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| 2 | Advice/opinions on a situation with my partner. Problems with communicating issues, he goes distant and leaves me hanging knowing nothing.thank god there is a voice of reason here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/21 11:36 AM |
| – | If men leave/ghost after the first sexual encounter it's because they were grossed out.you are the only male on this entire thread speaking logically. kudos-it's a tough fucking crowd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 02:18 PM |
| – | If men leave/ghost after the first sexual encounter it's because they were grossed out.Exactly this. The boys commenting here like women are literal fuck appliances, to be discarded for the slightest infraction, are ridiculous, entitled pigs who shouldn't be allowed to breed. Women need men for nothing-most of them can't even make us orgasm. WTF would we waste time with losers who would bang anything that moved while pining for their "perfect 10 dreamgirl" to save them from their tiny lives of video games, porn and insecurity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 02:13 PM |
| – | If men leave/ghost after the first sexual encounter it's because they were grossed out.or tastes terrible. I'll never date a non vegan again-diet makes a HUGE difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 02:03 PM |
| 0 | If men leave/ghost after the first sexual encounter it's because they were grossed out.lonely-sun would probably be less lonely if less lazy of a loser | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 01:52 PM |
| 0 | Women have insanely narrow standards when it comes to PHYSICAL ATTRACTIONthis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 09:17 PM |
| 9 | Why Do So Many Men Kill Their Pregnant Partners?good for you sis. it's hard. takes the average woman 7 times to leave an abuser for good 😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 05:41 PM |
| 19 | She’s 19 and pregnant by a 28 y/o 🤡 The age gap strikes again! 🤢🤢🤢that's my grandmother's generation-full of dangerous pickme rhetoric and men can do no wrong spouting. 🙄 ANY man (even a pedophile or 2) is better than none. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 05:27 PM |
| 36 | Asking Men: Why do you need women? 90% get the answer wrong ... to be expected.there's nothing a man can provide that I can't either do myself or pay someone to do. do we really need to use those top shelves ladies? 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 05:13 PM |
| 195 | A survey asked more than 22,000 women if they had ever been raped in their sleep by their partners: 51% answered YESoh you mean the forever hard dick poking the small of your back combined with roaming hands and you're so fucking hot babe whispers at 4am? ✔ multiple times? ✔ multiple men? ✔ multiple it's easier to just get this over with so I can go back to sleep reactions? ✔ 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 05:10 PM |
| 29 | How long did it take you to stop randomly cringing during the day while remembering past pickme behavior?😂 I'll let you know if and when that beautiful day arrives but I'm not holding my breath. I was quite the cringeworthy cool girl. 😖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 12:19 AM |
| 5 | This article makes a case against poly relationships. 'It’s good to have friends. It’s good to have multiple confidantes. But people aren’t just fungible widgets in a factory. You don’t just lump them in a shopping bag until your heart is full.'such a great movie! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 10:18 PM |
| 12 | Billie Elish bf is 10 years older than her.not really. everyone but Ani was on high rotation back when Mtv still played music videos 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 08:13 PM |
| 5 | Book recommendations?I let the title of Codependent No More keep me from reading it until recently. It's excellent. Great, softer companion read to Lundy's WDHDT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 08:11 PM |
| 54 | This is how the other side talks about us and expect us to accept itI nicknamed my ex the eternal victim 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 08:08 PM |
| 55 | This is how the other side talks about us and expect us to accept itI didn't even hit play. can infer from the tags. translation: stay away from women who don't treat your stank, mediocre ass like a god | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 08:07 PM |
| 63 | Billie Elish bf is 10 years older than her.Ani DiFranco never did. Tori Amos, Sarah M, Dido, Mazzy Star. A lot if 90s music icons didn't sexualized themselves for $$$. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 05:44 PM |
| 5 | Keeping my resolve - leaving a professional victim.came here to say this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 01:50 PM |
| 32 | Society needs to stop enabling these LVM’sSociety IS a LVM THIS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Should I drop him?yes, you should. if he wanted to date you he would make an effort. I'm not trying to be harsh but you need to read the handbook. it's already giving you anxiety. dating should be fun and stress free, not an anxious session of second guessing yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 07:51 PM |
| 5 | Rant - Floating Like a Cork In the Water and the Bullshit of "Letting Go"as a somewhat newly sober sister also on the meditation/life journey, I've been listening to Joe Dispenza and find his take on "reality" to be fascinating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 03:26 PM |
| 8 | I Like How She Handled This 😂they really can't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 02:59 PM |
| 28 | Asking Women Why/How They’re “Still” Single Is A Shaming and Control Tactic in the Dating World...And In SocietyhOW arE yOu sINgLe? trust me, it's by choice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 01:22 AM |
| 152 | Truer words have never been spoken. Don't believe those fairy tales ladies.probably will depend on how much money their parents have 😥 but honestly? my first thought was thank god she's no longer suffering. everything was put online like Stubenville. I'm not sure I could live through something that horrific. my heart breaks for her and the repetition of 'ALLEGEDLY' makes me homicidal. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9643371/amp/Girl-14-kills-gang-raped-Belgian-cemetery-five-attackers.html | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 08:59 PM |
| 71 | Truer words have never been spoken. Don't believe those fairy tales ladies.this is such an important point. my ex used to talk about what a treat it was to catch a glimpse of a topless pic in his dad's playboy. that shit is downright wholesome comparatively speaking. 😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 08:53 PM |
| 13 | Another Reason to Never Reveal Trauma, You May Not Have Thought Ofpersonally I think everyone (regardless of flair or post) is a fucking rock star because we all made it here. 🕉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 08:50 PM |
| 450 | Truer words have never been spoken. Don't believe those fairy tales ladies.Yeah I saw similar story about 14yr old gang raped by boys 12-14. She killed herself. and still, no one is listening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 06:38 PM |
| 13 | Do you believe in Pretty Privilege? Why is it that society, including women, dismiss the devastating loneliness of UNATTRACTIVE WOMEN while simultaneously doing everything possible to avoid BECOMING those unattractive women?I agree 100% with your points. I think, with age, we see through the beauty industry/beauty standards more and more. It IS hypocritical to pander to societal standards and in the same breath say that looks don't/shouldn't matter. I went 2 weeks without grooming my eyebrows and that was a first in about 20 years. Honestly? I feel like getting women to waste accumulated years of their lives grooming themselves for men is deliberate. We waste so much time in the process of looking good. And so much… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 06:31 PM |
| 248 | Truer words have never been spoken. Don't believe those fairy tales ladies.and we've wasted seasons/years/decades. it's not an accident. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 05:33 PM |
| 8 | I(26F) married a LVM (37M) and now I feel like my only way out is suicideNurx is awesome. it's all done online, no hidden fees and birth control comes in discreet packaging. also, since reproductive rights looks iffy in parts of the USA, I got a ton of Plan B on amazon just in case anyone I know needs it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 12:18 PM |
| 35 | He Who Poops In The Shower.... RUN!ommfg the bar swirled down the drain. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 11:41 AM |
| 37 | Remember, men have no problem using you for relationship benefits until they find someone betterthe truth of that statement is searing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 03:27 AM |
| 25 | Remember, men have no problem using you for relationship benefits until they find someone better100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 03:26 AM |
| 14 | The perfect response for scrotes whataboutismyep. it's always muh cousin's friend Dean got a false charge after some bitch went nuts <insert eternal eye roll> | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 03:23 AM |
| 13 | hope everyone has a good Friday ❤️that hits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 03:17 AM |
| 53 | What do you ladies think ?it seems scrotes are laboring under the misconception that we give one flying fuck about what they want. lol they all want to be fawned over for absolutely nothing. hard pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 02:38 PM |
| 28 | Are there men who don't look at porn?that feels incredibly generous. I'd say more like 1 in 5000. but hopefully I'm just jaded AF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 11:10 AM |
| 3 | Apparently even ancient Rabbis didn’t have time for thirsty dudes and their nonsensethen as a cope they made the whole if I die and get 70 virgins speil. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 03:02 AM |
| 17 | Especially a baby scrote. Too many downplay the physical effects of pregnancy and after birth changes. What’s something we should know?It could also be the avalanche of future responsibilities finally becoming real to him. He has to face how unprepared and incompetent he is. Actually facing this would take emotional intelligence and introspection which scrotes don't have. So, instead, they interpret the blistering horror they feel at their own glaring shortcomings as stress about "getting tied down". They blame their partner for this feeling and treat her even worse than before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 02:06 AM |
| 15 | Especially a baby scrote. Too many downplay the physical effects of pregnancy and after birth changes. What’s something we should know?4eva | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 01:56 AM |
| 6 | Especially a baby scrote. Too many downplay the physical effects of pregnancy and after birth changes. What’s something we should know?yes it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 01:50 AM |
| 39 | Men are grossthey all do this. it's always "women use so much toilet paper" and yet we don't have fucking skid marks even when ass flossing with thongs. men are gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 01:42 AM |
| 65 | So true. 😍 👑...I mean if we have to do things to make them feel special, that means they aren't originally, intrinsically so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 01:33 AM |
| 55 | Jimmy Kimmel segment where men struggle to answer the most basic questions about their girlfriends. Ladies, never settle for someone who doesn't take an active interest in your life.she was awesome. I bet she dumped his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 01:28 AM |
| 159 | Absolutely brain dead, outrageous, and pathetic conversation between pickmes and scrotesthey can't stand not controlling every aspect of womanhood, even fucking childbirth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 01:13 AM |
| 88 | He called me a princessthe prize: large unwashed ass oozing over a damp, dirty computer chair as Greasyhands McCheeto types his 54th fake field report on TRP reddit waiting for his mom to call down "dinner's ready". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 03:52 PM |
| 14 | QUEENS, How Have You Found Your HVM?Tom Hank's son got shit for creating a clothing line called White Boy Summer. scroaches, ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 03:43 PM |
| 24 | After nearly 10 years of being a Reddit lurker (never even made an account) this subreddit has had such an impact on me that I finally had to sign up, so I can say to all of you...It's so goddamn freeing isn't it?! This place is amazing. The veil has lifted and the world is a very different place. All that awe and interest I had in males I now have in myself and fellow women-it's awesome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 03:40 PM |
| 54 | I Always Wanted to Date a Man I Could Look Up To. It Appears There Aren't Any.Feel this sis-like a gut punch. I'm no longer projecting wonderful qualities that I can admire onto NVM/LVM scrotes anymore, like I've done for most of life. Progress. But yeah, with the blinders off, men are profoundly disappointing on every level, on a global scale. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 01:43 PM |
| 44 | you’re doing what now?while libfems cheer them on in that media 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 11:49 AM |
| 29 | you’re doing what now?it's sad that most people think they're two separate groups | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 11:47 AM |
| 34 | Bathroom lines and "I'm glad I'm a guy" comments from scrotes.00076 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 11:36 AM |
| 7 | New here!glad you found us sis. FDS can be hard af to read at first, especially before he's totally out of your life. If you can, read Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft, it might make his actions easier to decipher-was a big eye opener for me. You got this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 01:41 AM |
| 9 | I see so many guys complain about how easy it is for girls to get matches on dating apps and how much it sucks that they get so fewlove this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 01:34 AM |
| 4 | After being single for years, dating again is like testing out the boundaries I’ve developed in my single petri dish in the wild. I can finally be my authentic self instead of catering to men, but I’m also scared of falling into old patterns. Do you have other reminders?YES | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 01:31 AM |
| 41 | Why being string along in a relationship is bad idea.free mommybangmaidcleaningappliance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 01:25 AM |
| 9 | Why being string along in a relationship is bad idea.Me too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 01:25 AM |
| 53 | Why I hate Hinge: An Observationwow. fuck that noise. epitome of laziness and entitlement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 12:52 AM |
| 1 | NVM asks for the impossible.thank you sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 08:15 PM |
| 1 | NVM asks for the impossible.thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 08:13 PM |
| 2 | NVM asks for the impossible.that's a much needed point 🕉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 08:09 PM |
| 4 | NVM asks for the impossible.It's a hard no from my gut but I'd do this for anyone I loved. I don't love him but I do feel like there's an expectation of a good person would say yes. I'm worried that saying no means I'm just as bad as he is 😥 He has been perfunctory pleasant last decade but nothing more than already described. I know he doesn't deserve it but due to his age (according to him all of his wonderful friends would be lining up to donate but they're too old) he will most likely die if I don't. **and thank you all… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 06:30 PM |
| 27 | This is Lilith from the FDS Podcast. I'm deleting my Reddit account because I'm tired of misogyny and harassment on Reddit.Very sorry to see you go, but 100% get it. How can we help? I'm assuming more time spent on FDS website and slowly transitioning off of woman hating reddit? Are there other ways we (users) can support you or current mods? Help to grow the FDS name and message? Thank you for all you've done and all you're doing. You are an OG badass and I'm sure you've gotten nothing but hate for a long time here. FDS turned my entire outlook around and I'll support the effort in any way I can sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:36 PM |
| 8 | thank you FDS for timely reminders again and again!!Good for you. It took some hard introspection and objectivity to come to that conclusion-be proud of yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:27 PM |
| 24 | Left a six month relationship with a lvmgood for you sis! great progress and I know next time you see those red flags you will turn away immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:25 PM |
| 14 | Message to ladies and lurkers: All orgasms are not created equal!lol right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 03:41 AM |
| 3 | They really think it's all about their fee feeswow. it's so weird that we never have to TRY with toys. hmmm... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 03:30 AM |
| 7 | Struggling with the reality this isn’t temporaryBeautifully put sis. I don't have advice as I'm struggling with the same feeling right now. 🕉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 02:24 AM |
| 94 | This is absolutely domestic abuse and he should be in fucking jail. I'm outragedit will be easier for her to take that terrible advice than to face what the relationship really is. she's smashing those rose colored glasses so hard into her face she's cracked her eye sockets. I used to be her a really long time ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 09:04 PM |
| 12 | It happened. He texted.he won't end it hon-they never do. it will be hard and there's absolutely no rule you have to do it in person (he'll try to make you think after 13 years we owe it to ourselves to do it in person-it's utter bullshit). I refused to see my narc because I doubted I'd be strong enough to break up if I did. Now, over a year out, I shudder to think of how much time I'd have wasted had I got sucked back in. Good luck, stay strong, life will be so much better without him-promise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 08:45 PM |
| 124 | I have no wordsthey honestly think we're getting off to tampons. think about that for a sec. they really believe that. no wonder they think rape is no big deal since every time you shove something up there it feels good. I've 100% lost all hope for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 08:40 PM |
| 68 | I have no wordsI'm brewing up some right now. it's lethal though. oh darn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 08:38 PM |
| 116 | I have no wordsthere is no hope for womankind if she married this dude. WHY DO WOMEN THINK THIS TREATMENT IS OK?! and when the fuck are we going to collectively stop taking this shit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 08:36 PM |
| 8 | Call me radical but this is one of the reasons why hookups should stop being popular and glorifiedladies? the bar no longer exists. forge your own titanium bar and beat them over the head (or armpit) with it. jesus wept. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 04:43 PM |
| 37 | A mantra that might be helpful for when we fall back into old ways of thinking...Thank you-needed to read this today. That's a Brene Brown worthy way to turn it around sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 03:38 PM |
| 53 | Dead bedrooms and red pill theory """logic""" (if you can call it that)Petition to use Cheetofingers McXbox loudly and widely on all SM platforms :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 03:37 PM |
| 11 | Thank youWonderful progress sis! You inspire me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 02:51 PM |
| 33 | Translation: Don’t be offended when I say something rude or meanthey cannot stomach an ounce of honesty from women. try it out on men in your life. they will clutch their pearls and cry. legit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 02:10 PM |
| 20 | Don't use OLD if you are not comfortable with itWomen are already at a severe disadvantage on OLD as NVM/narcs/sociopaths (so...99.9998% of scrotes using OLD) see women there as so desperate they need to advertise themselves (yes, hypocritical but when has that ever stopped them before?). They already feel justified in treating you subpar/mediocre. They won't admit this, but it's true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 02:02 PM |
| 9 | If he continuously sends too many texts in a row, cut him off. Don't let a man blow up your phone.huge red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 03:37 PM |
| 40 | Of course all the men are saying how much they LOVE it when a woman asks them out...we know the truth, ladies 🙄ew. I just got a visual of the greasy, cheeto caked fingers of the unwashed, corpulent scrote who's typing I'd love it if a girl approached me from his dark, sweaty basement room at mom's. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 05:48 PM |
| 50 | What will it take to get the bots, catfish, scammers and still-hopeful women off the apps?it wouldn't. too many trolls. but damn I wish we could do an FDS friend app to find other FDS women in your area. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 05:41 PM |
| 71 | FDS is, in and of itself, a revolution; and we need to be cognizant of that.you're right-the first part is poorly worded. didn't mean to ignore or erase the generations of women who paved the way to this. 🕉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 05:15 PM |
| 10 | What FDS has taught me over the space of nearly 2 years.love it sis! great post-thank you for your insight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 03:23 PM |
| 16 | Want kids but dread raising them?Even in women only circles the reality of pregnancy and childbirth, not to mention raising a child, is rarely discussed. The only things I heard from my mom were you forget the pain. Ummmm... 🙄🙄🙄 Honestly, it feels deliberate. I think many, many more women would think twice about giving birth if they knew what it really does to your body. Scary Mommy Confessions is truly terrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 12:27 PM |
| 17 | Shoutout to r/FemaleDatingStratPros for doing our outrage marketing for us and bringing us more members 😂I doubt there's women who would fall for it. Their posts are not only extreme, they also make no logical sense. Men are so emotional 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 12:17 PM |
| 10 | Shoutout to r/FemaleDatingStratPros for doing our outrage marketing for us and bringing us more members 😂don't forget femceldatingstragedy 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 12:15 PM |
| 25 | Shoutout to r/FemaleDatingStratPros for doing our outrage marketing for us and bringing us more members 😂exactly. they are desperate for a ban so we can stop educating other women on the scrotacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 12:13 PM |
| 16 | Shoutout to r/FemaleDatingStratPros for doing our outrage marketing for us and bringing us more members 😂This. If LVM spent as much time leveling up as they do bitching about our standards they'd be HVM in no time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 12:12 PM |
| 68 | Apparently women doing the bare minimum to protect themselves and give other women tips on how to protect themselves is fetishistic attention-seeking behavior. No victim blaming though, right libfems?but wait..if it's a safety fetish it's also a kink.no kink shaming right scrotes? 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 11:23 PM |
| 19 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 13 - Roastus Scrotus Deletus + How an Early Childhood Educator Motivates Boys to be HVMThat part was awful. "we need to give boys space to be boys" ummm.....def not the content I'm here for. I don't understand why the ECE focused so much on the needs of boys. Putting a "girl defending boy" between a girl and a really bad bully? It was a really confusing choice of topic IMO and the expert seemed tentative with archaic views. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 07:39 PM |
| 5 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 13 - Roastus Scrotus Deletus + How an Early Childhood Educator Motivates Boys to be HVMditto. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 07:32 PM |
| 38 | 10 Top Reasons why FDS is toxicact like we're trying to poison the water supply or something that's exactly what we're doing. poisoning their supply line to women willing to take their bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 01:02 AM |
| 26 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂they bank on your pity. please do not feel sorry for this dude. these are the types that drive into crowds after making videos about getting revenge on the whores. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 05:06 PM |
| 88 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂this would be funny...if they didn't honestly believe it. the delusion is real. I call it the Clooney effect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 05:05 PM |
| 91 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂bUt mEN PeAk aT 76 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 05:02 PM |
| 43 | Know Your Enemy: Friends with Benefits and the Sex Positive Movementbrilliant sis! if women would, as a unit, simply cease entertaining men who do not deserve it, we would have the revolution we so desperately need. #justsaynotoscrotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 04:16 PM |
| 28 | Red pilled men break their own rules for attractive HV women. Don’t be fooled by their bullshit claims online- most are doing the MOST in a bid to tie one down- which proves nothing.the comments here illustrate why we need a damn database. I swear some of us have dated the same ass scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 04:11 PM |
| 37 | Red pilled men break their own rules for attractive HV women. Don’t be fooled by their bullshit claims online- most are doing the MOST in a bid to tie one down- which proves nothing.Your posts are beyond accurate and fabulous sis. You've brilliantly described my experience with NVM disguised as HVM. I was the dreamgirl he tried to fool for as long as possible. TRP was so slow and subtle. At the onset of more overt disrespect I looked at him like seriously? do you actually think I need this if you're not going to continue providing HVM treatment? Bye scroach. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 04:08 PM |
| 86 | Men know.as an aside, my father cheated and left with someone younger. 20 years later he left 2nd wife and tried to get back with my mom. all they have is the audacity. he'll throw the next one over too eventually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 03:53 PM |
| 39 | Men know.Fuck that guy sis. My friend told me a great quote "there's only room for one man in your emotional living room. If the wrong one is sitting there taking up space, there's no room for the right one to walk in". 🗑takes itself out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 03:50 PM |
| 43 | Performative love (what men want) vs the real thing (what women want).My thoughts at 40 having spent most of my life partnered: I was lucky early and had 2 great HVM types in HS. The kind that cooked for me, prioritized my pleasure and treated me with respect; before age 25. Then an abuser. Spent a decade with sweet but passive (mostly) HVM. Dropped a true HVM because he wanted marriage/kids (I never did). Dipped into OLD and it was fuckboi/softboi central-every time. Please do not waste your life swiping queens. Bottom line: there are good men out there but OP is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 01:46 PM |
| 40 | Women Of The World Uniteevery time a woman sleeps with an LVM she says us back a step. I wish we could all come together on this (lol unintended pun). operation scrote starve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 11:33 AM |
| 52 | Audacity of Fathers99.9% just want a child for the legacy. I've only met 2 men who truly adored and wanted children badly. even most father's will tell you their wives wanted kids more. it's so completely not worth it when they just lie cheat and leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 11:23 AM |
| 24 | Porn never taught me about passion and intimacythey call FDS an echo chamber but can't see that porn addled patriarchal society is the biggest echo chamber of all 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 11:17 AM |
| 46 | NVM who think they can buy consent and free willhonestly I think deep down they think all women enjoyall sex and we're just being bitches when we complain about consent and rape. they fantasize about living in a world where they could fuck anyone they want and women would pay them to have sex. they really think women live on easy mode. I've found even some seemingly HVM have this mindset if you dig. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 11:13 AM |
| 3 | If you're still using dating apps, you're a pickmethere's a big old helping of high horse here too. I've seen you just have to be smart about it several times. so...if you meet an LVM on OLD you're just not being smart enough? or not going about OLD in a smart way? ok sis. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 02:00 AM |
| 35 | FDS Translates VICE - "Adult" Men with their Mattresses on the Floorthey aren't being held accountable for their disgusting habits. women are literally fucking men who do not wash their ass. women post on AITA asking if they're in the wrong for not sleeping with a dude who sleeps in a nest of dirty laundry, dead skin cells and weeks of filth and dust. NVMs have frighteningly few consequences for their scrotacity. why would they change? 😖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 01:23 AM |
| 199 | This is why I will never get married again; I'll stay a single mom.we shouldn't have to block their fucking names. Jesus. 😠 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 01:11 AM |
| 20 | If you're still using dating apps, you're a pickmepersonally I feel like anyone so invested in OLD that they're defending their right to swipe has some internalized pickmeitis to address. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 05:46 PM |
| 8 | If you're still using dating apps, you're a pickmeOLD isn't evil unless you allow it to be? Agree to disagree. I don't understand why women would willingly put themselves in the same space as LVM. If we all agree that the staggering, overwhelming majority of OLD men are NVM/LVM why in the world would any of us waste our time attempting to sift through piles of terrible men simply in the hopes of finding a halfway decent one? The dumpster diving analogy is accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 05:15 PM |
| 74 | The "male suicide is misogynistic" troll postit's a troll sub. they have similar flair and are trying to use it to get us banned. I've alerted mods on 2 separate posts but haven't heard anything back. not sure what recourse we have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 04:59 PM |
| 8 | Women don’t exist for your objectifying male gaze.queen! love your name too :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:58 PM |
| 26 | If you're still using dating apps, you're a pickmethis. I honestly don't know one couple who met on OLD where the dude is a legit HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:55 PM |
| 56 | If you're still using dating apps, you're a pickmeThis might get hate sis but you are 100% correct. Do you all know what would happen if we ALL got off OLD? Scrotes would have to level up or buy sex dolls and let's be real, none could afford them. If we all stopped OLD, didn't Netflix and chill and demanded the respect we deserve, they would literally be forced to evolve or die celibate. Viva La Revolution queens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:50 PM |
| 20 | If we’re Femcels, then why are Scrotes so obsessed with us??? 🧐You forgot lesbian slut single mothers. we are all old fat ugly single mother lesbian sluts who've hit the wall a decade ago and have rampant STDs according to the Whine-o-sphere. So yes, scroaches (similar to roaches but dumber and uglier)-why the fuck are you so obsessed with us if we're completely undesirable? Could it be because this is your last ditch pathetic cope? That you can't admit we represent a rainbow of women from ages 17-70 who see through your steaming, ineffectual bullshit and a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:34 PM |
| 5 | Once again, All of Reddit vs. FDSgood point. There's another new one FemcelDatingStrategy. what's that old quote? imitation is the highest form of flattery. I'm just afraid that the (male) Reddit powers that be will argue the FDSP site actually is FDS because their flair is so similar. I feel like they'll use any excuse to ban us at this point-even utter bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 01:55 PM |
| 26 | If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then it probably is a duck.The only ones I've encountered are the softbois/vulnerable(covert) narc types. On OLD they present as intelligent, sensitive, wanting a relationship, spiritual, and woke. They text a lot, ask you deep questions (not trauma mining in the beginning) compliment your hobbies/tastes and tell you you are so incredibly amazing. They are sweet, persuasive, sexy and humble. They have been hurt and aren't afraid to talk about it. Before you know it, you are feeling them, there's chemistry and you are in f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 01:49 PM |
| 9 | Once again, All of Reddit vs. FDSnot sure. I posted info about it for mods on the weekly ask FDS. the mods are 🔥 so I'm assuming they are aware and will advise but it's bad. the mgtow sub has reposted a lot of the fake pics from there and they're all screaming about how we need to be banned. in fairness the satire sub is literally saying all m-n should k-ll themselves in some of the posts. it will get this sub banned as a hate sub if ppl believe the posts are coming from FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 11:00 AM |
| 81 | Once again, All of Reddit vs. FDSFYI-it seems like men started this satire site FemaleDatingStrategyPros and are using screenshots from it claiming they are FDS posts in order to get us banned. The satire site has similar flair but not the same so they're cutting off screenshots to look like FDS. There is a post up about male suicide they're going nuts over claiming it's FDS. It's not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 12:37 AM |
| 28 | FDS saved my lifeso glad to hear it sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 12:14 AM |
| 14 | I'm so happy to have found this communityglad you found us sis! keep reading here and check out the FDS recommended films and books. I wish this was around when I was 25 🕉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 06:44 PM |
| 20 | Weekly FDS Check-inthrow the whole scrote out. wtaf? the fact that women are acquiescing to this makes me nauseous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 04:54 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Check-inmost women I know (20s-40s) do sleep with men on 1st or 2nd "date" (which is pathetically Netflix and chill). All of them are looking for relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 04:53 PM |
