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I think she sees you as a provider type so she is withholding sex.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 08:33 AM
3

Small talk on tinder is a waste of time.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 08:17 AM
5

First, stop blaming your parents. Secondly, find habits to replace your bad habits with.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 06:38 PM
5

I would recommend taking LSD or mushrooms if you want introspection. They tend to reveal your true self and not your ego. All in moderation though.
/r/askTRP18/02/17 11:44 AM
10

The best strategy involves your gf being a great wingwoman. Go to a club Dance with girlfriend Have her befriend a hot chick, get flirty and make out with her Introduce yourself, get friendly as a group, ramp up the flirty chat. Dance together, grind, eventually make out with them both When she is ready, suggest a threesome in an indirect way. Direct may work as well depending on your SMV. Go home with 3rd girl and have fun This strategy works if you and your girlfriend appear to have high SMV. …
/r/askTRP18/02/17 10:57 AM
4

No he doesn't. MMA fighters can't hang with real boxers. Not a fucking chance. It's a joke to both sports to allow Mcgregor to fight Mayweather.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 10:44 AM
8

The logistics sucked, what more can you do? Was taking her to your place out of the question?
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 10:42 AM
2

meh, Nike ads are 100x better.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 09:46 PM
1

Fuck sake, 4 whole days!!!! Change takes time, you don't deserve to be feeling sorry for yourself yet.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 07:13 PM
1

You need to go out and field test what you read. If you don't put in the approaches and rejections, you will never get better.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 06:39 PM
3

Why is it always about money? If you chase money, you will never have enough.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 12:30 PM
7

I was going to take this post seriously until you told us that you should buy a pair of sandals.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 11:21 AM
2

Lifting is the #1 thing you need to do to begin raising your SMV. You can go 3x a week, it only takes an hour per workout. Follow 5x5 starting strength program and go from there.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 07:57 PM
1

EU is where its at
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:07 AM
3

I've worked my way up to never accepting anything below a hard 7. This may drop if I ever hit another drought but that is highly unlikely.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:49 PM
6

Gain 20-30 pounds of muscle first.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 07:06 PM
9

On the day of the date. I like to say "Hey, im going to be about 10 minutes late." This doesn't come across as needy because you are not asking her anything and it gives her a chance to reply to you or not.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 05:42 PM
1

Lifting, techno/house festivals & party nights, reading/writing, visiting art galleries and other cultural things.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 08:06 PM
0

What the hell are you getting botox for?
/r/askTRP04/02/17 02:53 PM
-2

You don't need to train abs if you lift heavy on your main compound lifts such as squats, deadlifts, bench, military press etc.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 07:08 AM
1

She's the kind of chick who will cheat on you while you are in the vicinity of her. These women are the worst kind. Drop her and start spinning plates.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 09:57 PM
1

Mark Manson
/r/askTRP01/02/17 09:25 PM
1

How the hell does one jump from 55 to 100k? Fill me in.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 07:40 PM
0

Ricky Gervais podcasts with Karl Pilkington, hands down the funniest shit you will ever hear.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 08:53 PM
1

I think you developed an ego around the identity that you simply don't care to lose your virginity because that's easier than admitting you suck with women. Also, if you are at 12% bf, you are either cutting or eating at maintenance. When eating below your maintenance caloric intake you may experience less sexual urges.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 07:31 PM
1

Don't go digging around in her past like that, it only makes you compare yourself to them and leaves you feeling inadequate. If she tells you her number, multiply that by 2.3 and leave it at that.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 07:24 PM
2

The first few minutes are always awkward when meeting a new woman. It also helps if you give off a relaxed vibe yourself.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 07:21 PM
1

No, the letter "k" is what women use to show they are mad or frustrated. It's a desperate and needy move.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 07:10 PM
0

Why the fuck are men replying with a "K". I want to shake you until that fucking letter is removed from your vocabulary unless it is attached to other letters in the same word. Never use "k" again. Also, stop texting unless it is strictly for making plans. If she isn't willing to meet than she simply isn't into you.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 05:32 PM
8

You are going to severely disappoint the girl in question as its your first time. Don't worry, it gets better.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 05:27 PM
2

Remember, the biggest and most profound growth after a time of pain in your life. It is your body telling you that you need to change your ways.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 10:51 PM
1

Get good at a manly sport.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 07:29 PM
3

They flake out because they don't perceive you as alpha enough.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 07:27 PM
9

Probably the greatest way ever to deal with that shit test. Well done sailor.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 07:27 PM
1

Ego.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 09:07 PM
6

He doesn't sound like alpha at all. You can do way better.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 09:05 PM
1

Because I have an IQ over 82 and can think for myself. Religion is pure brainwashing for our youth. If a new law was passed that you could not push religion on anyone under the age of 18, religion would cease to exist. It's no coincidence that religion is still very prevalent in countries that are not doing well (2nd and 3rd world countries). People with very little hope can easily be converted. Look at Europe, I'd say that the majority of the people now do not believe in a god.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 09:01 PM
1

Bulking up to 85-86kg, which ends at the end of February, under 16% bf. Then cutting to 78kg @ around 11-12bf% before the end of June. Getting a fixed contract at Nike, currently on an external contract. Self publishing my first book, a collection of 10 short fictional stories. Keep spinning 2-3 plates at all times.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 05:57 PM
2

Why not find a job in the West and move? Step out of your comfort zone.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 09:54 AM
1

To each their own. I'd never ever touch a 3.5. Shame on you for steeping that low.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 09:44 AM
1

No more than 500 calories below your maintenance. I know that the wait will be longer, but you will look better.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 05:27 PM
2

Thats too much, you are cutting what little muscle you may have.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 08:29 PM
1

You don't.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 06:51 PM
2

Make a goal to talk to women daily.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 06:18 PM
1

Change takes time. A few weeks is nothing. Get to a real gym and start counting calories. You need to be at a deficit of 300-500 calories below your maintenance.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 05:20 PM
3

People who think it's bullshit are typically extroverted.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 07:11 AM
2

Read and internalise the side bar, all the answers lie there. Read the sidebar until you realize she isn't very special, in fact, there are millions of girls just like her.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 06:55 AM
1

Recognising on which instances you are hamstering and stopping. Start being critical about yourself and your decisions.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 06:46 AM
2

Would also suggest 5x5 starting strength. You need to let running go if you want to focus on getting big and strong though, which will probably be difficult as you are an avid runner. Putting on weight is much more difficult if you are doing lots of cardio.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 06:44 AM
2

Why can't you just plate her?
/r/askTRP11/01/17 09:01 PM
2

You are way over-invested. And for the love of god, stop using the word "lol". You are not a 14 year old girl. Her labia probably shrivelled up.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 08:58 PM
26

Don't listen to women for advice, ever. Read the sidebar, it is clear you have not.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 08:23 PM
2

You come in here, new to TRP and tell us that you should not focus on lifting first? It all starts with lifting, that habit and struggle transfers to all other facets of life. Lifting is the base of the house, without it you are just building a shitty house on top of it.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 06:47 AM
4

Holding one plate in your hand instead of spinning multiple plates is just another form of male hamstering that we see far too much on TRP.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 06:44 AM
35

I love how the comment section is people thinking that going to the gym is like meditation. It isn't. Not even close. You need to do BOTH.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 06:36 AM
1

This story really resinates with me. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 11:33 AM
1

Step 1: Ask blue pill friends for advice on women. Step 2: Do the complete opposite Step 3: Victory
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:56 PM
16

This is why you need to spin more than one plate. That is why it is called spinning plates rather than holding one plate in your hand.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 02:34 PM
1

You are hanging out with the wrong kind of people if this is happening.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 01:35 PM
3

Studies have shown that black women are 28.3% more likely to cheat. All women are also more likely to cheat on you if your reddit username starts with the letter Y. I'd say you are pretty fucked.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 06:17 PM
1

Stop the mental masturbation and go out and apply what you have learned.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 03:17 PM
1

Sounds like you are being too needy. Apply dread game. And why are you having text conversations?
/r/askTRP31/12/16 09:08 PM
1

Troll
/r/askTRP31/12/16 07:15 PM
1

There is nothing wrong with Tinder, but it is being used instead of actually going out and developing game through real life social interactions. Tinder should supplement real approaches, not replace.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 01:06 PM
3

I don't think you are aware of what Red pill actually teaches. It teaches you to be your own man that is congruent in his thoughts and action. You can compliment your women in situations where it is natural.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 03:14 PM
9

Meet new girls instead.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 02:40 PM
2

Why are you worried about all of this already? You should have asked for her number to show INTENT. You came across as a beta because you created a lot of excuses in your head.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 01:20 PM
4

He was a doormat because he didn't set clear boundaries. My plates know better than to arrive late. Never happens.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 01:09 PM
1

Another question for you. Are you getting into lifting for the first time? If your body isn't used to lifting or intense sports after a long layoff then it is very normal that you are really really sore.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 12:42 PM
11

She tested your boundaries and you said it was ok. You should have made it a point that your time is precious, especially since she is a plate.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 12:34 PM
3

Do you lift or play intense sports regularly? Age 28 is a man's physical prime, you should not be having random aches that do not go away.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 12:31 PM
18

So glad I wasn't born in the USA or a jew. Essentially, you are mutilating baby dicks.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 11:59 AM
6

You are spot on about everything in this post, except about the grunting at the gym. Grunting is for meathead gym chodes who wear low cut tanktops. It isn't necessary, you can lift those 183 plates without it.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 11:22 AM
1

Look at all the male hamstering going on in this post. 6s are not more interesting than 8s nor do they try harder, thats just you guys male hamstering. OP, you only find it rewarding to fuck HB6s because its too difficult to raise your SMV and game to fuck 8s and 9s. They are all the same.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 10:58 AM
12

The only reason why humans take everything personal is because of the ego. I would suggest studying up on the ego and the id. Dropping your ego or lessening its hold on your thoughts is a very powerful transformational tool. The ego is also responsible for you comparing everything you do to the people around you.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 05:45 PM
5

Take notes of everything you read on the sidebar. With a pen and paper. You will digest everything much better if you rewrite the most important TRP articles in your own words.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 02:48 PM
2

If you have internalized TRP than you would know that this girl, nor any other girl is "different"or "special. She tells you that she doesn't feel enough because you are too available and needy. She doesn't perceive you as worthy or alpha enough to get into a serious relationship with.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 02:09 PM
0

This has everything to do with challenging yourself in a drastic way. You only think this is a bad idea because you lack abundance.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 01:20 AM
1

It's not about flaking, its about teaching yourself about abundance in a drastic way to see faster results.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 01:19 AM
1

Ame all night long in the Marktkantine
/r/askTRP24/12/16 03:39 PM
2

That's the problem with most people on this forum, they think good change will happen overnight. Realistically, you could change all of your bad habits into good within a year if you are persistent. It starts with lifting.
/r/askTRP24/12/16 11:39 AM
3

This is way too much. You need to change one bad habit at a time if you want to succeed. I suggest focusing on one habit at a time for at least 3 weeks so that it becomes a habit (21-28 days typically). After that, focus on the next one.
/r/askTRP24/12/16 11:10 AM
1

