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| 130 | The Rise of Gen Z Celibacy (PATREON EXCLUSIVE)I even noticed this long before this article. The hint is that there aren’t a lot of women on the dating apps. Seems like women are fed up with men pushing situationships and low effort dates onto them. I’m glad that it’s widespreading. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/22 08:15 PM |
| 15 | Jordan Peterson Goes Testerical Because Sports Illustrated No Longer Cares About His Geriatric Opinion (PATREON)It’s called google. Stop asking for labour work when you are too lazy to do your research. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/22 04:37 PM |
| 8 | Jordan Peterson Goes Testerical Because Sports Illustrated No Longer Cares About His Geriatric Opinion (PATREON)Sis there is a literally free website over there, so they only changed the platform where you can give clicks to fds creators instead of Reddit clicks. You don’t have to pay for Patreon. You can continue to create posts on a different (free) platform, so we don’t have to support Reddit anymore. How come you haven’t complained about how Reddit has ads and monetizes off of us when they continuously and actively harm us and have disgusting and horrible content up while shutting down harmless women … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/22 04:28 PM |
| 6 | Jordan Peterson Goes Testerical Because Sports Illustrated No Longer Cares About His Geriatric Opinion (PATREON)It’s disturbing to see them not empathizing with the mods when they have too been the victim of cruelty from men irl (many of them have stated that they had abusive relationships) and male redditors. They complain about the ads but Reddit has ads too. Cognitive dissonance is intense here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/22 03:43 AM |
| -3 | Jordan Peterson Goes Testerical Because Sports Illustrated No Longer Cares About His Geriatric Opinion (PATREON)They don’t want to do labour work of managing and modding the subreddit while enduring the attacks on their mental health. They’d rather offload that great burden onto you and have you guys suffer instead. 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/22 02:45 AM |
| 0 | Jordan Peterson Goes Testerical Because Sports Illustrated No Longer Cares About His Geriatric Opinion (PATREON)I’m on your side sis. I’m sad that the message of FDS went over their head in this case. I think you’ve made a right choice and I stand by it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/22 02:43 AM |
| 9 | Jordan Peterson Goes Testerical Because Sports Illustrated No Longer Cares About His Geriatric Opinion (PATREON)What about the mental heath of mods who had to endure disgusting SA comments? Many women have gone through SA at some point of their lives, so it’s quite triggering. Why can’t the creators monetize their labour work through ads (free for us) or patreon? Reddit has ads, but none of you guys are complaining about it. Women are always expected to do unpaid labour work as proven by studies. I’m glad that they are prioritizing their mental health and try to monetize their content at no expense to us.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/22 02:42 AM |
| 3 | Sad that more women will never find FDS now that it’s on a new platform.Lactose intolerance sis 🥹 I’d still have one slice from time to time hehe 😈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/22 10:29 PM |
| 9 | Sad that more women will never find FDS now that it’s on a new platform.I find it interesting that you enjoy consuming porn, but you won’t date a sex worker. Aren’t sex workers supposed to be seen as your equal who is deserving of kindness, love and respect? But your refusal to date them only proves otherwise and that you look down upon their profession. Not only sex workers struggle with the dating life, but it also affects their ability to get a job outside of sex work. Why do you watch porn if you don’t think sex workers are worth dating? 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/22 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Sad that more women will never find FDS now that it’s on a new platform.That’s devastating. I understand not wanting to help Reddit capitalize on their content due to morality, but the reach that FDS has on Reddit cannot be found elsewhere. Their website, wix and YouTube aren’t generating as much as publicity as their content on Reddit. Twitter has similar moral issues like Reddit, but it helped spread the awareness of BLM that could not be achieved on any other platform. They should not abandon Reddit because of the potential growth of awareness and reach in order … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/22 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Sad that more women will never find FDS now that it’s on a new platform.This this this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/22 09:58 PM |
| 4 | Sad that more women will never find FDS now that it’s on a new platform.I understand their reason not to mod since mental health is of utmost importance. However, there is another solution like this without them shutting this subreddit down. Yes, Reddit is a horrible place, but there are still women in crisis on Reddit who stumble across this subreddit and it would transform their lives. I wish this info reaches to mods or the owner of this subreddit. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/22 09:56 PM |
| 9 | Sad that more women will never find FDS now that it’s on a new platform.Check out their podcast and it explains why it was privatized in the first place. Gosh, I miss this place so much. 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/22 06:23 AM |
| 17 | Sad that more women will never find FDS now that it’s on a new platform.Why don’t they make it restricted in that way that no one can post, but everyone can read good and helpful stuff that’s life-changing to women everywhere? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/22 06:05 AM |
| 5 | Would you guys be okay with this? It's sounds crazy to me.I’d believe that. It doesn’t feel like a human woman lol. Like, the depth is missing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 12:04 PM |
| 8 | Would you guys be okay with this? It's sounds crazy to me.What if she’s hiding info about her businesses and kids to avoid being doxed? I know one lady who got cheated on and didn’t check for STDs. So, ladies like this do exist. Edit: To add more to your point, a woman would mention all the wonderful things that their husband does other than providing money like being a good father, caring, etc. A lot of women would discuss about the emotional aspect of the relationship or lack thereof. That post fails to do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 11:08 AM |
| 13 | Netflix has been producing lots of pick-me and lvm propaganda latelyI highly recommend manhwa called Surviving Romance and Makeup Remover (same author). Smart writing, no LV and pickme traits, meaningful messages, strong FL and character growth. Please check it out. It’s so good. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 01:38 PM |
| 2 | I did it.I'm glad that you didn't pay for mortgage! If you lived there, did you pay any bills in particular? Just wondering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 03:30 AM |
| 25 | This level of betrayal from the person supposed to love, cherish and hold you sacred.I would feel violated if it happened to me and then I would have gotten lasting trauma. Wouldn't that be seen as some form of sexual abuse? He's abusing her by lying and manipulating her into having sex that he wouldn't otherwise be getting regularly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 02:44 AM |
| 11 | A New Vetting Strategy???It just shows that OP hasn’t really read the handbook… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 03:30 AM |
| 40 | Woman finds out her boyfriend earns significantly more money than her, wants him to contribute more for their rent and take her on a nice date.When a woman makes more money in the relationship, she also cooks and cleans and does secretarial job (making doc apt, organizing, etc). This is a quite common pairing. Women by default being a lot to the table, which is unfair, but it’s the result of patriarchy. It’s better to date someone who makes equal to your income, so you can afford the lifestyle that you’ve always wanted. Besides, he would be able to afford paying for dates instead of opting for 50/50. We want to avoid 50/50 guys. Period… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 12:03 AM |
| 66 | Woman finds out her boyfriend earns significantly more money than her, wants him to contribute more for their rent and take her on a nice date.Yet they can justify spending a lot of money on themselves like travelling, video games, hobby-related things, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 11:45 PM |
| 98 | Do you believe in the idea of soulmate or soulmates?The idea of a soulmate promotes the scarcity mentality. So nahhhhhhhh. Miss me with that ish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 01:11 PM |
| 49 | My boyfriend shared a funny video that i didn't find funnyShe’s trying to figure out that she’s overreacting since her bf is trying to make it seem that way. It’s good that op is checking in to see if she’s being gaslit or not. We all could use some help since the world is constantly gaslighting us and putting us down. It helps to have the community like this subreddit validating our feelings and helping us unlearn our indoctrination. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 06:36 AM |
| 2 | What do you think about seemingly HVM doing psychedelic drugs occasionally?True, but personally I’m against it because most of them who do it recreationally usually don’t have hobbies, explore and try new things. It will eventually bring on some mental health issues if they keep up with it for years. A hard pass. A teetotaler is the best way to go at it in life imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 04:02 AM |
| 52 | Is chasing unnatural beauty standards making women more vulnerable to unhealthy emotional states? Have you experienced this? Please discussWhile he licks off nasty Cheeto dust off his stubby fingers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 02:31 AM |
| 15 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Wow meanwhile Kevin Spacey admitted to being a sexual predator and still got to receive his Oscar award afterwards. This is just racist and no one can gaslight me into believing otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 01:49 AM |
| 7 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Yea exactly! He even said the reason why he made the documentary is to help her daughter with self-love of her blackness. Well, the shot at Jada’s hair isn’t helping for his daughter tho. 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 10:59 PM |
| 19 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?I wonder what their take is when Kevin Spacey aka a known sexual predator wins an Oscar? Is it not a worst history that’s ever happened to Oscar’s? Hmm why is there silence on this? Racism is why this is happening. They are just projecting their implicit racist bias. 🙄😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 10:50 PM |
| 18 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Where’s the same energy for countless of known white male predators who are protected and still working in HW?!! Will Smith is nowhere as close as those creeps and they want him to be locked up immediately over a slap. White people, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 10:43 PM |
| 19 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Go to blackladies on subreddit and they talk about this topic in the same way as you have here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 10:23 PM |
| 20 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?As a black woman, I agree with you on some parts with misogynoir and scrutiny of black people when people like Sean Penn, Roman Polanski, Woody Allen, Charlie Sheen, etc get the pass. Chris Rock has a history of putting down black women for existing. When he talks about white women, he’s referring to racism, but with black women, there’s no good reason from his “jokes”. Black women are the least protected group of women in the world along with native women. It’s amazing how tone deaf this thread… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 09:57 PM |
| 8 | What do you think about seemingly HVM doing psychedelic drugs occasionally?It makes sense when it’s used as a medicine, but not for recreational use. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 07:31 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about seemingly HVM doing psychedelic drugs occasionally?It’s not really a good idea for those who have the family history of psychotic disorders. Plus, there’s a risk of developing one without family history. I have a family friend who doesn’t have family history with it, but ends up getting it after trying those drugs. It doesn’t seem worth the risk, tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 07:18 PM |
| 7 | What do you think about seemingly HVM doing psychedelic drugs occasionally?Facts! It takes months to know that he’s possibly HV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 07:15 PM |
| 60 | Straight from the horse's mouth 🗣️It feels like they are more mad at women than Hollywood. After all everything is women’s fault. 🙄/s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 08:50 PM |
| 180 | Straight from the horse's mouth 🗣️Yes I saw the studies on that. The average looking man and woman are a world apart. It’s nuts. I blame the media. Shitty shows and movies starring an ugly and obese dude with a hot wife ugh. 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 04:35 PM |
| 203 | Straight from the horse's mouth 🗣️When women try to date their freaking lookmatch, they get standard shamed by scrotes and pickmes!! It’s a widespread norm practice. 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 04:27 PM |
| 29 | Know your worth ladies! Don’t offer to pay for a first date you were invited to attend. And never offer to drive a stranger home. Boy, bye.You could have avoided this mess if you only go on a dinner date. Don’t go for drinks. It attracts cheap LVM. If a man wants to impress you and really wants you so bad, he would make it into a dinner date. Trust me. My experience proved this to be true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Although I am not a Black woman, I am an Asian woman who can relate to the way intra-racial violence is often ignored or pushed back when it comes 2 awareness & protection. I see some men of color comprehend racism, but gaslight women about misogyny in our own communities. Intersectionality matters.I appreciate that you’re open to learning about this. I wish more people are like that. I understand that it’s not your intention and I agree with you about her. Sadly, that well-meaning compliment has a painful connotation for a lot of black people and it’s best to avoid it altogether. Thanks for being open to it once again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Exactly why do women hate on each other? (Especially for seemingly no reason?)Sis why is your “good friend” friends with people like them? Complicity is just as bad as racists because their complicity empowers racists. Time to ditch them all. Your first paragraph is just … no, just no. Don’t rationalize or excuse their ignorance and microaggressions. Ditch them. Don’t try to understand their inexcusable excuse to other you even if they aren’t overt racist towards you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Exactly why do women hate on each other? (Especially for seemingly no reason?)There is no such thing as “oppression olympics”. It’s a true reality that woc, especially black and native women face all the time. They have the right to talk about it. That term has the same energy as “they are always talking about race” or some dumb shit like that. Tone policing and silencing marginalized voices is a big no. Oppression olympics doesn’t exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 06:11 PM |
| 11 | Although I am not a Black woman, I am an Asian woman who can relate to the way intra-racial violence is often ignored or pushed back when it comes 2 awareness & protection. I see some men of color comprehend racism, but gaslight women about misogyny in our own communities. Intersectionality matters.This comment is seen as a microaggression since black people often get this comment for all their lives because of the perception that black people can’t be eloquent and well-spoken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 05:44 PM |
| 54 | Word soup for “don’t be a pick me”I’m glad that it’s gaining traction in the media like NYTimes. Tiktok has a lot of FDS values. I think FDS is slowly seeping into the mainstream. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 07:24 AM |
| 102 | "Men are visual creatures"If they were visual creatures, they wouldn’t have a bland bedroom with flat pillows. They would also be romanticizing their lives with all kinds aesthetics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 05:17 AM |
| 1 | This cute Tiktoker knows what’s up. He has many videos where he uplifted women and he even had a video talking about how women are better at trading stocks.Can you please share those, so I can convert people into disliking him? lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 07:28 PM |
| 3 | This cute Tiktoker knows what’s up. He has many videos where he uplifted women and he even had a video talking about how women are better at trading stocks.I’ve found the ones about Rihanna. Are there more out there? It’s crazy how protective and empathetic he was of Kim but there’s none for Rihanna. He was just cruel and disturbing towards Rihanna instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 10:12 AM |
| 2 | This cute Tiktoker knows what’s up. He has many videos where he uplifted women and he even had a video talking about how women are better at trading stocks.I spoke too soon. Trevor Noah is PROBLEMATIC. Go figures. 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 01:15 AM |
