I’m 29 and he’s 33. He’s turned into this super frugal guy and it’s really turning me off. He wants us to save every penny and we literally haven’t been on a date in 3-4 months. I had thyroid cancer treatment and a miscarriage all in 2021. I am bored and I am tired and I’m quite frankly absolutely miserable. He says we should be saving for our future child. I can’t conceive for 6-12 months due to the treatment and I desperately want children. I’ll be high risk due to my health and the anxiety that gives me is strong. I have 12k savings in my account which quite frankly is enough for a future child, I highly doubt a future child would starve. I have serious anxiety that I’ll never be a mother as it is so to sit around waiting and saving for one would seriously hurt. Hubby had been getting subtly annoyed about my packages coming and it’s really starting to annoy me. It’s my money, I pay my half of the mortgage and I earn a few grand less than him a year yet I still pay my half i don’t see the issue and I hate being made to feel guilty for using my own money after what life had thrown at me. On top of it he has zero sex drive and worn get him self to the doctors for his issue getting erections. We haven’t had sex for months and months and he would happily go years. We’ve gone 9 months before until I threatened to leave. Don’t get me wrong he’s like my best mate and we have a laugh together but sometimes it feels like I’m with a roommate who I get on eith and not a husband who desires me. He’s always had a low sex drive but always promised to sort it and he never had it’s only getting worse. Because of my health issues I can’t binge eat Because of his low drive I can’t have sex, of his frugality we stay home and now I can’t even buy stuff without getting digs. I’m literally bored. He said one of the things he found attractive about me was the fact I was a saver and that he could get a flat with me. Does anyone else’s hubby moan about their purchases?