It's not really about looks if you are jacked and confident. Focusing on looks first isn't a good idea.
/r/askTRP24/12/16 11:07 AM
3

Great post. It goes much deeper than this, because everyone is possessed by their ego. Drop your ego and you will also stop comparing yourself to others.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 10:55 AM
3

Going to a house party, then a techno party in Amsterdam.
/r/askTRP24/12/16 09:58 AM
1

George Carlin
/r/askTRP24/12/16 09:55 AM
3

She is waiting for you to take control and lead. She is testing your manhood and you are waiting too long to make a move or not making it at all. Women want to be led.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 08:59 AM
4

Harsh? Are you kidding me? You need to physically escalating from the moment you see a girl on the first date. If you haven't made out with her by the end of it than you are simply doing it wrong.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 02:40 PM
1

Ohh no I'm fine, im 6'1, white and jacked. I was just making a general statement.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 12:18 PM
1

That's bullshit, if a really aesthetic face is on a 5'6 body, you will still have trouble being noticed by women. Put that same face on a guy who is 6'3 and you are basically invisible compared to him.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 01:41 PM
1

I still can't believe people in the comment section ARE still male hamstering. 6'3 is the ideal height for a man. I know deep down that if I had a 6'3 clone, he would get all the chicks over me. Yes, there are many others factors that attract women, but being 6'3 or close to it in either direction will maximize your attraction to women.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 01:40 PM
5

What's wrong with being a fuck toy? You sound like a woman. Fuck her.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 05:11 PM
1

You need a gym once you reach the stage where bodyweight lifting and basic dumbbells no longer provide you with strength gains and growth.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 08:38 PM
1

I found that reading A New Earth or Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle helped me tremendously. It is all about identifying your ego and dropping it altogether, very powerful stuff. It sounds like what you need is just that.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 08:17 PM
-1

Expecting women to have humor is the problem here.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 06:34 PM
2

Eat 400-500 calories under your maintenance (TDEE) and reduce eating crap food to maybe 2-3 items per week. The focus is slow fat loss. If you lose a pound per week, you will lose almost only fat and minimal muscle. That means you still need to make sure you eat at least 1gr. of protein/ pound of bodyweight.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 06:20 PM
1

Because men and women are wired differently. A good rule of thumb is to the opposite of what a woman says she likes or wants.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 09:07 PM
1

She's testing and pushing your boundaries. Apply dread game.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 08:53 PM
10

Don't create threads if you don't know what the fuck you are talking about. You are missing the point entirely.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 10:19 AM
1

Throw this script out of the window. step 1: Get low bf% and have muscle. step 2: push/pull with chicks step 3: profit
/r/askTRP25/11/16 10:41 PM
3

Let me get this straight. You came to a subforum, that uses lifting heavy weights as its foundation, to ask if its necessary?> There are no shortcuts in life. Hit the gym you lazy fuck.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 06:13 PM
2

It's not a really a common shit test. If women sense that you are alpha, they know you get laid a lot and just don't bother to ask.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 06:07 PM
3

You became her fucking boyfriend after how long? Read the fucking sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 07:41 PM
0

Fighting is for scumbags. Avoid at all costs. On a serious note, it is not difficult to not get into fights. In your particular situation, just swallow your pride. I think you handled it well.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 05:42 PM
3

You need to show your intent. Sharing eye contact is cute the first few times, but she will ultimately be disappointed that you are not making a move. I'm sure she understands enough english to be able to go get a drink with you and to exchange numbers.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 05:40 PM
2

Arcade hall, pool hall, rock climbing, a circus act , go see a band.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 05:38 PM
1

There are a million articles on the red pill forum that outline this exact topic. Stop being so fucking lazy, that is step 1.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 05:37 PM
6

It's quite difficult to end up in jail. I don't think you are trying at all.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 11:48 AM
2

Are you trolling?
/r/askTRP19/11/16 11:08 AM
6

Do NOT do serious bodybuilding at such a young age. You will most likely mess with your natural growth.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 07:27 PM
7

The way you wrote this makes you seem like a massive douche. It's like you took the red pill advice of not being "nice" too literally. However, nice job on salvaging that situation by getting another girls' number while on that date.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 06:53 AM
18

This is a very non red pill attitude towards life. If you work your hardest, hustle, lift, excel at your career, game women, you will be successful. The majority of people are just coasting by, it isn't difficult to excel.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 06:41 AM
1

What is your bf%?
/r/askTRP06/11/16 09:45 PM
2

You need to be flirtatious and forward with women, that's one of the key takeaways of red pill.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 07:15 PM
1

Stop being such a lazy cunt. There is only one real solution to your problem. Start lifting/running and cutting calories. Cut one bad food out of your diet each day. Do it slowly. You can't come to red pill and then suggest some shitty fix which isn't really a fix. Either take the hard road or don't do it at all and remain a fat virgin until the end of time.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 07:14 PM
1

Are you new here?
/r/askTRP04/11/16 07:11 PM
1

Have you read any fucking sidebar?
/r/askTRP04/11/16 06:21 PM
0

I would never recommend fasting to beginners when it comes to health. It's too extreme.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 05:40 PM
5

Women start to notice you more the closer to 10% bf you get. I'd recommend a slow bulk, staying under 14% bf in the winter months and then an easy cut back down to 10% in the months leading up to summer.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 07:32 PM
5

She's already banging another guy at college, sorry mate. Seriously, why else would she want a break?
/r/askTRP28/10/16 05:14 PM
3

Can confirm. Amsterdam has the best party scene in the world at the moment, if you are into actual good electronic music (not that EDM shit). Plus the woman are ridiculous, lots of different cultures and Dutch women as well. Another great thing about Amsterdam is its relaxed nature, the pace of life is simply much easier and relaxed.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 05:12 PM
3

The thoughts that the red pill stand for are too radical for it to be a movement that is exposed to the world. Most men cannot handle the truth that is red pill and prefer to be naive for the rest of their lives.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 07:22 PM
1

Go out in the real world and meet women.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 12:22 PM
1

You are probably too eager once you start making out because its quite a new concept for you. You need to give them a little and then back off to create more sexual tension.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 10:33 AM
4

All women are the same.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:10 PM
1

You need to work on your ego if you are worried about expressing your "abundance" to others.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 03:20 PM
9

Don't be the douche that posts flexing pictures on Instagram. This is the real answer and the only answer.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 02:30 PM
1

Stop texting "k".
/r/askTRP01/10/16 02:27 PM
9

What the fuck is this "k" response. This is how a woman responds when she is annoyed. For fuck sake, just spell out "ok" like a man.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 07:47 PM
18

You need to tell her the following: "Calm your tits woman".
/r/askTRP21/09/16 05:42 AM
1

You made a thread asking for "help", but really you are just indirectly asking for validation and praise. Want a fucking cookie?
/r/askTRP12/09/16 07:09 PM
-5

WAIT, a girl watched you work out?? holy shit boys, this is some real groundbreaking red pill material right here. She went out of her way to keep the conversation going and you didn't run with it.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 05:22 AM
1

Read the fucking sidebar.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 05:59 PM
1

Why are you in a whatsapp group with a bunch of girls?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 04:11 PM
19

I didn't read all this, but it seems to me like it is too obvious that you are trying to "game" these girls. You mention the word routine in your story. If you haven't internalised TRP, it will show and girls will sense it.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 06:40 PM
1

Risk analyst
/r/askTRP26/08/16 09:46 PM
21

Stop being such a victim and grow some fucking balls.
/r/seduction19/08/16 05:52 AM
1

TDLR Sex IS one of the most basic needs, Maslow's pyramid of needs? You can pretend it isn't, but it is. We are driven, even subconsciously by sexual drives.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 02:49 PM
1

This post is shit. Read "How to win friends and influence people". A smile is extremely powerful when genuine. If you can't give genuine smiles, you need to get your life in order.
/r/seduction05/08/16 05:59 AM
1

If it truly doesn't bother you, it won't bother them. I just finished my bachelor at age 27 and age was never an issue because I simply know that the age you finish or start school is irrelevant to anything in life. Embrace it and nobody will ever be bothered by its again. Being older has major advantages when it comes to getting women in school as well.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 08:10 PM
0

Step 1: Delete snapchat because you are a man
/r/seduction03/08/16 06:41 PM
1

Get with other girls
/r/askTRP30/07/16 10:39 AM
3

Read the fucking sidebar
/r/askTRP30/07/16 10:23 AM
0

The only thing I learned from this post is that your family is shit.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 04:01 PM
0

No, you are not onto something. All girls are the same, they date alpha men that come in any color.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 05:38 AM
2

First, please fix this wall of text. Now for some advice, next! Way too much investment needed on your part, go game other chicks.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 05:30 PM
1

How much escalating have you done in the 3 prior meetings? If you haven't shown her you are a man, she probably lost interest and partying with her friends became more desirable for her.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 05:28 PM
4

Be direct. "Hey lets meet up for a drink at X location" Do it in the evening with alcohol.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 05:15 PM
1

You should be solely focusing on improving your lifts 3-5x a week, that is the basis of red pill. Swimming is cardio, which you don't need to do unless you are fat.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 07:16 PM
1

She has and she probably enjoyed it, get over it.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 07:13 PM
-1

Traveling and independent, how the fuck are those red flags? stop posting in this subreddit when you clearly have not read the sidebar in the main subreddit.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 05:31 PM
1

If you have to ask then you have not internalized red pill beliefs. There is only one answer and that is weightlifting.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 05:29 PM
1

You stopped being alpha and turned into the provider. A woman uses sex as a means to an end. She got what she wanted out of you (commitment) and lost her desire/respect for you as a man.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 05:53 AM
1

That's a major red flag, abort.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 04:40 PM
2

This might be a great quick fix but it taps deeply into your ego. Building up an ego based around the notion that everyone wants your dick, which will never be the case, will bit you in the ass in the long run.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 04:22 PM
1

It's all a matter of habits and swapping a bad habit for a good one. Initially this requires a lot of willower. If you start making doing a little work each day a habit you will find that it becomes easier once it has become a habit. This process typically takes 2-3 weeks and then it is normal for your brain to work on a daily basis.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 08:17 PM
1

When it comes to gaming women during the day, turning the conversation from normal boring topics to flirty and then sexual. I struggle to do this, any tips?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 09:09 PM
0

Yes, you posting about your amazing changes after discovering Red Pill is like someone posting on a diet forum that their new diet has made them lose 50 pounds in a week.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 03:32 PM
2

Would you take advice from a fish on how to catch a fish or from the fisherman? Same concept when it comes to advice. Women's advice is the complete opposite of what you should be doing. They ultimately want to suppress and control you so that you can be the good little provider nice guy.
/r/seduction08/03/16 09:12 PM
2

If you think being red pill is about being an asshole, read the sidebar again.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 08:02 PM
1

Getting them to your room should be an indirect thing that feel natural. If you want to verbalize, you need to say things like " want to come see my music collection?" or " come check out this hilarious video i have on my laptop". It is indirect and they know that sex will happen. This way a girl doesn't feel "cheap" or "slutty" because you were not direct about sex.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 06:25 PM
3

