average looking guys?Beta bucks is basically marrying or being attached to a man for mainly financial gain, right? Nope. Financial is often a large part of it, but not always. Emotional support, commitment, parental investment are also hallmarks of BB. Back to the sidebar you go. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/20 08:23 PM |
| 1 | All the YouTube redpill personalities except for the official channel are just chumps. Anybody else feel this way?No offense OP, but these threads (which come up often) are pretty stupid. It's like asking people who they want for President; they're just going to answer whoever they personally relate to, which has nothing to do with substance. I love Rollo because in some ways he reminds me of myself, and I enjoy his analytical style. Given his age and experience, I think he's better suited for a more mature audience. A lot of young guys have trouble understanding why an ex-rocker would be appealing to women… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/20 04:09 PM |
| 18 | Caught LTR in lie tonight. Demote or just ghost her?Should I flat out ghost her ass and walk away with a nice trip or seriously demote her and continue to bang her and spin some other plates. Unfortunately I'm suffering from oneitis I'm sorry, but it seems to me that she's banging Chad and God knows who else while keeping you around as the Beta Bucks. As to keeping her around, sounds like you're a smoker who thinks that going from two packs a day to one pack a day is going to solve the problem. You're addicted to this chick's pussy. You know you … | /r/askTRP | 12/10/20 03:29 AM |
| 5 | Best tinder openers and how to number closeHi [Name] I stopped doing customized creative openers a long time ago. No offense to anyone still doing that, but you probably aren't getting enough matches. You won't have time for that nonsense when you get 10-20 matches a day. As to number closing, I wrote two guides called "Escalating a Tinder Match" check my post history. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/20 03:00 AM |
| 1 | If women are hypergamous by nature, then why are there a decent amount of hot female celebrities with average looking guys?Dude your article is a perfect example of the thing you're trying to disprove. Did you forget about Beta Bucks? | /r/askTRP | 12/10/20 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Having a really hard time reading this girlThat's what I'm saying. Keep her as a plate/fuck buddy. Don't be making dates with flakey chicks with low interest, just text them for sex when you're horny on a Friday night or whatever. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/20 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Having a really hard time reading this girlIt seems like this chick wants me to chase her and I'm not going to play that game. No, it's the opposite. She just doesn't care. She simply doesn't give a shit either way. This is the equivalent of having a fat chick blow up your phone - you aren't trying to get her to chase you, you're just totally indifferent. she got all emotional Water is wet, in other words. that could just be insecurity on her part No, the only insecure one here is YOU. This is your problem. Guys hamster away disinterest … | /r/askTRP | 11/10/20 04:23 PM |
| 5 | Having a really hard time reading this girlI have been seeing this extremely hot girl Stop thinking about her in terms of her hotness. Easier said than done, I know, but this is completely skewing your perspective. You aren't thinking straight. I find that I am always the one making plans with her. What does that tell you? Think of it. This past Thursday she was supposed to text me to confirm if she would be able to hang out Friday night which she didn't. That's when you make plans with your friend. Never double text. She obviously saw y… | /r/askTRP | 11/10/20 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Shirtless Picture on TinderThis physique is fine for getting laid on Tinder. It's always better if you're actually doing something in your picture. In my shirtless pic, I'm holding an axe chopping wood in my backyard. That's worked well for me. I'd focus less on getting the perfect shirtless picture and more on optimizing the rest of your profile. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/20 02:56 PM |
| 1 | If height “doesn’t matter” for men, then why are men in movies & media depicted as the tall alpha male?Girls like tall men. In other breaking news, it was recently announced that Pope Francis is Catholic. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/20 01:02 AM |
| 3 | "I really like this but I don't want to be option #1234"Got wishy washy answers from her like "maybe, I may hang out with a friend though." This is the only meaningful line in the whole post. "Maybe = "Not interested" in womanese. My response would have been "Alright, we can hang another time" or not even respond at all. Then text some other girl. She'll hit you up again if she's interested. Try again in a few weeks or months if you hear nothing back. All that bullcrap about her being a kissless virgin is irrelevant. Every hoe was a virgin at one poi… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/20 12:28 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when you just dont feel confident enough to go out with a hot girl?I wasn't in a frat myself, but isn't it basically understood that you're gonna bone after the event? At least that's what I hear from ex-frat bros. Point is, if it's pretty much a done deal anyway, all you have to do is not fuck up. That's how you should act regardless of whether or not that's true. I dont feel good or ready enough for her. I've felt that way about many of the hottest girls that I've banged. "Man, if only I met this girl after my cut was finished!" Didn't matter. Shit that you t… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/20 12:15 AM |
| 63 | Chick said I sucked at kissingKissing takes a lot of practice, so obviously you need someone to practice with. The girls that are bad at kissing and sex (i.e. most of them) have never had a proper boyfriend in their lives. That's why I always prefer a chick who's had a nice Beta BF or two before me. Anyway, kissing is like dancing; it doesn't work when both people are trying to lead, or when someone is leading too aggressively. There's a certain flow to it. Match her level of intensity at first, then ramp it up as she gets c… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Getting One Night Stands From Dating Apps: Know the SignsFor context my girls are between 30-40 and most of them are 31-32 Thanks for the comment, but quite frankly I don't think the majority of this sub is interested in post-Wall women. This age range explains why you're generating such a high success rate; older women simply don't have many options. The average age of girls that I bang is about 22. My age range for dating apps is 18-30. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/20 03:03 PM |
| 1 | FWBs HB9.5 - Hot/Cold... If it's true that she's a nutjob then you shouldn't even be banging her in the first place. And that's totally leaving aside the work issue, a double whammy for you. /thread. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Only thing I lack in my life is a girl I like enough to consider a future with.Only thing I lack in my life is a girl I like enough to consider a future with. How old are you? Why is this such a pressing concern? I can't like girls who are non-virgins. Come off this virginity crap, already. You aren't going to find that in 2020 America. The only girls who are virgins past college are ugly, extremely socially awkward, or mercenaries who think their pussy is a commodity to be sold to the highest bidder. It's normal and healthy for a girl to have premarital sex. Speaking for … | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 03:10 AM |
| 3 | Am I boring?A few years isn't new. Are you sure these people are your friends? Your old schoolboy friendships are mainly based on shared coming-of-age experiences. You can't replicate the closeness that comes with someone that you grew up with. In any event, college friends are mostly convenience friendships to begin with, i.e. people you live with. You may or may not have anything in common, and after graduation, you'll lose touch with most of them. Then you'll make new friends with your roommates or work … | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 02:10 AM |
| 3 | I don't want 100's ot girls. I just want to feel loved by one.Sorry but this this post is a perfect example of the pussification and feminization of the Western male. OP has been taught by the Blue Pill to emote like a woman, literally. "I feel so helpless, idk what to do, WAHHHHH DADDDDDY HELP ME" Fuck that shit. If you have to cry, get a glass of whiskey, shut the door, and keep that shit to yourself. Then figure out how to actually solve the problem. Again, OP needs a heavy dose of TRP starting with the sidebar. The way he solves this intimacy issue is … | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 01:25 AM |
| 7 | F-Closed but with performance issues.Do yourself a favor and learn to take yes for answer. I met a girl once on a work trip, we fucked every day in my hotel after meeting one night. Boom boom boom, one night after the other I hit her up. I felt like I had nothing to lose anyway because I'd probably never see her again (we actually saw each for a year and a half after that, she pretty much fell in love with me that week). Point is, sounds like she's pretty keen, so you do what YOU want to do. In light of her initiative, I don't thin… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 01:12 AM |
| 2 | FWBs HB9.5 - Hot/Cold...we're colleagues Are you sure you're even Red Pill? What the FUCK do we say about not shitting where you eat? I believe she's been hurt badly in the past and doesn't want to appear needy. Wrong. You're totally fantasizing. This want of attention makes me feel it's more than sexual if she's constantly reaching out? She's cheating on her boyfriend...she doesn't want an emotional connection from you, she wants sexual excitement. Again, sheer fantasy on your part. But yes, agree that she perhaps doe… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 08:41 PM |
| 7 | Tinder: How to setup 1st date/bang in their place?yes. source: I wrote the post | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 08:32 PM |
| 16 | FWBs HB9.5 - Hot/Cold...Have been nailing a HB9.5 for a few months. She's not an HB9. Stop with the pedestalization and bloated ego talk, that's your first problem. I don't wanna hear any more of this 9 crap unless she's a 23 year-old model or something of the sort. Incredible sex, and we can't get enough. You can't get enough. when I reciprocate, she will say she's worried she's getting too attached. Translation: I'm worried YOU are getting too attached. More recently she told me that she had planned to end things eve… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 04:49 PM |
| -7 | I don't want 100's ot girls. I just want to feel loved by one.You literally sound like a woman writing this. Men evolved to get away after sex, because our biological imperative is to spread the seed among many females. It's the woman's job to create that intimacy. Women evolved to lock down the man after sex, which is why men find slut behavior so repulsive. Your neediness is the male version of being a hoe - it's disgusting to women on a gut level. Your apparent extreme craving for intimacy is a result of Blue Pill conditioning. Settling down into an exc… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 04:13 PM |
| 3 | What social-proof boosting side gigs (eg. bartending, DJing) are the best for meeting women and increasing SMV?Anything performance-related is really the best way to score with girls, whether that's being in a band, acting, playing a sport, etc. Guys understand this innately, that's why we're programmed to "show off" in front of people. Early in college I made a video for a class that briefly went viral on the campus. It was like having a free pass with girls. All of a sudden chicks that had barely acknowledged me were telling their friends "I know that guy!" Unfortunately I blew it by LTRing the first g… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 02:32 PM |
| 1 | First date with HB9 went well, what nextNo, I think there is a pretty universal scale. Kate Upton, for example, is hot as fuck. We can quibble about whether she's an 8 or a 9, but anyone who says "Pfft she's an HB5 would not bang" is an utter retard. I once saw someone here define HB7 as "typical hot girl on the street," HB8 as "the hottest girl you know" and HB9 as a professional model or something of the sort. I think that's fairly reasonable, although I would personally be a little more generous with HB8. The chances that OP went o… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Failed to escalate on first date, when to set up secondabout half of commenters say to message in such a scenario very soon before she starts to think more negatively of you and totally lose interest, others say your failure to escalate is too recent in their memory and needs to fade first so you should wait to set it up. Either she wants to fuck you or she doesn't. This shit is going to make little if any difference. The general rule is to wait 2-3 days and set up the next date, as to give the token impression that you aren't desperate. I don't see… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 07:57 PM |
| 4 | Girl messaged me “hey I know we had fun but don’t push girls heads down like that when you hookup w em. It made me uncomfortable and my friends said I should tell you.” What do I do?More details. Why is this chick messaging you months later about a hookup? Is this a plate or a ONS? Never had something like this happen, but if I did, I would send something like /u/bluefingerblue just said. I've had girls complain about me pulling their hair, which is the first step for me in the dom/sub ladder. When that happens I say "ok no problem, we don't have to do that," but I know in my head it's over. Done-zo. We definitely won't be hooking up again. Gotta learn to read the room, man… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Gf and her phoneWithdraw attention, move into another room if you have to. Go cold. She'll sense the change in demeanor and put herself back in your frame. If she asks you what's up (a pointless question, she knows) say "are you having fun on your phone?" in your best withering Dad voice. Usually at that point she'll go "okay I'm sorry" and put away her phone. "You aren't going to be on your phone the rest of the night, are you?" "No Daddy." Make that bitch suck your cock in apology. Or if you want to be more d… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Succesful LTR - Madonna/whore Complex??I've never understood the appeal of threesomes, the whole idea is quite bizarre to me. Hopefully these orgies are with other girls, at least. Whatever the case, there's an issue if she needs more than your cock to satisfy her. That's what stood out to me immediately in this post. Other than that, what /u/samop95 said is spot on. You definitely aren't as RP aware as you think you are. I would add that if you're getting bored, it may be time for you to move on. You seem young, why are you even thi… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 01:56 PM |
| 12 | What body count number is too high for women?The idea that you're going to find a virgin for a LTR in 2020 America is utterly laughable. The girls who are still virgins after college are either butt ugly, extremely socially awkward, or mercenary (they see their pussy as a commodity to be sold to a provider). Context is relevant. I prefer a girl who's had a boyfriend or two before me, and maybe a few casual flings in between. At least then the sex will be good. A girl who's known nothing but casual sex, even with just a few men, is going to… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 01:49 AM |
| 14 | How do I respond to a HB5/6 saying “You’re attractive as hell?” over tinder?"So that's a yes to getting a drink with me?" To be frank, though, most girls who come on strongly like that won't actually meet you. They just get off to the idea of it. At least that's been my experience. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Long lead time date: to ping or not to ping?I'm pretty skeptical of these "texting guides." I'm not convinced any of that shit really works. Either she wants to meet you or she doesn't. If you ever catch yourself wondering what you should text some broad, then either you're extremely Beta or she isn't that into you (see mallardcove's amazing post "You're Not Her Top Option") How old is this girl? Never set up a date with a 18-25 YO girl more than 72 hours in advance. In any event, I send a text a few hours before saying something like "I'… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Confused on what to do after 1st dateSounds like neither of you were feeling it, i.e. no chemistry. You say you don't even find her attractive, so why are you bothering? Stop going out with chicks that you aren't even excited to meet, unless you're really good at faking it. Forget her, next. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 04:10 AM |
| 3 | Having an impossible time with OLD latelyI've noticed that my bang ratio is considerably lower, so I don't think you're the only one. Probably a lot depends on where you live and the local culture around social distancing. It's been fairly intense in my city. Make sure you're doing everything to maximize your chances. Move quickly when it comes to meeting up. I just wrote two guides on this, search my post history. Given my own difficulties, I took the opportunity to completely overhaul and refresh my profile. Now I'm getting more matc… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Anyone ever next a plate for taking an hour or two to respond to invites?Well you do you. Personally I'm only texting girls when I want to bust a nut, I don't really set this shit up far in advance. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 12:37 AM |
| 5 | Do you guys use hinge when not looking for a LTR?Ok I misread it, my bad. Most of what I said still holds, though. Obviously don't verbalize what you're looking for on the app. Demonstrate it. I've only met one chick from Hinge, but she clearly wanted my cock from the start. I just wrote a post about signs that she just wants to hookup. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 12:29 AM |
| 12 | Anyone ever next a plate for taking an hour or two to respond to invites?In all fairness to your plates, people have lives. Why do you need an immediate response? | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 12:19 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys think about cosmetic surgery?A lot of guys can't grow a decent beard until their mid-late 20s. I've never even heard of a beard transplant until now. Why waste all that money for something that may not even work, and could very well resolve itself in a few years? Again, this idea is pretty retarded in my opinion. Bruce Willis and Patrick Stewart made careers out of being bald fucks. Shave your head and put a hat on, in the meantime lift heavy so you look like a badass and not a dweeb. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 09:24 PM |
| 2 | New cute flatmate - what do?I just matched with my new next door neighbor on a dating app. Didn't even recognize her, she knew who I was though. Not planning on banging this girl. Instead I'm getting dinner with her and her roommate...as friends. I figure it would be cool to add some new girls to my social circle, I could use more of that with Covid. That's what you should do as well. Get out of your scarcity mindset. There are plenty of other chicks out there, why do you need to bang this one? She's got a great figure, th… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 09:17 PM |
| 5 | What do you guys think about cosmetic surgery?Sounds dumb as hell. Give the beard two more years and see what happens then. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 09:09 PM |
| 7 | Do you guys use hinge when not looking for a LTR?That's retarded. Take that shit off your profile this instant. Really, if you seduce her on the first date, that telegraphs your intentions pretty well. Demonstrate, do not explicate. Broaching the subject shows that you're a chump who doesn't understand how to play the game. Be a guy who looks/acts sexual and you won't have to worry about this. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 08:08 PM |
| 9 | Do you guys use hinge when not looking for a LTR?I just got on Hinge not long ago. Was hoping for more of a solid FWB instead of the typical Tinder fuck and chuck so I decided to give it a go with a cute girl from there. We met, we clicked really well, she invited me back to her place and we fucked. And of course I never heard from her again when I messaged a few days later. It's all the same...girls make noises about "looking for a relationship" but if they see a hot piece of man meat all of that goes out the window. Hypergamy doesn't care th… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 08:01 PM |
| 1 | How do you cope with missed opportunities?Would the rents mind if you brought chicks back? I fucked girls at my moms place, nobody cared. But it wasn't like I asked my mom's permission to smash. Do you have a car? Smash her in there. You got a tent and a blowup mattress? Set it up in your backyard and fuck her there. Or just sneak her inside when your parents are asleep. There are so many alternatives, but I suppose it's easier to just go on whining about it instead of actually doing anything. Why do you keep meeting these girls without… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 03:43 PM |
| 56 | Ghosted after a seemingly successful first dateThis is impossible for any of us to answer, as you well know. But here's what I think is the most likely scenario: She wanted to fuck, and you didn't fuck her. What happened was you didn't nail her when she was horny and giving you clear signals, which automatically devalued you in her eyes. Then her ADD brain flitted to the next Chad in her feed. Probably she met someone else who gave her the dick that she wanted, and promptly deleted her Bumble profile once the deed was done. Now sometimes gir… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Getting One Night Stands From Dating Apps: Know the SignsI don't have to justify anything. You say that as if I somehow took advantage of these girls. They wanted it as much as I did, believe me. This concept doesn't compute for you because you take a transactional view of sex - that girls only bang guys in return for something, usually provisioning and/or emotional support (Beta Bucks). What I describe here is the Alpha Fucks side of hypergamy. As Rollo has stated, we live in an increasingly polarized world; you have men who are exclusively for sex, … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/20 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Getting One Night Stands From Dating Apps: Know the SignsI always ask where she lives in the city. "I live [wherever]" "Nice, you have roommates?" It's a pretty normal conversation topic. In the past I usually didn't find out until I got to her place; if I'm trolling for sex, it's usually the girls who live alone (or their roommates are out of town) that would accept in the first place. Or we would be out and she would invite me back. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/20 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Getting One Night Stands From Dating Apps: Know the SignsOh I definitely prefer that. If the girl is traveling, there's obviously no point in staying in touch. But other than that, I typically try to plate her. If it ends up being a ONS it's usually because she ghosted me and not the other way around. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/20 02:04 PM |
| 4 | Getting One Night Stands From Dating Apps: Know the SignsDude it's right there in the description..."Discussion of sexual strategy" Self-improvement is part of that, but all of us are here because we want to have more successful relations with women. What's wrong with that? Yeah, some of the language around here is pretty crude, but that's the way most men talk to one another. There's no such thing as a "man hoe." It takes effort to sleep with many women; it takes no effort at all to sleep with many men. A key that can unlock many locks is a valuable … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/20 01:54 PM |
| 10 | Plate broken. New to the game. Advice needed from experienced Rper’s only.There's two scenarios here. You're a cute Alpha fuck toy, but she was just experimenting/fooling around and logically knows it's not going anywhere. You got clingy and Beta, and your Game isn't as good as you think it is. You know the answer better than we do, but I'm going to put my money on two. You admit to "really liking this girl," which of course she knows instinctively. She said you were "too nice" "you're an awesome person" etc. These are all things that girls say when they're trying to … | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Getting One Night Stands From Dating Apps: Know the SignsI've never done the mirror selfie so I couldn't tell you. A shirtless picture isn't a requirement (I don't have a shirtless pic on Hinge) but there needs to be some sort of picture that shows your body type/muscularity. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/20 08:25 PM |
| 15 | Plate Didn’t Come For the First time during sexShe dropped the L-bomb and you're worried that she didn't cum? Talk about making a mountain out of a molehill. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/20 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Just came back from a date experience that made me question on how you can differentiate LMR, or an actual no that means to fully stop?In my experience there are two types of LMR: Token resistance. She actually doesn't want to fuck you. In the first instance, she really wants to fuck, but needs it to be your fault. "I'm not going to fuck you tonight" might be what comes out of her mouth, but her body language is playful, and she doesn't full back fully. She's giggling, she keeps leaning in to kiss you when you pull away a bit. You know she isn't serious. When a girl doesn't want to fuck, you'll know. Her tone will be more cold … | /r/askTRP | 04/10/20 03:08 PM |
| 14 | Black/Africa Male late 20s, 5,6ft, Failing in Asian World.From my experience in China (as a white guy), Asians are incredibly racist. Black people are basically bottom of the barrel over there. Might want to consider moving to the States or somewhere else where black/Asian couples are more common. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/20 02:45 PM |
| 5 | Those of you who became successful with women after college: How?Let me tell you a little about me. I'm 27, last week I fucked a hot blonde 23 YO former sorority chick, I just wrote a FR on it. In high school and college, I did not interact with girls of that caliber whatsoever. I was invisible, a total zero. In elementary/middle school I was pretty shy. Most people would have classified me as a nerd. Funnily enough, I was showing said hottie some of my old college pics and she said something like "There's no way that's you, you totally stole that guy's ident… | /r/askTRP | 04/10/20 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Going on a date with a higher smv girl and nervous about it...Yet another fool who thinks he doesn't need to read any of that Red Pill stuff...until he does. All advice starting from where to go for the date to how to get the lay is appreciated. So basically you want us to walk you through the sidebar, where all of this shit is covered. You should have been reading that all along instead of cramming the night before the exam. Forget all of that bullshit that happened in your past. It's irrelevant. What matters is what you do when you meet her. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Date adviceChrist, you're making this way too complicated. Invite her out to the bar, have a drink, go back to your place and fuck. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 07:29 PM |
| 2 | New to online dating. Could use feedback for hinge.Alright, I see you edited the original post. That's a little better. You say you haven't been getting any matches, so I guess I was actually being too charitable...your profile IS dogshit, as the results show. It isn't hard to see why. To be perfectly honest, you look like a dweeb. There's no sexual vibe at all. I wrote a guide on posing/facial expression, which you can find in my post history. Keep the skiing picture. It won't work as the main photo, but it's a good supporting picture. The shir… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 07:18 PM |
| 5 | New to online dating. Could use feedback for hinge.Some details about how you've been doing with the present profile would be nice, instead of, you know, nothing at all. Seeing as apparently you're a doctor, it shouldn't be difficult for you to use the search function in the main sub to seek out the many posts that myself and other users have written about Tinder and dating app profiles. Use that big brain of yours. Here's my quick feedback. You're lucky to be even getting this: -your haircut sucks -your facial expression looks Beta. The whole v… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Double Text Old Plate? Text Game/How to Gain Abundance During Covid?Lockdown happened, plates fell yada yada. Well, I don't think you're unique there. After months of fucking the same chicks (and watching one of them visibly gain weight) I got pretty bored myself. We're all in the same boat. I work (thankfully) but I don't want to date the chicks there Is this some shitty minimum wage campus job? In that case the shit where you eat rule doesn't really apply. With other chicks, I don't necessarily care if I double text or not, but with this explate idk why it's b… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 01:53 PM |
| 1 | To cancel or not to cancelDo yourself a favor and learn to take yes for an answer. She accepted the date, it just seems like she would prefer not fucking you late at night, which is perfectly understandable. Why are you making a big deal out of something so trivial? In this case I'd suggest 7 and see what she says. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 01:49 AM |
| 6 | I suffer socially kind of - I’m weird.how the fuck do i get out? Doesn't sound like you're even trying to improve. You're just full of self-pity. when i see a person with brilliant social skills i feel envious. Maybe you ought to befriend that person instead. I learned a lot from my best friend...a guy that I met somewhat recently in life... who is more socially skilled than I am. I try to surround myself with people who are better than me. But you have to be proactive about it. Wallowing in self-pity isn't gonna change jack shit. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 01:35 AM |
| 1 | What does your LTR calling you her closest friend mean?To be honest, I always cringe a bit when I see girls post about their "best friend" (boyfriend) on social media. Invariably the body language in the photo doesn't indicate strong passion on her part. I'm out to be a girl's lover, not her friend. And I realize that a lot of the time it's just an expression, but I've just noticed that it's often a Beta tell. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Tips on men’s footwear ?Bright white sneakers. That's all I really have to say on that topic. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 11:08 PM |
| 6 | Has it ever happened where a girl rejects you, but then she hits you up a month or more later to hook up? Why does that happen, especially on Tinder?Why does this happen? Trying to figure out a logical reason why a Tinder hoe does anything is silly. We're talking about a creature that acts based on however she is feeling in the moment. Maybe she wasn't horny then, but now she is. Maybe she just broke up with a guy. Maybe she was lonely. Who knows, and who cares. I haven't had an experience exactly like this, usually we just fuck on the first "date" then one or both of us ghosts the other. But I've had chicks on Bumble, Tinder, etc. stop repl… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Overcoming LMR Step-by-Step With a Hot Hinge Date (and More)if they weren't interested in sex why would they come back to my place? They wanted the validation, they got caught up in the moment, they just went along with it because they didn't know how to say no...who knows. As far as your particular situation, it's hard to say if you did anything wrong. Sounds like maybe you could have bedded the first girl, whereas the second girl probably wasn't feeling it. But none of us were there, so it's impossible to say. Any tips on escalating to sex once the gir… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/20 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Are there any guys who're attracted to mentally-damaged/BPD/daddy issues type of girls?By attract, I don't mean settling down with them or going into any serious / long-term relationship with them, but to keep them around to fuck and play, The fucking part is easy. The "keep them around" part is not. That's almost the whole point, dude - if they were the type of girl that would stick around, then they wouldn't be so sexual in the first place now would they? It isn't difficult to tell when a girl is that type. Physical indicators include tattoos (small, big doesn't matter) and pier… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Girl off bumble - questionStopped reading after the first sentence. She's not interested. You, my friend, are deep in a scarcity mindset if you're getting this worked up over some Bumble hoe. Read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 01:59 PM |
| 15 | Overcoming LMR Step-by-Step With a Hot Hinge Date (and More)In the past I generally wouldn't text at all until a few days later if she didn't hit me up first. Then I switched to the present method as to not seem like so much of a fuckboy. Honestly, I don't see any difference between the two. My view is she either wants to see you again or she doesn't based on how the night went. Looks like this girl is going into the "hit up in 3 months when I'm bored and horny" category. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/20 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Fucked on 2nd date last noght. Do I text her or should I wait for her to text me?This is one of those questions where there are two entirely different viewpoints, so I'm convinced that it doesn't really matter. The bottom line is that if she wants to see you again, then either she will reach out herself or she will be happy that you did so first. If she doesn't want to see you again, then nothing you say or don't say is going to matter. I've gone both ways, and in my experience, texting her the next day edges out doing nothing. But like any tactic, YMMV. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Tinder date canceled 2 hours before date, but suggested another date. What’s the next step that won’t make me look desperate?I just want to put this out there - of all the girls I've ever fucked, I think I've only had one cancel the first date. In that case, I told her to let me know when she was free. She hit me up the next day and we met that same afternoon. Given how excruciatingly lame her excuse was, I don't think I would bother. But that's up to you. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 11:36 PM |
| 2 | How do you not call them back?Idk, I still text girls the next day if she doesn't hit me up first, if only for my own protection in case I end up on the Supreme Court or something. Plus I think it's just the human thing to do if I pumped her mouth full of cum the night before. I don't think it's going to make a difference who texts who first, if that's what you're asking. If she wants to see you again, then she'll either text you herself or she will be relieved to hear from you. If she doesn't want to see you again, then not… | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 08:04 PM |
| 13 | Is She Interested? (Not your simple situation like most are).(Not your simple situation like most are). No, this is exactly like every other situation that comes up on this board daily. She was interested when I first met her a while ago Was interested...was being the operative word here. You probably didn't move quickly enough. Or maybe she wasn't that interested to start with. Doesn't really matter. Covid has become the new go-to excuse...the 2020 equivalent of "I'm busy this week." Since you already told her she should text, it would be a loss of face … | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Should I take a 2nd chance? If so, how?I believe I answered your question. I never insulted you, actually, but since you're really that much of a pussy then you should GTFO of this forum (now THAT is an insult. See the difference?) | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 06:59 PM |
| 4 | Should I take a 2nd chance? If so, how?I had a date with a 9 last week She wasn't a 9 fucked up the physical escalation by making a jump instead of taking it gradually. ? she tells me there's no "fire" Translation: You don't make me wet After apologising Weak Should I move on? Yes. If you want to tell me to read the sidebar again, at least tell me which part. No. You need to reread the whole thing, along with Rollo's books and do a deep dive into RP literature for the next 6 months. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Ghosted after fifth dateA plate is a girl that you see for sex on an ongoing basis. See sidebar. I don't think sleeping over had anything to do with it. The problem is you and your attitude. You're giving off Beta vibes. Soft next, pursue other girls. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 03:11 PM |
| 7 | Quick question o a girl flakingYou should have fucked her bloody on the first date. That was a major error on your part. "Something came up"...yeah, a date with Chad. That's what came up. "Striking while the iron is hot?" Dude, the iron is cold now. Has been for awhile. Soft next and learn from this mistake. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Ghosted after fifth dateI’m into this one in particular. ONEitis. she wasn’t in the mood at all I've never had a plate "not be in the mood" so I hardly even know what to say to that. They already know what I'm about, so if they actually weren't up for sex, then we aren't even hanging out in the first place. If I didn’t arouse her anymore how come she was being affectionate with me all night up until the morning? Look up the "Light Switch Effect" It’s not all about the sex for me There's your problem. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 02:58 PM |
| 4 | Younger brother possibly coming outYour younger brother's sexuality is none of your business. It strikes me as extremely weird that you would inject yourself into his sex life. In any event, if he is gay, all the more reason for him to get into the gym. There's a reason why weight lifting was stereotyped as a gay activity for so many years. Gay men are naturally Red Pilled to a large degree. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 02:50 PM |
| 5 | Ghosted after fifth dateIn my experience, "that time of the month" has never stopped a girl from wanting sex with me. In fact some of the hottest sex I've had was with a girl on her period, they get horny as hell. A little blood doesn't bother me, personally, and I make that clear. In this case, though, it sounds to me like she just didn't want to have sex with you. Why? Because you don't arouse her anymore. She lost interest. You say she's a "rekindled plate," which probably means you didn't have anything else going o… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 02:41 PM |
| 2 | How common are women who are highly skilled in bed?In my experience...about 1 in 10. A typical great lay for me would mean that she's a good kisser, gives enthusiastic head (preferably before penetration to make sure I'm maximally hard), possesses a keen sense of touch, and can ride dick like a champ. I recommend getting a girl who has had at least one actual boyfriend. You become "good at sex" in a relationship, not during a slew of one night stands. As to the blowjob question, I'd estimate that about 1/3 of my lays gave me head unprompted. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys ever have dates that don’t go well?Yes. In other news, it was recently confirmed that Pope Francis is Catholic. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Mixed Signals and sexBeen reading Tomassi’s book recently to try to get a better idea of these types of scenarios. Rollo has written about mixed signals. The medium is the message. Her giving you mixed signals is the message...that is to say, she isn't that interested. I think you fucked up by giving her too much attention. Your first, second, and third dates all took place within a day of each other. It's obvious to all of us (and her, most of all) that you don't have any other plates/options, and that's a turn-off… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Offer to pick girl up for date?Is this girl from a dating app? I hate picking up a girl that I've never met before. Here I am trying to concentrate on the road while running Game on a total stranger at the same time. For me, it's awkward. But that's up to you. As to your bar dilemma, I would suggest getting a bottle of wine and a blanket and meeting at a park, preferably on the waterfront. Just did it last weekend and got a SNL out of it. You're welcome. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Tinder Experiment - A Tale of 2 ProfilesHate to break it to you, but if you only got 24 matches after 2 months, then you definitely did not bang any HB9s. If your profile was good enough to fuck 9s then you would have accumulated hundreds if not thousands of matches in that time. I'm glad you were satisfied and all, but these chicks were probably 7s. For comparison, I sometimes get more matches in a single day than you got in 2 months, and I very rarely meet with HB8. Leaving that aside, your "experiment" isn't groundbreaking. Most gu… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/20 03:12 PM |
| 7 | How young should you go?So then why don't you? You already wrote out a whole list of reasons why it would be okay, how hot and wonderful she is, etc. You've already made up your mind. Guys like you come onto this forum every day. You aren't interested in a discussion, you just want to feel good about the decision. So that's why I say just go do whatever you were planning to do anyway. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 02:58 PM |
| 11 | Do you guys fuck 6’s and below?Dude just look at that cow that Arnold Schwarzenegger knocked up. He was horny and she just happened to be there. You definitely aren't alone. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 02:47 PM |
| 5 | How young should you go?I'm American, I'm not familiar with the term "flat." In any event, judging by your initial post and your subsequent comments, you've already made up your mind that you want to bang this girl, and you just want Daddy Red Pill's blessing to go through with it. I don't know why you bothered coming on here, do whatever you were going to do anyway. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Would exactly do you mean by lifting?I actually hate the term "lifting." It doesn't imply any sort of concerted action toward a goal. I prefer to say I'm training. Going in to the gym and doing whatever feels good that day isn't training, it's just fucking around in the weight room. I follow programs designed by people who know way more about the subject than I do. There's a plan of attack every time I set foot in the gym. I'm tracking weight/reps/muscle size and progressing every week in some form or another. That's what you shoul… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 02:32 PM |
| 5 | How young should you go?Let me get this straight: you have a 17 YO girl living in your apartment with you? We should be talking about that and not about this other issue. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 02:27 PM |
| 2 | How do you escalate to her placeI was about to bail on my park date last weekend because I needed to piss so bad. She invited me back to use her bathroom. In this case she initiated, but Roosh used to talk about the bathroom excuse as his go-to. Also if you are there, how do you create a good moment to escalate. This isn't a movie, guy. The music will not crescendo as you both lean in slowly and dramatically. Just walk up and kiss her. It's that simple. Doesn't have to be immediately, but within a few minutes once she's shown … | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Instagram?Quality over quantity. I don't post often, but when I do, it's always me doing something high value (travel, socializing with friends, etc.). Girls usually speak positively of my IG portfolio. Personally not into stories whatsoever (making or watching). | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 04:41 AM |
| 43 | Fuck Buddy wants me to degraded her during sexChoking, hair pulling, slapping her in the face, tying her to the bedframe for starters. "Daddy's perfect little cum slut", "you were made to take my cock" really got one of my exes going. I mean cmon, be creative. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 04:35 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with this frustration, LMS - TinderI am angry that those same women may not have dated me if I had a blue-collar job. Would they have dated you if you were fat or a midget? More to the point, though, girls are like "casting agents," as Adam Carolla observed. Some of them fantasize about being with the moody artist. Others want the tough brother from the hood. And some of them get wet for the Wall Street banker in a suit. I wouldn't assume every girl is just after you for money. And even if many of them are, it isn't difficult to … | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 02:55 AM |
| 1 | No pussy since covidI wouldn't give up on Tinder. September/October have always been a good time for scoring dating app poon, and this year is no exception. Had a ONS Tinder hookup earlier this month and a same night lay from a Hinge date last weekend. But yeah, clearly dating apps aren't going to work if you only get "a few" matches. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 02:35 AM |
| 1 | endurance training vs bodybuilding. Is it okay to focus more on cardio instead of bodybuilding?Allow me to introduce you to Michael Phelps' famed "swimmer's body," brought to you by heavy squats and weight training. Does Caleb Dressel look like he doesn't lift? You can do both, you know. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Started a business. Friends and family are asking why I’m not making money yet. What to say?What's the "business?" Kind of hard for anyone to give advice when you've provided no details. You say they "don't understand what it takes" when you yourself apparently don't know what you're doing either, so you can't fault people for being skeptical. I've always been honest with my family and close friends about how well (or not well) things are going. With potential business associates, I'm not honest at all. Whatever the case, my best tip for you is to learn how to exaggerate. If you're mak… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Escalating a Tinder Match, Part 2 (Examples Included)Best sex of my life, bar none. Damn I miss that girl sometimes. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/20 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Escalating a Tinder Match, Part 2 (Examples Included)I get tested once or twice a year. Some people would say that I should get tested more often given my partner count, but my doctor and I had a frank discussion on the matter and we agreed that what I'm doing is appropriate. I use protection, and I've never had an STD/STI. Life is risk. If you don't want to catch an STD ever, then don't have sex. It's not something that I worry about. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/20 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Should I cut or can I start a recomp? I think my bulk made me put on way too much fat. Details/pic listed below.No, 31 inches isn't "carrying body fat in your waist." That's very skinny. Your problem is shitty body composition. You're undermuscled. You didn't answer my point about skipping squats and deadlifts, so I'm assuming you don't seriously do those movements. That's your problem right there. You can't see your abs because you don't have any abs. Also looks like your lats are lacking which doesn't help. I wouldn't be cutting right now, personally. I'd be bulking. But you need to make some big change… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 01:35 PM |
| 5 | Escalating a Tinder Match, Part 2 (Examples Included)Yeah that's the thing. Of course many stop responding or don't respond at all, but at the end of the day, I have to let a lot of girls go. I can't set up dates/hookups withe everyone, this isn't a second job for me. So it's a gamble. I focus on girls that seem keen, even if they aren't as hot. Backburner doesn't really work most of the time. Like I said, set up the date within 72 hours, or just forget it. Sometimes I'll get her number or, these days, add her on Instagram so I don't forget she ex… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/20 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Living in NYC, does money really attract women or is it more looks? All beautiful women I see are with way less attractive guys. Am good looking but no successIt's the money. This isn't just NYC, it's any major cosmopolitan city. In my area I see lots of HB8s+ with outright schlubs, it sometimes boggles my mind. But these are invariably mid-20s or older girls who've decided that the dorky Facebook engineer or pudgy doctor is better relationship material than the hot fun frat boy she banged in college. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks. No big mystery here. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Escalating a Tinder Match for a Direct-to-Home LayDate? Just say, I'm by (place near her) come have a drink. What part about "bars are completely closed" don't you understand? It's a hassle for me, and a waste of time, to meet someone out now. If your goal is to have the maximum opportunities to get laid then this is sub optimal. Well, yeah. That's a value judgement that you have to make. I don't deny this. In fact, I say it right there in the post (did you actually read the whole thing?) "Not every girl is going to be open to having a strange … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/20 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Escalating a Tinder Match for a Direct-to-Home LayYou can't recognize when she doesn't want to meet you out. On the contrary, I assert that you can. If she's just giving brief, terse replies, then chances are she just wants dick. That's been my experience. I have never, not ONCE, successfully gotten one of those girls out on an actual date. But i have fucked them many times. But hey, if you think you have a better way, then keep doing whatever you're doing. But I'll tell you, this approach works very well for me, especially in a pandemic when m… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/20 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Escalating a Tinder Match for a Direct-to-Home LayThe point of this guide is to recognize when she DOESN'T want to meet you out. I still will meet girls out (although not so much these days), but it's a monumental error to put off meeting if you match at night and she's giving off the signs that I discuss. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/20 03:57 PM |
| 10 | Wasting time with Tinder girl?In my bio I wrote that I was just looking to meet new people to have fun with and talk to. Delete that retarded shit if you want any chance at getting laid I wrote that in my bio because I'm in a long distance LTR now that I've moved, and I expect my relationship to die. But I don't feel comfortable cheating right away with the first girl I'd meet, What the hell are you doing, guy? Shit or get off the pot. Either you're going to do the whole long distance thing, which absolutely NOBODY here woul… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 02:44 PM |
| 7 | Escalating a Tinder Match for a Direct-to-Home LayWell, you do you. Like I said, YMMV. I just don't see it as a productive use of my time. If I take 1 minute to think of a good one-liner for every match, then I'm wasting up to 20 minutes a day just doing that. Btw, I dont understand this shit with good/bad pics. If you ugly, you ugly, if you hot, you hot. You're spproaching this from a male perspective. Men generally don't give a fuck what girls are doing, all that matters is that she's hot. Content > Context. For girls, what you're doing (cont… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/20 02:32 PM |
| 5 | Escalating a Tinder Match for a Direct-to-Home LayWell like I just said, you have to look interesting. Hiking, photography, playing guitar, walking a dog, surfing, skateboarding, skiing, boating, quad bike, motorcycle, beach, playing sports...I mean, what do you do for fun? My own profile could be a little better in terms of excitement, but it gets the job done. I'm sure you can think of something. As for clothing, I would find some Instagram models that you like and just copy their style. You should be wearing well-fitting, stylish clothes wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/20 02:23 PM |
| 5 | Escalating a Tinder Match for a Direct-to-Home LayThere's no magic line that's going to get her to drop her panties for you. I did my own A/B test where I opened with "Hey [Name]" vs some cute one-liner based on her profile. The response rate was roughly the same. It doesn't matter. She's going to respond based on your pictures. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/20 02:03 PM |
| 6 | Escalating a Tinder Match for a Direct-to-Home LayMy main picture is me holding my DSLR camera with the city skyline in the background (took the picture using an iPhone 10 and tripod). I took the picture on top of an empty parking garage, which is a tip that I got from a Tinder guide on this sub. Haircut, clothing, accessories on point. I'm slightly squinting at the camera with a subtle fuck boy smirk, not smiling with teeth. Lighting is perfect (take your pics during the hour before the sun sets). I have to say, it looks pretty goddamn profess… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/20 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Escalating a Tinder Match for a Direct-to-Home LayThat's it. Aside from when I let her know I was leaving my house and arriving at her place. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/20 08:57 PM |