| 45 | Men Think They’re Brighter Than They Are and Women Underestimate Their IQ.I knew this long before I could even articulate this concept as a kid. I don’t think anyone is surprised by this. Even men know this on a deep, deep level but they are too stupid and full of audacity to comprehend this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 09:44 AM |
| 4 | This cute Tiktoker knows what’s up. He has many videos where he uplifted women and he even had a video talking about how women are better at trading stocks.I hear you. Most men around the world are problematic anyway. However, you have Trevor Noah who I think is fabulous (but there’s still a possibility that he could be problematic). I would give this guy the benefit of doubt until I fully see his true self. It’s hard to do that when you don’t know them intimately since they are just public figures. The point of this post is to show one positive trait and I’m not trying to say that these men are HVM based off one trait alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 07:03 PM |
| 15 | This cute Tiktoker knows what’s up. He has many videos where he uplifted women and he even had a video talking about how women are better at trading stocks.That’s the trait that a man must have or he’s a pass. 🤚 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 08:47 PM |
| 8 | “If Kim Kardashian cannot escape this, then what chance do normal women have?” - Trevor Noah Breaks Down The Uneasiness Surrounding Kanye West's BehaviorWhat did he say?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 08:37 PM |
| 61 | This cute Tiktoker knows what’s up. He has many videos where he uplifted women and he even had a video talking about how women are better at trading stocks.That’s fair and I agree with your logic. My intention was to show an example of one high value trait, which is nice to see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 02:00 PM |
| 31 | Poems by @farida.d.author on instagram. Article; Stop Hurting Women: We Belong to Ourselves Despite Violent Male Entitlement by Julie Feng 💟 the HVM I do know never say, “Not all men” because they know when males say this, they are deflecting a real conversation about patriarchy.If a man squeals "nOt aLL mEN!!!!111", just post this poem and maybe it will jumpstart their lil wee brains. Or maybe not. They would most likely throw a huge mantrum instead. Edit: Surprise, surprise. I got replies to this post from men throwing mantrum. How predictable. 😏😎😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 07:32 AM |
| 9 | Become of ZERO UTILITY to men in dating.I think the better thing is to just talk about non-domestic related stuff like your hobbies or anything like that. Just show up as you and there is no need to mention about your capabilities in regards of domestic labour and stuff because it’s uninteresting anyway. People tend not to go into depth about their work on dates, so there’s no need to list your skills like a resume. I think you should be fine this way. It’s hard for him to figure out how to use you when all you talk about is your hobb… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 05:30 PM |
| 91 | If you don't receive romance, act as if you were a man not receiving sex. Meaning dump. Women need romance like men need sex. It's not our want, it's our need.Apparently having autonomy over your own body and developing a value system (which is very common at her age) without men’s consent is downright wrong and even manipulative because apparently everything a woman does is for a man. Just like that weird post about a man saying that having financial independence or education is a turn off as if women does everything in her life just for men’s approval. I’ve seen comments saying that she has to consult her bf about what she does with her body in rega… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 12:07 AM |
| 30 | Can we ask HVM to change in smaller ways?This is a good question. If he doesn’t have the desire to lose extra pounds, then there isn’t much you can do. Only he can make that happen. It just shows that your values in regards of physics appearance don’t really align and if it’s a dealbreaker, then it’s reasonable for you to call it off. Don’t let anyone standard shame you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 09:25 PM |
| 56 | Big yikesI will never stop loving this fact that houseplants grow faster to the female voice than the male voice. Don’t get me get started on pets. 😏😎 Even nature knows men ain’t it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 04:54 PM |
| 249 | If you don't receive romance, act as if you were a man not receiving sex. Meaning dump. Women need romance like men need sex. It's not our want, it's our need.I read the comments and read the update from the OP. He’s going to break up with her “even though he loves her so so much”. His words. So predictable. The scrote and pickme comments were screeching that she’s being manipulative. Okay. There was only one sane comment, saying that it’s gross that he is willing to break up with her because she won’t have sex without a serious commitment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 04:42 PM |
| 131 | What are some good dating green flags?Being excited to learn things about you and genuinely wants to be a part of your life. Enjoys doing mundane things with you. Good texter with transparency and memes lol. Cares what’s in your head unlike so many scrotes who are hyper fixated on the body. This was my experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 02:05 PM |
| 20 | The new Batman is a Peeping TomUsing that kind of logic that they are still males is harmful. It’s practically the same as “boys will be boys”. This way of thinking allows men to get off hook and not be held accountable. It only fuels the rape culture. Nope, we need to call this shit out and say it’s not okay. Men are capable of being decent like women, but they are taught that it’s not within their control to be decent, which isn’t true at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 02:09 AM |
| 4 | Men who spew “not all men” rhetoric, this is for you.You’re absolutely right. Would you say “on the journey to HVM” is a better way to put it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Men who spew “not all men” rhetoric, this is for you.It’s turned off hehe 😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 12:26 AM |
| 4 | Men who spew “not all men” rhetoric, this is for you.Thank you so much for the kind words. <3 I haven’t considered that as a possibility. That’s a terrifying thought. You could argue that the handbook could be used for that purpose as well. Thankfully they are not patient enough to keep up with the charade hence why they need to lovebomb in order to speed up the process. FDS counteracts that by taking things slow, which weeds these LVM out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 12:26 AM |
| 10 | Men who spew “not all men” rhetoric, this is for you.Hmm I saw a flair “level up bro”, so I thought it was an invitation to write a post to the male lurkers who may want to level up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 10:31 PM |
| 34 | This is just another incredibly powerful reason why female only spaces are critical and why I love FDSWhat do you think the result would be like? I think it would turn out similarly since it happens to all women regardless of their background. I think maybe the difference would be that there would be no justice at all like 0 out of 500. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 02:24 AM |
| 5 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childNo worries! I hope other FDSers who turned off their DMs do this too if they are interested. :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 02:12 AM |
| 16 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childTotally understandable! I can't send it here unfortunately. You can google the title of the post: "I am [M34] and my wife is [F29]. She has asked me to pay her almost $50,000 to have our child, and I'm not quite sure what to do." It will be the top of the google page. Hope it helps! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 02:09 AM |
| 6 | Kind of mad I wasn't born 2-3 generations later so I can experience "enlightened" menBillie Ellish is a gen Z like yourself. She spoke against pornsickness that was rampant in her generation, including herself. She was exposed to it at a young age, which affected her mental health. I wish it got better for Gen Z and I really do, but unfortunately it’s not, especially with pornsickness, libfem aka menism agenda and 50/50. EDIT: I saw your update and I want you to know that no one is angry nor they are against your hope. We are just being realistic by looking into the current tren… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 09:13 PM |
| 14 | Kind of mad I wasn't born 2-3 generations later so I can experience "enlightened" menThey WANT to get what benefits them like sex work and libfem aka menism stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 09:08 PM |
| 25 | post about hating women topped off with a picture of an on-screen abuser and the girl he abused!Good for you sis! You’ll get far with that attitude! 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 09:00 PM |
| 47 | post about hating women topped off with a picture of an on-screen abuser and the girl he abused!Yes you have the right to feel that way. Mental illness isn’t the issue. The lack of action and unwilling to work on their mental health through therapy is the issue. You’re doing the right thing or else you would be the emotional labour worker, which is quite taxing on the mental health and no one (other than the mental health professional) is equipped to do so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 08:52 PM |
| 45 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childI used to think 50/50 was reasonable. Looking back, it wasn’t. It’s an invitation to a relationship where he won’t be generous or even at least reasonable when you need him the most in your vulnerable state. Thank god for FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 08:36 PM |
| 103 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childWill do. He removed his OP post hahahaha he’s definitely hoping for people to tell him that he’s right. He’s clearly not looking for a solution nor he is willing to self-reflect. Edit: If you want the link, I’ll send it to you. Either DM me or comment here for it. 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 06:23 PM |
| 8 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childAh I see. I thought it was a pickme who picked and chose certain FDS rules to follow. Besides, that mindset has no place for this kind of space anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 05:32 PM |
| 8 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childWhoa I didn’t know it was a troll. Thank you! What gave away so I don’t waste my time on them next time? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 05:23 PM |
| 21 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childIt’s no debate if you read the handbook. If someone is cheap with money, they are also cheap with love. Please study the handbook and level up if you think he loves her. That way of thinking is lower than the bar in hell. Time to level up sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 04:42 PM |
| 689 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childSomeone said it in the comments perfectly. I copied and pasted it here: “it just feels very odd to have it explicitly stated. I think it only feels odd because society assumes that women are just going to sacrifice their financial, emotional, and mental wellbeing in order to have children with no complaints or qualms.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 04:35 PM |
| 43 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childHe doesn’t really love her. He’s not legally married to her because he wants the ability to walk away at anytime. Read his comments. He doesn’t love her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 04:31 PM |
| 462 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childI was reading comments and a lot of people thought he was an asshole. It was satisfying to read it. All of you should read it because it will make your soul soar like mine hehe. He was very narcissistic in his comments ugh. I think the reason why he was searching for the evidence that she’s pregnant in the trash bin is that he would treat her differently and the power dynamic would change if she ends up pregnant. He would 100% show his true narcissistic colours and tell her a big fat no to her p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 04:30 PM |
| 154 | Why are men so fucking weird ?le gasp THIS UGLY DUDE WON’T HIT ON ME. MY NIGHT IS RUINED NUUUUUU said no women ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 05:57 PM |
| 19 | Euphoria: libfem propaganda or thoughtful series?Ladies and gentlemen, this is what gaslighting looks like. Making us seem crazy for being reasonable and rational about this harmful shit that’s fuelled out of a scrote’s daydream. By the way, there is no writers’ room but the scrote Sam. Yep, that explains it. No one there to make him see the reality. Multiple actors had to speak out against his creepy script. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 08:21 PM |
| 25 | Do you think this certain person from Love is Blind USA HV? Think again. *Spoiler Alert* 🚨That’s true. There are some exceptions like Cameron and Lauren. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 07:16 AM |
| 25 | Do you think this certain person from Love is Blind USA HV? Think again. *Spoiler Alert* 🚨Yeah he’s hardly enthusiastic when he’s with Mallory. He’s far more enthusiastic when he’s at the stadium. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 05:42 AM |
| 32 | Vetting Vetting, imagine being with a man for 30 yrs plus and he doesn’t love you, only as a best friend…. This is sad.Marshall is low value and would fail if the FDS handbook is used to evaluate his behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 02:03 PM |
| 21 | Love is blind Finale *spoilers*Iyanna was a second choice and she shouldn’t settle for that. Jared would have gone with Mallory if she had said yes. Jared could never answer this question every time Iyanna asked this. Sal was so shady with the drama thing. Why would his “casual” fling know his sisters so intimately to the point that she went to his sisters’ apartment, crying and being consoled by them? Sal is a fuckboi for that. Natalie deserves better than Sal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 05:27 AM |
| 22 | Love is blind Finale *spoilers*Sal is a walking red flag with the whole ex fiasco. Mallory and Jared are shady for being flirty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 05:22 AM |
| 72 | Kanye wants to take away her right to remarry through court wtf. He also wants to make it difficult for her to divorce and claim her prenup.Yes, absolutely. He has serious mental health issues and relationship should be the least of his concerns. It’s essentially his responsibility to get help. Some people are not lucid enough to know that they need help and I’m not sure if Kanye is self-aware of his mental health issues. He’s made songs about it, so it seems like he’s lucid, but refuses to take meds. Hmm I wonder why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 08:57 PM |
| 89 | Kanye wants to take away her right to remarry through court wtf. He also wants to make it difficult for her to divorce and claim her prenup.Scrote audacity knows no bound. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 08:36 PM |
| 312 | Kanye wants to take away her right to remarry through court wtf. He also wants to make it difficult for her to divorce and claim her prenup.There’s a difference between mental health issues and shitty misogynistic values. A plenty of people I know have mental health issues like his or worse and they don’t act like this. It’s definitely because of his values. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 08:35 PM |
| 28 | when men have nothing else they have the audacityThe audacity is embedded in their chromosome XY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 02:21 AM |
| 18 | Financially abusive Scrote strings along his 4.5 year live-in girlfriend, finally "gets engaged", yet cries when he finds out that he wasn't entitled to ALL of her money after all, etc. Next, he pitches it to the audience about whether he should take the money, then dump her any way.My culture is also like this. It balances out the disparities between men and women when it comes to systemic discrimination against women in all areas of life, including the imbalance when it comes to childcare and domestic duties. Women need to be financially protected and that is non-negotiable. Men can easily pick himself up financially when it comes to levelling up his career. Studies show that men are promoted, given higher wages and hired more than women. It’s really hard for women to hav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 09:24 PM |
| 13 | Financially abusive Scrote strings along his 4.5 year live-in girlfriend, finally "gets engaged", yet cries when he finds out that he wasn't entitled to ALL of her money after all, etc. Next, he pitches it to the audience about whether he should take the money, then dump her any way.I agree with you completely. Being honest isn’t safe for women. However, I think it’s important to vet men who is like the male op. How do we do that? By asking a hypothetical question like what would he do if his partner has savings and if he feels triggered by it, then she could leave safely without exposing her secret savings. I think this is the best solution for women if they want to stay safe. What do you think? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 09:02 PM |
