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As long as a man doesn’t interact with any woman, sure But a porn sick man has no right to demand anything less than an OF girl
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:55 AM

Bizarre, defensive answer that has nothing to do with what I said. But ok Have whatever standards you want, no one is stopping you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:25 AM

For the same reason men want modest, virginal women This isn’t that hard to figure out. We all want what is “ours” in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:58 AM
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I would love to see an example of women’s media saying fat, greasy, smelly women deserve Prince Charming. Where are you seeing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:30 PM
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You’re trying to negotiate attraction. Socially inept gaming porn addicted losers are unattractive in reality, as much as fat greasy women are Your fantasy is as unrealistic as the other. Those guys are pussy repellent
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:30 AM
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The obvious reason is that men lie about why they give women stuff/take care of them/praise them/whathaveyou The guys on this sub act like men are walking up to hot teen girls and saying “I want to fuck you, so let me buy you this” The truth is, men are saying that they’re doing these things because: they’re good guys they’re friendly to everyone they care about the friendship they’re chivalrous/gentlemen We all feed each other’s delusions when we’re young. Attractive young women aren’t psychic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:57 AM
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Give your hamster a rest. The entire post is one long soliloquy whining about how men of the past didn’t try. That’s bullshit. They worked, they approached, they dated You can bemoan your own status in todays SMV/RMV without shitting on the obvious efforts men of the past made
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 11:32 PM
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Yes. Men of the past didn’t skate by, which is the point made by the rest of my post. It flies directly in the face of OP’s argument I never touched the challenges men face these days
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 05:35 AM
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That’s quite literally not what I said. I made no comment on men of this generation - just defended older generations of men
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 04:32 AM
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Take it up with the OP. I was responding directly to his criticism of “men who came before you”
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 07:33 AM
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Edited out unnecessary crankiness of my part here If you want to change the subject, you need to signal that you’re shifting focus to something else rather than continue with accusatory language. That’s how things get misinterpreted Anyhow, I apologize for my part in misunderstanding you. If we’re shifting the conversation … Do I agree that social media has fucked up an entire generation of young women? Yes. On, like, every level imaginable. I actually think it’s outright ruining a whole generat…
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 05:46 AM
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You’re either reading things into what I’m saying that just aren’t there, or you’re so invested in picking a fight that what I wrote doesn’t matter Either way, I’m not into someone outright putting words into mouth that were never said. I’m not arguing with someone who wants to ignore what I actually said and strawman their own argument Yes, clearly women work full time these days. Not sure what that has to do with me defending the men of generations ago?
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 05:30 AM
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The Industrial Revolution was messy as all hell, and conditions really didn’t start to get better until the 1920s. That’s even debatable, given how shitty the US is to workers vs the rest of the developed world (paid time off, healthcare, etc) (Sorry, I will never turn down an excuse to geek out over the Industrial Revolution, it’s one of my favorite time periods to dig into) You have an interesting point about manual labor vs white collar. It almost feels like we’re going to see the labor marke…
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 05:03 AM
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I was responding to the OP saying men didn’t grind as hard in the past, didn’t workout, etc If anything, I’m actually defending the men of the past without throwing todays men under the bus or insulting them The only thing I said about todays men is that you guys don’t get how different your life experience is bc of the internet. Which is true, and also defensible - most people on Reddit didn’t live pre-Internet (I did) I say this with all respect, but I think you’re reading into what I said and…
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 04:55 AM
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I was responding to a post about men in previous generations vs men today Take it up with the OP if you wanted to expand the conversation to women (which is also an interesting subject, and I don’t disagree with you)
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 04:36 AM
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I think that’s a more complex answer than you’re expecting The current 5 day work week and labor protections we all enjoy are a thing bc businesses were forcing employees to work longer and harder than we have to now. So yes, plenty of people worked far longer hours at far harder jobs than we work now Was working multiple jobs as common then as it is now? I don’t know, but I’d hazard a guess that no. People are hustling in more areas than they have historically done And (as unpopular as this is …
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 04:34 AM
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Yes, HS, neighbors, etc all got grouped under “friends” As in “someone knew her, and we met through a shared social event/interaction/happenstance” We’re not disagreeing. Online dating didn’t exist, as I said
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 04:29 AM
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Oh yeah, it’s not a phenomenon exclusive to women. I’ve seen men presume the best of a partner as often as women do It’s just a pill sub 😂 I know better than to go “men do it too!”
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 03:54 AM
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No one made the argument that women worked - that was my point. Men actually did work their asses off because their success was the only way their family could be fed, clothed and housed OP made the argument that men in previous generations didn’t grind. I agree with you, I was refuting it In terms of playing the field, you’re assuming I meant people successfully getting action. Sitting on an app, swiping away futilely, is still playing the field at 23 (compared to men of previous generations, w…
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 03:52 AM
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Agreed, but there’s also a bizarre belief on here that the guys are upfront about it No, people (not just guys) who are fucking multiple people generally aren’t upfront about it. It’s super easy to mislead someone, even accidentally I’d wager that it’s rare for both partners to know the true facts of a situationship
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 03:33 AM
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I’m not sure where you got this info, but you’re very wrong The men of my father’s and grandfather’s generation absolutely self improved: Video games and the Internet didn’t exist, so they played sports. They didn’t focus on the gym bc they were outside everyday after school They worked their asses off in their careers, because they were expected to be the sole breadwinners They may have met women through friends, but they also cold approached. Those were literally the only two ways of meeting a…
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 03:25 AM
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Honestly, I don’t think men realize the level of delusion/lying to ourselves that we do. On top of that, guys here seem to expect that women will not only communicate directly, but also somehow have omnipotent knowledge about the motives of individual men As a general rule, women communicate directly in one universal instance: a private conversation with a trusted close friend about a guy one of them is seeing. I’m guessing it’s bc we all know how delusional we can be, so we’ll tell our good fri…
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 02:54 AM
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Upvoted for the actual answer. I get yelled at and down voted when I say, here’s hoping they listen when it comes from a dude It’s amazing how some of the guys here can look at collective female delusion, and somehow hamster themselves into even more dramatic delusion
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 01:51 AM
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He’s a pro offering the male version of the GFE. I understand why he’s popular and has received marriage proposals
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 03:26 AM
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PPD was never friendly to incels, and the decision to change course and allow them was due to one male mod. A lot of the sub disagreed, including many male posters - it completely changed the tone of the sub for the worse. The AFCs and TRPers vs Blue Pill was totally lost - now it’s everyone vs incels I was there before some of the people on this forum went through puberty, and the OG female posters ran the gamut - Atlas, Arthur, Sublime, me, Griddy. We are all fairly purple, with the exception …
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 12:54 AM
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It’s honestly refreshing to see how comfortable you in your own skin, with your own preferences It’s especially refreshing in spaces like this, where you get the feeling that the guys are less discussing their preferences … and more virtue signaling what highly selective alphas they feel they need to be seen as (And women are plenty guilty of this, as well)
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 11:37 PM
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Never change, pp 😂
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 07:57 PM
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Make slut is definitely a thing. And to be clear - no judgment here Not I said high beta. Despite what this group thinks, women do prioritize relationships over sex. Women want a driven, family-oriented SO, not someone hitting on every waitress on the way back from the bathroom during date night That’s not to say we want betas. High betas are attractive, charismatic, career driven - and probably played the field when they were young and single. Think Justin Timberlake (high beta) vs Chris Brown …
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 11:33 PM
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Maybe that’s the difference of opinion. Men mean male sluts when they say Chad Women generally a high beta they would crawl over cut glass to land
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 11:10 PM
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Eek. He sounds like he dodged a cokehead-shaped bullet
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 10:22 PM
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This is my biggest criticism of black pill - you guys seem to think Chad never gets feelings He definitely does. Not as often as laying to get laid, sure, but not even chads are immune to emotions
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 06:27 PM
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Apps are the absolute worst thing that could have happened to single men Women aren’t visual creatures in the way men are. Forcing us to only judge men by looks was always a recipe for disaster
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 02:41 AM
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I’ll give a reply in good faith I think this is very much comparable to when men complain that women only like psychopaths and bullies The truth is, women don’t see how cruel other women are to less attractive or uncharismatic men. It’s a particular brand of cruelty we hide from each other. Especially when there is some sort of neurodivergence or physical handicap/shortcoming When you say you’ve experienced that, we’re likely talking to you as someone we wouldn’t treat like that. We’ve categoriz…
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 02:38 AM
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She’s a fucking asshole If it gives you any consolation, women who are that pathetically immature and insecure in their physical prime do not handle aging well. Like, at all This says it’s about conservative women, but it’s honestly about women like this regardless of politics. And how they get fucked over by life for assuming they’re special snowflakes
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 12:08 AM
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Lol, you missed the rest of my post about ushering in a very challenging phase of the relationship, and holding it over his head Regardless, my SO wouldn’t do that without just cause (which I would never give him). Bc I don’t form relationships with brain dead men who think the pillosphere is gospel So this is all hypothetical to me
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 09:10 PM
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Give this sub 3 months, and you’ll have your answer 😂
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 11:16 PM
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Whether or not he was affected by (or even saw) that shitty post has nothing to do with the poster being a complete shithead of a human, with a crab bucket lower psychology We should all be pointing and laughing at life’s losers
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 06:39 PM
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I’m actually saying the person who posted that is a shit human being trying to drag down a happy dude
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 02:19 PM
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Not surprised, so much as not understanding the crab bucket mentality. It makes me a little sad - let a dude be happy
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 03:02 AM
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What a fucked up thing to post under a wedding pic
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 02:39 AM
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Literally none of this word salad refutes any of my points
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 03:31 AM
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There is no such thing as “zero opportunity” Actually, there is. We both work from home (my keystrokes are logged by my company) and are together all day every day. We also have a home security system that has cameras on every door and window We also share a cell phone plan and regularly use each others computers/cell phones/tablets Please tell me how either of us could possibly get one over on the other one? I’m sure it’s possible, but Jesus. You’d have to be a psychopath to pull it off No man …
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 05:39 AM
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The problem with your argument is your comparison of rape or murder, and how women take precautions in public. It’s literally a different concern, and not comparable to the uniquely male fear of paternity fraud. Rape/murder are concerns about strangers, not a person you’ve been with for years and know well/trust The demand of a paternity test within a healthy, monogamous relationship is an accusation of cheating at worst. At best, it’s showing that your trust isn’t solid, and therefore the relat…
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 01:36 AM
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This being a pill sub, I’m guessing sexy reasons? No shame, honestly My other guess is engineering reasons - Hoover Dam, Panama Canal, that sort of stuff
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 06:34 AM
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Women tend to be more into cultural stuff, like art. We’re also more likely to enjoy relationship-based entertainment (looking at you, trashy reality tv) Traveling to experience different cultures and meet people is just an extension of that Anecdotally, men tend to be more into adrenaline-fueled activities (skydiving and whatnot). That seems to be the male version of it 🤷‍♀️ Neither are right or wrong, it just is the way our brains are wired
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 01:40 AM
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There are a ton of reasons, but the most likely is that you caught her eye … but she has a bf, or a guy she’s emotionally invested in, and just enjoying you as a combo platter of looks and interesting to watch Or, she’s in a situation where flirting is inappropriate. With coworkers, with family, with a charity she volunteers for. Whatever Take the ego snack. It’s a compliment - not sure why you’re finding it discouraging, it should be building you up
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 05:02 AM
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I dated someone in my early 20s who had a legitimate medical micropenis. It was smaller - by far - than what anyone on here has described Here’s the thing, though - he took the time to learn exceptional oral skills. I was very, very satisfied. Actually more satisfied than with above average men who couldn’t be bothered to actually care about female pleasure The flip side is that we could do any position he wanted, anything that would satisfy him. I didn’t have to worry about pain or anything We …
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 04:10 AM
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No OB/GYN would ever in a million years come to the conclusion that doctor supposedly did Lube exists because women don’t get sufficiently wet regularly. From one off random moments when our bodies are being stupid despite being horny, to hormones, to dehydration, to peri or actual menopause It’s a very common place, minor injury that a doctor wouldn’t blink at (outside of asking about consent)
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 03:15 AM
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Yes, masculinity tokens has always been a thing Height is a disadvantage, sure. But it can be overcome - this has literally always been true
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 04:10 PM
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My new bf is not 6’3 😂
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 04:09 PM
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I was married for more than a decade to a guy who is 5’8 Based on the fact that he had no problem finding women while being married, I don’t think his height on an app is an issue. (And if you must know, his current gf is quite beautiful) Seriously, you guys spout off and don’t know shit yourselves
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 03:37 AM
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It’s not your height, it’s your inability to interact like a normal human Jfl
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 02:53 AM
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How is this not obvious?
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 11:04 PM
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They’re 16 year old morons. This isn’t a Chad situation, dude is gossiping about his penis with his friend. And taking the friends bad advice Both of them are gambling their future, and are too young and immature to appreciate it
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 12:16 AM
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Agreed. Fantasies are fun, but ultimately boring and unsatisfying Everyone should tell delusional people to fuck off
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 04:37 AM
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Any woman who expects romance novel treatment is either a delusional nutcase or 12. It’s completely unrealistic, which is what makes it a fun fantasy That said, do you think men aren’t demanding uncomfortable and/or painful porn sex as regular sex? The amount of men who demand anal alone is through the roof (esp when studies show only 2% of women enjoy it) - it’s a very common sex act. And not bc women are demanding it Everyone - male and female - needs to have the self respect to tell these bou…
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 03:51 AM
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“Romance” novels are the female equivalent to porn Both are popular. Both are unrealistic fantasies that will never happen in real life, but are enjoyable Neither involve respect or/or care. Both involve peak fantasy partners. Romance novels are referred to as “bodice rippers” for a reason - and it’s not chivalry I get that the guys here take umbrage at women pretending they are actually romantic, but men also lie a ton about their porn choices. Human shame is a thing
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 02:40 AM
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My father was 6’5, and one of my close cousins is 6’7 Yes, too tall exists. I’ve watched them get rejected
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 07:23 AM
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Eh, with some women, yes. I’d wager these ones are incredibly loud I’m 5’2. 6 foot is my absolute limit - the logistics are just screwy beyond that
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 04:27 AM
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It should be assumed. How are you so blind to this?
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 08:17 PM
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No one says looks didn’t matter. Of course they do But we need more than looks alone, and that’s where this breaks down
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 12:56 AM
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You’re confusing your proactive sexuality with reactive female sexuality We are not men. We don’t respond to men the way you guys respond to women Stop trying to demonize our sexuality through your POV. You guys need some strategically placed lumps of fat to be attracted. We need interaction and escalation
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 04:36 AM
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That, I don’t disagree with But I’m assuming men are just losing the “edge” of sexuality, you’re not getting an injection of female hormones - so you’d be losing your natural edge, without gaining a female edge Seems like a recipe for even more lonely men? And men don’t need that happening Now I’m going down the mental rabbit hole of wondering if the soy and hormones in meat have a big hand in our current situation, rather than sex drive
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 02:33 AM
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I’ve actually wondered what the world would be like if men had (even slightly) less testosterone. Sure, the sex drive would be non-existent But I don’t know if the pay off is worth it. A lot of what women love about masculinity is directly tied to higher testosterone (and yes, most women love it. Even lesbians generally enjoy the company of men, even if only platonically) I’ve actually wondered the opposite - what would it look like if women had enough testosterone that our sexuality was always …
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 01:58 AM
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I mean, I’d rather have zero interest at all than interest from men who would demean me and disregard me while literally inside of my body On that point, I think it’s a “grass is greener” thing - women don’t have anywhere near as strong of a sex drive, so being left alone is a hell of a lot more appealing But yeah, your last sentence is my point - men don’t think that phenomenon exists with women, when is wildly confusing to me, but I guess men have blinders on for ugly women (like women do for …
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 01:43 AM
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Yeah, I’m not denying men experience it too - I think you’re rational enough to see that both genders do, but I don’t get the feeling many incels (at least, the ones active with posting) do see that. Maybe I shouldn’t have done my normal “respond to RatDontPanic” strategy in this one And yes, ugly women do sometimes win the romance lottery, do sometimes settle, and a bunch of options in between. But married ugly men are pretty common too - Chad isn’t wifing up a 2, let’s be honest But for women …
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 01:20 AM
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I think part of the misunderstanding is that men - especially incels - do not understand how differently men treat women because of looks. The halo effect is real in romance/sex I’ve seen it first hand. My sister is objectively less attractive than me, and men are a thousand times shittier to her than me. And she’s maybe a 4 or 5, not someone who is genuinely ugly I’ve heard men openly talking about hitting on ugly or fat women because “that’s the kind of girl you donkey punch while fucking.” Ac…
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 01:02 AM
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Reminds me of the Scrubs scene, where Turk (black male doctor) and Elliot (white female doctor) have it worse … racism or sexism? Then they both shut up when a black female doctor walks by them There’s no arguing that black women receive the shit end of both racism and sexism
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 04:06 AM
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Yeah, I’m assuming the weird shit is negotiable. Tennis and flip flops and Nikes? (Nikes make sense to me, for example, but I’d never judge a date on that. They’re just horrific for marathons, which I do train for and run) Maybe I’m giving too much credit
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 04:02 AM
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That’s ok. Very few people are top tier That shouldn’t prevent people from having standards - men and women alike
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 12:44 AM
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Honestly? I fully support a man with this gender flipped list. Sure, some are weird (what is up with the “good at tennis for no reason”?), but others make sense No stank breath, no natural deodorant users, no dirty fingernails, people who don’t change out their toothbrush … these all seem damn reasonable I can forgive the weird quirks that come with the genuinely good list. Guys need to remember to treat themselves as the prize. Self respect and standards are good
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 12:16 AM
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Oh man, I didn’t know PPD had gone down the gutter that dramatically. Makes me sad that the post I’m still most proud of would never have happened (I asked an open ended question about men’s experiences with abortion) Edit - here, if you’re curious But yeah, it’s good to give frustrated men a place to vent. I do think having this be a debate sub open to all is beneficial - plausible deniability if the admins come sniffing around (And, yes, sometimes I’m cranky and looking for a stupid fight so t…
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 03:37 AM
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I agree the irrational fears are a class issue. They’re also a “main character” issue. Most of us just aren’t going to be the victim of a tragedy - it’s tragic for those who are, but they’re so few and far between that it’s not worth getting worked up about. Just pay attention to your surroundings You do bring up the other side of it, which is that our early experiences are rare, which is what makes them so jarring and memorable. It’s hard to reconcile the first time you felt like literal prey -…
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 03:30 AM
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Agreed on PPD. It has changed, and not for the better. I’m pretty vocal about blaming OOO for that, but I’m likely being a bit unfair there Re: your last paragraph, I’m of two minds on it. Yeah, worrying about being stabbed or whatever is extreme. Do these people hide in their house all day and never experience new things? But the first time I noticed someone uncomfortably checking me out/being inappropriate - and my parents angrily reacting to it - I was 8. I genuinely don’t think men understan…
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 03:05 AM
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That actually makes me sad for what PPD has turned into these days. The OG crew of women were decidedly not sex workers Atlas is a lawyer and real estate agent Arthur is military-adjacent Sublime is a lawyer Mrs Degree is a manager in a lab, I believe I sell medical devices Although, now that I think about it, sex workers probably have way more based views about men
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 02:30 AM
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Sounds fair. If you don’t want the predictable consequences off your actions, seems reasonable not to do those actions
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 09:08 PM
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Yes, he’s receiving what he put out there in the first place Don’t want to receive this hate? Don’t proactively put out unprompted hate in the first place
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 05:05 PM
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Twitter exists, go comb through his shit
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 02:18 AM
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There are some gorgeous conservative women (Rachel Bush comes to mind, even though she’s better known as an NFL wife). Definitely agree
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 01:17 AM
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Yeah, I agree that you’d never have the context from this post Go check out his Twitter if you want context. My favorite is how he mourns the mid-century morals of America … despite being Malaysian and never having stepped foot in the US X pushes him into my feed all the time, and I have to chuckle. Someone is feeding him really good rage bait
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 12:50 AM
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Meh, he constantly insults women’s looks - he’s basically a 90s era shock jock. While I don’t agree with her sinking to that level, he’s also about the last person anyone should up in arms defending Bad person attracts insults from bad person. News at 12
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 12:34 AM
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Except she is very much a predictable sorority girl. She’s not awkward bc she’s flirting, she’s awkward bc she’s uncomfortable
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 10:26 PM
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Dude, women who fuck for exposure are sex workers. Women who fuck for money are sex workers Women by and large are not masochists or predators - not any more than men. By and large, women want sex with men they’re attracted to, who are attracted to them You guys are making sexuality way more complicated than it is
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 10:25 PM
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Ok, and? Yes, I’m quite feminine and can read female body language
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 09:50 PM
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You’re confusing two sets of women - pros performing sex acts on a podcast, and delusional women who like violent men/think they can tame them No one is saying some women don’t have terrible taste in men. Obviously, they do As far as the Nazis and child fiddlers on apps … who reads bios 😂 this seems damn self explanatory, although there are obviously sexually demented women out there, as well Much like serial killers and rapists are rare, women who like them are also rare. Quit trying to make th…
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 09:46 PM
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I’m saying that it doesn’t appear that she’s flirting. She looks straight up awkward to me
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 09:43 PM
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Do you have back up for it being “tens of thousands” of women mailing letters to Ramirez and Bundy? Last I read, it was more than any sane person expected, but still a tiny percentage of women. I’d love to see an actual figure
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 09:18 PM
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If men are gravitating towards them, they’re telling on themselves. Adults should be able to see those are pros, not women off the street Let’s just call a spade a spade, and a sex worker a sex worker. It’s ok to acknowledge it Kids and teens who don’t know are the ones I feel bad for
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 09:08 PM
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You know those food channel shots are staged, right? Business owners want to show their business as desirable
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 09:05 PM
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The popularity of these assholes makes me seriously concerned for the mental health and well-being young guys
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 02:16 AM
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Did we watch the same video? She’s acting. She even glanced at the camera in the beginning to see if it’s on She’s also wildly uncomfortable. Her body language is stiff, and her arms don’t leave her body. The hair tossing is a nervous tic She’s probably a pretty client they asked to be in the video that day. And she’s flattered but self conscious
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 12:39 AM
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That’s the problem with the threshold - it’s quantifiable on a social scale (I’d probably say 4s are the absolute bottom rung for most women, but the man has to be be stacked in charisma, money and/or some other attribute) But a specific 4 may or may not be in any given woman’s threshold. I know way more women into Benedict than Adam Driver, but I’m an AD girl So the whole “quantify it on a looks level” falls apart quickly. Statistics are meaningless to the individuals in question Have you ever …
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 02:03 AM
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The truth is that you’re not necessarily wrong, but it seems like you’re interpreting “attractive” through an Apex Fallacy. Like women can only be attracted to some Chadly God who can’t walk through a bar without a shield to protect them from the airborne pussy being thrown their way In our lived experience, “attractive” refers to a threshold. If you’re below it, sure. Game over. You’re right on that But if you meet the threshold, and your personality/charisma can jump you up the ladder The two …
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 04:46 AM
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What do you mean by “of substance”?
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 05:09 AM
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This is exactly it. I was reading the post, scratching my head about how this isn’t obvious to OP
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 11:48 PM
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That sub would rate prime age Bridgette Bardot a 4 Adjust your expectations accordingly
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 04:03 AM
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I work with one. She is unbelievably beautiful, and is a genuinely warm, nice person Walking through Manhattan with her, I saw multiple cars pass us, stop, back up, and ask for her number. It’s always hilarious - she doesn’t dress in any outrageous way or wear a ton of makeup. But there’s just no way of not seeing her
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 12:00 AM
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I’m an older chick (43) and have a protective instinct for anyone significantly younger than me. Which, let’s be honest, is anyone in their 20s these days (which I’m assuming is where you fall) It is what it is 🤷‍♀️ Me feeling comfortable interacting with strange men of this age has a lot to do with the fact that I know they’re not interested in me. I’m not worried they’ll get the wrong idea, so I don’t have to have my guard up the way I did when I was a pretty young thing 23 year old me was mor…
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 04:19 AM
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Earlier today, one of the fundie subs I follow (all women posters) was mocking a “born again virgin” fundie chick who married a legitimately religious virgin guy I think the main issue is when someone is demanding a quality they didn’t hold themself to. It’s an uncomfortable hypocrisy to see
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 04:40 AM
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I don’t disagree with your first point In terms of the happy hour comment, I literally mean “go to happy hour” Keep in mind two things: * I’ve been in the Reddit pill world since 2015. The vast, vast majority of unlucky-in-romance men on these subs will admit - when we drill it down - that they don’t go to bars or happy hours with friends. They’re chronically online, and that includes dating apps I live in a college town with two universities. I see college kids hooking up at happy hour on a lit…
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 04:33 AM
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I’m 43, divorced (after an 11 year marriage), and was only single for a hot minute before settling down My experience in dating would probably be infuriating to those who cope with thoughts of the wall. I separated at age 38, expecting to be single possibly forever That’s not how it works As far as caring about what incels think of me, I don’t. But a 43 year old chick’s post-divorce antics (which don’t include online dating) isn’t really relevant to most people here So I try to read the room and…
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 03:45 AM
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Men and women have distinctly different lived experiences, which are often at odds. See “not all men” vs “but all women” Neither is wrong, but the experiences don’t line up