| 6 | Escalating a Tinder Match for a Direct-to-Home LayLet's review, again, what you wrote. Quoting you: For a decent looking chick to take the gamble of inviting a dude over she has never even seen or spoken to the guy has to be in the top 1 percentile of SMV it even higher. This is just outright false. Now I'm not going to show you what I look like, but I am not Top 1% in terms of looks, that I can tell you. Certainly top 20%, probably top 5-10% for some girls, but objectively I am not Top 1%. On average the girls that I meet are HB7 in my book, w… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/20 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Escalating a Tinder Match for a Direct-to-Home LayThis. It's just incredibly rare that a girl is going to be overt like that. In that case, just escalate quickly to meeting up. If she goes for it, great. If you get even the slightest hesitancy (I'm busy tonight, I'm too tired, etc.) and she doesn't give an alternative, then it's a waste of time, next. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/20 03:15 PM |
| 39 | Escalating a Tinder Match for a Direct-to-Home LayMost men, even men on The Red Pill, have not yet truly accepted that women will have casual sex with a man they just met, purely for fun, because it feels good. With no designs to "lock down" an "alpha" or "extract resources" from a "beta". You don't even have to be that amazing of a man or some kind of "top 20%" muscular hot guy, just above average looking. Well said. I think, deep down inside, most guys still can't let go of their Blue Pill conditioning that girls are innocent little creatures… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/20 02:39 PM |
| 10 | Escalating a Tinder Match for a Direct-to-Home LayTrue, these girls usually aren't plate material because they don't want to see you again. That's the whole point. Later in life, you'll be one of those guys that "didn't count" because it was "meaningless." However, I dated a girl for over a year after a ONS, so you never know. I personally don't see anything weird about it. In fact, the idea that you have to "build comfort" or "get to know her" before coitus can occur is pretty bizarre, in my view. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/20 02:29 PM |
| 18 | Escalating a Tinder Match for a Direct-to-Home LayThis. It's basically a date, just at her house. Although one girl was like "so...are we gonna do this?" within the first minute, which is also fine by me. Gotta read the room. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/20 02:19 PM |
| 23 | Escalating a Tinder Match for a Direct-to-Home LayThere are some good points in here, but none that I haven't heard before. Let's go through this. You should probably mention that for this to actually work there’s a prerequisite of having to be in pretty serious shape (unless of course you don’t mind whale meat) and high quality maybe professional grade photos (you touched in that briefly). Like I said, other guides on this sub thoroughly review these topics. Yeah, my pictures are near-professional quality. And yeah, I look good. But I was stil… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/20 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Should I cut or can I start a recomp? I think my bulk made me put on way too much fat. Details/pic listed below.There's some fuckery afoot here. How can your waist be so small and arms so huge, yet no visible abs whatsoever? Is this a measurement taken with an actual tape measure, or are you just going by pant size? My waist is bigger than yours but with abdominal definition. Methinks you've been skimping on squats and deadlifts which would explain the weird body composition. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 04:26 AM |
| 5 | Should a lifting novice do PPL or Starting Strength?The reason why SS gets so much praise across the spectrum of lifting is because it works. I don't think PPL is appropriate for a rank novice. The thing about SS is that you're only on it for 3-4 months. After that you move on to some other program. That timeframe will fly right by and is well worth it for dramatic improvements in strength that will allow you to take better advantage of bodybuilding programs. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 02:16 AM |
| 11 | Tinder Mistakes You’re Probably MakingAs a girl First of all, we don't care that you have a vagina. Second, if jimmy Garoppolo was messaging this stuff, everything you say here would go out the window. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/20 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Why Your Bar/Club/Party Approaches Don't Lead to SexI'd happy to believe you No, I don't think you would be. Not going to waste time convincing anyone, I would just be rehashing exactly what I wrote here anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/20 05:14 AM |
| 4 | Why Your Bar/Club/Party Approaches Don't Lead to SexPoint taken. In that case, just move on. It isn't hard to tell when she isn't serious. That's why I say potentially. She might not be there to fuck you. She might not be there to fuck me. But some guy, on some night, will be the one that she fucks. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/20 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Why Your Bar/Club/Party Approaches Don't Lead to SexI address this in the post. You don't need friends. In fact, having them there is usually counterproductive if your goal is to get laid. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/20 07:22 PM |
| 23 | Why Your Bar/Club/Party Approaches Don't Lead to SexLiterally everything you said after “that said” is wrong | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/20 04:27 PM |
| 5 | When it comes to body aesthetic is definition or size more important?Here's the rough order for attractiveness in my observation: Muscular/lean 2) Muscular/fat 3) skinny 4) fat Muscle definition (low body fat) is obviously the most important for getting laid, especially now in the Tinder/Instagram era. Don't even bother going shirtless on Tinder unless you have some semblance of a six pack. A body like Caleb Dressel is more or less the ideal, and he isn't particularly huge. If you want to be Eddie Hall, then by all means go the big/beefy look. That appeals to a c… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/20 01:35 PM |
| 1 | How did you get majority of your lays?Tinder | /r/askTRP | 31/07/20 04:48 AM |
| 1 | How can I flip the 10k I’ve saved? Real answers only.Could someone let me know how I can multiply 10k in the next 5 months? I need advice on proper investing and how to get my money to work for me. These two statements contradict one another. Investing, by its very nature, implies a long term outlook. Seeking to double your money in the next 6 months is gambling, not investing. So you can gamble in stocks or bitcoin or whatever and potentially double your money, but what will most likely happen is that you lose the entire $10K. Should I invest i… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/20 04:43 AM |
| 14 | Cool and unreactive vs. Emotional rollercoasterI think you're confused about what "emotional rollercoaster" means. It doesn't mean getting caught up in childish drama. It doesn't necessarily mean being volatile and impulsive (although it can). I've always seen it as being fun and exciting. There's no shortage of ways to keep a girl interested if you know how to be spontaneous. The "stoic Alpha" MGTOW types who've infested this sub are emotionally invested in their stoicism, when really they're just very boring individuals who lead very unint… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 04:34 PM |
| 1 | What's the most bluepilled thing you've ever done and how have you reflected on it?I dated a girl for three solid months and she never once touched my penis. She was a nerdy gamer girl type, claimed to be a virgin, perhaps an HB7 at best. In my own brain, though, she was an HB9 and I quickly developed ONEitis. She asked for exclusivity after a month and I said yes instantly, thinking that would lead to intimacy. It didn't. There was always some excuse whenever I escalated. She dumped me with the usual "I don't feel a connection" BS. A mercy, really, because I probably would ha… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Is there a new wave of RP guys on here who are taking things a bit differently?I can't link to within Reddit. The thread is called "Girls that prefer blue pill traits in guys" | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 02:01 PM |
| 9 | Can genuine praise count as putting someone on a pedestal?What's up with these autistic basic sidebar questions? Obviously you can praise a girl sometimes. Tell her Daddy Red Pill gave you permission to compliment the shape of her ass. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 04:11 AM |
| 105 | Is there a new wave of RP guys on here who are taking things a bit differently?I've been lurking/posting here for three years, for whatever that's worth. I've also gone back and read many of the old threads and comments from the longtime ECs. And although they probably wouldn't admit it in the main sub, there's been a marked decline in the discourse. I have my own issues with the PUAs, but at least they were open about wanting to get laid. The issues were serious, but there was a lighthearted tone, like an old James Bond film or an original Star Wars movie. Now this place … | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 03:57 AM |
| 5 | I wanted to share this cool Stoicism philosophy discord server. They have weekly meet up and over 1500 people there. There is a lot of people that are red pill. Pretty neat stuff.Just what I always wanted, to hang out with a bunch of weird introverts "stoic Alphas." Sounds like a real smash! | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 03:47 AM |
| 10 | Is it beta to tell a girl you miss her after not seeing her for 3 weeks?The context and how you say it is what matters here. "I miss that cute face" is fine. "I miss you so much baby, I hate not being with you" is not fine. And obviously you don't hand out these sentiments like candy. This is further explained in basic sidebar material. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 10:50 PM |
| 2 | How to argue with male roommate? Screenshot in commentslol, two idiots going at it with each other. Reading through this, I'd lean toward taking his side. You get hot flashes or something? Seems like he has a point. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Went on hinge date last night and ran into some hard ASD/LMR, handled alright?I think everything you did was fine. There are two reasons for this outcome in my experience: a) She just isn't that into you. 9/10 times this is the case. Sorry. b) She's into you, but wanted to give the token impression of not being "easy." I almost always bang on the first date, very occasionally on the second. I have never fucked on the third date, because if we haven't banged by Date #2, there won't be a third date. Honestly, though, I usually cut my losses on Date #1 unless she's really ho… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 09:20 PM |
| 3 | What would you guys consider for a LTR in terms of body count?Anything more than that and he said that they were not the best choice for an LTR with you. I doubt he actually said this. Rollo says his own wife had several BFs before him and probably a few others that "didn't count" as well. While it's true that a virgin is optimal in terms of fidelity, that's a ludicrous fantasy in the year 2020. Any normal, attractive girl with healthy sexual desires is going to bang, probably starting in her mid-late teens. There's nothing wrong with that. Girls who are v… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 02:00 AM |
| 13 | Anyone else have a hard time reading The Rational Male?No offensive dude, but TRM is not a dense book. Rollo could have used a good editorial hand, but I easily read the book on a cross country plane ride. Obviously you aren't a serious reader, which is fine if reading isn't your thing, but it isn't Rollo's problem that it "hurts your brain." | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 04:04 PM |
| 1 | SMV Statistics-Probability Theory?As a former professional economic analyst, you need to take a chill pill. You can and should be doing all three simultaneously, so I don't see why you're concerned about this. Obviously after a certain point, you're going to get decreasing marginal returns from more muscle mass, money, etc. Where that point is, we have no idea. There's no data set to draw on, maybe you can build one. But really, this is of no interest to me or anyone else here. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 01:47 PM |
| -1 | The easiest way to know a man, is to look at his friends. How true is this, especially putting into question if your friends are mostly Beta or mostly Alpha?Birds of a feather flock together. Alphas mostly hang out with other Alphas, and being around high value people raises your own perceived value. I get a lot more attention when I'm with guys who are handsome and socially intelligent. I can't recall many instances of girls approaching me when I was out with a group of Beta friends. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/20 10:30 PM |
| 7 | Quarantine rutMost of the world is in the same boat, bud. At least you aren't among the many "Red Pill" guys on this forum who shacked up with a chick because they couldn't go a few months without busting into a vagina. I'm just getting back on Tinder myself. With the fall semester in just around the corner, I expect my city will be a big sex app dating app fuck fest come August. I quit my job to focus on my ecommerce business, which has boomed during the pandemic, so I'm obviously a unique case. But I've als… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/20 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Clarification on "Sluttiness" / LTR-worthiness in relation to how quickly things sexually escalate?This question vexed me for awhile when I first discovered TRP. You get a lot of guys here who spout off nonsense like "if she sleeps with you on the first date, she isn't LTR material." Notice the source. None of these guys are flaired. They only have a superficial understanding of TRP. This is the kind of Blue Pill shit I hear from Uber drivers on the way back from nailing a girl. Endorsed Contributors will tell you that this is totally irrelevant. In fact, a girl that sleeps with you on the fi… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Can a guy be handsome but not tall?What a retarded thread. 5'10 is not short unless you're in Scandinavia. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 01:50 PM |
| 1 | college guy, what do people here think about stoners, or even people that drink?Well first of all, who are these girls? Yeah, stoners get chicks, but I've never known many of them to pull hot chicks. Actual hot girls in college sleep with athletes, frat boys, bartenders, and others of that ilk. For me, weed and alcohol are tools. That's how I invite myself to a girl's place - to smoke weed or drink wine and chill. It's not my identity. These days I seldom smoke, and I have a drink maybe once or twice a week. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 01:43 PM |
| 5 | Women Will Only Be Attracted For A Brief Window: Strike While The Iron Is HotThis is the single biggest reason why guys miss out on sexual opportunities. The confusing part for a lot of guys, I think, is that sometimes the escalation window remains open indefinitely is she's extremely attracted. I know a Chad who is like this. He still thinks that the best way to attract a girl is to "become friends with her first" because it has seemingly worked for him. Well, no. You could have made a move on Day One and she would have been 100% down; waiting several months was simply … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/20 07:44 PM |
| 86 | Tinder Mistakes You’re Probably MakingOP fucks on Tinder. When I was little, girls hated when I pulled their hair. Funny how some things change. This is perfect. Clever and funny with just the right amount of dirty. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/20 04:22 AM |
| 42 | Plate I’ve been smashing is avoiding hanging out but still texting me everydayAnother guy that she likes better is in the picture, but she keeps you around as a backup if/when he leaves. Don't fall for this classic. I follow the Three Strikes rule (more like two honestly): if she declines to hang out three times, it's time to move on. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 09:47 PM |
| 12 | Please explain why you don’t want your woman sleeping with other men?The notion that "men do X, so women can do it too." The argument is based on the false premise of the blank slate, which holds that men and women are the same. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 02:35 PM |
| 17 | Please explain why you don’t want your woman sleeping with other men?Get out of here with this egalitarian equalist bullshit, it's been debunked thoroughly if you care to look for it. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 02:08 PM |
| 1 | What US cities can rival NYC when it comes to meeting lots of hot girls and good female/male ratios?Vancouver, BC was great for me. The ratio is favorable. Lots of hot, fit, outdoorsy young women. Local Canadian men are mostly Beta schlubs with no Game. I got approached just walking around minding my own business and received triple my normal Tinder matches compared to similar size cities. It's 40% Asian though, so maybe not the best choice if you're racist against Asians too...although I got plenty of attention from white girls. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Girls that prefer bluepill traits in guysBecause everyone knows who Prince is, and it's easy example to use. But I know similar situations in my own life. I'm sure you do as well. OP thinks he's the Alpha in this situation based on superficial factors, but more likely that debate club ponce is the real Alpha, and OP is the Beta. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 05:21 AM |
| 8 | Why you should never show emotion in front of a womanI agree that this wife sounds like a real piece of work, but this is a teachable moment for one of the harshest Red Pills: women are instinctively revolted by male tears. There was a female author, I forget the source and the exact quote, but it went something like this: we tell our men to show emotion, that it's okay to be vulnerable. But when they do, we can't help but feel repulsed and disgusted. I think you basically get 2-3 "crying in front of your SO" passes in life as a man: the death of … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/20 01:29 AM |
| 5 | Yes, you can have female friends. In fact, you should.This post is stupid as hell. Rollo has debunked the "female friend" topic pretty thoroughly. In short, men and women have differing concepts of friendship. You can't be a woman's friend in the way that men understand friendship. When it does happen, the "friendship" is almost always in the woman's Frame. I'll skip the rest, which has already been addressed elsewhere in the comments. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/20 10:55 PM |
| 15 | Girls that prefer bluepill traits in guysShort, 5'7 at best, dresses really flamboyant, really slim, no muscles etc. I am so goddamn sick of the muscle worship in this sub (and yes, I lift). Many of you are worse than my gay friends. Allow me to introduce Prince. 5'3", rail thin, and dressed like a fag. He also smashed a slew of HB9 models and actresses, certainly did better than anyone on this forum could ever dream in terms of pussy. This guy was more Alpha than just about anyone during his heyday. I'm 6'2, do mma, maintain a 6-pac a… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 07:09 PM |
| 5 | Girl I’ve been talking to for a while mentions a date she went on.getting to know multiple people at once isn’t my thing. You're on the wrong forum, guy. We advocate the complete total opposite. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Men's SMV is composed of looks, money and status, what is women's composed of?How many HB7s are there, actually, when half the country is overweight or obese? I'll stick my dick in a 5 (average girl) if I'm horny and desperate enough, but that still means at least 50% of girls are basically unfuckable. Women definitely have an easier time in the Looks department, no question. But it isn't an irrelevant factor due to male thirst. The 80% of beta males will fuck a 3 and be glad that they did, but the girls don't want that attention. They want Chad's attention...but they're … | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 06:53 PM |
| 17 | How can I improve my voice?Many men think their voices sound effeminate when they listen to themselves. In all modesty, I have been told since I was 14 that I have a very manly voice, and even I thought I sounded silly for the longest time. I think it's mostly in your imagination. That said, almost everyone has some annoying verbal tick (upward lilt, too much "you know, like", etc.). You can practice getting rid of those habits. Our vocal chords also tighten when we get excited or emotional, which results in a higher pitc… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 06:36 PM |
| 1 | If you haven't already, I highly recommend checking out Corey Wayne's workCorey Wayne is not Red Pill, he's Purple Pill. The guy has some good content, I used to watch him in college, but you can't get good results from only 80% of the information. That last 20% I got from places like here and The Rational Male, and that's when my life actually turned around. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/20 03:09 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do some of you lift so hard?Well that's why a lot of lifters are athletic guys in the place. They see fast results, so they get that positive feedback loop. The genetically ungifted, however, quickly stall, fail, and quit. In other words, life isn't fair. That said, you can program gains even with crappy genetics. Slower gains, to be sure, but they add up over time until after two years you get people saying "damn bro, you're looking big." I did it, and so have many other guys. There's some good advice in this thread, foll… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 02:46 PM |
| 8 | Men's SMV is composed of looks, money and status, what is women's composed of?This. I mean, good Lord, you would think these people don't even know that SMV stands for Sexual Market Value. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 02:08 PM |
| 9 | Alpha Male Habits: The Art of EmbellishmentI'm not talking about maintaining a "web of lies" like you're Bernie Madoff running a Ponzi scheme. Most of what I discuss here is pretty innocent embellishment, truthful hyperbole, or whatever you want to call it. Lying about your sexual experience, for example, is hardly consequential. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/20 04:26 AM |
| 1 | How the hell do some of you lift so hard?, lifting on and off for 3~ years In other words, you aren't lifting. There's no "lifting on and off" you're either training or you aren't. Like another guy said, your lack of consistency is probably the main factor. Read Martin Berkhan's article "Fuckarounditis" Scrolling down through the comments, I can also see you're clueless about calories and macros. Read Jordan Feigenbaum's "To Be a Beast" article. Maybe It's because I grew up as a super skinny 24/7 degenerate video game addict without pl… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Is the reason to come over, just a way not to say "come over let's fuck"?No, it's not Alpha af at all. Quite the opposite - it demonstrates that you don't understand how the Game is played. Yes I will agree that there are (rare) occasions where "let's fuck" is actually appropriate. But again, it comes back to social intelligence. You need to know how to read the room. Would you walk into a work meeting and loose a loud fart before a presentation? I mean maybe, if that's your company culture. But 99% of the time you wouldn't. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Is it normal to get ghosted after a hook up on Tinder?Talk about a good problem to have. The Blue Pill conditions you to believe that all girls want a relationship, which is false. Girls also enjoy casual, feelz-free sex. What do we always say here? Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks. Maybe you see yourself as beta, but clearly some girls see you as Alpha, so you can't be that bad. Guys like you are for fucking, not commitment. This is especially true on Tinder. Later in life, you'll be one of the lays that "doesn't count" because it was "meaningless." I once… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Am I rusty or online dating has changed slightly ?Why are you attracted to older women? That makes no sense. No male on planet Earth prefers a 30 YO to a 20 YO, unless they're conditioned by the Blue Pill to eroticize aging and stop hitting on younger girls because it's "creepy." | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 03:27 PM |
| 5 | Am I rusty or online dating has changed slightly ?I’m going for slightly older women Well there's your problem. You're going after girls in their Epiphany Phase. What the fuck man? Why aren't you going after those hot tight 22 YOs that you were bagging before? You're also on Hinge, which brands itself as a relationship app. I don't have much success there with my "fuckboy" profile. Almost all of my lays come from Tinder. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 03:06 PM |
| 45 | Is the reason to come over, just a way not to say "come over let's fuck"?Obviously saying "come over let's fuck" is socially retarded. That said, you don't need to invent an excuse. I just say something like "how about we hang out at my place?" Says everything and nothing. I'm like you, I hate phonies, and many of the girls that I bang appreciate my upfront approach. But you need to do it in a socially intelligent way. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 03:00 PM |
| 47 | Friends hanging out with cheating ex - dropped themThe problem with having desperate Blue Pill/Beta friends is that oftentimes loyalty goes out the window when there's some pussy around, even if that pussy is your ex. They're in a scarcity mindset, they don't know many girls, and your ex just happens to be there. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 02:54 PM |
| 32 | LTR turns into LDR because she wants to study in a different townDo not confront her with an ultimatum. Quoting Rollo: Ultimatums are declarations of powerlessness because you are resorting to a direct threat to get someone to do what you want them to, and in doing so you OVERTLY confess your weak position. If you were in a genuine position of control it wouldn’t be necessary to resort to an ultimatum; you’d simply use that control. There are many ways to effect a change in another person, but ultimatums will never prompt a genuine change. If they change beha… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Best response for “do you only want me for sex?”It's not a shit test, it's a comfort test. And that's a terrible autistic response. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Guys who get laid a lot; are you wary of false accusations?Aren't you worried about dying in a fiery plane crash, plunging to your certain demise at 500 mph? Or getting Covid and suffocating to death alone in a hospital? Or getting a flesh eating bacteria while swimming in a lake? Or simply slipping on ice during winter and knocking your head against the asphalt? I don't worry about things that are blown up by the media, but in reality are statistically improbable. How many times do false accusations actually happen? It's an irrational fear. Life is ris… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 05:48 AM |
| 18 | Best response for “do you only want me for sex?”Sounds like a stripper I dated for awhile. She was a sweetheart and we had fantastic personal and sexual chemistry...but she was a stripper. Obviously a total non-starter for a relationship, but we had fun while it lasted. Seems to me like you know what you're doing, I don't think you need our advice on this issue. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 03:31 AM |
| 13 | Best response for “do you only want me for sex?”Good response. That said, do you actually want to get to know her better, or did you just say that so you could keep tapping that ass? Something to keep in mind going forward. If you want to be a disingenuous asshole that's your business, but I try to be upfront with girls to avoid future drama. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 03:18 AM |
| 2 | How to progress with a girl that seems more reserved?None of us are there, dude. I can't answer that kind of minutiae. It's not necessarily about being high SMV, nobody bats 1000. Like some of the other guys are saying (and what I advocate), try getting into her place instead. Girls are often more comfortable hooking up at their own apartments. You obviously want to fuck this girl so I'd say just try and see what happens. Minimal effort, don't put a lot of energy into this. If you fail, you fail, forget it and move on. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 03:09 AM |
| 3 | How to progress with a girl that seems more reserved?My assessment is that her interest level is low. No girl who plans on banging you takes 24 hours to reply to a text. Strike one. Obviously she knows what "come over and make sangria and eat cheese" implies, and she didn't go for it. Strike two. Whether a girl is reserved or bubbly makes no difference. Move quickly. I would've tried to take her home on the first date. See my post "Why You Aren't Translating Your Tinder Matches/Dates Into Lays" As to where you go from here, that's up to you. Meet … | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 12:16 AM |
| 5 | Am i wasting my time and energy with this girl?The thing is we facetime everyday for like 2-3 hours but i wont be able to see her for a few months, and I think she'll lose interest. Kid - what the fuck are you doing facetiming a girl for 2-3 hours a day? What are you, her gay best friend? Your damn right she'll lose interest. I could go on, but it would be too tedious to address all of this nonsense. You obviously haven't read the sidebar. It's summer, plenty of time for you to be doing that. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 11:49 PM |
| -2 | Guys, before you got a place of your own, did you (mostly) fuck girls at your parents house or the girls house?I think they’d prefer a man who can afford to help put a deposit on a house over one who spent his entire pay cheque on rent through his 20s. Pure Beta Bucks logic. I don't fully agree with this guy's "man child" argument, because obviously girls will fuck wherever if you're fun and hawt, but your case is also pretty weak. He's right that "independence" builds confidence and masculinity. Too many Betas still sucking on mommy's tit well into their 20s and even 30s. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 11:42 PM |
| 8 | Guys, before you got a place of your own, did you (mostly) fuck girls at your parents house or the girls house?My mom's house has a finished basement. I fucked several girls there. For more solid FWBs, I would occasionally get a hotel room so we could really go to town with kinky shit. As everyone here would agree, girls don't care that much where you bang them. That said, I strongly advise you to move out soon. Not for girls, but for personal development. I know many Betas who spent too much time on mommy's tit getting soft and weak...and I would count myself among them. Getting more pussy was a second-… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Guys, before you got a place of your own, did you (mostly) fuck girls at your parents house or the girls house?Same experience here...right down to the stripper, lol. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 11:31 PM |
| 6 | Guys who get laid a lot; are you wary of false accusations?I'm about as worried about that as I am about dying in a plane crash (read: not at all). I'm never pushy with girls, but I do move quickly because I want to know whether she's in or she's out. I'm looking for the HELL YES girl. Either she has that genuine desire, or I terminate the interaction. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 11:19 PM |
| 1 | What would you have saidThis is a waste of time. Don't bother changing your location until a week before you go. These days I don't even do that, I wait until I'm there and set up a spontaneous date for the same day that we match. You can't even keep the momentum going for a few days, let alone a few months. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Hinge app. Got her number at 10:30pm after chatting that night. I went to bed early for 6am gym session. How soon should I text to meet up? Sidebar isn’t explicit wrt this question. Relative newb here trying to build some abundance in a pandemic.Personally I haven't had great experience getting hookups with Hinge. The app brands itself as relationship-focused. Same with Bumble, to a lesser degree. It's a different vibe, I've found that my "fuckboy" profile bombs on Hinge and I need to include some Beta provider shit to get any play. I'm sure some guys have a different experience but almost all of my instant lays have come from Tinder. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Hinge app. Got her number at 10:30pm after chatting that night. I went to bed early for 6am gym session. How soon should I text to meet up? Sidebar isn’t explicit wrt this question. Relative newb here trying to build some abundance in a pandemic."You're going to be fucking her anyways?" I don't know what this means. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 10:56 PM |
| 6 | Hinge app. Got her number at 10:30pm after chatting that night. I went to bed early for 6am gym session. How soon should I text to meet up? Sidebar isn’t explicit wrt this question. Relative newb here trying to build some abundance in a pandemic.DO NOT WAIT. I can't emphasize this enough. Whoever coined the phrase "you snooze you lose" probably lost a lot of lays by dithering. Girls on dating apps sex apps have ADD. Her brain will simply flit to the next shiny Chad that appears in her feed, and you'll be forgotten instantly. Make the date that very night, if possible. If not, set up for the next 24-48 hours. 72 hours at most, but even that is pushing it. Any longer than that and she will almost certainly flake. Girls aren't like guys. T… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Not always able to turn dates sexual - any ideas?Read my recent post "Why You Aren't Translating Your Tinder Matches/Dates Into Lays". I address this issue in-depth. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 05:55 PM |
| 3 | How would you guys act in front of your oneitis or ex-oneitis if you saw them? Especially in a social situation.That this is even a thought in your brain means that you have some abundance issues. It doesn't matter what you do, you genuinely shouldn't care either way. If you're planning this scenario out in your mind, then you will inevitably make a fool of yourself. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Getting facial plastic surgery to improve dating and hookup optionsCertainly in retrospect it was worth it, although I didn't appreciate it at the time. It was just something I went along with as part of my orthodontist's treatment plan. Would I do it at 25? Yeah, I suppose I would. Having braces at 25 would be a total non-starter for me, though. It was bad enough being, as far as I know, perhaps the only guy at my university with braces freshman year. As an adult wanting to fix a crooked smile, I would just save up money and get veneers. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Any good TRP content on Youtube?It's like having a ton of one night stands, they all just blend together after awhile. But the content is good, you should really just start at the beginning and go through it. One episode that really stuck in my mind was when he did a breakdown video of this Asian Blue Pill Beta guy who explained why his wife left him. I don't remember the name of it though but I'm sure you can find it if you go through his channel | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Getting facial plastic surgery to improve dating and hookup optionsI can attract average looking women for hookups but better looking ones want commitment. Hotter girls are easier in my experience. Something in your vibe probably shifts from Alpha to Beta when you interact with more beautiful women. That's all completely self-imposed, and probably won't change even if you get surgery. As to your actual question, I got corrective underbite surgery before college, which also resulted in improvements to overall jaw/nose aesthetics. I'm glad I did it and would reco… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 03:48 AM |
| 1 | I was doing it all for womenRollo calls this the "crisis of motive." Why do we do what we do? I'm not ashamed to admit that I started lifting to get girls wet. Eventually I discovered that lifting has intrinsic reward to it as well. Watching my numbers go up is intrinsically satisfying, but I didn't know that would be the case starting out. Surely chicks aren't the only reason, no? Same goes for everything else you discussed. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 03:05 AM |
| 25 | LTR of 4 years broke up with me and she immediately regretted that decision and begged for forgiveness. I am not sure about her anymore. Double check before dumping herDid not read the post. No, you obviously do not take her back under any circumstances. I don't care about any of that crap that you wrote. It's irrelevant. Once she breaks up with you, or even entertains the thought of breaking up with you, she's out. Kaput. Done-zo. No exceptions, ever. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 02:50 AM |
| 3 | Any good TRP content on Youtube?Rollo Tomassi. Hard to recommend "specific videos" dude, it's a damn series. You can't learn TRP from a few hours of Youtube. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 02:47 AM |
| 4 | Unattractive InterestsI can’t find women I can really relate to except the not so attractive ones. Why do you need to "relate" to a girl? That's Blue Pill bullshit. The masculine-feminine dynamic is what makes for a healthy relationship, not common interests. In fact, a girl that has genuine desire will adopt your interests as her own. You like movies? Then make her watch some of your favorite films with you. I've made my past girlfriends watch Star Wars with me, which they did happily because they wanted to please m… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/20 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Do keepers still exist?Of course there are "keepers" out there (whatever that means to you, exactly). We'll assume that what you mean is an attractive girl who isn't a total hoebag and has a charming, feminine demeanor. But guess what? Those girls want an Alpha as much as their peers, and they're in a better position to actually get it because they're so rare and high value. I wrote a post about this dynamic recently. It's on YOU to become the guy that those girls want. If you think that girl will appreciate your weak… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/20 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Can anyone relate to this? Too ugly for casual sex?Although I'm not sure I was as "ugly" as you are (hard to tell without pictures), it's fair to say that I definitely was not attractive at age 19. A list of my physical imperfections at that age: -underbite -large, hooked nose -long, asymmetrical face -skinny fat, weak build -extremely crooked teeth -bad haircut My mouth/jaw situation was a complex case. Ultimately I had a 10 year relationship with my orthodontist. In high school I had braces, which I continued to wear through freshman year of c… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/20 02:39 PM |
| 5 | What are some nice ways to end it with a plate after a few dates?Just copy what girls do. "It's not you, it's me" and that sort of thing. Or just use the old ambiguous "I don't feel like we have a connection." | /r/askTRP | 19/07/20 02:07 PM |
| 1 | What's up with dates drooling over male actor in the movie we're watching and how should I respond?The idea of a girl doing that to me - I can't recall any instances aside from a passing acknowledgement - really rubs me the wrong way. First of all, it's rude. I didn't come on a date to see you drool over Chris Evans, and you didn't come out to see me drool over the hot waitress. Second, it demonstrates lack of interest. An Alpha male might be expected to notice other women, that's their nature. But a women should be focused on you, and you alone. Other men should be basically invisible. Andre… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/20 02:12 PM |
| 5 | I didn't enter into the College I wanted, what now?Should I find a job for a year and then try again? If you're really this whacked, then probably that college was right to reject you. No, obviously don't do that. And by the way, your bullshit excuse makes no sense. How the hell did the pandemic impact anything when it began after the college application process ended? Go to college in the fall, and if you work your ass off maybe you can transfer to a better school. But really, in 5-6 years, you won't give a shit about any of this and neither wi… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/20 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Doesn't asking to meet during quarantine make you look thirsty as fuck?Not really. I met up with a plate two months ago because it was my birthday and I wanted some sex. She asked why I texted her during quarantine. I started to say "I was trying to social distance, but..." She finished the sentence for me. "...a man's got needs." That's all the explanation you need. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 01:31 PM |
| 2 | 19M, I mostly Only attract girls younger than me, how do I get older women?This is the answer. 19 is a shitty age because your pool is so small. The real question is, why does hooking up with a 16 YO "feel weird" if it's legal and she's down? That's your Blue Pill programming talking. Guys in the States say that they won't go after an 18 YO for the same reason, then they go home and jerk off to "Barely Legal Teen Gets Pounded" on Pornhub. I can see not wanting to publicly be in a relationship with a 16 YO. I'm 27 and I fuck 18 YO girls, but I keep it to casual encounte… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on will smith entanglement?Rollo did a whole show on the Will Smith and Jada Pinkett-Smith affair (note her hyphenated last name, big tell right there). Always knew there was some fuckery afoot, just look at their gender-confused kid. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 01:01 PM |
| 17 | Got back from Asia, lost 20kg, women are more shitty to me?This is all in your imagination. I get that women aren't always the nicest but really, nobody gives a shit about you, unless you're walking around in a "Fuck You" hat. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 12:55 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever soft nexted and it worked? What happened?I soft nexted a Tinder girl after she flaked out on our date. To my surprise, she texted me the next day asking to meet. We met at a park, I drove her back to my place for coffee and we fucked. She was Russian and hot, I wrote a FR about it last year. I have used the tactic with my previous LTR and other girls. "Soft next" is simply removing your attention. Whether that's with a Tinder thot or your girlfriend, it only works if she sees that attention as valuable. Otherwise, it doesn't work. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Numbers but no response - tinderWhy are you even getting her number in the first place? What purpose does that serve when you're already in contact on the app? Stop asking for her number and start asking for what you actually want - the bang. All you're doing is throwing up self-imposed rejection buffers. It seems easier to ask for her number rather than invite yourself straight to her place to drink wine and hang out. Many of these Tinder thots just want you to get to the point already. Both of you know why you're on a dating… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Warren Ellis Being Publicly Shamed for Withdrawing Attention from Women He Was OrbitingEh, women date men at work ALL the time. In fact, many women enter into the corporate workforce to look for a man. I don't know about that. Only about 10% of relationships in 2020 begin at work, and probably a lot of those were shitty inconsequential jobs like restaurants and grocery stores. Today 70% of people are meeting at bars or online - that is, pure sexual zones. So this guy above is basically on the right track. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/20 02:08 PM |
| 11 | First date what to do?Yet another fool who thinks he doesn't need to read any Red Pill material, then comes here panicking on exam day because he realizes he doesn't know squat. We just decided to go for a walk, A "walk" is a non-date designed for one purpose: to ascertain that your pictures are accurate and that you aren't a massive weirdo/beta. The medium is the message here - she isn't looking for anything serious. but literally don't have much in common do I bring up sex? Are you retarded? No, don't bring up sex.… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Creating a Sexual Vibe in Your Tinder Profile: Body Language AnalysisWhere in the sidebar is height discussed? I'm not denying that height matters. But unless you're abnormally below average, then it really isn't the great disqualifier that you seem to believe it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/20 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Should i bang a 17yo chick ? I'm 28 ...My answer to this is no. Maybe it's fine now, you're a nobody. But what if one day you become a celebrity, CEO, politician, or some other person in the public eye? Then you'll have some chick looking for her 15 minutes who will say *"*Aggressive_Ad_4417 manipulated me into sex, I was only 17, blah blah blah." Even if technically "legal," imagine how that looks to the Blue Pill public? A semi-famous comedian was recently ruined for hitting on underage girls. You do you, but I wouldn't. If i invit… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 12:39 AM |
| 3 | How much truth is there in "get a hotter girl" to get out of friendzone?You're asking the wrong question. The right question is "Why is this thought even entering my brain in the first place?" Answer: scarcity mindset | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Need Help With Tinder ThotShe was "going to say no?" How the hell do you know that? I've banged a ton of girls by inviting myself to her place to smoke weed or drink wine or whatever. Additionally, many girls that I've plated from "dates" have admitted to doing it. Anyone who denies that this happens is out of touch with reality. Read my post where I explain the dynamics. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 06:02 PM |
| 4 | Creating a Sexual Vibe in Your Tinder Profile: Body Language AnalysisThis height shit is so fucking exaggerated. I have a friend who's 6'3". Dude gets next to no pussy. His girlfriend is fat. I have another "Chad" friend that I often refer to on this sub. He's 5'7" tops, gets endless Tinder matches, and they never ask him how tall he is. I myself am 5'9" on a good day. Rarely asked by girls for my height on apps. I've banged more girls than my entire friend group combined. Height is like having a big dick. For some girls it's a dealbreaker, and they will all say … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/20 02:53 PM |
| 1 | I can't get second datesHow the hell is anyone supposed to respond to such a low-effort post? Delete this shit and repost properly with more detail. Where are you meeting these girls? Real life or apps? Maybe you're going after girls who don't have enough interest to begin with. Could be that something in your vibe is telegraphing "Beta." Perhaps you aren't being direct enough in your approach. But again, we have no idea because you offer no detail. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 02:42 PM |
| 2 | for how many dates have you gone the longest before you slept with a girl?In my experience, I either sleep with her by Date #2 or I never do. 95% of the time, we bang on the first "date" (I use that term loosely). In my Beta chump days, I once went three months with a girl without her ever once touching my penis, and she ended up dumping me in the end ("I don't feel like we have a connection"). All of those dates to get her "comfortable," all of that "getting to know her first" was a total waste. I actually thought that doing things the "right way" would get me to int… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 02:23 PM |
| 5 | How do you spit game to much younger women? Do you do anything different than you normally would?if I have anything in common with them at this point in my life. The idea that you have to have something "in common" with a girl (whatever that means, exactly) is Blue Pill bullshit. Is she hot? Is she feminine and fun to be with? These are the questions that matter. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Need Help With Tinder ThotThat's why you invite yourself over to her place. Granted, I wouldn't have done it if she was actually drunk, I don't fuck with sloppiness. But that's what you should do in this situation. I've had far more success meeting somewhere like a coffee shop and then taking them home The other guy is right. Tinder thots are not for "dating." Tinder is not a dating app. It's a sex app. See my post titled "Why You Aren't Translating Your Tinder Matches/Dates Into Lays" | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Gym routine & scared of getting fat during bulkI think the near-universally accepted answer in the lifting world is for someone like you to get on Starting Strength for 3-4 months. Tons of resources available for that program. Repost this question in that sub, you'll get better answers. You won't get fat if you aren't eating like a retard and/or training without enough intensity. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 01:57 PM |
| 2 | tinder and perceived smvYour theory is bullshit. There are pro athletes on Tinder, for Gods sake. It’s free pussy if you cross out the word “dating app” and replace it with “sex app” | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 02:10 AM |
| 6 | How to get more hot lays / plates aside from online datingWhat a bizarre humble brag of a post. I almost have to think this isn't real, but assuming it is, do you honestly need our advice here? | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 03:18 PM |
| 19 | Red Pill recommended movies?The original Star Wars trilogy is always my recommendation, particularly the first two. An Alpha male character like Han Solo could never appear in a film today. Lines like "if we just avoid any more female advice, we ought to be able to get out of here" are unthinkable in 2020. In one scene, the writers were to have Han Solo respond "I love you, too" to Leia. But Harrison Ford, being a real life badass, thought that was unbecoming of an Alpha male like Solo. So he personally came up with the be… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 01:53 PM |
| 1 | What makes a man Physically unattractiveSquatting and deadlifting literally fixes bad posture, which is what I was responding to. That said, I don't know many lifters who don't have a "confident" demeanor. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 01:30 PM |
| 11 | Creating a Sexual Vibe in Your Tinder Profile: Body Language AnalysisA man will often look at himself a hell of a lot differently once he gets a few good lays under his belt from tinder or the club, that I can tell you | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/20 12:14 AM |
| 9 | Creating a Sexual Vibe in Your Tinder Profile: Body Language AnalysisWhy not be both? That’s what I submit to you. You don’t “have to choose one” or the other. I assume everyone here can walk and chew gum. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/20 09:11 PM |
| 23 | What makes a man Physically unattractiveSquat and deadlift | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 08:35 PM |
| 2 | [Tinder tips and advice] What is the best way to respond to girl who text you first?Single Mom - I will immediately comment on her bad decision in life then un match her. Jesus Christ you sound like such a fuckwad. I feel slimy even giving you advice. You escalate quickly when a girl on Tinder messages you first. See my post "Why You Aren't Translating Your Tinder Matches/Dates Into Lays" | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 07:16 PM |
| 8 | Is it possible to seduce the woman again who once had the hots for you?Of course. I'm sure many guys here have done it. I personally haven't, but that's only because many of the girls that I gamed 5-10 years ago either weren't that attractive in the first place or got fat. The ones who have hit me up no longer interest me. Your transformation has to be incredibly dramatic for this to work. Most people who knew me as a teenager say I'm nothing like they remember. Most of the time, once a Beta = always a Beta in a woman's eyes. If this is really a serious thought in … | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Lessons from Jada and Will Smith marriage?Rollo did a whole show on this and nails the topic from a RP perspective. I've always known there was some fuckery afoot, just look at their gender-confused kid. Now it's been confirmed. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 06:13 PM |
| 38 | Attract girls I don't want with ease, can't attract girls I do wantas soon as they talk to me, they're no longer interested So your Game sucks donkey schlong. Work on that. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 03:01 PM |
| 1 | LTR of nearly a year, her past trauma is affecting our relationshipI'm scared that if I give up, it's going to be difficult to find another -- I know this comes down to abundance. Well you're damn right about that. I'm also worried about her sanity I'm going to say this one more time. NOT YOUR FUCKING PROBLEM! Basically, my question is that is there any harm in waiting? I think it's ludicrous that you're even in a monogamous LTR at 22 in the first place. I don't care if the girl is the Virgin Mary herself. You should be spinning plates. She's also expressed bei… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 02:49 PM |
| 8 | LTR of nearly a year, her past trauma is affecting our relationshipThen I really don't know why you bothered to come on here. Sounds like you've already made up your mind and you just want our approval. That happens here every week, too. You see, the only reason a guy even posts here is when his gut is telling him that something is really wrong, but he can't quite put his finger on it. You writing all of this shit is just a formality. You already know there is a problem, but you won't own up to it. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 05:20 AM |