| 30 | How does this community feel about female characters and typical plot of Hallmark movies?Unfortunately some of those stories have harmful pickme messages that center around men and having a relationship. I avoid these stories like plague. These stories are pretty common due to white male writers and pickme writers. But when I find a story that show women as an individualistic and autonomous group of people with hopes and dreams that don’t center around men, I love it and crave for more stories like that! Edit: I don’t mind romantic stories, but I prefer it to be like FDS romance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 07:12 AM |
| 15 | Here’s to deleting our OLD profiles 🥂“Now bake me cookies. #feminist #imnotafraidtowearpinknailpolishforfeminism #equalityisalreadyhere #misogynydiedin1950” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Here’s to deleting our OLD profiles 🥂Funcle aka manbaby looks at the baby and says “Finally someone gets me”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 01:12 PM |
| 11 | We had been chatting for less then a day and this happened...Maybe his grammar is bad and he’s referring to himself. I’m sure he meant to use the verb “giving”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 04:01 AM |
| 2 | What common FDS advice or opinions do you disagree with and why?Same! Life experience does that for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 03:40 PM |
| 30 | Getting (discount?) Flowers delivered to you the day after Valentine's Day.If there was an issue with supply/shipping/staffing, he should have improvised and do something else as a back up. When there’s a way, there’s a way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 01:55 PM |
| 91 | Seriously though, this is such a sad truthIt just shows that men only respond to the consequence, not cOmMunIcAtiOn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 04:46 PM |
| 25 | Referring to women as girlsI’m glad you brought this to light. I’m guilty of using “you guys”. I’m going to start using “women” and “all of you/everyone” more often. I’ve just started using “women” for a while after reading a FDS post back then. “You guys” is new to me, thanks to this post. I love FDS for helping me with self-awareness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 01:36 AM |
| 27 | Referring to women as girls“What do all of you think about this?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 01:33 AM |
| 229 | I need someone to help me make sense of this...You want apology because the lady was being considerate? Because she had common sense?He’s racist against black people. He said slavery was a choice, so he doesn’t really know what racism is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 05:11 PM |
| 4 | She quit her job and is live-in childcare for her husband’s affair baby and is now being asked to cancel her birthday trip to babysitIf you were a dude, they wouldn’t call you cold and heartless. They’d just think you’re smart and have self-respect. No one questions the dude for making that kind of choice. It’s expected. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:32 AM |
| 20 | I'm sick of Eurocentric beauty standardsThese men are getting the taste of their own medicine. They can’t handle it. They are responding their hypocrisy with violence and intimidation. Typical primitive creatures. Audacity is their oxygen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 10:54 PM |
| 16 | Journey into the oblivion! The angry scrotes in the comments are a nice touch 😂Wanna make a scrote laugh? Just say penis or balls. Unimaginative and sexual jokes always do the trick. Wit does not humour these primitive men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 10:01 PM |
| 2 | “Interview with a Sociopath” - Sociopath admits he actively hones in to manipulate when he senses a person is weak; Behavior is similar to that of LVM/NVMs. Perhaps many of the LVMs/NVMs discussed here also have Cluster B personality disorders (including sociopathy, narcissism, etc) like this man.He’s been diagnosed by a professional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 10:44 PM |
| 4 | “Interview with a Sociopath” - Sociopath admits he actively hones in to manipulate when he senses a person is weak; Behavior is similar to that of LVM/NVMs. Perhaps many of the LVMs/NVMs discussed here also have Cluster B personality disorders (including sociopathy, narcissism, etc) like this man.His therapist needs to tell him that his choice words such as “outsmarting them” are what keeps feeding his ego. No, you’re not outsmarting anyone. You’re not a genius. You’re just taking an advantage of people’s trust. People have no reason not to believe that your dog is in a hospital, dying. That’s not a genius move, that’s something that a person couldn’t fathom imagining that someone would lie about that. This guy clearly needs more work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 10:40 PM |
| 8 | Men share their stories of when they treated women the worst.How did this guy get here when a guy isn’t even allowed to be here? Edit: I like how this dude tone polices us and does not even bother addressing the normalized depraved shit that men have done. Don’t act like only a minority of men does this. It’s a widespread cultural practice that women has endured for ages. Why else do you protect your female loved ones from men? Miss me with the gaslighting “not all men” bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 07:12 PM |
| 193 | Really?!? Still years later they’re dragging her.I like how Ray isn’t shamed like how Kim have been for all those years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 10:26 PM |
| 98 | Scrote insults his girlfriend to his friends, then takes joy in telling her about itRyan Reynolds and Blake Lively vibes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 08:38 PM |
| 10 | A true FDS queen❤Maybe to get some exposure for her YouTube channel. Most people go on reality shows for exposure anyway. (Not judging, just informing btw). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 01:02 PM |
| 26 | Bizarre pickme post in another subreddit: woman so excited that the office "hot guy" flirts with her that she goes out to celebrateTHE WORLD MUST KNOW | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 12:08 PM |
| 18 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭It’s like trash threatening us to take it to the landfill or else the robot will do it for us instead. Like, that’s exactly what we want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 02:09 AM |
| 15 | LVM lining up for cheap, tacky, overpriced jewellery two days before Christmas. The comments are defending them. “bE gRaTeFuL” for the bare minimum? Nah.Please read the handbook if you don’t know why this relationship is considered LV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 06:25 AM |
| 168 | YEARS of Justin Bieber being narcissistic abusive and triangulating MANY women (from 2014 to present) - Ladies, this could be your life if you’re with a NVM.Social media does exactly the opposite of validating. It just breeds more insecurity, competition, inauthenticity, etc. If anything, it promotes low self-esteem and depression. There are studies on this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 11:59 AM |
| 74 | YEARS of Justin Bieber being narcissistic abusive and triangulating MANY women (from 2014 to present) - Ladies, this could be your life if you’re with a NVM.Sadly it doesn’t end there. Hailey is experiencing a lot of drama and abuse in her marriage with Justin Bieber. The saga continues!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 11:16 AM |
| 166 | YEARS of Justin Bieber being narcissistic abusive and triangulating MANY women (from 2014 to present) - Ladies, this could be your life if you’re with a NVM.I remember this part and I was like holy pickme! There’s another one that’s just bleh. It’s a part where Selena’s mom was hospitalized after selena and her mom fought over Justin Bieber. Selena unfollowed her mom on social media. Too much pickme for me to handle sheeeesh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 10:09 AM |
| 180 | YEARS of Justin Bieber being narcissistic abusive and triangulating MANY women (from 2014 to present) - Ladies, this could be your life if you’re with a NVM.There are evidences of him being abusive toward Hailey on YouTube video clips My personal fave is where he said to the fans over the live video about hailey who was sitting next to him in the car, “If you weren’t so hot, I would have gotten rid of you a long time ago”. Edit: Here’s the video: https://youtu.be/FY0a4oTj2c0 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 06:11 AM |
| 16 | NVM Ben Affleck blaming drinking problem on his marriage to Jennifer GarnerNo I mean the costar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 05:33 AM |
| 47 | NVM Ben Affleck blaming drinking problem on his marriage to Jennifer GarnerAlso, him acting in Gone Girl seems real too. NVM roles are where he shines the most. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 04:43 AM |
| 36 | NVM Ben Affleck blaming drinking problem on his marriage to Jennifer GarnerSome subreddit advice: sHe sHoUld HaVe cOmmUniCaTed aNd cOmProMisE. hEs mEnTaLly iLL. FIX HIMMMM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 04:42 AM |
| 27 | NVM Ben Affleck blaming drinking problem on his marriage to Jennifer GarnerWho? Ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 04:30 AM |
| 51 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.My mental health deteriorates a bit from this horrid mental image. 😭💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 02:02 AM |
| 8 | Is it me or are the dating apps dead or declining in numbers of men?😂😂😂😂 I don’t think it’s even about them having sexual desires. It’s all about validation from feeling sexually desirable and getting bro points from their male peers. Having a trophy woman on their arms is what they are seeking for the sake of status boost, so they waste our time as of result. Look at the core motivation of the redpills and incel from their endless complaints and rants. You can see that it’s never been about their supposed insatiable sexual desires (excluding pornsick addicts of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 01:43 AM |
| 10 | Is it me or are the dating apps dead or declining in numbers of men?Hahahahaha same girl. I think we are experiencing global resistance against scrotes from us ladies and I’m loving it! If scrotes don’t want to improve their overall well-being, they are gonna face the consequences by being excluded from the dating pool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 01:22 AM |
| 18 | Is it me or are the dating apps dead or declining in numbers of men?Yes, so many women are disappointed by the selection of men on there. The amount of couples (probably indirectly or directly coerced by the bf 🤢) trying to hook up on there is astounding. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 11:53 PM |
| 13 | Is it me or are the dating apps dead or declining in numbers of men?I believe there is no “it” app other than Bumble, Tinder and Hinge. I would have heard about it by now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 11:51 PM |
| 8 | Is it me or are the dating apps dead or declining in numbers of men?It wasn’t like this before on the Christmas season. The dating apps used to be stronger during the cuffing season, including the Christmas season. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 11:49 PM |
| 74 | If a man does not date within his age range, it’s a red flag.And a mouth that spews out pure shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 11:32 AM |
| 125 | Is it me or are the dating apps dead or declining in numbers of men?Yeah I’ve heard that women were leaving the dating apps. I don’t know the percentage though. It really shows from where I live. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 09:01 AM |
| 14 | Does anyone trust their pets when they don’t like a guy?I was so allergic to cats that I took an over the counter medicine which helped a lot, but then I ran out of it and the effect wore off after a few days. Within a month or two, my allergies completely went away. I think constant exposure is enough to make the allergy go away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 05:05 AM |
| 7 | 50/50 (FDS art by me)Scrotes don’t even offer: attractiveness cook and clean childcare orgasm emotional intelligence romance and thoughtful dates money (that is fair to the crazy amount of work that a woman does for the relationship) What does a scrote really do for the relationship? They have the audacity to ask for 50/50?! Please tell me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 12:35 AM |
| 13 | Two of the biggest lies patriarchy tells us: “men age like fine wine” & “age gap relationships are totally natural”And in his gut. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 10:52 PM |
| 4 | FDS Approved Fictional Book RecommendationsI didn’t know that! Do you mind linking the post? Thanks for the recommendation. I will check it out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 10:15 PM |
| 11 | A refusal to engage: How I came to terms with the reality of pornWhile I enjoy your posts and find them enlightening in general, please put TW (Trigger Warning ⚠️) in this post for those who are living with trauma and may find this post distressing. Other than that, keep enlightening us sis. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 02:12 PM |
| 88 | Pick me gf and pornsick bf vibesYeesh talk about Madonna/whore complex! That guy is seriously messed up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 01:19 AM |
| 126 | Carole Baskins husband is alive!! She has been going through an ordeal with Netflix who willfully and maliciously misrepresented her in the Netflix "documentary". She has had to deal with too much bullshit and the real sicko who tried to murder her is in prison(good riddance). Hope she wins!I feel so vindicated after arguing so many people irl and online over the truth about Carol Baskins. No one believed me. A very small minority of people online knew what’s up, but no one irl caped for Carol. At least I know who I should avoid and I have been avoiding them since the argument because I won’t stand for blatant misogyny as well as lack of logic and research. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 10:33 PM |
| 35 | Type of man to avoid: the brosocial or homosocial manSame girl same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 09:23 PM |
| 8 | She asked a guy out. Scrotes responded "good, you deserve it. Now you know what it's like to be a man." She responded with a list of the garbage women have to go through.Same 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 06:13 PM |
| 1 | FDS is NOT categorically against OLD.I’d love to see your post! I’ll defend you if there’s any dragging shenanigan going on in the comments! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 04:25 PM |
| 19 | Do not accept negging at all. It's always made to make you feel insecure so that you emotionally depend on them for validation.It’s called scrotese. Not very difficult language to learn since it slightly evolved from those early days of grunting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Woman asks if it’s unreasonable for her to have boundaries over porn, Internet tries to shame her. Also, note that she does EVERYTHING for this man.According to studies, men are less visual than women in many ways. Women are able to decipher a lot of visual subtleties better than men. The whole men being visual thing is just utter bulls——. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Woman asks if it’s unreasonable for her to have boundaries over porn, Internet tries to shame her. Also, note that she does EVERYTHING for this man.If men are truly visual, why are they less able to tell the subtle colours apart compared to women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 12:48 PM |
| 183 | literallynO oNe iS pErFeCt. RIdE oR dIe LOvE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 10:27 PM |
| 27 | Tips for improving appearance as HVW?I find the Aly Art Kibbe videos so helpful. It is very analytical about different body types and how clothes fit them. It definitely helped speed up the amount of time that I spent on shopping for clothes. It definitely helped me find clothes that were flattering for my figure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 02:49 AM |
| 110 | Do not let men of color triangulate you against women of colorThose black women are light skinned or mixed though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 01:19 AM |
| 33 | Husband suggests she stop buying formula rather than get a job and cancel his $80+ a month subscriptions.It’s so much cheaper and less of a headache if she goes to a single mother route considering that she has an affordable daycare for her children | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 06:59 PM |
| 41 | Another reason why we should never date men who don’t clean and proactively manage their health: this woman’s husband has poorly managed IBS and she’s getting shamed for being disgusted (“IN SICKNESS OR IN HEALTH!”) because he makes her clean up his literal shit.Yeah they can’t even go out and buy tampons/pads for their female loved ones. That’s how grossed they are by women’s natural bodily functions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 11:36 PM |
| 86 | Saw my best friends married and currently going through IVF, uncle on tinder.I’ve seen some guys I knew from school who were using different names and ages, so that might not work on some guys, unfortunately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 11:23 PM |
| 91 | A collection of recent bios I’ve seen on OLD, and their translationsOr he’s looking for a bangmaid therapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 11:08 PM |
| 47 | Don’t bother manipulating a LVM from doing weaponized incompetence. Just leave him. It will only get worse if you have children with him.As mentioned in the comment, he cares what others think. Guys like that do exist. They want their women to look good because they are all about impressing others. His gf is the extension of his fragile ego. As for the dishes part, she served him food on the dirty dish that he half assed cleaned, so of course it could easily disgust anyone. That made him wanna clean. But I think it’s probably temporary because he won’t keep up with the charade any longer. Apparently he was a clean guy before Op l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 02:52 PM |