| 16 | Weekly FDS Check-inThe whole forum seems to be troll/satire. I'm not sure what the point of it actually is? It's clearly drawing in men but I've seen posts where it seems women think they're here? Confusing AF. Some of the posts are surveys about how many sex partners "FDSers" have had, how many abortions. There are a number of posts about finding rich men (clearly written by men). It's a total shitshow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 04:51 PM |
| 8 | My gf needs space after i convinced her to let me pretend to rape her bc we're sooo kinky but she didnt say "banana" so I didnt stop, why is she upset???🤢🤡lol exactly. I later found out he liked to get railed by guys too-sans protection. but that was not info he lead with 🤢 people have said I'm being insensitive to bisexual men but I think if you've had a dick in your mouth and ass and you're male-you're probably fucking gay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 03:39 PM |
| 30 | Weekly FDS Check-inif Scrotes&Co used even half of the energy put into hating us into becoming better people, literally all of their problems would dissolve. And they are legit too dumb to see this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 02:02 PM |
| 66 | Weekly FDS Check-inMODS: are you aware there is a new sub calling themselves FemaleDatingStrategyPros? They are posting some heinous shit and it's clear people think they are part of FDS. Just FYI. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 01:27 PM |
| 13 | My gf needs space after i convinced her to let me pretend to rape her bc we're sooo kinky but she didnt say "banana" so I didnt stop, why is she upset???🤢🤡my opinion is the ass does not belong in sex play at all. my nex was obsessed with pegging. all I can say is-it was a totally shitty experience both literally and otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 01:24 PM |
| 4 | Men Are Trash ex. # 72858395yep. at this point it's like satire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 01:19 PM |
| 10 | Men Are Trash ex. # 72858395Interesting fact: my ex claimed that when I had internal (G spot) orgasms (which I have easily) it felt like my muscles contracted and I squeezed tightly. So all of you lurking men can get the same fucking result from actually making your woman orgasm. What a concept. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 01:18 PM |
| 60 | My gf needs space after i convinced her to let me pretend to rape her bc we're sooo kinky but she didnt say "banana" so I didnt stop, why is she upset???🤢🤡don't ask, just order the strap on and surprise him 😉 then, after, when he's crying you can remind him he didn't say safe word supercalifragilisticexpialidocios so you didn't know he wanted you to stop 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 11:16 AM |
| 55 | We used to think we were always at faultpasta in a glove is seriously going to haunt me. like...the preparation necessary 🤢🤢🤢 wtf? do they not have active imaginations to just jerk off with? how broken are these bastards? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 11:10 AM |
| 1 | I'm alone in my real life when it comes to FDS mentalityyass sis-getting FDS out there the same way I get veganism out there-slowly but surely :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 12:27 AM |
| 23 | The bigger a dude, the nicer he tends to be. I don't even care about height from an aesthetics standpoint, but I don't date short men because they usually have a Napoleon complex and terrible personality.🎯🎯🎯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 06:00 PM |
| 135 | Wish I found this sub before being baby trapped.I'm sorry you're going through this sis. My bestie has an amazing, fierce 14yr old now, but then, she had to leave a horrifically abusive alcoholic. Had to start from scratch, get on benefits and move home. But that turned into a great way to get closer to her mom, get help with childcare, go back to school for something she's passionate about. She beat cancer and got her degree last year, all scrote and scrotestress free. You can have a wonderful life as a single mom, even in struggle days. Ple… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 04:35 PM |
| 23 | How FDS helped me recover from an abusive relationshipgood for you sis! very glad you found this community. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 04:29 PM |
| 159 | The bigger a dude, the nicer he tends to be. I don't even care about height from an aesthetics standpoint, but I don't date short men because they usually have a Napoleon complex and terrible personality.example and exception: my HVM stepfather. He was 5'5, world traveler, feminist ally and all around exquisite human. Was never challenged with women because he was intelligent, compassionate and dynamic. most short men write themselves off by assuming women will think they are sub par before they even enter the dating world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 01:56 PM |
| 7 | Ladies, ready to play MANSPLAINER BINGO?! New square suggestions welcome.😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 10:32 AM |
| 11 | Ladies, ready to play MANSPLAINER BINGO?! New square suggestions welcome.right? proof positive that women are not the more emotional gender. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 10:31 AM |
| 29 | I'm alone in my real life when it comes to FDS mentalityyou'll be surprised who you influence! after finding FDS 1.5 years ago and blathering endlessly about actual feminism, my mom (raised in the 60s) is now also a proponent. we talk about how 🗑 men are and how the wool of marriage has been pulled over women's eyes since jump. I think it's a bit sad for her to come to these realizations late in life but better late than never. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 10:27 AM |
| 25 | It Never Endsor ever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 02:49 AM |
| 44 | It Never EndsTRP will try this line as they age lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 02:45 AM |
| 75 | Red pill /abuse tactics I’ve seen on the field over the last few yearsyou need to write a book sis cuz 100% of your TRP observations are beyond spot on. They will quickly turn back attention on your ‘flaws’. They will hint at you being responsible for their bad behaviour (another signs he’s deflecting guilt about cheating). This is to get you to drop the questions and actually act like a Pickmeisha making it up to them, for daring to question them. This is a vulnerable point where you must trust your gut and leave. this was literally the point where I knew I neede… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 02:27 PM |
| 24 | I Am So Tired of Hearing About Their Damn Penises!!!I've had more than 1 ex say he loved my small hands 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 02:24 PM |
| 58 | I Am So Tired of Hearing About Their Damn Penises!!!For most of these guys, having grown a penis is the only thing they’ll ever achieve in life. I fixed it for you sis 😝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 02:23 PM |
| 59 | In case you had any remaining doubts about the male ability to devastate women for their own convenience and pleasureright? I feel like every woman I've ever heard say she liked it or omg I can totally come that way (🤔) is just a hopeless pickme screaming I'm not like other girls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 11:44 AM |
| 49 | Celibacy is POWERFUL ❤️✨my ex said similar things re: romance/passion. it'll be a year of celibacy next month and I'm much happier, less stressed, aware, observant and cognizant of my own needs now that I've removed all scrotacity from my life 😝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 11:33 AM |
| 66 | It's ALL men.so powerful sis and so fucking true 🥀👊 #breakthepatriarchy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 11:25 AM |
| 30 | Too little too late. I know him but not his wife, and all I could do was shrug and say "you go sis". Hope he really learned that lesson. He earned this.sis-that's metal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 02:00 AM |
| 34 | FDS STRATEGY SPOTLIGHT: SATURDAY MAY 29 2021this. can you imagine how powerful it would be if women stopped using OLD altogether in protest of our abhorrent treatment? we're not fucking them, we're not putting ourselves out there to show up on their scrote radar. what better way to say LVMs do not get access? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 04:30 PM |
| 8 | Ew. Nope! You'll always sink to their level. They will never rise to yours if this is how your "relationship" is.it's my dream to find a company like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 02:48 PM |
| 33 | Emotional abuse can be as destructive as physical abuse & everyone needs to know this.He sounds like a cluster b personality disorder (narc or covert narc). they freak out when you try to reclaim control. it wasn't you sis-they're all fucking hot and cold lunatics. reading up on them helped me heal and see that there's nothing I could have done to foresee the treatment or avoid it (except not entertaining him in the first place). don't beat yourself up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 11:46 AM |
| 44 | Men have waged psychological warfare on us through the manosphere (incels, pick up artists, red pill) the big porn industry (bdsm fetishes etc) and toxic liberal feminism (pro sex work agenda). A message from FDS: strong women are uniting and WILL NOT BACK DOWN. The sisterhood is only STRENGTHENING.we're so fucking overdue for an organized uprising 😇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 12:51 AM |
| 11 | Queens-Please read this for your own education and safety. Also, found this on an incel thread: https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill. Some of it is NOT easy to stomach but better to know and be prepared than blissfully ignorant while these creatures multiply.That's an excellent point. I think we're already seeing that with GenZ 😥 Not too mention us older (newer) radfems who were brainwashed by liberal feminism and are just now unpacking our own internalized bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 09:28 PM |
| 45 | Queens-Please read this for your own education and safety. Also, found this on an incel thread: https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill. Some of it is NOT easy to stomach but better to know and be prepared than blissfully ignorant while these creatures multiply.I'm only 1/3 through but as someone who (unfortunately had to) research TRP and PUA after encountering a depraved lunatic in that group; this is extremely in depth and pertinent for anyone currently dating/wading through the shark infested waters of OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 05:49 PM |
| 26 | Cluster b mengood for you! no contact is so hard in the beginning. I think most of us who have encountered a narc (or covert narc as mine was) have all of those similar thoughts and feelings. It WAS NOT YOU. I was my narcs "dream girl". So far out of his league I kick myself for even giving him the time of day. I had suspicions something wasn't right (the love bombing was so intense it was nearly laughable but I was so distraught from my last LTR I ignored my gut and basked in the adoration) but I assumed I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 03:33 PM |
| 92 | Queens-Please read this for your own education and safety. Also, found this on an incel thread: https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill. Some of it is NOT easy to stomach but better to know and be prepared than blissfully ignorant while these creatures multiply.No. This is a deep investigative work where the author delves into Incel, TRP, PUA and MGTOW communities. She discusses how the communities came about and how their popularity is rising. The comments/hatred this book has garnered tell us all we need to know. Men do not want us to be informed. They legit think education on these topics=misandry. They will swear on a stack of bibles that FDS is an incel community and in the same breath swear that incels are a tiny fringe faction and nothing to fea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:54 PM |
| 5 | And this is why it's important to date a man who is trustworthy.I left a dead bedroom with a (mostly) HVM 2 years ago. It's *not* you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:14 PM |
| 17 | Too many men think they’re above jobs in the sex industry to make ends meet and let their prejudices hold them backoh god, you're probably so right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:54 PM |
| 96 | Most men have bad taste. Don't lose yourself or your uniqueness trying to conform to it Chances are, the male gaze is not your aesthetic.they legit project so hard they get furious when you being yourself does not mesh with their projection. they are fucking lunatics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:50 PM |
| 4 | Porn, and the patriarchy, has truly destroyed morality because now NVM engaging nec*ophilia should not be KiNK SHaMeD.😂 I remember that joke! the bar builder 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 11:47 AM |
| 15 | Porn, and the patriarchy, has truly destroyed morality because now NVM engaging nec*ophilia should not be KiNK SHaMeD.one thing that gets better with age is fearing this type of stuff less. men are vile creatures 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 11:45 AM |
| 25 | And this is why it's important to date a man who is trustworthy.gargle balls and die mad scrotes 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:10 AM |
| 53 | And this is why it's important to date a man who is trustworthy.honestly? most sex is not worth the eventual bullshit the male attached to the dick puts us through. IMO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:05 AM |
| 112 | Too many men think they’re above jobs in the sex industry to make ends meet and let their prejudices hold them backbecause they'd be selling gamer guts and hairy unwashed ass 🤢 who's going to pay for that 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:45 AM |
| 46 | Too many men think they’re above jobs in the sex industry to make ends meet and let their prejudices hold them backI've heard this from more than a handful of men over the years. 🙄🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:43 AM |
| 24 | lovejessicablair on Instagram: some people asked me why men not finding me attractive is a flex and it’s bc i don’t wish to feed into the male gaze❤️she is stunning and a true queen and we need hundreds of influencers like this 💞🕉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:41 AM |
| 21 | Why I only accept dinner dates when vetting a man.now THAT is some queen shit right there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 01:54 PM |
| 15 | Eye Opening.me too sis 🕉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 06:30 PM |
| 48 | Eye Opening.sweet jesus I wish I woke up in my 20s 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 06:30 PM |
| 26 | A woman I know shared this...😬The bar has passed through Hell and is now red hot and being used to beat women. WTAF is this inane bullshit??! The fact that this was posted by a woman is depressing AF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-inthat's awesome!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 03:36 PM |
| 26 | Please report the dating profiles of suspected red pilled pick up artistsgiiirl. when I found out he was banging anything that moved (men, women, hookers etc..) I was on pins and needles getting tested for a year. I want to pull an Evan Rachel Wood and plaster his disgusting ass all over the place, but he's also dangerous. I just wish we (FDSers) could pitch in and create a Scrotebase we could all access. I'd invest in the venture hardcore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 03:04 PM |
| 29 | Please report the dating profiles of suspected red pilled pick up artistsI would love to name and shame mine. In FL he's on all the apps all the time and has been abusing women for the last 15 years. So toxic 2 ladies made a podcast about his profile. I literally get sick thinking about all the victims of his a database could have saved (including me). 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 12:06 PM |
| 47 | Underneath the mask is another mask, and under that is an abuser 😩I beg y'all to not be so trusting of cat owners. I've experienced 2 evil AF narcs who had cats. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 12:01 PM |
| 6 | Watch Out for Negs and Men Who Are Jealous Of Youdunno but they legit ARE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 03:15 PM |
| 14 | After she struck out Babe Ruth and Lou Gerhrig in succession, women were declared "unfit" to play baseball because it was "too strenuous" and women were "too delicate".men are actually too delicate to live in a world that doesn't insulate them like the patriarchy does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 03:08 PM |
| 25 | lol 💀💀FDS haters: whines FDS women are all fat ugly dykes anyway Also FDS haters: wHhhHyyY dOn'T tHEy FiNd uS aTTraCTiVe die screaming into the void scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 03:03 PM |
| 37 | lol 💀💀...dignity and self respect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 03:00 PM |
| 3 | The plastic surgery industry thrives based on the insecurity of women due to the demands of the patriarchy.right? fat ass in my school was an insult. 10 years later it's a compliment 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:04 PM |
| 3 | The plastic surgery industry thrives based on the insecurity of women due to the demands of the patriarchy.omg. that's terrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 07:32 PM |
| 7 | The plastic surgery industry thrives based on the insecurity of women due to the demands of the patriarchy.In the 90s we had to pluck our eyebrows to kingdom come. Now ppl are getting microbladded to have thicker brows. It won't stop. 😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 07:28 PM |
| 58 | Podcast feedback from men: "hate fan mail"Really? Is that your idea of a "soulmate" someone you can argue with, belittle, and gaslight? for 90% of them I've found that answer to be a resounding yes 🙄🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 07:07 PM |
| 72 | Wanted to share this with you all. (I’ve bleeped the username out, just in case that’s not allowed).love it. so accurate. most of us are indoctrinated into pickme hell by older generation. one of my favorite quotes is: the most dangerous words are "we've always done things this way" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 11:39 AM |
| 11 | Did you hear about John Mulaney's divorce? I'm shocked.I really wish she wouldn't date such scum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 11:34 AM |
| 32 | Wedged In My Windshield Wiper: A Note From A Scrotealready negging-you're not cute just kinda cute 🤡🤡🤡 fuck off with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 11:26 AM |
| 4 | Don't forget it Queens.42 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 08:45 PM |
| 22 | How is being bothered by micro-cheating connected to having low self-confidence?I'd show up to see that 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 08:39 PM |
| 20 | Don't forget it Queens.right? I'm loling cuz this post says 10+ comments so you know they're frothing at the mouth as the mod squad deletes their spittle laced, impotent rage. Die mad scrotes!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 04:52 PM |
| 4 | Jonathan Rhys MeyersAh, I thought he was SO fine until he played such a NVX in Match Point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 04:49 PM |
| 36 | This subreddit helped me avoid a LVM. Thank you.💪💥👊 go queen! these are the posts I'm here for-good job spotting the 🗑🗑🗑. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 03:20 PM |
| 10 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 11 - FDS Gets Entangled with Sex Work Twitterwelcome sis! I'm so glad you found us 💜🕉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 02:55 PM |
| 3 | What About Equality?So queens, can we turn NSMC (no sex, marriage, children) into an actual movement? I'm all the fuck in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Why FDS Existsjesus Queen, I wish this essay was on the cover of Time. brava! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 02:11 PM |
| 52 | This is so distributing.notice that, historically, the only people ever arguing in favor of children having sexual experiences with adults are...MEN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 01:38 PM |
| 3 | NEVER call a man attractive to his face.and holy cringe when they come off 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 10:39 AM |
| 7 | Let's talk about what 'red-pilled' scrotes call a shit-test. It is literal abuse.It's a way for them to feel like they're not depraved abusive lunatics. If women are like them or use similar strategy then they absolve themselves of any guilt or shame. with TRP literally ALL of their beliefs about women are projection and the projection is a cope that protects them from seeing reality; they are pathetic predators. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 12:10 PM |
| 15 | Let's talk about what 'red-pilled' scrotes call a shit-test. It is literal abuse.I once dated a TRP dude before I even knew what the ideology was. He would say things like you're missing an opportunity to show me you're gf material if my reaction to something he said or did wasn't what he expected. I just laughed at him a bit perplexed, as by my choice we were very casual. I thought he was just poorly socialized and kinda ignorant to male/female dynamics. But he turned out to be a complete psychopath and I'm forever grateful I never fell in love with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 12:06 PM |
| 5 | The myth that young women will lust after 45 year old men in their apparent ‘peak earning potential’ 🤪Also, at 40-50, 100k annually isn't much if you still have 5 figure student loan debt, a mortgage, alimony and child support. these old scrotes don't even offer what a money smart 30yr old dude brings to the table. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 11:50 AM |
| 10 | The myth that young women will lust after 45 year old men in their apparent ‘peak earning potential’ 🤪I heard from Boomers growing up don't let them pay and they won't get handsy lol. In my personal experience, 99% of men will try to take some type of advantage of you whether you follow that or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 11:40 AM |
| 21 | Watching porn makes men unable to pair-bond effectively with womenwomen have far too many brain cells for this skewed logic to make sense 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 11:33 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Check-In 17 May 2021I'm in awe of you sis! such am undertaking. I'm not a programmer but if there's anything I can do to help let me know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 08:58 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Check-In 17 May 2021same 🕉💜 women are also more expressive, more likely to smile in pics and have sparkling eyes. we're just about better in every single way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 08:47 PM |
| 27 | Best books about breaking down the brain of an incelI concur. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 08:27 PM |
| 18 | I survived a weekend of low value temptation, thank you ladies.good for you sis! they don't deserve you 🕉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 08:26 PM |
| 11 | Straight from the horse's mouth: How LibFeminism "empowers" womenyes. they want what they can't have until they get it and it looses value so they don't want it anymore. at the center of male hypocrisy is the age old adage "I don't want to belong to any club that will have me as a member". and they don't even have the brain cells to see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:53 PM |
| 10 | Straight from the horse's mouth: How LibFeminism "empowers" womenyep. but at least now 160k women know and are vocal AF about it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:51 PM |
| 8 | Don’t Let him Skip the Courtshipso I au revoired him to kingdom come !!! love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:41 PM |
| 9 | Men want you all for themselves and then go jack off to pornstars, Instagram models, or anyone else they eye fucked that dayI hate to tell you this but as an older (40) woman; every single male I have ever known has admitted to not only measuring (multiple times) but also trying to suck their own dick. Every. Single. Male. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:33 PM |
| 24 | Why are relationship-seeking attractive men on OLD single? What’s the catch?OLD is like walking in a seemingly beautiful field...filled with landmines. I promise it's a complete and utter waste of time. 99.999% are just bouquets of all manner of crimson flags. But don't take my word for it-try talking to men for a week-all will become clear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:26 PM |
| 17 | Physical Red Flagsmy attitude for life 👊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 05:32 PM |
| 168 | Oh, here's a great idea! Cover your drink! Scrotes will be furious, it helps with vetting AND surviving...no good man would ever be offended by this. unfortunately I'm taking about .00006% of them when I say good. 🤐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 05:28 PM |
| 8 | Thank you.it's amazing how similar all of our experiences are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 01:44 AM |
| 5 | Men tell on themselves, a lot. Especially fuckboys.all of this is 🎯🎯🎯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 11:28 AM |
| 130 | Dear Scrotes: cope and SEETHE. 😎✨🍤 🍤 🍤 die mad about it 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 01:14 AM |
| 4 | Share your standards!non negotiable: vegan, pretty hands, pretty feet, pretty dick. Aside from the other personality/characteristic requirements. even with just those 4 basics I know I'll be single 4eva . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 01:51 PM |
| 16 | Pick-me's vs Handmaidens -- an important distinctionyep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 04:57 PM |
| 21 | "Men don't like women who..." is a complete lie. The more of a "man hater" I've become, the more men seem to chase me. It's actually very bizarre.yes. unfortunately it does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 03:30 PM |
| 6 | Does Anyone Else Get A Feeling of Dream When They See Older (50+) Men In Public?or she's thinking of her safety and trying to laugh while getting the fuck away from them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 03:16 PM |
| 4 | Does Anyone Else Get A Feeling of Dream When They See Older (50+) Men In Public?yes, yes 1000x yes. it's an involuntary bodily stress reaction when having to walk by any man but especially 50+. just this morning I (40) was walking my dog and got a "why you looking so blue beautiful?" by an older construction scrote. I hate feeling like I cannot live my life without being on constant display for men-even in old sweats after a crying jag at 9am. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 03:11 PM |
| 12 | The truth about all your guy friends.I'll go so far as to say assume they all see you like that until proven otherwise | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 12:12 PM |
| 46 | Sex workers accusing us of slut shaming then in the next breath mocking us for "sucking dick for free" ...wow. And they have the audacity to demand we "support sex workers"yeah this is not flash your tits. it's WAY more depraved acts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 03:38 PM |
| 48 | Sex workers accusing us of slut shaming then in the next breath mocking us for "sucking dick for free" ...wow. And they have the audacity to demand we "support sex workers"It's just a cope though and a transparent one at that. I've had SW friends and they cling to the myth that men paying them for sex makes them somehow more coveted/desirable than a regular woman/girlfriend with white knuckles. In their heart of heart they know this is a cope. It's like a frightened cat who's claws come out-they are clawing at us to stave off the reality of their lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 03:36 PM |
| 11 | tw: sexual assault(??)// A sexual encounter with my ex makes me feel sick to my stomach when I think about it nowI'm sorry sis. It's hard to look back with new eyes; I'm going through that myself. Hugs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 03:05 PM |
| 3 | I’m sick of pick me articles claiming their husbands infidelity made their relationship ‘stronger’🎯🎯🎯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 02:44 AM |
| 22 | Do not take that condom off🎯🎯🎯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 02:27 AM |
| 163 | Just read a thread about the worst rejection men have experienced from a women that made the front pagebought her a beer? that was def a 50/50 dude 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 02:23 AM |
| 180 | Just read a thread about the worst rejection men have experienced from a women that made the front pagecan confirm they will still be whining about it 20 years later at 46 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 02:21 AM |
| 6 | This 👏🏻 is 👏🏻 why 👏🏻 I 👏🏻 have 👏🏻 trust issues!! Take them to the barbers on the first date. 💈 🪒fighting the temptation to link pix of my no chin NVX with every fiber of my being | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 02:21 PM |
| 11 | This is ‘modern masculinity’ in a nutshell lmaooo declining birth rates tell us you aren’t in demand ‘bro’in the USA it's really only very difficult to adopt a white newborn baby. There are so many kids in foster care but no one wants to adopt anyone over 1-2 years old. No one wants to look at how maybe being stuck in a foster care system is the cause of many "behavior problems". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 01:32 PM |
| 6 | You CAN teach an old dog new tricksyes queen 👑 It's never too late to see how liberal feminism did a number on GenX. So glad you find us 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 12:02 PM |
| 16 | This is ‘modern masculinity’ in a nutshell lmaooo declining birth rates tell us you aren’t in demand ‘bro’🎯🎯🎯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 11:56 AM |
| 27 | This is ‘modern masculinity’ in a nutshell lmaooo declining birth rates tell us you aren’t in demand ‘bro’yeah- if people want the experience of raising children there are plenty who need homes. it kills me-so many ppl against breeding animals (don't breed or buy while shelter pets die) but it's crickets when you mention adopting children. why do ppl need mini me replicas? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 11:54 AM |
| 51 | What’s the most embarrassing pick-me thing you’ve ever done?!??? 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️you've come a long way sis! 🕉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 12:03 PM |
| 28 | What’s the most embarrassing pick-me thing you’ve ever done?!??? 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️I was the same lol down to refusing to go to weddings even with vegan plates. Don't be too hard on yourself. It was a way to rebel against the roles women have played for centuries. I thought being anti marriage and kids was a way to tell the patriarchy to fuck right off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 12:01 PM |
| 28 | I can never listen to "baby mama drama" the same anymorethis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 10:32 PM |
| 82 | Be very aware of how far men go to try to control women to compensate for their low valueI've heard this view spouted by a TRP dude, in all sincerity. It was chilling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 10:26 PM |
| 7 | TW: THIS IS WHAT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A SCROTE LOOKS LIKEThen it hit me, I’m so used to abnormal shit that this kinda behaviour doesn’t even phase me anymore. And even though I worked real hard to get to an emotionally healthy place, I should still use FDS and vet ruthlessly. If I don’t really get triggered by this, how will I identify micro aggressions? Exactly the same boat here. This was "normal" growing up and in every relationship in my 20s. At 40, I think I'm still disassociated from how violent violence really is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 05:52 PM |
| 7 | Ghosted? Supreme Pickme Has a Solution 🤡he was such a douche. like a stand out one, even in that 90 Day company. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 05:41 PM |
| 19 | TikTok is grooming teenage girls to be okay with sexual violencelol I remember buying a pair of fuzzy handcuffs with my HS boyfriend-we were both thrilled at how kinky it was. -sigh- things have changed so drastically in such a short time due entirely to porn access/excess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 05:25 PM |
| 5 | YEP👏🏼it's really frightening when you look at it through the women as appliances lens. like, you don't feel bad for using your toaster right? they literally see us as appliances. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 05:18 PM |
| 7 | YEP👏🏼Once you move past the pickme stage, you cannot unsee how fucked this world is. Men consume violence against women on a daily basis. Men and pickmes bully women for "being hurt" because women's opinions are an inconvenience. Not to mention the breakdown on a race, class, and cultural scale. It's true-I hate that TRP ruined any Matrix analogy but it really is like waking up to the true plight of women. Looking at the carnage and chaos and even trying to envision a healthy relationship is so diffi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 04:59 PM |
| 7 | YEP👏🏼It's truly astounding how we, as innocent, blameless children, are completely at the mercy of our parents. Unhealthy coping mechanisms and relationship dynamics imprint on us before we even have a chance to comprehend them. Sometimes it feels like I've spent my entire adult life undoing all of the damage inflicted by parents who didn't know better. I'm sure, knowing the pitfalls, you'll do a fine job with your kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 04:52 PM |
| 59 | Once a man: suggests, hints, guilts, shames, brags, coerces, or straight up forces a woman to "try" a new sexual act BEYOND PIV (or maybe mutually gratifying oral sex)... THROW HIM AWAY.so much truth here. back in school guys were reverent even thinking they'd get a shot at PIV. now dudes on OLD bring up anal after 5 minutes of chat (according to friends-I've been off OLD for a year and never going back). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 06:09 PM |
| 119 | I've also been compared to having "steak " every day and other objects that grow old or boringtrue. so men make us dirty with their filthy dicks and grimy sperm, what exactly does that make them, for simply existing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 08:25 PM |
| 50 | I’m just so tickled seeing this. Yes Queens, yes.they don't understand interaction with women unless it's transactional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 12:08 AM |
| 17 | LVM can act HV - Never forget it🎯 mine too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 11:22 AM |
| 29 | Men and their hygiene, or lack of itomg y'all. seriously? I can't with these. I thought the few horrible stories I've seen reposted here were awful outliers. That thread shows deplorable hygiene to be common AF. Why are women putting up with this?!! Make it make sense 👀🤐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 05:29 PM |
| 100 | LVM and their "advice" to young girlsAs a woman who's always been happily childfree, hearing this is terrifying. I see GenZ thinking about childbirth as more of a choice than a requirement but shit like this can insidiously influence young women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 12:49 PM |