Run for the hills
/r/askTRP20/02/16 05:25 PM
21

The correlation you make between average looking girls and giving more BJs is not correct. All women, when they meet their Chad, will blow him mercilessly whenever he wants. It has nothing to do with thumb sucking at an early age or being average and using blowjobs to get something.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 04:52 PM
1

The two are not related at all. There are many other factors that you are probably not thinking of.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 09:50 AM
1

She should be talking more than you. Deep down, nobody cares about anyone but themselves. It is your job however, to lead the conversation from boring topics to topics about her character and commonalities you may have and eventually flirty/sexual topics.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 09:18 AM
1

Great progress. I would not recommend this at such a young age though. Lots of heavy lifting can interfere with your growth into manhood in terms of height.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 08:19 PM
1

If you didn't make a move on the first date, its over. She has friendzoned you.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 06:42 PM
1

Wow, have you read any red pill? Stating that its way harder in X country is complete bullshit, especially in the West. I am living in Holland and gaming girls is just as easy as in the USA. Women are the same everywhere. If you are having trouble, its your lack of game, not the women in your vicinity.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 05:59 PM
1

Being a short and buff is still better than just being short.
/r/seduction16/02/16 08:36 PM
-1

Looks do matter and being buff always helps you. In addition, going to the gym 4-5 days a week creates a strong and healthy habit. People who say lifting isn't important are just too lazy to put in the hard work.
/r/seduction16/02/16 07:48 PM
2

Agreed, to be honest, I was too tired and I simply didn't give a shit anymore. I was also establishing a non needy attitude towards sex. In hindsight, I should have tried harder.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 06:38 PM
3

You mention that you are talking about just the USA, but I feel this holds true for any Western country. Being a guy in his late 20s, I can say that college girls go for older guys because they typically have more "going on" in their lives and are more interesting. I think they are sick of their classmates who are still running around being immature and douchey. I don't think it is necessarily about types of girls and I wouldn't analyze it that deeply.
/r/seduction16/02/16 06:30 AM
3

This is some real groundbreaking stuff here.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 09:02 PM
2

Graduate high school. Now seriously, whats the fucking problem? If she wants to join, she will cheat. By being controlling and butthurt about it, you are only making things worse. A situation like this, you need to just be non-reactive.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 05:34 PM
3

"If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always gotten" - Zig Ziglar
/r/askTRP15/02/16 05:18 PM
2

Take your plate and go to a club. Get tipsy and have your plate find you and her a random. It's easy and you avoid potential drama.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 05:17 PM
1

The long time philosophy is the only real way to change. Yes, it will feel uncomfortable, yes it will be hard. If you don't want to be a scrub for the rest of your life, you have to hustle daily to better yourself. Nothing easy to get is satisfying and that goes for everything.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 05:10 PM
2

Ugly girls are good for getting into state on a night out. Do it.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 05:07 PM
1

Next!
/r/askTRP14/02/16 09:24 PM
3

Answering with a "lol" screams outcome dependence and desperation. You could start with never doing that again. Just wait a few days and ask her out again. Do not play the same games women play.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 07:36 PM
18

Ohh she was fully aware of what was happening. If both girls perceive you as alpha, she will not care at all about the fact that her friend is cheating on her boyfriend. I have had a similar situation where my target's best friend, who lived together actually encouraged the cheating because we were getting along so great as a group and my value was high enough. Try it as a beta and you will get punished for trying, but as soon as your are perceived as alpha, everything is okay.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 06:09 PM
11

Completely agree, which is strange as Amsterdam is quite a big city. In terms of girls though, I believe Amsterdam is top notch, especially in the techno/house scene.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 04:19 PM
2

You don't need to discuss this with her. You need to start focusing on your own shit and become a man again. Start picking up hobbies that you are passionate about, spend more time with bros, lift alot of weights.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 06:58 AM
9

I fucking hate this current self absorbed social media generation. So glad I was born in the 80s. Now onto some advice: She doens't consider you alpha enough, thats why she is texting and doing whatever the hell she wants in your presence. I would next her.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 06:33 AM
1

The response "K" is the most passive aggressive beta response on the planet. Stop doing that. It might be easier to get a girl to come hang out if you meet in a neutral place first. She will feel more comfortable if you have never hung out before and then you can always move her to your house.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 06:30 AM
2

This whole notion of your first time being "special" is a fallacy. Use a condom and have fun!
/r/askTRP12/02/16 06:18 AM
4

There is this app called real life, try it. Cold approach daytime pickup is 100x easier than Tinder.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 06:30 PM
1

Texting should be short and sweet and used strictly for logistics. This is basic seduction 101 text game.
/r/seduction09/02/16 07:53 PM
2

Ofc you won't, have fun. Passive aggressive much?
/r/askTRP07/02/16 06:36 PM
4

She isn't a unicorn and there are thousands of girls out there better than her. Say it once, say it many times, over and over again. If you want to use Red Pill to become a real man, acknowledge this, drop communication and get over to the main subreddit and start reading the sidebar. If you are not willing to, nothing we say here will resonate with you.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 05:05 PM
7

Have you read any Red Pill? Complimenting her is a horrible opener.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 04:55 PM
1

Stop comparing yourself to others. Also, you are statistically much less likely to ever become rich by not going to college. Go to school.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 12:07 PM
2

Lots of guys make the mistake of not showing enough intent on the first date. Ideally, you want to at least make out with a girl during the first date. To put less pressure on yourself and her, makes sure you make a move 1/2 way through the date instead of at the end. Another big reason why a 2nd date might not happen is because she isn't into you. The problem with seduction techniques is that men stop being genuine and real and a woman can easily pick up on this during the date. If you are not …
/r/seduction03/02/16 08:25 PM
-5

First off, I want to stress that I am not racist at all. However, when a girl has fucked random black dudes, they will never be GF material for me.
/r/seduction01/02/16 09:17 PM
1

Drop her, there are thousands of other girls in your direct vicinity. Stop settling for the first girl that gives you attention.
/r/seduction28/01/16 08:36 PM
1

Why do you waste so much time on the chick with the stun gun? eject when you see the first red flag.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 06:38 AM
1

This is great, but you need to slow it the hell down. You should not be more into it than her or you will lose her. Don't bring up feelings or any boyfriend/girlfriend talk either.
/r/seduction26/01/16 06:52 AM
2

Tease her, give her silly nicknames, sexual innuendos etc.
/r/seduction26/01/16 06:49 AM
3

You should not be texting back and forth so much. Within 4-5 lines from both sides, you ask a girl to meet for drinks. Don't waste time with pointless banter. Every message you send should have some kind of flirty undertone, followed with a text about meeting up.
/r/seduction25/01/16 06:50 PM
1

She may have lost interest if you only made out by the 2nd date, thats just how it is. I would suggest not texting her again. If she wanted to date you again, she would get in contact with you. In the meantime, go date other girls.
/r/seduction24/01/16 11:15 AM
3

I will tell you your biggest mistake, and its called eagerness. Next time you go on a date with a girl, do not text them asking them if they got home safely and that you are eager to see her again. This shows too much eagerness. Although you may have really liked her, you cannot show that too early.
/r/seduction24/01/16 11:11 AM
5

Got a couple of insights as ive read all three of your FR's. (1) You are pulling too much, not enough push. This leads to chicks not wanting to fuck you when you are out on your dates. (2) When things get hot and heavy with a chick, try pulling back and just taking a break every once in a while. There is a specific name for this technique (forgettting the name right now), it creates massive attraction and want from the girl. Again this shows that you don't really about the outcome. Speaking of o…
/r/seduction22/01/16 07:17 AM
4

You should stop comparing yourself to others.
/r/seduction22/01/16 07:08 AM
1

Find a nickname for her that teases her a little. A teasing nickname is a very effective push technique.
/r/seduction20/01/16 09:01 PM
1

I agree with you but the people on this subforum need a strategy that works for a regular guy. For a regular guy, complimenting a girl will land them in the friendzone most of the time. You will have more success never complimenting a girl than complimenting a girl.
/r/seduction20/01/16 07:30 PM
1

Have you ever gotten laid? this subforum is about seduction. Seduction says that complimenting a girl is not effective. Why do you go to this subreddit if you are not willing to accept its truths?
/r/seduction20/01/16 06:45 AM
2

Will people stop giving bad advice, she is getting complimented by white knights left and right. Just tease her. Not every snap warrants a response either.
/r/seduction18/01/16 07:14 PM
1

Ever visit redpill? being polarizing and doing/saying whatever you want because you don't care about what people think of your opinions is exactly what red pill is about.
/r/seduction14/01/16 06:41 PM
4

Girls want guys who are wanted. Think of all the jocks and alpha men in your school. Every girl wants him regardless of the fact that he's probably fucked half the cheerleading squad. Now about never having a girlfriend. If this doesn't bother you, it won't bother her. If it is a big deal to you, she will pick up on this insecurity.
/r/seduction13/01/16 06:44 AM
1

Yes, exactly. You already had a good flirty exchange in real life, more texting only diminishes that memory she has of your exchange. Even for online game, you should stick to about 3-6 lines of texting from both sides before moving things towards a date.
/r/seduction13/01/16 06:25 AM
3

You are too invested in her already. You should only be texting to set up logistics for a date.
/r/seduction12/01/16 07:55 PM
0

Thats because you approach girls with the sole purpose of getting something from them (a number, a date, a fuck). Women can pick up on this if you are not completely outcome independent.
/r/seduction12/01/16 06:41 AM
1

I was under the impression that this forum was about picking up women. My statement about kissing the girl on the first date is factual, but people on this subreddit are way too soft. There is way too much opinion being spewed as fact. I'd love to have a discussion with anyone here about my statement about showing clear intentions during the first date.
/r/seduction11/01/16 07:39 PM
0

You need to be kissing girls on the first date, or you get placed in the beta pile. Even if she is still interested, she won't respect you as a man because you did not show your intentions early enough.
/r/seduction10/01/16 04:21 PM
-4

If you haven't kissed the girl on the first date, she has already labeled you as a beta bitchbag.
/r/seduction10/01/16 03:53 PM
1

It is ALWAYS good to flirt with multiple women because it 1) shows abundance and 2) shows other girls that you are wanted.
/r/seduction05/01/16 08:14 PM
-32

What kind of lame perspective is this? running game on a waitress takes maybe 5% of the total time you would spend with your friends. My advice to the OP, get better friends who support you and challenge you.
/r/seduction04/01/16 06:06 PM
1

Take a look at the interactions you have with this girls and ask yourself this: " Who is more invested?" As in, who texts more, initiates etc. It is possible that you are investing more into her than she is you, which would cause her to lose interest fairly quickly.
/r/seduction30/12/15 02:36 PM
7

Why the fuck are you using Craigslist? go out and meet women!
/r/seduction30/12/15 12:00 PM
1

Yea it is. If a girl checks you out and you notice, you have a few minutes to make a move before she loses interest. If you wait too long you appear too beta.
/r/seduction30/12/15 11:59 AM
1