| 6 | Don’t bother manipulating a LVM from doing weaponized incompetence. Just leave him. It will only get worse if you have children with him.I get your logic. There are women out there without any sort of privileges that most of us are fortunate to have like living in the first world country where we have the social assistance, etc. However, the OP lady mentions that she has all those resources like having a social life and job. She can leave easily as mentioned in her comments unlike some women out there. She has no reason to entertain this guy any further. She isn’t dependent on him financially. It’s better to leave than stooping l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 02:45 PM |
| 24 | Don’t bother manipulating a LVM from doing weaponized incompetence. Just leave him. It will only get worse if you have children with him.That’s why FDS recommends women not to get involved with men until they gain financial independence. They also recommend women never to depend on men financially, even if they are an aspiring SAM. It’s just not safe as it can potentially lead to abuse that you can’t easily escape from. However, if this happens anyway, then there are resources for women to escape from this kind of relationship. Women’s shelter (emotional and financial abuse counts), social assistance, etc are great resources to l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 02:24 PM |
| 325 | Don’t bother manipulating a LVM from doing weaponized incompetence. Just leave him. It will only get worse if you have children with him.Relationships shouldn’t be a war. It should be a harmonious team, supporting and respecting each other. Edit: A redditor made a great point about how weaponized incompetence is manipulative and borderline abusive. https://ibb.co/rsMGHR7 More edit: Wow! From OP: https://ibb.co/Z8jbZjr | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 12:29 PM |
| 39 | Just recently found out that rock n’ roll LEGEND Tina Turner was cheated on and abused multiple times by her LV husband Ike. Can’t believe guys actually pull shit like this and then swear up and down they don’t abuse women 😑😡What is the context of “eat the cake Anna Mae”? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 12:34 AM |
| 93 | Leave the LVM/NVM men for the Pick-me's ladies, they deserve eachotherIf we allow this to continue, men as a whole wouldn’t have the desire to change because there’s always a pickme who’s willing to put up with it. Enabling LV/NV men is dangerous and it must be stopped. It only leads to broken generation once they have children. The cycle will never end. We need to hold both of them accountable for the major cultural shift, so HVW can find a HVM easily and be safe mentally and physically at the same time. We need to banish any LV and NV characteristics from the da… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 08:45 PM |
| 5 | Part 2 of the sh*t scrotes say about women vs. how THEY look, inspired by a previous postI’d love to read it, but it’s removed. Is there another way to read it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Another red flag from Chris Pratt’s captionHer family is low value. Her father and brother are all cheaters. Her mother is a pickme. I’m not surprised that she’s with a LVM. 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 06:29 PM |
| 145 | My family and friends push me to be a pickme & tell me I’m being too picky if I don’t want to date men I don’t find attractive.“It’s great! Life is amazing! I couldn’t be any more happier!!” Eye twitches and denial intensifies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 10:53 AM |
| 77 | Another red flag from Chris Pratt’s captionHe’s way ahead of you. He’s calling it first. “2-3 years” as mentioned in the caption. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 01:46 AM |
| 76 | Another red flag from Chris Pratt’s captionhttps://www.instagram.com/p/CP4GjIyp_Q-/?utm_medium=copy_link Warning: Gross 🤢⚠️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 11:29 PM |
| 370 | Another red flag from Chris Pratt’s captionIt’s no joke. He even has two separate pics of her clipping his toes. 🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 07:25 PM |
| 315 | Another red flag from Chris Pratt’s captionHe has money to get a pedicure for her and himself, but instead he subjects her to … this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 07:17 PM |
| 48 | Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens.The wife replied in the comments, saying “Oh wow. It’s only when I’m eating CEREAL but I love you”. If she had to defend herself and said “oh wow”, the chances are she didn’t really appreciate the caption. 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 04:35 PM |
| 14 | Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens.I doubt it’s a satire. He has a lot of scandals that point out his anti-LGBTQ+, sexism, cheating, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 04:17 PM |
| 7 | Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens.HuMouR 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 04:12 PM |
| 54 | Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens.Even if it wasn’t the case, why didn’t he mention his son at least? He favoured his stupid card over his son. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 04:10 PM |
| 17 | This is how scrotes see us when they write a fictional story on how wahman are bad and “irrational”. Luckily, there were a few sane ones who didn’t buy it, but the rest took a rage bait.You’re right. There was just a post on Chris Pratt’s LV IG post mentioning the jar of pickles. I swear scrotes are the clones made from the same factory. They speak and act exactly the same. You meet one scrote, you’ve met them all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 03:11 PM |
| 1 | As an essential worker, I’ve honestly met more male ‘Karens’ in my life than the stereotypical lady ‘Karen’👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 01:49 PM |
| 70 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing.At least they have something to look forward to (even though it’s not going to happen). 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 03:30 AM |
| 22 | This weird type of poor communication that I dealt with after talking to a guy for a few monthsYeah we talked about it and then at the end of convo, he said he felt blindsided lol. I don’t think he got that people needed the time to process. 🙄 Bullet dodged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 10:17 AM |
| 92 | This weird type of poor communication that I dealt with after talking to a guy for a few monthsThank you. Yeah it was a big time deflection. He was kind of codependent now that I think about it. I was beginning to notice it later on. Not everyone can rationalize properly right on spot. Besides, sharing the early development of feelings/thoughts would make things confusing or possibly wishy-washy. It’s better to analyze the situation, check in with our values and do pros/cons without anyone interfering the thought process. It would make those thoughts/feelings more solid. It’s also harder … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 04:18 AM |
| 63 | How to recognize a narcissist. If you’re in this type of relationship, run! I promise you, it’s never going to get better. (Emotional Abuse Short Film - Gaslighting)There are a lot of great comments. One said “It seemed like every move was a dead end.” This pretty much sums narcissistic abuse up very well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 04:09 AM |
| 50 | How to recognize a narcissist. If you’re in this type of relationship, run! I promise you, it’s never going to get better. (Emotional Abuse Short Film - Gaslighting)He used a lot of gaslight tactics in a short amount of time. I’m actually impressed. He managed to be a prick and make her like she’s actually the prick instead at the same time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 04:03 AM |
| 44 | How to recognize a narcissist. If you’re in this type of relationship, run! I promise you, it’s never going to get better. (Emotional Abuse Short Film - Gaslighting)For those who are curious as to why there is a picture of a battered woman, the bruises are supposed to be a metaphor of emotional abuse to highlight the great harm of it since it’s invisible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 03:36 AM |
| 17 | How to recognize a narcissist. If you’re in this type of relationship, run! I promise you, it’s never going to get better. (Emotional Abuse Short Film - Gaslighting)I’m sorry. It wasn’t even about physical abuse. How do I hide the picture? Edit: I hid the picture, so I’m going to tag it as trigger. Thank you for informing me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 03:22 AM |
| 26 | Today in 'having a kid together won't fix your relationship'Which country? Africa is not a country. It’s the second biggest continent in the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 02:51 AM |
| 26 | Spotted in another sub. Subtle red flag that I (as a short-legged woman) have experienced too!Wow they would put so much effort into disrespecting women that it’s actually impressive (like your example of the wheelchair user. I can imagine that it’s no easy feat to be faster than a fast walker). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 03:21 AM |
| 25 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupI found the thread and he said he would sound like an asshole if he revealed the cost that she had spent on him when he was sick. Wow the audacity. “jUsT CoMmUNicAte” means the guy badgers her into lowering her more than reasonable demand, so he gets what he wants and he gets to keep his mommymaid. Men are truly life diggers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 02:22 AM |
| 24 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupHe should go back to where he’s originally from - landfill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:54 AM |
| 163 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupSome people have master’s degree and still couldn’t get a job, so he’s downplaying the power of nepotism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:49 AM |
| 8 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupWhat’s the general consensus in the comments? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:46 AM |
| 5 | The Guide to Being Approved (ie, Getting a Flair)I joined in the summer of 2020 and I’m still stuck at newbie, but I’m okay with it because I know they are overload with tons of new subscribers which is amazing. I’m just happy with having comments up there right away. Besides, to have flair upgrade requires excellent posts that help women, I think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 08:10 AM |
| 39 | The Guide to Being Approved (ie, Getting a Flair)I understand the purpose of the flair. Would it be better to opt for a neutral term like “Needs Work” or something more catchy but neutral? Pickme doesn’t seem constructive and neutral, tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 08:01 AM |
| 3 | What do you think of MGK & Megan Fox? Apparently MGK cheated on Sommer Ray to be with her, then tried to make himself look like the victim when he was already dating Megan.Denzel Washington? (38 years) Danny devito? (39 years) Mark Ruffalo (21 years) Keanu Reeves is dating an age-appropriate woman. All of these men are. Not sure if they are scrotes or good men though. 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 02:22 AM |
| 18 | Oh goody, yet another way men are entirely too happy to deceive you.That’s clevil. Clever + evil Jokes aside, why does he have a gigantic ego? I bet it’s only used against women. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 06:58 PM |
| 24 | Watching Sweet Home Alabama after FDSA walk to remember is annoying. She was dying and she still had to do emotional labour for the scrote. You know, be his pixie manic who teaches him the wonders of life. Get a therapist/mentor, dude and leave the dying lady alone. He didn’t really teach her anything or do major emotional labour for her. He just took and took and had a profound character growth from her Barbara the builder job. Did she learn or have a character growth? Nope. This so-called relationship was unbalanced. He took the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 10:51 AM |
| 3 | My pickme self from the past. Cheers to the new, wonderful life of being a FDSer!Thank you! 💜 It’s the gif of Mariah Carey saying “I don’t know her” haha. https://tenor.com/view/mariahcarey-dontknowher-idontknowher-gif-14560621 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 09:36 AM |
| 4 | Just checked into the Relationship-Advice live chat with a so-called modern sex addiction and relationship "therapist."Their educational background is PHD in Scrotery. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 05:22 AM |
| 34 | Efficient!Since the start of dawn, men don’t know how to be likable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 11:12 PM |
| 7 | Whenever I think men cannot possibly get worse…Nicolas Cage’s “I’m a vampire!” is somehow relevant here: https://tenor.com/Z4vz.gif | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 12:13 AM |
| 16 | I'm done with men shorter than meNext time make sure that you and your tall family slouch around the short guy to make him feel like he’s tall and comfortable. Shame on you for not caring about his fee-fee. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:14 PM |
| 75 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.Student at self-employed* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 06:54 PM |
| 48 | Sex without intimacy is boring and low value.Makes sense. Although it can potentially make a great vetting tool because low effort scrotes would run as soon as they hear “demisexual”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 04:08 PM |
| 11 | What are some red flag books, movies, music, shows, stand up comics, podcasts/YouTube channels for men?Stoicism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Is There Any Good Reason a Man May Be Sued by a Bank Multiple TimesThank you. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Is There Any Good Reason a Man May Be Sued by a Bank Multiple TimesWhat if you have to work with them? Honestly asking, not trolling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Is There Any Good Reason a Man May Be Sued by a Bank Multiple TimesThat’s more than fair. In an ideal world, we can get rid of anyone who doesn’t add value to our lives, but that isn’t always the case with work, neighbours, etc. We will always be around people who we don’t really know well and women are statistically killed or raped by someone they know. Yeah, we gotta look out for ourselves because no one else will, especially law enforcement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 02:03 AM |
| 6 | Is There Any Good Reason a Man May Be Sued by a Bank Multiple TimesThat’s reasonable to look out on people who you can’t avoid or want to be friends with. Not sure why you’re downvoted. Sad to say but as women, we have to be proactive with who we are surrounded with. If that means we have to look up on them, then so be it. I’d say listen to your guts if you can’t find anything sketchy on them. If something in your guts is nagging you, then run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 01:54 AM |
| 3 | MYTH: Marriage is NOT hard. The media should stop glamorizing their abusive relationship.Hailey was one of the other woman. So she clearly didn’t think it was an issue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 12:43 AM |
| 8 | MYTH: Marriage is NOT hard. The media should stop glamorizing their abusive relationship.It’s funny because he was always cheating on Selena Gomez. Always. I think they trauma bonded and couldn’t let each other go. It’s definitely not a romantic and passionate type of relationship. I think Justin like all LVMs isn’t happy with anyone, period. They just like the idea of their ex while in a relationship with a woman who they cheated with. It’s honestly bizarre. LVMs are inherently illogical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 12:41 AM |
| 13 | MYTH: Marriage is NOT hard. The media should stop glamorizing their abusive relationship.When Selena released the song “Lose you to love me”. He went crazy in public, crying and hugging his security guard. He went away to somewhere in the mountains(?) by himself to heal. Sure sounds like a guy who’s moved on from Selena Gomez and is madly in love with his wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 07:11 PM |
| 6 | As a woman looking to buy a property in the next few years. It’s so important to legally NEVER give a man this much financial/ legal leverage over me. Any advice from you ladies???Wow Canada deserves a L and I live there. So let’s say if a couple stops living together, do they have to split assets like a house 50/50 even if one doesn’t contribute anything like op? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 06:52 PM |
| 6 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysIt’s true younger men aren’t any less mature than older men. I’ve enjoyed my experiences with dating younger men. It didn’t even feel like they were younger than me. It felt like they were my equal. Go ahead and date them, ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 06:31 AM |
| 5 | Pewdiepie is a scrote to the world and to his wife. Look at their couple quiz and see how deeply imbalanced with their relationship and how normalized it is. 🤡 Raise your standards, ladies.Whether he thinks he’s neo-nazi or not, it’s quite telling that he pandered to alt-right aka neo-nazi when he withdrew his donation that was supposed to go to the Jewish nonprofit organization to repair his image over his antisemitism video because his alt-right fan base told him not to. He was praised by neo-nazi websites on many occasions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 10:02 PM |