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 03:04 AM
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Because what do you want us to post? This isn’t TwoX, we’re not here expecting a friendly reception to venting about our lived experiences. So we tend not to open up, and instead discuss the topics that are introduced
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 01:59 AM
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You need to see an ortho - is there a walk-in near you? I fucked up the ligaments in my knee badly while working out - there was no pain, but I was on crutches for months because my knee joint wasn’t supported. The bones were slipping all over the place I’m back to running long distances these days, thanks to medical intervention A joint like the wrist can have a massive impact on your life. Be proactive, and get it corrected Edit - just say it happened while working out. Hell, give them fake in…
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 05:59 AM
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Real talk: your dad is a douche bag who just so happens to be a Chad There was a well known PPD OG (AA) who had a true alpha for a dad … a Vietnam vet who somehow managed to raise kids who loved him, for all of his foibles My own father was a 6’5 college athlete (at a D1 school), who never had a problem with women. He looked out for his family, and took great pride in his children/grandchildren I am so sorry you had to deal with a dickhead. But that personality isn’t normal, that’s an abusive fu…
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 03:00 AM
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Because there are different dating pools. You’re not (yet) in the one with 35+ women, so you don’t see it
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 02:59 AM
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And you say you’re a good looking guy with a six pack So either other people can embody a good looking type and talk about it, or you are lying No one said racism doesn’t exist, not quite sure what that has to do with being a type? Dickheads will always exist, should I be whining about sexists in every post?
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 07:39 PM
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Bro. I’m a natural blonde with a natural rack who was a teen in the Baywatch-era 90s I have been flat-out told not to ever dye my hair, or change my weight, or whatever … all by men claiming to worship me This is life as a “type.” It’s not over, that is a bizarre ass statement coming from someone who is a preferred look You’re spoiled. Stop pretending otherwise. If this was an 80s movie, you’re the pretty girl at the school dance making boys prove they “really like [her]”
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 03:33 AM
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Yeah, he’s still in the “just graduated college, everyone thinks they have adulthood figured out” phase We’ve all been there, but it doesn’t last
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/23 12:35 AM
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Eh, you’ll be surprised. Trust me on that
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 06:40 AM
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Give it time. You’re going to see big waves of breakups around 26 - 28, then again around 35
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 03:24 AM
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Lol I should have known
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 08:03 PM
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Did you see the videos of Republican women melting down bc DeSantis ended permanent alimony? It’s honestly kind of funny, on like 12 different levels
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 07:49 PM
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Yeah, I’m fine with that era ending tbh
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 07:38 PM
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And was the golden age of alimony
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 07:29 PM
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The FSM is what you make of it, honestly. There are probably about as many happy/boost-up-other-women types as there are pick mes. They’re just opposite ends of the spectrum Most women lie in between - sometimes participating in the wholesome side, sometimes participating in the toxic side, sometimes using the competitive aspect for their own benefit or detriment It is what it is
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 07:28 PM
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Oh, yeah, I don’t disagree that women are tossing that around in situations where it doesn’t apply. We tend to latch onto insults, and this is a huge one - betraying the FSM is a deeply ingrained no-no. It’s an insult that will hurt, so it’s weaponized But there are more pick me women running around than you would think. Still a small minority, I’m not trying to claim it’s an epidemic That said, every social group has at least one floating around. It gets even grosser as the group ages, and the …
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 04:30 PM
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Eh, it’s the fine line between: Being a mom’s dream gf for her son (cooks, cleans, strives to make his life easier BUT ALSO is a strong supporter of the FSM) Being a bunny boiler who doesn’t care which man she gets, so long as she gets a man … And is willing to throw every other woman under the bus to get him The pick me is the second one The first one is a unicorn
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 03:58 PM
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Agreed, but it’s still classic pill-fodder The housewife would have a leg to stand on in bitching about classic gender roles, though. That’s the point - this is more akin to a housewife bitching about her husband working too many hours, comparing her marriage to her friends modern gender role relationship Like, sweetheart, this is what you chose. You don’t get the benefits of classic gender roles and also the benefits of a man who doesn’t have to kill himself at work bc he’s only responsible for…
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 03:42 PM
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Because they have some bizarre romance novel-driven idea of how women lose their virginity The reality of losing your virginity as a girl is boring at best, painful at worst. Over in probably less than a minute I remember what was on tv better than I remember the dude himself
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 03:36 PM
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You think “dude” and “bruh” are AAVE? My friend … the 80s would have broken you
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 02:30 PM
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An actress I’m blanking on all of the details, but essentially she is the breadwinner and bankrolls his life. They also have a kid together She went to an Usher concert in what I consider a fairly tame outfit - not something I would personally wear, but not even close to being as slutty as what I see when I’m out on the weekend Anyhow, Usher pulls her on stage. She fangirls a bit, but - again - it’s not like there’s a lap dance or anything particularly spicy IMO. Just laughing and a hug Her baby…
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 02:24 PM
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I mean, it’s true … but I’m mainly joking because I come here (among other subs) to rubberneck the unhinged posts/replies Being involved in a mature, rational conversation was the last thing I thought would happen 😂
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 10:49 PM
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You are speaking too much calm, even keeled truth
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 10:23 PM
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We are being far too reasonable for this board 😂
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 10:14 PM
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No, that’s true. Her life story has been consistent since before she was a mod
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 09:41 PM
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In all fairness, I did say “half.” There are certainly some clued-in people here, never meant to imply it was the whole group My point was just that not-clued-in people exist in both genders. Not that one gender is somehow better than the other at seeing it
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 09:37 PM
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👻
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 09:36 PM
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Come on, 🦑 It goes both ways. Half the comments on here are the dudes claiming women could never be lonely bc Chad will fuck them then discard them like a crusty cum sock People just don’t think about other people’s circumstances, it is what it is (PS - how are you??)
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 08:25 PM
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Some of its choice, and some of it is lack of opportunity Same reasons poor dudes from trailer parks don’t get into those positions, as a general rule I work in a female dominated niche within tech, and the higher ups are overwhelmingly women. In comparison, my ex-h’s white collar hedge fund had women on staff … and all were in receptionist/assistant roles (save one, who was the - you guessed it! - investor relations person who just sent out statements and newsletters) In-group bias exists, rega…
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 11:25 PM
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Point out where I ever claimed otherwise
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 01:19 PM
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You need evidence that men are bigger and stronger, and occupy the lions share of powerful positions? Do you also require a peer reviewed study to see that the sky is blue?
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 01:18 PM
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So, you have no evidence outside of “I have an opinion”
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 04:10 AM
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Not for long While that may prove to be true, it is true right now. In the present, where women live And while HC came close to the presidency, she still lost and the US has had no female president to date firearms have nullified No, they haven’t. No one is packing 100% of the time, and you know it. Places like concerts, bars, and clubs have security specifically screening so guns aren’t let in Plus, women are a bit more than half as likely to own a gun to begin with. Maybe we’ve internalized th…
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 09:51 PM
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Please quote me where I said women have no flaws If anything, this rant is damned defensive bc I made some actual points in response to the OP. Projection, my friend
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 03:35 AM
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Because there is nowhere near as many powerful women making laws/policies/whatever that affect everyone And people, as a rule, are selfish. They look out for their own in-group before anyone else - which is why women, minorities, whatever other group should have more representation In terms of the trend, you’re ignoring the fact that: The repercussions of future trend is not applicable under today’s circumstances (that said, I’m all for safeguards being put in place to protect men from whatever …
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 03:33 AM
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The honest answer? Because men are still more powerful. Physically stronger and bigger. Outearn us. Overwhelmingly outnumber us in positions of power (look at the numbers of men vs women in Congress, or the number of male vs female C-suite execs) Are average women out ranking men in college attendance and graduation rates? Sure But do you think your average English major grad has the power to go toe to toe with the upper echelons of society - which even you admit are male dominated? No, those po…
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 07:41 PM
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Or they’d about as exciting as a wet towel I’d choose wine, cats, and my own company
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 11:40 PM
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Yeah, I think I’ve just been dying to ask that question of someone here, and I just happened to blurt it out on your post Ignore my ramblings
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 10:19 PM
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I’m not addressing whether they’re true or not - anyone with eyes can see that they are I’m addressing the barely restrained rage that these concepts are met with here (and on other corners of the internet) Makes about as much sense as women who rage about men preferring young, curvy, beautiful women Both make sense when you think about the purposes they serve. They are what they are, c’est la vie
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 10:08 PM
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Pretty much every rom com and woman’s mag is about how to please your man, tips to attract them, what they’re thinking, etc You may feel misunderstood, and that’s fair, but it’s not for lack of interest on the part of women It’s just that women’s media is basically the gender flipped Andrew Tate (minus the human trafficking). Completely and utterly wrong about the other gender
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 09:39 PM
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Yes, actually, this is about male and female perspectives and priorities We have completely different objectives and strategies when it comes to sex and dating. We will never instinctively by sympathetic to the other gender That’s it, that’s my point. Neither gender owns “objective truth” or is any way more “correct” - evolution and society wouldn’t have shaped our behaviors to be as they are if they didn’t serve our own genders’ survival objectives I’m not telling you to touch grass, I’m pointi…
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 09:37 PM
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When it comes to being Good, Giving, and Game? I don’t care who tf is saying it, we should all strive for that in our sexual relationships And to be clear - that goes for both partners. It’s not a one way street, which is exactly the problem with dudes refusing to give oral on theory alone
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 04:06 AM
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Looooool I forgot about that amazing interview
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 01:34 AM
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Damn, man. I’m willing to give the guys who’ve tried it and didn’t like it a pass … but given the sub, I’d bet most dislike it based on theory alone That kinda makes me sad for them. And want to point them towards Dan Savage’s GGG theory
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 01:21 AM
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Wait, for real? Dudes here argued that? 😱
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 12:38 AM
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Why are you expecting women to understand the male perspective on sex and relationships? We don’t see it like you do, and frankly we think the things men prioritize are just as ridiculous and superficial as you claim women’s priorities are Men will never understand the woman’s perspective, and women will never understand men’s It’s fun as hell to talk about/debate though
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 12:22 AM
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Back in the early or mid-00s, there was a girl who went to my gym who always had her hair and makeup done. I’d see her everyday, but never actually saw her workout So I was curious one day, and kept her in eye sight - she literally walked around, flirted with some guys, pretended to stretch, and left. Bitch even sat of a bench I wanted to use to actually lift That was my first eye opener for how gross and desperate some women are for attention
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 10:54 PM
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That question makes the movie very interesting
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 09:12 PM
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Except isn’t a big part of the movie the fact that his psychopathic humor comes from him already being crazy?
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 02:50 AM
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You’re not wrong, but (as an outsider looking in) what I find really upsetting and sad is the crab bucket mentality Gallows humor is gallows humor - even if I personally don’t like a particular joke, it’s ok to make the joke. In-group lingo is ok But the crab bucket mentality of incel culture has made the gallows humor cross over into outright dehumanization of everyone who isn’t an incel
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 02:48 AM
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Nope, it’s about inter gender dynamics as a whole
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 09:37 PM
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It’s the “man tokens” theory (credit to Atlas) - the same reason the 5’0 ex-Green Beret I know killed it with women Men don’t need to be perfect in every category to get laid. They need to have an overall manhood value to get laid If a man puts enough “man tokens” into certain areas, he’ll be able to compensate for his shortcomings In the case of my friend, he may be 5’0, but he’s a fucking badass with a charismatic personality. And his background demands respect from even the toughest men he ru…
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 03:51 AM
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Riddle me this: why do most women prefer vibrators to dildos? They’re the number one sex toy for a reason, and more than half of American women use them Because dildos aren’t as sexually satisfying - anecdotally, they’re used more with a partner than for solo fun
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 11:28 PM
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I’ve lived in my female body for 43 years. I promise you, I know better than you how it works I also know that what you’ve described is not how it works
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 09:59 PM
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That is not how girls work. Like, at all
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 07:44 PM
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This is the eloquence I come here for 🙏
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 03:41 AM
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It’s like you guys have never heard the phrase “the motion in the ocean” Skills over size, all day. And before you ask, yes. I’ve left big dicks with no skills for average sized dicks with skills. Multiple times in my life Pure size queens are rare, at least in women. They’re way more common among gay men
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 03:25 AM
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Size queens exist, sure. That said, all but one of the examples you guys are linking to are clearly written by dudes And the one who is a chick even says it’s his skills as much as his size This isn’t the depression fuel you guys think it is
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 02:15 AM
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Why are you talking about relationships like they’re a static thing that never changes My relationship with my ex-h - a short dude most people found unattractive (including those on PPD who I shared pics with) - was really great … Right up until it took a turn and wasn’t That’s generally how breakups/divorces work
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 12:59 AM
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“If you marry for money, you’ll wind up earning every penny” Some women decide the work is worth it. Most don’t, because fucking a rich dude we’re not attracted to isn’t worth it
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 01:50 AM
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Actually no, that’s not what women are saying. Even the top reply says there’s a difference between “attractive” and “attraction” Plenty of attractive guys leave women dry I’m not really sure what your next point is about, except some half baked nonsensical theory about women being narcissistic If anything, it’s men’s sexuality is narcissistic and predatory. Whether the object of their attraction is unwilling doesn’t matter to men. For women, we need the man to be engaged As for your last paragr…
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 01:27 AM
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I’m pretty infamous at PPD for having been married (for more than a decade) to a dude who wasn’t even 5’8 So, no. I’m talking about a threshold, a bare minimum of looks. In other words, no bald Indian janitors But I’ve been turned on by fat guys, by guys other people think are ugly, by short dudes, etc. you don’t have to be a GQ model to get a chick
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 09:14 PM
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Because men outnumber women on dating apps - a quick search shows the ratio is 9:1 on twitter Of course men are striking out there But there are no women Where? I go to happy hours and bars regularly, and it’s almost always 50/50. The men who approach have way better odds than the men who don’t, but I see hookups happen all the time And yes, I live in a college town (2 universities). This applies to even college aged kids (they overtake our regular bars if the happy hour special is good enough, …
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 05:55 PM
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But you’re doing the same thing - trading in falsehoods about how women work, and wholeheartedly believing these falsehoods No women on earth has ever said “I’m only physically attracted to top tier men.” Because that’s not how that works Which is why women are likely to be turned off by men who are not their niche - emo girls won’t chase hot corporate guys, no matter how handsome we all agree he is
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 05:37 PM
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No, because a dude just walking by is not engaging us, nor is he engaged in anything remotely sexual … he’s just a dude, going about his business, no different from my 80 year old neighbor gardening If he approached, or threw out some flirty signs, etc … Our sexuality would be engaged Women’s sexuality works based on being wanted. The naked exercising woman is likely doing naked exercise bc a man she finds attractive wants her and wanted her to. Or bc an attractive man (or attractive men, whatev…
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 05:34 PM
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That’s literally not true. It’s a lie you’re being fed by a group of men who can’t get laid How would those men know how women’s sexuality works? They’ve literally never even witnessed it You are half right re: the “top tier men” in that we get off being wanted by attractive men. Being wanted by a smelly hobo or some ugly guy were not attracted to leaves us indifferent at best, grossed out at worst
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 05:18 PM
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That’s not for me (the gynecological shots are a huge turn off), but we’re getting into specific sex acts/porn shots. Those specific details are going to vary widely based on individual tastes I’m referring to the general big picture
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 05:16 PM
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Because women - as a general rule - get off on being wanted. We don’t want to conquer male bodies
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 05:15 PM
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I have literally explained to you how women are turned on by sexual situations. Not people And yes, gay men might be reined on by an attractive dude walking down the street. Because they are men, with male sexuality that is turned on by looking at a person. What does that have to do with women and women’s sexuality? And no, women do not exercise naked. Exercising without a sports bra is painful as hell, if you have any sort of breasts. It’s also asking for sagging if the girls are bouncing aroun…
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 05:14 PM
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Women are not excited by viewing other people. Straight men are excited by the visual alone - so that’s apples and oranges We are excited by sexual situations - real or imagined - that we fantasize happening to us. In the case of straight women, with a man (or men) In the case of the woman exercising naked, it’s not about her or her body. It’s about imagining that’s us, doing that for a man who is turned on looking at us. Who asked us to do it Or whatever exhibitionist fantasy would involve a wo…
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 06:16 AM
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Charles Manson was one of the most charismatic individuals who probably ever walked this earth. That’s what makes him so terrifying I think about this story that Danny Trejo shared about doing time with Manson: I’d been locked up so many times, I was more used to being inside than out. While I was waiting to get shipped out to Tracy, there was a greasy, dirty, scrawny white boy in County. He was so poor, he didn’t have a belt, and instead used a piece of string to keep his pants up. The dude was…
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 01:50 AM
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Male solipsism. Understandable, given how poorly understood female sexuality is in this culture Women aren’t men. We don’t get turned on simply looking at people What we get turned on by are sexual situations we can imagine ourselves in. Specifically, sexual situations where we are desired. It’s why women are the primary consumers of erotica and bodice rippers A woman doing naked exercise is basically unthinkable outside of a sexual situation - if I were shown that video, I would assume it’s som…
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 01:26 AM
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Most people are basic asshats. The amount of men who make an entire personality out of watching sports and drinking beer is off the charts This isn’t a woman problem, it’s a people problem But enough people - regardless of gender - have hobbies that you shouldn’t be struggling to find them
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 11:41 PM
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Women have hobbies, why do all of you think we don’t? Mostly personal experience. Most of the women I've met personally did not have any hobbies, unless you count drinking/weed and netflix. In addition to that, most hobby/hobby spaces I've observed such as sports/martial arts/outdoors, music/production, filmmaking, visual/graphic arts/photography, video games tend to all be heavily male dominated. You can see this online, but also when you walk in to your local dick's sporting goods/guitar cente…
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 04:54 AM
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Huh, I knew it would be low, but I’m honestly surprised it’s that low among high functioning folks With anything, there’s a sweet spot before the majority of people find a trait unattractive Flexible chick who can do the splits and put her legs behind her head? Hot. Chick who is extremely double jointed in every major joint? Weird and gross In this age if K Pop idols and overly waxed Hollywood men, a genuinely masculine looking man (let’s say Cosmo centerfold-era Burt Reynolds) wouldn’t appeal t…
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 12:42 AM
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Some unconnected reactions/thoughts: 1 - No fucking shit, I’m continually amazed people don’t realize autistic men struggle in the dating world. Do they not have eyes? 2 - That said, 16% seems wildly low. Did this study include the entire spectrum? Because the nonverbal types are clearly going to be way more likely to be virgins than those with Aspergers. I wonder how much the number changes if only high functioning autists are included 3 - Autism reads (to NTs) as “masculine” brains/behaviors e…
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 11:29 PM
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No, that is a legit issue. It’s fucked up she used that
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 10:36 PM
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This is satire. It’s not A Modest Proposal … But it’s in line with that single dad’s online dating profile that just went viral
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 03:15 AM
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I keep checking to see if anyone is going to post about the Keke Palmer baby daddy drama. Seems tailor made for this sub
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 11:21 PM
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You’re making me flash back to bad 90s/early 00s pick up lines guys used when I bartended “Do you have a quarter? I need to call my mom and tell her I met my wife” 😂
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 11:08 PM
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Sure, if we click, I would imagine we’d smash on a first date All of my LTRs have started with sex on the first date, and then we keep going. If I’m not feeling a guy as a LTR candidate, I don’t want to fuck him I realize I’m an outlier here, but that’s how it’s always worked for me. Sexual attraction and chemistry is a a must when vetting for an LTR
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 11:01 PM
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This is assuming the skill set is even among the men That’s not always the case - most women can tell you a hilarious story or 2 of a hot guy who was wildly disappointing in bed
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 10:57 PM
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He’s cute, funny, unconventional, and confident. I’d go for him, even with the two demerits that I noticed: That went on way too long … know when to wrap a joke His adventures don’t match mine (don’t care for golf or snow boarding), but I do like other sports so I would go in hoping we could teach each other. Or at least support each other’s athletic endeavors
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 10:53 PM
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Superman is boring af. I will die on this hill But if we’re going with comic book characters, I’ve always found it fascinating that Harley Quinn wasn’t supposed to be a permanent addition to the Batman universe - she was introduced in TAS as a way to highlight what a fucking psycho Joker is, even to someone who loves him beyond all reason Then you had all these kids/teens (including quite a lot of girls) who loved the fucked up character and dynamics. A phenomenon that is still going strong some…
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 11:31 PM
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Here is the thread
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 02:02 AM
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Buried in my post history, yes. I never deleted it, and have linked to it a few times over the years
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 01:58 AM
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The thread I’m most proud of creating - the one I still think about, years after the fact - is a thread about men’s experiences with abortion There were very raw, emotionally honest answers. It was insightful and heartbreaking and hopeful I’ve tried asking similar questions (even the same question) in the years since. Unfortunately, I think the moment has passed - I’ve never come close to those sorts of honest answers So I joke around these days. I no longer try for that sort of emotional honest…
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 12:49 AM
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If you want my dead honest opinion, I think incels a fascinating group. I also think mental illness is an under-appreciated issue among that crew (but I’ve been very upfront about the real life situation I’ve witnessed that informs that opinion) I also think they have a point that today’s technology is alienating people from healthy interpersonal relationships That said, no ... I’m actually flabbergasted that my ancient ass thought the whole truerateme incel origins was common Internet knowledge…
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 05:12 AM
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Why can’t you deal with the bar scene anymore?
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 04:49 AM
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This is a wall of text that I admittedly didn’t read closely. I’m offering that upfront. That said, my takeaways: Depression: yes. This should be obvious to everyone Psych issues: highly disagree, with a caveat. Anxiety has been a thing for almost every human I’ve ever known, including myself The biggest Chad I’ve ever known had severe ADHD. The kind where he wouldn’t get off the couch for days on end if he wasn’t medicated. That one in particular doesn’t compute IME Social anxiety, sure. Should…
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 04:40 AM
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Looool I’m actually not casting judgment here. A big part of that sub getting started we’re folks from the incels sub (I forget if it was before or after it got shut down, but it was right around that time IIRC) - just retelling it as I’m remembering it I’m more shocked that people didn’t know that about truerateme
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 02:31 AM
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When did people forget that TRM actually is an incel troll job? It was widely discussed at PPD when it launched, and people brought receipts. It’s whole point is for incels to be dicks to pretty girls It launched bc incels were enraged that pretty girls were getting attention and simps at rateme
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 04:56 PM
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The only real fact I remember about RR (I’m about 10 years older than you) was that he preferred yellow houses. If the door was unlocked, or a window open (remember, this was pre-AC being universal), he considered it an invitation I think you’re somewhat right about serial killers snapping, but there are two other factors involved in sex workers being the most common victims: Access. You can get a sex worker alone a lot easier than even promiscuous women They are more likely to have no one looki…
/r/AllPillDebate22/06/23 10:32 PM
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To your point - 2 of Jack the Ripper’s victims were married. 2 more were in LTRs IIRC Only 1 was truly single, but I think I’ve read that was debatable They were all the bottom caste, by far
/r/AllPillDebate22/06/23 10:11 PM
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Damn dude. Way to deny reality
/r/AllPillDebate22/06/23 09:50 PM
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What he got was hotter. You’re absolutely coping hard of you’re telling me there’s no difference between those photos
/r/AllPillDebate22/06/23 06:52 PM
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Nope. He demonstrably got hotter - diet, workout, fashion, grooming. All of the components got better Edit: You can’t tell me you don’t see this
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 10:38 PM
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In all fairness, Steve Carrell had one HELL of a glow up. How to maximize attractiveness as a very post-wall man
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 06:11 PM
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That would honestly make me think a dude is a closeted gay man, and very angry about it I’d probably pity him
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 02:33 AM
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Money alone buys attention and willing affection. It does not but you attraction or enthusiastic affection Personality is a different story. It won’t make a 3/10 suddenly an 8, but it can level you up 1 or (in extreme cases) 2 points Every last one of us has known one or two people - male or female - who is chased by people who should be (on paper) far above them. Charisma like that is rare, but it’s intoxicating when you experience it
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 12:59 AM
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That’s why one of my favorite jokes is that red/blue/purple pills are extinct. It’s all the brown pill these days
/r/AllPillDebate17/06/23 11:06 PM
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Can’t disagree. Especially as YA / teen pop culture is beyond saturated with romance and sexual awakening storylines - that has to be incredibly cruel salt in the wound The one incel I’ve know IRL (and he was a super dramatic case) did benefit immensely from extended in-patient psychiatric help. He’s now socially functional and has a cute gf That admittedly skews my views on therapy helping incels. When it probably shouldn’t - he was incel due to severe mental illness, not necessarily looks or r…
/r/AllPillDebate16/06/23 01:16 AM
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My point is that she’s a pretty solid outlier. Very, very far outlier There’s plenty of AWALT I agree with, I just don’t agree about her
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 02:33 AM
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Do you honestly think Lilith is representative of all women? Because I’m normally pretty Team Woman, and she makes me want to disavow my stance of women and raise a flag for Team Man
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 06:36 PM
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Totally agree with you on Barbie. Greta Gerwig has a great sense of humor, I’m glad she’s the director. And I LOVE that they somehow got Mattel to agree to be the bad guy Female comic movie? Note: I typed this out as a stream of consciousness, and then saw how long it is. Apologies, feel free to ignore my ramblings Birds of Prey was female supervillains (all from Batman) teaming up I’m not going to pretend it was a great film or anything - it was schlocky and cheesy. I generally wouldn’t recomme…
/r/AllPillDebate11/06/23 01:51 AM
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Yeah, I don’t love it when women do it either. Just say you don’t like it and move on - only really close friends should have a front row view to your internal monologue like that
/r/AllPillDebate10/06/23 10:00 PM

