Day 1 cold approach | got a number!

damn_montana · 2021-09-08T23:04:24+00:00

Awesome man! Keep it up!

One thing to note is that when we first approach, like the first sentence or so, girls might be stand off-ish.

We approach them, in our sights, we are preparing for the kill for a minute while the girl, in her perspective, a rando appears out of thin air.

The instinctive thing for the girl is to be defensive and have her guard up. Being stand off-ish like making a sour face.

I've have gone for the straight, hey you look cute, lets exchange numbers thing and its worked before but :-/ haven't done this in forever and you just inspired me to quit fapping and try again

Keep us updated, I look forward to reading your posts for motivation :D

Lynn_kirkland · 2021-09-09T00:07:33+00:00

By skimming this post I could just tell your a beginner but with a passion. A tip I would do is to discover what makes you unique and differentiate yourself from others. another one would be to not say basic phrases since it’s basic. No one likes basic. Ex: “hey I saw you and I thought you were cute”. Some of theses comments here have other good advice but take some like a grain of salt, and use it to your own advantage.

BigBoiBahmani · 2021-09-09T05:11:47+00:00

Try situational openers. Notice something out of the ordinary about the girl, start the conversation by pointing that out and adding on and then go with the flow.

Other tip I can give is actually from Mystery. Stand a little sideways while talking to chicks. Standing sqaure with both shoulders in front of them make it seem a bit harsh and brutish. Stand a bit sideways, lean just a bit if you are tall and if need be. You will feel change in her reception by doing so, as your actions will seem way less confrontational and more open.

Once she has accepted the opener and is engaging, then try to lean on anything near lioe a wall of a table which makes you face the crowd thus makes her look away from the crowd.

If the girl I am with seems like she is free, I instantly suggest going for a walk. Place Switch is a powerful way to make it seem like you know each other.

LorenTheLemur · 2021-09-08T22:54:04+00:00

You got your first DOA number. (Dead on arrival). She won’t respond. 90% of my numbers are DOA.

DomoSmoove · 2021-09-08T22:58:35+00:00

first and foremost, do NOT set any dates on fridays and Saturdays. those evenings should be resided for girls who are converted to your way of life or for the homies. all I wanted to say

RevolutionaryFilm995 · 2021-09-08T22:59:17+00:00

You need to get game if you ever dream on success with woman. Do research on shit tests to help you increase your social lvl.

_pacjax · 2021-09-09T01:34:05+00:00

need 100 numbers before you get a date youll find out

Unforsaken_Dick · 2021-09-08T23:52:39+00:00

Brother I'm going in rite now soon, wish me luck lol

crowexplorer · 2021-09-08T23:20:09+00:00

I respect your brass balls! There is a lot of big talk on this forum, but when I try straight up cold approach like your three scenarios I get the same sort of reaction. Girls are often leery of guys who approach out of nowhere, it's seen as a red flag for guys who have mental problems or devious intentions.

If you were to approach these same women in a more "natural" social setting, your results would likely be better. For instance, if you were in the same class, gym, you're a customer and she's an employee, etc... It's more socially acceptable to strike up a conversation that way.

Angry_runt · 2021-09-08T23:10:28+00:00

Day 4 of hitting the gym, that probably helped kek.

But good job even if the number is fake or flakes. If you can keep it up, you basically can't lose.

jhx264 · 2021-09-09T06:21:03+00:00

Try to cold read people and make assumptions. If you're wrong you'll get a good laugh if you're right you'll look like a psychic

ahackercalled4chan · 2021-09-09T01:30:00+00:00

this is a great example to all the blackpill MGTOW fatalists.

put in honest effort each day to improve yourself and eventually you WILL see results.

Malic1a · 2021-09-08T23:23:26+00:00

Honestly guys, does this thing called "game" really exist? I mean, i've watched some cold approaches on youtube and most of the time the guy didn't have nothing special to say and despite that he was successful. Which makes me think that game is bs and the only reason the girls talked to him is because they found him cute or whatever when they first saw him. In other words, no matter how bad is your talk, the girl will give you her number if she thinks you're attractive.

Those videos were recorded in a 3rd world country, so his reality might be a bit different from US's

I would like to hear your opinion about that.

Btw, good job OP!

PirateDocBrown · 2021-09-09T00:28:56+00:00

You have confidence. Nothing attracts women more.

enlightnedentity05 · 2021-09-09T03:06:59+00:00

Well done!

Can you elaborate on the benefits you felt after stopping to smoke weed?

tropicsGold · 2021-09-09T05:15:21+00:00

Good work but I have some advice. First, pick the time to approach. don’t approach when they are rushing somewhere else, even if she thinks you are cute she is busy. Pick a good time, when people are hanging out, lunch, eve.

Second, if you use a line and lead with overt sexual interest, it can make her uncomfortable and stressed. It also appears lacking in intelligence and creativity. Instead, take an interest in the first article of clothing you notice, piece of jewelry, handbag etc. just have a nonsexual conversation, preferably about her favorite topic, herself. Then move on to other topics, Classes taken, interests and hobbies, family, etc. If you are remotely cute she will be asking for your number 😂

i-reddit-ck · 2021-09-09T14:25:13+00:00

Go up and be fun. That’s it. These girls are insecure, stress, got nothing going for them especially in college. Just be fun and have an IDGAF attitude. Read the rational male. Don’t validate her, telling her she’s cute is a validation. YOU are the prize, your life is sooo great(even if it ain’t act like it) that she’s gotta earn herself to ride with you. Have that mentality with all women during interactions. Medium is the message, so it don’t really matter WHAT you say but HOW you say. And ofc, eye contact when you speak, and stare off a little bit when she speaks to showcase lack of interest. Godspeed rookieeeee!!