| 12 | Pewdiepie is a scrote to the world and to his wife. Look at their couple quiz and see how deeply imbalanced with their relationship and how normalized it is. 🤡 Raise your standards, ladies.Haha nah she was just a 19 year fan of Pewdiepie at that time. It all started when her friends told her to watch the crazy guy screaming at the computer. So, she did. She ended up messaging him shortly after his breakup and they met up after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 07:42 PM |
| 14 | Pewdiepie is a scrote to the world and to his wife. Look at their couple quiz and see how deeply imbalanced with their relationship and how normalized it is. 🤡 Raise your standards, ladies.He always had a disdain for women in every video. I’ve never seen him say anything kind about a woman that isn’t Marzia. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Positive benefits to block and delete! Preserve your mental health, ladies! ✨I’m sorry that you went through that and I’m so happy to hear that there’s a happy ending! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 05:15 AM |
| 1 | This is what happens if you keep your DMs open. 🤢 Time to close.There’s nothing wrong with that either. It’s down to one’s personal choice. You’re right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 09:27 PM |
| 37 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 30 - Gabby Petito: What Women Can Learn From the Police FootageHonestly I think DV should be handled by actual mental professionals instead of incompetent police officers. One of many responsibilities that police officers shouldn’t have in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 09:23 PM |
| 3 | This is what happens if you keep your DMs open. 🤢 Time to close.Oh, none taken. Yeah, I normally don’t reply to scrotes, but that was just so weird. 😂 You make a very good point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 09:00 PM |
| 6 | This is what happens if you keep your DMs open. 🤢 Time to close.You’re absolutely right. I was referring “Time to close” to myself, not to anyone else lol. I enjoyed having DM convos with lovely FDSers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 08:56 PM |
| 7 | Pewdiepie is a scrote to the world and to his wife. Look at their couple quiz and see how deeply imbalanced with their relationship and how normalized it is. 🤡 Raise your standards, ladies.She just alters her voice to a different pitch for some reasons. I think she likes the aesthetics of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 08:24 PM |
| 32 | Pewdiepie is a scrote to the world and to his wife. Look at their couple quiz and see how deeply imbalanced with their relationship and how normalized it is. 🤡 Raise your standards, ladies.Yeah Marzia messaged him shortly after the breakup with his ex gf. They first got together when she was 19 and she said she wanted to get married in her mid-twenties and she ended up getting married at age of 26, so it seems intentional on their part to get married later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 07:39 PM |
| 68 | Why is men cheating so socially accepted among most people?When women get cheated on, they get blamed for not doing enough for the scrote partner like you should cook for him or you should be more kinkme. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 03:33 AM |
| 163 | Pewdiepie is a scrote to the world and to his wife. Look at their couple quiz and see how deeply imbalanced with their relationship and how normalized it is. 🤡 Raise your standards, ladies.Yeah he said she is 100% behind it and he also said that she’s the only reason why he could be able to get out of the house and do fun things and she helped him with his social skills. She basically built him up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 03:10 AM |
| 168 | Pewdiepie is a scrote to the world and to his wife. Look at their couple quiz and see how deeply imbalanced with their relationship and how normalized it is. 🤡 Raise your standards, ladies.It wasn’t a joke. He got exposed by accident. He forgot to close his tab. It happened again on another time where he opened his history tab and it showed all the pornsick websites that he had visited. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 02:06 AM |
| 41 | Pewdiepie is a scrote to the world and to his wife. Look at their couple quiz and see how deeply imbalanced with their relationship and how normalized it is. 🤡 Raise your standards, ladies.I think it’s an accent. He’s Swedish. They have talked about kids before getting engaged. He’s a man child lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:50 AM |
| 88 | Pewdiepie is a scrote to the world and to his wife. Look at their couple quiz and see how deeply imbalanced with their relationship and how normalized it is. 🤡 Raise your standards, ladies.Bradwoto had been exposing him over the years probably due to passive aggressiveness of not getting enough pay. He said the thing about dead bedroom on livestream with Pewdiepie and Pewdiepie looked shocked like a deer caught in headlights. It was awkward. 😬 Brad surprisedly kept his job after that incident. Brad still kept exposing him from time to time even after he got fired. I guess Pewdiepie finally had enough and even had something nice about Brad aftermath. He even donated to brad’s twitc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:44 AM |
| 34 | Pewdiepie is a scrote to the world and to his wife. Look at their couple quiz and see how deeply imbalanced with their relationship and how normalized it is. 🤡 Raise your standards, ladies.Ah I see. I’m not good at telling if it’s fake or not. What sets her apart from women with natural high pitched voices? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:39 AM |
| 173 | Pewdiepie is a scrote to the world and to his wife. Look at their couple quiz and see how deeply imbalanced with their relationship and how normalized it is. 🤡 Raise your standards, ladies.Ewwww of course he’s pornsick! Rip his grey brain matter. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:38 AM |
| 160 | Pewdiepie is a scrote to the world and to his wife. Look at their couple quiz and see how deeply imbalanced with their relationship and how normalized it is. 🤡 Raise your standards, ladies.Hahaha 😂 I went down the rabbit hole of watching their strange relationship through the lens of FDS. Let’s just say… I know a quite bit more than I’d like. Like for example, Pewdiepie’s old editor, Bradwoto, exposed a lot of strange things about their relationship. Like how they have dead bedroom. That they don’t have normal communication and that Pewdiepie is keeping Marzia around for convenience because Brad couldn’t understand why else he would be in a relationship. Brad also said that Pewdie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:30 AM |
| 171 | Pewdiepie is a scrote to the world and to his wife. Look at their couple quiz and see how deeply imbalanced with their relationship and how normalized it is. 🤡 Raise your standards, ladies.He admits to lacking empathy. Like we didn’t know already lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 12:42 AM |
| 75 | Pewdiepie is a scrote to the world and to his wife. Look at their couple quiz and see how deeply imbalanced with their relationship and how normalized it is. 🤡 Raise your standards, ladies.I think she’s just masking mostly her accent and raspy tone of voice. Her oldest video clearly shows her natural voice here: https://youtu.be/hRa0vGQHm1U | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 12:40 AM |
| 22 | No context even neededHave fun being a toy for men to play with. 😂 It’s notoriously easy to pull in men anyway, so it’s not really a flex, my dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 04:24 AM |
| 0 | Change My View: the "Female Dating Strategy" reddit-verse posters often exhibit behavior as bad or worse than that of the men they criticize (and allow zero discussion, at all).Uhm, it’s systemic. It’s beyond just individualistic issues. There are tons of studies and resources backing up on how toxic patriarchy damages women in many areas of life. So, no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 11:02 PM |
| 164 | This really backs up the study on a majority of men leaving/cheating on their terminally ill wives. 🙄Time to block and delete everyone who took dad’s side. 🤢 Edit: made a mistake about the bf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 09:35 PM |
| 259 | This really backs up the study on a majority of men leaving/cheating on their terminally ill wives. 🙄Majority of the comments validated the op! A little faith in humanity is restored. 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 09:04 PM |
| 51 | Men are terrified of being alone and will project that on youUnmarried men will die early and scrotes know unconsciously that it will be their demise lmfao. Meanwhile unmarried women not only live longer, but they are happier and thriving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 10:54 PM |
| 77 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.They just want validation and bragging rights. That’s all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 10:36 PM |
| 7 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"Couldn’t wear a proper attire because he sweats out of pure rage and needs to loosen it up for his highheart pressure. Psycho nutjob. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 09:03 PM |
| 285 | How are we meant to know?Watch men to commit to misunderstanding this amazing analogy to distract from the much needed discourse. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 05:49 PM |
| 169 | "The fact real women have their own motivations IS A REAL TURNOFF"This is why men want Ai robots that look like women but cater to every of their whim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 09:32 PM |
| 2 | The level of mental gymnastics hereThrow the whole man out of the window. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 11:01 AM |
| 59 | Most men are NOT capable of genuine love. In order to love a woman, they have to see her as human. That’s why most of them would rather keep the privilege of seeing you as an object — to feel less bad about the mistreatment they put you through.That’s why they go to men for validation and/or emotional connection/intimacy because they see men as worthy and human. Women are only good for therapy, servitude, status symbol and sex, nothing more. That’s why they don’t care about being thoughtful, getting us relevant gifts, taking us to interesting and exciting dates and having deep talks with us. They would do all of that for women at the beginning and then the effort stops once they get what they want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 11:49 PM |
| 149 | The AUDACITY of my abusive exChange your number. It’s a lot of work, but totally worth it. Hearing back from him again will only retraumatize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 03:04 PM |
| 4 | Everyone's talking about Gabby Petito. But they're having the wrong conversation, experts say.They’d go after poor dogs while not acknowledging that they are the ones who purposely make the dogs aggressive in the first place. 😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 01:26 AM |
| 76 | They always tell on themselves on Twitter … VileThere’s even a study on men and their jokes. Basically they are saying that when men joke, there’s an element of truth in it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 01:00 AM |
| 127 | Some scrotes actually think like this--can you even imagine the privilege to complain about this???Yeah! Stop caring so much about your sAfTeY and prioritize my fEe-FeE!!!!!1111!!!!! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 09:21 PM |
| 14 | Thinking about being married to any of my exes fuels my single hood🤢This topic is on past relationships, not courting or potential relationship or short lived relationship. I’d say yours is different for sure. I agree that it’s insulting to be a second choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 06:17 PM |
| 18 | “She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes By The Sink”They don’t have amnesia. It’s strategic incompetence. They know what they are doing by playing the bumbling idiot. They wouldn’t dare try this shit at work. Trust me. They know. They just don’t care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 02:22 PM |
| 18 | “She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes By The Sink”I love how you capitalized every first letter of the word because it’s closely translated to scrotese, which is a nice way to pay respect to the structure of the language. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 02:14 PM |
| 77 | 22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeksBy this logic, you could say the same about men who haven’t been caught as well. Statistics show those ones who have been caught. Caught men commit far more crimes than caught women. Their logic is deeply flawed. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 02:33 PM |
| 39 | LVM don't just hate women. They hate HVM too.That’s why LV mob always call HV simps, white knight, etc for doing basic bare minimum. LV mob get so angry and bully HV into becoming LV like themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 02:25 PM |
| 2 | How much will having a low value father affect your chances with a high value man?What do you mean by opposite action? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 03:44 AM |
| 26 | There's our answer ladies.Studies back this up. Unmarried men die early while unmarried women are thriving. They really are useless. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 12:32 AM |
| 48 | Be careful out there with these hobosexualsHe thinks women are supposed to save him and become his caregiver cause of male entitlement and audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 10:42 PM |
| 1 | The bar is in hell and I am so tired of itOmfg how did it happen?! I’m happy to hear that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 04:01 PM |
| 10 | The bar is in hell and I am so tired of itOmfg you’re right! I’ve read that having lots of reports can get you this flair. Damn. Ever since one subreddit has been shut down, we have been reported non-stop by those particular people, so that could explain why some get this flair. You may be onto something. I like your idea that instead of getting this harmful flair, we just get a warning about our problematic comment and get vetted again. That’s way better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 04:48 AM |
| 14 | The bar is in hell and I am so tired of itThat’s so messed up. I hope a guy or pickme didn’t infiltrate this place and play a long con to sabotage this place and scare innocent women away from this sub by giving them this flair for no reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 03:19 AM |
| 3 | WSJ article cites how males are completing college education at almost half the rate of women, with porn, drugs, and video games as major "distractions."Ugh fathers… am I right?? They always mess up children’s development while you who are trying to nourish and build your children for a better life end up looking like a bad guy. What a cliche. It’s always a woman’s fault. I’m sorry for what you’re dealing with. Sending you my love and best wishes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 03:16 AM |
| 7 | WSJ article cites how males are completing college education at almost half the rate of women, with porn, drugs, and video games as major "distractions."Take away or sell his game console and see how quickly he does his homework. He obviously doesn’t deserve the privilege to have something that he has no control over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 10:40 PM |
| 50 | Tell all the men you know to get in on this class action to drive the payout down to pennies, then delete and let those who remain initiate messages to bots.I thought men want to be treated as a prize? They never know what they want lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Cops don't give a shit about our safety. Full evidence and these clowns say there's "not enough information".This subreddit was created by a black woman who has talked about this kind of oppression that privileged white women don’t have to worry about. It’s kinda ironic that you would get downvoted in the very same subreddit that a black woman has created. It’s like we are moving away from her vision into the erasure of black struggles to maintain the white woman denial aka feminism, which barely has any progress on intersectionality to begin with. I’m with you all the way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 01:43 AM |
| 7 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.Whoa talk about unhinged. That’s why I have a weird feeling every time I want to talk about FDS. That could be my intuition telling me not to share for safety reasons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 09:41 PM |
| 10 | Dating your friend is okay in the FDS strategy book?This is great. Thanks for the wisdom. I appreciate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 05:03 PM |
| 19 | Dating your friend is okay in the FDS strategy book?Wow thanks for the great reply. I’m gonna fix my post about the proper time. So, instead of looking at how he feels about you from the start, it’s better to look at his actions when he takes you on a date like paying on the first date, putting in effort, etc, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 04:07 PM |
| 20 | When he says he needs at least ten years to think if I’m “the one” for him. 😂🤡Thanks for wasting our time and youth beep boop. 🤖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 08:37 PM |