Except that other people have admitted to finding it, and are trying to hamster away the results Which completely invalidates the claim that said evidence is made up You choosing not to google in this case is an indictment of your intellectual laziness
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:03 PM
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Yeah, I didn’t care for the Joker movie or her performance (along with everyone else’s performance) I think of her Wolf of Wall Street performance This is totally off topic, but part of what I like about her is that she’s basically inventing the female comic book movie. Between Birds of Prey (which wasn’t great cinema, but was enjoyable to a lot of women) and the upcoming Barbie movie, she’s bringing women into a style of a movies that we traditionally haven’t been that engaged with (I know she …
/r/AllPillDebate10/06/23 09:02 PM
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Women do what all the time? Say no? Or less men after they say no?
/r/AllPillDebate10/06/23 08:55 PM
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Can I ask why you don’t just say “I don’t want it” or “it’s not for me”? Or even just “no”? “No” is a complete sentence. You don’t need to justify yourself if that’s a standard you have
/r/AllPillDebate10/06/23 04:40 AM
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Can confirm. Also, the book She Comes First is chef’s kiss 🤌
/r/AllPillDebate10/06/23 02:17 AM
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It’s like anything else: Speaking of big groups of people, yes, there are unmistakeable shared preferences. This can be as general as “there is an ideal WHR that men find attractive.” Or slightly more specific, like “certain ethnicities tend to prefer curvaceous asses and/or boobs, while others prefer a lithe, less curvy silhouette” But statistics are meaningless to the individual. There are groups of men who prefer features that run counter to the overarching trend My favorite is when groups ch…
/r/AllPillDebate10/06/23 02:03 AM
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Stories drive more people to your posts. The days a I post a ton of stories, I get a ton of interaction and likes If they’re trying to be an influencer or whatever, that explains it Caveat: I only use IG for work purposes, and have posted a picture of myself 3 times in the 5 or whatever years I’ve used it
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 11:18 PM
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It’s easy to google. Someone else in this thread did and found all of it - and are now hamstring that it’s a conspiracy to flatter the egos of ugly women 😂 this sub is a trip Google is your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:13 PM
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That is fair 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:12 PM
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That is some severe mental gymnastics - anyone who has ever been close with a truly gorgeous, traffic stopping beauty knows that this phenomenon exists This phenomenon is true, and documented, no matter how badly you want your hamster to run free and negate it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 09:41 PM
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It’s been pretty well established that the most beautiful women aren’t You’re thinking of the 7s and 8s of the world who are attractive, but approachable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 09:38 PM
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You’re telling me you only hang out with supermodels, and are an expert on how often they’re approached? This is an established phenomenon, whether or not it confirms your selection bias
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:35 PM
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This is an example of why PPD women are so frustrated - you guys take the one type of woman you find most attractive, and extrapolate that look/personality to all attractive women It’s pretty extreme selection bias At the same time, you don’t even notice the women who don’t fit your definition of attractive - there have been literal studies that show that the most attractive women tend to be more insecure due to being less likely to be approached by men The extroverted gals tend to fall into the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:13 AM
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Doesn’t the existence of prostitutes submarine this entire argument? They are consenting. Much like the employee example, they’re doing it for money. But - again - as in your example … their motivation doesn’t matter. They consent, full stop They’re consenting (For the record, I understand incels exist. I’m pointing out the flaws in this argument)
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 01:17 AM
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We all know my natural hypergamous state means I will have moved onto a bigger, shinier internet shitshow with more meat and charming drama by the time that happens 😤
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 01:08 AM
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That’s why I’m asking for a DM. I’m not interested in replying or brigading (or sharing or posting it here) - I just really love rubbernecking internet shit shows, and that sounds like a doozy lol But I get it, no worries if you don’t share. Just wanted to clarify why I was asking
/r/AllPillDebate08/06/23 11:19 PM
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Can you DM me the link to story you copy/pasted? I’m dying to read the whole thing
/r/AllPillDebate08/06/23 06:32 PM
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That makes sense. My ex-h had to take an MBTI test for his job, which I thought made a lot of sense (putting aside my feelings about MBTI in general) I recently had to take the Predictive Index Assessment for work, and that one was creepy accurate
/r/AllPillDebate03/06/23 11:10 PM
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That’s fine, there are plenty of white chicks, black chicks, Italian chicks, Asian chicks. Hell, Rutgers U is right there and Princeton is just down the road Fish where the fish are
/r/AllPillDebate03/06/23 11:07 PM
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I get it. It’s NJ
/r/AllPillDebate03/06/23 09:50 PM
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Counter anecdote: I work in a company that is 90% female We’re not only beating our plan by triple digit performance, we’re on track to become the fastest growing brand in history in our industry You work with lazy assholes who just happen to be female. Women aren’t inherently lazy assholes just because vagina
/r/AllPillDebate03/06/23 08:28 PM
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Move to Edison, NJ. Nearly half of residents are Asian, and huge chunk of that population are Indians Lots of Indian chicks looking for Indian dudes
/r/AllPillDebate03/06/23 08:24 PM
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Yeah, I was just listing all of the entry level procedures that are popular, not suggesting you need them all lol
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 03:09 PM
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I spent a lot of time at PPD when I was working through some life situations that had me very angry I kinda left PPD when I realized it still made me angry, even though my life had changed for the better and I was happier than I had been in a long time. It stopped being healthy for me to be there I’ll occasionally miss the pillosphere, and swing in here for a few weeks, then go back to lurking in AITA and 90DF subs for months without coming back I can’t stay away from you freaks, you are apparen…
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 03:12 AM
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How old are you? Regardless, get thee to a medspa. Botox, lip injections, lasers/IPL, microneedling. Treat the thicker area of your body with ultrasonic cavitation or Cool Sculpting. Butt facials/cupping so those glutes continue to defy gravity Invest in some good at-home peels and masks. Keep ice globes in your freezer. Skincare daily, exfoliate weekly, facials monthly, procedures at least every 6 weeks Should you need more of a tweak, PRP threads or a liquid facelift can work wonders
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 03:04 AM
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Honestly, you should patent lifting socks
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 02:23 AM
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Happy hour. Go down some liquid courage and start chatting with a girl in your vicinity Bars are great for that
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 11:55 PM