| 9 | That's what you get when you build a manplus automatic lost points foot being a gamer and using number scale so -1. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Friend won’t leave her asshole boyfriendI had a friend like this in HS. Her sociopath bf legit ran over her foot with his car on purpose, got someone else pregnant, went to hookers. It made no difference. My poor friend ended up dropping out and getting into porn herself. There's nothing you can do. I'm so sorry. Sometimes they wake up but it usually takes violence when the situation is already this bad. The only last ditch effort I'd suggest is doing activities with her that might build up her self esteem, in women centered spaces. 🕉… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 06:19 PM |
| 10 | “YoU dOnT LiStEn!1!”🎯 I didn't mean the exact words I just said you're taking that the wrong way dude it's literally exactly wtf you said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 02:38 AM |
| 6 | The Pickup Game (streaming on Starz): should be required viewing for any woman actively dating. Inside look at PUA tactics-scrotes telling on themselves. Trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eU5OcJWLC64I thought "Mystery" was a washed up MTV dinosaur. No clue he detailed how to masquerade as an HVM down to the body language. These techniques include NLP (neuro linguistic programing) which is what cults use. I had no idea PUA was still a multi-million dollar market. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 11:11 PM |
| 58 | Hobosexuals.he sees nothing wrong with literally taking food out of needy mouths because he's cheap AF. That's sociopathic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 06:25 PM |
| 56 | (Not my post) but my own dad told me to use this strategy to weed out the losers, and here it is working!Ikr? When I was in my 20s a modicum of effort was expected to be put forth for pussy. 3 decent dates at least. I feel like GenZ ladies (really any woman actively dating) should straight up go on a sex strike-men need hard consequences for acting like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 06:18 PM |
| 134 | (Not my post) but my own dad told me to use this strategy to weed out the losers, and here it is working!there's got to be a way to create one and keep hidden. do y'all even realize how much time we'd save naming and shaming scrotes and their audacious antics? narcissists wouldn't be able to find supply for miles 👊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 06:13 PM |
| 195 | Peyronie's Disease (Permanently Bent Penis)lol tell him not to get bent out of shape | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 01:34 PM |
| 4 | How do you deal with regret?saving this post. I'm in the same boat sis except a few years older. Currently reading I Am Diosa and would highly recommend. 🖤🕉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 03:23 PM |
| 5 | Getting turned off by menor un brainwashing 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 03:17 PM |
| 7 | Getting turned off by menditto | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 03:16 PM |
| 33 | Getting turned off by menSomeone should write an essay: The Man Myth; a detailed dive into how men are not what we're taught they are. It is incredibly painful to wake up to this after being alive for 3 decades. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 03:14 PM |
| 8 | I don’t even know what to title this one... 🤡yeah it's enough to turn you off of men forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 07:35 PM |
| 28 | I don’t even know what to title this one... 🤡exactly. a decade of FDS will break the fucking system 👊🤞👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 07:30 PM |
| 30 | Lundy Bancroft on Pornme too! I hope there's no skeletons in his closet because he's done such wonderful things for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 07:27 PM |
| 8 | Being the "dream girl" isn't specialyes!!! 🎯🎯🎯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 08:29 PM |
| 12 | Being the "dream girl" isn't special👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 08:27 PM |
| 43 | Being the "dream girl" isn't specialthey don't care who you actually are-you're a pretty girl to project their romcom fantasies on. watch what happens when you have a reaction/emotion that doesn't fit with their movie script. that was my first (ignored) red flag-scrote was like you're amazing blah blah blah without knowing a thing about me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 08:27 PM |
| 5 | Comments about how "the lyrics are trash" and videos about how this is *gasp* racist against white men and crys of "industry plants!"! But.. the lyrics don't lie?thanks sis. I think the message is great but the hate coming down on them will probably unfortunately dissuade similar lyrics. If songs like this were around 15yrs ago it could have saved me from thinking my sexuality was for men's pleasure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 08:22 PM |
| 21 | Comments about how "the lyrics are trash" and videos about how this is *gasp* racist against white men and crys of "industry plants!"! But.. the lyrics don't lie?The blog entry I wrote them up in is the only one in nearly a year with zero likes lol. I must have struck a nerve. https://everyoneelseishavingfun.com/2021/04/20/bitches/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 06:01 PM |
| 9 | Online “radical” FDS-style feminist groups got banned in China. It could happen here too.we need to stand up for them if any type of forced situation (Handmaid's?) is imposed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 01:10 AM |
| 6 | Online “radical” FDS-style feminist groups got banned in China. It could happen here too.NAC(annibals)ALT and the kind of guy who can sell a plate of ribs to a woman wearing white gloves cracked me the fuck up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 01:06 AM |
| 6 | GiRlS aRe So ShAlLoWpurple pill debate is where they "debate" gendered issues. they like to shit on FDS for existing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 12:43 AM |
| 3 | Getting out world of kink. I have no idea where to start... this is the only community I’ve seen where people are speaking out about kink being a negative thing.It's bold and brave of you to share your story here; and many share it. Thank you. That takes guts. You are strong and capable of making the journey ahead. Healing ain't pretty but it's worth it. And we are all works in progress at every step. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Facts.The Zahir too which I loved though it is controversial. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 12:11 AM |
| 10 | Its Scrote-Blocking Season AgainI wish we could do FDS meetups by state/country. how amazing would that be? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 12:08 AM |
| 9 | Its Scrote-Blocking Season Againso glad you made it out sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 12:06 AM |
| 54 | "Don't be a manhater" is patriarchal propaganda. What they consider "man hating" is literally just women calling out misogyny, and having boundaries and standardsI already hear them crying wOmEN aRe vIOLenT tOO. I saw on MGTOW sub saying 1% of men are psychopaths/rapists/murderers (grouped all together as if they're not 3 separate monsters). That's not hyperbole. They believe this figure. Because it protects them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 11:46 PM |
| 42 | "Don't be a manhater" is patriarchal propaganda. What they consider "man hating" is literally just women calling out misogyny, and having boundaries and standardsFDS would have saved my life if it had been around in my formative years. I will die happy if we can reach GenZ in record numbers and turn the tide from libfem to actual feminism that benefits women. I feel like the wave has already begun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 11:17 PM |
| 18 | What are some physical/“sex-life” related red flags you’ve developed after encountering FDS?you met my ex 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 10:16 PM |
| 36 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"riiight? if we're all bitter old corpulent hags wtf does it bother you so much Chet? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:29 PM |
| 39 | Amazing that the men who love me tell me not to date and stay away from men.this. I don't want to belong to any club who'd have me as a member syndrome | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 03:05 AM |
| 11 | Your Masturbation Fantasies Cannot Be Self-Degrading, Abusive or Rapey Because You Are Conditioning Yourself for Getting Off Of Abuse, You Are Teaching Yourself That You Deserve to Be Abusedthis is such an important post ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 02:58 AM |
| 43 | When men offer to cook for you (translation in the comments)A guy I was seeing (long ago) was being lazy trying to strain pasta by just pouring the water out. All of the freshly cooked pasta fell into the sink (that had other stuff in it). He sulked because if I wasn't there he'd just eat the sink pasta. I wish to god I was kidding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 11:45 PM |
| 10 | I love how often this lady gets schooled. This was a scary one though, be a bitch and follow your instincts.let me have 1oz of hope 😂 but honestly I thought the same thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:53 PM |
| 13 | I love how often this lady gets schooled. This was a scary one though, be a bitch and follow your instincts.He has absolutely beautiful eyes. I'm a sucker for a man who sees the reality of the patriarchy 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:52 PM |
| 3 | According to the comments, she’s the problem for being overly jealous...can we add CTFO come the fuck on to the FDS dictionary? Cuz this level of self delusion and denial (that I was in a year ago so no judgment) is getting way too maddeningly common. CTFO queens-we know better than to dismiss all these glaringly obvious crimson flags. 🤦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 12:16 AM |
| 8 | Following our recent discussion here about sending nudes, here is this man hoarding nudes of his exes years and years later....while also married.legit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 06:55 PM |
| 15 | FDS Dictionary 🤣 1lol I used ass garbage today in conversation. catch the lingo on 😜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 06:52 PM |
| -1 | Progressivism is just as rife with cool girls and pick-mes as conservatism.100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 02:40 PM |
| 23 | Progressivism is just as rife with cool girls and pick-mes as conservatism.same ones saying there are so few DV shelters for men perhaps because THEY AREN'T FUCKING NEEDED | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 02:39 PM |
| 11 | Found the mother of all pickmeishas, meet Camille PagliaI just read a brilliant (IMO, it's pretty controversial) memoir Blow Your House Down where Camille is mentioned as basically the OG pickme supreme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 02:34 PM |
| 8 | You Can Never Gain The "Respect" Of Men🤷narcissists, at their core, are exactly that-empty vessels of uncontrollable self loathing. I got my PhD in coverts after encountering one. 0 stars, would not recommend. like someone else said on another thread men were a mistake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 04:24 AM |
| 18 | You Can Never Gain The "Respect" Of Men🤷we're always treated like children in their eyes. good girls or bad girls. successful women slept their way up. they mention smart women in a tone of surprise; as if it's unusual to encounter one. op is 💯. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 04:17 AM |
| 15 | A great example of how libfem pickmes are dangerous to women. FGM = Female Genital Mutilation.*are (I wish we were past them :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 03:07 AM |
| 33 | A great example of how libfem pickmes are dangerous to women. FGM = Female Genital Mutilation.I had a male tell me his old coworker's wife used to beg to be beaten. because she grew up in the custom of husbands physically disciplining their wives. So he would beat her to please her. I looked at him like he had 5 heads-no one ever wants to be beaten by their fucking husband. jesus fucking christ. OP is right, liberal feminism is the fucking knee on women's windpipe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 03:05 AM |
| 14 | Spin off: how to tell if a man has a small dickBased on previous studies (see above) about the distributions of penis length and circumference, the average American erect penis length was estimated as 6 inches (15.2 cm) and circumference as 5 inches (12.7 cm). Models were created to range +/- 3.0 S.D.Sep 2, 2015 I've always heard average is 5.5ish. There's no world where a 4 inch penis is average. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 02:56 AM |
| 39 | Not sure if I'm in the "hoovering" stage... wish I had gone no contact AT ALL COSTgirl I had to write a detailed list of all of his flaws and faults, all the ways he hurt me, all the ways I played myself by going back, and read it really often. I was also in FDS daily reading feminist literature and basically talking myself out of any lingering attraction. Do reach out to friends and family. Do blast empowering music. Do remember he deserves nothing from you including your care or pain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 08:05 PM |
| 120 | Men are cry babies😭😂😂😂 fuck right off with that tiny pea sized taste of what women have been subjected to since..existence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 07:59 PM |
| 16 | I've been seeing a lot of posts lately about scrotes calling vetting "eugenics". Here's my theory to counter this.right? giving birth is one of my worst nightmares. tokophobia for real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 07:22 PM |
| 29 | Spin off: how to tell if a man has a small dickI was actually totally in love with the dude (7year crush). Could have dealt with the penis size. But not him fucking my best friend 🤦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 07:20 PM |
| 69 | Spin off: how to tell if a man has a small dickthe smallest I've ever seen was on a model hot, wealthy, successful guy. it was a damn shame. maybe 4 inches? like a larger baby carrot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:59 PM |
| 90 | I've been seeing a lot of posts lately about scrotes calling vetting "eugenics". Here's my theory to counter this.The fact of the matter is, men do not want us to make choices. They have never wanted us to make choices. More importantly, they are afraid of our choices. Women have the power to end humanity itself if we choose not to reproduce. this. you should see MGTOW salivating over the thought of artificial wombs. they still haven't figured out that would mean men would also have to raise the fucking children. which none of them want to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:53 PM |
| 7 | Who else can relate? My last ex once ranted at me for 19 minutes straight without taking a breath.👏👏👏 I so relate to this. I think a lot of us are empathetic by nature so our first instinct is compassion. but give a scrote an ounce of sympathy and they see it as a green light for emotional manipulation. def learned that the hard way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:10 PM |
| 7 | Who else can relate? My last ex once ranted at me for 19 minutes straight without taking a breath.love it! could have been my nex crying over the vegan burger :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 01:40 PM |
| 17 | Who else can relate? My last ex once ranted at me for 19 minutes straight without taking a breath.nodding like a bobblehead to all of these great points. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 01:36 PM |
| 25 | Who else can relate? My last ex once ranted at me for 19 minutes straight without taking a breath.is it wrong that this makes me feel better about the last pathetic scrote I dated? abuse? check. gaslighting? check. cheating? oh yeah. BUT at least there wasn't weeping foreskin poetry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 12:50 PM |
| 76 | I really enjoy watching antifeminists have a meltdown every time we discuss penis size. Just take your L and leave us alone! 😂 Ladies, please enjoy this curated collection of male tears, from the left-wing manosphere 🎁mEn aRE MoRE vISuAl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 12:22 PM |
| 54 | How is ass guy and boob guy a thing but a height/ abs/ beard gal is not?you and me both sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 12:10 AM |
| 18 | Vetting Pedophiles: A Response from Experienceyour post (and that incredible book) broke my heart. I felt some of those lines viscerally. like when she was talking to her therapist and said I just really need it to be a love story 🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 10:24 PM |
| 57 | I’m... just speechless... and there were so many more stories. It’s dishearteningand they wonder why we can't stand them. 🤢🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 10:19 PM |
| 75 | There is an INBREEDING SUBREDDIT where men discuss having children specifically for the purpose of having sex with them. Just when I thought Reddit couldn't get any worse...because...THAT makes it a-ok. 😖🤢😵 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 06:50 PM |
| 38 | this is all my past relationships in a nutshell...👏👏 mine too sis 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 03:53 PM |
| 6 | Promising Young Woman has an excellent take on rape culture and shines a light on "Nice Guys TM"Also, if you haven't watched HARD CANDY I highly recommend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 01:45 PM |
| 11 | Beware of men dumping their baggage on you early onI'll die on the never date a male Pisces hill. I dated 5 of them and they were ALL nuttier than a bag of planters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 01:40 PM |
| 8 | From the same post I shared earlier, in the comments... Pickmesha back at it again with the promoting painful and degrading sex acts for men's sake.you're not wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 11:06 PM |
| 130 | Second self aware man I've seen in that thread. And all the angry scrotes downvoted himWTF actually happened to cologne? Even long term bfs who smelled scrumptious first year or two slack TF off with that. I almost miss middle school when everyone doused themselves in too much of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 11:01 PM |
| 219 | Cant Even Give Birth In Peace..me neither. they are so not worth procreating with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 10:54 PM |
| 15 | Tom Hanks has an NVM sonIn my experience. not saying HVM men haven't been cheated on but they will never lead with a sob story about it or their crazy exes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 02:39 PM |
| 40 | The advice on dating subs will have you down bad. Reserved guys ask women out too. It’s actually even more obvious when they’re into someone.For some reason I read this as nothing gets losers salivating like women hurling pretzels at them which actually sounds far more satisfying. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 01:36 PM |
| 63 | The advice on dating subs will have you down bad. Reserved guys ask women out too. It’s actually even more obvious when they’re into someone.good lord. lots of words for I'm begging for love and affection 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 01:33 PM |
| 10 | Tom Hanks has an NVM sonomg. no one likes white chocolate bruh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 12:50 PM |
| 20 | Discussion: why do men think they can bring nothing to the table and still be valued? Why should we value a man who offers NOTHING?damn. that was eyeopening. we're uh..useful..cuz uh you..are with us 🤡🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 12:49 PM |
| 8 | Discussion: why do men think they can bring nothing to the table and still be valued? Why should we value a man who offers NOTHING?🍤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 12:43 PM |
| 7 | Discussion: why do men think they can bring nothing to the table and still be valued? Why should we value a man who offers NOTHING?🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 12:41 PM |
| 81 | Tom Hanks has an NVM sonSounds like a classic narcissist flip and film. #teamkiana Men claiming abuse are the abusers more often than not. Looks like Tom's lawyers want to get ahead of the steaming avalanche of shit he's bringing down on dad rn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 02:14 AM |
| 50 | Tom Hanks has an NVM sonIkr? Tom, wtf? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 02:10 AM |
| 7 | LADIES WTF: Homeless Millennial Man Survives By Picking Up Women Every Night. Every woman who fell for this dirty unwashed misogynist deserves to be in the Pickmeisha Hall of Shame.ugh. greasy and bloated on his own ego. whiny little voice. you know he wants anal and calls everyone babygirl 🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 08:27 PM |
| 23 | LADIES WTF: Homeless Millennial Man Survives By Picking Up Women Every Night. Every woman who fell for this dirty unwashed misogynist deserves to be in the Pickmeisha Hall of Shame.Men. that word is men 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 08:22 PM |
| 84 | Who’s going to tell them?sis-gtfo! you deserve more and men are lazy AF, he's not going to leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 02:07 PM |
| 18 | Why are so many of them OBSESSED with heightand because they do that w/malice and manipulation, they assume women having preferences is malevolent too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 01:25 PM |
| 52 | Why are so many of them OBSESSED with heighthe's obvi the "5'9" brigade. read: 5'7 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Can we redefine sex to include the female orgasm?Growing up with 90s shows and movies, they literally showed women "getting off" from 15 seconds of rough sex from behind or up against a wall (R rated movies, not porn). Most young women feel like there's something wrong with them for not immediately getting pleasure from some dude jackhammering for minutes. They're made more uncomfortable b/c the men DO get off like that. I'm hopeful that GenZ women are more open about discussing what's needed for actual female orgasms (the many wondrous kinds … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 01:17 PM |
| 21 | Pew pew. And then you eventually get sick of it, question your up bringing, invest in a good vibrator and call it a day.100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 01:04 PM |
| 103 | Starting NCgood for you sis!! it's never EVER something you did or could have changed hon. It's calculated. now he wants to demote you to 'friends' and keep fucking you/keep you in rotation. So you'll try even harder to convince him you're 'girlfriend material'. By pulling back, he puts you off kilter, so you focus on your 'supposed flaws' without looking at his atrocious behavior. Fuck this dude, he's trash. You're a queen-keep kicking him to the curb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 12:31 AM |
| 7 | BLOCKEDTHIS! I struggled with self love for a long time. https://everyoneelseishavingfun.com/2020/11/03/125/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 10:15 PM |
| 5 | VICE Media Darling Cat Marnell Takes Issue With Our Characterization of Her.100% agree that both are coming from a place of extreme privilege. And I'd love to know her thoughts about sex work now, if they've changed as she's grown. It's an important point and one I can't bend on: the fact that privilege is the only difference between "choosing sex work" and being trafficked and white upper class educated women seem to not see how one begets the other. Cat always came off as a vapid party Barbie but I had respect for Melissa from her scathing writing style (which seems t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 05:16 PM |
| 9 | VICE Media Darling Cat Marnell Takes Issue With Our Characterization of Her.I love Melissa Febos's writing. I found her before FDS. Her and Cat couldn't be more different. Melissa's first memoir (Whip Smart) details her choice to become a dominatrix while attending an Ivy and using heroin. She makes no excuses for her behavior and is extremely self critical at times. She has a new book (Girlhood) out now. https://lareviewofbooks.org/article/naming-the-silences-a-conversation-with-melissa-febos/ Cat is a trust fund kid who decided to be loudly promiscuious and write abou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 03:33 PM |
| 30 | VICE Media Darling Cat Marnell Takes Issue With Our Characterization of Her.her memoir was a vivid account of the dumpster fire that was her life. Like most of the "I was so fucked up but I found out how to love myself when I finally found a good man" stories, hers ended on a hollow note. If I remember, it was like the one guy who didn't treat her like a flaming trash can professed his love and she realized she needed to stop starving, lying, drugging and sleeping with NYC. Feels like she got into the scene young and was probably profoundly taken advantage of but now sh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 03:22 PM |
| 57 | I'm sorry.The knee jerk defensiveness when you're still suffering from pickmeitis and cool girl flu is real. Glad you took the time to read and learn and turn inward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 02:44 PM |
| 13 | Posts about male/female privilege on popular sub. TW: horrifically misogynistic, racist and hateful. This *really* is their perspective; and it's frightening AF.it's like saying you can eat all the raw octopus you want every single day! but we don't want any. how is it a privilege if it doesn't benefit you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 09:31 AM |
| 62 | VICE Media Darling Cat Marnell Takes Issue With Our Characterization of Her.I loved Anna David's writing too but I'm pretty sure she saw the error of her ways a long time ago. Lots of OG cool girls in the early aughts NY publishing scene. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 09:23 AM |
| 17 | 15 years of dating, 2 kids... and she’s worried about holding *him* up?this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 01:30 AM |
| 38 | Posts about male/female privilege on popular sub. TW: horrifically misogynistic, racist and hateful. This *really* is their perspective; and it's frightening AF.yeah. you learn fast that the frothing masses cheering for this outcome far outnumber men who would be horrified at the idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 01:12 AM |
| 26 | Posts about male/female privilege on popular sub. TW: horrifically misogynistic, racist and hateful. This *really* is their perspective; and it's frightening AF.https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=japs%20eye I don't think it means what scrote thinks it means | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 12:36 AM |
| 63 | Posts about male/female privilege on popular sub. TW: horrifically misogynistic, racist and hateful. This *really* is their perspective; and it's frightening AF.yeah that commenter was chilling. like he imagines an ideal world where men can legally use strength and violence to keep women in line. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 12:29 AM |
| 98 | Posts about male/female privilege on popular sub. TW: horrifically misogynistic, racist and hateful. This *really* is their perspective; and it's frightening AF.Oh girl-you should have seen the comment that said (paraphrased) women get xyz paid incentives to go to school, they get all the money and scholarships to get into STEM... They legit screamed about basically a system of "female affirmative action" being the reason women are dominating every field. It's like TRP twilight zone over there; every comment reeking of bitterness, boy stench, fetid sheets and ennui. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 11:45 PM |
| 28 | How to find out if a man watches porn: it’s easier than you thinkhttps://www.bbc.com/news/technology-55333403 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 11:37 PM |
| 108 | "But everyone obviously knows r#pe is bad!"prepared to die on this hill: most men have raped, harassed or coerced in their lifetime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 11:27 PM |
| 109 | Yes, the economy is bad. That doesn't mean you have to be a free prostitute.Feels like men of the right hate us to our face, men of the left behind our backs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 03:24 PM |
| 15 | Scrote so mad he forgot how to spell and shit😂👏👏 it's funny but I'm having an unusual pang of compassion wondering what that poor lad could have accomplished had he not broken his brain with porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 03:17 PM |
| 17 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check Inliberal feminism: misogyny=empowerment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 10:17 PM |
| 28 | LVM truly live on a different planet 🤡Feels like an intervention is needed somewhere between sweet 9yr old Kevin who loves his mom and pornsick 17yr old Kevin who coerces girls into sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 10:09 PM |
| 56 | LVM truly live on a different planet 🤡100% projection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 09:37 PM |
| 67 | LVM truly live on a different planet 🤡Every TRP/incel sub/Influencer spouts exactly these delusions and worse. It really does seem like they are living in a different universe. Like, what warps their brains the most? Media? Porn? Societal misogyny and toxic masculinity or bad role models? E) All of the above. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 09:36 PM |
| 26 | I'm getting so frustrated with the number of drinks/coffee/walk dates I'm being offered and would love to discuss this phenomena😂💖I'm sure you're a knockout but I relate to this comment hard. some pics I'm like damn queen you fine as hell then mirror's like umm hold up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 08:55 PM |
| 27 | I'm getting so frustrated with the number of drinks/coffee/walk dates I'm being offered and would love to discuss this phenomenayou and me both sis 🙃😖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 08:52 PM |
| 97 | Flying Solo/ Sex for OnePin worthy. This is what our mothers, sisters, friends and media should have been telling us all along. Instead we're indoctrinated to "what dudes think is hot and how to avoid teenage pregnancy"(you little whores). My friends and I have discussed coming up with a feminist curriculum for girls ages 8-14 specifically addressing things like this-frank discussions about female sexuality and how it's skewed in media. The boys could be involved in a program too-working against societally taught misog… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 07:51 PM |
| 145 | Yes, women can be pornsick too.and can we be real here? no matter how horny most women are-we're not fucking salivating over cock. gourmet ice cream? sure. a pile of puppies? yes. an unsightly fuzzy flesh lump? no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 02:01 PM |
| 15 | What a disgusting way to think! 😣 (Opinion on women cutting their hair short)wow. how the fuck am I still surprised? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 12:03 AM |
| 19 | Guy takes girl on a non-date and then is surprised when it doesn’t feel like a dateSomeone recently posted on PPD "wtf do FDS members bring to the table for actual HVM?" lol none of us responded, of course, because an actual HVM wouldn't ever be on PPD asking that asinine question. First rule of FDS we don't need to sell ourselves to scrotes 👊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 08:04 PM |
| 15 | FDS helped me realize my client is a dangerous scroteIt's like their eyes turn into the blackest, darkest, endless road leading straight to hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 07:55 PM |
| 10 | Share your Red Flags on men who view women as disposable objectswow. that describes it perfectly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 11:57 PM |
| 29 | Do I just accept that men are disgusting behind our backs?It sounds like you're not ready to leave sis. If that's the case, please save this post. Reread it. Read the handbook. 3 wasted years will turn into DECADES lost on LVM (trust, I'm 40). It's tough to hear that you should leave his porn sick ass but never has better advice been given. 🕉🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 09:04 PM |
| 7 | My covert narcissistic ex resurfaced yesterday with claims of changeyep 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 07:19 PM |
| 19 | My covert narcissistic ex resurfaced yesterday with claims of changeTell that scrote to fuck right off sis. If they spent 1/10 of the time they spend writing bullshit paragraphs detailing lies, future faking, negging and gaslighting, on actual self improvement they might have a faint hope of leveling up. Alas, they never, ever do. 🗑🗑🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 07:17 PM |
| 20 | How do men just stop talking to someone to end a relationship?he's not worth your aggravation sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 05:31 PM |
| 19 | Guys on OLD who write “Message me first” 🤡Deliverance cock goblins reeking of rotten ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 05:17 PM |
| 34 | Beware of the men who pretend to be *woke*.Yes. As sad as it sounds it's now an automatic red flag every time a guy says "I'm a feminist". Kinda like white folks-the best you can do is be an ally for POC and true allies aren't screaming about it when you first meet them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 03:51 PM |
| 13 | Stop Normalizing “Avoidant” Attachment Styles for MenI wrote a short blog about this a whole ago. Any male saying they have avoidant attachment-RUN. https://everyoneelseishavingfun.com/2020/09/24/84/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 12:34 PM |
| 12 | I never support violence against anybody but this scrote is making me see red.FL :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 12:44 AM |
| 14 | I dated a Softboi so you don’t have to!this dude was still all the way off I feel this. our gut always knows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 12:41 AM |
| 10 | I dated a Softboi so you don’t have to!He maintained an online harem which he catfished with photos from 10 years and 150 pounds ago when he was functional enough to have a modeling career. His car was a trash can. He was constantly broke and adult responsibilities were always emergencies because he would wait years to take care of the most basic things. omg. Justin? is that you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 12:29 AM |
| 27 | I never support violence against anybody but this scrote is making me see red.me too. I get so cranky in cold. move sis-it's 75 degrees year round where I am. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 12:23 AM |
| 25 | I haven’t spoken to this LVM in two years and this is the text I get today out of the blue followed by unsolicited dick pics. I heard LVM start crawling back when you start leveling up but I never thought it would happen to meEw. I'm sorry girl. filthy bastards aren't they? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 10:36 PM |
| 17 | I briefly dated an Italian guy and I would like to hear from you if what he shared is true or he was being subjective.yep. Italian American here. my aunt raised her boys traditionally Italian as in they are 40 and can't do laundry. didn't leave home until marriage. they do provide for their families but roles are very traditional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 06:24 PM |
| 18 | Other things he does in Bed that are Red Flags and Manipulative!😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 12:29 PM |