| 12 | I get a lot of satisfaction out of making my LTR happy. Is this beta?I buy my niece ice cream because she likes it, and I like seeing her happy. And I'm sure she would be happy to just have me feed her ice cream all day. But I don't, because I know in the end it would be detrimental for her. It's a treat. As the man in the relationship, you're almost like a parent to her...a daddy, if you will. You have to be responsible with your affections. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 05:15 AM |
| 5 | Where are you supposed to find nice, kind, sensitive women these days?My mum is like this and I'd love to find similar women to this. Your mother is the only woman on planet Earth who will love you unconditionally. Even if you lived 1000 years, you would never replicate that love with another woman. Get that ludicrous fantasy out of your brain. Men frequently project this longing onto their partner. It's pure, unadulterated Blue Pill. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 05:03 AM |
| 9 | LTR of nearly a year, her past trauma is affecting our relationshipThis is such an easy answer. Dump her. But since you put the time in to provide detail, I'll go through this in a bit more. I'm in one of the best relationships I've had at the start of my career. The girl is loyal, attractive, conservative family and background, intelligent You think you're unique coming on here with this. Let me tell you something right now - you aren't. Every week some dude comes on here with the same sob story: she's the perfect little unicorn, except for [insert major red f… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 04:36 AM |
| 9 | Should this get a soft next?Was this Snapchat? Also possible that a few other guys got the same thing, and you were just one of several options. Either way, your instincts are right. Soft next because she rudely never answered you. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 04:15 AM |
| 0 | Any experience with this kind of ASD/LMR?There's no such thing as ASD/LMR. There is only desire and lack of desire. A girl that wants to fuck you will fuck you. It's really that simple. In any case, I want a girl who is so down to fuck that when we get back to my place, she's ripping my clothes off, moaning, breathing heavily in anticipation of taking my cock. No bullshit, just two humans who are hot for each other. That's the kind of sex I want to have, what about you? Remember, girls will still meet and go out with guys that they don… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 02:08 PM |
| 0 | Is 12 Rules For Life red pill ?Jordon Peterson is not Red Pill. I read the book and found it vapid, self-righteous, and pretentious. The first chapter about lobsters is somewhat interesting. Skip the rest. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 08:37 PM |
| 9 | Robert DeNiro DivorceDoes it really matter in the end if she fucks you for your body (genetic, i.e the cards you've been dealt and hard work) or your status (hard work)? Pussy is pussy.. Anyone who says that "pussy is pussy" has never experienced genuine desire from a girl. Period full stop. Get a girl who flies across the county at her own expensive to fuck you and then come back and tell me it doesn't matter. If she's banging you for status/money then you might as well just hire an escort. There's no real differen… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/20 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Talk some sense into meI want to call it out Which is totally counterproductive and will erase any future chance of more hookups, as you know. As to the situation at hand, who knows what happened. Perhaps she just wanted a one night stand with you. Whatever the case, hold Frame. No more contact, soft next. Wait for her to reach out. However, it's possible that she never actually does reach out. You have to accept, indeed assume, that you may never fuck her again. In the meantime, Game other girls. Don't know why you'r… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Questions on Buying Fitted ClothesBella Canvas 3001 heather and Gildan 64000 softstyle are two shirt models that I use for my online store. They're pretty form-fitting. You can buy singles pretty cheaply on Amazon, ebay, etc. The BC is about 50% cotton 50% polyester and the Gildan is 100% cotton. My favorites are H&M solid color tees. They contain 5% spandex and hug my muscles well. Something like $10 a pop in store. Pants are difficult if you squat, as most pants are designed for skinny soy boys and fat fucks. I found that Expr… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Working out = become attractive ?I knew a kid in HS who was no more than 5'6" or 5'7". He used to get shit for being short. Even at graduation he was still a shrimp. Fast forward to our reunion. He towered over me at 6 ft+. I literally said something like "what the fuck" Rare but these things do happen...not to me though, unfortunately. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 02:03 PM |
| 7 | How to get women to view you as hookup material?You're a Beta. I hate to break it to you, but that is the answer. As we say around here Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks. The Alpha is the "hookup material" guy. The Beta is you - the "nice" guy who must prove himself through time/dates, and only gets transactional sex in exchange for provisioning, a relationship, and attention. Clearly you haven't read the sidebar at all, so these gentlemen are being very generous in their replies. You need to read Rollo's The Rational Male and the sidebar...today. I me… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 01:54 PM |
| 2 | The rest of the year is cancelled due to Covid. What's the long term plan for everyone?Without being too specific I can say the category is novelty apparel and home goods. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 01:40 PM |
| 3 | The rest of the year is cancelled due to Covid. What's the long term plan for everyone? Both. Some physical inventory of bestsellers. Others sold using the Print on Demand (POD) model and fulfilled by a third party. I design all of my own products (self-taught in graphic design). | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 01:40 PM |
| 6 | The rest of the year is cancelled due to Covid. What's the long term plan for everyone?I quit my job to focus on my ecommerce business which surged 1200% in revenue this year. So there's that. More time to optimize training, so my physique is better than ever while most other people degenerate even further into fat slobbery. Not really Gaming any new chicks right now, been nailing pre-Covid plates to satisfy my sexual needs. But those relationships are petering out, so probably gonna be back on Tinder soon. Overall I'd say the pandemic has been a net positive for me personally. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 05:40 AM |
| 1 | How do some Naturals get 10s when their SMV is low??You're proving my point. Gronk is the epitome of Chad Thundercock, facially and otherwise. But a lot of guys are so socially clueless that they don't see that. They think a hot guy is a girly looking fucker like young Brad Pitt | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 06:35 PM |
| 12 | Generational Shift in Body Preferences?I can't think of anything hotter than plowing into a fitness girl with a big firm butt. But you do you, dude. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Improving oneself: defining statusStatus in what sense? When we think of "status," most of us think of someone like Jeff Bezos...a CEO with a lot of money. Doesn't translate into an ounce of pussy, except of course for girls looking for Beta Bucks. Jeff Bezos has status, which is great if you want to be influential in world affairs or whatever, but he has no sexual status. The average New York City firefighter is sexier than Jeff Bezos in an Alpha Fucks sense. Sexual status is something like a rapper, rock star, athlete, actor, … | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 03:10 PM |
| 3 | Any point to pursue any more? ( new to this community)Hey dummy, your actions imply that you have little or no interest. Are you actually not interested, or this some retarded game that you're playing? Do yourself a favor and learn to take yes for an answer. I don't know why you made this so complicated. Make a girl feel rejected, and she'll NEXT you into oblivion just like we advise guys on this forum to do in a similar situation. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 03:02 PM |
| 34 | Generational Shift in Body Preferences?A natural big ass on a fit frame is evolutionarily attractive because girls with wider hips have an easier time in childbirth. It has nothing to do with the Kardashians. Men have always liked nice asses. Television and social media simply brought the phenomenon into wider public awareness. A muscular female ass (or male ass, for that matter) built from squatting is similarly hot because it signals physical fitness. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 02:53 PM |
| 0 | How do some Naturals get 10s when their SMV is low??the guys dating them are way lower on the SMV charts (they earn less money, have average looks, definitely don't lift weights or hit the gym, I seriously doubt this. Most likely you're underestimating their physical SMV. I saw some guy here a few weeks ago say that Rob Gronkowski was ugly. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 01:33 PM |
| 7 | What is the limit between abuse and flirting?Telling some random girl "you got my dick hard" out of the blue is not flirting, it's socially retarded. There's nothing Alpha about that. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Feel like I wasted my teen years.Are you sure you aren't actually retarded? Take that big brain that you claim to possess and go read the sidebar instead of whining. I always showed shitty results in the gym Starting Strength. Google it. I probably was weakest and slowest person my track team Who gives a rat's ass about track? Ain't nobody on the track team getting an ounce of hot pussy, that I can tell you. What you need to do is get your lard ass into the weight room and start on a reasonable diet. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 05:18 AM |
| 3 | Will I come of as a creep for hitting on an 18 yo girl ? I’m 22 turning 23 next monthI'm 27 and I fucked an 18 YO high school girl in a one night stand last year. Lots of users here much older do the same thing regularly. Some guys will give you holier-than-thou crap. Later that night, they'll go home and furiously jerk it to "Barely Legal Teen Sucks Monster Dick" on Pornhub. Girls your age will shame you for it, despite having done the same thing themselves at 18. And as nobody points out, it takes two to tango. She wanted it as much as I did. Best to be discreet, although 22 a… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 05:01 AM |
| 8 | Will growing a beard boost my SMV?I've read a bunch of studies on this topic (and I do mean I actually read the studies, not a summary somewhere). The overall consensus is that heavy stubble is the most attractive facial hair for short-term relationships (Alpha Fucks). That's what I have, and it's been a smash hit. My Tinder matches noticeably surged after I began sporting this look. A full beard is usually a negative for attractiveness, unless your face is somewhat feminized (weak jawline, weak chin, etc.) In that case a full b… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 04:50 AM |
| 20 | LTR Wants SpontaneityThis is a difficult question because there are numerous contradictory details, and we don't have much information. But here is my interpretation of the situation. he said that I am too scheduled, lack anything spontaneous In other words, you're boring...a mortal sin, in a woman's view. On paper, you're perfect. You look good, you have a great job, and have hobbies. And now she's feeling confused, because she can't understand why she's losing attraction for you. She starts crying because she feel… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Rollo Tomassi Wrong?As we all know his content is very influential. And for good reason. Occasionally some asshat will attack him here with a stupid personal criticism (he doesn't lift enough, too much focus on hypergamy, etc.). I always challenge the critics to disprove a single Rollo argument, and they never do....because they can't. My disagreements with Rollo are minor quibbles. I think he often misattributes political and societal developments to the 'Feminine Imperative' which he seems to see everywhere. But … | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Roommate's GF turns the air down WAY too low when she's here, doesn't pay rentYou can have a conversation with him like an adult. Hopefully that solves the issue. But at the end of the day, you can't force him or her to do anything. Anyone who is a guest or possesses a key to the place has sweeping privileges under most state laws, even if they aren't on the lease. Most roommates have annoying habits. So either move out, or get the fuck over it. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 02:05 PM |
| 15 | Are gays attracted to red pilled alphas just like women?Gays and women are attracted to the same thing: lean, muscular men with aesthetically-pleasing faces and decent grooming. That's why so many gays are in excellent physical shape. They're naturally Red Pilled, to a certain degree. A straight guy can be a Beta schlub and still pull hot girls with lots of money and/or status. A fat fag has zero chance with hot guys if he isn't hot himself. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 01:47 PM |
| 1 | How should I start TRPI know many would say to use sidebar links, but there is so many of them, which should I start What kind of stupid question is this? Start anywhere. I mean literally, reading any Red Pill literature is better than what you're doing right now, which is sitting at home jerking off to porn. I'm a 21 y/o virgin, never been in a relationship, never kissed a girl. I don't even have any female friends. I'm from a conservative asian country. I'm of above average height in my country and have a scrawny p… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 01:40 PM |
| 3 | Why You Aren't Translating Your Tinder Matches/Dates Into LaysThat's essentially what I wrote minus the dirty talk. I'm glad you don't have to read "that shit" but many people need an explanation. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/20 05:31 AM |
| 5 | can’t get girls from dating apps to meet, why?A few thoughts: -Profile vibe. If your pictures scream out potential BF material, then girls will expect you to act accordingly. -Too abrupt. "I like Game of Thrones too. Come over at 9 tonight" Doesn't flow well at all. Try inviting yourself to her place rather than the other way around. Girls feel safer that way. I'll ask her what she's up to that night, usually she'll say just hanging out at home, smoking weed, drinking wine, or something equally basic. I'll propose joining her. Not all girls… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 05:21 AM |
| 3 | The quality of men's Tinder profile has drastically improved the last few yearsBy "older" I really mean anyone in their mid-20s and above. The app was initially marketed on college campuses. Many of those original users are now in their late-20s, not to mention older adults are getting in on the action. I'm 27 so I couldn't tell you what it's like to be 30+ on Tinder. I've heard that matches drop off, but not completely. There will always be young girls open to meeting middle-aged men. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/20 10:30 PM |
| 27 | The quality of men's Tinder profile has drastically improved the last few yearsFirst of all, unless you swiped through a few hundred profiles, you're only seeing the cream of the crop. Tinder's algorithms move the top guys to the front, along with new profiles and those using Boost. Everyone else is so far behind in the stack as to be totally invisible. That said, Tinder has gotten more difficult over the last three years. No question. Even my Chad friends don't get as many matches as they previously did. There's a lot of competition with older guys and normies entering th… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/20 05:38 PM |
| 6 | Preparing for Successthere are many things u could have done, but in the end we're talking about ONE girl, Did you even read the rest of the essay, or did you just glance at the intro then cum in your pants in your haste to reply? The post isn't a damn field report. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/20 02:31 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone here ever feel like they are not good looking? Or at least have bad days?Thank God, an actual reasonable reply is getting upvoted, not the usual idc wat the womenz think crapola. I would add that it's only an issue if it's self-destructive. So instead of sinking into a Blackpill morass of depression and woe, use your innate masculine problem-solving ability: what could I be doing better? Like the above user said, channel that energy into something productive. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/20 02:19 PM |
| 15 | Girls with tattoo sleeves: yay or nay?Tattoos of any kind are a red flag, nevermind something ghastly like a sleeve. This is Red Pill 101, dude. Tattoos = trashy is pretty much a truism. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/20 03:23 AM |
| 0 | I've had guy friends who described squat goblins as 8's and model's as 7's. In your opinion, what are your 7's, 8's, and 9's?The HB scale is real. There are people who are indisputably hot. Anyone who says that Kate Upton is "average," for example, is a retard. I wouldn't fuck Margot Robbie in Wolf of Wall Street! Yeah, okay buddy. I suppose you have a bridge to sell me, too. By the same token, anyone who insists that Jennifer Aniston (today, not in her prime) is an HB9 is also delusional. Hot for her age? Yes. Hot compared to the average sorority girl at my alma mater? No. We can quibble about whether Margot Robbie i… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 10:46 PM |
| 6 | Are there cities where it's easier to hook up with women?You could say that about literally anything. Would moving across the country for better job prospects be "desperate" to you? No idea why this classic Blue Pill shaming tactic is being upvoted. Lifting in the gym to raise SMV? Desperate. Learning Game? Desperate. Going after some minority race girl? Desperate. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 05:34 AM |
| 3 | Are there cities where it's easier to hook up with women?I would like to do a full post on this in the main sub soon, but here's the short version for now. The answer to your question is a resounding yes. This is a topic that doesn't get much attention around here, although I think it should. SMV is hugely dependent on location. So much so that I really think the big three should be four: Looks, Game, Status, and Location. Obviously East Asia is amazing if you're a white male, and I've heard South America and Eastern Europe are great as well. But I'll… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Tinder - Date or come over ?I just wrote a full post addressing exactly this topic in the main Red Pill sub | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Why You Aren't Translating Your Tinder Matches/Dates Into LaysDude I’ve literally gone to a girls place, banged her, then left without ever seeing her again. No trickery, no money, no bullshit. In fact, SHE is often the one who ghosts ME. I’m sorry to shatter your world, but this is what actually happens | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/20 01:59 AM |
| 5 | Why You Aren't Translating Your Tinder Matches/Dates Into LaysThere's no "deal" here, I'm just Red Pill aware enough to know what's within the realm of possibility. It's fair to say that I'm good-looking, but I didn't come out of the womb like that. I busted my ass to raise my SMV. I'm definitely not otherworldly, though. I'm between a 7-8 on Looks if I had to be a douche and rate myself. Girls from Tinder are hoes in general, but sometimes not. Last year I did meet a pretty inexperienced "conservative" Indian girl. I believe her tale based on how amazingl… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/20 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Worship of Meaning: MGTOW and the Triumph of the Blue PillBecause there's no point in responding to someone who says that I'm "simping for pussy," that I think I'm "better than" other guys, and all the other typical MGTOW comebacks that have nothing to do with what I wrote. I already know it would be a waste of my time, you're more concerned about getting fake internet points at my expense. If you want to continue this conversation, send me a DM and we can discuss this in private. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/20 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Why You Aren't Translating Your Tinder Matches/Dates Into LaysWell I have a 100% success rate with my method, so true | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/20 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Why You Aren't Translating Your Tinder Matches/Dates Into LaysThanks. And by the way, I'm 5'9" | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/20 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Why You Aren't Translating Your Tinder Matches/Dates Into LaysI addressed this. In that case I meet her out. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/20 05:19 AM |
| 4 | Why You Aren't Translating Your Tinder Matches/Dates Into LaysI've never used CMB or FB dating. OKC is mostly weirdo girls in my experience. Bumble I do use, although not often. Hinge markets itself as relationship focused, so I find that the girls are flakier and less responsive overall. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/20 05:17 AM |
| -2 | Worship of Meaning: MGTOW and the Triumph of the Blue PillYou wrote this post implying you're better than dudes who choose to spend their time on other things rather than vapid whores lol Whatever helps you sleep at night..."lol" | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/20 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Worship of Meaning: MGTOW and the Triumph of the Blue PillGoooood | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/20 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Why You Aren't Translating Your Tinder Matches/Dates Into LaysI would say this applies to clubs as well. That will be my next post. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/20 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Why You Aren't Translating Your Tinder Matches/Dates Into LaysCollege girls are my main demographic | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/20 08:34 PM |
| 9 | Why You Aren't Translating Your Tinder Matches/Dates Into LaysNot every tinder match is a lay and the OP oversimplifies things a bit. I explicitly acknowledge that not every girl will go for this approach. But far more than you would think are totally down, and you are GUARANTEED to get laid. What could be better than that? Make sure your profile is giving off the right vibes. You have to weed out the ones who aren't serious. I know she's serious when she gives me her address. Nothing else matters up until that point. That's why I say 5 messages, either sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/20 08:32 PM |
| 5 | Why You Aren't Translating Your Tinder Matches/Dates Into LaysLooks like mallardcove's profile got suspended for whatever reason. His post is still up though, latest version is called "Detailed Roadmap on how to actually succeed at Tinder/Bumble, Version 3.0" | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/20 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Worship of Meaning: MGTOW and the Triumph of the Blue PillMaking Gaming chicks your priority =/= putting pussy on a pedestal. That's what these guys don't get. And to hear that you had fun with it? Makes their head explode like in Raiders of the Lost Ark. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/20 02:30 PM |
| 8 | Worship of Meaning: MGTOW and the Triumph of the Blue PillPurpose evolves. There was a point where sex and women were in fact my main mission. I actually don’t see anything wrong with that. It was fun, I learned a lot about myself, absolutely no regrets. And sex and sarging are still major drive for me, except now just a lower priority. Like anything else I simply lost that intense interest. What I’m talking about here are guys who are essentially voluntary celibates. It’s the opposite of extreme of making women the main purpose. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/20 06:03 PM |
| -4 | Worship of Meaning: MGTOW and the Triumph of the Blue Pillyour description of MGTOW is a caricature. You're right. It's actually a lot worse. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/20 04:11 PM |
| 4 | Writing “hook up only” in dating profileDo not do this. Outright stating that you're only looking for hookups is not Alpha, it's socially retarded and demonstrates that you don't understand the game. You communicate this desire through your pictures (shirtless, looking sexual) and actions on the app (fast escalation, inviting yourself straight to her place to drink wine). | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Am I right in thinking that all LTR eventually end?A relationship's success is not measured by its duration. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 04:05 AM |
| 3 | First time going to the gym. Need some tips and advice.Sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Youtube Podcast by Rollo and pat TRP 101His third book "Positive Masculinity" is geared toward parenting, which I don't find relevant at age 27. But I'm sure that I'll read it one day. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 03:51 AM |
| 23 | Does anyone actually enjoy spending time with their LTRs?There's always something better you could be doing. More MGTOW fortune cookie wisdom. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 07:48 PM |
| 141 | Does anyone actually enjoy spending time with their LTRs?I don't have a LTR now, but I did enjoy actual dates with my previous girl. She was a lot of fun to be with. I don't know what to tell you other than maybe your girls are just boring. This idea that one always has to be productive at every minute of every day is a strange modern phenomenon. I've been noticing it more and more lately among the younger generation, especially with the MGTOW types. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Youtube Podcast by Rollo and pat TRP 101Rollo is my favorite manosphere personality. I actually prefer his sober, just-the-facts style. I'm not into the super high energy guru who gets in front of the camera and belts out a Cliff's Notes version of the Red Pill. He claims to have banged 40+ girls during his "rock star" years, some of them models, but he also has a family and has been married for over 20 years. I enjoy many of the other top Red Pill contributors here, but most of them are childless. That's fine for them, but I'd like t… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Youtube Podcast by Rollo and pat TRP 10133 Secrets is a piece of shit who reads Rollo's work verbatim and passes it off as his own. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 03:31 PM |
| 3 | I Have a Harder Time Letting Go Of PeopleI feel like the relationship that has built is worthwhile to at least recognize. Why? That's ridiculous. A guy only has so much time and energy in his life for relationships with other people. You clinging to these past relationships - for what reason, I do not know - is only damaging your ability to form new ones. A relationship's success shouldn't be measured by its duration. I don't consider any of my (Post-Red Pill) FWBS and LTRs a waste of time just because it didn't last forever. We had fu… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 03:19 PM |
| 29 | DO girls develop at a faster rate?I see on insta of the girls in sororities partying and getting flown out or some of my older classmates are working in bars or bottle service Well no shit. They're in their sexual prime. Older men want to be around them. Businesses want to hire them. You aren't in your prime. Nobody gives a flying rat's ass about you. By the way, those Instagrams are curated. Maybe in some cases they have some rich guy paying for those plane tickets, but most likely you're only seeing a tiny fraction of someone'… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Relationship Advice Post Analysis: "I (24M) accidentally overheard my gf (24F) acknowledge that her ex is more physically attractive than me, and it's killing me inside"I don't have time to address this further here. Read Rollo's essays including "The Desire Dynamic" and "Saving the Best." Hell, probably need to read the entire Rational Male. Red Pill is much more than "muh idc wat the womenz think." | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/20 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Get Laid a Tonne on Tinder [Part 1] – Improving Your Looks & Taking PhotosYeah that's probably part of the issue for me. My sister has the perfect white Hollywood smile, but I chug three coffees a day. It's just one of those things...I enjoy that vice too much. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/20 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Relationship Advice Post Analysis: "I (24M) accidentally overheard my gf (24F) acknowledge that her ex is more physically attractive than me, and it's killing me inside"Then don't read them, idiot. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/20 04:22 PM |
| 9 | Get Laid a Tonne on Tinder [Part 1] – Improving Your Looks & Taking PhotosAnd I suppose you're pulling 10s? Blow it out your ass already. At least one or two of the pics that I saw were probably HB8 if you could see the face. This is a Tinder guide, and it's common knowledge that you are very unlikely to meet an HB9+ online even if you're a male model yourself. Also the fact that you criticize the opener demonstrates right off the bat that you have no idea what you're talking about. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/20 03:12 PM |
| 30 | Get Laid a Tonne on Tinder [Part 1] – Improving Your Looks & Taking PhotosExcellent guide, and congratulations on your transformation. Legit went from incel to badass. My own Tinder story follows a similar trajectory - from getting literally zero matches to dozens of lays. So sick of hearing "muh Tinder sux muh just game irl". I'm sure we'll get at least one soyboy fuckwad who says that in the comments. Easy way to tell who hasn't put in the effort. Fortunately most people are finally waking up to the fact that online is literally how 50%+ of hookups and relationships… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/20 03:05 PM |
| 27 | Get Laid a Tonne on Tinder [Part 1] – Improving Your Looks & Taking PhotosWhy? So you can confirm what we already know - that hawt muscular guys get a ton of matches on a medium that is 100% visual? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/20 03:03 PM |
| 36 | How do some guys lack looks and are immature still kill it?Briefly looked at the video. A few thoughts: -You're wrong in your assessment that he lacks looks. Body is above average, face is that ambiguous Spanish/Italian dark look that American girls love, plus tattoos. He's a male SMV 7-8 on looks alone. -Fun loving boisterous frat boy persona. You don't need to be some idiotic James Bond caricature -Prances around in public with a camera acting like the Internet celebrity, which is magnetic for chicks Add up all that and one can easily see why he pulls… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 01:41 AM |
| 3 | Relationship Advice Post Analysis: "I (24M) accidentally overheard my gf (24F) acknowledge that her ex is more physically attractive than me, and it's killing me inside"You and everyone else in that shitshow of a thread are missing the point. Yes, the guy clearly has low self-esteem. I pointed out as much. In that sense he needs to either get in the gym or shut up about it. The Blue Pill teaches you to take everything at face value. The Red Pill teaches you how to read between the lines. And my assessment is that this guy is likely the same as the dude in Rollo's "Saving the Best" essay. He is very obviously Blue Pill and Beta. He perceives, probably correctly,… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/20 12:47 AM |
| 14 | I see your Relationship Advice Post and I raise you another: Man lets wife move another man into his home!Lately? It's always been a shit show. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/20 12:06 AM |
| 5 | Relationship Advice Post Analysis: "I (24M) accidentally overheard my gf (24F) acknowledge that her ex is more physically attractive than me, and it's killing me inside"Sidebar or Rational Male book | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/20 09:14 PM |
| 11 | Relationship Advice Post Analysis: "I (24M) accidentally overheard my gf (24F) acknowledge that her ex is more physically attractive than me, and it's killing me inside"That was my instinctual response reading this. Aspiring to out-Chad Chad is certainly better than sitting around crying woe is me. That said, it may be that there is nothing he can do to extract her sexual best...if, indeed, I am correct in my assessment that she isn't giving it to him. We don't know the full dynamic of the relationship, but always better to simply start fresh if you're like the guy in Rollo's essay. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/20 08:47 PM |
| 11 | Relationship Advice Post Analysis: "I (24M) accidentally overheard my gf (24F) acknowledge that her ex is more physically attractive than me, and it's killing me inside"I agree. And I hardly ever point it out because so many guys are extremely ego-invested in their supposed prowess in the sack. Ever notice that girls always complain about how some Chad never cared about "her pleasure?" How he would cum and just "roll over" after? Again, there's anything wrong with being good in bed - I believe that sex should be pleasurable for both people - but that has nothing to do with being Alpha or Beta. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/20 06:41 PM |
| 5 | Relationship Advice Post Analysis: "I (24M) accidentally overheard my gf (24F) acknowledge that her ex is more physically attractive than me, and it's killing me inside"I wanted to illustrate two extremes. One was a girl who didn't have sex with me at all, the other was a girl who literally couldn't keep her hands off me. The "such an Alpha" comment was a bit jokey on her part. I don't remember the context, but a girl is never going to say something like that, even in jest, without some element of truth in her mind. People here think that this is Fight Club and that no one in mainstream society is aware of what is discussed here. Not true. I've been hearing mor… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/20 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Do all women use hypergamy?First, you clearly have no idea what hypergamy means. There are two sides to hypergamy: Alpha Fucks and Beta Bucks. You only see the Beta Bucks side (wealth/resource provisioning). There would be so many breakups and divorces if this was true. What are you, living under a rock? Half of marriages end in divorce, and surveys show that most of the other half are, at best, only somewhat satisfying for the woman. There aren't many marriages where both partners can honestly say they're truly satisfied… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Can you establish boundaries during an LTR?Dude at this stage you're much better off just dumping this girl and starting fresh. The fact that you're even asking about boundaries probably means that you're in her Frame and that there are some big problems with this relationship. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 02:58 PM |
| 12 | No sex during camp trip with girl I picked up at the gymShe isn't sexually attracted to you. Probably never was. And yes, girls do have sex with guys that they don't find attractive. I'm ok with this as hanging out with her is fun. You're delusional. Stop participating in your own humiliation. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Seeing women for what they are - how to keep interest/motivation?Perhaps the problem is that I grew to be very rational and logical Men and women are different. Get that through your "rational and logical" brain. Women prioritize emotion, men prioritize reason...and there's nothing wrong with that. Both are necessary faculties for the continuity of the species. You, of course, approach women from a purely male perspective and think women ought to be like that too. Stop taking this so goddamn seriously. Sex is supposed to be fun. Women are supposed to be fun. … | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 01:54 AM |
| 1 | "Your" woman likely has strange cock in herDo you not actually believe what you wrote? I get the need to 'sell' the content but I'm not in favor of an approach that leaves guys feeling hopeless and depressed and turning to MGTOW, which is the undeniable trend in the manosphere right now. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/20 11:55 PM |
| 2 | I’ve improved enough that’s it’s gotten extremely easy to get a date, but I fail basically 70-80% of time. Starting to feel like shit about myself. How do I fix this issue?Alright I think I know what's going on here. Let's walk through this. I downloaded tinder and gotten some good matches. I’ve gone out with 5-6 women so far in the past two weeks. Well the good news is that at least you aren't ugly, so clearly the issue is something in your approach. Your problem is that you aren't being direct enough with these girls. Let's not forget that Tinder was conceived and marketed as a hookup app, not a dating app. But since we live in a Blue Pill society, we hear that … | /r/askTRP | 29/06/20 04:02 PM |
| 3 | Working out when having a cough?This has got to be a troll post, I can't imagine someone being so fucking selfish as to be exposing other people like this during a global pandemic. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/20 03:37 PM |
| 1 | "Your" woman likely has strange cock in herYes, all women are capable of what is described here, and "soft cheating" as someone else said is pretty widespread. And certainly the statistics are not in favor of LTRs and marriage. But the notion that she "likely has strange cock in her" is really over the top. The stories in the comments here are indignation porn equivalent to the MGTOWs and incels who would like to believe that literally all women take 50 dicks during college. Sexual habits in America are widely studied. And while there is… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/20 02:36 PM |
| 7 | Tired of starving myself and not having results. Confused about diet...Yes I count calories and keep macros in check. Have been for years. You don't have abs because you're undermuscled. Abs are a muscle, you know. The less you eat, the more the muscle you do have wastes away. You'er caught in a vicious cycle of continuous weight loss that doesn't make you look any better. That's what skinny twinks with an eating disorder just don't understand. In order to look like the guy on the fitness magazine, you have to eat more (and get on a barbell lifting program with suf… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 09:17 PM |
| 5 | Tired of starving myself and not having results. Confused about diet...Good Lord guy, what are you trying to achieve? The Auschwitz survivor body? Stop trying to get "skinny" and start getting muscular and strong. I stuff my face with pizza, cereal, and ice cream every day and I have visible abs. In fact, I wouldn't be "looking good" if I didn't eat like this because my body needs the energy. That's what you're missing. Get on a good program like Starting Strength and get a good therapist for your eating disorder. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 08:38 PM |
| 6 | how to become masculine/getting comfortable with sexualityAs a guy who also has a 'big nose' I'll weigh in with the same thing that I say every time this complaint comes up...which is often. Girls don't care about this nearly as much as you think they do. This is mostly a figment of your imagination. In fact, for some of them it's a symbol of dominance. One of my longtime plates told me that it was one of her favorite things about me. If you like Asian girls, they seem especially attracted to it. But if it really bothers you that much, just get a nose … | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 03:29 PM |
| -3 | I cancelled on her. Did I do the right thing?I don't have an opinion on this one way or the other, but judging by your comments in this thread, you really just want us to jerk you off and tell you how great you are. What was the point of coming on this forum? | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 03:01 PM |
| 1 | How much do you earn?Yeah, your point being what...? | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 08:37 PM |
| 0 | How much do you earn?$100k is a lot of money if you live in Bumfuck, Alabama. But most of the time, you're only making $100k if you live in SF or NYC to account for cost of living. There aren't a lot of people who make $100k and live in Bumfuck. You can stretch the money out in the big city if you get roommates, but you're still compromising. It isn't baller money. That's only like $60-70k after tax, then $25k or more a year in rent. Then maybe another $10-15k for food/transportation/health insurance, all of a sudde… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Curious to know what my fellow red pillers job occupations are and have they changed throughout your rp journey?I worked in economic consulting. It was boring, but low-stress enough that I had the time to start building a business and developing apparel/accessory products on the side. I quit earlier this year to pursue that fully. I always envisioned myself working behind a computer screen doing spreadsheet work all day. But I'm a creative at heart, and I need to create in order to feel good about myself. I've really always known that, but didn't have the courage to pursue it...much like you usually know … | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 02:48 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys escalate?This question or some variation of it comes up all the time. How do I kiss her? How do I know if she likes me? And so on and so forth. These questions are completely pointless. The only reason you ask is because you're scared of rejection. But at the end of the day, you can never truly know if she's into it until you try something. I'll assume that at this point you're back from the date or you just met off Tinder or whatever. If you're sitting on the couch, get as close as you can to her, look … | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Who pays / ventingChris Rock had a great bit about a woman's pussy drying up when she has to reach for her wallet. Just pay for her goddamn vodka cranberry already. A first date shouldn't break the bank. In fact, most of my first "dates" - I use that term very loosely - are free. Men don't insist that both sexes are equal. That's what feminists do. Men and women are different, and this is one of those differences. The girls that insist on splitting dates are usually annoying feminists anyway. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Let’s say i am logical when it comes to arguing, but logic doesn’t always win. How to develop these other skills and what are they?You have to learn to recognize bullshitting when you see it. It can be difficult to mount a logical argument against the common tactics if you aren't familiar with them. Like you point out, one of the most common is changing the subject. You have to really be forceful and not allow the other person to pivot away when they know they're losing. In that sense, "winning" is just as much about being domineering as it is about being logical. You: [makes a point] Them: [tries to change subject]. You: W… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 01:56 PM |
| 1 | want to meet more women but i have no social lifemy only option is online and you know how that is Yes, fucking wonderful is how it is. Banged tons of girls from Tinder. i feel like going to a club alone would be weird It isn't. I've often gone out to bars, clubs, etc. alone and gotten laid doing it. In fact, being alone makes it easier. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Seeing women for what they are - how to keep interest/motivation?C'mon, huh? There IS such a thing as feminine energy. Being around feminine girls makes me feel good. It's one of the great pleasures of life. If that's not for you...well, gay marriage is legal now. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 04:57 PM |
| 13 | Why Are All My Friends Going RAWBecause it feels a hell of a lot better. There's no big mystery here. I've done it, and I'm not proud of it. Goddammit it feels so good, but I personally know at least four guys who had an "accidental" kid because of it. Including my uncle, who had a drunken ONS with a co-worker. Ten years later, she shows up to his door with his daughter asking for money. A good nut isn't worth 18+ years of child support payments and emotional stress. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 02:12 PM |
| 3 | Seeing women for what they are - how to keep interest/motivation?My guess is that from somewhere, somehow they have in their minds thats it's ok to lie and play games especially with men? Does the lion worry about how the gazelle is feeling when clamps down on its neck? Women are the way they are. It's unconscious. They aren't rubbing their hands together like Mr. Burns. And au contraire, that's a good thing. Women are wonderful just the way they are. I want a girl who acts like a girl. What you want is a woman who acts like a bro, which is a ludicrous fantas… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 01:54 PM |
| 1 | How much do looks matter and how to have abundance mentality when in scarcity?You're asking the wrong question. What you should be asking is "why do I have scarcity mentality and ONEitis for a professional colleague?" You shouldn't even be going after this one in the first place. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 01:47 PM |
| 1 | A lot of matches but not a single “hot” one on tinder.Trying to see what I can and can’t approach. This is a ludicrous idea. Guys like you think they can insulate themselves from rejection and get more sex if they don't go for the hot girls. A) That's a complete pussy move, why does it matter if you get rejected? B) It usually backfires anyway because hotter girls are easier. Does this mean in real life the hotter ones are out of my range? No, it means that your profile sucks epic donkey schlong. There are some excellent guides in the main sub dedi… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 01:42 PM |
| 4 | My mother told me that majority of women till 35 doesn't want sex, it got me miserableAh yes, the old canard that "older women are more sexual." Of course older women want guys believing that! Think about it - women certainly aren't getting better looking past 22, so they need something to draw men in and preserve their sexuality. Whereas men's sex appeal continues rising and peaks in his thirties. That's what the SMV graph is about. Your family is deeply confused. What are rp toughts on young women not wanting sex while being young? Absolutely laughable. I can't believe they cou… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 01:29 PM |
| 6 | Why dont guys like clingy girls?First love seems to contradict what I have read in rollo so I'm looking for some advice. First, your entire argument is based on a faulty premise. I don't think it's true that girls are generally like this with their first BFs. But let's say it is. I don't see the contradiction at all. Rollo says that women love opportunistically, meaning that she loves her hypergamous ideal. She'll love you only as long as you remain that ideal. On the other hand, a man believes a woman will love him like his m… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Do girls view the Chad who alpha-widowed them as their soulmate?Yes | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Considering buying a barbell set and rack. Thoughts?I found a guy on Craigslist renting out his home gym, so I never bothered getting equipment. In retrospect maybe I should have, given how long this has lasted and how much money I've paid the guy. My main concern would be whether my apartment is structurally sound enough to withstand heavy weights dropping on the floor repeatedly. I would have to use my mom's basement. Plus I do enjoy actually getting out and going to the gym and having that experience. I got back into a real gym as soon as it r… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 06:48 PM |
| 1 | What do you do with useful stuff exes gave you?Dude the bathrobe is an inanimate object. It doesn't care that your girlfriend gave it to you. Humans are wired to have an emotional attachment to their possessions, but part of being rational is overcoming that. I still use a nice alligator skin flask embossed with my initials that my first GF gave me years ago. Why wouldn't I? I like it. She was shitty but she did have good taste in gifts, I'll give her that. If you really can't stand it, then at least donate the stuff to Goodwill or whatever … | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 05:40 PM |
| -1 | She Stopped Mid Blowjob & Kicked Me OutIf there was one thing you did wrong, it was not banging her on the first date. You gave her too much time to think about it and she got cold feet. I've learned from situations like this that you have to seize the moment. A girl may be hot and horny totally down to bang one night, then go completely cold a few days later. That's the nature of being driven by emotions. Of course, this is just my speculation. None of us were there. Maybe the end result would have been the same no matter what you d… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Supposed “virgin” got upset when I asked if she has condoms.Irrelevant | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 02:40 PM |
| 10 | Is a guy being a 'virgin' a big turn off for women?Well in any case I'm pretty sure that she was referring to girls like herself in that remark. No need to say anything regardless. My first GF I think knew that I was a virgin at the time, but I never outright confirmed it. Always maintain some plausible deniability. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 02:39 PM |
| 9 | Why Are Ugly Girls So Entitled Whereas Many Hot Girls Are Cool?I always say that hotter girls are easier to sleep with. My theory is that the average Plain Jane has more to lose by being a hoe. She knows that she isn't hot enough to get through life based on looks alone, so she has to preserve what value she does have. Meanwhile, the hot Staceys of the world can do whatever they want because there will always be some guy who will want her for her beauty. They have the confidence to fuck who they want, when they want. Also partly why younger girls in their p… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Supposed “virgin” got upset when I asked if she has condoms.She's in love but you haven't had sex? Yeah, okay. I also have a bridge that I want to sell you, too. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Tinder Date AnxietyI don't know about that statement. Yes, girls often don't look as good, but I try not to oversell myself in my Tinder pictures. That's easy to do now with beauty filters, face apps, and whatnot. I'd say that my pics are pretty reflective of what I actually look like. Any edits are very light touch ups. And she knows I'm probably not tall because I don't have my height in there. So I second this guy's contention: you have nothing to worry about if you aren't a catfish. You should be able to tell … | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 02:15 PM |
| 53 | Is a guy being a 'virgin' a big turn off for women?Why do you have to tell her this information? For God's sake man, keep some things to yourself. Do what every guy does and lie your ass off about your sexual experience. The general rule of thumb is to take a guy's stated n-count and divide it by three to get the real number. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 02:08 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to online dating, good but a limited number of photos are key but would it help to link your Instagram?Less is more, unless everything you post is 10/10. Then I suppose more really is more. The key for Tinder/IG is not to dilute good pics with shitty ones. If you're going to post your IG, better make sure it's immaculate. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 03:17 AM |
| 5 | favorite place/venue to pull easy kills?Well I think you answered your own question here. Tinder and its ilk are the easiest way to get laid if you lift/look good. Most supposedly RP guys trash it because 95% of them look like a pile of shit in real life. Clubs are obviously the next easiest place, and maybe easier than Tinder if you don't lift. Really it comes down to putting yourself into sexual zones. Tinder and clubs are pure plays on sex. It's just understood that everyone is there to (potentially) get laid. I've never been on a … | /r/askTRP | 24/06/20 04:11 PM |
| 131 | What are your favourite myths you’ve heard when it comes to a woman’s preferences in men?I'd say dick size is like height. It's a nice bonus, and for some women it's a dealbreaker, but you'll be fine overall as long as you aren't abnormally below average. Even dad bod is negotiable to a degree, but you have to have high sexual status in some other area to compensate for it. The most dangerous myth is always going to be some variation of women dig nice guys over jerks. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/20 04:00 PM |
| 8 | Tips for strong eye contact?I used to practice with cashiers at the grocery store or wherever. On dates and job interviews I had to be conscious of it. Strong eye contact doesn't mean you never look away like a psycho. There's nothing Alpha about that. Naturally you're going to look away to gather your thoughts or react to something that the other person says. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/20 03:51 PM |
| 1 | She wants me to be more beta?Yeah but it doesn't sound like she's a FWB. Where's the friendship? I don't know the full extent of your relationship, but in my book a FWB is someone you fuck and go out on actual dates with. A fuck buddy is a girl that you text for sex and casual hanging out at home. She's made it clear that she doesn't want to just be a casual fuck, which is fine. That's her prerogative. Now the ball is in your court. My best advice is to demonstrate through your actions how you want things to go. Your proble… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/20 01:58 AM |