If that doesn’t work, try a bottle opener. I swear by this trick I have an irrational fear of losing control of a spoon in a moment like that, and having it take out my eye. So I need something like a bottle opener or a can opener which stays stable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:37 PM
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What does that have to do with literally anything I’ve said? I don’t think I even commented on that thread You don’t need full guns surgery - there’s a lot that styling alone can do. And the right injector do a lot with various injectables - including results that mimic nose jobs or jaw implants (fun fact: Sculptra was initially used in AIDS patients to help counteract bone disintegration) Anyhow, you don’t need to do anything if you don’t want to, but it seems silly to limit your options when t…
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 08:09 PM
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Why are you blabbering on about pedophiles? What does that have to do they have to do with anything? Hard disagree on looks being outside of one’s control (outside of some very unfortunate souls). But I deal with plastic surgeons and cosmetic dermatologists for work, so I’m willing to admit my view of what can be done is a little more biased towards that side of things
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 07:52 PM
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Actually, the comparison to racism is more accurate when discussing male sexual strategy. Since it’s based on age, which is a trait people have no control over On the other hand, people control their choice of career and the subsequent paycheck But thanks for showing that male sexual strategy is more immoral than AFBB
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 05:09 PM
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Sir, you did not need to wake up and choose violence
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 12:56 AM
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Ok, I misread you completely. Sorry about that
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 03:27 AM
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Wait. Do you genuinely not believe lower income people can be high IQ? Edit: I’m arguably one of the biggest economic snobs in the pillosphere - that’s a very common criticism of my posts, and has been for like a decade. Even I don’t believe that SES = intelligence
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 03:19 AM
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As a thought exercise, can you explain why AFBB is a bad strategy for women? It’s just the gender flipped version of men pursuing hot young chicks. Neither is good or bad, it just is what our lizard brains want
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 09:46 PM
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This is the thing. The secret fuck isn’t the top choice We get no social rewards for fucking a dude who is humiliating to be seen with in public
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 09:42 PM
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Women know that. This is not mystifying Why the inverse being true for women isn’t similarly understood is what is flabbergasting to us
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 09:41 PM
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Dude, you spammed a post of an ugly chick and lamented “this is what Tinder is like for guys.” And not that long ago, I barely had to scroll down to see you post it on multiple different subs Shouldn’t you hold yourself to the same standard re: lookism?
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 03:49 AM
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I mean … she’s describing a LTR candidate in the first screenshot, and a secret fuck she’ll never introduce to anyone in the second Of course the secret fuck’s personality doesn’t matter. He’s not a potential father to her kids I’m continually flabbergasted that men can’t comprehend this. You guys will fuck a hot girl you hate any day of the week
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 03:38 AM
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I genuinely find men more attractive, on average Women are great at styling, makeup, etc. But for raw looks, they generally fall flat. Men generally wear their physical flaws better That said, beautiful women are better looking than the handsomest men. Margo Robbie is just a mind bendingly gorgeous human being, I can’t think of a male star who comes close. Maybe Matt Bomer in his prime?
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 02:31 AM
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Ah, my apologies. My knee jerk reaction to pillosphere guys got me, that’s my bad I ate bacon as part of my salad earlier, so haram I am. Can’t dispute that one
/r/AllPillDebate21/05/23 05:24 AM
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This is where your argument breaks down I put on party dresses, drank, and enjoyed clubs with dancing … while surrounded by my girl friends. I also took two years of voluntary celibacy during this time, not even going on dates Kinda hard to be in a haram when you won’t let anyone touch you, or even buy you dinner But even if I was, so what? The fuck do you care what a 42 year old did two decades ago?
/r/AllPillDebate21/05/23 04:56 AM
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Oh, I absolutely believe men prefer to operate from that place of self blindness just as much as women. It’s part of why men and women talk past each other constantly My big eye opening moment was hooking a close guy friend up with one of my girl friends. I remember the day I went “holy fuck, all her stories about her ex-bf’s make sense - she is batshit insane” Similarly, I think men tend to have that eye opening moment when they have a daughter. Their entire world view of their own gender chang…
/r/AllPillDebate21/05/23 03:48 AM
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I wish I did, although this was pre-iPhone times (yes, I’m one of Ye Olde Redditers). Like, early to mid 00s. IIIRC, the entire message board got scrubbed when it started getting noticed by celebrity blogs - prior to that, it was a message board where NBA groupies traded tips and stories. I think I randomly found it via a link in a comment on some blog Before I go on, here’s the context: I was in my early 20s, and was a pretty young thing living my party life in Manhattan in the 00s nightlife sc…
/r/AllPillDebate21/05/23 03:25 AM
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Oh man, don’t read up on Wilt Chamberlain’s life, friend Back in the Wild West days of the Internet, I used to read a basketball groupie message board. Legit groupies, who brought receipts. It was entertaining as all hell, and I really wish the manosphere/pillosphere existed then bc it would have made for epic cross-over posts Also Sixers I’m judging you
/r/AllPillDebate21/05/23 03:02 AM
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But still a supermodel, IIRC. Not exactly plucking a random teenager out of bumblefuck South Dakota We’re walking right up to creepy, but he goes for career girls with options
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 12:51 AM
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Eeeh, I’m on the fence On the one hand, I don’t care about Leo. He dates women in their mid-20s, all of whom seem to have amazing careers. They’re full grown adults with their own power But if they were 18 year olds, I’d be massively creeped out Re: LGBTQ people, one of the first things I saw on Twitter this morning was a tweet about a gay professional athletes partner - the replies were all horrified that a 50-something slid into the DMs of a newly out 17 year old (which is how they met). So pl…
/r/AllPillDebate19/05/23 02:05 PM
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In all fairness, society loves to judge sexual partners at all stages of life. Just look at a divorced person (of either gender) having a rebound. Their friend group is guaranteed to have opinions Call it the wrinkle pill
/r/AllPillDebate19/05/23 04:11 AM
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My friend, do not forget about Salma Hayek. Or Charlize Theron
/r/AllPillDebate19/05/23 04:08 AM
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Becky would have shown more discomfort during the conversation This is where you’re wrong. It’s a survival instinct to get out of conversations with minimal conflict when you’re hit on Her not showing “more discomfort” during the conversation isn’t evidence of anything You may well be reading the situation correctly, and I’m keeping that possibility in mind But there’s a very good chance that you’re missing context, and I really wish you would keep that in mind
/r/AllPillDebate14/05/23 01:07 AM
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I’m a 42 year old woman. We don’t pile on the mean girl bullying of a 20-something chick for some ridiculous reason like a looks disparity, we’re more likely to either call it out or kill it with non-responsive “mmmhmmmms” That said, we do feel very protective of younger women (bc yeah, we’ve been there) and absolutely will prop them up if we feel they were inappropriately targeted This makes me wonder if the guy was implying an isolated hike with a girl half his age? Or something along those li…
/r/AllPillDebate14/05/23 12:49 AM
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I feel like you missed some context here. The older woman piling on makes that clear
/r/AllPillDebate14/05/23 12:27 AM
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Thank you for demonstrating my point - female attraction is incomprehensible to men
/r/AllPillDebate14/05/23 12:15 AM
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Ah, yes, the peer reviewed medical journal that is Wikipedia Nonetheless, your selective edit is telling. Here’s what is listed under “causes” Evidence suggests that hormonal changes may play a role.[36] Understanding the neuroendocrinology characteristic of PPD has proven to be particularly challenging given the erratic changes to the brain and biological systems during pregnancy and postpartum. A review of exploratory studies in PPD have observed that women with PPD have more dramatic changes …
/r/AllPillDebate13/05/23 04:41 AM
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No, it’s well established that it’s caused by the dramatic and sudden shift in hormones. And the effects those sudden changes have on the brain and body
/r/AllPillDebate13/05/23 04:25 AM
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It shows that personality or other factors (bad wardrobe, bad grooming, personal hygiene, etc) can submarine looks Male attraction is looks-based. Female attraction is more comprehensive
/r/AllPillDebate13/05/23 02:32 AM
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Dude. No. The science behind postpartum depression - and even postpartum psychosis - is well established This isn’t up for debate, and you badly need to speak to someone if this is the conclusion you leapt to
/r/AllPillDebate13/05/23 01:08 AM
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This seems like examining flat earth theory by only interviewing flat earthers
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 03:54 AM
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BBLs are the most dangerous cosmetic procedure. I don’t hear men complaining about them - they encourage them We’re a shallow species, it is what it is
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 02:02 AM
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That’s not how that works - going back to school to be re-trained costs money that they don’t have. Union dues, licensing fees, insurance, etc. That’s before we even get into the fact that there aren’t alternative jobs at the same pay level. Forcing millions out of work will have dire real world consequences Forcing a bunch of people to be incels just doesn’t have the same consequences
/r/AllPillDebate07/05/23 07:31 PM
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To bring this back to your incel analogy, that’s like saying incels have no problems bc plenty of people become priests and forego sex willingly You know both are intellectually dishonest, because the fundamental similarity between incels and the “career path no longer exists” is that they are victims of forces outside their control. The choice is not theirs The difference between the two groups is that one leads to a lack of shelter and food/food insecurity. Being an incel doesn’t have the same…
/r/AllPillDebate07/05/23 07:28 PM
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If you don’t have the skill set and the connections to transition to another professional job at the same pay level, you’re pretty much stuck with minimum wage jobs It’s not that difficult of a concept to understand, especially as skilled blue collar jobs tend to be highly regulated and you can’t just wake up one day and get involved
/r/AllPillDebate07/05/23 07:16 PM
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Wait what? Copy writers, speech writers, screenwriters, graphic designers, etc are all corporate jobs more so than art. They’re creative, sure, but professions Regardless, you’re undermining your own argument with this bc you’re admitting that whole career paths will lead to a loss of shelter and food (via the ability to pay for it) Lack of sex will never threaten entire swaths of the population’s physical safety. It just cannot happen Lack of earning ability is a million times more serious. If …
/r/AllPillDebate07/05/23 07:15 PM
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Where in the US can a minimum wage job pay for shelter, bills, and food? Nowhere This is precisely why these sorts of incel complaints aren’t taken seriously. You end up looking like you a teenager who takes food and shelter for granted, and conflates getting laid to actual physical survival needs If you want your complaints to be taken seriously, you need to stop comparing them to situations everyone else in earth agrees is more serious Communicate the mental health implications. There’s plenty…
/r/AllPillDebate07/05/23 06:53 PM
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There is not one state in the US where minimum wage is enough to pay for an apartment - so yes, AI taking career fields that are currently filled with professionals who are skilled in said field will block access to shelter and food for some Others will adapt and cross-train
/r/AllPillDebate07/05/23 06:52 PM
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I’m making a very accurate observation about how complaints like these are received. Because these sorts of complaints do undermine any attempt incels make at being taken seriously If you think I’m mocking or somehow picking at the argument, that’s on you. While I don’t think sex is nearly as important to survival as shelter or food (or the money to pay for it), I actually do think it’s quite important for a person’s mental health Your victim complex is exactly what I was pointing out in the fir…
/r/AllPillDebate07/05/23 01:45 AM
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😂
/r/AllPillDebate06/05/23 11:21 PM
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Posts like this are why incels will always be objects of scorn and mockery
/r/AllPillDebate06/05/23 11:13 PM
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I probably haven’t seen your stuff, but that’s a combo of my algorithm (my industry, which is a huge social media niche itself, and healthy eating/workout stuff) and my demographic (42 yo white chick in a famously white/WASPy geographical area) That said, I wish you all the success in the world (And if I had to guess, I’d guess flannel shirts: made initially for manly men, famously co-opted by women for grunge fashion reasons, and currently having a revival among younger women with the whole res…
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 02:06 AM
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That’s cool. I’m super curious about your brand, but won’t ask bc I know that’s personal Just know you have a random internet stranger super intrigued
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 12:36 AM
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Completely off topic, but why are all the influencers Asian? I have no idea why that’s the first question that came to my mind - maybe bc the influencers in my field are every ethnicity on earth, so seeing only one “type” is jarring
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 12:02 AM
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This is too simplistic Male sexual strategy fails men all the time - as evidenced by the pillosphere of failed men looking for guidance And ex-party girl Stacies get married every day. The women who eschewed traditional versions of femininity It’s not male strategy vs female strategy; it’s high value vs low value
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:41 AM
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It’s not about me being an exception. Older people don’t want to deal with the crap younger people bring Older Chads aren’t dating 22 year old chicks - they likely have kids that age, they can’t bring those girls around coworkers (let alone bosses), and they don’t have the time to manage Stacey’s coworker Becky’s man drama … when what he actually wants is a woman who has his back and is his partner in life (however that partnership sets itself up) Older men may fuck younger women, but they don’t…
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 04:58 AM
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Ain’t that the truth 🫠
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 04:28 AM
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Hi!! I got involved in the current discord for a hot second, but am pretty much back to lurking/replying in this sub (no shade towards the discord - I just prefer message boards to ongoing live chats that move really quickly. I like to zone out for awhile) How are you?
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 04:05 AM
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won’t be attracted to him Oh, the cope 🤦‍♀️ Older women - like older men - don’t have the time or patience to casually date people who don’t check all the boxes. Including sexually Source: Am 42. Got divorced expecting to be alone forever, based on online revenge fantasies like these. Surprise! Not true at all - and I’m enjoying the best sex of my life these days, to a man I’m very attracted to (and living with/in a monogamous relationship with)
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 03:39 AM
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I admittedly may have missed this, but did she say that men should abstain?
/r/AllPillDebate09/04/23 04:02 AM
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Got it 😉 Welcome back, proto. Can’t wait to see who you end up with in Vegas this time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:02 AM
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There are bad people who don’t self-identify as Nazis or Alex Jones Pimps are bad people, regardless of whether they identify as Nazis or Alex Jones People who move to second (or third) world countries because they openly admit their sex crimes are easier to get away with are bad people. Regardless of whether they are Nazis or Alex Jones
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:06 AM
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He’s a literal pimp who articulated the “loverboy” strategy of breaking victims, and openly admits to going to Romania because the rape laws are lax He’s that bad, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:58 AM
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You sound like this dumbass Who got caught red handed lying about everything. Which was amazing drama
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:48 AM
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Holy shit, protopill?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:29 AM
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Be very strictly religious, and under the age of 18. Yes, as a man
/r/AllPillDebate23/03/23 04:58 AM
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It’s not just this subject - I posted a bunch of links once showing how men are statistically more likely to be raped than be accused of false rape A few people engaged honestly, but many were the opposite of “intellectual curiosity” It was an interesting peek at male psychology, if nothing else
/r/AllPillDebate19/03/23 02:46 AM
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From an abundance perspective, absolutely. I’ll never deny that. I’ll even agree that women are treated with kid gloves vs how men are treated
/r/AllPillDebate15/01/23 05:43 AM
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I’ll give you credit for arguing in good faith, and not history diving. For better or worse, my divorce was somewhat live tweeted (by me) at PPD I’m 42 and have no kids. I divorced my very successful finance husband, and got with a more successful guy in the entertainment industry I’ll give you two things: - He’s 11 years older, which I guess qualifies me as a “younger woman” - I prepared myself for no man to be interested. I learned otherwise, however
/r/AllPillDebate14/01/23 05:54 AM
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Lol, women aren’t depressed when they hit their 40s. They’re attracting and pairing with older guys who have more resources than younger guys. And - statistically speaking - are the ones uninterested in marrying again Are there some women who fit your narrative? Sure But younger guys way oversestimate how much 40-something women care about them Cope harder. It’s a woman’s world these days
/r/AllPillDebate14/01/23 05:29 AM
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We’re not. That’s a huge cope
/r/AllPillDebate14/01/23 05:22 AM
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Oh good freaking lord. This person is autistic, and so badly misunderstood the male experience that they are somehow confused that they’re not being treated as female … despite being (what I can only imagine is) an uncanny valley version of a dude? Look, this isn’t the win you thought it was when you posted it. I’m all for trans people being happy and going through whatever changes they feel they need to go through. That said … This persons issue is very clearly the autism. Women understand that…
/r/AllPillDebate14/01/23 03:06 AM
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It’s not easy to bring up all the stuff you’ve done within 10 minutes of meeting someone and by that point attraction (or lack of it) has been mostly decided This is what it boils down to - you don’t need to bring up all that you’ve done in the first ten minutes What you’re doing in those first few moments is establishing a connection - you’re getting the other person (and they’re getting you) for whether you’re interested in a conversation beyond polite social niceties. That’s all it is This is…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:39 AM
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I’ve read a few of your posts, and you describe yourself as the “good on paper” guy You sound really good, if you’re reading your resume (or, in your case, your family bank accounts). But you don’t give a compelling reason why a woman would want you, and you don’t seem invested in interpersonal chemistry/passion - that last bit being the reason women fall for losers. We’re suckers for chemistry Women like fun, and that seems to be lost on a lot of guys here
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:58 AM
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Fuck, now I’m wondering what the animal we agreed to like was. Otters? Capybaras?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:33 AM
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Because she was probably already looking for the exit I once dumped a guy for sweating through his shirt on a hot summer day. I literally found the first excuse I could and jumped on it 😂
/r/AllPillDebate31/12/22 04:20 AM
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Body proportions are certainly part of it (no one is mistaking a rotund dude for being taller than he is) but this sub undervalues certain personalities A very charismatic, extroverted person can seem physically taller than they are. We all know those people - male and female - who project a “larger than life” persona
/r/AllPillDebate27/12/22 03:49 AM
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Women aren’t violent like men, but we absolutely have our own “language” for hostilities and whatever intra-gender confrontations You’re proving my point - the conflict and how it’s handled doesn’t matter. The more attractive person is more attractive, and made that much more attractive when they make your partner look less-than It’s not the violence any more than it’s the mean girl behavior. Beautiful, sexy women can be absolute insufferable cunts, and they have no problem getting men I’m absol…
/r/AllPillDebate24/12/22 02:46 AM
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And the bully is not violent towards the girls (at least not initially, in the minority cases of actual abusers) This is about a more masculine man emasculating their man, then being charming to the girl who is trying to manage her disgust at her man’s public emasculation If you’re out with your 6/10 gf, and you’re feeling a bit bored when a 9/10 chick comes in and is flirty with you? It’s not about how bitchy she was to your gf, it’s about the fact that she was more feminine, more sexy, and mad…
/r/AllPillDebate24/12/22 02:31 AM
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Again, you’re conflating a man being emasculated by another guy in front of his gf with the violence itself You’re confusing the issue
/r/AllPillDebate24/12/22 02:22 AM
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Not the person you asked, but I think it’s fair for the kissless virgin to feel envious. And angry, honestly - I’d be concerned if he didn’t feel that way My objection isn’t his very understandable feelings. It’s that they don’t see the bigger picture The lesson the kissless virgins almost always seem to take away is “chicks love violent assholes.” And that’s … not it. They’re not seeing the forest for the trees What women (obligatory “some women,” but yeah. Let’s be honest - it’s the majority o…
/r/AllPillDebate24/12/22 02:06 AM
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I know one. Exactly one in my entire life - but he’s such an exception, he stands out in my mind 5’0 and bald But this was balanced by the fact that he was a Green Beret and ex-stripper (with all of the people-reading charisma strippers of both genders develop) He was less an example of what you’re talking about, and more an example of Atlas’ “man tokens” theory. The more hyper masculine tokens you possess, the more your other traits can be less manly - all that matters is that your man tokens a…
/r/AllPillDebate21/12/22 03:47 AM
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Any gold digger worth anything knows to look at who is investing in their retirement account … then not sign a prenup, and feed him copious amounts of butter
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:11 AM
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What? Did you miss the “if” at the beginning of the sentence about other people?
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/22 08:28 PM
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I agree completely. I have always been honest on here about being sexually attracted to guys who weren’t stereotypically attractive on paper. And I had plenty of people argue with me over the years, or even poke fun at pics of my ex-h/call me a blatant gold digger But a big part of that has always been charisma/lifestyle/status. It’s interwoven into my sexuality, in particular, and (I would argue) female sexuality in general It’s the gender flipped “she’s hot, so she feels she doesn’t have to tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:43 AM
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Sluts get married every day. Extroverted, ex-party people marry each other all the time and have successful marriages No sane person is going to censor themselves over someone who doesn’t even exist in their life. What happens if she does and her future husband doesn’t care? She’ll have major regrets
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/22 12:48 AM
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This is some amazing male solipsism Women are not running around, making decisions based on some opinion which may or may not be held by imaginary people they may never meet We exist as whole people, and so what we want. If our actions are shaped by people, they are real people who are already in our lives … and we care about their very real feelings/want to make them happy
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/22 11:25 PM
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Dude. Come on now, lol ‘Misery loves company’ is a human thing. And that’s before we get into the various media personalities who benefit from incel ranks swelling It’s been happening for a long time, and I’ve been around long enough to witness it
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/22 02:31 AM
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No one is denying that. It goes directly to the argument that I’ve been making for ages - the incel community is actively recruiting non-incels and radicalizing them You may not be a virgin, but being raped wasn’t your fault. That’s wildly different than guys who visit pros
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/22 02:19 AM
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I’m absolutely getting hung up on verbiage, and am sorry for what you went through
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/22 02:04 AM
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Honest question, based on your post history - how can you be both a rape victim and a kissless incel? I would think it would make you involuntarily sexually active - kinda like a rape victim can’t be a virgin, by definition Is it an inventory culture thing? I’m genuinely curious about this
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/22 12:57 AM
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I’m mid-40s. This was college age. You don’t remember movies like American Pie and Wedding Crashers painting a very different picture of female virgins?
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/22 10:53 PM
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Actually, it’s the opposite This is back when men were taught the baggage that comes with a virgin woman - stage 5 clinger and all that. How her feminine neuroses and hysteria will be on full display bc she was never taught by experience to reign it in. And this is before we touch on the higher likelihood of her having a lower interest in sex Some guys still preferred that, to be fair. But most guys preferred someone between a slut and a virgin Guys today never got the memo that virgin women com…
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/22 03:27 PM
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One of my college roommates - a cute natural red head - was kissless until just before her 21st birthday At some point in late HS or very early college, it started weirding guys out. I literally watched guys in college learn about this and have a physical “creeped out” reaction She’s happily married, a mother, and loves her career. So things turned out ok in the long run, but there was a really awkward, uncomfortable stretch there for awhile (Before anyone asks, she was probably a 6, slim, great…
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/22 02:58 AM
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Great video. She’s awesome and relatable to girls who are typically turned off by these types of videos I would completely trot this one out more often if I were a guy
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/22 03:51 AM
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And produce 15% more sebum, on average. So that thicker skin is more supple
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/22 03:44 AM
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Women have historically been more black pilled than men. Men have always been able to fall back on career/provider/family/class/caste An ugly, fat girl from a good family and higher class would always end up a spinster. Because men weight looks above all else Today? Men are catching up to women in this regard. But looks aren’t the end all/be all for men. If they were, “trophy husband” would be as common as “trophy wife”
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/22 03:20 AM
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That is the best type of cuddle
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:01 AM
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Honestly … how? The AFCs that RP was created to help are still out there on their own
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:01 AM
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Come here and let’s cuddle
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:32 AM
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If RP won the debate, I’d be celebrating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:31 AM
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Buddy … I have been here since before “incel” was a word. I get your point, but I’m the wrong person to direct it towards
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:30 AM
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That’s a hell of a click rate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:17 AM
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Alright, set my expectations - what type of sub did I just subscribe to?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:07 AM
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That’s not an answer to the very direct question I asked Nor is it an answer to why incel and race issues are your first two points - clearly what you felt was most important, and wanted to draw attention to
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:55 AM
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Kinda blows up your claim to impartial moderating Not for nothing, but did hyperrreal give you a monetary stake in this sub? Why are you so hell bent on chasing off the OGs, completely abandoning the AFCs who needed RP to begin with … all in the service of the socially inept, mentally ill rejects who self-identify as “incels”? I can’t figure out why else you would be so dedicated to changing the DNA of this place, if not for a click-based payout
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:44 AM
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Aw, look at the feefees being hurt over being accurately called out. You want a hanky? Edit - just fyi, I grabbed that screenshot of you downvoting me 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:32 AM
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I’d be lying if I said I didn’t read incel stuff - but let’s not pretend this place is some middle-of-the-road place for debate anymore That’s what pisses me off It would probably surprise people to know that I have sympathy for genuinely incel folks (male and female). I think they should have places to vent, and they shouldn’t be open to people who aren’t incel to post in. Like me I don’t have sympathy for the mentally ill powder kegs hiding behind the incel label. Which seems to be what PPD is…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:40 AM
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Lol, I was half convinced mods would yeet this reply like a fetus on prom night. I stand corrected! I lurk (mainly on Reddit, but I’m still subbed to PPD, so I probably read a couple posts a day). But hi!! How are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:32 AM
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Of course you’re turning this into an incel sub 🙄 It’s been your goal for years
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:25 AM
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You clearly intentionally overlooked the part where I said I’m pro-porn But the fact remains that sexual assault is interwoven into the porn industry as it is today The good news for us pervert voyeurs? It doesn’t have to be that way forever!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:08 AM
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How can you possibly decouple rape from the porn industry? Even if we’re not talking about red herrings like human trafficking (which does exist): 1 - YouPorn and other well known porn sites were literally forced to take rape (including child rape) videos down very recently. This year, IIRC (maybe last year) - turning a blind eye to actual rape was a part of their profit margin before they were forced to change 2 - The established rate of drug and alcohol abuse among performers (google is your f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:01 AM
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This is like saying rape isn’t bad because murder and/or dismemberment exists On the one hand, you’re factually correct On the other hand, that knowledge doesn’t diminish the actual sexual horrors of the porn industry. It isn’t a zero sum game, horror can be spread around
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:23 AM
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Because older women have been hot young things, hit on by older men. And let’s face it - 99.9999999% of older men aren’t comparable to Leo So it brings up the icky feelings we had in that situation On a personal level, I don’t really care - they’re not into me sexually, so I’m not into them. If they’re funny and cool, we can still have some laughs at happy hour in between them shooting their shot at younger girls
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:40 AM
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I got tagged in this, so yes. For this As a general rule, I fuck around reading Reddit these days, but don’t really participate. I probably make a comment or two every couple weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:43 AM
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I lived in NJ for 10 or 15 years, so you’re not off base And I do work for a medical device company. A large, well respected one I’m admittedly on the medical aesthetics side, though … so you’re half right (although, men are quickly catching up) That said, she was divorced before I was even married. But if she was divorced when she was 29, did she get married super young or have a super quick divorce?!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:05 AM
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Looooool, sadly no, I didn’t give this interview
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:00 AM
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Eh, that’s not new. It goes back to at least John Ruskin
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:46 AM
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Who is making you? Find someone whose outlook matches yours In other words, control what you can - vet better. And quit throwing a tantrum because other people won’t curb their freedoms for a hypothetical prude who they likely won’t ever meet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:12 PM
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That works, too - just be funny about it the next morning Also - hiiii!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:59 AM
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Why, in gods name, would anyone change their behavior to benefit an imaginary person who only exists in their mind, to protect feelings they may or may not have? Women are people, and people are selfish. They will do whatever they feel is best for them. With no regard for a hypothetical person they may never meet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:52 AM
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Men don’t talk shit about intimate relationships. Women don’t mind telling each other their guy is shit That said, I disagree - I think most women are genuine with compliments
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:21 AM
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Option C: shit happens, don’t make it a thing. You can still enjoy each other’s company and talk/cuddle/touch Whiskey dick happens. Unless you’re 15, she’s probably aware of this and is less judgmental than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:17 AM
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Yes. That’s what they crave, bc it’s familiar That is my point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:51 PM
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Honestly? I’m scared. My mom died during surgery, and my father of blood clots not long after knee replacement surgery (granted, COVID malpractice was the ultimate thing) I’m just trying to stay awake and in one piece
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:10 AM
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Missed, or just didn’t pay attention? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:49 AM
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Disneyland!! I’m so jealous I’m a couple days out from a vacation, so I’ll probably be somewhat active for a couple days Awww, I’m so happy Hot Wife is still being her awesome self Knee is … ok while walking, running still makes the joint slide around. I’m still firmly opposed to surgery, though How’s the job? How’s the cake-starved raccoon in gene tree?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:37 AM
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Hi!! How are you?!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:22 AM
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Hi love!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:13 AM
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Hiiii! I pop in more often than not, but generally leave one or two comments and bounce Work has gotten insane, I’ve taken on more responsibility and projects. But it’s all a really good development - I’m really happy. For the first time in a few years, my life seems to be trending all positive, in every area How are you?? How is my favorite feminist stepdaughter? And her beautiful mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:07 AM
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If this were true, “daddy issues” wouldn’t be a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:02 AM
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I saw someone describe him as “Caucasian Kevin Samuels” and I can’t stop laughing about it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:00 AM
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You forgot to add “guilty of loving pit bulls”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:59 AM
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I kinda want you to make this a post, bc I’m pretty sure it’s the same impulse that leads to a major RP complaint (women preferring to get freaky with ONS and FWBs, not their LTR or husband)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:50 AM
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You’re likely going to get a lot of revenge fantasies from frustrated men The truth, though, is that it really isn’t an issue. And I say this as someone who got divorced in her very late 30s, and was prepared to be an untouchable, unlikable, unfuckable swamp witch Don’t let the urban legends scare you, they’re untrue for the most part
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 03:37 AM
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You’re a dude
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 03:44 AM
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I’m good!! How are you??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:02 AM
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LaGuardia is one of the inner circles of hell. I LOATHE that airport I haven’t really had a traumatic experience at an international one - I guess bc I expect not to know anything about it Savannah/Hilton Head for the best airport in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:35 AM
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I agree with you on that, although I’d call those chicks insecure liberals And honestly, kudos. I thought this was a “gotcha” post, but I was wrong - thanks for the good faith answers to my BB comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:48 AM
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In this day and age, a woman who says “all porn is cheating” or “he can’t look at it at all” is either super religious or socially super conservative. Or both. That’s just no longer a thing women feel And much like you, I have sympathy for BBs… But I’ll ask the guy if he’s trying to be attractive. Is he paying attention to styles and courting his woman. If he’s initiating physical contact naturally, vs expecting it after springing for a TGIFridays sampler
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:43 AM
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Ok, then you have a mindset more similar to mine IRL. If a guy is too into his porn, cool. I’ll look for someone I’m compatible with That doesn’t stop me from understanding where both sides of this come from. Both the porn-rejected chick and the BB guy feel like they are the second choice bc their person couldn’t score what they really wanted That is a shitty feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:35 AM
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Ok, let me take a step back, rather than making an assumption Do you understand why men get upset over AFBB? Thinking their women fucked men they found more attractive, and settled for them/their wallet?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:30 AM
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And I’m trying to explain it, using a common gender flipped example that most men understand The core insecurities are the same
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:28 AM
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You are asking “why are women threatened by/hate their man’s love of porn” You can gender flip it with “why are men threatened by/hate their woman’s AF phase” In both cases - the rejected female partner and the BB dude - they feel insecure and unwanted in comparison This isn’t rocket science
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:25 AM