| 25 | Shaming men for being virgins objectifies women, which explains the predatory nature of men who attempt redpill tactics to get women in order to impress men.Okay I’ve been getting all the dumb replies from men about how it’s not objectifying women and that it’s about making fun of men’s social skills and appearance. You guys are missing the point here. Men’s worth is tied with bedding women or else he would be seen as incompetent, ugly and socially awkward. In order to avoid this affecting their level of status, they target women. Do you see the connection? That means women are objects to be conquered in order to have social status that impresses me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:30 AM |
| 83 | I just…🤦🏻♀️oh my god TW: DVGoogle the title of the post combined with the word Reddit and it will show up in the search. Click on the post and message her directly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 02:13 AM |
| 70 | Shaming men for being virgins objectifies women, which explains the predatory nature of men who attempt redpill tactics to get women in order to impress men.A lot of the slurs targeted at men is a direct insult towards women like pussy, sissy, son of a bxtch, motherfxcker, bxstard, cxnt, bxtch, etc. It all comes back to women. AGAIN. Source below goes into depth about this topic. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thenewsminute.com/article/verbal-abuse-why-are-cuss-words-directed-men-about-women-their-life-53129%3Famp | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 09:50 PM |
| 86 | Shaming men for being virgins objectifies women, which explains the predatory nature of men who attempt redpill tactics to get women in order to impress men.Of course, every single issue caused by toxic patriarchy is created by men. It’s impossible for women to create any social issue that affects men because women are not in a position of power to do so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 07:51 PM |
| 43 | Shaming men for being virgins objectifies women, which explains the predatory nature of men who attempt redpill tactics to get women in order to impress men.When we use incel, we talk about the nature of their dangerous ideology in depth, so we can be well informed in order to arm ourselves from them. We don’t use it to mock men for being a virgin, only pickmes and scrotes do that. Also, I believe anyone with dangerous ideology should be ashamed. Like a racist with an alt-right ideology and a man with incel or redpill ideology should be made to feel ashamed because it’s detrimental to society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 07:48 PM |
| 21 | Just trying to manifest these vibes as much as possibleWhat is the show called? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 08:24 AM |
| 2 | I live next door to a scroteOh thanks! I had a moment of poor reading comprehension. Thanks for answering my dumb question haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 05:02 PM |
| 37 | Solicited Most When Feeling Less Than BestHappiness makes scrotes slither back to the sewer away from radiating light. It’s a great banishing spell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Mental health and datingI wanna add something to the list for this who are trying to get their shit together both mentally and physically. Download Fabulous and try out a free month trial. It has helpful habit tracking tools and great therapeutic tips/guides/challenges to target the areas of weakness in your life. I highly recommend it. Not to mention, it’s a calming and beautiful app to boot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 04:50 AM |
| 63 | I thought this belongs here...What a himbo lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Starting to Regret Getting TattooedNot only do they all get yeeted to the sun, they are following the lead of Donald Trump who is in the front of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 05:25 PM |
| 24 | For The Lurkers And FDS Members Who Wonder Why Men Are Banned Here....I read it as “scrotes crawling like a creepy crawler to comment” instead of “scrotes following and commenting”. I prefer the former. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 05:22 AM |
| 59 | New moms get less sleep and it's linked to aging... what do you think? They only studied women, but where are the dads helping out?It’s easier because one less child to take care of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 04:21 AM |
| 7 | I am SO tired of the misogyny, negging, persistent pushy rape culture and cringey male princess demands peddled by so called ‘pick up artist guru’s’ online. Notice the tone of his language wreaks of perceived entitlement to womens attention.He forgot the word “King”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 05:29 PM |
| 63 | Can you even spell my name?Is it me or do guys never say my first name anymore? The last time I heard someone said my first name was in high school. It’s been YEARS since any guy I dated said my name. My name is literally 4 letters long and super easy to pronounce. Does anyone have this issue while dating? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 04:01 AM |
| 51 | Love seeing women not falling for manipulation tactics.Remember you’re the prize, my Kang. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 06:13 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend was making iced coffee and asked me if I wanted some. I said “No, thank you”, then he sat on the couch with his glass, I was like “Damn that looks good shoulda said yes” so he got up, went back to the kitchen and brought me the second iced coffee he had made for me.What happened to that subreddit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 12:56 PM |
| 15 | Instead of worrying if he likes you, ask yourself: “Do *I* even like *him*?”Younger men by a couple of years could be a good possibility for dating, right? I dated a guy three years older and he was threatened by my intelligence while a guy three years younger loved that I was intelligent and enjoyed hearing about my insight. Maybe it’s just an individual thing rather than an age thing, but I recommend dating younger men if you haven’t already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 04:55 PM |
| 85 | Instead of worrying if he likes you, ask yourself: “Do *I* even like *him*?”It’s because many men don’t adhere to female gaze, so there’s no natural magnetic pull. If more men put more effort in their appearance, personality and charm like women are socialized to do, men would get a lot of dates. 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 04:31 AM |
| 31 | "Women aren't funny"I see that you’re waiting for the dumpster schedule to come get the trash. Go you girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 04:22 AM |
| 20 | "Women aren't funny"If you look at majority of subreddits dominated by males, the jokes are rarely original and imaginative at best. At worst, it often is very vulgar, disturbing and devoid of empathy/humanity. If you call them out on it, they gaslight you by calling you sensitive or it’s just a joke. The scrotes all were cloned from the same factory, so of course their jokes are recycled and repetitive asf. I think it’s a massive compliment that they don’t think we’re funny. We don’t want to appeal to their nvm se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 04:16 AM |
| 15 | This is an actual “settlement” proposed by the pro se defendant in a divorce case. Unbelievable.A woman who lives in a garage. The image lmao. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 04:10 AM |
| 1 | She found cp on her husband's computer and is wondering if she should leave him 🤦🏽♀️women really are this brainwashed. She has two little girls with him.What did the op say after receiving comments, telling her to leave and call the cops? I hope she listens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 01:03 AM |
| 8 | This girl’s TikTok of other male students making rape jokes in class was posted to another sub. This is what the average redditor thinks.Tell us you’re all rapists without telling us you’re all rapists, Reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 11:41 PM |
| 1 | The Sun and Her Flowers - Rupi KaurMost of the criticisms are warranted since she plagiarized from black poets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 08:04 AM |
| 2 | "If England gets beaten, so will she" when england loses a football match, the figure for domestic violence surges by 38%. Even if they win, it goes up by 26%.Walls have trauma too. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 02:51 PM |
| 26 | Reminder: this is the bare minimum.Everyone needs to stop praising men for being less than mediocre. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 02:06 PM |
| 34 | "By age of 35, 66% of men will have experienced some degree of hair loss" B-b-but MeN aGe LiKe FiNe WiNe WoMeN aGe LiKe MiLk"B-but men are the logical sex! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 10:55 AM |
| 53 | “So okay, I don’t want to be a traitor to my generation and all but…”I feel you. Men make me laugh. Having them as entertainment would be like watching them and go “Dance monkey dance” except they do it naturally without anyone asking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 10:37 AM |
| 17 | Things to avoid saying in early stages or on OLDI blame it on animation. The manga doesn’t sexualize Winry. The mangaka has no control over animation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 01:25 PM |
| 35 | Things to avoid saying in early stages or on OLDTo be fair, anime in general isn’t that good and very misogynistic. Nearly all female characters that are poorly written, weak, performative, etc. You’re not missing out much. The only one that I think has strong female characters is Fullmetal Alchemist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 12:56 PM |
| 13 | Things to avoid saying in early stages or on OLDThis happened in Japan by a foreigner? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 12:49 PM |
| 206 | Girl, you need the FBI, not relationship advice 😳You’re right, but him being into BDSM is a dead giveaway that he’s not okay upstairs. That alone is a clue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 02:12 PM |
| 26 | "there's a darkness inside me"Whether it’s true or not, it’s not anyone’s job to be their therapist because they are not equipped for it. Guys like that are to be avoided if they don’t take responsibility for their mental health. Either way is a huge red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 04:02 PM |
| 73 | Guy tried negging me and got frustrated when I didn’t care. Story time ☕️I swear scrotes have this subreddit on notifications. They are definitely more present here than I am. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 02:14 PM |
| 332 | Poor Britney. There’s not much else to say.Whew I feel so much better. The fact that the judge gave a hint towards the right direction is a sign that she wants to help her. I’m hopeful now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 01:47 PM |
| 44 | "there's a darkness inside me"“The voices told me what to do” could be some kind of psychotic break or psychotic disorder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Your Friends Are Not Free TherapistsWhen I cut out of my LV friend because of this among other reasons, I swore my vitality came back. That shit is soul-draining. Please don’t do this. Get a real therapist or sort out your shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 03:37 PM |
| 17 | “Boost your confidence by humiliating yourself and subjecting yourself to constant male rejection.”I couldn’t agree more. Stop bringing pickme clown circus to our HVW town. We don’t want it. Live your pickme clown life elsewhere and entertain LVM instead. 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 03:09 PM |
| 8 | Subtle signs of manipulation and psychological abuseArmy guys are almost always bad partners without fail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 12:52 AM |
| 7 | Subtle signs of manipulation and psychological abuseWhat do you mean by follower-tracking apps? Sorry for being tech illiterate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 12:48 AM |
| 13 | She is free!!🙌Not just killed, killed in defence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 04:02 PM |
| 59 | Apparently Reddit does not think that ADVOCATING CHILD MURDER violates their Terms of Service. This is from our "satire" sub (basically just a bunch of incels pretending to be us and saying outrageous shit to try and get us banned)Yep many more would murder if they have the strength to put down their phones for a millisecond. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 09:09 PM |
| 37 | Apparently Reddit does not think that ADVOCATING CHILD MURDER violates their Terms of Service. This is from our "satire" sub (basically just a bunch of incels pretending to be us and saying outrageous shit to try and get us banned)Ikr! They should get off their phone and help out their wives and even gasp find out what their kids’ names are for the first time. I dunno, just a thought. 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 09:05 PM |
| 53 | Congrats sisIn the sewer where we belong. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 02:15 PM |
| 48 | The type of gold digging never talked about: men will date you to boost their careers, status and ultimately to make money.They are projecting big time because it’s impossible for them to see different perspective outside of theirs. Their narrow and feeble brain won’t allow it. 🤏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 02:04 PM |
| 40 | Congrats sisHow else are they gonna ensure that their idiocy through their kids won’t live on after death? Scrotes have the biological need to create more scrotes and pickmes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 07:29 AM |
| 13 | Apparently single women can’t have nice things aka my attempt to buy a houseWhat country is that? I’m sorry to hear that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 02:57 PM |
| 21 | Apparently single women can’t have nice things aka my attempt to buy a houseThey are probably thinking, “this silly incubator is trying to be human, doing human things. Go back to where you come from and pop out babies!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 02:52 PM |
| 6 | A mantra that might be helpful for when we fall back into old ways of thinking...I have something similar whenever I have a similar intrusive thought. I say to myself, “I am observing. I am not judging myself of the sudden thoughts that are learned and internalized. I detach my self-worth from thoughts that can’t be controlled as of right now. I am growing and evolving which will be proven with time.” It works every time. I grow to have less anxiety, shame and emotional distress every time I say this. Over time it has no effect and then it disappears. I see my brain like a c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 11:38 PM |
| 32 | I'm done with men and have never even dated oneWe have a better chance of finding a leprechaun than a HVM and I wish I was kidding. I truly feel this deep to the pits of my soul. Honestly, as someone who has experienced dating, trust me, you’re not missing out much. Taking yourself out on a date and spoiling yourself is far better, according to my experience. Romance is overrated. It’s a lot of work and compromises. Not to mention, lack of freedom like travelling apart for a long period of time can cause strain on the relationship, for examp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 11:28 PM |
| 32 | This is absolutely domestic abuse and he should be in fucking jail. I'm outragedWith the plastic packet of koolaid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 11:04 PM |
| 37 | UPDATE: I got a job! (From: "I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit")Congratulations!! We women need to look out for each other because no one else will. Certainly not men who benefit a lot of our labour. I’m extremely happy for you and it’s brought tears to my eyes. May all of your dreams come true. ❤️🌸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 01:10 AM |
| 100 | Ask a man which gender child he wants and dig WHY, not for the gold ya lurking scrotes 😅You'll find why he wants a girl if that is so, and if the reason is similar run in the other direction ladies🏃 That's dad duties reassigned🤡💩& a cheap💍 will buy him 2 slaves🤮👿They want their sisters, daughters and mothers to know, but they don’t want their S.O and other women to know! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 02:11 AM |
| 2 | It's the edit for me ~~~Shut up and stay in the kitchen is a scrote’s dream. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 09:26 PM |
| 5 | Because disappointing one woman at a time is not enough...That’s brilliant. I haven’t thought of it that way. I retract my statement. I learned something new, thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 01:43 AM |
| 10 | Because disappointing one woman at a time is not enough...Wouldn’t telling him be a nice filter or a vetting tool against guys who fetishes bisexuals? My brother dated a bisexual woman and didn’t see it as a fetish. He saw it as a part of her identity, nothing more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 11:48 PM |
| 15 | If you're still using dating apps, you're a pickmeKeep in mind, it’s easier for men to meet a beautiful HVW than it is for women to find a handsome HVM on dating apps considering how much women put in work to level up their appearance and personality while men just feel entitled to have a HVW without any effort on themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 06:53 AM |
| 31 | If we’re Femcels, then why are Scrotes so obsessed with us??? 🧐Scrote: I can’t relate nor accept that there are different perspectives outside of my small, ignorant bubble, but I understand what it is to be incel, so it must be that they are incels too!!!1!!! That’s it! Now I rest my case.” satisfied smug | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:33 PM |
| 53 | Always be skeptical of men's relationship woes on Reddit. When my ex persuaded me to do poly so that he could cheat on me, the narrative he posted to reddit was "my girlfriend manipulated me into opening the relationship so that she could get a sugar daddy"Here’s a fun twist: 40% of cops are domestic abusers. Of course they would side with abuser who they felt a kinship with and arrest women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 03:15 AM |