No
/r/seduction30/12/15 11:56 AM
1

You pick out just that sentence in my response? What about your inner game?
/r/seduction29/12/15 11:56 PM
3

Women hate you because you hate yourself. Are you lifting heavy weights 4-5 times a week? Are you looking into your inner self and improving your self confidence? Women respond to the energy and vibes you give off, nothing more.
/r/seduction29/12/15 06:07 PM
2

You know those rare nights you have where the stars align perfectly and you feel and act like a supreme alpha male? I guess it was one of those nights. The combination of being the biggest alpha at that party and hitting the sweet spot in terms of being drunk allowed this perfect storm to happen. The build up consisted of me looking this girl up and down when I entered the party and demanding a drink from some other person. Once I had done a few keg stands and hit my sweet spot I walked into the…
/r/seduction29/12/15 04:19 PM
4

Sounds like she's walking all over you. Complete loss of frame and you are coming across as desperate by still chasing after her after she has disrespected you.
/r/seduction29/12/15 12:34 PM
2

Ask yourself this: Who invested more into the dates and during texting? The person who invests the least wins.
/r/seduction29/12/15 12:33 PM
2

It sounds like you are not showing your intentions clearly enough. You need to kiss ON the first date as a minimum or they will think you are not a man. Be more flirty and sexual next time around.
/r/seduction29/12/15 01:23 AM
4

Change your coffee daytime plans to evening drinks in a bar/cocktail place. Going for coffee during the day is not good for escalation purposes and your ex won't know your intentions. Nighttime is much more prone to hooking up and flirting.
/r/seduction28/12/15 06:13 PM
1

A slut is a bad choice for a life partner, based on the fact that she's had way too many cocks inside of her. If you have no desire to marry her one day, a slut is perfect.
/r/seduction28/12/15 06:10 PM
6

If you are not in the top 20% of men when it comes to looks and body, Tinder is going to suck for you.
/r/seduction28/12/15 06:05 PM
1

This is exactly the problem with this subreddit, a bunch of losers with no skills and no reasons to back up their downvote. I'd love to hear why what I said is no good.
/r/seduction25/12/15 01:53 PM
-4

You showed too much interest by messaging her on the same day as you leaving her place. And men don't get "used" btw.
/r/seduction23/12/15 04:45 PM
0

Sorry, I forgot that the men on this subreddit were a bunch of beta bitchboys.
/r/seduction20/12/15 03:02 PM
-1

You are being way too nice. Just be a man and tell her you changed your mind or just flake
/r/seduction20/12/15 02:59 PM
1

BEST: I was in the states last summer for vacation and went to a random houseparty. After a few beers and breaking the house record for most pushups while doing a kegstand, I head to one of the random bedrooms in the apartment (at this point im in my active reload sweet drunk zone). I see this hot red headed chick fixing herself in the adjacent bathroom, and instinctively go up to her. Bent her over the counter in that bathroom and fucked her, without saying a single word. We'd only exchanged gl…
/r/seduction16/12/15 06:35 PM
0

Thats just an excuse, if you she considers you alpha enough, she will give it up on the first date.
/r/seduction01/12/15 07:41 PM
1

Are you good at any sports? High school revolves around sports. If you are not playing and good at any of the top sports, you will most likely not be part of the alpha group.
/r/seduction01/12/15 06:32 AM
4

The age difference is just an excuse to let you down easy, trust me. If she finds you cool or alpha enough, age will not matter.
/r/seduction14/11/15 10:52 AM
2

Sounds like a great start. Remember not to show too much emotion and affection in the beginning. The more invested you become than her, the quicker you will push her away. Be the least invested.
/r/seduction08/10/15 08:08 AM
4

Are you lost? Women dont want to have serious conversations, they want their emotions to be spiked.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 08:05 AM
2

You lack abundance. Move on.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 05:34 AM
-1

How do you think you are going to get better at interacting with people? You HAVE to start talking to people, even if that means just saying hi or asking for directions. If you don't consistantly put in the time, you will NEVER get better. Either start or remain pathetic for the rest of your sorry shit excuse of a life. The choice is yours.
/r/seduction07/10/15 02:58 PM
1

This age difference problem you are creating in your head is just another excuse. You are young, stop worrying about it. You can date and fuck 18 year olds for the next 20 years easily.
/r/seduction07/10/15 02:56 PM
1

Start teasing her about something, sexual innuendos, talk about how fun it would if you two were to hang out, ask if shes adventurous, ask her if she's a good or bad girl, etc.
/r/seduction07/10/15 01:32 PM
7

You might not want to hear this but women will become more masculine to make up for the lack of masculinity in you. So when you stop taking charge and being decisive, they will assume that role since you are not being a "man". If they are leading your relationship it is because of a lack of manliness in yourself.
/r/seduction07/10/15 01:30 PM
1

Stop texting girls if you are not setting up a date.
/r/seduction07/10/15 01:20 PM
2

The first issue is the over use of LOL. Secondly, you invest more messages than her. She must always be the most invested in your texting. Third, the topic of conversation didn't start or lead to flirty banter. There is no reason to text a girl unless its to set up a meeting or create dem feels.
/r/seduction07/10/15 12:31 PM
1

You probably prefer men.
/r/seduction07/10/15 08:22 AM
1

Frats are great for developing alpha male qualities and it puts you in a situation where this is an abundance of women, so don't leave. The best thing you can do is find the biggest alpha male at your frat and observe his behavior around women. Notice his abundance mentality? notice how he teases these girls and doesn't reall give a shit what happens? If you are in a fraternity that doesn't have any alpha males, switch fraternities.
/r/seduction07/10/15 08:16 AM
2

Stop apologizing for approaching a girl. Why should you apologize for being a man? These phrases need to stop when you approach a girl. "Hey sorry to interrupt but...." "Hey I don't mean to intrude but..." "Hey I know this is random but..." These phrases are weak and weaken your overall frame.
/r/seduction07/10/15 08:11 AM
1

Overall, pretty well done. One point of improvement for next time though. When she mentions that she's going dress shopping, you do not go into the fact that you thought she already had a dress. That's needy and you barely know her. Good job though.
/r/seduction07/10/15 08:05 AM
1

I'd suggest only responding to her, but keep it short. Even ignoring a text for 2-3 days isn't a bad thing. If she asks what is up, you simply tell her you've been busy.
/r/seduction06/10/15 12:32 PM
2

You should be willing to walk away and drop her completely. That will create a situation where she chases you. If she isn't willing to chase you when you stop obsessing over her then it was never going to happen anyway. The best thing to do is reduce small talk via text to a bare minimum and start talking to other chicks. This will get rid of your obsessed feeling and make you a more wanted guy.
/r/seduction06/10/15 11:04 AM
1

Stop giving her so much attention if you want a shot at her. The person least invested has the most power. Texting is for logistics only.
/r/seduction06/10/15 10:10 AM
0

I smirk/laugh and walk off.
/r/seduction06/10/15 07:50 AM
5

The alternative to pick up is hoping to get lucky each weekend by standing around and hoping a girls falls onto your dick. This and meeting girls through social circles. Pretty depressing if you ask me.
/r/seduction06/10/15 07:44 AM
1

You want some honest truth? You sound like a woman. You are 21 and have the world ahead of you. Focus on yourself, your health, hobbies, passions, education and friends first and the girls will come later. You got dumped because you stopped excelling and being the best version of yourself. Now is your chance to once again become a man that is desirable in the eyes of women. Ohh and also, don't focus on getting into relationships so quickly, just have fun. Girls don't like the feeling that you wa…
/r/seduction05/10/15 11:59 AM
1

Actually caring a lot shows neediness, and women hate neediness.
/r/seduction05/10/15 11:36 AM
2

This is a little exercise you can do to easier connect with girls. First, write down all the qualities you look for in a girl. Secondly, when you are on a date with a girl, ask questions to find out if she possesses those qualities. When she possesses qualities you like, you let her know that you are into those positive qualities. This is a simple way to build a connection with a girl. Combine this with the proper kino and flirting and you should have no problems.
/r/seduction05/10/15 11:20 AM
1

Replace intellectual to flirty and she would have been eager to hangout with you. If you didn't flirt with her she didn't get the chance to realize you have a penis and want to put it inside her. There was an overall lack of intent from your side.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 08:40 AM
1

Stick to boxing as karate is for pussies. As a beginner, you will not be thrown into the ring anyway to spar, so your face will remain intact until you feel you are ready. If you do go to boxing class and they make you spar right away, leave that gym immediately as they don't know what they are doing. The first weeks of boxing should be spent learning how to properly throw punches and doing drills on mitts with a partner and maybe working the heavy bag.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 08:30 AM
4

Bite marks or hickies are cute... when your 16.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 06:31 PM
2

You can use instagram to your advantage by posting pictures of your cool life and crazy things that you do.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 07:55 AM
3

You need male friends to develop yourself and to portray higher value towards women.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 12:35 PM
8

For grip? was the house on a slanted hill and were you falling?
/r/askTRP02/10/15 11:07 AM
1

Not effective as you haven't connected with her at all. Even if you get the number she is very unlikely to actually respond when you text her.
/r/seduction02/10/15 08:56 AM
10

If it doesn't bother you, it won't bother the girl you are with. Girls only respond to how you feel about yourself.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 07:27 AM
3

There is no best way to approach. Stop making excuses and just do it!
/r/seduction30/09/15 11:00 AM
2

You are having trouble letting her go because she's your first. You need to get rid of her and completely remove her from your life to truly grow as a man. Drop her, focus on your hobbies, ambitions, health (lift heavy 3-5x a week), friendships first.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 10:58 AM
1

You are smothering her and being an overall beta bitchboy. Move on to the next girl and don't invest more than her into the interactions.
/r/seduction30/09/15 09:54 AM
2

6'1 and 180lbs isn't very muscular my friend. I think she wasn't impressed by your size.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 09:40 AM
1

Visit her tomorrow, you got nothing to lose. If she doesn't give you her number then, next!
/r/seduction30/09/15 08:06 AM
1

All of these are self limiting beliefs and excuses. Next time, approach the second you see her before the excuses start pouring in. Listen, girls would love to talk to you and it brighten their day. That's the kind of mindset you need to get good at this. And if you actually think that the people around give any fucks about you and your chat with a girl then you are delusional. Everybody is way too busy updating their twitter, finding the perfect TBT post for Instagram, and complaining about the…
/r/seduction30/09/15 08:05 AM
1

Your therapist is going to teach you to be a white knight and treat women with the same respect you give your mother. This kind of behavior will dry up every girl in your direct vicinity. I would tread carefully.
/r/seduction30/09/15 08:00 AM
1

Nope, there is no correlation between chin types and promiscuity.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 07:42 AM
1

You are moving way too fast. She feels smothered and doesn't want anything to do with you. Having your good friend talk to her also is a terrible idea. Man the fuck up and stop feeling sorry for yourself, it's just one girl.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 07:32 AM
4

No respect for you as a man No respect for you as a man She'd suck a whole bag of dicks if those dicks were attached to alpha men.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 07:29 AM
1

Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 07:28 AM
2

What's with this vision bullshit? you've been reading TRP theory for 2 years and still don't know what to do ? JUST DO IT!!! You can keep analyzing the perfect daygame approach, but you need to put in the time to get good at it. This means actually approaching girls.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 07:17 AM
3

Athletically a man's prime is 26-28. Value wise a man's prime is well into his 30s.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 07:13 AM
1

I keep an Excel file at home for all my workouts. It's usually quite easy to remember what I did at the gym that day and I record it once I get home.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 07:11 AM
7

This is male hamstering at its finest. Go out and meet thousands of women outside of your social circle.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 11:43 AM
2

"Lets get outta here, i've got some awesome music to show you" " Lets bounce, I've got a great bottle of wine back at my place" " Let's go for a walk" , then take her to your place. If you have been escalating throughout the night with push/pull, you should meet very little resistance. The key is never to ask, but just assume she will come with you and tell her.
/r/seduction29/09/15 08:08 AM
1

You are being needy and desperate and are already too invested in this girl. Drop her and game other women.
/r/seduction29/09/15 08:05 AM
2

Keep pursuing, its her job to let you know her boundaries when it comes to her having a boyfriend. Always assume attraction when it comes to girls.
/r/seduction29/09/15 08:00 AM
2

Dancing is about not giving a shit what others think of you and having fun expressing yourself to the music. Drop your ego and fear of what people might think and everything will fall into place. That being said, its about experience like with anything else. You need to put in the time to develop rhythm. Hell, i've had girls come up to me ask if their friend can make out with me because of my dancing. In this particular instance, I was doing the Napoleon Dynamite dance routine that he does at th…
/r/seduction28/09/15 01:42 PM
32

She sounds bipolar, run!
/r/seduction28/09/15 01:39 PM
1

You can only hope that your alphaness rubs off on them or inspires them to follow your path. Otherwise, its time to get new friends.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:10 PM
3

European girls (especially Eastern Europe) are not as entitled and cunty as American women. This whole feminist power bullshit wave has yet to hit most parts of Europe and women still understand the relationship between men and women. Try visiting any Eastern European country, its cheap and the women all look like models. .
/r/seduction28/09/15 09:03 AM
3

It sounds like you have inner game issues. Love yourself before women can love who you are. I'd recommend checking out RSD on youtube or reading "Models" by Mark Manson.
/r/seduction28/09/15 08:22 AM
-2

I have women in my life for sexual purpose only as that is their role in life. Either that or they can help me get more women. This subreddit contains too many boys who are afraid to express their true feelings towards women because it might offend them.
/r/seduction25/09/15 01:31 PM
1

This guy gets it.
/r/seduction25/09/15 01:30 PM
-4

Here is a better question, why on earth do you want a friendship with a girl?
/r/seduction24/09/15 03:01 PM
3

Less is more.
/r/seduction23/09/15 02:53 PM
1

You are analyzing texting from a girl's perspective. Texting is for logistics only. She wants to meet you Friday so you really have no reason to text anymore unless she initiates. Also, make a move on her on Friday or you will most likely end up in the friendzone.
/r/seduction23/09/15 09:11 AM
1

Nice work, you can get frozen yoghurt and then move her to a bar and escalate there.
/r/seduction23/09/15 09:04 AM
0

Check out Stumbleupon.com. It's a website that searches the web for you based on your interests. I focus on personal development mostly when I use it.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 01:31 PM
2

Thats a really roundabout way of breaking up with a girl. Just sit her down and tell her like a real man.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 11:09 AM
-3

The only thing of value a woman has to offer is her looks. Don't believe this feminist crap.
/r/seduction22/09/15 09:16 AM
2

Sit him down and tell him in a very serious tone that you don't respect him crossing your boundaries.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 08:19 AM
1

You are that person at the party who sucks the life out of happines. You were not leading, you were just being a controlling dickhead.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 07:47 AM
1

You are lifting for the wrong reasons if its primarily to attract women. Real motivation comes when you lift to better yourself.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 07:11 AM
3

This is why it is always important to always assume attraction. This story mentions multiple times that you are a handsome stud, so why wouldn't she be attracted? You are holding yourself back with self limiting beliefs and excuses.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 07:00 AM
1

Stop going to your mom about advice when it comes to girls. Your little write up also does not really point out any examples where your mother is manipulating you.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 12:38 PM
2

Because they see you as the provider type and want to find that beta bux husband before they inevitably hit their wall.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 12:35 PM
2

You cannot shake oneitis because you probably have nothing going for yourself. Start going to the gym 4-5x a week, start a healthy diet, find hobbies you are passionate about, pick up an instrument, learn to fly, finish that degree. Your happiness is currently coming from the connection you have with girls when they should never be your number one priority in life.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 12:34 PM
0

Sending you an email
/r/seduction21/09/15 07:53 AM
20

This post adds no value to this subreddit and confirms that you need to graduate high school. Getting pissy about a hug is about the most beta needy behavior you could ever portray.
/r/seduction18/09/15 02:19 PM
1

Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 01:52 PM
1

In that case you handled it correctly. If she was into you enough you would not have run into this problem. This is fine, as there are plenty of other girls out there.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 11:56 AM
-1

This is why you never explicitly call it a date. It's just a stupid label. Instead, ask her to come have a drink, walk in the park, trip to the beach. This particular girl needs a soft next.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 11:34 AM
8

The mistake you are making is listening to women on the topic of picking up women. Never ever do this. In fact, doing the opposite of what women say they want is the best option.
/r/seduction18/09/15 11:28 AM
1

You didn't build enough rapport with her to warrant her going to your place for your first meetup.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 07:22 AM
1

Because women are programmed to like masculine alpha traits since the beginning of time. This will never change, no matter how much feminism is taking over in the media.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 07:18 AM
28

Why haven't you already made a move on the girl?
/r/seduction17/09/15 12:55 PM
3

Don't blame the dog that she got rid of your beta ass.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 08:05 AM
3

She won't give a shit if you post pictures of you in the place she really wants to go. Drop it, drop her, remove her from your phone/social media and focus on building yourself up.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 07:32 AM
1

Read "the manipulated man", you can get a pdf if you google it.
/r/seduction17/09/15 07:15 AM
1

Did you kiss her during these 2 dates? if not, next! Listen, she's already trying to see how strong your frame is by saying "I don't think I like you like that". She is testing to see what kind of man you are, and if you haven't kissed her by now, shes placed you in the friendzone.
/r/seduction16/09/15 01:57 PM
3

Check out this old thread https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/ It will always be awkward at first if you are not used to touching a women at all. You need to just get out there and get practical experience. Focus on just class 1 at first, so stick to just practicing touching a girl's arm, wrist, shoulder when you want to emphasize a point. Take it one step at a time.
/r/seduction16/09/15 11:24 AM
-1

Texting her the same night is too fast and shows neediness.
/r/seduction16/09/15 10:26 AM
1

Don't go on creatine while trying to lose weight. I'm not sure where you are getting your weight loss information, but I would reconsider your source. Creatine is for creating mass.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 10:21 AM
1

Less effort is always the best option. The more effort you put in, the more needy you appear to be. Just ask her, its that simple.
/r/seduction16/09/15 09:35 AM
2

Running is pointless unless you are overweight. I would suggest hitting the gym 5x a week instead.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 09:19 AM
2

Texting is for logistics only. Stop making small talk and set up the next date.
/r/seduction16/09/15 07:15 AM
1

You should visit /r/malefaschionadvice, check out the top threads and sidebar. That will teach you whatever you wish to know.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 07:05 AM
0

Don't do it as he will see it as an attack on his ego and it will not end well for you.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 11:13 AM
3

Don't give him any attention as that lowers you to his level. Keep smiling and go on with whatever it was you were doing.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 09:54 AM
1

Stop living in the past and taking life so serious. In the grand scope of things, your life is extremely insignificant and will be over in a flash. Appreciate the moment and learn to laugh about it instead of being so self critical. Also ask youirself this "what happens when I fail with a girl"? the answer is nothing. On to the next.
/r/seduction15/09/15 08:38 AM
1

Girls like being touched by the right guy. The top 20% of men, the "alpha males". In fact, they love it. They shame guys who do not fall in this category and complain on shitty subreddits like /r/askwomen about it.
/r/seduction15/09/15 08:22 AM
3

Stop over analyzing and talk to her.
/r/seduction14/09/15 10:17 AM
2

You are thinking too much. Asking for a hug is never strange if you don't believe it is strange. You use a lot of different excuses in your post about them being in a rush or not moving in the same direction. These are all self limiting beliefs that will keep you from taking risks and going for either girl.
/r/seduction11/09/15 12:35 PM
1

Are you connecting with them during the interaction or just doing it for a phone number? You need to leave a good impression for them to want to go on a date with you.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 08:30 AM
2

Reading all of these seduction books and watching videos is worthless without doing actual approaches. Go approach 10 women a day, either during the day or night. See how the interactions go, and adjust your game from there. You have to put in the time and go past your comfort zone to get the results you want.
/r/seduction11/09/15 08:24 AM
2

This post makes it seem like shes the last girl on earth. She deserve a soft next! Cut off all contact and stop being her emotional tampon.
/r/seduction09/09/15 12:52 PM
7

Stop following what he is passionate about? what a horrible piece of advice. Life should never be solely about getting girls. Getting girls is a byproduct of excelling what you are passionate about.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 11:49 AM
5

Nobody actually gives a shit that you are approaching strangers. People are way too busy posting the next great inspirational quote on facebook to care about your personal journey. Stop making excuses and do it!
/r/seduction09/09/15 11:03 AM
2

I'm suprised she still has interest in you after this cringeworthy post. She is expecting you to be a man and kiss her. Either you do it, or some alpha football player will be knee deep in her by the end of the month.
/r/seduction09/09/15 10:31 AM
1

Have you engaged in sexual intercourse with this girl? Sex needs to be happening on the 1-3 date, or else you will be labeled as a beta bitchboy provider and she will put the pussy on a pedestal, to be used as a currency to get what she wants.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 09:21 AM
1

I would suggest waiting a few days and then running into her while you go shopping at that mall.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 09:09 AM
2

You already know the answer to your own question. It worked, you showed intent and were forward with the girl and it got you laid. You make your own rules and set your own frame when interacting with girls. If it works, keep doing it and calibrate if necessary.
/r/seduction09/09/15 08:41 AM
1

You are too needy. You are better off waiting 2-3 days to meet up so you come across as a guy who has options and is busy doing cool manly shit.
/r/seduction09/09/15 08:37 AM
3

You didn't build up enough of a connection to be going for more than a kiss. A first date at the movies is never a good idea because you don't have a chance to get to have meaningful conversation where you get to know each other.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 02:54 PM
5

People don't like to see others succeeding in areas where they do not. They are projecting their insecurities onto you and trying to keep down. Try not to let it bother you (stoicism).
/r/seduction08/09/15 02:45 PM
0

Why would you fuck a fat chick? Have some self-respect!
/r/askTRP08/09/15 08:45 AM
1