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Are you going to ask guys why they’re upset about AFBB next? Chads in her past, after all. Porn is in his present Edit - and this is coming from a chick who loves porn. But come on, this is a gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:18 AM
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JLo is the new Cher - there’s nothing original left on her body (or face)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:37 PM
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And Leo is an equally extreme example, lol He’s a super rich, super connected, super famous, extremely handsome man. Not your average middle age schlub
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:23 AM
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Post-wall Salma Hayek bagged the head of LVMH Post-wall Miranda Kerr caused two billionaires to brawl over her Paula Abdul isn’t Leo’s female counterpart
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:09 AM
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Stacy’s mom was arrested for sexual relations with a minor Loool 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:56 AM
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It’s like any other dating market - some people are in high demand, others aren’t The biggest difference is kids. If they want them, they have them by this point. The women who do have them are generally reluctant to marry again, so as not to fuck with child support I would think that would be good for guys, honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:40 PM
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I’ve always loved retail work - stuff other people (aka, those condescending professionals you mention) describe as borderline traumatizing teenage work To me, it’s just fun making people feel good. Probably why I’m in sales these days 😂 I completely get it. There’s a zen to some stuff, and I absolutely understand why your career path fills that need Edit - and your IQ doesn’t shock me. You have always struck me as someone too smart to care about dumb shit like corporate life
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:49 AM
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What I’m saying is that people who go through extreme situations are generally concerned about basic survival. They’re not sitting around with their thumb up their ass, thinking about what those of us in comparatively privileged circumstances concern ourselves with (like our romantic lives) And even with that said, I prefaced my original reply by saying that I’m sure some people did think about that stuff Really bizarre take you’ve got
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 12:32 AM
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Yes, but it’s going to get weird. Do you have a buffalo costume?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:11 AM
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What are you accusing me of grifting? The OP is about the Holocaust. Which was a literal torture of people to the extent that modern medicine was changed Da fuq you trying to defend?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:34 AM
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Omg. Take my poor person gold, I’m dying 🏆 (legit made me laugh, thank you)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:31 AM
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You really buried the lede here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:46 AM
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Last one!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:43 AM
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Ooof, the projection. Sorry man, I’m here if you want to talk
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:55 AM
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Awww, I’m sorry life is so hard as an awkward dude. How does it feel not to relate to humanity the way a 195 IQ guy does?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:51 AM
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Why would he mention attractiveness if he wasn’t insecure about it? Attractiveness and EQ tend to correlate more than attractiveness and IQ. And his entire rant is about IQ Most high IQ people on here deny that EQ is a thing, actually Edit: (his defensiveness about his looks is literally a full paragraph)[https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/uzh1f9/daily_community_chat_megathread/iaeimjf/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3]
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:49 AM
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Damn, dude. I hit a nerve, clearly Stop fellating yourself and admit your social skills suck. Everyone reading this knows it So, from what I can infer - you’re ugly, average-to-low-average IQ (at best, in the 120s, by your own admission), and angry about it Damn man. I’m sorry. Please don’t shoot up a school
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:41 AM
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Why bring attractiveness into it if he isn’t insecure? We would have had the same debate regardless Also, no one envies ugly nerds with no social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:27 AM
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I said what I said so you would post my quote “I totes predict the future” … loooooool 😂 Lol, ok For the record, it’s not everyone else’s reading comprehension. I’m literally quoting you tonight This is on you. And your 105 IQ
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:24 AM
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Except you’re the one who posted a jealous rant, which even started with a mention of good looking people The jealousy, man. It’s dripping from your posts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:08 AM
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I actually did read it, it was one giant whine about not being able to make connections with other humans My IQ isn’t 130 either Lol, wow. And you qualify yourself as intelligent Dude, again. Your social skills suck. It has nothing to do with IQ Again someone with a baseline 195 IQ can run laps around you, socially. And you’re in the 120s at best 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:39 AM
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The person I responded to clearly doesn’t “communicate and enjoy time around people” I agree with you. My IQ has consistently tested higher than anyone on here would guess - yet I come across as a ditz bc I say what I say, and move on There is a very real theory that an IQ point difference of 20+ points makes communication difficult. But difficult does not equate to “impossible” “The willing suspension of disbelief” is a thing even beyond literature circles. Sometime you need to park that little…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:14 AM
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Lol Dude. You think you’re somehow smarter than a dude whose IQ is estimated to be 195-210? Yet got along with construction workers and drunk idiots No. You just have shit people skills It’s ok - you can have a 130 IQ and suck at people skills, simultaneously I still do not understand why awkward smart people want to claim that they have normal social skills - I want someone to explain this to me. It inevitably ends up being a spittle-spewing lecture about how EQ is made up Yet average IQ people…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:03 AM
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A person with one of the highest IQs ever reported managed to work successfully in construction and as a bouncer His IQ is reportedly between 195 and 210 Yet he can manage to communicate with drunk idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:47 AM
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Why would any woman do that? We get dick thrown at us multiple times a day, everyday. Of course we go for the maximum tingles - why go for less pleasure when getting better, more satisfying sex is just as easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:08 AM
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I meant it when I said it was on me for not being clear lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:41 PM
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Nazis for grandfather, Soviets for grandmother They were young preteens and didn’t know each other at the time Edit - I didn’t take the time to specify that they weren’t a married adult couple. That confusion is on me, I guess, for not thinking people would be trying to poke holes in a reply about the horrors of the holocaust that contained a familial anecdote
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:22 PM
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Suuuuure you did 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:29 PM
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Seems you’re ignorant to the fact that Jews weren’t the only group targeted by Nazis
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:55 PM
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Despite not being Jewish, my grandfather was in a concentration camp. My grandmother was sent to “work” in Siberia They were teenagers at the time, but from the stories the tell … love was a luxury that was very far from their minds during their ordeals Pure survival, looking out for weaker/younger people, and avoiding being noticed were their priorities. Combined with a really fucked up version of Stockholm Syndrome. All of that, in no particular order I don’t doubt that some people over-intell…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:36 AM
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you haven’t said anything related to being a hot milf How honest do you want me to be? Truth be told, I lucked out in the genetic lottery and got some very good looks. It helps that I was a teen in the 90s, when Baywatch ruled and slim-hipped natural blondes with big boobs were considered the hottest of the hot I can write a lot about this, but it seems like some egotistical humble brag. Long story short, two things conspired to keep my ego in check - my parents made it a point to drill it into …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:39 AM
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I don’t have kids. It’s a joke about being a post-wall Stacy (and also a joke about the song Stacy’s Mom) I’m divorced, but in a serious LTR - we live together. For what it’s worth, the ex and I are friendly, and he supports my relationship (as I support his single guy ways) The honest answer is that I’m neither, but enjoy joking about being a sex crazed cougar
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:52 AM
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Only one way to find out insert creepy grin here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:21 AM
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I’ll be gentle, I promise
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 05:21 PM
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Omg, you did!! I still need to watch that 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 05:21 PM
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Omg! I didn’t realize this was you!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 04:23 AM
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Don’t let her entertain this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 03:42 AM
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So, you’re saying you can’t behave without the threat of Sky Daddy? That sounds like projection
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:50 AM
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I’m not sure what you’re trying to argue Roman noses are hot, period. Crooked or not (although, bonus points for crooked). They speak to masculinity, sports and physical altercations. Similar to scars This is an area where straight men don’t understand what is attractive about men and masculinity. I don’t want to be an ass, but sit down. I promise you I understand what makes men hot, and I promise I’m more of an expert on it than you are (Unless you’re bi, but then I’m going to wonder wtf you li…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:04 AM
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They certainly can be That said, you’re missing the forest for the trees - what someone perceives as a flaw isn’t necessarily a flaw. Adrian Brody’s nose is a big part of his attractiveness, for example
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 09:05 PM
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Just going to say that a crooked nose can be attractive. I love a Roman nose on a man, it makes his face so much more interesting and handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:13 PM
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I talked about Ben specifically, but (IIRC - I might be wrong) none of those guys were switching teams in the midst of their scandal Ben is unique in that he was on the team and had a fan base when his shit broke. TOTALLY different At the end of the day, you’re right - the franchise fans will continue to support no matter what. But you will lose some fans, and shake the die-hard status of a lot more That’s not good. I would rather be a fan of a team that held out for a “clean” type of player. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:49 AM
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It’s not too late. Embrace your passion for boobs!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:34 AM
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I’m with you in that Watson has unbelievable talent But so did Ray Rice, Michael Vick, OJ fucking Simpson. Sideline antics aren’t how you build a team - if the Browns signed him pre-scandal, I would actually be more sympathetic to you right now But post scandal? No, it’s going to alienate one of the best fan bases in football
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:33 AM
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FINE. I need a breast exam anyhow
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:30 AM
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Ain’t no laws when Smurf is drinking the Claws
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:30 AM
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I’m having a rare (for an extro) night home alone, with alcohol. Shit posting will happen
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:27 AM
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I miss the 90s, when we were pretty upfront about the fact that we were injecting animals with hormones, then eating their meat/drinking their milk That’s all it is. Divorce became a big social thing in the 70s, early menses was a 90s thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:26 AM
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I was wrong! He clarified, and I misread him
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:22 AM
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Only if you’ve done your homework. Then, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:21 AM
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Ok, I misunderstood - apologies That’s an internal struggle I think is understandable My honest answer to your question is that you want a woman who wants to be a mom. And that’s a perfectly valid choice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:21 AM
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You can do better, HOLY. the Browns are a great franchise who don’t need to cheapen themselves like this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:19 AM
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I think that goes back to a rather famous 90s-era Nina Hartley video, warning women who are looking to get into porn what they can expect (note that she isn’t discouraging it. Just being upfront) OF isn’t hardcore porn, so I don’t think the repercussions are the same
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:15 AM
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Well, now that you’ve opened the door - why are you so hellbent on a religious chick if you’re not religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:13 AM
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lulll!!! I missed you! Come give stepmommy a very creepy hug
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:07 AM
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Looool … Amazing link That implication is still somehow less unsettling than the idea of copulating with someone featured on the BeholdTheMasterRace sub
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:56 AM
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Tell him he that you’re posting a pic of he does not give you a Diet Dr Pepper immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:27 AM
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I think signing him was a terrible idea for the Browns. You guys have a passionate fan base, and someone like this is going to undermine it (similar to when Philly signed Michael Vick, but worse - Vick was on a redemption tour at that point; Watson is still knee deep in it) Other football stars who withstood this sort of stuff (looking at you, Roethlisberger) were already on the team when the scandal broke I say this as a passionate Bills fan who went through the 17 year drought in part bc manag…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:25 AM
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I’ve also been gone for weeks 😂 Much easier this way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:18 AM
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This guy has been a pretty legit poster. I’m giving him the benefit of the doubt, and assuming he overheard it at a bar and was curious
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:12 AM
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I pretty much only get this from white supremacist types. It’s super creepy, especially given the implications
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 01:47 AM
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Ever watch Archer? It’s one of my favorite shows, and the idea that he’s autistic is one of the most reliable theories out there - IIRC, the writers won’t comment on it He’s also professionally successful, handsome, and has a successful dating life - so, obviously high functioning. But he has some personality quirks that are impossible to ignore Really cool take on the whole “autistic character” meme
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 01:39 AM
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A dead man who was likely a sociopathic rapist. Who wrote an apology to his victim Hope he’s burning in hell
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:27 PM
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Because she was the first high profile doxxing victim - likely with his help - and was harassed and dragged through the mid I would have ended it as early as possible, too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:25 PM
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Lol ok. So these self reported studies are reliable. Unlike any others
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:24 PM
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Are you trying to claim they’re not self reported?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:42 PM
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If you have another platform, I’m all ears
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:51 AM
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This is the type of reasonable, educated discourse humanity invented Reddit to avoid 😡 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:40 AM
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That’s why I included “the high side”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:31 AM
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Agreed. I’ve been caught up in emotional debates, but I’ve also honestly had some views changed here. It’s growth, and it’s good
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:30 AM
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I don’t disagree. But 17 (which was her low end) isn’t even in that conversation 40 definitely wasn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:26 AM
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You just made the short list of my favorite people in here! (Edit - I’m actually open to having my mind changed, as well. Just not in this one particular case)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:19 AM
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There seems to be two different conversations happening Religious people vs non religious Party people vs introverts We’re at the point where you’re describing your category
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:18 AM
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Huh? Did you not see the first sentence of my first reply to you? Kobe almost certainly raped someone and bought his wife a super expensive bracelet to keep her around when she wanted to divorce him after it came out (bc that would have been bad for his defense). He was a prolific cheater But do go on
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:16 AM
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Why do I feel like it’s a trap?! 🐙 Long, dumb thought below. But wow, thank you for reading it through and being open minded (for the record I think Amber H is a piece of shit who abused Johnny Depp - there is no excuse) The accuser changed her mind (as much as anyone on the outside knows) because she was doxxed and getting a lot of harassment. She was literally the first - or one of the first - private citizens the internet doxxed. Things we are as normal now we’re shocking then I mean no disre…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:13 AM
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So, yes. A lack of consent is the definition of rape Which is what he apologized for. In writing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:01 AM
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His victim is the person he allegedly raped. The person he apologized to. In writing His wife is the victim of his extracurricular activities - which is something he never had his PR team try to bury
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:59 AM
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And his written apology to the victim? Do that one now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:52 AM
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He wrote her an apology. Please, try to explain that away
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:48 AM
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I agree completely. This is also a hang up of men who want to have casual sex but can’t IRL, I’ve watched men reject inexperienced women (and vice versa)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:47 AM
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So your view is that he paid her millions - and avoided a trial - because he didn’t do it? And bribed his wife out of divorce because he didn’t do it? And he apologized in writing to her? Lol, keep drinking the Kool Aide
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:45 AM
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I put that on the high side of average. Guys on here talk about women with triple digit Ns
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:43 AM
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Yes, which is why I didn’t make an affirmative claim outside of him buying his wife a bracelet after she was going to leave him. Which was well documented
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:40 AM
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So, you have zero proof. Exactly like his defense - they didn’t prove anything, they smeared the victim A big part of a defense is to prove the defense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:39 AM
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My sister is the poster child for BPD - I’ve posted about her a few times. My views on it are wildly complex, based on 40 years of witnessing her behavior There are three things I want to point out: 1 - BPD people are triggered by intimacy. Not just romantic. Familial, platonic, whatever sort of intimacy it is will set them off. Some of my sisters worst behavior was directed at female friends and family members 2 - BPD people have a duality that is interesting. They can be very good people in ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:33 AM
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Where’s your proof that he didn’t do it? You made the affirmative claim
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:27 AM
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Kobe almost certainly raped someone and bought his wife a super expensive bracelet to keep her around when she wanted to divorce him after it came out (bc that would have been bad for his defense). He was a prolific cheater And, most egregiously, his victim was the first high profile doxxing victim - and he very likely had a hand in it. She was harassed for literally years Fuck Kobe
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:38 PM
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This is where I’m completely pro-TRP. There are a lot of basic bitches out there That said, you are right - we’re all shallow. And the shallowness is an issue with finding a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 06:48 PM
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Use of statistics My issue is not that you are bringing up a phenomenon. I’m not debating that My issue is that you are layering your own, projected opinion onto “why” Women who genuinely feel this way? They exist, like I said in my first reply. They’re overwhelmingly basic bitches, who either have (or think they have) no value other than looks What you’re not accounting for are the phases women go through where they may feel temporarily like this - motherhood, for one. Hormonal shifts seen in c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:53 AM
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If your intention was simply to contrast and compare the male vs female experience, then sure. I agree with you. Men don’t get the attention women do, as a general rule But by trying to explain how women feel, you went sideways - because your take on the female experience is just plain wrong And the women who do feel the way you claim have very unhealthy relationships with their own physical appearance - women whose entire identities revolve around it The way you’re quoting stats here is why peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:16 AM
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Your premise starts with a fundamental misunderstanding of female sexuality - our sexuality is reactive, not proactive Except for an elite few, sheer looks alone isn’t enough to spark attraction in women. Most good looking guys are like art - fun to look at, but not lighting our panties on fire It’s why women go nuts for movie characters, not the actors Simultaneously, the age group women are attracted to ages along with us. I can see that a 20 year old is more attractive than a 35 year old, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:09 PM
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Huh? It’s about womens experience while aging. It’s right in the title
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:36 PM
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I’m literally telling you that - as a Middle Ages woman - I never grieved aging. Because I have worth and self esteem that is detached from my physical appearance People are still inherently respectful and kind. Why do I want creepy guys giving me attention ? This is so much better
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:31 PM
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For background: I’m 41. While I’m still attractive for my age (and work to stay attractive), I’m not kidding myself - I’m nowhere near as hot as I was a couple decades ago Hell, there’s a massive college party going on in my town right now (I stopped for lunch, and every bar/restaurant is packed) - I could probably dance naked on the dance floor, and no one would notice bc we’re surrounded by gorgeous college girls dressed as sexy as possible But here’s the thing: that’s ok. I was a young, hot t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:17 PM
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I’ll be back!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:33 AM
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Sir, I will give you credit (and buy you a round 🍻 ) if you do … but the mind boggles. This seems like the end all/be all of bad PPD takes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:09 AM
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I dare 😡 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:08 AM
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Temporary appearance cheers! 🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:08 AM
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He’s going to age first, and she will waste a good chunk of her active adult years in a caretaking role When she ages, he will likely not be around to help take care of her I don’t see how this is a positive? He gets a nurse at the end of his life … she gets nothing at the end of her life I’m on a self-imposed PPD break, but this is so badly thought out I had to break it. Disappearing again now
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 04:08 AM
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You have to edit for them - you’re the prize. Remember that You’re actually already doing it. The “special” inexpensive drinks - gold diggers want money spent, trophy wives want a good experience
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:49 PM
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You guys ever have a moment of being really happy and thankful? Feels really good when you have that feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:41 PM
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Goddammit, I just wrote out a whole thing and lost it when I got side tracked. Damn you, real life Essentially, you need to figure out what you want. IMO, trophy wives are up your alley - you want a woman who appreciates you and tries to impress you, too. I admittedly self identify as this, so grain of salt in terms of my opinion Gold diggers are great for guys who want a more transactional relationship - you know what is expected, you pay for it, and she knows how she has to maintain herself If…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:22 PM
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That’s fair! I love that mens tastes are as varied as womens looks are It’s not fair that the reverse doesn’t seem to be true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:10 PM
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In all fairness, I explicitly vet for guys making a lot of money. So you have to take my opinions on this stuff with a grain of salt If you want to know how someone who sees life through this lens, ask me. I’m very honest about this (even to the men in my life. They’re equally honest about what they expect)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:01 PM
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That is all fair
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:55 PM
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It was a joke lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:54 PM
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Oh damn. She’s making me re-think what I thought was true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:49 PM
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Those are cheap dates done right And yes, given the context, I’d go for a second date happily. I thought you were championing Applebees when I nixed it lol The dates you’re describing are girl catnip lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:45 PM
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But they don’t have hips or ass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:41 PM
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My opinion is valued 😡 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:40 PM
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Yeah, that’s shopped
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:13 PM
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In all fairness, I was think of Jane and Brad in Happy Endings
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:12 PM
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Hey, I’m not hating it. But as someone with ta-tas, the body carries fat a certain way if you have them. It’s just biology
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:10 PM
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As someone who has DDs, those are C’s. Possibly Ds, but her rib cage is too small Women who have big tits carry weight on the front of their bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:09 PM
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Give her a stack of ones and put on some good music You’re welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:05 PM
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I don’t want a cheap date, I prefer an expensive one. But there is a way to do a cheap date the “right” way and get a second date The wrong way for a first date is to take me to a generic ass spot like Applebees and expect me to be impressed. I’m not going to be impressed by that Take me to happy hour at a highly rated independent restaurant where you know the owner or maitre d or bartender? Way more impressive, even if it’s an Italian deli Drinks is where it gets sticky, but drinks are good. Co…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:04 PM
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Yeah, it’s that one Even perspective doesn’t account for it, bc those boobs don’t exist on that waist Even Beyonces trainer has talked about having to keep some fat on her stomach so her boobs don’t shrink. Kate Uptons trainer has said the same
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:00 PM
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But you don’t get those boobs with that waist If it’s not PS, she had a boob job
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:58 PM
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Lol that’s just the one I tapped and saw an album I thought that’s all there was
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:57 PM
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It’s this pic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:53 PM
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It’s this pic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:53 PM
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It’s this pic, not the one you linked
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:52 PM
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One is cheap and unattractive. One is a celebration of carnal pleasures A smart woman know which is which
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:51 PM
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I’m admittedly one of the more financially driven women here, and even I said none of that. In fact, I made it a point to suggest a cheap date At the end of the day, I’m looking for a man who 1) is interested me enough to try and impress me 2) has similar lifestyle goals/expectations (which, to be fair, includes me earning a certain amount) 3) follows social customs when they’re expected. Like on a first date There’s no personal insult here, you and I just wouldn’t be compatible and you wouldn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:48 PM
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Weird neg, but you chose the wrong chick - I’m confident to a fault in my looks And look at the first pic in particular. Her face is demonstrably wider than her waist
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:16 PM
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Pretty much all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:04 PM
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Omg, you taught jr high?! No wonder you’re (reluctantly) red Jr High girls are viscous. Unfiltered toxic femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:54 PM
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That photoshopping is not all natural. No one’s waist is smaller than their head lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:53 PM
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I need to watch that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:51 PM
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It actually doesn’t show that. It shows that a larger percent have a 10+ age gap But again, as you get older … age gaps matter less. 10+ years and 50 and 60 is age matvhed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:27 PM
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Shockingly, not on my end. But yes, I’ve seen stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:44 AM
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And for this, I thank you. I still aim to have some sort of waist - although, the older I get, the more comfortable I am being curvier I just need to stop short of “tomato on two toothpicks”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:42 AM
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u/lulll I don’t even know what to say, you two agree on this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:40 AM
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No, that’s actually where it’s fun
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:40 AM
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I did my first shot (with my mom) at 8. Fucking Russians Cocaine was like a decade later
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:40 AM
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On the one hand, I give her credit for being cool and improving On the other hand? She should have dead-panned “I only drink Henney”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:38 AM
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So you clearly met me when I was in my 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:33 AM
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Lol she was probably trying not to laugh. It’s very accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:32 AM
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It’s not that serious - it’s just an extension of your living room, but you can leave if you’re tired
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:32 AM
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Looool. That made me snort white claw
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:30 AM
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Don’t be a silly nanny
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:23 AM
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Omg, the family guy sketch!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:20 AM
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Noted: we shouldn’t share a variety pack lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:20 AM
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This is very shaky, but my understanding is that natural blondes tend to be very fine haired with a straight-ish hair pattern Which means our scalp kicks out a normal amount of oil, but our hair can only handle a tiny amount (vs more textured, thicker hair). So it builds up on our scalp and causes irritation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:19 AM
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I’ve gotten a big fluffy, I just want to lose it It also doesn’t help that I have the unfortunate body type that gains in the waist. My ass and thighs will stay a size 2 as my boobs and upper body get bigger If my ass got big, I’d be your dream girl. Dumb hips didn’t get the memo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:16 AM
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Hey, a good cup of chowder is worth the price
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:13 AM
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I have scalp issues (naturals blondes tend to) and it’s what worked for me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:12 AM
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That’s fair, people should know their ballpark lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:11 AM
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This + Nizoral is a magic combo for me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:01 AM
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Even late 20s - if she lost it in her late teens, that’s a decade-plus I’m not defending it, for the record. But I could see how a drunken hookup gets forgotten
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:00 AM
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Can I recommend a shampoo?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:59 AM
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Me? God no Anecdotally? I’ve never heard a single person describe it as good. The best description was “awkward”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:56 AM
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By what age? Are you expecting a 97 year old to remember every partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:55 AM
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I hate to break it to you, but your man is a pussy magnet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:42 AM
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What products do you use in your hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:41 AM
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Kudos, well played. I was covering my eyes as I clicked lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:33 AM
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That’s actually shocking to me 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:32 AM
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Ok, I’m a sucker for cheesiness. Maybe I will give it a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:00 AM
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Oof. Boring is the worst criticism for entertainment industry products
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:54 AM
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Black Cherry FTW. Although Lemon is amazing, but they don’t sell that solo for some reason - it only comes in variety packs (at least here)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:54 AM
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Was it just terrible, and not so-terrible-it’s-somehow-amazing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:24 AM
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White claw. I’m going for quantity, not quality tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:18 AM
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That is … a very wholesome link for a description that could have been very wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:17 AM
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Definitely agree. Im the opposite though - I’ll shoot it, but dragging it out with a drink is too much for me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:02 AM
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You make my heart proud, you shameless boobie fan
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:02 AM
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Omg, it’s been a loooong time, but yes. I definitely can
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:01 AM
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I don’t love it, but it was my dads favorite drink … so I have a soft spot for it Until it hits my taste buds lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:50 AM
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I thought you wanted a nibble I’m rewatching 30 Rock, and the Muffin Top song came on, and I was cracking up thinking of you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:36 AM
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You misspelled “muffin top”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:32 AM
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Isn’t that a normal craving for you, even when dead sober?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:25 AM
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Me, tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:17 AM
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That’s why I generally reply with “I’m where white comes from” when people ask what my background is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:00 AM
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No, I do mean it I can pull myself back and see the analytical version of attractiveness that people talk about here, but I don’t like that. It takes effort, and it robs the magic from attraction Attraction isn’t logical or a math problem. It shouldn’t make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:59 AM
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Luckily, I have brunch plans tomorrow - so I’ll apply some mimosas to my hangover But yes, water is very necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:54 AM
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Loool
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:54 AM
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I do. I dumb it down on here (bc PPD) when I talk about how I’ve been wildly sexually attracted to men I know are - on paper - not attractive But the more candid truth is that men can be attractive in so many different ways that traditional model looks are boring. I’ve been absolutely enthralled by a man’s scent, or his clear skin, or his kind eyes. Or the way he moves or talks Most men are attractive in some way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:53 AM
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I’m Polish/Russian, Irish, and German I think I can handle you, but I’m up for the challenge
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:51 AM
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Parshsuavwsnwoi
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:50 AM
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I actually think the same about men - most guys are attractive in some way, shape or form … yet none of them seem to believe it We’re just our own worst critics IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:49 AM