| 6 | She wants me to be more beta?She wants me to be more beta? Most girls fantasize about taming the wild Alpha man with their feminine charms. It rarely works. She doesn’t like I only text her for logistics 1x/week and thinks she’s just a booty call. To be fair, it sounds like that's exactly what she is. Seeking to understand and get some advice on how to proceed? Well what are you hoping to achieve here? Is she just a fuck buddy or do you want something more with her? Sounds like she definitely has feelings for you, dude. Per… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/20 01:00 AM |
| 0 | Are you guys not afraid of being falsely accuse of sexual assault?I'm not afraid at all whatsoever. Many of these accusations come back to "gray area" sex, like the Aziz Ansari incident. This is my main contention with PUA types who advocate "overcoming LMR" and that sort of thing, which is a recipe for a sex crime. If she isn't ripping my clothes off at the same time that I'm escalating, then I politely terminate the interaction. It's really that simple. I want girls with genuine desire. By the way, MGTOWs as a rule are the biggest pussies on planet Earth. Li… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/20 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Old Plate is withholding sex all of a suddenSo this chick has held out three times? Sounds like she soft friendzoned you. Next, delete, move on. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 11:54 PM |
| -2 | Ex LTR messages after 3 months to check inHello McFly? Anybody home? You're the one who posted on this forum. Most people appreciate my blunt style...except, you know, babies. I can tell right away from your phrasing that you're extremely Blue Pill and Beta, so that's why I kick you in the teeth so you wake up. But if you want to remain asleep, that's your business. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Why has my gf (20F) not had sex with me (20M) after a year of being together?At least one of my pre-Red Pill "girlfriends" had the courtesy to dump me after 3 months of no sex. I can't imagine flushing a year down the toilet like this. What a waste of your life. Read Rollo Tomassi's essay "Wait for It?" | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Why has my gf (20F) not had sex with me (20M) after a year of being together?How many hot 20 YO virgins are there? I've never met one. Most of these girls who still have a v-card in their 20s are either extremely socially awkward or ugly, probably both. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 02:05 PM |
| 5 | Why has my gf (20F) not had sex with me (20M) after a year of being together?100% this. Nothing else needs to be said. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 02:00 PM |
| 14 | Is self deprecating humor really a nono?Self-deprecating humor is okay if it's obviously not true. So if you're jacked and ripped like a motherfucker, joking about being small or fat is okay. If you actually are fat and joke about it like a typical Louis CK bit, then you're in the realm of Beta humor. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 01:50 PM |
| -3 | Ex LTR messages after 3 months to check inHey dumbass, she rejected you because she didn't think you were good enough. It has absolutely nothing to do with Covid or whatever other excuse she pulled out of her ass. You really want to be with a person that's dreaming about another man plowing her? If so you have some abundance issues. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 01:45 PM |
| 7 | Why do we find tattoos so attractive?Tattoos on women? Christ no. Nothing in a porno makes go limp faster than a chick that's all tatted up...which means I don't watch much porn these days. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 01:42 PM |
| 1 | How's this for a tinder bio?I'll say the same thing that I say every time this question comes up. Your bio doesn't really matter. Your pics are what get you laid. Put your height in there if you're over 6 foot. Otherwise keep it neutral or light/funny (no self-deprecating Beta humor). The most that comes of it is that she may message you first, but you definitely will not get more matches. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 10:53 PM |
| 8 | Are there any good ways to take a shirtless pic for online dating?A shirtless pic isn't necessary for getting laid on with attractive girls on Tinder (e.g. if you have a good face), but it makes it a hell of a lot easier. Same reason why you would want to see some bikini pics of her. People can look good until the shirt comes off, then you realize that they're actually skinny fat. I can look jacked in certain lighting Shit lighting makes even hot people look like shit. That's a basic truism of photography. You want the picture taken outdoors while you're hikin… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 10:38 PM |
| 2 | What age is the end of your prime for scoring casual sex?I've heard a lot of people say that nursing homes are fuck fests, so the answer is never. That said, I assume that what you actually want to know is what is the end of your prime for scoring casual sex with peak SMV girls (e.g. ~23 years old)? You can look up the data for that. According to stats released by OkCupid, girls of that age are, on average, looking for guys up to 7 years older than they are. So in that sense, your physical SMV probably peaks in your early 30s. Of course, there are you… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 10:20 PM |
| 0 | Worried about catfishing my Tinder dateI don't know the exact number, asshat. It's a lot, that I can tell you. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Worried about catfishing my Tinder dateYou're 5'7", same height as my friend who is jacked as hell. No girl ever asks him about his height. They don't care, all they see are his enormous biceps. He gets thousands and thousands of matches and has hooked up with HB8+ girls from the app. You say "a lot of these girls are my height and taller" which is false. The average height for an American woman is 5'4". Most girls are completely happy with a guy who is simply taller than she is. I'm average height, and in three years of Tinder I can… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 03:58 PM |
| -3 | Why is so much of the focus on women?Hey dummy, we're on a forum about sexual strategy. It really is all about getting laid, which is a totally legitimate aspiration. Sex is one of the great pleasures of this brief period of consciousness on Earth. GTFO with your MGTOW bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 03:49 PM |
| 7 | Where to find Quality Girls?This thread is retarded. There are "good" and "bad" girls everywhere. There are sluts in Bible study fucking the priest and loyal nice girls in clubs. There's no magic Land of Oz where it's all unicorns and born again virgins who wear sun dresses. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Going outside alonelift/look good and you will. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 07:26 PM |
| 5 | Can a man's n-count be too high?High n-count is correlated with relationship instability and higher rates of divorce for both sexes. For men, a high body count is often a sign of poor impulse control (although obviously not always). Most natural Alphas possess this negative trait, contrary to what these idiot self-proclaimed "family Alphas" like to claim. I wouldn't say that it's a negative for attraction, though. Quite the opposite. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Another month delay for the gym reopen >[Probably not one you want to hear, but I'm in better shape than ever. Went on Craigslist and found a local guy with a home gym. He charges a lot of money for what it is (a squat rack, barbell, and some plates), but it was better than nothing. I borrowed a few plates from my regular gym as well. I was one of around 10 people who ultimately contacted the dude to workout at his place. Gyms reopened in a neighboring state, so now I'm commuting almost an hour each way to work out at a real facility. … | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Going outside aloneWell just think about it. How many times has a girl approached you when you're out with a big group? Probably never. It's too intimidating. Whereas when you're by yourself or one other high SMV friend, you're a lot more approachable. I get opened by girls but it's usually when I'm alone. Here's an example. Earlier this year before the pandemic, I was doing a bit of soloing traveling in a college town. I went out all by myself to a local nightclub. I didn't even have to approach; within a few min… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 07:00 PM |
| 5 | thoughts on plates fucking/seeing other ppl?First of all, who cares what they're doing? You're nonexclusive, which implies that both of you are fucking other people. Second, if plate spinning really is that exhausting then you're doing it wrong. "Wanna come over tonight?" shouldn't be some big ordeal. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Are young "widows" unicorn-material?What a moronic, convoluted rationalization. Avoid at all costs. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only one who thinks women need to be put in their place lest they go out of control into a rebellious frenzy?Obvious troll post is obvious. But serious response for those who come across this: mateguarding and keeping women in place by force has nothing to do with The Red Pill. If anything, it's totally antithetical to what we discuss here. Women should genuinely want to behave well without coercion. If that isn't the case, either you chose a shitty woman or you aren't Alpha enough. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 01:56 PM |
| 4 | Going outside aloneIf anything it's a lot easier to meet girls when you're alone in a bar, park, etc. rather than with a large group. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 01:52 PM |
| 6 | Girl flaked on my date how do i punishIt's not about "punishing" her. What a juvenile and ridiculous sentiment. That's something a woman would do. The Red Pill response is pure pragmatism. Girl flakes on you? Okay, no problem. Just move on to the next one, because the medium is the message - she ain't interested. That isn't punishment. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Feeling of missing out?Well you're only going to be young once. I definitely wish I partied and got laid more in college. That's all I can say. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 12:48 PM |
| 6 | Why is there not a RP Jobhunting secrets thread (for the UK), particularly for unemployed men ...I pulled more than $50 an hour doing Uber Eats deliveries last night. Admittedly that was a good night, but with gig work I can usually gross $30 an hour. Do the math - that's $60K a year gross if you do it 40 hours a week for 50 weeks. Plenty to live on even after expenses (which are deductible) and tax. All you need is half a working brain and a car. I used to have sympathy for the jobless, but it's becoming harder for me to say anything other than "get up off your ass" with so much work out t… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 12:36 PM |
| 3 | Overstating the obvious: if she's truly into you, sex happens. If not, it doesn't?Well yeah, it's a screening method if you're looking for more than sex. But my position is that that shouldn't even be a thought in your brain until after you seal the deal. And even then, many girls are spinning plates themselves and have preferences among those guys. It's not uncommon that I get ghosted after a same night lay. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 12:28 PM |
| 17 | Overstating the obvious: if she's truly into you, sex happens. If not, it doesn't?First question: anyone ever been in a situation like this.... you take her out all the time, she has a great time, but she never wants to fuck you? Yep. Ashamed to say that I dated a girl for three solid months and she never once touched my dick. I never said anything to her about it, thinking that she should want to fuck me, not just because I "pressured" her into it or whatever. Unsurprisingly she dumped me because 'we didn't have a connection'...the only time I've been ever been dumped. That … | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Anybody here have bad genetics?hairloss at 19 Shave it then knee arthritis Bench press, overhead press, curls, etc. got acne scars and some mild skin disorder (psoriasis) Dermatologist | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 04:27 AM |
| 4 | TinderAs usual with Tinder threads, you can tell who lifts here and who doesn't. I deleted my profile shortly before the pandemic began, figuring I would start fresh after taking some time adjusting to major work/life changes. After the pandemic hit I just never went back on. But between 2018 and 2020, I would estimate that I met 40-50 girls from there. So yeah, I was fairly active. Once my remaining plates peter out, I'm sure I'll be back on there. It's the easiest way of getting laid. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 04:20 AM |
| 15 | Rational male or no more mr nice guy?The Rational Male is called the Bible of the Red Pill for a reason. That book really changed the trajectory of my life. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 04:05 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with job rejection?You should really be on a sub for your field, not the Red Pill. Other than generic "cheer up, sport!" advice we can't help you. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/20 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Is eye contact overated? Or is it pretty vital?You obviously don't want to give off an American Psycho vibe by creepily holding unbroken eye contact. That said, I think you're confusing cause and effect. These girls were into despite your awkwardness, not because of it. So in that sense you just got lucky. No different than some guy drooling over a socially awkward girl because she has a pretty face. Don't fish for excuses to let yourself off the hook for bad habits. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/20 03:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with job rejection?Well I quit the rat race at 26 to work on my side ventures full time, so that's how I reacted. After so many rejections, though, you should consider whether you're on the right path. Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. Consistent rejection - sexual, professional, or otherwise - is the marketplace telling you that you aren't good enough, which stings. But try to be introspective about what you could be doing better. Maybe you need more skills or e… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/20 03:08 PM |
| 24 | What's it like being a Chad?I highly doubt that anyone on this forum is a legitimate Chad. Chad isn't on TRP because he never had need of it. I'll use my "Chad" friend as an example. The thing about attractive guys is that, like anyone else, they're always striving for more. Girls that would widely be considered HB7-8 are basically invisible to Chad. Only HB9+ will do, but oftentimes those girls are out of reach even for him. Maybe not for Giga Chad, who knows. It's human nature not be satisfied. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/20 02:53 AM |
| 2 | The 8-5 slog and how to escape itWell if you're looking to "retire" there's a forum called FIRE or something like that where they discuss strategies for this. But the honest answer is that most of these early retirement types pulled down $100k+ a year (probably closer to $200k) while working tech/engineering type jobs and living very modestly. There's no big secret. That said, I'm not in tech and decided that I didn't want to spend the rest of my 20s doing 9-5 while the world rushes me by, so that isn't a path that I intend to … | /r/askTRP | 19/06/20 02:31 AM |
| 1 | The 8-5 slog and how to escape itI must've made an impression on you | /r/askTRP | 19/06/20 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Girl Friend (plate in the making) Who Talks A LotBut if you want to analyze our relationship from a line of text then so be it. Hey doofus, you're the one who posted here. Sex is a side effect of good communication Wrong. Classic Blue Pill fallacy right here. not something I prioritize as the first thing I want from a girl, especially one I'm still vetting Why do you need to vet a girl for sex? Who are you, a married U.S. senator? You either want to bang her or you don't. you are probably still just trying to smear your dollar store white wash… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 06:57 PM |
| 1 | The 8-5 slog and how to escape itMy state provides health insurance through an exchange...not for free, but pretty cheap. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 06:52 PM |
| 7 | The 8-5 slog and how to escape itEarly this year I quit my job to go off on my own. Yes, fantastic timing with the pandemic, but so far it's worked out. I spent over three years saving and investing most of my salary. My investments did very well; two of them more than doubled in value. I also built up a side business running an e-commerce store. My weekly schedule is to spend about 20 hours doing menial labor to pay the bills (Uber Eats deliveries and personal shopping), but with those jobs I make my own schedule. The rest of … | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Plate "broke up" with meNothing went wrong as far as I can tell. I'd take her words at face value - she doesn't think you can work long term, probably because she sees you as a fun Alpha fucks affair. If the intent was to get her to commit to something longer term, then yes something did go wrong. Seems that your "dates" were just her coming over to have sex. The medium is the message on your part - that indicates to her that you aren't interested in anything serious. Conversely, going out on actual dates signals that … | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 02:06 PM |
| 7 | Girl Friend (plate in the making) Who Talks A LotSo I have this girl i'm going to be plating very soon There's no such thing as a "plate in the making". That's some varsity level male hamstering. Let's call this what it is - you're an orbiter. idk how to approach this. Some people talk a lot when they're feeling nervous or awkward. She's probably totally weirded out that you're just creepily sitting there not making a move toward the bedroom. Your first order of business is escalation. See what happens after sex, if you can get there. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 05:22 AM |
| 1 | How famous is TRP among your friends? Do you guys discuss with your friends about it? How famous is TRP in your country?I'm pretty sure at least one or two of my best friends have spent some time on this forum, although I don't imagine they have more than a superficial understanding. I don't care to discuss TRP directly. Saying you're Red Pill is akin to saying you're into Trump or that you like socialism. You really can't have a rational discussion because the terms are too emotionally charged. I have noticed that manosphere lingo is really starting to penetrate the mainstream consciousness, even with girls. One… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 05:05 AM |
| 6 | Is her paying for the two of us on the first date a sign of disinterest?One of main weaknesses in game is not looking for signs of disinterest. Why does this matter? Unless you're completely socially retarded, it isn't difficult to tell by body language that a girl isn't into it. So escalate and see how she reacts. She unmatched me after 3 days. I am not sure if she unmatched because I didn’t text her or because she wasn’t interested. The latter I learned to keep that for the second date and when closer to the sex location. How old are you, 70? These days most first… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 03:34 AM |
| 4 | How do you deal/live with past mistakes amid success?Jesus Christ, you're still in college. At least you have the knowledge during this time of your life. Try being a virgin until age 21 and spending the rest of college with the fat broad that you lost it with. What's done is done. You can't conquer the present by rewriting the past. No different than guys who fantasize about getting back at some schoolyard bully. It's 100% unproductive. If you can't escape these thoughts then I guarantee you're not as focused on your 'mission' as you claim. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 02:44 AM |
| 7 | Anyone had an STD checkup before?"in case I should use it one day"? You should be getting tested at least annually if you're sexually active. It's a big nothing, you get blood drawn and pee in a cup. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Percentage wise, how many of your Tinder dates lead to a second date?Do you ever think girls are NOT there to hook up? Sure. But then they're looking for Mr. Beta Bucks. They may even be looking for both simultaneously, e.g. go on tame dinner dates with Billy Beta and invite Chad over to fuck. Yet the fact that she was on tinder bugs me... are girls ever there for something more serious? I semi-seriously dated one of my Tinder bangs for 1.5 years, but that was only after I was balls deep in her 30 min after meeting. We found that we vibed pretty well outside of j… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Do you lose interest in Nice Girls?One of my plates was (is) like this. Not very experienced at all, I'm probably only her second dick ever. She's a total sweetheart. And that's the problem. We smashed a few times during lockdown but I haven't texted her in two months. Frankly I got pretty bored, as awful as that sounds. At this stage of my life, I'd rather date the stripper. I'm looking to have fun. Nothing wrong with that. However I think one can eventually find a girl who is both fun and nurturing. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Percentage wise, how many of your Tinder dates lead to a second date?Yes. I will still meet a girl out if she insists on it, but I ask for what my #1 option before anything else. If you're going to go this route, I think it's better if you go to her place. In my experience girls feel safer banging a total stranger in their own domicile. I should add that the sooner you meet with her, the better. Try to meet and smash on the same night if she seems keen and is responding promptly to your messages. Otherwise make the date no more than 1-3 days out. Never forget tha… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 11:52 PM |
| 13 | Corona fucked me upShe's probably getting smashed by someone who wasn't being a weeny about coronavirus. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 08:32 PM |
| 4 | How is the dating game so skewed?Well phew I'm glad we have your "no homo" credentials established, I was getting worried. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 08:22 PM |
| 2 | How is the dating game so skewed?I've always been a horrible judge on if guys are attractive or not Probably not a good idea to make such comments then on a forum about sexual strategy where 80% of the people here know fuck all about what girls want. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Want more perspective on how to handle a confusing fwbDid not read the post. The medium is the message. "Confusing" = not interested. If you even have to ask this question then she isn't that into you. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 06:28 PM |
| 5 | How is the dating game so skewed?Gronk looks like a Neanderthal? The fuck you smoking? The guy is handsome as hell, not to mention tall and muscular. He would be slaying even if he worked at Walmart. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 06:26 PM |
| 26 | Percentage wise, how many of your Tinder dates lead to a second date?Listen to me carefully. I know exactly where you're going wrong. The problem is that you aren't being direct enough about what you want out of Tinder. Girls your age just want to hookup and have fun. My modus operandi with younger girls (I'm 27) is to invite myself over her place to drink wine or smoke weed. True, you'll lose a lot of girls doing this, but at least you know the girls who do accept are 100% down to have sex. When you invite a girl on a traditional "date," you aren't necessarily g… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 06:19 PM |
| 1 | When to set up second date if you want to set it up 5 days from the first oneSome of you guys need to learn to take YES for answer. I would have tentatively set up the next date on the spot. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 04:35 PM |
| 9 | Responses to FeministsFirst, why are you engaging with feminists? I can think of better ways to waste my time. One of my old plates once told me that I was "a bit of a sexist sometimes"...which in the modern era, I suppose I probably am. I responded something like you can go home if you don't like the way I talk. She never brought it up again. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 01:47 AM |
| 2 | How should I respondDude...the medium is the message here. She's passively trying to communicate that she isn't interested. Just forget about it and move on. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Are most women aware of alphas and betas?Of course it's all subconscious, etc. but I have noticed that terms such as "Alpha" and "beta" are starting to leak into the mainstream consciousness. At the risk of flexing for y'all, one of my ex-plates referred to me directly as Alpha. I've heard my sisters friends refer to her boyfriend as an Alpha. It's not as obscure and confined to TRP as you may think. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 01:01 AM |
| 3 | Do women shit test you more or less if they are into/attracted to you?I came on here to say this. This is all that really needs to be said on this topic. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 12:46 AM |
| 1 | What openers do you use for tinder/hinge?My opener is basically the same as yours. Nothing you say is going to make her want to fuck you more. She already decided that based on your pics. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 12:41 AM |
| 4 | Is there any way to lose fat without counting calories?So what do you want from us? There's no magic pill. If you aren't disciplined enough to put down the pizza and beer, then just keep being fat I guess. You're probably undermuscled too so start lifting as well. I've been counting calories every single day for years. It isn't that hard. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 11:24 PM |
| 12 | Is there any way to lose fat without counting calories?If you aren't losing weight, it means you're eating too much. Period end of story. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 10:42 PM |
| 19 | Girl bringing her friend with her?DO NOT DO THIS. If you feel you're being friendzoned, it's because you are. I went along with this bring a friend BS once during one of my earliest dates. I decided to bring one of my own buddies. Her friend ended up wet for him (too bad he was gay, lol) me on the other hand...needless to say I did not get laid. Neither will you, most likely. If she insists on bringing a friend, just call the whole thing off and see what she says. Possibly a shit test/compliance test and she will agree to meet y… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 10:35 PM |
| 15 | A question for mans above 30 getting with girls around 20For God's sake man, you're 29. My uncle was still bagging 20 YO hoes at age 50. Most celebrity guys are pulling the hottest tail of their lives in their 30s. Again, the key is you have to look good and/or achieve some kind of sexual status. A lot of guys look like a pile of shit in their 30s so clearly they won't be getting with coeds. Hopefully an older user chimes in here, but you're really just parroting Blue Pill myths. It's not in women's favor to have men in their 30s+ thinking that they c… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 06:39 PM |
| 4 | Balance between being Direct and giving Plausible Deniability?Be direct. Obviously you don't have to be crass about it. You should be able to do better than "I wanna fuck your face." | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 06:32 PM |
| 13 | Where do you shop for clothes?TJ Maxx, H&M. Splurged on athletic cut jeans at Express because most pants are designed for skinny soy boys or fat fucks, not guys who squat at the gym. There was a thread in the main sub a few years back called "The T-Shirt Test" or something like that. Basically the idea is that if girls don't notice you in a plain t-shirt from Target or wherever, then you don't lift enough. That's always been my guiding philosophy. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 06:27 PM |
| 2 | I've come to the conclusion that 90% of you guys on asktrp are losersSeeing as there's no question here, I doubt this will stay up very long. But a few things: Think of the people that you know with the most game, 90% of them are incredibly kind. I'm not sure where this "nice Alpha" crap is coming from around here lately, but the reality is that Alphas are mostly assholes. There is a lot of research to support the notion that narcissistic, arrogant men with grandiose views of themselves do better sexually. Agreeableness is inversely correlated with sexual succe… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 06:23 PM |
| 26 | A question for mans above 30 getting with girls around 20Don't u think for ex its weird a 30y dude going to a club and "number-gaming" 20y girls until find one that is into him? Why is that weird? Because the Blue Pill society brainwashed you into believing that it's "creepy" for a 30 year old man to hit on college girls? I'm 27 and the average age of girls that I bang has consistently hovered around 21. I don't see that changing anytime soon. In fact, most girls prefer slightly older guys. There's a lot of data to support that, if you care to look it… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Do alpha males lie?Well that's the way most Alphas are, dude, regardless of what these tradcon "family Alphas" claim. There's a lot of research out there that narcissistic, disagreeable men with grandiose views of themselves do much better sexually. Naturally those types are prone to antisocial behavior like lying, cheating, etc. This is common sense stuff. That's not to say that Alphas can't be honest, decent people, but let's be real. Most of them aren't. We say that "chicks dig jerks" for a reason. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 04:39 AM |
| 1 | TRPs thoughts on job prestigePrestige in terms of what? In terms of pussy a doctor can't hold a candle to a firefighter. A doctor is a doctor. Never really even thought about it until you just brought it up right now. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Do alpha males lie?I assume what you're actually asking is are Alpha males assholes? To that I would say that yes, most of the time they are. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 04:30 AM |
| 0 | Getting professional photos?There's nothing more pathetic to a girl than a guy who looks like a tryhard and a fake. Would not recommend getting professional photos. Most professional photographers only deal with weddings, Linkedin portraits, and high school yearbooks. They won't know how to make you look 'Alpha'. A pro photo shoot is extremely expensive as well. If you have cash to throw away then I suppose go for it...just make sure you check out the photographer's portfolio first and see if the vibe matches what you're l… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 04:22 AM |
| 11 | Have You Heard of the "Tate Brothers"?What's the question here, exactly? So the guy sells a course...Trump was doing essentially the same thing as a billionaire with his "Trump University" scam. Some people are just born hucksters and can't resist the urge to make a quick buck. I would trust Tate as far as I can throw him, but at least he's entertaining. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 04:16 AM |
| 6 | 19 Year old College GuyFor God's sake, you barely know this chick. Day One and you already brought up being in a relationship? The chick is a trainwreck anyway, but you've already made some beginner level errors here. You need to read the sidebar. Anytime a girl "hates" her ex, it probably means she's an Alpha widow. Sounds like she's still in love with this guy. Keep her as a plate or next her, whatever you want, but no way in hell do you get into a relationship with this girl. That much is clear. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 03:42 AM |
| 14 | Friends girl wants to fuckFor God's sake man, it's a free lay. Do yourself a favor and learn to take yes for an answer. Cool friend, too. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Just broke up with LTR of 2 years. Most effective way to contact plates to smash from 3 years ago?Dude there isn't some magical catchphrase for her to open her pussy. You contact her...she's either interested or she's not. If she responds with "hey" back then go from there. If anything, you trying to avoid looking needy, ironically, is what will end up making you look needy. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 01:24 AM |
| 2 | How do you hide your success from others? Please share your experiences.I might understand something 90%, but say "I'm not 100% sure, but I think..." and from what I understand most people hear "I don't know anything". Well you're right on with that assessment. Like I said, arrogance and narcissism are predictors of success. You can easily look up the evidence for that. Contrary to what that doofus who replied to me tried to claim, the human brain is hardwired to respond positively to people who display these traits. Whether or not narcissists actually have a pot to… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Just broke up with LTR of 2 years. Most effective way to contact plates to smash from 3 years ago?What's wrong with "hey"? | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 01:09 AM |
| 14 | What’s the best way to get revenge on your ex?What kind of juvenile question is this? Revenge is totally antithetical to TRP. Girls who can't control their emotions take revenge. Men don't. If you do then you aren't over her. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 12:00 AM |
| 0 | How do you hide your success from others? Please share your experiences.Narcissism and arrogance are associated with success, both sexual and professional. That's well established in research and our collective experience. You're just plain wrong. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 11:47 PM |
| 8 | If your LTR is going out with a genuine male friend alone, is it a Red flag yes or no?Who the hell are you hanging out with? I don't know any girls that hang out with a male "friend" one on one unless the dude is gay. "Male friends" maybe only in a group setting. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 11:40 PM |
| 2 | What to reply?I second that. You really can't go wrong with a comment like this. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 11:38 PM |
| 2 | How do you hide your success from others? Please share your experiences.Hmm well I'm not convinced that playing down success and positive attributes is the way to go. A guy got elected president of the United States four years ago doing the total exact opposite. Have you considered that this is all in your imagination? Stop being so sensitive. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 11:34 PM |
| 4 | Dealing with a virgin. How to go about fucking?The definition of "plate" seems to have slipped around here as of late. This girl isn't a plate, first of all. A plate is a girl who has taken your dick. Right now you're just an orbiter at best. At worst she's already friendzoned you. You deal with an inexperienced girl the way you would deal with any other chick. Stop pedestrianizing virginity. Every hoe was a virgin at one point. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Civil Service and SMV (Redpill Advice)In terms of pay there isn't a huge difference at lower levels between the government and the private sector. It's when you get higher in the food chain that things really start to get distorted. My uncle retired from an SES position at a major US government agency (one you would know) about five years ago. I believe he made in the neighborhood of $200k a year. That's nothing to sneeze at, but he would have been making millions in salary and stock compensation for an equivalent position at a majo… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 06:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop being so naive? I have gotten success from the RedPill but one thing is clear, I am still socially naive. How do I get over this?Not sure what the situation is here, but when it comes to interpersonal relationships you have to approach everything like a lawyer would. Many lawyers have slightly paranoid minds. They're always thinking about how they or their client could get fucked over in a situation. Listen to your instincts too - if a person seems like they're bullshitting you, then they probably are. Most of my interpersonal problems arouse because I didn't listen to my instincts telling me that this guy or girl is sket… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Civil Service and SMV (Redpill Advice)I worked in the US federal government as a civil servant for three years. Same as working in any large corporation except without the bonus/layoffs. I left to start my own business. Judging from your comments you don't actually have any interest in our opinion, you just want us to tell you what you want to hear. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 06:28 PM |
| 1 | I think I'm done with casual sex. Justify! And some rants.What a downright bizarre and frankly whacky post. You definitely have some issues that you need to sort out. Clearly not every girl is a weed-addicted alcoholic who's taken 50 dicks, this is way over the top. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 06:19 PM |
| 1 | in your experience how rare is it to find a women who is "good" in bed?You want to find a girl that's had a boyfriend before. Sex like anything else takes practice. A girl who's had a slew of one night stands usually isn't 'good in bed' because she hasn't had the practice. Sex with a ton of different people =/= experience. Whereas a girl who's been in a relationship probably had sex hundreds of times with that guy and got comfortable with her body. After I broke up with my first GF, girls would tell me I was a good kisser, even though I had only kissed one chick in… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Should I simply give up on this one ?Girl giving you mixed signals? That is the message in itself...meaning she isn't interested. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 06:06 PM |
| 3 | How long do you wait on girls before you give up on trying to get them?There is no such thing as "playing hard to get." Playing hard to get = not interested. A girl either wants to fuck you or she doesn't. It's that simple. What is so difficult about that concept that you can't understand it? Betas have scarcity mentality, so they invent rationalizations like "playing hard to get" to explain away confusing behavior. It gives them a reason to cling to hope, but it is nothing but a figment of the imagination. The medium is the message. Mixed signals = not interested.… | /r/askTRP | 06/03/20 06:18 PM |
| 1 | How did I handle this situation and what should I have done differently?First of all, why are you even going out with some late-20s (Epiphany phase) 6/10 uggo? That says a lot about your mindset right off the bat. You should be gunning for hot college girls and early 20s girls, not washed up hoes rapidly approaching the Wall. Second, you say you're in "decent shape." There's no such thing as decent shape. That sounds like fatass or skinny soyboy denial. Get into the gym. Now to the issue at hand. Why are you having so many rounds of drinks? It should really only tak… | /r/askTRP | 06/03/20 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Are all good looking college girls hoes?It seems like I’m always running into all the same shit tests and girls just looking for attention. I'll second what another guy said: you're just resentful that you aren't getting the action and validation that other men receive so freely. I know this because college girls shit test the least out of any demographic. The fact that you're whining about it demonstrates that you aren't considered hawt enough to preempt shit testing I mean, who the hell gets on a forum and complains about college gi… | /r/askTRP | 06/03/20 02:48 PM |
| 3 | How do you deal with the struggles of “could have been” on your mission after TRP revelation?I don't think you are alone in having such thoughts. My life would be very different at 26, too, if I had this information at 18. I would have a god-tier physique, a million bucks, and an enormous notch count of hot girls - and that isn't hyperbole. But I didn't have the information. I didn't have the right mindset. All of that was out of my control. Sitting around jerking off to fantasies of what could have been is 100% unproductive. The only thing I can do is think about how to incorporate thi… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/20 03:16 PM |
| 5 | Flirted with girl from social circle on Instagram and she blocked me, why?dummy - if she blocked you, it means she thinks you're creepy (unattractive) by definition. You shot your wad, accept the outcome and move on. | /r/askTRP | 29/02/20 01:34 AM |
| 2 | How do I fuck my Professor?Dude, I'm not saying don't try, but c'mon...get this ridiculous fantasy out of your brain. 27 YO babes in grad school generally have no interest in 21 YO college boys. She's probably fantasizing about her professor, the 32-40 YO guy who is an authority in her field. You, I'm afraid, are a total zero. But let's say you do decide to shoot your shot. For God's sake, don't do it in the middle of the semester. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/20 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Shower-thought: the more educated a girl is, the more slutty she is (and less likely to marry and have kids)This stereotyping shit is retarded. ALL young chicks on Tinder or anywhere else are down to fuck. Working class girls aren't any different in this respect. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/20 02:22 PM |
| 1 | I have a problem with my girlfriends promiscuous past. Need advice.No one said hoes aren't fun. My old stripper FWB was my favorite girl so far. She was exciting to be with and really was a sweet, nice person. I have no regrets and would do it again. But you have to look past that when it comes to LTR. Is this girl going to be a good wife and mother for your children? If you don't see that in the future, then why bother getting into a relationship? In that case why not just spin plates? In the case of the stripper, while she was a great girl, she certainly wasn… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/20 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Plate keeps flakingIf the girl expects you to always initiate but has a busy schedule how do you handle not making plans in advance? Oh she's busy alright...busy taking Chad's load down her throat. The medium is the message - NEXT. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/20 01:23 AM |
| 7 | Plate keeps flakingdon't arrange a date, just hit me up spontaneously Here we can observe a rare instance where girls say what they actually want. You're approaching this from a very old school, almost Blue Pill mindset - that you should formally schedule sex. Young girls don't find that exciting or arousing. I always tell guys that they need to be more spontaneous. The ol' 1 AM "you up?" text is in many ways far more effective than scheduling something. A "date" is too contrived for a young college chick. This co… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 04:54 PM |
| 6 | I have a problem with my girlfriends promiscuous past. Need advice.She was old enough to know that cheating is wrong. C'mon, guy. She knew what she was doing. Why did you bother to come on this forum? Sounds like you just want us to justify the choice that you've already made. In that case you've come to the wrong place. Every day some sucker comes on here with the same story - "Everything is perfect, except..." You know deep down that you've made a mistake, otherwise you wouldn't be here. But you suffer from a scarcity mindset. Hasn't it occurred to you that y… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 03:28 PM |
| 4 | I have a problem with my girlfriends promiscuous past. Need advice.N-count in itself is irrelevant and tells you nothing. What matters is Alpha Count. You could be her second dick ever, and if the first guy is seen as more Alpha than you, then your relationship is doomed. Of course, a lot of dicks means a lot of chances that she encountered a guy who made a big Alpha impact. You have to out-Alpha 29 other guys in this case. And maybe you do, I don't know. What's more concerning is that she's an admitted serial cheater, started having sex at a very early age, an… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 02:52 PM |
| 1 | I have a problem with my girlfriends promiscuous past. Need advice.This guy is being a dick for no reason. Sounds like the typical MGTOW who actually thinks every girl runs through 50 cocks in a decade or two of being sexually active. Granted OP's gf does indeed have a pretty high body count. /u/Carbirdplane I'll respond to this in more detail separately. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 02:37 PM |
| -3 | Going down on your platesGoing down on women isn't just taboo in the Caribbean. It's taboo across many different cultures, and I think we need to pay attention to that. The whole idea behind giving girls head is to focus on her pleasure in lieu of your own. No Alpha does this. Most Chads give her a sloppy fuck, blow in ten minutes, then roll over and fall asleep. Girls are fine with that because the fulfillment comes from getting his validation and his seed. Once women hit the Epiphany Phase, though, that's when they vo… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 03:57 PM |
| 1 | tinder helpher bio basically said take me to a date function(college frat thing) or swipe left Translation: Looking for high value Chads to boost my social status on campus she responded Gtg Bye Translation: Fuck off worthless Beta I won’t invite you to a date function, but I will to shots ;) Well that was a stupid opener. Don't acknowledge what you CAN'T do, that isn't what a high value Alpha would do. So right off the bat you're coming across as a boring Beta. You should have just said "Shots?" with a sh… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Pulling in collegeYou aren't fucking listening. This guy /u/cfbovernfl is exactly correct. College girls just wanna hook up and have fun. You can and should be pretty direct. Forget about a "lure," that's creepy as hell. In fact your whole method of X + Y + Z = Sex is creepy. Just get to the point already and invite her over. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/20 05:00 AM |
| 6 | Plate tells me "I want to fuck you, just not at 3pm" after I arrange a meetup and she doesn't put out. I feel disrespected. Is this behavior I shouldn't tolerate, or am I being unreasonable?Girls want monkey sex with hawt fun frat boys, we all know that, but she may not want to emotionally invest beyond a bang or two if she thinks you're just about sex. Alpha Fucks is short term by definition. I have plenty of same night lays who ghost me after one hookup, even if the sex and overall chemistry was fantastic. Contrary to popular belief, many girls enjoy casual, feelz-free sex with hawt guys. However, other girls are going to push for something more meaningful. Stop whining that the … | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | What I’m doing with club game and how can I fix it? Advice?The bigger the group of girls, the better. It's easy to pull one girl from a group. It's basically impossible to pull a girl when she's out with just one other chick, because she won't want to leave that girl alone. I socialize in group setting with some women that I'm not interested in banging, but I wouldn't call them close friends. I don't really subscribe to the idea of having female friends. You're really making this more complicated than it needs to be. All you have to do in a club setting… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 05:36 AM |
| 3 | What I’m doing with club game and how can I fix it? Advice?I know why you aren't succeeding. The first problem is that you're projecting your male sex drive onto women. Men are always on. Whether we're at the club or just horny at the office, we're ready to fuck 24/7. Women are not like that. Their sex drive is feelz-driven. Things like traveling, a breakup, going on girls night out gets them hot. What I've learned is that opportunities in life are fleeting. You have to seize them the moment they come up, or else they soon slip away forever. That is tru… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Question on hobbies. Running in particular.Personally I think distance running is a colossal waste of time, and there is a lot of research that says it isn't good for your health. It certainly doesn't get you laid like lifting. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Going out solo approaching to local college barsDude I just told you that I went back to my old college campus as a 26 YO. A huge state university in semi-rural college town. I knew nobody. Zero social status or reputation. Literally just walked downtown alone into a club with a good party atmosphere. All I did was play the "hawt fun club guy/older alumni" role. Any guy can be hawt club guy. Any guy can be hot Tinder guy with six pack abs. You're making this more complicated than it needs to be. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Going out solo approaching to local college barsIt really isn't that complicated. You just have to 1) be hawt 2) approach In the case that I describe above, I more or less inserted myself into a group of dancing girls. Basically started dancing near them, and as I'm scoping them out, one of them asks me to dance. So there was some luck there, but I would have said something like "you got some good moves, show me more" or whatever. Walk into any club and what do you see? Guys awkwardly standing against the walls like they're in high school, gu… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Going out solo approaching to local college barsYes. In fact two weeks ago I went out to my old college campus, walked into a downtown club, had a girl approach me on the dance floor, and left with her after about 15 minutes. It's the opposite for me. I tend to have more success going solo or with another high SMV male friend. Many of buddies are good guys but are low SMV, so that hurts me by association. I suppose YMMV depending on the group. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Going out solo approaching to local college barsFor God's sake man, it's college. Everybody is fucking or trying to fuck. In another year or two you'll be out and you'll never see any of those people again, so why do you care so much? And really, if you have to approach a ton of girls at a college bar before one will take interest, you need to work on your SMV. College towns are the easiest places in America to get laid if you're a hawt guy. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 04:10 PM |
| 4 | Anyone here dyes their white hairs?This is the greatest nothingburger of all time. I'm 26 and I've white patches around my temples and streaks of white in the rest of my hair for 2-3 years now. My hair is brown and it only stands out when I let it get long. You forget that many young girls specifically want older guys. You think girls are 100% joking when they say in their Tinder bio "I'd probably rather fuck your dad?" I've had girls tell me they get off on my white hairs. If it really bothers you, just keep your hair short enou… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 04:02 PM |
| 7 | High interest in person vs texting.Here's your problem: the way you're approaching this chick is Beta and wrong. I know this because you mention making "small talk" via text. Way to dry up her pussy, guy. You aren't exciting her. You aren't being masculine and direct. This girl is like any other girl - she wants to get fucked rough by a hot, exciting guy. You claim to be good looking, but nothing in your approach indicates that you're exciting. You're trying to set up an old-fashioned date, I'm guessing. She's being flakey becaus… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Is dating/hooking up outside your race easier generally?The short answer is really "it depends." I'm white and the majority of my n-count is non-white girls, especially Asians. I don't go for them specifically, they just tend to be the most receptive. Young Asian girls often prefer to fuck around with hawt white guys and other races before settling down with an Asian guy in her epiphany phase. A lot of white guys are outright not attracted to Asian chicks, so there are certainly supply/demand factors at play. There are many girls out there who specif… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Never cut in my life, should I cut or keep bulkingI never said that bulking = fat. Everyone begins lifting from a different starting point. Some look like Auschwitz survivors and need to do GOMAD and bulk hard. Some are obese fat fucks that need to severely restrict calories and maybe go on some sort of keto diet. Many are somewhere in between - not clinically obese or even overweight, but have formless, soft, gooey body composition and tend to gain more fat than optimal while in a calorie surplus. On top of all that, everyone has different gen… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Never cut in my life, should I cut or keep bulkingBut it shouldn’t be the foundation of your training. Why not? Most guys are on this forum to get laid. 80% are struggling to find any success whatsoever on Tinder let alone anywhere else. I initially built my training/diet regime around the idea that I wanted to go from skinny fat tub of goo to shirtless abs pic in a year. Getting bigger (even fatter initially) and stronger before cutting was part of that process. And I achieved that goal, 10/10 would recommend shirtless abs. Anyone who thinks t… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Never cut in my life, should I cut or keep bulkingAfter a year of lifting one should have some muscle mass to show for it. I agree that one has no business cutting until after noob strength gains have been made. However you slice up the process, though, one still has to bulk/cut for "aesthetics". People who don't are either on roids or possess very good genetics. OP's admission that he doesn't bench complicates things but I'd be cutting sooner this year rather than later. Overall body composition will be better once he sheds fat. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Never cut in my life, should I cut or keep bulkingYeah, I thought your chest and arms looked underdeveloped. You've been lifting for a year with no proper bench (or OHP?). That's a major shame. You've wasted so much time and potential doing ineffective shit. That needs to change. You don't really need a spotter if you're doing sub max work sets and going up incrementally. If you think you need a spotter, flag down a guy who's resting in between sets. That's why I always work out with other people around. You block your face out but I can see fo… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Never cut in my life, should I cut or keep bulkingNah I started lifting to attract girls, as do 95% of guys who wander into the gym for the first time in their 20s. That's the "crisis of motive" that Rollo has discussed. There are other intrinsic benefits to lifting in terms of mental well being, but let's cut the crap. Anyone besides a legit strongman is in there to look good naked. Guys who deny this are bullshitting themselves. And again, we're on a forum about sexual strategy, not lifting to gain as much strength as possible. "just eat heal… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 03:56 PM |