I'd recommend reading "Models" by Mark Manson. It focuses on inner game and being the best version of yourself. Basically, strong inner game which attracts women. THe PUA community is great, but most of it focuses too much on pickup lines, push-pull techniques and gimmicks.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 08:43 AM
6

It seems that you are overthinking these interactions that you want to have with people. Just do it! Don't think about whether or not its awkward, because then it will be awkward. You are calibrating before approaching, instead of calibrating after approaching.
/r/seduction08/09/15 07:46 AM
1

You are trying to use logic with a woman. Women only care about emotions and feelings. You cannot compromise attraction. You need to next her.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 07:11 AM
4

Hi.
/r/seduction07/09/15 08:52 AM
2

Talk to him about it.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 07:28 AM
2

You didn't connect enough with her. She wants to get to know you more before kissing you.
/r/seduction05/09/15 04:29 PM
1

Great story. I hope you continue to focus on yourself first and keep doing the things you love while you are with this girl. Do that and will keep her.
/r/seduction05/09/15 04:22 PM
5

Stop planning and stop thinking so much. Try approaching the first person you see once you get to the location where you plan to pick up. Talking to girls is a momentum game for many.
/r/seduction04/09/15 03:11 PM
6

Spike their emotions by using push/pull technique.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 02:38 PM
2

IOI's are indicators of interest. Some of these include a girl: 1. Keeping longer eye contact 2. Playing with her hair while talking to you 3. Moving closer to you 4. Touching you when you make a joke or during conversation. 5. Making an effort to keep the conversation going with you. Also, don't drink too much! Get to a comfortable level of drunk (I call it the active reload zone) and stay there.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 01:19 PM
2

Did you write this little story to gloat about the fact that you lift alot and can sprint really fast? cute
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 12:04 PM
5

Read about Stoicism by Marcus Aurelius.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 11:08 AM
2

You are too invested in the outcome with these girls. Abundance mentality is what you need. Imagine how easy it was for you to get these two numbers and realize that you can do that again in a matter of minutes.
/r/seduction04/09/15 08:33 AM
1

I think this is more about getting rid of your bad habits and creating better ones. Replace porn with something else like going to the gym and video games with something like reading books. It's going to suck changing your habits, but you have to do it. You will never amount to anything otherwise.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 07:48 AM
1

Stop thinking so much and just talk. You care way too much about what others will think of you and how you will be judged based on what you say. You can literally talk about anything and its still better than standing around.
/r/seduction04/09/15 07:09 AM
3

Well first of all, its not a staring contest. You should be blinking or else its just weird. Secondly, you can have moments where you look away, just make sure you are not looking down or at the ground.
/r/seduction03/09/15 11:07 AM
1

Become the guy that gets approached? horrible advice. It is a man's job to approach the woman. Women are attracted to alpha men who take action and show initiative.
/r/seduction03/09/15 09:37 AM
3

You are overanalyzing these women before even talking to them. Stop trying to determine if shes in a good mood or is wearing a ring. Approach, then calibrate. As soon as you start trying to analyze whether or not she'd enjoy talking to you, you have already lost. Adopt a mindset where you assume that every women would enjoy talking to you. This will prevent you overthinking every single approach.
/r/seduction02/09/15 12:20 PM
3

Sounds like you made your life much more about her. She should have never been your top priority. Lift more, focus on hobbies, friends and your career.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 10:55 AM
-13

EDM festivals are pure sonic ear rape and for people with no appreciation for good music, which is why they all take drugs. Go check out people like Laurent Garnier, Henrik Schwartz, Sven Vath, Solomun, Tale of US, Mano le Tough, Ben Sims, Nina Kraviz, Ben Klock, Paul Kalkbrenner, Ame, Alan Fitzpatrick. Now that's real music. Again, if you need drugs to enjoy a festival then the music sucks.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 10:39 AM
5

Girls say this so that they don't feel slutty. Just ignore and keep escalating later on.
/r/seduction02/09/15 09:29 AM
5

You need to delete her off of everything, no excuses. Focus on your own life, hobbies, career and health.
/r/seduction01/09/15 05:24 PM
1

Neediness spawns from prioritizing women in your life. Get that education, work on your body, and find hobbies you are passionate about. That will create inner game to attract women in the long run.
/r/seduction01/09/15 03:06 PM
2

Never stop flirting
/r/askTRP01/09/15 02:16 PM
1

Check out some RSD stuff on youtube for steps or inner game. I personally never ask if they have a boyfriend. If they want you to know, they will tell you.
/r/seduction01/09/15 02:16 PM
13

A woman worthy of being in a LTR with you should at least respect your friends.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 01:05 PM
1

You didn't escalate enough, a hug is for people in the friendzone.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 11:16 AM
1

The best thing to do is to start hitting the gym 3-5 days a week, focus heavily on your career and hobbies and forget about girls for a while. If you make girls your #1 priority in life, they will not give a shit about you. Abundance mentality is what you are looking for.
/r/seduction01/09/15 10:12 AM
4

Deep down every woman likes an adventure, just assume your target is into a one night stand if you push the right buttons.
/r/seduction01/09/15 10:03 AM
8

Stop being so desperate and delete her everywhere. There are thousands of girls better than her. Hit the gym, focus on your hobbies and career. Girls should never be the #1 priority in your life.
/r/seduction01/09/15 09:44 AM
2

Start talking to everyone, the janitor, the RA, other guys. Make it a habit every single day and soon you will be talking to girls like its nothing. Then you can come back here and ask for more specific questions such as escalating etc. You need to put in the time if you want to get good at this.
/r/seduction01/09/15 07:36 AM
1

Don't analyze so much, just approach. If she really doesn't want to talk to you, she will tell you politely. Approach, then calibrate. I always assume that me talking to that random cute girl in starbucks is adding value to her day.
/r/seduction01/09/15 07:33 AM
3

It's really not about what you say at all. Just talk about whatever comes up in your mind. The problem most guys have is this: They see a cute girl, then stand around and try to figure out the perfect opener and what to say after that. Now you are inside your head and it becomes harder and harder to talk to that girl because you are overanalyzing everything before even talking to her. Just say "hi" and let the conversation flow naturally. Pretend its someone you've known for a long time.
/r/seduction01/09/15 07:30 AM
0

Are you not being invited at all then? Maybe they are avoiding inviting you both to social gatherings to avoid potential awkwardness. I'm in a very similar situation. My bros make time to hang out with me but also sometimes hang out with my ex due to having the same social circle.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 01:03 PM
-1

So they are just hanging out with your ex? Why should they tell you everytime they are hanging out with her? You don't own her. If they were fucking your ex I would understand your frustration.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 12:48 PM
3

I award you no points, she initiated everything and were just lucky you were in the right place at the right time. This is not red pill. Next!
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 08:50 AM
1

Just remember that she was probably also talking to multiple guys at the same time. You need to really stand out in terms of conversation topics, humor and being flirty leading up to the first date.
/r/seduction31/08/15 08:33 AM
1

Find ways to distract yourself. Work out more, pick up another hobby which makes you interact with people. Basically just focus on you.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 02:45 PM
1

Perfect situation. She wants casual sex with you. Be direct and escalate with her. Don't talk about feelings and needy things that guys who want relationships talk about.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 10:13 AM
1

Begin by not making excuses about women being moody or busy. Approach, then calibrate. The minute you get in your head about reasons why its not good to approach now is the minute you lose. Just approach whenever you want to. Take charge. It's not even about what you say to them as long as you are confident and don't come across as needy or creepy. Read through the sidebar on the main page to get an idea of what abundance mentality is. This basically means that you do not care about the outcome …
/r/askTRP27/08/15 10:07 AM
3

Do you really think all these self absorbed students who are on their instagram and facebook all day have the attention span to pay attention to your acne? Stop giving a shit.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 02:27 PM
1

Anything your mom tells you about women and how to treat them is completely wrong.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 02:05 PM
3

How about you respect your teachers and come back to this subforum after you graduate high school.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 01:55 PM
2

You let her affect your temper and frame. You played by her rules and you tried to logically get her to fuck you in your car. Women are emotional creatues, not logical. Also, I would try not to get high next time you meet a girl.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 11:29 AM
1

You fucked that up in every way possible. You didn't deserve to have sex with her.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 07:33 AM
1

Stop playing video games.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 02:39 PM
2

The answer is none. What would he need the internet for? He is already the best at everything he does. He doesn't need to go to youtube to learn how to change the oil in his car or fix a flat tire. He doesn't need a guide on how to escalate with a girl. Chad is too busy getting his next big client for his start up company where he makes 300k/month.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 12:35 PM
3

Stop using the word hope. It's validation seeking and pathetic. "hope you are not still laughing at my dancing skills" also shows insecurity. Your second example also doesnt actually state anything. Wasted text which creates no response from a girl.
/r/seduction06/08/15 09:17 AM
1

Height really doesn't matter. Look at Tom Cruise, that man has more charisma than most men in this world, yet isn't tall at all. Charisma and charm make up for height. Being 5'11 is already well above average anyway.
/r/seduction05/08/15 02:48 PM
1

Not sure if trolling or not.
/r/seduction05/08/15 12:20 PM
1

Ask yourself this question. If money wasn't an object, which career path would you go down? Not going for what you are passionate about in life is a life not worth living.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 08:27 AM
1

You need to understand that we are all primal beings who love and crave sex. It's one of our most basic instincts, which you are entitled to as a man. I think part of your guilt comes from leading girls on to believe that there will be more than just sex. Be completely honest about the situation and they will thank you for it.
/r/seduction05/08/15 07:00 AM
3

It's probably porn if you have to ask.
/r/seduction03/08/15 08:49 PM
1

She wanted a man to give her the D, and you instead spent 15 minutes writing up a report on Reddit overanalyzing the shit out of her behavior.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 12:29 PM
2

Try to limit fapping to once a week and without any visual stimulus. I bet it will do wonders for your testosterone.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 04:25 PM
1

Yup, buddy introduced me to Red Pill in April of this year, after I dropped a girlfriend of 2 years for some "unicorn" I met in Dublin. I'd always been pretty red pill without knowing what that meant until I thought I met my soulmate. Acted like a complete blue pill beta bitchbag after meeting her. Everyhing I'd always done with women that worked well went right out the window. Red pill reminded me how to be a fucking man again.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 01:17 PM
2

Don't do drugs. On a more serious note, stop planning the perfect pickup lines, they don't work. She's just another girl and you should be spending your time excelling at school, sports and gaming other girls.
/r/seduction31/07/15 07:16 AM
3

Got a related question for you: Do you lift heavy weights at least 3x a week? Do you refrain from jerking it to porn on a weekly basis? These might be two natural ways to increase testosterone levels.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 06:27 AM
6

This post needs to be removed as there is nothing red pill about anything you did. Being red pill means being stoic to tough guys who stare you down. You played into his frame by fighting him and you let your ego get the better of you.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 02:54 PM
5

This has been said before and you already know. Approach her before you get all these excuses in your head. Nothing bad will happen to you if you get rejected and nobody around your cares about the fact that you are hitting on her.
/r/seduction30/07/15 02:10 PM
1