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There is no honor higher than getting old broads in the Internet blackout drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:47 AM
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When I start posting incomprehensible gibberish, you’ll know why
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:47 AM
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This is wholesome and amazing, and not at all PPD material lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:46 AM
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I’m at 8. Right now lol This is not normal drinking behavior, for the record, but I’m apparently blowing off steam tonight and will be passed out like a rock when bf gets home I texted him that he can have sex with me, just don’t wake me up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:44 AM
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I’m dieting, I’m a super duper light weight these days When I go into maintenance, I’ll drink you all under the table
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:42 AM
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Wow, kicking it vintage style, I like it If I blackout and think I’m in college again (due to that being the last time I did those), it’s your fault
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:42 AM
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Nah, even ugly girls get hit on a lot. Men are thirsty, it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:41 AM
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Tonight, it’s white claws. I know, I know, the official drink of basic white bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:38 AM
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I’m 41
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:37 AM
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I’m not drunk enough, apparently. What should I do a shot of?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:35 AM
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Loool
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:35 AM
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I’m willing to bet I’m older than you, so it might be a generational thing But IME, guys don’t care. They care if you treat them well and are faithful
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:33 AM
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Your own ass pics? That seems kinda boring. I’d want to see pics of asses I’ve never seen before
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:32 AM
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I’m apparently on a mission to be drunk on Reddit tonight The last month had been crazy stressful, so I’m just going with it / chalking it up to blowing off steam Whhheeeeeeeeeee 🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:31 AM
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No, I will not back off until you present me with a restraining order
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:28 AM
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Men don’t ask. It’s never once in my life come up, and it’s never come up for my friends - guys IRL don’t care to ask
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:27 AM
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Gut health is so important. You know I care if I’m concerned about your 💩
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:54 AM
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Out of curiosity, did you dye it yourself or get it done? And what is your age? (I’m asking for a reason)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:50 AM
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Where were you two days ago?! A college guy was trying to argue that men spend more on their hair than women, and would not listen to anything I said I feel like a guy who got a service beyond “haircut” may have been able to talk sense into him. Since my literal decades in this industry clearly makes me a moron 🙄 But yes, let me know what the girls say
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:45 AM
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As long as you’re not deep throating tubesteak every weekend, no homo was implied Now I want steak
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:44 AM
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Protein shakes are amazing Highly recommend the daily harvest shakes + protein powder, it’s a very healthy meal on the go
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:39 AM
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What? Lol, no you can’t And that’s fine, I can be sensitive too. But just own it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:37 AM
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Not only do I do that, I bought him some great probiotics Find you a gal who cares about your muscles and gut health
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:36 AM
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The problem isn’t one guy hitting on you - that, in a vacuum, is flattering It’s the nonstop barrage. It gets obnoxious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:35 AM
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No. It’s selfish as shit to say anything in this case, don’t put that on me. Let me have my peace and happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:54 PM
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Bad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:54 PM
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It’s about taking the desperation out of their search
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:53 PM
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That’s 100% my take on it. I don’t care about fancy, I care about quality of food, wine, and experience
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:23 PM
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Except, it doesn’t show that at all Please point out where it says 35+ women can’t get relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:22 PM
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Except, they don’t. This is your revenge fantasy - women 35+ have no problem getting LTRs with high value age matched men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:14 PM
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There are ways to do a cheap date (I’ve talked about a picnic in the beach before), so let me preface this by saying that But if a guy is taking me out, he’s trying to impress me. And part of that is the restaurant he picks I don’t want to link restaurants publicly, but DM me if you’re curious. I will say first date tabs have run $150 - a bit less than $500
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:13 PM
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You don’t want me to answer this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:50 PM
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For the young men here? Looks For men with children, careers, etc? They have other priorities. Which is why the older guys even on here overwhelmingly don’t date 20-somethings Maybe you should pay attention to what they actually do, not what you want to do at 25
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:38 PM
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Yes, we’re talking about LTRs. Not raw physical attraction. I’m demonstrably less hot than I was at 18, no one is debating that Despite what you may think, older men are able to make a decision about not wanting to be with younger women due to immaturity, lack of shared life experience, career/earnings, the appropriateness with their own children, etc This happens frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:33 PM
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No, actually. Despite your hamstering bc you’re attracted to women your age, many men continue to prefer their age matches I’ve seen friends next girls for being too young Do some men continue to prefer younger girls? Sure, of course. But many don’t care, and many prefer their age matches over younger girls And that’s not even discussing the men who are sexually attracted to younger girls, but can’t stand their personalities so won’t LTR them Again, you have zero understanding and you’re showing…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:20 PM
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It means “you can’t read things that are obvious to most others”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:05 PM
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It’s not a meme, it’s literally the rule of thumb people have used for years - long before memes were a cultural thing And you’re ignoring my point about how appropriate age gaps lengthen as people get older You’re just shit talking to shit talk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:03 PM
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That’s why “half your age + 7” works - it accounts for the growing age gap that is acceptable as people age. Which is why it’s been the gold standard in society for ages A 20 year old shouldn’t dip below 17. A 52 year old shouldn’t dip below 33 You’re proving my point - younger people have zero idea about the realities of dating in the older SMP/RMPs. Absolutely none
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:50 PM
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All of which is different for killing to bond with your bros
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:42 PM
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Ooooh, opposite sex - I read too quick and missed that, sorry William Wyatt, in that case. Or Purplish
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:42 PM
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Think it through, Jim … A 12 year age gap is huge when one person is 19 As you get older, that age gap stops bing an issue. I have an 11 year age gap with my bf, and I would qualify us as age matched at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:41 PM
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I honestly have never heard that before - how do you figure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:27 PM
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Willow-girl for me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:24 PM
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You’re boobie pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:23 PM
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No, I don’t fish. I don’t kill animals for a good time I don’t object to how nature works, and animals being eaten. It’s an uncomfortable necessity I draw the line at doing it for fun or bonding among friends
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:20 PM
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Why are you ignoring that I said eating it made the killing marginally better? The point of the killing wasn’t to eat the meat. These are frat boys, not hunters who are going to dress and eat venison The point was killing for bonding
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:18 PM
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Because those people aren’t 35 yet. They’re late 20s/very early 30s and will start a family If they want before they graduate to the next age group
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:17 PM
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Because you have exactly zero idea what older men go for And they’re overwhelmingly not interested in younger women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:16 PM
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I don’t kill animals to bond with bros, no
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:15 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:15 PM
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Ok, keep believing these guys are gods and you’re not falling for blatant swindlers selling snake oil That’s your choice, no skin off my nose
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:35 PM
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Aren’t you basically a teenager? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:35 PM
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Yes, I’m aware. And have issues with that But the point of your animal killing is bonding with bros, the food is an extension of that Totally ducking unnecessary
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:34 PM
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By 35, people who want kids have them. That’s not a factor in the second SMP/RMP
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:34 PM
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Like I said, eating it makes it marginally better But this is still a bonding activity - these guys could have gone to the damn store Eating meat is not equivalent to bonding with bros by killing animals
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:33 PM
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I’m sorry, man, but that is terrible. It’s a little better that you ate them, but animal cruelty isn’t a bonding activity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:28 PM
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I agree. My only point is that the desperation people feel in their late 20s/early 30s is really just not being aware this is looming
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:28 PM
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That’s true … but part of it is that they don’t see the second SMP/RMP that is looming at age 35 (when the first big wave of divorces hit)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:52 PM
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Please tell me you didn’t actually kill animals
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:50 PM
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Oh my god, you are capable of googling. Escorts have spoken about it If you want to stay in some weird Blue Pill-Essie bubble about the lies these guys tell, that’s up to you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:13 PM
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They are. Like, it’s established You don’t need intense arguments to point out the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:33 PM
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That’s why I chose music as the example But other types of intelligence have been established - including athletic. And mathematicians fail at those types of intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:32 PM
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The author is incredibly detail orientated. It’s very well thought out and has call backs to other classic works
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:29 PM
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Lol they’re hookers or fake whores on F&F They’re hookers on Dan B’s social media
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:29 PM
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I don’t think you are either, you’re just like a pit bull with a bone. That’s all you want But thank you for being chill
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:34 AM
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WAIT. You don’t like reds?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:33 AM
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Then you understand the existential dread Gargamel causes me 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:33 AM
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People can act, but their experiences aren’t genuine
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:32 AM
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Oooh … a cocktail spiked with danger. I like it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:31 AM
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Lol, ok. I’m sure you’re boys will totally give you studies when they’re pissed an old guy is sniffing around their daughter Or, let me guess … their takes are valid and don’t need studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:28 AM
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I mean this gently, but are you autistic? Repeating “it’s illegal” does nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:27 AM
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BAT WINGS (Don’t worry, it’s where we keep wine. We keep snacks in the chin softness)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:26 AM
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Good point, my bad. Ask the bartender
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:25 AM
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She wasn’t successful because she wasn’t being herself Ciswomen are not interchangeable with trans men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:25 AM
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Wait until you get to 40. It’s what we keep the bat wings around for
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:24 AM
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Aw, come on. You can’t back up the eco psych claims? Loooooool Men are predatory. Look at the puberty thread and do the math
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:22 AM
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I don’t say anything. I ask if you want a drink, then take the drink from the bartender and walk away, leaving you surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:21 AM
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And, ahem, holds much more wine. Like me 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:19 AM
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Oh my god, Norah Vincent is a lesbian who tried to live as a trans man and was shocked her experience wasn’t 100% great No shit, a ciswoman isn’t happy trying to live as trans
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:18 AM
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Ok? So come up with a solution. I’ll continue talking about the problem Also, I doubt you’re older than me. But I might be wrong 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:17 AM
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You’re the guy who thinks Dan blitzerian doesn’t pay, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:16 AM
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Hmmm … Wine glass seems shallow. I’m a wine carafe
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:15 AM
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Hm, fair enough, I thought your same colored avatars meant you were the same. My bad But to your point - can’t prove a negative. Men won’t admit to not liking older women Of course, you can prove me wrong by finding a study
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:12 AM
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Ok. But again, I never claimed to have a solution
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:10 AM
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If I’m furniture, I hope to god I’m a bar. At least a bar cart
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:07 AM
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I agree completely. If he had reacted, it would have been a different story - he’d be vilified As it was, he showed a jaw-dropping amount of self control and poise. I gained a lot of respect for him
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:06 AM
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Holy fuck, her friend has 5 kids at 25. With multiple fathers No fucking shit that’s a bad idea
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:04 AM
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They’re all hookers. It’s all fake
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:03 AM
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When did I ever claim to have a solution? I can point out the fact that the system fails, nonetheless
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:02 AM
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Yeah, you started this whole thread assuming that age gap relationships are healthy and natural So please … present your statistical evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:00 AM
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Again … not sure why you think I’m advocating for anything different
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:58 AM
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Well, you want to focus on one skill. Make it musicians - there’s an established crossover into math So if someone plays the French Horn well, he’s smarter than others? No? So why is math special to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:55 AM
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Ok, you first - please find me a study on age gap relationships that establishes the percentage that are healthy You made the initial claim, back it up with studies
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:53 AM
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I’m actually re-reading my favorite book - The Crimson Petal and The White It’s decidedly TRP-friendly, and I tried to get Wyatt to read it so we could discuss, but I think 500 pages was too much. It is admittedly long (There are some things in that Wikipedia entry I disagree with - it’s not feminist at all, Dr Curlew isn’t sexually assaulting Agnes, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:50 AM
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Oh right. Just blow up your chance of ever being employed Why didn’t thousands of people before them think of this ONE EASY TRICK
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:44 AM
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Yeah, no shit. Heuristics are great for judging whether to become personally involved But yes? Judge the individual on their own merits Aka, the wheat from the chafe Also, older men finding these guys creepy cancels your hypothetical weird stats. IRL, older men shun these guys
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:43 AM
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Lol, ok were not going back there, but yes - great athletes can be dumb. Fucking around with numbers doesn’t make one smart One talent does not equal intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:41 AM
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How do you not know this?!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:39 AM
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Ok, that one isn’t for me, but hats off to you for loving it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:39 AM
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It doesn’t do anything if literal companies are operating by flouting the laws
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:35 AM
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Yes, which is 70% of TRPs base these days I’m actually curious what comes next. We’re at a point where PUA was in 2010, when TRP started emerging TRP is now in its twilight, so I keep looking for what is coming. Alas, Crypt Keeper white chicks are not their target audience
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:33 AM
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And yet … it does nothing in regards to the day-to-day realty Also? Did you tell the op to stop complaining? Or just me, who pointed out that jobs can be sexist both ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:30 AM
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Holy hamster Older men who target younger women are creepy. As someone in her 40s, men my age and older find it more creepy than I do Because healthy older men want to protect the younger generation. Unhealthy predators want to selfishly use them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:27 AM
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What is your point? I’m not arguing a different system, I’m literally saying shit happens that breaks laws What, exactly, are you looking for from an argument I’m not making?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:26 AM
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Hence, “it’s a heuristic” Paint with a broad brush, but if someone breaks through that … judge the individual 99% of older men pursuing younger women are predatory If you find that 1%, I’ll support it And, HINT: those guys don’t pursue younger women as a rule. They happen to fall for one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:23 AM
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Ok, I don’t disagree with you at all on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:21 AM
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Clearly doing it anyhow, and no one caring
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:21 AM
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Right, so nothing is stopping them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:17 AM
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That’s who it was initially created for I’m saying it now panders to the 3s and lower, non-Westerners, and mentally ill. It’s a different beast these days
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:17 AM
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This is not about men aging well This is about predatory men. And according to your evolutionary psychology, men have benefited from being predatory and coercive. So of course a big amount continue to emulate these behaviors Eco psych makes men predators - you can’t discount that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:15 AM
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It’s very illegal, and yet no one cares if there are no complaints and plausible deniability
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:13 AM
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Average fucking chump - the 5s of the world who could be successful, but need some coaching. It doesn’t come naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:12 AM
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Yes. And I will always support a healthy age gap relationship Most are not healthy (And my own bc is 11 years my senior, so I’m not exactly ignorant here)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:12 AM
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Great. Why do you think that stops it in practice?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:10 AM
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It’s what they literally did, and openly admitted among each other (and in front of non-employees, like me). No idea if they said it in interviews, I never interviewed there But it was a hard and fast rule It’s also not completely unheard of
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:06 AM
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My ex’s hedge fund openly only hired women for admin roles and men for exec roles. The one position they didn’t have a mandate for was IR/HR I don’t know why you guys think this doesn’t go both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:01 AM
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That doesn’t explain how TRP fell off appealing to AFCs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:45 AM
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I mean, the fact that other older men find these guys creepy should be a tip off. This is not a universal older guy thing Even the ones who find them hot - and would fuck them - generally don’t want to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:41 AM
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Omg, I love eyebleach
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:38 AM
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Oh, that’s true. Ex broke his at 15 - a bad fall during a ski trip. His uncle was apparently RP’d and told him to walk it off He got surgery at 37
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:33 AM
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What book?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:32 AM
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Klon clone sounds like a Star Wars movie
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:32 AM
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The single parent thing is like the high N thing - it’s a heuristic, not a guarantee Judge the individual on their own merits (But also, if you decide it’s not for you, it’s ok)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:30 AM
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I’m very, very happy for you ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:27 AM
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Sure … except predatory young men exist in the entire pool of young men trying to seduce age matched women. Which is all young men Predatory men are over represented in the pool of older men who focus on younger women. And most older men focus on age matched women (vs serially perusing younger women), so … A young woman’s chances of dealing with a predator are much higher with older men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:26 AM
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That’s actually really heart warming to read. No everyone is so lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:21 AM
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Holy fuck, did you find him in an episode of The Flintstones?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:20 AM
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He was a regular about a year or so ago - very bubbly and sweet. Someone I flat out advised who needs a virgin or an N of like 1 He wanted a virgin or low N girl, and just wanted to celebrate and have fun with her. His entire persona was positive and healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:20 AM
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This is a lot of hamstering At the end of the day, when young women are campaigning to date older men, older folks (women, but also the father and uncles who find themselves protective of the girls) will consider it. Until then, we all default to protecting the girls from older men Did you read the puberty thread today? That is why people aren’t rushing to support these relationships. Too many older men are predatory and traumatizing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:12 AM
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He got full blown surgery - they took the opportunity to fix his deviated septum and deal with his sinus polyps
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:08 AM
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That is actually true - I didn’t think of it from that perspective Maybe we have a newbie we’ll be referencing in the next year or so
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:07 AM
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I remember the ridiculous male lead and his amazing late 90s costumes 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:06 AM
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Oh wow. That sounds awful, I’m sorry you went through that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:05 AM
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Amen 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:04 AM
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Oh god, I love center stage. My friends used to tell me I looked like the main actress - I still don’t see it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:59 AM
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Exactly. But I imagine you are in complete bliss
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:59 AM
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When my ex got his broken nose operated on, the surgeon literally asked how much artistic license he had. Ex wanted it to look as much the same as possible, the surgeon was visibly disappointed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:57 AM
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No, it was more of a 90s teen movie category. See also: Save the Last Dance
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:56 AM
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I can’t tell, I can’t see your face
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:56 AM
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That doesn’t explain most siblings, who have a strong family resemblance and still have one attractive one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:54 AM
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OH MY GOD, I love You’re Rich and I’m Poor, Let’s Dance Together
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:52 AM
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How do you explain a looks difference between siblings?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:51 AM
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Too late, my mind is basically a you porn of you and big boobied/love handled women Spoiler alert: you’re in ecstasy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:50 AM
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And I bet you want to fall into the squishy and enjoy all of it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:45 AM
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Depends. I have a family history of a clotting disorder, where people die after surgery (father, nearly my sister, various aunts and uncles). I’d take filler
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:45 AM
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The point of the chin is a bone structure issue. No muscle there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:44 AM
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Depends on the filler - Sculptra lasts years, it was developed for AIDS patients, to hide to bone loss
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:44 AM
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PRP thread lifts are super popular lately, and probably the most intrusive short of a traditional face lift Injections and even Botox placement have come a long way - you only notice it if it’s intentional (some people like that, which boggles my mind). Lip flips are the new lip filler style Eye trough filler is something I’m seeing more and more, and I’m both fascinated and kinda grossed out And your various collagen stimulation methods - I’ve always been a fan of IPL, but my device has me reth…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:42 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:38 AM
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I’m thinking moneygang. Pickles was to happy and wholesome, posting about his low N princesses
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:36 AM
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Wouldn’t have fixed the chin
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:30 AM
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Some of the nonsurgical facial optimization I see clients posting are jaw dropping. There’s a lot that can be done
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:30 AM
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I bet she looks damn good in lingerie
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:27 AM
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Do you live with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:57 AM
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You, sir, are a gentleman and a scholar. I wish you the boobie planet of your dreams
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:55 AM
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I think he means that TRP appeals men born into - and whose worldview is informed by - the lower classes, who “graduated” via STEM (or a high level trade) … it hooks them by convincing them that their STEMlord skills/“intelligence” are actually peak manhood … and this brainwashing is shockingly effective
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:24 AM
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Do you feel comfortable telling her that you felt like her saying that crossed a boundary?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:18 AM
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Oh I totally agree - I just think it’s for the working class guys who are lower on the totem pole Working class lotharios are either naturally RP’d or blissfully BP
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:09 AM
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Awwww!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:05 AM
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You’re a breast man. You’re clearly someone with elite taste
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:04 AM
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There are a lot of working class men who fuck I think TRP started out catering to the working class 4s and 5s. But now they’re dealing with 3s and below
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:01 AM
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Without getting into it, being raised by my sister means he’s either going to reject everything the manosphere stands for, or he’ll be a prime candidate for getting sucked in There’s no in between
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:46 AM
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I won’t tell you how much it worries me that my nephew may find this corner of the internet soon. But I don’t know what I can do to prevent it - nothing, really
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:34 AM
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I’m so sorry, bunny ears I hope your mom meant it as a “I’ll get others involved to ensure your safety,” and misfired. But if that’s not what it was, that’s terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:29 AM
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Some of these guys probably grew up on it from about age 13
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:19 AM
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From what I’m told …. They don’t like cellulite or wobbly bits, and like feeling physically much larger. Being able to toss her around is a turn on too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:14 AM
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TIL: the Kool Aide man was cuck culture all along
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:13 AM
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These guys literally spent years not dating - like a lot of women, they opted out of seriously dating and just hooked up At least the guys pursuing are optimistic. Being the chooser will make you jaded quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:12 AM
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It’s a combo platter of teenage guys who found the manosphere before they got experience, and incels
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:10 AM
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There are some posters who legitimately need mental health intervention, and this sort of edgelord encouragement is not helping them It’s frustrating as all hell to watch
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:03 AM
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The jail time and restraining order should prove otherwise. Not to mention the fact that she’s been consistent for years Sadistic assholes are not limited to a gender - a sad fact of life. This sort of innate defense of sadistic assholes based on gender does no one any good (That goes for evil women, too)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:02 AM
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This sort of mature admittance of misreading/apology is not why I come to PPD! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:44 PM
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It’s weird to put it like this, but they basically were put into a typical woman’s position in the SMP - pursued, uninspired by the women who approached them, disillusioned with women in general They had FWBs that satisfied them, but they just didn’t see a point in pursuing a LTR when most women are basic bitches Turns out, when men have options, they become just as picky and flaky as the women guys here complain about
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:42 PM
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Lol, cuck culture isn’t a thing Western men don’t prioritize virginity at all. They prioritize other things
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:30 PM
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Considering the guys got convicted and she was granted a restraining order, the people who actually know what happened disagree with you Why do you feel the need to defend rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:29 PM
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Don’t encourage mentally ill teenagers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:23 PM
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Yes, enough men are horrible that this is a shared female experience Not sure how this is shocking, you know rape and predatory men exist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:19 PM
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Weirdly enough, bf is somewhat famous in a particular niche of his profession. Enough that he has fans trying to slide into his dms (he’s unknown to 99.9% of people, to be clear) My best friend is an on-air personality on one of the top media outlets in a top 5 market Both of them are healthy, red blooded guys. They had their slutty phases, but both ended up pretty jaded about women What ended up happening with both of them is that they kept their FWBs and whatnot, but didn’t try for an actual r…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:54 PM
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Huh. That is bizarre to me. But I believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 09:54 PM
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The only way to get over one guy is to get under another guy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:56 PM
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They’re all the same, in terms of intensity and enjoyment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:55 PM
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Interesting, can’t say that’s a thing I ever experienced
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:54 PM
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Lol, what is a weak orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:19 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:35 PM
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I hope he’s telling the truth about having gotten help, but he won’t answer if he’s shown them these posts This sub attracts the mentally deranged - and it’s hard to shake them when they show up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:18 AM
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He claims he’s gotten help, and everyone just needs to start replying to him with “have you shown your doctor these posts?”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:13 AM
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Doesn’t change that the majority says that. Including the most upvoted I think you’re selectively looking for what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:23 AM
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That’s also not toxic masculinity TM is a description of a traditionally masculine trait that is harmful to the man himself - eg, “real men don’t show emotions” Literally nothing about this is toxic masculinity. If anything, your insistence on cuck culture and how it interrupts your ability to have anything resembling a normal relationship at 19 is the closest thing to TM
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:08 AM
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I’m confused - the women in that link were talking about not being able to have PIV Os
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:06 AM
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That’s literally not toxic masculinity lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:01 AM
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What are you arguing? That women don’t orgasm easily? I haven’t seen women deny that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:58 AM
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Except? They weren’t. They were true men This “cuck culture” shit - it’s neurotic and hysterical and feminine-like overthinking. It’s not natural for men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:53 AM
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Lol, I was actually thinking of Jake Peralta on Brooklyn 99 with the “noice” No simp traps here - just a silly tv comedy trap
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:50 AM
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Oh, god - have you ever smelled wet, mildewing wood? That’s basically what it is when it goes through the machines - where scent carrying heat is applied
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:49 AM
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Actually, blunt tactlessness is a turn off to women - regardless of whether they meet your standards Women communicate covertly. This bluntness is gross and off putting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:48 AM
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I didn’t contradict anything - all of that is true A - they had the ego to believe no other guys mattered (so have no shits about her past, so long as it wasn’t prolific) B - their own pleasure was front and center in their minds (not their partners past) C - they weren’t the hysterical, neurotic younger men who spend their time thinking about other penises, rather than the sex they’re having/want to have
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:47 AM
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I love Meet Me At Our Spot. Especially the remix with Tyler the Creator
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:41 AM
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I’m PPD’s patron saint of Botox and weight lifting/cardio I’m doing everything I can to age gracefully, but 18 I no longer am
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:38 AM
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It’s neither - it’s a woman saying she only wants a man who is 6’ and makes 6 figures Like, no shit. Don’t be the obvious asshole who says what everyone knows
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:35 AM
1