| 5 | Never cut in my life, should I cut or keep bulkingThis thread is full of fatlogic. A skinny pretty boy like Francisco Lachowski with very low body fat is getting laid a lot more than some fatass jerking himself off to dudes telling him "Looking big bro." We're on a forum about sexual strategy, so I assume the goal is to get laid more. OP - you have gotten fat and need to cut. This is obvious from your body, but one can also see that you're carrying excess fat in your face area which is undoubtedly hurting your SMV. You also need to pay attentio… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Never cut in my life, should I cut or keep bulkingit takes a warrior to squat 400 pounds. There's so much #fatlogic in this thread it boggles the mind. Maybe you forgot that we're on a forum about sexual strategy. Chicks dig guys with big muscles AND low body fat. Big muscles hidden under several layers of disgusting fat aren't going to help you on Tinder. All of the "Looking big bro!" messages from dudes won't make girls want to fuck you more. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 03:33 PM |
| 8 | When is it a good idea to ask a tinder date directly to your place?If you match and she's responding promptly to your messages, that can be a signal that she's horny and looking for that very night. Other than that, though, there's no reliable signal for if a girl is down to come straight over. Even the girls who look slutty in their pics and message me shit like "hey sexy" aren't serious about actually meeting most of the time. You just have to ask and see what happens. How you should go about it varies depending on the situation. Last week I asked a girl what… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/20 06:57 PM |
| 4 | Pulled dream model girl, but how to keep her around...I was starting to crave someone who I actually vibe with beyond base companionship & pussy. I know she does do drugs and is out in clubs a lot Hello McFly, anybody home? Think McFly, think. How is a club rat who does drugs good for anything beyond pussy? Your brain is overwhelmed by her physical beauty. You aren't thinking rationally. This chick is ONS or plate material, at best. Get your head out of your ass. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 09:04 PM |
| 16 | When you ask a girl out and she can't, do you need to wait for a counter offer ?some girls wait for the men to do everything sometimes No. That's a foolish rationalization concocted by the male hamster to explain why she never initiates. If a girl never initiates, it means she isn't that interested. Period, no exceptions. So what happens when she turns you down with no counteroffer? Simple - I text back "next time" "okay" or something equally terse and ambiguous. Sometimes this is enough to prompt her to counteroffer on the spot. Once in a while she'll hit you up again in a… | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 08:54 PM |
| 2 | How to lead the conversation? I talk more ABOUT stuff. Club talksI’ll usually hit them on the dance floor and then hook up and go to the side after. Have her sit on my lap, tease her. More pointless filler. Listen to what I'm telling you: approach, dance (no kissing on the dance floor), get her back to your place. Maybe stop for a snack before you head back...you want to make sure she's sober enough before you get an Uber...but that's it. Your problem is that you're not moving quickly enough. The bullshit talk thing is good, but what you need is less talking … | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 04:57 PM |
| 5 | How to lead the conversation? I talk more ABOUT stuff. Club talksThe moments when you’re talking to a random chick at the club in the corner, Epic fail. Your approach is completely Blue Pill and wrong. Girls aren't in clubs for conversation. They're in clubs to let loose and potentially find a hawt guy to bang. The playbook for getting laid in that setting is to be hot, high energy, and willing to insert yourself into a group of girls who are having a good time. Once you find a girl and she's into you, after about 10-15 min just tell her "let's get out of her… | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 03:59 PM |
| 8 | Is no social media a deal breaker?Social media is just another tool in the toolbox, but it's becoming more and more important to success in dating, business, and every other facet of life. Anyone who denies this is out of touch with reality, and will sink further and further into total irrelevance. Failing to keep up with the times is how you become an old fogey. That said, you can use Instagram and Facebook effectively without being obsessed. I rarely post...usually once every few months... but when I do, it's always of me enga… | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 03:46 PM |
| 10 | What hobbies would you recommend to meet girls?While there are girls everywhere, there is not a "slut culture" This is a contradiction. Wherever there are lots of young girls and guys together, there's going to be a lot of fucking going on. That's practically a law of nature. If you don't think people are hooking up then you probably aren't hot enough to be welcomed into hookup culture. If you can't meet girls in a setting where girls are "everywhere," what makes you think you can meet them anywhere else? | /r/askTRP | 09/02/20 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Ever meet a girl and f*ck her 1-2 hours later? What were some of the things that really helped?Why can't you just say "let's hang out at my place and smoke up" or whatever? Then take an Uber there. This is the least complicated aspect of getting laid. Like I said, don't you sleep in a bed somewhere at night? | /r/askTRP | 09/02/20 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Ever meet a girl and f*ck her 1-2 hours later? What were some of the things that really helped?I don't get excessively drunk or high on dates. That's Beta as fuck. Stone cold sober is my preferred mood for sex. How can there be no private place to go? Do you sleep on a park bench at night? Hell, I've fucked on a park bench in the middle of broad daylight so even that isn't an excuse. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Finally found a unicorn, but don’t feel the “lust”Listen to the ECs. This is some wise shit right here. The fact that you're even here asking this question proves that you're in her Frame. You know what you want to do, but you aren't doing it. That's the definition of Beta. Then you downvote the EC who points this out, which is extremely faggoty. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Ever meet a girl and f*ck her 1-2 hours later? What were some of the things that really helped?Tinder makes this question seem rather quaint. Two nights ago I went directly to this 22 YO girl's apartment, smoked a little weed, and was balls deep in less than 30 min. I've had many similar encounters through that app. In a real life situation, last weekend I walked into a club, started dancing with a girl, and left with her to go back to my hotel about 15 minutes later. Time from meet to bang was under 60 minutes. So what were the things that helped you in a situation where you just met a g… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 05:55 PM |
| 8 | Dancing in Clubs, How to Escalate?"I hope there are some hot guys here tonight, I haven't been laid in weeks" and shit like that (you think they don't talk like that? well they do) Part time Uber driver here, can confirm these conversations happen on the way. If you think guys are raunchy you ain't never heard a group of hot club girls | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 01:06 AM |
| 21 | Dancing in Clubs, How to Escalate?After 10-15 min or so: "Let's get out of here." It's that simple. Girls aren't in a club for conversation. They're there to let loose and potentially find a hawt guy to bang. Move quickly and decisively or don't bother in the first place. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 07:35 PM |
| 0 | Practice outcome independence for 1st/2nd dateI'm not inviting her along for shits and giggles, with the thought that "maybe we'll end up in bed." Fuck that noise. I'm there to bang, and I plan my 'dates' accordingly. Maybe I've gotten to the point where getting sex on Tinder or the club is like ordering a pizza, but I'm still going to be disappointed and annoyed if the pizza doesn't come or if it isn't what I expected. Outcome independence is laughable feel-good bullshit. My emotional state is very much outcome dependent. But the whole poi… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 07:30 PM |
| 2 | How to be your best self when you realize you are isolated and have very little in common with people you know and typically meet?Who is this "someone" and how did you "disappoint" them? Girls (and the Beta men who imitate them) tend to lash out when they're feeling insecure or rejected because they're feelz-driven and can't control their emotions. So I'd take all that with a massive grain of salt. When a chick spouts off in frustration and disappointment because I don't want a relationship, I remember that she's really just a little girl throwing a tantrum. As to the issue at hand, you aren't going to have deep connection… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Connecting on deeper level with women, being exciting and interesting personLook, you need to be fun and spontaneous if you want to keep girls interested long term. Your entire life can't be structured. I once called up a FWB randomly to get on a plane to Alaska with me. I'll randomly decide to drive to another city a few hours away for a quick weekend getaway. Is all of your sex happening on a bed? Why not somewhere more risky and exciting, like a public park? One of sweetest memories is of the first time I had a girl bounce on my cock in the middle of broad daylight..… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Connecting on deeper level with women, being exciting and interesting personForget what she wants out of this for a moment; what do YOU want? I don't think you've thought much about it. If you just want her to be a fuck buddy/plate, then there's no need to "connect on a deeper level." A fuck buddy is someone that comes over to your apartment just to bang. That's the definition of casual. A FWB/girlfriend is someone that you do activities with that don't just involve having sex...like having actual dates. Sounds to me like you just aren't that into her. The chemistry isn… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 04:37 PM |
| 1 | First Date Mixed SignalsYour Tinder profile/pictures probably suck. 15 matches in a week isn't very good for a new profile on a college campus, unless you're at a tiny liberal arts school in the middle of nowhere. /u/mallardcove wrote a good series of guides in the main Red Pill sub. If you want specific pointers DM me your profile and we can continue that conversation in private. For the opener just go with her name and hi, i.e. Sarah Hi If she doesn't reply hit her up again a few days or a week later on a weekend nig… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 07:39 PM |
| 1 | First Date Mixed Signalsmy chances of getting laid on the first date weren't high Negative. Your chance of getting laid is the highest on the first date. Then it declines on every subsequent date until it eventually hits zero. Guys who are risk-averse tend not to escalate, thinking that by doing so they might ruin their chances. Ironically, their risk-aversion brings about the very outcome that they feared. You risk more by NOT escalating. I should go with the flow and if it happens it happens. I often see this advice … | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 05:20 AM |
| 6 | Women not giving out # on tinder due to safety. What to do about it?I get that not every girl is going to invite a stranger over for sex. Usually I do have a "date" first, although I use that term very loosely. But this reply smells of NAWALT. Some girls simply are not that naturally trusting of people and require more work. Particularly if they are fairly inexperienced. Not long ago I met an Indian girl for a first date. She would later claim an n-count of 1 and only had sex a few times. I believe it, because her pussy was by far the tightest I ever entered...a… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Tinder date in another city?If you're high value enough, yeah, she will. To be honest, dude, the fact that you're even on here asking such a silly question tells me that you lack abundance. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 07:29 PM |
| 8 | How big of a factor do you guys think “intelligence” is for women when liking a guyThis. Most of the great Chads that I've known were dumb as a rock, but they were hawt and funny. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Tinder date in another city?Otherwise how do I get her to come to my city? You tell her to come. What's so complicated about that? If she says no it means she isn't interested. I had a FWB that I met while traveling who would fly across the country for my dick. The idea of you going to her is utterly retarded. You might as well go wearing a t-shirt that says "I never bang hot girls." | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 06:31 PM |
| 9 | Women not giving out # on tinder due to safety. What to do about it?Dude, I've gone straight to cute little 18-20 year old girls' apartments after matching an hour before on Tinder. Here I am, a totally strange adult man, going directly to a younger girl's place and fucking the shit out of her. I don't say that to brag, but rather to impress upon you how absurd it is that a woman balks at giving her phone number when many of them have had encounters like the one that I describe above. It just means that she isn't that into you. Probably she's trying to stall, ho… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 06:18 PM |
| 1 | First Date Mixed SignalsI hate to go all esoteric, but "being sexual" is about your vibe. A lot of that is simply looking good. A hot man who is lean, muscular, wears fitted clothing that shows off a personal style, and sports a good trendy haircut/groomed facial hair is sexual by default. The rest is about Game and just being a fun, spontaneous person in general. Don't hesitate or drag things out. Guys go wrong by making out with club girl and getting her number, then wonder why she never contacts him again. They make… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me or is online dating way different now?I'm not going to waste time convincing you of my experience. If you want to keep being a salty neckbeard that's your business. Good day sir. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Is lifting actually important?Girls like fucking guys with big muscles and low body fat. End of discussion. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 04:41 AM |
| 11 | How to “start a business” with little skills?Every asshole with an internet connection is trying to dropship or start a t-shirt brand. The first few people to do that 10 years ago made some money. It's a total non-starter today. You have to do what other people aren't already doing, or just do it way better. That's how you actually make money online, or anywhere for that matter. Source: I have an ecommerce business | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 10:59 PM |
| 15 | First Date Mixed SignalsI sighed after reading this post because it very much reminds me of myself at your age. Look, I commend you for putting yourself out there and lifting - that's better than 80-90% of guys your age. But there's a lot going on here that could be improved, so let's walk through this. First Date Mixed Signals The medium is the message. Getting mixed signals? That IS the message. Girls with high interest won't leave you feeling confused, because hypergamy can't afford to let an opportunity with an Alp… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me or is online dating way different now?No I'm talking about Vancouver BC. Look up the ratios. They're among the most favorable in North America for a major city. Vancouver is a place with tons of fit, outdoorsy girls. Most of the local Canadian guys are Beta schlubs. I got quadruple the Tinder matches when I visited compared to comparable cities, and had girls cold approach me in bars and on the street. In the words of my Airbnb host's son, "All I have to do is walk into a bar and stand there." You may want to seriously consider whet… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 03:25 PM |
| 6 | Is it just me or is online dating way different now?I only started Tindering in 2017. Back then I could get HB7-8 out pretty easily. Now I mostly bang 6-7 from Tinder...with the occasional 5 during dry spells, if I'm being honest. HB8+ I match more than ever before, but virtually never meet. The reason is competition. A while back a young 18-22 college dude didn't have competition from older 23-30+ guys who were slower to adopt new tech. Now every single guy is on there. If you want a truly great Tinder experience you have to go where the competi… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 03:31 PM |
| 13 | What does it mean if you are not shit-tested when you approach?Out of all the girls I've banged, the one who obsessed over me the most when we dated was actually very shy on our first meet. As she explained later, she was so taken with me that she "didn't want to say anything stupid" that would turn me off. I escalated and ended up balls deep within 30 min of meeting her. Other girls didn't say much on the first date because they simply weren't interested. Shit testing or lack thereof isn't a good indicator. You have to escalate. That's the only way you can… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Have any of you escaped the 9-5?26 YO. I am in the process of transitioning out of my day job. I worked 4 years, saved most of my paycheck, and built up a significant investment portfolio. I'm leaving to continue designing art and apparel for my online shop and begin work on a totally new entrepreneurial venture. The cash flow from my ecommerce venture, stock dividends, revenue from a blog, and driving for Uber 20 hrs a week will provide me enough income to continue my current (relatively modest) lifestyle. As the businesses g… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 04:31 AM |
| 3 | Experiment - Rate/feedback on tinder profileThose are good choices. I adhere to the "less is more" rule. Unless the picture adds something new and unique to your profile and shows a different side of your personality or hobbies, leave it out. Don't dilute good pictures with shitty pictures. That's why all the shirtless shots are redundant and a bit overkill. The first one of you at the beach with good lighting on your abs is more than sufficient to show you're lean. As to the resolution, it's okay, although it could be better. Don't you h… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 05:26 AM |
| 7 | Experiment - Rate/feedback on tinder profileThis profile is actually pretty good. Much better than the shitshows that I usually see on here and certainly better than about 80% of Tinder guys. You're genetically gifted with nice Spanish skin and have a lean visible six pack. You won't have problems getting hookups. I think you'd do well just to tighten up your profile a bit. Ditch that picture with the chick smoking the cig. It's absolutely classless and you look very Beta kissing up on her. I would also suggest that you include a few pict… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Thought I was adding a body last night until....This is the correct answer. I came on here to say this. You can scroll down and read pointless speculation and contradictory advice from the peanut gallery, but at the end of the day, nobody bats 1000. It sounds like you're successful most of the time, so if it ain't broke, don't fix it. The only commentary I have is that being too far above her in SMV can be a negative. She knows you'll fuck her, but she doesn't think she's good enough for anything more than a bang or two. I find hotter girls a… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/20 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Ever notice the coincidence between the expression "get lucky" and ovulation?"Get lucky" is a Blue Pill term invented by those who don't understand women. The BP doesn't acknowledge that seduction exists, because women are unknowable creatures. It's also a denial mechanism to shift blame when a woman turns a guy down - you didn't get rejected or fail, you were just 'unlucky'. Luck plays a role. There's no doubt about that. Things that make her ready for sex like ovulatory shift, a breakup, traveling, etc. are all chance events. You can't control that. But Game - the abil… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/20 03:41 PM |
| 0 | Working in a predominantly female industry - just headache after headache? Working with males vs. females? Your thoughts?I've worked with mostly women as bosses in my day jobs. Had zero problems. My new business venture is also in a female-dominated field and I'm working with an older female partner. I don't understand the distaste for female colleagues. You'd be surprised how many favors women are willing pull. They're more empathetic than male bosses for a young guy just starting out, in my experience. In any case, the only male dominated fields worth a fuck anymore are engineering/computer science and maybe som… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/20 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Paying when you're seeing a girl?The 'rules' are different for dating. You know that perfectly well. As to your example, yes, I often (at least partially) pay for my friends if I invite them out, especially if they don't know anyone else at the function. But then they pay for me another time. It's reciprocal. I'm not the kind of guy who frames every relationship in terms of transactions. I don't split every fucking Uber ride with my good friends. And that's why I don't split the bill with her. I'd rather she be in a fun, carefr… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Paying when you're seeing a girl?I wouldn't be taking plates to restaurants if you're trying to keep things casual. There's nothing inherently wrong with buying a girl dinner, especially if you're banging her and she's fun. But this will cause her to catch feelings. Going out on a real date is a signal that you want something more...which is fine, if that's your intention. As to the issue at hand, I usually pay if I'm the one who invited her out. A lot of guys are saying to split, but you're the one who proposed this idea. That… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 03:30 PM |
| 7 | [24M] Need some advice on my Personal SMV (Only Visual) and the best Tinder PicsYour pictures suck ass. It looks to me like you're just posing for your iPhone in your bedroom, which is probably actually the case. The lighting is atrocious. Fake-looking Alpha expression is laughable. Worst of all, this is without a doubt one of the most BORING slates of profile pics I have ever seen. I know that i should make pictures doing cool stuff.... but in those pictures I usually look horrible. You don't need to show your face clearly in every single pic. It's a lot more important tha… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 03:14 PM |
| 3 | I can dig her guts out, but goes cold after first date.Let's go back to basics here. Alpha fucks, Beta bucks. As the phrase implies, Alphas are there for sex. You're the fun hawt guy that she wants to fuck, but not necessarily the guy that she wants as a boyfriend. Contrary to what the Blue Pill teaches, girls also enjoy casual, commitment-free sex. A lot of guys here, even those who have been around for years, still have trouble accepting that there are hot girls out there who occasionally get horny and just want Chad to plow them 30 minutes after … | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 09:13 PM |
| 6 | What does it mean when plate ask to come overWhat does it mean when plate ask to come over It means that...wait for it...she wants to come over. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar, dude. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 08:20 PM |
| 5 | Guy stuck the moves on my FWB in front of me and she didn't turn him down. Feels bad man, how should I have handled this?A few weeks ago a new guy joins our hostel, this arrogant Alpha french dude. Altered for accuracy. Pierre here sounds like an Alpha, while you come across as very Beta. Why do you care so much about this random hostel hoe? You aren't "dating," you're casually fucking. You have some serious abundance issues if you're worried about keeping the town pump all to yourself. I have a Chad friend who has matched/ banged my Tinder matches instead of me. I'm happy for him. There's plenty of pussy for me, … | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 02:56 PM |
| 2 | How would you escalate with a girl that doesn't like kissing?Regardless, I see this as a challenge and I want to conquer That's an interesting way of hamstering away the fact that this girl has ZERO interest. Two dates and no kissing? Really dude? My typical first 'date' sees me balls deep within 30-90 minutes. You're not even on first base yet. The medium is the message - you're a Beta in her eyes. Next this girl. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 02:44 PM |
| 5 | What's TRP's stance on non-TRP with great relationships?What is your definition of a "great relationship?" There's a large percentage of older married couples out there who haven't had sex in years, or only do so rarely and unenthusiastically. What was once a sexual relationship devolves into more of a roommate/platonic friendship situation. The men are fine with it because they're Blue Pilled and brainwashed into believing that a sexless marriage is normal and inevitable. I drive for Uber on the side. As a cabbie, you get to see people's real person… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Why is sexting seen as a negative around here?I don't think anyone opposes sexting per se. It's just that so many guys essentially use it as a rejection buffer for girls that they haven't actually banged. It's a lot easier to sit at home and play pretend rather than escalate and face potential rejection in a real time situation. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 03:34 PM |
| 6 | Any TRP movies or TV shows out there..?I've always said the original Star Wars films. Han Solo is a total Alpha in the first two movies - selfish, cocky, takes risks, says shit that would widely be considered "misogynist" today. The relationship with Leia is very Red Pill. The beautiful princess feigns disinterest in the "scoundrel" but is secretly wet for him, and we see that develop over the course of Empire. Solo easily passes her shit tests because he genuinely doesn't give a fuck. You aren't going to find many Alpha characters o… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 03:42 AM |
| 1 | DHV stories vs braggingI've found that if you're wondering about whether or not you're being too cocky, then you probably aren't. Because such a thought would never even occur to a genuinely cocky person. You're bragging when you don't even see anything wrong with it. By that point, you won't care enough to be on here asking these questions. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 03:20 AM |
| 6 | How to apply red pill with managers and executives who expect you to work weekends with no pay or time off like a little bitchEmployer-employee relationships aren't that dissimilar from what we discuss here. There's a Blue Pill out there for working people: if you come in on time, work hard, do what your boss says, and stay loyal to the firm, then you're going to be rewarded with a promotion, a raise, and eventually a nice retirement. We all know how that fantasy often works out. Every employer says shit like "it looks bad to leave a company in less than a year." In reality, nobody actually gives a fuck about that if t… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 11:01 PM |
| 5 | Sexual tinder bioThat's fucking retarded. LIGHT humor or just something generic like your height and a few hobbies. Your pictures get you laid, not your bio. Convey your sexuality visually. Go shirtless or show off your muscles in an appealing way. If you're fat or don't have any muscles then don't bother with Tinder. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 06:20 PM |
| 5 | Girl seemed down to hangout I said let’s hangout tmrw night (today now) she responded by saying “I mean I could butttt I’m super hungover” how would you reply? I imagine it’s a test to see how desperate I am too hangout so I just said “yeah me too”It's not a test. She just isn’t that interested. That's when I would say, "okay, we can hang out another time, let me know when you're free." Of course, there's a 99% chance that you never hear from her again, so don't even think about it. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Areas of the US that have the highest quality versus lowest quality women, how accurate is this?I think the article is pretty accurate. I've never been to the flyover states in the Midwest, so I can't speak to that. But the other impressions I agree with. Although technically not in America, I would add that Vancouver, BC to the high quality, low competition category. The city has a very outdoorsy culture and girls are physically fit. Local Canadian guys are mostly Beta schlubs with zero Game. I got 3-4x the Tinder matches that I get in comparable cities and had a few girls approach me in … | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Do you wait for plates to reach out so you can see them?If I'm horny and want to fuck, yeah, I hit them up. You're worrying too much about the letter of the law rather than spirit of the law. The whole point of letting girls hit you up is to separate the wheat from the chaff. If you're considering a relationship, it's not a good sign if you're the one reaching out all the time, even if she always accepts. A girl with very high interest will want more of your attention than you want of her, and will reach out of her own accord. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 03:28 PM |
| 1 | How viable is the advice of "get a mentor" in the year 2020?You're not going to find your 'perfect Red Pill mentor' out there in the real world. That's as unrealistic as the unicorn myth for women. Pretty much every guy is Red Pilled in some ways and Blue Pilled in others. He may be Alpha as hell, but still has a few Beta habits. Take what you find useful and discard the rest. Even most lifelong Alpha players succumb to the Blue Pill in the end because they fear "dying alone." | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 03:07 PM |
| 5 | $6k gift from a plate with a love note - wtf?What's the question in this flex of a post, exactly? Should you accept it or not? I think it depends. Personally, I wouldn't unless she was wealthy, but that's for moral reasons. As far as the relationship goes, it doesn't matter. You're right that this is a typical Beta move, but you'd be surprised how far some girls will go to secure a guy that they view as Alpha. I had a long distance plate/FWB who would regularly fly across the country at her own expense to spend a few days with me. One time… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 05:14 AM |
| 2 | first date LMR, how to guarantee lay next date?I'll say the same thing that I say on every one of these posts: there's no such thing as "LMR". There is only desire, and lack thereof. Usually I next a girl who doesn't want to have sex on the first date. The medium is the message. I want a girl who enthusiastically comes back to my place, then eagerly rips my clothes off so we can have explosive, passionate sex. This girl literally said that she's making you wait. To quote Rollo: Any girl who makes you wait for sex, the sex is never worth the … | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Don't Get Cucked By CuckcervativesThe Internet began as a military program. The government (that is to say, the public) made the initial investment, and private corporations like Google and Amazon made all of the profits. That's how the 'free market' works. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/20 04:38 PM |
| 0 | Online Dating & Social Media is a ScamThis post reeks of butthurt. Online dating obviously does work, it just doesn't work for you. Get your lard ass off the couch and into the weight room and read /u/mallardcove 's Tinder guide series. There are two reasons why you aren't succeeding: low SMV and/or shit pictures | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/20 04:16 PM |
| 5 | Field report (2): Met new chick on tinder. Brought her straight to my place, fucked her and then ghosted. Feedback?Early on in my Tinder experience I matched this local girl while helping my sister move into her college apartment. Afterward I went straight to the girl's place and fucked the shit out of her. Later when I was trying to make small talk, she just said, "I don't really see much point in getting to know you." Now that was pretty rude, to be sure, but it taught me a lesson - girls want no strings attached sex, too. Later in life, you'll be one of the lays that "doesn't count" because it was "meanin… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 03:13 PM |
| 0 | What is the point of being straightforward with girls?In their perception, it's more slutty to fuck a guy with no chance for LTR Another Blue Pill delusion. You've been taught to think that girls don't enjoy casual sex, which is totally false. Women enjoy it very much, but only with hawt guys. That's the essence of Alpha Fucks. You'll understand this once you've been balls deep in enough girls within 30-60 minutes of meeting them. The more Beta and unworthy she perceives you, the more she's going to insist on a relationship before sex. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 02:50 PM |
| 15 | What is the point of being straightforward with girls?I've told girls straight up that I'm looking for casual fun...and we proceed to have casual fun. I've said that I'm looking for a regular fuck buddy...and we become fuck buddies. Not every girl will react positively to that approach, but hiding your intentions is straight Beta Game. That's guaranteed to get you a negative response. Her reaction ultimately largely depends on circumstances and your SMV. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 06:10 AM |
| 5 | How should you acknowledge attractive women?Avoiding hot girls isn't Alpha, it's pussy as fuck. Your retarded rationalization is just a denial mechanism that you've constructed in your brain to avoid rejection. How she reacts to your attention depends on how she views you. As Rollo said recently, a compliment from an Alpha is like being handed a hundred dollar bill, while a Beta's attention is worthless. In any case, Alpha guys don't hide their interest. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Is this a friend zone or a shit test?Understand this: friendzoning is a rejection. It absolutely does not mean friends with benefits. When a girl says "let's just be friends," what she's really saying is "I have no sexual attraction to you whatsoever." That's it. Ghost her, move on, and fix your Beta ways so this doesn't happen with the next girl. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Chatting with Rollo Tomassi by LAHWFThe thing is, even if Rollo were thin as a twig, it would be irrelevant to his "Alpha" status given his background as a rock musician. Ugly degenerates like Lemmy slayed more pussy than anyone on this forum. Rail thin rock stars banging models continues even in the modern era. Even so, Rollo is objectively good looking. Period. The guy is a dead ringer for Brett Farve. I imagine he was quite handsome in his prime. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/20 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Does just asking ever work?This is often referred to as the "Mode One" approach. And yes, it does sometimes work. "Wanna fuck?" might not be the optimal way to phrase it, though. I've had situations on Tinder where I've banged girls by getting explicit and straight up inviting myself over their apartment. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Lots and lot of matches. Very few numbers. Red pill meI didn't have much success with Hinge. Tons of matches, yes, but very few of those translated into actual dates. The app markets itself as a relationship app, so the girls are expecting Mr. Beta Bucks. And you get treated as such - slow to reply, lots of resistance, flakiness, etc. Same thing with Bumble to a large degree. I do very well on Tinder though. That's where girls go to find Alpha Fucks. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 03:58 AM |
| 1 | is there a way to balance soul & TRP?It just feels empty because you've been socialized by the village to believe that you can only happily ever after under the Blue Pill paradigm. In fact, Blue Pill marriages are deeply unhappy for both parties. Red Pill relationships are far happier. When I first got into TRP, I found a FWB that I dated for over a year. It was the first time that I actually felt satisfied in a relationship. I only felt bad in that I broke her heart in the end for not committing to exclusivity. It's like taking fo… | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 03:43 AM |
| 0 | Amazing ONS sex, no replyYou know why they call it a one night stand? Because it only lasts ONE NIGHT! Contrary to popular Blue Pill belief, women enjoy feelz-free sex with attractive men. Later in her life, you'll be one of the notches that "doesn't count" because it was "meaningless." But for that to happen, she can't keep seeing you. I've banged plenty of girls from Tinder who unmatch or delete their accounts immediately after we part company. It's disappointing sometimes, but a lot of guys would like to have this pr… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 05:15 PM |
| 12 | Is she cheating?Whether or not she's cheating is irrelevant. God thought genuine desire was important enough to put "thou shalt not covet" right up there with actual adultery. She's obviously lost that desire, if she ever had it at all. Let's walk through this. She is talking medication that messes with her when she drinks. What kind of medication? For what? Stop wifing up girls with health problems, mental or otherwise. Those problems rapidly become your problems. Goes out with law school friends. There's only… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 03:41 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys have enough motivation to increase. your SMV?Where's the risk, exactly? Getting fit reduces risk to long term health. I'm not gonna lie. I started barbell training because of girls. I was depressed from getting rejected by a ONEitis and other girls before her, and I wanted to get laid. I love sex. There are other intrinsic benefits to lifting that you appreciate later, but even now just looking good for chicks is still a big motivator. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 03:23 PM |
| 8 | Girl invited me to a party with her new tinder match.So this girl I've seen a few times Have you had sex yet? I'm guessing no. In that case you've already failed. NEXT. I really hoped she was gonna be LTR material You barely know this girl. Humans are wired to think the best of attractive people. ONEitis is what happens when you think with your dick and not with your brain. all the guys were trying to get my date's attention You refer to this as a "date" throughout the post. This was not a date. A date is an activity where it's just you and her. Y… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 04:01 PM |
| 12 | No sex so left abruptlyThis guy is living in fantasyland. He doesn't have a FWB. Where's the benefit? He has a female friend that's orbiting. The medium is the message. She doesn't see you as high value. "I want my first time to be special" = I want my first time to be with a hot Alpha. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 03:29 PM |
| 15 | Chatting with Rollo Tomassi by LAHWFIf you take away the long hair, which is ghastly, Rollo actually looks really good for a 50+ year old man. The lighting in this video isn't very flattering. He looks much better in other talks. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 04:05 PM |
| 20 | Are you guys lonely?Hard to believe that OP can't find a community of his own people in one of the most populous countries on the planet, unless he's in some backwater city. In some ways it's easier to make friends abroad because you're all in the same situation. Find other expats or find a new job. There's a reason most people don't last long in non-English speaking countries. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 03:33 PM |
| 8 | Interracial RelationsThis isn't as prevalent as you think. But let's analyze it. Many years ago Adam Carolla went on a fantastic rant about how women are like "casting agents" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S_mFK_e4KWs . Rollo has also talked about how he used to "play a character that women wanted" (rock star). The "black guy" is really just another Alpha character on the dating scene, the most successful of which are the tough gangster, athlete, or rapper variety. I would also suggest you check out Steve Jobs's v… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 03:04 PM |
| 2 | I can't keep girls and it's driving me crazyI'm not saying you shouldn't take the chance. Girls have willingly gone home with me on the first date, only to not bang me. I obviously didn’t think that was going to be the outcome, because most of the time I do get laid if she goes home with me. What I'm saying is that this all should have been done on the first date. Then you only would have wasted an hour or two as opposed to many hours. You say girls drop you at all different stages of the seduction. What that tells me is that you aren't b… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 06:32 PM |
| 2 | I can't keep girls and it's driving me crazyIt doesn't matter that she kissed you. Girls kiss their girlfriends, their gay friends, and Beta guys that they want to keep stringing along. It's meaningless. It doesn't matter that she kept going on dates and came over to your house (probably under some stupid pretext that you invented to not appear too forward). Girls will do that when they're bored and looking for attention, or again, they want to string you along as long as possible. It only matters that she eagerly lets you penetrate her. … | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 05:28 PM |
| 2 | I can't keep girls and it's driving me crazyshe declined because it would be too late until we get there and back home. She told you everything you needed to know. The girl didn't want to fuck you. Ghost and move on. By keeping I mean keeping them interested. Keep them interested in what? Sex? Dating? A relationship? You're still talking like a rudderless Beta. In the early stages, the number one way to keep a girl interested is to put your penis into her vagina. Up until the moment you slide into her, she has nothing invested. It behoove… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 04:22 PM |
| 1 | What do you do to avoid STDs besides the obvious?At some point you're just going to have to accept that there's always a risk. Just about everything that's fun and worthwhile entails risk. When you fuck, you risk an STD. When you start a business, you risk losing money. When you get up on a horse, you risk getting bucked off and shattering a leg or wrist. You can do these things anyway and live a fulfilling life...or sit at home all day stroking your penis to pornography. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 04:12 PM |
| 4 | I can't keep girls and it's driving me crazyWhat are you trying to accomplish on a date? What's the point of a man meeting up with a girl that he finds attractive? TO FUCK! She knows that, you know that. She's expecting, hoping that you're gonna try to bang her, because that's what an Alpha does. Instead you're just having these aimless dates that don't really go anywhere. You portray yourself as a nonsexual nice guy for the first date or two, then you do a sudden about-face and turn things sexual with the ol' Netflix n' Chill. That's cla… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 03:42 PM |
| 6 | Do you guys know any indirect neck exercises?I second the idea that heavy deadlifts and presses activate the neck sufficiently. How many serious lifters do you know who don't have thick necks? I doubt many of them train neck directly. Jeff Nippard and others have some good videos on direct neck training if you want to go that route. If you don't train like a retard, there isn't much of an injury risk with neck exercise. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Tinder date next ThursdayI always tell guys not to book dates more than 72 hours in advance on Tinder. In fact it's best if you get her out that very night. I'm not saying scheduling a week out *never* works, but it often doesn't. Obviously the timing isn't ideal...shit happens. There's nothing you can do about it. I always confirm by texting her "I'm still on for 8 tonight, looking forward to meeting you" earlier that day. If she's still down, then she'll say so. If not, she'll cancel or she simply won't reply. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 04:16 AM |
| 7 | Have any of you guys been complete losers and made total 180s?because of a very large nose and being introverted I’ve had horrible luck with girls. Jesus Christ, another big nose post. Second one in a week. I have a big nose. I hated it as a teenager. I truly didn't think any girl wanted me. Because of that and other underlying reasons, I didn't kiss or have sex until I was 21. Today I hardly think about my nose dimensions. One girl - a stripper who was insane in bed - said it was a massive turn on. It was some kind of dominance thing for her. Asian girls … | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Am I being fucking stupid?Sounds to me like you're just bored. High achieving men aren't satisfied coasting through life. There always has to be a new goal and new challenges. Traveling can fill that void because the world is so big, and there's always something new to see. I've loved traveling since I was a kid. I still feel a rush when I step onto the airplane. But I wouldn't want that to be my life. Traveling is like eating or fucking or any other sensory experience. It's fantastic in the moment, and you should probab… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Business EndeavourWhy are you asking about botox business advice on the Red Pill forum of all places? If I was in your position, then I would call up the owner of a reputable local clinic and offer to take him out to dinner or whatever and pick his brain. I'm sure there are also consultants who specialize in this sort of thing. If I could have done one thing differently during my first business venture, I would have hired a consultant to give me some pointers. Even an hour or two on the phone might have saved me … | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 02:21 PM |
| 2 | The women I attract don't want to have sexThe girls I like are minimalistic, quiet, shy and unassuming. Maybe that's because that's the way I am also. One of the biggest mistake that I see guys make is trying to find the female version of themselves. I myself was enamored of this fantasy for a long time. If you want the male version of yourself, go fuck a dude. The ones I won't like, I spot The hot ones that I'm not confident enough to think I can get, I avoid approaching, and that's basically most of them (like 100/101). Fixed for you.… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 02:54 AM |
| 22 | Snooped her phone and guess what I found.She's not a 9. Okay? Get that through your brain. It is impossible for a 48 year old woman to be a 9. You're about a quarter century too late. She's no higher than a 6. A single 51 YO should be nailing a girl in her 30s. My loser, broke-ass uncle in his 50s was still bagging hoes in their early 20s. C'mon, guy, what are you doing? | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 02:31 AM |
| 12 | Can we talk about Prince Harry and chic for a second?Meghan Markle is a narcissist who only cares about what's best for Meghan Markle. If you want to see the worst of hypergamy personified, this is it. She was a nobody until she fucked/married a Hollywood producer who pulled strings to get her gigs. Once she didn't need him anywhere, she threw him in the trash. A few years later, just as her physical beauty is about to slip away completely, she meets Harry on a "blind date." She's a predator who saw an opportunity and took it. Markle recognized Ha… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 02:22 AM |
| 6 | What to do with failed girl’s phone number?I don't even save a girl's number in my contacts until we've fucked. Until then it's just a string of numbers in my messages. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Girl shit testing me relentlesslly. I need some pointers.Well do you wanna bang this girl or not? If not, who cares what you say? If you do, then get her number and go from there. No point on focusing on this minutiae. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 02:19 PM |
| 2 | What are examples of classic literature, that every man should read?Madame Bovary is basically about a woman who leaves her boring Beta husband to go have fun with a hot Alpha. I'm a China buff so I've always enjoyed Pearl Buck's novels set in the early 20th century, the Good Earth series especially. Lots of Red Pill themes including ONEitis, golddigging whores, self-improvement, how women's value changes with age, etc. Funny that Buck was a self-described feminist, too. I don't this work could even be published today. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 01:52 PM |
| 7 | Girl shit testing me relentlesslly. I need some pointers.What's the context of this exchange? When a girl is just staring at you, usually that she means she wants you to kiss her. Oftentimes the best way to pass these little shit tests is to shut the fuck up and take action. That's why the first time you bang a girl is so hot. All of that tension just explodes when you cut through the BS and get to what you both want. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Saving money heavily as a young(er) person?Not to sound flippant, but "saving" for some vague reason in the far future is a poor person's mentality. My focus is always on generating more income. I think of saving as building up investment capital. Because of that, soon enough I'll be able to leave my desk job to focus on my other business ventures full time. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 01:39 PM |
| 11 | Plate hasn’t texted since dinner?she’s still being sour and thinks I “owe her”. So, I tell her we’ll get dinner when I’m back. This was a shit test and you fell for it. The only thing you owed her was a cum shot into her mouth...that's what I would have said. Most plates and fuck buddies are only good for a few fucks, maybe a few months at most depending on the situation. Then one of you moves on. You had casual sex with a coworker. That's it. All good things must come to an end. I would just wait for her to reach out again and… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 03:52 AM |
| -13 | Why do I attract fat women?Probably because you're physically not that attractive, either. I'm gonna take a wild guess and say you're either a skinny soyboy or a fat fuck yourself. Sorry bro. Get your lard ass into the gym. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Should I vacation with 6/10 plate or spend the week grinding?I brought a plate (more a FWB) on vacation once. It was a rural area, so not a place where I'd want to go out and sarge. We had a great time, she was down to basically tag along and do whatever I had planned. The whole point of vacation is being able to do what you want, when you want. That's why I prefer traveling solo and not with friends who have their own priorities. Don't bring a girl who isn't submissive and well-behaved. It will be miserable. It goes without saying that you should only do… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Running into a previous dating app match on the streetI mean, it was a mistake in the moment. I can't say I wouldn't have blurted out something similar. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Teenager looking for advice for how to proceed with HB9There is a need to be crass. How long did you spend writing that erotic novel of a post? You will never have sex with this girl. Clearly you're totally blinded by this dream. Wake the fuck up. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Running into a previous dating app match on the streetYour mistake was mentioning that you matched on Tinder in the first place. What good could possibly come of that? As others have mentioned, she probably didn't remember. Reminding her of that fun fact just makes you look creepy and paints you in a negative light. Meeting a girl on Tinder vs real life is obviously a totally different ballgame. I knew girl once who matched with her future husband on Tinder, but never replied to his "hey girl" opener. They met in real life and discovered the Tinder… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Teenager looking for advice for how to proceed with HB9I approached a HB9 over Instagram. Skimmed over the rest after I got to this line. Your "field report" is nothing but a big jerkoff. You never even met this girl, much less got her number, went on a date, or banged her. All that happened was that you got to indulge in a bit of pretend role play with a mentally ill Instagram thot. Complete waste of time. Stop jerking your cock to dumb fantasies. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Tried joking with a girl to remove the awkwardness, ended up making it even worse.I am thinking of not sitting with her tomorrow. No. That'll just make you look like a butthurt bitch. Sit where you would usually sit. After that I would just ignore until she reinitiates. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Failed one night stand, is there ever any rebound?I didn’t fuck because I was whisky dicked and sleep deprived Well that was a mistake, wasn't it? Stop drinking like an idiot. I asked if she was in the mood after Why did you even ask this question if you were limp? I smell bullshit. I think you actually could have banged her, and you're just using drink as an excuse why you failed. In any case, never ask this. You basically asked her permission to bang, which is a massive turn off. Just escalate. If she doesn't want to have sex, she'll make tha… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Is virginity always unattractive, even in voluntary celibacy?There was a priest at my church (Catholic) who was a former military guy. When he first arrived he was young, handsome, and muscular. I have no idea if he ever had sex before entering the priesthood, but every girl thought he was hot and moms at the parish school flirted with him. The answer to your question is no, but these are rare situations. Let's be real: 99.9999% of the time it is not voluntary. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Tried joking with a girl to remove the awkwardness, ended up making it even worse.If I got a bad grade on a test that I worked really hard for, then I'd be pretty pissed. I'd be even more pissed if some annoying asshole kept pestering me about it. Why did you think this moment was a good time to Game a girl? Girls aren't getting wet when they're feeling negative emotions. You then proceeded to shoot yourself in the foot even more by continuing the interaction despite social cues telling you to stop. Girls only become overt when they're feeling seriously irritated or threatene… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Visiting city where I have a plate overnight - she's trying to get me stay for another night, how can I go about this to make sure the hamster is going 90?What exactly is the question here? Are you going to stay the extra night or not? If you're definitely not going to stay, then just tell her you can't stay. It's as simple as that. If you decide to stay, then maybe say something playful/get her to qualify like "I'll stay, but only if you promise to show me a really good time." Either way make up your damn mind. There's nothing Alpha about hemming and hawing. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 06:13 PM |