| 76 | Some men have spent more time watching porn than interacting with actual women, and it showsthat's legitimately terrifying. but, I fear, entirely accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 11:05 PM |
| 122 | A religious, Q-Anon following white man targeted and killed 8, most of whom were female Asian sex workers. The news is only focusing on the race aspect and not the gender or sex work aspect. Never doubt the danger men pose.Can we coin MPV male pattern violence? cuz it's as prevalent as male pattern baldness and yet somehow the later gets far more attention. 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 06:47 PM |
| 20 | Radical feminism is a gift to men - How to high value and level up as a man!that's gold! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 04:33 PM |
| 15 | Do men ever regret dehumanizing women?perhaps it would be if they ever chose to self reflect (I'm doubtful most are even capable of true, deep introspection) but they don't. Trust me, most are perfectly content having someone (or a few someones) cater to their needs while they demean and manipulate them. please don't waste your time feeling sorry for poor soulless scrotes 🎻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 04:04 PM |
| 6 | Men engage in violence with other men in a whole different way than with women. With men, it's a "battle of the equals" where the other man is given a heads-up of what is about to happen. Women don't get a warning because men really don't see us as equals.Men benefit from our conceptualization of rape being incredibly violent and perpetrated by a stranger so that women are uncomfortable with even considering applying that word to what they experienced. There's a mental block, a lot of women have a really hard time identifying something like their boyfriend coercing them into having sex as rape. For the longest time I put experiences into a fairly innocuous category of "non consensual" because I though since it was a BF or b/c it wasn't explicitly… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 01:34 PM |
| 9 | To the NAMALT brigade👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 11:32 PM |
| 18 | Feeling a lot of regret and sadness about how little self-respect I used to haveWomen Who Love Too Much: I always avoided this one thinking the title was dated and cheesy. I was a dumbass. That book will change your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 08:17 PM |
| 72 | To the NAMALT brigadethe hate feminism gets is insane. even from a lot of women 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 07:07 PM |
| 13 | Men who whine that women being scared of men is "bad for men's mental health" are the ones you need to watch out for ESPECIALLY. Pity plays are the #1 red flag for sociopaths and narcissists.would have been a game changer if a community like this had been around back then and when I went through my abusive NVM bs in the 90s 😐 so glad it's around now 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 07:03 PM |
| 11 | Men cause 100% of unwanted pregnancies. Unwanted pregnancies happen when men orgasm irresponsibly.used to? lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 12:59 PM |
| 31 | In the UK, carrying Pepper spray has a max 10 year prison sentence. So if you get caught using it on an attacker, you lose 10 years of your life as opposed to all of them.chief of police told me this years ago. he suggested I carry one because I worked nights. hat pins ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 01:14 AM |
| 22 | In the UK, carrying Pepper spray has a max 10 year prison sentence. So if you get caught using it on an attacker, you lose 10 years of your life as opposed to all of them.I love the way you think sis 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 01:12 AM |
| 31 | If he says Not All Men, he is exactly That Kind of Man.in a TRP forum they were scoffing at the statistic 1 in 10 women are raped (I believe it's 1 in 4). they will swear up and down it's all fake accusations. I think the vast majority of men either give no thought to our well being or are actively working against it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 11:33 PM |
| 6 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.💥👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 11:08 PM |
| 38 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.Linda Hamilton in Terminator 2 is my inspiration as female badassery👊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 10:46 PM |
| 35 | The misunderstanding Men have with FDSright? they were saying we're just constantly hating on men. I so wanted to be like NOT ALL MEN just scrotes like y'all 💥🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 10:05 PM |
| 57 | I think it was a emotionally abusive relationshipyou dodged a bullet sis. definitely an emotional abuser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 08:02 PM |
| 147 | The misunderstanding Men have with FDSI saw us called fEmALe hAtINg stRAteGy har har har on some vile MRA sub yesterday. damn right we hate men's rights activists they're right up there with folks who want white history month and straight parades. 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 08:00 PM |
| 17 | How do you avoid casual sex, especially when you are horny, single and wants to remain single?100%. my mind is clear after a few orgasms. I'm not in that touch hungry high alert place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 03:01 PM |
| 19 | Why do people think women are being tricked/manipulated into casual sex?it seems very clear to me that until there are consequences for their deplorable treatment of us (like ghosting, future faking, TRP games) men will not change. If we refused to sleep with scrotes, period, they'd get the message loud and clear. evolution happens out of necessity. If what they're doing is working why change? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 02:50 PM |
| 30 | Not even two days 🤦🏻♀️✌🏻wait; are there ones who aren't like this?! 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 02:31 PM |
| 36 | How do you avoid casual sex, especially when you are horny, single and wants to remain single?I had this issue until I bought a sex toy. But their mentality makes them so undesirable now, even the hottest among them. I imagine them all w/ass crumbs and pube jars in their closets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 02:10 PM |
| 4 | Reality Bites was THE film of the 90s. Sadly, it groomed women into believing slacker types were cool and boyfriend worthy. It has taken me 20 years to realise Ethan Hawke's character was a SCROTE.I was just nowhere near your neighborhood That soundtrack though 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 10:33 AM |
| 29 | How the 90s Became the Era When Women Started Leveling Downhmm. I was younger (preteen) but remember being relieved when Hole and Tori replaced Motley Crue and writhing groupies on MTV. I'm sure it was driven by capitalism but it felt like freedom to me to be able to dress in a way that didn't scream I'm a sex object which was what the 80s glam bands were pushing. my friends were a bunch of misfits but that was considered 'cool' for that brief period of 90s grunge rock and I'm thankful for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 08:32 PM |
| 62 | How the 90s Became the Era When Women Started Leveling DownAgreed. I feel like grunge was an era that actually embraced female power (riot grrrls, girl bands, wearing big jeans and flannels). I vividly remember watching a Brittany video in 1999 and thinking whoa, music is headed right back to boy bands and Tiffany esque shit from the late 80s. the way thinks are now? how women are expected to literally look like plastic dolls was inconceivable though 😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 07:01 PM |
| 13 | He just ended things because I was making him wait for sex💥👌👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 06:48 PM |
| 22 | My THREE YEAR journey from PICKMEVILLE to HVW. Here's my story.good for you sis! that's why I love this community-it helps us see and alter similar patterns, behavior and our own internalized misogyny. just like we never stop vetting, we also don't stop leveling up ourselves with continuous self reflection and asking the hard questions about our own motivations. 👏🕉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 04:34 PM |
| 30 | Life advice for men from men...They forget sex toys give multiple orgasms without being attached to mentally unwell man children who whine all the time. No dick is worth that bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 03:38 PM |
| 55 | 3/14, Steak and BJ Dayright? it's been steak and blowjob last few centuries | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 03:33 PM |
| 229 | 3/14, Steak and BJ Day🤢 as an anti scrote vegan I prefer to think of today as Pi day (3.14) 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 03:32 PM |
| 30 | Reality Bites was THE film of the 90s. Sadly, it groomed women into believing slacker types were cool and boyfriend worthy. It has taken me 20 years to realise Ethan Hawke's character was a SCROTE.preach sis. I used to love that film me you and 5 bucks 🙄. After nearly 20 years of dating scruffy 'sweet' musicians exclusively, I can confirm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 03:30 PM |
| 15 | Had a comment removed from a different sub because telling someone to wait longer than 2 dates to have sex is apparently “dehumanizing” to men?I just watched my gorgeous 24yr old friend "give a scrote a chance" (I don't rate but if I did, she's an 15 and he's a 5). He hung out for a month doing sweet (low effort) things for her and after a few sex sessions, ghosted. Men today are seriously trash heaps. And they never face consequences for their abhorrent actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 02:23 PM |
| 4 | NEVER hire a male personal trainerwhen I lived there I knew all of the tour guides and 99% were utter scum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 02:18 PM |
| 8 | A post about male personal trainers reminded me of these clowns.*smh"He cheated on BOTH of his ex's shortly after they had his kids. He cheated on his 2nd wife with the one above (har har we didn't do anything but train until the divorce was final-sure) and she STILL thinks she will be the exception? Pickme hall of shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 02:16 PM |
| 58 | A clown in his natural habitatSFL ftw. why are you single for life? um, have you met men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 02:01 PM |
| 18 | Men that don’t perform oral sex. Giant Glaring Red Flagyeah dude I'm talking about had NO issue with vice versa; shocker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 01:59 PM |
| 33 | If I could do so with no health issues, I'd stay morbidly obese foreverI'm sorry you went through that sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:47 PM |
| 5 | If I could do so with no health issues, I'd stay morbidly obese forevershe's amazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:47 PM |
| 42 | If I could do so with no health issues, I'd stay morbidly obese forevernice! I love the natural grey look. my Feminist AF ballcap has decreased scrotes cold approaching me by 90% :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:46 PM |
| 31 | Men that don’t perform oral sex. Giant Glaring Red FlagWe've all had times where the red flags have flown right by us, for myriad reasons. But for some reason this was always a sticking point for me. I've only met one guy (in my early 20s) who was "reluctant" to "try it" because he hadn't had much practice. He was 25. I looked at him like he had 3 heads. I tie going down into wanting to give pleasure to your partner. If a guy doesn't have that drive, it's suspect. I don't even care what issues instigated that stance; it's a glaring red flag to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:43 PM |
| 18 | Rethinking Self Improvement: "FDS hAs HaRdLy aNyThiNg aBoUt SeLf iMpRoVeMeNt, iTs aLL jUsT mAn HaTiNg"thanks for this. that is one of the most infuriating things to read about this sub as most posts I see are at least partially about levelling up/self care/self improvement. even humorous memes prompt important discussions where advice and tips are given. how the hell is that not obvious? makes sense; the don't recognize what leveling up actually entails because to them it's getting waxed/manicure etc.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 01:56 AM |
| 54 | Vice claims that the #1 way to prevent men from going on mass killing sprees is decriminalizing sex work so that incels can direct all of their gender-based violence onto trafficked, marginalized women. Same author who wrote the smear campaign against FDS 🤡if men's rights activists were raising money to donate sex dolls to low income incels. lmmfao. I needed that laugh tonight. I can see the 5pm report on Faux News now: herds of stooped, balding dad bod MRAs collecting coins, selling no name chocolate bars door to door for their poor lil sex starved incel bros. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 01:47 AM |
| 32 | Recognizing Red Pill Strategies So You Can BLOCK AND DELETEwow. you just described my ex perfectly. in the beginning he played woke omega bro and made convincing feminist comments. stay aware ladies; they are the definition of scum and can seem charming and humble AF to hook you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 12:25 AM |
| 9 | What Dominique Sisley (Vice) said she was writing about FDS vs. what she actually wrotelol you've permanently ruined the bagel bites jingle in my brain 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:17 PM |
| 23 | From HV to NV, a short story.wow. what a completely worthless human. even my nex was more supportive during an injury. scrote for sure. how awful for your friend. 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:13 PM |
| 82 | What kind of twisted thinking is this? „If Sex Work wouldn‘t exist, men would be even more violent to women“ I‘m so tired of this BS that libfems spread to justify exploitation of women to „prevent“ more violenceNo one can tell me that rampant violence against women in porn does not=more violence against women IRL. In the 80/90s men had to jerk off to hidden skin mags and it was not something you discussed out loud very much. There was rape, and assault; but as porn has gotten more accessible and more depraved, it feels like crimes against women have too. I can't count how many news stories I've heard in the last 20 years about women chained up in hidden rooms by men for years. It's barely even shocking… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:03 PM |
| 29 | The problem with men wanting “independent women.”and underwhelming sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 02:55 AM |
| 20 | Don’t provide him with the blueprint of your “dream man.” You’re giving someone the roadmap to hurt you or another unsuspecting woman. Notice how he instantly backpedaled trying to shape his answer to mirror what I might be looking for? Nope. Not telling you lol. Blocked.the only talent scrotes have is projection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 02:51 AM |
| 32 | Bodies that have been lived inBeautiful, relevant and just in time. I remember my grandmother dying her hair flaming red, wearing tons of clown makeup and still worrying about her waist size literally until the day she died. Conversely, my mom, (60s) has aged naturally and beautifully, focused on her health, friendships, activism and community. One exuded anxiety and brittle desperation, the other, peace and self love. Mainstream media is toxic for women; they are the OG gaslighters and beauty "standard" creators. Once you r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 12:52 AM |
| 24 | Bodies that have been lived inyou are wise for 18 sis :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 12:45 AM |
| 20 | This Particular Brand of Male Selfishness Drives Me Up a Walllove your name. this was me for my 9 year relationship. I hope your friend leaves; we all deserve better than low energy, low EQ, low ambition, low value. I can't tell you how many times I had the argument (with self and friends) but he's so much better than most men. Most men are trash. better than trash is still not good. tell her to wait for amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 11:10 PM |
| 37 | Crazy ex trope-do not fall for it queens.Ikr? I was an emotionally unstable narcissist when I stopped playing cool girl and confronted him about cheating and lying. 100% sure I'm now his crazy ex story #416. 🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 08:01 PM |
| 60 | Dating men with daughters and the Madonna/Whore complexthis. I won't date a man who hasn't been married by 45. they are the freezer burned left over ice cream in the gas station cooler that expired in 2010. And they think they are god's gift to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 03:08 PM |
| 84 | If this has been posted before please remove it. But sisters, this is where 50-50 will get you. It's their kid, but her bills.Imagine hating yourself so much you still bang this monster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 01:08 PM |
| 4 | Momma’s boyIn the USA in the 60s they had a draft for the Vietnam war. A1 meant you were mentally healthy and able bodied and could fight in the war. D4 meant you were unhealthy and unfit to fight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 01:01 PM |
| 52 | TradWife Twitter is Like Watching A Slow Moving TrainwreckThere's definitely a tipping point. When your actions begin to actively oppress other women (like spouting this drivel) you become part of the problem. And that's where these women lose me. But it's sad-like the wives in Handmaids Tale-you know they know, somewhere deep down, it's total bullshit even as it leaves their lips. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 02:24 AM |
| 88 | How To Avoid The “Nice Guy”This hit hard sis. 💜🕉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 02:13 AM |
| 19 | Women have every right to be skeptical and NOT trust men, especially around children. PERIODT.Women have been socialized since the beginning to not trust our instincts and squash our gut, so the patriarchy doesn't feel offended. Well, too fucking bad. OUR LIVES are being offended on. PREACH! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 12:56 AM |
| 19 | America's Next Top Model is male propaganda that grooms young women to think they're not allowed to say "no"I loved her! Haven't thought of her in a minute- think she went on to do more reality tv about her relationship to a Brady Bunch actor? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 11:46 PM |
| 106 | We've all heard of gaslighting, but what about when we delude ourselves? A man like this is not "amazing"!Lord. I had a dead bedroom relationship for 3 (out of 9) years. It's horrible and as a woman you feel embarrassed and ashamed (like every damn man wants us for sex but our SO doesn't?) and there aren't a lot of places to vent IRL. So many people told me it's not a big deal/but he's such a good man and made me feel like there was something wrong with me for placing such value on sex. But it's not just sex, it's intimacy; physical and emotional. It's connecting. When he's unable or unwilling to he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 08:46 PM |
| 53 | Momma’s boyMy grandmother was like this. No lie-when my father was drafted she got a job as a secretary for the draft board and changed his A1 status to D4. She was so toxic and of course raised a raging narcissist who ended up letting her rot in a senior home for her last decade. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 06:32 PM |
| 27 | Momma’s boyLol watch them screenshot this. I used to say if I ever had a son I'd have top raise him to be gay because I wouldn't be able to stand a 'typical male'. That being said, I do think school programs teaching young boys about consent, emotional expression, basically the opposite of toxic masculinity would go a long way into them developing into good men. The most compassionate men I've known were, unfortunately, those who had to deal with some of what girls do growing up like being preyed upon sexu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 06:27 PM |
| 17 | Nothing says love and monogamy like a room full of naked ladiesI think it's status and "bro points". why else jizz in public when you could have an hour session with an escort in private? and you're right, I guarantee none of these crusty pants dudes consider that "paying for sex". the clubs do make them feel VIP as the girls flock (there's usually more than one dancer around a guy who clearly wants to spend $$). scrotes actually believe the you're special, I don't let anyone else do this.. spiel the dancers have. I knew women who made 20k working 10 hours … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 02:03 PM |
| 31 | Nothing says love and monogamy like a room full of naked ladieswhat an absolute waste of space-I'm so sorry you went through that. their audacity never ceases to amaze me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 01:05 PM |
| 26 | Nothing says love and monogamy like a room full of naked ladiesas someone who worked (not as a dancer) at strip clubs and had a lot of dancer friends (southern USA big expensive clubs) best believe they "finish". private dances are basically dry humping until a guy cums in his pants. it's fucking gross. they cost between $300-$600 for 30 minutes and that doesn't include tip and drinks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Men who lie about their careerslol poor guy must have been confused; he was nearly 6 figures in debt. I beat myself up for that one a lot but my god what a bullet to finally dodge :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 07:01 PM |
| 31 | Does anyone else find it so hard and cringey when reading other dating subs?Every morning, my husband has to sleep an extra 1-2 hours after the kid wakes up. This poor man, upon waking, always has some horrible ailment that requires extra sleep! I mean, he's had headaches some days, then back pains on others. Sometimes he has phlegm in his throat. And this poor guy has even had diarrhea once this month! The strangest thing is, this only happens in the morning. The only plausible explanation is the video games he stays awake to play all night somehow ward off these dread… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 01:48 AM |
| 31 | Does anyone else find it so hard and cringey when reading other dating subs?and think about the amount of time the average woman wastes thinking about, ruminating on and analyzing these scrotes every sigh, word and lack of action. it's staggering. I've probably wasted at least a solid year of life (if not far more time) trying to figure out the actions of worthless men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 01:44 AM |
| 56 | Does anyone else find it so hard and cringey when reading other dating subs?I'm sure at least a few have tried that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 01:37 AM |
| 14 | "Vanity is only a sin because a woman who believes she deserves good things is harder to commodify". I think regardless of size, the principles she lives by emanate the FDS vibe.Her "Mouth Full of Bees" and "Perfect Crime" absolutely slayed me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 01:29 AM |
| 21 | "Vanity is only a sin because a woman who believes she deserves good things is harder to commodify". I think regardless of size, the principles she lives by emanate the FDS vibe.holy fuck. she's absolutely amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 01:28 AM |
| 94 | Now I understand the men of OLDMen like to talk a big game about women "depreciating", but they fail to realize in the dating game, everyone is assigned a value. And the main scrotes talking have a dating value that entitles them only to-checks spreadsheet-a dried up orange with a hole in it as a partner. But rather than work on themselves, they continue to focus on obviously fake profiles, which they secretly know will keep them in a holding pattern. brilliantly put. I would also add they find it easier to spit shine their l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 12:55 AM |
| 33 | Seriously?I wish we could find a lot of women from relationship posts. especially the one from yesterday with twins. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 10:34 PM |
| 30 | Seriously?Motherfuckers think they're Goldilocks wanting just the right amount of awesome miss me with that shit Kyle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 10:33 PM |
| 43 | Legitimately evil m*le tells his gf he *had* to cheat on her bc she was r*ped, men in the comments defend himThey vacillate between emotionless robots and tornadoes of unhinged chaos. Dangerous psychos at worst and liabilities at best. 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 10:25 PM |
| 50 | Legitimately evil m*le tells his gf he *had* to cheat on her bc she was r*ped, men in the comments defend himWow. And I can somehow still be shocked at the depravity. There aren't words for how low this is. 😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 09:12 PM |
| 204 | Seriously?This. Ugh. Such utter 🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 07:20 PM |
| 56 | What are your thoughts on being married to a man who works seasonally and is away several months a year?Sounds good to me honestly. I've lived with men for most of my adult life and don't want to ever live with one again. I think a long weekend or two a month would be ideal "us" time. I could def be happy with an ldr where we didn't see each other much. But chances of finding a trustworthy dude who's not whoring around our has 5 families in different ports? .000000001% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 06:12 PM |
| 77 | Choose Your Fighter: The “men comparing women to inanimate objects because they cannot fathom women as being any more than just objects for their own gratification” edition!He's a worthless flesh sack sis so glad you kicked him to the curb. My nex used to say his ex had 'ruined her vagina by fucking guys with monster cock'. It was such a pathetic cope about his own size insecurity. I'm ashamed I was ever slumming so low to not have smacked him and walked out the first time I heard it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 06:05 PM |
| 11 | If you’re going to do OLD, I recommend OkCupid💯😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 05:42 PM |
| 61 | If you’re going to do OLD, I recommend OkCupidI would absolutely love to be able to warn y'all about the monster I met there. Manipulaters know how to answer those questions in pleasing ways. My ex has been on that site for 15 years preying on women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Men who lie about their careersI'm not sure that's been true for men in my experience. They seem to lie shamelessly and opportunistically in order to get things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 11:14 AM |
| 4 | Men who lie about their careersCongrats on the book sis! That's so exciting. I've been trying to complete an actual book forever and by trying I mean beginning to write like 10 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 11:12 AM |
| 22 | Guy records a disturbing, upsetting conversation between him and his exasperated mother after she finds a tiger plushie he modified with a fleshlight. He refuses to go on family trip unless he can bring it with him.that poor woman. hearing her anguish is gut wrenching. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 03:03 AM |
| 11 | Vet vet vet to prevent this!they want what they can't have and when they get it they don't want it. it was eye opening when my (ex) male friend told me he was dating someone who went to school across the world and would be returning there in 2 months time. he described it as "the perfect relationship because it has an expiration date". he could get great sex and have fun "relationship like" times/bonding with no obligation once she left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 01:07 AM |
| 14 | Can you imagine a world where we refused to sleep with men who didn't prioritize our pleasure and comfort?I had one like that! ugh it was all an ego trip. I orgasm pretty easily thru PIV. I would tell him it was enough and he'd insist on trying for more with no regard to being "too sensitive" or needing refractory time. I'm sure if scrotes read this they'll be like "oh now they're complaining when we give them orgasms" but he clearly had no regard for my actual comfort or pleasure, it was the power aspect. men can even ruin multiple orgasms with their egos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 12:32 AM |
| 119 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.bet the only reason he hasn't left yet is the fact that mom is the caregiver. how's that gonna work? you leave wife for mistress and your mom stays to care for her and kids? thank god for mom, although she raised him to be a total sociopath. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 11:50 PM |
| 49 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.yes!! as a CF woman I've noticed such a stigma around the very real risks and actual hardships of giving birth; it can be dangerous mentally, physically and psychologically. it's like we're not allowed to say anything negative about this "beautiful experience of giving life". why? because if more women knew the truth they would decide against it. this website makes me cry: https://www.scarymommy.com/confessions/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 11:46 PM |
| 368 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.it's true. even in my age bracket (35-45) men found out I didn't want kids and were disappointed. it was weird. they don't want to actually raise children, they just want a mini me for occasional "dad times" and "fun times". Guess what? they only want sons; shocker. some will concede to "one of each". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 11:38 PM |
| 83 | Can you imagine a world where we refused to sleep with men who didn't prioritize our pleasure and comfort?technically, in today's society, they're not. far too many women fake orgasms to spare male feelings or are too intimidated to bring up their pleasure. or they bring it up and are ignored/insulted/shamed. many stay with men for years with no orgasms. so many of my 20s friends have never orgasmed with a man. there are no consequences for their lack of skill/effort in most cases. now, if their orgasms depended on ours, that would be a totally different story. how quickly they would learn about the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 10:27 PM |
| 8 | Governments should pay women to be single mothers 💅benevolent misogyny is a contradiction in terms hon. there's no such thing. that's like saying harmless assault or well meaning emotional abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 09:15 PM |
| 45 | Historical perspective on why we can't have nice things.wonder if he also cheated or tried to cheat with a younger woman after she had all those kids for him and saved him from the poor house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 09:09 PM |
| 13 | Governments should pay women to be single mothers 💅that's your experience sis. mine was a misogynistic rageaholic and trust me, I'd have been better with no father. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 08:09 PM |
| 34 | Men who lie about their careersit doesn't prevent them from trying to improve how we see them but none of them actually try to improve themselves in practical ways.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 08:04 PM |
| 11 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menThey just EXPECT everything to be handed to them on a silver platter, for others to go extra mile instead of compromising, and if it doesn't happen they scream "Evil bitches". The audacity!!! every time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:59 PM |
| 17 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menAdvocating for women to realize their worth should not make these males as angry as they are. unless they want to keep their kneecaps on our windpipes b/c it has benefited them since the dawn of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:57 PM |
| 21 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menI strive to love myself the way mediocre unattractive men love their fugly underwhelming peens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:52 PM |
| 12 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menTHIS. so perfectly put. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:49 PM |
| 15 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menI read that in MLK's voice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:46 PM |
| 35 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menimagine being so empty inside that spending time with yourself was punishment. that's most men. which is why they see "spinsterhood" (fun fact: spinsters were actually financially secure women who weren't forced to marry back in the day) as a terrible fate. the concept of loving yourself and enjoying time spent alone is as foreign to them as moisturizer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:43 PM |
| 8 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menhttps://www.geekxgirls.com/article.php?ID=12994 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:34 PM |
| 17 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menyou're actually sandwiched between GenX and GenZ but no worries, everyone forgets GenX :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:30 PM |
| 6 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menme too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:23 PM |
| 7 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menthe one w/Elizabeth Moss and Holly Hunter? That was brilliant (that cinematography!) but bizarre. I was so disappointed when I learned EM was a Scientologist :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:21 PM |
| 34 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menthis is a dream. land is cheap in certain US states. I'd love to live in a female community of tiny homes/yurts whatever and build a sustainable, earth friendly environment. without the patriarchal or religious bent that a lot of intentional communities have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:18 PM |
| 24 | Governments should pay women to be single mothers 💅Perhaps the lack of strong male role models has something to do with boys turning into LVM?! Single mothers are consistently demonized (by men and women) while no one says shit about the no child support paying absentee fathers who dropped their seed and ran. Why is that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:14 PM |
| 52 | Men who lie about their careersevery.single.time. Actual entrepreneurs ain't on OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:55 PM |
| 44 | Vet vet vet to prevent this!Lol the cost is our self respect, livelihood, dignity, souls. So supremely over anything with a Y chromosome. 🤷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Men think that it's WOMEN'S fault they're addicted to porn 🙄horrifying. more so b/c that's usually my "type" too (hippy sober vegan). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:04 PM |
| 137 | Men who lie about their careershahaha my nex was "in DevOps and made 6 figures" READ: unemployed gamer with a dusty unused degree from University of Phoenix who runs a TRP FB page and blog. I wish I was kidding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:50 PM |
| 7 | Women aren’t difficult nor are they a burden.I was just banned from a sub I've never visited as well 😂 being part of FDS especially a vocal member will get you a lot of reddit hate. Which is ironic AF since it's the only sane place for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 01:13 PM |