That’s better 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:32 AM
3

Older men didn’t care, because they weren’t neurotic, belly button gazing, wimps It would never occur to older guys that they’re not the best their partner has ever had. They didn’t give a shit about the past (within reason) and expect to be worshipped in bed Their own satisfaction was their concern
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:31 AM
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You’re being shamed for not being tactful and outright rude No one cares about your private standards
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:28 AM
2

You mispronounced noice
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:25 AM
1

Nowadays, in the large swath of women, sure. We’ll go with that Within my own age group, I’m higher
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:17 AM
1

I’m 41. I’m longer in my prime
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:56 AM
1

Hmmmmm … maybe 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:45 AM
2

Ask any of the OGs - most have seen my pic. Some are friends with me on IRL social media
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:25 AM
1

Have you ever smelled a paper factory? 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:17 AM
1

I read once about someone who accidentally masterbated to the same song for like a month straight … and for years after, she’d get uncontrollably horny when she heard it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:16 AM
3

You rang?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:14 AM
1

“Chemical services” refers to very specific treatments - walking right up to breaking the bonds in the hair, but not crossing over into that realm (you’d have to go into Japanese straighteners or lye-based relaxer at that point)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:56 AM
1

I agree, I love that one!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:54 AM
1

Oh thank god it’s not just me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:54 AM
1

Noooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:53 AM
2

RIP, wholesome Twitter feed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:52 AM
1

What? I’m talking keratin treatments, non-formaldehyde smoothing system, even your Olaplex treatments All are for younger, healthier heads of hair. Even beards
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:42 AM
3

Wtf? My feed is all news and sports I have never felt such an acute sensation of missing out on fun. I even follow YouPorn!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:40 AM
6

Bf bought some AirWick plug-in things. Which I normally don’t mind But today, he bought Cucumber Melon. And I have no idea how to tell him that this scent - due to my college roommates using that damn Bath & Body Works Cucumber Melon Body Spray as bathroom air freshener - literally smells like shit to me My house smells like disgusting, sugary shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:38 AM
2

Yeah, that’s the “no one wants the town bicycle” part But too low is just as problematic, too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:33 AM
4

It’s ok to enforce some space with family, if interactions like these are causing more hurt than is healthy Anyone whose been on here for a long time knows that I’ve had to do that with my BPD sister. It’s worth it for your mental health, even if it’s hard
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:32 AM
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Interesting. My guy friends (mid-30s to 50) find a woman without a relationship track record to be a red flag. No one wants the town bicycle, but a history is assumed I’ve seen guys nix chicks for having too low of a N count - they don’t want the drama at our age
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:58 PM
4

That’s terrible, I’m so sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:55 PM
4

Google translate is crap - more often than not, I have to have a bilingual colleague translate for me because Google kicks back gibberish
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:50 PM
1

I’m not saying impressing leads to sex. Obviously, attraction is the key motivator when it comes to sex But blatantly not trying to impress me is an instant attraction killer
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:47 PM
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That’s color. You’re ignoring chemical services, which are popular with people with thick, textured hair - generally younger guys
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:46 PM
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I flat out said that some men get salon services, but not many You ignored that completely, it seems And no, women spend more time grooming. I even linked a study proving it Women spend more on their hair, in terms of time and money. You’re just rolling at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:06 PM
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That’s quite literally my point, are you drunk? Men don’t invest the money and time in their hair that women do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 10:22 PM
2

Dan Dan Noodles!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 10:02 PM
1

No, they won’t
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 09:54 PM
0

Lol, big brain comment
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 09:54 PM
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It is what it is - he’s not going to be as an effective protector Lizard brain and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 09:13 PM
1

I trust a salon owner from your area over a barber, and both of them over you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 09:12 PM
0

To play devils advocate - pretty sure I’ve read studies that show that going to the gym for selfish/shallow reasons is actually a powerful motivator that can keep people going
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:04 PM
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Not really. The short guy has bad genetics, no escaping that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:57 PM
1

Not as good as actually being in the industry You’re also not seeing your own confirmation bias and geographical trends
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:01 PM
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Why would I sleep with a guy who thinks all he has to do is show up? It’s a first date, we’re trying to impress each other
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:01 PM
1

You’re in college 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:18 PM
1

No. Again, the beauty industry is my career, and has been for 20+ years I know what I’m talking about, and your anecdotal experience is not the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 03:36 PM
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Nope. Younger guys are actually more likely to get things done
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 03:02 PM
1

You need this gal
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 03:02 PM
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Can’t speak for other women, but I’m not banging a total stranger on date 1 unless he’s trying to impress me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:36 PM
2

You have won
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:29 PM
1

You take that back 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:26 PM
2

I mean, the only people who know the term “key bump” are people doing key bumps He told on himself with that one
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:24 PM
1

Ah, the Austin Powers fembot fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:23 PM
2

Sir, I would like to hear more about your religion
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:23 PM
1

Yeah, it’s state taxes that are whacking me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:46 PM
1

That’s your anecdotal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:46 PM
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Except it does. Hair color works wonders for thinning or graying guys Color services (especially keratins) make most hair types easier to work with. It also works on beards, making them softer In a male-only sphere, advanced barbering techniques are more expensive … and guys don’t go for them. It discourages barbers who want to better their skills from pursuing education and charging more
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:33 AM
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But men are still a wild minority in both And for the record, I encourage men to get all of these services. Hell, it keeps me paid when they do. But they just … don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:07 AM
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Men can - and a few do - get chemical services and color Much like waxing, facials/body treatments, etc - men can’t. They just … don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:54 AM
1

Real estate in CT is not inexpensive Edit and I’m probably using the wrong term - I was not left $11 million
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:46 AM
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For taxes? I paid an accountant
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:46 AM
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Because women spend more per haircut, they just get less per year. However, they spend on significantly more on additional services that men just don’t participate in
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:20 AM
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Kinda hard when I’m dealing with capital gains and estate/inheritance taxes in the same year. And a finalized divorce Don’t have the year I had, essentially
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:10 AM
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Don’t tempt me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:10 AM
1

I miss Katy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:09 AM
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Holy fuck I hate taxes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:05 AM
2

Well, at least we’re a matched set 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:31 PM
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And yet, there are no stories of men being more upset over hair loss than their cancer diagnosis … like there is with women And you have completely failed at proving men pay the same as women for their hair, let alone more. Women undoubtedly invest more in terms of time and money in their hair Sorry, you’ve failed this argument completely
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:31 PM
1

He really is. Have you seen the Twitter thread linking all the creepiness? Holy fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:29 PM
1

I’m very curious if Amanda Bynes is going to say anything about Dan Schneider now that her conservatorship has ended
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:17 PM
3

I look like the victim of a serial killer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:58 PM
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Men care about hair They do not invest the time and money into their hair that women do. Full stop Stop misrepresenting what I’m saying when I have very clearly said multiple times that they care about their hair and don’t like losing it But the devastation is different for men and women, men just don’t have the same relationship with or investment in their hair that women do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:52 PM
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It is in the womens hair care market 70% of the average spas revenue is color 5% is retail That’s 25% left for chemical services, haircuts, updos, blowouts, and more So, no, you don’t get to define this by one tiny segment of salon business The fact is. Men do not invest nearly as much in their hair. Time or money wise
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:12 PM
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Women spend 11 hours a month grooming their hair You can’t take one small segment and say that’s all that counts - women spend so much more time and money on their hair
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:01 PM
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Does being really good in music make one roundly intelligent? How about a really good athlete? Math is the same way - these code jockeys are good at one thing, and fail at round intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:09 PM
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That’s haircuts in a vacuum. Women spend more bc haircuts alone don’t account for the other services women receive In fact, color services account for 70% of the average salons profits, making them far more lucrative than cuts How women pay when they don’t groom And you’re going to have to cite something that doesn’t use the man bun (now out of date) as justification
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:07 PM
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Go for it. I’d like to see men outspend women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:30 AM
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My entire career says you’re pulling shit out of your ass Men don’t invest anywhere near what women do into hair
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:02 AM
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Lol, keep pretending you’ve never heard of street smarts People describe it that vs book smarts for a reason. No amount of hamstering can make people see those social morons as capable and intelligent Fucking around with numbers is useless
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:01 AM
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Except, they are … they’re social retards You can argue it doesn’t affect their IQ, because it doesn’t. But it affects overall intelligence If they were smart, they wouldn’t behave the way they do. Their EQ is subterranean
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 12:39 AM
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No, it’s not just styling This is why mens haircuts cost less, despite involving more skill - men won’t invest past a certain level. Women do Men are not as invested, period
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 12:37 AM
1

I think people don’t realize exactly how big of a move star he is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 09:56 PM
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Oof, he is busted. She’s better looking - and that’s a rare thing for me to say
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 09:54 PM
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She’s playing a lot of villains and stuff on tv. She’s always benefited from that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:50 PM
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And plenty of guys - including guys on here - have said they find a little fluff attractive That’s my point - unattractive on paper, not really IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:46 PM
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It’s pretty much one of the major things we know to be true without confirmation It does neither of them good to confirm it. Meanwhile, Jada benefits from her “bad bitch” reputation
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:46 PM
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Nah, a woman with some tummy chub. Both are natural, happens with aging, and aren’t particularly attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:41 PM
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You’re very wrong. Which is why socially inept STEMlords are literally a joke to people
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:32 PM
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Yes, but that’s not at play here. Or the rest of her dating history would be openly discussed, but none of it is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:47 PM
2

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:46 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:45 PM
2

Don’t forget - she was clearly working the casting couch. And celebs don’t come bigger than will smith
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:44 PM
2