Be flirty and escalate but don't give her all of your undivided attention. Having two other girls running around chasing you is only a good thing because women want guys who have options.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 10:28 AM
5

Notice something about her you like, mention something about the surroundings. Just winking is creepy if you don't follow up.
/r/seduction29/07/15 01:35 PM
0

Graduate high school.
/r/seduction28/07/15 12:31 PM
0

Turn every question into an assumption about her. I bet you were the kind of girl that....(insert random subject here). Guess things about her with some humor.
/r/seduction28/07/15 09:40 AM
5

These texts are extremely needy and way too emotional. You do not talk about your feelings for her that early. She was just being nice and giving you some excuses as to why she friendzoned you.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 07:17 AM
1

I'd recommend not going to a mall. A college is a much better location because its inhabitants are all students who like to party. Asking random people in a mall to come to a party is borderline creepy.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 07:14 AM
1

Visit a local college and hand out flyers to hot chicks.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 02:17 PM
1

Lots of boring small talk. You need to be flirting as much as possible.
/r/seduction27/07/15 11:28 AM
26

Walk up to a girl and put your finger on her ear? I'm sure thats a really successfull way to approach.
/r/seduction24/07/15 07:57 AM
23

I could try to explain the art of not giving a fuck, but Mark Manson wrote a great article about this very topic. Have a read: http://markmanson.net/not-giving-a-fuck
/r/seduction23/07/15 01:42 PM
2

The only problem here is that you care so much about receiving nude pictures from her.
/r/seduction23/07/15 11:01 AM
0

Never ask a female about these kind of things. Talking to multiple females is only a good thing for you social value. A man with options is attractive.
/r/seduction23/07/15 07:24 AM
1

Put on a romantic comedy.
/r/seduction23/07/15 07:22 AM
2

It was a genuine question and clarification. I think you responded well.
/r/seduction23/07/15 07:16 AM
1

You are attracted to broken girls because you feel that you don't deserve better. That or you are still broken yourself.
/r/seduction22/07/15 08:38 PM
10

I'd suggest bulking now since summer is over in a month. Bulk all fall/winter and gain mass and cut weight next spring before summer hits.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 07:41 PM
1

You need to eat more to accomodate a larger body. Up your calorie intake by at least 500 calories a day. That should put you around 3000+ calories. Your body is screaming for more fuel to accomodate a larger frame.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 11:29 AM
0

You are taller than the average height of most women around the world.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 09:03 AM
1

How about you get out of your head about something so trivial. Just show up and do what is natural. Stop thinking so much.
/r/seduction22/07/15 07:18 AM
5

Ignore her. Seems like she is just looking for social media attention and doesn't really care to meet up.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 06:56 AM
1

Deangelo escalation ladder, study it, embrace it.
/r/seduction21/07/15 02:38 PM
2

Pick up the phone and dial before you make up excuses in your head. It's the same strategy you would use when contemplating whether or not to approach that cute girl in the library.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 02:21 PM
2

Don't respond to her apology. Just continue the conversation and set up a meetup.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 08:47 AM
1

Break up with her, she sounds awful. Why would you stay with a girl you are not sexually compatible with. Why stay with a girl who doesn't take care of her body.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 08:42 AM
1

Sounds like you are blaming your lack of success on a lot of external factors like age, russian girls not being traditional, etc. The problem here is that you probably didn't give any of these girls the tingles. You didn't let them know that you find them sexy nor escalate with them enough.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 07:10 AM
116

It's just her friends looking out for her best interest, or so they think. Next time, befriend the whole group and then isolate the girl you are interested in. You will be met with much less resistance.
/r/seduction19/07/15 12:18 PM
3

Telling her you miss her was not a good idea. You also didn't try to escalate much in the form of kino. A hug in the beginning is hardly anything if you didn't keep the kino going throughout your meeting.
/r/seduction17/07/15 09:30 AM
1

The same rules apply, except you build comfort by texting her 2-3 times a day.A busy man is a man of higher value.
/r/seduction16/07/15 09:11 AM
-3

Five minutes is still needy. If you have time to text a girl all day, then you are doing it wrong. Text once in the morning, and once in the evening. Texting is for logistics only.
/r/seduction16/07/15 08:44 AM
0

I don't believe that you've gone out with top level RSD instructors. Even a monkey knows when it is doing something wrong and changes its tactics.
/r/seduction16/07/15 06:52 AM
2

Going to the gym together isn't a date and im sure she doesn't see it as such. You need to show her you are interested and up the flirting so you can ask her out for drinks at another time. From there, you can escalate and try to get her to your house.
/r/seduction15/07/15 10:02 AM
6

Girls mention their boyfriend so that they feel less judged and slutty. In her mind, shes thinking "Hey I mentioned him, but im still going to fuck you if you are alpha enough"
/r/seduction15/07/15 09:24 AM
1

You can fake social status to get a girl in bed, but it won't hold up. The more time you spend with her, the more the real you (inner game) will show up. This is why guys like RSD also heavily focus on inner game.
/r/seduction15/07/15 08:06 AM
12

You are going to smother her and drive her away because you are desperate to keep her. Go to work.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 07:11 AM
3

Go to the gym 3-5 times a week and stop masturbating/watching porn. That should do the trick.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 03:09 PM
1

You messed up by telling her that you liked her. You claim not to want anything serious with her, but still tell her you like her. A potential boyfriend says that kind of stuff. You picked the provider/bf role when she probably would have also preffered you as a fun fuckbuddy role.
/r/seduction14/07/15 11:42 AM
-4

You are her emotional tampon. Don't be friends with girls.
/r/seduction14/07/15 11:18 AM
1

You didn't make your intentions clear during the date so she lost interest. How much did you flirt and escalate with her during your date?
/r/seduction14/07/15 10:57 AM
1

Start lifting 3x a week Clean up your diet Fix your style Formulate some goals for a career/education Learn game through reading books, i'd suggest starting with "Models" by Mark Manson, it focuses heavily on Inner Game. Check out RSD on youtube Apply what you learn in real life Nobody said anything about being emotional and squeezy. Real men who are good with women avoid being emotional at all costs.
/r/seduction14/07/15 10:23 AM
1

Stop feeling sorry for yourself and man the fuck up.
/r/seduction14/07/15 10:16 AM
3

It's not worth it.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 07:26 AM
1

The reason she didn't want to have sex with you is because she had all the power in the relationship when you were together, therefore she decides when you have sex. I'd move on.
/r/seduction14/07/15 07:21 AM
1

You never open a girl by asking her for her number. Open, connect, and then get her number.
/r/seduction14/07/15 07:14 AM
1

Pretend that whatever attractive girl you are talking to has herpes. Would you still find it difficult to do so?
/r/seduction14/07/15 07:07 AM
1

It's better to take charge and ask her for your number because it will reduce flakes and it shows her you are assertive.
/r/seduction13/07/15 12:53 PM
6

Just tell her no. Most girls wont even realize it because most guys are shit in bed.
/r/seduction13/07/15 11:59 AM
0

You might be gay or asexual. Take your pick.
/r/seduction13/07/15 11:54 AM
1

You are a man, do NOT shave your legs.
/r/seduction12/07/15 08:26 AM
1

Another question for you. Why did you ask her when she's free? A man leads and tells a woman when they are going on a date. If she can't make it, she will propose a better time.
/r/seduction10/07/15 08:44 AM
1

Why would you not respond to "What you up to tonight"?
/r/askTRP09/07/15 08:10 AM
2

Figure out what you are passionate about and pursue that entirely. Women will become secondary. You can also pick up new hobbies, learn another language etc. The basic idea is to be so busy developing yourself into the best version of yourself that women do not even occupy your mind.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 01:49 PM
1

You need to escalate before inviting them home. Look up Dicarlo Escalation Ladder. Using this ladder will ensure the least amount of resistance from a girl. She has to be comfortable with your touch and have no problem kissing you.
/r/seduction08/07/15 12:14 PM
3

It's a good start, but not eating breakfast is very bad for you. Eating breakfast actually gets your metabolism going should not to be skipped.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 07:19 AM
4

Why would you ask her to come to your place without even kissing her first? Spend some time reading basic pickup technique.
/r/seduction08/07/15 06:49 AM
2

You could start by not being needy about her replying. You might think it was cute to mention that she was bad at replying multiple times, but it wasn't. Just shoot her a simple text, proposing to meet up with her at a certain time for a drink.
/r/seduction07/07/15 01:41 PM
11

Cut of all contact.
/r/seduction07/07/15 08:50 AM
1

Your non-verbal communication must be off, otherwise she would never be offended.
/r/seduction07/07/15 07:13 AM
1

Download Flamite for Google Chrome. It's an extension and easy to use.
/r/seduction06/07/15 02:57 PM
1

Any large European city because of the diversity of women. I'd especially recommend places like Budapest, Prague, Warsaw, Bucharest etc. Eastern Europe is a gold mine when it comes to women.
/r/seduction06/07/15 01:32 PM
2

Sounds like wife of the year material. Marry her now.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 03:16 PM
1

You are not a huge pussy. Kiss her next time you meet up.
/r/seduction02/07/15 07:15 AM
1

As a catholic man, why do you need science to justify potentially having sex before marriage? Sex is a skill that you learn and must master, just like riding a bike. Can you imagine finally marrying a non-Western woman and it turns out that both of you are not sexually compatible? I say go out, have fun and practice.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 10:59 AM
8

You post a graphic about face-to-face communication and try to compare it to the quality of online posts. Tonality and non-verbal communication have nothing to do with anything you read online.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 08:39 AM
1

You are simply not standing out. If they flake, you did not make enough of an impression.
/r/seduction29/06/15 01:59 PM
1

"Can I borrow your cute friend for a minute?"
/r/seduction29/06/15 11:11 AM
1

Sorry to say but you are way too late. You've been firmly placed in the friendzone.
/r/seduction23/06/15 02:04 PM
3

This is a bad idea. Every girl wants her first time to be somewhat special. Not with some guy who tells her "let's just get it out of the way, I'd suggest asking her out on a date first and then escalating during the date.
/r/seduction22/06/15 09:37 AM
2

Just be playful and fun. Women of all ages want to be reminded of their young early days. Also, if you are shaving your beard and leaving just a mustache, SHAVE IT!
/r/seduction19/06/15 10:01 AM
1

How could you not see this as an opportunity? I'm suprised she made all the effort. She wanted to see you the day after meeting you. She brought you to her house She changed in front of you Did you during any of this, flirt, touch or kiss her?
/r/seduction18/06/15 09:06 AM
1

Just move to Europe.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 07:58 AM
2

I'm talking months of dread game, stop trying to initiate sex and don't react to any of her bullshit. Focus on hobbies and fitness and your career.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 07:55 AM
4

Dread game. Use it.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 07:12 AM
1

Any kind of date where you can connect and you have chances to kino.
/r/seduction18/06/15 06:58 AM
2

Start hitting the gym at least 3x a week. Lift heavy. Being fit does wonders for your self esteem and creates discipline. Then write down a few goals and execute them. Career, Health, a new hobby etc. Working on being the best version of yourself will increase your inner game and confidence naturally.
/r/seduction18/06/15 06:54 AM
9