| 38 | I have no words.Any woman asking their boyfriend for permission for anything makes my skin crawl. cAn i PLeAsE dADdY? 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 01:03 PM |
| 31 | Boomers Mad Millennial & Gen Z Women Aren't pushing out enough babies for them to leech off of to their graves. Maybe if they didn't spend the last 40 years demonizing mothers, providing absolutely no support, and raising garbage sons, we'd think about it.Lol if I had a dime for every article mentioning the holy trinity of Boomers, Millennials and GenZ I'd be able to buy an actual suit of invisibility. We don't want to be noticed anyway 😂 -genX | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 12:19 PM |
| 103 | Boomers Mad Millennial & Gen Z Women Aren't pushing out enough babies for them to leech off of to their graves. Maybe if they didn't spend the last 40 years demonizing mothers, providing absolutely no support, and raising garbage sons, we'd think about it.45yr old undereducated, underemployed balding scrote with gum disease and paunch: loves to have fun! let's see where things go! would love to inject you with my ancient palsied sperm and have kids someday down the road! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 11:50 AM |
| 71 | Boomers Mad Millennial & Gen Z Women Aren't pushing out enough babies for them to leech off of to their graves. Maybe if they didn't spend the last 40 years demonizing mothers, providing absolutely no support, and raising garbage sons, we'd think about it.Right? Funny how there's Don't breed or buy while shelter pets die slogans and incentives to adopt animals and I hear no one anywhere, ever talking about fostering or adopting kids in need instead of "making more". Just my controversial opinion but I think everyone who wants to have a biological child should be required to adopt one first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 11:44 AM |
| 48 | Turn the tables on male gaslighting, except it’s not cute when they’re angry because it’s actually life-threatening.I'll die on a hill saying if a man yells at you he's utter trash and deserves to be dumped. Period. I'm not talking about speaking heatedly about something going on in his life but yelling directly at you about you. Trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 11:37 AM |
| 30 | She Gets ItThat movie fucked me up. Its every bit as bad as you heard. It's worse than 99.9 horror films I've seen, like on par with I Spit on Your Grave and A Serbian Film. I wish I never watched it but at the same time teens need to know that this is where chatting with strange men online can lead 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 11:33 AM |
| 28 | Why are “Sexperts” always claiming women that DON’T have sex on the first date 1) have internalized misogyny 2) are sexually repressed or 3) are worried about being “girlfriend material”? How ‘bout it’s because we JUST DON’T FUCKING KNOW HIM AT ALL 🤯Excellent comment. It's the scrotes sending the concern warnings. I get bunches of them. I'm assuming it's their ineffectual passive aggressive way to feel like they're 'getting to us' because they can't get us banned or suspended. Tho I did get suspended for 3 days for saying sex toys were better than men 🤷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 11:27 AM |
| 92 | From /AskReddit about which subs give useless or even dangerous advice. Lol.We're murdering their ability to manipulate vulnerable women into getting pumped and dumped and they are livid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 11:04 AM |
| 18 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.Actually on exfds they say we're qanon...? So the reptilian rumors already abound. Look if this sub is so triggering, why come here? Do they not know how to scroll on by? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 10:56 AM |
| 156 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.mgtow/trp/incel reddit are obsessed with us. recently I've seen proclamations that not only are we all 400lb 60yr old women who only date millionaire 10s, but we're nazi terrorists against lgbtqa who cheer men on to suicide. it would be amusing if they weren't so clearly disturbed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 12:27 AM |
| 30 | They want you to prove you’re worthy to them. If you have to prove to be worthy of commitment- he’s not worth yours.Reality: plastic, gold spray painted, "turn your skin green" cheap ass, tacky, tasteless trinket from the quarter bubble gum machine variety. No thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 08:04 PM |
| 49 | Men think that it's WOMEN'S fault they're addicted to porn 🙄On a recent mgtow thread they were literally saying that being raised by depraved single mothers made them hate women and turn to porn. 🙄 the cognitive dissonance is staggering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 07:58 PM |
| 82 | Men think that it's WOMEN'S fault they're addicted to porn 🙄men: iTS aLl YeR fAUlt women: What is? men: e'RyThINg women: Can you explain/articulate? men: fUkiN bItCHes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Is dick worth it?Exactly this 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Is dick worth it?This is exactly how I feel. Like I've been told a lie for my entire life; seeing what men really are is a revelation. I think I've gone through all the stages of grief and now I'm on the other side, finally at peace with the sad reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 05:23 PM |
| 10 | Is dick worth it?This is a fascinating concept that I feel like I could discuss for hours. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 12:21 PM |
| 83 | Yep...there's a movie like this too-an australian film. and don't get me started on my worst fear-the men that chain you up in their soundproof basements for 10 years. getting older plus=less chance of sex related kidnapping/torture/murder. but men have it so hard cuz they....deal with rejection occasionally? will they ever realize how sick they are? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 02:32 AM |
| 62 | This is why it’s so important to have financial independence and a career as a woman, so if your partner runs out on you one day, you won’t be blindsided like this poor mother of 3 young kidsor drowns when trying to forge a river :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 02:24 AM |
| 18 | Why do they call FDS female incels?exactly. they dismiss us for any and every reason because it's preferable to facing themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 12:35 AM |
| 26 | Why do they call FDS female incels?TGFT too good for them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 11:07 PM |
| 436 | Why do they call FDS female incels?That's just it-they legit cannot fathom the smorgasboard of sexual options women have at their fingertips on the daily. I could fuck a 24yr old blond jock, a dark dashing 35yr old poet, a debonair 40yr old entrepreneur etc..ad infinitum. Any day. Every day. 8 per day if I felt like it. But what they also cannot relate to or comprehend with their miniscule pea brains and absent emotional intelligence, is that women care about more than just getting laid. My nex would whine about how hard it is fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 10:22 PM |
| 46 | There’s nothing empowering about OnlyFans. The consequences of engaging in sexual acts on camera always lie with the woman, which is unfair, but it’s the world we live in (sadly).my gorgeous 20something friends who are doing sex acts on OF make <$300/mo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 05:51 PM |
| 119 | Men are surprised that I have hobbiesqueen embodiment of speak the truth even if your voice shakes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 05:47 PM |
| 3 | What progress and solidarity looks like.you're not an idiot sis-you need to talk kindly to yourself and about yourself. we are all indoctrinated into the system of patriarchy before we are even aware of what it is. you just described my life from 14-18yrs old. you are strong for standing up to him-he used every slimy NVM tactic in the book. Take some time to love yourself first-you need a strong foundation of that before you wade into dangerous dating waters. don't let anyone steamroll over your boundaries-they aren't worth it. stay s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 12:20 PM |
| 17 | If a man abuses you like this it will escalate to physical violence. Leave and don’t let him know your location.yep | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 11:34 PM |
| 8 | Disconnect: what I Know and what I PermitI'm 40 and my most recent ex was the same type of manipulative energy vampire. You deserve better sis. The peace I feel from his absence is too precious for me to shatter with entertaining the thought of him. They feed off of any attention. Let your anger fuel your silent treatment. This sub has helped a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 11:08 PM |
| 19 | Stills from a scene in the 1998 music video for Pearl Jam’s “Do the Evolution”. Disturbingly prophetic.Maybe their virtual reality sets can come with automatically locking chastity belts. That way they can only get off to their precious violent anime porn and leave us the fuck alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 11:24 AM |
| 9 | I'm convinced that men invented patriarchy because they saw how male livestock are treated and they didn't want to be subjected to the same fate.right?! I think some smaller farms do a group suffocation or just bury them alive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 03:49 PM |
| 27 | I'm convinced that men invented patriarchy because they saw how male livestock are treated and they didn't want to be subjected to the same fate.Male chicks are ground up (**do not click link unless you want to see this live**) because they are unnecessary. https://www.kinderworld.org/videos/egg-industry/baby-chicks-ground-up-alive/ I never thought of the patriarchy being a result of how males are treated throughout agriculture but damn if this doesn't make a ton of sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:47 PM |
| 10 | On a question about why old men hit on 13-18 year olds. I am absolutely disgusted and frightened.Right? He's def a build a dungeon in the basement type from this post. Gives me chills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 12:41 PM |
| 22 | I'm not sure he's set his requirements high enough /sikr? I recently watched a Kamau Bell series where he goes to talk to different groups. He went to see the modern members of the kkk. It was legit a bunch of obese, overalled white men, sitting on broke lawn chairs, outside of their trailers, surrounded by rusted car parts, talking about how superior they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 11:09 PM |
| 6 | I'm not sure he's set his requirements high enough /sthis needs to catch on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 11:04 PM |
| 9 | I'm not sure he's set his requirements high enough /she's 5'5 judging by the triceps and road proximity :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 11:03 PM |
| 33 | Someone please tell herher voice saying Coltee has permanently traumatized me :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 11:01 PM |
| 13 | Just me?I just pictured a shirt with birth control method=🗑 men=100% accuracy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 08:38 PM |
| 48 | Just a thought on what you "attract"If you don’t have FDS mindset, you entertain them where other women won’t and they stick to you. They then wear you down chip by subtle chip. yep. FDS mindset is the antidote to rose colored glasses that allow you to miss red flags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 03:30 PM |
| 15 | To Death Do Us Part....or, you know, until your natural rhythm of life gets in the way of my peepee.lvm poisoning; the antidote for that is FDS :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 03:26 PM |
| 5 | “SIMP” has gone mainstream. Boys bully other boys for being nice to women. This is the male socialization we’re up against.I know I almost cried reading this. Like is there no hope for upcoming generations of women when men get bullied for not being abusive to women?!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 02:20 PM |
| 32 | My Male Friend of 15+ Years Just Asked Me if I'd Ever Tried Only Fans. Screenshot Speaks for Itself.Why would you think this scrote is a good guy? From what you described he's a typical nvm sis sorry to say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 07:48 AM |
| 6 | Choose you every time - until it’s not even a question in your mindAlthough, technically, if you're doing self love right, should there even be anyone who treats you better than you treat yourself? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 01:47 AM |
| 166 | Confirmed: We are the product.facially impoverished :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 10:38 PM |
| 14 | “I’m part Viking” Avoid Men Who Fake Their Ancestry or Try to Claim Their Ancestors Accomplishments As Their OwnI've dated at least 5 brunettes who claimed to be part Cherokee (why do they always pick Cherokee?). They were whiter than paper. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 09:47 PM |
| 13 | Sex questions, gaslighting, and more. Welcome to online dating.If I'd done this with my ex narc I'd have saved myself 10 months and countless hours of stress; queen energy sis 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 08:41 PM |
| 6 | Had anyone been following the Paige/Chris saga on Married at first sight?For me it's a fun way to watch red flag behavior in action without having to go through it. And to reinforce my certainty that at least 75% of men are just not fit to share our air. Each season there's at least one narcissist and myriad other disordered men. I have no idea why any woman would sign up for our after watching a season tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 08:37 PM |
| 38 | Had anyone been following the Paige/Chris saga on Married at first sight?YES!!! Omg. She should have walked so long ago. When she had to tell his parents basically we fucked twice and now he says I'm not attractive-um who tf did you raise?! I felt for her. But now?? Did you see that pickme gleam when he was feeding her all that bullshit about putting her first? And don't get me started on his anger issues. He looks like some Cro-Magnon with that blocky brow just creeping down his face. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 08:34 PM |
| 37 | Liberal feminism and its ZVM supporters. Ladies, it's time for resistance.they all want a harem of virginal bangmaids that they can switch out immediately when they get bored. they know how low value they are so the minute a woman sleeps with them SHE loses value in their eyes for stooping to his level. we legit cannot win unless we stop playing. I fold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:48 PM |
| 232 | Another post that demonstrates why it’s good to weary of so-called male ‘friends’. It always come back to sex and whether they see you as bangable or not.This is so sad. Male friends=predators laying in wait. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 04:54 PM |
| 106 | I want to share an eye opening conversation i had with a guy friendOutlander was my exact thought when I read that. It was a very disturbing story line but not half as bad as most porn. It's hella fucked up that there's a disconnect (cognitive dissonance perhaps?) where they're unable to see this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 04:52 PM |
| 54 | Why I left my Fiancé. - Woman shares inspiring story of how she trusted her intuition, decided to she deserved better, and left her fiance (a man she had dated for nine years).Yep. It's damn hard to choose yourself. 🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 04:47 PM |
| 5 | Men who don't ask questions (99.9%)yeah exactly. trauma mining, which is easy to suss out once you've seen it play out once or twice. I think the key is asks the right questions, listens, responds with respect and remembers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 03:13 PM |
| 4 | Your misery ain't funnyexactly. being real about the brutal stresses of motherhood is still frowned upon. like, only in moderation and only to other parents (think: confessional at scarymommy). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 01:16 AM |
| 51 | What is something a man did that he thought was cute and romantic but was gross and insulting?it's so gross. they look up at us because they love the big bambi eye blowjobs in porn. It's so performative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 01:07 AM |
| 23 | What is something a man did that he thought was cute and romantic but was gross and insulting?yes. they're waiting for libfems to organize one for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 01:01 AM |
| 22 | These guys are around us, ladies.ha-exactly this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 12:33 AM |
| 7 | These guys are around us, ladies.RIGHT?!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 12:32 AM |
| 9 | Men who don't ask questions (99.9%)This is so sadly accurate 💀 kinda starts to look like OCD when you think about it, or compulsive eating, that type of disorder. It's not the chase is a mindlessly driven compulsion to consume (porn, sex, women all of it) and it's gotten progressively more disturbing. Now we have to worry about cannibalism too, actual physical consumption, not just the vampiric, soul destroying kind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 10:15 PM |
| 104 | These guys are around us, ladies.And that's just it-They think all men are like that. No Brad, just because you and most of your brethren are degenerate, stunted, porn sick babies, not all men are. Or would they now like to debate IN FAVOR of the all men argument?!! 🤥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 10:07 PM |
| 24 | Have men always been so bad?I amend that statement as the blame should be on porn. But I also remember shows like Girls and others geared toward Millennial women promoting anal/rim etc..like it was the newest greatest thing (barf-not my taste at all-to each their own) and I feel like millennials just ran with it. I'm just saying as an "Xennial" I never got any type of ass request/expectation throughout dating from 1998-2008; and trust that I dated some total NVMs :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 04:47 PM |
| 34 | Men who don't ask questions (99.9%)you're not alone. had I known at 25 what I know now, I'm pretty sure I would have married my ex HVM cuz men are straight up trash. hindsight=20/20. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:46 PM |
| 72 | A message for the female lurkersthe low standards and asking for less is chum in the water for NVM sis. when you raise your standards and don't even entertain most men your pool will get smaller but the quality will improve. NVM won't see you as an easy target. you're 100%-most men are trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:45 PM |
| 69 | A message for the female lurkersohhh-that is a fantastic analogy. I remember reading about that in philosophy class. people will believe what they are told and what feels easiest, most often. FDS challenges what society tells women and the pickme's hang tight to their belief in shadow puppets-until and if they wake up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:43 PM |
| 28 | A message for the female lurkersExactly this sis!!! You must choose yourself over them and usually it's fucking harrowing (when dealing with and getting away from narc NVMs). So glad to hear you got out. As someone who found FDS at 40, I can tell you, you still have so much time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:39 PM |
| 96 | Men who don't ask questions (99.9%)lol yeah, wyd does not count | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:22 PM |
| 51 | Men who don't ask questions (99.9%)In my experience NVM never ask you questions about anything important to you. They will always steer conversations toward sex. Again, just my experience but I've never had any LVM ask probing questions into my background unless they were fishing for daddy issues/ex stories/abuse experiences (and clearly do not share any trauma with men). On the flipside, I've wasted probably weeks of my life (in actual hours) getting to know men and asking them deep questions and I'm completely over that. I coul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:17 PM |
| 58 | Have men always been so bad?yeah the whole ass preoccupation is within the last decade. in the early aughts dudes were happily surprised to find a woman who liked to give them oral, they wouldn't dare ask for our faces to be in their ass. I blame the ass stuff on millennials (sorry not sorry). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 01:32 PM |
| 95 | “It’s fine if she’s legal.” This is so problematic.this is my first harassment memory. Being 10 and walking with my friend, both looking like utter children, with grown, bearded men hanging out of cars calling out to us. We were round, innocent children with nothing sexual about us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 01:29 PM |
| 872 | “It’s fine if she’s legal.” This is so problematic.The counting down to when girls (read: CHILDREN) turn 18 is vomitous. They were doing that with Mary Kate and Ashley when they were like 8 years old. But scrotes will defend it to the fucking death. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 12:33 PM |
| 177 | Men who don't ask questions (99.9%)right? they will straight up monologue like it's their profession. I'm not sure most even understand the concept of back and forth conversation in person; dudes thinking they're MacBeth with the soliloquies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 12:28 PM |
| 23 | Former Sex Worker Discusses Repulsive Clientsin a perfect world | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 12:17 PM |
| 8 | “It was just a joke!”didn't mean to sound harsh, I just hate thinking of anyone apologizing when others hurt them-and I have certainly been there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 12:17 PM |
| 39 | Men who don't ask questions (99.9%)The one I see as most HVM I was young (25) and not ready for marriage which was what he wanted. The other, we just grew in very different directions. I also spent a decade with someone who never once asked me about anything important (he had other good qualities but not HVM). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 12:15 PM |
| 34 | Bridging the orgasm gap – it is not just biologyyes. all of my long term partners; for multiple years. a man who doesn't please you first is not an HVM, period. even my HS boyfriend wouldn't rest until he learned what worked on my body (at 17 that was probably ego driven but I'm not complaining about hour long oral). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 12:07 PM |
| 70 | Former Sex Worker Discusses Repulsive ClientsIt was. He wrote about it in his memoir. The whole band would play every night under burning lights, sweating for hours. They'd drink all night and sleep on a bus. They'd do this for weeks seeing if any of the groupies would refuse to peel off their dirt caked sweat soaked pants and pull out their putrid dicks 🤢. WEEKS without showering. As a game. It's repugnant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 10:59 AM |
| 6 | Roses Are Red, Rush Limbaugh is Dead, and Bridgerton is a fancy tale of young women being sold into sex slaveryThe Crimson Petal and the White is phenomenal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 10:53 AM |
| 7 | Roses Are Red, Rush Limbaugh is Dead, and Bridgerton is a fancy tale of young women being sold into sex slaveryThey truly do not care. If it benefits them they don't care to know or sympathise or change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 10:50 AM |
| 9 | “It was just a joke!”Stop entertaining people who do this. They are not your friends. Reading the handbook will help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 10:42 AM |
| 6 | “It was just a joke!”They really are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 10:40 AM |
| 7 | Why are they so lazy??👋👋👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 10:36 AM |
| 19 | Why are they so lazy??😂yep | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 10:33 AM |
| 38 | Why are they so lazy??So much this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 10:32 AM |
| 42 | While viewing porn, man sees his wife’s photo - decide he’s been cheated on 🙄yep. that is definition of patriarchy. it's awful when you wake up to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 03:41 AM |
| 61 | Do not feel bad for having physical standards - women deserve to be with a man they find physically attractivethat's the straight truth too, not hyperbole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 12:05 AM |
| 31 | Do not feel bad for having physical standards - women deserve to be with a man they find physically attractiveChildfree here and I say jesus they should not breed under my breath, often. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 12:04 AM |
| 51 | "His teeth are gross but I love him." 🤢🤮Thank you- I was trying to eat less after 6pm 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 12:01 AM |
| 35 | "His teeth are gross but I love him." 🤢🤮Agreed. But at the same time there should be basic minimum standard levels of hygiene. Honestly, I thought there were; thankfully I've never had to deal with a super dirty scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 12:00 AM |
| 30 | "His teeth are gross but I love him." 🤢🤮Holy mother of fuck. Come on. We can do better than making excuses for sub humans ladies. Jesus christ. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 11:58 PM |
| 86 | “I do that with all my friends”Like unholy accurate. Like bulls fucking eye accurate. Like every single scrote on OLD accurate. 💯💯💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 11:20 PM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-Inblock and delete. he's a child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 04:36 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InDon't beat yourself up sis! I left a man I was with for 10 years last year and couldn't be happier now. It is terrifying at first; being a we in society can feel much easier than being an I. FDS book suggestions, exercise and meditation helped me a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 04:36 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-Inhmm...my gut says this is bad news but more info needed. does he have a full life with hobbies, interests, friends, family and professional successes? or has he spent the last 15 years bemoaning his weight, watching porn and getting bitter? did he give a reason why his relationships failed/were so short? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-Inyes!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 04:11 PM |
| 25 | I hate when men, pickmes and fakefems say that "Men have just as much to do with creating life as women"if only. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 03:51 PM |
| 18 | I think I just lost some brain cells... this is possibly one of the dumbest things I’ve seen on the internet in a while"She cared for me and I hated her for it. Now I learned to tolerate her without reciprocation! Hashtag king!" nailed it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 02:47 PM |
| 18 | I think I just lost some brain cells... this is possibly one of the dumbest things I’ve seen on the internet in a whileUgh. real, actual, well adjusted MEN know this. They aren't sniveling in a corner waiting to "be taught" how to handle shit. This is gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 02:45 PM |
| 24 | Valentine's Day Postmortem Discussion Thread: Did your man disappoint you on Valentine's Day? Comment your story below!Yep. Good for you sis. You slammed that door for disappointed women the world over-that's serious queen energy. Fuck that guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 10:29 AM |
| 3 | Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide?Lol I was going to say leave him sis cuz the contempt is palpable (and totally warranted) 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 02:11 AM |
| 38 | If You Hate Online Dating, Delete Your Dating AppsMultiple things to hide | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 01:56 AM |
| 59 | Reminder: they literally see us as objects to possess and discard (and you should keep your personal business to yourself)After FDS, neither can I 😂👊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 10:57 PM |
| 19 | Man speaking out against victim blaming in the Manson case.Right?! It's beyond refreshing. If scrotes only knew what a turn on feminist advocacy is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:08 PM |
| 177 | Woke up to a Valentine’s Day thirst message from the MARRIED father of a kid I used to tutor 🤮damn. 5 kids and this is the thanks she gets. what a disgusting prick. I hope they don't have a young impressionable babysitter :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:28 PM |
| 229 | When the tables are turned and she is comparing him to her own sex fantasies and habits no one is telling him he is insecure and jealous they are telling him she is gaslighting him and he should break up!This is the same as 5'9 on OLD. Dude is 5 inches and his gf knows where her g spot is; he's too lazy to find it, or the clit. he finishes jackhammering and she finishes herself off much to his chagrin. go cry me a river Brandon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:22 PM |
| 223 | Woke up to a Valentine’s Day thirst message from the MARRIED father of a kid I used to tutor 🤮wow! nice response sis! poor wife :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:19 PM |
| 7 | Creepy teacher sexualizes underage high school kids. Sleeps with on in their early 20s. Proceeds to act like a moral god while other creeps applaud his judgement.I tried to explain to a man the difference between finding someone aesthetically pleasing and sexual attraction; they are completely unable to grasp this concept. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:06 AM |
| 19 | Men won’t even put in the bare minimum these days and it’s because there are women who tolerate it.Just because we're paranoid doesn't mean scrotes ain't out to get us. Look at how apoplectic they get when we call their dusty asses out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:02 AM |
| 8 | Author of “Cannibalism Play” Cosmo Article Responds.Be weary of any group who seems to need to convince others to join them. Misery loves company. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:52 AM |
| 92 | Protecting men’s feelingsAt a certain point we will be forced to either choose ourselves or continue prioritizing someone else's needs first. You will never regret choosing yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 01:31 AM |
| 112 | Why do men waste our damn time?Ugh. What is the point of that? So he can make you anxious? Possibly begin to doubt yourself so you're relived when you next hear from him? So you'll be more easily manipulated? Fuck that noise sis. Bullet dodged-hand to god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 01:28 AM |
| 15 | Why therapy is SO important after a break-upThank you for sharing such an honest look at your struggle and journey 💜🕉 It can be difficult, at first, to provide yourself with the things you once sought from others. I used to think self love was this ephemeral, huge thing I had to climb up to (like scaling Mt Everest) but I realized it just comes down to treating yourself like a treasure and putting yourself first. https://everyoneelseishavingfun.com/2020/11/03/125/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 10:10 PM |
| 13 | When they ask what you bring to the table 🤦♀️ *Trigger Warning*Our paper cuts are their inoperable tumors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 09:57 PM |
| 18 | Men truly are delusional. But maybe that’s just me in my ivory tower talking 💁🏻♀️you rant like this all the time and you're 5'7. we see you Kyle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 06:05 PM |
| 40 | TW: DV. And these are just the things they are willing to post publicly.how can I still be shocked by the depravity? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 05:44 PM |
| 41 | This guythey are all broken enough for 50 fucking people. They project that damage, or, inflict that much damage, onto women. We can't win. We are either treated like shit, or scapegoats for their brokenness. thanks, I'll opt out if those are the choices. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 05:24 PM |
| 8 | Treat Every Man Like a Felon Until Proven OtherwiseI have 2 rapists. But if I counted coercion, harassment and "minor" assaults like grabbing body parts/unwanted body contact? I think that number would be over 50. I grew up in 90s when getting groped in the school hallway was a fairly normal occurrence. And if you reported it, the girl shouldn't have provoked them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 05:12 PM |
| 10 | This is horrible. If dating is hard in my mid-20s what is it going to be like when I’m 30?yeah Manslation for set in her ways=she has an opinion that differs from mine and won't change it in order to pander to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 05:03 PM |
| 13 | This is horrible. If dating is hard in my mid-20s what is it going to be like when I’m 30?I was at the beach last week and every single woman I saw over 40 looked amazing; unless she was with a man. Then it was about 50/50. ALL THE MEN over 40 save one or two athletes had the big barrel gut, leather skin and exposed flaky scalp of an old scrote. Of the coupled women, most looked unhappy/bored; none looked jubilant and treasured. And 100% of the families with kids, only the mother was paying attention to them. Something to think about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 05:01 PM |
| 13 | This is horrible. If dating is hard in my mid-20s what is it going to be like when I’m 30?Single dads are revered and I feel like they are the worst of the worst-a woman rejected you even when she has borne your children-like wtf bro, you must be trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 04:54 PM |
| 47 | Author of “Cannibalism Play” Cosmo Article Responds.I feel like women innately know this, they're just brainwashed by society. This has to resonate with the author but she dug her hole and now she's doubling down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 04:41 PM |
| 67 | Author of “Cannibalism Play” Cosmo Article Responds.right?! you have to earn those fingers boy! prove you can eat properly by starting with the cookie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 04:39 PM |
| 21 | Author of “Cannibalism Play” Cosmo Article Responds.I hope she gets picked...by someone with fucked up fetishes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 04:38 PM |
| 5 | If size doesn't matter, why don't they make 3-inch dildos?wow. I was young back then (HS) so the dick wasn't important and I didn't really know what I was missing. But when I found out about my friend, I cut them both out immediately. That was, by far, not the last "bestie" to sleep with a bf, unfortunately. Women still surprise me. Like you heard me bitching about how trash he is-why would you want that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 04:30 PM |
| 4 | I have been drawing some uplifting messages on my chalkboard for Valentine's day ❤️ Happy Valentine's day in advance, Queens 👑❤️I love these! Great idea and super cute designs. I'd wear some of these on a t-shirt :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 12:46 PM |
| 7 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.I'd do the same thing-I assumed it was my mistake, I overlooked something etc..I feel like women usually blame ourselves first so in a way, it makes gaslighting easier for them. And I think a lot of guys have grown so used to gaslighting, it's second nature to them, nearly automatic. Like their normal default mode. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 01:08 AM |
