Another post that demonstrates why it’s good to weary of so-called male ‘friends’. It always come back to sex and whether they see you as bangable or not.

luvmyvulvaxoxo · 2021-02-19T17:39:55+00:00

Can you imagine having sex with not one but TWO men you aren't even attracted to??? I'm sure her fantasy is men focusing on her pleasure and loving her.

How's she going to get off with a fat tummy pummeling her back AND her stomach? Or kissing not one but TWO men who don't brush?

Women are physically and emotionally coerced enough by men. Can you imagine saying no to TWO men who are grabbing at you? Most women can't even say "no" to men they trust let alone two assholes who might secretly film you.

LadyGrimes · 2021-02-19T16:48:21+00:00

They aren't your friends, dear. They never were.

donttextme_k · 2021-02-19T17:05:24+00:00

I would feel grossed and creeped if any of my guy friends asked me this. Immediately blocked

ASeaOfQuotes · 2021-02-19T16:58:00+00:00

What the actual fuck. How in the world is she even considering it? If you’re going to let yourself be used, at least do it with someone you find attractive. 🤦‍♀️

MACMUA · 2021-02-19T17:41:23+00:00

They are like alligators

They chill right above the murky water. They don’t even blink cause they don’t want their prey to notice that they are there. They do this for days, just floating but always watching.

Then at the right time they attack. They are so calm for hours and hours before the attack but that doesn’t mean they aren’t going to try to eat their prey.

They are exactly like this! No no no no stay far away from men who try to capitalize when you are vulnerable

BlazingHazard · 2021-02-19T17:01:07+00:00

"I value their friendship" there's no friendship sis, you are meat to them

spinsterchachkies · 2021-02-19T17:12:05+00:00

They are trying to exploit her at her most vulnerable moment. This is utter garbage

coldfoot23 · 2021-02-19T17:11:13+00:00

They’re just sharks out for blood sis.

Ngwanuza · 2021-02-19T16:58:05+00:00

I literally cleansed my life of half my so called male friends....it's creepy, opportunistic and just meh

lucidlotus · 2021-02-19T18:49:19+00:00

In a man's mind, a breakup of a woman friend = "now's my chance." No regard for what's best for her.

West-Cook · 2021-02-19T17:15:36+00:00

Not gonna lie, when I was between relationships, it was definitely a fantasy of mine to have a threesome with two partners focusing on me. But it was hard enough to find even 1, and the kind of men who want threesomes want to bond with another man over degrading the same woman, or to have two women fighting over him. So needless to say it was a fantasy I never brought to life.

millennialpink2000 · 2021-02-19T18:07:11+00:00

Also, there's no way these "friends" will ever look at her the same again. She'll always be the sl*t they had the 3some with, eroding the sliver of respect they were pretending to have

Apricot_Ibex · 2021-02-19T20:15:32+00:00

"I value their friendship." And they "value" you as a warm body with female genitalia.

She already admitted neither of them are even hot, so why even consider it? Not to mention their horrible personalities. What's the point except feeling falsely obligated to these losers? They know she is upset and vulnerable- fucking vultures.

They would probably hide a camera in the room so they could upload their little "trophy" to PornHub to match all the thousands of such vids they routinely beat their baby carrots to.

KateJ1982 · 2021-02-19T18:47:47+00:00

She thinks these are good friends even after they admit they have discussed behind her back how much they want to get in her pants and now while she’s vulnerable they’re going to pressure her into a threesome. FFS.

yeahhh22 · 2021-02-19T18:02:51+00:00

I have similar long time "friendships". I barely ever catch up with any of them but they apparently always bring me up in conversation to this day and basically passive aggressively believe I'm in love with one of them. Absolutely delusional

lskfjd743 · 2021-02-19T18:35:15+00:00

Oh god - Like vultures, these horny, porny scotes swooped in on the weaked carcass of your self esteem post breakup. I hope she didn't go through with it!

ponchoacademy · 2021-02-19T20:29:09+00:00

I cant come down on her...she just got dumped, going through some emotional stuff, very vulnerable right now and not thinking straight at all. The people who she considers her friends are being predators, now that they know shes feeling low and vulnerable, they are shooting their shot to take advantage of her.