| 2 | My brother said that a good looking guy slayed more than the frat bros. How much do looks matter?Here we go with the Looks Vs. Status/Game question. Again. For the purposes of this discussion, I will assume we're talking about girls who are HB7+. Getting that instant arousal really just boils down to either looking good or having a sexualized social status (i.e. rock star, MMA fighter, European prince, etc). This isn't complicated. Ideally, of course, you can leverage looks, status, and Game simultaneously. Most people in the world are lazy. It obviously follows that those who are simply bo… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Lesson in frame control by Barack Obama. Dealing with insecure betasWell that's kind of the point, isn't it? When you're a high status guy, you can get away with shit. This is a perfect example. Obviously no one can out-Alpha POTUS | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/20 05:31 PM |
| 13 | Lesson in frame control by Barack Obama. Dealing with insecure betasThanks for posting, I really enjoyed this clip. Obama AMOG'd that dude so hard it's almost painful to watch. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/20 09:01 PM |
| 1 | What skin products do you use to avoid wrinkles and improve your skin/hair?I put a dab of Aveeno lotion on and around my nose to avoid flakey dry skin in the winter. But other than that, I do nothing. The best thing that you can do for your skin is exercise, sleep, eat clean, use sunscreen, and avoid drugs, smoking, and alcohol. Everything else is basically unproven. Asian girls that I bang seem to be up on this shit, so maybe try asking one of them. At 26 I'm starting to see a bit of white in my hair, and if you look closely you can see the beginnings of wrinkles arou… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/20 04:09 PM |
| 1 | What do the good people of asktrp think about plastic surgery?Think Adrien Brody. Overall not at all classically handsome like those idiots on the lookism forum prattle on about, but kind of ambiguously hot. You got women who think he's ugly as sin, and others who think he's the hottest guy on the planet. I like being a little bit polarizing in that sense. I'd rather have a smaller number of girls who obsess over me than a large number of girls who just kinda want to fuck me. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/20 03:55 PM |
| 1 | What do the good people of asktrp think about plastic surgery?I don't see anything wrong with "Looksmaxing." Most Hollywood actors have had work done. Tom Cruise, especially, is widely thought to have been getting plastic surgery for most of his life. Besides, who is anyone to tell you what you should or shouldn't do? I don't think Donald Trump or any other Alpha who got surgery ever asked himself that question. Personally, I wouldn't do it. Before you take such a drastic step, consider other possibilities. Most guy actually have attractive underlying faci… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/20 01:05 AM |
| 0 | Second date rescheduledTaxis then. For God's sake man, stop rationalizing her excuses. The bad logistics were 100% your own fault, but I don't think it would have mattered. She isn't interested. She told me she is looking only for something serious, Forget that noise, it's all bullshit. Girls are usually "looking for something serious" only after they've been pumped and dumped, so that's a red flag in itself. If she ran into a hot European prince or soccer player or whatever all that "I don't have sex on the first dat… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 06:38 PM |
| 1 | How do I convince virgin GF to fuckFirst of all, you don't have a girlfriend. You have a female friend that you're orbiting. You're the male version of a slut - you've given her your time, attention, and commitment, and what you received in return? Jack shit, that's what. How can you say she's a "great girl" when she's just using you like a tool? There's nothing great about that. I'll tell you what's great - sliding into the exceptionally tight vag of an inexperienced girl on the first date, because she couldn't resist the opport… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Chick is asking me for a favor after flaking on meshe couldn’t really reschedule And why is that, exactly? She knew when she was coming back. A girl with high interest would have said something like "I come back X day, let's get together then." But I'm betting she didn't say that. The reason I believe she asked me this way is because she wanted to play it cool That's a retarded, baseless fantasy that you're concocting out of nothing. You think her coldness is somehow an IOI. Girls only "play it cool" with guys that they have zero interest in fu… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 05:49 PM |
| 0 | My location is fucking me overPakistani, Arab, who gives a fuck? They're all the same to people like me who bang ethnic girls. That's your problem right there. You have Arab girls or whatever on a pedestal, probably the result of Blue Pill upbringing. Meanwhile, Chad Thundercock just sees her as "hot tan girl." | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Apparently I'm good at kissing girls in a night club, but I think this breaks the tension too soonYou aren't aiming high enough, guy. Kissing is meaningless to girls in the modern era. They kiss their girlfriends, gay friends, and Beta orbiters. In a club setting, you're just shooting yourself in the foot. The guys getting laid are just walking up to her and saying "let's get out of here." | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 04:18 PM |
| 0 | Second date rescheduledtalked for ~2 hours. Way too long for a first date. Keep it under an hour. Either she's going to bang you or she isn't, dragging it out is only going to decrease your chances. 30-45 min in, I suggest going back to my place. If she says something like "let's wait a bit," I try again in 15-20 min. At that point she either leaves with me or the date ends. If she pulls a silly excuse out of her ass, like she has an interview on a Saturday afternoon, I end it right there and then. Why waste time? she… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 04:09 PM |
| 0 | My location is fucking me overYou live in Britainstan but you complain about location? Something's wrong with this picture. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 03:58 PM |
| 14 | Hobbies to increase SMV?High SMV hobbies require time and/or money by definition. If it were so easy, then everybody would do it and then it wouldn't confer any SMV bonus. That's why video games, for example, aren't sexual. You're searching for something that doesn't exist. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Chick is asking me for a favor after flaking on meBeta orbiter lmao, relax bro.. you’re overanalyzing the whole situation. You're doing a favor for a girl in hopes of getting sex in return. That's the very definition of Beta orbiter Game. This chick literally barely even knows me and there’s plenty of people that could help her out. Like who? Certainly not the Alpha that she's banging, that's for sure. If you understand how a females mind works you would know this is a huge sign that she wants me to come to her room because women don’t tend to … | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 03:40 PM |
| 6 | Chick is asking me for a favor after flaking on meShe doesn't want to fuck you. Get that ridiculous fantasy out of your brain. You're a Beta orbiter that she thinks she can use to help her do shit around the house, e.g. move furniture. If you're actually considering doing this then you have some abundance issues. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 03:02 AM |
| 2 | How often should u reply to texts and how often??Girls will definitely notice if you take a while to reply, but it only makes a difference if she's already into you. 'Texting Game' isn't going to make some girl who didn't want to fuck you in the first place change her mind. It's not going to get a second lay from a girl who really only wanted a ONS. What it (and many other forms of Game) can do is improve and maintain existing relationship with a girl who already has high interest. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 02:55 AM |
| 62 | Why Large Cities With High Incomes and High Earnings are a Bad Place For You to LiveThis argument is mostly bullshit. Much of what you discuss - the job, the degrees - is on the Beta Bucks side of hypergamy. Girls want to date or marry the millionaire doctor, but they want to fuck the hot landscaper or the bad boy drug dealer. You may perceive the gym bro to be "common," but he actually isn't. There aren't many guys out there with 15 inch biceps and 12% body fat, even in major cities. That's not Top 20%, more like 0.1%. I live in a major status-conscious city in the Northeast. … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/20 10:11 PM |
| 6 | Do women prefer lean or bulky guys?We need to be crystal clear about definitions here. Lean =/= skinny. Lean = low body fat. It makes a tremendous difference whether you're lean/skinny or lean/muscular. Women want the latter, e.g. good muscle definition, six pack abs, etc. You can also be bulky/muscular and just plain fat. I'd say that the hierarchy goes 1) Lean/muscular 2) bulky/muscular 3) skinny 4) fat If we're just going by body and not face, having the lean/muscular "shredded" look is very important for Tinder and its ilk. Y… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 08:06 PM |
| 6 | To build comfort or just go straight in?I hate when PUAs around here talk about "building comfort." Comfort is Beta Game. That's what you provide her after sex, not before. Alpha Fucks is about anxiety and urgency. Your approach is the correct one. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Need your help vettingJesus Christ. NO! These stories are a dime a dozen. Some guy comes in here every other week with the old "she's perfect, except…" Don't rationalize away obvious red flags. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 04:23 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with different chicks based on age?A 30 YO single woman will still get on Tinder or go to a club to fuck a younger guy if she hasn't gotten laid for a while. You asked about how to deal with different chicks based on age. I answered the question. The whole idea of "targeted responses" is pretty asinine. Women aren't computers where if you punch in a cheat code you get sex. The only productive conversation is on general similiarities. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 03:50 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with different chicks based on age?Here's my perspective as a 26 YO who has banged girls ranging from 18-27 over the last year. Young girls 18-23 just want to hookup and have fun. All you have to do is be hawt and assertive. Direct game works well here. Getting laid is as easy as "let's get out of here and go hang out at my place." Mid-20s chicks are more difficult. In high school/college, most girls live in a bubble. They don't encounter older men that often. But after graduation, they start interacting with a broad range of guy… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Any redpillers who have gotten nose jobs? Was it worth it?Big nose here. When I was a teenager I hated it. Now I see it as a positive. One girl that I was with for a while said that the nose was one of her favorite features. It was a dominance thing because hers was so small. I've gotten a lot of comments from Asian chicks especially. They really seem drawn to the big white man nose, as they require genetic diversity via my cock. You need to get over this. After all, big nose = big hose as the old saying goes. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Is there any chance of an LTR with this high status 10/10 intelligent girl in college?First, anyone who comes on here bragging about a "10/10" is a fool. She's not a 10. That's your ego talking. Second, why do you need friends to be with a girl? Is she gonna fuck your buddies too? Shut the fuck up and put your cock into her mouth. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Is it validation if you dirty talk with your gf?Stop overthinking dumb shit. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. What good is a GF, anyway, if you can't just tell her you wanna bang and then proceed to bang her? | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 09:25 PM |
| 13 | Drunk encounters of the 3rd kindI wouldn't bring up the Uber ride. She'll try to save face by saying she was drunk or that she doesn't remember, and then you'll just look thirsty. Hit her up at a later date as if nothing happened. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Unplugged and politics.My political opinions haven't really changed. I'm so far off the political spectrum by modern standards that I might as well be on Mars. More conservative on certain social issues, yes, but I've been a libertarian socialist for a long time now. Nothing about TRP really contradicts my overall worldview. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 08:15 PM |
| 23 | Any tips for those who are alone this NY?Stop worrying about New Years Eve FOMO. It's really no different than any other Friday or Saturday night, except every downtown bar and club is packed. I've done the whole club event on NYE thing. It sucked. I'm planning to chill with a few friends and maybe hit up a local bar later, but I've had other years where I just watched the Twilight Zone marathon with my mom or something equally mundane. Who cares? | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 05:24 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with a roommate who just doesn’t listen?There's nothing you can do. You can continue to scream and sputter all you want, but at the end of the day, you have no real power over the situation. You don't own the house. Being an annoying asshole isn't a crime. This is Exhibit A of why you don't want to sign a 12 month legal agreement with some rando...I've made this mistake as well. The solution is to buy earplugs and wait until the lease is up. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Slightly pussied out on raise negotiation. Could use adviceSounds to me like 20-25K was his opening offer and you just panicked in the heat of the moment. He probably expected a counteroffer and you didn't provide one, so of course he's happy to give you the minimum. But that's okay. You know for next time. It would help if we knew your base salary. 15K on top of 100K is pretty modest. To me, a 15K raise for generating ($1 million?) in additional revenue for the company is really undervaluing your contribution. You really have to think in terms of what … | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 04:48 PM |
| 7 | Have successfully smashed a 9, now what?What a weird flex of an essay. I've found that guys who brag about banging 9s are like guys who brag about being Alpha: it usually isn't true. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 04:30 PM |
| 4 | Third date - Says she doesn't want to come over afterThe idea that you have to get a girl comfortable with you before she will have sex with you. Comfort and familiarity are the basis for negotiated desire. This post is a textbook example. "I'd still be down to hang out but maybe not at your place after" is literally a negotiation of the relationship. This is where I think many PUAs get things terribly wrong. Many of them talk about "building comfort" and using "plausible deniability" to get her into bed. I don't believe in that shit. People seem … | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Found the RedPill 2 years ago, in cold approaching I'm a beast however when it comes to talking to girls online I just cant hack texting, usually leave me on read. How to get better?There's no such thing as 'Tinder Game.' There's only being hot and getting to the point quickly. She either wants to meet up and bang, or she doesn't. Most of the time it's going to be the latter, so don't put much effort into any individual match. Pivot the conversation toward meeting up within 5-10 messages. Make sure the date is within 72 hours. Even better if you can match, meet, and bang all in the same day. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Higher SMV as a shortcut to overcoming neediness?What does thinking have to do with The Red Pill? The guys that I know who bang the hottest girls are mostly dumb as a rock. They don't stand under the shower thinking about dumb pointless shit. They're not doing much thinking at all, really. I'll repeat: less thinking, more doing. There are many successful people who aren't terribly bright, but they're men and women of action. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Higher SMV as a shortcut to overcoming neediness?TRP talks excessively about hitting the gym and thereby raising SMV through physical empowerment. But TRP never really explains why this works, besides women liking in shape dudes better than fat asses. I sense a fat fuck or a skinny soy boy talking here. If you don't understand why this works then you probably don't lift. Less thinking more doing is the antidote to your asinine shower thoughts. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 08:30 PM |
| 6 | Third date - Says she doesn't want to come over afterYou answered your own question. Your instincts are exactly correct - she's just not that interested. You don't arouse her sexually. I don't need any more details on your situation to perceive that. College girls just want to hookup and have fun. Generally you either bang her on the first 'date', or you never do. I don't know if you ever had a chance to begin with, but whatever shot you did have ended up in your foot when you took her on two nonsexual dates. Now you're trying to sexualize it with… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 08:05 PM |
| 37 | Handling Fast NutThis is a non-issue. Girls will understand. I don't jerk off very often, so after a few days or a week I start getting horny af. One of my old girls thought it was hot when I would fuck her face and nut in her mouth in less than 10 seconds, or just fuck her in the backseat of my car because I couldn't wait until I got home to nail her. She got a thrill out of the urgency. The way you handle a fast nut is to simply wait and fuck her longer during Round 2, which is always easier. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Advise on finding clothing that fits good for muscular people?Not sure what you mean by "nice shirt," are we talking dress shirts? A good dress shirt you want tailored anyway. T-shirts get something with 5% spandex so it hugs your body in the right places. H&M and Express shirts are like this. Anything with "fitted" in the title works. You want to avoid generic baggy cotton tees (usually called regular or classic fit). Pants are hard because most are made for either skinny soy boys or fat fucks. You want something that says "athletic" in the title. I just … | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 02:08 AM |
| 3 | What are the rules for FIRST DATE ?The only rule for a Tinder date is to try to fuck her at the end. And really, this should be the rule for any date, but Tinder especially. If you're just going for the kiss and not the bang, you're shooting yourself in the foot. You have to remember that most Tinder Chads are straight up asking the girl to come over, so it's really easy to end up looking like a pussy in comparison. Keep the date short (an hour or less) and get to the point already. Not every girl will come home with you, but man… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 03:12 PM |
| 6 | I ran absolutely zero game on a girl who I've been friends with for 15 years and she's romantically in love with meI'm not reading this whole damn thing. Butterface who got pumped and dumped by some Chads now wants a relationship with a 'nice guy' who she also perceives to be above her in SMV. No big mystery here. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 02:54 PM |
| 0 | How many of you who are in supposedly monogamous LTRs have a side chick on the side?Did you miss the part about "when I was in college?" I wouldn't even hear about TRP until years later. Thanks for the input but I'm 26 now, dummy. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 12:17 AM |
| 7 | Best friend just roasts me. Also in front of LTRAll of this is your own fault. You hang out with this loser and then laugh along with his little jokes at your own expense. The reason why your GF goes along with it is because YOU go along with it. She takes her cues from YOU. I don't get why guys are saying to dump her when you being a pussy is what's causing her to behave like this. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 06:17 PM |
| 14 | Girl at work seductionI don't want to look like I'm trying to get her This is retarded. The Blue Pill teaches you to desexualize yourself. After all, girls don't actually want to get fucked into the next universe by a guy that they find attractive. Meanwhile, Alphas who don't hide their interest actually get to rail her while you go home and jerk off to porn. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 04:05 PM |
| 24 | How many of you who are in supposedly monogamous LTRs have a side chick on the side?When I was in a LTR in college, I constantly thought about banging other girls, especially when I went abroad to Asia. I was hot shit over there. IOIs from girls all the time. I was also inexperienced and still had a 1 n-count. There was one particular girl - one of the hottest I met there - that I seriously contemplated fucking when I was traveling around alone. She got my number and texted me about how handsome I was, etc. Instead of escalating I went back to my hotel room and jerked off. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 10:40 PM |
| 6 | Trouble dealing with reasoning behind shit tests, basically lose interest in a woman when her shit test challenges frame. Normal RP reaction or uncalibrated?There is a difference between shit testing and unfeminine behavior. That’s why you lose attraction. You got a lot of girls nowadays that think acting like a man with their shit talk is somehow endearing. Usually these are slutty types who also drink lots of hard liquor and engage in other high risk behaviors like a man would. I’ve noticed a lot of guys around here focus so much on passing shit tests that they don’t even realize she’s just being plain rude. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here seen results from being completely upfront and honest about sex?Fuck signals and signs. Nothing matters until you slide into her. That’s the only signal that matters for shit. I’ve had girls be all over me during the date and then not fuck me. I’ve had girls who seemed totally indifferent only to ride the hell out of me and cum into the next universe. You truly do not know until you escalate. The only reason guys care about signs is that they’re too afraid of getting rejected. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Last night I may have been the first man to have a girl completely naked and wet and not have fucked her.... what could’ve I done in this situation?she just didn’t want to have sex with you then. It’s really that simple. I don’t like meatloaf. Maybe I’ll try a bite every once in awhile at someone’s insistence, but I’m not gonna eat a whole serving. Suppose the person who made the meatloaf is hurt about it and spends all night analyzing what he could have done better....time that would have been better spent finding people who actually enjoy meatloaf. That’s what happened here. Forget her and move on. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here likes The Rationale Male's teachings but hates its writing style?No but it’s obvious the work wasn’t edited. He’s talked on his podcasts about a second edition of the rational male where he will fix these errors. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 03:10 AM |
| 4 | Anyone here likes The Rationale Male's teachings but hates its writing style?ADJ? That you? | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Last night I may have been the first man to have a girl completely naked and wet and not have fucked her.... what could’ve I done in this situation?I didn’t say hold her down and stick your dick in, dummy. I specifically mention teasing until she asks for sex. But really, are you so socially retarded that you can’t tell when a girl wants to have sex? | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 08:54 PM |
| 10 | Anyone here likes The Rationale Male's teachings but hates its writing style?Rollo is verbose. He himself admits to this. The Rational Male obviously could have used a strong editorial hand, but editors cost money. A self-publishing author doesn't have the resources to fix every typo and hire someone to polish the writing. As to the small font, Rollo has repeatedly explained that he wanted to keep paper costs down so he could sell the book at a lower price. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 04:15 PM |
| 14 | Last night I may have been the first man to have a girl completely naked and wet and not have fucked her.... what could’ve I done in this situation?Leaving aside the odd exposition on her "delicious pussy," let's walk through this. I didn’t really believe her when she said she was a virgin (TRP has made me untrusting of this). It's possible. She's still pretty young. But how attractive is this girl, really? In my experience, 'virgins' in their 20s usually aren't particularly good looking girls. At the end of the day, who really cares if she's a virgin or not. Every slut on planet Earth was a virgin at one point, doesn't mean squat. Most vir… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 04:00 PM |
| 1 | TinderNot sure if serious, but I pretty much go into Mode One when I'm on vacation and I don't have time to waste on a formal 'date.' It does work on some girls. You don't need to be lewd and crude, just say you're looking for a good time with a fun girl. That said, I'd strongly suggest that you don't go meet up with a rando in a dark park or hotel room. Guys do get robbed at gunpoint on Tinder doing stupid shit like this. You might not like the idea of meeting at a public place first, but just meetin… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Got a girl in bed, didn't pass LMR. What next?Managed to get HB9 in my bed Oh please, I'm sure she wasn't a 9. "I don't usually do this by 2nd date, let's stop"... Lie. And notice that little caveat "usually." Clearly she does sometimes...for the right guy, in the right situation. Any tips on how to pass that LMR shit test? Some people have a lot to say on overcoming LMR, but in my opinion, fuck that noise. LMR means that there is something mitigating her desire...she's just not that into you. I want girls that are excited to go home with m… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 12:39 AM |
| 3 | Imbalance in SMVa woman that does more to stand up to me. Why the fuck would anyone want that? No. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Is it true that growing a beard raises SMV?I grew a beard (the "light stubble" look) for the first time this year. 10/10 would recommend. Big boost on Tinder as well. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 12:22 AM |
| 13 | Has anyone here seen results from being completely upfront and honest about sex?There's a difference between being direct and unnecessarily blunt. Being lewd and crude usually isn't great Game. "How about we go back to my place so I can bang the fuck out of your hot tight 20 YO body" might be what you really think, but it is a shit transition. That said, I have never used 'plausible deniability' to get a girl back to my apartment. Around the 45 min mark during a date (always wear a watch), I'll suggest getting out of the bar and go back to my place to hang out. I literally … | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Lethargy since started lifting?Numbers dude, numbers. We're all just speculating until you provide actual figures. We need to know your height, weight, daily calories. Then we can start giving advice. Carbs provide fast energy and they also help you fall asleep. It's possible that your diet doesn't include enough carbs, although I would agree with the other commenters that you're probably just not eating enough. Sleep + Food = Recovery. Feeling lethargic all day long after lifting heavy weights means that one or both of these… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 11:42 PM |
| 5 | Are you a plate to your plates?Most plates break after a few months, dummy. Then she's on to the next dick. That definitely adds up over 5-10 years, but it's not like she taking a new cock every week. That's what the CC is for most girls, not the exaggerated fantasy that MGTOWs perpetuate based on a few outliers. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Should I redo college and go for a better experience this time?This is one of the dumbest ideas that I've ever read on here. The answer is obviously no. As a man, you will still appeal to college girls well into your late-20s and even 30s. I'm 26 and the youngest girl that I fucked this year was 18 and in high school, for Christ's sake. You missed out on some opportunities, but so do most guys in college. Get started now. I didn't even find TRP until I was 24 so you have a huge head start. As to drinking and all that crap, it's called going to the bar or th… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 03:55 PM |
| 1 | As a genuinely nerdy guy, how can I avoid the negative stereotypes associated with myself?I'm pretty similar to you in many ways. Just another douchebag with a boring computer job and mostly intellectual hobbies. I've become pretty good at bullshitting my way through the cubical job part and making it sound like something sexy and exciting. It really doesn't matter. All of that shit is the Beta Bucks side of hypergamy. I didn't get into lifting for my health. I got into lifting because I wanted to be arousing based on Looks while I continue working on building my life. Girls want to … | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Getting past desire for womenSo you like sex with attractive women, and you're good at getting it. Usually people enjoy doing things they are good at. This is normal. Jack Kennedy supposedly said that if he didn't get a lay for three days, he'd get a headache. The dude was obsessed with sex, but he still became POTUS. After Marlon Brando died, they found entire journals filled with notes about his innumerable sexual conquests. He mastered Game before anyone knew what Game was. Yet, he still had time to become one of the gre… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 03:06 PM |
| 8 | Are you a plate to your plates?I would say probably not, although she may try out someone else once it's clear that I won't commit. That's been my experience. Women biologically evolved to focus on one guy at a time. She may have orbiters and guys she's dating (but not fucking), but usually she isn't out getting railed by multiple men. Contrary to TRP fanbase's doomsday vision of all women as disgusting whores, most of them don't actually live these crazy sex lives. Promiscuous, yes, but not disgustingly so. For plates that l… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 02:43 PM |
| 5 | Lethargy since started lifting?My bullshit detector is going off. Have you been weighing and tracking your foods in MyFitnessPal? Do you have any idea about your macro intake? How many hours, exactly, do you sleep every night? Post numbers. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Serious question: Do you ever give a plate presents?A plate? No. That's pretty ridiculous. If she's a FWB or something approaching a girlfriend, then I would. I had a FWB that I dated (non-exclusively) for awhile, and I got her a small birthday gift after 7 months. Occasionally she would give me a book that she thought I would enjoy. It seemed natural to me at that point that we would do these things. We got to know each other as well as any boyfriend/girlfriend would. As someone here said, a present implies an emotional connection. It shouldn't … | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 06:18 AM |
| 3 | Tinder experimentThis is a great analogy. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 05:58 AM |
| 2 | How do you make yourself busy when you're really not?I know other millionaires, dummy. I admire them and try to emulate them. Several are still working into their 70s and killing it. There is nothing to admire about sitting around on your ass all day after hitting it big. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 05:21 PM |
| 6 | Drunk idiot vibe ain't charming???Drunk idiot vibe ain't charming??? No shit | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 03:51 PM |
| 5 | How do you make yourself busy when you're really not?My mom used to date a guy like this. When his dad died, he used his considerable inheritance to buy a commercial warehouse and retire in his 40s. The income from the warehouse is entirely passive, so he fills his days by spending time eating a leisurely breakfast at diners with old people and turning every minor errand into a major project. The guy is a millionaire, but in my opinion, he's one of the more pathetic figures that I've ever met. Soon after he quit working and lost his purpose, his w… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Experiencing A Lot Of LMR Recently From Womenafter talking to you guys here i have to admit that i might have been a little bit too direct and need to increase more of this emotional comfort part. Fuck that gay noise. Look, what you aren't understanding is that when a girl has real, visceral desire for you, you can be balls deep within 30 minutes of meeting her. Some guy in another thread talked about bouncing a chick around from place to place for hours before he got the lay. That's a total waste of time in my opinion. I'll do one drink w… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 03:00 PM |
| 7 | Experiencing A Lot Of LMR Recently From WomenI'm going to offer a different perspective than the other people commenting here. I fundamentally disagree with the idea of plausible deniability. Most of the girls I've banged in my life came back to my place knowing full well that we would have sex. I have literally never used a dumb excuse. I've gotten plenty of lays by simply suggesting that we go back to my place to hang out. I'm not lewd and crude, but I'm fairly direct about what I want and it often works out. I've probably also lost some… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 05:46 PM |
| 8 | Books similar to rational male for other aspects of life..Common Stocks and Uncommon Profits for investing. Mark Rippetoe's Starting Strength for lifting. Both of these books lay out straightforward, BS-free explanations and strategies for industries full of frauds and hucksters. That's why the Rational Male and Rollo appeal to me as well. Manufacturing Consent also Red Pilled me about the mass media. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 04:32 PM |
| 0 | Plate I've been spending more time with recently is getting to comfortable jokingly calling me a bitch.Who the fuck are these oversensitive hardos telling you to ghost? Here's what you should do: Her: You're such a bitch. You: (bemused tone) What did you just call me? Her: I said you're a bitch. You: You need to be slapped across the face for that mouth. Her: Daddy no. You: (grab her face and slap her, not so it hurts her too much though). Say you're sorry. Her: I'm sorry Daddy At least that's how it would have gone down for me. This is clearly a mild shit test and it should be treated as such. I… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 03:48 PM |
| 3 | best success u had with dating app bios?The best bios are slightly arrogant/funny without overdoing it. So in that sense your bio is really good. I wouldn't add any of that other shit. Less is more and if ain't broke don't fix it. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 03:37 PM |
| 8 | Tinder shit testI maintain that there's no such thing as a Tinder shit test. Girls on Tinder are either down to meet up and bang, or they're fishing for your validation and attention. If she's already giving you a hard time then your first date - if it even happens - probably won't go that well. Personally, I wouldn't even bother replying to that message. If you really want to try to meet this girl, though, then just totally ignore the comment and act as though she said yes. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 03:31 PM |
| 8 | Anybody else embarrassed as fuck after a night out?Stop drinking. Problem solved. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Question on dealing with virginsWhat about her? Again, if Jason Momoa came along, she'd rationalize somehow. God would understand, it's 'meaningless' sex so it doesn't count, or whatever. But like I said, most girls that I've come across claiming to be virgins after college have been pretty average or ugly. Hot girls aren't going to let their hotness go to waste like that. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 01:28 PM |
| 0 | Question on dealing with virginsWell that's up to you. I don't know why you need Daddy Red Pill's permission. I'd probably be content to keep nutting in her mouth while I bang other plates but that's me. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 06:36 PM |
| 2 | How to be a better conversationalist?I went on a date with a girl (6.5). Why a 6.5? Why not a solid 7+? Hotter girls are easier to bang and more fun in general. She brought her friends, Did you know she was bringing her friends? I would have walked out instantly. She doesn't need chaperones and you don't need cockblockers. I realized I fucked up big time, The only thing you fucked up was agreeing to this non-date with her friends. When a girl insists on bringing her friends, it means she isn't interested. If you replaced this girl … | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Question on dealing with virginsI know attraction can’t be negotiated and while I’m sure being a virgin adds some time, if she was down, she’d be down. This is the answer. However, the manosphere is rife with stories of virgins who made some poor chump wait for months, only to dump him and lose her v-card with a random hot Chad an hour after meeting him. So really, you're giving her too much credit. If Jason Momoa or whoever came along, all this virginity crap would go right out the window. A virgin is just a girl who hasn't m… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 04:39 PM |
| 6 | How much kino are you guys doing before closing?Kino comes pretty naturally when there's chemistry. That is, when you find her hot and she finds you hot and you're both enjoying the interaction, you're naturally going to be touching each other. And vice versa - when you aren't feeling the vibe, you naturally pull back. The idea of calibrating that strikes me as pretty weird, and it's probably going to come off as forced and creepy. I've had girls that I didn’t touch at all until we were in the bedroom. I've had girls that were all over me phy… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 04:10 PM |
| 25 | In your experience how often do women like being humiliated during sex(whore, bitch, slut etc)?Surveys have found that the overwhelming majority of women fantasize about rough sex. If I remember correctly, some studies have found it to be as high as 80%, and probably the last 20% just weren't admitting it to researchers. So the answer is yes. One particularly kinky girl that I was with for a while always looked forward to what I would come up with next. Some of what I said to her was so vile that it isn't fit for print on Reddit, but she fucking loved it and would often cum when I growled… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 03:43 PM |
| 4 | For apps, How do you reschedule without losing frame?I prefer the "when are you free?" approach. That way I can just pick from the days she gives me what best fits into my schedule. Yeah I know if Brad Pitt said "meet me tomorrow at X time" she would make it work, but this is Tinder and you aren't Brad Pitt. You haven't established much value yet. Even girls who really keen will only go so far for a random Tinder Chad. Doing it your way, I'd just leave it at "okay let me know when you're free" as the takeaway. She'll either get back to you if she'… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 04:54 PM |
| 7 | How to handle gym bros or "friends" hitting on sister?it’s not about you. This. Guy is taking his sibling's business and making it all about him. What kind of controlling weirdo would think about injecting himself into his sister's sex life? Your sister is an adult with adult desires. She's getting railed. Maybe not by your gym 'bros,' but certainly by someone. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 04:38 PM |
| 16 | Shit tests can be really confusingThen we walked side by side and talked alone and she'd say random shit like "I kinda have a thing for big and chubby guys, they make me feel small and secure" without being direct that she's talking about someone like me. The only thing that could have made this more obvious is if she flat out said "please hold me down and fuck my brains out." Hello McFly? Anybody home? She was clearly flirting with you. At least that's how I interpreted this story. You should assume attraction, anyway. What's t… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 04:26 PM |
| 1 | How important is having a low bodyfat level in terms of making face gains? (From Experience)The first post in this thread is the answer. You're clearly fishing for reasons not to exercise and eat right, because it's a lot easier to crack open a beer and sit in front of the television than get your flabby ass into the gym to squat heavy weights. People store body fat differently depending on their genes. Some people store fat evenly over the body. Many guys have it accumulate in the gut. But fat is fat and it's everywhere. When you drop fat, your face is going to change. I always had a … | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 09:41 PM |
| 3 | LTR claims to not like anal although she has done it beforeshe would “absolutely try and experience new things” with me if I wanted to You have to pay attention to the language here. It's not that she wants to, because clearly she doesn't. It's because you want to, and she's only doing it because she doesn't want to lose the relationship. All I can tell you is that the girl who lusted after me perhaps more than any other chick did all sorts of nasty shit with me. Anal sex, literally choking on my cock, piss play, a whole laundry list of ways where I dom… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 09:23 PM |
| 6 | LTR claims to not like anal although she has done it beforeYou need to read Rollo Tomassi's post "Saving the Best" on the Rational Male blog. Your case is a textbook example of what that essay is about. Ultimately you're the one who is best able to answer this question. We aren't there. I think the crux of the matter is whether she enthusiastically gave up her ass for her ex, or reluctantly 'let' him do it as she's offering now to you. The distinction is important. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 08:55 PM |
| 11 | Plate has lowered interest, any strategies I can use?You didn't have a date to begin with, guy. She essentially said no, so there was no plan to confirm. It was just you asking again when she already rejected you once. I think if she really wasn't interested at all she'd just not reply at all. Did you just wander onto this forum today? Her responding out of politeness doesn't mean she wants to fuck you. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 08:45 PM |
| 9 | Plate has lowered interest, any strategies I can use?I hit her up on Monday, said "let's do x on Wed" and she said "maybe, I'll see how I feel" The medium is the message. Maybe = no. It also shows lack of genuine desire on her part. Text her on Wed and say "hey let's do x" and she said "Hey I'm quite busy tonight". Didn't reply. I hate text for this reason. Should I just give her a call tonight or something? Maybe wait a few days? You should never sent that second text. Twice you've asked her out, and twice she rejected you. What makes you think c… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Higher Quality WomenBanging hot girls is like trying to get into Harvard. A lot of people want to get in there, but they're only going to take the best...unless you have a lot of money to buy your way in. That's what hypergamy is all about, guy. This should be self-evident. Lifting for a year isn't that long. It's going to take multiple years of lifting and eating properly if you want to bag 8s and 9s from Tinder. Use the search function to read the Tinder guides on the main sub. But understand that even the most s… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Higher Quality WomenUh, wrong. 8s and 9s are out there fucking as much as any other girl, and probably more. They're just not fucking you. Take hot girls off the pedestal. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Phone games - beta bait?I think you're overanalyzing this and being petty. Yeah, it's pretty rude if she puts you on hold so she can have a full on conversation with someone else who caught her attention in the moment. In that case I'd just say to call me back later or hang up. But taking one minute to pee doesn't strike me as a major offense. But like someone else said, why are you talking on the phone with a chick so long that needing to go to the bathroom becomes an issue? That's the real question here. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Is it ever okay to yell and/or argue with someone? Trp always preaches to keep your cool aka stay in your frame, turn the other cheek and let others live in their own misery.This is actually one of the major disagreements that I have with people around here. It all comes back to the advice to be "stoic" and in control of your emotions. The problem is, most natural Alphas actually have poor impulse control. They say and do whatever pops into their brains in the moment. They're impatient, easily annoyed, and confrontational. Just think about Alpha guys in the news...Donald Trump, Prince Philip, Steve Jobs, various rockstars, and so on. They're used to being in charge,… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 04:33 PM |
| 4 | Your Tinder pictures and bio?Nothing has changed, man. Muscles, low body fat, high quality pics of you doing cool things are still how get girls on Tinder. Nov - December is a slow period on Tinder. People are busy with holidays, taking finals, hiding from the cold weather, and that sort of thing. My matches decreased at this time last year, and they have decreased again now. Of course, just two more weeks until the January surge, so we got that to look forward to. Might be time to freshen up your pics. I can't prove this, … | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 11:13 PM |
| 3 | How do you come to terms with the lightswitch effect?I realize that. The question is how you come to terms with it. I think the answer in my situation also applies here. He had a good thing, but for whatever reason - he was too Beta for her, she found a guy she liked better, etc. - the relationship is over now. Nothing lasts forever. No one should be angry about that. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 10:35 PM |
| 2 | How do you have confidence, when you straight-up HATE your appearance?I don't think so. McGregor, despite being a redhead, is objectively extremely handsome and also keeps a fit body. If he were working at the grocery store he would still be pulling tail. If you're sitting on your ass all day in a cubicle, then get into the gym. Lack of exercise and a shit diet contribute to your pasty complexion. My skin improved drastically when I started lifting and eating right. Also, anyone can tan with enough sunlight if that really matters to you. That's how your body adapt… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 05:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you have confidence, when you straight-up HATE your appearance?I don't think Conor McGregor has any problem getting laid. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 04:32 PM |
| 12 | How do you come to terms with the lightswitch effect?Recently "broke up" with a FWB that I had dated for over a year. Even though we weren't exclusive (at least on my end), she was basically my girlfriend. She took it pretty hard. The light switch effect is a bit different when she sees you as Alpha. All of a sudden I was the world's biggest asshole, I was " fucking ugly," she was posting pics of our private conversations on social media, she was posting all about her new Beta boyfriend that she picked up a month after we ended (for my benefit, I'… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 04:05 PM |
| 9 | Has anyone else realized just how bad you were at picking up signals from easy/slutty girls? (2nd try)why didn't I pick up on signals from easy/slutty girls like this when I was younger? You did. You just didn't have the balls or knowledge to act on them. No balls is, in fact, the answer to most of the problems on this forum. And there are various reasons for that. Maybe you didn't have any masculine role model growing up (a Beta or absentee dad), perhaps you were conditioned not to be sexual by religion, could be that you were ugly until your 20s. Whatever the reason, you just didn't act. Human… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 10:24 PM |
| 1 | How should I describe boring STEM jobs to women?Tectonic plates...can't you come up with some creative line about studying earthquakes, or whatever? You need to take what you do and put it into terms that the average Joe on the street can understand. Try to make it sound fun and interesting, even if it isn't. I do a lot of statistics and risk analysis in my job. I sit in a cubicle all day and it's boring as hell. But since 99% of the world doesn't understand what I do, I can easily fill in the gap with bullshit that makes it sound a lot more … | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 06:30 PM |
| 6 | I match with girls on tinder but immediately get disinterested. Does this happen to anyone else?Extreme fear of rejection. Easy answer. For fuck's sake man, if you can't even send a quick "Hi [Name]" text to a random Tinder girl who doesn't even matter, how are you possibly going to succeed in a real life situation? Even the most successful Tinder guys only bang a small percentage of their overall matches. That's the nature of it. But with enough matches to choose from, Tinder is the easiest source of lays ever conceived. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 06:16 PM |
| 2 | did any of you become Chad? Describe how your life changed and how you live now.I wouldn't say that I became Chad, because Chad is an abstraction. He's contextual, and every girl has a different vision for her hypergamous ideal. I was still "Chad" to some girls even when I was fairly unattractive, Blue Pill, and much more Beta. The difference is that now I'm Chad for a greater number of girls. Even before I discovered TRP, I was already doing the basic sidebar shit on my own: lifting, improving fashion and grooming, going after girls just for sex rather than thinking about … | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Donovan Sharpe - thoughts?The thing about Donovan Sharpe is that he apparently needs to keep his girlfriend in check by force, which has nothing to do with TRP. He's mentioned having tracking software on her phone, for God's sake. This tells me that her desire for him probably isn't as strong as it should be, and he recognizes this in the back of his mind. A woman with genuine desire won't need to be told not to go out with her friends. She'll do it all on her own. That's what Donovan is missing. On the other hand, Rollo… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Not being alpha at workWhen you work for someone else, you're in a submissive position by default. You can yell and scream and make as much noise as you want, but at the end of the day, you can't force the boss to do what you want to do. Dealing with work is a lot like dealing with women. You can get your boss to please you instead of the other way around...but only if you're perceived as being high value for the company. And if you're not perceived as high value, then you should be prepared to quit. Sounds like you d… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 07:37 PM |