| 15 | Maybe women and males are just too different from each other?Agree. We need to catch them young and teach them well. Men are not born evil, porn sick, abusive misogynists; they become them over time and exposure. But fact is, by the time most are adults, they are pretty far gone unless they have damn decent role models; and most don't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 01:03 AM |
| 17 | Maybe women and males are just too different from each other?sis, exactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 12:53 AM |
| 19 | Maybe women and males are just too different from each other?I read that as won't take me out of the garage. I swear I wouldn't be surprised to see either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 12:51 AM |
| 41 | Maybe women and males are just too different from each other?It's especially disturbing when you're a grown ass woman who just recently realized this, when you were raised to think men are slightly better in every way and are clearly the more important sex. I feel like I was duped for most of my life by family/friends/society to buy into the bullshit. Dismantling my own internalized misogyny has been a fucking bitch and a half. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 12:49 AM |
| 35 | For Valentine's Day, I have ordered surprise roses for 3 of my single best friends <3 Sending love to all you ladies!Aww! I just did the same thing for my mom and bestie 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 11:51 PM |
| 11 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.My narc ex used to pull shit like this. Assuming we had plans and making me feel nuts-guilt tripping after that. Definite bullet dodged and you can bet he knows exactly what he's doing. Also: even if we're only seeing each other wtf? He's negging you while gaslighting you about a fake date that was never set up. Psycho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 11:18 PM |
| 495 | If size doesn't matter, why don't they make 3-inch dildos?I'm petite and don't mind average. If you're working with 5-7 inches and know where both the clit and g spot are? Golden. Guy I crushed on for 4 years in school turned out to have micro penis-I couldn't have cared less, it was the sleeping with my best friend I had a problem with. Scrotes ruin things with their abhorrent behavior far more often than their underwhelming dicks. Women overlook and forgive a lot of male flaws automatically and frankly, we shouldn't be expected to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 06:56 PM |
| 16 | ReminderOMG. Thank you for the warning. This makes my fucking blood boil. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 05:51 PM |
| 3 | There is no such thing as ‘female privilege’. Permanently banned for stating FACTS.brilliant article but in a way I feel like sharing these facts with them is the equivalent of texting paragraphs; regardless of the info, they simply cannot be bothered to care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 02:04 PM |
| 33 | You know fds is working when other platforms are noticing (and hating ofc) us.they are broke with broke dicks sis, it's so shameful they must scream about bullshit in a pathetic attempt to deflect. lol, scrotes: we see you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 12:46 PM |
| 11 | Anyone Else Not Interested in Dating At All After Reading FDS?Me! I can't imagine a man who would add to my life instead of causing chaos and strife. Being single is the most peaceful existence. 🕉💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 12:03 PM |
| 37 | 🍆💦🛡🙅♀️that is so sadly accurate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 10:54 PM |
| 59 | Men make themselves so hateable.I've got the cure-have them all wake up female and live as women for one month. They'd be forced to empathize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 10:53 PM |
| 33 | Why overt and extreme misogyny is a problem even for misogynists: It results in women being armed with knowledge misogynists never intended them to have (that they are openly hated, and they will be hated no matter what they do), and this activates women’s “jezebel” side.Such an accurate observation sis ✔ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 07:21 PM |
| 455 | Got this gem from a guy I used to see in college(my 19-year-old pickme era)Translation: I hate women. They have no value. I want to fuck you so I'm going to try and be nice until I do. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 05:06 PM |
| 5 | Coming out as a former Cool GirlSo much this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 01:42 PM |
| 14 | Lmao sometimes I get notifications of what non vetted users comment on a post of mine before they get deleted. Stay mad out there.I can legit feel their impotent rage at being silenced and it brings me a staggering amount of joy 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 01:38 PM |
| 88 | Man sleeps with over 400 women and it broke his sexuality. I think it’s not just porn that’s the problem...That's a perfect analogy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 01:03 PM |
| 7 | Literally every guy I meet that I’m nice too thinks this. It’s why they hate women who are snarky. Unkind women are the worst thing on the planet according to them.wow. this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 01:00 AM |
| 41 | Literally every guy I meet that I’m nice too thinks this. It’s why they hate women who are snarky. Unkind women are the worst thing on the planet according to them.and usually underwhelming | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 12:55 AM |
| 46 | Its just one of the sad days todayYou treated him the way you need to treat yourself-with loving kindness, patience and compassion. Make yourself your next boyfriend and lavish yourself with all the time and attention you put into him. I promise after only a short while, you'll see and feel your value and you'll never entertain the thought of settling for a "relationship" like that again. 🕉💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 11:15 PM |
| 29 | First, it was anal; Second, this scrote kept a hidden condom from 8 years ago and didn't know condoms expire. But it's so funny to have a grown ass man not knowing basics.Oof. Mine too. I was petrified getting tested. It's hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 09:12 PM |
| 9 | How many instagram "models" does he need to follow? And yes they're porn-y chicks and on his regular profile which I refuse the follow. Tell me to fucking run.I really think this needs to catch on and honestly I'm surprised it hasn't 👊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 09:08 PM |
| 16 | Men learn how to manipulate women by learning how to manipulate their mothers.Truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 09:05 PM |
| 10 | Queens don't waste our energy on greasy ass napkins.Right? With v day, retrograde and a full moon coming-stay vigilant 👊🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 06:51 PM |
| 13 | Queens don't waste our energy on greasy ass napkins.Ah the basement dwelling n'er do well- I wish they'd formally ban that disgusting breed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Is childbirth and motherhood “empowering”? What do you ladies think?It's too true. We are demonized for everything we do and don't do. Good think we don't give a fuck about their opinions :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 02:04 PM |
| 77 | Queens don't waste our energy on greasy ass napkins.they are literally the TP they do not even use | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 02:03 PM |
| 4 | Men are always scheming, “Is the effort worth the reward? Can I get this reward cheaper?”I'm usually like 80% excited and 20% scared. It sucks because while he followed me to this city, we both have pretty overlapping lives here so while it's my dream place, I'm considering a bigger move for a fresher start. We were together for a decade and I haven't lived alone in 7 years. Totally relate to their bitch asses cleaning their precious rooms and letting the rest of the house fall apart lol. I can honestly say, if I'd known how amazingly content I could feel alone, without worrying abo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 12:57 PM |
| 26 | Is childbirth and motherhood “empowering”? What do you ladies think?I've been happily childfree by choice for my entire adult life and everyone, from alt right men to lib fems, seem to find some way to demonize not having children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 12:26 PM |
| 26 | WHO is teaching us? Maybe the sky high rates of rape and murder? The abuse women receive on a daily basis? Nah, #notallmen! But please don't dress like that to the party.they really do. we are not people to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 12:04 AM |
| 36 | Why cOmMuNiCaTe simply doesn't work. Extras is from "Men who hate women and the women who love them" by Susan Forward and Joan Torresthey ALWAYS know. believing their ignorance guides them is a fallacy we'd be better off without. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 05:18 PM |
| 26 | Rape by deceptionI remember that website. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 05:13 PM |
| 28 | Men are always scheming, “Is the effort worth the reward? Can I get this reward cheaper?”As someone currently riding out a lease with an ex that sounds very similar (thanks covid); I concur wholeheartedly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 05:12 PM |
| 25 | Before FDS I told myself it was a *few bad apples*; even though in reality it was 90% of men I encountered. Ladies, these are not *a couple of bad seeds* in a sea of princes. HVM are rare. Remember this and vet accordingly.I've met 2. And even those are slightly questionable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 04:58 PM |
| 4 | It's not a ring, but I just got my aligners in the mail for my new smileI got a $500 quote for ceramic braces in the usa. Dentist said they'd be off in 6 months. I choose the more expensive ($1500) by mail aligners because you wear them at night. I'd 100% do it again. Totally worth it and saw difference in weeks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 12:20 PM |
| 7 | The fallacy of the nice guy : The men of Big Bang TheoryThis. I've now surgically removed any picker and will remain peacefully single for life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 12:16 PM |
| 15 | Ladies, how are you treating yourself this Valentine's day?I'm taking my dog and niece to a country airbnb and going skydiving 😊 It will be her first time so I'm really excited 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 12:13 PM |
| 10 | When you have kids with a manchild, you are literally taking away resources from your children. It is child abuse to have kids with a man if you know he is immature, lazy, selfish, needy, and/or insecure.Don't hate yourself sis. Celebrate your strength in realizing enough is enough and getting all of you out of an unsafe situation. You are worth it. All of us have things in the past we're not proud of. Leaving abuse is one of the hardest things to go through. 👊💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 12:10 PM |
| 6 | Where's the lie?feMaLE pRIvilEGe tHo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 01:05 PM |
| 28 | I doubt it shocks anyone here that Evan Rachel Wood is calling out Marilyn Manson for abuse. He has been such a crucial normalizer of sexual depravity. Out your abusers. Let’s help end this libfem sexpos mindset.vomit. I liked Stanhope back in the day too. every famous male I've ever liked in hollywood has gotten called out as a fucked up pervy rapist. I'm waiting for Tom Hanks :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 12:42 AM |
| 13 | Birds of a featheragreed. I think some of it is wanting to give up control and actually be violated themselves. Which is problematic if they don't understand why a woman wouldn't want that too. My nex took it a step further and was into pegging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 10:22 PM |
| 166 | "You're being sex negative!" is so insulting to women. True sex positivity for women is impossible to achieve in a patriarchal world. Requiring women to be "sex positive" before dismantling patriarchy is such a "fuck you" to women.Excellent post! I am sharing this with every 20 something I know. So many of my friends are doing OF and I see it absolutely eroding their sense of self. The libfem (so called) sex positivity movement has caused so much additional harm to women. We can't be positive about sex as it currently exists unless we throw ourselves under the bus, literally and figuratively. What we need is a movement that's sex positive for women specifically, since, for most of fucking history, sex has been entirely ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 10:18 PM |
| 47 | Why We Take the High RoadThis is my exact mindset. Beautifully written. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 10:07 PM |
| 37 | As of today, February 1, 2021, I am DONE being a pick-me doormat!You can do it sis and you will. Once you begin to see the conditioning behind the behaviors, you can stop blaming yourself and use that anger to fuel your glow up! I'm rooting for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 08:18 PM |
| 73 | Held off on sex, it was horribleI empathize with you girl, I'm really sorry you went through that. This was years ago, but I made guy wait 2+ months and the sex was exactly as you described. I would say slow down baby in a sensual way (I was so concerned back then about hurting their fee fees) and he'd just go back to jackhammering. I don't have practical advice except perhaps a frank discussion a few dates in about sexuality/sensuality/fantasies. That can backfire though and make sex a focus before it should be. As you said, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 06:42 PM |
| 28 | Marriage has not only NOT been a boon for women's sexual needs, it mostly runs against our interests, even in terms of sexual stability.I just alternately cringe at and want to hug my 2019 self | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 03:29 PM |
| 34 | Marriage has not only NOT been a boon for women's sexual needs, it mostly runs against our interests, even in terms of sexual stability.damn-that hits hard sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 01:27 PM |
| 31 | Men casually admitting that they are willing to lie about their intentions just to get sex. Nothing surprising...projection for $400, yet again. once you see it, you can't unsee it everywhere | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 12:33 AM |
| 4 | Not sure if this is allowed here, but more women should know about comphetthanks sis! much appreciated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 10:36 PM |
| 60 | Men casually admitting that they are willing to lie about their intentions just to get sex. Nothing surprising...In 40 years I've met 5-10 who were legit not like this. They exist, but it's beyond needle in haystack. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 10:33 PM |
| 73 | Men casually admitting that they are willing to lie about their intentions just to get sex. Nothing surprising...who is raising these boys to think SEX is a REWARD for being NICE? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 10:32 PM |
| 35 | Men casually admitting that they are willing to lie about their intentions just to get sex. Nothing surprising...mOuThS aRE fOr BlOWjoBS onLy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 10:31 PM |
| 2 | To those of you who believe all men suck and therefore want to remain singleI think what I see most here is a vibe of I'm awesome with or without a man. If one comes along fantastic, but if not, just as cool with it. I hear what you're saying but ironically, until FDS I thought I wanted (and was ready for) a relationship. FDS has revealed that it was not just a bad handful of guys/experiences in my life that made me hesitant to trust the XY brigade, but, in fact, most men do suck. FDS was a catalyst for my own self growth and exploration of not only who I am, but what p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 10:26 PM |
| 119 | Don't get it twisted; women didn't leave "in the good old days" because they were trapped, not because they were fucking ride or die. We literally had no choice but to put up with abuse and other myriad bullshit. Men cannot stand the fact that we are no longer forced to submit.Oh my word, your poor great grandmother 😭 We need to remember their suffering, if for no other reason than to never, ever let our own boundaries, that we're privileged to have, waver. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 05:35 PM |
| 45 | The Risks Associated with Dating in the Modern EraThis is handbook worthy sis ✔👊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 05:28 PM |
| 15 | What in the pickmeisha hell is this clownery? The only thing I’m growing are my plants 🌱🪴Watched it. And when I went to talk about it with other women I heard oh that crazy woman from the 80s who killed her poor husband. Um no he fucking drove her crazy (like 99.9% of women killers). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 01:09 PM |
| 6 | This post will haunt my dreamsUntil those MAGA hats came out I did too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 12:59 PM |
| 29 | Yup 😂Ew. Go for another crusty dude then brah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 01:07 AM |
| 10 | Don’t eat a shit sandwich just because you’re hungry. This is not build a scrote.Pretty sure it won best picture too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 01:03 AM |
| 16 | ALWAYS GIVE MEN LESS THAN WHAT THEY ASKED FOR AND THEY WILL WORK TWICE AS HARD TO GET ITI'm right there with y'all. Finding out just how depraved the majority are, I value my time too damn much to vet the way that's required. Watching The Crimson Petal and The White (women in Victorian London had no options) makes me so damn thankful I can chose to be alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 12:55 AM |
| 20 | To all the LVMs who “don’t believe in Valentine’s Day” 🤡🤡🤡oh you mean my former cool girl pickme self circa 2019? Ikr?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 01:25 PM |
| 37 | Sex and Relationship “Expert” who writes for GQ, Refinery29, The Cut, and Allure, reveals her “qualifications”.lol after school specials were still on in 2000s? I flashed back to 1989 w/"hunk" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 02:09 AM |
| 6 | The importance of learning to think "not my problem" when a man tries to make you responsible for any of his issues or mess or dickif he doesn't clean car in preparation to pick you up, he doesn't value you. if he's not thinking about making a good impression, he doesn't deserve your attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 10:37 PM |
| 3 | The importance of learning to think "not my problem" when a man tries to make you responsible for any of his issues or mess or dickthis comment is my reason for smiling today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 10:33 PM |
| 4 | The importance of learning to think "not my problem" when a man tries to make you responsible for any of his issues or mess or dicklike maybe just get a dog? that's fucked up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 10:31 PM |
| 17 | The last thing he did. Rest his soul.Girls Gone Wild? Nah scrotes, Girls Gone Savage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 10:24 PM |
| 14 | So-called "petty" deal breakersI once sent a guy I was talking to a meme about 2020. It said if things get much worse we'll be pronouncing the "L" in salmon. He earnestly messaged back I've always pronounced the "L". Instant dryness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 10:09 PM |
| 24 | So-called "petty" deal breakersevery time. the practical definition of patriarchy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 10:01 PM |
| 114 | I gave this man my number 2 days ago. I ended up blocking him bc he was doing too much. He told me I’m “not engaging” with him. But who has time to text back and forth all day? I have a life lol. So this is his message after he realized I blocked him on WhatsApp. He’s 45.right? girl you know he read, reread and corrected the shit outta this before he sent it. I picture him, soft chin raised high, practising dramatically in the mirror. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 09:54 PM |
| 21 | Dont politely laugh for a man, if he's not funnyAww my stepdad was just the same. Lost him last year. Here I am fist at the sky like pls take my worthless NVM biodad instead💜🕉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 03:49 PM |
| 1 | So men apparently need a PSA that it's not okay to rape their daughtersright? this is entirely too close to my area | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 02:32 PM |
| 47 | This man going viral as his many wives figure it out.omg yes it is. lol, there are guys on there already like "I won't do you dirty like Jason did ladies.." scrotes using shitty men to make their mediocre ass look better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 08:23 PM |
| 7 | Vegan FDS ladies, what do we think of vegan men?sis, I've been saying that for years. it was called #don'tdatehimgirl back in the early aughts I think. we could save each other so much strife if said database existed. they count on OLD women not knowing each other so there's literally no way to warn/expose them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 08:09 PM |
| 199 | This man going viral as his many wives figure it out.of course he's a cop. I have yet to meet a faithful one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:21 PM |
| 17 | Not all men anology... spot onOmg love it!! She is brilliant. Excellent way to get the point across. Brava ✔🖤🔫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 04:47 PM |
| 20 | mAyBe hE's dEpReSsEd, yOu sHouLd bE HeLpiNg HiMso much this sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 04:22 PM |
| 60 | mAyBe hE's dEpReSsEd, yOu sHouLd bE HeLpiNg HiMmy single experience=no stress. I will personally choose peace > a man every single time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 04:21 PM |
| 39 | Don’t let pity get you into a relationship, it’ll bite you on the ass.I've never met a man who hasn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 01:25 PM |
| 27 | Vegan FDS ladies, what do we think of vegan men?I'm an 11 year vegan. I've never met a true HVM vegan but I've only been single for a year+ so I haven't completely lost hope. If anyone is in the southern US and wants to message me I'll give you 2 specific vegan NVMs to avoid, one an abusive narcissist of the lowest order. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 12:40 PM |
| 9 | It’s a beautiful ring but it took 20 years and a 10 year old child? That’s sad✔✔✔ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 01:56 AM |
| 9 | One guy said:” I wouldn’t have answered it. That was dry.” So what was she supposed to do? Add an emoji?🤨I wish I could print that fact out on flashcards and pass it out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 12:40 AM |
| 33 | One guy said:” I wouldn’t have answered it. That was dry.” So what was she supposed to do? Add an emoji?🤨they have no idea how banal they are. yes, #allmen. I'd love to be proven wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 12:38 AM |
| 14 | LIES MEN TELL TO GET OUT OF DOING THE WORKpsychopathic whores. I wonder what his upbringing was like. And I desperately hope he's not married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 09:26 PM |
| 67 | Reminder: The Wall is a lie men desperately try to project onto women to disguise their own pathetically lackluster lives.I'm so sorry that you were married to someone who turned out so unworthy. It kind of rocks though that the only thing he could even pick at on your entire flawless form was some made up "stray eyebrow hair". He was so insecure and threatened by your undeniable bossness; you were clearly way out of his league from jump. I think it gets easier to see their tactics the older you get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 06:18 PM |
| 5 | The bar is in helllol so THAT was the one good man on OLD-the urban myth unicorn in a sea of pungent, rotting sea trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 12:34 PM |
| 10 | The bar is in hellyikes. that was a long game play :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 12:31 PM |
| 9 | How did women get the label of being a nag?mansplaining=correctile dysfunction | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 12:29 PM |
| 9 | How did women get the label of being a nag?women have emotional intelligence and can realize when people don’t give a shit about what they’re saying and that’s why they usually don’t monologue without self awareness. so spot on sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 12:28 PM |
| 17 | He acts like those rings don't represent her disappointment. And she's fifty when do women get to claim their experience?queen energy sis and you're right-so few men of any age can even get and stay at the level of 'the average woman'. they are like toddlers trying to catch up on every level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 12:24 PM |
| 94 | Ladies, I am literally CRYING at this exchange 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I've dated musicians my entire life; guitar players cut their nails if they want pussy. period. that's a terrible excuse for her to be lapping up. he literally doesn't care that he's internally hurting her (physically and emotionally). I'd personally take an envelope to his dick Swimming With Sharks style. (movie where someone is given 100+ paper cuts) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 12:20 PM |
| 6 | NopeIt's so true tho. We are unstoppable when we put ourselves first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 11:18 AM |
| 52 | Nopethat one makes me cringe every time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 01:24 AM |
| – | Neurodivergents & the Manic Pixie Dream Girl Trapyes sis! my god, I've been trying to articulate similar thoughts about that specific type of man for a long time. Basically Ethan Hawke's character in Reality Bites or Ben Affleck in Chasing Amy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 11:57 PM |
| 83 | NopeThat's the thing; I've been in bad relationships with LVM, but in my heart of hearts I knew their various behaviors were awful and I shouldn't stand for them. I made excuses for them but at a certain point I couldn't keep doing that. I guess we all have different breaking points. I feel lucky to have been able to walk away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 11:21 PM |
| 36 | new male just droppedIt's my 2021 goal actually | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 10:54 PM |
| 6 | new male just droppedsooo accurate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 10:53 PM |
| – | Nopehe's a really good guy who games all day, missed my birthday and throttles me during sex. We have 3 beautiful babies together but his ex did a number on him so he doesn't want to get married. Until he finds work we're staying in his parents basement. I love him so much even though he calls me names, I know he doesn't mean it. Should I propose with a Ps5? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 10:50 PM |
| 18 | OLD is truly a dumpster firewe dated the same dude. but mine was 39. I will never, ever overlook a filthy car again. bUt I wAs TrAVeLling. you went on a 90 mile trip 3 months ago Brad, you're fucking gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 02:42 PM |
| 4 | I am not your dream girl.that's perfection | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 12:03 AM |
| 21 | Save time: Picture-based vetting on OLDAlso this sounds weird but a *lot* can be hidden with angles. Obese guys with only face pics, hatfish, guys with women they will claim are family members. Friends still on OLD have had a guy show up with one leg and another with a lazy eye. It's fucked up because then, if you confront them about lying, you're the shallow one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 12:02 AM |
| 20 | What do you think about this influencer whose husband is 18 years older, and pursued her when she was 19?poor girl has probably never had an orgasm with his old DDLG ass either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 11:54 PM |
| 33 | OLD Safety: photos you usewow, got all the red flags there in less than 50 words. scariest part is the addiction to exclamation points! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 11:50 PM |
| 65 | OLD Safety: photos you usethese tips should be in the handbook. so important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 11:47 PM |
| 5 | You deserve to have high standards even if you are overweight.*most* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 04:17 PM |
| 18 | Male projection is pathetic.It sounds nightmarish sis. Is there any way women in the west can help women in India?Serious question, if perhaps a bit naive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 11:26 AM |
| 21 | The Beauty Mythhttps://thetab.com/uk/2021/01/06/the-slumflower-chidera-eggerue-has-new-demands-for-reparations-from-florence-given-188218 Wow. this is so abhorrent. here I am thinking Florence is white girl woke (90% of the artwork in WDOYP is in praise of WOC and non traditional"Becky" type *mainstream pretty *) and she's literally a white girl stealing from a WOC. I'm ashamed to have purchased her book. Thank you for schooling me in this sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 02:11 AM |
| 7 | Leveling up movies?Soooo good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 01:20 AM |
| 4 | Starting overIt's an incredible feeling when oh shit what am I going to do turns into omg there's so much I get to finally explore 🕉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 01:09 AM |
| 6 | Starting overSo right sis. It feels scary. And new. But you are so much further along than so many women. Just the fact that you're here proves that. You are strong and capable and your whole big beautiful life is literally yours to do whatever you want with it, finally👊 Practically speaking, stay in spaces like this. Read Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them (game changer). Be nice to yourself. If you have a harsh inner voice, tell that bitch to shut up (it's not really your voice but the voice of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 01:08 AM |
| 41 | Do LVM’s ever change?Google silent treatment and what pops up first? Narcissist. It's not a coincidence. Anyone ghosting you during a relationship doesn't give a fuck about you and never will. Walk right past them if you see them on fire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 12:40 AM |
| 13 | The Beauty MythOmg. Had no idea! I love Chidera and hadn't heard about any plagiarism 😭 Someone here mentioned WDOYP. I'll look into that because it's hella disturbing. I thought both Florence and Chidera were queens 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 12:35 AM |
| 50 | The Beauty MythI loved Women Don't Owe You Pretty by Florence Givens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 11:35 PM |
| 66 | Avoiding men is an option.100% this. even the best men I know would believe a male over a female when it comes to factual data, or would say something like it's probably that time of the month. Things like that seem minor but they are indicative of a deeper belief that we are inferior to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 11:25 PM |
| 26 | Avoiding men is an option.I'm sorry you went through that. The physical abuse is slow and insidious. I had to see my ex throw my friend (who was trying to protect me) against a wall in order to realize how insane he'd gotten. They wear you down and behavior you never thought you'd put up with becomes common place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 11:23 PM |
| 43 | Avoiding men is an option.I'm so in this same boat with you sis! the idea of having to even consider a man's feelings about anything I'm doing with my life is a big fat hell to the no and I do not see that changing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 11:20 PM |
| 77 | This is so horrible. It makes me so angry and it makes me want to cry so badly.Ever notice how you mostly just come across these stories on female centered websites? That's deliberate. If people made a big deal about this kind of assault that happens all the time men would soon be unable to continue the exhaustive not all men rhetoric. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Don't be an empath Queensand the men who say it are all (yes, all) narcissists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 07:03 PM |
| 81 | Uni professor and lawyer is the biggest NVM I've ever met.Ugh. that's awful. Being around that would drive me utterly insane. I'm sorry sis, I'm assuming if there was any way to switch who you're training under, you would have done so. I hope his wife is having an affair with her personal trainer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 12:41 AM |
| 19 | The Post-Breakup Revenge Glo Up: Opinions?I think it's gradual. My mom used to say fake it till you make it about confidence, whenever I would start a new school (moved often) and I think it's similar. You begin doing something uncomfortable to you that you might not normally do just for yourself. But as you do it, it becomes habit, you notice the positive changes, and you feel how good being good to yourself and really taking care of yourself feels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Men have been projecting this ENTIRE TIMEI'll bet you're 100% right with they perceive the fact that we no longer entertain certain men to mean we cannot draw their interest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 10:26 PM |
| 10 | Don't be an empath QueensYou're spot on. It's so disconcerting to see childlike wonder and rage/indifference to your pain in the same person and it's invaluable to be able to see that you're the one bringing out those qualities/behaviors in him.🕉💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 09:09 PM |
| 12 | So broken, that I think are Red Flags Are Actually Workinganother way the patriarchy works for men is in dividing and separating women, pitting us against one another. we all thrive in a community of strong women, but so few of us have access to that type of support system, for myriad reasons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 06:27 PM |
| 5 | So broken, that I think are Red Flags Are Actually Workingit's a hard uphill climb sis, but so worth it. you're already beginning to see how worthless social media dudes are and trust me, as you continue to work on yourself, you'll probably also see how many of your awesome qualities you were projecting onto unworthy guys. we really are the prizes, but too often, we don't see or believe that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 06:25 PM |
| 29 | So broken, that I think are Red Flags Are Actually Workingyep-my thoughts exactly. I was once talking to a guy and shared a pic of my recently completed tattoo sleeve. a few days later he texted something about my sexy back piece. nope bro. wrong girl. bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 06:22 PM |
| 13 | Don't be an empath Queenspreach. that's one of the biggest red flags there is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 05:43 PM |
| 22 | FDS has helped me value myself.so good to hear this success story sis! I left mine last summer after finding this sub in Feb and my entire outlook on life and men and myself has changed, for the better. the brainwashing is real. it's amazing what we can see when we rip off the blinders of our conditioning. here's to levelling up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 05:40 PM |