I’ve heard that one too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:41 PM
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What a bizarre leap Her brand is based on being an untouchable beauty. Which means untouched by anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:40 PM
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Yes, actually, people so think he’s a moron with zero real world smarts He can fiddle with numbers better than anyone, but he isn’t smart enough to act like a human And this is exactly my point - fucking around with numbers is not pure smarts. This is why people disrespect engineers and the like
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:33 PM
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It’s all but. Pretty clearly a stupid thing for her to confirm for her own brand
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:32 PM
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He apparently discovered her in the gym they both worked out in - it was before Wolf of Wall Street, so before she got married
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:30 PM
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Will fucked Margot Robbie. I think he’s fine with his set up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:12 PM
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It’s also based on EQ and common sense Which is why people consider Musk to a fucking moron, despite his IQ
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:08 PM
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Mens hair doesn’t require less maintenance. Hair is hair Men actively choose not to invest time or money in their hair, it is what it is. It’s just a different relationship with their hair If a gym bro who invested time and money in his physique lost it suddenly, it would hit him differently than a guy who slowly put on a paunch over time but never really worked out The time and money investment lost is much greater, not to mention the social conditioning of women and their hair No one is saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:29 PM
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That was never supposed to be seen!! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:26 PM
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Generous of you to think it was his butt
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:30 PM
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What do you mean by “different?”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:29 PM
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That’s not a woman thing, that’s a human thing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:22 PM
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Careful, you’ll trigger the Manosphere teenagers to come rushing in and post about how you’re wrong and women never get arrested, ever
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:20 PM
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I like that quote
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:52 PM
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Again, women invest more time and money into their hair. By your own admission, losing hair during chemo is more emotionally painful for women None of that is to say it’s not important to men, too. It’s just more important
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:51 PM
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No one is talking about earnings. Just about perceived intelligence - and EQ is as important as IQ for that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:47 PM
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The difference is due to the difference in importance between the genders
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:46 PM
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It can be hard to see - micro blading for eyebrows and special fake lashes that can stick on for short periods of time can help them fake it I know way too much about this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:27 AM
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Looooool. Guilty!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:22 AM
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Those are very, very rare people
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:18 AM
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This is anecdotal, based on my friends brother, but his started as bald spots, which he thought was just balding. When he lost his lashes and eyebrows, he saw a doctor He says he doesn’t have a single hair on his body, but I haven’t exactly looked for myself. I can say he has no arm or leg hair, either As for Jada, I’m not sure - I wasn’t aware she had alopecia until this whole thing happened. But it’s clearly worse than some bald spots (which extensions hide very well). So if she took the extre…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:12 AM
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I will fly to Ireland to find one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:07 AM
1

I demand a producer credit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:03 AM
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I want to make fun of you, but I think you have a gift … there is no way anyone has made that porn yet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:02 AM
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You like some … unique porn
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:57 AM
1

Save the boobies!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:52 AM
1

Yes - I love lash tints and lifts. I have gorgeous lashes, but they’re blonde … I look better after I get those done
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:49 AM
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Everything, from what I understand. The body attacks the follicles That said, I’ve never asked for a tour 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:47 AM
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I think you’re also discounting the fact that women going through chemo are likely to become severely depressed when they lose their hair Men just don’t have the relationship with their hair (including eyebrows and eyelashes) that women do - painting their lashes whenever makeup is applied, paying to have their brows arched and shaped, paying hundreds of dollars every 6 to 8 weeks for chemical and color services, our relationship with our hair dresser, etc. Women invest significantly more time a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:46 AM
2

Such a great doc There’s a scene at the end of the final episode that makes me think she might be a ruthlessly calculating psycho who was in on it But for most of it, I thought she was a naive woman who managed to turn her eating disorder into profits, and who was desperately searching for a daddy figure
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:23 AM
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I keep seeing people say this, but it’s not true - alopecia is not balding. Someone with no eyebrows, lashes, etc is very disconcerting to look at - a long time friend’s brother has it, and no one would ever think he was just bald. He clearly has something majorly wrong with him Hair loss is common in women as they age - that’s actually the biggest extensions market, for that reason
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:14 AM
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Phew. Thank god I’m not losing it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:27 AM
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Blue Pill is more “workout for your physical and mental health. If you attract more women, great, but that shouldn’t be the sole focus”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:12 AM
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Did you post this before, or am I hallucinating?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:06 AM
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Yeah, you generally have to have a “coming out” via a debutante ball to be a socialite
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 11:45 PM
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You’re separating the two again It’s why common sense/street smarts tend to win out over book smarts. Musk is an obvious example to the opposite, but he’s one that proves the rule - if you can’t effectively sell your concept to VCs you likely won’t get your business off the ground (for example)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 11:13 PM
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Again, you keep wanting to divorce IQ and EQ Pretty much everyone in the world considers Musk to be a gigantic, unsympathetic, annoying tool
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 11:02 PM
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It’s pretty obvious what mental illnesses and issues are over represented in promiscuous people The opposite is also true - there are also issues and mental illness over represented in chaste people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:17 PM
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No, there’s not lol At best, it proves a correlation between N count and divorce/cheating N count alone is useless except as a heuristic for other qualities. Which you can certainly vet for
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:11 PM
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That’s not at all what happens. It’s what TRP weirdos invented bc they can’t just say “high N count disgusts me”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:58 PM
1

May your future gf be blessed with enormous titties
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:22 PM
2

How’d you get a pic of my boobie?!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:21 PM
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I am the president of the Boob Guy Fan Club. You and u/lulll need to keep spreading the good word
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 08:12 PM
1

Nooooo! Not you too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 08:09 PM
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I’m at the gym right now lol Keeping weight off is harder now that I’m in my 40s. Your entire body changes, too - waists thicken, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:25 PM
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There’s more at play than just metabolism - peri- and post-menopausal hormone shifts are a huge factor for women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:17 PM
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She’s not cheating. They’re in an open marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:34 PM
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Unfortunately for these guys, EQ and IQ both contribute to “intelligence.” You can’t be intelligent and socially awkward/inept. Any more than a charismatic person with a below average IQ
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:20 PM
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You, sir, are psychic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 09:50 PM
1

I agree, but there is nothing as fascinating as reality tv capturing people who aren’t trying to be famous Early 90s reality (Cheaters, Temptation Island, etc), the first couple seasons of 90DF, the first season of Real World (or the SF season), when the girls in Joe Millionaire found out what was going on, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:47 PM
2

By “older” I mean mid- to late-20s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:24 PM
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You’re not older. You’re a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:12 PM
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You say now. I promise you won’t feel like that forever
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:00 PM
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I’m refusing go see it in the theater bc I want to make a night of it. I’m counting down until I can stream it So yes. Clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:59 PM
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You’re a teenager still. A girl who is a virgin at 24 is throwing up more red flags than a carnival (unless she’s religious)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:47 PM
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That’s a disgusting sentiment, and you know it This is exactly why older guys consider virginity to be a red flag in women after their teen years. Anyone who makes genitals a part of their identity needs professional help
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:21 PM
1

I mean, what else does a lady wear to the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:20 PM
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And if you continue with this obsession and callus disregard for other people, you’ll continue to be a virgin And you need to think long and hard about how you would feel if someone close you died after suffering an immense amount
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:15 PM
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How did you end up so obsessed with virginity? This isn’t normal in the West Because HIV and AIDS are terrible deaths, and cause suffering and despair even in the victims friends and family
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:07 PM
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You should care, even if only from a public health perspective I’m assuming you’re not American?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:02 PM
1

My inner Batman nerd just squealed a bit at the thought of being in Arkham Asylum
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:00 PM
2

When the possible costs include “death,” selectivity should go up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:50 PM
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Because there wasn’t a huge difference in virgins - people are going to fuck no matter what Even now, there’s a decrease in sexual activity (enough to be noticed) but most people are still fucking by their late teens The difference is that virginity culture stops the conversations about consent, safe sex, responsible behavior, etc If people are going to have sex, why would we discourage talking about it? That is how sluts are made, not by discussing the risks of HIV
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:48 PM
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I mean, as long as women are still dying in child birth and suffering complications, we’re going to be more selective. It is what it is Men never seem to account for that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:45 PM
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Turned on tv and Cheaters was playing. Even better, it was the episode where the host gets stabbed God, trashy late 90s reality tv is amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:42 PM
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I didn’t say the same people were the only ones here. I have a raccoon costume calling my name right now, actually
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:38 PM
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Why? It created a shit ton of single moms Because, as shocking as this may seem, we are animals with a drive to reproduce. People are going to fuck, there’s no point in fighting the obvious Let’s just address it logically and safely
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:37 PM
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I think we’re going to find that men start to get for women in terms of finances just as heavily - we already see it, Purplish already refuses to be involved with women who make less than 6 figures So I think it’s a plus for men, too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:36 PM
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That’s why the half your age + 7 works so well - it accounts for the increased gap over the years I’m 41, bf is 52. At this point, we’re age matched. That damn well wouldn’t have been true a decade ago
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:32 PM
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Most of the sane people stick to the weekly thread
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:29 PM
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Honestly, speaking as a woman, men having to consider their looks and game is a good thing. It gives us a wider pool of men we’re attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:27 PM
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It could have been - I’m also a creature of habit, and rarely eat fast food. So maybe I just went for what I was craving (which is good I know)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:25 PM
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Absolutely, yes. Our entire culture has become wildly more sexually repressed - in my teen years, Sex in the 90s was shown on MTV and safe sex was openly discussed in schools Then came the bizarre Christian born again movement with its virginity pledges, and our culture is still suffering the hangover from that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:23 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:13 PM
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If anything, it levels the playing field. Men are going to have to start taking care of their looks the way women have always had to do People are always going to want sex and LTRs. Women can just afford to have them with the men they want to have them with
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:12 PM
1

Right?? They’re my favorites
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:10 PM
1

I actually lived in CA before moving east, and still have no memory of ever eating there. Jack In The Box and Carls Jr, yes. But not In and Out for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:09 PM
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There is a large contingent of non-Westerners on this sub. A surprising amount from countries that end in -stan That’s their culture, so I’m inclined to be more understanding of them. But I wish they’d stop pretending Western men are like them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:08 PM
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This. I’m 41, and this is spot on. These kids are having a lot less sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:05 PM
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I very rarely eat fast food, but enjoy it when I do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:55 PM
3

I mean, how? Beauty is a depreciating asset. Money and resources appreciate In the long run, guys are more secure
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:52 PM
1

I’m dying to try it!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:31 PM
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Botox looks awful when it’s badly done. When it’s well done, you don’t realize it’s there Even young girls watch what they eat and work out. I don’t think it’s fair to say it’s effortless But if men want a hot woman to stay hot, it takes a lot of effort and money to stay good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:31 PM
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I’m sorry 😢 I just get very confused by otherwise smart men who can’t see the obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:29 PM
1

Loooool
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:43 PM
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I think my favorite is the guy who lost every argument to me and is now trying to convince me to join him and his imaginary gf in a threesome
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:43 PM
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Do you think her lips are naturally shiny and the skin lining her eyes is a shade of jet black not found anywhere else on the human body? JFC men are stupid about makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:41 PM
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Confession: I’ve never had In and Out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:38 PM
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I think we’ve been brigaded by incels again. The butthurt in the “doing math isn’t attractive” thread was off the charts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:36 PM
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Half your age + 7. Don’t know why, but it makes complete sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:35 PM
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There’s a reason society frowns upon the man in this situation - and that includes other older men who are creeped out by him The old man pursuing younger women is a creepy outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:30 PM
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If you’re 20, that’s true But the older you get, the harder it is to look good. And the more expensive it is - Botox, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:28 PM
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Much like womens value hinges on their looks, mens value hinges on their ability to provide But whether a relationship works between two people hinges on the “soft” stuff. The “hard” stuff is only good for initial impressions
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:37 PM
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These are people who can’t understand how human beings work, and think the fact that they can calculate some numbers means they’re somehow more intelligent than anyone else They’re dumb as a box of bricks, and only useful to the human race for their work - women will continue selecting against them until they’re phased out of the gene pool
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:34 PM
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So, you literally have no argument? Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:32 PM
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Lol and pretending you knew what the topic was this whole time won’t help your cause 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:04 AM
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Why would I say that when you lost this entire debate? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:52 AM
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Says the guy who couldn’t figure out the subject of the post 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:37 AM
1

So, you can’t prove it? Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:29 AM
2

That is very easily changed. We’re fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:20 AM
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Yeah, I’m sorry - I wasn’t looking at names. My blonde moments can be epic 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:14 AM
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I am really good at being dense, sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:13 AM
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What exactly is incorrect? You and your circle are great, but I’m going to need to see studies if you’re commenting on a larger phenomenon. Because of the STEMlords I’ve met in my life, none have deviated from what Poppy described And that’s ok. Doing work no one else will do should pay well. It just doesn’t make one smart, lol And thanks, but good luck on your search for a third
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:12 AM
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Ooooh, this is a story I need But I’ll warn you, as a divorced person. No matter how good our intentions are during/immediately after divorce - we’re going to be a hot mess of a drama factory
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:49 AM
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It’s such a cute romance! I feel bad for Edwina, but still
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:47 AM
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I get that you don’t see yourself getting excited about him, but were you excited about him? I’m the same way, and sometimes it takes me a day or two to be like “oh, wait, I can’t stop thinking of him”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:42 AM
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ANTHONY He’s my type completely, he’s beyond hot. And seeing him all worked up and into the sister is killing me Edit - bf is clearly getting ravaged later
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:36 AM
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Listen, bitch. Women are glorious, and men are absolutely heavenly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:30 AM
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7 hours is lengthy. I have to imagine there was some attraction on your end to let it go that long Why are you saying it won’t work?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:28 AM
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I have. Plus the funds I’m familiar with. There seems to be differences of opinion on this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:24 AM
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Ah, a fellow lady of culture Let her know she shouldn’t panic if she sees a large raccoon out the window, watching Bridgerton over her shoulder
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:20 AM
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I never referred to them as computer programs? What are you talking about? My ex worked at one of the largest, most famous hedge funds in the world … and literally no one identified as a quant I’m very curious here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:19 AM
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Me. And, I’m willing to bet, your wife (if she ever gives it a go) It’s Gossip Girl as a period show
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:15 AM
2

I’m trying wrap my head around why you called them computer programs a few replies ago
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:12 AM
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Tell her she’s in good company. Most women on PPD are mad at you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:01 AM
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Yessssss. I can’t wait!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:01 AM
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And quants can’t do what actual analysts do. Or they would be analysts Are they paid more Edit - also, how are they human when your previous reply literally started with “without these computer programs”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:00 AM
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I got the feeling he was mocking the online antics of women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:56 AM
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I can see that! He’s hot Everyone on this show is hot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:51 AM
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Yes, no one is disagreeing that they automate the monotonous part But the human part still requires them - that’s my point Humans could do what Quants do. Quants can’t do what the humans do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:49 AM
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Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:48 AM
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One of my single guy friends just posted If you can’t handle me at my worst, then leave me the fuck alone because I don’t have a best I feel like he had a bad online dating experience 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:48 AM
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Damn, that bias is strong But have a good night
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:44 AM
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Sweet dreams!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:34 AM
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I’m on episode 6 right now!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:33 AM
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Yes. And neither analysts or executives are computer programs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:33 AM
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It picks up in the third episode. Or at least, I thought so
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:32 AM
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And yet … analysts still have highly valued and compensated jobs It’s almost like they bring something to the process that computers can’t match
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:26 AM
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Let her know that the women here need her help!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:22 AM
2

Here here!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:21 AM
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Tell her to get an account and join PPD!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:19 AM
3

Anthony is pretty much my physical type in a nutshell - so I’m not shocked I love this season lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:19 AM
2

Quants are what is referred to as the computer systems that forecast for retail. So not something I deal with, but interesting that the phrase has other meanings And Wall Street existed before the quants you’re talking about, and specific decisions/negotiations (which have major wins or losses worked into them) are made in spite of them Analysts wouldn’t have jobs if quants were as necessary as you’re trying to claim
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:17 AM
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The topic is intelligence and personality, not technology. It’s in the title of the post Are you drunk or something? I actually work for a company that is the largest in the world for its type of technology, and our clients have - by law - post-grad degrees Hence, technology-adjacent (as I’m not a code monkey, I’m not going to pretend to be involved with that side). So yes, I do know what I’m talking about - because I work with these personalities every day And like I said earlier, I’m in a LTR.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:15 AM
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In all fairness, she didn’t comment on the difficulty of the job (and the monotony she mentions in her original reply is difficult), but the intelligence of these people And she’s right. They come across as basically Trump fans - very stupid, very self important, and impossible to talk to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:11 AM
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Omg, I’m a huge Anthony fan now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:07 AM
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Lol, you think a DeVry STEM grad is on par with a Harvard poli sci grad? Your bias is showing again
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:05 AM
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I did! This is basically GG in period costumes. Right down to the “who is the leak/narrator” mystery
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:04 AM
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Do you think all sales strategy is computer driven? Quants are great for trends, not for individual decisions or strategy They’re useless in a negotiation, unless you’re spinning data to convince the prospective client
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:03 AM
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I can’t handle how fucking hot everyone in this show is. It’s so fun to watch
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:02 AM
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Ok, and? Ivy League universities still crank out majors other than STEM So clearly, those Ivies disagree with your take here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:00 AM
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This is more over the top that Greys Anatomy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:00 AM
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You too!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:00 AM
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You: “The most successful companies today” Me: pulls up current Forbes 100 list and shows you examples of the top tier successful companies today that aren’t technology You: “hurrr durrrr technology” Lol, sorry man, you just made yourself look dumb And for the record, I’m an attractive woman, divorced from a hedge fund manager and dating a more successful independent business owner. With a very successful career of her own (ironically tech-adjacent), living in an area that is famous for rich peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:58 AM
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Nice!!! I have one of my bucket list concerts coming up in July (Elton John’s farewell tour that was postponed bc of COVID), and I can’t wait!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:53 AM
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It’s defiantly a chick show. But if you’re on board with that, it’s phenomenal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:52 AM
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What concert??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:50 AM
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“You are the bane of my existence and the object of all my desires” swoon Bridgerton season 2 is hot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:47 AM
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investment banking As someone who was married for 11+ years (and involved with for 20+ years) to someone who started his career as an i banker, then moved into the hedge fund world … the fact that you think those guys are anything more than glorified salespeople is an amazing example of your bias Every skill they excel at - recognizing trends, forecasting, interpreting data, deep dives of research, and ability to adhere to heavy regulations - is found in most sales and marketing people This is p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:46 AM
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I’m in a super homebody/workout/eat clean/make money phase right now, and loving it But I know it won’t last forever. And that’s ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:38 AM
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It’s actually about the belief you just espoused. To quote OP “I am an engineer and have 3 Phds but women still don’t like me. Therefore intelligence must not matter!” It amazes me how smart some people seemingly are but yet fall prey to black and white thinking. There are diminishing returns with intelligence. Thank you for perfectly exemplifying OP’s point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:33 AM
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I feel like adulthood is some variation of that, with every individual finding themselves going back and forth between the two sides
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:31 AM
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I’m now wondering if TRP’s preference for 20 year olds colors that belief lol. Of course they act like teenagers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:29 AM
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Yes. Sexy is not equal to attractive This is the beauty of womens attraction: we can be wildly sexually drawn to men who are not attractive Sexy is necessary for a good relationship. Attraction isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:29 AM
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A doctorate in and of itself isn’t a skill. A slob who won’t pick up his skidmark-streaked tightie whities is bringing far less concrete positives to a relationship than a secretary with benefits who keeps a tidy house and cooks/saves money Another example: My ex-h made a very large amount of money, but blew it all on his alcohol addiction. Not even discussing what I do or don’t bring to the table, but that “concrete skill” wasn’t worth it in the end “Hard” strengths aren’t the only factors that…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:27 AM
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That’s exactly what it was. It makes me sad, but she’s still not ready to leave that world - I’ll be here when she is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:19 AM
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No one is talking about attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:17 AM
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It was a comment about a friend of mine I saw frequently during my post-divorce party phase. My life moved on, and she’s still partying - so I’ve had to minimize contact for my own quality of life It came across as incredibly judgmental of her, when I didn’t mean it to be so. I just moved to a different phase of life, and hang out with a different group now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:16 AM
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Lol, you’re trying to tell me that some of the top companies on the Forbes list - including Wells Fargo, JP Morgan Chase, and maker of baby powder Johnson & Johnson - are the product of some code monkey? No, you’re self fellating But, do go on. This personality type is exactly the type of repellant quality that turns women off. The irony is that you can’t use your top tier IQ to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:13 AM
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You just explained why being a math genius isn’t sexy That aside, being emotionally smart involves analyzing and reacting to your analyses in real time - it can absolutely be cognitive, not just intuitive If you’ve ever seen a high level sales person in action, it’s definitely a science
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:11 AM
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I’m the oldest teenager here I didn’t know you were TRP’s stereotype of a woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:58 AM
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I agree, but I can’t find a way to share my own anecdote without sounding like a judge-y bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:57 AM
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Nuh uh, not me … Fuck, I fell for it again
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:55 AM
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And? I’d like to see one of these STEMlords close a large sale with a difficult client who doesn’t want to commit to six figures Or put together a marketing campaign that engages their brand’s target consumer Being able to juggle numbers does not make one more or less intelligent than other white collar professionals - if anything, the stereotypical lack of emotional intelligence that correlates with the field would argue that the STEMlords are the ones lacking I doubt any of them could effectiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:53 AM
1

Awwwwwwww
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:27 AM
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FWIW, I know someone who is a virgin in their 40s. No one cares - if anything, I know there have been women who took it as a challenge and aggressively tried to seduce him This stuff stops being a big deal pretty quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:09 AM
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Well fuck. And I hear I was, putting up footage of workout in a TRex costume
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:06 AM
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They were terrible, but I’m enjoying the hell out of this season
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:57 PM
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I 100% agree. There’s an old saying that Americans want their priests more faithful than they could ever be and their politicians more perfect (or something to that effect) This is how these guys want their women - more chaste then they could ever be Then they’ll complain about a DB 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:56 PM
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