| 5 | Tinder girls only want ONS or one time hook up right ?Newsflash: girls like casual sex, too. As we all know, Tinder is basically a hookup app. Girls go there so they can have fun, feelz-free sex with hot guys. Then they delete you. Later in life, you'll be one of those lays that "doesn't count" because it was "meaningless" sex. What do we always say around here? Alpha FUCKS, Beta bucks. Most of my Tinder meets have been ONS. I've also had a few short-term plates, and one girl that I dated (nonexclusively) for over a year. But even those plates star… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 09:36 PM |
| 2 | I have a date tonight with a higher SMV girl than I’m used to. More than likely will fail, so what are some “exercises” I can apply to this date so that I can develop a stronger frame in future dates?Don't despair. In my experience, hotter girls are actually easier to bang than average girls. The average girl has a lot more to lose. A hoe is unattractive enough, but an ugly hoe is pretty much the bottom of the barrel. They have to hang on to whatever value they do have. Consequently they're much more suspicious of your intentions and more difficult to bed. 7+ are more comfortable with sexuality. I also find hotter girls to be more pleasant company in general. As with all things, YMMV, but it… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 09:17 PM |
| 1 | I'm at 180 pounds at 6'0 and eating 1500cal a day, and getting 70-100g of protein minimum daily. I also hit the gym 3 times a week, but my love handles and butt just won't shrink much. What can I do for this?70-100 g of protein is really low. The general rule of thumb is 1 - 1.2 g of protein per pound of bodyweight. You should be shooting for 215 g of protein. So that's the first thing. 1500 calories is also excessively low. I'm 5'9" and I hemorrhage weight at 2000 calories a day during a cut. This tells me that you're either A) undermuscled to begin with and thus lack metabolism, B) you aren't tracking/weighing your food in MyFitnessPal C) You aren't doing any high intensity cardio. Probably a comb… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 09:29 PM |
| 1 | If you’re inviting a girl over for the weekend, should you invite a girl over at the start of the week/when you feel like you wanna bang or should you wait till Friday/near the weekend?Try not to make a date more than 48-72 hours out. That's a pretty basic rule of thumb. In my experience, even earlier is better. Ideally you'll meet within 24 hrs of making first contact or even that very same day. You don't want to give her ADD brain time to flit to the next shiny object/Chad that enters her field of vision. In your case, ask her on Wednesday for a Friday or Saturday date. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 09:18 PM |
| 3 | 2nd date with a shy nerdy chick has turned into a double date with her sister and sisters bf....what’s going on here?Im the experienced older (23) bad boy in her view if I had to guess. Only in your imagination. You claim to have "rock solid" frame, yet you're acquiescing to this stupid vetting process for a whiff of pussy. Maybe if she was 9/10 but if I had to guess she's probably a 5 or a 6, because a shy nerdy virgin in college probably isn't very attractive in the first place. In my experience, girls < 22 are the easiest to bang. That's what the party years are all about, guy. It's the reason why, at 26, I… | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Transgirls?I swear this must be a troll. Dude, you're dealing with another MAN, essentially. All the fake tits and makeup in the world can't change that. You follow the gay male playbook, which is to be 100% upfront: "Wanna hook up?" | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Tinder shit test possibly?There's no such thing as a "Tinder shit test." She probably isn't that interested. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. Of all the girls I've banged from apps, I can't think of a single one who gave me a shit test on the app. In fact, almost all of them made it abundantly clear that they were interested. You might get tested in real life once you meet, but not on the app. Honestly if you're even thinking more than 10 seconds how to respond to a random Tinder hoe then you don't have enough matches/… | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Have she lose interest or she is just an introvert?The only reliable indicator of interest is the moment you slide into her. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 06:21 PM |
| 3 | The ol "I'll let you know"Oh my bad I thought you were the OP. OP, if you read this, the above is directed at you and I think it still applies. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 09:39 PM |
| 1 | The ol "I'll let you know"it might be better to just relegate them to a maybe fuck on a quiet night. That's the definition the "soft next". You aren't flying into a rage and vowing to never contact her again. That's why I said if she reaches out with the old "what are you up to tonight?" then by all means, tap that. There's obviously no such thing as total outcome independence, but your post demonstrates that you're really stuck on this girl. You clearly aren't texting five hotties the same "What are you up this weekend?… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 06:48 PM |
| 1 | How would you respond to a dorm mate/former plate [F21] that tries to shit test you by asking if it’s cool if she brings someone over & if I can be somewhere else for a while?what’s the best way to respond to establish optimal power on my end & destroy any further attempts of this annoying & childish tactic You're doing the same damn thing with your Vegas social media attention whoring. You slam other girls yet get butthurt when she sleeps with other guys? Get over yourself. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Fucked up LMR - need advice for the futureFucked up LMR A lot of guys will give a different answer, but in my view there's no such thing as LMR. There is only desire and lack of desire. When you encounter "LMR," it simply means that you don't arouse her sufficiently. If she wanted to bang, then you would be banging. It's so simple that it takes a genius not to see it. As Sun Tzu said, every battle is won before it is ever fought. she said that I look a bit butthurt when I disengaged Probably because you did. Girls instinctively pick up … | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 04:35 PM |
| 6 | The ol "I'll let you know"Dealing with the classic "I'll let you know" text. The medium is the message. "I'll let you know" = not interested. Move on. This is so simple that it takes a smart guy like you not to see it. How many hours have you spent thinking about this situation and formulating the detailed replies in this thread? You're clearly obsessed with this "9", but she obviously doesn't feel the same way. This isn't complicated, guy. Stop worrying about something that you can't control and start gaming other girls… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Living alone vs roommatesI don't see how the cost difference could possibly be "negligible" but we'll leave that aside. Having no roommates is obviously better than having bad roommates, but for me, having great roommates is best of all. My two roommates are my best friends. When I go out, it's often with them as my companions. I like the socialization because I spend a lot of my time working with older people or on solo business ventures. So there's the answer - find roommates that you actively enjoy rather than roomma… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Am stuck at either being only friends or having sexI don't get it. Who is friendzoning who here? | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 07:54 PM |
| 7 | Going out of your way to chase girls vs focusing on yourselfSo why aren't you on Tinder? Or hitting up bars/clubs/parties where people go specifically to meet the opposite gender? You're in college, for fuck's sake. There are hot girls everywhere. You just aren't approaching them. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Advice on a potential LTR?There are two parts of your mind on display here. The rational side lays out logical reasons why she's a good prospect...the cooking, her attractiveness, the chill personality. On the other hand, your instinctual side - the "gut" - knows something is amiss, and that something is her lack of enthusiasm in the bedroom. It doesn't feel right because it is, in fact, not right. A girl who's really into you will beg to choke on your cock and WANT to do all sorts of crazy shit. Even if she isn't experi… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | I fuck on the first date easily but never hear from them againI fuck on the first date easily but never hear from them again This is a problem? In all seriousness, I understand because I'm in the same boat. In fact I recently had a girl unmatch and ghost minutes after I left her apartment. Yeah, I think it's better to have semi-regular plates or a solid FWB, but I'm not complaining about the slew of ONSs either. It's Tinder. It might be better if you texted the next day rather than a few days later. Maybe not leave immediately like another guy said and ins… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Flakes on third date at my place. Next move? Right mindset?I think she sees me as a good LTR prospect and doesn’t wanna give it up that easy. No. She probably sees you as somewhat Beta and feels neither the need nor the desire to give it up. That's the angle that you and so many other supposedly Red Pilled guys somehow can't comprehend. If she wanted to have sex with you, then you'd be having sex. It's so simple that it takes genius not to see it. You just haven't been able to trigger that desire in her. If Jason Momoa invited her over, the only ache sh… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 03:43 AM |
| 7 | Do women often do a 180 on you for seemingly no reason at all?because next day was work day and I didn't have intention of trying to bring her home to fuck. Work the next day? Unless your boss is fucking Donald Trump or whoever then obviously you can spare an hour or two of sleep to pound her out. No, the real reason is that you were too scared to escalate and try to bring her back home. In her mind you're a confirmed Beta because an Alpha would have been able to close, or at least he would have tried. Opportunities for sex are often fleeting because women… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Do women often do a 180 on you for seemingly no reason at all?If she puts out on the first date, you know she’s a hoe Or she sees you as hot/high enough value which is a good thing. Or maybe she just hasn't had sex in a year and wants it badly. I agree with the rest but this is a dumb statement. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 08:52 PM |
| 4 | If she doesn't fuck on the first date, you give her a second chance, but not third?Is this place going soft? Forget this second or third date bullshit. With almost every girl that I've had sex with, it happened on the first "date" (and I use that term loosely). I truly don't understand why any red-blooded male would wait unless there's reason to believe it's going to happen next time. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 07:39 PM |
| 4 | How to lift? Should i run 3km a day?Your problem is that you aren't clear on what your goals are. You ask how to "build your body" but then in the next breath complain about "significant belly fat." You can't attain both goals simultaneously. If you want to build muscle mass, then you need to stop running, get on a beginner lifting routine like Starting Strength, and start eating a caloric surplus. You will likely get fatter, but your overall body composition will improve. Once your gut becomes too unattractive, THEN cut calories … | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 05:17 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with these 2 tinder situations?Barely even the read the body of your post. Forget these bimbos and move on to other matches. They aren't interested. If you don't have any other hot matches then your profile sucks balls. Read /u/mallardcove's guides. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 05:07 PM |
| 11 | Is Sapiosexuality real?There is obviously no such thing as sapiosexuality. That's a ludicrous fantasy for nerds. Intelligence may be attractive, but it certainly isn't arousing. The examples that you cite are pretty silly. Musk is a billionaire and famous around the world. Dostoevsky was one of the most eminent Russian writers of his day. Status is what gets guys like that laid, not intelligence. Show me a poor, ugly, and obscure genius and I'll show you a guy who isn't getting any. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that upbringing is the key factor?I wonder if I found my well trained unicorn. Nurture vs nature? I get that AWALT and all that, but surely there are exceptions even to this rule? No, no there aren't. And family background isn't terribly relevant. There are good girlfriends from bad families and bad girlfriends from good families. There are loyal sluts and cheating good girls. Get the picture? The unicorn fallacy is really just an excuse that guys use to slack off in life. I found a perfect faithful unicorn...now I can basically… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 03:41 PM |
| 10 | "Good girls" who claim to be in love with a beta maleThat's the front that they put on for social media, which is a total smokescreen. You really have no idea what's going on behind the scenes. Just yesterday my high school buddy's GF posted a long love letter to Facebook. Sweet girl, by all accounts. Just a few months ago I saw her on Tinder...no doubt "taking a break" or whatever. Not an uncommon situation. The girl publicly has a Beta bf...meanwhile, she's getting railed in private by Alphas. As to the good girls who do stay faithful, life isn'… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 03:31 PM |
| 0 | Is she testing my frame by saying no sex, but still driving all the way to see me?well good for you. But I don't think that negates anything that I said. Would she say of this shit to Jimmy Garoppolo? You never answered that question. Girls still have sex with guys they aren't that interested in for various reasons. If that's your thing, then you go ahead. But I'm going for the girls who aren't going to jeopardize an opportunity for sex with me with asinine nonsense. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Is Imposter syndrome normal?Yeah I know the feeling. Why the fuck is this hottie interested in me? What's going to happen when she finds out that I'm really not all that interesting, funny, or charming? Sometimes I even thought I was being scammed...that if I did go that Tinder girl's house for sex, I'm gonna get ambushed and robbed, because what girl would honestly want me that much to bang me right away like that? Girls are interested in you, so this is a good problem to have. It takes time to internalize sudden success.… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 09:10 PM |
| -3 | Is she testing my frame by saying no sex, but still driving all the way to see me?I think it’s just a shit test No, it really isn't. She just doesn't want to fuck you, guy. It's really that simple. Stop and think about what you're saying right now. If she was going to meet Jimmy Garoppolo, would she even mention this sniffles bullshit? Would she tell Jimmy Garoppolo "no hanky panky?" This is a waste of everyone's fucking time. Cancel, ghost, move on. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Where did I go wrong?90% of the time we're ripping each other's clothes off within minutes of walking in the door in this situation. The other 10% of the time I don't worry about. Lack of desire...it's really that simple. People here analyze the fuck out of individual failures which is a complete waste of time. Who gives a damn that some bimbo wouldn't fuck you? Forget her and move on to a girl whose pussy has already been wet for you the whole night. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Escalating with a girl who is a virginYou're being strung along. She isn't that into you. Genuine desire is minimal. NEXT. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 06:52 AM |
| 4 | Where did I go wrong?Lack of genuine desire on her part. Next. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Got a number and solid IOI's but cant make plans for over a weekThis is more of a general question but is two weeks too late for a first real meetup? If she's really keen, then no. Key word being "really." Most girls will flake on a random guy if you don't make the date within a few days of getting her number. The reality of the world is that you can't always do this. Timing is not discussed much on here, but it's a very important factor that you can't control. In these cases, I let the girl know upfront that I'm busy and that I will hit her up in a few days… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 05:56 PM |
| 3 | College class is filled with all women. Should I not shit where I eat?One of my big regrets in life was not taking advantage of the college fuckfest. I didn't know how. You're on this forum, so you have the tools. There will never be another time in your life when you're surrounded by as many peak SMV girls. You don't want to look back a few years after graduation and think about what could have been. There's a movement afoot that is trying to convince guys that college is a sex-free zone like the work environment. That's a bullshit campaign meant to filter out Be… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 02:13 PM |
| 3 | Matched with me to talk shitWomen thrive on indignation. Could be that she's interested, could be that she just wants to start shit out of boredom and isn't interested at all. The only way to find out is to ask her out. That said, I would go with a less douchy bio if you're serious about getting dates/lays and not just in it for the lulz. She already decided whether you're fuckable based on your pictures. The bio can only hurt you, it will never make her want to have sex with you. Keep it fairly neutral. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 02:13 PM |
| 4 | Not seeing much interest from despite being conventionally attractiveGirls in your age bracket (18-22) are really only asking themselves one thing: is he hawt? Having high social status helps...it's NYC, after all. But Looks are still the main factor. Girls don't give a shit about your test scores. They don't give a shit about your hobbies (unless you're out there in MMA competitions in front of an audience or whatever). The fact that you listed them to qualify yourself tells me that perhaps your mindset needs work, because you don't really understand what appeal… | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 01:53 PM |
| 19 | ADVICE NEEDED: Ran into a guy who used to bully me todayThis is similar to guys who pine over some girl who rejected him long ago. You think if you can just bang that girl, if you could just teach that bully a lesson, then finally you can conquer your past and defeat the inner Beta once and for all. It doesn't work like that. You can't make the present better by rewriting the past. You can only make the present better by writing the future. What's done is done, and you can't undo that. Even if you "get even" with this loser, you will still have to li… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 01:56 PM |
| 1 | On Being Backstabbed by "Bro"Dude. Chicks dig that irrational self-confidence. You really need to get that through your head. I mean, look what happened. Despite everything you're saying, your perfect dream girl STILL gave him her number. Think about that. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 01:46 AM |
| 2 | On Being Backstabbed by "Bro"The guy is empty and full of shit. Doesn't matter. Don't you get it? He's the Alpha here, and you're the irrelevant Beta. He may be a selfish prick who talks a big game, but he has that irrational self-confidence. That's like crack for girls. You hate this guy's guts. Meanwhile, your "good" girl ONEitis is probably secretly thinking about what it would be like to have sex with him. You should imagine your good girl sitting around masturbating to the thought of Mr. Asshole railing her hard, becau… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 05:46 PM |
| 1 | I am doing starting strength from 9 months. I want to be jacked. I am not sure if I should keep bulking or start cutting next?Practical Programming is a starting strength guide. That really isn't going to help you at all now. It's right there in the title - Starting Strength. You're beyond that now. Move on to another program. Resets don't really work, as Jordan has explained. I "reset" several times with no success, wasting a lot of time in the process. When you stall, move on to higher volume. You aren't in this to become a competitive powerlifter. I really don't care about abs or 15% body fat. My goal is to cold app… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 03:58 PM |
| 4 | I am doing starting strength from 9 months. I want to be jacked. I am not sure if I should keep bulking or start cutting next?Starting Strength is a good program. The problem is that you ran it way too long. 9 months is the absolute MAX that Rip recommends in the book. For most people, 3-4 months is probably more appropriate. What you need now is more volume. You can't get "jacked" without putting in more reps. After SS I switched to Jordan Feigenbaum's Bridge program, which you can get for free on his site. In three months my body weight went up by around 8 lbs, but my waistline shrank. In other words, I lost body fat… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 02:56 PM |
| 3 | On Being Backstabbed by "Bro"my eyes were caught by the younger sister of a friend. Why are you going after your friend's sister? Scarcity mentality right there. That's a recipe for a broken friendship. There will always be other girls, but new friends are much harder to come by. I see in the comments that this is a female friend. Still a bad idea...if things went bad you would be ostracized from your social circle. I've seen it happen many times. From that on, he is acting all talking and saying that he is going to steal h… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Currently in an okay relationship with an okay girl, what to do??Typical anti-Red Pill strawman argument. There's nothing wrong with young guys coming here to get laid and date non exclusively like mature adults. Very few of them would actually want to live the Dan Blizarian lifestyle or whatever. They just want to be touched and feel that genuine desire from women that they find attractive. They want to have options. You think you're the wise older man, but you actually have a very adolescent, immature view of relationships. I know this because you talk abou… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Currently in an okay relationship with an okay girl, what to do??But a part of me also wants to fuck hot younger women and have my own place. Invite women from my classes back to my own place for mind blowing sex. Then calling up another girl later that night and fucking her. I want to take steroids and get jacked as shit and post better photos on my tinder and have countless sexual relations. And I want to be able to go wherever I want whenever I want and fuck whoever I want. All of this is just masturbatory fantasy. You're a fat fuck with a Blue Pill mindse… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Went out on a “date” with a chick but ended up deciding I was too tired.I stopped reading when you admitted that you aren't into her. You're wasting both her time and yours. Stop it. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 03:31 PM |
| 1 | I have the confidence to walk up to any girl and open, but I don't know how to keep the momentum going. Conversation tends to die offToo much talking and too little doing, I think. Girls don't go to clubs to have long conversations. They're going for action. They want to drink, dance, and have fun. You need to escalate. Whenever I lose a girl in a bar/club setting it's 100% because I went on talking too long. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Made out with a girl in the bar, got her number and now she has not replied to my two texts.What did I do wrong besides the cringey text calling her beautiful? -trying to bring her home prematurely and in front of her friends...she doesn't want to look like a hoe -badgering her about going out after she already declined going home with you -asking her out for dinner, too much investment for someone you just met -calling her number immediately to make sure it was correct she didn't give you a fake number And that's just what we know about. I'm sure you were also giving off needy Beta vi… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 02:46 PM |
| 10 | Coming to terms with being attractiveOf course. From my teens up through my early 20s I was the typical incel nerd invisible to girls. Didn't kiss or get laid until I was 21. Even before I found TRP I had started changing everything about myself...grooming, style, started lifting. I remember the first time an HB8 girl called me "really hot" after we made out. I truly thought this girl was way out of my league. It was stunning. Or the first time two different girls checked me out and said "you have a nice ass" as I was walking home … | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 02:59 AM |
| 19 | Saw something suspicious on LTR’s phone... how to proceed?I don't see anything wrong with snooping at all. If you're investing in a company, you want an independent auditor going through their books so you can be sure that nothing fishy is going on. You've invested a lot of time and resources into this girl. I think you have a right to know if your feelings are reciprocated. In the beginning few months (honey moon phase) she would definitely initiate a lot more. I don't want to make you paranoid with probing questions, but you have to pay attention to … | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Invited over by Tinder women and no SexI had something like this happen once. We matched on Tinder while I was helping my sister move into her college apartment, so I was only in the area for the day. I basically invited myself over to her place with some drinks. She was probably one of the least friendly girls I've ever met off Tinder. Like you said, her vibe was cold. We drank while sitting on her couch. Her body language was a bit standoffish. It really didn't seem like she even wanted me there. Eventually I asked for the "grand t… | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 07:58 PM |
| 45 | Saw something suspicious on LTR’s phone... how to proceed?Need more details. Do you ever have sex without a condom? The Google search may be from some prior occasion. Perhaps she was searching on behalf of a friend or something. Or, of course, she banged someone else while you were away. There's really no way to confront her about it without sounding insecure, because asking demonstrates insecurity by definition. It appears you have access to her phone. Why not just snoop while she's in the shower? You say nothing in her behavior indicates loss of affe… | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 07:26 PM |
| 3 | I can NEVER love her the way she wants me to love herstill end up alone and miserable with a life full of regrets. Or you could live the most Blue Pill life possible and have your wife, whom you haven't banged in decades, impatiently wait for you to die so she can finally be free. More than likely you will die of respiratory or heart failure while no one else is around, anyway. You won't even know what's happening. All of that "you will die alone" nonsense is really just BP scare tactics. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/19 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Tinder Tips and TricksCorrect, especially the part about backwards rationalizing. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/19 08:47 PM |
| 4 | Tinder Tips and TricksI've dated 40-50 Tinder/Bumble girls in the last year. I thought that was a lot, but there are guys who do 100+. In the end I don't actually hit up all the phone numbers that I accumulate. Plate spinning is a hobby to me, not a second job. Obviously it's ideal when she just comes straight to your place (or vice versa). Most of the time that won't happen, though. In that case I just get a drink at a casual bar. I bring younger girls to a local place that lets in <21 before 9PM, then I discreetly … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/19 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Tinder Tips and TricksText. Read the section on Snapchat. Generally I'm going after girls 18-25. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/19 09:33 PM |
| 7 | Tinder Tips and TricksBuilding the profile. The other guides that I mention cover that and converting matches into dates. The latter is more about avoiding time wasters; girls who are interested will make it easy. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/19 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Seducing a Shy 22 YO Russian Girl: A Case Study in ResistanceFunny how people come on to this forum and obviously haven't done any reading of the masters. Roosh, 2011. "You Still Need Game to Bang Sluts" | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/19 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Seducing a Shy 22 YO Russian Girl: A Case Study in ResistanceYou wanna know why I never wrote a field report? Because no one wants to read about me walking into a girl's apartment and being balls deep within minutes of meeting her. Now THAT is easy. And by the way, you still need Game to bed a slut. In fact sluts usually take more skill to bang. Roosh has written about this if you care to check it out. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/19 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Seducing a Shy 22 YO Russian Girl: A Case Study in ResistanceNot sure how you got to that conclusion. I’ve had many situations like this in the past that didn’t end in sex, which is why I found this instructive. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/19 10:38 AM |
| 13 | Seducing a Shy 22 YO Russian Girl: A Case Study in Resistance/u/mallardcove 's Tinder guide series | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/19 03:01 AM |
| 7 | Seducing a Shy 22 YO Russian Girl: A Case Study in ResistanceThe percentage of total matches that I ultimately bang is probably in the low single digits. I get flaked on all the time. Annoying and inefficient, but that’s just part of being on Tinder | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/19 11:28 PM |
| 7 | Seducing a Shy 22 YO Russian Girl: A Case Study in ResistanceAgain. I’ve seen “Chad’s” messages that she didn’t reply to. My friend is an actual Chad who gets thousands of tinder matches. I’ve read the guides that handsome men provide. And not for nothing, but Im not exactly an uggo myself. That’s how I know. I didn’t say it NEVER works. Clearly it does occasionally. Personally I think a guy is throwing away lays like that but to each his own | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/19 11:20 PM |
| 17 | Seducing a Shy 22 YO Russian Girl: A Case Study in ResistanceWell first of all, I've seen the messages and heard the stories from the girls themselves. I assume these guys are at least as good looking as me. Probably more so. I consider myself attractive and do pretty well on Tinder. You can also read plenty of Tinder testimonials written by actual Chads that show that being crass doesn't work very often. But hey, if you think that's how it works, how about you go ahead and open 100 girls with that line and write your own field report to disprove me. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/19 10:23 PM |
| 26 | Seducing a Shy 22 YO Russian Girl: A Case Study in ResistanceHaha no. She taught me some words but I forget already. Tough language. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/19 08:38 PM |
| 14 | Seducing a Shy 22 YO Russian Girl: A Case Study in ResistanceSpoiler! Yes that's the one. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/19 08:37 PM |
| 2 | The tinder date came home to me and fucked, wanted to see me again but flakedI proposed a new date for the weekend and she said sure. Here's what I do after a same night lay. The next day, I'll text her something to the effect of "I had fun last night. Let's do it again sometime." She'll reply that she had fun too and that she's down to meet again. So far, I've never had a girl not want to see me again. But it's crucial to play it cool and keep things fun and casual. You had sex on the first "date." In her mind, that puts you into the "casual hot Alpha" category. That's … | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Anyone notice most that most Chad's/alphas tend to be very positive people rather than dark triad?Oh God, this conversation. Again. Alpha in the boardroom, Beta in the bedroom. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Sketchy Tinder Situation - Need AdviceObviously it isn't unheard of for girls to simply invite you over for sex on Tinder. If your profile/SMV is good enough, you'll get this occasionally. Any self-respecting man should still take precautions. At the least, I insist she meet me outside the house. I've always had good experiences with these pure hookups. That said, this was obviously sketchy. Many girls drink before a date due to nerves, but to get sloppy is unacceptable. Never fuck a drunk girl. You did the right thing, although nex… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 03:25 AM |
| 10 | Why do Asian women look so young? Still go for it or any negative aspects I am missing ?10 Minute after she left she texted me that she misses me already. I thought this was kind of odd - but we were both kind of drunk, whatever. She wanted to bang, you doofus. Should have just invited her over on the spot. Stop texting endlessly and give her what she transparently wants. Set up a meet and fuck the shit out of her. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Anyone notice most that most Chad's/alphas tend to be very positive people rather than dark triad?Off topic...but no. Buffett is textbook Beta. His first wife Susie - who was a dopey airhead, by the sound it - really wasn't that into him, but he persisted like the Blue Pill teaches with grand romantic gestures. Eventually she relented when her parents pressured her to marry him. After the kids were grown, she left him to "get a space of her own" or some shit like that...e.g. go fuck a bunch of strange cock before she was too old and ugly. I will give Susie credit for waiting until their kids… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Girl flakes date after she showed initial interest.Dude. She clearly isn't interested. Guys will say three strikes but usually I give up after one. Why? Because within a week the texting convo is buried under a dozen more and I've moved on to other Tinder matches or whatever. Pretty soon I forget she even existed. That's why you need abundance. You wouldn't be on here asking this question if you were pursuing many leads. As to handling this situation, agreeing to meet after even one flake is usually a waste of time. You can forget about getting … | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Girl flakes date after she showed initial interest.Don't say this. You're sub-communicating "Your time is more valuable than mine so I'll make time for you on your terms." Disagree. I said "let me know when you're free" a few days back, and she did indeed hit me up the next day. Met up, went back to my apartment, banged. You aren't saying "I'm free whenever." There's no implicit promise that you will also be available. Usually, of course, she never does let you know when she's free. But it isn't 0% success. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 04:23 PM |
| 13 | Anyone notice most that most Chad's/alphas tend to be very positive people rather than dark triad?I don't doubt that Branson or Warren Buffett are genuinely pleasant in their personal relations. But you don't become a billionaire by playing nice. You just don't. Buffett's negotiation style is basically my way or the highway. He tells you what he's offering and that's it. No compromise. But you still feel good about it because you're associating with Buffett, one of the most iconic businessmen in the world. He is extremely conscious of his public image. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 03:12 PM |
| 34 | Fat power lifter guy at gym being arsey and threatening, how did I handle it and how can i prepare for situations like this in the future?Well...to be fair, it is pretty rude to leave the weights on the bar. Basic gym etiquette to take them off. The fact that "everybody else does it" isn't relevant. Leaving that aside, why not just ignore the dude when he said to put the weights back? What's he gonna do about it? I don't see what there is to gain by confronting him. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Considering pulling the plug on FWB, thoughts?Few things though to raise - I wasnt her orbiter ever. Bullshit. even offered relationship advice with her ex. I.E. you were also an emotional tampon, one of the jobs of the Beta orbiter I wasnt trying to smash. So why are you smashing now? Obviously you are/were attracted. You just rationalized that you weren't "trying" as a buffer against rejection. I entered the fuckzone because I'm not some speckled virgin with 0 game. No. My guess is she's either closing in on the epiphany phase, or you jus… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 02:52 PM |
| 3 | What is your personal opinion on eye contact?I used to have problems making eye contact with people. The problem is that when I was trying to overcome that, I swung too far in the opposite direction. Unflinching eye contact is just plain creepy. One girl actually told me that I gave off an "American Psycho" vibe...definitely not what you want to go for. Do look down or away occasionally as you're gathering your thoughts like a normal person. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 02:42 PM |
| 6 | Considering pulling the plug on FWB, thoughts?Long term friend turned FWB Let's start at the beginning of this clusterfuck. So you were friendzoned for a decade and then all of a sudden she decides to throw you a bone. Why do you think that is? Just because you somehow entered the fuckzone after all these years as an orbiter doesn't mean she now sees you as her Alpha dream man. Women still occasionally have sex with their Beta orbiters. I feel she is being more distant - less attention from her and less affection Just listen to yourself, ma… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 12:20 AM |
| 20 | How long do you wait to text?I feel like waiting a week or two just to fuck with her, because I know she has nothing else going on. That's utterly retarded. The Red Pill isn't about playing games. She already gave you big IOIs. Do yourself a favor and learn to take yes for an answer. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 12:01 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys have plates that aren't FWBs?I don't doubt that some guys really do behave like this. Certainly not a majority, though, or anything close to a majority. As I said before, a plate is a girl that I mainly just have sex with. She will come straight to my house (or vice versa) to hang out and bang. Usually we'll have some drinks or I'll order takeout if it's dinner time. But we don't go out and do conventional dates. We aren't seen in public together. Her friends may know that I exist, but I've never met them. Most plates that … | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 02:38 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys have plates that aren't FWBs?But you guys talk about plates like you shoot them a text basically saying "come and get it", do the deed and then leave. I think you're exaggerating the incidence, but anyone who does that is literally a psychopath, in my view. Those guys are totally missing the point of sex, where much of the real enjoyment is derived from an intimate connection with another person. Even in my casual sexual relationships ("plates" or "fuck buddies") we still have conversations, eat/drink together, and share de… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 09:52 PM |
| 18 | Stripper at club gave me numberDummy. You think you're gaming her. In fact, it's the total exact opposite. You are the one being Gamed, my friend. Those girls are good actresses. They know how to fake "genuine desire." She doesn't want you. My FWB is a stripper, so I have some modicum of knowledge about this. You want to know why she wants your number? So she can turn you into a regular that she can hit up during a slow night. My girl has a lot of men in her phone that she essentially uses as an ATM. Forget this delusional fa… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 02:59 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate with shy quiet typeI went in for a kiss towards the end and got a solid no. No kiss = no interest. NEXT. That said, I don't understand why guys even want the "shy, quiet" type. Where's the fun in banging a girl who has the personality of a cardboard box? I assume this was a Tinder meet or something of the sort. If there's one mistake I used to make a lot (and still sometimes do) it's dragging a date out in hopes that she will open up and reveal her colorful personality. Of course that never happens. I instinctivel… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Just had my first hookup. Before sex, she asked if I was planning this.During the whole time there were no shit tests and girly games from her side, and no "let's watch Netflix in my place" b.s. from my side. Just two adults who met and wanted to fuck. As it should be. However, just because sex was "agreed upon" doesn't mean a woman will stop shit testing. Shit testing is as instinctual for her as breathing. I've gotten this classic before as well, because women don't want to feel like the whole affair was contrived. She wants to tell her friends or think to hersel… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 04:05 PM |
| 3 | I love youI don't know about this one. That strikes me as very player-ish and could backfire badly if she's sincere in her feelings. The only acceptable response imo is the old Han Solo gem: "I know." | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Getting matches, convos flow well with replies, but when mentioning to meet up it's always the same storyI mention grabbing drinks or anything on xx date at xx time and xx place A lot of guys here advocate this forceful approach. I don't. You just end up losing face if she says she can't make it. Remember that this is Tinder. Guys will say if she was interested she'd give an alternative time, but that doesn't always happen. It obviously looks thirsty if you keep throwing out dates. First I bring up hanging out at an appropriate point in the Tinder chat. Blah blah blah let's meet up. Then I get her … | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 03:32 PM |
| 3 | “Do you have a girlfriend”Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. She wants to know if you're available to her. Assume attraction. Another reason to inquire about a man's relationship status are to ascertain his value (preselection). This question has only arisen for me in flirting situations. If she wasn't interested, she wouldn't give a shit if you had a GF or not. In fact she would go out of her way NOT to ask this question precisely because of its connotations as an IOI. As to how to answer, the most widely advocated resp… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 02:42 PM |
| 1 | What to do when hot girl matches but doesn't respond?Good pictures. don't respond to my messages. Don't you see how these two statements contradict each other? If your pictures really were that good, then you would be getting responses...period end of story. My guess based on experience is that your main picture is alright, but the rest of your profile sucks balls. A lot of girls swipe based on the first pic. If it's a match, they view the rest of the profile and THEN decide if you're fuckable. Either that, or your opening message is something… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Is there anything wrong with moving to an easier locale if you can manage it?The whole notion of moving abroad just for girls is utterly pathetic, in my view. But let's set that aside. You say that you're a Beta. At least you acknowledge that this is the case. Ask yourself, why are Thai girls falling over themselves for you? Is it because of your big muscles or razor sharp Game? Or is it because they have dollar signs in their eyes and dreams of escaping whatever shithole they came from? Most guys who go to Russia, to Asia, to South America are completely deluding themse… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Skinny boy in need of workout adviceOkay...this data point is meaningless without context. Rippetoe's Starting Strength which requires a massive caloric surplus, and only then for the first few months. I started off fatter and shorter than OP put still did something like 4K a day for a few months, then went down to 2800. I put on 40 lbs in six months of lifting with a dramatic positive change in physical appearance. "Slow bulking" is horseshit in my opinion, but if people want to take two years to achieve what I did in six months … | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Skinny boy in need of workout adviceSome general advice would also be appreciated for diet Yeah, eat a fuck ton more than what you're eating now. You're clinically underweight, as you know. Clearly you're eating like an anorexic girl and that needs to change. I'm talking in the neighborhood of 5,000 calories for a guy like you. Obviously this also needs to be paired with proper weight training. You need to do a program like Mark Rippetoe's Starting Strength and eat like a maniac for the next few months. I don't know what going to … | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 02:32 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about contemporary dating? Do you like it or hate? What would you change?Do you prefer the older style dating scene of picking a girl early on in life and starting a family or do you like things the way they are now? The latter is all I've ever known What is your end game If I'm going to invest in one woman as the mother of my children potentially for the rest of my life, then I damn well better have enough knowledge to choose wisely. So yeah, play the field into my 30s and see what happens. What do you think of modern women, both in terms of their value sexually and… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 02:49 PM |
| 3 | Why do women prefer aesthetics over functionality?Makeup does have a function. The function is to enhance the appearance of youth and fertility, thereby giving the woman a better chance of attracting a good mate. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 02:29 PM |
| 5 | TRP made me more aware of different treatments based on looksAttractive people get treated better. In other news, it was recently announced that the Pope is Catholic and that a local bear took a shit in the woods. The real question is, what are you going to do about it? Option A is to remain mired in misery and content yourself with sedatives like porn, video games, and booze. Option B is to take action on your appearance by lifting heavy weights, eating an appropriate diet, and cleaning up your grooming and clothing style. Option B has worked out pretty … | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 02:26 PM |
| 2 | “How attractive am I compared to your other girls?”The best answer to questions involving your other plates is a non-answer. Seems like you handled it well. I would have blurted out something similar, but with a compliment at the end to offset it. - "well obviously you're the worst, with those pouty lips and toned abs". | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Being "too mysterious"This. She's probably wondering why you aren't asking her out. Why are you talking endlessly on the phone? Set up a date so you can mash body parts together. She might already be in ego protection mode since she feels rejected, so if you hear nothing then move on. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 01:49 PM |
| 3 | What should I do as a beginner if I am going to the gym 4 times a week?Dummy - you can't get "aesthetic" if you don't have a base of strength to do heavy lifts at high volume. Most bodybuilders are also strong as hell. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 11:55 PM |
| 4 | TRP way to dress and current mens fashionLiterally going to copy and paste what I wrote last week in another thread: If you lift, literally anything that shows off your body will look good. A girl that I banged a few weeks ago told me that she really liked my outfit. The "outfit" in question was an old pair of American eagle jeans, Adidas sneakers, and a white V-neck shirt from Target. Most of clothes are cheap shirts from H&M or bought off the bargain rack at TJ Maxx. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 07:46 PM |
| 1 | How many of you are summer bulking?This doesn't make much sense to me. You claim to be only 15% BF which would imply that you're pretty heavily muscled at that height/weight. Yet your lift numbers, which I assume are 1RM, are still at a beginner level. So either you' have a very unusual body or you're way underestimating your BF %. In any event, those lift numbers aren't particularly high, especially if you've been lifting for years as you claim. I'm your same height and I surpassed those figures by a wide margin within six month… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Should you include images of you and a girl on your tinder profile?Single girl = bad. I haven't seen any evidence that suggests having multiple ladies in a Tinder pic has a discernable impact. Successful Tinder guys that I know and have read about have pictures of mostly themselves doing cool shit. People talk about preselection. I think that only works if the women are giving you IOIs. Just hanging out with girls doesn't mean squat. If you can get a picture where the focus on the girls' attention is on YOU, that could be a winner. That seems to me unlikely tho… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 02:29 PM |
| 3 | How many of you are summer bulking?There isn't enough information in this post. What are your macros? What are your lift numbers? You've already said that you eat 120 g of protein which is way too low. That number should be around 200 g given your bodyweight. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Good books that cover the physiology of the brain?The Compass of Pleasure if you're looking for an easy read | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 02:28 AM |
| 5 | Girl defying dominance in a group settingWhat's with the smorgasboard of stupidity in the comments? Do you people even work in an office setting? I don't know any work environment in which a coworker flipping you the bird is even remotely acceptable. The professional response is to escalate to HR or your supervisor or whoever deals with this. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 02:21 AM |
| 27 | Anyone gamed Japanese women?Enough with fetishizing Asian traditionalism. Your "redpill knowledge" must be pretty abysmal because nowhere does it say Japanese women aren't like that. All women are like that. Say it with me. ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Ltring a reformed party girl, or forever tainted?Okay. Well I think the same question of why you didn't commit still applies. Something in your peripheral awareness told you that it wasn't a good idea at the time. Why the about face? Here's what I think happened: Now that you're out of college, you find it more difficult to meet new girls. This chick was available, so you latched onto her in order to keep your sexual needs fulfilled. That lack of abundance is very dangerous. I don't think the real problem is this girl's n-count. The real probl… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 06:04 PM |
| 5 | Ltring a reformed party girl, or forever tainted?There's a lot of very wrongheaded Blue Pill thinking and other silliness going on in this brief post. Let's walk through this. I read once here that even if they're high ncount, if they make you happy what's the problem? Who the hell said that stupid shite? The actual advice that I (and others) have given is that n-count is an unreliable indicator of LTR material. First, it has to be taken in context. Let's say your GF took ten dicks by 22. That's excessive. The same number by 30, however, would… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | for those who have; how did you go from Beta to Alpha You're never going to wake up one day and suddenly realize that you're "Alpha." No one is going to hand you your official Alpha Male membership card. I think the cliche "it's a journey, not a destination" actually does apply here. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 08:08 PM |
| 8 | A girl I blocked 2 years ago turned out to be working in the new company I just got in... How to proceed? Do not meet. You clearly aren't prepared to handle things diplomatically and will likely just end up shooting yourself in the foot (again). Corrections bolded. "Hey I've been thinking about this and I'm not sure it would be a good idea for us to hang out right now. I'm sorry about what happened between us two years ago. Blocking you was a very immature response. I didn't know how to handle it at the time and I wish I had done things differently. I'm not asking for your forgiveness, but now tha… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 03:31 PM |
| 13 | A girl I blocked 2 years ago turned out to be working in the new company I just got in... How to proceed?God Almighty. First of all, why are you trying to "hang out" with some whacky girl from work? Whatever the case, she's going to interpret this as you trying to get into her pants, which is highly inappropriate in a professional setting. Do you WANT to be #MeToo'd on your first day of work? I mean, for fuck's sake man. Normally I would never advocate this, but you have to go full-on Beta nice guy now. Your career is more important than looking Alpha to some nutjob. Something like this should suff… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 03:10 PM |
| 1 | I love the red pill, mostly the theory. I seriously have my doubts about the guys who represent the manosphere.I don't have a clue what this means. Will leave to others to interpret. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 02:16 PM |
| 2 | How much does lifting improve SMV?It's just the worst example you can use, how can you not see that? silly me | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 08:07 PM |
| 1 | How much does lifting improve SMV?rather than merit of their career and social standing and model-like looks. That's exactly my point dumbass His status as one of the most famous actors in the world for two decades overwhelms his deteriorated physical appearance. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 07:57 PM |