Fabulous-Craft · 2021-09-15T19:32:54+00:00

Glad you're approaching but for fucks sake stop complimenting them.

The-Real-Hulk · 2021-09-08T23:12:00+00:00

Lol you're in college and you haven't been laid in two years 🤣🤣 how short is you dawg

WinCompetitive275 · 2021-09-09T10:54:35+00:00

Amazing man, keep it going ! I've been struggling lately to talk and hit women, but I'm going to get at it again. Best of luck !

_Icarus_Reborn_ · 2021-09-09T11:13:28+00:00

Well done on the start lad, you're already miles ahead of the blue pill sat on the sofa.

Those pick up lines sound straight from a how to beast YT video, but you got a start somewhere and you'll find your own style soon enough.

unitempt · 2021-09-09T12:23:01+00:00

If it helps, remind yourself that you won't die when you interact with the person you see in front of you. Even if its a group of people, it is much better. I personally feel more confident when its a group. Playfully "putting multiple people beneath me" sparks joy. It could be just me, but you could try it too.

If the group teases you, its a shit test. Male or female, doesnt matter. Agree and amplify. Or tease them back even. I wish i knew how to deal with shit tests back in the day, my highschool and college life would have been completely different and better.

Also, 3 girls are a start, but arent much for gaining confidence. Aim to greet and talk to almost every person you see walking by. Regardless if its a girl you're interested in or not.

PRW63 · 2021-09-09T13:49:28+00:00

Day 1 cold approach | got a number!

So what? I get a number almost every time I try. Thinking back, I was only refused a number once,...just once,...ever.

The real test is: "What are you going to do with it?"

But I also don't waste my time with Cold Approach. It isn't productive or efficient. Yea, you might "get one" on occasion like you might "win" once in a while at a Casino, but you can't move your life forward with it. My method now is to get the date first,...then she gives me the number because at that point I legitimately need it and don't even have to ask for it. If I don't get the date then what in the world do I need the number for? You collect a bunch of numbers,...nothing happens with them,...your contacts list gets full of people you don't even know or ever contact and after a while you don't even remember who was who.

i-am-the-prize · 2021-09-09T15:20:05+00:00

" couple minutes later I see another girl, blonde hair blue eyes walking
down the street. I tell her hey and she keeps walking.. I say it again a
little louder and she takes acouple more steps (like 5 feet away from
me) and she turns around and says what with a straight ass face. Must
have been a rough day so I just said I was saying hi and have a good
day. Next."

have you read the post about raising your hand in a 'stop' like gesture before speaking to them? a brother posted how he picked up this technique from an inside sales dude at costo(?) and it worked wonders for him.

sauceyzaddy · 2021-09-09T16:59:38+00:00

I think every man needs to stay off of porn for a while. Not saying you should quit but I recommend it lol. It’s a crutch for losers who can’t get any.

btt069 · 2021-09-09T17:18:50+00:00

Good job on going to gym. hope you are doing PPL and no bro spilt.
Jokes aside, read sidebar, Humansockpuppet's guide is the most valuable shit there. And I like to say, never tolerate disrespect from any woman or man. Reward good and punish bad. When you go on a date, remember this, be calm and lean back.

Domebeers · 2021-09-09T17:22:57+00:00

The amount of '8.5' that people meet on this board is hilarious

"a cute girl said hi to me? She's an 8!"

Zech4riah · 2021-09-09T23:03:04+00:00

Since you are a beginner, I think already now would be a good time to set expectations. Two things:

Numbers are quite easy to get but the tricky part is that...
...even the best guys fclose only about 1 in 10 of number closes (assuming that the girls are atleast cute). Anyone saying something else is fucking average (or below average) girls or are lying.

So the point being - don't get discouraged even if you don't manage to fuck the first 10-20 numbers you get.

magnetradio · 2021-09-12T20:54:25+00:00

Focus on the action-taking, not the success rate. If you approach 3 women a day for every day for one year, you would approach 1,095 women. If you got shitty lay success rates like 1%, 2%, or 3%, you would have more women (if you plan on keeping them as FWB) than the average man. 1% of 1,000 is 10 women. Not a lot of guys have a 10-woman rotation. If you had 2% or a 20-woman rotation, you'll feel very confident that you'll never lack for pussy again. If you get a 3% success rate, you would have a 30-woman rotation. If you wanted, you could sleep with a new woman every day of the month and repeat the rotation the next month. This would help your NoFapping because you could literally fuck instead of beat your meat when you're horny.

--ChrisPBacon · 2021-09-09T02:19:53+00:00

A couple minutes later I see another girl, blonde hair blue eyes walking down the street. I tell her hey and she keeps walking.. I say it again a little louder and she takes acouple more steps (like 5 feet away from me) and she turns around and says what with a straight ass face. Must have been a rough day so I just said I was saying hi and have a good day. Next.

What the fuck is wrong with you dude, ladies clearly trying to get somewhere and some rando redditor is yelling "hey" to her thinking she'll like it.

You sound like an absolute loser in this post.

Fondleanddash · 2021-09-09T07:05:44+00:00

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