| 21 | Don't be an empath Queensyep. there's even the "narcissists are attracted to empaths and vice versa" trope and I'm over here shouting NOPE! predators are preying on uninformed women; turning pure victimization into a twisted toxic love story | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 03:47 PM |
| 27 | Spoiler: it is NOT a fetish. It’s 100% fucking abuse.whoa. just when you think you can't hate scrotes more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 03:23 PM |
| 31 | Don't be an empath QueensAbsolutely agree with you. I'll even take it another step: I think society has co opted the word empath in order to further normalize women staying in horrific relationships. "I'm an empath so of course x, y, z bothered me" etc..You see so much about empaths and HSP (highly sensitive people) but it's not highly sensitive to say no and have boundaries. I'd almost say the entire term empath is a veil for people who are being victimized on the regular. That word wasn't even thrown around 10 years a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 03:17 PM |
| 23 | Men can impregnate multiple women at the same time, while women can only have 1 pregnancy ~every 10 months. Stop unwanted pregnancies at it's source!in the US they are very easily reversed. I feel like this definition has been pushed by men. when you really think about pregnancy it's LUDACRIS that the onus of protection is always on the woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 12:31 PM |
| 119 | Men can impregnate multiple women at the same time, while women can only have 1 pregnancy ~every 10 months. Stop unwanted pregnancies at it's source!those are side effects for nearly every antidepressant on the market. men are whiny little bitch babies who have no idea what pain or side effects even are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 12:29 PM |
| 92 | I saw this on another site and just had to share it here. Holy f.I think women can benefit from assuming whatever society says is NOT in our own best interest. Patriarchal society is the og blame shifter and gaslighter of all time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 11:28 AM |
| 4 | Men literally would not exist without womenthe vibe of this comment is my mood for life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 10:15 PM |
| 137 | Navigating guilt in a world that wants to make you feel guilty.YES SIS!! This is a passage from the book Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them, which I avoided for years b/c I thought it was dated and didn't pertain to me. I was wrong. **The self denying and submissive behaviors that make a woman vulnerable to mistreatment are the very ones she has been taught are feminine and loveable\** Society literally breeds feelings of guilt and shame into us insidiously from birth. And it's a bitch to unlearn/uncondition ourselves from patriarchal bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 03:03 PM |
| 6 | Her whole account is GOLDme too! her eyes are fire and her vibe is pure queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:35 PM |
| 4 | Sister SolidarityNothing decreases your value.... not your age, not your looks, your marital status, your past, your income, your single motherhood or no motherhood! The only place where your value can nose-dive is in your own head. And too many men seek to keep our self esteem at rock bottom, keep us feeling insecure, never enough, reaching out, trying harder to be better. Why? Because it serves them plain and simple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:29 PM |
| 6 | Hilarious and true!!!LMFAO. she's legit. I needed that this morning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:27 PM |
| 18 | LV lurker gets triggered by a comment I made here, lets me live in his head rent free 😂bUt mUH fEE FeEs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:24 PM |
| 30 | LV lurker gets triggered by a comment I made here, lets me live in his head rent free 😂thank you! yeah Kyle an ass man just loves "flat white girl booty" riiiight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:23 PM |
| 68 | LV lurker gets triggered by a comment I made here, lets me live in his head rent free 😂5'9 on OLD. if you care about that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:22 PM |
| 15 | LV lurker gets triggered by a comment I made here, lets me live in his head rent free 😂lol@ not, nor, never this is the actual dating pool ladies. vet these scrotes as hard as they want to fuck you without foreplay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:20 PM |
| 4 | Be a happy catcan confirm. lol it's like they're trying to start a literal fire. calm down Brad, shit is delicate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:30 AM |
| 9 | Trauma will keep you in a loop of your pastWay to get to know yourself and level up sis 👊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:27 AM |
| 17 | Sickening: MEETING THE ENEMY A feminist comes to terms with the Men's Rights movement | Cassie Jaye | TEDxMarinIt was scary af. You could actually see her mind warping during filming. By the end it was like she was a doll batting her lashes at gross old misogynistic men. Calling her a feminist is like calling Gandhi a serial killer. *fds queens would do well to watch it in order to get more familiar auth the enemy. I'm sure it's free on YouTube. The Red Pill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:22 AM |
| 19 | A man who doesn’t assault women should not be put on a pedestal. We don’t glorify treating women with the bare minimum of respect. This video shows a great level of self-awareness.yeah. like some. maybe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:09 AM |
| 30 | A man who doesn’t assault women should not be put on a pedestal. We don’t glorify treating women with the bare minimum of respect. This video shows a great level of self-awareness.So much this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:07 AM |
| 27 | Plastic surgery and the paradox of datingQueen energy in this post sis 🔥 definitely need more discussion for younger girls. they really need to realize that LVM Will cheat no matter what you look like. knowing this years ago would have saved me so much strife, stress and insecurity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 11:35 PM |
| 5 | Comeback queenPfftt lol yes Kyle washing between your dirt caked ass cheeks is too high a standard! Burn those women at the stake for their audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 02:54 PM |
| 10 | What do you think about this?we need to be our own demon slayers sis. that's a narc line if I ever heard one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 01:19 PM |
| 5 | My sister sent this to me saying "Your life motto", She's definitely not wrong.and of the attractive ones, cohabitating will make 99% of those 1% unattractive, bet on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 01:16 PM |
| 17 | My sister sent this to me saying "Your life motto", She's definitely not wrong.thank you! are they or have we just been conditioned from birth to think they are? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 01:15 PM |
| 13 | The sexism on mainstream RedditThree inches of twisted fury now that would make a great band name | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 01:11 PM |
| 35 | Being called a lesbian is just another way guys get us to try and conform to their incredibly unrealistic beauty standardsthey'd never ever think maybe that's why I fucking cut it off scrote! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 01:09 PM |
| 60 | Creepy scrote laments that “giving leads to disappointment” because the young women he wanted to prey on under the guise of “Mentorship” sniffed him out. Men, if you’re “doing something nice” to get something out of it, it’s not something nice.this one tho https://mahler101.medium.com/metoo-confessions-of-a-scared-white-male-40039a69f877 fucking predator telling on himself already. I hope his mentees find us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 01:06 PM |
| 49 | She really needs our helplol me too sis, me too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 12:56 PM |
| 31 | Be a happy catpreach sis. if we stopped having atrocious sex with undeserving scrotes maybe we could actually change the world, but as long as we're still slumming with NVM, and giving them what they want, they have the power. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 12:11 PM |
| 14 | She really needs our helpright? stay to wOrK oN iT if you must but please don't breed with subhumans. those genes should NOT go on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 11:20 AM |
| 85 | She really needs our helpa fleet of pigs would be better than this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 11:18 AM |
| 11 | Armie Hammer’s (34) ex girlfriend (22) reveals his canibalistic BDSM fantasies100% agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 11:12 AM |
| 4 | Has anyone had success finding HVM during g pandemic?word. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 01:36 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone had success finding HVM during g pandemic?that really isn't factual in a lot of areas | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 01:35 AM |
| 8 | Has anyone had success finding HVM during g pandemic?you might want to read the handbook. queens don't label one another damaged either. you're not listening to anyone who's responding with wisdom b/c your defenses are up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 01:34 AM |
| 13 | i have no idea why women ghost me after i plan no effort “dates”!!attempt to suck his own sad, flaccid penis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 02:45 PM |
| 16 | i have no idea why women ghost me after i plan no effort “dates”!!he'll die on a hill thinking it's the 5'7 when it's really FDS QUEENS blocking and deleting after wANnA COmE sEE mUh PeEN? #fdscatchingon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 02:44 PM |
| 23 | Ah yes, the "good old days" of the 1950s. A time where if a man cheated on his wife, it's HER fault for having an unbleached vagina.this is gold. liars get lye if you are suffering from discolored dirt dick, and women run away in horror, don't despair, repair! our product is guaranteed to clean you up in no time for the low payment of $99/month. January is incel incentive month with an additional 10% off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 01:11 AM |
| 15 | Ah yes, the "good old days" of the 1950s. A time where if a man cheated on his wife, it's HER fault for having an unbleached vagina.lmmfao. anointing with holy he shall not wander water | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 01:05 AM |
| 61 | Ah yes, the "good old days" of the 1950s. A time where if a man cheated on his wife, it's HER fault for having an unbleached vagina.sweat covered ballsacks and unwashed ass is fine tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 01:03 AM |
| 165 | Ah yes, the "good old days" of the 1950s. A time where if a man cheated on his wife, it's HER fault for having an unbleached vagina.I am so thankful to have been born in the 80s. can you imagine the 40-50s? date a guy for 6 months, marry him. mask drops, he's a monster. you're already pregnant and stuck with no way out. grateful for the women who paved the way to the rights we enjoy today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 01:00 AM |
| 87 | How I’m feeling getting out of a six year relationship, relieved I didn’t marry him before he showed his true self (captioned video)where's the lie? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 12:57 AM |
| 209 | Yes. We don't owe men anything.If men spent 1/4 of the time they spend talking shit, gaslighting, manipulating and jerking to porn learning women's bodies, the answer might not be a resounding hell yes but here we are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 11:35 PM |
| 68 | Take a wild guess as to why he suddenly sprung this on her...cheating or planning to/trying to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 09:24 PM |
| 36 | They will leave you for older women too.. And your looks won't determine how he is going to treat you 🌹girl, I feel you. my ex talked MAD shit about a mutual friend. called her a toothless bridge troll (she has bad teeth), said she reeked of cigs and undigested alcohol (she is an alcoholic) and that he would rather take a cheese grater to his dick than sleep with her. guess who he's banging now? they lie like they breathe and the sooner you realize this, the better off you'll be (sorry to be harsh). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 02:43 PM |
| 24 | They will leave you for older women too.. And your looks won't determine how he is going to treat you 🌹cuz they peak there, if you can even call it peaking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Beware of Loser Gold-Digging Menlift=I have 2 20lb weights under my bed covered in layers of dust and an ab wheel from QVC that I tried once in my closet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 11:27 PM |
| 10 | Beware of Loser Gold-Digging MenI'm glad you got outta there sis, that is twisted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 11:25 PM |
| 25 | Kevin Samuels - “A woman who has had a baby has no right to make a “HVM” man wait for sex if she had the child with a “LVM” in the past”. My heart is breaking at this😭Cheat and divorce of course | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:15 PM |
| 15 | Kevin Samuels - “A woman who has had a baby has no right to make a “HVM” man wait for sex if she had the child with a “LVM” in the past”. My heart is breaking at this😭I would never understand the baby momma culture You spelled I'll never understand how low value boys leave women who give them everything including birthing their children, with no consequences wrong. Patriarchy makes "baby momma culture" because it doesn't string absentee fathers up by their broke ass shriveled ballsacks for the world to see and ridicule. Instead scrotes ridicule the hardest working women on the planet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:14 PM |
| 21 | Legal advice OP says she was convinced against her will to have a blowjob, some scrote tries to gaslight a sensible comment. The audacity.this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:26 AM |
| 29 | Legal advice OP says she was convinced against her will to have a blowjob, some scrote tries to gaslight a sensible comment. The audacity.and prevalent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:25 AM |
| 21 | Legal advice OP says she was convinced against her will to have a blowjob, some scrote tries to gaslight a sensible comment. The audacity.tHeY'Re nOT rApIStS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:25 AM |
| 15 | Absolutely heartbreaking. This needs to stop.my ex's exact words were it's not fair for you to ask me not to yell just because it upsets you. you're damaged and bringing old baggage in from your past relationship into ours. no, I did not buy that but the audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Absolutely heartbreaking. This needs to stop.thank god it's not just me. like, do it but don't fucking talk about it. it's like they're 4. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 12:29 AM |
| 5 | I almost believed a man over a woman; thank god for FDSthis. do not believe I've been abused from a strange man: 9.999999/10 times they are the abuser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 07:00 PM |
| 50 | She dodged a massive bullet here.good for you sis, fuck that triangulation noise. my narc ex was convinced everyone wanted him-it was pure delusion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 02:09 PM |
| 89 | She dodged a massive bullet here.There is nothing more pathetic then seeing someone who is 35 say that and believe that. until you're 40 and see disgusting 50yr olds saying the same damn thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 02:08 PM |
| 54 | She dodged a massive bullet here.I look at the OLD age range they choose and it immediately cuts out 9/10 of scrotes. He's 35 and his age range is 18-30? NOPE. He's 40 and age range is 18-27? NOPE. If you live by this you will rarely encounter the typical NVM on OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 02:07 PM |
| 29 | Study: Do women really like anal sex or do they do it for other reasons?I think you were influenced by their pornsickness sis, I'm not sure about you calling yourself pornsick. I did that too when I was way too young-insinuated I'd be into wild, dirty things in order to get validation. You were influenced and coerced. Now you know your strength and your worth. Once women realize that-we're unstoppable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 02:00 PM |
| 8 | Don't reward the bare minimum.I didn't stop praising the minimum until last damn year sis; when you know better, do better. 🕉👊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 01:06 PM |
| 104 | Why you think (most) guys don't understand consent??You should 100% be afraid of most men's motives. Not sorry. 🤷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 02:22 AM |
| 34 | Gaslighting, manipulation and mental abuse in 60 seconds. How much do we bet that he also expects his girlfriends to pay for his food and calls her ride or die when she forgives his cheating?dying at middle school heartbreak-how many times have I heard this?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 11:17 PM |
| 11 | How the Hot Girl with boundaries suddenly becomes invisible ✌️ You become unattractive as soon as they realize they can’t control you with their cheap ‘validation’ and no longer have a reason to lead you on. You are more than enough on your own.damn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 08:57 PM |
| 31 | Older men’s fixation with younger women really boils my kidneysat 40 I can tell you: most men peak at 30 at the latest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 07:48 PM |
| 16 | Older men’s fixation with younger women really boils my kidneysbussing tables | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 07:47 PM |
| 5 | Can we talk about Botox and lip fillers and plastic surgery?Would highly recommend for both-but it's more painful than they tell you. Said feels like hot rubber bands and it's far worse than that. Make sure you get an ice face mask (or 2). Super swol for 2 days and peeling for a few more. Don't know about dermarolling but this was 10x better results than I hoped for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Damn. Please leave him!!!I'm so sorry you went through that sis. Do you have a support system? I struggle with depression too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 06:02 PM |
| 14 | Ladies would we marry a man that keeps a jar of pubes?sis you dodged jeffrey dahmer. that shit is whack | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 05:49 PM |
| 26 | Can we talk about Botox and lip fillers and plastic surgery?Plastic surgery: At 20 I scoffed. At 30 I raised an eyebrow. At 40, I think botox might be in my future. We've all been brainwashed by society's beauty standards but there's a fine line between catering to the male gaze and using it as self care. I got a Co2 laser last year (painful!) and it took years of sun damage off my face. I don't judge personal choices but it hurts me to see so many young, gorgeous women completely oblivious to their own shine and getting procedures that seem extraneous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 05:46 PM |
| 44 | Ladies would we marry a man that keeps a jar of pubes?right?! like just no sis, just no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 02:25 PM |
| 18 | Ladies would we marry a man that keeps a jar of pubes?omg queens, the bar has disappeared into a pube forest-throw that scrote TF out-so nasty! wait-maybe he was making a scrotation device | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 02:23 PM |
| 6 | My Hero: Mary Louise ParkerIkr? I was disappointed but not surprised. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 03:31 AM |
| 16 | How you look in a narcissistic NVM eyes and why you have to leave NOWThis is one of the best descriptions of narcissism I've read (and like most who've met one, I did my mf research for months). Brilliant sis, thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 03:30 AM |
| 8 | I still feel humiliated as if I was a joke from LVM behavioroh sis YOU DID THE RIGHT THING. don't ever doubt. you saved yourself a world of hurt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 10:47 PM |
| 14 | A Man Sends Hookup off With a Bag of Doritos and $40 - PickMes on Twitter: 😍😍😍😍😍😍serious pickme limbo contest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 10:43 PM |
| 33 | A Man Sends Hookup off With a Bag of Doritos and $40 - PickMes on Twitter: 😍😍😍😍😍😍way less worse if just sandwich. $40?!! ouch. are there tier 2 bags with godiva and $200 in the cupboard too? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 10:42 PM |
| 58 | A Man Sends Hookup off With a Bag of Doritos and $40 - PickMes on Twitter: 😍😍😍😍😍😍I feel like this is an LVM bag; NVMs would give you $5, off brand grape or orange soda, a slim jim and HSV2. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 10:40 PM |
| 8 | Can we all stop caring if a woman hits the wall or notI don't mean to sound like ms. polly positive but lately I've been really reexamining my thoughts on physical beauty and where they came from. they ALL come from what I've been told by men/society at large. some of my friends are "mainstream pretty" some aren't. but they are all damn beautiful in my eyes. it's my knee jerk reaction when I see someone say "I'm ugly" to say that there's beauty in all of us, but not trying to patronize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 10:33 PM |
| 16 | My Hero: Mary Louise ParkerI love what I know of her and her work. I never heard her speak ill of the situation when husband Billy Crudup left her, his wife, for Claire Danes when MLP was 8 months prego. Talk about NVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 10:24 PM |
| 3 | This shit just wreaks of self hatred.Yep. Me too. 🤡🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 11:03 AM |
| 9 | Who's the aggressor they're scared of tho? Someone brought that up and someone else claimed "that's irrelevant" 🙄They do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 02:47 AM |
| 5 | Who's the aggressor they're scared of tho? Someone brought that up and someone else claimed "that's irrelevant" 🙄Frightening thought. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 02:46 AM |
| 16 | Who's the aggressor they're scared of tho? Someone brought that up and someone else claimed "that's irrelevant" 🙄How wonderful would it be to only fear animals at night?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 02:45 AM |
| 9 | Who's the aggressor they're scared of tho? Someone brought that up and someone else claimed "that's irrelevant" 🙄Too accurate 🤦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 02:44 AM |
| 7 | Who's the aggressor they're scared of tho? Someone brought that up and someone else claimed "that's irrelevant" 🙄are men really so deadass dumb they don't realize they're scared of other men?🤦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 02:42 AM |
| 38 | boy BYEWe def dated same scrote 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 02:39 AM |
| 44 | Reminder: You are allowed to reject a man for any reason you chooseQueen energy sis 👊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 02:34 AM |
| 8 | Why women keep "losing".excellent post and points. I too cringe at 'the heart wants what it wants' no queen-run :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 04:30 PM |
| 8 | wanna hear how bad it used to be? watch Fran Leibowitz's specialmy mom recently told me as a teacher in the 70s she needed her husband's signature on a pre employment contract from a school that she would not get pregnant during the school year. She also was not allowed to wear pants at this specific job. She had an advanced degree in special education at the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 04:19 PM |
| 29 | wanna hear how bad it used to be? watch Fran Leibowitz's specialAnd modern men (most, if not all) would LOVE to see things regress back to the old ways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 04:17 PM |
| 83 | Get off of OLD!Some things I do instead of OLD: blog, journal, work out, care for my dog, participate in zoom meetups for meditation/self development, read, socialize with HVW virtually. Since July I've lived a 90% male free life and it's been downright amazing. I credit this sub for a lot of my mindset shift. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 04:12 PM |
| 27 | Men have been projecting this ENTIRE TIMEI've also heard if there's grass on the field, play ball from a group of 30yr old men looking at preteens. they DO realize that 10yr olds have pubic hair and periods. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 12:39 AM |
| 30 | Men have been projecting this ENTIRE TIMEoh wait..you can't get anyone of any age. better go online and whine about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 12:36 AM |
| 25 | Men have been projecting this ENTIRE TIMEthey look like kids to me-it's disturbing for sure. I don't think I could date anyone under 35, but men are so distasteful these days I might just not date again, ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 12:35 AM |
| 36 | Another day, another cautionary tale in the relationships sub.perfectly put. this is another reason I run from men on OLD who overuse the word "fun". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 12:27 AM |
| 12 | This sad. We have a second invisible global pandemic happening and its called male narcissismHaha I live in a beach town and smile every single time I see a beach umbrella blowing down the coast because some scrote didn't listen when his woman told him it needs to go in deeper Kyle 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 08:47 PM |
| 94 | Men have been projecting this ENTIRE TIMEMy mom gets hit on at 72. I'm 40 and pretty enough but no model; I could have my pick of 20-50yr olds. But lol why would I?🤷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 08:28 PM |
| 65 | Ladies make sure you are stable before you go into the unstable dating world.I've disengaged completely. It would take a miracle to turn my head these days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 02:02 AM |
| 51 | If I’m happy and I know it, start dating? No thanks!100% this I say that as a former pickme who would look cross eyed at my friends who didn't center their lives around men. Now I'm on the other side of the looking glass. I've wasted decades on unworthy man children who didn't come close to deserving me. #neveragain | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 10:33 PM |
| 50 | My ex was horrible & I wish I had found this place before I met him...I would have been an amazing partner for him. I'm beautiful, I'm smart, I'm humble, I'm kind, respectful, stable etc. I make great money, I own a home, I own a car, I'm young, I'm a bunch of things. I'm sorry you went through that sis, but know that you are an amazing person regardless of what men think of you, regardless of what they do not appreciate. On another note-any man who claims he put his hands on a woman in self defense-RUN FOR THE HILLS IMMEDIATELY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 06:27 PM |
| 7 | She ordered TWO toppings on her ice cream.He then proceeds to eat his food like a mentally challenged alpaca. she really needs to block that scrote with a quickness. but thanks for the laugh :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 06:24 PM |
| 37 | The importance of breaking the cycleI needed to read this today. Left a seemingly HVM 16 months ago due to dead bedroom and me constantly trying to address the issue/suggesting therapy etc..only to be met with sighs, eye rolls and "tHiS aGaIN"? I was made to feel like affection, emotional intimacy and closeness were tOo mUcH while he was trying to get a business off the ground (for over 2 years). I've been wondering if I made the right choice as he *does* have a whole bunch of good qualities (at least compared to the horror of NVM… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 06:18 PM |
| 15 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”lol if he can't use the right you're he damn sure don't know words like impetuous :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 05:52 PM |
| 9 | I don't understand the men that infiltrate this groupThis. They're so skeerd 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 12:26 PM |
| 23 | Is pickmeism actually an unhealed inner child?I think we (women) also have a habit of minimizing what happens to us. As I read this my inner voice was like, "yeah my childhood wasn't that bad. sure my dad was a cheating angry controlling scary asshole but at least they divorced. sure I looked for love with similar jerks until I was 22. but so many people have it way worse." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 12:16 PM |
| 3 | Beware and be safe. This guy is a mid forties something incel who posts on YouTube. His name is Dave. I think men Ike this are time bombs and needs to be put away from society or at the least on a watch list. The language is rough and offensive.Is this what trump is up to since he got kicked off twitter? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 06:08 PM |
| 55 | Why do men refused to love themselves or fix their issues, but demands women do both in the dating world?Make it make sense. You want a girlfriend? You want a woman to come into your shit show of a life. Where you are mentally, emotionally, physically unstable. On top of that hell wouldn't be deep enough for how low your self esteem is. How is that fair? How do you think you are ready for a damn relationship. sis, I feel this in my soul. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 05:40 PM |
| 3 | I want to thank you ladies from the bottom of my heart. You guys potentially saved my life.awesome to hear this! I always wonder if anyone I've tried to steer here makes it. congratulations on a fighting for a life on your terms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 11:20 PM |
| 42 | I'm a day dreamer. And lately I've noticed that in all my day dreams im single 🤷right? I've spent a lot of my adult life living with men and being solo is so freeing. my space, my time, my life; no bullshit, no moods, no one else to fucking worry about. my mom used to say a man should be around in order to take care of you, but I have found the absolute opposite to be true-they take far more than enrich. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 10:20 PM |
| 29 | If a man says he was abusedAlso: if he says "it takes a lot to get me mad and she knew just how to do it" or any variation. He is an abuser. RUN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 03:42 AM |
| 24 | If a man says he was abused100%. RUN if a man leads with this. And by leads, I mean mentions in the first few weeks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 03:40 AM |
| 6 | We bow to no oneeloquent. and damn straight | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 03:38 AM |
| 29 | Oh no no... I have no words, just down votes..how to you find the time? I've had to reschedule 6 orgies just this week due to work :( Hope to fit in 1-2 gangbangs this weekend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 04:37 PM |
| 82 | LMAOOO 😂😂😂 from r/wheresmyWAIFUwhere's the lie? I've seen pretty dicks before but I have never seen an "attractive" scrote sack, even if it's shaved and tight and cologned, it's still pretty gnarly, imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 12:56 PM |
| 5 | Casual misogyny on reddit once again, I still don't get the cat lady trope...Lol is it me, cuz this looks far better than living with a gross, emotionally abusive porn sick cheater? And no woman I've ever known goes to bed with dirty dishes in the sink. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 12:13 PM |
| 35 | Divorced old scrote has a sob story, but wait! His post history tells a different storyBut sis, trying to show your ex how to treat a woman through another scrote's reddit posts? 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 12:01 PM |
| 5 | Him: let's just see where this is going! Let's not put a label on things 😊. Me:destinations do not include rapey field walks or broke ass coffee dates. recalculating route. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:21 AM |
| 57 | Circle the Liemen are so emotional, they really should just calm down and fold the laundry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:17 AM |
| 12 | Understand? YoU’rE sOcIoPaThS, nOt NoRmAL!!I wonder if there's part of them that knows how unrealistic both are-porn, because no perfect 10 woman would give them the time of day, let alone be overjoyed to have terrible sex with them. And romance, because they know that 99% of men fucking suck and are incapable of giving even the bare minimum of treatment, much less treasuring the woman they love. Hence, conflating both as "fairy tales". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 12:59 PM |
| 22 | Here is a picture of the men who stormed the Capitol building today:right? I can smell unwashed hair, ripe ass and moldy earwax from here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 12:50 PM |
| 20 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?10/10 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 12:11 PM |
| 12 | Nailed it!! It’s their birth right to objectify and disrespect their partner. So stop being insecure and accept your mistreatmentif you're friends with a man he wants to fuck you. I'd love to be proven wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 12:45 AM |
| 43 | [Rant] Men are far more 'high maintenance' than any 'high maintenance' woman I've ever metfucking monster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 12:18 AM |
| 35 | "You can't turn a hoe into a housewife" is a LIE and is pure projection. The truth is that you can't turn a fuckboy into a husband, because we live in a culture where promiscuous men have zero incentive to change.realizing this at 40 is a total mindfuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 12:15 AM |
| 9 | French culture and menthey are wicked charming though, the handful I've met, so guard up sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 12:00 AM |
| 8 | Does anyone have any tips for beating lonelinesslol right? get a dog-they love everything you do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 11:56 PM |
| 8 | Did it ever hit you that in your pickme days you didn’t date one man who was “your type” and you dropped your standards of physical attraction so much?ikr? how do they not look down and notice? oh. wait. they do notice and just don't care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 11:54 PM |
| 7 | I deserve more.damn right you do sis. anything else is a waste of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 11:25 PM |
| 9 | Back to the FDS Basics for anyone new hereYep. Abusers handbook. Wish I knew that long ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 05:40 PM |
| 7 | Back to the FDS Basics for anyone new hereSuch a good distinction. I realized any trepidation is bad and warm excitement is good. Sometimesit's hard to discern between anxiety and anticipation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 05:33 PM |
| 18 | Back to the FDS Basics for anyone new hereFinding FDS after my decade plus relationship ended was a lifesaver. I'd also recommend reading Women Don't Owe You Pretty by Florence Givens. Queens helping queens 👊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 05:31 PM |
| 75 | This is why you shouldn’t have babies with men you aren’t married to.this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 04:10 PM |