Let me ask you this: Say you are a boxer and hoping to become a professional boxer someday. How much good will it do to stay home and watch intstructional videos all day instead of actually training at a gym. You cannot master a skill without investing your time into it. Having a killer inner game and being amazingly fit will still get you nowhere if you don't put in the time to approach.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 11:34 AM
2

Just avoid arguing altogether, you can't win that. Women base their actions and words around emotions, not reason.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 11:32 AM
5

Corrected that for you "Most women DO want to make out on the first date". As to OP's question: I would suggest meeting her at a bar or coffee place close to your house instead. It's too much of an investment on her part to meet you at your place right away.
/r/seduction17/06/15 11:28 AM
3

Did you just repost the same thread you made yesterday? I think you received plenty of feedback in that same thread. Use it and move on.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 10:31 AM
2

Thanks for the good laugh
/r/seduction15/06/15 09:11 PM
7

Seems to me like you were negging her and giving her the playful asshole routine when it wasn't necessary. You probably came across as fake.
/r/seduction15/06/15 02:02 PM
2

The top 20% of men sleep with 80% of the women. Its basic mathematics.
/r/seduction15/06/15 07:48 AM
22

You need to be extremely witty and funny and flirty in online dating to stand out. 6's think they are 9s because they've got a flock of beta boys complimenting them day and night. The girls you are talking to are also talking to at least 40-50 other guys at the same time. Stop online dating and get out there and do daygame/nightgame.
/r/seduction13/06/15 08:20 AM
-2

There is an ongoing trend on this subreddit of people focusing on where they are from or what race they are. This isn't relevant at all and is simply a self limiting belief that holds people back.
/r/seduction12/06/15 10:13 AM
7

Buy this book: Models by Mark Manson. This book is focused on building your inner game and being happy about yourself. Very powerful stuff.
/r/seduction12/06/15 07:45 AM
9

I know it might be difficult to go back on your word, but in this case you need to cut of all contact and let her figure it out. You are essentially going to be picking her up from the airport and are delivering her to some guy who is probably going to fuck her.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 07:35 AM
10

I don't beieve that you are actually picky. You say you are picky to give yourself an excuse not to escalate with girls.
/r/seduction11/06/15 07:02 AM
0

Same as all the others girls in Western society, next!
/r/seduction09/06/15 01:40 PM
2

This is just some self-limiting belief you've created in your head. First become comfortable with who you are. You should reach a point where you do not care about the opinions of others. Also, being good with women is not a bad perception to have at all. Women are attracted to men who can attract women.
/r/seduction09/06/15 10:41 AM
-5

There are thousands of girls who won't want to "take it slow" . It's your world, don't let a girl dictate how things go.
/r/seduction05/06/15 01:10 PM
1

When you hung out, did you kino/escalate or kiss her?
/r/seduction05/06/15 11:04 AM
1

She doens't really care about your low week. You should always keep texting fun and playful in the early stages. Don't open up about any insecurities or the fact that you are having a shitty week. She isn't responding because she doesn't feel like hearing all the details.
/r/seduction05/06/15 09:19 AM
2

A friend and I were at a beach party recently and also struggled to approach. What we did was give another friend of ours our phones and cash, with the instruction not to give it back to us ever if we didn't approach.
/r/seduction04/06/15 08:09 AM
24

I think men who have little to no game are choosing Tinder over approaching women in real life because its more convenient and easy. The reality is, getting a women interested in you is much easier in real life interactions because you can portray your personality in a much more sincere and real way.
/r/seduction02/06/15 01:49 PM
1

She will flirt with anyone on FaceBook as a way to seek validation. Stop reading into this.
/r/seduction02/06/15 10:51 AM
1

Write down the 10 most important thing you have learned here. Print it out and put it on your wall in big letters. Read it when you wake up and before you go to sleep. Internalize that shit so that next time you have a date, you won't forget to do all the right things.
/r/seduction28/05/15 06:54 PM
2

Yea, except don't ask her for her address. Just tell her to meet you there.
/r/seduction27/05/15 01:54 PM
1

Yea just pack a blanket and some fruit etc and suprise her once you get to the park.
/r/seduction27/05/15 01:03 PM
1

Take her for cocktails, go to a bar, to the park etc. Dinner/movie is no good for a 1st date. Everyone does this and you can't connect with someone during a movie.
/r/seduction27/05/15 12:58 PM
10

How about you stop feeling sorry for yourself and get your shit together. You don't deserve beautiful girls because you are not willing to put the time in. This is the same for a future and a nice career. I'd suggest working on your inner game. Not being a very bright person is a bad excuse as well. Anyone can work hard and change their bad habits and still become successfull. Women want men who got shit going on and things going for them.
/r/seduction27/05/15 11:37 AM
0

She's cold because you did not come across as a very dominant man. 1. Always plan a date yourself and avoid dinners for first dates. 2. Make it clear you won't pay for her
/r/seduction27/05/15 09:55 AM
2

Yea, i'd focus on building yourself up first. Have a career goal, get a nice job and move to a nice city. Make concrete goals and improve yourself.
/r/seduction27/05/15 09:45 AM
2

What he means is, having a mentality where failing with one girl does not affect you. THis is usually achieved through focusing on your own goals and health and happiness and talking to/ dating multiple girls. Having an abundance of girls will help you not get attached to girls so quickly.
/r/seduction27/05/15 09:42 AM
1

You are not 14, go do something different for a date. You can't build a connection with someone in a cinema.
/r/seduction27/05/15 09:41 AM
2

Yea just go for it right away and don't think about the next step. The minute you try to plan the second step, you are already in your own head too much. Approach and then just go with the flow instead of planning the approach and the second thing you will say to her.
/r/seduction26/05/15 08:43 PM
9

You came across very awkwardly because you were so worried about being awkward. The minute you try to plan an interaction, she will notice it.
/r/seduction26/05/15 07:53 PM
2

You should google Monk Mode. I am also willing to bet that you did not increase your calorie intake while working out. Nobody can get bigger if you don't provide your body with more nutrients while lifting weights. Lifting at least 3x a week is extremely beneficial for creating a health habit, being fit, being confident. You can transfer the healthy habit of lifting regularly to other areas in your life as well.
/r/seduction26/05/15 07:33 PM
7

have sex with her
/r/seduction26/05/15 06:26 PM
0

Completely off topic, how is Krakow for partying and girls? Would you recommend it?
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 06:02 PM
2

Pretend like she is someone you've known for years. Conversation flows much easier this way.
/r/seduction24/05/15 07:39 AM
1

Instead of asking "Are you adventurous?", you say " I bet you are the adventurous type". You could build on that statement by giving an example of what an adventurous type would do.
/r/seduction23/05/15 10:26 AM
3

Never compare yourself to anyone else. You should focus on improving your game little by little.
/r/seduction16/05/15 02:27 PM
1

You are friendzoned.
/r/seduction14/05/15 10:58 AM
1

You are investing way too much into the texting. You also kept the family/divorce game going for way too long. You should be texting just to set up a meeting and for no other reason.
/r/seduction14/05/15 10:47 AM
1

She wants you to talk to her. She is showing her interest and expecting you to fill the role of an alpha male by talking to her.
/r/seduction13/05/15 08:29 AM
3

It sounds like you are too invested in these girls that you like. The minute a girl feels that you are more invested than they are, you have lost and it is over. THe one who is least invested has all the power in a relationship.
/r/seduction13/05/15 05:10 AM
2

Women respond to how you make them feel, not what culture you are from. If your culture makes you feel insecure, work on your inner game first.
/r/seduction11/05/15 11:07 AM
1

It sounds like you are blocking yourself mentally. Having differences in culture and attitude only makes it easier since you are foreign to her. If you feel that you appear stiff, she will pick up on that and respond accordingly.
/r/seduction11/05/15 07:59 AM
1

Avoid talking about feelings at all and do not open up to her. Escalate and see where it goes. If shes a prude, leave.
/r/seduction11/05/15 05:41 AM
3

You should avoid being confrontational at all times unless it cannot be avoided. Being aggresive brings you down to his level. Ignore it and laugh it off next time.
/r/seduction11/05/15 05:35 AM
1

Its really simple, if she holds eye contact she expects you to come talk to her. That's your job as a man. If she does this 2 or 3 times without you stepping up, then you've lost. She avoids eye contact now because you missed your chance.
/r/seduction10/05/15 10:31 AM
2

Respect that? really? Ignore the comment and continue on. Don't show any interest towards him or ask any questions about him.
/r/seduction10/05/15 10:28 AM
20

Great news, don't need more idiotic teen moms getting pregnant and breeding worhtless kids.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 02:49 PM
-1

This is a typical nice guy approach. Demand she talks to you or just assume she wants to talk to you. If she really doesn't want to, leave and laugh it off. Be assertive, girls love that shit.
/r/seduction08/05/15 10:37 AM
1

Great post. This also pertains to how you see girls in general. We make assumptions about them before even approaching them. " Ohh she looks stuck up" or " she looks like a slut". Approach first, then calibrate.
/r/seduction08/05/15 08:29 AM
1

Did you make any kind of moves on her? She was dissapointed because you didn't show your intent and kiss her during your meetup.
/r/seduction07/05/15 07:24 PM
22

Cut of all contact, delete anything that has anything to do with her and focus on yourself. This conversation is cringeworthy and you should stop talking to her.
/r/seduction07/05/15 05:31 PM
10

Her relationship with her boyfriend is getting stale and she wants attention from you.
/r/seduction07/05/15 02:58 PM
2

I would suggest doing 10 approaches using a practiced opener, then re-adjusting or adding additional techniques to your approaches. Just doing 100 approaches to fail seems excessive. Have a plan.
/r/seduction07/05/15 09:03 AM
12

You need to stop talking about your feelings so quickly. Also, being so readily available and eager to talk to her comes across as needy. Work on yourself. Some text advice, never write more messages than her and act like you are busy. This means texting once or twice a day. This might be hard, but if she feels like she means the world to you, she will loose interest because you are too easy of a catch. Look up abundance mentality
/r/seduction07/05/15 09:01 AM
2

There is nothing wrong with being nice, but you can't be a pushover. If you agree with everything a girl says because you think it makes her like you then you are being a pushover. Be a man and never change your opinions or values based on some girl. This is also called "keeping your frame". They should live in your world and not the other way around. Girls want a guy who won't put them on a pedestal and worship the ground they walk on.
/r/seduction06/05/15 05:30 AM
0

Drink some alcohol to loosen up. I'm not saying you should get hammered, but a few beers to become relaxed.
/r/seduction05/05/15 08:09 AM
1

If she makes a 2nd attempt to meet up with you, that means she is interested. Take initiative and set up a meetup.
/r/seduction05/05/15 05:20 AM
1

Girls will approach you if they perceive your social value to be high enough. Dressing well, being fit, appearing fun with your friends all raise your social value.
/r/seduction04/05/15 07:08 PM
1

Why is this even post worthy? you passed a shit test from your MOM. That's not even a real shit test. Go apply this to the real world and come back with something worthy.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 10:53 AM
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