They're not friends, they're disgusting. And if she goes through with this, once shes thinking clearly again shes going to regret this and its going to haunt her for a long time if not forever.

Jinxhourglass · 2021-02-19T18:03:13+00:00

She’s not even attracted to them and they’re predators that whole post is dumpster fire

waddamelone · 2021-02-19T19:50:05+00:00

A shoulder to cry on is a dick to ride on. Yup.

janeaustenfan99 · 2021-02-19T18:03:34+00:00

I doubt they’re interested in her pleasure. Which would make it more like a g*ng bang than a threesome.

galian84 · 2021-02-20T00:16:36+00:00

Most male "friends" aren't your friends. They either are waiting for an opportunity to hit on/sleep with you, they have a friend that wants to get with you, or they're only friendly because you give them free emotional support. And they will play the long game.

That's why I dropped most of my male "friends".

allergictoscrotes · 2021-02-19T23:35:03+00:00

One of many benefits of being single for virtually my entire life, is never having to deal with guys who waited until I broke up with a boyfriend to reveal their true intentions. They make their intentions clear pretty quickly and drop me immediately if I’m not interested, and while it hurts being treated that way by anyone, I can’t imagine how much worse it would be coming from a friend of many years. That would be devastating to me.

honeybeeroll · 2021-02-19T19:45:12+00:00

This is so gross and horrible. You CANNOT be friends w/ men who are attracted to you, I can't believe there weren't any signs that this was coming. We have to look out for red flags if guys we're interested in, but also guys who are just friends. My friends and I have normal, close male friends, however, considering how common scrotes like this are though, I do not blame women for choosing to not have friendships with men.

Striking_Play_1393 · 2021-02-19T21:43:18+00:00

Hahahaha!!! Yes, do a threesome and your friendship will blossom even more from all the new acquired respect your "male friends" will have for you. If they upload it on PornHub after they tell everybody they know you will be instantly famous too 😍 What could possibly go wrong!? A win-win all around 😂

iwant-to-stay-unknow · 2021-02-20T10:32:16+00:00

they both have discussed many times about being with me

Um… EXCUSE ME BUT WHAT THE FUCK!!! Why is no one mentioning that these scrotes were imaging this shit with a “friend”? Why did they think it was okay to discuss this shit to each other??? How much you wanna bet they didn’t just “ask for the sake of asking” but had all this shit planned out before even getting her input. What absolute depravity.

uptownxthot · 2021-02-20T03:07:56+00:00

poor thing... i really hope she finds a more positive and healthy way to cope with this break up without fucking those weirdos.

Turbulent_Gazelle · 2021-02-20T04:59:58+00:00

Bail out of the friendship now before you go missing. This will end badly for you no matter your decision.

daisy_0720 · 2021-02-20T08:08:01+00:00

It's insane how often this happens. My friend ended things with her fuckbuddy a few months ago and the guy had the nerve to tell his friends to 'make their move' like she was a piece of meat to be passed around. Disgusting. They're all just vultures, waiting to swoop in on their prey.

greatcathy · 2021-02-20T11:21:34+00:00

Awkward!!!

SarcasmSlide · 2021-02-20T16:58:24+00:00

This hurts my heart. This sincerely, truly hurts my heart. My soul weeps for young women at this time in our culture.

pao664 · 2021-02-20T23:02:22+00:00

My response: “No thank you. I don’t fuck my friends.” And then I end the friendship. Immediately.

Title	Another post that demonstrates why it’s good to weary of so-called male ‘friends’. It always come back to sex and whether they see you as bangable or not.
Author	BasieSkanks
Upvotes	510
Comments	48
Date	February 19, 2021 4:41 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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