| 35 | In other news, at least 64% of women are delusional pickmes.a fuckboi is not a husband | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 04:09 PM |
| 191 | Women are WAKING UP! 👑 found this on r/sex 👀men don't even want communication. they would be happy if women were silent fuck dolls who cook and clean. prove me wrong, I'm begging you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 04:05 PM |
| 9 | Accuratepreach sis. #childfreeforlife | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 04:02 PM |
| 14 | So this women who suffer's from loneliness and social anxiety (check her oldest videos) travelled across the world to meet a guy she met online. She paid for all the travel expenses and went to meet him in the middle of a pandemic YIKES. Does he give you red flags?She shouldn't even entertain him imo. Girl is beautiful and dynamic and doesn't seem to see it in herself 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 12:12 PM |
| 12 | Random Things That Are An Immediate Swipe LeftMentioning feminism, disc golf or his income (Those who make money don't need to shout about it). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 12:07 PM |
| 29 | Random Things That Are An Immediate Swipe Leftfun also means sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 12:03 PM |
| 9 | Random Things That Are An Immediate Swipe Leftwhy do they do that? It's so unattractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 12:03 PM |
| 13 | Random Things That Are An Immediate Swipe LeftdDlG harharhar. Miss me with that you 50yr old jackhammer creeper who never located the clit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 12:02 PM |
| 11 | Random Things That Are An Immediate Swipe LeftI have an aussie question. Been talking to one who is vegan and doesn't drink and claims it's difficult to find similar. I'm skeptical as there are far more vegan women than men however there is more of a stigma for vegan men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 12:01 PM |
| 25 | Random Things That Are An Immediate Swipe LeftCan confirm no drama = I'll manufacture all of it and gaslight the fuck out of you for my pleasure. Run from any mention of drama immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 11:59 AM |
| 70 | Random Things That Are An Immediate Swipe LeftI'm so happy when I see queens here from 40 onward. We may be late to fds party but I'm damn glad to be here 🕉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 11:56 AM |
| 215 | The bar is in hell.my partner doesn't want to hurt me during sex OMG where did you find that king?!!!! Jesus Christ. The bar is gone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 11:52 AM |
| 3 | I don’t understand the obsession with wanting to live with menI feel this comment in my marrow sis; same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 11:22 PM |
| 19 | I don’t understand the obsession with wanting to live with men100% agree. I will die on the cohabitation is the death of romance hill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 11:20 PM |
| 14 | I don’t understand the obsession with wanting to live with menthere's no better feeling in the world than your very own safe space. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 11:15 PM |
| 7 | I don’t understand the obsession with wanting to live with menexactly this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 10:34 PM |
| 23 | A question to FDS members: why do you think there are women who are against FDS?it's almost like we've been conditioned to be forgiving, nurturing mother/lovers for men from damn near birth. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 08:22 PM |
| 51 | A question to FDS members: why do you think there are women who are against FDS?once you realize how worthless most men are their attention loses all value tho :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 08:21 PM |
| 121 | A question to FDS members: why do you think there are women who are against FDS?FDS can be a harsh as hell wake up call to our own former or current cool girl/pickme behavior. You need to be able to think critically and unemotionally about men, feminism and life for you to grasp the full scope of FDS principles. It's easier to hate it. That requires no deep dive into our own issues like being conditioned to be a blindly nurturing libfem bangmaid. I nearly choked when I read the handbook. It was a scalding hot gulp of coffee on my porn apologizing, NVM idolizing tongue. You … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 08:19 PM |
| 39 | Ladies, how much do men you date tend to spend on you, per month, during the early phase?I hope she doesn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 08:14 PM |
| 8 | Queen Energy Tuesdaybetter call Tyrone...but you can't use my phone ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 06:38 PM |
| 6 | Not to be unkind, but the man looks like the Geico gecko was left in a hot car for a few hours.5'11=5'8 I'd bet my IRA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 06:34 PM |
| 69 | PSA: Remember ladies, men always think they’re WAY better looking then they actually are and ugly men WILL treat women more attractive then them badly.wHaT aRE yOu dOInG WiTh mE? I dOn't dESerVe yOu. no Brad you sure as fuck don't, bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 09:49 AM |
| 7 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?I learnt how to break someone's windpipe and fought neo-nazis in the streets of Europe with a feminist group. fuck yes where do I sign up? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 02:13 AM |
| 6 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?lmfao. bearded hatmen=make-up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 01:17 AM |
| 11 | Derrick is such a male FDS supporter! 🙌 #realitycheck #straightfactspreach sis. you can be lonely next to someone and completely content alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 01:08 AM |
| 36 | Don’t be Weak PreyI was just going to say it's great to protect yourself against a strange predator but also be aware of the probable predator sleeping beside you, slowly killing you so smoothly you don't even realize he's breaking you down until he's halfway done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 01:02 AM |
| 21 | Don’t be Weak Preymine too. which is why we need a damn database. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 01:00 AM |
| 33 | Don’t be Weak PreyHe’s not some magical, once in a life-time dude, he’s some centaur guy I dated for a few months. This entire thing is gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 12:58 AM |
| 20 | They never change! Abusive husband on fetlifeGood for you sis, be careful. Protect yourself and go NC. Stay safe and strong and you will be on the other side of this before you know it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 12:47 AM |
| 50 | Wife Accidentally Burned By Scrote Husband Claims He Split Because He Couldn't Dealyeah there was something creepy about his composure. married just a few months? she sees behind his mask..maybe she was breaking things off with him and it was intentional? regardless, she is fucking amazing. and he has not been inconvenienced in the slightest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 12:44 AM |
| 76 | Can we talk about how conventionally unattractive men manipulate their way into dating a woman completely out of their league, and then destroy her self-esteem so she starts to believe this scrote is the prize when really she is.I'm so sorry he did that to you sis 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 09:47 PM |
| 48 | Can we talk about how conventionally unattractive men manipulate their way into dating a woman completely out of their league, and then destroy her self-esteem so she starts to believe this scrote is the prize when really she is.So much exact this. Beware of the guy who was just never enough for his ex. Seriously RUN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 09:46 PM |
| 42 | No thankswe need to make this term go viral: ain't nobody want that unimpressive, dusty ole' flaccid, porn sick community dick Brad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 09:27 PM |
| 52 | No thanksyep. I feel like I've been conditioned since birth to be a puppet of the patriarchy, replete with training in being a cool girl pickme from my parents, media, friends, teachers, school, entertainment etc..I'm unlearning it but fuck, it's years of programming to throw off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 09:25 PM |
| 51 | No thanksit's so unfair. I live in a beach town and see beautiful, fit as fuck women 50-80 on a regular basis. 99.9% of the time the men they are with are short, stooped, hairy, fat, and far, far older looking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 09:19 PM |
| 2 | The trope of the broody, mysterious, damaged, bad boy who deep down just needs to be loved by a woman and he’ll be saved needs to die.she's awesome. seems to tackle modern relationship issues with aplomb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 09:07 PM |
| 20 | If you ever think about going back, draw him and write what you hate about him.It's it wrong that I feel like this describes 90% of men on OLD? 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 01:18 PM |
| 6 | "All the Time I Wasted Trying to Please Indifferent Men": Former Bloomberg journalist leaves husband for Pharma Bro Martin Shkreli - who then dumped her through his lawyerssis, that is so beautifully put and I relate to every single syllable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 09:41 PM |
| 18 | If you catch feelings easily, this might help! Stay strong! >:)THIS!!! Even someone I knew > 10 years and considered HVM didn't believe in the wage gap Can someone tell them their belief in something has no fucking bearing on whether it's truth?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 11:52 AM |
| 16 | If you catch feelings easily, this might help! Stay strong! >:)Also be very wary of any white scrote bringing up "Irish slaves" in discussions about race/BLM. They are racist scum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 11:47 AM |
| 12 | Yesterday morning I closed on a house. Yesterday evening I was dumped via text. This is not a coincidence.Hell yes girl! You are on🔥! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 03:22 PM |
| 4 | How men act towards disabled and "weak" womenThank you for sharing those experiences. It's always illuminating to see how depraved they really are. I've finally stopped being surprised. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 11:22 AM |
| 4 | Ladies, what are some of the things women should know about pregnancy and giving birth, but that society keeps quiet on?Yep. Had one at 8 weeks. It was uncanny tho because I knew right away-my stomach turned rock hard and I couldn't even go down stairs my breasts were so tender and sore. But no permanent changes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 11:13 AM |
| 7 | Risk meeting a moocher at best or Ted Bundy at worst unless you want to be left on the shelf, ladies!Lol that description is golden accuracy. It's a cesspool; hot summer day in the middle of a garbage strike. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 10:55 AM |
| 5 | I can’t believe how the comments are encouraging this guy to ask for “consent”, he attempted to rape his GF when she was asleepTHIS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 03:01 AM |
| 5 | I know checklists are passé but I keep them and update red flags.it's because they value truth I imagine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 02:54 AM |
| 7 | Shallow Hal is now my lifeThank you so much. I aspire to but if blog is any indication, just not most people's cup of tea 🤷🕉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 11:25 PM |
| 14 | Shallow Hal is now my lifeHmm did he date a17yr old when he was 23? Hit on a 17yr old at 30? Could very well be same. this is why we need a database | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 11:24 PM |
| 8 | Shallow Hal is now my lifeMy dream job 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 11:23 PM |
| 10 | Shallow Hal is now my lifethank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:05 PM |
| 18 | Shallow Hal is now my lifeAspie ex was diagnosed as a young adult. He presents as someone who cannot really understand how emotions work. Like he had a very difficult time comprehending social cues and speaking from a place of compassion. It was not malicious or intentional in any way and it has definitely affected his life and relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 02:24 PM |
| 39 | Think long and hard before dating a gamer😂😂you called it; chairs are always musty and ever so slightly damp, ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 01:02 PM |
| 42 | Shallow Hal is now my lifeI still have a lot of love for my "aspie" ex as a human being and should point out that he was in no way indicative of all or most aspie people. honestly going from aspie to narc felt like going from having a kinda bad day to burning alive in the 7th ring of hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 12:56 PM |
| 18 | Following FDS is a major test of your self-esteemthat hit hard. you're so right-maybe we really only find places like this when we're at the level where we can take it in and internalize it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 11:44 AM |
| 44 | What to say when men tell you you’re so pretty 😍😍😍Needs to be pinned. this is gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 11:41 AM |
| 14 | NVM expects her to practically hand feed him every meal. I have no words.Sorry you're going through that sis 🕉💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:15 AM |
| 63 | Raise your hand if you’ve been personally asked to fly/drive across the country to meet a man. Do some pickmes actually do this? Is this a real thing that happens?This is how we get chained in basements. No judgement as I've made choices as dangerous in the past. I think as we grow and value ourselves and our safety more we're more cognizant of the dangers. But please ladies, assume they are bad until they prove otherwise and not vice versa-it will save your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:03 AM |
| 72 | Why More Women Are Saying No to Casual Sexyou mean all of them? 🤦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 09:26 PM |
| 35 | Why More Women Are Saying No to Casual SexIt's literally like saying why would you want to eat when you can just cook and watch someone enjoy the food you made? ffs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 09:25 PM |
| 14 | Losing "hand"Yep. They really do tell on themselves unfortunately we can be a lil love drunk and try to wish away red flags. Pre FDS of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 09:23 PM |
| 186 | The sooner they get their robots the better for usOmg. I just got a startlingly clear vision of that future. They would all still watch porn even if porn was all men fucking rubber dolls. Jesus. Anyone else Want to start an intentional women's community? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 09:16 PM |
| 14 | Why the sex positive movement reinforces inequality displayed using the example of oral sexWhen I was last dating, over a decade ago, men still felt damn lucky to get blown and anal was like going to Disneyland. I made a dude wait 2 months before sex and got no raised eyebrows. Shit has changed hardcore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 08:27 PM |
| 15 | My ex telling me I "have" to talk to him. I only reply if its about our son.It's so refreshing being around women who instantly call out this bullshit instead of pander to it or tRY tO cOMmUnIcaTe 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 08:12 PM |
| 30 | My ex tried to come back and this is the exact reason why I left him in the dumpster where he belongsHahaha they fucking love to call us abusers. Go cry Simon, go victimize your scrote self some more poor widdle bb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 07:01 PM |
| 13 | Where do they get any of this from?Like men need mods to convince us that men FUCKING SUCK Lol y'all convince us your damn selves. 🤦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 06:59 PM |
| 10 | Where do they get any of this from?It's a dude. No woman would have that handle. And I've never seen a post that leads with I was abused. If anything fds helps clarify that the abhorrent behavior women have been putting up with, for years in most cases, is, in fact, abuse. Just scrote lies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 06:57 PM |
| 58 | He just asked for nudes from another girl... but it's okay, he's VeRy LoYaL and he's a ReScUeR! Scrotes starting young these daysin 23 years he'll be just as bad as my nex-he's already perfected word salad, gaslighting, blame shifting, manipulation and victimhood before he can even vote! where are the proud parents of this shinning example of scrotacity? fuck the future of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:58 PM |
| 3 | Just broke up with an otherwise HVM due to porn use...you just legit broke my one remaining straw of hope for male decency existing. fml. I think I feel more betrayed by that than my actual ex sleeping with everything that moved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:49 PM |
| 16 | I don't understand the point of this situationship, getting anxiety over a delayed text, knowing its gonna be over on his term, letting him take up space, for what?I'm in exact same position and mindset for life. any companion I have will have to be ok never living together/married/etc..if coupling stops being fun/inspirational/awesome I'm done with it. I have been 100% upfront about this and people still get butthurt and I'm over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:44 PM |
| 6 | Imagine being this simple. Women do not exist to have children, serve men, or make a family for anyone. Women are free to exist on their own terms outside of societal expectations. He'll have to die alone along with his outdated worldview.ducks are awesome and underrated AF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:40 PM |
| 10 | Andddd this is why we don’t date based on “potential.” Actions > words and big dreamsyep. it may sound odd but I am my own biggest fan now. all of the time, adoration and energy I put into men (for literal decades), I am now focusing directly on myself. it *does* feel weird at first, ngl. But just last night, thinking about some major life changes coming, I'm like you're a fucking badass and you can do anything you set your mind to. It works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:36 PM |
| 7 | Andddd this is why we don’t date based on “potential.” Actions > words and big dreamsha-same. outside, in winter. lol, can confidently say it's only gotten better from there though :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:33 PM |
| 30 | Andddd this is why we don’t date based on “potential.” Actions > words and big dreamsI mean, with a name like that though, what else could he even be? Probably still shakes and cries about being called Lauren on the playground 35 years ago, poor widdle bb boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:31 PM |
| 11 | His friends say a lot about him. Have you ever peeped a group chat?me too. my hope meter isn't even activated, I'm just like <cough> bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:26 PM |
| 16 | His friends say a lot about him. Have you ever peeped a group chat?that's rough but relatable. my ex trashed his exes and I was so different. Lol. Bet he's been trashing me for months. I'll never fall for that one again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:25 PM |
| 14 | His friends say a lot about him. Have you ever peeped a group chat?I feel like we can't win though. Either men have a group of vile bros they hang with OR all of their friends are women. My ex had tons women friends and while he wasn't flirting/entertaining any they were ex's or old crushes or some such shit. Honestly I've never dated a guy who has good decent kind friends with no past sexual tension involved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:23 PM |
| 26 | I did a bit of googling on attractive men vs unattractive men as romantic partners and lol at the search resultseven when you try to google feminist memes or radical feminist memes all you see is anti-feminist stuff. You have to scroll way down. I thought I was being paranoid. But no. Strangely enough, it almost seems like the entire society is stacked against women. Go figure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:16 PM |
| 47 | "WhAt dO yOu bRiNg tO tHe tAbLe????" Everything else, moron. Lol!I am a woman, I am a luxury-damn straight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:03 PM |
| 121 | “Women mature faster than men” is one of the most violent and abusive rhetorics used to excuse the behaviors of men and punish women/girls.that hit hard. I feel damn near groomed by society y'all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 12:54 AM |
| 5 | Thoughts on “My SO is my best friend”?agreed. learned that the hard way, | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 12:52 AM |
| 40 | Thoughts on “My SO is my best friend”?NVMs are also really good at isolating you and creating drama in friend groups in order to separate you from your support system. Beware of guys who disparage your family and friends and try to foster a you and me against the world attitude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 12:51 AM |
| 235 | An oldie but a goodie. 31 year old man tries hit on a group of teenagers. Gets called a predator and argues with them instead of just leaving. Proceeds to get bullied by same group of teenagers 😂fuck yes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 12:36 AM |
| 193 | An oldie but a goodie. 31 year old man tries hit on a group of teenagers. Gets called a predator and argues with them instead of just leaving. Proceeds to get bullied by same group of teenagers 😂am I the only one who thinks this guy's utter obtuseness is actually WAY more common than we even think? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 12:35 AM |
| 108 | "MeN dOnT gEt AnY CoMpLiMeNtS"aww he's trying so hard to grow a little stubble for all that chin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 12:32 AM |
| 21 | 2021 is for me and me onlyyep. you don't see how much LVM energy drags you down until you cut it out. I'm practically fucking airborne now, 6 months later :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 12:03 AM |
| 7 | 2021 is for me and me onlyyessss queen! take this year to know and cherish yourself first and foremost. If they don't add value to our lives, no need for them hanging around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 11:59 PM |
| 10 | What in Fresh PickMe Hell is This?me too but I have to think they stopped that b/c my younger friends either straight up do not care, think they're immune or think "everyone has something"(yes, I've heard that from multiple women-I'd only expect that nonsense from men). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:16 PM |
| 21 | Just broke up with an otherwise HVM due to porn use...Lundy needs to clone himself before he dies cuz he's about the only male I trust these days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:11 PM |
| 31 | Just broke up with an otherwise HVM due to porn use...ha! we should legit counter with this! I need to see hundreds of wet, throbbing, 10inch, coke can erections in all colors under the sun before I bang you Brad, you cool with that? Aww don't feel bad baby, yours is just as good but in a different way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:09 PM |
| 7 | When ugly old men remove themselves from the dating pool >>>I bought myself a Feminist AF ballcap (amazon-cheap) and it is legit NVM/LVM repellent. Made a post months ago about how to be polite while telling guys to fuck off-this hat does it for you. No one wants to date you Simon but thanks for allowing women to believe in feminism without offending you, lmfao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:03 PM |
| 15 | Being angry at men is not "counterproductive." It is an essential component of your level-up journey. Properly recognizing abuse and having an appropriate emotional reaction to abuse is essential to the healing process.I forwarded this to all of my girlfriends. A fucking MEN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 09:58 PM |
| 15 | Went to retrieve my belongings from ex's place. He threw my things at me, did this 🙏, and slammed the door in my face.Sorry girl. It hurts now but trust you are so much better off without that shit. He gave you nothing of value and nothing you can't provide for yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 09:53 PM |
| 18 | Merry Ex-masOmg hon-I'm really proud of you! Look at all of that personal growth and knowing your worth-go girl! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Sex Pozzy Columnist Nadia Bokody defends PornHub and says that our conflicting feelings on porn are because we’ve been “taught women couldn’t be powerful & sexual”(link in pic#5). I took screenshots of all the “EmPoWeRmEnt” from the hottest US videos on PornHub.My lease is up soon-lol I would SO go on the road to promote FDS. Thought about Florence Given's publisher too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 05:05 PM |
| 93 | Misogynistic scrote wants neurosurgeon wife to do all the housework. Tired wife hires a maid with her own money. Scrote calls it financial abuses. You cannot make this shit up 🤦🏻♀️All I keep thinking of is Grey's Anatomy where powerful women simp for scrotes all day :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 04:59 PM |
| 5 | Julian Casablancas, left his wife of 15 years for a 21 yr old roadie.I've met great people volunteering (I know a lot of people don't have time) at animal shelters and DV shelters in the past. Kind looney folks but big hearted and not caught up in dating type drama. Good for you girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 04:40 PM |
| 259 | I found a child porn sub and reported to the FBIbut the people we trust to put names on lists are the same scrotes upvoting :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 04:36 PM |
| 62 | Misogynistic scrote wants neurosurgeon wife to do all the housework. Tired wife hires a maid with her own money. Scrote calls it financial abuses. You cannot make this shit up 🤦🏻♀️Respect and rationality are disappearing and being replaced with the cloak of victimhood. beautifully put. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 04:34 PM |
| 234 | Misogynistic scrote wants neurosurgeon wife to do all the housework. Tired wife hires a maid with her own money. Scrote calls it financial abuses. You cannot make this shit up 🤦🏻♀️and that a woman of that caliber would put up with this scrotacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 04:33 PM |
| 23 | Misogynistic scrote wants neurosurgeon wife to do all the housework. Tired wife hires a maid with her own money. Scrote calls it financial abuses. You cannot make this shit up 🤦🏻♀️I wish this was a joke with my whole heart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 04:32 PM |
| 10 | Repost from another sub, good reminder for ex-religious ladies. I know it’s hard to move past all of the ingrained sexism and misogyny sometimes but I’m here to tell you; You’re not wrong, THEY are.ugh. I hate history. were we ever not monsters to one another? Let me rephrase that: were men ever not monsters? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:28 PM |
| 4 | Julian Casablancas, left his wife of 15 years for a 21 yr old roadie.that house selling wife is a fucking queen! :) I dated musicians for decades,only 1 semi decent one in the whole rotten bunch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:26 PM |
| 17 | Julian Casablancas, left his wife of 15 years for a 21 yr old roadie.if I had my 20s back I would focus on myself, my life and my success (whatever that looks like to you) 100% instead of wasting over a decade in shitty relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Julian Casablancas, left his wife of 15 years for a 21 yr old roadie.but Thuston cheated? I thought I read that in her memoir? Maybe I have my angsty 90s bands mixed up. Ugh. nope. Her memoir was awesome. https://www.bkmag.com/2014/03/07/thurston-moore-is-a-dick-but-not-just-because-he-cheated-on-kim-gordon/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:20 PM |
| 78 | A few reasons you should say no to the Hobo-sapiansSo accurate. Took me a LONG time to learn (anyone else exclusively date broke musicians for decades, lol). Hot and sweet was always way more important than has a job and life plan. Don't be me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:12 PM |
| 116 | 5 years of having her in his life and he has no scruples lying and withholding the state of his sexual health from her, possibly twice. what the fuck.From what I know we should assume every man has HPV. They are silent carriers who can't be tested accurately without an outbreak (pls tell me I'm wrong in my research). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:08 PM |
| 4 | Support women with your wallet.I'm in a major US city known for it's diversity. I'm sure it's harder elsewhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:48 AM |
| 8 | Support women with your wallet.I so wish I was an app developer because everyone I know would use this. But men would co opt out unless we kept it under wraps; the underground no rape railroad. You know a pickme would spill. 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:47 AM |
| 2 | Support women with your wallet.I'd just filled out forms a few hours ago so I took your comment as the universe giving me a fist bump 🕉💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:45 AM |
| 6 | NEVER trust a male who says he is a feminist. They're either saying it to get into your pants, or as an attempt to earn social brownie points as we can see here.Yep and you clearly see how many men are in therapy to repair these wounds their patriarchy had elicited. None. It must be our job to repair them. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:40 AM |
| 7 | NEVER trust a male who says he is a feminist. They're either saying it to get into your pants, or as an attempt to earn social brownie points as we can see here.This. So much this. They had the most incredible Christmas present ever and broke it into a million pieces. Now you're crying that you don't get more gifts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:39 AM |
| 9 | NEVER trust a male who says he is a feminist. They're either saying it to get into your pants, or as an attempt to earn social brownie points as we can see here.THIS is why we need a database of names ladies. My violent narc ex presents like a mild unassuming good guy and he's the first one to scream I'm a feminist yet we can't expose them? I say name and shame. Even if it's just initials, description, age, profession, and city. I swear we're dating the same busted scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:37 AM |
| 26 | Support women with your wallet.Your dad knows what's up. If you have to have a male instructor would your dad be able to join? Dad is not wrong that it would be fertile ground for instructor to attempt to prey on young women. I understand your impatience though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:59 AM |
| 15 | Support women with your wallet.yes!! I just filled out forms to start volunteering at one near me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:56 AM |
| 5 | The Cycle of Sexual Frustrationoh sis, I'm sorry you went through that. But so glad you know that it was his fault and not your failing now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:48 AM |
| 35 | Guys who tell you that 'you're not like other women' are a RED FLAG. STAY CLEAR. This poem always makes me smile. I'm seriously no longer pick-me :)I love Nikita Gill. My narc ex had completely unbelievable "examples" of things "his crazy exes" supposedly said and I called out every single one with no woman would ever say that and women have more class than that, we don't speak like that. When you listen to most men, they are entirely full of shit when they try to reiterate how we talk or what we say. Either they don't listen or they just make shit up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:08 AM |
| 59 | NEVER trust a male who says he is a feminist. They're either saying it to get into your pants, or as an attempt to earn social brownie points as we can see here.I now automatically run from any man who says he's a feminist. HVM will demonstrate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 11:59 PM |
| 35 | Support women with your wallet.Ikr? I know it's not always realistic in emergencies, but I always look for women if possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 11:40 PM |
| 7 | This one speaks for itself...Yep, he's the guy that stands there watching other guys take wasted women into frat rooms sadly shaking his head but also ruefully chuckling. Thinking he's a good guy. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 12:26 PM |
| 9 | This one speaks for itself...Me too. I'm gen x and firmly believe I was expected and conditioned to like men. They're abhorrent and I'm taking a page from Florence Givens and interrogating, examining and exploring my sexuality. If I'm even a lil bit bi, then bye boys cuz I can't fucking stand you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 12:23 PM |
| 14 | Iggy Azaelea’s NVM picked videogames over being there for the birth of his child 🤡sHe'S a wHOrE wHo sHOuLD hAvE kEpT HeR lEGs sHuT. Ps5>babies that's the depth of their thought process. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 12:13 PM |
| 51 | Pornsick Limp Dick LVM shift blame to his VIRGIN wifeLady bits are gorgeous flowers and we get struck looking at dirty, crusty, 300 year old wrinkled skin and foot long hair covered scrotums?!! Fuck that. All men should pay just to gaze at pussy let alone anything else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 12:04 PM |
| 5 | LVM letting his family harass his girlfriend and then says they were just jokingI truly hope he dies from necrotizing fasciitis that starts on his miniscule dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 03:04 PM |
| 42 | I just realized that "nOT aLL mEN" includes male family members and I'm floored.yessss girl-it's a damn hard pill to swallow. I'm still not sure I've ever met or been related to a true HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 10:13 PM |
| 75 | My marriage is coming to an end and I told my husband something today that I wish I knew years ago.It sounds to me that you're bringing up issues and patterns over and over again and he is not listening to you, validating your feelings or addressing the issues. I was with a very calm and detached partner for years who always said I was crazy and too sensitive for bringing up my needs not being met and his inability or unwillingness to discuss serious issues. If he doesn't care about how you feel, he is not the one for you. You are not being histrionic by stating your needs. If he belittles th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 11:44 AM |
| 42 | Does anyone hate dating single dads?meanwhile the opposite is true for single moms-they are the badass warriors who chose to kick trash out even when they could have used help the most. I hate the "single mom's suck" trope; they are some of the strongest women on the earth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 11:35 AM |
| 104 | Does anyone hate dating single dads?Every 40-65 dude on OLD: want kids? maybe with the right person. Ew. Ain't nobody want your fugly dusty sperm, Simon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Of all the Horrible Things I’ve seen from Men on Reddit, r/DeadEyes is the one that broke medone. thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 12:49 AM |
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