| 15 | It's ALL men.This gave me chills! You got a talent sis. Let’s unite and let men know that it is all men and they are a part of the rape culture by dismissing/victim blaming women, using “not all men” hashtag, defending or turning a blind eye to their buddies’ actions b/c “bros before hoes”, joking, objectifying, watching porn despite all the blaring evidence against porn, etc. It is all men. You are a part of the problem, male lurker. I’ve never met a man who isn’t against FDS or radical feminism. They are o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 06:10 PM |
| 0 | Basically All of Reddit vs FDSShe has brown hair, which is uncommon to see in asians, so it’s clear that she’s white. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 05:04 AM |
| 23 | Less TikTok and more reading books by Bell Hooks, Andrea Dworkin, Naomi Wolf, and many othersI would take the word of FDS users with a grain of salt as not all read the handbook. It’s true that a woman doesn’t need to wear makeup to be feminine or a person of worth. Do what makes you happy and carry yourself with value, which comes from within, not from our appearance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 03:22 PM |
| 90 | You don’t need closure. Close your own chapters!I liked it except the part where she says “whore”. That really rubbed me the wrong way. Is it just me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 03:38 PM |
| 3 | Wedged In My Windshield Wiper: A Note From A ScroteThe guy clearly watches way too much romcoms. 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 05:52 PM |
| 8 | Tricking women into sex work is the Patriarchy's new strategy for keeping us out of the workplaceMyonlyfans put up disclaimer for women who start the account, warning that it could potentially affect their future career prospects. It’s sad that women still go ahead with it. Probably because they are already struggling, to begin with. Or they are spoonfed that it’s easy money and the society are accepting of “empowering” sex workers. If the society are truly accepting, why are retired sex workers ostracized and condemned from every area of life? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 12:43 PM |
| 57 | Billie speaking facts!Nests are neatly put together with sanitary objects. It’s more like they are surrounded by the landfill with assorted rotting and smelly things. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 03:11 PM |
| 33 | Nick Miller from New Girl was the worst NVM on TV. The entire sitcom is about the emotional immaturity of men, and this dude represents the worst of our culture. Join me in listing the reasons why he’s the worst. 1. Who dumps Megan Fox in a train????Schmidt often objectifies women, treating them like shit. He’s NVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:21 PM |
| 14 | You don’t know him yet! Why it’s important to emotionally detach yourself from him during the early stages of courting him🤣😂 Don’t forget the hands from the Megan Markle interview. “Was he charming or were you CHARMED” 🤚🏾-👌🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:14 PM |
| 17 | Cant Even Give Birth In Peace..Women are just incubators popping out their LeGaCy babies who they will never take care of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:06 PM |
| 47 | People who say "redpillers and pickup artists are only a tiny percentage of the population, most men aren't like that"Real simps are men who treat women badly to impress other men to gain bro points. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 05:03 AM |
| 9 | He gave another woman a Christmas gift, spent a weekend with her at a hotel, has an entire gallery of photos on her phone, but let's marry him 🤡I loved the clown shoes bit. That ended me. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 02:46 PM |
| 10 | He gave another woman a Christmas gift, spent a weekend with her at a hotel, has an entire gallery of photos on her phone, but let's marry him 🤡She wants to think about it as if there are balanced pros and cons that barely outweigh each other. Whaaaat?! There’s absolutely no redeeming quality in this mess of a human being! 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 02:41 PM |
| 39 | He gave another woman a Christmas gift, spent a weekend with her at a hotel, has an entire gallery of photos on her phone, but let's marry him 🤡I wouldn’t be surprised if she blamed herself for his infidelity... well, she kinda was if you read the post closely. I guess his fee-fee and pee-pee are more important than pain and mental torment that she’s going through. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 02:37 PM |
| 30 | Jealous of a cat “woke up to him smiling at me smugly from atop my gfs tits”They don’t like women who don’t exist solely for men. They also don’t like women who have independence and autonomy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 02:44 AM |
| 8 | One of the top posts today on this hellsite... a man chasing his wife around with a lobster (repeated every year). This is male humor! Why do men love/take such pleasure in scaring and physically menacing women?I scrolled through OP profile and I came across his post from that same thread, saying that he had a discussion with his kids about boundaries WEEKLY. Another redditor told him that he has to set boundaries and saying “no” once has to be believed and warrants a full stop by leading an example with the whole lobster chase or else the kids would get a mixed message. Of course OP didn’t reply and other LV redditors defended his honour by gaslighting. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 01:21 PM |
| 5 | On a post about a woman saying she doesn't want to get married and be reduced to a "wife" and a "mother". I wish more men would call out the mysoginy of other menIf they threaten me with singledom, I would say “Don’t threaten me with a good life”. After all, there are studies that unmarried women live longer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 02:53 PM |
| 21 | How does a woman go from cheerful and carefree to overworked and boring? So hard to understand. Such a mystery. /sI’m sorry for what you’re going through. You don’t deserve that at all. I’m happy you’re here because we validate your feelings and we relate to you. Please read FDS handbook to gain a new perspective on your marriage. It will help, I promise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 03:43 PM |
| 2 | This is what male entitlement looks like. In response to WhY DoN't YoU WoMeN JuSt CoMmUnIcAtE MoRe. Men don't freaking listen.Scrote: Nope. I’m just gonna pretend that I didn’t hear that. jams fingers into ears like a kid who’s trying not to hear after it’s already being said | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 09:51 PM |
| 72 | And her comment section was filled with women agreeing!I’ve seen so many male redditors posting that they are at work, pretending to work but actually on Reddit. I’ve seen that happening for years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 05:36 PM |
| 3 | [Trigger Warning] Remember the 80’s movie, Sweet Sixteen? Check this link out. 🤢Omg can you give examples for Say Anything? I think it went over my head. I tried to google it, but I can’t find anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 12:36 PM |
| 28 | [Trigger Warning] Remember the 80’s movie, Sweet Sixteen? Check this link out. 🤢She never cheated cause she wasn’t in the right mind to consent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 02:52 AM |
| 2 | This is why “Not All Men” should NEVER be entertainedI appreciate CC as I have a hearing difficulty so that’s amazing. Back to topic, I’ve heard so many women who said I’m so happy he didn’t hit me/emotionally abused me while those type of men didn’t add value to their lives in the slightest, just dead weight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 03:25 AM |
| 20 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit piece🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love it! I can see her defending Jeffrey from Game of Throne if she’s in that world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 06:13 AM |
| 30 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceSisley? Nah sis, more like Broley. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:43 AM |
| 5 | Piers Morgan Continues His Hate Obsession with Meghan MarkleInteresting how you managed to know exactly what went in Harry’s head and what his intentions were regarding his comment about The Suits. But hey, you gotta make up anything to fit your delusional narrative, right? Your rant about Meg is atrocious. She’s already rich herself, so dating a rich man is not strange. Kate was a commoner and her mom purposely switched her college, so she could try to pursue William, that’s social climbing. I don’t hear you talking about Kate. 🤔 As for everything else,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:35 AM |
| 5 | Piers Morgan Continues His Hate Obsession with Meghan MarkleHarry admitted to having a crush on her after watching The Suits and sought out for her. This was directly coming out of Harry’s mouth. Careful, your pickme nature is showing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:51 AM |
| 10 | Piers Morgan Continues His Hate Obsession with Meghan MarkleThank you! I literally argued about this with some FDSers and how their view is against FDS philosophy. It’s a wonder why they are even here. This subreddit is made by a black woman who speaks up not only for all women, but also for the most unprotected and underrepresented group of minority - black women. Misogynoir is rampant when it comes to Meghan Markle among some FDSers. They don’t deserve to be here if they are spewing racist pickme garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:28 AM |
| 3 | Piers Morgan Continues His Hate Obsession with Meghan MarkleHe was married at that time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:20 AM |
| 12 | Piers Morgan is the quintessential “nice guy” with a fragile wittle ego all because he can’t stand that Meghan Markle rejected himHarry explicitly said that he chose to stay away from his own family. To blame Meghan without any proof unless it’s coming directly from their mouths isn’t actual evidence to go off with. All of what you said was speculation and it isn’t enough to base your opinion on her. We women need to stick together, especially with black women who receives the worst treatment which is misogynoir. This is what is happening to Meghan. FDR stands up for all women, so be careful with your damaging comment sinc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Piers Morgan is the quintessential “nice guy” with a fragile wittle ego all because he can’t stand that Meghan Markle rejected himWhat is your reason for not liking her? :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 07:56 PM |
| 26 | If this has been posted before please remove it. But sisters, this is where 50-50 will get you. It's their kid, but her bills.Did they also recommend abortion or adoption? She doesn’t want the child, so I think it’s a good idea to do either one of those choices and build herself up after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 01:29 PM |
| 10 | LVM male guide to cheap dating. Watch out for these bright red flags ladiesIt’s legitimately one of the clown acts. Source: I saw actual clown performances as a kid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 07:34 PM |
| 11 | beware of men that aren't over their EX and the subtle ways they let you knowWow I bet the wedding is a clown theme. At least you tried. You can’t stop her from joining in the circus. 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 09:56 PM |
| 18 | beware of men that aren't over their EX and the subtle ways they let you knowWhat did she say? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 04:30 PM |
| 6 | A LVM Always Outs himself eventuallyScreenshot his texts and record his calls. Then send it to her. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 02:35 PM |
| 43 | Why is it that I’m supposed to specify “not all men” when discussing rape when 1 in 10 men are rapists?I know one man who isn’t like that. My brother. But still I believe it takes an unicorn hunt to find a man who isn’t like that. The society is built upon toxic paternity and media keeps breeding those toxic sentiment. I think if we continue plastering our FDS philosophy across the social media platform, helping women to have a radical mindshift and refusing to date men of low caliber. Our FDS voices may influence media to change and incorporate shows/movies that are truly empowering, thus changi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 05:50 PM |
| 115 | Why is it that I’m supposed to specify “not all men” when discussing rape when 1 in 10 men are rapists?You’re absolutely right. I retract my statement on men having empathy. They don’t have empathy for their female relatives. It’s more out of their image where they flex it on other men and be like, “oh women in my family are pure and better than ‘whores’ out there”. Their chastity is the extension of male ego, so they do everything in their power to maintain that by control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 05:37 PM |
| 201 | Why is it that I’m supposed to specify “not all men” when discussing rape when 1 in 10 men are rapists?They don’t care about women that they don’t know, but ferociously protective of women that they know. This is because they don’t want to lose the easy access of women, so that’s why they gaslight women whenever this kind of topic comes up. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 05:08 PM |
| 6 | The REAL reason men are on dating sites often isn't to find a date.They also do it to flex on other guys. Everything they do is never for women (cause they are not people of value to them) but for the approval of guys. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 09:09 PM |
| 30 | [TW: Emotional Abuse] Armie Hammer’s ex Courtney Vucekovich Describes Gaslighting, Emotional Abuse, Sexual CoercionGo to r/redpills and you will see them exchanging abusive tactics. There are many pickup artist books and courses focusing on those as well. The knowledge is pretty widespread. They prey on insecure and naive girls to get what they want. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 09:38 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand the men that infiltrate this groupThanks for the info. Does it stop the followers part? I can’t find the way to disable it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Just think of the relief the ex wife must feel. How utterly embarrassing for everyone involved.I still think it isn’t enough. I believe he should be thrown into the wild far away from human civilization. He would fare well because of his innate barbarism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 01:03 PM |
| 6 | I don't understand the men that infiltrate this groupI was followed by a guy who was active in anti fds subs. I blocked him. Very creepy and strange. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 11:51 AM |
| 20 | I don't understand the men that infiltrate this groupFree advertisement! That’s how someone I know found this place, thanks to some random angry scrotey Redditor. They in turn recommended me to this place. I owe it all to her. It was life changing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 11:39 AM |
| 15 | I don't understand the men that infiltrate this groupTheir logic is just.. wow. How is threatening me going to help change my mind? Like, “oh your death threat has helped me see the light, thank you! Time to go to my rightful place, being oppressed!” Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 11:34 AM |
| 82 | Scrote threw out her skincare. She works 12 hour shifts, pays the bills, and pays for his "hobbies" . And what does he offer? Nada. He threw out her safe space 😤Bold of you to assume that he knows that skincare is the reason why she has perfect skin lol. There’s a part where he said “I told her she doesn’t need all this stuff because she’s beautiful already”. Looks like she’s dating a genius. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 10:48 PM |
| 10 | To celebrate me, and the shiny future ahead of me.Stunning! Just everything about this pic - hand and ring! Wow. 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 02:01 AM |
| 94 | LVM don’t like it when you know HVM existFor those who, unfortunately, don’t have love and support from family while growing up should look into reparenting through therapy and/or personal development resources. Then build a solid support system and put everyone else, including family, on no-contact for good. Then mental strength and self-love should come more easily when you get rid of all kinds of negativity altogether. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 09:23 PM |
| 17 | Haha abuse is hilariousTil! How do they assess someone as potentially violent? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 05:26 PM |
| 4 | I bought myself the rolling ring at 30, the knot ring at 35, to always remember how hard I've worked and how far I've come. We deserve it!Beautiful ring on beautiful hand! I love it! 😻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 05:21 PM |
| 6 | Decided to jump on the cute ring trend that’s going on this sub, here’s my first ring that I purchased from a merchant stand at college in my early twenties and I still love it to this day! ❤️Thank you queens! Your kind words made my day! Much love to all of you! 😭❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 04:45 PM |
| 7 | Decided to jump on the cute ring trend that’s going on this sub, here’s my first ring that I purchased from a merchant stand at college in my early twenties and I still love it to this day! ❤️Thank you! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 02:59 PM |