| 4 | I love the red pill, mostly the theory. I seriously have my doubts about the guys who represent the manosphere.Let's address this "Rollo doesn't look very Alpha" crap. Again. First, I completely disagree that Rollo doesn't "sound confident." I think by any objective measure, most people would agree that Rollo sounds like he knows what he's talking about...which, of course, is true. What you don't like is his nasally voice. Not everyone can be blessed with the vocal chords of James Earl Jones. As to Rollo's lack of physical stature, I think he looks really good for a guy in his early-50s. Back in the day … | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 07:49 PM |
| 1 | How much does lifting improve SMV?The 80 folks who upvoted my comment seemed to understand it just fine. But there's always that one dummy in the group | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Do you think Dan Bilzerian gets shit tested by his bitches?Is the Pope Catholic? | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Can a comedian have high smv?Then sure. But if you aren't a weird Beta neckbeard then why do you need to hit up open mics to meet girls? The chicks at those things by and large aren't leading in the looks department, that I can tell you | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 03:27 AM |
| 6 | Can a comedian have high smv?I've dabbled in stand up and most of those guys are just weird Beta neckbeards. Some people claim that comedy = pussy. Maybe that's true if you're the main act or something. Certainly not during a random open mic. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 03:03 AM |
| 12 | Says she wants to "take it slow & see where it goes"I called her out on her low level of interest What did you hope to accomplish by doing this? How is this conducive to her wanting to fuck you? she says she wants to take it slow, she's "shy", and says she takes it slow in general. Horseshit. They'll do anything for the right guy. My question is.... should I soft next or keep it going? I don't understand why you're even asking this question. All this hand wringing for an HB6 (probably a 4)?! Jesus Christ. I understand that you're a newbie, but go… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 09:50 PM |
| 6 | How would you react if you find that one of the girls you're seeing is an "easy catch"?I already nexted this one because I was stupidly vetting her for a relationship. I'm going to sit down and write an essay about this "vetting" crap because it's been coming up way too often around here. You shouldn't even be thinking about a LTR unless she brings it up first. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 09:44 PM |
| 0 | How do I deal with my GF's constant disagreeable comebacks? (disagrees for the sake of disagreeing)I'm not about to dump Then why are you here dummy? Sounds like the only reason is to get Daddy Red Pill's permission to ignore a red flag. Sorry, no. What you're describing is textbook psychological manipulation. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 08:10 PM |
| 5 | How do I deal with my GF's constant disagreeable comebacks? (disagrees for the sake of disagreeing)This isn't a shit test. This is just a girl who is a negative Nancy. Who wants to hang out with someone like that? These posts amuse me. Every goddamn day the same thing. "My GF is perfect she cooks, cleans, and is submissive...except for this gigantic red flag that I've been ignoring the whole time." | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Facial fat between cheekbone and jawlineHello McFly? Anybody home? Think McFly, think. How is your jawline going to be visible at 20% BF? You're a fat fuck. Lose weight. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 03:14 PM |
| 15 | Do you think your location affects your SMV?This is absolutely the case. Location is a major factor. Roosh has discussed this many times on his blog, if you're interested. In my experience, Vancouver BC is the best city in North America to be a young male. Women are fit and pretty. Local Canadian men are mostly schlubs with no Game - the Irish/Australian lads working there for the summer absolutely clean the place up. Got double my normal Tinder matches while I stayed there. Near a major university is also a plus. I can usually get laid w… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 04:38 AM |
| 37 | Had sex for first time, came immediately (20M)Had sex for first time, came immediately So did practically every other male in the history of the species. First time I lasted less than 30 seconds. The second time, about a minute. And so on and so forth until I got up to the 10-15 min mark which is about average for intercourse. You'll get better. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 03:45 AM |
| -1 | What are your biggest red pills about life that aren't about women/sex/game?Noam Chomsky is the Red Pill of politics and power. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 03:37 AM |
| 5 | How much does lifting improve SMV?first of all LDC is male-model quality Yeah, 20 years ago. Now, not so much. Please stop using celebrities to make such analysis. Obviously Leo is an extreme outlier. That goes without saying. Everybody knows who he is, so I use him to illustrate a point that you clearly don't understand. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 03:33 AM |
| 83 | How much does lifting improve SMV?It depends on your individual situation and context. Leonardo Di Caprio is mid-40s and flabby. Yet he has been banging <25 YO models his entire life. The marginal return on lifting for Leo would be pretty low as far as SMV is concerned. His status as one of the most famous actors in the world for two decades overwhelms his deteriorated physical appearance. Most of us aren't rich and famous celebrities, though, and probably never will be. A lot of that comes down to sheer dumb luck. For the avera… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 04:49 PM |
| 2 | girl wants me to give her hickeys, 1. it turns her on 2. she says "mark me so everybody knows im your whore" while horny, when not horny just "mark your territory". what does this mean?Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar, dude | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here go from introvert, not enjoying being social to extrovert and genuinely like talking to people?There's a difference between being an introvert and having no confidence. Harrison Ford is an introvert if you watch his interviews. In fact, many actors are. But they're still at ease in social situations. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Why is testosterone linked to bone structureThis entire post is incel trash. Who gives a fuck about any of this crap? Nothing you can do about it anyway so what difference does it make? By the way, models are just people who look good when photographed from all angles. That's the number one factor. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 03:45 PM |
| 14 | Have you ever been ghosted for not escalating more than you should’ve the 1st date?Been there, done that. Even worse is when she gives you a second date but she's clearly not into it anymore, so you either get rejected or the "let's just be friends" speech. We've all had this experience, it's practically a right of passage for a man. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 03:35 AM |
| 9 | Has anyone here transitioned from normies/“nerdy” chicks to higher SMV ones?Well you better start caring if you want to be with one long term, as is your stated intention. I sense a deeply Blue Pilled viewpoint at work here. You say you want a girl who is "self confident and [does] cool things." What you are looking for does not exist. All girls are insecure because hypergamy is based on self-doubt. You mistake hot girls' dismissive attitude toward you as "self confidence". In fact, they're just as nervous around Chad as average girls are around you. Very few women lead… | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 09:19 PM |
| 56 | Has anyone here transitioned from normies/“nerdy” chicks to higher SMV ones?Sounds like you're pedestalizing club rats/party girls. Why, I have no idea. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 05:42 PM |
| 25 | Men’s style blogs/instagram pages?If you lift, literally anything that shows off your body will look good. A girl that I banged a few weeks ago told me that she really liked my outfit. The "outfit" in question was an old pair of American eagle jeans, Adidas sneakers, and a white V-neck shirt from Target. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Girl from work interested until finding out I live with parentsIt's unattractive to live with your parents in your 20s. That's almost a truism. It does make seduction harder. However, a girl will forget all about that stigma for the right guy. I don't understand what the question is here. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 05:29 PM |
| 2 | I read the rational male, I am now angry/hopeless. Give some tips to this lost 18 year old.Do you fault the crocodile for trying to eat you? No, because that is its nature. The fools who keep dangerous beasts as pets - and are subsequently killed by the creatures - often operate under the delusion that they have some kind of special connection. Sheer lunacy, of course. Likewise, you can't be angry at hypergamy for doing what it evolved to do. You can't allow yourself to grow too relaxed and complacent, or else you will end up devoured. Instead you recognize female nature for what it i… | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Approaching younger girls bc it's easier to fascinate them?This is a matter of law you stupid idiot. What girls do is irrelevant. Do you want to go to jail and get fucked in the ass by Tyrone? | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Concered after LMR of drunken hook upIn the words of Bugs Bunny, what a maroon. First, alcohol abuse is pure degeneracy, unbecoming of a man, and obviously not conducive to sexual success. Second, you never have sex with a girl who's sloppy drunk...EVER. I second the notion that you should send a morning-after text. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Set up date with failed f closePlenty of girls have "assured" me that they want to meet up then never do. Chad tends to flake, so chicks often experience disappointment as well. And as I pointed out, there were many logistical hurdles and instances of unclear communication in the above exchange. So it's pretty understandable if someone gives up, especially if it's 3 in the morning for Gods sake. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Set up date with failed f closeJust to be clear, the “I might...” part was to bringing her food, which I had no plans on doing Exhibit A of why texting is such a bad medium and why you have to be precise. You thought you were being clear, but I interpreted that as something totally different. Don't really care about your explanation. It's irrelevant. The bottom line is you didn't pull the girl from the club directly, which is probably what you should have done, and instead allowed a significant amount of time to elapse. If a … | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Set up date with failed f closeWhy did she mess up? This whole exchange is retarded. First, OP, this "I might" nonsense was needlessly wishy washy. She straight up invited you over for sex, no need to be coy. You didn't respond until much later, and you didn't set a specific time. I understand that you were out or whatever, but in that case just tell her another time. I wouldn't have stayed up for a chick had the roles been reversed. Also, she was down to smash then, she’s probably down again correct? That's not how a girl's … | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 02:48 AM |
| 1 | What's your success rate on Tinder?Well my query still applies. The point is that I don't consider meeting and banging girls <HB7 to be a success. I don't know what it's like being rural, but 100 matches over several months would be quite abysmal in a major city, especially if you're swiping right on everyone. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 05:07 PM |
| 1 | How to stop fantasizing over a seemingly perfect girl (oneitis)?Realize that your "perfect" girl very likely isn't anywhere close to perfect. You're just projecting your Blue fantasy onto her. You also don't have enough options. Before TRP I met a girl that I believed was my feminine ideal. Went to a good university, a solid HB8, very charming and friendly, low n-count (as far as I knew). Managed to get her out on a few dates and she was initially really keen, but amid my fear of rejection I never made a move to bang her. Naturally I got rejected in short or… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 03:17 PM |
| 0 | What's your success rate on Tinder?Depends on what your definition of "success" is. Some guys swipe right on everyone and obviously get more matches. Basically I don’t swipe right on any girl above ~25% body fat which is HB6-7 in my book. Also swipe left on trashy tattoos, weird hair, single moms, drug use, girls clearly trolling for social media followers, and other unattractive traits. It follows that I get fewer matches, but I still get about 30-35 solid matches a week living near a major metropolitan area. Ultimately I define… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 02:54 PM |
| 2 | If a girl doesn't text you after a first date, is that typically a bad sign?Maybe you should stop this useless handwringing and just text her to see if she wants to go out again. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 02:40 PM |
| 2 | LRM, do that with your other tinder dates.. (advice needed)The beta thing I did do tho was trying to kiss her and shit after she went for the LMR. Yeah but I don't think changing that would have turned the interaction around all on its own. If you admit to one Beta move, then there were probably many that you weren't consciously aware of. I think you need to reexamine your behavior and see if you can rule out any instances of hesitation or thirstiness. I don't believe that LMR/ASD exist. The battle is won before it is ever fought. Either you Game and ar… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 06:37 PM |
| 1 | LRM, do that with your other tinder dates.. (advice needed)I felt like she thought I was a player and maybe I actee too cocky. Unlikely. That's what you want to be doing, as long as you aren't too overt about it. Better to err on the side of too much asshole than too little. Probably it was the opposite. Something in your vibe communicated "Beta" to her. Either that or she just wasn't all that attracted to you in the first place, and there was nothing you could have done. Without details on what happened between the time that you first met her and when … | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 03:47 PM |
| 5 | LTR with ex-CC riderAlways triple whatever she says. Somewhere in the 20-30 range is probably pretty accurate. You would be amazed at the doublethink that goes on - in her mind, things like one night stands and blowjobs genuinely do not count. A history of alcohol abuse is obviously a huge no no. So now we're up to two red flags. At 30 she's right smack in what Rollo calls the Epiphany Phase. You gotta start reading some Red Pill literature as soon as possible, guy. It should be pretty obvious what is happening her… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 02:15 PM |
| 7 | LTR with ex-CC riderHow many are we talking about here, exactly? 20? 30? 100? Seems like you're an older guy. How old is she? Ten cocks by age 20 is pretty slutty, but the same number at age 30 would actually be fairly tame. These are details that matter. In any event, n-count isn't as relevant as Alpha count. What matters is that you out-Alpha every guy before you. Naturally that becomes less likely the higher the body count stacks, although obviously not impossible. This is where your Red Pill awareness and judge… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 02:04 AM |
| 2 | I can’t seem to get second dates with some chicks can someone tell me what I’m doing wrong.I think different things work for different people. This is true to a certain extent. But asking for a kiss is a universal Beta tell. There is not a single person on this sub that would agree with you on that one. She gave you a peck on the lips. That's a pity kiss. Again, just because something has worked for you out of sheer dumb luck (or because the girls are desperate uggos) doesn't mean it will continue working, or work on hotter girls. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Girl i’ve been seeing is sending strong signals on being exclusive. Am i handling it right?If those are your exact words, then yes, you're definitely leading her on. The implication there is that you could potentially change your mind if she sticks around. The non-asshole route would be to simply say that you aren't looking for a relationship. She can fill in the blanks from there and decide if she's content being a plate. That's what I mean when I say don't be too honest. Of course, if you don't give a fuck for honesty then just keep doing what you're doing. Drama prevention is about… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 03:30 PM |
| 3 | I can’t seem to get second dates with some chicks can someone tell me what I’m doing wrong.Anyway we went to a cafe sat down and talked. I didn’t really kino or escalate. Then we went to the park and did more talking. Well there's the problem. Hello McFly, anybody home? You just talked like friends. The date was totally devoid of sexual tension. Yak yak yak, meanwhile she's bored and her pussy is drying up like the Sahara. Asking to make out was also a huge pussy Beta move...please never do that again. I say what no kiss This is so cringe, dude. Honestly everything I’ve done here has … | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Girl i’ve been seeing is sending strong signals on being exclusive. Am i handling it right?What's your goal here? Do you just want to keep tapping that, or are you sincerely open to the possibility of something more? You know why the metaphor is called "spinning plates?" Because sooner or later, they fall off and break. Usually that comes after a few months when she realizes that you're never going to commit. It's inevitable. Through diplomatic finessing, you can avoid drama and potentially prolong platehood for much longer. At the end of the day, most girls don't want to feel like th… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | What is the general ‘Red Pill’ consensus or rule on males having genuine platonic friendships with females? Is it possible? Why or why not?Rollo has an article that destroys the notion that men and women can be platonic friends. The reason is that men and women do not conceive of friendships in the same way. Men become friends by doing some activity together. Women become friends by talking on 'dates' (having coffee, brunch, etc.) Even in friendships the concept of Frame still applies. In an intergender friendship, the man is almost always in the woman's frame. That is to say, they become 'friends' in the female-correct manner. The… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 03:15 PM |
| 1 | TinderThis. Why are you jumping to a negative conclusion, OP? This post smacks of someone who probably doesn't get many IOIs from girls. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. Assume this is a massive IOI and escalate accordingly. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 03:02 PM |
| 1 | What if women don't love (even their own) children, after all?This is far and away the most downright baffling essay that I've seen an Endorsed Contributor post to this forum. God Almighty. I truly hoped that this was a troll post, but I fear that this fellow is sincere in his belief. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/19 01:25 AM |
| 4 | Lifting is not nearly enough: RUN!Of course the two aren't mutually exclusive. You can be both strong and fast, or be strong and have high endurance. And so on and so forth. Nothing wrong with that. I didn't say that running = weak. What I do say is that running =/= female arousal. There is no evidence that running ability correlates positively with sexual success. There is, however, a mountain of evidence that muscularity is strongly associated with sexual success. Therefore your assertion that "lifting is not nearly enough: RU… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/19 09:56 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with LMRHow to deal with LMR The answer is you don't. Instead you excuse yourself from the situation. "LMR" and "ASD" do not exist. There is only genuine desire and lack of genuine desire. The same girl who filibusters you for sex will (and probably did once) bang the right Alpha guy at the right time. The "freeze out" and other PUA techniques are supposed to mimic walking away from the situation in everything but intent. With the freeze, you still intend to bang her. By walking away from the situation,… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't you date a former slut if you yourself were a player?This is the answer that I was looking for scrolling through the comments. I would say that men aren't immune from the psychological effects - FOMO and so forth - that result from having access to essentially unlimited sexuality. But that still doesn't have any bearing on the self-evident truth of the "men and women are different" argument. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Lifting is not nearly enough: RUN!You had to be able to run long distances to survive and be a valuable person, and therefore a valuable mate. Those guys were the ancient version of the Beta Bucks. The crux of your fallacious thinking is that Alpha-Beta is not an inter-species competition. It's an intra-species contest. What good does running do in that regard? If running were sexy, the most attractive male body would be pretty skinny. The only benefit to running in a fight with a stronger man is that you're able to flee...a pre… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/19 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Why is Trump held up by TRP as Alpha when he seems to have really strong Beta traits? (insecurity)You're confusing display of Alpha traits with being Alpha in a sexual context. Trump is self-evidently a sexual Alpha (albeit a Blue Pill Alpha). I don't think that even requires discussion. It's also pretty obvious that Trump is Alpha outside of a sexual context as well. Of course he cares about what people think about him - that's how a first term president gets a second term. Opinion polls, news coverage, etc. are a measure of this. Is a high school student Beta because he cares about getting… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 03:36 PM |
| 7 | About successful men's tinder pictures...Get a free Google phone number. You're welcome. You can also easily search for examples of successful male Tinder profiles on the web. In fact Tinder itself published the profiles of top users a few years back. The results are much what you would expect: handsome men, yes, but also very high quality pictures of them doing interesting activities. This isn't rocket science, but if you need more advice, check out /u/mallardcove 's guides. By the way, a picture with a single chick was NOT what peopl… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 03:09 PM |
| 7 | Rate my tinderYour profile sucks balls. I would be surprised if you got many matches. Pic 1: no selfies, although you might get some interest because you at least look good in that one. Pic 2: I suppose you can keep this one Pic 3: Obviously posed, very unflattering lighting, shitty background Pic 4: No pics with more handsome bros Pic 5: No pics with taller bros Pic 6: No degeneracy, lose the trashy cigarette Pic 7: No stupid poses/gestures Pic 8: Contrary to what the other commenter said, pics from behind d… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Where did this date at home go wrong?Maybe having your family present inadvertently provided a sort of mental security blanket. Girls sometimes get really nervous about going to a random guy's place with no other people around. Recently I banged a Tinder girl at her friends apartment while her friend was in the next room. She told me she flaked on a guy before because she got cold feet once she was outside his apartment. Clearly the location matters, although I'm not sure that topic has been explored much on this sub. It's an inter… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 03:55 PM |
| 1 | 26 and feeling weird. Is my situation typical?This entire post reeks of victimhood "woe is me" attitude. You say your friends stopped contacting you. Hello McFly, anybody home? Think McFly, think. Did you ever consider reaching out to them instead? They're probably wondering why you don't hit them up! In any case, post-college is a good time to start making new friends. Many of the relationships that you made in school turn out to be superficial and based on living the same college experience...not based on sharing similar goals and values.… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Where did this date at home go wrong?This should have been a free lay. When a girl agrees to come straight to your place for the first date (or you go to hers) it's virtually guaranteed that you're going to have sex. This has always been the case for me, anyway. It's hard to say what exactly went wrong. None of us were there. It's possible that you moved too quickly and gave off a thirsty Beta vibe. After all, one of the first things you did was bring her to the bedroom. I would have just chilled out in the living room first. Have … | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 03:16 PM |
| 6 | Do you guys have a better orgasm when sleeping with hotter girls?I agree. Girls who have had real boyfriends are generally much better in bed. Girls who have had nothing but casual sex usually have no idea what they're doing. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 02:49 PM |
| 1 | So i guess i did experience the light switch effect after allI posted here a while back about a plate who i was vetting for commitment. All well and good that you were "vetting," but did she even want your commitment in the first place? That has to be her idea, guy. Keep in mind we were going on dates previously and had a romantic tone to them. Romantic dates don't make her want to fuck you more. she meet a dude and basically "connected with him" In other words, she met a fun Alpha guy who gave her the tingles that you weren't giving her. Don't know where… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 02:43 PM |
| 19 | how to get my body count up in highschoolMaybe you should focus more on A-count instead of n-count - that is to say, the number of "As" you get on your report card. You're so fucking young. If you lost your virginity already then you're already well ahead of the pack. You still have at least two decades ahead of you to bang hotties. Do yourself a favor and don't spend too much time thinking about it right now. How well you do in high school, which determines where you go to college, is one of the few irreversible outcomes in life. Just… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Tinder slash dating app gameMaybe you're asking for the number too soon. A good strategy for limiting time wasters is after 5 messages or so, escalate to asking her out and getting her number. Obviously this is a somewhat loose rule, though. Just go with the flow and ask sooner if, for example, she messages you first and seems extremely interested. Any chick who won't enthusiastically give her number (which isn't a big deal) after a brief exchange simply isn't interested...period end of story. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 12:04 AM |
| 17 | Emergency post: How do I escalate on a date.Yet another "emergency" plea for help. Had you spent a few months reading Red Pill material you wouldn't be caught with your dick in the wind like this. For fucks sake man, this is a free lay. Even a legitimate retard wouldn't mess this up. Greet her with a hug, be chill/offer her a drink/make conversation, turn on the movie, start kissing her after a few minutes, feel up her ass/tits/body, finger her pussy (should be wet at this point), take off her clothes, put a condom on, insert penis into v… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 11:57 PM |
| 0 | What's up with alcohol consumption?What's up with alcohol consumption? It's degenerate behavior, that's whats up. Do you want to be with degenerates? | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 07:55 PM |
| 5 | How is it even worth it to get into an LTR anymore?I'll say what I just said in another thread. The beauty of plating is that you don't have to care what (or who) she's doing. Sure, it will always irritate you when she sleeps around, but it won't be a devastating event. You can still "date" girls and have an emotional connection...just make her a FWB or open type of relationship. Much like men in the Alpha/Beta dynamic, I think the Pareto principle also applies to women in the relationship market. 80-90% of them are flat out not LTR material. Th… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Physique Critique?That's some extraordinary progress for three months. Where did you start off? I think your body looks pretty good and I think most girls would agree. That said, I think this probably belongs in a fitness sub. Your deadlift is weak relative to your other lifts (although some people aren't anatomically suited for deadlifting, I'm not sure where you fall). Do a program where you can get some overhead press and arm work in (chin ups or something similar). Keep up the good work. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 05:45 PM |
| 2 | What to do when GF goes out on nights out in fairly revealing clothing?This thread is exhibit A of why an LTR is a waste of mental energy in most cases. I don't have to worry about what (or who) plates or FWBs are doing on a Friday night. OP has himself all in a tizzy over the way some dumb broad is behaving. Most likely this girl is nothing special and wasn't LTR material in the first place. If 80-90% of guys are Betas, then 80-90% of girls are not LTR material and only fit for plating or a FWB type relationship. Back in the day, it was considered unseemly for a L… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 05:07 PM |
| 8 | What to do when GF goes out on nights out in fairly revealing clothing?Who the FUCK is qualified to give advice at the hour they should not be behind a computer? This has got to be one of the silliest rebuttals I've ever read on here. You damn fool, I was up to 3 AM on Thursday banging a new girl, so I stayed in last night and blew off steam replying on askTRP because I was too fucking tired to do anything else. The rest of your reply is very much the exact opposite of what this forum generally advises. Not only is OP's girl on a "girl's night out" (a red flag in i… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 04:18 PM |
| 2 | How Long Is Too Long To Wait To Have Sex?well then you need therapy from a professional, not randos on the internet | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 05:11 AM |
| 1 | How Long Is Too Long To Wait To Have Sex?Can't you get a condom from a friend? I mean, for fuck's sake. I think you're just trying to stall for time because you can't make a move. Make a fucking move. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 04:57 AM |
| 187 | What to do when GF goes out on nights out in fairly revealing clothing?The medium is the message. She’s advertising her availability by dressing like that. You need to reassess this relationship. She’s either a big attention whore (red flag) or she’s looking for some new dick. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 12:45 AM |
| 34 | Is this response to a shit test too much?“Whatever you say sweetheart” | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Approaching last minute resistance- feedback?You're taking aloof game too literally. Aloof doesn't mean you do nothing and just act passive. You still have to make the moves. At this point I think just making the date at your place is warranted. If she still doesn't want to bang then you aren't Alpha enough in her mind, so next. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 07:32 PM |
| 1 | How do you greet chicks you've picked up online when going on your first date?Meeting a girl should be exciting though. If it isn't then why are you meeting her? Just stay at home and jerk off to porn. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Approaching last minute resistance- feedback?In my opinion you were probably a bit intimidated and put off by her shit testing. Just escalate and ignore her obligatory protests unless she's clearly uncomfortable or gives you a hard no. But really, unless you're completely socially retarded, it should be obvious whether or not she's feeling you. In this case I think she was. If she says she isn't sure about coming back with you, just say "we don't have to do anything you're uncomfortable with." If she still resists, call her bluff. Go insid… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 07:24 PM |
| 0 | Is Tinder rigged?So my profile isn't as good as it good could, pics are phone quality, no super interesting shots of me that display my personality And yet you wonder why you get as many matches in a year as some of us get in a few days. Hello McFly, anybody home? Think McFly, think. yeah Tinder is rigged. It's rigged against dumb lazy fucks like you who don't lift and don't put any effort into their profile. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 06:55 PM |
| 5 | Approaching last minute resistance- feedback?First, I would not have deviated from the plan to chill at your place. If she gets cold feet, that's her problem, not yours. I would have just said "cmon lets go" and marched right inside. She can just go home if she doesn't want to follow. Retooling the plan based on her whims is playing into her Frame (Beta behavior). Getting called a "player" or a "fuck boy" or any version of that is a classic shit test...a good thing, by the way. Proper response is something to the effect of You have an eye … | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 06:47 PM |
| 1 | 20 year old girl blue balls the fuck out of me on second date, what's my next course of action?The masculine sexual imperative is unlimited access to unlimited sexuality ("spreading the seed"). Studies confirm that men want to get away after sex, while women want to bond. There is also a need to ascertain paternity, hence why the town pump is so repulsive. However, women know very well that men like yourself perceive ASD as more attractive for a long-term mate. That is why the same girl who lets Chad nail her rear end on the first night will make Billy Beta wait a month for sex when she's… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 03:09 PM |
| 1 | 20 year old girl blue balls the fuck out of me on second date, what's my next course of action?Let's review this curious non-interchange. Your logic goes like this: 1) If she's a high quality girl, then she puts up ASD (B) 2) My girlfriends put up ASD (B) 3) Therefore my girlfriends were all high quality girls Your argument, plainly, is a non sequitur. While it may be true that she's a "Quality Woman" (doubtful for other reasons, but let's allow it for the sake of argument), the conclusion does not follow from the premise. Now let's turn to the idea that a high quality woman would make yo… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 09:10 PM |
| 1 | 20 year old girl blue balls the fuck out of me on second date, what's my next course of action?Another complete strawman reply. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Movies with examples of positive masculinity ?The original Star Wars films, particularly the first two, could never be made today. The new generation of writers would never even conceive of an Alpha male character like Han Solo. The original Indiana Jones films, original James Bond, anything with Marlon Brando and Clint Eastwood. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 03:10 PM |
| 2 | 20 year old girl blue balls the fuck out of me on second date, what's my next course of action?At the end of the day TRP is still a theory. If you think it’s some immutable law of science Based on the content of your posts, I don't understand why you're even on this forum dispensing advice. If you don't agree with core Red Pill tenets then you have no business here. then you’re sadly mistaken as your whole thesis is disproven by women who override their hypergamous urges by faithfully staying married to disabled men. That has no relevance to anything that I said. Moreover, there are plent… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 02:56 PM |
| 4 | Will you always be beta in your old friends and families eyes?This. People will just wonder why Beta Bob is acting like such an asshole. A female friend once sent me a bewildered text rant wondering "what happened" to me. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 04:19 AM |
| 1 | 3rd date no sexi dont understand why everyone on this sub feels the need to push others down when responding to their questions, Okay, let me try again: Oh honey, I'm so sorry that happened to you. That girl doesn't deserve you! How about I make you a nice grilled chicken sandwich. I have some fresh beers in the fridge, too. Fuck outta here. I often take the time to write detailed responses, but in this case it would be a waste of time. OP is an angry Beta who needs to spend the next six months to a year of hi… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 03:57 AM |
| 3 | 20 year old girl blue balls the fuck out of me on second date, what's my next course of action?You know what's also normal female behavior? Smashing Chad on the first date. Some guy probably fucked your GF silly then nutted in her mouth 30 min after meeting her. girls can possess this and still hold off on fucking immediately. Don't you see how this is a contradiction? Hypergamy cannot afford to wait. Higher value girls will almost always do this 1) No they don't 2) How does holding off until some arbitrary number of dates (a timeline determined by her alone) make a chick more valuable? S… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 03:49 AM |
| 4 | 20 year old girl blue balls the fuck out of me on second date, what's my next course of action?It’s called ASD for a reason and if you hang in there you’ll get there eventually. No. There is only genuine desire and lack of desire. The idea that if you "hang in there" you might get a whiff of poon is inherently Beta. Why would any guy with options do that? If you want to understand human behavior, the best way is to look at incentives. Girls are incentivized to put out for Chad immediately because hypergamy can't afford to let a prime opportunity slip away. That is why the mythical Quality… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 09:24 PM |
| 1 | 20 year old girl blue balls the fuck out of me on second date, what's my next course of action?At this point I'm pissed but don't show it Well, you might think that, but she knows you're pissed. Girls have an intuitive feel for that. I agree that soft next is the right move here. She gave you a taste to string you along. I wouldn't take the bait. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 09:17 PM |
| 10 | 3rd date no sexI told her I don't believe in withholding sex as some sort of proving ground and that sex is something people who like each other do. Trying to logic a girl into sex = creepy Beta move. Total fail on your part. What a fucking trainwreck this post is. You need to spend the next six months reading RP material. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 09:12 PM |
| 5 | Text game for out of town plating?I would like to bang her when I come through every few months. So hit her up next time you're there. If she agrees to see you, great. If not, go out and find a new girl. Really, though, this was probably a one night stand in her mind. how do I keep this girl interested without looking like a needy texting fuck? If a girl wants to keep in touch, then she keep in touch with you...not the other way around. You can't force a desire that isn't there. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Grow a pair and Travel AloneI'll add that going out alone in a new city often makes you more approachable as long as you aren't giving off awkward vibes. Naturally it helps a lot to look good, e.g. you lift and dress well. I was on the other side of the country for a work trip recently. Most nights I went out alone. Had a number of girls catcall me walking around at night ("nice ass"), opening me at bars, hell even buying me shots (thank you random L.A. girl). This almost never happens when I'm out with friends, as I'm usu… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/19 08:33 PM |
| 1 | 15 Most Upvoted Comments - TheRedPill & askTRPAdding this comment to my saves. I always hope that girls find happiness after our relationship comes to an end. It gives me no pleasure to watch them further spiral into degeneracy. That said, how many Beta hearts have these girls broken? There were many nights that I would cry myself to sleep over some chick. Naturally nobody gives a shit because Betas' feelings are of no relevance. We're all part of the same fucked up system. Yes, we shouldn't lose our humanity, but it's the world that is hor… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/19 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Tinder Fail - Limits of A Strong FrameYou're thinking too much about this. The Red Pill doesn't guarantee success 100% of the time. No model of human behavior can account for infinite variations. Sure you have the peanut gallery chiming in with their 2 cents, but if you've been having success on Tinder as you claim, then who gives a shit? Nobody here bats 1000. Maybe you weren't aggressive enough. Perhaps she didn't like your accent or your clothes or something equally trivial. Could be that she has no social or flirting skills like… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/19 07:19 PM |
| 6 | FWB found out I’m sleeping with other peopleShe’s a long distance FWB in a city I frequent once a month for work. That's all it should amount to, then. I also have a FWB in another part of the country. I would never move to be with her, nor would I want her to move to me. You see each other under highly artificial circumstances, and presumably you stay in a decent hotel, expense meals to the company, etc. That isn't real life. You have no idea what things would be like if you lived closer together. things have progressed to having a discu… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 12:14 AM |
| 0 | Should I keep in touch with FWB?She didn't reply to your text, but not replying is a message in itself, i.e. that she isn't interested. Remember that women are passive by nature. Hell, she basically outright told you that you weren't going to be a priority during these last few weeks. Should've just said, "no worries, let me know if you want to meet up before you leave" and left it at that. But as you acknowledge, you fucked up by trying to extract one last bang or two anyway. That demonstrated lack of Game and that you don't … | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Is it okay to be shy?Harrison Ford is known to be a "shy" guy, but he's still charismatic as hell when he needs to be. Watch his interviews. He's self-aware enough of his shyness to turn it into a type "shy game" where he basically fucks around with the hosts. A lot of old school Hollywood actors are like this. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 03:33 PM |
| 10 | Rollo drops out the 21 ConventionI think Rollo simply succumbed to bias and self-delusion. He's been part of this thing for 20 years, trying to spread the word. My understanding is that he personally helped rebrand 21 Con into more of a "Red Pill" event. With the 21 Con, it probably seemed as though TRP was on the cusp of achieving a mainstream breakthrough. Rollo is a very intelligent guy, but that doesn’t make him infallible in other realms outside of his core expertise. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/19 02:09 PM |
| 5 | Rollo drops out the 21 ConventionWhat would these disagreements concern? Aside from a few minor quibbles, I personally can't recall disagreeing with anything in Rollo's work on intersexual dynamics. As far as I'm aware, nobody has ever mounted a serious argument against his ideas. In any event, cantankerousness isn't unusual for a guy that achieves a significant measure of thought leadership. Alpha males typically don't like being challenged. They want a platform. "I don't Rollo because he was mean to me on Twitter" doesn't see… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/19 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Did I act like a beta male? How bad is this situation? NEED HELPI don't understand how a condom could just "slip off". That has never happened to me, ever. Consider buying smaller condoms that fit instead of stroking your ego with Magnums or whatever the hell you're doing. In any event, you never bone some rando without a condom. What were you thinking? She was right to get tested. You should, too. Fucking you was supposed to be clean, safe fun for her. A much-needed diversion from her Beta cuck boyfriend at home. But you ruined that by not wrapping up and s… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Is it wise to delete my dating apps if I'm not pulling the matches/numbers I expected?/u/mallardcove wrote a few very good Red Pill Tinder guides. I strongly encourage you to check them out. If you're not getting any matches/dates, it means your pictures are dogshit - either low quality, low underlying SMV, or boring. Likely some combination of all three. There is no other explanation. Once you get the hang of it, Tinder is hands down the easiest way to bang 6s and 7s. I don't accept most rationalizations against it - a topic that I cover in an essay from awhile back. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 03:50 PM |
| 2 | How to get invited to parties?Excellent reply. I'm going to appropriate the term "value leech" for future use (lol). OP, you're just asking people to do you favors while providing nothing in return. Incidentally this is women's modus operandi. (1) Show Up (2) Look at least marginally attractive (3) Profit. Men don't get it this easy. As a man, you have to create the fun. Notice that all the high value Chads in college - frat guys, rich trust funders, sports team members - are the ones throwing the parties. They're leaders. Y… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Is bulking actually increasing my attractiveness?This conversation would be much easier if you posted pics. Cut your head out of the frame. This 'identifying birthmarks' talk is a little paranoid. You also give us almost no information. What's your waist size? I mean measured with an actual measuring tape, not the size of the pants you wear. What are your lift numbers? Bulking and building a serious amount of muscle necessitates gaining some body fat. In my experience, this does not have a deleterious effect on attractiveness - quite the oppos… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Wait, what? We hate Rollo Tomassi now?I didn't say it was an official action. The erasure would simply be the natural consequence of the shenanigans that come up whenever a Rollo post appears - although again, I have also seen explicit calls for Rollo's material to be tossed in the garbage. The predictable consequence of such attacks is marginalization of Rollo's work, especially among a younger crowd who are already predisposed to tune out the professorial lectures of a 50 YO man. I think we're already starting to see that. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Wait, what? We hate Rollo Tomassi now?At least one prominent member of this forum has stated as much. But just take a look at the rhetoric. What are the logical consequences of denouncing Rollo and declaring him a Beta? The motives can easily be inferred from the natural results. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 02:36 PM |
| 5 | Wait, what? We hate Rollo Tomassi now?You're missing the reason why lifting is advocated in the first place. The Red Pill recognizes that arousal is the key component of Alpha Fucks, but muscles aren't the sole factor. A skinny model boy like Francisco Lachowski easily fulfills the Alpha Fucks side of hypergamy. Some guys are just born with aesthetically perfect faces and don't have to lift a finger their whole lives. But the best and quickest (and perhaps only) way for an average guy to become arousing is to lift. The problem with … | /r/askTRP | 03/06/19 06:59 PM |
| 11 | Wait, what? We hate Rollo Tomassi now?Well now that Rollo is no longer associated with Anthony Johnson and the rest of that cohort, hopefully people can finally stop screaming about him for it. But I doubt that will happen. It has become clear to me that the Rollo "hate" was always more than that. There's a substantial minority of ideologues on this forum who reject the notion that the Red Pill is strictly descriptive. They've drifted from intersexual dynamics theory and Game into making normative assertions about the way masculinit… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/19 03:17 PM |
| 1 | How do I respond to girls being direct?You're making this much more complicated than it has to be. Do yourself a favor and learn to take yes for an answer if girls are throwing themselves at you. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 09:53 PM |
| 1 | OLTRSo just be FWB then. There's no formal process here. Go on dates (that is, activities that aren't just having sex) like you would normally do with a girlfriend. When she inevitably brings up the "what are we?" talk, reiterate that you aren't looking for exclusivity, but that you really enjoy spending time with her and would like to keep seeing her. Some girls will walk at this point. That's okay. Let them go and focus on the ones who are willing to accept the deal that you're offering. One rule:… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 03:47 PM |
| 5 | Just had a date that was the antithesis of everything TRPDamn you really fucked this one up. Worse, your explanation of what went down is completely and utterly wrong. Let's walk through this. In the uber she mentions she has a boyfriend who lives in France and she'll go live with him next year. Huge shit test. The safest response in this situation, I think, would be to completely ignore. You don't say how you reacted, but I think this rattled you on some level, as we will soon see. We meet today and go straight to my hotel. When she agreed to meet yo… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 03:30 PM |
| 19 | Opinion on being "rough" in bed?This. Get used to it, OP. Don't take the choking thing too literally. They mean they like having a firm hard around their throat. Don't be too much of a "nice guy" in bed. There's a time and a place for sweet, gentle lovemaking, but if that's all you do then she'll quickly tire of having sex with you. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 03:11 PM |
| 5 | How I fucked my first Oneitis, caught feelings for her again and made her fleeIt would show me that it is over. Again, why would she do that? Why would she give a shit about providing you with pointless "closure?" The uncertainty whether its over or not. There's no uncertainty here at all. You blew it. It's over. Stop obsessing over this ONEitis and move onto other girls. Got that? Is this sinking into your brain, or do I have to repeat it one more time? Women are indirect and passive-aggressive by nature. They will rarely say something like Get away from me you fucking c… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/19 05:39 PM |
| 3 | How I fucked my first Oneitis, caught feelings for her again and made her fleeYeah, but wouldn’t nexting me involve unfollowing me from IG for example? Why would she unfollow you? What purpose would that serve? Also, I didn’t beg for sex, I just wanted to chill with her a bit more Which means you wanted more sex and/or attention. You pleaded for her to stay. That's begging. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/19 05:15 PM |
| 11 | How I fucked my first Oneitis, caught feelings for her again and made her fleeYou did everything right up until the second time you met. Why didn't you bang her in the field? That would have been hot, exciting, and unexpected. Missed opportunity. We have talked the following week every day on WhatsApp and it seemed like it was going pretty well. This is the problem with most of the young guys on here. You say you've been on TRP for two years, but it's clear that you haven't internalized much beyond how to get your dick wet. Texting every day?! C'mon, man. This is beginner… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/19 04:30 PM |
| 16 | Advice on LDRYes. I got that. I'm saying she very likely cheated as well. And even if she didn't, the fact that she wanted to go abroad demonstrates that she didn't value her relationship with you. I wouldn't feel the least bit bad about it. Also if you're gonna cheat on the DL, at least don't get caught. You're a moron for fucking a GF's friend. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 09:23 PM |
| 29 | Advice on LDRYou understand that study abroad is a fuckfest for women, right? Can you taste the Italian cum when you kiss her? She wants to study aboad? NEXT. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 08:34 PM |
| 8 | She left me for a betaAlright, now we're getting to it. When she says sweet things, don't automatically parrot them back. Let me give you a few examples: Girl: Do you like me? Wrong Answer: Of course I do. Right Answer: Well, sometimes. Girl: I love you. Wrong Answer: I love you too. Right Answer: I know. Girl: You're so hot. Wrong Answer: You're really hot, too. Right Answer: It's a burden. If do decide to "give in" and compliment her back, it's a treat. When I do decide to give her some validation, it makes her day… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 05:15 PM |
| 16 | She left me for a betaWe had amazing, wild sex The fire of any brief affair... we were really comfortable around each other, ...and the wet blanket of any brief affair. However, all of a sudden, she became aloof and asked me for "time and space" via text. Nothing happens "all of a sudden." You're bullshitting yourself, but you can't bullshit us. What are you leaving out? Quite a childish, passive-aggressive and immature way to deal with the situation, isn't it? Women are indirect by nature. we had a connection. Only … | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 04:23 PM |
| 3 | The Rational Male – Ask Anything 2You literally have nothing to say OTHER than "so what". For the third time, I don't agree with some of Rollo's associations. But I also don't believe in this Mao-like effort to purge him and his work from the community. I ask "so?" because if the solution is excommunication, I am not in favor of that at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/19 04:54 AM |
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