| 3 | He broke my finger a year ago, and I'm celebrating my freedom and healing with this commitment ring to myself. Long live the rose that grew from concrete!Yes please! Thank you so much! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 05:56 PM |
| 4 | He broke my finger a year ago, and I'm celebrating my freedom and healing with this commitment ring to myself. Long live the rose that grew from concrete!Just wondering. How much is it and does it come in different colours? It’s so lovely and I adore it! I’m glad you’re safe. Hope you’re doing well. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 11:56 AM |
| 1 | She is asking the wrong question. If you are in this situation then you should leave. Even if it is just a suspicionNext time when you make a post like this, please put a trigger warning before the title to help with possible triggers. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 12:13 AM |
| 32 | They never change! Abusive husband on fetlifeI’m so happy that you found your way out. I’m sorry that he took an advantage of your nativity and vulnerability. He pretty much groomed you. Now is the start of your new future! I can’t wait to see what future holds for you and I’m sure it’s bright. I’m happy you found us and I’m so happy it changed your life as it did for me too. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 12:05 AM |
| 6 | Manchild Starterpack (most definitely not my ex)On point. You forgot the logo “pornhub” as it’s their go-to after gaming. Dirty dishes, no bed sheets and beer as bonus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:57 PM |
| 17 | I’m struggling to see what’s funny about this. Disrespectful and self-centered, definitely. Imagine thinking this was a cute or funny gift!Invalidating her feelings and gaslighting her in a form of “joke” on a day that is supposed to be full of love and wholesome. I hope she knows she’s not overreacting and sees it as an unfair dismissal of her needs that she is rightfully entitled to have met. I’m so sick of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:38 PM |
| 36 | Its sad how many women don’t believe in HVMSis that’s beautifully and most uplifting thing I’ve ever read in a while! Your English is on point, so no worries. Very well written. I wish all pickmes read this and start to unlearn internalized sexism. From there, it would be easier to demand more than bare minimum if we all group up and challenge the system. Men won’t have anyone to abuse. They may try to run to impoverished countries to marry an unfortunate woman or pay prostitutes, but not every man can afford this route, considering how … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:01 PM |
| 25 | Imagine being this much of a pathetic degenerate. 🤢🤢🤢Scrotes would say prostitution is as old as mankind, so is murder. That doesn’t make it okay because it’s been around for a long time. It’s time to progress towards the future where the world isn’t dictated by a penis. It shouldn’t be this hard to get basic human rights and respect for all living creatures. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 03:44 PM |
| 7 | Sigh... and people wonder why I won’t date a guy without a car, income and houseThe problem is that they share the lease. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 03:10 PM |
| 28 | At this point they could rename themselves as r/ThoughtPolice and I will see no differenceIt’s been marked as NSFW, which sucks because I don’t want to turn it off to be bombarded with porn-sick subreddits when searching for a wholesome subreddit. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 02:15 PM |
| 9 | A male family member has hacked my Google account.WILL SOMEONE PLEASE THINK OF CHILDREN - AH I MEAN... MEN?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:29 AM |
| 17 | Men never fail to disappoint...He has a twitter account, so search for him on Twitter and dm him. I would love to see him take down these guys. It’d be epic! Reddit relies heavily on advertisements and have changed their behaviour quickly to accommodate advertisers so I have a feeling that advertisers are gonna pull out if certain things don’t change. As for the op post, I didn’t know that alley dwellers have internet, wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:05 AM |
| 65 | Low value men whine about women not playing the role of a therapist, calling us unempathetic for not letting them cross our boundaries in that regard. I explained to the idiots on how the healthy relationship works. :/They want validation and ego boost. They can’t stand the idea of women out there living their best lives without them lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 12:19 AM |
| 1 | r/FDSredpills low value men whine about women not playing the role of a therapist, calling us unempathetic for not letting them cross our boundaries in that regard. I explained to the idiots on how the healthy relationship works. :/You’re absolutely right. My intention is to start a discussion on being gaslit into being a therapist to be “empathetic”. I could do that without mentioning them. I’ll remove the subreddit from the post. Thanks. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 11:37 PM |
| 6 | r/FDSredpills low value men whine about women not playing the role of a therapist, calling us unempathetic for not letting them cross our boundaries in that regard. I explained to the idiots on how the healthy relationship works. :/FYI, in the second picture, a word “emotional dumping” is blocked by an icon of arrows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 11:34 PM |
| 25 | Is this a joke??? 1,500+ likes (and counting!) on this comment that’s only a few hours hold. Every. Single. Comment. is praising her 😭Well, somebody gotta take out trash. She’s doing us a favour by removing them from the dating pool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 12:44 PM |
| 2 | I saw a huge difference between pics and bio of women and men on OLD apps. Let’s just say it’s a curse to be a straight woman. :(Now you put it that way. I don’t mean to downplay or erase the struggles that queer people go through everyday. It’s true I’m privileged not to have experienced that and I’m thankful. It’s definitely easier living as a heterosexual where I won’t get harassed or assaulted for holding hands with my partner and everything in the society is heteronormative, excluding queer people from those spaces. I don’t know if it’s okay to say this, but I do wish I could date all genders so not to be pigeoned in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 06:57 AM |
| 28 | I've most definitely learned this the hard way. Lowering your standards will cause you to lose respect for yourself in the long run, and it will never be enough for LVM. What is one dating standard you won't compromise on?I dated a guy who thought porn was wrong. Guess how he treated me apart from other guys who watched porn? A huge difference, that’s for sure. He saw me as an actual human being and he treated other women as people too. It was so nice talking to someone who wasn’t actively trying to get in my pants. Girls, trust me. There are men out there who don’t watch it. They are probably hard to find. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 11:09 AM |
| 71 | Mashable decides to celebrate International Female Orgasm Day by dedicating a whole week to porn. Because what better way to celebrate female orgasms than focusing on an industry KNOWN for women faking it.If they truly care, which we all know they don’t. They would bring awareness and more funding to research on female sexuality such as psychological and/or physiological complications of orgasm. Also, more awareness and advocacy for women to stop using contraception as it causes severe complications and push for male contraception as it is much safer alternative. Don’t even get me started on porn and its danger against women. It absolutely does not benefit women, so what a joke. I hate that the d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 08:16 AM |
| 12 | I'm not easily accessible anymore. My energy is something not everyone gets to experience. I feel like a Queen having a say on who I even allow to enter my personal space.I imagine how it goes like this: “You have been invited to the grand chamber with Queen after being vetted thoroughly and have shown great promise as of result”. As it should be! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:50 AM |
| 11 | Scrotes tend to go for these archetypes in women.Yesssss queen! 🌸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 06:01 AM |
| 27 | Scrotes tend to go for these archetypes in women.That’s very true! I remember how “sluts” were treated and it’s horrifying. Some of them were sexually harassed/assaulted because scrotes felt angry for not being able to have access to their bodies, especially when they had that kind of reputation. Apparently this archetype isn’t allowed to have boundaries. Damsel in distress is often abused in every way, including financial abuse, so it’s harder for them to leave. Their vulnerability attracts the worst kind of abuser since their naivety/denial … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 05:53 AM |
| 63 | Pickmesha calls us InCeLs 🤡Not only that did she do that, she also said that we shouldn’t act so big like we weren’t supposed to feel good about ourselves. That’s not a sign of confidence. In society, men are allowed to feel good about themselves, not us? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:42 PM |
| 7 | Reframing of the Pickme PhenomenonThank you! :) I’ve learned this kind of language from this enneagram description: https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/type-2 This thread reminds me of enneagram type 2, which many women are socialized to be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 12:47 PM |
| 19 | Reframing of the Pickme PhenomenonThat’s exactly what I saw too. Women are brainwashed to romanticize this type of relationship without realizing the harm that it brings to their inner selves since the focus is largely on the guy, not themselves. The healthy relationship is not to find a good man where you do similar acts of service. The healthy relationship is to be loved for who you are, not what you do. That’s love. He should be able to do all of that for himself everyday, sparing you the burden anyway. It’s fine if it’s once… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 12:36 PM |
| 76 | Notice how he’s always gaming. Let’s pray for her.He’s not even overfilled with joy and gratitude when she brought food to him at his workplace. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 03:00 AM |
| 44 | And I'd rather shit in my hands and then clap than be in the same room as a dude like this.Time to unfriend that loser. He sounds like an enemy of every woman alive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:39 AM |
| 38 | Do my eyes deceive me? Is this even something worth entertaining???The lengths that a woman is willing to go for a scrote like that is just so depressing. She needs a radical mindset change to be truly happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:34 AM |
| 24 | Man takes a woman on a walking date and she calls him over later to try to initiate sex.... This can’t be real. We’ve found Queen Pickme!If he’s not dying from excitement, don’t bother trying girl. :/ Go for a man who is grateful to be with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:37 PM |
| 14 | FDS hitting 100k but men STILL be like...“Lemme take you to the specific field where the grave hole is already dug out.” 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 06:21 PM |
| 11 | Life will test you the minute you decide to be a HVW.“I’m just providing fertilizer to your plant!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:01 AM |
| 6 | I’ll believe “not all men” bullshit if you let your daughter date freely.The nerve of that guy! :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 11:49 PM |
| 21 | Remember that your emotional labor is priceless but NOT FREE!There’s nothing romantic about coddling an emotionally stunted man as a unpaid therapist/emotional dumpster. How is that relationship even balanced/equal if she’s babying him? 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 11:41 PM |
| 5 | Wow. This is sad.I don’t think you were dumb at all. Most of us have been there, which is why we are here. I certainly think you don’t deserve a ban for having your own standards even if it’s not 100% aligned with FDS. Clearly, you are here for a reason. We were all conditioned to accept lower than bare minimum treatment and stay in a relationship that’s bad for our mental and physical health because we were brainwashed into thinking that “love conquers all” and that men are our project to fix. We were never tau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:01 PM |
| 45 | Remember that your emotional labor is priceless but NOT FREE!He looks like a giant baby. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 08:51 PM |
| 12 | Wow. This is sad.I’m sorry to hear about your ex husband. You don’t deserve that. It’s not uncommon for men to have some HV qualities and some LV qualities at the same time. That’s why it is so important to use all the FDS methods to bring out any dormant LV qualities, so it won’t be a nasty surprise down the road. His paying for dates was HV for sure, but he had LV qualities that led up to that point. It doesn’t negate that one method because of your anecdotal evidence. It has worked out for a lot of women. It’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 08:45 PM |
| 16 | Wow. This is sad.Look at this way. Once women marry and have children, they are in the most vulnerable state. They are more likely stay at home mom, which means that they are vulnerable financially-wise. So, having men being generous without you asking him to be by offering to pay for dates among other things will help with the vetting process. It is an insurance that he will be there for you when it gets difficult financially when you become a stay at home mother. If one doesn’t want to become a stay at home mo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 08:26 PM |
| 104 | This is why we don’t sit around and put our eggs in one basket and remember if a man wants you he will say it directlyI felt the same way lmao. He oozes fuckboi vibes. He’s very fluent in the fuckboi language as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 06:37 PM |
| 11 | Glennon Doyle's "Untamed" is FDS dogma - written by a former Pickmeisha who has seen the lightThis is why women on average become an empty shell of themselves due to sacrificing one’s self as a trade-off for a supposedly better/easier life in a patriarchal system. Throughout the history, we have an “anomaly” of a woman who opposes to the system, both misguided women and men gang upon her in order to oppress her. We need to stop romanticizing a selfless archetype that only belongs to women. We are subliminally told that our dreams, hopes and goals should never get in a way of our womanly … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:05 AM |
| 10 | Truth.Since our early childhood, we have been conditioned to equate men’s interest in us as an evidence of our self-worth and value as a woman. Also, having a relationship is an evidence of our self-worth. To unlearn years of conditioning from all areas such as media, culture, school, peers, etc is very difficult. It takes great effort, strength and patience in building self-awareness, self-love, emotional intelligence and knowledge. In addition, we need to be more assertive and communicative in order… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:16 PM |
| 5 | leaving that toxic nvm was the best decision i ever madeThat’s trauma bonding. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:14 PM |
| 9 | If a guy vehemently hates cats, run.What is your reason for hating cats? Just curious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 06:19 PM |
| 76 | If a guy vehemently hates cats, run.I have another point to add, OP. Another reason why some men may hate cats is that cats don’t feed their already fragile ego like a dog would. A dog would worship the ground that they walk upon. So, they don’t get their narcissistic fix from a fiercely independent cat. It drives them crazy that they aren’t codependent like dogs. Watch out for men like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Tinder Interactive Game Episode #1 “I covered for Graham for cheating” is commonly picked over “I told the GF the truth”Yes, they know. Still don’t give a poop. 💩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 12:52 AM |
| 11 | Tinder Interactive Game Episode #1 “I covered for Graham for cheating” is commonly picked over “I told the GF the truth”No shame nor empathy at all. Scrotacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:46 PM |
| 11 | LVM and NVM specifically target women with low self esteemHave you guys read the comments? A bunch of scrotes proudly boasted about using those tactics and that it worked for them. All without any shame or empathy. So depraved. 🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 07:34 PM |
| 5 | Ask WHY a guy likes you - and pay attention to the answer.you smart | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:37 PM |
| 6 | When FDS opens your eyes and you're free!There’s no right type of body in terms of beauty. We as women are beautiful no matter what skin we are in, so go flaunt what you got girl!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter?You have no idea how truly badass you are. That goes well for all of the women who come here and support this subreddit. This subreddit is truly life-changing for me. I’ve been on internet for 20 years and believe me when I say this, I’ve never seen a truly safe space for women. It’s so refreshing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Never diminish your light for anyone.I bet many of us can relate as it’s embedded in us from our early conditioning. Don’t forget to apply this to ladies too. We also feel the pressure to dim our light in order to keep our friendship that aren’t truly friendship to begin with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 04:24 AM |
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